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Speaker 1: Nephew's subject Why is his stuff at his sister's house?

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband has a twin sister, and

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Speaker 1: they're like frick and freck. I get along with her

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Speaker 1: most of the time, but she's quick to jump on

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Speaker 1: her brother's side when he and I disagree about stuff.

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Speaker 1: I've told her that he might be your twin brother,

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Speaker 1: but he is my husband and the father of my kids,

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Speaker 1: so that trumps everything. She is one of those girls

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Speaker 1: that doesn't like to hang around other females, and she'd

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Speaker 1: rather have male friends. Because of that, she's single and miserable.

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Speaker 1: I dreaded the day that she moved back to our

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Speaker 1: city and bought a house. My husband was at her

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Speaker 1: house for a straight week to unpack her and move

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Speaker 1: furniture around. It didn't bother me that he helped his

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Speaker 1: sister get settled because his twin is his best friend.

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Speaker 1: What bothers me is that my husband has stuff at

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Speaker 1: his twin sister's house. He has clothes and shoes in

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Speaker 1: her guest room and she said he brought the TV.

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Speaker 1: He bought the TV that's in the room so he

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Speaker 1: can chill in there when he comes over. His sister

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Speaker 1: was giving me a tour of her house, and when

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Speaker 1: we got to the guest room, she said, this is

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Speaker 1: Jay's room. My husband tensed up and looked at me.

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Speaker 1: I was looking at the box of baseball caps that

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Speaker 1: belonged to him, and the two T shirts folded on

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Speaker 1: the dresser.

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Speaker 2: They were his shirts.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't help but ask if he was moving in

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Speaker 1: and my husband started laughing nervously. He has a TV

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Speaker 1: and his clothes. Oh, and I saw a pair of

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Speaker 1: sneakers and slippers in the room too. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: my husband was hanging out at his sister's house like that.

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Speaker 1: I haven't said a word about it because his told

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Speaker 1: me on purpose to cause friction between us. How do

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Speaker 1: I ask my husband what's he up to? And why

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Speaker 1: is he over there so much?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: How do you ask your husband what he's up to?

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Speaker 1: You just ask him? All right, you gotta address this.

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Speaker 1: This is a big gray elephant in the room, and

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Speaker 1: you gotta do it today. I mean, it's silly to

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Speaker 1: keep avoiding this. He is your husband. Ask him, all right,

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Speaker 1: why are you over there so much? Then tell him

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Speaker 1: to get his stuff from over there because he doesn't

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Speaker 1: live there. Tell him you don't mind him visiting his twin,

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Speaker 1: but he's doing too much.

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Speaker 2: He really is.

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Speaker 1: Tell him that his twin knew exactly what she was

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Speaker 1: doing when she said this is Jay's room. She knew

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Speaker 1: it would upset me. She knew it would upset you,

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Speaker 1: And you're right. She is trying to cause friction between

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Speaker 1: you two. That's why your husband was acting nervous and

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Speaker 1: laughing nervously when she was showing you around. He knows

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Speaker 1: this isn't right. He's too comfortable over there. He already

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Speaker 1: has a house. Okay, tell him it bothers you and

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Speaker 1: how it makes you. Field you are his wife, he

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Speaker 1: should want to make sure you're good at all times.

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Speaker 1: You know the same unhappy wife, unhappy life. You know

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Speaker 1: that thing, Tommy, Let's.

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Speaker 3: Go all right.

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Speaker 4: I think you in a louse situation. The wife is in.

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Speaker 4: I think you in just a no win situation. This

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Speaker 4: is this is you are supposed to be your husband's

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Speaker 4: best friend.

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Speaker 3: You are and that's not the case.

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Speaker 4: He got a twin sister, he and he is by none,

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Speaker 4: he is the best friend.

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Speaker 3: They ride or die.

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Speaker 4: Evidently you like you already stated they freaking fracked. They

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Speaker 4: are who they are together and that they got a bond.

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Speaker 4: And we already know most twins have a bond that's unseparable,

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Speaker 4: and they are that.

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Speaker 3: So now where do you fall in this? Now?

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Speaker 4: Your brother then move Once a man got a TV

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Speaker 4: somewhere and some slippers.

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Speaker 3: It's a rap.

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Speaker 4: He has decided to set up shop. They roommates over

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Speaker 4: that and set up shop at his sister house. So

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Speaker 4: that is his He now has his own man cave

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Speaker 4: at his sister's house, and that's where he likes to be.

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Speaker 4: I'm not understanding why you can't say the question was,

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Speaker 4: how do I ask my hood what the hell?

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Speaker 3: What is all that?

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Speaker 4: How do I ask him something ain't that your husband

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Speaker 4: you ask my wife show asked me anything under the

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Speaker 4: sun that she want to know. So I don't understand

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Speaker 4: why you can't say, hey, we gotta have a conversation.

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Speaker 4: What's going on here with you and your sister? To

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Speaker 4: the point where you you got all your stuff over there?

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Speaker 4: Once you see slippers, a TV and you should have

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Speaker 4: pulled up, you should have opened up some of these dresses.

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Speaker 3: Is it some drawers over there?

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Speaker 4: Once a man got some draws somewhere, that's where he stays.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's his other spot.

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Speaker 4: So I really think that you guys need to have

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Speaker 4: a sit down conversation and and discuss what it is.

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Speaker 4: What are your boundaries? Do you not want this? What's

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Speaker 4: bothering you? Are you bothered? Because there's clothing, shoes and

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Speaker 4: all this over there apparently is bothering you, And it

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Speaker 4: would bother me too if my spouse set up shop

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Speaker 4: somewhere else. I got an issue with that, but I

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Speaker 4: got but I ain't got no problem saying hey, why

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Speaker 4: the hell you got all your stuff over there? It

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Speaker 4: makes me think that my man is at the point

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Speaker 4: of are you fin the move out on me? Are

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Speaker 4: you you know? It just feels weird. It just feels

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Speaker 4: but that is your sister. He loves his sister. But

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Speaker 4: I will agree with you on this. The sister's messy

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Speaker 4: as hell. Yes, she's messy as all get out and

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Speaker 4: everybody knows it. And basically she's gonna at some point

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Speaker 4: your your relationship in the turn that's already turning.

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Speaker 3: I don't think your husband ready to love.

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Speaker 2: I don't you don't think so? Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 4: And your sister in law ain't ready to Your sister

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Speaker 4: in law ain't ready to sister in law even.

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Speaker 1: Like sheven like women, she doesn't even have like a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: She said, she likes only men in her life. You know,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't even know what that sisterhood bond is all about, apparently.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, all right, Junior, you got something for us?

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Speaker 1: I know you do.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Well, see, I don't see how this is difficult because

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Speaker 6: what Tommy said is absolutely true. How do you ask

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Speaker 6: your hook? You ask this man why is he moving

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Speaker 6: your stuff in? But there's a flip side to the coin.

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Speaker 6: He's moving stuff in his sister's house. Were gonna start

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Speaker 6: moving stuff in somewhere else too, Okay, all right, so

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Speaker 6: flipped See we look everybody for the half clothes everywhere,

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Speaker 6: and my job is if you got it in one place,

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna have it in two.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, hold it right there, jor hold it

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Speaker 1: right there.

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Speaker 3: We'll have part.

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Speaker 1: Two of your response coming up twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour of the subject of today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 2: Why is this late?

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Speaker 1: We'll get We'll get back into it here from Junior

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 6: Everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior, you know what, I

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Speaker 6: love having cookouts in the summertime, but it is so expensive.

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Speaker 6: But have you heard about what Sam's Club is doing though?

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Speaker 6: With locked in Summer Value until July twenty second, prices

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Speaker 6: are held over on one thousand items, from paper plates

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Speaker 6: to trash bags, the sunscreens to ice cream, even apple pie.

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Speaker 6: It's no brainer to join Sam's Club because locked in

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Speaker 6: Summer Value can help you save on all the things.

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Speaker 5: You need to have a great summer. I plan on joining.

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Speaker 5: I think you should too.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time to recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is his stuff? Why is his stuff at

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Speaker 1: his sister's house? Okay, this woman wrote in her husband

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Speaker 1: has a twin sister. They're really, really close. They're like

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Speaker 1: freaking fracks, she says. She says, she gets along with

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Speaker 1: her sister most of the time, but the sister, the

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Speaker 1: twin sister, is quick to jump on her twin brother's

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Speaker 1: side if they disagree about anything.

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Speaker 2: The husband and wife, and she.

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Speaker 1: Said, and the wife said that she's told her that

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Speaker 1: he might be her twin brother, but he is her

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Speaker 1: husband and the father of her children, so that trumps everything.

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Speaker 1: But it seems like that's not getting through to the

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Speaker 1: twin sister because she keeps, you know, doing these little

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Speaker 1: digs and trying to separate them.

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Speaker 2: Now, she bought a house. She bought a house, and

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Speaker 2: her brother moved in.

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Speaker 1: Her twin brother has pretty much moved in. He's got

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Speaker 1: clothes over there, he bought a TV. The guest room

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Speaker 1: is now his. The twin sister was showing the wife

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Speaker 1: around and she said, that's Jay's the husband.

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Speaker 2: That's his room.

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Speaker 1: So the wife is feeling like, you know, why are

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Speaker 1: you putting your clothes in this in your twin sister's house.

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Speaker 1: Why are you moving in? What is going on over here?

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Speaker 1: You bought a TV, you're chilling, you got slippers over here?

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Speaker 1: What is going on? So the sister's like, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, the twin sisters trying to divide them. She

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Speaker 1: sees she sees it. She's trying to cause tension between them.

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Speaker 1: So the wife wants to know Junior. Why is he

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Speaker 1: over there so much? And how does she ask her

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Speaker 6: Yea, you ask him, but since you having a problem,

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Speaker 6: ask him. So he's moving clothes in at his twin

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Speaker 6: sister's house. Okay, now you can do this. That's the

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Speaker 6: game we playing.

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Speaker 5: Then let's play the game.

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Speaker 6: I'm finna start moving clothes to some friends and sister's

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Speaker 6: siblings houses. Well, says you moved in one, I'm gonna

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Speaker 6: move stuff in two. See, my goal is to make

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Speaker 6: you be with me so much.

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Speaker 5: We gonna be twin.

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Speaker 2: You.

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Speaker 5: You're not gonna even.

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Speaker 6: Y'all, you and your sister just gonna be siblings. We

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Speaker 6: gonna be twins. That's the whole goal.

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Speaker 5: You gonna have to be with me. You're gonna be

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Speaker 5: chasing me so much. You gonna be my twin because

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Speaker 5: there's no way for you to feel this way.

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Speaker 6: And this is your husband, Like Tom says, you got

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Speaker 6: kids with this man, you are you are married to

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Speaker 6: this man.

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Speaker 5: I know he loves his twin sister, but it seems

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Speaker 5: like you're you're trying to move on.

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Speaker 6: Well, let me get to moving on too, when we're

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Speaker 6: gonna find out what kind of marriage we really have.

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Speaker 5: You playing this type of game.

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Speaker 6: Let my wife move all her stuff out, because tell

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Speaker 6: you one thing, a man can't stand not knowing where

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Speaker 6: his woman.

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Speaker 5: Is after nine pm.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, you got.

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Speaker 5: To call me by nine you know where you're at or.

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Speaker 6: What you're doing, because because I have a responsibility to

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Speaker 6: you in the same way I have a responsibility to

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Speaker 6: her to tell her where I'm at when what.

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Speaker 5: I'm doing about nine pm, I'm gonna be out late.

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Speaker 6: I can call and say that, but never can I

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Speaker 6: say I'm moving in at my sister's house with all

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Speaker 6: my stuff. I ain't coming on to night, right, you

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Speaker 6: ain't coming home tonight. But he's gonna be some unwatched children. Wow,

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Speaker 6: these kids go.

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Speaker 5: Be growing up so fast. Let's you see your mama

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Speaker 5: by last time? I seen you three days ago.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she ain't been here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's not even saying that she doesn't mind

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Speaker 1: her husband chilling at its twin Sisters South. That's not

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Speaker 1: even a case. But you're moving stuff in, buying TV's,

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Speaker 1: buying furniture all that. No, No, you don't live there permanently. No,

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Speaker 1: that address is not in your driver's license.

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Speaker 6: No, it's like Carlo, can you can you go Katas

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Speaker 6: go somewhere at his one suits high and just set

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Speaker 6: up shot.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't care. That's when you've been married.

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Speaker 5: We've been married by twenty two years this year.

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Go on, okay, Davy good, I can make this room

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Speaker 1: a closet.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe that for a second.

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Speaker 4: But my twelve thirty at night, Okay, now you're playing right,

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Speaker 4: here's no way.

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Speaker 2: That's how she feels in her mind.

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Speaker 3: Can I bool?

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Speaker 5: Can I bool this right?

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Speaker 2: Where are you gonna.

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Speaker 5: Get your stuff?

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Speaker 3: Man? I've been trying to move to the guest room

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Speaker 3: for the last three years.

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Speaker 1: An thank you, But no, I hear exactly what you

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Speaker 3: But the is just pouring the twin.

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Speaker 2: Poorn salt in the wound. She really is making the

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Speaker 2: wife jealous. Yeah, and there's.

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Speaker 4: Always somebody who ain't got nobody. It's always somebody who got.

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Speaker 1: Yet, this is Jay's room. Now, why would you say

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Speaker 1: that to his wife? Why would you say that? I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't mind my husband having a room at his twins house.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that.

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Speaker 5: Just wouldn't bother me like that. But it just depends

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Speaker 5: the sisters.

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Speaker 3: Just yeah, she's calculating.

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Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, you know what she's on. We can't

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Speaker 2: say it, but you know what she's on yet, and

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Speaker 2: maybe the wife can reverse it. Put her stuff at

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Speaker 2: her siblings house, like you said.

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Speaker 3: Over there. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The part that also got me was she didn't know

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Speaker 1: how to ask her husband.

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Speaker 2: How do I ask my husband? Is what she said?

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Speaker 2: What he's up to? That part I didn't get. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know what wife?

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Speaker 3: What wife says that?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: Wife? Don't you don't know how to talk to their health?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Just go right on in there.

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Speaker 3: What's happening?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: What are you doing with twin?

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: What is all of this?

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Speaker 4: You know what Jackie would say to me, What the

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Speaker 4: hell is all your stuff doing over here?

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Speaker 3: What is going on?

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Speaker 6: What is? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You find so stuff and put.

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Speaker 4: It in a bag and get it back to the house.

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Speaker 4: What is all your stuff going over here?

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Speaker 2: Exactly?

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Speaker 3: Guys?

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Speaker 2: All right, thank you so much.

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