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Speaker 2: There's a lot going on in this story, Sam, But actually,

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Speaker 2: great segue. I had a lot going on this weekend,

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Speaker 1: Know, I heard a little little tidbit the grape Vine,

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Speaker 1: Yes where I heard like, okay, big banner, I snuck

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Speaker 1: into the Grammys. But I don't know anything other than that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, very close to the Billboard Awards, Like, oh right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: a B rated cousin of the Grammys.

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Speaker 1: Is that the be rated Cousin's definitely, I mean, Billboard's

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Speaker 2: But it's definitely not like as as primo as the others.

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Speaker 3: But I'm I'm totally happy with it.

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Speaker 1: Well, now that you're a B list celebrity through okop,

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Speaker 4: B list for the Billboard.

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Speaker 3: That's right, But.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I literally like woke up at six am on Saturday,

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Speaker 4: Is like, that's some like diy vership right there.

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Speaker 2: It was we It turns out you can like get

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Speaker 4: That is Vegas. Baby.

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Speaker 1: I did no gambling, but so and then just except

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely life's I prefer that. I wanted to

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Speaker 2: go to the Billboard Music Awards. That's my friend was

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Speaker 4: That is nice cool the hookup.

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Speaker 2: There's no guarantee though, Like I literally drove out at

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Speaker 2: And then he suggested this website.

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Speaker 1: Bad ass though, like I don't know what's gonna happen. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about sneaking that I was telling Sam

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Speaker 2: I'm either going to like get in for free or

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Speaker 3: But I did get a free ticket.

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Speaker 2: It's basically like a seat filler, Like we need meat

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Speaker 1: And one of those meat bags, dude, I was met

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Speaker 2: I sat next to around French Montana, push your tea.

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Speaker 2: I saw Diddy a bunch. He was going back and forth.

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Speaker 3: Like it was crazy.

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Speaker 4: It was like there you talk to anyone.

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Speaker 3: I didn't talk to anyone.

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Speaker 2: Basically, they were like I was on Like I was

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Speaker 2: Basically, like they were very like they kept you in line.

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Speaker 1: You needed, like a literal literal like like a chauffeur

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Speaker 3: Yeah you pissed. I pissed her. Maybe you know you shot.

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Speaker 1: And then like that's how your your lifelong friendship with

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Speaker 3: Mutual connection over the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, everyone poops. I think that's all you need.

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Speaker 4: We're so we're so in this together as humans.

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Speaker 3: Truly, like it is the greatest form of connection.

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Speaker 2: And speaking of things going down the toilet, I think

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Speaker 2: So I thirty five, male, have two sisters that I'm

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Speaker 1: But yeah, Sarah, like, dude, it's kind of like King

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, King Henry, Like I didn't know that story.

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Speaker 4: He killed eight of his wives, oh, because.

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Speaker 3: He was infertile.

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Speaker 3: So that's a whole different it's a whole different scenario.

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Speaker 2: So I decided to start a college fund for my

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Speaker 2: This was back in twenty nineteen. That is an amazing

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Speaker 2: thing for an uncle to do. I mean, yeah, jeez,

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Speaker 4: So no, not at all, not at all.

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Speaker 1: And the fact that the uncle is like, yo, I'm

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Speaker 4: Salute, salute sir.

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Speaker 2: Now, I would visit my mother's home where my sister

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Speaker 3: Good family vibes going on so far.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it seems super strong. Yeah, strong family unit for

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Speaker 2: This past weekend, I was asleep upstairs while my mother,

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Speaker 4: Oh. Ouch, that that freakin' hurt.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and that's like, yeah, that's the worst way to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think later he mentions both, but definitely he

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Speaker 4: The more infertile of the two.

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Speaker 1: If she's you know, yeah, obviously she was taking some

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Speaker 3: I have to see.

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Speaker 1: Just one of my more friends was like, you know

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Speaker 2: It's I will say, it's totally possible. I need more

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm asking what I said to that, because

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Speaker 3: That's a Netflix series, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a Netflix series, Needles, that's the only thing

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Speaker 2: Hey, hey, so hearing about the new baby really struck

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that that's that's just it's just roughty here.

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Speaker 1: But it's not necessarily anyone's fault. No, No, that's rough

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Speaker 2: I then heard Leah react to the news repeatedly saying

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Speaker 2: you so, then explaining that she's always thought that I

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Speaker 4: Dude.

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Speaker 3: The niece is just digging into him.

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Speaker 4: Like did he not?

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Speaker 3: It could be not check out who was infertile. It

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Speaker 2: I mean, we don't know how much he's like admitted

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean also like, you know, you gotta

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Speaker 2: Get some counseling. Yeah maybe maybe, or maybe not, because

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Speaker 2: this is crazy right as stories, ladies and gentlemen. I

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Speaker 3: Smart to get a divorce before it was too late.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, twist of the night, Twist of the knight.

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Speaker 2: Ah, I went upstairs into the room and just shut

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Speaker 1: I feel so bad for op bro. Like man's masculine,

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Speaker 1: maybe a bit fragile, but you don't go yeah, bro,

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Speaker 1: she's coming in with a baseball bat wrapped in freaking

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Speaker 2: My mom and sister saw me about to leave and

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Speaker 1: Oh rough, Oh bro, I feel so bad for this guy.

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Speaker 1: Like everyone's talking shit. You hear that shit, you know

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Speaker 3: Ya listening, Just turn your ears off.

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Speaker 4: Turn your ears off.

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Speaker 1: See, that's why you should go to a lot of

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Speaker 3: Uh just blast your ear holes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, blast your earrols when you're young, and then you

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Speaker 2: Maybe we should create our like, uh like reverse hearing aids.

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Speaker 2: Like okop, if you have a Karen you know coming,

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Speaker 1: I wonder if there's like a like a you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't want noise canceling. I just want to stuff

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Speaker 3: And devastated I was because of what Leah said, and I.

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Speaker 4: You know he yeah, I mean like he can do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he can't. I mean he didn't have to in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, his his his masculinity is shattered and a bunch

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Speaker 2: My sister kept trying to call and then texted saying

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Speaker 4: Yeah shit, dude, like, yeah, he can't do anything.

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Speaker 3: About that, man, Yeah, it's yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oh I feel so bad. VRO.

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Speaker 3: I know this is not good.

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Speaker 2: My mother tried to get me to come over so

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Speaker 2: we could talk, saying Leah doesn't deserve me turning my

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Speaker 3: And there's an update.

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Speaker 4: Oh, there's an update. Okay. I They're like, let's hear

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Speaker 4: let's hear it, let's hear it.

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Speaker 2: So this blew up unexpectedly. I've read a lot of

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Speaker 2: So I've decided to go see them tomorrow, sit down together,

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Speaker 2: I admit I'm not the type of person that feels

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Speaker 2: with me and hope this will get resolved soon. Also,

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Speaker 3: Originally.

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Speaker 2: It is what it is, and I'm learning not to

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Speaker 2: let words get to me so easily. I'm not mad

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Speaker 2: like anybody else. Damn Yeah, feel bad, Yeah, sorry, you know,

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Speaker 2: just like make sure to lay off putting your balls

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Speaker 2: and mic away.

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Speaker 4: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, keep you keep, keep your keep your boys.

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Speaker 4: Protected, Keep your boys protected.

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Speaker 3: Message of the day.

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Speaker 4: P s A. P s A.