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Speaker 1: Hella La La La La La La La La La

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Speaker 1: Motherfucking can't welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast?

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Speaker 1: Did you like what you deserved? Jeff? That was so beautiful?

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Speaker 1: A little nasally, but it's okay, I'm gonna do what

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Speaker 1: every girl who can't sing says when they have to perform,

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Speaker 1: I'm sick. It's like, no, bitch, you can't sing? What

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Speaker 1: are you just always sick?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're annoying because you can sing. And when someone

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Speaker 2: like you says every girl who can't sing, and then

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Speaker 2: people like me who really fucking can't sing, it's like,

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Speaker 2: hold on a time.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I can sing. I can carry

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Speaker 1: a tune.

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Speaker 2: I think, no, you can sing, But what did you

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Speaker 2: sing before? Even when you're joking, you can just tell

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Speaker 2: because I lived in Nashville and I lived with five

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Speaker 2: girl roommates who some can sing and some couldn't, And

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Speaker 2: you can tell even when they're joking. You're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you have a good voice under there.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that is so nice. Just keep feeding my ego please.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I've been locked up. This is the

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Speaker 1: first time I've come out of the house since Thursday.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm, keep in mind today's Monday. So Ocean. I

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Speaker 1: put her down Wednesday night, put her down to go

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Speaker 1: I hear her upset, and I always say, like a

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Speaker 1: lot of people ask did you sleep train Ocean, and

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Speaker 1: I did, because I feel like, you know their cries

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Speaker 1: crime means they're hungry. I know that crime means something

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Speaker 1: is wrong. I know that they've woken up and they

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Speaker 1: need to self soothe. This cry on Wednesday night was

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Speaker 1: like something's wrong. So I go in and she is

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Speaker 1: she lets out. Here's the thing. I didn't know she

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Speaker 1: have been possible. I'm no fucking doctor, but that put

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Speaker 1: my mind to ease a little bit. So I was

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Speaker 1: keeping an eye on her what seemed like an hour,

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Speaker 1: steaming up the shower while it was steaming. I put

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Speaker 1: I got her at seven, put her down. This is

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Speaker 1: I think that they look at each patient and go,

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Speaker 2: No, this is that is probably one of the most,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not even a parent, and it makes

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Speaker 1: Thank God, my mom. She was gonna she was going

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Speaker 1: I miss Ocean. Thank God she was there because you know,

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Speaker 2: Of course, No, that's incredible, I say. You had texted me.

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Speaker 2: as an assistant. But at night, I love my family,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, Oh my god. I hope Gig flew home.

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Speaker 1: Right, So it's like it's an upper airway infection that

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Speaker 1: And we still get COVID tested for vander Pump, I know,

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Speaker 1: The whole house was like down for the count Ocean.

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Speaker 2: It was so sad, But you know what, everything you

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Speaker 2: And she's healthy and you're healthy and Gigi's healthy, and

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Speaker 2: a terrifying thing it was. I cannot imagine.

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Speaker 2: But still, holy moly. Well, it is the season too,

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Speaker 2: so like you said, wash your hands because I mean,

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Speaker 2: always the season. I swear, I've never been more sick.

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Speaker 2: I told you this, Lole. I've never been more sick

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Speaker 1: Tired. Yeah, but I also think it's because there was

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Speaker 1: up a lot of integrative medicine that practices Eastern and Western.

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Speaker 2: And then we all join the public again, and it's

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Speaker 1: Because I don't think I've been this sick really ever.

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Speaker 1: please come to the office. Yes? What is there? Ban

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Speaker 1: are pump rules? This is real life.

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Speaker 1: It came a thing after Tamra Judge did it with Eddie,

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Speaker 2: Look if I'm watching a reality show and they bring

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the bathing is just like cringey. Yeah, I'm fast

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Speaker 1: They're the stars. Yeah, their husbands may have been like

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Speaker 1: boys because it's actually really sweet to watch these husbands

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Speaker 1: be so supportive and not well some of.

431
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Speaker 2: Them, some of them, because I've seen a couple where

432
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Speaker 2: I've been like, I would never allow my husband to

433
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Speaker 2: be on a reality TV show if he acted this way.

434
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Speaker 1: I'm not. It shouldn't be a blanketed stem. And I

435
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 1: mean Chris Harrington, who's like just shy of a real

436
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Speaker 1: Housewives husband creating fins does I don't co sign embarrassing.

437
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Speaker 1: I would have never admitted that, Chris. You should have

438
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Speaker 1: gone to the grave with that one.

439
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, gone to the grave with his wife just like

440
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 2: shocked or do you think she already issues?

441
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 1: It was like him admitting to creeping around. Yeah, it

442
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,879
Speaker 1: was like looking at him, like admitting a problem is

443
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: the first step, you know.

444
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Speaker 2: I say this time, but I need to watch Housewives.

445
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 2: I need to just like I need to watch it,

446
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 2: Like I watched Kardashians religiously because every time I see clips,

447
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is the best show.

448
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: And by the way, it's the clips yeah of Housewives. Yeah,

449
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 1: the episode is just as good. I have seen so

450
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: many clips of Kardashian stuff and I'm like, this looks amazing,

451
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 1: great season. I made it through maybe three minutes of

452
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: the first episode and turns it off. I was like,

453
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm not interested a lot of the highlights.

454
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: So you could see clips of Kardashians and be like,

455
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 2: oh my god, this is incredible, let's watch it, and

456
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 2: then you watch the episode and you're like, oh, but.

457
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Speaker 1: I'm sure the Kardashians don't give one fuck if I'm watching,

458
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Speaker 1: because for me not watching, they have a million others

459
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 1: fill in from my lack of watching.

460
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Speaker 2: COVID tester just arrived. Should I have him? Should I?

461
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,439
Speaker 1: Yeah? Go grab him? Well okay, yes, for.

462
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: The listeners, COVID tester said that he was told twelve fifteen.

463
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Speaker 2: We were told twelve forty five. So let's say I'm

464
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 2: going through the text right now to see who is right. Okay,

465
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Speaker 2: h I just want to give you the heads up

466
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Speaker 2: that we're testing Monday at twelve forty five. Is what

467
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 2: Kurt said. So it looks like, Kurt, we love you,

468
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: but thank you have a good one.

469
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 1: So you know what behind the scenes is like a

470
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Speaker 1: reality TV show. Just a classic case of miscommunication, Just.

471
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Speaker 2: A classic case of miscommunication. Kurt, I would like to

472
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Speaker 2: know if you're listening to this. Ooh, this is a

473
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 2: good test to CEV listens to your podcast. Kurt is

474
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Speaker 2: a producer on Vendor Pump Roles. Kurt, you better come correct,

475
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,160
Speaker 2: You better come correct, and I'll see me after this. Kurt,

476
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: let us know. Was it you're bad for telling us

477
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 2: twelve forty five or was it the tester's bad? I

478
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 2: guess TBD either.

479
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Speaker 1: Way, we got it done. We had some questions, yeah

480
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Speaker 1: leak in. Oh what a.

481
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: Here's a trickle trickle in lead in?

482
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: Uh from people that listen to the podcast. Yeah, here

483
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 1: should we talk about some of them?

484
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, here's the tea on the questions and comments. You guys, like,

485
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 2: I've told you about my personal so my personal Instagram,

486
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: I don't look at my DM requests a lot. But

487
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,400
Speaker 2: when I do, if it seems mean, I won't even

488
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 2: click on it. If it seems nice, like I'll click

489
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 2: on it and respond.

490
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: So I haven't.

491
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 2: I'm backed up in messages, I know, Like I looked

492
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 2: at a message on Sunday where someone gave me a

493
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 2: compliment and then like three days later was like, well

494
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 2: forget it. Then if you're not going to respond, and

495
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just don't look at them a lot.

496
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 2: So with the podcast, I try and look at those more.

497
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: So if I don't, if me or Lala don't respond,

498
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 2: it's only because there's there's a lot, so I go like,

499
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 2: for instance, we might read some comments about the Beard

500
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 2: episode and yeah that's where we're at. So thank you

501
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 2: guys for dming the podcast. I look as much as

502
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 2: I can, you guys, are the greatest with all of

503
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 2: these like awesome, nice messages, and sometimes we'll have episodes

504
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 2: like this where we can just respond.

505
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 1: I think you're right on theme with the podcast, which

506
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: is Tangents.

507
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Speaker 2: Okay, let's see so okay, this is from Danielle. I'm

508
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: just gonna say their first name in case they don't

509
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 2: want to be hurt.

510
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: I like that idea.

511
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 2: But Hi, Lala and Jess, Hi Danielle getting caught up

512
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 2: on podcasts and I'm listening to it, blah blah blah.

513
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 2: I can tell you that I went to a dermatologist

514
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 2: because my chin flash around my lips was always irritated.

515
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 2: She asked if my husband had a beard, and he does,

516
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 2: and I'm telling you I limit kissing him on the

517
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: lips now. Lol. I haven't had any irritation since.

518
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 1: Oh no, this is so bad because I love the

519
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: usual hair is so much. It's the beard.

520
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 2: I wonder if there's a message in here that says.

521
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: By the way, I've curtailed my making out. Yeah, and

522
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: my skin around my mouth is completely clearing up, like

523
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:14,719
Speaker 1: I won't even lie.

524
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, really yes, yeah, and actually I can see it. However,

525
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 2: I didn't see that it was breaking out. But when

526
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: you said it's breaking out, I didn't see it, but

527
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean it wasn't there.

528
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: And I always know that it's something sketch, yeah, because

529
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 1: I did back in the day. Have to get accutained.

530
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: It's something different. Now it's called something different, But like

531
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: if you watch season four and five, my skin is

532
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: so bad, really so bad, and I couldn't get it

533
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: under control, and I thought it was like my diet.

534
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: I thought it was this, that and the other, to

535
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: the point where I was like, I'm going to a dermatologist.

536
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 1: They got to fix me, like something is off inside,

537
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: and then they put me on the medication and it

538
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: cleared up. So when I have a breakout, I'm like,

539
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 1: we it's more topical rather than like the deep deep

540
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: not saying I never get those anymore, but it's not

541
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: like uncontrollable, right, That's why I knew. Yeah, I'm like,

542
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 1: it's got to be the freaking beard because this is irritation.

543
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's definitely yeah. Okay, Gina says, Hi, any

544
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 2: chance you will ever restock the merch dying for a

545
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: brand new hoodie?

546
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: That's an amazing question. And yes, we are. We are

547
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: one restocking. I actually just got a bunch of the

548
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: restocked goods. Restocking goods. I think we'll restock during the

549
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: holiday season and we'll have more merch.

550
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. Black Friday and heads up you guys. If Lala

551
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 2: ever has another pop up pop up again like she

552
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: did in New York City with Shopify, that is also

553
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 2: where you'll get your hands on last pop up we

554
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,719
Speaker 2: did limited edition. We did like no one had ever

555
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 2: seen it before. Brand new hoodies.

556
00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, my merch is so bomb. Okay, I know

557
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: that it's mine, So I sit here and I tooted.

558
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: It's torn all day. The quality of my merch versus

559
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: other people's march. I mean, I'm not trying to shit

560
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: on anyone else's march, like do your thing, boo, but

561
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: I'm super proud of.

562
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 2: No yours is the brand new hoodie I have. I

563
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 2: have the pink one. I it's very few pieces of

564
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 2: clothing that I will wear and sit at home and comfy,

565
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: cozy like I wear the uncomfortable hoodies out because they

566
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 2: look cute, but the super comfortable hoodies I wear like

567
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: at home. And that's what I do with the brand

568
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 2: new hoodie.

569
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: So you just wear it at home for no one

570
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: to see.

571
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 2: I wear it at home and I wear it out too.

572
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 2: But it's one of those things where like you get

573
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 2: home from work and you want to put on something

574
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 2: cozy and sit on the couch.

575
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: It's my brand new hoodie, all right, Well I wear

576
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: mine out and about you do? Okay, Well, obviously start

577
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: doing my egotistical ass. You catch me in that brand

578
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: new hoodie? Like, is that all she wears? Probably you'll

579
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: see it on this upcoming season. I'm sure he's so vague.

580
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: You know that this motherfucking song is about me, about me?

581
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 2: See you when I tell you about this.

582
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: I'm in such a good mood. It's rainy, gloomy. I'm

583
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: on a hundred today.

584
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: Lala loves the gloomy days.

585
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 1: Me sad. But I looked up to the sky today

586
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, why what all freaking weekend that

587
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: I've been inside? You give me sunshine? A glorious morning

588
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: makes me sick type day? And then I gotta go

589
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: out and about to work on a Monday, and you're

590
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: gonna give me this fabulous weather. Shake in my hate.

591
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 2: It's kimmick. Glorious morning makes me sick type day.

592
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: That's so funny.

593
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna start saying this. Okay, Gary as a man

594
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 2: with a beard, Yes, I wash mine lol, And I

595
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 2: use face wash, shampoo and conditioner.

596
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: Yo, he got a good beard, face wash, shampoo and conditioner.

597
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 2: But I'm also gay, so I do the most. Oh

598
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 2: care bear, we love you.

599
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: But I'm also gay, so I do the most.

600
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 2: So I do the most.

601
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: I love him so much. Well, the straight men should

602
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: take note. Yeah, the straight man.

603
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 2: Should take note. Have you seen that TikTok going around

604
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 2: of the straight men? Tell me you've seen it everyone

605
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: who's listening, just.

606
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: Because you have to sign me into TikTok because literally

607
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: people send me tiktoks And I'm like, well, if I

608
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: had Jessica's phone, I could look. I don't, it's not

609
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: on my phone.

610
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 2: About the straight men, their partners are like asking them

611
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: if they wash their butt crack with soap, and they're like, what.

612
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: Do you mean?

613
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 2: Hold on, no, no, no, and they go and they're

614
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 2: like what do you mean and they're like, wash your

615
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 2: Like how do you wash your butt cracked? You spread

616
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 2: the cheeks to you and they're like, no.

617
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: You're telling me that a lot and straight men are

618
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: not washing where beces comes out.

619
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 2: They said, a lot of them are like they're the

620
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 2: girls or guys. Their partners are like, how do you

621
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 2: wash it? And they're like, I let the water whatever.

622
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 2: I'm disgusted, I know, I asked Kyle, and thank god,

623
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 2: he was like, that's disgusting.

624
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Of course, like it's like the

625
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 1: fucking La River down there.

626
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: He's like, of course I watched, but a lot of yeah,

627
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 2: it's like a new trend going around and the women

628
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: are like, yeah, it's wild.

629
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: And another reason why I don't ever want a male companion. Yeah,

630
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: I just want tricks around me and a vibrator. I'm

631
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: good and you're good to go.

632
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, this is I belieze. Okay, Lah and Jess

633
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 2: don't know if you will see this, but wanted to

634
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 2: say some things first, probably one of like fifty guys

635
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 2: and the one percent straight lmfaol that listen, and I

636
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: gotta say these episodes hit. Oh that's funny, Oh that's

637
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: so nice. You and Jess are fucking vibe. That last

638
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 2: episode with you in the Bostix was fire Explosion Emoji,

639
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 2: where it's so good and insightful. Also, just wanted to say,

640
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 2: perfect opportunity, La La, for you to create a beard

641
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 2: oil for your ladies who like their guys with beards.

642
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 1: With your skin line. Wait, we totally should do that.

643
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 1: I need to start looking into ingredients that are like

644
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: bomb to bring that on. Apparently I need male butt

645
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: crack wash as well. I'm so grossed out. I can't

646
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: get my mind.

647
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 2: No, it's wild. He also goes just on to say

648
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 2: I grew up in a household of all women and

649
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 2: just why're different. It's so crazy to hear some stories

650
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 2: about some of these douche lords that were given space

651
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 2: on Earth. I think he's talking about men, which we

652
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 2: you know, feel you And then he said keep kicking ass. Also,

653
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 2: can you get Easton on like a monthly gig to

654
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 2: answer some of your guy follower questions? And girl, I

655
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 2: the love I couldnot agree with them.

656
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: One super super exciting news about that stop he will

657
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: be a regular guest very very soon, and I'm yeah,

658
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: so excited about it because you know what he is.

659
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: He's everybody. Yeah does that make sense? Yeah, someone said

660
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: that to me the other day. Your brother is me Like,

661
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 1: he's in the world, but he's an outsider and he's

662
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: like sitting at brav Ocon and he's like, who the

663
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: fuck are these people? But he's like got his eyes

664
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: open because he's a man with eyes, and like he's

665
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 1: spilling all the tea.

666
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: He's hilarious.

667
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: He is hilarious, So he's the best.

668
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: He brightens the podcast episodes. He brightens my day.

669
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 1: No one made me happier than Easton.

670
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 2: Do we know if he will eventually because everybody knows

671
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 2: now he lives in Utah. Will he eventually ever be

672
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: living here? Or is that not his vibe?

673
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 1: This is my game plan. Okay, let's hear because again

674
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: we've spoken about this. We are a very tight knit family. Okay.

675
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 1: My goal is by the summertime, get me and my

676
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 1: family into a house Easton moves out to LA. I

677
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: want to live with my family all right, and until

678
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 1: that changes where I feel like it's time to start

679
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: dating or whatever it may be, because right now I'm

680
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: taking it day by day. And by the way, this

681
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: could also change what I would like at this point

682
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: in time. Get a nice house for me and my family,

683
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: a yard for ocean, us all be living together, and Easton,

684
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 1: you know, being a co host on the podcast. I

685
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: love that just because I why the hell not.

686
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: He's hilarious, funny, and like you said, he's kind of

687
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 2: the every person Like we're both women, which is great.

688
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 2: But I think a lot of men who listen to

689
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: your podcast, whether gay or straight, I think that perspective

690
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 2: is appreciated.

691
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: It is, And yeah, we're both chicks. But Easton is

692
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: very I mean he's so sweet, right, I know. And

693
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: he grew up around my dad who treated women amazing,

694
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: my older brother who is like very sweet when it

695
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: comes to women and what they want in life, like

696
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: they just uplift women. So Easton is a man who

697
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: obviously has a male perspective.

698
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but everyone.

699
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 1: You could throw him in a room with anybody, all

700
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 1: walks of life and everyone is gonna leave going I

701
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: fuck with that kid. Oh my god.

702
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like Kyle asks all the time, how is he?

703
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 2: Because he spent most of Ocean's birthday talking to Easton.

704
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: He's like, I love that guy. I'm like, yeah, he's

705
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: the shit. Everyone loves him.

706
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 1: Everyone loves him, Everyone loves him.

707
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god. This just gave me an idea. Tell me,

708
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 2: how fun would it be if when Easton moves here,

709
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 2: we make a little psa to all of the single

710
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 2: women living Okay, this could be, we could do it

711
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: over the podcast. All of the single women living in

712
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 2: this area has to be within like an hour and

713
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: a half of LA tops. And we have them apply

714
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 2: okay to go out on a date with Easton, and

715
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 2: you and I go through applications. No hard feelings, but

716
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 2: we have a specific application with a specific questions and stuff. Yes,

717
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,919
Speaker 2: we don't tell him, we tell him it's happening about

718
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 2: check as well. Yes, we go through. We pick like

719
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 2: ten ladies okay, and we document the journey on the podcast.

720
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, let's do that, and then we set

721
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 2: them up with dates and then see if any of

722
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 2: them hit the girl.

723
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: Also, yes, because if it becomes something, they have to

724
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 1: be okay with living with us. Because at some point,

725
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: or I'm just in my mind, I know that this

726
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 1: is going to happen. At some point, I'm going to

727
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: be able to go out and afford like an amazing

728
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:37,280
Speaker 1: home with wings and guest homes and shit. So there's

729
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 1: gonna be like a Burningham compound as there should be.

730
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: And you know what, whether you become my partner, my

731
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: mother's partner, Eason's partner, you're gonna have to be down

732
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 1: to all live together. Yeah, you'll have your separate area

733
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: to like go do your thing. If you don't want

734
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: to see us, you don't have to. But like I

735
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 1: need to be in like walking or maybe yelling distance. Yeah,

736
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: at all times.

737
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 2: That would be so fucking fun. I'll be I'll be in.

738
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 2: There's ocean's best friend, best the ocean, invite me in.

739
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're we're like a pot of orcas. All right,

740
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 1: we're swimming together till the death.

741
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that'd be so fun. Okay, so TBD

742
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 2: on that.

743
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: A lot.

744
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: I've already gone through six of you asking what the

745
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 2: Sugar Baby documentary. Here's the thing I was asked.

746
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: I never saw it, so I was.

747
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 2: Asked this on my personal I mentioned it last right.

748
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 2: I was asked this on my personal page pay Instagram

749
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 2: DMS a couple days ago, and I looked and searched

750
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 2: because this was this was before the pandemic, you guys,

751
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 2: this was like years ago. But I will say so,

752
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 2: I searched and searched, and I cannot find it. I

753
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 2: don't know if it was on like Roku or like

754
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 2: you too. I don't know what it was. I remember

755
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 2: watching it with Kyle, and he tried to find it.

756
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 2: But I do know this, if you search for it,

757
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 2: I'm still looking for it, and I'll let you know

758
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 2: as soon as I know. It wasn't It was episodic,

759
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 2: but there was only one episode on the sugar Babies.

760
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 2: It was one of those shows that was like ten

761
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: episodes in one season, but each episode.

762
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 1: Was something about something different.

763
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 2: So the episode on sugar Babies was like episode three

764
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:14,320
Speaker 2: to five. It was one of those, but it was

765
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: just one. So it was just I'll try and find out.

766
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 2: I've been looking like crazy. We can't find it, but

767
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 2: I'll let you know because I know a lot of

768
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: you have been asking and I can't mind it.

769
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, we're all I'm very intrigued. I know

770
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 1: I got a I mean, even getting that message.

771
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 2: I was like, you're like, WHOA, Yeah, I know, okay.

772
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know that was the thing, the sugar babies.

773
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: I learned about sugar babies when I was being called

774
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:40,439
Speaker 1: a sugar baby.

775
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 2: Really, it's interesting. I think I knew it was a thing,

776
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 2: and this is like no offense to anyone. I ended

777
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 2: up finding out about it was a thing because when

778
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 2: I was in high school. I used to be obsessed with,

779
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 2: not saying these are sugar babies at all, but the

780
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: Playboy girls. I used to be like the bunny. I

781
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: would I had the necklace, I had a purse with

782
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: little Bunny. My parents once they found out what it was,

783
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 2: they took all that shit away, but for a little

784
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 2: while I was able to wear it because they just

785
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 2: thought it was a cute one.

786
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 1: I know, I know we all did, yes, right old

787
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 1: age of fourteen rocking the Playboy Bunny necklace from Claire's.

788
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 2: And I remember watching Girls next Door So Good, not knowing,

789
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 2: not putting two and two together that they dated Hugh Hefner,

790
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 2: and then I saw them kiss and I was.

791
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, shocking, what is going on? But it was

792
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 1: amazing back then, and then cut to where we are

793
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: today and you find out not so amazing.

794
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so their feedback from the ladies.

795
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 1: Well just like what it was like behind closed doors.

796
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: I know, you know, I know does something to your

797
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:49,720
Speaker 1: mental state. And I, yeah, haven't done a lot of research.

798
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: I just have seen again headlines and things like that,

799
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: and I just think if a chick says even something

800
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: is simple as I felt uncomfortable.

801
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm listening to you of course, Yes, of course,

802
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 2: And just because I know we'll get DMS on this,

803
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 2: Yes I have. I do know that Holly and Bridget

804
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: Holly and Bridget, Yes, have a podcast out and that

805
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,919
Speaker 2: it's called Girls Next Level, And I think the first

806
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 2: two episodes they really dive into like uncomfortable moments and

807
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 2: stuff like that. So it's really good.

808
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: I feel like it's so important for women to voice

809
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: how they've been affected by certain people, Yeah, because there

810
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: are so many women who feel so alone and like

811
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: they can't share, and again, that does something to your

812
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 1: mental state. Right, So when you hear someone like Holly Madison,

813
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: who was like at the top, right, Yeah, everyone knew

814
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: who she was. She looked like she lived this glamorous

815
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 1: life and she was, you know, like comfortable with her sexuality.

816
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: When you hear her and her trauma, just there's something

817
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 1: about not feeling alone sounds so cheesy.

818
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 2: No, it doesn't sound cheesy at all.

819
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 1: When you feel like you're not by yourself on an island. Yeah,

820
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: that's powerful.

821
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 2: The amount of times they say that, and they say

822
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 2: like because at the time, there wasn't a lot of

823
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 2: I'm talking about Bridget and Holly is, there wasn't social media.

824
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 2: So when they learned about when their show came out,

825
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: Girls next Door and they found the message boards on

826
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: the e website, Holly said she thought they were She

827
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 2: was like, oh, they were getting so much hate, and

828
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 2: she was like, oh my god, we are the only

829
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 2: people hate us. She had no idea any other She's like,

830
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 2: I didn't know celebrities and people on other TV shows

831
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 2: got hate because we didn't see that online. So literally

832
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 2: all I saw was us getting hate, and I thought

833
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: we were like the most hated girls of the world.

834
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, oh my god, I I did the

835
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: horrific move of whenever. By the way, so on my

836
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: own Instagram page, like if I if I click on comments,

837
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: there's maybe two or three that aren't very nice and

838
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: the rest are just really positive. Because a normal person

839
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: follows you because they like you, Yeah, because they want

840
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: to hate on you. If I see someone else has

841
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 1: posted me, avoid the comment section. Because I clicked on

842
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 1: the comment section and people were being so unkind about me,

843
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: and I had to number one. I prayed yeah after

844
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: like because it was festering in me and I was like, God,

845
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: I need you to like take like release me from

846
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: the bondage of self, right, And I had to tap

847
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 1: into like this is what every person in the public

848
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: I go through. It's not just you, all right, So

849
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: shake it off, bitchy, Yeah, shake it off.

850
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 2: We won't go in it again. Although we got I

851
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 2: just went through multiple dms that were like we loved you.

852
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 2: Going in on Pam, I was like, for a second,

853
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 2: I was like, who's Pam.

854
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: Oh, Pam? Yeah? Yeah, I was like I did go

855
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: in on Pam.

856
00:43:59,400 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

857
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: And by the way, I want to make a correction

858
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: because I was like, call me when you're driving a

859
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: Rolls Royce and live in Beverly Hills. Even that, all right,

860
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 1: even that because at some point, like I just know

861
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna be able to go and do those things. Yeah,

862
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 1: this is what I really want to say. Call me

863
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: when you're living on Venus taking a spaceship. That impresses me.

864
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,319
Speaker 1: I don't know one one bitch, not one bitch who's

865
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,240
Speaker 1: flying around in a spaceship going to their home in Venus.

866
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 2: That's true, right, But on that same note, if you're

867
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: still acting the way you are, Pam, I'm not fucking impressed.

868
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: Maybe Laala's impressed. You could. You could own on in

869
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 2: the moon, you could literally.

870
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: Make your own You're still ming all right, and you're.

871
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 2: Still being an asshole.

872
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: Fuck off me, little old me from vander Pump Rules.

873
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: Thanks for watching, Pam God tune in next season season ten.

874
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: La LA's back at it again.

875
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 2: Good Lord, Like you have said in the past, you

876
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 2: appreciate all of your pair.

877
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I learned? Well, I do

878
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: appreciate all my fans. Yeah, before we sign off, Yes,

879
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: I'd like to start doing a segment in this podcast

880
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: where each episode, at the end, I talk about what

881
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: I learned this week. Oh, this week, so I celebrated

882
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,800
Speaker 1: my fourth birthday for sobriety, and what happens. So I

883
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: have little groups of like little sober sisters, and what

884
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: happens is sometimes you go to a meeting and you

885
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: get more than one cake, right, Like I'll go to

886
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: a meeting here and like, my sponsor will give me

887
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 1: a cake. And then one of my friends who's also sober,

888
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 1: is like, do you want to go to this meeting?

889
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: I want to give you a cake tonight. So I

890
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: met up with one of my friends. I won't say

891
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:47,720
Speaker 1: her name because it's anonymous, but she's just like brilliant, Okay,

892
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: the way that she practices her program, she has what

893
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: I want. So I went with her, and what happened

894
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: during my sobriety. I practice a twelve step pro I

895
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: a few years ago was on the ninth step, and

896
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: my steps I take a while because there's just a

897
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: lot to unpack. And there was a moment in July

898
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:16,320
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty where I realized that I was attacking

899
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: my partner at the time a lot verbally, and I

900
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:23,240
Speaker 1: then realized I have resentment that I have to work through. Okay,

901
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: so we went back to my fourth step. I've been

902
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 1: on it ever since because the pile up of resentments

903
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: just kept happening. Cut to where we are today. I

904
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: have more resentments than I've ever had, and I don't

905
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: even know where to start on this step because I've

906
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: said to my sponsor, right now, it just has to

907
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 1: be enough for me to not drink, because I'm not

908
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: ready to like go like it's going to be pretend,

909
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: and then that could jeopardize my sobriety.

910
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:56,760
Speaker 2: Sorry.

911
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: So I was having a conversation with my friend before

912
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,320
Speaker 1: this meeting and a few other people who are in sobriety,

913
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: and I explain this to her, and she said to me,

914
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: you now have the luxury, Lalla, of not having to

915
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: take on his shit. It's his, it's his true. You

916
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: now get to say I'm done with all of this,

917
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 1: it's not mine anymore.

918
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:22,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

919
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, And you don't get to choose how God holds

920
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 1: people accountable. So she said, that's where you start, she said,

921
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: And if you think that your God isn't going to

922
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 1: hold someone accountable, you need to find a bigger God.

923
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: So go back to the drawing board. What does because

924
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: that's what we practice an AA. You walk in and

925
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 1: sometimes it doesn't hit right for people because there's a

926
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 1: lot of talk about God. What you won't hear, So

927
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 1: open your ears when you're in the room. You get

928
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 1: to create your own. It looks different for everybody. What

929
00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 1: is greater than yourself and everything else that exists on

930
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: the planet? Right? Yeah, So I've started working through my resentments.

931
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: She sent me an amazing I want to tell you, guys,

932
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: if you're struggling to download this app, which I just downloaded.

933
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 1: I can't even believe I've been sober for four years

934
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: and didn't know about this freaking app. It's called twenty

935
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: four hours, and they give you AA thought of the day,

936
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,919
Speaker 1: meditation for the day, prayer for the day, and guess

937
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 1: what today's was all about? Resentments? WHOA?

938
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 2: I know, how strange is it just for people in AA?

939
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 2: Correct the app?

940
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: You know what? I feel like the AA program, even

941
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: though it's alcoholics anonymous, the program in itself is really

942
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 1: just becoming a better human being. I think everyone could

943
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: benefit from, like reading the AA book, the Big Book.

944
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: So that was really nice. That was a huge step

945
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: in my program because my life when I go to

946
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:06,919
Speaker 1: work on a reality television show, yeah, is not quite

947
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: in alignment with my program. It's my livelihood and what

948
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: you're seeing with We actually did an episode for the doctors,

949
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 1: doctor Daniel Poor and doctor Laky. They asked, what we

950
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 1: see on TV is at who you are? It absolutely

951
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 1: is who I am when you put me in that situation.

952
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: Just like if I were to put anyone with someone

953
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 1: they didn't connect with in a room, what would it

954
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 1: be like? Guess what in real life if I don't

955
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: fuck with someone, I certainly am not going to a

956
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 1: dinner party with you exactly, I'm not coming. Yeah, I

957
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: don't want to be around you, So you're not gonna

958
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: see that side of me for vander Pump. You are

959
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:50,720
Speaker 1: seeing who I am in a situation. So when people

960
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: say I met Lala last night, she's totally different than

961
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: what I see on TV. She's so nice, it's like, yeah,

962
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 1: what you think I'm just I'm gonna roll up on

963
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: you and call you a fucking bitch. Yeah no, because

964
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 1: I'm a normal person. It may not seem like it

965
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 1: all the time.

966
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 2: And like you've said, you said a couple episodes ago,

967
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 2: it's a ten to fifteen to twenty episode season and

968
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 2: you you film for months. So the stuff they pick

969
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 2: and choose, everything that makes it on the show is

970
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 2: the most emotionally heightened thing, whether or not it's anger

971
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 2: or you know, it's sadness or this and this and

972
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,880
Speaker 2: that and like, so it could make one look like,

973
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 2: oh my god, she's screaming one day and the next

974
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 2: day she's breaking down, Like this chick is emotionally unstable

975
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 2: or whatever. I'm not saying that's how it looks, but

976
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 2: you know, I'll watch reality shows and see that and

977
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 2: be like damn. But it's like they're picking and choosing

978
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 2: all of the most entertaining quote unquote great moments. Yeah,

979
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 2: they filmed you for months, so then you meet you

980
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 2: in person and yeah, you're chill, You're like cool, you're

981
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 2: behind I like you. Yeah, you're just like a nice

982
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 2: You're hilarious, which I always wish they show more of

983
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 2: how funny you.

984
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,760
Speaker 1: Are, but that's another story.

985
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's amazing though. I love that you have

986
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 2: those people in your life. And what would you tell

987
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: someone struggling with Maybe they're not ready to go to AA,

988
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 2: but they they're just in this. I mean, what's the

989
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 2: next step do you have to get yourself ready? I

990
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 2: personally have a family member who I was just talking

991
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 2: to about this and they said, I'm not ready to go.

992
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:26,800
Speaker 2: They struggle with alcohol, and they said, but I'm not

993
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 2: ready to give it up. I can't give it up.

994
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 1: Well, then at that point in time, there's nothing you

995
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 1: can do because there's nobody that can get you sober,

996
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: and there's no one that can keep you sober. That

997
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: is something that you have to want desperately. And that's

998
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: what I've found with most people in AA is you

999
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 1: hear about all of their rock bottoms looking very different,

1000
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 1: but at the end of each person's story. This person

1001
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: was begging to be sober. For the most part. There's

1002
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: actually a lot of people who went to AA on

1003
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 1: a court order. And like a woman I heard last

1004
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 1: night court order she was in a custody battle and

1005
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: they said, you better freaking get sober, you better go

1006
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 1: to a twelve step program. And thirty eight years of sobriety.

1007
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 2: Wow, that's InCred eight years. Yeah, but that shows me

1008
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 2: that deep down or somewhere inside of her, she did

1009
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 2: want to.

1010
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: She wanted it. She went into those rooms and she

1011
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,280
Speaker 1: was willing to hear the message. I love the program.

1012
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: I think it's awesome, and you're gonna have meetings that

1013
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: you love and meetings that you're like. I didn't connect

1014
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 1: with that, But don't blanket all of them into one

1015
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 1: because they're all different, so fine ones that hit. If

1016
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:37,760
Speaker 1: you're not ready to go in the room, get on Amazon,

1017
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 1: order the big book. Just start reading, highlight what resonates

1018
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: with you, and you're gonna know when you're ready. But

1019
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: I will say, sobriety is the biggest gift you could

1020
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:52,280
Speaker 1: give yourself. So there's my tangent of that I'm working.

1021
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: I've officially decided I am ready to work through my resentments.

1022
00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,439
Speaker 1: How funny. Four years sober and I'm working on step

1023
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 1: for you.

1024
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

1025
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,839
Speaker 1: Before I met can you where's just the number?

1026
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 2: Can you skip steps? I don't know really? Okay, so

1027
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 2: you have to. You could be on one step for

1028
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,280
Speaker 2: years sometimes.

1029
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: I've been on Step four since July of twenty twenty.

1030
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 2: Okay, so you can so.

1031
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's everyone's program is different. That's what's so

1032
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 1: great about it. Find a sponsor who works the program

1033
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 1: the way it it. It's tailored to you. Right, So

1034
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 1: I personally would not skip steps. That's just me. It's

1035
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 1: a lot of work.

1036
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, because rats, I know I've said it these

1037
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 2: past three episodes now, but it's I mean, it's incredible.

1038
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 2: And we didn't even get to the messages. I'm sorry

1039
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 2: about all of you.

1040
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: Sorry I went on.

1041
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 2: No, No, I get to the messages about people just

1042
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 2: praising you for your sobriety and saying thank you for

1043
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 2: how much you've helped to them. So I know you

1044
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,399
Speaker 2: get them a lot, but it's one day I'll print

1045
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 2: them out and give them all to you because they're

1046
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:55,280
Speaker 2: really sweet.

1047
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: Well, I would love to like have a little like

1048
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: even just a book of messages about sobriety because it's

1049
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: the best thing that's ever happened to me, the best

1050
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 1: gift I've ever given myself. And just to see people

1051
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: opening up to me about something that is like you're

1052
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: in your most vulnerable state when you're admitting that you

1053
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 1: have a problem, right, So it's humbling. It's humbling to

1054
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: know each birthday, even just each day that passes. I'm proud,

1055
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 1: but I'm humbled because the work never stops. You cannot

1056
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: cure an addiction. So it's like we hit four years

1057
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: and we got until the grave to go. Like that's

1058
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 1: a humbling fact.

1059
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,720
Speaker 2: Right, and which could be to me that could seem

1060
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 2: sometimes unbearable, but you always say one day at a time,

1061
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: one minute at a time. Yes, yeah, So I think

1062
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 2: that's incredible. Oh and we do want to do I

1063
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 2: know a lot of people have asked you and which

1064
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:55,360
Speaker 2: you can do when you're ready, but they want to

1065
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 2: hear your sobriety story again. So when you're ready, we

1066
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 2: can do an episode of you just saying how you

1067
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 2: got there, talking about because a lot of people have

1068
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 2: said we'd love her to do a sobriety episode where

1069
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 2: she just talks about it all.

1070
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 1: Oh I love that.

1071
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, let's do it.

1072
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 1: You guys, I want to thank you so much for

1073
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: listening to another episode of the Give Them La La Podcast.

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Speaker 1: I love you all very much. Happy hump Day, and

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Speaker 1: I will catch you next week