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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, coming up, I want to talk about that other

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Speaker 2: article that I sent you out of the New York Post, Gandhi.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, about how Generation Z they're going to TikTok

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Speaker 2: to learn how to be adults.

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Speaker 3: What a place to learn, Yes, but it's when you're

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Speaker 3: talking about learning to be an adult. You're not talking

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Speaker 3: about doing your taxes and that kind of stuff. You're

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Speaker 3: talking about making a.

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Speaker 2: Bed, yeah, making a bed, steaming rice, yes, right, doing that,

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Speaker 2: and doing laundry stuff like that. I just, uh, why

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Speaker 2: are they not being taught? Why are people not being

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Speaker 2: taught how to do that? Because their mom and dad

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Speaker 2: just aren't good parents. I guess that's why it.

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Speaker 3: Does really seem like a huge parenting fail. But I'm

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Speaker 3: not a parent, so I don't. I don't. I know

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Speaker 3: people don't want to hear that from me. But I

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Speaker 3: can't imagine having a grown child that doesn't know how

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Speaker 3: to do laundry or.

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Speaker 2: Make right.

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Speaker 4: I know lots of kids that don't know how to

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Speaker 4: do law. That's why make rice.

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Speaker 3: That's insane, people, If you're not doing your kids any

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Speaker 3: service by doing.

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Speaker 5: This, My kids know how to make rice. Thank goodness,

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Speaker 5: the rice cooker, I just take it down from the

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Speaker 5: top show.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm kidding. There's lots of different ways to make

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Speaker 4: rice as well. Why do we get the sixty second?

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Speaker 5: Yes nowadays, But laundry is very important. You have to

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Speaker 5: teach them, especially especially before they go to college, because

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Speaker 5: let me tell you something, if they're not doing their

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Speaker 5: laundry in college, that's disgusting.

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 4: Make a bed, yeah, come.

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Speaker 2: Or load a dishwasher. Yes, I mean you didn't even

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Speaker 2: have to wash the dish The dishwasher does for you what.

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Speaker 7: I'm forty nine, I was still stuggle with the dishwashers.

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Speaker 2: You got to fix that. We got to to do this.

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Speaker 2: But we'll get into that in a minute. And if

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Speaker 2: we can find adulting one on one courses on TikTok

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Speaker 2: specifically for gen z whatever. But they say we're talking

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Speaker 2: about this during a song earlier. They're saying, if you

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Speaker 2: find someone who's like a troubled human being, you go

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Speaker 2: back to their grandparents. That's where the trouble started, because

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Speaker 2: grandparents raised their kids in a way that was not

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Speaker 2: effective for effectively teaching them how to do things in

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Speaker 2: life or to cope with struggle. Then those kids had kids,

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Speaker 2: and then those kids they had are just the most

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Speaker 2: rotten of kids. Wow, can't do anything for himself. And

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying because you can't load a dishwasher, you're

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Speaker 2: a rotten person. But you know, we could get deeper

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Speaker 2: into this in a minute. So what does this time

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Speaker 2: you searched for something like this? How to use a mop?

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Speaker 1: I have not.

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Speaker 2: Scary? If you had to mop the floor today, would

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Speaker 2: you know how to mop the floor?

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Speaker 8: Just visually? Maybe basically?

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Speaker 2: But what a koinnd of answer is that.

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Speaker 9: My memory would serve I'm like, how did I used

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Speaker 9: to see other people doing it?

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Speaker 8: And I would try and mimic that in my head.

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Speaker 7: All Right, I got a question, Yeah, scary. When's the

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Speaker 7: last time you actually used a mop?

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Speaker 2: Years ago?

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Speaker 8: Hire someone for that?

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Speaker 5: You don't keep up with it in between when that

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Speaker 5: person comes, Nah.

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Speaker 8: Little swiffer. I do a little swiffer and done. But

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Speaker 8: I don't mop? No, but I would. I would google it.

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Speaker 2: Sure, swiffers make it so much easier. I mean I

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Speaker 2: if I handed you a mop and a bucket, what

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Speaker 2: would you do?

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Speaker 8: I dip it. I would dip the mop into what

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Speaker 8: into the into the water part?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, no, it's an empty bucket, and would.

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Speaker 8: Like whatever soap or whatever it is and water.

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Speaker 2: Okay, then and whatever you're gonna pour whatever it is

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Speaker 2: into the well.

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Speaker 8: Whatever or something, I don't know.

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Speaker 9: And then I would just dip the tip into the

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Speaker 9: mop and then I would I would wring it out

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Speaker 9: in the thing with the handle on it, and I

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Speaker 9: would squeeze the thing to ring and then I would

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Speaker 9: mop the floor.

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Speaker 8: All right, and then I would do this repeat.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I think you can actually mop the floor. Then,

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Speaker 2: from what you've told us, it seems like you could.

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Speaker 8: That's how I would do it without googling.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So how about an oil change? How can you

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Speaker 2: guys do an oil change?

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Speaker 9: Yes, yeah, but it's hard to You got to take

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Speaker 9: the oil somewhere.

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Speaker 8: I could do it.

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Speaker 5: I can put the dipstick in and see if it

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Speaker 5: needs oil or like I do that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know yourself to change it.

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Speaker 2: But you know how to check your oil?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I can check it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you check it while the injured's running or

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Speaker 2: it's been on for a while. When's the best time

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Speaker 2: to check?

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Speaker 4: I think it is when the engine is running, well,

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Speaker 4: it's it's been run. Oh, you're supposed to turn it off?

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Speaker 8: Yes, I did.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 2: Point your oil checked, Elvis, Here we go. What are

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Speaker 2: you getting at here? Just keep going? Never mind, No, no,

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Speaker 2: I want to investigate where you're going with that. You

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Speaker 2: don't I know where you're going with that. You say, okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: checking your oil. I don't know. My whole point is this.

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Speaker 2: There's a couple of articles out today. There's one here

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Speaker 2: in the New York Post googling for everyday life skills.

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Speaker 2: And there's nothing wrong with that, but it's kind of

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Speaker 2: interesting to me that a lot of people don't know

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Speaker 2: how to do all of the things we just described.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think technology has taken over, and if you don't

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Speaker 3: have access to it, people get stuck. I was at

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Speaker 3: someone's house not long ago, and their child was in

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Speaker 3: the shower, didn't have a towel. Oh, started screaming at Siri.

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Speaker 3: Siri helped me, I don't have a towel, over and

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Speaker 3: over and I was just listening to it, kind of

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Speaker 3: laughing because I was like, is this for real, Sirih's

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Speaker 3: not going to get you a towel to like what.

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Speaker 2: Is going on?

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Speaker 3: Yes, but the amount of time that she stood in

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Speaker 3: that bathroom yelling for help from Siri to get a towel,

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Speaker 3: as opposed to stepping out of the tub drip, you know,

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Speaker 3: dripping your way to get the towel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, drying off with your clothes, doing something.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she just stood there frozen, And I

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Speaker 3: think that happens a lot more now than any of

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Speaker 3: us want to accept.

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Speaker 4: Her cowl is crazy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Line nineteen is Jody see what she was talking about? Jody?

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Speaker 2: Do you know how to do laundry? I do now, Well,

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Speaker 2: so when did you learn how to do laundry?

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Speaker 10: I learned how to do laundry after I got married.

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Speaker 10: My husband had to teach me how to do it

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Speaker 10: because I never did it up until then.

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Speaker 2: Never. You never never put clothing into a washing machine

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Speaker 2: and then when they were done, you put them into

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Speaker 2: a dryer. Never did it, So how may I ask?

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Speaker 2: How come?

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Speaker 10: Well? I grew up in a household where we sent

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Speaker 10: our laundry out every week and had done outside the home,

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Speaker 10: and that's why I never learned how to do laundry.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so your husband. When you told your husband you

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Speaker 2: didn't know how to do laundry, did you look at

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Speaker 2: you like you had three heads or was he like, okay.

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Speaker 10: Pretty much he was. He was a very very self

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Speaker 10: sufficient guy. He lived on his own, his mother's waughter him.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 10: I guess he could cook, he could clean, he could

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Speaker 10: do laundry.

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Speaker 2: He's great.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I have to.

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Speaker 2: Do laundry at a very early age. And uh, but

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Speaker 2: you know what, when I was a kid, they taught you, well,

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Speaker 2: you can't. You can't wash your your colors with your

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Speaker 2: whites and this, and then I put them all together.

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Speaker 4: Because I do.

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Speaker 2: I think we should. We should live in a world

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Speaker 2: where we all get along.

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Speaker 4: It does dull those whites stuff.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I do everything all together. But I made sure

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Speaker 10: that my kids knew how to do laundry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, there you go. See that's that's your Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's a good thing. That's a good turn of events.

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Speaker 2: All right, Jody, thank you for listening to us, and

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Speaker 2: I hope you.

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Speaker 10: Have a great day. Thanks to taking Michael.

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Speaker 2: Thanks well, thank you for listening. So Ghana, you sent

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Speaker 2: me that story. They this is from Vice gen Z

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Speaker 2: is taking adulting one on one classes because no one

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Speaker 2: taught them how to do life. Have you read this yet,

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Speaker 2: I haven't read it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I did go through it, so it says,

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Speaker 3: you know, there's some of the bigger things like what

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Speaker 3: is a credit score and how is an interest rate work?

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Speaker 3: And things like that, but there's also how do you

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Speaker 3: make a bed, how do you make rice?

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Speaker 4: How do you drive?

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Speaker 3: Do you know how many people are not driving anymore?

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Speaker 3: The age is going up and up and up with

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Speaker 3: people actually getting a driver's license. How do you fold

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Speaker 3: a fitted sheet? I mean, there's just how do you

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Speaker 3: do laundry? There's so much that people just don't know

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Speaker 3: how to do the basics because their parents are doing

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Speaker 3: everything for them. And I also read that a huge

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Speaker 3: part of this has to do with your parents always

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Speaker 3: wanting to give you more than what they had, and

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Speaker 3: they get self esteem from giving you everything. But by

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Speaker 3: gaining self esteem by doing that, you're taking away your

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Speaker 3: child self esteem when you don't let them fail and

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Speaker 3: you don't teach them how to do stuff for themselves.

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Speaker 3: And that's why we have sort of like a stunted

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Speaker 3: generation at the moment that doesn't know how to do

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Speaker 3: all these things that other people did know how to

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Speaker 3: do Wow.

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Speaker 2: Interesting. So okay, and I kind of mentioned this earlier.

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Speaker 2: My parent I'm saying, for example, the people you're talking about,

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Speaker 2: my parents wanted me to have an easier life than

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Speaker 2: they had, so they did everything for me. Therefore I

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Speaker 2: don't know how to do anything right. Absolutely, Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: why did they do that?

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Speaker 3: I think they wanted to So in the article that

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Speaker 3: I read, it said that there was a combination of

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Speaker 3: one wanting to give your kids much better. But now

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Speaker 3: that social media is here and people feel this need

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Speaker 3: to flex on what a good parent they are and

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Speaker 3: show all the things they're always doing for their kids

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Speaker 3: that they're again, they're building their ego up by doing it,

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Speaker 3: and they're crushing their children.

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Speaker 2: So why is their ego so deflated? Is that a

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Speaker 2: problem with their parents?

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Speaker 1: Good question.

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Speaker 2: If my parents spoiled the hell out of me because

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Speaker 2: they wanted to help their own ego, is it because

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Speaker 2: their parents failed them. I'm just trying to Maybe I'm

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Speaker 2: going too far to this, I don't know, but I'll

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Speaker 1: Well, I learned how to do them. I just feel

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Speaker 4: Forced me to start making him.

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Speaker 2: You did not you saw that in a movie.

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Speaker 4: You did not know the mother did not make you

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Speaker 2: Puppy toe because he was in the armies.

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Speaker 8: Bout a quarter off theo.

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Speaker 7: What My dad was like that too. If I had things,

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Speaker 2: Will Scary, did you ever learn how to fix a flat?

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Speaker 8: Danielle beat me.

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Speaker 9: Now, theoretically, I know you got to loosen the love

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Speaker 8: Yeah, BMW resit Hello.

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Speaker 8: You get me? That happened once?

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Speaker 7: No, I just kept bringing.

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Speaker 8: Wait, what happened?

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Speaker 7: Need to fix my flat? I've got to get home

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Speaker 2: Wait, scary, cut, scary, So BMW roadside assistant and pick

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Speaker 8: What are you doing?

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Speaker 8: It was ghostly.

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Speaker 9: It was on the side of the parkway and I'm

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Speaker 8: In the sun roof and then the.

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Speaker 8: When I got through them, I gave them a piece

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Speaker 2: I said, I bet you don't you understand I'm missing

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Speaker 2: my reservation at Dot Energy. You don't get it?

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Speaker 6: Do you?

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Speaker 2: Down there at BMWUS says, who the hell's running that place?

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Speaker 4: Scary?

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Speaker 2: That's so funny. Bill is online, E team. Let's let's

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Speaker 2: see what Bill has to say. Then we'll move on

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Speaker 2: with our lives. High Bill, what's going on?

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Speaker 6: Oh Paul, my name is Paul.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. What did you do with Bill?

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Speaker 8: Where?

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Speaker 2: Where's Bill? Okay, okay, we'll talk to you instead. So, Paul,

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Speaker 6: So you know, I think life skills are a huge thing.

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Speaker 6: Like I remember when my daughter was born, just trying

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Speaker 8: I see.

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Speaker 2: The thing is Scary drives a car with tires, so

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Speaker 2: he should know how to change a tire if he

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Speaker 9: Mean no, I can't.

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Speaker 6: Changing a tire though, that's a huge thing. I mean,

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Speaker 6: Like every time I drive on the tar Pike. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 6: You had a close roadside assistant. I look at him like,

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Speaker 6: how did you not learn that?

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Speaker 2: Oh that was scary that you saw on the side

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Speaker 2: of the road. But Bill, right, you know, with kids

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Speaker 2: in your life, that is a whole new, massive book

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Speaker 6: Well, just cleaning up after yourself. You could let your

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Speaker 6: Oh I want dinner right now. I have to clean,

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Speaker 6: that I TikTok is never going to teach you. You

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well, good Bill, thanks for pointing that out.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it. You'll have a great day and listen

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Speaker 2: every day. Just do me a favor. Turn this on

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Speaker 6: Okay, oh every morning, and scare if I can tell you, neat,

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Speaker 6: tell your mother get a tune up. Her car sounds

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Speaker 6: It's an air filter, spark tugs, a belt, she needs all.

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Speaker 2: That, all right, Thank god, it sounds like your mother.

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Speaker 2: I was listening to your mother. It sounds like she's

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Speaker 2: sucking their Hi. Bill, thank you very much, I do,

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Speaker 2: I hear you. Thanks for listening to it. Bill.

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