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Speaker 1: Welcome home, y'all. It has been such a great, fruitful
Speaker 1: week of discussion here on Native Land Pod. And so
Speaker 1: I know, if you listen to our main episode, we
Speaker 1: said that we were going to talk about leadership styles,
Speaker 1: and then we got into a discussion on the whole
Speaker 1: black men black women dynamic. And I don't know, I
Speaker 1: feel like these two conversations somewhat intersect. You all correct
Speaker 1: me if you think I'm wrong. But we had Cornell
Speaker 1: Belter on a polster, a brilliant poster who runs a
Speaker 1: brilliant corner strategy, and he was on with Gabrielle Wyatt
Speaker 1: and they had done his really interesting poll about black women,
Speaker 1: and Andrew, you made a really good point about well
Speaker 1: wait a second, like I hear in the Cornell's point
Speaker 1: about black women center community, but you gave a shout
Speaker 1: out like, let me just say, black men were leading
Speaker 1: until policies harm them, and you know they were still
Speaker 1: even after that. Black men were leading, but policies eliminated
Speaker 1: a lot of black men. And so that's where we
Speaker 1: look up.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think I appreciate that, and great summary
Speaker 2: again to if it really wasn't to rebut what was stated.
Speaker 2: I just think we have to do a more deliberate
Speaker 2: job at contextualizing why a thing is a thing, Like
Speaker 2: we didn't just wake up one day and black men
Speaker 2: disappeared themselves from our neighborhoods. And you know, I think
Speaker 2: my granddaddy, my mom's dad, who my grandmother was a housemaker,
Speaker 2: raised eighteen headed children, my mother being the eight the
Speaker 2: last of them. My granddaddy who ran a gas station
Speaker 2: and did lawn maintenance on the weekends, and together in partnership,
Speaker 2: not before women were leading, but rather in partnership, they
Speaker 2: were leading a household and building neighborhood and community. And
Speaker 2: men didn't just black men and just wake up one
Speaker 2: day and say I'm done with that, I'm tired of it. Right,
Speaker 2: there always been trifling folks. Right, Papa was a rolling stone.
Speaker 2: I remember the lyrics from that before I even knew
Speaker 2: what any of that, you know meant. So I'm not
Speaker 2: I'm not repaying.
Speaker 1: He left alone l O n or alone, like he
Speaker 1: took out alone and left it to us, nah Lord.
Speaker 2: But I was alone. I just think the threat that
Speaker 2: we represented as a structure, as a as a as
Speaker 2: a image to be revered was so such an intimidation
Speaker 2: to the structure that existed that these folks had to
Speaker 2: develop deeply seeded plans to create what industries. Industries principally
Speaker 2: focused on breaking up that part partnership and not just
Speaker 2: the marriage partnership. I just mean as black men and
Speaker 2: black women who were modeling, not always perfectly, we have
Speaker 2: our issues, but who were modeling what it meant in
Speaker 2: that pole we saw earlier in the episode, the black
Speaker 2: women were prioritizing fairness. They put fairness above DEI when
Speaker 2: it came to priorities. I just want to be treated
Speaker 2: fairly in this place that they developed these structures that
Speaker 2: has bastardized fairness, has bastardized us being in these places.
Speaker 2: And then did some jiu jitsu to make what is
Speaker 2: our strength and their weakness their biggest strength coming after
Speaker 2: us about don't even earn it when the truth is
Speaker 2: your children aren't getting into the colleges that you want
Speaker 2: them into. Your daughters and sons are not coming home
Speaker 2: and sleeping on the couches, and you want them out
Speaker 2: and the lie that you have said that you are
Speaker 2: better than everyone else on your worst day is coming
Speaker 2: home to roost that it was always a lie. Now
Speaker 2: they're competing with us. Now they're learning what it means
Speaker 2: to try to earn a slide, even though all the
Speaker 2: structures have been built and designed for their angrandizement and advancement.
Speaker 2: And so what do they do. They say, let's get
Speaker 2: rid of hey, take all the diversity, all the inclusion,
Speaker 2: and then my son and my daughter will get back
Speaker 2: to their rightful place in society. Or if there was,
Speaker 2: if that, if if that ain't didn't earn it, I
Speaker 2: don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, everything you said, Andrew, I mean I completely echo that.
Speaker 1: And you know the point I made in the episode
Speaker 1: that dropped earlier this week is it is we We
Speaker 1: are a hurt people. We are carrying so much pain around,
Speaker 1: generational pain. Our time in this country, you know, was
Speaker 1: started in strife, and you know it's taught us to
Speaker 1: love just a little bit because our love was a weapon.
Speaker 1: And if I birth this child, I'm nursing this child,
Speaker 1: I'm caring for this child, and I know at any
Speaker 1: minute you can snatch this baby from me. And sell
Speaker 1: my child off while I'm raising your kids. That teaches
Speaker 1: me I gotta love a little bit if you a man.
Speaker 1: And it's like, I love this woman. This is my wife.
Speaker 1: We have a family here, and I know at any
Speaker 1: minute this white man could come along and rape her
Speaker 1: and impregnate her. I can only love her a little bit.
Speaker 1: We are carrying that level of pain with us. We've
Speaker 1: never really had a collective healing. So that's why when
Speaker 1: I hear some of these asinine comments coming from some
Speaker 1: of these podcast bros. And you know some of this
Speaker 1: very toxic space in the community, I do. I have
Speaker 1: a lot of frustration and a lot of hurt because
Speaker 1: my brother, I'm not your enemy. Let's keep in mind
Speaker 1: who the enemy is. But I also have care. I
Speaker 1: have a little I gotta care about you from a distance.
Speaker 1: I can't always engage people who appear to hate me,
Speaker 1: but I do have to consider this has come from
Speaker 1: a place of trauma, and so to me, if we
Speaker 1: are turning black love into a weapon, you know that
Speaker 1: people can't stop and celebrate black women and what we do.
Speaker 1: And as black women, like, we're holding your pain and
Speaker 1: everybody else's pain because we see what the state is
Speaker 1: doing to you, because the state is doing it to us.
Speaker 1: Because when it happens to you, it happens to us,
Speaker 1: we feel it.
Speaker 2: I would suggest Tiffany also that some of the herd
Speaker 2: that is being expressed, and quite frankly righteous frustration with
Speaker 2: the fact that the only time you're talked about is
Speaker 2: in proximity to a black woman or as opposed to
Speaker 2: a black woman, that just as black women exist as individuals,
Speaker 2: their joy can rise and fall all on its own.
Speaker 3: There.
Speaker 2: What do you mean? And what I mean by that
Speaker 2: is my frustration that I am experiencing right in this
Speaker 2: very moment about the systems that have colluded to knock
Speaker 2: us down at every opportunity us. But I'm speaking very
Speaker 2: specifically about black men here, not in juxtaposition to black women.
Speaker 2: Is a terror all on its own, without ever factoring
Speaker 2: in what my romantic relationship is. Who I've hurt in
Speaker 2: that because white men have toxic behaviors, and white women
Speaker 2: do too, and so do black women and so on
Speaker 2: and so forth. I'm saying, when the hurt comes, or
Speaker 2: what you interpret is hurt, might be really just righteous
Speaker 2: indignation about a fucked up system that is weighing on
Speaker 2: me absent what it's doing to a black woman, and
Speaker 2: even that men black men are allowed to have these
Speaker 2: emotions without it being in juxtaposition to how they were treated,
Speaker 2: who they dated, what happened in that dating experience, but
Speaker 2: as individual humans being able to experience a fierce and
Speaker 2: emotion that ain't got nothing to do with the women
Speaker 2: or men that we may date.
Speaker 1: Wow, you might have been too deep for me there,
Speaker 1: because I'm thinking about that, and it's true. When I
Speaker 1: think about black men, I do often think through the
Speaker 1: lens of black women. I think of the woman who
Speaker 1: raised you. I think of your counterpart, you know who
Speaker 1: you're attached to. Yeah, Angela what.
Speaker 3: I just wanted to remind you all that even though
Speaker 3: I need to get out of my hotel room, I
Speaker 3: am still here. So I was like, I would tell
Speaker 3: me in, tell me in. This is a good contraction
Speaker 3: for it. I'm trying to do better than Andrew be.
Speaker 1: Like yo yo, hey hey yeah yeah yeah, but no
Speaker 1: bro jump in.
Speaker 3: No, it's it's so it's so good and it's it's
Speaker 3: funny tip because I don't know where it comes from,
Speaker 3: but I feel like we talk about it a lot,
Speaker 3: especially in our friend group, I feel really protective of
Speaker 3: black men, like really protective of black men. I think
Speaker 3: some of it is the relationship with my dad, Like
Speaker 3: even growing up, there would be he's all black men.
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think.
Speaker 3: For yeah, for sure, for sure.
Speaker 1: Because because I don't know, because I've heard you like
Speaker 1: really go after some black men who you just don't
Speaker 1: feel like represent. You know, I experienced.
Speaker 3: Huci. I'm not feel like protective of Clarence, Uncle Clarence.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about him.
Speaker 2: It's definitely to.
Speaker 1: Protect and to fa I think there are some men
Speaker 1: but I've also heard with which we disagree on. I
Speaker 1: don't want to raise it again because I don't want
Speaker 1: it to get but I'm just saying, if you don't, well,
Speaker 1: but this is the one I'm thinking about. Like you,
Speaker 1: we were talking about black men and you were like
Speaker 1: very protective of like Charlemagne for example. But like when
Speaker 1: after plies, like you don't, so I wonder, like after.
Speaker 3: Plies, I feel like I have questions come on the podcast.
Speaker 3: I don't feel like I can't because now we're in
Speaker 3: this so let me just stay here for a moment
Speaker 3: to make sure it's really clear. I don't have an
Speaker 3: issue with Plies. I've said he should come on the podcast.
Speaker 3: I think that it is interesting how he chooses to
Speaker 3: show up and win. But if he wants to be
Speaker 3: a social media influencer, I support it, right, I think that,
Speaker 3: But I don't feel anything to applies. Like you know,
Speaker 3: he welcome to state to the people. He can write
Speaker 3: a black paper if you got them to say. But
Speaker 3: I do want him to, if he's comfortable with it,
Speaker 3: to blend more with who he actually is and the
Speaker 3: persona is it. And I think I would say that
Speaker 3: about anybody. I love authenticity and so you and I
Speaker 3: think that's the main thing. So if there was a criticism,
Speaker 3: it would just be that. But I respected a brother. Okay,
Speaker 3: so sorry, I don't know what moment.
Speaker 1: Go back to. I didn't mean best of it.
Speaker 3: I think like I think, one of the things I
Speaker 3: love most about our show is we give each other
Speaker 3: the space to work through out loud, our hypocrisies and
Speaker 3: our blind spots. So I think if there's a blind
Speaker 3: spot called me on it, my blind spot is defending
Speaker 3: the Brothers, and I will definitely do that, I think
Speaker 3: to a fault. So yeah, I was saying I was
Speaker 3: wondering where it was coming from and kind of wrestling
Speaker 3: with that. I think a lot of it has to
Speaker 3: do with my dad. I'm definitely a daddy's girl. I
Speaker 3: love my mama, but I'm definitely a daddy's girl. And
Speaker 3: I feel like my mom is more discerning and intuitive.
Speaker 3: And I think that that is a natural thing that
Speaker 3: black women have, Like we can see the thing before
Speaker 3: it's coming, and y'all just ain't got it. So I'm
Speaker 3: having a look out for y'all, like, don't cross that
Speaker 3: street right there is a car coming both ways. And
Speaker 3: I think that that's happened with what'd.
Speaker 2: You say, we got a different skill set? Yeah you do.
Speaker 3: Andrew leaves his phone eighty thousand times in one days,
Speaker 3: stressful and the and one in the same. My dad
Speaker 3: is like that with human beings. You know, it could
Speaker 3: be somebody who just stabbed him in the back and
Speaker 3: he's like, oh, you can have my last dollar.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, forget too.
Speaker 3: So I think there's a natural protection. And I'm like
Speaker 3: that about all my friends and loved ones, but it's
Speaker 3: especially true for black men. It is especially true because
Speaker 3: I'm just like, I don't know if they see the
Speaker 3: same tip. I know you discerning and peeping the scene.
Speaker 3: I just I love y'all, but I'll be concerned. So
Speaker 3: I do think that that is that that's true, and
Speaker 3: we don't ask for you never asked for it. I'm
Speaker 3: so sorry natural disposition to do this.
Speaker 2: Good luck.
Speaker 3: You can tell me you don't need it, and I'll
Speaker 3: try to fall back.
Speaker 1: There are times where I don't see things, you know.
Speaker 1: There are times where we've been on stage together and
Speaker 1: I'm starting to say this and you're like, okay, Dad,
Speaker 1: like let's go this way, and I don't know why.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, okay, well, I'm not gonna say it
Speaker 1: right now, but you'll tell me later. Like there's like
Speaker 1: we all see things for each other. But I definitely
Speaker 1: think you have like almost anxiety around the people that
Speaker 1: you care about, to like I'm a leap frog ahead
Speaker 1: and stop this thing from happening. But sometimes you can't,
Speaker 1: you know, like you sometimes people gotta fall, sometimes people
Speaker 1: gotta get burned. So I haven't experienced it that you
Speaker 1: are protective of black men more than you are of
Speaker 1: black women. I think you I would describe you as
Speaker 1: somebody who is protective.
Speaker 3: Yeah, people are hyper there. There's some hyper vigilance curious.
Speaker 1: I'm not a black man, so maybe I haven't experienced that.
Speaker 2: Of course I've experienced it. And what I would say is,
Speaker 2: I think you are you are a justice. You are you,
Speaker 2: you pursue justice. You were fully aware of the narrative
Speaker 2: that black men didn't earn but often hit with. And
Speaker 2: I think as part of your default disposition is you're
Speaker 2: not going to contribute to the continuation of that kind
Speaker 2: of abuse. So you're like, Okay, leve Ever, I know
Speaker 2: what you read, I know what you heard, but let's
Speaker 2: set the table again. Let's give this thing a chance.
Speaker 2: And I definitely feel like you have it more towards
Speaker 2: black men. I guess what I would caution is, yeah,
Speaker 2: some things do need to play out, period. But similar
Speaker 2: to how I set a couple of weeks ago that
Speaker 2: I think we sometimes coddle too much in the electoral process.
Speaker 2: Those who are confronted with economic horsship and da da
Speaker 2: da da da, and all the reasons why it is
Speaker 2: that they could give as to why they choose not
Speaker 2: to vote or participate in the process or to go
Speaker 2: you know, the extra And I'm not making I'm not
Speaker 2: accusing anybody, but the point was to say we have
Speaker 2: to treat everybody with the same expectation that if you
Speaker 2: want this thing, you got to go get it. And
Speaker 2: when you remove the incentive or less than the incentive
Speaker 2: for the person to have to show up on their
Speaker 2: own to do a thing, so that you can walk
Speaker 2: away with an impression about them that they either they
Speaker 2: go get us or they not. They hit us or
Speaker 2: they not, they're you know, or in this moment, they're
Speaker 2: those things. And the the the intention to make the
Speaker 2: way just a little bit easier. And some instances could
Speaker 2: be the harm. I don't mean that. I don't. I
Speaker 2: don't mean when I say in some itsys to be
Speaker 2: the harm. It could be keeping someone from the thing
Speaker 2: that they absolutely needed to go through to get to
Speaker 2: the next thing.
Speaker 3: Okay, but there's.
Speaker 2: And by the way, Angela, I don't I don't mean
Speaker 2: this as a as a criticism of you. Actually both
Speaker 2: ways for men and okay, for both men and women
Speaker 2: who predict because I'm a very protective person as well,
Speaker 2: and I think sometimes, like you know what, they may
Speaker 2: need it to have gone through that thing by doing
Speaker 2: it their way, and it doesn't mean, their way would
Speaker 2: have caused them collapse and fall on their face. Their
Speaker 2: way could have taught me a new way, but we
Speaker 2: will never know whether their way could have worked.
Speaker 1: I'm curious Angela your response, because I I'm maintained. I
Speaker 1: do know, but you know now that you're saying this,
Speaker 1: I do notice a difference between me and Andrew, but
Speaker 1: I never put it in the category of men and women.
Speaker 1: I put it in the category of Andrew is going
Speaker 1: to lose his phone, He's going Andrew is used to
Speaker 1: having staff around him take care of everything. So Angela's like,
Speaker 1: did you get this? Did you get that? Do you
Speaker 1: do that? That is what Andrew. That's her way of
Speaker 1: protecting Andrew. But I don't feel less protected by you,
Speaker 1: Like I still feel like if anything is happening, like
Speaker 1: you're gonna say something, if I'm saying something that you
Speaker 1: don't want me to say, I feel like you are
Speaker 1: right there. You're just a protective person.
Speaker 2: I hear you.
Speaker 3: Though maybe it's defensive then, like I think that they're
Speaker 3: and I don't want to center me in this because
Speaker 3: I think that the bottom line is there are some
Speaker 3: experiences that black men have had in this country and therefore,
Speaker 3: so have black women. But this is about to get
Speaker 3: it to bolve us, and it's a mess. I'm to
Speaker 3: be really honest, I don't believe all women. I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't believe women, especially when black men have been
Speaker 3: on the receiving end of harm that has caused them
Speaker 3: a violent death in this country. I still don't believe
Speaker 3: all women. I think that the experience around, you know,
Speaker 3: just the appearance of someone and perceiving that they are,
Speaker 3: you know, threatening innately. And my disposition is to naturally say, hey, brother,
Speaker 3: how you doing to make sure people know that he's safe.
Speaker 3: And that's not cool either, because we shouldn't have to
Speaker 3: require that of them, you know that. Like even in
Speaker 3: my professional development program, we get so many young women men,
Speaker 3: so many young women who apply, and I find myself
Speaker 3: kind of catering to the young men to make sure
Speaker 3: they're herd because there's only a few of them, and
Speaker 3: I want to make sure they go back and tell
Speaker 3: their friends to come back around. So I don't know
Speaker 3: what that is, but there's something about making sure when
Speaker 3: they did beat the stereotype, when they when they do
Speaker 3: deserve a chance, that we just give it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess protective or and I don't think that's
Speaker 1: centering you because so many women feel like, like what
Speaker 1: you're saying, I think you're representing a lot of women.
Speaker 1: And I don't think as Black women we have the
Speaker 1: privilege of believing all women because on our side of
Speaker 1: the gender divide, it's one of the most dangerous predators,
Speaker 1: and that is white women. If you go through the EJI,
Speaker 1: the Equal Justice Initiative in Montgomery, Alabama, and this is
Speaker 1: one of the largest hallowed grounds, comprehensive memorial dedicated to
Speaker 1: people who were terrorized by slavery and who were lynched
Speaker 1: during a certain time period. Ninety percent of the reason
Speaker 1: behind the lynchings is white women. Somebody said, he whistled
Speaker 1: at me. Somebody said, like emmettil was not singular.
Speaker 3: It was.
Speaker 1: It wasn't an anomaly, it was the common thing. So no,
Speaker 1: I think because again we carry that trauma in pain
Speaker 1: with our brothers, you know, journalists and anti lynching crusader
Speaker 1: I to be Wells noted in her eighteen ninety two
Speaker 1: pamphlet Southern Horrors that one third of the charges against
Speaker 1: black men were for the rape of white women, and
Speaker 1: investigations found that most of those relationships were consensual. So yeah,
Speaker 1: we just we can't do that.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: Now, Somewhere in that journey we lost our way, I
Speaker 1: have to say, and in our effort to protect black men,
Speaker 1: we forgot to protect ourselves and some of us. I
Speaker 1: would argue for God to protect black women because there
Speaker 1: are quite frankly black women who are harmed by black men.
Speaker 1: And when I hear these comments about some of the
Speaker 1: people in the limelight, I will start with just say
Speaker 1: R Kelly, when I heard people say, well, should he
Speaker 1: be in jail for all that? And please them? Little
Speaker 1: girls look grown and they knew what they were doing
Speaker 1: and where the parents? Like that breaks my heart because
Speaker 1: we're talking about it completely. I know you're not. But
Speaker 1: when I some of these comments are from black women,
Speaker 1: and I'm looking at this, like you given this girl,
Speaker 1: this baby girl less grace, but you have it all
Speaker 1: for R.
Speaker 3: Kelly.
Speaker 1: So somewhere, but I don't know.
Speaker 2: Society makes that the permission structure, like like, like, consider
Speaker 2: how those women then grew up and that if I
Speaker 2: had to demonize my daddy, yes, bad things to me,
Speaker 2: but also bought me some of the happiest Christmases. I
Speaker 2: ever had or you know, express love to me in
Speaker 2: a way that I knew heat stand in front of
Speaker 2: a bullet and take it. So, you know, it's so complex,
Speaker 2: and it's so nuanced, and where this stuff and comes
Speaker 2: out of y'all is so it's so deep, and it
Speaker 2: does it deserve a further enveloping. But I will just
Speaker 2: you know, Baby Boy is one of my least favorite
Speaker 2: movies ever in the world. My wife loves it. I
Speaker 2: know a lot of women who love it. I mean,
Speaker 2: you couldn't pay me to sit down and love the actors.
Speaker 2: You can't pay this down and watch it. Because I
Speaker 2: think we have to do better for each other. But
Speaker 2: I also think we have to do better. I got
Speaker 2: to do better as Andrew Gillum. I got to do
Speaker 2: better as a black man. I have to do better
Speaker 2: as a father. I have to do better. And all
Speaker 2: of those things can be a requirement of me that
Speaker 2: I put on myself that are without regard to all
Speaker 2: the other influences women who I'm married to, what I'm doing,
Speaker 2: da da da da have to you know, have going
Speaker 2: on in my life. The man that had to watch
Speaker 2: his woman be raped by Massa and see an illegitimate son.
Speaker 2: His biggest anger probably had to resided with the fact
Speaker 2: that he couldn't protect her, not even the porogeny that
Speaker 2: flowed from that. But Yeah, the thing that you feel
Speaker 2: most innately that you're responsible for, you feel it without
Speaker 2: ever being told, is to protect. And that you can't protect,
Speaker 2: there's a shame that comes over you. You know that.
Speaker 2: I know we got a rap bud.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, but I just you say what that comes
Speaker 1: out of and what I think that comes out of,
Speaker 1: because anecdotally, we will ask a baby girl to who
Speaker 1: endure sexual abuse to shoulder the pain of her abuser
Speaker 1: for sure, because and what that comes from is so anecdotally,
Speaker 1: and our families will say, Okay, this happens. So now
Speaker 1: we got to keep this baby away from the uncle
Speaker 1: who touched her. Why Because as sick and as subhuman
Speaker 1: as it is to abuse a child, black people know
Speaker 1: that the white invented criminal justice system, constructed from slavery
Speaker 1: in cites a cruelty beyond even our imagination. So our
Speaker 1: thing is, we are going to protect this child, We're
Speaker 1: gonna keep this man away, and we're gonna keep it
Speaker 1: all out of the hands of white folks because this
Speaker 1: man is messed up here, and we were gonna handle
Speaker 1: our justice our way, but we still not gonna turn
Speaker 1: him over to y'all. And this baby girl is gonna
Speaker 1: be safer in my arms and we not gonna turn
Speaker 1: her over to y'all. That is what that pain is
Speaker 1: born out of. Yeah, and that's a scary thing. So
Speaker 1: somehow we gotta come that's not the system is fucked
Speaker 1: up that we can't keep living on that system. So
Speaker 1: somehow we have to come together. I just want to
Speaker 1: thank y'all for just sharing this honesty, because that's the real.
Speaker 1: I mean, some people, a lot of people feel how
Speaker 1: Angelou do. I feel, well, how Angela does. But not
Speaker 1: everybody's brave enough to say I don't believe all women.
Speaker 1: I can't believe all women. Some people are afraid of,
Speaker 1: you know, the mostly white feminist mafia to jump out
Speaker 1: there and say a truth, and some people don't have
Speaker 1: the nuance andrew to say what you're saying and about well,
Speaker 1: wait a second, let me just stand up here and
Speaker 1: say something on behalf of black men, and it is
Speaker 1: not always in proximity to a black woman, like we
Speaker 1: have a right to exist within our own skin So
Speaker 1: these are the type of conversations that you can enjoy
Speaker 1: every week on Native Podcast, and this is why we
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Speaker 1: be sure to listen. These mini pods drop every Friday.
Speaker 1: Our main episodes drop Thursday. You can also check out
Speaker 1: the solo pods with Angela and Andrew Somedays y'all. I don't
Speaker 1: know Mondays and Tuesdays, so you know, we do have pods.
Speaker 3: Sometimes we do have sometimes I was supposed to have one. Wait.
Speaker 3: Nick was like, okay, we're doing I was like, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 3: here comes to me yesterday. I can't do it today.
Speaker 3: I just can't do it today.
Speaker 1: And you deserve it. You don't have to apologize. You
Speaker 1: deserve that rest. You've been killing yourself with this tour
Speaker 1: and you chose for I hope anyway that you chose
Speaker 1: to rest, doing well, whatever, whatever it was. I hope
Speaker 1: that you were doing something that brought you joy, because
Speaker 1: you deserve that. Okay, I want.
Speaker 2: So deep and there ain't nothing you can do about it.
Speaker 1: We love you back, I love this and I love
Speaker 1: our conversations that y'all can see are not filtered. We said,
Speaker 1: we need you know what I was thinking.
Speaker 3: About you were talking about you said you said you're
Speaker 3: not you did say you were protective, But I was
Speaker 3: thinking about that time when Andrew was trying to say
Speaker 3: some crazy ish he shouldn't say on the podcast yes,
Speaker 3: and we were like, no, no, no, no, what you
Speaker 3: mean to say is what.
Speaker 2: Hood's at home everybody, And I was like, this.
Speaker 1: Is not doing what you bigg's doing. Okay, Nick's on
Speaker 1: camera telling us we gotta go at home, but Nick's
Speaker 1: face is right here going to get out. So we
Speaker 1: are gonna on that note say welcome home, y'all, and
Speaker 1: we will see you back here next week. Tell a friend,
Speaker 1: thank you, everybody Happy jeen Native Land Pod is the
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