1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Part one 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: behind a scene with a member of the show. 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: What's up everybody. It's another weekend and that means it's 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 2: time for best bits and I am joined but the 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 2: lovely Amy this weekend. 6 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 3: Amy, How are you happy to be here? Yeah? 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 2: Are we excited to talk about some holiday? Because that's 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 2: what we got to talk about? 9 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 3: Oh like the holiday we had? 10 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, we got to hear about yours. So I want 11 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: to share the best bits real quick. So we did 12 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: have a spill the tea. Lunchbox stole something kind of 13 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 2: a huge deal. The show all admitted their most embarrassing 14 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 2: moments of all time. Amy quote unquote snapped at her 15 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 2: kids because you know it's a version of that, but 16 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 2: not really what you're thinking. 17 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 3: Well, I mean I definitely snatch, but not like full 18 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 3: blown TV show snaps. 19 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I want to make sure we're not 20 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 2: alluding to, right. Abby shared an update on her boyfriend. 21 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 2: She gave the full story. Eddie shared what's going to 22 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: happen with his son going to see the Drake concert 23 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 2: with some friends. Lunchbox has a grudge situation going on 24 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 2: with his garbage man, and we did some lyeing karaoke 25 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift. Addition, so lots of good bits up. If 26 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: you want to catch up on the show, make sure 27 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 2: you check out part two. Amy. Let's talk not like 28 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: The Holiday the movie, because I do love that movie, 29 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: but your holiday, this is like the first Christmas you 30 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: had without your kids. So how was it? Yeah? 31 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 3: It was? It was, you know. I guess I was 32 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 3: nervous leading up to it because I didn't know how 33 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 3: I would feel. I think I had more emotions about 34 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 3: it two weeks before it ever was even there. And 35 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 3: then when it got there, I was okay. I mean 36 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 3: I had friends and hung out with people here in Nashville. 37 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 3: I didn't have to travel. I thought about our Thanksgiving 38 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 3: trip and how special and amazing that was, and I 39 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 3: had that with them, and then I got them the 40 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 3: day after Christmas because they flew back from Colorado that 41 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 3: day and then spent the week with me, and so 42 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 3: it was great. And I know that next Christmas I'll 43 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 3: be with them. I just you know, you're getting used 44 00:01:55,480 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 3: to the new normal. And they did well, So that's 45 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: all I could ask for. 46 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: I feel like you experienced kind of a lot of 47 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: different emotions or were you pretty like steady over the 48 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 2: course of it all, because you kind of, like you said, 49 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: two weeks in advance, you're like, okay, preparing for this 50 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:11,839 Speaker 2: to come. 51 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 3: I think it was leading up to it. The two 52 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: weeks in advance. I hadn't really done any Christmas decorating 53 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 3: at my house because I thought, well, it's going to 54 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 3: be just me. The kids aren't here. I mean, what's 55 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 3: the point. And I was driving down the road and 56 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 3: I was with a friend, and we passed a Christmas tree, 57 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 3: you know, a little setup with wreaths and trees, and 58 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 3: I just start crying. And I realized that my tears 59 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 3: were because I love putting wreaths on the outside of 60 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 3: my house with red bows on all the windows, yes classic, 61 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 3: and there's some windows that are up stairs, and I thought, well, 62 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: how am I going to get the like this is? 63 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 3: You know, Ben would do all that stuff. And then 64 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 3: I had gone by Ben's house and his house was 65 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 3: decorated for Christmas, even hung lights, and I just, you know, 66 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 3: I think my brain went back to that, and I'm like, well, 67 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 3: he has that, and I don't know what I'm doing. 68 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 3: And then I let myself feel the feelings and cried 69 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 3: and whatever I needed to do. And then I put 70 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 3: my butt in gear and I decorated my house, put 71 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 3: a tree up, put the stockings up. You know, even 72 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 3: though the kids weren't there Christmas morning to have stockings, 73 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 3: I decided to do stockings with them when they returned. 74 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 2: Love that you guys had your own version of Christmas, right, 75 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: which Ben and I we. 76 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 3: Still split Christmas with the kids the gifts, so everything 77 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 3: they received was from me and Ben together, it was 78 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 3: from mom and dad, and then we split the cost 79 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 3: and then we spiled the credit because I think for us, 80 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: I know not every couple or former couple would be 81 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 3: able to do that or that would make sense. Obviously 82 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: if another partner comes into the mix, that's probably gonna die. 83 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 3: But I think for us that's something that we can 84 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 3: do for the kids that for them it's like, oh 85 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 3: my mom and dad got me this. There's still a team, 86 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 3: just another way to show that. And then there's no action. 87 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 3: It's not a competition in any way, shape or form. 88 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, now like mom got me this and Dad got 89 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: me that. Right, It was constant back. 90 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: And yeah, we went in on it together. And so 91 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 3: they and then Ben took everything to Colorado and they 92 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: got their stuff Christmas morning, but Ben made sure like, hey, 93 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: this is from mom too. But I decided to do 94 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: stockings when they got back, which is nice. But the 95 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 3: two weeks before, after my melt down, I decorated and 96 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 3: I felt so much better. And then I think that 97 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 3: having all of that stuff up did help me feel 98 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 3: more normal and did give me a little more peace 99 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 3: and joy. And I was thankful for that meltdown when 100 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 3: I passed the Christmas replace, because that's what triggered the 101 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 3: emotional response. But it also made me aware like this 102 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 3: is why I'm crying, and this is going to be 103 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: my fix, Like this is how I'm going to remedy 104 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 3: this situation. 105 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 2: So it was almost like you had to have your 106 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 2: last moment of all of those feelings to experience the 107 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,559 Speaker 2: light that's now coming, right, Like the darkness is over, 108 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 2: here's what's coming. This is what's to look forward to. Right. 109 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 3: So I offer that as encouragement to anybody and then 110 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 3: pay attention to your meltdowns and what triggered it, because 111 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 3: then it may give you a solution to something. 112 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 2: Well. And I'm glad you decorated for Christmas, because here's 113 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 2: the thing like and I'll talk about a little bit 114 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 2: more on our listener, Q and A. But like, I'm 115 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 2: so focused on romanticizing my life now, like that's really 116 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 2: my goal. And I'm because I'm so tired of just 117 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 2: like the monotony of every day and being like, well, 118 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: you know, and then I there's always a chance I 119 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 2: could die tomorrow, and like, well, that was a really 120 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 2: monotonous day, and that was really dumb with me because 121 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: this is how I ended it. So instead it's focusing 122 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 2: on like all the little tiny things that you do 123 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: every day that can still be really beautiful even though 124 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 2: there's something you have to do every single day. And 125 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 2: so I think for you, like a perspective for me 126 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 2: is that like you took a step there in romanticizing 127 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 2: your own life and being like, I'm going to decorate 128 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: my house for me for this time my life, and 129 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 2: it's still gonna be pretty, and it's still gonna beautiful 130 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,359 Speaker 2: amidst all the chaos, and I'm gonna enjoy it. And 131 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 2: you probably sat there loved having your tree up and 132 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 2: watching movies. Bet that was also fun. 133 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 3: Yes, I mean I have my lights on, the first 134 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 3: thing would do when I would wake up. 135 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they probably don't really good. 136 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: Built fires, watched Christmas. 137 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 2: Movies so specially okay, and then they came back, so 138 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 2: you got to spend New Year's with them, is that right? 139 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 140 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 3: We were together on New Year's. My daughter actually went 141 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 3: to in the night with a friend. But then Steven said, 142 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 3: my son, he had a friend over, and we decided 143 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 3: to do a New Year's cold plunge. 144 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 2: So okay, like jumping in your pool. 145 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 3: It's freezing cold, and so some of my friends that 146 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 3: were over and then even the kids. Uh so three 147 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 3: minutes before midnight got in because we do three minute 148 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 3: cold plunges. 149 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 150 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, so we got in the cold plunge when it 151 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 3: was twenty twenty three, and then we emerged at midnight. 152 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 3: So we got out of the cold plunge in twenty 153 00:06:58,960 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 3: twenty four. 154 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: Okay, So was that like? Was that have a wild experiences? 155 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 2: I feel like I'd be freezing for three minutes. 156 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 3: Well, I've been building up, I mean, I've been doing it, 157 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 3: so it's still miserable. And I've never done it at midnight, 158 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 3: so I think it's obviously colder when the sun's not 159 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 3: out and stuff, but it's cool and you had you. 160 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 3: We all did it together, so it was a fun 161 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: like we were giggling laughing. 162 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and you know what, there could be 163 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 2: like some superstition thing with that, like you're cleansing off 164 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 2: the old year the new year. Yeah, there's so many 165 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: superstitions with like doing something like going into twenty twenty four. 166 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: So that's like it could just be anyone for that. 167 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 3: All four of like, yeah, you're emerging a new person. 168 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, cool. Well, before we talk about some other things, 169 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 2: is there anything else you want to share from like 170 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 2: your holiday. Did you do anything else super exciting fun 171 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 2: that you want? 172 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 3: I mean I tried to speaking of, you know, doing 173 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 3: things I don't normally do, or trying to get out more. 174 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 3: I went to a Pred's game. I went to a 175 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 3: Titans game. 176 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 2: So you were in your Sports Girl era. 177 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I was just in my I'm if I'm 178 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 3: invited to do something, I'm gonna go era because I'm 179 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 3: off of you. I don't have to. Yeah, and I 180 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 3: think I would more than like I'm good, you know, 181 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 3: thank you, But I decided to go and it was fun. 182 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 3: I did a lot of my out to eat era 183 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 3: just trying have. 184 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 2: You gone out at all, like out out, yeah, like 185 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 2: out like going to have drinks or kind of no 186 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 2: out out Okay, I mean sure, this go right out 187 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: is different, but like I mean like going out out, 188 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: like you're intentionally going out to have drinks at a 189 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 2: bar later on of maybe maybe talking to people hanging 190 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 2: out and mingling. 191 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 3: I have not done that yet, okay, yeah, but I've 192 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 3: talked about doing that. 193 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 2: Yes we are. It's Amy and I's goal to go 194 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 2: check out some happy hours, some little bougie happy hours. 195 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: Out out, ou out. That's what we're gonna call it. 196 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 3: No at like four thirty pm. 197 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: Yes, my people, an out out because you're right, it 198 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 2: has the intention of mingling and there's a purpose behind it, 199 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: right versus just like going out. Yeah, I don't know 200 00:08:58,520 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 2: if that makes sense. 201 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 3: We're gonna have to be Yes. I think that there 202 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 3: is a difference in the outs. There's all kinds of 203 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 3: ways to go out. 204 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 2: Yep, that's true. 205 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 3: That's we're going to hold each other accountable to just 206 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 3: put ourselves in situations or that sounds bad, but circumstances 207 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 3: like that we normally I avoid, Like I don't want 208 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 3: to go out out like that. But I think if 209 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: I want to be social and make memories and meet 210 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 3: new people. That's what I gotta do. 211 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 2: And we're gonna do it together. 212 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 3: We're gonna say you don't have to do it by yourself. 213 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, we're gonna come right back after this 214 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 2: quick break and talk about some ladies' nights, what you 215 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 2: do with the snow days and stuff too. All right, 216 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 2: So how do you spend like cold wether? Some people 217 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 2: are cold, other people some were like, I don't want 218 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 2: to step foot outside. How did you spend our snow 219 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: days in Nashville? 220 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 3: I like being outside. I don't mind the cold at all. 221 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: If you bundle up properly, it can be good. So 222 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: I think it's a combo of movies and hiking. 223 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 2: Like I went, oh, you like walking in the snow? 224 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but on the snow and my coat, my gloves 225 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: and my beanie and I took a hike and it 226 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 3: was so beautiful, Like I noticed things. I hike that 227 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 3: lake often, and in the snow I noticed things that 228 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 3: I'd never seen before. And it was really peaceful. I 229 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 3: think we talked about on the show. Someone had a 230 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 3: story about. Maybe it was Ray. I don't know. Snow 231 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 3: slowing everybody down and because it's quieter quiet. Yeah, And 232 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 3: so I experienced that and it was really cool. It 233 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 3: was hiking and then came up to this one spot 234 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 3: where someone had drawn drawn a heart in the snow, 235 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 3: and it reminded me that a couple of years ago, 236 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 3: my therapist had me looking for hearts. She was like, 237 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 3: look for hearts. You're gonna see them everywhere, and leaves 238 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 3: rocks on trees in the snow, and so I took 239 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 3: a picture of it to just it's the little things 240 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 3: that just make you smile. And you could have intention 241 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 3: about looking for anything, but she was just having me 242 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 3: look for hearts because it was something I could focus on. 243 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 3: This was in a more difficult time, but it did 244 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 3: make me smile when I stumbled upon the heart that 245 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 3: someone had put there, and I thought, oh, how cool, 246 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 3: thank you whoever put that in the snow. Earlier today, 247 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 3: so I did a little bit of outside and then 248 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 3: lots of movies like Lots by the fire. I made soup. 249 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 2: Ooh, what kind of soup did you make? 250 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 3: It's from half Baked Harvest. 251 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 2: Okay, I love her. 252 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 3: She's great. And it's called like creamy white chicken chili 253 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 3: or creamy. Yeah, something like that. 254 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh really good. Now with the heart thing, was 255 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 2: there an intention behind that to kind of show that 256 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 2: there's love everywhere or was it more just to give 257 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: you something else to focus on? 258 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I think we just picked our hearts because 259 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 260 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: Okay, because that's also a good reason, Like it's to 261 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 2: show you that, like, even if you're not feeling a 262 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 2: lot of love in this moment, if you see hearts everywhere, 263 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 2: there's love everywhere. 264 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 3: I don't know that it was related to love at all. 265 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 3: I think it just happened to be. Maybe it was 266 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 3: an exercise she gave me. I can't really remember, but 267 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 3: it could have been an exercise for being present, okay, 268 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 3: because like wherever you are looking for. 269 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 2: Being intentional about looking around you and stuff. Okay, that's cool. 270 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 2: I really like that, you know. I spent the snow 271 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 2: day back to romanticizing my life. Like I woke up 272 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 2: like I was a little kid on Christmas, and I 273 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna go play in the snow. I 274 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 2: got all bundled, I bundled for me up, like she 275 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 2: had her little booties on, and we just went and 276 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 2: frolicked in the snow like, making snow angels together, hanging out, 277 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: and then I walked inside. We all cooled off, and 278 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 2: then I made chocolate chip pancakes and I watched the 279 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 2: holiday still snuggle up to my Christmas tree that is 280 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 2: still up. And then I went and walked in the 281 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 2: neighborhood with some of my neighbors and we went and 282 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 2: played board games and it was like the best day ever. 283 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 2: I felt like a little kid again. It's fun just 284 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 2: getting to do whatever I wanted, and it wasn't a 285 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 2: big deal. Like Luckily we had that as a holiday 286 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 2: from work too, like which was a bonus because then 287 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 2: we I didn't actually have to do much work from home. 288 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 2: I actually got to enjoy like the day off and 289 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: it was like I was a little kid. I like 290 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: the snow day generally. That was like my school they 291 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 2: got canceled and I'm gonna go play in the snow, 292 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 2: and that was like my snow day. 293 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 3: I know. I saw your pictures and videos and they 294 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 3: were very cute and fun, like just that childlike. 295 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: And that's again back to romanticizing my life. It's also 296 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 2: a pro tip, like, and this can be helpful for 297 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 2: you too, as you like kind of move through this 298 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 2: next season of your life. Like I was really worried 299 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 2: about being alone on the snow day because everybody gets 300 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 2: snowed in. I love by myself, and I'm like, great, 301 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 2: I'm here. I don't get to go anywhere, I don't 302 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 2: get to do anything. But I have recently started making 303 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 2: friends with some of my new neighbors, and I'm like, 304 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna start making friends with people who even 305 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 2: if I don't hang out with them all the time, 306 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 2: there's always this option that we can rely on each 307 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 2: other in hard situations or when there's a snow day 308 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 2: and we want to do something to not be by ourselves. 309 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 2: So try to make friends with your neighbors when you can, 310 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 2: even like doesn't matter, the age, doesn't matter, Like I 311 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 2: talk to all my neighbors now and trying to be 312 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 2: aware that we're all kind of in the same situation together, 313 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 2: especially when weather stuff happens. You know. 314 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I think that's wise advice. I think that 315 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 3: there's places I've lived where I haven't known my neighbors 316 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 3: at all. But when I think back to my childhood 317 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 3: in the neighborhood we grew up in, I'm still friends 318 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 3: with people to this day because my mom was friends 319 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 3: with our neighbors. 320 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy? 321 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 3: But it was, you know, maybe it was a unique neighborhood. 322 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 3: I don't want to say it was a different time. 323 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: No, I do. 324 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 2: I feel like it was a little bit different though 325 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: it was. 326 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 3: I mean, and we did live in the same neighborhood 327 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 3: til I was eighteen, so that's a long time. But 328 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 3: there's so many of us, like and it's not like 329 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 3: we talk every day, but there are one hundred percent 330 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 3: people I could call on for anything at any given moment, 331 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 3: night or day and they would answer because our parents 332 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 3: were friends growing up in our neighborhood. And that's how 333 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 3: strong the bond was. 334 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 2: And I think that's so important for community too, because 335 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 2: like you talk about community, and yes, you're sposed to 336 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 2: have this community of your friends and your family, but 337 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 2: like that's community is like talking to your neighbors and 338 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 2: spending time with your neighbors. That's literally, genuinely the purpose 339 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 2: of communities. The people around you that you live in 340 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: and that you can rely on and you can lean 341 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 2: on and you can call to if something's going on, 342 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: Like if you hear things in the neighborhood, you can 343 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 2: text them right away or literally. The other day, I 344 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 2: needed powdered sugar and I was like, hey, do you 345 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 2: have any Like Nowhere in my mind did I ever 346 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: think that I would be like borrowing powdered sugar from 347 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 2: my neighbor. But it just worked out that. I was like, 348 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 2: this is important to me to create this for myself. 349 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 2: If I am going to live alone, I can't be alone. 350 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm glad you asked for that, because I think 351 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 3: it's so easy to just hop in your car and 352 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 3: go get it or have it delivered if you're in 353 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 3: the middle of something, and that's yeah, maybe that is 354 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 3: what is a little bit different. It is because we've 355 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 3: lost some of that because I remember as a kid, 356 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 3: my mom being like, run across the street and get 357 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 3: eggs from the Andrews or the Wilson's, Like we're out, 358 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 3: and so I would run across, knock on the door. 359 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 3: My mom needs to eggs, you know, and that I 360 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 3: would be like, oh, I'll just you know, order it 361 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 3: or get in the car and go get it. So 362 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 3: and maybe because our neighborhood too, we didn't necessarily live 363 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 3: super close to a grocery store, and I kind of do, 364 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 3: so maybe that's it as well. 365 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 2: But well, and there's also the level of like not 366 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,119 Speaker 2: bothering people, right, we don't want to bother people, especially 367 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 2: like people that we may not know super well. You 368 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: don't want to inconvenience people. And I've had to let 369 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 2: go of a lot of that because I am very, 370 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: very fiercely independent. I don't like bothering people. I don't 371 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 2: like asking for help, and I've I'm learning to let 372 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 2: go of that because it's not necessarily that I'm asking 373 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 2: for help. It's just asking for like relationships and connection community. Yeah, 374 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 2: BacT to community. Yeah. 375 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 3: It makes me think of Genny Allen. She's an author 376 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 3: and she wrote a book called Find Your People, and 377 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 3: there's a lot of encouragement in there like that of 378 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 3: like you've got your different pockets of people, your neighbors 379 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 3: being one of them. 380 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. See, I think it's important. So especially it's not 381 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 2: just important for a snow day when you can go 382 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 2: and have fun with them, but it's important for all days. 383 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 2: So maybe this that can help you too, as this 384 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 2: new season of life is happening for you. Okay, we're 385 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: gonna come ride back and I'll talk to you about 386 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 2: some dating things that's going on. 387 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 3: Okay, it's gonna be fun dating things with who me? 388 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, You're like me, No, we'll just talk. 389 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 3: We're gone out out yet. 390 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 2: I know, I know we're working on that, all right. 391 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 2: So I'm in this situation right now. Okay, so Amy, 392 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 2: let me tell you this, Like I really go off vibes, 393 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 2: and if I get really excited about somebody, then I'm like, Okay, 394 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 2: this is somebody that I could like potentially keep hanging 395 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: out with. If I don't get excited, it's really hard 396 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 2: for me to like kind of keep continuing. And I'm 397 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 2: just in this place where I'm like, how many dates 398 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 2: do I give it before I'm like, this is the 399 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 2: vibes aren't here, and I don't know, I don't know 400 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 2: what that answer is. And I've been dating a. 401 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 3: Lot well, and you're asking me the person that has it's. 402 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 2: Really like a balancing off feedback. You're okay, you know, 403 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 2: we talk about my dates a lot, and so like, 404 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 2: from a just a different perspective, how many would you think? 405 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be the right answer three. That's 406 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 2: kind of what I'm thinking, Like, that's a. 407 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 3: Good average average of three. Some you may know it too, 408 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 3: and some it might take four. 409 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, do you feel like you should be getting 410 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 2: excited and having butterflies about somebody or do you feel 411 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 2: like that's maybe something we think is supposed to happen, 412 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 2: but it's not necessarily healthy. 413 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 3: Okay, So my friend that's getting married next month, her 414 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 3: first date with her fiance was not good and she 415 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 3: didn't think she was gonna ever go out with him again, 416 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 3: but she decided to give it another go. 417 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: Did she get the second one? 418 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 3: She knew that she was definitely like, oh, okay, the 419 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 3: first situation, like maybe he was nervous, she didn't know 420 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 3: what was going on the first date, but that was 421 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 3: not who her experience on the second date. So then 422 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 3: she went on a third and then well here they 423 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 3: are now you're married, getting married married? 424 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,640 Speaker 2: So really that three like three date threshold? 425 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, ish, but you can't. I don't think you'd put 426 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 3: that as a hard rule. 427 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:08,680 Speaker 2: I know. I'm just like nervous because it's like you 428 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 2: don't want to waste your time, you don't want to 429 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 2: waste their time, and it is like this is like 430 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 2: a really good person. I'm just not sure if I'm 431 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 2: like excited because I'm not like getting ready. I'm like, 432 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I can't wait to see him. But 433 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 2: is that like too schoolgirl of me to think that 434 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 2: that I should feel that way? 435 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? I mean it is an 436 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 3: expectation that might be a little bit too much. I 437 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 3: don't know that you have to feel that right away, 438 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:36,199 Speaker 3: I know, so i'd remove that expectation and if you 439 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 3: feel it, great, I don't know. 440 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 2: But then, like if it doesn't keep coming, like after 441 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 2: a third date, in my like, if it's not there, 442 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 2: I feel like that you'll know. 443 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 3: I feel like you'll know. I don't know. I heard 444 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 3: a dating expert talking about shoot. I wish I didn't 445 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 3: finish the whole episode, but I think she is talking 446 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 3: about how you know your healthiest relationships are the people 447 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 3: that you may jive with in a really great way. 448 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 3: It might seem to you, depending on your history in relationships, 449 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 3: to be a little boring. You don't have some of 450 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 3: those same rush type feelings that you had before, So 451 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 3: maybe lean into that or pay attention and give it 452 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 3: some space, because it doesn't mean that the person is 453 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 3: boring or you're boring. It's just sometimes we get used 454 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 3: to certain types of feelings. Even in the drama or 455 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 3: if there's you know, avoidant or anxious behavior from one 456 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 3: of the people, we kind of get into a pattern 457 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 3: of that and we kind of we want that, and 458 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 3: there's like this rush we get like, oh he made 459 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 3: me feel a sway, Oh is he avoiding me? Or 460 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 3: oh oh that makes me like him more? Oh why 461 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 3: is he ignoring me? And then or we push people 462 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 3: away because we're trying to avoid, but it becomes a 463 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 3: cycle and you you look for it, and so anyway, 464 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 3: I'm just saying no, just because you're not getting like 465 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 3: crazy feelings inside of you, or it maybe seems a 466 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 3: little you know, vanilla plane. 467 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, the vanilla means a lot of things. 468 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 3: Just oh see I always heard vanilla. 469 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 2: What does that mean? 470 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:24,120 Speaker 3: Okay, well this could be one like plain vanilla, or 471 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 3: there's French vanilla. There was this photographer that in Austin 472 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 3: and he would take a lot of pictures of a 473 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 3: lot of the girls from my high school at least, 474 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 3: and my sister was doing her senior photos with him, 475 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 3: and they're kind of inappropriate. Like I look at the 476 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,719 Speaker 3: pictures now and I'm like, why did our parents let 477 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 3: us take pictures with this person. Uh, but maybe just 478 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 3: because ever he was like the guy, but my sister 479 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 3: was like on he had her like on the wall, 480 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 3: kind of leaning up against the wall in this black dress, 481 00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 3: kind of like catlike okay, yeah, and or she told 482 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 3: me he said to her, He's like, okay, do you 483 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 3: want to be plain vanilla or do you want to 484 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 3: be French vanilla. 485 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 2: See there's hitting windows with this. 486 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 3: Right, So that's probably where I get the vanilla saying. 487 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: So some Vanilla's good. 488 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 2: I know it's It's also one of those things that 489 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 2: I'm trying to understand my expectations because I do like 490 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 2: there is this level of like I want a movie 491 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 2: love in the sense that like I just want to 492 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,879 Speaker 2: be healthily in love with this person that I'm going 493 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 2: to spend my life with, and there is concern for 494 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 2: me if I after three dates. I'm not even feeling 495 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,479 Speaker 2: a hint of that, you know what I mean, Like 496 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 2: just this kind of excitement. It's not even like this 497 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,360 Speaker 2: like giddy like oh my god, this is so toxic, 498 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 2: I cannot wait. It's more this like I cannot wait 499 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 2: to see this person again because I love spending time 500 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: with them, do you know what I mean? Like it 501 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 2: has turned from that because it used to be that 502 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 2: lust factor, the push and pull. I loved that. You know, 503 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: clearly I had some wonderful relationship. 504 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 3: You feel more secure now? 505 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:05,119 Speaker 2: Yes, I feel very healthy and I don't need that, 506 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 2: but I still want the excitement of love. 507 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 3: Sure, you know, I think that's okay, But I don't 508 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,440 Speaker 3: know at what point I know that comes. I think 509 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 3: you're attracted to someone and you're still having a good time. 510 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 3: I say, keep going and see what happens. 511 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,880 Speaker 2: I'm attracted to the companionship. I don't know if I'm 512 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:23,199 Speaker 2: contracted to this this. 513 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 3: Companionship bad No, but like if I want to Okay, 514 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 3: if you're not attracted to them, okay, then I'm gonna 515 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 3: go ahead and say there's the keyword, like it just 516 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 3: hit me where you're like, Okay, now I think we're 517 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 3: getting somewhere. I know you just want someone to hang 518 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 3: out with, but you're not necessarily attracted to them. 519 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I can't think he's a wonderful person. 520 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 3: Hey, it's not that. At this moment. It's not him, 521 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 3: and I think it's okay. 522 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 2: So should I keep going, like on dates with them 523 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 2: to see if that helps? 524 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 3: If you Okay, maybe give them one more. 525 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 2: Okay, see I'm sucke my problem. 526 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you also are you dating somebody else too? 527 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 3: Like are you going out on a date? Simple peep? 528 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:00,679 Speaker 2: Yeah? 529 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe it is okay to keep exploring. 530 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, I just didn't know if there's like a 531 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 2: threshold I should be looking for. There's Listen, I'm going 532 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 2: off a guidebook that I've made up of my past 533 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 2: experiences and all of my friends past experiences, and we're 534 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 2: all just like kind of fumbling our way through it. Yeah. 535 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 3: But also I don't know that movie ish type love 536 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 3: we can look to that movies aren't. 537 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 2: Just more of that, Like I just really genuinely want 538 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 2: to be so in love with somebody, that kind of 539 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 2: movie love where you're just like you love. 540 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 3: Them always, every minute because there's. 541 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 2: Not no but do so in love with them that 542 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 2: even when you're angry with them, you still love them, 543 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like that you love them 544 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 2: in all aspects, even when they really make you mad, 545 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 2: even when their flaws really stuck, or even when something 546 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 2: bad happens. 547 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 3: You love them at their worst. 548 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 2: Yes, like genuinely like what we should have. But everybody 549 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 2: should get to experience that kind of love. I just 550 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,120 Speaker 2: call it movie love because I really love movies. That's 551 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 2: that connection. Okay. I don't know if we got anywhere 552 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 2: with that one, but it's there. 553 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 3: I think we did sort of in that you're enjoying 554 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 3: some guy's companionship, but you're not attracted to him. Yep, 555 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 3: Maybe what is the attraction could build? I don't know, 556 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. 557 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 2: And I just don't know where to give up that 558 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 2: threshold because I don't want to waste either of our times, 559 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: like it's a funky ballance. 560 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 3: Maybe he'll decide for you and he'll just stop calling you. 561 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 2: I don't think I'm not getting those vibes. 562 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 3: Oh oh, he's feeling the in love. He's got the. 563 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so, at least the way he's talking 564 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 2: and the actions are proven it, you know, and he's 565 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 2: very let. 566 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 3: Me ask you. Could it be that he's you're thinking 567 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 3: he's too into you, so you're not attracted to that? 568 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 3: You do you want to work for it a little more? 569 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 2: No? 570 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 3: Is that what you want? 571 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 2: And you actually really love that he's intentional. I really 572 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 2: like that about him. Okay, I'm just more concerned. I'm 573 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 2: not feeling that further connection, like love connection, Like I 574 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 2: feel very connected as a person. 575 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 3: How about just be in the moment and don't look 576 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 3: like well I do on the dates. Okay, just on 577 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 3: the dates. So even after, just be present and be like, hey, 578 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 3: I'm enjoying this guy. I'll keep going out with them 579 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,679 Speaker 3: as long as I'm curious about where it's going to go. 580 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 3: The minute you're no longer curious, if you're going to 581 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 3: eventually feel that way, then maybe you step back. 582 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 2: Okay, that might be what it is. 583 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think sometimes we might be asking ourselves 584 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 3: questions that don't need to be asked at this moment. 585 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 2: That's true. I can be very analytical because like I'm 586 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 2: very feelings based, but I can be very analytical mostly. 587 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 3: But also feelings shouldn't be in the driver's seat. 588 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: No, But like I'm very analytical because I you know, 589 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 2: we've talked about I've dated a lot of losers, and 590 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: so I'm so protective over myself, So I get very 591 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 2: analytical about situations instead of just allowing to be present. Yeah, 592 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 2: which is more a little bit more feelings based, is 593 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 2: more present in the moment. 594 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 3: So now I think we got to where we need 595 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 3: to go and it's that, Yeah, be present, Okay, you know. 596 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 2: Normally really good about that. Apparently I'm just not good 597 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 2: at it. 598 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:05,160 Speaker 3: With dating, You're it's learning. It's a process. Yeah, you're growing, 599 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 3: you're evolving. 600 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 2: Something like that. Okay. Also, speaking of a date, I 601 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 2: did go on a date and a listener came up 602 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 2: to me and made me look really cool on a date. 603 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 2: And I just like want to shout her out for 604 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:16,359 Speaker 2: that because I was really awesome. 605 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 1: I was raining. 606 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 2: Okay. She messaged me because she came up to me 607 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 2: and she's like, oh my god, it is you, because 608 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 2: she had bought the jacket that I was posted online. 609 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,439 Speaker 2: She's like, I bought that because of you, and I 610 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 2: saw you worry and I knew it was you. 611 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 3: I looked the link. 612 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like, oh my gosh, thank you for. 613 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 3: Making me know at that point your job. 614 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 2: Yes, like he knows what I do. I don't think 615 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 2: he knew the extent of it, right, Like I think 616 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 2: he did he listen or no, no, he doesn't listen. 617 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 2: I think he just knew that I am you're on 618 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 2: our radio show. He didn't realize like the public side 619 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: of it as much. And it didn't startle him, and 620 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 2: he was really good about it, Like he literally just 621 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,239 Speaker 2: stepped back and like, let me do my thing and 622 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 2: didn't like it was a great interaction to have experienced. 623 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 2: But she made me look really cool. Okay, Like I 624 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 2: was like, Okay, that should happen. Propis now I feel 625 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 2: really proud. Now I can't find her, though she's in 626 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 2: my inbox somewhere. She knows who she is, so that happened. 627 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 3: I feel like your clothing links people are appreciated appreciating those, right, 628 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 3: You're getting good at that. Yeah, like when you're going out. 629 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 2: For people, Yeah, right, because you. 630 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 3: Do have to find certain things like oh my gosh, 631 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 3: yeah fit differently. 632 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: Links are so hard. So I just want to chat 633 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 2: her up because that was awesome. And this is a 634 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,880 Speaker 2: pro tip because I learned this. Apparently, if you wear 635 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 2: red nail polish, which I'm like testing out this theory, 636 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 2: it reminds guys of their moms for some reason and 637 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 2: in turn makes them more attracted to you. Don't ask 638 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 2: me the science behind that or why that's the case. 639 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 3: Okay, I've heard about the red nail polish thing, but 640 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 3: I didn't know it was because of their moms. 641 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 2: Like a familiar feeling I think is what it is, 642 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 2: and like associate it with like a good figure in 643 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 2: their life who is likely their mom and in turn, 644 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 2: for whatever reason, makes them more like attracted to you 645 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 2: and what you're saying and talking. 646 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 3: So pro tip Morgan right now that I have they're 647 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 3: messing up nail guys. I know you can't see this, 648 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 3: but Morgan has red nail polish on. I don't know 649 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 3: that this is the look we need to use, but 650 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 3: the tips are completely off, which I can be this 651 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 3: way too, but you're if you're testing out a fairy 652 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 3: then like. 653 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I will when I go on the dates though, 654 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 2: like we're not a fresh coat. Yeah yeah, no, this 655 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 2: is just from the last date I went on, and 656 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 2: I just hope. 657 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 3: Which was a win because. 658 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 2: Amy let me live my life. Okay. 659 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 3: Most of the time, I'm my nailer chipped, Okay, okay, 660 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 3: but when. 661 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 2: I am testing the theory, yes they are freshly polished, gotcha. 662 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 3: I'm just giving you a hard time that I was like, 663 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 3: because I do want you to get accurate, you know, 664 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 3: assaults from your. 665 00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah that mm hmm, okay, that's all I got. 666 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 3: Okay, So I a red nail theory. Okay, this is 667 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 3: where I saw it on TikTok. If you wear red 668 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 3: nail polish, you're more likely to receive attention from potential suitors. 669 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 3: There it is, and then god, that was just the 670 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 3: headline in her video. The girl Robin on TikTok said 671 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 3: that every time she has red nails, a guy comments 672 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 3: on the color. She was confused at first until it 673 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 3: hit her and the nineties, we were growing up, women 674 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 3: had red nails a lot, especially like our moms. And 675 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 3: I weirdly think that guys are attracted to red nails 676 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 3: because it reminds them of their moms and when they 677 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 3: were growing up taking care of them. 678 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 2: See. 679 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, that hashtag red nail theory has over one hundred 680 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 3: and sixty four million views on TikTok. 681 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so pro tip if you're going on dates and stuff, 682 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 2: just wear red nail polosh and like see if there's 683 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 2: any if they're paying attention. 684 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 3: Another person on TikTok said that she has been asked 685 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 3: out five or six times because of her red nails. 686 00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 2: What see, I've known when we go out out amy, 687 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 2: we have to wear red males. We have to continue 688 00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 2: the study. Okay, because it's just a theory, right, it's 689 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 2: just a working theory. We feel like if it. 690 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 3: Oh and now I'm scrolling down. 691 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 2: This is this. 692 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 3: Now we're going beyond TikTok and we're hearing from psychologists. 693 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 3: So this is from y'all who knows it? Says, is 694 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 3: the red nail theory real? Yes, according to psychologists, color experts, 695 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 3: and well science, red nails can be a magnet to 696 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 3: attract male attention, but not necessarily for the reason. The 697 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 3: reason maybe that the TikTokers okay, men associating red nails 698 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 3: with female figures from their past. It really is dependent 699 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 3: on individual experiences. Obviously, certainly you could see red nails 700 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 3: or any color that you had an experience with and 701 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 3: that would remind you. The idea that red nails conduct 702 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 3: memories from their mother sounds reasonable. Where's can we get 703 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 3: to the point trying to read? Okay, here we go. 704 00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 3: They say that red has deep roots in associationation with romance, sexuality, 705 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 3: and passion, So they're talking about what is associated with red. 706 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 2: This is also a reason why I had to wear 707 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 2: bread underwear under the table eating grapes. 708 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 3: I had not heard of that. And yeah, you posted 709 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 3: about it. 710 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 2: But listen, these are all theories. Okay. But so we're 711 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 2: gonna be wearing when we go out out, we're wearing 712 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 2: red nails. 713 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 3: Okay, maybe am I do pink? My mom wore like 714 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 3: a coral? 715 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 2: Okay, well you thought your mom. We're trying to check 716 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 2: you guys. 717 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 3: Gotcha, gotcha? 718 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, we're gonna go jump over to the listener, 719 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 2: Q and I. You guys sit in a bunch of 720 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 2: questions and we're gonna go answer some of them. Sound good, Yeah, okay, 721 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 2: we'll be over there. Come join us in part three. 722 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 1: That's the best Bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks 723 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: for listening. Be sure to check out the other two 724 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 1: parts this weekend. 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