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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shade. Y.

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Speaker 1: I am Gazelle Bryant's what's up? This is Robin Dixon.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for being here once again. Yes, hi, Robin,

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Speaker 1: Hijazel you seeing you again? No, I'm back in your house.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about that? I mean, I'm used

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Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, I know, I know. I feel like

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Speaker 1: we need to just like give you a bedroom here. Well,

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Speaker 1: in the beginning, when I would come over, you would

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Speaker 1: have like snacks and stuff. You would actually offer me

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Speaker 1: like an orange, some carrots. Oh, do you want a cookie?

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Speaker 1: Do you want something? No, But that's not the point.

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Speaker 1: You don't even offer me a sip, a sip of water,

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Speaker 1: because you would always be like, no, I'm okay, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm okay, I'm okay, So okay. I just want when

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Speaker 1: like you invite someone somewhere or out or to a

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Speaker 1: party and they always say no, and then you stop

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Speaker 1: inviting them. You know, that happens to me all the time.

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Speaker 1: I know, But Robin, I still invite you. Actually, you

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Speaker 1: know what's so good that happened to me recently? So

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Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend and her actually her name is Kia,

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Speaker 1: and so Kia never I invite her to a million things,

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Speaker 1: she never comes out, never nothing. So the other day

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Speaker 1: was her birthday and so I said, I hit her up.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yo, you wanna take you lunch, take

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Speaker 1: you to dinner? And she was like, um, okay, we

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Speaker 1: can do lunch. So I said, okay, she's going to

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Speaker 1: get her lashes done with Brenda and then we were

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Speaker 1: gonna go after that. Well I didn't believe her, so

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Speaker 1: I scheduled something after at the time that we were

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Speaker 1: supposed to have lunch. So because I straight, you haven't

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Speaker 1: you haven't followed through in five years, right, So she

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Speaker 1: called me. She was like okay, so you know I'll

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Speaker 1: be done at like one one thirty. She put the

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Speaker 1: dog in the kennel or the play date where dogs

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Speaker 1: to do whatever and what a dog hospitals, dog played

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Speaker 1: dog camp. She put the dog in dog camp and

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Speaker 1: um yeah, And I was like, yo, because I had

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Speaker 1: an appointment with my I have like an estate. Oh

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Speaker 1: I can say this, so this should be your shady

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Speaker 1: moment for I had an Robbie. You cutting me off

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Speaker 1: because I might say something very important. I had an

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Speaker 1: appointment with my lawyer who is handling my estate. Oh

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Speaker 1: sounds so regal, grand Taylor. I want you to put

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Speaker 1: some music behind that, like, yes, I have an as,

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Speaker 1: I did some estate planning. Meanwhile, you're gonna have like

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Speaker 1: ten dollars in your account and you still have an estate.

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Speaker 1: I don't have ten dollars in my account. I'm just saying,

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Speaker 1: you're just saying it like it's like unusual. Well, I

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Speaker 1: mean it was. It was unusual to me until I

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Speaker 1: did it. It is important. Yeah, it's very important, portant,

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Speaker 1: It's very important because something might happen to me. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I need to do the same. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: the name when you hear the word. So you have

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Speaker 1: states Wait, you have haven't done any estate planning, right,

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Speaker 1: but you're throwing shade on my estate planning. I'm just saying, yes, yeah, congratulations. Second,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Robin, Thank you anyway, good for you. We

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Speaker 1: all we all need to do our estate planning. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: but that was the term sounds a lot more grand

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Speaker 1: and fancy than it really is. Well, I've actually just

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Speaker 1: I felt grand and fancy. Yes, yes, so did you

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Speaker 1: complete it? You're done? Done? Nice? Done. Um, is that

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Speaker 1: the first time you've done that? Or is it was

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Speaker 1: it like a check up on it? Like it was

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Speaker 1: the first time I did all that I did so

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Speaker 1: not the totality. Yeah, I had done a portion before,

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Speaker 1: but this was like everything. Yeah, so it's good. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So if I if I die tomorrow, my kids are rich. Good. Good.

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, let's not that I don't want that

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Speaker 1: to happen. I'm just saying that that good, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. Yeah, but it's so crazy because that

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Speaker 1: is something that's been on my to do list for

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Speaker 1: like years and I just have not gone to do it,

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Speaker 1: and you know, not gonna would I hope I can

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Speaker 1: get to do it. Well, I'll give you my lawyers people,

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Speaker 1: Yeah for sure. But that okay, So that is not

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Speaker 1: my reasonably shady moment. This is so you had to

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Speaker 1: cancel on her. So she's all excited to go to

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Speaker 1: lunch for her birthday. Did you invited her to? This

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Speaker 1: is your shady moment. This is my shady moment. It's okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Kia and adologizing right now. And she was

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Speaker 1: all excited to put the dog in the kennel And

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Speaker 1: it's not my fault. She has canceled on me for

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Speaker 1: five years. I get it. But if she was coming

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Speaker 1: in New York recently and the um I was in

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Speaker 1: We were hanging out, and so she was like, I

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Speaker 1: So her hotel was not my hotel, and she was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm staying at the Peninsula And I was like, god, damn,

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Speaker 1: I know it's a very expensive over there. So let's

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Speaker 1: hang out and do drinks at your hotel. Right. So

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Speaker 1: we go there and mind you had to do a

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Speaker 1: whole photo shoot in the streets. Like literally, we're like

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Speaker 1: dodging cars to do a photo shoot. It was amazing. Wait,

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Speaker 1: what this was a you were supposed you were you

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Speaker 1: were doing a photo shoot? We were in No. We

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Speaker 1: Porscha travels with I think she travels or maybe she

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Speaker 1: just hired this guy to day a photographer. Got it.

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Speaker 1: So we was a voluntary photo shoot. It wasn't like

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Speaker 1: for something, no got it. It was just for the

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Speaker 1: Graham just because got it, so before we could go

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Speaker 1: Not the point of the story. The point of the

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Speaker 1: story is the shadiness of the peninsula was apparently there

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Speaker 1: was some very important dignitary in the peninsula. To the

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Speaker 1: the hotel the front doors has like red carpet, so

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Speaker 1: that's like perfect for pictures, right, So we got out

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Speaker 1: to This is not a photo shoot. Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: what y'all won't be doing. And we were like, but no,

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Speaker 1: to step in. And you know when Secret Service gets auntcy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is what they do. They send a plane closed

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Speaker 1: closed person first, and they send a plane close to

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Speaker 1: the photographer and whispering his ear. Y'all got to move,

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Speaker 1: but we didn't move, So then they send another person,

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Speaker 1: same message, but do they identify should do they say

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Speaker 1: we are Secret Service? No, they don't. He was just

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Speaker 1: like he was like, so, y'all got to move because

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Speaker 1: it was a full secret Service was written on this

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Speaker 1: um what do you call those bulletproof vest He had

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Speaker 1: the hotel, we had to go through full metal detectors.

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Speaker 1: Pat down. I got patted down, and mind you, he

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Speaker 1: was kind of cute patting me down. I was like

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Speaker 1: pat me fronting back baby. Okay. Anyway, so I just

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Speaker 1: the shady people right now? Is the Peninsula or Secret Service?

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Speaker 1: One of the two? Wow? Okay, I mean that is

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Speaker 1: kind of like rude. It's like, who are you to

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Speaker 1: be telling me what I can and can't be doing? Well?

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Speaker 1: They you know it was a security risk. I guess

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Speaker 1: portion I were a security risk, yes, pose big booties.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, not all just portis booty um. And

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Speaker 1: so we were trying to figure out who it was,

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Speaker 1: right and it wasn't Trump by the way. Hopefully by

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Speaker 1: now he's in jail. But that's a whole nother story, right. Um.

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Speaker 1: Do you know okay, wait, I just saw this. He

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Speaker 1: said on Tuesday, I'm going to be arrested. Yeah. Do

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Speaker 1: you know between Friday to Tuesday he raised like one

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Speaker 1: point five million dollars And it's called witch hunt. The

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Speaker 1: witch hunt. Uh you want to You're supposed send money

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Speaker 1: to the witch hunt like organization or something. Wow, called

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Speaker 1: witch hunt. Wow. This man is unbelievable, right. Um. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: so I deduced that it was Barack. It was Barack Obama.

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Speaker 1: That's who I think it was. Yeah, because it was

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Speaker 1: a full it was a full blown, huge secure Why

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Speaker 1: I mean, why would he at the Peninsula. Why would

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Speaker 1: you think that was him? Because it wasn't Trump. Trump

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Speaker 1: was in mar Larco. It was on the news that night.

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Speaker 1: He was in Florida. So it wasn't Trump. And Trump

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Speaker 1: Uncle Joe, yeah, because they would have let me talk

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Speaker 1: to Uncle Joe because you know, we're friends. Oh really, yes, Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 1: what's your shady moment? Lord? Shoot? Um, well, I just

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Speaker 1: I forgot that I had to have a shady moment,

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Speaker 1: you know what. And actually this is not the first time.

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Speaker 1: It's not the first I've done this, so you will

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Speaker 1: a shady moment. This is the world might be looking

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Speaker 1: Cardi b sued Tasha k Oh yes, for four million

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Speaker 1: dollars for defamation defamation, yes, and then she was awarded

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Speaker 1: gonna appeal, right, and she lost the appeal. Right. So

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Speaker 1: don't know Tasha k And I'm not saying I like

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Speaker 1: this because of her. I like this because you can't

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Speaker 1: she said something that was false about Cardi B but

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Speaker 1: it was you know, damaging and Cardi suitor for defamation.

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Speaker 1: And I think up until then, a lot of people

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Speaker 1: whatever they want to say. They still do. Yeah, And honestly,

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Speaker 1: I've had my moments where I have wanted to call

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Speaker 1: our lawyer, yes and be like, you know, can you

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Speaker 1: go um serve this little girl who's making up lies? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: with something, because it's not it's it's just not okay.

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Speaker 1: Like people have real lives, we have real families, we

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Speaker 1: I have definitely considered going down that route. But I'm

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Speaker 1: but but yeah, it's just I mean, and I really

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Speaker 1: of stuff like how can we regulate you know or

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Speaker 1: you have to go? Live in the in the okay,

421
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: artificial intelligence world? Okay, listen, Researchers at the University of

422
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: Toronto have developed a potential treatment for liver cancer using

423
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: artificial intelligence, and you will be cured in thirty days.

424
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: Carry on a need more? Okay. Creation of this potential

425
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,959
Speaker 1: drug was accomplished in just thirty days, and the AI

426
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 1: system can also predict a patients survival rate. So listen,

427
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm confused. I'm not I'm not well. This is great

428
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: because cancer is horrible. It has killed a lot of people.

429
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: So why on earth have we had to wait all

430
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: this time to get some Really what do they mean

431
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 1: by artificial intelligence? I don't understand. What is that robots?

432
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 1: Just let the robots do what they do. Okay, So

433
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 1: the robots are curing liver cancer something they're making a

434
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 1: drug in thirty days. How listen, you take the pill,

435
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: you pop the pill. That's what this is what I'm thinking. Okay,

436
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: I mean that would be wonder full if that actually works. Okay,

437
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,919
Speaker 1: if it's true. So is it like on the market

438
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 1: now are people taking it? Like? What? Well, first of

439
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: falls in Toronto? So okay, that's fine. A lot of

440
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: drug companies are in Toronto. No, meaning like it's not

441
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: in the States. Okay, So I don't we don't have

442
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 1: further research. Okay, So I will keep you inform into this. Yeah, yeah,

443
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: because as we get older, you never know. I mean, no,

444
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: that would be lovely. And then hopefully and why is

445
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: it just liver cancer? What do you mean? Oh oh,

446
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: that's a good question. I'm going to ask the AI people,

447
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: the artificial intelligence people. When it said AI, I thought

448
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: it was Alan. I were saon when I found Hi

449
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: Alan speaking of Is that? Remember? Um? What is all

450
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 1: that stuff that was happening? Not? It wasn't bitcoin. It

451
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: was like the the metaverse is that it's called the metaverse?

452
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 1: Is that still a thing? Metaverse? Yeah? As in Facebook? No,

453
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 1: remember people are like buying um oh yeah, oh yes,

454
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: the fake the fake um fake world. Yes, yes, is

455
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 1: that so a thing? What does that have to do

456
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: with Alan Irverson? That has something to do with artificial intelligence? Oh?

457
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 1: There we go, boom back at it. This is why

458
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:11,119
Speaker 1: we keep roving around because she is smart. Okay, So

459
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: I think that that phase might be over because people

460
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: realize they spending their money on nothing. What I did

461
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,959
Speaker 1: realize was that they said that people aren't frivolously spending

462
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: money anymore. Okay, that's what they said. Okay, because about

463
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: to go into a recession. Yes, y'all, best save y'all coins.

464
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: Doomsday is coming, y'all, Doomsday, it's coming. Best save your coins. Okay.

465
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: So a couple of months, about a month ago, we

466
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: talked about men that measure their penises and we got

467
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 1: a look, we got a couple of people who have

468
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: chimed in more than a couple they jumped into the Okay.

469
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 1: So this one is from Nathan Trinidad because I've done

470
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 1: my own independent research. Yeah yeah, so that's why we're

471
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 1: talking about Okay. Okay, So he says, you want to

472
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 1: say something else, No to say this is a follow

473
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: up to the question about on grinder, right, Yeah, yeah, okay,

474
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: okay about measuring the penis right right? The question we

475
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: asked the question, is there like an input section on Grinder? Oh?

476
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 1: We did, Yes, I forgot about that. Yes. Oh this

477
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: is getting good. That's that's what this is what this

478
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: email is in response to we asked on Grinder, is

479
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: there some sort of input for where you can say

480
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: my penis is eight inches? Yes? You know, I think

481
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,719
Speaker 1: people be lying, but okay, so um it says hi

482
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: Robin and yourself. First of all, let me just say

483
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 1: I love you both. I've been a RHRP fans and

484
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: stay one team green Eye bandits all the way. Yay

485
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: um oh speaking of green Eyes, I am all over

486
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: the place right now. So Erica bad Okay, I did

487
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 1: an interview. Did y'all say this interview though? And I

488
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 1: think it was Are Martinez and interviewed her and said, um, so, Erica,

489
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: you know they have said over the years that people

490
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 1: can just look at you in your eyes and fall

491
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: in love. And I was like, yeah, that's me every day.

492
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it, I get it. So she

493
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:02,719
Speaker 1: was like yes, men and women, boys and girl, oh

494
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 1: my god, red black and yellow, purple, and okay, she

495
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: didn't say all that, Okay, anybody, she didn't. She didn't deny,

496
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: She was like, yes, this has been a thing my

497
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 1: entire life. I think it has something to do with

498
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: being a green eyed bandit because her ice cream a

499
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 1: hazel hers are very pretty. Okay, she's she's a hazel

500
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: eyed bandit. But hasn't this happened to you your entire life, Robin,

501
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 1: that people fall in love with me from looking into

502
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: my eyes? Yes? No, oh, where have you what? You

503
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: are not using the powers of the green eyes? I mean,

504
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: I don't want people to fall in love with me

505
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 1: just from looking in my eyes and it happens. I'm

506
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 1: just here to tell you, Okay. Moving on back to

507
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 1: the letter, it says, so I am a gay man

508
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 1: and I used Grinder regularly. Yes, I'm a hoe. While

509
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: while Grinder does not have a feel for penis size,

510
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 1: most men will send you unsolicited penis picks. Either way,

511
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 1: Grinder does have a feel for your position top bottom

512
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: verse V E R S. What does that mean? Oh? Versatile? Okay,

513
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: you can do either. And if you accept N s

514
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: f W photos. While most people don't pay attention to that,

515
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: what is n s FW You wouldn't know. But it's

516
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: not safe for work. Oh wow, you wouldn't know. I

517
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 1: don't have one of those kind of jobs. Okay. I

518
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: love the podcast and listen every mind day. Okay, So, I,

519
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: because this was intriguing to me, spoke to a couple

520
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: of my gay male friends, not cal and I asked,

521
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: I said, do you measure your penis? He said, that's

522
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: a gay thing. Oh. This is a gay man that

523
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: said to me that's a gay thing. So I said,

524
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: well what does that mean and he said yeah, they

525
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: like to play around and do that. I said, well,

526
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: have you ever measured your penis? He said no, and

527
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: he's a gay man. Yes, but it's a gay thing.

528
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it. I think maybe it's a funny

529
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: gay thing. Oh my god, I can't. We're moving on.

530
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: So Carlie has giving us way too much information. We're

531
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: moving We're moving on. We're moving on. I think it's

532
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: just a men are stupid thing. That stupid but they

533
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: just having fun. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't think

534
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: it's just a gay thing. I don't. Okay, So is

535
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: this equivalent to we know women's boob size because of

536
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 1: bra siyes? Like if you're c D double D. Well,

537
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: we need to know our bra sizes. We need to

538
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 1: know our boom size because we need to know our

539
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: braw sides. True, so men don't need to know their

540
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: penis eyes to Okay, I was I was trying to

541
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: figure out what side underwear they're getting, right, Yeah, they

542
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: do so big cross, little cross. I mean I think

543
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: they can just eyeball it like yes, okay, But I don't.

544
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it's just a gay thing. I don't.

545
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: I think I think sharing it of course, like you know,

546
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: is it maybe a gay thing, because maybe that's important.

547
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: But I I think I can see where a lot

548
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: of males, whether there are young men from the age

549
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: of fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, they might do it. I could

550
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: see twenty two year old men just doing just for

551
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: the fun of it. Yeah. Oh, by the way, did

552
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: you ever see Sex Life? Did I tell you to

553
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: watch that? I haven't. Okay, I do want to watch that, Okay,

554
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 1: I heard that's good. Yeah. By the way, I have

555
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: been wanting to provide this update please, so on the

556
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:29,479
Speaker 1: television show, I think they I said something where I

557
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: said something like, you know, Corey, I still walk around

558
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: naked around my kids on the Roal Housewives of Atom.

559
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, okay, I said that, did you yeah? Do you? Well,

560
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm just giving you an update. Okay, Corey no longer

561
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: is interested in, I would hope, not in seeing me naked. Yes,

562
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: not that he was interested before, but now it's like

563
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,479
Speaker 1: put some clothes on, mommy. Yeah, it's like, oh no,

564
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: you know, let me cover my eyes. But he still

565
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: barges into my bathroom when I'm in the shower or

566
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: into my room like you know, so I'll just be like,

567
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: but when I hear him coming, I'll be like, I'm naked,

568
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: and then he'll like, he'll wait, close his eyes, turn

569
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: around whatever. Good before And however, Carter is not faced yet.

570
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Carter's thirteen thirteen seven, I give him six

571
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: more months, right, Yeah, he's not faced, but Corey is like, yeah,

572
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: I want no parts. Even my girls are like my

573
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: pus of clothes one really yes, like oh or they'll

574
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: say give us a heads up like boob alert or something.

575
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, but they don't know. So the three of

576
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: them cover up around. No, not at all. They just

577
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: don't want to see my old part. Yeah, okay, yes, sorry, okay, um, okay,

578
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: I thought this. Okay. We asked you guys to send

579
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: us questions and we would answer them. This is just

580
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: one We're gonna talk about her because we got a

581
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: couple more emails to Yeah, and this is not my question.

582
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 1: It's not just our question. This is from f Harris

583
00:31:55,960 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: one seven one one, Okay. He said, why are educated

584
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: women attractive to Pooky and Ray Ray? First of all,

585
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: I don't know who Pooky and Ray Ray are? Okay,

586
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: I don't know who they represent. I don't know anything

587
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: about Pooky or Ray Ray. And I don't are we

588
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: talking about Pooky as in like Chris Rock's Pooky character

589
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: or New Jack City the Crackhead? Right? Are we saying

590
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: that people are attracted to him? Black people like him?

591
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 1: People like him? I don't know anyone that likes Pooky

592
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: from Crackhead, okay, that wants to date him? Right? Or?

593
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: And who's Ray Ray Ray? Ray? Ray Ray is like

594
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: on the corner, Okay, He's not the drug dealer, He's

595
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: the lookout for the drug dealer. He's the lookout boy.

596
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, yeah, And that's universal pretty much. I mean,

597
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: I don't want stereotype Ray Rays out here. But okay,

598
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: well that's you know, the ray Ray on my corner.

599
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: He's the look out boy and my my own your corner.

600
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 1: My question is is he asking us this because we're

601
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: educating women or is he asked us because he just

602
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: wants to know about educated women. I'm so confused by

603
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: this question that that's why I had to ask. But

604
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: I am an educated woman. Huh. The man that I'm

605
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: married is very educated, so I don't fall under the

606
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: pookie and the ray Ray. I will say, okay, if

607
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: if he's I mean, clearly, this is a you know,

608
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: he's trolling a little bit. You know, he's using us

609
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 1: a little crazy questions. But I think if we could

610
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: generalize this question, right, okay, because you do have women,

611
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 1: good women who come from good backgrounds, and they and

612
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: they would prefer to date instead of dating a nice guy,

613
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 1: a nice educated man or nice professional man, they want

614
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: to date, you know, the the bad guy. The bad guy, right,

615
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: the local drug dealer he considered a bad at because

616
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: some drug dealer is really nice. I'm just saying to

617
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: tell you I don't know them. Don't look at me, Carl. However,

618
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: I've heard that they are very nice. You know, they

619
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: say that women are attracted to bad, bad boy boys.

620
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: I get. So maybe that's what this question is trying

621
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: to get at. I get that, And I have actually

622
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 1: told my children, because they're a dating age, that the

623
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 1: cornballs are your future c yes and CFOs, doctor sars,

624
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: so go on and get with them. Yes, but the

625
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: bad boys don't lands long, right, I agree? Yeah, yeah,

626
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: so that that's what I've been telling me. I've been

627
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: I've had a bad boy too, and I'm sure you

628
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: have too, Yes, And it is extremely exciting and some

629
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: excitement running from the cops now and you're in the passenger. See,

630
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 1: but that gets old. Yeah, that gets old. They get

631
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: and they run out, you know. Or even if it's

632
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: the guys, it's not even just about you know, bad guys,

633
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: I eat drug dealers or whatever. But like say the

634
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: guys at in your school, your middle school, you're high school, whatever,

635
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: and they're like the cool, sexy, handsome ones and they're

636
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: you know, the players, and they're the ones that like

637
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: all the girls want, and then you twenty years later

638
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: you see them you're like, oh my gosh, I can't

639
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: believe that that's him, like because he's literally like working

640
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: in the gas station or something like and it's a

641
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: big belly, right, yeah, he's a beer belly, right. So

642
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: it's just funny to see, Like, I mean, I've seen

643
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: so many guys like that. I remember when they when

644
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: we were younger, and they were like fine, yes, hot,

645
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 1: so fine, and they were everybody wanted them, and they

646
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: had all the girls. And now you look at them

647
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 1: and they're like in age. Well yeah, like I'm cool

648
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 1: on you, tess, or you see them in a club

649
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: and they have like a receding hairline and the stomach

650
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: is like really fast, all of that. Yeah, and they

651
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 1: haven't figured out how to transition out of the Heyday. Yeah,

652
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: they're Heyday gas. They're holding onto it. Yeah yeah, no,

653
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: let it go, let it go boo. Yeah yeah. Not

654
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: all guys transition well no it. Meanwhile, the guys that

655
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: were like just being studious and minding their business and

656
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 1: they're the ones that are yeah yeah, the CEO of

657
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 1: the pharmacy utical company or listen, you know, listen. But

658
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: like Indris Elba has remained fine over the decade, definitely has.

659
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm just slashing back to him at the Oscars with

660
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: his beautiful wife. Yes, and she looked really good. This

661
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 1: was the first time and I hate to umoset try

662
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: to say this in the best way possible that I

663
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 1: ever saw a picture of them. And I looked at

664
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: her because I always look at him, look at him, right,

665
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: But I looked at her longer than I looked at him. Yeah,

666
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,720
Speaker 1: they're a great amazing they're a great looking couple. Yeah.

667
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: I can't remember her name, but Sabrina, Oh Sabrina, that's right.

668
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 1: She looked dropped at gorgeous. But that interest yeah, yeah,

669
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: oh he still looks good. That thing. I just watched

670
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,240
Speaker 1: a movie with him in it. It was the movie, Um,

671
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back and watch the Wire again, Luther.

672
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: So they oh yeah, I love Luther. So they made

673
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: a movie. No, but they made a movie. Oh really, huh?

674
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: Okay have you seen the series. I never watched the series, Okay,

675
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: I didn't really. The movie was just just okay. I

676
00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 1: saw the series like on one of my trips, an

677
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 1: international trip, when I had like a whole lot of time. Yeah.

678
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 1: So we have a good question that somebody sent us. Okay, okay,

679
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: this is from his subject is what to do? Okay? Hi,

680
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 1: I just started listening to the podcast and have become

681
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: a fan. I've always been a fan of Rhop. So

682
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: I am dating and he has dating and quotes a

683
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: married man. I know, shame on me, but I was

684
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: tricked into it. He told me they were separated, and

685
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: when I found out, I broke things off with him. Well,

686
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,919
Speaker 1: he is in love with me and I have turned

687
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: him away on three separate occasions, but the last time

688
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: I gave in and fast forward two years later and

689
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: we are still together. He recently told his wife he

690
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: was not happy okay, and was only with her for

691
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 1: the kids, and she refuses to let him go. When

692
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: I date other people, he gets in his feelings about

693
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: it and he lavishes me with things to keep my

694
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: attention on him. I guess I'm asking how can I

695
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: break this off? Or should I? Since I'm the one

696
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 1: he really wants, don't be harsh with me? Signed sneaky link. Yes, Okay,

697
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 1: So this is a tough one. Yeah actually, well actually

698
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: not really. I mean the tough part is um Brett

699
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 1: is Brett man. Okay. The married man is a man

700
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: and the merryman is married to a woman to a woman.

701
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,879
Speaker 1: How did we not get that from what you just

702
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:42,959
Speaker 1: read I did Oh you got it? Yeah, I didn't

703
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: get it. Okay, I get it now. So the merryman, yes,

704
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 1: goes both ways obviously, yes, And maybe he really wants

705
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: to be gay, right, but he doesn't want to leave

706
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 1: his wife and kids. Well it sounds like his wife

707
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: doesn't want to let him go, but that's according to him.

708
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: This is all one side of stores, one side of conversation,

709
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: so he probably doesn't, you know. It's like, okay, you

710
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: have to ask, okay, well, like is there something in

711
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: his life that's preventing him from living his life? You know,

712
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: the way that he would preferred to, right, is it

713
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:20,720
Speaker 1: his job? Is it his you know, his kids, his family, um, society, whatever,

714
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: society exactly at the end of the day, I don't

715
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: think it's fair to the wife in the situation, and

716
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: it's not fair to the what is so so you

717
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: know what I know the term for like what mistress means? Like,

718
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: what's the opposite for a male? Oh, misstraw, He's not

719
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 1: a mistress. He's a mister. Oh he's a mister, A

720
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: mister he's as Like, what's the opposite? What is the

721
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: opposite of a mistress? What is a male version of

722
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: a mistress. I need to google. Okay, you're gonna google that.

723
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: Why you google that? I feel like cheating is cheating.

724
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if you're a man, woman, whatever the situation.

725
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: Cheating is cheating. So should he stop dating him? Yes?

726
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: And he should want better for himself than to be

727
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: dating or in a relationship with a man that's married.

728
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: Paramore a paramore, So that paramore means you're a man

729
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: and your personal side is a man? Well, no, no,

730
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: it just means it says it's not exclusively male, but

731
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: it can to apply to either partner in an illicit relationship. Okay,

732
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: I have heard the term paramore a manstress, a manstress,

733
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: so I said misstra, So no manstress. I like that

734
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,879
Speaker 1: mistress manstress. That makes sense. Manstress. I guess I feel

735
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 1: like the ss at the end indicates female. But okay, yeah,

736
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: manstress all right, for the purposes of this conversation, is

737
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: the manstress? Yeah? Okay, so you need to run. You

738
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: need to because you should want more for yourself period, right,

739
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: unless he doesn't, unless he's like, you know what, I'm

740
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: just having fun. I don't you know what I mean? Like,

741
00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: let me take these gifts but I believe I agree.

742
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: And the fact that the married man gets upset with him, say,

743
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: he gets upset when he gets upset other people. When

744
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: the manstress starts seeing other people that he should see

745
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: that are single, Yeah, when I date other people, he

746
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 1: gets in his feelings about it. So yeah, this man

747
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: that you're in a you know, toxic relationship, Yes, that

748
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 1: you are are fooling around with is no good. No,

749
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: nothing's going to change. If he leaves his wife and

750
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: he comes to be with you, it's going to be

751
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: the same type of situation. Yes, he's going to The

752
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: way you got him is the way he's going to leave. Ye,

753
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: Is that right? That's something like that. The way you

754
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: keep him, the way you where you got him, the

755
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 1: way you keep him. Know, the way you got you

756
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: lose him. The way you got him is the way

757
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: you lose him. Yes. So if you were the manstress,

758
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: there's gonna be another manstress behind you, right, or a mistress. Right.

759
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: But if you do have a conscience, I feel like

760
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 1: my conscience would just be like yes, karma, Yeah, I

761
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: don't want to be involved in that. The the merriyman

762
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: is being super selfish to everyone around him. Yes, right,

763
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: and um, you know, he can't have his cake and

764
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 1: eat it too now, not unless everybody is informed. Like

765
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: when I'm seventy five, if I have a boo, I'm

766
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: gonna tell everyone you can do whatever you want, right,

767
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: because I don't feel like, okay, just go for it right,

768
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: right exactly. But when I'm gonna do whatever i want right,

769
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,399
Speaker 1: but it has to be when I'm seventy five. Seventy five, yes,

770
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: and if he's if he's younger, yeah, that's a good deal. Yeah,

771
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 1: Hey for sure. Hey, yeah, okay, So I want to

772
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: do one more Yeah, okay. This is from Sherry Sherry

773
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: King hash Harry. Yeah, Hey Sherry. She says, hello, ladies,

774
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: first time every email in the podcast. But I listened

775
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: to you guys, and I think you can assist with

776
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,720
Speaker 1: my dilemma. So I've been talking to an older gentleman

777
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: for six months and over the holidays, my furnace went out,

778
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 1: so I'm freaking out. I'm telling about the situation. You know.

779
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,439
Speaker 1: It came during the coldest time of the year, during

780
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: the holidays, so I went and got my furnace fixed,

781
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: and just a month later I had to replace it.

782
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: So she's telling this older general her frustration about all

783
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 1: the repairs she's venting. One day, I get a cash

784
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: app notification that he sent me some money, and on

785
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: the caption he said, put it toward your furnace. Oh

786
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: that's nice, Okay, keep him very nice. Wow, this is

787
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: where it changes. So immediately I'm thinking, oh my god,

788
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 1: what a sweet gesture. And that is a nice thing.

789
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: But I didn't want to accept the money because we're

790
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 1: not in a relationship. That's when you accept the money, right,

791
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: there's no strings here. Plus I never told him how

792
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: much the furnace was, or asked any asked for any

793
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: help from him. Okay, I was just venting. So I

794
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: returned the cash app. Sherry, you idiot, right YEA not

795
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: an idiot, Sherry, but just not something that would do right, Okay.

796
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 1: So I returned the cash app and I said, thank

797
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: you for your help. I appreciate it, but I'm good.

798
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: For some reason, that hurt his feeling. Yes, he said

799
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: that pride is a hell of a thing. I told

800
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: him my entire life, I have supported myself and I've

801
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: never depended on anybody to do anything for me. And

802
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: the gesture was a surprise, and I appreciate it, and

803
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if returning it hurt your feeling. I hate her, Ladies.

804
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: He told me that he does not accept my apology

805
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: and the fact that I returned his money. I stole

806
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: his hope and I should never take away anyone's hope.

807
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: So she says, I can't deal with a man with

808
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: a fragile ego. Well, okay, okay, can you can stop there,

809
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 1: because we can we can. Okay, he doesn't have a

810
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 1: fragile ego. He just has an ego, and what she

811
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 1: did was stomp all over it. A man is born

812
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: to or they're supposed to provide. Right, he was trying

813
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: to provide even when you didn't even ask him, Right,

814
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: that's what you want a man to do. I think

815
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: outside of his ego, I think what she did is

816
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: kind of maybe prove a preconceived notion that he might

817
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 1: have about single, independent women. Do you know what I mean? Like,

818
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: because what did he say? That pride is a hell

819
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: of a thing. So you know, I think we know

820
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: that a lot of women who have supported themselves, they've

821
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: been independent for a long time, they don't want to

822
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: accept a man's help because they don't want the man

823
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: to think, right, I need to depend on you, right,

824
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: And so I think she kind of proved his point, yes,

825
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: that being in a relationship maybe you know, sometimes getting

826
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: to know someone in a relationship in this predicament is

827
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: a challenge because the females want to let the man

828
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,839
Speaker 1: know I got this, I don't need your help. So

829
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,879
Speaker 1: I feel like that I don't even know if it's

830
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: his ego. I think it was more like she was

831
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: showing him like, yeah, I don't need you, which is

832
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: not that he's like I need you to need me,

833
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 1: but it's kind of like I need you to drop

834
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: the guards, yes, drop all the walls. And you emasculated him, right.

835
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,839
Speaker 1: He is there to help you, boo. This is what

836
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: you want a man to do, and you messed it up, right,

837
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 1: And you got to think about it. This might be

838
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: his love language. This might be the way he shows

839
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: that he, you know, cares about someone. He's listening to

840
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: you and he's just like, hey, I hear you, I

841
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,879
Speaker 1: feel you. I want to help you out. So I

842
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 1: do think, Sherry, that you were kind of the wrong

843
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 1: in this situation. You dropped the ball, sharing and I

844
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 1: dropped the ball. You fumbled the ball, Yeah, yes, yeah,

845
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 1: because what he did wasn't wrong. No, it's not a

846
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: red flag, it's not all Now, what you could have

847
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 1: done was said, hey, I really you know, that was

848
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: so nice of you, so unexpected. But I don't want

849
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 1: you to think that I was venting to you because

850
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 1: I was asking for money. I just want to make

851
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: sure you know that I was not trying to ask

852
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: for your money. Listen, every time from then on that

853
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 1: we go out, after he sent me the cash app,

854
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my gosh, my roof, oh my gosh,

855
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 1: might feed her ny News shoes, I would like, right

856
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 1: if he if he's a type of dude that wants

857
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 1: to do that, yeah, I'm gonna let you do it now, right,

858
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 1: and you don't have to be my boo, right, we

859
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: don't have to have a quote commitment, right. Yes. Yeah.

860
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: So now she says, there, I don't be quiet over here.

861
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: I don't think you're I mean, I think if if

862
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: it's like a no strings attached thing, like I don't,

863
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe there's other stuff going on where she

864
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: feels like it was a you know, let me send

865
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: this money and maybe I'll slide up in there or something.

866
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 1: I don't know. But if this is a caring man

867
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 1: that's listening to you and he wants to be generous

868
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: and help you out, like, that's hard to find, you

869
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 1: know what I do. There is something to be said

870
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: about women that are all like and people think you

871
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: and I are like this, people think I'm like this

872
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: that Oh my gosh, I'm a strong independent woman. I

873
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 1: don't need a man and I financially no for children

874
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: for procreation. No, but I do want a man to

875
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: like be a companion and to like hang out with

876
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 1: me and to listen to me because I got a

877
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: whole lot of shit to say. So I need to

878
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:41,319
Speaker 1: know that you're listening to me, and that is important. Now,

879
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: if it comes what you're gonna send me with with

880
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: you're sending me money, that's right too, but it's not necessary.

881
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: Yeah but girl, you don't ever send the money back? Right? Yeah? Yeah,

882
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: that almost. I feel like I don't think it's an

883
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 1: ego thing. I think he's probably like I can't win here, no,

884
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: like if she doesn't want to accept my kind gesture,

885
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 1: I can't really win. Yes, yes, so she says we

886
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: are going on a cruise next month. Oh it continues, Yes, Okay, yes,

887
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: she said the kickers. We're going on a cruise next month,

888
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,479
Speaker 1: paid in full, and I'm still going. But my family

889
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: is saying that's shady of me because it's his family

890
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: reunion cruise. That's not my fault and he's wrong, not me,

891
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,720
Speaker 1: So why should I miss my vacation? Am I being shady?

892
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: Any thoughts would be helpful, but truth be told, my

893
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: ass is still going. Okay, So who's I'm confused about

894
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 1: the cruise. It sounds like, okay, it's his family reunion's

895
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: cruise that I'm sure he paid, that he paid for okay,

896
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: and he paid for her, and that she's still going

897
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: because it's like in her name. I guess yes, and

898
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: she wants to have fun but they're not. But it doesn't.

899
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 1: But it sounds like the relationship is over over and

900
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: I'm still going on a cruise. So we need to

901
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: tell her all the cruise. Make it right, Okay, drop

902
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: down and get your eagle on his penis. Okay, that's

903
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 1: number one, number two, so you can accept the cruise.

904
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 1: You can accept the vacation, but except for the furnace

905
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 1: to be fixed, right, girl, you got your priorities mixed up? Yeah,

906
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: I mean the man doesn't make sense, that's backwards. Yes,

907
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 1: let the man pay for everything, right, I don't want

908
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 1: to have nothing. So I feel like go back to

909
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: him and apologize. Yes, not because you are you know,

910
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: independent and you're financially stable and you don't need his help.

911
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 1: Just apologize that you didn't accept his kind gesture. And

912
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: you didn't and you know what I'm saying, like, and

913
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: so take all the I can do for myself part away, yes, right,

914
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: and just say I'm really sorry that I did not

915
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 1: recognize that you were just trying to be kind out

916
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: the goodness of your right. And lastly about that is

917
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 1: a lot of times we want support and we want

918
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: um validation and we want somebody to congratulate us, so

919
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 1: to speak on on the hard work that we do. Right, right,

920
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 1: you do want to do a guy to like acknowledge that, right,

921
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 1: But him helping you out financially is not him not

922
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: knowledging that right. He don't need to. Maybe you got

923
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: it right, We understand you got your whole money. Now

924
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 1: spend it on you, not your furnace the end. Yeah, yes,

925
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: so don't ever forget to live your life, either reasonable

926
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