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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Tim, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty good, I mean pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Considering right right right, because I'm.

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Speaker 1: Trying to figure out what's going on with this woman Samantha.

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Speaker 1: So what happened and tell us how you guys met,

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Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on and then you

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Speaker 1: know where things are. Now I assume you're being we

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Speaker 1: think you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, I mean or she you know, died and

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Speaker 3: unfortunate not to get morbid.

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Speaker 1: I'm not go ahead and say that didn't happen. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: say two possibilities. You're being ghosted, but anyway, you never know,

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Speaker 1: hopefully not. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean I'm confused obviously because you.

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Speaker 4: Know we met on one of the apps and you know,

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Speaker 4: I after go out of back and forth, I asked

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Speaker 4: for a number, and you know we went out for

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Speaker 4: drinks and uh lots of laughs, lots of smiling and

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Speaker 4: uh lots of good conversations. So like, yes, something something

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Speaker 4: crazy that's to happen.

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, So again you look back on this date,

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Speaker 1: as most people do on this part of waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone, and you think everything went well and that

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Speaker 1: you guys got along while and the conversation was good,

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Speaker 1: and you left the date thinking, Okay, I'm gonna see

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Speaker 1: this woman again and we're gonna go on another date,

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Speaker 1: and maybe this is gonna go someplace. That was your expectation. Yeah, yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: except you can't get us work well. I mean sometimes,

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Speaker 1: but I guess in this case. So this is where

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Speaker 1: we come in, though, Dude, I want to try and

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Speaker 1: help you out. Maybe we can put this arrest and

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Speaker 1: get you guys hooked up on another date. So I'm

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Speaker 1: going to play a song. Come back, call Samantha. You'll

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Speaker 1: be on the phone. We'll ask some questions, and again,

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Speaker 1: the hope is that we can straighten this out, figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on, and then set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on another.

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Speaker 2: Date and pay for it. All right, sounds great, Let's see.

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Part two of Waiting by the phone

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Speaker 1: after s is up back in two minutes on the

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Speaker 1: commercial Free Fread Show. Good morning, says, I's on the

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Speaker 1: Fread Show. Good morning, thanks for waking up with us, Hey, Tim, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call Samantha. You guys, you

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Speaker 1: on one of the dating apps very common, of course,

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Speaker 1: and you went on a date you thought it went

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Speaker 1: really well, except she has not responded to you since

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Speaker 1: the date. Nothing. You feel like you're being ghosted. You

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Speaker 1: want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean help me out here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well we're about to Good luck man?

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Speaker 3: Cool? Thanks? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Samantha. Hey, Samantha, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I do need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with this call. If we could chat for

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Speaker 1: just a second on the show. Okay, I know it's weird.

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Speaker 1: It is weird to get these kind of calls. I

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Speaker 1: know we've done so many of them, but thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for your time. We're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a guy who reached out to us. His name is Tim.

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Speaker 1: Says that he met you on one of the apps

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Speaker 1: and you guys recently went out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, you did go out with Tim, all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, so he called us and said that he thought

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Speaker 1: the date went really well and was wondering why he

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Speaker 1: can't get ahold of you. Now you seem to be

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Speaker 1: ghosting him. We didn't have any trouble getting ahold of you?

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Speaker 1: So what's going on? Why are you not calling him back?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean it's pretty simple. I everything was like going

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Speaker 5: fine on the date. It was fine, and then I

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Speaker 5: just went to like grab his drink to take a sip,

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Speaker 5: and he lost it, like he freaked out. He took

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Speaker 5: his hand and swatted at me and like which I

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Speaker 5: was like wait what.

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Speaker 2: He started screaming like what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 5: And so I was like whoa, Okay. My first thought

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Speaker 6: Like, okay, he's a germophobe, okay, but he absolutely lost it,

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Speaker 6: and you guys, it was embarrassing, Like we're in front

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Speaker 6: of a bunch of people in a restaurant, so.

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Speaker 5: I know, I know, And I was just like I

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Speaker 5: didn't know what to say. And he's been like just

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Speaker 5: lectured me for the next like what felt like an hour.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure it was much less, but on how like

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Speaker 5: dangerous it is to share drinks and you know how

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Speaker 5: reckless I am.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you guys, dangerous. Oh there's Tim. Hold hold

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Speaker 1: hold oh, hold on, hold on, hold on, what's Tim

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Speaker 1: is here? I forgot to answer that. I was trying

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Speaker 1: to get to that, Tim, you know, hold your horses there, Bud.

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Speaker 1: So you guys order different drinks, Samantha, and then you're like,

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Speaker 1: I want to try that one. So you just kind

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Speaker 1: of take a sip. I mean, okay, And and he's

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Speaker 1: upset to Tim. So you guys know each other, of course,

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Speaker 1: why are you so upset by this? I mean, did

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Speaker 1: she grab the same straw? Could she have drank out

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Speaker 1: of like another part of the of the cop I mean,

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Speaker 1: is it really that weird? No?

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Speaker 3: I mean I would have been, and I said this

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Speaker 3: to her on the date. I would have been had

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Speaker 3: to have bought her own one if she wanted one.

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Speaker 3: But sharing drinks is like, it's it's dangerous, It's reckless.

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Speaker 3: I it's not something that's okay with me.

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Speaker 1: But how far apart were you sitting from one another?

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Speaker 1: I mean I realized it's a little bit different, but

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Speaker 1: I mean you you're on a date in a public place.

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Speaker 1: You're not that far away. What if the date had

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Speaker 1: gone well and you guys had kissed at the end?

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Speaker 1: Is that dangerous?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: It's it is dangerous to me. You can spread germ,

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Speaker 3: you can spread STDs. There's all sorts of difference. You know,

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Speaker 3: there's a lot of potential danger in sharing drinks, especially

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Speaker 3: on a first date, like going out on every first

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Speaker 3: date and sharing drinks with everyone.

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Speaker 1: But you're going to hear a drink then you're saying

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Speaker 1: or like what you were going to kiss her?

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Speaker 3: I was. I was happy to buy her her own

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Speaker 3: drink so that she could taste what I was tasting,

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Speaker 3: you know, and I thought that date was going.

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Speaker 6: Dude, But you do see, like how it's a bit odd, right,

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Speaker 6: Like there's no way that you haven't encountered other women

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Speaker 6: having a reaction to this.

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Speaker 5: It's it's a bit strange.

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Speaker 3: I mean, most most women don't reach across the table

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Speaker 3: and grab my grab something. Fine.

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Speaker 7: I don't think Tim is wrong here. I think Tim

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Speaker 7: as well within his rights. Like, lady, I offered you

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Speaker 7: your own drink. You can't just be drinking off people, right, Okay, Yeah, Like, yes,

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Speaker 7: we can find.

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Speaker 1: What you're saying, like kissing, hugging, any kind of fish

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Speaker 1: contacted they might have had later Like that's if.

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Speaker 2: I can sent to that, then yes we can do that.

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Speaker 7: But in the moment I just met you, this is

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Speaker 7: the first day, I don't know what you meant and

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Speaker 7: you just reaching across grabbing my drink.

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Speaker 1: I have done so much more, for so much less.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you, maybe I need to go get check

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Speaker 1: that head to tell again. I mean I just did,

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Speaker 1: but maybe we need to do that again. I'm not sure,

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Speaker 1: because this does not bother me at all. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's a way to do it where I don't even

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Speaker 1: have to unless you're backwashing in my drink. There's a

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Speaker 1: way you can grab my drink, drink out of a

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Speaker 1: different part of it and nothing. There's nothing gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: You're a I am a germaphobe.

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Speaker 1: If I'm on a date with you, then I'm probably

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Speaker 1: hoping more things are gonna happen. So off the street

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Speaker 1: people eat off my plate. I mean yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: they're got off the street street.

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Speaker 2: This is not what I heard. You can't be too

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Speaker 2: careful around here. Wow.

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Speaker 1: All right, So Tim is not comfortable with this. Samantha

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Speaker 1: thinks it's an overreach or that he's overreacting. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'll ask Samantha if if he can.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: And it's kind of rhetorical because I don't think he's

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Speaker 1: getting over it. Think it's kind of fundamental. But I mean,

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Speaker 1: if he apologizes and you know, can we move forward.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to apologize for something.

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Speaker 2: That's right, tim stand don't be.

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Speaker 1: Crazy.

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Speaker 3: I mean I would I would like to go out again.

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Speaker 3: It was it was a very nice state, but.

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Speaker 1: You have to wear a Hasma suit and get a

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Speaker 1: full blood work and panel done that he needs to

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Speaker 1: look over before.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I know, if you can't apologize about like

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Speaker 8: making embarrassing me and yelling like about something so silly,

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Speaker 8: and you want to just go out on another date,

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Speaker 8: like that's not a foundation I want to start on.

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Speaker 2: And that's another thing.

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Speaker 1: You could stand on business, as Kiki would say, and

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Speaker 1: you can feel that way, but you don't have to

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Speaker 1: make her feel bad about it. I mean you can

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Speaker 1: be like, hey, I'm not comfortable with there's a way

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Speaker 1: to do it for you know. If you like somebody

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Speaker 1: and say I'm not cool with that, you know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. You don't have to be yelling at people.

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Speaker 1: I guess is what I'm saying. And now you're like,

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Speaker 1: I want to go out again home.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she caught me off guard, So yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: sorry you caught me off guard.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, look it's not gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: I guess, and I assume Samantha.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm a no'.

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Speaker 1: A know for her. All right, Look, Tim, it's not

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Speaker 1: gonna work out. I'm sorry, Samantha. Tim, thank you both

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Speaker 1: for your time. Best elected both of you out

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Speaker 5: There, all right, Thanks so much, guys,