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Speaker 1: I got a restraining order on my accent. Now she's

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Speaker 1: trying to move next door. Ooh, I twenty eight male,

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Speaker 2: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait real quick on

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Speaker 2: this story, can I say something? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay. Remember the story where this girl was commenting

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Speaker 2: and she was all about like, oh, my boyfriend has

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Speaker 2: this is his side of it. I'm pretty sure because

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Speaker 2: I was reading through it and I was like, we've

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Speaker 2: already read this before. But this is his side, not

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Speaker 2: the ex girlfriend's side. This is the guy side. Wait

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Speaker 2: but I have we not read that? No, we read

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Speaker 2: her side, not his side. I checked, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, this is a good one. But she

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Speaker 2: this is a different story.

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Speaker 1: I doesn't have any periods in it.

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Speaker 2: What no, no, no, no, no, this is right. This is right.

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Speaker 2: Keep reading, you'll see what I'm talking. There's no periods.

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Speaker 2: Just keep reading. I think so. I think so it's

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Speaker 1: I think we read his side. I'm like almost certain

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Speaker 2: Read I haven't read this one.

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Speaker 1: We haven't read this one.

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Speaker 2: We read a comment from him, but we didn't read

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Speaker 2: there's more to it. So this is basically an update.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So our parents are nowhere to be found.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know if they're in the same state

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Speaker 1: or even in America at this point, dead or alive.

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Speaker 1: I don't really care. Also, this comes from throw away

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Speaker 1: account on the r slash Okay story times subreddits. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what happened, but when my first sibling was born,

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Speaker 1: Long story short, and to give basic descriptions, I am

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Speaker 1: don't remember his side. Waffle pockets.

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Speaker 1: I've taken care of them all their lives. They know

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Speaker 1: The reason for me posting here, well, a couple of

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Speaker 1: months ago, like four or five, I think I broke

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Speaker 1: this is an update.

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Speaker 1: I see what we're saying. I see what we're saying.

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Speaker 2: You sound muffled. You might need to come out of

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Speaker 2: your show. No, the fans not on anymore. I like

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Speaker 1: my gosh, every store I went into, all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: Until she tried to sign my little brother and sister

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on a limb say that's a bad

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Speaker 2: What's she gonna do with them?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe take them Disneyland or something.

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Speaker 2: Oh, where's the place Peter Pan went?

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Speaker 1: Or her basement, because she's freaking crazy.

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Speaker 2: At least you know where she's at.

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Speaker 1: That's true. You got her number.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, didn't she move post to them? Was that

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Speaker 1: I think that was in the title. I don't know

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, come on, you're skipping ahead, Ryley. I'm sorry, geez.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she tried to do with a fake permission letter. Luckily,

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Speaker 2: I think she.

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Speaker 1: Bugged the car.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, for sure.

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Speaker 1: Like you know what those magnet things that you confront

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Speaker 2: Yeah, glad Apple notifies you if another Apple product is

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Speaker 1: Uh uh, they're they're in a breaking bad I remember

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Speaker 1: Yeah, non Apple product that.

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Speaker 4: Let's go.

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Speaker 2: My ex lost the house.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it isn't your problem. Yeah, who's calling him too?

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Speaker 2: Of people were calling him telling him he's a whole.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm receiving a bunch of calls and messages calling

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Speaker 2: And if it's a friends and sister, that's crazy because

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Speaker 1: Her, they don't even help.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Dixon Blue Steel, she did this, not him. Rebecca

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Speaker 1: Parrales too bad? Yeah, no, I agree, I agree.

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Speaker 2: Hailey Rose. Are you having an okay baby? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, where did that go? Where's dude?

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Speaker 1: We're having another okay storytime baby? I love the okay

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Speaker 2: It's craily Wait are you are you giving birth right now? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Currently watching this in labor? Pray for me.

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Speaker 2: Let's go, Hailey Rose, push girl? You got it? Is it? Like?

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Speaker 2: Can we do a call in? Yeah? Can we do

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Speaker 2: a fish time? Yeah? We discord, do a discord and

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Speaker 2: do it at the peak of when the kids come out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if if you can call call as the message

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Speaker 1: Riley on the discord right now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then uh, whenever it's out show us, the

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Speaker 1: Maybe, but yeah, I mean I I don't think OP

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Speaker 2: Yeah, empowering because what I do is I go to

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Speaker 2: Soap bizarre? Like are you do?

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Speaker 1: Ready go, I'm waiting, all right? But Riley did Sam

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Speaker 1: What the F says? I remember her post she wasn't

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna I need to do

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Speaker 1: I am going to cry.

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Speaker 2: I am going to cry. Maybe I haven't seen him

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Speaker 2: in a while. Blind be Sam two? Rightley ten two.

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Speaker 2: You've guys seen his moves more than mine. I've never too.

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Speaker 1: then op respond security measures are in place. Got all

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Speaker 1: of that after the restraining order. Regarding my friends, still

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Speaker 1: Locks have been changed after you try to get my

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Speaker 1: I know of. Let's go and that is where that

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Speaker 1: story ends. That's good, Yeah, that is I mean, what

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Speaker 1: crazy people recently that we know of.

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Speaker 2: Who's the craziest? Have we hung out with any crazy people?

443
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Speaker 2: I don't think. No, I think someone's crazy, but I

444
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Speaker 2: don't think they like I hate say this, but Christian's

445
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Speaker 2: ex kind of has crazy eyes.

446
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Speaker 1: I guess sometimes she's really nice, She's like, okay, she

447
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Speaker 1: is a sweetheart.

448
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Speaker 2: Though he's so nice. I think I've met some like

449
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Speaker 2: I've been friends with someone and then it turns out

450
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Speaker 2: like they're not like a good person. Mmm, like a

451
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: few Remember the people we don't invite to the parties anymore?

452
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they're just fake? Oh wait which ones?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: The ogs that you had?

455
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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah yeah they were fake? Not o g no, no, no,

457
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Speaker 2: not my friends. You're not your og, not your og No, no, no, no,

458
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Speaker 2: not my OG friends O g l A friends, the

459
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Speaker 2: one the party I went to, remember the party where

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Speaker 2: I met Angie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, those yeah, those those those are yeah, they're

462
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Speaker 1: a little they're a little whack.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but no, no, no, no, I remember little guy used

464
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Speaker 2: to play basketball with and his girlfriend. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: he remember that message you sent me a while ago. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that he was. I wouldn't say that was crazy.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I feel like that wasn't crazy, Yeah, but it

468
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Speaker 1: was just like maybe a little whack.

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Speaker 2: Hmmm. I don't know if we know anybody that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I don't think we associate with crazy or put up

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Speaker 2: with it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think at least we wouldn't put up

473
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Speaker 1: with it for very long. But like I guess the

474
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Speaker 1: thing is like you don't know what's crazy until it's

475
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Speaker 1: staring you in the face. I've dated, Oh you know what,

476
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Speaker 1: when I was is this a red flag? So when

477
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Speaker 1: I was at the event, like I was talking to

478
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Speaker 1: this girl and she's like, there's a thing you should

479
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Speaker 1: know about me, and I'm like what, And she's like

480
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Speaker 1: I'm kind of psycho, like in the fun way. I'm like, like,

481
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Speaker 1: how do you want me to how do you want

482
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Speaker 1: me to like, well, I don't even I don't I

483
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Speaker 1: don't know how to like continue from that part, and

484
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Speaker 1: then she popped the pill.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh man.

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Speaker 1: And I had at the trip. Sitter slyly Toes says,

487
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Speaker 1: why do I feel? Uh? Sam and Riley overlook red

488
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Speaker 1: flags left and right.

489
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Speaker 2: Because we're learning what they are, what red flags are

490
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Speaker 2: because they get new because they get new. Yeah, there's

491
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Speaker 2: a new red flag every.

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Speaker 1: Red flag every like, dude, Yeah, there's a new red

493
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: flag every every moment. Yeah, waffle Podcat says, sounds like

494
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Speaker 1: fun for a night. Yeah, they were like goth.

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Speaker 2: Girls, dude, No, they were vampires.

496
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Speaker 1: They were vampires.

497
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Speaker 2: They were gonna steal his blood.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but they were really nice, really nice until they

499
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Speaker 1: get you in. Sorry, but no, dude, all right, I

500
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Speaker 1: did a little psychoanalyzation, and I'm like, my vibe is

501
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,479
Speaker 1: that like you like? Because she said she's like crazy

502
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Speaker 1: and what and I'm like why and She's like one

503
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Speaker 1: of the reasons is like I love to get revenge.

504
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, WHOA dude, didn't say that, that's not fun?

505
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Speaker 2: Crazy all right?

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Speaker 1: But then but then I was like and I was like,

507
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Speaker 1: but you know what, you seem too sweet to get revenge,

508
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Speaker 1: And she was like, yeah, I just think about it

509
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Speaker 1: until one day.

510
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Speaker 2: She's thought enough and decides to do it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, definitely not like yeah, oh but she had

512
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:09,719
Speaker 1: such a cute French accent.

513
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,360
Speaker 2: They can have other cute things rather than a French accent.

514
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Speaker 1: It's true, that's true.

515
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Speaker 2: But she was nice. She was nice.

516
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Speaker 1: She was nice, just you know, figuring yourself out. Yeah,

517
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 1: are as we all are. Yeah, whileth the Walk says

518
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Speaker 1: we love to be petty though. Yeah, you guys would

519
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: love her. You guys would love her. Miss silver Tear

520
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: says she was probably crazy at nineteen twenty then I

521
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Speaker 1: grew up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean we're all a little crazy, aren't we. It's

524
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Speaker 1: a crazy world out here. Really is psycho It was crazy,

525
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Speaker 1: says Sam. No, the sweeter on the outside, the more

526
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Speaker 1: sociopathic on the inside.

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Speaker 2: Bro, what that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: Is that a good point? I don't know if that's true.

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Speaker 2: I have known some like sweet Christian girls that are like.

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Speaker 1: Freaky, yeah, not freaky, but like a little wild. Like

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Speaker 1: there were girls that got like went wilder, like they.

532
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Speaker 2: Just once they got loose, they just went hollistic, like

533
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Speaker 2: what do you mean like at parties and stuff, Like

534
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Speaker 2: they grew up really quiet and preserved, and in the

535
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Speaker 2: second like they don't have a like they're away from

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Speaker 2: their parents and they're free.

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Speaker 1: They just like it's the beach ball method. I think

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Speaker 1: it's I think it's independent of gender, Like if you

539
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Speaker 1: have a upbringing that's super protected that it's like a

540
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Speaker 1: beach ball being pushed under the water and then you

541
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Speaker 1: let go of pam, whoa, you explode.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I thought I was going to turn out like that,

543
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Speaker 2: but I didn't somehow because I had to be home

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Speaker 2: every night in high school about ten pm. Really, yeah, dude,

545
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 2: ten pm n pm. Yeah, it's pretty crazy.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't even allowed to hang out with my friends

547
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Speaker 1: in high school.

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Speaker 4: That's so sad.

549
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Speaker 2: My parents are like, you're gonna be doing drugs yo,

550
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 2: And then you you did beach ball because now you

551
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Speaker 2: have one hundred new friends all the time. True.

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Speaker 1: I did be I beach balld in college for sure,

553
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: but like not in like a destrctive way, just like, uh.

554
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 2: No, you still got brain cells. You're good.

555
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: I still got brain cells, banks, dog, I still got

556
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: brain cells.

557
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Speaker 4: All right?

558
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 2: Shall we get to this next story.

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Speaker 1: Little kookie clowns give it to me, my little my

560
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Speaker 1: little clown posse.

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Speaker 2: Barney's crazy Hot sko. Have you heard of that? Yeah

562
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Speaker 2: of course? Oh yeah, wait, wait we need I explained

563
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Speaker 2: it to my ex girlfriend and she hated me, like, no,

564
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Speaker 2: this is disgusting. I just thought it was funny.

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00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: Wait, you keep them entertaining it.

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Speaker 2: Well if you haven't, you guys need to check out

567
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Speaker 2: the hot crazy go it is. It's pretty funny. Basically,

568
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 2: Oh maybe I should. I should read it. If if

569
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 2: Sophia heard it, she would not like it. You would

570
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: think it's it's not fun. But there's actually someone made

571
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Speaker 2: one for men and it was like hot crazy scale

572
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 2: for men and it's like money and looks and there's

573
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 2: a fine line between it. I need to look at that.

574
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 2: But yeah, not crazy. Okay, are you ready?

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00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's freaking do this thing. Chicken wing, Chicken wang?

576
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: How many people we got in here?

577
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Speaker 2: Dude? We got one hundred and sixty three? One hundred

578
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 2: and sixty three? What's up? Gang? What's up? Gang? Tell me?

579
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 2: You can we do a call it? After this? Ken?

580
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 1: I want to talk to someone.

581
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: Wait, someone hit me up in Discord one second.

582
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Speaker 1: I just want to BBC, I just want to chat.

583
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Speaker 1: Does anyone want to chat? Tell us this story about

584
00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: maybe crazy people. Yeah, people that you didn't realize we're

585
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: crazy and then you you realize they were crazy. We

586
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: haven't done a Discord chat in a while. You have,

587
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: like let someone someone talk to us. There's been a

588
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: sec I want to I want to say, Hi, all right,

589
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: we're ready to get into this giants milk Lord, milky, Sup?

590
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: What's going on?

591
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: What's good?

592
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 4: I'm ready?

593
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: Pigeon Knight Brianna says, have a crazy X story. Freaking

594
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: message us on Discord and we will if you have

595
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Speaker 1: a crazy X story, especially if they you didn't realize

596
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: they were crazy and then turn crazy later. And also

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Speaker 1: it's not too dark and disturbing and it's safe for work,

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00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: or at least you can make it safe for work.

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00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: Uh uh did message us on Discord?

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00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 2: Yes? Right now? Do it?

601
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Speaker 1: Okay?

602
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

603
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: Did you see Dixie Blue Steel's comment?

604
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Speaker 2: Oh my cute.

605
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: I want to know, but that doesn't seem safe.

606
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 2: We're gonna boom there. That's crazy your best friend? Wow,

607
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 2: we might I'm down if you can censor it, we

608
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: can't censor that. Yeah we can. We can't, Yes, we can. No,

609
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Speaker 2: we can't. You can say off, yeah, but it's gonna

610
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 2: be so dark. You can just do a light til

611
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Speaker 2: dr on each case. That's dude. People watch so many

612
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: movies a part of this stuff. Yeah, but this is real.

613
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 2: That person probably got featured on some light crime show.

614
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 2: They probably did a TV show on her. I feel

615
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 2: like this is a cross. This is how we cross

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Speaker 2: our our audiences here with with true crime, with true crime.

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Speaker 1: Dixie Blue Steel says, I can make it safe. Yeah, dude,

618
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: there's no way, like well, Dixie Blue Steel, but I

619
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Speaker 1: feel like it'll just like crush the mood.

620
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Speaker 2: Is it sad? It's it's gonna be sad. No, you

621
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Speaker 2: know we do every once in a while. Well, but like.

622
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Speaker 1: Sophia Glen says, she could make it safe. Put a pole,

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Speaker 1: if you put a pole. Well, we hear Dixie Blue steals.

624
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Speaker 2: Crisis murd her story or not my god, murder story?

625
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: Oh god?

626
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 2: All right, um, putting the poll in also hit me

627
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 2: up on Discord.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we haven't done a call in a while. How

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Speaker 1: long has it been.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, a minute? In a minute, all right,

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Speaker 2: you ready, yep, let's go America's most Wanted list. All right,

632
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Speaker 2: she did it? Wow? Okay cool.

633
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Speaker 1: I broke up with the love of my life fifteen

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Speaker 1: years ago. Now I want her back. I've been tearing

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Speaker 1: myself apart just thinking about her and how things ended.

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Speaker 1: I can't stop no matter how much I try. Also,

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Speaker 1: this comes from throwaway fixed at fifteen on the rslagh

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Speaker 1: Okay story Time Style bredd it. So when I thirty seven,

639
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Speaker 1: Mail was twenty, I met the most beautiful girl, Lilah,

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Speaker 1: who was nineteen at the time. Both inside and out,

641
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Speaker 1: did the most gorgeous dark brown hair that looked red

642
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Speaker 1: and purple when the light hit it just right, these

643
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Speaker 1: golden brown eyes and lashes that looked like dolls, freckles

644
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: on her rosy plump cheeks, and a single dimple when

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Speaker 1: she smiled a certain way. She was a year younger

646
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Speaker 1: than me, but she was always so much smarter and

647
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Speaker 1: mature in every aspect. We dated for two years and

648
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Speaker 1: that her parents and her no nonsense cop father definitely

649
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:27,879
Speaker 1: gave me the stink eye at first, but he.

650
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Speaker 2: Grew to like me.

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Speaker 1: Her mom adored me right off the bat, always commenting

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Speaker 1: on how my green eyes complimented her daughter's golden brown

653
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Speaker 1: eyes in the most romantic way. I still don't fully

654
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Speaker 1: understand what that means, but I like the compliment. Her

655
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Speaker 1: younger siblings loved playing in the backyard with me. She

656
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Speaker 1: met my parents, my two brothers, and they all loved

657
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Speaker 1: her right off the bat. My younger brother was the

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Speaker 1: same age as her, and they were going to college

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Speaker 1: together and would help each other study in some of

660
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 1: the shared classes their majors had. Heck, even my six

661
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: month old dog I had adopted for even meeting her,

662
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 1: seemed to like her more than he liked me. So

663
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 1: she is the woman of his dreams and Gallea Maheavy

664
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: says dimples Ugu. Christiana Consi says, you do realize fifty

665
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: percent of us go to sleep listening to true crime podcasts,

666
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: which is crazy. How do you even do that?

667
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 2: You just wake up with murder on your mind?

668
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: Murder on your mind. She told me her dreams, how

669
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: she wanted to own a home that was tucked away

670
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: from everything, but not completely isolated. How she wanted to

671
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: be a doctor, that she wanted to help people. She

672
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,760
Speaker 1: wanted to be a pediatrician. She loved kids. She always

673
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: said she wanted a family. She didn't care how many

674
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: kids she had. You just wanted to experience the ups

675
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 1: and downs of motherhood. She wanted the good, the bad,

676
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: and the ugly. I listened to her go on and

677
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,760
Speaker 1: on about baby names and how she would design a nursery.

678
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: At the time, I thought I wanted kids too. I

679
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: wanted to marry this girl and get and give her

680
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: the family she so clearly wanted. She was Mylilah. I

681
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: wanted to stay with her forever. I was young, but

682
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: I was in love with her. But after two years

683
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: of dating, I started to realize that I didn't want

684
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: to have kids. I thought I was just being around

685
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: too many of my braddy cousins and that was turning

686
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: me off from the idea. But the more I thought

687
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: about it, the more the idea of me being a

688
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: father made me stick. I would get headaches and my

689
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: stomach would twist in knots thinking about having to take

690
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: care of some screaming, crying and crapping little thing and

691
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 1: then have it grow into a tantrum throwing toddler, a

692
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: bratty child, some moody teenager. I didn't want to be

693
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: held down like that. I wanted to travel, have money,

694
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 1: be free. After a few drinks one night, I ended

695
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 1: up telling all this Alilah. I remember she went quiet

696
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: and simply said, I won't try and change your mind,

697
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: but I'm not giving up on my dreams. Shout out her. Honestly.

698
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: I remember scoffing and rolling my eyes telling her that

699
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: we were going to have kids. She stood up from

700
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,720
Speaker 1: the couch and said, you might not want that anymore,

701
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: but I still do. I'm not going to try to

702
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 1: force either one of us to change our minds. Then

703
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 1: one of us would end up miserable. Honestly, very mature.

704
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 1: He did say, she was mature, very mature response. I

705
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: realized she was breaking up with me, and even though

706
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: she was so calm and mature about it, I remember

707
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 1: feeling so angry. She was walking around the apartment gathering

708
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: her things, being completely silent. I kept arguing with her,

709
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 1: trying to change her mind. I kept telling her that

710
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: it was stupid to want kids, that they were annoying

711
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 1: in a waste of time, but she still didn't. Budge

712
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: started to insult her.

713
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 2: Great move.

714
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: I said she was stupid, she was weak, a weak

715
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: woman for wanting to be a mom that she should

716
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: just give up on being a doctor so she could

717
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: push out her brats. Oh p, I'm gonna say this

718
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: maybe controversial opinion.

719
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 2: Don't say that.

720
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 1: Jellyba said you said the quiet part out loud again?

721
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: Or I guess that's referring to Sydney without Kindy's pige

722
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 1: in general. Yeah, that's a deal breaker. No, I agree,

723
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 1: I agree, I think op just completely op completely boofed it.

724
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: Dang that sucks. Though, Lah finally started respond to me,

725
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 1: telling me to calm down, that we simply wanted different

726
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 1: things in life and that was okay. I hated her

727
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: in that moment that she wasn't decreeing with me. I

728
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 1: remember punching the wall of our apartment, kicking the door,

729
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 1: throwing anything I could get my hands on. She watched

730
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: me wreck or living room and kitchen, not saying a word.

731
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: He walked past me and left. This whole thing happened

732
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: over a few hours and less than a day. I

733
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: lost the love of my life. My apartment was now crash.

734
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: Of course, news of why we broke up and my

735
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: reaction to it reached our family. My mom cried hearing

736
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: how I reacted. My dad gave me the coldest look

737
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: I'd ever seen. My brothers both said I was an idiot,

738
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 1: my younger brother saying I was lucky Lilah hadn't called

739
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: the cops with me during that That was fifteen years ago.

740
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,919
Speaker 1: I've tried to have a relationships since, but they never

741
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: lasted more than a few weeks. I travel around for work,

742
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: but now I'm back in the same time Lilah lives in.

743
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: Lilah got married, got her doctorate, had kids, and is

744
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,280
Speaker 1: still a pediatrician last I heard. I know my younger

745
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 1: brother still kept some contact with her in the first

746
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: few years after the breakup. He even invited her to

747
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: his wedding, but she declined because she didn't want to

748
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: cause rama. But if you want more drama just like this,

749
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: you can join us every weekday at three pm PST

750
00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: on YouTube before our lives just tap her profile. But

751
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm back in her town, the town we both grew

752
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: up and dated and lived in, and where she currently lives.

753
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 1: I can't stop thinking about her. I miss her so much.

754
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: I miss her sweet perfume that smelled like a bakery,

755
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 1: her strawberry shampoo, the way her hair looks the night,

756
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: the way her hair looks in the light. She's thirty

757
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 1: six now, and I want to reach out and make

758
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: amends with her. I want to hold and hug her

759
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: one last time, to tell her I love her and

760
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 1: that I'm sorry. I don't know if that's a good idea,

761
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: but a part of me needs closure. I don't know

762
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: what to do. I want to sweep her off her

763
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: feet and have her be my love again, but I

764
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 1: don't know. If that ship has sailed and there is

765
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: a thick, juicy update, oh there is, yep. But question

766
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: for the comments. Do you think Opie should lot leave

767
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: this girl alone and go to her small town and

768
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: try to make amends or do you think Ope should

769
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: get over it? What do you think? Put your answers

770
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: in the chat? Lea g said this is making me sad.

771
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: Miss Silvertaire says this guy's nuts. Nfia Colon says she's married,

772
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: let her be it's Brittney Beach says he sounds psychotic.

773
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: Jellyba says sailed and sunk butterfy Junkie. No, don't yes apologize,

774
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: but no, you lost the right to be with her.

775
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: Gileram a heavy hug man. It's not only sailed you

776
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: sunk at yourself coffeecat seven nine one four delusional egotistic

777
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 1: person Jellybuh get over it, Heidi Browning, He's the Lulu

778
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: retrosystem is not a good idea. People don't owe you closure. Yeah,

779
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:40,720
Speaker 1: I think, like that's a good point. You might need closure,

780
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: but she doesn't have to give that to you, and

781
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: maybe go to therapy instead of forcing her to have

782
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: to give you like the closure you need to move on. Yeah,

783
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 1: she's obviously moved on. She's happy. He has a family,

784
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 1: she has kids, she has everything she ever dreamed of

785
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: because she left you all I was just sad. But

786
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: it's true, Like the.

787
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 2: First part of that was nice.

788
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, she needs to she needs he needs to get

789
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,840
Speaker 1: over it. Yeah, which you know sucks. It sucks, sucks

790
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 1: at it. You know sucks that this happened to you.

791
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: But Alice, like you said, she isn't responsible for his closure.

792
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: Wait, have you heard of the men's first love theory?

793
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: No, but it means this is gonna make me sad.

794
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: Maybe everything it's gonna make me sad.

795
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 2: Men's first love theory suggests that men never fully get

796
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: over their first love, a concept that has gained traction

797
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,240
Speaker 2: on platforms like TikTok for. In his theory, the initial

798
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 2: experience of love leaves an inevitable mark, leading men to

799
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:53,879
Speaker 2: compare every sub subsquint went partner to their first love.

800
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: What are you true about that? I mean I definitely

801
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 2: had a huge rush on this girl in like elementary school,

802
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 2: and I do think of her, but I don't like

803
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 2: compare her.

804
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: Well, that's not your first love. That's your first, like

805
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 1: that's your first crush, Like first love is like your

806
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 1: like first real relation kind.

807
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 2: Of like did date in sixth grade? You know? But

808
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 2: like my first relationship was when I was sixteen, But

809
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: I wouldn't count that.

810
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: Well when I like your first like real like like

811
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: your first like like like I mean your first like

812
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 1: love love when you're like like madly in love.

813
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 2: Oh almost with this episode, you can come well, like

814
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 2: I guess the one I dated in hot in college

815
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 2: I was. I'm not I don't compare her. I just

816
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 2: think of how much cooler my girlfriend is now compared

817
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 2: to her. I think that's good. What about you? Do

818
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 2: you believe that?

819
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 1: I don't think it's the first. I mean, like there

820
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:59,280
Speaker 1: are I think there's like like parts of each person

821
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: that I've dated that I remember fondly okay, And I

822
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 1: think my like bar for what I want out of

823
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: like a long term relate relationship has increased as I've

824
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 1: gotten to know what kind of relationship dynamic I like. Yeah,

825
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't say you compare, Not that I compare,

826
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: but that I know what because I've dated more people,

827
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: I know what I'm looking for more gotcha. But I

828
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: guess that maybe that is comparison.

829
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 2: I don't.

830
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's really comparison, but it's knowing

831
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: what you want more Like, because of the people you've dated,

832
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: it's probably been easier for you to like find what

833
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: kind of relationship and it works with for you.

834
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 2: Nikki, maybe your girlfriend now is your first true love.

835
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 2: Hopefully I don't think that's true, but hopefully she's my

836
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: last love. That's cute.

837
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: That's cute, giant's milk. I think comparing the person you're

838
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: dating to anybody means you're not ready for any relationship.

839
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 3: Mmmmm.

840
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: Jellyba says things you like and don't like.

841
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. Do you guys compare? Do you

842
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 2: guys have this love theory? Yeah?

843
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: I don't buy the love theory.

844
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, me neither. It's like the taxi theory too. All

845
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 2: this like stuff on TikTok's.

846
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, but update, let's go. I recently reached out

847
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 1: to an ex girlfriend of mine to see about meeting

848
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: up and catching up on life.

849
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:28,760
Speaker 2: Oh.

850
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: I didn't expect her to respond to me, as we

851
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: ended on bad terms. She responded. We ended up messaging

852
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 1: for a while, and she did and we did some

853
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 1: catching up. I finally asked if she'd be willing to

854
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: see me in person, and she'd said he'd be willing

855
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: to meet up with me.

856
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, oh, oh, oh boy. She doesn't know

857
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 2: all these things, he said. Though. He just thinks this

858
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 2: is a nice catchup and fifteen years soon.

859
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,879
Speaker 1: But I'm also nervous about going on a date with her.

860
00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: She's thirty six and I'm thirty seven, and our last

861
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: time being on dates with one another was close to

862
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago. Wait, our date is tomorrow, even after

863
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: she gets work.

864
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 2: Is it a date?

865
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 6: It's not, it's not. He's reading this so wrong. She's

866
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 6: married and has kids. Well, we know she has kids,

867
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 6: scampidy hat. She got married, she may not still be married.

868
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 6: All right, let's keep reading Our date is tomorrow evening

869
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 6: after she gets off work. I'm scared I'll mess things

870
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 6: up again. I already feel like she's being too generous

871
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 6: with me by even agree to speak to me again,

872
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 6: let alone see me in person. But I'll take any

873
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 6: chance I can to try to make things right with her.

874
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 6: I can't shake this horrible feeling in the back of

875
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 6: my throat that I'll mess something up, that I'll just

876
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 6: end up more heartbroken than before, that I'll come on

877
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,320
Speaker 6: too strong and she won't want to ever see me again.

878
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: I've brought her favorite flowers for her. I've made sure

879
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: starting to rewaar that her favorite colone of mind from

880
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: all those years ago. I've been practicing what I need

881
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: and what I want to say to her. I have

882
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: no idea how this date's going to go, but I

883
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: just need to type out these feelings of nervousness that

884
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: I have.

885
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, okay, we got I think we have

886
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 2: an update.

887
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: Thank god, I was about to I was looking at

888
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: this and I'm like, there's no more to the story.

889
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 2: No, no, we got there to happened twenty hours ago,

890
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 2: twenty hours ago, twenty hours ago, cause that post happened

891
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: eight days ago. Oh my goodness, I'm adding it and

892
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 2: I'm adding it. Oh my gosh, I skimmed it a

893
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 2: little bit. Oh boy, oh boy. I thought she was married, though?

894
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 2: What update?

895
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 1: I thirty seven mail wanted to try and get back

896
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: with one of the one who got away thirty six female?

897
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 1: Is there any chance of that happening? So I reached

898
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 1: out to Elilah. I had to. I know a lot

899
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: of people wanted me to never contact her again, which

900
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: is what chat was saying, despite how I wanted to

901
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: make amends with her. So I reach out to her

902
00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: and she responded and we chatted back and forth. After

903
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 1: a bit, I asked if she wanted to meet up

904
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 1: and basically let her set all the ground rules. She agreed,

905
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 1: and three days ago she went out on a date.

906
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: We went out on a date.

907
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 2: She is just as.

908
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: Beautiful as she was when we were together. Her figure

909
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,760
Speaker 1: filled out, she finally lost the baby fat on her face,

910
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: but she was the same woman I fell in love

911
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: with all those years ago. We sat down and talked.

912
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: I didn't want to talk much about myself, but she

913
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,839
Speaker 1: asked about my life, so I had to yes about

914
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: my job, my family, how i'd been typical catching up stuff.

915
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: I'll admit I was zoned out for most of this.

916
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: I was operating on auto pilot to keep my nerves

917
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 1: from taking over. I just wanted to grab her, hold her,

918
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: kiss her, make her mind again. I don't realize. I

919
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 1: don't think I realized how much I missed her until

920
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: she was right in front of me. Finally, when she

921
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: was done asking about me, I got to ask about

922
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 1: her and how she's been. She got married eleven years ago,

923
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: so four years after a breakup. She has two daughters,

924
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: an eight year old and a six year old. I

925
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:01,439
Speaker 1: saw how happy she was when she talked about them,

926
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: and I couldn't help but feel jealous and guilty. I

927
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: should have been the one to have children with her,

928
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: but I was stupid, and now she had kids with

929
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: someone that wasn't me. I asked about her husband, and

930
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: it turns out she's a widow.

931
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 2: Oh oh no.

932
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 1: He died seven years ago while she was pregnant with

933
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: her youngest. It was unexpected, according to her, but that

934
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: she's done her best to move on and hold herself

935
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: together and appear unaffected by it all for her daughters.

936
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: I asked her if she was seeing anyone, and she

937
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: said no. I asked her if she ever thought about

938
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 1: me after the breakup, and she got vague with her answers.

939
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,959
Speaker 1: I told her she could be blunt with me about

940
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: what she was thinking. Lilah said that she was very

941
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,959
Speaker 1: depressed after a breakup. Did a built She had built

942
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: a future of us in her head, and she felt

943
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: like I bloke it and she felt like I broke

944
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: it on a whim with no warning. She said she

945
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: lost her first real relationship and all the dreams she

946
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: had with me when we broke up. She admitted that

947
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: she had been so attached in love with me that

948
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: for a while she almost tried to convince herself that

949
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 1: she didn't want kids, But no matter what he did,

950
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: she couldn't stop herself from wanting to be a mom,

951
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: and she knew that if she gave that up voluntarily,

952
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 1: he would be miserable for the rest of her life.

953
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: I asked her if I scared her that night, if

954
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 1: she felt threatened by me at all. She said the

955
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: yelling overwhelmed her, and while the commotion frightened her, she

956
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't say she feared for her safety or life. That

957
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: gave me hope. I apologized to her about how he

958
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,879
Speaker 1: broke up and told her I regretted everything I did

959
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 1: and said. That night, she said she had moved on

960
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: and forgiven me years ago. She always was a very

961
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: forgiving and kind person, part of the reason I fell

962
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: in love with her in the first place. You think

963
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: they're gonna get back together? Do you think they should

964
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: get back together? Let me know the comments. I asked

965
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: her if she was willing to give me another chance

966
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 1: and let me back into her life. She was hesitant

967
00:50:55,440 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: and got quiet for a moment. I could feel I

968
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: could feel myself panicking when that happened. She said she

969
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: didn't mind me being in her life, but that I'd

970
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: have to regain her trust in order for her to

971
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: consider even trying to date me, which I think is

972
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 1: extremely fair. I was disappointed, frustrated, and disheartened, but I

973
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 1: knew if I came on too strong, she'd turn me

974
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 1: away completely. I told her I'd be happy to be

975
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 1: in her life any way I can that with her permission,

976
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: I'd be working to prove I deserved a second chance

977
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 1: at romance. I'm happy to have Leilah SENDI back in

978
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: my life, and I'm going to work on proving to

979
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: her that we should be back together. I hope that

980
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: we can have the family in life she always talked about.

981
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 1: I know there's still time, but the clock is taking

982
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: on it. I'm hoping that one day I'll be posting

983
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 1: for advice on the family we'll have together if all

984
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 1: things go well. This feels like a red flag.

985
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 2: I don't like this. Every single comment I looked at

986
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 2: on his user profile was downvoted, every single one of them. Really, Yes,

987
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 2: it was like seven hundre or down votes.

988
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:08,240
Speaker 1: It feels it feels a little like like I feel

989
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,800
Speaker 1: like he is doing it for the wrong reasons.

990
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's the way he's perceiving this.

991
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

992
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 2: I think he likes the idea of for her, and

993
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 2: maybe not her exactly. I don't know. I don't know.

994
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 1: Radish says, Bros disappointed that she's not willing to just

995
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 1: put up and accept him back without putting in any effort.

996
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 1: Dude sucks. Yeah, that was a little whack to me.

997
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, and fifteen years ago.

998
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, M D plus plus K plus M says this

999
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: is probably a quit while you're ahead proposition. He already

1000
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,399
Speaker 1: has a family and may not be looking to subdivide

1001
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: the time she has as a widow parent take on

1002
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 1: an immense challenge of starting over. She may, with time

1003
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: be willing to date you, but until you can dispense

1004
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 1: of your fantasies of her being a blank slate you

1005
00:52:56,360 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: can imprint yourself onto, this is likely doomed. Yeah, he responds,

1006
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: when you say starting over, I assume you mean with

1007
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: a new baby. She always wanted a lot of kids

1008
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 1: to be happy if she got pregnant again. I know

1009
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: she's a little disappointed about only having two. Used to

1010
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: say she didn't care how many she had, but she

1011
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: also had made comments about wanting four when we were

1012
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: together and then OPI also says I tried to move on.

1013
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 1: I've dated others since I've lived my life. My brothers

1014
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: and parents never really let me forgive her or forget her,

1015
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 1: and they always blame me for why they don't speak

1016
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: much to her. When my younger brother got married about

1017
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: three years after our breakup, he still tried to invite

1018
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 1: her to his wedding because the two of them have

1019
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: been friends. She declined to attend because she didn't want

1020
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: to cause tension and drama. She still sent a gift

1021
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,439
Speaker 1: in a card. My brother was pissed at me when

1022
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: she declined and says, had I not been an idiot,

1023
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: he'd still have his friend. My parents and siblings still

1024
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: send her Birthday and Christmas cards, and they even sent

1025
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 1: her wedding gifts when she got married, and then baby

1026
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 1: stuff when she got pregnant. My dad is friends with

1027
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: her dad, and so he still hears about what goes

1028
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: on in her life. And my parents never let go

1029
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: how I ruined a perfect thing for everyone.

1030
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 2: Gosh, and that's where it ends.

1031
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like, obviously the family isn't helping in

1032
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: this situation, not at all. I feel like this is

1033
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: not a good idea.

1034
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 2: No, and it's coming from why he wants and it

1035
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 2: seems really weird and come from bad place. And he's like, oh,

1036
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 2: this will help my relationship with my parents if I

1037
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:29,359
Speaker 2: get her back in my life. Yeah.

1038
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 1: And also how he's saying like, oh, I'm not going

1039
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,240
Speaker 1: to tell her that, like this is my ulterior motive,

1040
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: but this is what I'm gonna tell her now to

1041
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 1: make sure she's okay and I can work on having

1042
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: romance later. Yeat, dude, It's just like all the red flags.

1043
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: It's a little icky. I don't like this at all.

1044
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 2: I didn't like it, and I didn't like how he

1045
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,399
Speaker 2: was talking about like she only has two kids, maybe

1046
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,439
Speaker 2: she wants like two more. We can be a good

1047
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:51,360
Speaker 2: family that.

1048
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Kay says bro is obsessed. Other Case says, oh snap,

1049
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 1: this is what you hear. Crital says wow slightly to

1050
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: says wow. Op's parents and family are also crazy. Delhi

1051
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 1: Bas says he's so certifiedly crazy. Yeah, I agree.

1052
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,280
Speaker 2: But when you hear this in Criminal Minds.

1053
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 1: I think so. I think so.

1054
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 2: Oh but we have a call in, Yes we do.

1055
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 2: Let's do. All I'm going to set it up is

1056
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:18,920
Speaker 2: this episode three? Uh yeah, so after this call in

1057
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 2: it yeah, if that makes what do I mean it,

1058
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 2: it'll be like of this episode? Oh yeah, Okayne.

1059
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:41,839
Speaker 1: Flags And also we we we can't. We probably only

1060
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: can spend like five to five minutes on the call

1061
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 1: in because we have to keep the show owed home

1062
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,720
Speaker 1: because Sophia is taking me out for my birthday gift.

1063
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 2: Oh that's your birthday gift.

1064
00:55:53,840 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: My birthday gift only only a few months later? What

1065
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: because she forgot h.

1066
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,360
Speaker 2: We'll talk to talk about it whenever you want to

1067
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:13,800
Speaker 2: join in on this call sevia. Okay, that's uh talking,

1068
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 2: we're calling. Hello, we're talking. He h on. I mean

1069
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 2: they're not there though, Yeah, they're not there. No.

1070
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Why is my cup so tiny? Because I

1071
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: like it?

1072
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Why do you like it? Tiny? Like it tiny?

1073
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 2: Isn't It's so cute? And I can just like have

1074
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 2: little bits of you do bits are waiting?

1075
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 1: Dixie Blue Steel, are you here still? Yallo?

1076
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 2: Oh?

1077
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: Bb Meme said, if Lilah saw his post, she'd get the.

1078
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, somebody somebody forward that to her if you.

1079
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:19,920
Speaker 1: Know her, Yeah, yeah, out this guy. All right, Dixie

1080
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 1: Blue Steele, I guess or not.

1081
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 2: Do it on the next one. All right, all right,

1082
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 2: let's we'll go to the next MiCT. Yeah, we'll just

1083
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 2: tend this episode.

1084
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 1: Well, if you love us, make sure to subscribe, we

1085
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 1: love you and see you tomorrow, except if you're on

1086
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: the members only stream because we're gonna do another one. Hey, yo.

1087
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 4: Ah, all right, thanks, thanks.

1088
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 2: I should have a four four seventeen did deep beep beep.

1089
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 4: Bump bump bump bump bump. Alright, realdy, okay, go for it,

1090
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 4: all right, Pardy. My friend spent thousands on a vacation

1091
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 4: and expected me to pay. So I left the.

1092
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 1: Country skip town.

1093
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, just leave but on that vacation.

1094
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 4: Yeah. So a little backstory. My best friend male twenty

1095
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 4: nine and I female twenty six were friends since middle school.

1096
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 1: Oh dude, I'm I so I see you already. I

1097
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 1: He's I so I see you already. He is paying

1098
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 1: for a trip to Curry romantic favors with a friend.

1099
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 4: Which means that he was in like fifth grade and

1100
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 4: he was like eighth grade. Wait what they've been friends

1101
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 4: since middle school?

1102
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, they've been friends for but there's a three years. Yeah,

1103
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: that can be a thing. You'll be friends.

1104
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 4: We spent a lot of time together, and our parents

1105
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 4: were also really good friends. Okay, actually he lives a

1106
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 4: block away from my house and we continue to be

1107
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 4: good friends into our adulthood. By the way, this comes

1108
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 4: from ornery Echidna six eight nine seven on the r slash. Okay,

1109
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 4: storytime said it. We decided, after many successful trips to

1110
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 4: Europe to venture on to Las Vegas. Oo ooh. We

1111
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 4: first did a stop in Florida for three days and

1112
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 4: then went on to Vegas. Just to add I'm not

1113
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 4: from the US and do not live in the US.

1114
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 4: On the flight over to Florida, my friend let's call

1115
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 4: him Aaron, explained as we were checking in for a

1116
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 4: flight that he only had eight hundred US dollars to

1117
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 4: last him three days in Orlando and six days in Vegas.

1118
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 4: Not I mean not not not not not possible, not possible.

1119
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: I just talked, couldn't do much.

1120
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, hotels, I don't know.

1121
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 1: Vegas is not that expensive. You can get like like

1122
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: if you get that, actually you can get so Vegas

1123
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 1: actually has the cheapest hotels because if you get hotels

1124
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 1: the casino, they're betting that you will spend money at

1125
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: the casino.

1126
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 4: I see, and I don't know how expensive.

1127
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 2: Were well, spend like one hundred and fifteen Orlando and

1128
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 2: then put the rest of it on red and and

1129
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 2: whatever whichever you choose and get more money.

1130
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 4: I was quite shocked and worried, as I know how

1131
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 4: expensive both places can be, especially with city talks and

1132
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 4: the hotels and the excursions we had planned where we

1133
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 4: had only paid a twenty five percent deposit prior to

1134
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 4: flying out, plus any ubers, et cetera to get to

1135
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 4: our destinations. Wait, okay, but what why is this a problem?

1136
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 4: I feel like he has a just you know, transfer

1137
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 4: money or whatever, did not have a credit card.

1138
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 2: He maybe only has eight hudred bucks left.

1139
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 4: In his account. Maybe oh okay, maybe that's a problem.

1140
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 4: We had planned to eat as cheaply as we could McDonald's,

1141
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 4: taco bell, et cetera during the day and go to

1142
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 4: a buffet in the evenings and try and keep costs

1143
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 4: as low as possible. It would be hard, but okay.

1144
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 4: Prior to boarding our flight, Aaron wanted to go look

1145
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 4: in Gucci. But I can not look in Gucci. Can't.

1146
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: You cannot say I can't have any money and then

1147
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:26,959
Speaker 1: go get a Gucci bag. Don't.

1148
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 4: Don't. He's like, I brought eight hundred dollars through Gucci.

1149
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 4: My loss, my please, and but I wanted to get

1150
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 4: snacks for the fight and not be not be tempted

1151
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 4: to splurge all my spendings. We agreed to meet back

1152
01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:48,919
Speaker 4: at our gate in thirty minutes. Forty minutes passed by.

1153
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 4: Aaron is nowhere to be found. I call him, no answer.

1154
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 4: I go back to Gucci to see if he's there.

1155
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:59,919
Speaker 4: Sure enough, he is, Oh no, and he's caring about

1156
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 4: and is checking out. He bought a belt and now

1157
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 4: only has six hundred dollars left for the entire trip.

1158
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 2: That's where decia lies.

1159
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 4: That's ridiculous.

1160
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 1: Why are you buying a two hundred dollars belt that's

1161
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 1: at is ridiculous, not needed.

1162
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 2: Ah.

1163
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 4: We boarded our flight and within it they haven't even

1164
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 4: got to where they're going yet. We boarded our flight

1165
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 4: and within a few minutes, Aaron was already pressing the

1166
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 4: service bell for the flight attendant to serve him a drink.

1167
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 1: Where, Like, what does he think's gonna happen?

1168
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 4: He's like, I have eight hundred dollars to spend before

1169
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 4: we even get there.

1170
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, well maybe he's like entrepreneurial. It's like, and then

1171
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 1: I'll figure out how to make money in Vegas.

1172
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe that's his mindset.

1173
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 1: I will sure, I will go to the casinos and

1174
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: turn my last one hundred dollars and eight hundred dollars again,

1175
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: infinite money, infinite.

1176
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 4: I fell asleep instantly, and he would walk to the

1177
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 4: back of the plane and ask for more drinks. By

1178
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 4: the time we landed, he was extremely drunk, and I

1179
01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 4: had to assist him off the plane through passport control

1180
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 4: as we are not US citizens. We had to queue

1181
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 4: a little longer, and Aaron would shout, hurry up to

1182
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 4: the officers. Ah. We took an uber to the hotel.

1183
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 4: I paid fine. I was too tired to ask for

1184
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 4: half and decided once I got there, I would shower

1185
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 4: and go to sleep. Aaron didn't even bother to check in.

1186
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 4: He went straight to the bar and ordered a drink. Whatever.

1187
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 4: It's his vacation too. He can do what he wants,

1188
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,400
Speaker 4: is he not. He's going to run out the first.

1189
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 4: He's got to run out. He's got opie. You need

1190
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 4: a you need to check you know, get that money,

1191
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 4: get that hotel money. I go to bed awesome. I'm

1192
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 4: I feel like, don't you pay for things beforehand le hotels?

1193
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 4: Or do you pay at the desk when you get there?

1194
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: I guess usually, I mean I in the past, I've

1195
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 1: paid before I paid for I think sometimes you can

1196
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 1: pay after. I don't know.

1197
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 4: Whatever it always said. Aaron comes to bed and raids

1198
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 4: the mini bar. No thought bar, Oh my god. I

1199
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 4: I don't even look at the mini bar because of

1200
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 4: the amount of times that my mom said, don't touch that.

1201
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 2: I touch that bar.

1202
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 4: It's overpriced. Yes, for fools, for idiots.

1203
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 2: Ah.

1204
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 4: Now I have seen the prices, and I know that

1205
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 4: even the smallest drink of spirit is around eighteen eighteen

1206
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 4: dollars and mixers nine dollars. I wake up the next day, No,

1207
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 4: and the mini bar is empty, everything gone.

1208
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 1: That's probably like one hundred bucks.

1209
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 4: Absolutely, maybe more. Maybe if one thing is the smallest

1210
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 4: rink of spirit is eighteen dollars. Yeah, maybe like three hundred.

1211
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 4: The next day we probably two hundred, I don't know,

1212
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 4: one hundred to two hundred dollars. The next day, we

1213
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 4: explore the city, have some nice lunch and lounge d

1214
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 4: on the pool. We get ready to go out that night,

1215
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 4: and the mini bar is restocked. No, not that, except

1216
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 4: he drank everything again within two hours of being back

1217
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 4: in our tell room. You need to tell him how

1218
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 4: much that costs. It sounds like he's either stupid.

1219
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 2: He must have a dozen year old.

1220
01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is crazy. I am beginning to worry and

1221
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 4: think that this expense might follow me, and I have

1222
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 4: only budgeted for myself. On the third day, now, the

1223
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 4: same happens again, only this time he orders drinks around

1224
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 4: the pool and charges them to the room. I'm not

1225
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 4: a big drinker and I would just buy what I

1226
01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 4: wanted from the store and take it round the pool.

1227
01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 4: My got ah. Fourth day, time to fly to Vegas.

1228
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 4: We go to check out, but this morning there was

1229
01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 4: a power cut in our floor, so I had to

1230
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:41,480
Speaker 4: get ready in the bathroom in the lobby. Fine. I

1231
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 4: get ready and arranged to meet Erin at the check

1232
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 4: in at the check and desk. When I get to

1233
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 4: the desk, Aarin was white. I said, is everything okay?

1234
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:55,720
Speaker 4: Burns out. Aaron had spent over one thousand dollars on drinks, food,

1235
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 4: and mini bar since being there.

1236
01:05:57,800 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 2: I mean, we saw that coming.

1237
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 4: We saw that coming. This is outrageous. I think he

1238
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 4: I really want to know if he knew that this

1239
01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 4: is Did he think it was free?

1240
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 1: No way, No one knows. Everyone knows it's not free.

1241
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 4: Apparently maybe not this guy. Aaron uh and didn't have

1242
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 4: the money to cover this was not any of my bill.

1243
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 4: As if I would order anything, I paid for it

1244
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 4: there and then and would not charge the room or

1245
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 4: take anything from the mini bar. He couldn't afford the bill.

1246
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 4: He had to take a credit card and put it

1247
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 4: on that and by some miracle, it worked and the

1248
01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 4: transaction went through the taxi was way at least so

1249
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 4: he didn't have to pay for it.

1250
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good, But like, also, I feel like I

1251
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 1: don't know. I would say, like, hey, I think we

1252
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 1: should cut the trip short because, yeah, it doesn't seem

1253
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 1: like you're going to be able to pay for the Yeah.

1254
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 4: I would say, I don't think you have any money left?

1255
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then op is going to be having to

1256
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: foot the bill for the rest of this.

1257
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 4: I would have said, I like, dude, I don't think

1258
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 4: we can continue to travel, at least together, at the

1259
01:06:59,160 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 4: very least.

1260
01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 2: Use now you're going to be responsible for this guy.

1261
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 4: But says they're not from USA, so he might not

1262
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:09,120
Speaker 4: have known. But in which case, I feel if he

1263
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 4: I feel this is not on OPI at all. But

1264
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 4: if I say, someone touch I'd be like, you know

1265
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 4: that's not free, right, Yeah, Like I'd be like, you know,

1266
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 4: that's oh, that's not free it. Yeah. The taxi was

1267
01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 4: waiting in the parking lot to take us to the

1268
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 4: airport to catch our flight to Vegas. Erin didn't say

1269
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 4: much on the way there and was receiving a lot

1270
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 4: of calls on his cell. I later found out this

1271
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 4: was people who he owed money to back home, seeing

1272
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 4: when they would be paid. Arrived in Vegas in the

1273
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 4: am and decided to go to bed. I wake the

1274
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 4: next day and Aaron has gone, Oh my god, Okay,

1275
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 4: I'm a late sleeper, but it's only nine am. I

1276
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 4: text him and he said he's on the slot machine.

1277
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 2: With what money?

1278
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 4: Not good. I get ready to meet him and then

1279
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 4: plan to go grab a drink. I meet him and

1280
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 4: it's clear he's very drunk and possibly taken narcotics. Where

1281
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 4: did he buy that money? As his eyes were huge?

1282
01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 4: His choice, his choice. I'm not his mother, you should

1283
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 4: end this friendship?

1284
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should. I meant you're not his mother, but

1285
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:20,240
Speaker 1: you will have to pay for him.

1286
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:21,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, if I mean.

1287
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 4: Or I again, not at all. Oh he's fault. But

1288
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 4: I feel like if this were my friend, I'd just

1289
01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 4: be like.

1290
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:29,760
Speaker 2: Dude, slow down, dude.

1291
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 4: Stop buying minibar stuff and don't stop please.

1292
01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 2: Um.

1293
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:39,679
Speaker 4: We go grab a table and order. He then gets

1294
01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:41,640
Speaker 4: up and says he wants to change his outfit. He

1295
01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 4: buys a Holy New Okay, our room was around fifteen

1296
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 4: minutes from where we were. I wait twenty minutes, passes

1297
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:53,479
Speaker 4: forty minutes, ninety minutes now I'm worried. I go back

1298
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 4: to the room and I see him sleeping in bed.

1299
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 4: I asked why he left me, and he said he

1300
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 4: wanted some time away. Okay, fine, but I was confused.

1301
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 4: That's why he did not just say this. I notice

1302
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 4: there is white powder in the bathroom, and I snap.

1303
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 4: I haul all my things into my suitcase and leave,

1304
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 4: grab the nearest taxi and asked to go to the airport.

1305
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,600
Speaker 4: I know this might have been a bad reaction, but

1306
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 4: at this time I was worried about having to pay

1307
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 4: for him the entire vacation.

1308
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I.

1309
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 1: Think you maybe given a warning before and say hey,

1310
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,759
Speaker 1: if you keep acting like this, I am going to leave, Yeah,

1311
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 1: and then leave after.

1312
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 4: But I just think that Ope didn't like. I think

1313
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 4: Ope should have brought it up earlier, just saying like,

1314
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 4: hey stop.

1315
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know it's not Ops.

1316
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 4: It's not at all. This is all him like Op.

1317
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 4: He's not the eight Veil by any stretch of the things.

1318
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:50,559
Speaker 4: I think it just if I were going through the situation,

1319
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 4: I would have been like stop or I'm gonna leave.

1320
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 4: But Op's in the like, definitely get out of there.

1321
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 4: I was worried about it. And I know he had

1322
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 4: no money left to have the experience he wanted, but

1323
01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:07,799
Speaker 4: he did have enough for food, water, and the hotel

1324
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 4: was already prepaid. I fly back home and I message

1325
01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 4: him saying I was in the airport of my home country.

1326
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 4: He simply said, Okay, my boyfriend picked me up from

1327
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 4: the airport. Since he got home, he has told anyone

1328
01:10:19,560 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 4: who will listen how much of a terrible friend I am.

1329
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,080
Speaker 4: And I planned to leave even before we arrived, which

1330
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:28,200
Speaker 4: is not true. I was sick of being left in bars,

1331
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 4: not the first time as this happened in Florida, and

1332
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 4: being chatted up by people thinking I was on my own?

1333
01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:36,000
Speaker 4: Am I the a hole? Should I have stayed for

1334
01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 4: the remainder of the five days and just go on

1335
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 4: with it? And there is an update?

1336
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 1: You are not the ale hole? And I think if

1337
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:49,599
Speaker 1: you stayed longer, you may have been convinced to pay

1338
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 1: even more than you already have.

1339
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, absolutely, Yeah, totally set up for this.

1340
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,720
Speaker 4: I agree Sarah badosas he would have just screwed her

1341
01:10:56,720 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 4: over before she left if she gave a warning. Yeah,

1342
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 4: there's always that.

1343
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:02,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you said there's an update.

1344
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:07,439
Speaker 4: There is an update. Let's get in the update. I

1345
01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 4: blocked and deleted Aarin off all my socials, WhatsApp, LinkedIn

1346
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 4: everything once I got in my boyfriend's car. He cannot

1347
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 4: know what you're doing at work. Aaron didn't text me

1348
01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 4: where I was or anything during the twelve hour flight.

1349
01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 4: I was on Wi Fi when I took my suitcase

1350
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 4: from the hotel room. He didn't know I was going

1351
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:28,760
Speaker 4: home or if I would actually have it in me

1352
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:31,600
Speaker 4: to do it. Uh and B. I am shy and

1353
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:34,920
Speaker 4: I've never traveled alone for that distance, and with everything

1354
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 4: going on in the world, I have anxiety just leaving

1355
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:40,160
Speaker 4: the house, which he is aware of, so even going

1356
01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 4: away together was a big deal with for me. The

1357
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 4: poison his phone call a few weeks after I landed,

1358
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:50,479
Speaker 4: Aaron had the audacity to call my sister and give

1359
01:11:50,520 --> 01:11:53,080
Speaker 4: her a hard time about how I am a drunk

1360
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:55,759
Speaker 4: and I have been cheating on my boyfriend with women.

1361
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 4: I was, what, where is he? Why is he doing this?

1362
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:02,559
Speaker 4: I was dumbfounded. What does anyone even say to that?

1363
01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 4: Obviously that is not true. Before I got with my partner,

1364
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:08,679
Speaker 4: I did kiss a female on a night out, which

1365
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 4: he tried to use against me. Whatever I told my

1366
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,680
Speaker 4: partner what happened, and he laughed, it was before we

1367
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 4: were together. We're not living in the eighteen hundreds. So

1368
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:20,719
Speaker 4: what if I kissed someone of the opposite sex years ago?

1369
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 2: Honestly?

1370
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 1: Good, good that Ope, because she said I kissed someone

1371
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:31,479
Speaker 1: of the opposite sex before I got into my relationship

1372
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:33,720
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend. So yeah, it was years ago. I

1373
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:37,559
Speaker 1: mean good that Ope is finding out that this friend

1374
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 1: is terrible. Now now will no longer have anything to

1375
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 1: do with them, because you're really getting like your true colors.

1376
01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 4: Oh oh, the the boyfriend says, well, you know, actually

1377
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:48,320
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1378
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:51,640
Speaker 1: No, She's like, oh, like I I so what, I

1379
01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:54,880
Speaker 1: kissed someone before I was in a relationship years ago? Like,

1380
01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:56,120
Speaker 1: it's not the eighteen hundreds.

1381
01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,200
Speaker 4: Jellybuss's opie is male. That's what I thought, But I

1382
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:04,200
Speaker 4: checked and no, I think they just probably worded it wrong.

1383
01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:07,559
Speaker 4: They meant to say, like same gender. What because they

1384
01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 4: said they kissed a woman?

1385
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:10,400
Speaker 1: Ohp he kissed a woman?

1386
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:12,559
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but in the last ten since they said,

1387
01:13:12,560 --> 01:13:14,160
Speaker 4: so what if I kissed someone out of the opposite

1388
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 4: sex years though? I think they just warned it wrong.

1389
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:20,640
Speaker 4: I was confused by that OPI is a woman. Yeah,

1390
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 4: I am doing okay. I skipped a trip this summer

1391
01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 4: with my friends because I was worried to go away

1392
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 4: on vacation with anyone who isn't my s O or

1393
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 4: close family. I'm really nervous to trust people, and I

1394
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 4: want to remain in my comfort zone zone around people

1395
01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 4: I feel one hundred percent with.

1396
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:38,320
Speaker 1: Well, it's fair.

1397
01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't.

1398
01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:46,960
Speaker 1: I couldn't see it. Oh, sorry, Yeah, I think I think,

1399
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean I could imagine this trip being like traumatizing,

1400
01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:51,679
Speaker 1: traumatic and not wanting to do anything else again.

1401
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:53,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I think you just have to have a

1402
01:13:53,360 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 4: conversation about budget and everything. M Yeah, not a good friend.

1403
01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:04,760
Speaker 4: It sucks to find that out. But good to get

1404
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 4: out of there.

1405
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:07,240
Speaker 1: Good to get out of it, to get out, good

1406
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 1: that this was the moment that you realize this person

1407
01:14:10,120 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 1: that's not a good person. So you'd have to have

1408
01:14:11,880 --> 01:14:13,600
Speaker 1: that toxicity in your life anymore.

1409
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, get him out of there. Yeah, but there's a

1410
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:19,880
Speaker 4: little bit more to the story. By the way, you

1411
01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 4: can join us live on YouTube every weekend at three

1412
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 4: pm Pacific center time. Just tap a profile. Why did

1413
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 4: I feel bad because this person I thought that I

1414
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:30,800
Speaker 4: knew the most in the world. We knew everything about

1415
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:34,599
Speaker 4: each other. We spend most weekends together. Best friend grief

1416
01:14:34,680 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 4: is real, but I feel I didn't know Aaron at all.

1417
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:39,880
Speaker 4: It was worried he would not be able to fend

1418
01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 4: for himself, or he would become so drunk or high

1419
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 4: something bad would happen, and it would be on my

1420
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 4: shoulders for leaving him out there alone. Until you're in

1421
01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:51,559
Speaker 4: that situation, it's hard to explain. I do still carry

1422
01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:53,599
Speaker 4: a bit of guilts. I didn't even leave my friend

1423
01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 4: to go to the bathroom on their own in a

1424
01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 4: place where we're not familiar. Oh, I don't even leave them,

1425
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 4: never mind a different continent. Since I got home, we

1426
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 4: have not spoken since I planned to leave it this way. Oh,

1427
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 4: since and I planned to leave it this way. I

1428
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:09,559
Speaker 4: don't have any desires to offer an olive branch or

1429
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 4: even just acknowledge what happened. And that is the end

1430
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:14,679
Speaker 4: of the story.

1431
01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:18,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like, honestly good, cut that person out of.

1432
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 4: Your life, not a good no contact, no contact, no

1433
01:15:23,520 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 4: freaking context. You're this next story.

1434
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 2: This next story is maybe at the end of.

1435
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:39,640
Speaker 1: This episode, I thought my best friend had cancer, but

1436
01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:42,679
Speaker 1: she was lying about everything. Yep. Me and my best

1437
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 1: friend Beth twenty six and twenty eighteen were in high

1438
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 1: school aka twelfth standard. Let's talk about best looks though.

1439
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:50,040
Speaker 4: Let's talk about her looks.

1440
01:15:50,080 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 1: She was five four eighty kilograms and she has some

1441
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 1: bald spots on her head. And I always saw her

1442
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:58,320
Speaker 1: sitting alone by herself, and saw her a couple of

1443
01:15:58,360 --> 01:16:03,120
Speaker 1: times taking medications. Eighty kilograms is like, what like one hundred.

1444
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 2: And sixty nice for one hundred and seventy five.

1445
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:07,920
Speaker 1: One hundred and seventy five.

1446
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 2: Let me see, Oh, one hundred and seventy six. I

1447
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 2: knew it. I was so right, let's go.

1448
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 1: We met each other at school and instantly connected. I'm

1449
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:17,400
Speaker 1: a natural EmPATH and felt sorry for her when she

1450
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:20,840
Speaker 1: told me she has cancer and she's taking chemotherapy and

1451
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:23,799
Speaker 1: that's the reason she's losing pair, and that's the reason

1452
01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 1: she's losing hair and she's overweight. Also this comes from

1453
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:29,639
Speaker 1: fine reflection two thousand and six on the Arslash Okay

1454
01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:32,519
Speaker 1: storytimesude about it. So over a period of days we

1455
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 1: became very close and shared many things with each other

1456
01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:39,639
Speaker 1: and had great hangouts. One thing, that one thing always

1457
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:43,439
Speaker 1: which suspected me was her. One thing that always made

1458
01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 1: me suspicious was her energy levels. She used to drive

1459
01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:50,559
Speaker 1: around the city all day being in third stage cancer,

1460
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:51,720
Speaker 1: which is like, you know, you don't have a lot

1461
01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: of energy.

1462
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1463
01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:55,559
Speaker 1: I also learned that her parents passed away and she

1464
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:58,759
Speaker 1: stays with her stepmom and brother who abuse her daily,

1465
01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:00,880
Speaker 1: and she needs to do all all chores at home.

1466
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:05,880
Speaker 1: They don't support her Cinderella, Yes cancer that said all

1467
01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 1: that chimney swimping is not good.

1468
01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:07,920
Speaker 2: For your lungs.

1469
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 1: And she against her and she is against her stepmom

1470
01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:13,320
Speaker 1: and got engaged to her fiance.

1471
01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:16,240
Speaker 4: Against so her stepmom didn't allow her to but she

1472
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:16,959
Speaker 4: got engaged.

1473
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 1: Wait, they don't support her education and happiness, and she

1474
01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:25,360
Speaker 1: against her stepmom got engaged to her fiance, Ryan twenty

1475
01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:30,280
Speaker 1: eight male. Yes, she showed us the ring. M It

1476
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: was October, and she celebrates her birthday with Ryan. All happy.

1477
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 1: Remember she wears her ring every day to school and

1478
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:39,800
Speaker 1: everywhere she goes. But in November, I started noticing she's

1479
01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:42,880
Speaker 1: chatting with this new guy, Ricky twenty nine male, who's

1480
01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 1: allegedly her gym trainer. As she was trying to lose weight.

1481
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 1: I was perplexed as she's undergoing treatment. I was perplexed,

1482
01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 1: as she's go undergoing treatment. How does she have the

1483
01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:57,760
Speaker 1: energy of a regular human to do chores, attend ten

1484
01:17:57,800 --> 01:18:00,439
Speaker 1: to six pm classes, and go to the gym to

1485
01:18:00,520 --> 01:18:02,639
Speaker 1: work out one and a half hours a day.

1486
01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:04,960
Speaker 4: Something's not adding up.

1487
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 1: By the end of November, she started wearing her ring

1488
01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 1: and started skipping classes regularly and always told me she's

1489
01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: at the gym at odd hours. One day, she came

1490
01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:18,519
Speaker 1: back before internal examination said Ryan has physically and verbally

1491
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:20,360
Speaker 1: abused her and she had to break up with him.

1492
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 1: She was sobbing At this point. I felt really sorry

1493
01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 1: for her. Little did I know she was cheating on

1494
01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:28,799
Speaker 1: Ryan with Ricky.

1495
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 4: It was Ricky.

1496
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,639
Speaker 1: I was at least interested in who she was effing.

1497
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 1: So one day Ricky sends me an Instagram request quoting Hi, Harper,

1498
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 1: this is Ryan. I need help, but I want to

1499
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 1: know more about Beth.

1500
01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:42,599
Speaker 4: Who's Beth.

1501
01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:44,559
Speaker 1: Beth is Opie's friend?

1502
01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:48,679
Speaker 4: Oh okay, Oh, OPI is Harper?

1503
01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:48,920
Speaker 2: Okay?

1504
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:51,120
Speaker 4: I see wait, yeah.

1505
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, OPI is Harper. Beth is her friend?

1506
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:53,880
Speaker 4: Gotcha.

1507
01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:57,559
Speaker 1: I gave him the full info about her likings and

1508
01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:00,680
Speaker 1: her health issues and all and Ryan was studying his

1509
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:03,320
Speaker 1: physiotherapy course during that time and worked part time as

1510
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:05,800
Speaker 1: a gym trainer. He felt emotional for her and he

1511
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 1: started treating me like his little sister, as I was

1512
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 1: also very naive.

1513
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:15,360
Speaker 4: Okay, so pause. So so Ryan reaches out to OPE

1514
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:17,160
Speaker 4: through Ricky. I guess.

1515
01:19:17,200 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 1: So and has a friend Beth, who apparently has cancer.

1516
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 1: Is eighty kilograms like one hundred and seventy six pounds

1517
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 1: five to four. She's taking medication, but she's also she's

1518
01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 1: supposed to be in third stage cancer. But she has

1519
01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:35,120
Speaker 1: all this energy to go everywhere, and she's talking about

1520
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 1: these boyfriends that she has. She was dating a guy

1521
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: named Ryan, but then she started chatting to a new

1522
01:19:43,200 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 1: guy named Ricky, who was her jim trainer. So now

1523
01:19:47,560 --> 01:19:50,519
Speaker 1: it's Ryan, the previous guy that she was dating before

1524
01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:52,520
Speaker 1: the gym trainer that reached.

1525
01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 4: Out to OP got you, okay.

1526
01:19:54,439 --> 01:19:56,960
Speaker 1: I gave him full info about her likings and her

1527
01:19:57,000 --> 01:19:59,760
Speaker 1: health issues as well. Ryan was studying the physiotherapy course

1528
01:19:59,760 --> 01:20:02,080
Speaker 1: where part time as jim trainer. He felt emotional for

1529
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:03,920
Speaker 1: her and he started treating me like his little sister

1530
01:20:04,439 --> 01:20:08,240
Speaker 1: as I was naive. One day, Ricky, the person that

1531
01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: is really the new guy told me that he met

1532
01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:15,800
Speaker 1: Beth at the gym and they started their romance in October.

1533
01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:20,840
Speaker 1: Remember she was celebrating her birthday with Ryan still when

1534
01:20:20,880 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 1: she had the ring on her finger. So Ricky and

1535
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:28,360
Speaker 1: Beth started dating.

1536
01:20:28,800 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 4: Maybe not so long after, Not so.

1537
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:33,160
Speaker 1: Long after Ricky and Beth started dating. I was so

1538
01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 1: happy for the couple. I always told Beth she's ruising.

1539
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:42,719
Speaker 1: I guess, like you know, I don't know, making a ruse

1540
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:47,080
Speaker 1: a ruse? She always replied. Ricky has b d energy,

1541
01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:50,720
Speaker 1: unlike a big dick energy of Ryan, and I love him.

1542
01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:52,560
Speaker 1: I just laughed and waved it.

1543
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:55,600
Speaker 4: What do you mean you waved it off? There's so

1544
01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:56,760
Speaker 4: many red flags here.

1545
01:20:57,400 --> 01:21:00,200
Speaker 2: I'm confused about all of these red flags.

1546
01:20:59,880 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 1: On I Yeah, she always bothered him for spicy sleep,

1547
01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:07,760
Speaker 1: always telling about her traumatic relationship at home, and one

1548
01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:10,400
Speaker 1: day Ricky offered to go to the doctor with her

1549
01:21:10,479 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 1: for her chemo session. She panically denied his request. Every

1550
01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:16,960
Speaker 1: time he offered to help her. It was so often

1551
01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 1: that they do spicy sleep once a day, and then

1552
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:24,280
Speaker 1: Beth's stepmother caught them both. This is reading like a

1553
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 1: fever dream right now?

1554
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:27,080
Speaker 2: Is this?

1555
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:31,120
Speaker 1: Is this not is this not reading like a fever dream?

1556
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 2: A little bit? Yeah, A lot is happening. I'm very

1557
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:41,800
Speaker 2: I'm a little bit. I'm a little bit.

1558
01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Whiteboards is kimberly fine. I don't know if this.

1559
01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:50,880
Speaker 1: I think this story is just there's a lot of a.

1560
01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 4: Lot of moving parts at Best.

1561
01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:55,640
Speaker 2: Step mom joins in and happens.

1562
01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna keep reading. I'm gonna keep reading.

1563
01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:03,920
Speaker 1: It really fine, says she sounds fanic. Jellyba says chat

1564
01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 1: GPT Chat GPT would write something more coherent than it.

1565
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to keep reading though, so.

1566
01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:15,720
Speaker 2: Uh.

1567
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:20,560
Speaker 1: Next day, Ricky was called to Best home by her stepmom,

1568
01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 1: who's actually her own mother, Ricky Ricky Ricky was shocked

1569
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:31,040
Speaker 1: to know this. Later on, I was called to join

1570
01:22:31,160 --> 01:22:32,639
Speaker 1: this weird conversation at her home.

1571
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:35,320
Speaker 2: The environment was fierce, her.

1572
01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:39,280
Speaker 1: Mom was furious, Oh concern on Ricky's face, and Beth

1573
01:22:39,439 --> 01:22:40,599
Speaker 1: was hiding behind the door.

1574
01:22:40,760 --> 01:22:43,320
Speaker 4: Oh wait, I get it, I get it. So she

1575
01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 4: so basically I think what is happening? She was so

1576
01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:49,919
Speaker 4: Beth is like my step mom. I have a stepmom

1577
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:53,400
Speaker 4: and she's the worst. And my boyfriend or fiance Ryan

1578
01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:56,599
Speaker 4: is mean to me and I have cancer, and now

1579
01:22:56,600 --> 01:22:58,679
Speaker 4: they're finding out that she doesn't have a step mom,

1580
01:22:58,720 --> 01:23:02,160
Speaker 4: she just has a by mom and she's lying about

1581
01:23:02,160 --> 01:23:02,719
Speaker 4: all this stuff.

1582
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:09,720
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, okay, okay yeah. Ricky confronted about her being

1583
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 1: treated bad in her health conditions like cancer and all,

1584
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:16,160
Speaker 1: and he would marry her asap in a few years

1585
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:18,200
Speaker 1: and told he loves her so much.

1586
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:21,200
Speaker 2: What is this story?

1587
01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 1: And then he spit that she was the worst step

1588
01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:28,639
Speaker 1: mother he ever saw. Her mother simply started crying and said,

1589
01:23:28,760 --> 01:23:32,599
Speaker 1: I'm her own mother. We treat her like a queen.

1590
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:34,120
Speaker 2: She lied to you.

1591
01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 1: She doesn't have cancer. He's like, what to have? She

1592
01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 1: has hair falling out and balaling. She's going to Keemo sessions.

1593
01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:43,559
Speaker 1: Why you liing her?

1594
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:43,760
Speaker 2: Mom?

1595
01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:48,679
Speaker 1: Saying what you believed her. She has PCOD, not cancer.

1596
01:23:48,760 --> 01:23:50,760
Speaker 1: She's overweight because PCOD.

1597
01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:51,120
Speaker 2: What's that?

1598
01:23:51,600 --> 01:23:55,559
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know, diabetes not cancer. My daughter cheated

1599
01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:59,720
Speaker 1: on her fiance with you, and you trusted her. I

1600
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:02,599
Speaker 1: did take your relationship seriously. But she's a liar.

1601
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:05,439
Speaker 4: Okay, I understand now, I get it. I get what.

1602
01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:08,680
Speaker 1: That's what the mom is saying, Ye to Beth, to

1603
01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:12,400
Speaker 1: Ryan Me and Ricky confronted Beth in the same room.

1604
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:15,560
Speaker 1: She stayed silent, not even having one percent guilt on

1605
01:24:15,640 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 1: her face, and she smiled. Ricky apologized the best mom

1606
01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:23,160
Speaker 1: and tried to talk to Beth, but she kicked him out.

1607
01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:26,200
Speaker 1: I felt very vulnerable for Ricky crying on the corner

1608
01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:30,639
Speaker 1: of the street. My big brother was crying. Where the brother,

1609
01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:33,240
Speaker 1: because he truly loved.

1610
01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:34,759
Speaker 4: Her, treated her like a little sister.

1611
01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:37,680
Speaker 1: After one week, Beth calls Ricky to tell him she

1612
01:24:37,840 --> 01:24:38,960
Speaker 1: lied and she wants to have.

1613
01:24:38,920 --> 01:24:44,800
Speaker 2: An open relationship. She said.

1614
01:24:44,840 --> 01:24:47,760
Speaker 1: He was disgusted of her. It's so sickening. She was

1615
01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:50,720
Speaker 1: still expecting a relationship, and she's already been seeing a

1616
01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:52,759
Speaker 1: guy for a month, and she likes the new guy.

1617
01:24:53,080 --> 01:24:55,840
Speaker 1: A new guy, by the way, joined us live every

1618
01:24:55,840 --> 01:24:58,880
Speaker 1: weekday through PMPs. Ron next day at school, I sorry

1619
01:24:58,960 --> 01:25:01,120
Speaker 1: trying to initiate a convers I called her a bee

1620
01:25:01,160 --> 01:25:03,280
Speaker 1: who lies and elopes with men, and cheats on every

1621
01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:05,839
Speaker 1: man possible, and lies to her best friend just for sympathy.

1622
01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:12,600
Speaker 1: And she's much lower than rock Bottom. She's no good, she's.

1623
01:25:11,400 --> 01:25:12,120
Speaker 2: For no good.

1624
01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:15,599
Speaker 1: I really trusted her all the time, and I felt foolish.

1625
01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 1: Beth and me never met again till today. I was

1626
01:25:20,960 --> 01:25:23,760
Speaker 1: with my brother Ricky during a rough phase. It took

1627
01:25:23,800 --> 01:25:26,160
Speaker 1: him two years to move on from her. He's now

1628
01:25:26,200 --> 01:25:32,640
Speaker 1: a doctor. We're gonna joke and he's engaged with the

1629
01:25:32,680 --> 01:25:35,759
Speaker 1: person he loves. But the irony is his new fiance

1630
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:41,840
Speaker 1: is me and look back to this day, laugh but

1631
01:25:41,880 --> 01:25:43,439
Speaker 1: feel empathy for each other.

1632
01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:45,320
Speaker 4: I love this.

1633
01:25:46,280 --> 01:25:51,599
Speaker 2: No, you don't know. You don't this story. You chose

1634
01:25:51,720 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 2: this story.

1635
01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:53,559
Speaker 4: They didn't. I didn't choose.

1636
01:25:53,760 --> 01:25:59,480
Speaker 2: You chose. I approved, you proved this story.

1637
01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:02,479
Speaker 4: Sorry, I was really sleepdrive.

1638
01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:05,240
Speaker 2: What is this fun? I liked it?

1639
01:26:05,920 --> 01:26:10,720
Speaker 4: I liked it. I loved it.

1640
01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:14,920
Speaker 2: Like I am. I am. I am telling the person

1641
01:26:15,040 --> 01:26:18,559
Speaker 2: that this is not good. I liked it, though, dude, this.

1642
01:26:18,560 --> 01:26:21,760
Speaker 4: Is blame it on me. I approved it.

1643
01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:26,360
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, what is the story? Amen? Dutchess.

1644
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:31,519
Speaker 1: Can you copy that and send that to Luke and

1645
01:26:31,560 --> 01:26:32,880
Speaker 1: say less like this?

1646
01:26:37,600 --> 01:26:39,760
Speaker 4: The whole thing reads? What that story about?

1647
01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:42,639
Speaker 1: Le g what just happened? I have no idea.

1648
01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:45,639
Speaker 4: I understood all of that. What are you talking about here?

1649
01:26:46,080 --> 01:26:50,760
Speaker 2: You understood none of that? Oh my god, here you go.

1650
01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:54,120
Speaker 2: Take this swah.

1651
01:26:55,680 --> 01:27:00,920
Speaker 1: Uh. Everyone in the story is thirteen low say with

1652
01:27:00,960 --> 01:27:03,080
Speaker 1: our kidney is this story ends with the leper consciation,

1653
01:27:03,160 --> 01:27:09,000
Speaker 1: tigers out of the cabinet. Yeah, Georgia Cooper took a dab.

1654
01:27:09,120 --> 01:27:11,640
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. Was gone giants, milk was

1655
01:27:11,640 --> 01:27:13,640
Speaker 1: gone for five to ten minutes. What did you miss?

1656
01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:18,479
Speaker 1: Not much? Not much? This was is Uh that story

1657
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:25,240
Speaker 1: got through our process. We apologize for that.

1658
01:27:25,479 --> 01:27:27,200
Speaker 2: I know we're patching it.

1659
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:30,040
Speaker 1: We're patching it.

1660
01:27:31,360 --> 01:27:36,160
Speaker 2: Wow, Wow, I have there.

1661
01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:39,720
Speaker 1: This is that is probably the worst story that I

1662
01:27:39,760 --> 01:27:47,880
Speaker 1: have read in years, I think in years. I love it.

1663
01:27:47,960 --> 01:27:49,920
Speaker 4: Okay, I just wanted to just let you know I

1664
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:53,400
Speaker 4: was jetlagged. I didn't sleep at all yesterday.

1665
01:27:54,439 --> 01:27:57,200
Speaker 2: Would you approve these yesterday that.

1666
01:27:57,600 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 4: I told you I was jet ACKed? Jeli but says

1667
01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:03,200
Speaker 4: is okay, it was funny. I agree, it was funny.

1668
01:28:03,360 --> 01:28:08,960
Speaker 1: Don't Hey, no excuses, no excuses, Yeah, mj grow. We

1669
01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:11,120
Speaker 1: only want the best quality for you guys.

1670
01:28:12,600 --> 01:28:17,240
Speaker 4: All right, let's get into it. My best friend's husband

1671
01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:20,479
Speaker 4: was rude to me before my wedding, so I uninvited them.

1672
01:28:20,880 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 1: Well, obviously you're gonna uninvite if they're rude.

1673
01:28:27,920 --> 01:28:29,559
Speaker 2: Sam's taking no more bs right now.

1674
01:28:29,840 --> 01:28:33,080
Speaker 7: Obviously you would not invite them, don't for that.

1675
01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like that's very it's a very straightforward.

1676
01:28:37,880 --> 01:28:39,240
Speaker 4: Do you not like the titles?

1677
01:28:39,680 --> 01:28:42,880
Speaker 7: Okay, we're gonna change the title because some thinks it's

1678
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:43,960
Speaker 7: too straightforward.

1679
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:44,639
Speaker 2: What do you want?

1680
01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:55,320
Speaker 7: My best friend friend's husband divorced me. My best friend's

1681
01:28:55,360 --> 01:28:57,759
Speaker 7: husband sucks, so.

1682
01:28:57,680 --> 01:29:02,840
Speaker 4: I kicked the wedding. What do you want to do me, Sam?

1683
01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:06,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's too late now wa wanted the bee.

1684
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:08,800
Speaker 4: It's not too late. We can do it right now.

1685
01:29:10,800 --> 01:29:12,719
Speaker 2: He's going insane.

1686
01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:16,160
Speaker 4: Let's see what happened. Let me read the story. We

1687
01:29:16,200 --> 01:29:21,720
Speaker 4: can change it. My best friend's husband, you know what? Done?

1688
01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:22,599
Speaker 4: I'm done.

1689
01:29:24,760 --> 01:29:27,679
Speaker 2: Twenty four I'm done.

1690
01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:32,439
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm done, all right? I twenty three female got

1691
01:29:32,439 --> 01:29:38,599
Speaker 4: engaged December twenty twenty two. My wedding.

1692
01:29:42,920 --> 01:29:44,439
Speaker 2: What has happened? We broke her?

1693
01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:52,800
Speaker 4: My wedding ded is one? Oh my god. My wedding

1694
01:29:52,920 --> 01:30:00,800
Speaker 4: dae was June twenty ninth. That's my birthday, twenty twenty four.

1695
01:30:01,680 --> 01:30:04,400
Speaker 4: I asked my best friend twenty three female female to

1696
01:30:04,520 --> 01:30:07,080
Speaker 4: be my maid of honor in June twenty twenty three.

1697
01:30:07,640 --> 01:30:09,720
Speaker 4: It was a no brainer for me. She was my

1698
01:30:09,800 --> 01:30:13,400
Speaker 4: best friend. In September twenty twenty three, we started planning

1699
01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:17,080
Speaker 4: my bachelorette. By the way, this comes from fyw Kanjun

1700
01:30:17,640 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 4: on the r slash Okay story Time Sabreddett. So I

1701
01:30:21,439 --> 01:30:24,360
Speaker 4: wanted to go to the beach, and all my bride's aids,

1702
01:30:24,600 --> 01:30:28,000
Speaker 4: all my bridesmaids were down. We decided on Memorial Day

1703
01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:30,200
Speaker 4: weekend and that we would fly slash drive down there

1704
01:30:30,320 --> 01:30:33,479
Speaker 4: that Thursday and come back on Memorial Day Monday. So

1705
01:30:33,600 --> 01:30:36,519
Speaker 4: myself and all my bridesmaids took off work that Thursday

1706
01:30:36,520 --> 01:30:39,920
Speaker 4: and Friday, January twenty twenty four. We were wanting to

1707
01:30:39,920 --> 01:30:42,160
Speaker 4: book something and we were pretty set on what we

1708
01:30:42,160 --> 01:30:44,760
Speaker 4: were going to go with. My best friend texted me

1709
01:30:44,840 --> 01:30:47,000
Speaker 4: asking to move the date because of her summer clinical

1710
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:50,400
Speaker 4: and she's in nursing school. I said no. I felt awful,

1711
01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 4: but myself and all the girls had already taken off work,

1712
01:30:53,400 --> 01:30:55,519
Speaker 4: and with my wedding being in June and my batch

1713
01:30:55,600 --> 01:30:58,640
Speaker 4: party in May, there was no other time to reschedule

1714
01:30:58,680 --> 01:31:01,200
Speaker 4: it too. I wanted to move it to June, but

1715
01:31:01,240 --> 01:31:02,800
Speaker 4: there was no way I could make that work with

1716
01:31:02,840 --> 01:31:06,160
Speaker 4: my wedding on the twenty ninth. I had so much

1717
01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:09,920
Speaker 4: going on that month. Wait, so they're scheduling her friend's

1718
01:31:09,920 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 4: trying to schedule the batch party. Is that what I read?

1719
01:31:13,080 --> 01:31:16,920
Speaker 4: I think so, yes, Okay, that's when our relationship began

1720
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:20,200
Speaker 4: to get rocky. We talked less and less. When we did,

1721
01:31:20,240 --> 01:31:22,960
Speaker 4: we were very short with each other. I even texted

1722
01:31:22,960 --> 01:31:25,000
Speaker 4: her and told her if she wanted to step down

1723
01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:28,720
Speaker 4: from the maid of honor roll she could, WHOA the

1724
01:31:28,760 --> 01:31:33,000
Speaker 4: big that's a big deal. I even texted her, Oh,

1725
01:31:33,040 --> 01:31:36,519
Speaker 4: I really meant nothing by it. I don't know if

1726
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:39,559
Speaker 4: that statement can mean nothing. I feel like that's a

1727
01:31:39,560 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 4: big thing. Okay, that's a big deal potentially. Okay, Sam's

1728
01:31:45,280 --> 01:31:49,720
Speaker 4: not even commenting now, No, I have got whatever. I

1729
01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:52,240
Speaker 4: really meant nothing by it. She was in nursing school

1730
01:31:52,280 --> 01:31:54,639
Speaker 4: and also in the process of moving into a new house,

1731
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:57,720
Speaker 4: and I know how time consuming and expensive being made

1732
01:31:57,760 --> 01:32:02,240
Speaker 4: of honor and be I truly thought it would take

1733
01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:04,160
Speaker 4: a little off her plate, and I told her that,

1734
01:32:04,280 --> 01:32:07,000
Speaker 4: but she said she was fine. She was even trying

1735
01:32:07,000 --> 01:32:09,360
Speaker 4: to plan a shower for me and offered to have

1736
01:32:09,400 --> 01:32:12,240
Speaker 4: it at our sister's house as well as a brunch

1737
01:32:12,280 --> 01:32:14,880
Speaker 4: with the wedding party. Said she couldn't come to the bachelorette.

1738
01:32:15,200 --> 01:32:18,439
Speaker 4: I thought maybe things were turning around, but here we go.

1739
01:32:19,200 --> 01:32:22,280
Speaker 4: On a random Tuesday morning in February, I received a

1740
01:32:22,320 --> 01:32:25,840
Speaker 4: message from her husband twenty two mail on snatch at

1741
01:32:26,600 --> 01:32:29,920
Speaker 4: that says, I'm gonna need you to figure your crap out.

1742
01:32:30,120 --> 01:32:34,040
Speaker 4: I'm tired of insert her name stressing about your terrible

1743
01:32:34,040 --> 01:32:36,760
Speaker 4: wedding event planning. It's a little messed up to have

1744
01:32:36,800 --> 01:32:38,400
Speaker 4: her be your maid of honor and she'd be the

1745
01:32:38,479 --> 01:32:42,040
Speaker 4: last priority for all your planning, and don't you think Yeah.

1746
01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:45,639
Speaker 4: I was absolutely floored, and I was working, and all

1747
01:32:45,680 --> 01:32:48,960
Speaker 4: I responded back with was I'm sorry. What I called

1748
01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:51,679
Speaker 4: my husband, my fiance at the time, also twenty three mail,

1749
01:32:52,040 --> 01:32:56,200
Speaker 4: because here's another kicker. They were also best friends. Oh

1750
01:32:56,240 --> 01:33:02,760
Speaker 4: my god, you're useless. My husband confronted him about the

1751
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:06,120
Speaker 4: message I received from him, told him it was not okay.

1752
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:10,440
Speaker 4: Of course, he backed down and apologized to my husband,

1753
01:33:10,800 --> 01:33:14,840
Speaker 4: not to me, misogynist. I was so shocked by this.

1754
01:33:16,240 --> 01:33:18,559
Speaker 4: I was so shocked by this because she had not

1755
01:33:18,760 --> 01:33:21,160
Speaker 4: once brought up any kind of concern to me, and

1756
01:33:21,240 --> 01:33:24,360
Speaker 4: we were best friends that whole day. I waited for

1757
01:33:24,400 --> 01:33:27,559
Speaker 4: a text recall from her, hoping she'd explain the situation,

1758
01:33:28,160 --> 01:33:34,360
Speaker 4: but nothing. I was pure. I think that the friend.

1759
01:33:34,400 --> 01:33:37,559
Speaker 4: Sounds like she's just not very confrontational, and she was

1760
01:33:37,600 --> 01:33:39,479
Speaker 4: trying to be like a people pleaser and be like,

1761
01:33:39,479 --> 01:33:40,880
Speaker 4: oh no, I could be the maid of honor, even

1762
01:33:40,920 --> 01:33:45,599
Speaker 4: though she's super stressed, and so she's probably complaining about

1763
01:33:45,600 --> 01:33:47,719
Speaker 4: this to her husband, and her husband like not really

1764
01:33:47,800 --> 01:33:50,800
Speaker 4: listening to the actual issue, and he goes after a

1765
01:33:50,920 --> 01:33:56,400
Speaker 4: p I feel like it could be true, like I'm

1766
01:33:56,400 --> 01:34:03,639
Speaker 4: gonna I'm all alone in an empty room. Uh. That

1767
01:34:03,760 --> 01:34:06,400
Speaker 4: whole day I waited for a text or call from her,

1768
01:34:06,520 --> 01:34:11,040
Speaker 4: hoping she'd explain the situation, but nothing. I was furious.

1769
01:34:11,640 --> 01:34:14,400
Speaker 4: The next morning, I sent her a text, you need

1770
01:34:14,439 --> 01:34:17,160
Speaker 4: to call me regarding the message I received from your husband.

1771
01:34:17,439 --> 01:34:21,240
Speaker 4: Her response, I need to call you. You can call him.

1772
01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:28,000
Speaker 4: What this is horrible? What's this communication going on? So?

1773
01:34:28,080 --> 01:34:31,000
Speaker 4: I called her that night told her no one, especially

1774
01:34:31,040 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 4: someone's husband, would talk to me that way. I told

1775
01:34:34,280 --> 01:34:37,600
Speaker 4: her it was rude and disrespectful. I told her I

1776
01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:39,519
Speaker 4: thought we were best friends and she could come to

1777
01:34:39,600 --> 01:34:42,200
Speaker 4: me with anything, but why did her husband have to

1778
01:34:42,200 --> 01:34:45,760
Speaker 4: get involved, especially because I had no idea she was

1779
01:34:45,760 --> 01:34:49,400
Speaker 4: feeling this way. Her response, she said she saw no

1780
01:34:49,479 --> 01:34:51,800
Speaker 4: problem with what he said to me, and she has

1781
01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:55,519
Speaker 4: no control over messages. She also said she felt betrayed

1782
01:34:55,560 --> 01:34:58,400
Speaker 4: and left out. She kept asking what about me, I'm

1783
01:34:58,400 --> 01:35:01,240
Speaker 4: the maid of honor. This is when I became even

1784
01:35:01,400 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 4: more mad. I told her it was my wedding and

1785
01:35:03,960 --> 01:35:08,040
Speaker 4: my bachelorette. The conversation really went nowhere and we ended

1786
01:35:08,120 --> 01:35:12,200
Speaker 4: up Yeah, she can't. I think it's it's ridiculous that

1787
01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:16,680
Speaker 4: the friend is using her husband as like, you know,

1788
01:35:17,240 --> 01:35:21,840
Speaker 4: to to discuss her issue. What she should be bringing

1789
01:35:21,840 --> 01:35:24,719
Speaker 4: for forward to op like she should be as her friend,

1790
01:35:24,800 --> 01:35:28,080
Speaker 4: she should be able to talk about her problems and

1791
01:35:28,080 --> 01:35:31,800
Speaker 4: stuff with Ope, rather than having someone else you know.

1792
01:35:33,200 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 2: You think about that, Sam completely agree, Just leave, Just leave.

1793
01:35:38,280 --> 01:35:41,720
Speaker 4: Kimberly finds this cheating OPI is the most believable alibi

1794
01:35:42,000 --> 01:35:44,479
Speaker 4: time wise, but the husbands are besties, and op would

1795
01:35:44,520 --> 01:35:46,439
Speaker 4: throw a wrench in it because she's sure for sure

1796
01:35:46,520 --> 01:35:50,840
Speaker 4: tell her husband who's cheating.

1797
01:35:51,160 --> 01:35:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm honestly not really following that.

1798
01:35:53,720 --> 01:35:56,920
Speaker 4: I don't think you're following anything. This story isn't even

1799
01:35:56,960 --> 01:36:04,360
Speaker 4: hard to follow. Op basically was like, Opie's friend is

1800
01:36:04,439 --> 01:36:10,160
Speaker 4: super busy with like with her work and doesn't have

1801
01:36:10,200 --> 01:36:13,360
Speaker 4: a lot of time, and so OPI said Hey, you

1802
01:36:13,360 --> 01:36:14,920
Speaker 4: don't have to be my maid of honor if you

1803
01:36:14,920 --> 01:36:17,320
Speaker 4: don't have time for it. And the girl was like, no, no, no,

1804
01:36:17,240 --> 01:36:21,280
Speaker 4: I'll do it. Uh. And then her husband reached out

1805
01:36:21,280 --> 01:36:25,439
Speaker 4: to Opie like, how dare you make this so hard

1806
01:36:25,479 --> 01:36:29,280
Speaker 4: for my wife, even though Opie gave her.

1807
01:36:29,160 --> 01:36:31,800
Speaker 1: An out right okay, yeah, I'm here.

1808
01:36:32,360 --> 01:36:32,839
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1809
01:36:33,400 --> 01:36:39,080
Speaker 4: The following morning, oh wait, the conversation really went nowhere

1810
01:36:39,200 --> 01:36:42,360
Speaker 4: and we ended up hanging up. The following morning, I

1811
01:36:42,479 --> 01:36:46,439
Speaker 4: receive yet another message from her husband. First of all,

1812
01:36:46,640 --> 01:36:48,559
Speaker 4: I don't care if you're a girl or a guy.

1813
01:36:49,120 --> 01:36:51,679
Speaker 4: I'll talk to you in the same way. I will

1814
01:36:51,720 --> 01:36:55,960
Speaker 4: not apologize for what I said, but apologize for making

1815
01:36:56,000 --> 01:36:59,639
Speaker 4: you upset. If insert her name continues to beat upset

1816
01:36:59,640 --> 01:37:02,760
Speaker 4: over your we just won't come. I will ruin me

1817
01:37:03,040 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 4: and insert my husband's names friendship. I really don't care.

1818
01:37:06,960 --> 01:37:10,320
Speaker 4: At this point, I'm done. My husband and I then

1819
01:37:10,360 --> 01:37:13,080
Speaker 4: agree to remove them both from the wedding party, which

1820
01:37:13,120 --> 01:37:16,200
Speaker 4: makes sense. The text I cent her that night stated,

1821
01:37:16,280 --> 01:37:19,400
Speaker 4: I really don't know where all this miscommunication came from

1822
01:37:19,560 --> 01:37:23,040
Speaker 4: that escalated to this point between all of us. Unfortunately,

1823
01:37:23,120 --> 01:37:26,120
Speaker 4: I just cannot continue with someone who allows their significant

1824
01:37:26,120 --> 01:37:29,360
Speaker 4: other to disrespect me as a woman, and that last

1825
01:37:29,360 --> 01:37:31,240
Speaker 4: thing I need, and that the last thing I need

1826
01:37:31,439 --> 01:37:33,840
Speaker 4: is at my wedding is someone who is making it

1827
01:37:33,880 --> 01:37:36,679
Speaker 4: all about them. But I don't think we'll ever see

1828
01:37:36,680 --> 01:37:39,320
Speaker 4: eye to eye on this. After some reflection insert my

1829
01:37:39,360 --> 01:37:42,080
Speaker 4: husband's name, and I think it's best if we move

1830
01:37:42,120 --> 01:37:44,280
Speaker 4: on with the wedding without y'all and we all go

1831
01:37:44,400 --> 01:37:47,040
Speaker 4: our separate ways. There's no need for a response from

1832
01:37:47,040 --> 01:37:50,400
Speaker 4: either of you. Best of luck and blessings to you guys.

1833
01:37:50,960 --> 01:37:53,599
Speaker 4: He calls me immediately. I like that best of luck,

1834
01:37:53,760 --> 01:37:58,800
Speaker 4: blessings after being like your uninvited wedding, I'm gonna talk

1835
01:37:58,840 --> 01:38:03,360
Speaker 4: to Riley. Yeah, this is yeah, just get rid of them.

1836
01:38:03,400 --> 01:38:06,320
Speaker 4: They're rude to you, They're causing drama. You gave them

1837
01:38:06,320 --> 01:38:09,240
Speaker 4: an out, no respect. Just get the get rid of them.

1838
01:38:10,800 --> 01:38:12,439
Speaker 4: I hopefully you can find a new native honor.

1839
01:38:12,800 --> 01:38:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't have any sisters.

1840
01:38:16,160 --> 01:38:20,360
Speaker 4: I don't know they have, not said hopefully or another friend.

1841
01:38:21,040 --> 01:38:21,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1842
01:38:21,960 --> 01:38:23,599
Speaker 4: By the way, you can join us live on YouTube

1843
01:38:23,600 --> 01:38:27,080
Speaker 4: every weekday at three pm just at our profile. But

1844
01:38:27,120 --> 01:38:29,240
Speaker 4: there's a little bit more of this story and some

1845
01:38:29,360 --> 01:38:33,040
Speaker 4: releman comments to finish this off, I don't answer. So

1846
01:38:33,120 --> 01:38:36,479
Speaker 4: this is the best friend calls after she's uninvited. Opie

1847
01:38:36,520 --> 01:38:39,120
Speaker 4: doesn't answer, but after about six or seven calls, I

1848
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:41,760
Speaker 4: answer and she's sobbing, saying how she can't lose me

1849
01:38:41,760 --> 01:38:44,599
Speaker 4: as a friend and is sorry. I don't really buy it.

1850
01:38:45,200 --> 01:38:47,040
Speaker 4: I told her maybe we could work on things, but

1851
01:38:47,080 --> 01:38:50,960
Speaker 4: I'm still very hurt by the situation. We haven't spoken

1852
01:38:51,040 --> 01:38:53,800
Speaker 4: since I got married about a month ago, and it

1853
01:38:53,880 --> 01:38:57,920
Speaker 4: was absolutely perfect, no drama, no words from them. But

1854
01:38:57,960 --> 01:39:00,840
Speaker 4: I still sometimes think about this. I don't regret my

1855
01:39:00,880 --> 01:39:02,759
Speaker 4: decision at all and think it was for the best,

1856
01:39:03,479 --> 01:39:06,240
Speaker 4: but was I the a whole? And there are some

1857
01:39:06,400 --> 01:39:07,280
Speaker 4: relevant comments.

1858
01:39:07,960 --> 01:39:12,760
Speaker 2: It's weird that she it feels like the friend was

1859
01:39:12,800 --> 01:39:14,840
Speaker 2: like it's either my way or no way, and then

1860
01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:16,200
Speaker 2: as soon as she didn't get it, she was like.

1861
01:39:16,160 --> 01:39:18,840
Speaker 4: Oh, no way, actually yeah, like actually don't want to

1862
01:39:18,880 --> 01:39:21,040
Speaker 4: lose you. Yeah, Because she was she was kind of

1863
01:39:21,040 --> 01:39:23,640
Speaker 4: putting this ultimatum of we're not going to come to

1864
01:39:23,800 --> 01:39:27,840
Speaker 4: like kind of all our baby bluffing a little bit,

1865
01:39:27,920 --> 01:39:29,720
Speaker 4: saying we're not going to come to the wedding if

1866
01:39:29,760 --> 01:39:34,200
Speaker 4: you don't cater to my needs. And OPI was like, okay, fine,

1867
01:39:34,200 --> 01:39:38,760
Speaker 4: don't come to the wedding boom and she's like, no, yeah,

1868
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:40,760
Speaker 4: OPI is not the a whole get rid of these

1869
01:39:40,800 --> 01:39:44,040
Speaker 4: people there. They make everything about them and they don't

1870
01:39:44,080 --> 01:39:46,439
Speaker 4: communicate well. And it is your day. It's your day,

1871
01:39:46,760 --> 01:39:48,360
Speaker 4: it's your day, it's not her day.

1872
01:39:48,960 --> 01:39:50,439
Speaker 2: It's so hard to lose a friend like that.

1873
01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:51,839
Speaker 4: It is. It's really annoying.

1874
01:39:51,880 --> 01:39:53,320
Speaker 2: It has to be signs before this too.

1875
01:39:53,479 --> 01:39:57,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, like was this was she constantly making things about

1876
01:39:57,560 --> 01:40:01,559
Speaker 4: her and expecting you want to cater you know, their

1877
01:40:01,840 --> 01:40:04,280
Speaker 4: schedules and stuff around her. Or is this first time

1878
01:40:04,320 --> 01:40:06,599
Speaker 4: because I can't imagine it was the first time.

1879
01:40:06,760 --> 01:40:08,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, the little thing.

1880
01:40:08,840 --> 01:40:14,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, relevant comments. Just to clear some things up. Number one,

1881
01:40:14,479 --> 01:40:17,559
Speaker 4: we all agreed on Memorial Day weekend in September, and

1882
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:19,920
Speaker 4: she asked if we could change it four months later

1883
01:40:20,000 --> 01:40:30,160
Speaker 4: in January, because apparently that's when she got her summer's schedule.

1884
01:40:30,960 --> 01:40:35,679
Speaker 4: What what He's like, hey, like sending out the wedding invite.

1885
01:40:35,720 --> 01:40:39,520
Speaker 4: She's like, hey, we're having it in June or in September,

1886
01:40:40,040 --> 01:40:42,400
Speaker 4: and she's like, actually, could you just scooch it? Like

1887
01:40:42,960 --> 01:40:45,280
Speaker 4: four months for me makes no sense.

1888
01:40:45,439 --> 01:40:48,639
Speaker 2: Everyone's free Memorial Day unless you yeah, unless you went

1889
01:40:48,840 --> 01:40:51,599
Speaker 2: a waitress or like working the people industry.

1890
01:40:54,160 --> 01:40:57,760
Speaker 4: She had already agreed to Memorial Day weekend. I said no,

1891
01:40:57,960 --> 01:41:00,920
Speaker 4: because at this point I had already been planned. It

1892
01:41:00,960 --> 01:41:04,000
Speaker 4: had already been planned. Of course I was upset. She

1893
01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:06,840
Speaker 4: said she couldn't make it work, but again, the trip

1894
01:41:06,920 --> 01:41:09,839
Speaker 4: was going to be on the overall holiday end. Myself

1895
01:41:09,880 --> 01:41:13,320
Speaker 4: and my other bridesmaids tried talking to her, talking her

1896
01:41:13,320 --> 01:41:16,800
Speaker 4: into flying down on Saturday or Friday after school number two.

1897
01:41:17,080 --> 01:41:19,240
Speaker 4: All of this was done over the phone because they

1898
01:41:19,240 --> 01:41:22,080
Speaker 4: live out of state. She moved away because her husband

1899
01:41:22,160 --> 01:41:28,599
Speaker 4: is in the military. Imagine that. Imagine that. And that

1900
01:41:29,880 --> 01:41:33,000
Speaker 4: is the end of that story and the end of

1901
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:34,960
Speaker 4: this episode.

1902
01:41:35,000 --> 01:41:39,320
Speaker 2: We still have one more bank. We're gonna We're gonna

1903
01:41:39,320 --> 01:41:44,280
Speaker 2: bring back Sam back with very interesting calling. This will

1904
01:41:44,280 --> 01:41:50,280
Speaker 2: bring him back. Everyone itude my I could just I can't.

1905
01:41:50,320 --> 01:41:53,240
Speaker 2: I couldn't comprehend a single word of that story. I

1906
01:41:53,280 --> 01:41:54,560
Speaker 2: think it was the woodspads.

1907
01:41:55,880 --> 01:42:01,000
Speaker 1: I was trying multiple times, and I just couldn't. I

1908
01:42:01,080 --> 01:42:04,200
Speaker 1: couldn't do it, Bath, I just couldn't do it.

1909
01:42:05,760 --> 01:42:07,840
Speaker 4: I didn't like like wash some like a walk, put

1910
01:42:07,880 --> 01:42:08,880
Speaker 4: some water on your face?

1911
01:42:09,920 --> 01:42:12,240
Speaker 2: What okay?

1912
01:42:12,479 --> 01:42:15,719
Speaker 4: I've been all right, all right, dude.

1913
01:42:15,560 --> 01:42:20,000
Speaker 1: But you will, Olin, I'm I'm excited.

1914
01:42:21,640 --> 01:42:25,240
Speaker 2: So uh basically everyone, Wait, what was this calling about Tuesdays? Colin?

1915
01:42:25,360 --> 01:42:29,200
Speaker 2: Was about a murder? Oh yeah, this person best friend

1916
01:42:29,280 --> 01:42:32,800
Speaker 2: murdered like poor people were off. We can't say that

1917
01:42:32,800 --> 01:42:36,160
Speaker 2: we're oft. Yeah, all right, Dixie, you gotta make this

1918
01:42:36,880 --> 01:42:40,560
Speaker 2: as YouTube friendly as you can make it.

1919
01:42:40,640 --> 01:42:43,599
Speaker 1: Juicy but also juicy YouTube friendly.

1920
01:42:43,720 --> 01:42:45,160
Speaker 4: You too friendly is juicy?

1921
01:42:46,080 --> 01:42:48,680
Speaker 2: And I think this was on American Horror Story or

1922
01:42:49,120 --> 01:42:52,880
Speaker 2: was already on some TV show thing you're ringing her?

1923
01:42:53,120 --> 01:43:01,559
Speaker 2: I think it. I think Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, Dixie.

1924
01:43:01,560 --> 01:43:04,280
Speaker 2: How's it going great?

1925
01:43:05,000 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, he told us you had a friend that

1926
01:43:10,040 --> 01:43:11,719
Speaker 1: off four people.

1927
01:43:13,160 --> 01:43:16,679
Speaker 2: How did you find that out?

1928
01:43:18,800 --> 01:43:21,200
Speaker 3: Well? I was friends with this person. It was a

1929
01:43:21,240 --> 01:43:25,599
Speaker 3: male for about four years. He had lost his mother

1930
01:43:25,680 --> 01:43:30,200
Speaker 3: to cancer when he was really young. We were at

1931
01:43:30,240 --> 01:43:33,080
Speaker 3: a party one night and one of my exes had

1932
01:43:33,120 --> 01:43:37,240
Speaker 3: threatened me, and I guess he didn't take too kindly

1933
01:43:37,280 --> 01:43:37,559
Speaker 3: to that.

1934
01:43:37,760 --> 01:43:38,000
Speaker 2: Well.

1935
01:43:39,000 --> 01:43:41,320
Speaker 3: I had went home and had worked the next day,

1936
01:43:42,439 --> 01:43:44,120
Speaker 3: so I was at worked for about eight hours, and

1937
01:43:44,160 --> 01:43:46,200
Speaker 3: then when I got home, one of his other friends

1938
01:43:46,200 --> 01:43:48,800
Speaker 3: had called me and said that he had held up

1939
01:43:48,840 --> 01:43:53,599
Speaker 3: everybody at a party for the last eight hours. So

1940
01:43:53,720 --> 01:43:57,479
Speaker 3: I called this friend and told him that he needed

1941
01:43:57,479 --> 01:43:58,360
Speaker 3: to let everybody go.

1942
01:43:59,840 --> 01:44:05,599
Speaker 1: You have to negotiate a hostage situation.

1943
01:44:06,360 --> 01:44:13,320
Speaker 3: Yes, for about eighteen people, eight hours. He held them

1944
01:44:13,320 --> 01:44:14,240
Speaker 3: for eight hours.

1945
01:44:14,479 --> 01:44:15,360
Speaker 2: What did you say?

1946
01:44:16,920 --> 01:44:19,120
Speaker 3: I just said, what are you nuts? Let everybody go home?

1947
01:44:20,680 --> 01:44:21,479
Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?

1948
01:44:21,960 --> 01:44:22,920
Speaker 3: Let people go home?

1949
01:44:23,560 --> 01:44:25,679
Speaker 4: Oh my god? And did he listen?

1950
01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:31,280
Speaker 3: Yeah? He listened. Yeah, he let everybody go. So I

1951
01:44:31,280 --> 01:44:32,320
Speaker 3: thought we were all okay.

1952
01:44:32,400 --> 01:44:35,720
Speaker 1: Well I ended up anyone called the police or no,

1953
01:44:36,760 --> 01:44:40,360
Speaker 1: just kind of let it go. That's just Jimmy, you know,

1954
01:44:41,080 --> 01:44:43,440
Speaker 1: silly Jimmy.

1955
01:44:43,760 --> 01:44:49,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll call him Nathan, the crazy one. Well, anyway,

1956
01:44:51,560 --> 01:44:54,320
Speaker 3: Nathan and I went to a party about a week later,

1957
01:44:55,360 --> 01:44:56,320
Speaker 3: and he ended.

1958
01:44:56,160 --> 01:44:58,120
Speaker 2: Up meeting party with him.

1959
01:44:59,200 --> 01:45:00,719
Speaker 3: I was friend with them for a a long time.

1960
01:45:00,800 --> 01:45:02,920
Speaker 3: He done a lot of crazy stuff, but we have

1961
01:45:02,960 --> 01:45:05,800
Speaker 3: a lot of crazy people around us. Apparently, because I

1962
01:45:05,880 --> 01:45:09,160
Speaker 3: ended up meeting another friend who had a girlfriend there, well,

1963
01:45:09,200 --> 01:45:12,200
Speaker 3: we became friends and I actually lived with her for

1964
01:45:12,280 --> 01:45:14,160
Speaker 3: about a year before I found out she was completely

1965
01:45:14,240 --> 01:45:18,760
Speaker 3: nuts too. Well, I moved home because we had moved

1966
01:45:18,760 --> 01:45:23,000
Speaker 3: different states. And when I moved home, apparently her and

1967
01:45:23,120 --> 01:45:26,280
Speaker 3: Nathan had gotten together and I didn't realize it because

1968
01:45:26,320 --> 01:45:27,920
Speaker 3: I was doing my own thing for about a year.

1969
01:45:29,960 --> 01:45:36,040
Speaker 3: So her and Nathan had a child together. Oh, and

1970
01:45:36,400 --> 01:45:40,240
Speaker 3: I guess she had made up some kind of story

1971
01:45:40,280 --> 01:45:45,160
Speaker 3: about Nathan's best friend and his brother and two girls

1972
01:45:45,160 --> 01:45:50,000
Speaker 3: that they happened to be with her, And I don't

1973
01:45:50,000 --> 01:45:50,720
Speaker 3: realize it was.

1974
01:45:51,240 --> 01:45:53,599
Speaker 1: Do what made up a story about cheating? Or what

1975
01:45:53,640 --> 01:45:54,639
Speaker 1: was the story they made up?

1976
01:45:54,840 --> 01:45:56,840
Speaker 3: We don't. I don't know for sure what the story

1977
01:45:56,880 --> 01:45:58,519
Speaker 3: was about. I wasn't able to talk to him after

1978
01:45:58,560 --> 01:46:02,439
Speaker 3: all this because he went to jail. Obvious that sense.

1979
01:46:02,479 --> 01:46:04,760
Speaker 3: He's been writing me letters, but I can't. They keep

1980
01:46:04,760 --> 01:46:06,880
Speaker 3: getting intercepted where my parents won't let me talk to

1981
01:46:06,960 --> 01:46:08,680
Speaker 3: him or nothing. I don't want you anyway. It's not

1982
01:46:08,680 --> 01:46:10,160
Speaker 3: like I have anything to say to him after all this.

1983
01:46:10,600 --> 01:46:14,639
Speaker 1: Okay, Well what happened? So there was something like there

1984
01:46:14,680 --> 01:46:16,000
Speaker 1: was some story told.

1985
01:46:15,840 --> 01:46:20,240
Speaker 3: Then, right about his best friend from childhood, Nathan's best

1986
01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:24,360
Speaker 3: friend from childhood. She'd made up this big story about him. Well,

1987
01:46:24,439 --> 01:46:27,240
Speaker 3: I guess he had called everybody together. Nathan had and

1988
01:46:27,320 --> 01:46:29,839
Speaker 3: met in the cornfield. I know we're very southern.

1989
01:46:30,400 --> 01:46:32,160
Speaker 2: Wait where a cornfield?

1990
01:46:33,120 --> 01:46:34,960
Speaker 3: They met in a cornfield? I was actually in Disney

1991
01:46:35,000 --> 01:46:39,320
Speaker 3: World at the time. I was not even in town, Florida. No,

1992
01:46:39,400 --> 01:46:42,439
Speaker 3: it's not in Florida. I was in Florida. I had

1993
01:46:42,479 --> 01:46:43,519
Speaker 3: went to Florida on vacation.

1994
01:46:43,920 --> 01:46:50,280
Speaker 2: Where where was this that Indiana Indian book? There's a book.

1995
01:46:53,200 --> 01:46:55,960
Speaker 3: But he had actually called a meeting with everybody to

1996
01:46:56,000 --> 01:47:03,240
Speaker 3: try to work it out. He ended up bringing a

1997
01:47:03,320 --> 01:47:07,640
Speaker 3: firearm and taking.

1998
01:47:07,280 --> 01:47:11,360
Speaker 2: Out all of them in the cornfield.

1999
01:47:12,240 --> 01:47:15,760
Speaker 3: Yes, there was one survivor who happened to be his

2000
01:47:15,800 --> 01:47:18,639
Speaker 3: best friend's little brother, who actually crawled his way out

2001
01:47:18,680 --> 01:47:24,519
Speaker 3: of it. And it was on America's Most Wanted Him

2002
01:47:24,520 --> 01:47:26,559
Speaker 3: stuff a week later. And actually I got a call

2003
01:47:26,600 --> 01:47:28,559
Speaker 3: from the police when I was in Florida asking me

2004
01:47:28,680 --> 01:47:35,679
Speaker 3: if I knew where he was because him and Nathan

2005
01:47:35,760 --> 01:47:40,559
Speaker 3: and we'll call her Megan, the wife went on the run. Oh,

2006
01:47:42,240 --> 01:47:43,840
Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm in Disney World. I have

2007
01:47:43,840 --> 01:47:44,920
Speaker 3: no idea, what's going on?

2008
01:47:46,120 --> 01:47:48,840
Speaker 2: Did you call him?

2009
01:47:49,040 --> 01:47:51,160
Speaker 3: No, he didn't. I didn't have his phone number. He

2010
01:47:51,160 --> 01:47:53,840
Speaker 3: took off on the run. That was back before we

2011
01:47:53,880 --> 01:47:54,880
Speaker 3: had cell phones all the time.

2012
01:47:56,960 --> 01:47:58,000
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.

2013
01:47:59,240 --> 01:47:59,439
Speaker 5: Yeah.

2014
01:47:59,439 --> 01:48:01,679
Speaker 1: And then how long after did he get caught?

2015
01:48:03,160 --> 01:48:05,200
Speaker 3: Oh, it was only I got back into town and

2016
01:48:05,240 --> 01:48:06,559
Speaker 3: I told him exactly where he'd be.

2017
01:48:07,720 --> 01:48:11,679
Speaker 1: So you led to him being caught. Yes, well, whoa,

2018
01:48:12,320 --> 01:48:13,400
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

2019
01:48:14,439 --> 01:48:14,639
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2020
01:48:14,640 --> 01:48:17,280
Speaker 3: And it was so ignorant because there's actually they built

2021
01:48:17,320 --> 01:48:20,560
Speaker 3: a house right behind his main house and through the woods.

2022
01:48:21,120 --> 01:48:22,920
Speaker 3: He had a house back there, and that's actually that

2023
01:48:23,000 --> 01:48:24,719
Speaker 3: bar into that house is where we used to party

2024
01:48:24,720 --> 01:48:27,800
Speaker 3: a lot. And I said, did you guys check the

2025
01:48:27,840 --> 01:48:30,040
Speaker 3: party barn? And he's like, what you mean? And I said,

2026
01:48:30,040 --> 01:48:32,479
Speaker 3: it's right next door to a DNR officer and nobody's

2027
01:48:32,520 --> 01:48:36,800
Speaker 3: got to look there. And he's like, can you take

2028
01:48:36,800 --> 01:48:38,400
Speaker 3: a ride with us so you can show us exactly

2029
01:48:38,400 --> 01:48:40,840
Speaker 3: where it's at. And I said, I guess. So we

2030
01:48:41,000 --> 01:48:42,720
Speaker 3: actually went out and that's where they were.

2031
01:48:44,040 --> 01:48:45,640
Speaker 2: Does he know that you turned him in?

2032
01:48:46,680 --> 01:48:47,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

2033
01:48:47,400 --> 01:48:50,679
Speaker 2: Oh no, does he like is he doesn't care?

2034
01:48:50,840 --> 01:48:53,439
Speaker 3: He doesn't. Yeah, he doesn't hold me responsible. He knew

2035
01:48:53,439 --> 01:48:54,479
Speaker 3: it was a matter of time.

2036
01:48:54,800 --> 01:48:57,639
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, is he going to be in jail for life?

2037
01:48:57,640 --> 01:48:58,519
Speaker 4: Well? Four people?

2038
01:48:58,840 --> 01:49:02,800
Speaker 3: He yeah, he fest he pled guilty and he is

2039
01:49:02,920 --> 01:49:04,320
Speaker 3: serving life.

2040
01:49:05,160 --> 01:49:05,519
Speaker 4: WHOA.

2041
01:49:05,960 --> 01:49:09,439
Speaker 3: Now his wife, who I think was the mastermind of

2042
01:49:09,479 --> 01:49:13,120
Speaker 3: it all because things happened that were not so nice

2043
01:49:13,120 --> 01:49:19,280
Speaker 3: to the bodies afterwards. Oh yeah, his wife. I think

2044
01:49:19,320 --> 01:49:22,200
Speaker 3: she took a part in it because she was not

2045
01:49:23,200 --> 01:49:25,360
Speaker 3: quite saying she did two years and was out. Now

2046
01:49:25,400 --> 01:49:30,040
Speaker 3: she's married and has three kids. Is that she's just

2047
01:49:30,080 --> 01:49:30,920
Speaker 3: walking around free?

2048
01:49:31,760 --> 01:49:34,760
Speaker 1: Wow, my goodness. Okay, so in.

2049
01:49:34,720 --> 01:49:37,240
Speaker 3: The same town that all these people have to grieve

2050
01:49:37,280 --> 01:49:39,639
Speaker 3: their lost children, she's walking around free.

2051
01:49:39,880 --> 01:49:42,240
Speaker 4: That's insane.

2052
01:49:42,479 --> 01:49:46,160
Speaker 2: That's who who married her?

2053
01:49:46,800 --> 01:49:50,400
Speaker 3: I don't know. She made sure that blocked me on everything,

2054
01:49:50,439 --> 01:49:54,240
Speaker 3: so I couldn't because I kept telling everybody what she did. Yeah,

2055
01:49:54,360 --> 01:49:57,479
Speaker 3: so she ended up blocking me, and god, I can't

2056
01:49:57,479 --> 01:49:58,320
Speaker 3: figure anything out.

2057
01:49:58,360 --> 01:50:03,160
Speaker 1: So did see from this experience?

2058
01:50:04,160 --> 01:50:04,639
Speaker 2: Have you.

2059
01:50:06,120 --> 01:50:09,679
Speaker 1: Become friends with less crazy people?

2060
01:50:10,760 --> 01:50:15,040
Speaker 3: I haven't become friends with anybody. I stay home now, honestly.

2061
01:50:15,160 --> 01:50:18,640
Speaker 1: After that, I understand, I understand.

2062
01:50:19,240 --> 01:50:21,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a couple of friends that her neighbors.

2063
01:50:21,920 --> 01:50:24,960
Speaker 3: That's about it. And then everybody online, Oh my goodness

2064
01:50:25,240 --> 01:50:26,280
Speaker 3: and crazy.

2065
01:50:26,640 --> 01:50:28,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2066
01:50:28,280 --> 01:50:30,760
Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for Paul.

2067
01:50:30,840 --> 01:50:31,120
Speaker 5: Again.

2068
01:50:31,360 --> 01:50:35,479
Speaker 2: That was a wild ride of a story, and one of.

2069
01:50:35,400 --> 01:50:37,720
Speaker 3: The state police officers actually wrote a book about it.

2070
01:50:37,920 --> 01:50:40,400
Speaker 3: I think it was called Killing the Cornfield or something

2071
01:50:40,439 --> 01:50:43,559
Speaker 3: like that. What is it called killing in the Cornfield,

2072
01:50:43,600 --> 01:50:44,760
Speaker 3: I believe is a story.

2073
01:50:44,520 --> 01:50:45,920
Speaker 1: On killing in the cornfield.

2074
01:50:46,840 --> 01:50:48,799
Speaker 3: I think that's what it was called. It was Indiana

2075
01:50:48,800 --> 01:50:50,920
Speaker 3: State Police officer that actually wrote the story. Now I

2076
01:50:51,000 --> 01:50:53,240
Speaker 3: understand I didn't read it, but I understand it wasn't

2077
01:50:53,280 --> 01:50:56,040
Speaker 3: real true to what happened, but it gives you the

2078
01:50:56,080 --> 01:50:59,960
Speaker 3: gist of what happened because he didn't have the end

2079
01:51:00,040 --> 01:51:01,240
Speaker 3: side information like I did.

2080
01:51:01,360 --> 01:51:04,160
Speaker 2: Oh, I see I see this on NBC News one

2081
01:51:04,240 --> 01:51:08,200
Speaker 2: hundred years in prison years. Wow, I see it.

2082
01:51:09,320 --> 01:51:13,680
Speaker 3: My goodness, well at least I mean it starts with

2083
01:51:13,720 --> 01:51:15,439
Speaker 3: an n. That's why I use the word Nathan. It's

2084
01:51:15,439 --> 01:51:17,720
Speaker 3: not Nathan, it's you'll see it on there.

2085
01:51:18,160 --> 01:51:18,439
Speaker 2: Wow.

2086
01:51:19,200 --> 01:51:22,840
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, thank you for calling in and calling us

2087
01:51:22,880 --> 01:51:27,360
Speaker 1: your story. I am my, My gabs are flabbered, My

2088
01:51:27,680 --> 01:51:32,320
Speaker 1: flabbers are gasted. Yeah. The chat said I had to

2089
01:51:32,360 --> 01:51:36,839
Speaker 1: pikach you face the whole time. That is true. Well, Dixie,

2090
01:51:36,880 --> 01:51:39,640
Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in and you have

2091
01:51:39,680 --> 01:51:44,280
Speaker 1: to go through that. But uh yeah, crazy story crazy.

2092
01:51:44,960 --> 01:51:46,439
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm really sorry for the family.

2093
01:51:46,479 --> 01:51:47,719
Speaker 2: So yeah too.

2094
01:51:48,000 --> 01:51:50,559
Speaker 1: Well, Dixie, thanks you so much for calling in, and

2095
01:51:50,840 --> 01:51:51,639
Speaker 1: we'll talk to you soon.

2096
01:51:51,720 --> 01:51:53,840
Speaker 2: We'll see you in the chat, all right.

2097
01:51:53,880 --> 01:51:54,559
Speaker 3: Thanks by.

2098
01:51:56,479 --> 01:52:00,240
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that story brought me back to life.

2099
01:52:01,560 --> 01:52:05,759
Speaker 2: I knew it would. Oh, we do a true com murder. Guys,

2100
01:52:05,880 --> 01:52:07,960
Speaker 2: what do you guys think? How do we handle that?

2101
01:52:10,840 --> 01:52:13,320
Speaker 2: I'm just supprised you didn't say damn, that sucks at all.

2102
01:52:13,479 --> 01:52:14,639
Speaker 2: Usually that's usually what you do.

2103
01:52:14,920 --> 01:52:17,920
Speaker 1: It does suck, It does suck.

2104
01:52:18,560 --> 01:52:20,040
Speaker 2: Wow. But yeah, I'm looking at it right here. On

2105
01:52:20,320 --> 01:52:25,360
Speaker 2: NBC they did an article on it. Are you guys?

2106
01:52:25,439 --> 01:52:26,639
Speaker 2: Are your flabbers gasted?

2107
01:52:26,720 --> 01:52:27,040
Speaker 1: Right now?

2108
01:52:27,200 --> 01:52:29,320
Speaker 2: Try him? It is insane. I got I got a

2109
01:52:29,360 --> 01:52:32,960
Speaker 2: picture of this dude's face. Don't show it, I guess right, well,

2110
01:52:33,800 --> 01:52:35,200
Speaker 2: you can look it up online.

2111
01:52:35,800 --> 01:52:36,439
Speaker 4: They can look it up.

2112
01:52:37,439 --> 01:52:43,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh dude, anyone can see this.

2113
01:52:43,160 --> 01:52:44,400
Speaker 1: Millions a chat for Dixie.

2114
01:52:44,560 --> 01:52:47,040
Speaker 2: Millions of people already seen this though, don't chat it.

2115
01:52:47,200 --> 01:52:47,720
Speaker 1: Don't show it?

2116
01:52:47,760 --> 01:52:49,240
Speaker 2: Still, Okay? Wow?

2117
01:52:49,640 --> 01:52:56,680
Speaker 1: I that that That was crazy? Yep, that was the story.

2118
01:52:56,720 --> 01:53:04,080
Speaker 1: Baby Wow. If you love us, make sure to subscribe.

2119
01:53:03,760 --> 01:53:09,799
Speaker 4: We love you and see you tomorrow. That was so sad.

2120
01:53:11,120 --> 01:53:14,960
Speaker 1: What a what a crazy episode we got? We got

2121
01:53:14,960 --> 01:53:18,960
Speaker 1: one more episode for you, guys, but that episode was crazy.

2122
01:53:22,000 --> 01:53:26,200
Speaker 2: I've heard words. I do kind of have a crazy story,

2123
01:53:26,200 --> 01:53:29,639
Speaker 2: but I don't know if I can tell it really

2124
01:53:31,640 --> 01:53:32,759
Speaker 2: all right, I'm gonna tell anywhere.

2125
01:53:34,840 --> 01:53:37,439
Speaker 1: So remember we should we should we save it for

2126
01:53:37,680 --> 01:53:38,439
Speaker 1: the end of this.

2127
01:53:38,800 --> 01:53:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, it's kind of quick, but I just tell it.

2128
01:53:43,760 --> 01:53:48,280
Speaker 2: Remember there was this guy in Atlanta that killed a

2129
01:53:48,320 --> 01:53:51,320
Speaker 2: bunch of people. Why am I saying this? I'm sorry,

2130
01:53:51,520 --> 01:53:57,000
Speaker 2: oft sorry, I'm not used to these consured words off

2131
01:53:57,040 --> 01:54:00,920
Speaker 2: the bunch of people in massage parlors because he had

2132
01:54:00,960 --> 01:54:03,800
Speaker 2: like a spicy sleep addiction and he would go to

2133
01:54:03,840 --> 01:54:08,519
Speaker 2: the massage parlors and he would like, uh, get hanky

2134
01:54:08,560 --> 01:54:11,280
Speaker 2: pinky stuff. And I know a guy that used to

2135
01:54:11,360 --> 01:54:13,479
Speaker 2: work with him, and he was he kind of like

2136
01:54:13,680 --> 01:54:15,840
Speaker 2: told the whole backstory leading up to it, and it

2137
01:54:15,920 --> 01:54:19,320
Speaker 2: was crazy. Oh my god. Just one day he did

2138
01:54:19,320 --> 01:54:21,840
Speaker 2: a flip and it was it was it because I

2139
01:54:21,880 --> 01:54:24,320
Speaker 2: think he had a bunch of guilt about it, and

2140
01:54:24,360 --> 01:54:25,840
Speaker 2: he was like, this is the only way I can

2141
01:54:25,920 --> 01:54:27,960
Speaker 2: like get through this guilt is if I do this.

2142
01:54:28,960 --> 01:54:32,080
Speaker 2: And he never worked with him again. It was crazy.

2143
01:54:32,960 --> 01:54:35,960
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my goodness.

2144
01:54:36,160 --> 01:54:38,800
Speaker 2: I don't even know we should do? Like, could do

2145
01:54:38,840 --> 01:54:40,400
Speaker 2: you think you could handle doing.

2146
01:54:43,880 --> 01:54:47,120
Speaker 4: I could probably do it, but Sam couldn't have to

2147
01:54:47,160 --> 01:54:47,640
Speaker 4: do it alone.

2148
01:54:48,280 --> 01:54:48,840
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

2149
01:54:49,000 --> 01:54:57,480
Speaker 4: I've seen the episode, Ye, the one true crime, our

2150
01:54:57,520 --> 01:55:00,320
Speaker 4: funniest episode. It's so funny?

2151
01:55:00,560 --> 01:55:03,440
Speaker 2: What's so funny? What would we have to do? We're

2152
01:55:03,480 --> 01:55:04,920
Speaker 2: gonna read some donuts here in a second, but what

2153
01:55:04,960 --> 01:55:07,200
Speaker 2: would we have to do in order to release the

2154
01:55:07,320 --> 01:55:10,880
Speaker 2: current hapween? Yeah? I don't know what would have to happen.

2155
01:55:10,920 --> 01:55:12,040
Speaker 4: I literally don't think we can.

2156
01:55:12,440 --> 01:55:14,440
Speaker 1: I don't I think I know what.

2157
01:55:14,520 --> 01:55:15,320
Speaker 4: I don't think we should.

2158
01:55:15,440 --> 01:55:18,640
Speaker 2: I don't think we should. It's two kurts to never

2159
01:55:18,880 --> 01:55:22,560
Speaker 2: as they see the light of day. Uh. Joseph Vidola Burquez.

2160
01:55:22,560 --> 01:55:24,480
Speaker 1: Thanks in twenty seven second, Sam, you look like an

2161
01:55:24,600 --> 01:55:29,800
Speaker 1: uncircumcised d with that jacket. Thanks Katie Hans and thanks

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Speaker 1: Right, I'm ready, all right. Also shout out Dixie for

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Speaker 1: crushing the story. Excellent, excellent storytelling. My mother in law

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Speaker 1: said she telepathically spoke to my unborn baby, so I'm

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Speaker 1: great title. Also, this story was posted directly to the

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Speaker 1: Okay story Time subreddit from a viewer that could be

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Speaker 1: in this room right now. It's from user nugs lets.

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01:57:29,440 --> 01:57:32,360
Speaker 1: So I thirty three female and my husband thirty three male.

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Speaker 1: I've been together for thirteen years, lived together for ten,

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Speaker 1: buried for five, and have a four year old son

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01:57:38,720 --> 01:57:40,920
Speaker 1: and a one year old daughter. So there's a three

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01:57:40,960 --> 01:57:45,440
Speaker 1: season Netflix documentary series worth of backstory with my mother

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01:57:45,480 --> 01:57:47,280
Speaker 1: in law. I'll do my best to give a quick

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01:57:47,320 --> 01:57:49,880
Speaker 1: list of the important events in chronological order, but no,

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01:57:50,440 --> 01:57:51,800
Speaker 1: there's plenty more.

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Speaker 2: From where this came from? Whence this came?

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Speaker 1: All was fine until we moved together after dating for

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Speaker 1: three years. Because that's when DH, what is what does

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Speaker 1: that mean?

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Speaker 2: Daughter?

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01:58:07,680 --> 01:58:12,360
Speaker 1: Dear husband stopped giving her access to his accounts and

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Speaker 1: stopped giving her money. Oh, stop giving the mother in

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Speaker 1: law's crazy. Here's the timeline of the big bad instance.

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Speaker 1: Three years mother in law emptied dear husband's account though

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01:58:25,640 --> 01:58:28,160
Speaker 1: we were broke college kids, so two thousand dollars went

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01:58:28,200 --> 01:58:30,480
Speaker 1: a long way. Then denied did and dear husband had

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01:58:30,520 --> 01:58:32,920
Speaker 1: to drive three hours to hometown to confront her. She

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01:58:33,000 --> 01:58:35,480
Speaker 1: ultimately gave the money back and he opened a new account.

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Speaker 1: Four years ago, mother in law got a small dog

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Speaker 1: for sister in law. She didn't want. Uh, she wouldn't

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Speaker 1: want the dog, so mother in law put a diaper

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Speaker 1: on the pup, kept her in a cage, and used

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Speaker 1: the dog to try guilty sister in law to move

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Speaker 1: back in with her. I and dear husband took the

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Speaker 1: dog away from her and re homed her. She was

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Speaker 1: upset because I cared more about the dog than her feelings. Yeah,

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01:59:00,160 --> 01:59:04,760
Speaker 1: I did, and still do. Makes sense because that dog

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01:59:05,440 --> 01:59:07,920
Speaker 1: is a bee. Yeah, and so is that dog, but

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01:59:08,000 --> 01:59:13,120
Speaker 1: in the fun dogway. Six years got upset about not

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01:59:13,280 --> 01:59:16,320
Speaker 1: using her old divorce wedding ring when we got engaged.

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01:59:16,360 --> 01:59:18,840
Speaker 1: She also tried setting up dear husband with a girl

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Speaker 1: who was taken care of and living with her.

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Speaker 4: What.

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01:59:22,600 --> 01:59:25,960
Speaker 1: Eight years tried putting all her assets in dear husband's

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Speaker 1: name so she could get more out of her divorce.

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Speaker 4: She's just trying to take all of the money from.

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01:59:30,240 --> 01:59:34,840
Speaker 1: Looky smart though. Nine years started serely dating men, some

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Speaker 1: of whom have cognitive disabilities, and she even married one

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Speaker 1: in secret for about two months. Is this one probably terrible? Person,

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Speaker 1: but has some interesting stories. Tennish, I'm losing track of years,

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01:59:47,240 --> 01:59:50,080
Speaker 1: but around pandemic. When I got pregnant, she filed for

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Speaker 1: disability for her elbow, changed it to bladder, changed it back,

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Speaker 1: none of which other than the elbow, had ever she

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Speaker 1: had ever complained about.

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Speaker 4: She's like, I need disability for my elbow.

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01:59:59,640 --> 02:00:05,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean eyes, and schedule a spinal fusion

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Speaker 1: the week after my due date. We told her we

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Speaker 1: could not help and she should make it later. She said, fine, Well,

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Speaker 1: baby was exactly one week overdue. So the night my

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02:00:15,640 --> 02:00:19,560
Speaker 1: water broke, she texted to your husband for my emergency contact.

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Speaker 1: He said to find a new one and turned off

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Speaker 1: his phone at the hospital.

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Speaker 4: Contact cold.

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Speaker 1: When baby was born, he called her, and all she

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Speaker 1: could do was say how much pain she's in. Here's

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Speaker 1: when the real crazy happens. None of that before was crazy.

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Speaker 1: Now we're getting the grin. She claims that while in surgery,

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Speaker 1: she telepathically spoke to the baby.

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Speaker 4: I think she was on pain meds.

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Speaker 1: I think so too. Six months after the baby was born,

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Speaker 1: we got an argument while telling her that allowing her

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Speaker 1: forty year old nephew to live with her would be

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Speaker 1: a bad idea. He had served eight years for a

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Speaker 1: violent crime. While she was mad, she said, l oh,

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Speaker 1: little one, little one wouldn't have been born without me,

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Speaker 1: you would have been still born. I am like a god,

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Speaker 1: and no one thanked me. This person is crazy.

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 1: This is the mother in law saying that.

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Speaker 4: Uh, they're a god.

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Speaker 2: She's god, that I'm a god.

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Speaker 1: Someone said, narcissist for sure, Nikki Bordeaux, narcissist foreshorten, you're

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Speaker 1: like when you as soon as you say you are

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Speaker 1: like a god, I am like a god. You're probably

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Speaker 1: a narcissist. I think narcissist gets, you know, thrown around

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Speaker 1: a little bit too much these days. But what you say,

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Speaker 1: I am a God that spoke telebatically to a baby,

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Speaker 1: you might be a narcissist, might be towing the line.

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Speaker 4: Call here if you are experiencing symptoms godhood.

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Speaker 1: So I went no contact for four months with mother

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02:01:57,320 --> 02:02:00,440
Speaker 1: in law after this one. With the badgering of dear husband,

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02:02:00,440 --> 02:02:03,560
Speaker 1: I wrote up a list of very specific boundaries. We

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02:02:03,600 --> 02:02:06,080
Speaker 1: had a phone conversation about them, and I started slowly

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02:02:06,120 --> 02:02:09,560
Speaker 1: allowing public visits again. But the little One has never

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02:02:09,640 --> 02:02:13,400
Speaker 1: and will never be allowed. Her will be allowed around

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02:02:13,400 --> 02:02:17,000
Speaker 1: her alone. Slowly the reins were loosened. She started coming

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Speaker 1: over to house. Dear husband would go with little one

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Speaker 1: without me to visit. It all seemed okay, Well then

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02:02:22,600 --> 02:02:24,040
Speaker 1: little I don't know if little.

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Speaker 2: One is really right. I like that.

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02:02:26,080 --> 02:02:28,760
Speaker 1: But then little one's birthday rolled around. We didn't invite

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02:02:28,800 --> 02:02:30,440
Speaker 1: her to the party for the second year in a row.

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02:02:30,520 --> 02:02:33,200
Speaker 1: First birthday, he was sick. Mother in law does not

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02:02:33,200 --> 02:02:35,919
Speaker 1: get along with father in law or his first wife,

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02:02:36,120 --> 02:02:38,400
Speaker 1: and we prefer their side of the family, and father

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02:02:38,440 --> 02:02:40,320
Speaker 1: in law is much older, so we want to spend

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Speaker 1: as much time with them as possible. He's obviously upset,

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Speaker 1: but too bad. We do celebrate the weekend after with her.

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving twenty twenty three. We have a young baby and

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Speaker 1: a toddler. We're traveling to see father in law, who

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02:02:54,120 --> 02:02:55,840
Speaker 1: lives about an hour and a half away from mother

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Speaker 1: in law. He starts insisting we go to her Thanksgiving two.

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Speaker 1: No one was going to be there. She didn't tell

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Speaker 1: us that, but she was having her nephew there, the

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Speaker 1: one with the violent past sick, so it sounds like

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Speaker 1: there's gonna be a great company. You got, mother in law, And.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 1: I said I will not go with the kids. I

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Speaker 1: told dear husband I can stay at father in law's

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Speaker 1: house while he stops by. That was not good enough

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Speaker 1: for mother in law. She freaked the f out, started

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Speaker 1: calling us NonStop, screaming how I'm controlling and horrible and hateful,

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Speaker 1: saying how I don't understand and I'm breaking up the family.

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Speaker 1: She called sister in law too. She lives across country,

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Speaker 1: and sister in law defended me. She got upset and

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Speaker 1: sister in law cut her off, blocked her, went no

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Speaker 1: contact and said I should do the same. I was

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Speaker 1: going to try working things out, but then mother in

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Speaker 1: law said, you don't understand. Little one would be dead

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Speaker 1: without me. No doctors cannot do anything about a dead baby.

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Speaker 1: I spoke telepathically to that child in the womb.

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Speaker 4: I brought it into this, I can take it out.

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Speaker 1: I am your god, bow before me. I told her

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Speaker 1: that she crossed the line. No crap, and the kids

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Speaker 1: and I need a break indefinitely. Since then, she has

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02:04:12,240 --> 02:04:14,720
Speaker 1: been bad mouthing me to anyone who will listen. Your

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Speaker 1: husband and I had had many conversations about this behavior.

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Speaker 1: It ultimately boils down to him not seeing her behavior

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Speaker 1: as bad enough to cut contact fully.

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Speaker 4: It's bad enough.

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Speaker 2: It is bad enough.

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Speaker 1: And also I understand it's like still your mom so,

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02:04:28,840 --> 02:04:30,920
Speaker 1: but I imagine it's going to be harder for him

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Speaker 1: to cut her off.

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Speaker 2: Loki. Just take away the pay mads for about two weeks,

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Speaker 2: let her cold turkey it out.

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Speaker 1: You might be back to normal, baby, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like she was crazy beforehand. June twenty twenty four,

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02:04:43,440 --> 02:04:45,920
Speaker 1: mother in law flies across the country to ambush sister

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02:04:45,960 --> 02:04:48,000
Speaker 1: in law. She told no one, just showed up on

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02:04:48,000 --> 02:04:50,800
Speaker 1: her doorstep. All she did was blame the whole situation

2344
02:04:50,880 --> 02:04:52,480
Speaker 1: on me and tell sister in law to get over

2345
02:04:52,520 --> 02:04:55,000
Speaker 1: it and talk to her again. Sistern in law had

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Speaker 1: a new baby and wasn't about to fight her away.

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02:04:57,760 --> 02:04:59,840
Speaker 1: She's still no contact, but did have a few com

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Speaker 1: conversations with mother in law while she was there. Now

2349
02:05:02,720 --> 02:05:06,600
Speaker 1: on to today, I'm so anxious. I'm having bad dreams

2350
02:05:06,640 --> 02:05:08,840
Speaker 1: about this woman breaking into her house or just showing

2351
02:05:08,920 --> 02:05:11,480
Speaker 1: up here. She's still actively on a campaign to get

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02:05:11,480 --> 02:05:14,000
Speaker 1: dear husband away from me. He's telling him to bring

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02:05:14,040 --> 02:05:16,920
Speaker 1: the kids around in secret, asking to see him and

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02:05:16,960 --> 02:05:19,520
Speaker 1: them every day, and she even wants to have a

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Speaker 1: family union at her house. Dear husband said the kids

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Speaker 1: aren't allowed there while violent cousin is back in jail

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02:05:25,200 --> 02:05:28,800
Speaker 1: for another violent charge. The violent cousin kept being violent.

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Speaker 1: She has his friend living with her, who we also

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02:05:31,960 --> 02:05:35,520
Speaker 1: don't know. So we have violent cousin's friend, who potentially

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Speaker 1: is also violent, living with mother in law and you

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Speaker 1: want the kids to be over there.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy.

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02:05:41,520 --> 02:05:44,040
Speaker 1: But you know what is less crazy how we are

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02:05:44,120 --> 02:05:46,800
Speaker 1: alive every weekday three PMPSD on YouTube. You should go

2365
02:05:46,880 --> 02:05:50,200
Speaker 1: join us there asap. Just tap our profile. Anyway, dear

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Speaker 1: husband is just ignoring her. He doesn't correct her, it

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02:05:52,960 --> 02:05:54,960
Speaker 1: doesn't repeat himself more than once, and he seems to

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02:05:55,000 --> 02:05:57,520
Speaker 1: be ignoring the problems and hoping she gets better. He

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02:05:57,600 --> 02:06:00,160
Speaker 1: also doesn't see her as a threat, but she has

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02:06:00,160 --> 02:06:03,120
Speaker 1: been violent with her family and father in law's wife before.

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02:06:03,560 --> 02:06:05,720
Speaker 1: I know she's not right in the head, and it

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02:06:05,760 --> 02:06:08,120
Speaker 1: makes me worried for myself and the kids. I guess

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Speaker 1: what I'm wondering is is it worse to stay full

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Speaker 1: no contact and let her boil up, or should I

2375
02:06:13,440 --> 02:06:16,480
Speaker 1: allow very limited, very public visits at restaurants with the

2376
02:06:16,520 --> 02:06:19,120
Speaker 1: kids so she can pretend we are on good terms.

2377
02:06:19,160 --> 02:06:20,720
Speaker 1: I think to answer that question, we have a little

2378
02:06:20,760 --> 02:06:23,360
Speaker 1: bit more. But to answer that question, I feel like,

2379
02:06:24,800 --> 02:06:27,840
Speaker 1: do you think she's adding anything positive to your life?

2380
02:06:28,520 --> 02:06:30,840
Speaker 1: And if she is, then you can let her in

2381
02:06:30,880 --> 02:06:32,600
Speaker 1: as much as she is. But it sounds like she's

2382
02:06:32,680 --> 02:06:36,400
Speaker 1: literally just being destructive to both your husband yours and

2383
02:06:36,440 --> 02:06:39,360
Speaker 1: your kids happiness. So why would you have her in

2384
02:06:39,560 --> 02:06:41,839
Speaker 1: your life just being terrible?

2385
02:06:42,040 --> 02:06:42,440
Speaker 4: Agreed?

2386
02:06:43,160 --> 02:06:45,880
Speaker 1: So, dear husband has since seen her, and even though

2387
02:06:45,960 --> 02:06:48,440
Speaker 1: it was three days after our baby's first birthday, she

2388
02:06:48,480 --> 02:06:50,520
Speaker 1: didn't mention it at all. She even bought gifts for

2389
02:06:50,560 --> 02:06:52,920
Speaker 1: our son and nothing for a daughter. So I don't

2390
02:06:53,520 --> 02:06:57,040
Speaker 1: know if she cares really about the kids. So I

2391
02:06:57,080 --> 02:06:59,400
Speaker 1: know she doesn't really care about the kids. He cares

2392
02:06:59,440 --> 02:07:02,880
Speaker 1: about role. But she's unstable and it's starting to make

2393
02:07:02,920 --> 02:07:06,040
Speaker 1: me very concerned. And that's where the story ends. And

2394
02:07:06,120 --> 02:07:08,400
Speaker 1: I'm very concerned too. I mean, it seems like this

2395
02:07:08,480 --> 02:07:09,960
Speaker 1: is not someone you want to have in your life.

2396
02:07:10,240 --> 02:07:14,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, maybe have some more conversations with your

2397
02:07:14,640 --> 02:07:20,080
Speaker 4: your husband because she seems like maybe a.

2398
02:07:19,360 --> 02:07:21,480
Speaker 1: Dangerous And I think the husband, you know, it's his mom,

2399
02:07:21,600 --> 02:07:23,520
Speaker 1: so he doesn't want to give that up. But I

2400
02:07:23,600 --> 02:07:25,680
Speaker 1: think at a certain point, you've got to do what's

2401
02:07:25,760 --> 02:07:28,400
Speaker 1: right for your families. And I think it's getting to

2402
02:07:28,440 --> 02:07:33,920
Speaker 1: the point where it's getting dangerous. Yeah, agreed, But you

2403
02:07:33,960 --> 02:07:36,240
Speaker 1: know what else is dangerous?

2404
02:07:36,440 --> 02:07:37,040
Speaker 4: This next story?

2405
02:07:37,120 --> 02:07:44,800
Speaker 1: How quickly we're to get into this next story ten minutes,

2406
02:07:44,880 --> 02:07:51,960
Speaker 1: let's freaking go be demon Yeah, but let me change

2407
02:07:52,000 --> 02:07:52,320
Speaker 1: this title.

2408
02:07:52,400 --> 02:07:53,440
Speaker 4: No, I'm going to change it.

2409
02:07:54,680 --> 02:07:57,240
Speaker 2: You can change it. So they're going to change the title,

2410
02:07:58,240 --> 02:07:58,960
Speaker 2: change the title.

2411
02:08:00,080 --> 02:08:02,160
Speaker 1: I can talk while Sophia.

2412
02:08:02,320 --> 02:08:04,960
Speaker 2: Maybe they want some of the like so if they

2413
02:08:05,000 --> 02:08:06,880
Speaker 2: he was a background.

2414
02:08:07,000 --> 02:08:10,120
Speaker 1: Some of the stuff that like behind the scenes, behind

2415
02:08:10,120 --> 02:08:13,160
Speaker 1: the scenes, a little bts. Yeah, Kimberly find says she'll

2416
02:08:13,160 --> 02:08:15,400
Speaker 1: eventually get into the kid's head out loud. When they

2417
02:08:15,400 --> 02:08:18,800
Speaker 1: don't give the okay signal, she telepathically communicated to them

2418
02:08:19,280 --> 02:08:24,760
Speaker 1: to confirm the message. Unfortunately the dialects differ. Yeah, I mean,

2419
02:08:24,760 --> 02:08:26,280
Speaker 1: I feel like she's going to try to manipulate the

2420
02:08:26,360 --> 02:08:27,440
Speaker 1: kids for sure.

2421
02:08:28,200 --> 02:08:28,600
Speaker 2: Uh.

2422
02:08:28,760 --> 02:08:31,360
Speaker 1: Nikki Bordeaux says Sophia call on. Too many people don't

2423
02:08:31,360 --> 02:08:34,640
Speaker 1: speak out. I learned about Kitty Genovi's when I started

2424
02:08:34,640 --> 02:08:37,440
Speaker 1: my site courses at sixteen. And it's really left to mark.

2425
02:08:37,480 --> 02:08:41,520
Speaker 1: What is that? What's Kitty genevi'sy. Can you tell me, y,

2426
02:08:41,560 --> 02:08:46,480
Speaker 1: just tell me what that is? Jellyby says, well, I

2427
02:08:46,520 --> 02:08:52,480
Speaker 1: didn't see that coming, so I'm not clairvoyant. Schwak says,

2428
02:08:52,880 --> 02:08:56,680
Speaker 1: no one saw that coming. And Josephine and Badola Burquez

2429
02:08:56,840 --> 02:08:59,640
Speaker 1: valuately can't cool it because grabbing ice would make too

2430
02:08:59,720 --> 02:09:02,480
Speaker 1: much noise, and my sister and our boyfriend need to sleep,

2431
02:09:02,640 --> 02:09:05,600
Speaker 1: but we'll keep it elevated. Did you hurt your ankle

2432
02:09:05,760 --> 02:09:06,120
Speaker 1: or something?

2433
02:09:06,600 --> 02:09:07,320
Speaker 4: I don't actually know?

2434
02:09:08,560 --> 02:09:13,600
Speaker 2: Huh uh, all.

2435
02:09:13,600 --> 02:09:14,160
Speaker 1: Right, let's see.

2436
02:09:14,240 --> 02:09:21,600
Speaker 4: I don't know what you want from injured twine realms link.

2437
02:09:21,440 --> 02:09:21,520
Speaker 3: But.

2438
02:09:23,200 --> 02:09:27,840
Speaker 1: Honestly, usually the o G titles are are a good

2439
02:09:27,840 --> 02:09:28,480
Speaker 1: place to start.

2440
02:09:29,160 --> 02:09:33,800
Speaker 4: Okay, uh, Sophia, uh parallel, don't let her get into

2441
02:09:33,800 --> 02:09:40,560
Speaker 4: the kid's head. That's a dangerous yeah. And were there

2442
02:09:40,600 --> 02:09:53,560
Speaker 4: any were there anythings? Donation? Oh?

2443
02:09:54,560 --> 02:09:59,600
Speaker 2: There is is not in right? Right? Can I have

2444
02:09:59,640 --> 02:10:00,480
Speaker 2: to use bathroom?

2445
02:10:00,680 --> 02:10:00,800
Speaker 3: Oo?

2446
02:10:01,640 --> 02:10:01,760
Speaker 1: Right?

2447
02:10:02,560 --> 02:10:03,520
Speaker 2: I hinge it?

2448
02:10:05,200 --> 02:10:07,400
Speaker 4: Oh im, We'll just put it on me then I

2449
02:10:07,440 --> 02:10:07,800
Speaker 4: can read.

2450
02:10:08,240 --> 02:10:09,600
Speaker 2: Okay, b rb.

2451
02:10:11,640 --> 02:10:14,520
Speaker 4: Am I the a hole for abandoning my mom after

2452
02:10:14,600 --> 02:10:20,760
Speaker 4: she announced her pregnancy. Yes, I'm I'm twenty two female.

2453
02:10:20,800 --> 02:10:23,760
Speaker 4: My mom is thirty seven, and i have three younger siblings,

2454
02:10:23,880 --> 02:10:27,880
Speaker 4: emale fourteen, female seven, and male four. Me and the

2455
02:10:27,920 --> 02:10:30,440
Speaker 4: second oldest have different dads from each other, and the

2456
02:10:30,480 --> 02:10:33,480
Speaker 4: other two they and this upcoming baby all have the

2457
02:10:33,520 --> 02:10:37,040
Speaker 4: same dad, our stepdad. I'm sorry if that was confusing.

2458
02:10:37,160 --> 02:10:40,320
Speaker 4: There are three dads in total, but only our stepdad

2459
02:10:40,360 --> 02:10:47,000
Speaker 4: is involved. Now, okay, got you by the way, uh,

2460
02:10:47,160 --> 02:10:49,120
Speaker 4: by the way. This comes from chrome x boy on

2461
02:10:49,120 --> 02:10:53,440
Speaker 4: the r slash Okay storytime. It so. I was the

2462
02:10:53,480 --> 02:10:57,000
Speaker 4: babysitter and mom growing up. When my sister was born,

2463
02:10:57,080 --> 02:11:00,720
Speaker 4: I magically became mom despite not even digits.

2464
02:11:01,080 --> 02:11:01,880
Speaker 2: Oh wow wow.

2465
02:11:02,200 --> 02:11:05,240
Speaker 4: When the others came, I still was mom. I didn't

2466
02:11:05,240 --> 02:11:07,520
Speaker 4: get to have fun, go out, or be a kid.

2467
02:11:08,160 --> 02:11:10,720
Speaker 4: My job in the house was to cook, clean, raise

2468
02:11:10,720 --> 02:11:14,080
Speaker 4: my siblings, and deal with our mom. It was incredibly

2469
02:11:14,080 --> 02:11:17,760
Speaker 4: immature growing up and loved to drink, party, spend money

2470
02:11:17,800 --> 02:11:20,520
Speaker 4: on luxuries, and not be a mom. She acts more

2471
02:11:20,560 --> 02:11:22,480
Speaker 4: like a mom now, but a lot of the work

2472
02:11:22,560 --> 02:11:25,880
Speaker 4: still falls on me. She robbed me of my childhood

2473
02:11:25,920 --> 02:11:29,160
Speaker 4: and I'm very bitter about it. The only reason I

2474
02:11:29,200 --> 02:11:31,640
Speaker 4: lived at home for so long was because no one

2475
02:11:32,480 --> 02:11:34,960
Speaker 4: would slash could take me in, and I felt that

2476
02:11:35,000 --> 02:11:37,040
Speaker 4: I could tolerate it all for free vent and food.

2477
02:11:37,560 --> 02:11:40,200
Speaker 4: But it was a good deal for me then. But

2478
02:11:40,280 --> 02:11:42,960
Speaker 4: I'm twenty two now, I'm done being a mom when

2479
02:11:43,000 --> 02:11:46,960
Speaker 4: I don't even have kids. Yeah, he's definitely being like parentified.

2480
02:11:47,320 --> 02:11:49,160
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like that's often what happens in the

2481
02:11:49,240 --> 02:11:52,880
Speaker 1: year at like a young age.

2482
02:11:53,000 --> 02:11:57,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, last year, my stepdad's parents died in a car accident,

2483
02:11:57,440 --> 02:12:00,920
Speaker 4: and as their only child, he got every thing. We

2484
02:12:01,040 --> 02:12:02,880
Speaker 4: all moved into their house and got a bit of

2485
02:12:02,920 --> 02:12:05,880
Speaker 4: money under our belts. So I guess they decided to

2486
02:12:06,000 --> 02:12:06,800
Speaker 4: have a baby.

2487
02:12:07,560 --> 02:12:11,840
Speaker 1: Not having babies, especially if you can't, if you're like

2488
02:12:11,880 --> 02:12:13,920
Speaker 1: making your kids take care of your kids, if.

2489
02:12:13,840 --> 02:12:16,560
Speaker 4: You're not even parenting the kids that you have, stop

2490
02:12:16,600 --> 02:12:19,960
Speaker 4: having the babies. When my mom announced it, I asked

2491
02:12:20,040 --> 02:12:22,920
Speaker 4: if she was serious. He confirmed and asked me if

2492
02:12:22,920 --> 02:12:25,520
Speaker 4: I still had my diaper changing skills as a joke,

2493
02:12:26,720 --> 02:12:31,960
Speaker 4: I would flip out. I would flip out.

2494
02:12:31,760 --> 02:12:33,839
Speaker 1: The amount of diapers I had to change for Sophia.

2495
02:12:34,200 --> 02:12:39,480
Speaker 4: That's not true, having four and I did it. No,

2496
02:12:39,680 --> 02:12:43,080
Speaker 4: you didn't. I don't know four. No one's making a

2497
02:12:43,120 --> 02:12:44,640
Speaker 4: four year old change diaper.

2498
02:12:44,480 --> 02:12:46,320
Speaker 2: And you don't know what I've been through.

2499
02:12:46,680 --> 02:12:50,280
Speaker 4: Nothing be confirmed and asked me. I said that I

2500
02:12:50,880 --> 02:12:55,160
Speaker 4: was silently livid. I dryly laughed and found out and

2501
02:12:55,160 --> 02:12:57,760
Speaker 4: found some roommates online that night, Yeah, get out of there.

2502
02:12:58,360 --> 02:13:01,080
Speaker 4: The thought of wasting another ten place years raising my

2503
02:13:01,120 --> 02:13:04,800
Speaker 4: siblings sounded like hell. She found out that I'm planning

2504
02:13:04,800 --> 02:13:08,360
Speaker 4: on leaving coming come August, and now she's irate, calling

2505
02:13:08,400 --> 02:13:11,840
Speaker 4: me every name under the sun and selfish. If you

2506
02:13:12,160 --> 02:13:14,480
Speaker 4: need to rely on your child's a parent your.

2507
02:13:14,600 --> 02:13:17,320
Speaker 1: Child, then you're not You're not a parent.

2508
02:13:17,320 --> 02:13:18,080
Speaker 4: You're not a parent.

2509
02:13:18,200 --> 02:13:21,040
Speaker 1: If you are relying on your kids like you can. Yes,

2510
02:13:21,480 --> 02:13:23,440
Speaker 1: I think you know. It takes a village to raise

2511
02:13:23,440 --> 02:13:29,160
Speaker 1: a kid. Your children should help. You know, children should

2512
02:13:29,200 --> 02:13:32,520
Speaker 1: help around the house. Oh, but if if you can't

2513
02:13:32,640 --> 02:13:36,280
Speaker 1: parent your child without your children, then you're not the

2514
02:13:36,360 --> 02:13:41,720
Speaker 1: main parent. And also you're a child. Shouldn't be a

2515
02:13:41,800 --> 02:13:44,800
Speaker 1: parent like children are terrible parents know.

2516
02:13:44,720 --> 02:13:47,200
Speaker 4: What they're doing. Especially this, she's not even a single mother,

2517
02:13:47,800 --> 02:13:51,000
Speaker 4: she's got another adult in the house. You got my

2518
02:13:51,080 --> 02:13:54,640
Speaker 4: siblings involved, and the youngest is crying. Oh, they're guilt dripping,

2519
02:13:55,080 --> 02:13:57,720
Speaker 4: asking why I don't love them anymore and why I'm leaving.

2520
02:13:58,040 --> 02:14:00,720
Speaker 4: It's really low to use kids like that in a turn.

2521
02:14:01,480 --> 02:14:03,560
Speaker 4: I don't want to stay, but I don't want them

2522
02:14:03,600 --> 02:14:06,200
Speaker 4: to cry. I know I'm doing the right thing for myself,

2523
02:14:06,320 --> 02:14:09,040
Speaker 4: but is it the right thing for them? My mom

2524
02:14:09,120 --> 02:14:12,000
Speaker 4: never really parented growing up, wouldn't, so I took over

2525
02:14:12,040 --> 02:14:15,040
Speaker 4: that role. I was the one who changed diapers and

2526
02:14:15,080 --> 02:14:17,760
Speaker 4: taught them their ABC's and all that. I was the

2527
02:14:17,760 --> 02:14:20,360
Speaker 4: one who cooked dinner and bathed them. I looked at

2528
02:14:20,440 --> 02:14:23,080
Speaker 4: none of my siblings and siblings but as my own kids,

2529
02:14:23,520 --> 02:14:26,720
Speaker 4: that's what they basically are. Wow, I don't think she'll

2530
02:14:26,720 --> 02:14:28,440
Speaker 4: be able to do a good job. She and my

2531
02:14:28,480 --> 02:14:32,320
Speaker 4: stepdad rely on me heavily in that category. Am I

2532
02:14:32,400 --> 02:14:34,840
Speaker 4: the a hole for leaving? I need advice on how

2533
02:14:34,880 --> 02:14:37,400
Speaker 4: to get over this feeling, and on how old is

2534
02:14:38,000 --> 02:14:40,240
Speaker 4: an update? I think of P's twenty two?

2535
02:14:40,520 --> 02:14:44,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean one, you're twenty two. You can have

2536
02:14:44,280 --> 02:14:44,920
Speaker 1: your own life.

2537
02:14:45,040 --> 02:14:47,480
Speaker 4: There is no expectation of you having to stay in

2538
02:14:47,480 --> 02:14:47,920
Speaker 4: your parents.

2539
02:14:48,040 --> 02:14:48,520
Speaker 2: No.

2540
02:14:48,520 --> 02:14:52,200
Speaker 1: No, I mean, and you already have given so much

2541
02:14:52,400 --> 02:14:55,480
Speaker 1: to your parents. I don't think you need to give anymore. Yeah,

2542
02:14:56,480 --> 02:14:58,760
Speaker 1: Pegros says, excuse me, Sam, I've made a great child

2543
02:14:58,800 --> 02:15:01,760
Speaker 1: mother to my sisters. Yeah, you know what, I'm not

2544
02:15:01,800 --> 02:15:04,720
Speaker 1: saying that people can't do it. I just think usually adult,

2545
02:15:04,920 --> 02:15:08,520
Speaker 1: you're probably better at being a mother now than you

2546
02:15:08,600 --> 02:15:10,040
Speaker 1: were as a child.

2547
02:15:10,400 --> 02:15:15,160
Speaker 4: Yes, um, yeah, No, I think definitely maybe go no contact.

2548
02:15:16,000 --> 02:15:18,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean maybe you don't need to go no

2549
02:15:18,120 --> 02:15:20,600
Speaker 1: no contact, but low contact so you can just have

2550
02:15:20,640 --> 02:15:21,160
Speaker 1: your own life.

2551
02:15:21,400 --> 02:15:25,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, but there is an edit and an update. Get

2552
02:15:25,080 --> 02:15:28,920
Speaker 4: into Holy crap, this kind of blew up when I

2553
02:15:28,960 --> 02:15:32,160
Speaker 4: wasn't expecting it to. Blah blah blah. You're all right,

2554
02:15:32,280 --> 02:15:34,960
Speaker 4: I need to go. My mom and stepdad need to

2555
02:15:35,000 --> 02:15:38,240
Speaker 4: figure it out. I'm going to talk to all three

2556
02:15:38,280 --> 02:15:40,680
Speaker 4: of my siblings and explain that me leaving is normal

2557
02:15:40,720 --> 02:15:43,440
Speaker 4: and a good thing. I'll always be a phone call away.

2558
02:15:43,760 --> 02:15:46,120
Speaker 4: I'm most worried about my fourteen year old sister, though,

2559
02:15:46,440 --> 02:15:49,200
Speaker 4: and will not hesitate to get authorities involved. If I

2560
02:15:49,240 --> 02:15:52,120
Speaker 4: suspect she's going through what I went through, or she

2561
02:15:52,280 --> 02:15:55,080
Speaker 4: tells me herself, I'll be giving her a different type

2562
02:15:55,120 --> 02:15:57,320
Speaker 4: of talk soon to try and prevent her from becoming

2563
02:15:57,320 --> 02:16:01,280
Speaker 4: the new mom. If I again, it'll be after I

2564
02:16:01,360 --> 02:16:04,600
Speaker 4: already moved out. I really appreciate your guys' support. It's

2565
02:16:04,640 --> 02:16:06,880
Speaker 4: giving me the strength to do what's right, even if

2566
02:16:06,880 --> 02:16:10,320
Speaker 4: it's hurting. My mom and stepdad can hire a babysitter

2567
02:16:10,360 --> 02:16:12,880
Speaker 4: with his insurance inheritance if they really can't do it,

2568
02:16:13,360 --> 02:16:16,440
Speaker 4: and there is an update to finish this.

2569
02:16:16,720 --> 02:16:18,280
Speaker 2: Sale off hit it.

2570
02:16:18,600 --> 02:16:21,960
Speaker 4: Okay, Hello everyone, I just want to say thank you

2571
02:16:22,000 --> 02:16:24,920
Speaker 4: again for your kind words and encouragement. You have no

2572
02:16:24,960 --> 02:16:27,280
Speaker 4: idea what they meant to me. I moved out and

2573
02:16:27,360 --> 02:16:30,440
Speaker 4: everything is going to be fine. My mom and stepdad

2574
02:16:30,480 --> 02:16:32,840
Speaker 4: block me, but my fourteen year old sister is so

2575
02:16:32,959 --> 02:16:36,480
Speaker 4: far doing fine. I talked all my siblings individually, but

2576
02:16:36,560 --> 02:16:39,200
Speaker 4: it was rough in more ways than one. I had

2577
02:16:39,240 --> 02:16:41,879
Speaker 4: an explosive argument with my mom the day I left,

2578
02:16:41,959 --> 02:16:44,320
Speaker 4: but that was to be expected. You said nothing new.

2579
02:16:44,959 --> 02:16:47,640
Speaker 4: He called me selfish, a brat, a terrible daughter, and

2580
02:16:47,680 --> 02:16:52,280
Speaker 4: said that she wished she had terminated me. Oh, your

2581
02:16:52,320 --> 02:16:56,400
Speaker 4: mom sucks. I think maybe no contact honest.

2582
02:16:57,920 --> 02:16:59,520
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't come back from saying something like

2583
02:17:00,320 --> 02:17:00,960
Speaker 1: so hurtful.

2584
02:17:01,360 --> 02:17:05,640
Speaker 4: Nothing. I haven't heard aw about a week or so

2585
02:17:05,760 --> 02:17:07,960
Speaker 4: before I moved out. I stopped doing most of the

2586
02:17:08,000 --> 02:17:10,680
Speaker 4: things I did before. My parents freaked out and we

2587
02:17:10,720 --> 02:17:13,959
Speaker 4: had a lot of arguments, but I'm happy it's over with.

2588
02:17:14,680 --> 02:17:17,280
Speaker 4: Every time they saw me comment make up, they saw

2589
02:17:17,320 --> 02:17:19,879
Speaker 4: me a comment was said either to my face or

2590
02:17:19,959 --> 02:17:22,640
Speaker 4: under their breath. My mom would act like I was

2591
02:17:22,640 --> 02:17:25,520
Speaker 4: invisible and talk crap about me to whoever was around.

2592
02:17:25,959 --> 02:17:28,400
Speaker 4: You filled my sibling's head up with bs, and I

2593
02:17:28,480 --> 02:17:32,640
Speaker 4: was incredibly stressed about it. It actually considered staying at

2594
02:17:32,640 --> 02:17:35,760
Speaker 4: that point. I was very close to just staying home,

2595
02:17:35,920 --> 02:17:38,640
Speaker 4: which I know would disappoint you all, but I almost

2596
02:17:39,040 --> 02:17:42,200
Speaker 4: This wasn't an easy transition for my siblings, and they're small.

2597
02:17:42,760 --> 02:17:45,600
Speaker 4: It hurts so bad watching them get wrapped in up

2598
02:17:45,640 --> 02:17:48,440
Speaker 4: In all of this, my parents had no idea how

2599
02:17:48,440 --> 02:17:51,600
Speaker 4: to do anything. For some reason, they had no patience

2600
02:17:51,680 --> 02:17:53,760
Speaker 4: and couldn't get the kids to listen because they have

2601
02:17:53,840 --> 02:17:57,680
Speaker 4: no practice with it. Yeah. I know they didn't have

2602
02:17:57,760 --> 02:18:00,920
Speaker 4: much experience in childcare, but they were acting brand new.

2603
02:18:01,000 --> 02:18:04,080
Speaker 4: That's embarrassing, that's incredibly.

2604
02:18:03,280 --> 02:18:05,879
Speaker 1: Because like this is the first time they're actually happy

2605
02:18:05,959 --> 02:18:06,800
Speaker 1: to raise a kid.

2606
02:18:07,640 --> 02:18:10,200
Speaker 4: I had a really hard time watching them struggle and

2607
02:18:10,240 --> 02:18:12,560
Speaker 4: watching my siblings suffer because of it. I think, honestly,

2608
02:18:12,560 --> 02:18:14,039
Speaker 4: you could maybe call CPS.

2609
02:18:14,440 --> 02:18:16,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess the question is do you think

2610
02:18:17,040 --> 02:18:21,000
Speaker 1: the foster care system, Yeah, that's true better than these parents,

2611
02:18:22,200 --> 02:18:27,840
Speaker 1: And like I feel like even very bad parents. Yeah,

2612
02:18:27,920 --> 02:18:30,720
Speaker 1: are often better than the foster system, like the foster

2613
02:18:30,840 --> 02:18:35,800
Speaker 1: system is not. I mean, I've we've heard even on

2614
02:18:35,840 --> 02:18:38,199
Speaker 1: the show, we've heard like horror stories about the fosters.

2615
02:18:38,560 --> 02:18:40,920
Speaker 1: So maybe there's some good experiences, but.

2616
02:18:41,080 --> 02:18:45,480
Speaker 4: Often I had a really I felt effing horrible and

2617
02:18:45,520 --> 02:18:48,400
Speaker 4: like I was neglecting them. School is also coming up

2618
02:18:48,480 --> 02:18:50,480
Speaker 4: very soon, and I used to always get them together,

2619
02:18:50,600 --> 02:18:54,240
Speaker 4: so that's going to be an upcoming problem. I'm happy

2620
02:18:54,320 --> 02:18:56,240
Speaker 4: that I won't be around for that, but I'm sad

2621
02:18:56,280 --> 02:18:58,320
Speaker 4: that I won't be. My little brother will be a

2622
02:18:58,400 --> 02:19:01,280
Speaker 4: kindergartener and my sister will be a freshman in high school.

2623
02:19:01,640 --> 02:19:04,680
Speaker 4: Those are huge milestones I wanted to be around for.

2624
02:19:05,320 --> 02:19:07,320
Speaker 4: But on the bright side, my sister is playing the

2625
02:19:07,320 --> 02:19:09,879
Speaker 4: incompetence card all on her own, and I love her

2626
02:19:09,879 --> 02:19:13,520
Speaker 4: for it. After our conversation about not turning out like me,

2627
02:19:14,520 --> 02:19:17,320
Speaker 4: she told me she'll pretend not to know how, not

2628
02:19:17,440 --> 02:19:20,680
Speaker 4: to know how until Mom stops asking her, which hasn't

2629
02:19:20,720 --> 02:19:24,600
Speaker 4: happened yet. Apparently Mom asks her to cook, wash the kids,

2630
02:19:24,760 --> 02:19:27,920
Speaker 4: get them dressed, et cetera little gateway things that will

2631
02:19:27,920 --> 02:19:30,640
Speaker 4: spiral into her being the new mom. I'm proud of

2632
02:19:30,680 --> 02:19:32,800
Speaker 4: her for sticking to her plan for the few weeks

2633
02:19:32,840 --> 02:19:35,520
Speaker 4: that she has. It's a lot stronger than I thought

2634
02:19:35,560 --> 02:19:38,000
Speaker 4: she was. I really thought that I'd have to drill

2635
02:19:38,000 --> 02:19:40,720
Speaker 4: it into her to not do anything, but she's doing

2636
02:19:40,760 --> 02:19:43,600
Speaker 4: a lot better than expected. I just hope she doesn't

2637
02:19:43,600 --> 02:19:46,960
Speaker 4: crumble under the pressure. I know it's hard. In order

2638
02:19:47,000 --> 02:19:49,080
Speaker 4: to visit, I have to be welcomed back into the house,

2639
02:19:49,520 --> 02:19:52,280
Speaker 4: but that isn't going well since I'm blocked. I don't

2640
02:19:52,280 --> 02:19:54,959
Speaker 4: want my sister being the middleman, even though she's already trying.

2641
02:19:55,600 --> 02:19:58,600
Speaker 4: I want to see everyone, but without permission, there's nothing

2642
02:19:58,640 --> 02:20:01,879
Speaker 4: I can do, and if anyone cares about my new move,

2643
02:20:02,120 --> 02:20:05,959
Speaker 4: we do. My roommates are great, excellent. Hopefully they don't

2644
02:20:05,959 --> 02:20:09,840
Speaker 4: have any children. We played Monopoly our first night, all

2645
02:20:09,879 --> 02:20:12,279
Speaker 4: settled in, and it was a great bonding experience.

2646
02:20:12,720 --> 02:20:15,640
Speaker 1: OPI is probably mom with a friend group, yeah for sure.

2647
02:20:16,520 --> 02:20:19,640
Speaker 4: Uh and they're very clean people we love and it

2648
02:20:19,720 --> 02:20:23,680
Speaker 4: seems small, but holy crap, it's amazing. I'm loving my

2649
02:20:23,760 --> 02:20:28,840
Speaker 4: current arrangement and hoping it last. Oh yeah, I'm doing fine.

2650
02:20:29,160 --> 02:20:31,320
Speaker 4: My sister didn't take over my job, and I hope

2651
02:20:31,320 --> 02:20:34,680
Speaker 4: she never does. And my parents are losing their minds

2652
02:20:34,720 --> 02:20:37,520
Speaker 4: as expected. I can see their marriage falling apart in

2653
02:20:37,520 --> 02:20:40,080
Speaker 4: the future. Two they can figure it all out.

2654
02:20:40,160 --> 02:20:43,680
Speaker 1: What God, just like everything's falling apart. Literally, Op was

2655
02:20:43,800 --> 02:20:44,840
Speaker 1: keeping that family together.

2656
02:20:45,000 --> 02:20:47,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean they were expecting so much from Ope

2657
02:20:48,640 --> 02:20:52,680
Speaker 4: such a young age. They can figure it all out

2658
02:20:52,720 --> 02:20:55,200
Speaker 4: and raise this one start to finish. Part of me

2659
02:20:55,280 --> 02:20:59,080
Speaker 4: is still feeling incredibly guilty for leaving, and I sometimes

2660
02:20:59,120 --> 02:21:01,760
Speaker 4: regret it. That's because your parents have been trying to

2661
02:21:01,760 --> 02:21:06,160
Speaker 4: guilt trip you. Yeah, and they've they programmed you should

2662
02:21:06,200 --> 02:21:07,360
Speaker 4: expect that that's your job.

2663
02:21:07,440 --> 02:21:08,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, is, which it's not exactly.

2664
02:21:10,200 --> 02:21:12,880
Speaker 4: But my new found freedom feels so good, and I'm

2665
02:21:12,920 --> 02:21:15,560
Speaker 4: reminded of where I left. I'm going to a bar

2666
02:21:15,680 --> 02:21:19,879
Speaker 4: later tonight with my roommates for the to let loose.

2667
02:21:20,120 --> 02:21:23,120
Speaker 4: I mean you are only twenty two, so technically you

2668
02:21:23,120 --> 02:21:24,720
Speaker 4: shouldn't up going to barn.

2669
02:21:25,040 --> 02:21:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah so last year, Yeah, I guess, but still yeah.

2670
02:21:28,320 --> 02:21:32,720
Speaker 4: But I understanding. It feels so weird to say, but

2671
02:21:32,760 --> 02:21:36,440
Speaker 4: I feel like a teenager LMO. Everything is so exciting

2672
02:21:36,480 --> 02:21:39,600
Speaker 4: and feels a bit illegal, like I'm out way past curfew.

2673
02:21:40,240 --> 02:21:41,600
Speaker 4: By the way, you can join us live at three

2674
02:21:41,600 --> 02:21:43,360
Speaker 4: pm Pacific Stanta Ti'm just not by our.

2675
02:21:43,240 --> 02:21:45,320
Speaker 2: Profile and that should be within your curfew.

2676
02:21:46,760 --> 02:21:49,600
Speaker 4: So thank you again everyone. I don't think I've actually

2677
02:21:49,640 --> 02:21:53,280
Speaker 4: moved without I would have actually moved without your guys's words.

2678
02:21:53,879 --> 02:21:56,440
Speaker 4: Even though I found roommates, I don't think I could

2679
02:21:56,440 --> 02:21:59,480
Speaker 4: have left on my own. I wouldn't have committed and

2680
02:21:59,560 --> 02:22:02,800
Speaker 4: probably would have just stayed home. I'm not as strong

2681
02:22:02,879 --> 02:22:05,040
Speaker 4: as I thought I was. It really helped me make

2682
02:22:05,080 --> 02:22:09,360
Speaker 4: a decision when I thought about disappointing you guys. I'm

2683
02:22:09,360 --> 02:22:10,760
Speaker 4: glad that read read it.

2684
02:22:10,879 --> 02:22:14,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes yeah, read it's like the abuse is father you

2685
02:22:14,360 --> 02:22:14,920
Speaker 1: never had.

2686
02:22:15,800 --> 02:22:18,279
Speaker 4: Reddit love is a love bombing relationship.

2687
02:22:19,480 --> 02:22:26,840
Speaker 1: Sometimes they're nice and you're like and sometimes.

2688
02:22:23,720 --> 02:22:28,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never met any of you. But having a

2689
02:22:28,600 --> 02:22:30,880
Speaker 4: cheerleader and knowing that so many of you saw my

2690
02:22:31,000 --> 02:22:34,560
Speaker 4: post and wrote me a kind message really helped. I

2691
02:22:34,560 --> 02:22:37,000
Speaker 4: couldn't be more grateful and excited to live my life.

2692
02:22:37,520 --> 02:22:39,959
Speaker 4: I thought it would be a great time to update

2693
02:22:40,000 --> 02:22:43,080
Speaker 4: since I'm going out tonight to have some fun. Woo

2694
02:22:43,120 --> 02:22:45,920
Speaker 4: you deserve it, Opie. Someday all the guilt will be

2695
02:22:45,959 --> 02:22:48,920
Speaker 4: gone and I'll patch up my relationship with everyone. I

2696
02:22:49,000 --> 02:22:51,440
Speaker 4: still want to have a relationship with my mom. Someday

2697
02:22:51,640 --> 02:22:54,760
Speaker 4: if she'll change and allow it. As much as I

2698
02:22:54,760 --> 02:22:56,960
Speaker 4: say I hate her, I still sort of love her.

2699
02:22:57,400 --> 02:23:02,240
Speaker 4: You're still my mom. But until then, bye, everyone, Thank

2700
02:23:02,280 --> 02:23:03,160
Speaker 4: you all so much.

2701
02:23:04,840 --> 02:23:07,039
Speaker 2: That's tough. She said she would terminate you.

2702
02:23:08,080 --> 02:23:11,560
Speaker 4: It is. I mean, I think just parent relationships can

2703
02:23:11,600 --> 02:23:15,400
Speaker 4: be very complicated, even if they are horrible to you.

2704
02:23:17,160 --> 02:23:18,879
Speaker 4: I think it's just kind of ingrained in us of

2705
02:23:19,680 --> 02:23:22,119
Speaker 4: this desire to have that familiar relationship.

2706
02:23:22,280 --> 02:23:25,039
Speaker 2: Yeah it's really hard to contact.

2707
02:23:25,120 --> 02:23:25,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really hard.

2708
02:23:26,280 --> 02:23:29,280
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna give up this episode because we

2709
02:23:29,360 --> 02:23:31,439
Speaker 1: got one more story.

2710
02:23:32,120 --> 02:23:33,119
Speaker 4: Off this stream.

2711
02:23:33,520 --> 02:23:36,640
Speaker 2: Or should we take a little detour into streammeme Land

2712
02:23:37,040 --> 02:23:41,120
Speaker 2: and get her Hope Hopes high, Our Hopes high. Yeah,

2713
02:23:41,120 --> 02:23:44,480
Speaker 2: because that was pretty depressing. There's some funny ones. Okay,

2714
02:23:44,840 --> 02:23:46,840
Speaker 2: I felt like that wasn't depressed. I feel like it

2715
02:23:46,879 --> 02:23:48,640
Speaker 2: was that I felt I got sad.

2716
02:23:48,640 --> 02:23:51,400
Speaker 1: But like like she she liked, she got out, she

2717
02:23:51,440 --> 02:23:53,440
Speaker 1: finally had her own life, and yeah, like her family's

2718
02:23:53,440 --> 02:23:54,080
Speaker 1: falling apart.

2719
02:23:54,160 --> 02:23:58,920
Speaker 4: But oh, miss Jabers says she's thirty seven. Oh no,

2720
02:23:58,959 --> 02:24:00,000
Speaker 4: the mom is okay, mom.

2721
02:24:00,120 --> 02:24:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, whateah, that's what I thought. Yeah,

2722
02:24:03,640 --> 02:24:06,119
Speaker 1: I actually felt like it was like a good ending.

2723
02:24:06,560 --> 02:24:08,800
Speaker 4: I've had two. I think I'm I mean, it's really

2724
02:24:09,400 --> 02:24:12,640
Speaker 4: I think it's great when a person who has to

2725
02:24:12,680 --> 02:24:15,120
Speaker 4: go through all that stuff is able to get out

2726
02:24:15,120 --> 02:24:17,200
Speaker 4: and realize, you know, I don't deserve to be treated

2727
02:24:17,240 --> 02:24:17,520
Speaker 4: this way.

2728
02:24:17,600 --> 02:24:17,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2729
02:24:17,840 --> 02:24:22,280
Speaker 1: I feel like what we saw at the end is freedom. Yeah,

2730
02:24:22,320 --> 02:24:24,520
Speaker 1: but I'm down for some stream memes before we do

2731
02:24:24,600 --> 02:24:25,080
Speaker 1: this last.

2732
02:24:25,200 --> 02:24:28,039
Speaker 2: It'll be quick. Yeah. So this.

2733
02:24:30,280 --> 02:24:32,960
Speaker 4: Okay, what is it? Og fans? Okay, story time?

2734
02:24:33,160 --> 02:24:34,440
Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

2735
02:24:34,520 --> 02:24:41,879
Speaker 1: We are here for members only, Like every day talking about.

2736
02:24:42,959 --> 02:24:47,800
Speaker 4: Shake Shake, my friend's D and D, the wall I built,

2737
02:24:47,800 --> 02:24:52,560
Speaker 4: the island. Oh my god. Yesterday I was at my

2738
02:24:52,640 --> 02:24:55,039
Speaker 4: partner's house and I was talking to his roommates and

2739
02:24:55,040 --> 02:24:56,400
Speaker 4: they were talking about D and D and they were

2740
02:24:56,400 --> 02:24:57,720
Speaker 4: like talking to my partner and they were like, you're.

2741
02:24:57,600 --> 02:24:59,959
Speaker 1: Not like if we had a diner instead of boyfriends.

2742
02:25:00,240 --> 02:25:03,560
Speaker 4: I don't know. Interchangeable partner.

2743
02:25:04,640 --> 02:25:09,039
Speaker 2: Feels like like you're drinking a glass of wine, missus partner.

2744
02:25:09,200 --> 02:25:16,280
Speaker 4: Yes, my interchangeably Okay, fine, my boyfriend, geez I put some.

2745
02:25:16,200 --> 02:25:16,879
Speaker 2: Love behind it.

2746
02:25:18,480 --> 02:25:22,320
Speaker 1: Sounds like like I call John my partner sometimes. Okay,

2747
02:25:22,800 --> 02:25:25,000
Speaker 1: And yes, it is a romantic relationship.

2748
02:25:25,600 --> 02:25:29,320
Speaker 4: I support you for that. I don't know. I use interchangeably.

2749
02:25:30,480 --> 02:25:35,920
Speaker 1: Her feels so like, okay, quaintance taking out with someone else?

2750
02:25:36,000 --> 02:25:36,959
Speaker 2: Does he say partner?

2751
02:25:37,520 --> 02:25:38,280
Speaker 4: I don't care.

2752
02:25:39,080 --> 02:25:41,279
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I am my partner.

2753
02:25:41,440 --> 02:25:43,400
Speaker 2: This is just her relationship. This is how she has

2754
02:25:44,000 --> 02:25:44,879
Speaker 2: leave me alone?

2755
02:25:44,959 --> 02:25:47,160
Speaker 4: Can he be says I partner for my romantic partner?

2756
02:25:47,200 --> 02:25:49,720
Speaker 4: It is very common any who.

2757
02:25:50,040 --> 02:25:54,920
Speaker 2: Anyway, I don't I was even talking talking about your

2758
02:25:54,959 --> 02:26:00,720
Speaker 2: partner is my man friend, my own friend?

2759
02:26:02,000 --> 02:26:10,600
Speaker 4: Anyway, So my partners roommates were like, oh, we found

2760
02:26:10,600 --> 02:26:13,280
Speaker 4: a d M. But like you're you're not you're not

2761
02:26:13,320 --> 02:26:16,039
Speaker 4: even interested, like you're always saying you don't have time.

2762
02:26:16,080 --> 02:26:18,520
Speaker 4: And I was like, I'll do it. Do you need someone,

2763
02:26:18,640 --> 02:26:21,280
Speaker 4: I'll do it. And they're like, yeah, we'll take you

2764
02:26:21,320 --> 02:26:27,640
Speaker 4: over your over your partner. Okay, D and D partners

2765
02:26:27,640 --> 02:26:29,600
Speaker 4: they're taking they're taking out my dn D person over

2766
02:26:29,720 --> 02:26:33,600
Speaker 4: my partner. And that's my story about D and D

2767
02:26:34,760 --> 02:26:36,680
Speaker 4: Paris was true.

2768
02:26:36,920 --> 02:26:39,360
Speaker 2: That was Sam's part except for AM was on the

2769
02:26:39,360 --> 02:26:39,880
Speaker 2: other side.

2770
02:26:40,560 --> 02:26:42,279
Speaker 4: Just move overcreases partners common.

2771
02:26:42,600 --> 02:26:47,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, how did you see the flies they're watching us? Yeah?

2772
02:26:47,160 --> 02:26:49,320
Speaker 1: There were flies haveing sex on my arm.

2773
02:26:49,560 --> 02:27:03,240
Speaker 4: Yeah yo, yeah, scratish normalizing partner Sam's dating simulate damn

2774
02:27:03,320 --> 02:27:06,440
Speaker 4: kisses date on the cheek date I have boyfriend. Option one,

2775
02:27:06,560 --> 02:27:10,280
Speaker 4: I have flour meat dunked in one? What Option two?

2776
02:27:10,360 --> 02:27:14,640
Speaker 2: I can't have a Christian waiting for That's so funny?

2777
02:27:20,320 --> 02:27:20,879
Speaker 2: Delete that?

2778
02:27:23,879 --> 02:27:34,600
Speaker 4: Oh that's wrapped in that the spider. Uh I was saying,

2779
02:27:34,640 --> 02:27:37,640
Speaker 4: that's that's Masters of Disguise. That was my favorite movie

2780
02:27:37,720 --> 02:27:38,160
Speaker 4: as a kid.

2781
02:27:38,640 --> 02:27:41,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, sitting with that kid needs caption this.

2782
02:27:42,959 --> 02:27:46,160
Speaker 4: But yeah, we need a New York New Yorker style

2783
02:27:46,240 --> 02:27:47,000
Speaker 4: caption for that.

2784
02:27:47,000 --> 02:27:47,840
Speaker 1: That was great?

2785
02:27:48,600 --> 02:27:52,280
Speaker 2: Be it? What else is great? This last story?

2786
02:27:53,480 --> 02:27:55,879
Speaker 1: Would I be the a hole for secretly recording my

2787
02:27:55,959 --> 02:27:56,960
Speaker 1: dad's girlfriend?

2788
02:27:57,080 --> 02:27:57,160
Speaker 3: Oh?

2789
02:27:58,040 --> 02:28:03,000
Speaker 1: Spicy? I'm and I was a former foster kid. I

2790
02:28:03,040 --> 02:28:05,680
Speaker 1: was never adopted before I aged out, but I was

2791
02:28:05,800 --> 02:28:08,440
Speaker 1: placed with Joe when I was ten and we were

2792
02:28:08,520 --> 02:28:11,440
Speaker 1: long term matched by the time I was fourteen. Joe's

2793
02:28:11,520 --> 02:28:14,120
Speaker 1: the only real family I've ever had, and I consider

2794
02:28:14,200 --> 02:28:16,840
Speaker 1: him my dad, even though the whole adoption thing never happened.

2795
02:28:17,080 --> 02:28:19,080
Speaker 1: When I first moved in with Joe, he was married,

2796
02:28:19,560 --> 02:28:21,840
Speaker 1: but his wife passed away suddenly when I was twelve.

2797
02:28:22,720 --> 02:28:24,600
Speaker 1: That was tough on us both, but we managed to

2798
02:28:24,600 --> 02:28:26,680
Speaker 1: get through it together. Also, this comes from a throwaway

2799
02:28:26,680 --> 02:28:30,400
Speaker 1: account on the arsash Okay storytime subren it Whoo. Now,

2800
02:28:30,440 --> 02:28:33,440
Speaker 1: Joe has been dating his girl current girlfriend Sarah for

2801
02:28:33,480 --> 02:28:36,560
Speaker 1: about two years. She didn't come over much, and when

2802
02:28:36,600 --> 02:28:39,119
Speaker 1: she did it was pretty brief. But three weeks ago

2803
02:28:39,160 --> 02:28:41,280
Speaker 1: she moved into her house because she lost her job

2804
02:28:41,360 --> 02:28:44,360
Speaker 1: and couldn't afford rent anymore. I don't know if she

2805
02:28:44,440 --> 02:28:47,000
Speaker 1: was always like this or if moving in has brought

2806
02:28:47,040 --> 02:28:49,640
Speaker 1: out a different side of her, but Sarah's been acting

2807
02:28:49,760 --> 02:28:54,080
Speaker 1: really strange. Whenever Joe isn't around. She completely ignores me, like,

2808
02:28:54,160 --> 02:28:57,840
Speaker 1: won't even look at me when I speak, won't answer questions, nothing.

2809
02:28:58,360 --> 02:28:59,840
Speaker 1: At first, I thought it might be some kind of

2810
02:28:59,840 --> 02:29:03,800
Speaker 1: anxiety thing, but now started getting worse. So Sarah's not

2811
02:29:03,840 --> 02:29:05,920
Speaker 1: even looking at OP and he's, you know, the little

2812
02:29:05,920 --> 02:29:09,039
Speaker 1: foster kid. They just want the tentionent. For example, when

2813
02:29:09,080 --> 02:29:12,039
Speaker 1: Joe's at work and I'm in the lounge watching a movie,

2814
02:29:12,120 --> 02:29:15,040
Speaker 1: She'll come in and start blasting tiktoks on her phone,

2815
02:29:15,040 --> 02:29:19,000
Speaker 1: playing music, totally disregarding the fact that I'm down there. Also,

2816
02:29:19,080 --> 02:29:24,200
Speaker 1: Op is twenty now, so you know when I asked

2817
02:29:24,240 --> 02:29:26,240
Speaker 1: her to turn it down. She flat out ignores me.

2818
02:29:26,440 --> 02:29:30,560
Speaker 1: She sounds like a teenager. She flat out ignores me.

2819
02:29:30,640 --> 02:29:33,039
Speaker 1: And it's not just the ignoring that's the problem. She

2820
02:29:33,080 --> 02:29:35,920
Speaker 1: started saying some pretty nasty stuff about me too. Hey,

2821
02:29:36,080 --> 02:29:38,280
Speaker 1: she's face timed her friend while I was in the

2822
02:29:38,360 --> 02:29:40,920
Speaker 1: room and talked about how lazy I am and how

2823
02:29:40,920 --> 02:29:43,960
Speaker 1: I don't contribute anything to the household. Yesterday, I was

2824
02:29:43,959 --> 02:29:47,039
Speaker 1: sitting on the sofa watching the new Deadpool movie when

2825
02:29:47,080 --> 02:29:49,760
Speaker 1: she came and sat across from me, face timing her

2826
02:29:49,800 --> 02:29:52,480
Speaker 1: friend again. She started talking about how she and Joe

2827
02:29:52,879 --> 02:29:55,640
Speaker 1: are trying for a baby and how they are excited

2828
02:29:55,680 --> 02:29:58,400
Speaker 1: they are, and how excited they are because neither of

2829
02:29:58,440 --> 02:30:03,720
Speaker 1: them have had children before those exact words, right, Oh,

2830
02:30:03,879 --> 02:30:06,360
Speaker 1: I can imagine like, yeah, and we've never had children before.

2831
02:30:07,600 --> 02:30:09,600
Speaker 1: Like I can imagine her just turning over.

2832
02:30:09,480 --> 02:30:12,160
Speaker 4: And wow, saren va trying to enjoy Deadpool?

2833
02:30:12,600 --> 02:30:15,800
Speaker 1: Come on. I haven't told Joe about those things that

2834
02:30:15,800 --> 02:30:18,080
Speaker 1: she's been saying to her friend because I don't want

2835
02:30:18,120 --> 02:30:20,600
Speaker 1: to mess up his first real relationship since his wife died.

2836
02:30:20,840 --> 02:30:23,959
Speaker 1: But this situation is seriously eating me up inside. I

2837
02:30:24,000 --> 02:30:26,160
Speaker 1: mentioned the situation to a few people, and a couple

2838
02:30:26,240 --> 02:30:30,080
Speaker 1: of them suggested that I secretly record her behavior when

2839
02:30:30,160 --> 02:30:32,440
Speaker 1: Joe isn't around, so that he can see what's really

2840
02:30:32,480 --> 02:30:34,640
Speaker 1: going on. It seemed like a good idea at first,

2841
02:30:34,680 --> 02:30:36,200
Speaker 1: but when I talked to one of my close friends

2842
02:30:36,200 --> 02:30:39,760
Speaker 1: about it, he said that secretly regarding secretly recording her

2843
02:30:40,240 --> 02:30:43,000
Speaker 1: could just make things worse. He thinks it might make

2844
02:30:43,120 --> 02:30:45,600
Speaker 1: Joe feel like I'm going behind his back and could

2845
02:30:45,640 --> 02:30:49,680
Speaker 1: cause even more attension, especially if Sarah twisted to make

2846
02:30:49,760 --> 02:30:52,280
Speaker 1: me look bad. Yeah, I could see it making you

2847
02:30:52,320 --> 02:30:55,240
Speaker 1: look bad. Ok, Yeah, I would say, don't do it.

2848
02:30:55,600 --> 02:30:57,360
Speaker 1: So would I be the a whole if I secretly

2849
02:30:57,400 --> 02:30:59,920
Speaker 1: recorded her to show Joe which he's really like? Or

2850
02:31:00,040 --> 02:31:01,800
Speaker 1: so I just avoid it altogether. I don't want to

2851
02:31:01,840 --> 02:31:04,800
Speaker 1: seem like I'm trying to sabotage his relationship. But I'm

2852
02:31:04,800 --> 02:31:07,840
Speaker 1: not sure what else to do. And there is an update.

2853
02:31:07,720 --> 02:31:09,320
Speaker 4: I think just conversation.

2854
02:31:09,440 --> 02:31:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to talk to Joe first.

2855
02:31:10,959 --> 02:31:13,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, if if he's like so, if he

2856
02:31:13,879 --> 02:31:16,320
Speaker 4: supports you, and if he actually cares about you, who'll listen?

2857
02:31:16,520 --> 02:31:20,279
Speaker 1: Yeah. Kimberly find says resentment is the only thing she's fostering.

2858
02:31:20,400 --> 02:31:24,600
Speaker 1: A Tina m Dott says she wants him to move out.

2859
02:31:24,720 --> 02:31:28,040
Speaker 1: I think that could be true. I think, yeah, yeah,

2860
02:31:28,040 --> 02:31:30,320
Speaker 1: it sounds like she just wants like a family to

2861
02:31:30,440 --> 02:31:32,959
Speaker 1: herself and doesn't want to have to deal with anything

2862
02:31:33,080 --> 02:31:38,080
Speaker 1: OHP related. I would agree, Yeah, I would say it

2863
02:31:38,200 --> 02:31:41,480
Speaker 1: probably not a good idea to record someone without their knowledge.

2864
02:31:41,480 --> 02:31:43,760
Speaker 1: It's kind of just a whack move, no degree unless

2865
02:31:43,800 --> 02:31:45,280
Speaker 1: you're in like public or something not in like the

2866
02:31:45,320 --> 02:31:53,680
Speaker 1: privacy of home if But yeah, with with this, I

2867
02:31:53,720 --> 02:31:56,680
Speaker 1: would talk to Joe first, say what's going on, and

2868
02:31:57,840 --> 02:32:00,320
Speaker 1: maybe after that like talk to her directly too.

2869
02:32:00,560 --> 02:32:00,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2870
02:32:01,160 --> 02:32:04,080
Speaker 1: But update, So I decided to talk to Joe directly

2871
02:32:04,120 --> 02:32:07,240
Speaker 1: instead of secretly recording Sarah good idea. I thought it

2872
02:32:07,240 --> 02:32:09,880
Speaker 1: would be more mature, sensible, and non confrontational to handle

2873
02:32:09,920 --> 02:32:13,000
Speaker 1: things face to face. My mindset was that if he

2874
02:32:13,040 --> 02:32:15,400
Speaker 1: didn't take it seriously, then I'd consider recording to show

2875
02:32:15,480 --> 02:32:18,480
Speaker 1: him what was really going on. When Joe got home

2876
02:32:18,480 --> 02:32:20,760
Speaker 1: from work, I asked him to talk privately in my room.

2877
02:32:21,160 --> 02:32:23,080
Speaker 1: He seemed a bit confused at first, but I made

2878
02:32:23,080 --> 02:32:25,519
Speaker 1: it clear that I wasn't trying to sabotage his relationship.

2879
02:32:25,600 --> 02:32:28,000
Speaker 1: I just needed to tell him some things Sarah was

2880
02:32:28,000 --> 02:32:31,000
Speaker 1: doing that were making me uncomfortable. I reminded him about

2881
02:32:31,040 --> 02:32:33,760
Speaker 1: how she ignores me and mentioned how she plays videos

2882
02:32:33,760 --> 02:32:36,000
Speaker 1: while I'm watching TV. But when I told him, she

2883
02:32:36,120 --> 02:32:38,680
Speaker 1: said that he didn't have any children and that they

2884
02:32:38,720 --> 02:32:41,920
Speaker 1: were trying for a baby. He looked really upset. I

2885
02:32:42,000 --> 02:32:44,280
Speaker 1: thought a bit awkward, but Joe called Sarah into the

2886
02:32:44,360 --> 02:32:44,720
Speaker 1: room to.

2887
02:32:44,680 --> 02:32:45,280
Speaker 2: Talk with us.

2888
02:32:45,600 --> 02:32:48,120
Speaker 1: He asked her if what I said was true, and

2889
02:32:48,160 --> 02:32:50,880
Speaker 1: she immediately denied it, but you could tell from her

2890
02:32:50,879 --> 02:32:52,840
Speaker 1: body language that she was lying.

2891
02:32:53,000 --> 02:32:53,879
Speaker 4: The freaking liar.

2892
02:32:54,320 --> 02:32:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. She just never expected me to say

2893
02:32:56,959 --> 02:32:59,360
Speaker 1: anything about how she's been treating me or what. But

2894
02:32:59,480 --> 02:33:02,760
Speaker 1: Joe firm told her that this is my house, not hers,

2895
02:33:02,959 --> 02:33:04,879
Speaker 1: and that while she's a guest here, she can't be

2896
02:33:04,959 --> 02:33:07,800
Speaker 1: disrespecting me. Things got a little heated, and in the

2897
02:33:07,920 --> 02:33:11,160
Speaker 1: end she apologized to me, though it was through gritted teeth.

2898
02:33:11,879 --> 02:33:14,879
Speaker 1: Though it is through gritted teeth. I accepted the apology,

2899
02:33:14,959 --> 02:33:17,480
Speaker 1: even though I'm not sure it was genuine, And I

2900
02:33:17,520 --> 02:33:20,680
Speaker 1: just want to genuinely say that we go live every

2901
02:33:20,680 --> 02:33:23,280
Speaker 1: weekday three pm PST here on YouTube, so you should

2902
02:33:23,320 --> 02:33:26,480
Speaker 1: join and have fun and have, you know, join the

2903
02:33:26,480 --> 02:33:29,480
Speaker 1: conversation where you can say things like Kimberly fine, just

2904
02:33:29,520 --> 02:33:32,879
Speaker 1: said or she says, no, recording her then talk new

2905
02:33:32,920 --> 02:33:35,720
Speaker 1: relationship means Dad will feel pressure to maintain the positive

2906
02:33:35,720 --> 02:33:38,520
Speaker 1: standing of the relationship by communicating. So I was trying

2907
02:33:38,520 --> 02:33:42,160
Speaker 1: to go to bat for op by taking the wheel himself. Yes,

2908
02:33:42,240 --> 02:33:45,040
Speaker 1: but I think it kind of goes against like good

2909
02:33:45,120 --> 02:33:48,320
Speaker 1: faith and good values. Like I think recording someone in

2910
02:33:48,560 --> 02:33:52,320
Speaker 1: secret is just uh, not a high value move to do.

2911
02:33:52,800 --> 02:33:55,560
Speaker 4: I also think that they had a type of relationship

2912
02:33:55,600 --> 02:33:58,960
Speaker 4: where it's proven proven he is going to listen to

2913
02:33:59,000 --> 02:34:00,520
Speaker 4: her and the her.

2914
02:34:00,600 --> 02:34:04,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, sniffy, Tiffy, says Tief. Yes, I did say Tief wrong.

2915
02:34:04,600 --> 02:34:07,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think there is a world though. I think

2916
02:34:07,520 --> 02:34:12,160
Speaker 4: there's a world like let's say Joe his name Joe. Yeah, Yeah,

2917
02:34:12,680 --> 02:34:16,360
Speaker 4: let's say Joe, like ohp. He brings her concerns and says, hey,

2918
02:34:16,400 --> 02:34:17,920
Speaker 4: she's been treating me like this, and she's like, no,

2919
02:34:17,959 --> 02:34:20,440
Speaker 4: that's not true, that's not true, and then she has

2920
02:34:20,480 --> 02:34:25,280
Speaker 4: to record. But in this world, she hadn't, you know,

2921
02:34:25,520 --> 02:34:27,720
Speaker 4: had a conversation with him. Yeah, And so I think

2922
02:34:27,760 --> 02:34:30,560
Speaker 4: the recording is just you know, see if he believes you.

2923
02:34:30,840 --> 02:34:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then maybe you could record.

2924
02:34:33,120 --> 02:34:35,120
Speaker 4: But maybe it's still yeah.

2925
02:34:35,200 --> 02:34:37,760
Speaker 1: But after that, Joe asked if I was still comfortable

2926
02:34:37,800 --> 02:34:39,800
Speaker 1: with her staying with us. I said I was because

2927
02:34:39,800 --> 02:34:42,040
Speaker 1: I didn't want to break them up. I just wanted

2928
02:34:42,080 --> 02:34:44,440
Speaker 1: to tell him what was happening. However, she decided to

2929
02:34:44,440 --> 02:34:46,360
Speaker 1: stay at a friend's house for the night, which made

2930
02:34:46,480 --> 02:34:49,400
Speaker 1: the situation feel even more tense. I can tell Joe

2931
02:34:49,440 --> 02:34:51,600
Speaker 1: is really feeling upset right now, and I feel super

2932
02:34:51,600 --> 02:34:54,280
Speaker 1: guilty for making him feel this way. He insists it's

2933
02:34:54,280 --> 02:34:56,400
Speaker 1: not my fault, and we ended up having kebabs for

2934
02:34:56,440 --> 02:34:58,640
Speaker 1: tea and even so, I can't shake the feeling that

2935
02:34:58,680 --> 02:35:00,680
Speaker 1: I've caused a huge fight between them, which I mean,

2936
02:35:00,720 --> 02:35:04,200
Speaker 1: you did, but but like you also just being a

2937
02:35:04,240 --> 02:35:08,360
Speaker 1: stinky lady. Yeah, I can't shake the feeling it caused

2938
02:35:08,360 --> 02:35:10,440
Speaker 1: a huge fight between them. Joe went to bed early,

2939
02:35:10,520 --> 02:35:13,760
Speaker 1: and now I'm feeling bad about this whole situation. I

2940
02:35:13,800 --> 02:35:17,280
Speaker 1: just hope whatever happens next, that things will settle down.

2941
02:35:17,440 --> 02:35:19,600
Speaker 4: I don't think you should feel bad because you, Yeah,

2942
02:35:19,640 --> 02:35:23,720
Speaker 4: you were just exposing that she this woman sucks. Yeah,

2943
02:35:23,760 --> 02:35:27,600
Speaker 4: and she's like Joe is able, is capable of making

2944
02:35:27,600 --> 02:35:30,440
Speaker 4: his own decisions. He's an adult, and if he wants

2945
02:35:30,440 --> 02:35:34,160
Speaker 4: to stay together with this girl. Then he can h

2946
02:35:34,400 --> 02:35:35,800
Speaker 4: you're just giving him all the information.

2947
02:35:36,080 --> 02:35:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, and like that, now he can choose to

2948
02:35:38,760 --> 02:35:42,519
Speaker 1: stay with this person or not with full information instead.

2949
02:35:42,200 --> 02:35:45,320
Speaker 4: Of just if you were lying, that would be different. Yeah,

2950
02:35:45,360 --> 02:35:47,080
Speaker 4: but yeah, you were just telling the truth.

2951
02:35:47,160 --> 02:35:48,960
Speaker 1: And also you did so in a way that didn't

2952
02:35:48,959 --> 02:35:52,400
Speaker 1: compromise your values or your yourself in any way like

2953
02:35:52,480 --> 02:35:55,920
Speaker 1: which I think a recording may have done. Yes. But

2954
02:35:56,040 --> 02:35:59,879
Speaker 1: with that, that is where this story and this episode

2955
02:36:00,400 --> 02:36:03,640
Speaker 1: this streams. So if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

2956
02:36:03,920 --> 02:36:06,440
Speaker 4: We love you and see you tomorrow.

2957
02:36:17,879 --> 02:36:18,920
Speaker 1: See another episode.

2958
02:36:19,480 --> 02:36:20,119
Speaker 4: We're back.

2959
02:36:20,320 --> 02:36:21,600
Speaker 1: That was too short.

2960
02:36:21,640 --> 02:36:22,280
Speaker 4: It was too short.

2961
02:36:22,320 --> 02:36:24,280
Speaker 2: Guys, Sorry, you need to.

2962
02:36:24,240 --> 02:36:27,160
Speaker 1: Do another one. You need one, Sopha, can you add

2963
02:36:27,280 --> 02:36:30,920
Speaker 1: one in this episode? While I go to the bathroom

2964
02:36:30,959 --> 02:36:32,680
Speaker 1: and Riley, you entertained the crew.

2965
02:36:32,600 --> 02:36:37,480
Speaker 2: I will entertain everyone. We'll talk guys. Hello, what's going on?

2966
02:36:39,800 --> 02:36:44,320
Speaker 2: I have been taking life by the balls recently, and

2967
02:36:44,800 --> 02:36:48,480
Speaker 2: I am going to cook a really nice dinner and

2968
02:36:48,600 --> 02:36:51,240
Speaker 2: I well, not nice dinner, but like a little appetizer.

2969
02:36:51,240 --> 02:36:53,680
Speaker 2: Have you guys ever been a PF chains. If so,

2970
02:36:54,879 --> 02:36:59,920
Speaker 2: you know that one recipe that you get is like, shoot,

2971
02:37:00,640 --> 02:37:06,000
Speaker 2: it's like the chicken lettuce wrap. I'm gonna make that

2972
02:37:06,080 --> 02:37:08,440
Speaker 2: tonight and I'm gonna do it. Uh my girlfriend's coming

2973
02:37:08,440 --> 02:37:11,360
Speaker 2: over late tonight, so make her a little little something

2974
02:37:11,440 --> 02:37:13,879
Speaker 2: something And it's really nice because it's light and you

2975
02:37:13,920 --> 02:37:15,320
Speaker 2: get let it, you get, you get, you have the

2976
02:37:15,320 --> 02:37:16,560
Speaker 2: thing and then you get lettuce and then you just

2977
02:37:16,600 --> 02:37:23,440
Speaker 2: eat it and you'll huh. We are on seven fifteen.

2978
02:37:24,560 --> 02:37:27,720
Speaker 2: So yeah, Intertime Realms, that's okay. If you want to

2979
02:37:27,720 --> 02:37:30,280
Speaker 2: wait till Tuesday to donate, and maybe you can donate

2980
02:37:30,320 --> 02:37:34,279
Speaker 2: some memberships, that is totally cool. Johnske I am a chef.

2981
02:37:34,600 --> 02:37:38,000
Speaker 2: I cooked, dude, I cooked some freaking grilled chicken yesterday

2982
02:37:38,200 --> 02:37:40,480
Speaker 2: and Sam's dad tasted something and he said Riley's good cook,

2983
02:37:40,600 --> 02:37:43,320
Speaker 2: and that made me milt inside. I was like hanging

2984
02:37:43,400 --> 02:37:45,920
Speaker 2: up from him. It was really nice. You found a

2985
02:37:45,920 --> 02:37:49,360
Speaker 2: story we went for Sammy boy to get back. Yeah,

2986
02:37:49,520 --> 02:37:51,400
Speaker 2: day for more time, I know, I know. I was like,

2987
02:37:51,440 --> 02:37:52,720
Speaker 2: oh no, we've only recorded.

2988
02:37:53,280 --> 02:37:55,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to jump in there Riley and say hey, stop,

2989
02:37:56,120 --> 02:37:56,520
Speaker 4: don't leave.

2990
02:37:56,920 --> 02:37:59,160
Speaker 2: I'll start saying some more stuff. I don't think I

2991
02:37:59,160 --> 02:38:02,680
Speaker 2: have just let us know to not end. Oh yeah,

2992
02:38:02,920 --> 02:38:06,280
Speaker 2: i'n't really been producing a lot today. Some of them

2993
02:38:06,280 --> 02:38:13,720
Speaker 2: have died really short. Yeah. Yeah, I love lettuce Raps.

2994
02:38:14,840 --> 02:38:16,480
Speaker 2: I haven't made it in a while because I used

2995
02:38:16,480 --> 02:38:20,120
Speaker 2: to do it with an old friend. But now I'm

2996
02:38:20,120 --> 02:38:21,959
Speaker 2: gonna bring him back to bring it back. Why not.

2997
02:38:22,959 --> 02:38:31,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna play Minecraft tonight. Yeah, he's cool. I think recently, Yeah,

2998
02:38:31,480 --> 02:38:35,120
Speaker 2: hot take, I think I've fallen in love with her more. Yeah,

2999
02:38:35,200 --> 02:38:37,560
Speaker 2: because like I realized that I held a lot up,

3000
02:38:38,520 --> 02:38:40,959
Speaker 2: a lot of frustrations from my other relationships, so I

3001
02:38:40,959 --> 02:38:43,720
Speaker 2: put a wall up and one day, dude, it just

3002
02:38:43,760 --> 02:38:46,280
Speaker 2: all went down and I was like, wow, I need

3003
02:38:46,280 --> 02:38:48,959
Speaker 2: to really like dig into it. So I'm doing one

3004
02:38:48,959 --> 02:38:50,520
Speaker 2: of the things in Paris that I realized she's not

3005
02:38:50,560 --> 02:38:51,080
Speaker 2: gonna watch this.

3006
02:38:51,120 --> 02:38:51,280
Speaker 3: I know.

3007
02:38:51,360 --> 02:38:54,720
Speaker 2: This is like learning how to be more like relation

3008
02:38:55,640 --> 02:38:57,840
Speaker 2: with her and taking more time and just chilling out

3009
02:38:57,879 --> 02:39:00,720
Speaker 2: because I'm sometimes I'm like, hey, baby, we gotta do this, this, this,

3010
02:39:00,720 --> 02:39:04,080
Speaker 2: this and this, and then I stressed myself out just

3011
02:39:04,120 --> 02:39:07,240
Speaker 2: like taking that time. Yeah, they've become more intimate in

3012
02:39:07,240 --> 02:39:11,520
Speaker 2: a lot of different ways. Oh yeah, hopefully sweet Yeah,

3013
02:39:11,560 --> 02:39:15,600
Speaker 2: and just like hanging out, hanging out on online, and

3014
02:39:15,640 --> 02:39:18,879
Speaker 2: then I really want her to read to me more.

3015
02:39:18,959 --> 02:39:21,120
Speaker 2: I don't know read to you. Yeah, I know this

3016
02:39:21,160 --> 02:39:23,360
Speaker 2: sounds weird, but like I don't know, Like I was thinking,

3017
02:39:23,360 --> 02:39:25,080
Speaker 2: like whenever I have kids one day, I want to

3018
02:39:25,120 --> 02:39:25,880
Speaker 2: like read to them.

3019
02:39:26,000 --> 02:39:28,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like I like reading two people. Yeah, a

3020
02:39:28,840 --> 02:39:31,000
Speaker 4: threat to my friends. I would like call them on

3021
02:39:31,040 --> 02:39:33,879
Speaker 4: FaceTime and I would read like mythology to them.

3022
02:39:34,000 --> 02:39:34,760
Speaker 2: That's so nice.

3023
02:39:34,959 --> 02:39:37,720
Speaker 4: Or if like when I was in high school, when

3024
02:39:37,720 --> 02:39:41,439
Speaker 4: we were studying, I would read the textbook to my friends,

3025
02:39:43,240 --> 02:39:46,560
Speaker 4: you know, like you know, like that's crazy, like like

3026
02:39:46,680 --> 02:39:49,200
Speaker 4: so if they were tired, like so I was still

3027
02:39:49,280 --> 02:39:51,480
Speaker 4: studying and then they could they didn't have to read it.

3028
02:39:53,160 --> 02:39:55,600
Speaker 2: And sleepless she does have a membership, but she's at

3029
02:39:55,640 --> 02:39:56,240
Speaker 2: work right now.

3030
02:39:56,720 --> 02:39:57,879
Speaker 4: At work.

3031
02:39:57,720 --> 02:40:00,000
Speaker 2: Wait, actually she might listen to this because she's gonna

3032
02:40:00,120 --> 02:40:00,800
Speaker 2: do laundry later.

3033
02:40:00,959 --> 02:40:03,199
Speaker 4: Ah, that's so cute, dude.

3034
02:40:03,760 --> 02:40:05,279
Speaker 2: You don't know that.

3035
02:40:05,280 --> 02:40:05,720
Speaker 4: That's cute.

3036
02:40:05,760 --> 02:40:09,120
Speaker 2: Though. I don't taylor stuff like that. I like journal

3037
02:40:09,160 --> 02:40:10,880
Speaker 2: and then I'll tell her one day, I'll put it

3038
02:40:10,879 --> 02:40:11,320
Speaker 2: in a jar.

3039
02:40:11,520 --> 02:40:17,840
Speaker 4: Well, now you've told the whole world friendly mister friends. Friends?

3040
02:40:17,959 --> 02:40:22,840
Speaker 2: All right, ready, how do you like that flavor? I

3041
02:40:22,840 --> 02:40:24,480
Speaker 2: was trying to look for a reaction. You didn't give

3042
02:40:24,480 --> 02:40:25,280
Speaker 2: me one?

3043
02:40:25,320 --> 02:40:29,440
Speaker 4: Interesting? All right, let's yeah, I refuse to eat my

3044
02:40:29,440 --> 02:40:33,680
Speaker 4: my girl. I refuse to eat my girlfriend's parents' ethnic food.

3045
02:40:34,000 --> 02:40:40,480
Speaker 4: Now we might break up. Uh oh. Olivia female twenty two,

3046
02:40:40,480 --> 02:40:43,880
Speaker 4: and I male eighteen have been dating for about seven months.

3047
02:40:44,040 --> 02:40:46,199
Speaker 4: We met at UNI as we're both doing a BA

3048
02:40:46,320 --> 02:40:49,800
Speaker 4: in primary education. She's in her second year, but we

3049
02:40:49,879 --> 02:40:53,160
Speaker 4: met through the course. Olivia is Japanese. Her family has

3050
02:40:53,200 --> 02:40:56,600
Speaker 4: been in England for about eight Her whole family, but

3051
02:40:56,800 --> 02:41:00,760
Speaker 4: especially Olivia, are obsessed with English culture. I joke that

3052
02:41:00,840 --> 02:41:04,720
Speaker 4: she is a Britaboo, which is honestly quite accurate. She

3053
02:41:04,879 --> 02:41:08,400
Speaker 4: cried when the queen died lol. By the way, this

3054
02:41:08,480 --> 02:41:13,160
Speaker 4: comes from Thrara Britaboo. On the Wednesday that just passed,

3055
02:41:13,240 --> 02:41:16,240
Speaker 4: I was invited to a meal with Olivia's family. This

3056
02:41:16,680 --> 02:41:20,280
Speaker 4: was a big deal and the first time I would

3057
02:41:20,320 --> 02:41:24,240
Speaker 4: meet them. WHOA. I had seen pictures and whatever, but

3058
02:41:24,320 --> 02:41:26,760
Speaker 4: never met them. You told me that they're more relaxed

3059
02:41:26,800 --> 02:41:29,840
Speaker 4: now since moving to England, but they're still very traditional,

3060
02:41:29,920 --> 02:41:32,680
Speaker 4: and honestly, I'm still not too sure what that means

3061
02:41:32,720 --> 02:41:35,400
Speaker 4: in Japanese terms. I know what it would mean if

3062
02:41:35,400 --> 02:41:37,800
Speaker 4: someone here said their parents were very traditional, but not

3063
02:41:37,840 --> 02:41:40,480
Speaker 4: for a Japanese family. But anyway, I wanted to make

3064
02:41:40,520 --> 02:41:42,680
Speaker 4: a good impression, so I told her to instruct me

3065
02:41:42,760 --> 02:41:45,520
Speaker 4: how to behave in the house. And when meeting them,

3066
02:41:46,240 --> 02:41:48,440
Speaker 4: Olivia said she was really excited for me to try

3067
02:41:48,480 --> 02:41:51,960
Speaker 4: her family's ethnic food. That is how she described it,

3068
02:41:52,240 --> 02:41:55,400
Speaker 4: and I was looking forward to it. Also. Fast forward

3069
02:41:55,440 --> 02:41:58,240
Speaker 4: to the night. It was all going great. We sat

3070
02:41:58,280 --> 02:42:02,320
Speaker 4: down to eat, and this is where things went. What

3071
02:42:02,360 --> 02:42:03,120
Speaker 4: do you think did happened?

3072
02:42:04,600 --> 02:42:06,480
Speaker 2: Things might go wrong? Wow?

3073
02:42:07,600 --> 02:42:10,560
Speaker 4: When Olivia's mom brought out the food, it was udon

3074
02:42:10,680 --> 02:42:13,360
Speaker 4: noodles with chicken and Frida egg on top, as well

3075
02:42:13,360 --> 02:42:14,959
Speaker 4: as what looked to be chicken gabobs.

3076
02:42:15,000 --> 02:42:16,039
Speaker 2: That sounds delicious.

3077
02:42:16,879 --> 02:42:19,640
Speaker 4: They call them something different, but I can't remember the name.

3078
02:42:20,200 --> 02:42:24,680
Speaker 4: I instantly felt embarrassed. Oh no, I looked over to Olivia,

3079
02:42:24,720 --> 02:42:27,040
Speaker 4: who was smiling and signaling for me to eat it.

3080
02:42:27,680 --> 02:42:30,240
Speaker 4: This is where I think I fed up. I just

3081
02:42:30,400 --> 02:42:34,560
Speaker 4: blurted out, I can't eat this, I think, overly, bluntly.

3082
02:42:34,879 --> 02:42:36,879
Speaker 4: I looked at the mom. I thought there had been

3083
02:42:36,879 --> 02:42:44,280
Speaker 4: some mistake. I was raised and still am vegan. Not okay,

3084
02:42:44,320 --> 02:42:48,720
Speaker 4: But this means that Olivia presumably knows that her partner

3085
02:42:48,800 --> 02:42:49,359
Speaker 4: is vegan.

3086
02:42:50,480 --> 02:42:53,840
Speaker 2: And is I mean and is not? Let veacans are

3087
02:42:53,840 --> 02:42:55,040
Speaker 2: really tricky these days.

3088
02:42:55,080 --> 02:42:58,320
Speaker 1: You know, they're making things that aren't we look like meat,

3089
02:42:58,360 --> 02:43:01,680
Speaker 1: So maybe like the partner, she should know.

3090
02:43:02,120 --> 02:43:04,920
Speaker 4: That's embarrassing if you don't know the dietary restriction.

3091
02:43:08,600 --> 02:43:11,520
Speaker 2: I said first seven months.

3092
02:43:11,320 --> 02:43:16,400
Speaker 1: I guess I owe you an episode seven months.

3093
02:43:17,040 --> 02:43:18,720
Speaker 4: That's embarrassing. It's very embarrassing.

3094
02:43:18,760 --> 02:43:21,119
Speaker 1: Sam, What would you have known by this point that

3095
02:43:21,240 --> 02:43:22,600
Speaker 1: Riley is allergic to shrimp?

3096
02:43:22,920 --> 02:43:25,039
Speaker 2: No, if you were that too, But like, if you

3097
02:43:25,080 --> 02:43:26,640
Speaker 2: were in a relationship with someone, what would you have

3098
02:43:26,680 --> 02:43:31,360
Speaker 2: known by this point that their dietary restriction exactly? And

3099
02:43:31,400 --> 02:43:34,240
Speaker 2: how many kids they want and what their grandmother's favorite

3100
02:43:34,240 --> 02:43:39,400
Speaker 2: color is, because that's how favorite color. Yeah, he asked

3101
02:43:39,440 --> 02:43:40,200
Speaker 2: all the good questions.

3102
02:43:40,280 --> 02:43:42,759
Speaker 1: Kalty kid says, read the next sentence.

3103
02:43:42,480 --> 02:43:45,760
Speaker 4: Okay, and they were just like, why didn't you say

3104
02:43:45,760 --> 02:43:48,600
Speaker 4: before we cooked? And I just said I thought Olivia

3105
02:43:48,600 --> 02:43:50,840
Speaker 4: would have told you. I just looked at her. I

3106
02:43:50,840 --> 02:43:53,920
Speaker 4: felt so embarrassed, and she was she was still telling

3107
02:43:53,959 --> 02:43:56,920
Speaker 4: me to try it because you've never had this type before.

3108
02:43:57,120 --> 02:43:58,480
Speaker 1: This relationship is cooked.

3109
02:43:59,760 --> 02:44:03,400
Speaker 4: Hey, I refused to eat it. She Olivia's mom went

3110
02:44:03,480 --> 02:44:06,680
Speaker 4: and brought me something else, which she said had no meat.

3111
02:44:06,920 --> 02:44:10,400
Speaker 4: But the whole evening after that was incredibly awkward. After

3112
02:44:10,640 --> 02:44:13,320
Speaker 4: I left, Olivia messaged me and we had a huge fight.

3113
02:44:13,840 --> 02:44:16,200
Speaker 4: She said, how I embarrassed her by not even trying

3114
02:44:16,200 --> 02:44:18,640
Speaker 4: the food. I told her I couldn't try it even

3115
02:44:18,640 --> 02:44:21,600
Speaker 4: if I wanted to. I've never eaten meat or any

3116
02:44:21,680 --> 02:44:24,120
Speaker 4: animal products in my life. If I had eaten it,

3117
02:44:24,160 --> 02:44:25,879
Speaker 4: then I would have gotten sick, which is true. You

3118
02:44:25,879 --> 02:44:27,840
Speaker 4: can have a very inverse reaction.

3119
02:44:27,560 --> 02:44:29,360
Speaker 2: If especially if you've never eaten Yeah. Yeah.

3120
02:44:30,080 --> 02:44:32,400
Speaker 4: I asked why she didn't tell her parents I was vegan,

3121
02:44:32,600 --> 02:44:34,720
Speaker 4: you said, she thought it would just I would just

3122
02:44:34,840 --> 02:44:35,840
Speaker 4: break it for the one.

3123
02:44:35,680 --> 02:44:38,800
Speaker 1: When you're saying, yeah, he's vegan for his entire life.

3124
02:44:39,000 --> 02:44:43,240
Speaker 4: Entire life. Yeah, No, like it's working for it to

3125
02:44:43,240 --> 02:44:46,520
Speaker 4: be vegan for a couple of years, entire life has

3126
02:44:46,560 --> 02:44:48,560
Speaker 4: never had breakup. Yeah.

3127
02:44:48,760 --> 02:44:51,440
Speaker 1: I wonder if they're like Buddhists.

3128
02:44:51,160 --> 02:44:53,840
Speaker 4: Oh pie, Yeah, yeah. Maybe it could be a religious

3129
02:44:53,879 --> 02:44:57,600
Speaker 4: thing too, which is also even worse. She said her

3130
02:44:57,640 --> 02:45:00,160
Speaker 4: mom disappointed, was disappointed she had to waste all the

3131
02:45:00,160 --> 02:45:02,200
Speaker 4: food she had cooked for me because it was so expensive.

3132
02:45:02,680 --> 02:45:03,119
Speaker 2: Eat it?

3133
02:45:04,440 --> 02:45:06,000
Speaker 1: What do you want op to just eat it?

3134
02:45:06,120 --> 02:45:06,280
Speaker 3: No?

3135
02:45:06,480 --> 02:45:10,240
Speaker 1: I mean, just just eat it, just break it.

3136
02:45:10,320 --> 02:45:10,800
Speaker 2: Just now.

3137
02:45:11,480 --> 02:45:13,640
Speaker 4: The rest of the family, like you would say that

3138
02:45:13,840 --> 02:45:15,440
Speaker 4: just freaking keep the food.

3139
02:45:16,120 --> 02:45:19,120
Speaker 2: Do you want op to just keep? No?

3140
02:45:19,640 --> 02:45:23,480
Speaker 4: I want I think the other family members would they

3141
02:45:23,680 --> 02:45:24,200
Speaker 4: like left over.

3142
02:45:24,200 --> 02:45:27,040
Speaker 1: But Opie's complete family is all vegan or whatever.

3143
02:45:27,520 --> 02:45:31,119
Speaker 4: Top comments Shiny Baby Cheetah says, not the a hole.

3144
02:45:31,280 --> 02:45:34,000
Speaker 4: The title is a little bit misleading. You didn't refuse

3145
02:45:34,040 --> 02:45:36,520
Speaker 4: to eat ethnic food. You refuse to eat because you're

3146
02:45:36,560 --> 02:45:39,560
Speaker 4: a lifelong vegan. Olivia is in the wrong here. She

3147
02:45:39,600 --> 02:45:41,440
Speaker 4: should have told her parents so they could make you

3148
02:45:41,480 --> 02:45:44,320
Speaker 4: a meal you could eat. It seems like Olivia wanted

3149
02:45:44,320 --> 02:45:47,240
Speaker 4: you to break your own convictions to make a good impression,

3150
02:45:47,400 --> 02:45:51,039
Speaker 4: and that was wrong of her. I actually, this is

3151
02:45:51,040 --> 02:45:52,879
Speaker 4: something I kind of think about, Like when you go

3152
02:45:52,959 --> 02:45:57,119
Speaker 4: out to eat with other people's families, do you kind

3153
02:45:57,120 --> 02:45:58,920
Speaker 4: of like that you've known for a while or something.

3154
02:45:58,959 --> 02:46:04,200
Speaker 4: Do you you have to like let them know your friends?

3155
02:46:04,280 --> 02:46:06,119
Speaker 4: Do you have to like, is it weird to remind

3156
02:46:06,160 --> 02:46:10,160
Speaker 4: your friends your dietary restrictions or should your friends just be.

3157
02:46:10,560 --> 02:46:12,680
Speaker 2: They should know that? Yeah, because whatever, I went to

3158
02:46:12,720 --> 02:46:15,120
Speaker 2: your house, you guys didn't have shrimp writing for me.

3159
02:46:15,480 --> 02:46:17,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I don't know if we told you, Yeah,

3160
02:46:17,720 --> 02:46:20,480
Speaker 1: we didn't. I think, wow, I think there was luck

3161
02:46:20,520 --> 02:46:21,000
Speaker 1: of the drug.

3162
02:46:22,120 --> 02:46:24,720
Speaker 4: I think I think, well, if my mom had been

3163
02:46:24,720 --> 02:46:25,440
Speaker 4: making shrimp, I.

3164
02:46:25,440 --> 02:46:28,280
Speaker 1: Won't like you should you should tell people your diet.

3165
02:46:28,400 --> 02:46:31,480
Speaker 1: You should not assume like all right. For example, James

3166
02:46:31,840 --> 02:46:36,520
Speaker 1: is allergic to peanuts anytime he eats anything. Are there

3167
02:46:36,600 --> 02:46:38,920
Speaker 1: parents peanuts in this? Because he will die?

3168
02:46:39,320 --> 02:46:39,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3169
02:46:40,680 --> 02:46:43,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think yeah, I think, well I think

3170
02:46:43,480 --> 02:46:48,040
Speaker 4: that in terms of death, yes, but okay, but I

3171
02:46:48,320 --> 02:46:51,560
Speaker 4: think that like when it's just a you know, a dietary,

3172
02:46:51,720 --> 02:46:56,880
Speaker 4: like like I'm pescatarian. I'm just I'm like when, how

3173
02:46:57,240 --> 02:46:59,560
Speaker 4: like when should I expect my friends to just tell

3174
02:46:59,600 --> 02:47:00,320
Speaker 4: their family?

3175
02:47:00,520 --> 02:47:00,720
Speaker 2: You know?

3176
02:47:00,959 --> 02:47:02,800
Speaker 1: I think you should. It was like, oh, by the way,

3177
02:47:02,800 --> 02:47:05,760
Speaker 1: I'm pescytarian. Yeah yeah, so you know, and then they'll

3178
02:47:05,760 --> 02:47:07,600
Speaker 1: be like, oh, he's one.

3179
02:47:07,440 --> 02:47:13,199
Speaker 4: Of those one of those ROAs ro Ray britaboo Op says,

3180
02:47:13,360 --> 02:47:15,360
Speaker 4: I think I failed to express it well in the post,

3181
02:47:15,520 --> 02:47:17,600
Speaker 4: but Olivia made it seem like I refuse to eat

3182
02:47:17,640 --> 02:47:20,039
Speaker 4: it because it was ethnic food, which wasn't the reason

3183
02:47:20,040 --> 02:47:22,720
Speaker 4: for me. It was because it was animal products, which

3184
02:47:22,720 --> 02:47:25,080
Speaker 4: made no sense because I ate the food. They gave

3185
02:47:25,120 --> 02:47:28,920
Speaker 4: me afterwards, which I hope had no animal products in it. Well,

3186
02:47:28,959 --> 02:47:30,520
Speaker 4: I mean there's a lot of Japanese food that can

3187
02:47:30,560 --> 02:47:31,920
Speaker 4: be made, you know, vegan.

3188
02:47:32,280 --> 02:47:39,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, like at amamiyah soup, like tofu, he says, soup, yeah. Uh, noodles,

3189
02:47:40,640 --> 02:47:44,520
Speaker 1: A lot of those are fish based, non fish based noodles.

3190
02:47:44,600 --> 02:47:47,039
Speaker 4: If it's me so based, then rice.

3191
02:47:48,920 --> 02:47:50,560
Speaker 2: Seaweed true.

3192
02:47:51,160 --> 02:47:55,560
Speaker 4: Uh my side, Hoe says. I read the title thinking

3193
02:47:55,600 --> 02:47:57,760
Speaker 4: there's no way that Opia is not the A hole,

3194
02:47:57,879 --> 02:48:00,959
Speaker 4: but after reading You're not the A whole. I think

3195
02:48:01,000 --> 02:48:02,920
Speaker 4: this is just everyone saying, let's see if there's any

3196
02:48:02,920 --> 02:48:06,600
Speaker 4: more comments from Oh, there's another update, Oh, let's get

3197
02:48:06,640 --> 02:48:10,280
Speaker 4: into it. Also, I think that op should break up

3198
02:48:10,280 --> 02:48:10,680
Speaker 4: with this girl.

3199
02:48:10,840 --> 02:48:11,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3200
02:48:11,400 --> 02:48:13,920
Speaker 4: About six weeks ago, I had my first dinner with

3201
02:48:14,000 --> 02:48:17,440
Speaker 4: Olivia's family wait, which turned into disaster because of Olivia

3202
02:48:17,520 --> 02:48:19,720
Speaker 4: didn't tell her parents that I was vegan. Bl blah

3203
02:48:19,720 --> 02:48:22,560
Speaker 4: blah blah blah. Since then, things have been rough between it.

3204
02:48:23,160 --> 02:48:26,199
Speaker 4: We talked things through initially, but the tension stuck around.

3205
02:48:26,600 --> 02:48:30,720
Speaker 4: We've had several arguments about respect and communication. Olivia thinks

3206
02:48:30,720 --> 02:48:32,800
Speaker 4: I should have been more flexible for one night while

3207
02:48:32,800 --> 02:48:35,320
Speaker 4: I felt my dietary choices are a core part of

3208
02:48:35,360 --> 02:48:39,360
Speaker 4: who I am and should be respected. Agreed, Agreed. I

3209
02:48:39,480 --> 02:48:42,200
Speaker 4: tried to smooth things over, but every time I wereround

3210
02:48:42,200 --> 02:48:45,920
Speaker 4: her family, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells. Things

3211
02:48:45,959 --> 02:48:49,480
Speaker 4: have gotten worse between Olivia and me. She's been increasingly

3212
02:48:49,520 --> 02:48:53,680
Speaker 4: critical of my vegan lifestyle, making comments about how inconvenient

3213
02:48:53,720 --> 02:48:57,280
Speaker 4: it is and how it complicates things. Previously, she was

3214
02:48:57,320 --> 02:49:00,119
Speaker 4: incredibly supportive, would look at what vegan options were at

3215
02:49:00,160 --> 02:49:03,800
Speaker 4: restaurants before we went, for example. I've told her how

3216
02:49:03,800 --> 02:49:05,720
Speaker 4: important it is for me, but she doesn't seem to

3217
02:49:05,760 --> 02:49:09,440
Speaker 4: care anymore. I wonder if someone's commented, like, why has

3218
02:49:09,520 --> 02:49:10,240
Speaker 4: she flipped the switch?

3219
02:49:10,280 --> 02:49:10,840
Speaker 2: Si? You know?

3220
02:49:11,520 --> 02:49:14,360
Speaker 4: Everything came to a head last week. We were planning

3221
02:49:14,400 --> 02:49:16,120
Speaker 4: a weekend trip and I asked that we look for

3222
02:49:16,120 --> 02:49:19,240
Speaker 4: somewhere with good vegan options, and she went bad on me.

3223
02:49:19,840 --> 02:49:22,000
Speaker 4: Why do we always have to cater to your diet?

3224
02:49:22,120 --> 02:49:25,520
Speaker 4: Why can't we go somewhere I enjoy. I told her

3225
02:49:25,560 --> 02:49:27,600
Speaker 4: to go where she wanted, but if I couldn't eat anything,

3226
02:49:27,600 --> 02:49:30,840
Speaker 4: I wouldn't join her. She could take her friends or whatever.

3227
02:49:30,879 --> 02:49:33,400
Speaker 4: I didn't care. She said that I'm being too rigid

3228
02:49:33,440 --> 02:49:35,160
Speaker 4: and that I should be more willing.

3229
02:49:34,959 --> 02:49:36,240
Speaker 1: To adapt, Dumper.

3230
02:49:36,520 --> 02:49:39,480
Speaker 4: Dumper, I'm starting to feel like Olivia wants me to

3231
02:49:39,600 --> 02:49:42,119
Speaker 4: change who I am to fit better into her world.

3232
02:49:42,560 --> 02:49:44,920
Speaker 4: She keeps suggesting that I try to be more normal

3233
02:49:45,000 --> 02:49:47,960
Speaker 4: and flexible, but I don't think my choices are abnormal

3234
02:49:48,120 --> 02:49:52,680
Speaker 4: or unreasonable. The strain is affecting our relationship. I'm beginning

3235
02:49:52,680 --> 02:49:57,119
Speaker 4: to question if we're truly compatible. You're not, uh And

3236
02:49:57,160 --> 02:49:59,480
Speaker 4: by the way, you can join us live on you

3237
02:49:59,600 --> 02:50:02,000
Speaker 4: Toobe every weekday at three pm Pacific Standard time.

3238
02:50:02,080 --> 02:50:04,600
Speaker 2: Just Trump profile Jelly. She's cheating.

3239
02:50:04,600 --> 02:50:07,440
Speaker 4: It's the only answer. Trying to get rid of him.

3240
02:50:08,240 --> 02:50:11,000
Speaker 4: I really love Olivia and I want things to work out,

3241
02:50:11,040 --> 02:50:13,959
Speaker 4: but I don't know how. Are we just too different?

3242
02:50:14,520 --> 02:50:17,920
Speaker 4: How do I get her to understand what she knew before.

3243
02:50:18,160 --> 02:50:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a thing of are we too different?

3244
02:50:21,040 --> 02:50:25,280
Speaker 1: I think she's intentionally just not understanding him, or not

3245
02:50:25,440 --> 02:50:30,320
Speaker 1: making any effort to understand that this is important identity.

3246
02:50:30,800 --> 02:50:33,320
Speaker 1: And if she does, if she's not willing to understand this,

3247
02:50:33,480 --> 02:50:35,400
Speaker 1: then I use no point. I don't think there's any

3248
02:50:35,400 --> 02:50:36,200
Speaker 1: point in continue to right.

3249
02:50:36,360 --> 02:50:38,800
Speaker 4: This is such a this is such a like minor

3250
02:50:38,840 --> 02:50:42,320
Speaker 4: thing that does not affect her yeah, what OP wants

3251
02:50:42,360 --> 02:50:45,560
Speaker 4: to eat does not affect her, especially because there's so

3252
02:50:45,640 --> 02:50:50,360
Speaker 4: many vegan options, like most places have vegan options, and

3253
02:50:50,440 --> 02:50:52,920
Speaker 4: so for him to just be like, hey, they sure

3254
02:50:52,959 --> 02:50:54,800
Speaker 4: there's a vegan option that I can eat in her.

3255
02:50:54,920 --> 02:50:58,280
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, that's a completely reasonable thing to do.

3256
02:50:59,080 --> 02:51:00,440
Speaker 4: I want to be able to eat something.

3257
02:51:00,560 --> 02:51:03,480
Speaker 1: I would drop her, not not because of your differences

3258
02:51:03,520 --> 02:51:08,160
Speaker 1: in like lifestyles or it's just a yeah. The lack

3259
02:51:08,200 --> 02:51:11,320
Speaker 1: of respect is what really seals the deal in terms

3260
02:51:11,360 --> 02:51:12,680
Speaker 1: of this relationship ending.

3261
02:51:12,720 --> 02:51:17,119
Speaker 2: And it looked like they deleted their account. Good wah

3262
02:51:17,200 --> 02:51:20,480
Speaker 2: op oh, I can't find it anywhere. I was gonna

3263
02:51:20,480 --> 02:51:22,520
Speaker 2: look and slouth. But you're okay, hope.

3264
02:51:22,600 --> 02:51:24,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope you're okay. You deserve better.

3265
02:51:24,560 --> 02:51:26,520
Speaker 4: I hope you're living your best vegan life.

3266
02:51:26,720 --> 02:51:30,200
Speaker 1: Hope is Honestly, the vegans are just getting better and better.

3267
02:51:30,240 --> 02:51:31,840
Speaker 1: The technology is crazy.

3268
02:51:31,760 --> 02:51:37,040
Speaker 2: Technology and gluten free people free bread now free, basically

3269
02:51:37,040 --> 02:51:38,640
Speaker 2: all cereals are gluten free now.

3270
02:51:39,120 --> 02:51:42,800
Speaker 4: I honestly eat a lot of vegan stuff just because

3271
02:51:42,920 --> 02:51:45,440
Speaker 4: it's better for my stomach. Like I I don't eat

3272
02:51:45,440 --> 02:51:46,920
Speaker 4: a lot of dairy because it hurts.

3273
02:51:47,080 --> 02:51:48,200
Speaker 1: We love it, we love it.

3274
02:51:48,400 --> 02:51:50,160
Speaker 2: Just build a tolerance. You know what else?

3275
02:51:50,600 --> 02:51:53,600
Speaker 4: Drinking dairy and eating dairy for all of my life

3276
02:51:53,640 --> 02:51:57,600
Speaker 4: and it about this week. No, because I'm it hurts me.

3277
02:51:58,840 --> 02:52:00,400
Speaker 4: I would have built a tolerance.

3278
02:52:01,000 --> 02:52:04,520
Speaker 2: Hurts you to eat dairy. I used milk usually gives

3279
02:52:04,560 --> 02:52:06,320
Speaker 2: me a hard time. But once I build a tolerance

3280
02:52:06,400 --> 02:52:07,360
Speaker 2: of it's good.

3281
02:52:07,440 --> 02:52:10,039
Speaker 1: I literally drink like gallons of milk.

3282
02:52:10,480 --> 02:52:13,120
Speaker 2: I think you drink expired milk today. I did not

3283
02:52:13,680 --> 02:52:15,039
Speaker 2: why it said August third.

3284
02:52:15,280 --> 02:52:16,440
Speaker 4: Oh well, that doesn't matter.

3285
02:52:16,600 --> 02:52:17,200
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

3286
02:52:17,280 --> 02:52:20,960
Speaker 4: It's only smell news. Yeah, dairy do you can you

3287
02:52:21,000 --> 02:52:22,680
Speaker 4: throw out your your milk when it.

3288
02:52:22,720 --> 02:52:27,520
Speaker 2: If its smeled bad day or two. But dude, it's

3289
02:52:27,600 --> 02:52:29,080
Speaker 2: like it was the third.

3290
02:52:29,120 --> 02:52:33,840
Speaker 4: It doesn't it. Literally, dairy expiration dates are only for

3291
02:52:34,360 --> 02:52:37,760
Speaker 4: like lawsuits. Yeah, but there you just have to smell

3292
02:52:37,800 --> 02:52:39,920
Speaker 4: the milk. As long as it's not curdled and it

3293
02:52:39,920 --> 02:52:41,000
Speaker 4: doesn't smell bad, you're fine.

3294
02:52:41,120 --> 02:52:43,320
Speaker 1: I tasted it was good. I had a whole thing.

3295
02:52:43,600 --> 02:52:46,160
Speaker 4: You will know if milk is I do.

3296
02:52:46,120 --> 02:52:48,000
Speaker 2: I test it. But if it's been a week, bro,

3297
02:52:48,160 --> 02:52:49,680
Speaker 2: I don't care. I'm not opening that thing.

3298
02:52:50,120 --> 02:52:53,160
Speaker 4: Oh I opened it, I open I test our mom

3299
02:52:53,240 --> 02:52:57,680
Speaker 4: is very much like nothing is ever No she's like nothing,

3300
02:52:58,000 --> 02:53:00,640
Speaker 4: she is very much like it. It'll be like months

3301
02:53:00,680 --> 02:53:01,959
Speaker 4: later and she's like, it's not expired.

3302
02:53:02,480 --> 02:53:03,520
Speaker 2: I haven't experienced that.

3303
02:53:04,000 --> 02:53:05,760
Speaker 4: Oh well, she doesn't do that. He does it all

3304
02:53:05,800 --> 02:53:06,119
Speaker 4: the time.

3305
02:53:06,200 --> 02:53:08,039
Speaker 1: But Riley, where are we at?

3306
02:53:08,120 --> 02:53:10,640
Speaker 2: Fifty six minutes? There was about like ten or twelve

3307
02:53:10,680 --> 02:53:11,120
Speaker 2: minutes of.

3308
02:53:11,120 --> 02:53:16,200
Speaker 1: Goof twelve minutes of goof? How long were all the

3309
02:53:16,240 --> 02:53:16,840
Speaker 1: other ones?

3310
02:53:17,760 --> 02:53:19,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what's into you guys, but you guys

3311
02:53:19,320 --> 02:53:22,520
Speaker 2: have like created speed readers out of each other, especially

3312
02:53:22,520 --> 02:53:24,320
Speaker 2: this one. This one's always been a speed reader. You

3313
02:53:24,320 --> 02:53:29,119
Speaker 2: you're picking it up. Yeah, you're actually one more more

3314
02:53:30,040 --> 02:53:31,640
Speaker 2: if you want tomit the one hour mark.

3315
02:53:31,680 --> 02:53:34,480
Speaker 1: A lot of them, haven't I have a lot of them,

3316
02:53:34,560 --> 02:53:35,680
Speaker 1: A lot of today's, haven't.

3317
02:53:35,760 --> 02:53:38,120
Speaker 2: I have not been a good producer today. I'm sorry.

3318
02:53:39,120 --> 02:53:41,240
Speaker 2: I've just been trying to get you out, guys out early,

3319
02:53:41,280 --> 02:53:42,879
Speaker 2: because I know you have like things.

3320
02:53:42,640 --> 02:53:44,640
Speaker 4: To do today, to eat.

3321
02:53:45,080 --> 02:53:47,560
Speaker 1: Well, have to leave by six, right, I know.

3322
02:53:47,600 --> 02:53:49,680
Speaker 2: But I'm just like, oh, like, did I have to

3323
02:53:49,680 --> 02:53:51,320
Speaker 2: do this same? I have to make a call. It's

3324
02:53:51,320 --> 02:53:54,680
Speaker 2: okay if we go a little fast today. I'm sorry.

3325
02:53:55,120 --> 02:53:59,560
Speaker 1: I guess so should we? I guess we could? We

3326
02:53:59,600 --> 02:54:05,080
Speaker 1: could add and go that's right here. So if you

3327
02:54:05,160 --> 02:54:06,560
Speaker 1: love us, make sure to subscribe.

3328
02:54:06,680 --> 02:54:08,879
Speaker 4: We love you and see you tomorrow.