WEBVTT - Ep 210: Swinging While Black (Ft. Tribe Chat) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:09.640 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 0:00:09.840 --> 0:00:14.680 welcome to another motherfucking episode of Harry Blade. This is 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:18.680 your horrible decisions. But I'm your girl, Mandy Be. We 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:21.000 don't have to do a name change. Why because we 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:24.040 got to be bigger Hory Blade. This is we just 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:27.360 gotta add accents to it. That's this, you know what 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.880 I mean? This podcast is available available in two languages, 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:36.199 in English and any man be three antis anti bons 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:41.279 no not. You know, we actually prefer African American vernacular. 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:48.560 You know what's crazy? What I was like, but the 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:50.479 new acronym to sound, I'd be like, first of all, 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:57.639 I'm a BIPOC, talk about it. I really think BIPOC 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:01.400 just it's just too much indigenous, which I don't know 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:11.360 if I'm Cherokee, but it's coontaginous people brought over here, 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:17.440 not necessarily, don't girl. That's a story for a fucking 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:20.080 serious ship. I think they're I think they're on bipox 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:22.319 to y'all, we're not sure because we don't know the origins. 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:24.120 But once we do a spit test, well, if I 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:26.720 figure out who the tribe chat is, we have some 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:30.959 special guests here, um O, Mari and Pegasus from Tribe Chat, 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.440 and they've we're supposed to be on the show for 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.080 a long time. I think you were. I don't know 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:39.839 if you knew peg I didn't know, but I'm look, 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:43.240 I'm a whole ship show. So yeah. By the way, 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:47.240 people who are on audio and listening to this via audio, 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:53.080 please go on YouTube so you can see Peggy pegistus. Sorry, 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:55.880 because you are the type of vision. When I'm walking 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:57.880 out show, I'm like, she looks funnest, but like, are 0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:01.720 you listen? I'm I'm a lot of ship. What do 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:04.480 you think if you're subscribed to our audio, subscribe to 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:07.880 our YouTube? Yea, what do you do? Well? Actually, um 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:09.919 by trade, I am in here stylish. I was gonna 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:13.040 get that if you would have gave me just one guest. 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:15.160 Don't get that. I was gonna say music or makeup. 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:18.120 Now well you know, makeup would have been my second guest. Listen. 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:19.959 I wanted to be a mermaid growing up, so I 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:22.040 style this is the closest thing I can get to 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:24.760 it in real you know, and practice being a mermaid 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:26.840 and ship like yo, you fell for that ship. Listen, 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:29.040 you don't feel out for it. But you do practice 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:31.320 in the tub by yourself. Do you gotta hold your 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:33.160 breath on the wall, and then you gotta learn how 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:42.919 to How does the mermaid sing mandy? Huh? That's bottom 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:46.920 mermaids do watch the lower bottom half. You have to 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:48.840 be a mermaid to find out where to stick your stick. 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:52.760 Got mermaid porn? Wait, it's like a white woman fantasy. 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:56.440 But where do you Where does the dicks go in 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:59.040 your mouth? That's it? They only do oral things. They 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:03.079 probably scissor. Let me look, all right, where would the go? Actually, 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:07.360 I'm about to say that's some real lock right now, 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:14.519 mermaide porn. Let me see where y'all think it goes. 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.399 I mean, technically, have you ever seen a dolphin? Oh? 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:20.200 They look like avatars. It's like you don't see the 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:23.160 scales anymore. It's just like blue pussy. But most of 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:26.800 us just dolphins is cool because they like us. They 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:29.359 be having orgies and ship they do have and they 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:37.920 rape they have ye? Wait, menates and dolphins be rapists, yes, 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:41.760 and they will suck around. Dolphins are some sentence to motherfucker's. 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:44.000 They will working around and rape a porpoise, which is 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:46.400 like a smaller dolphin and they eat it. You know 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.560 what you wait, you know what I don't like now though, 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.120 If we're gonna talk about dolphins raping, how can they 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:55.320 be rapists and life savers? They saved me. Listen, they 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:58.280 out here saving lives and rape is not cool by 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.880 the most absolutely feel what's crazy is. I don't really 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:03.280 know if y'all saw, but chop Now. I grew up 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:05.960 in Orlandos Fall seven chopl City, went to Sea World. 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:13.960 Them dick penises be big and long as it is 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:17.160 literally the size of like two foot long penises. Bro 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:20.279 like them things be that from the Museum of Sex. 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.160 And they have three dolphins on top of each other. 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.720 And I learned it from Sea World. Bitch. They was 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:29.600 fucking in that aquarium. But they didn't teach us. Look 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:37.120 look at me. It's not expedition exception. You know. In 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.279 a Florida public school, as you know, they don't teach 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:42.240 science to Mandy. But they did say science to Mandy. 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:46.080 That's it. We want to her. But you skipped or something. 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:48.640 This is what we're doing. What were you doing in 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:54.080 science class? Biology? Biology? I didn't like because in my 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:56.479 ninth grade they did make us start cutting up animals 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:59.800 and ship and I didn't like that. But my lowest grade, 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:04.560 ironically in school was chemistry. I got it. What do 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:07.240 you mean ironically? It's not? First off, I was a 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:10.640 top tier fucking student. I graduated a p top of 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:12.800 my class. You know you're at my graduation, don't remember? 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:17.320 And chemistry I thought was gonna be the deal then. 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:20.719 But I do think you forgot some forgot No, I 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:25.200 just volunded everything. I question every all. Ma'am. You told 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.040 me a few days ago that someone in your life 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:28.920 is a flat earther, and you said, I just love 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:35.640 his perspective. Why did you lie? Nigger? What? What is? 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.600 The figured out that the earth is around for a 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:43.960 long time? But you know what you want to know? Here? 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:46.480 Here's the ship right The ship is. The ship is 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:50.000 all of even those like pictures of space. Like y'all 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:52.720 thought we leaned on the moon. We didn't didn't exactly, 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:55.520 So how do y'all know this is even true? Like niggasn't? 0:05:55.560 --> 0:06:01.159 Even The earth is round, beca is everything is around? 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:07.599 Life is run right here? If you can, I feel 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:10.120 I can't do this right now, let's not Let's talk 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:13.760 about sucking dick and licking, but no, they want to round. 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.240 It feels the best when you go in the circle. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:21.080 In the circle. Remember that song that was about first off, 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:24.840 y'all just did the whitest version of throw that as 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:32.320 the circles that you're not chill, throw that in the circle. 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:37.840 You know what I mean? Certain songs? What circle song? 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:41.080 Where you know? This tri chat chat right now in 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:50.360 the circle? Ye ask anybody beside you and they got 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.640 anything in Spanish about circles? What they call a circle 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:56.640 and circle circle? Putting on the spot here do they 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:59.160 have what circle? In Spanish? Yeah, we have circles. You 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:09.280 don't think we have circles Spanish? Say, I'm a want 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:16.240 to say, wait, spattle got smart? Look at that girl 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:27.400 ciculo culo like sure that's French, which is closed? Just 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:30.840 feel we're just supposed to watch Spanish French all this 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:40.280 ship is please Anyway, I thought we have a show 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.679 about sexy guys. My bad if you've never heard it before, 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:44.600 But we really have some a D ship right now. 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.840 This is just my favorite type of chat. So let's 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:51.080 get into some vanilla ship, which our segment about sex 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:54.480 and the news, this one I love Rudy Giuliani's daughter 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:58.200 Caroline graphically details why she loves threesome she must really 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:01.600 hate her father's politics, and a piece for Vanity's Affair 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.320 titled a Unicorn's Tale three way sex with couples has 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.160 made me a better person. His daughter says, I want 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:11.040 to watch my boyfriend bend you over. The thirty two 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:14.240 year old daughter of her of Rudy Giuliani says, I 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:16.320 had known for a long time that I was bisexual, 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:18.840 but I barely explored that side of my sexuality. I 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:21.320 knew I wanted new dynamics. And she's on a dating 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:24.600 site called Unicorns, where women who agree to have sex 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:26.880 with couples get on there, and she says one woman 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:28.920 I chatted with mentioned she was looking for someone to 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:32.920 have her dominated but be submissive to her boyfriend. And 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.520 I am typically more sexually submissive, but as I was 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:39.079 texting with them, it turned into this authoritative sexual persona. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:45.960 Let me tell y'all something she is. She's a white woman, 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:51.679 do you think she is? Damn? Yeah? Well, I want 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.600 to talk about unicorns because I felt like it made 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:56.680 sense for you guys. So Tribe Chat is about what 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:59.120 that's the name of your podcast? So do you guys 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:01.200 start with a swing club? How did you guys know 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:06.320 each other? We started with this week. Actually, um I 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:10.680 met him through my cousin who we started the group with. 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.079 She since dropped off and we've we've been rocking out 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:17.200 of his song on your lifestyle. Swinger group is a 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:20.720 family affair? Is now that's white listen? No, no, no no, 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:23.120 it's not white people. Ship. I'm gonna just tell you something, 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:25.440 us folks do not always talk about the things that 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:29.120 are hereditary. It's a lot of ships whole hereditary. There. 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.120 You got me and Pegginsters had a friend that back 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:32.720 in the day when we originally was in a group, 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:36.319 her and her daughter was in a group together exactly exactly, 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:38.880 and it was all black listen, And we then't had 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:42.400 a group member who was married in our group who 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:51.160 put pictures of his cousin who he's also first cousin. Wait, yeah, 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:52.959 we was gonna come on here and talk about all 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:55.720 man is a sex and prehism and all of that. Ship. 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:59.960 Let's get back to the mother. And so they joined 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:04.040 in a lot of porns, that's like, and it's a 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:09.200 were they playing together. They were playing together. But it's 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:12.000 enough to see your mothers sucking dick or watch your daughters. 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:14.040 They were at the same parties, they weren't in the 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:16.600 same word. One was an organizer, and it's like the 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:18.200 daughter was like you know what I mean, like you 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:21.440 have a group with the mom, the organizer figure, like 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:26.679 you know, it's a mom thing to do. It's not well, 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:28.720 I mean, it depends on how you look at it. 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:30.880 If this is just your release and there's no taboo 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:34.840 attached to it, then how old were they are they? 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:39.160 Oh sorry, they're alive. Yeah, you know, like how old 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:42.720 were they at the time? Um, we still talk to 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:45.880 the mom to this day. Yeah, so like a couple 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:50.040 of days ago. It's the daughter like eight twenty like that. 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:54.240 Not the daughter is, I believe, like nine and mom 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.920 is close to fifty, which is about I was about 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:04.200 to say that. I wasn't gonna that's like between I 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:07.080 still do not want to see my mar I don't 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:08.360 want it. I don't want to see it either. I 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:10.800 listened to it because my mother shot the funk out. 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:14.520 That's y. You know. My mother is eighty two and 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:17.559 she got some ship, she got some stuff to tell you. 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.400 And my other sisters don't necessarily like to listen to it, 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:22.640 but she's a woman and I have to. It has 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:25.360 to be discovered by me. Where the came. I feel 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:26.640 really bad because I was like, how do you guys 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:27.960 know each other? And all I heard was mom and 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:29.800 daughter at the sex time. Let me if I can 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:31.439 get back to that, all right. So when she was 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:33.280 talking about this as a cousin that she had, we 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.319 talked about this on the our show, which we also 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:37.800 shoot right here, and what the studios? All right, come on, 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:41.880 give me a little advertising? Yes, what the studios? Just 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:45.520 games family here. But we did meet on Instagram. I 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.280 spoke to her. There was a group and she said, listen, 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:50.640 you could come on board because I have some experience 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:52.240 in our life style with another group, which is where 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:55.640 I got the name Omri to Rebel. And she was like, yo, um, 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:57.640 we could use a little help change in the direction. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:59.520 But then she had other things she was dealing with it, 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:02.360 so she's said, um, hey, I'm gonna turn it over 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:05.400 to y'all. And then that was in nineteen. So there's 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:06.840 a couple of things that I was like, all right, 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:09.400 I think we should do this and such, and we 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:15.400 got here. We together. It's psycho. Um, we we have 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:21.920 different jobs. Um, I am purely ambiance and excitement and 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.760 wow pow. That's who I am. What you're trying to say, 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.120 not no, no, no, that's not what because I say 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:32.360 what I am, don't say what i'm the advertising. Here's 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:34.480 the here's the analogy that I use all the time. 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.000 Me and my wife we joke about it because she's 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:38.760 on the team too. It's like, yo, we're like the 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:42.600 Avengers of swinger Clubs. Right, she is like Captain America. 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.240 You see how like Captain America has powers and such. 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:48.360 It's the shield, just like like here, everybody loves Captain America. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:51.360 You can see that visual symbol. Me, I'm like the 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:55.600 iron Man of the group. Like not as beloved. I'm beloved, 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:57.760 but like when it comes to all of the nerds ship, 0:12:57.800 --> 0:12:59.800 I have to do it. If everybody needs new weapons 0:12:59.920 --> 0:13:02.480 or new armor and stuff, I have to like condoms, 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:04.600 like what do you need? It is like just like 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:06.240 I mean I do a lot of the like the 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:08.920 boring stuff, you know what I'm saying. Like you make 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:15.959 the flyers, organizes the fliers and say we need you 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:19.640 don't even make the flyer, you just organized like that's 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:24.000 Mandy when we first started our show, saying you're like 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.280 you were more like the organizer. You were able to 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:28.600 make our sheets. You're able to schedule stuff for us 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:31.079 like email. Now it has to be done. You know 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:32.920 what I'm saying, Like somebody is like, you know this 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:36.160 because I got a corporate background. You know, when I 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:39.000 first came on board, I was actually working in a 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.480 caution to which also is where where I met my 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:44.319 wife and um, I was working on the administrative side. 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:46.680 I got a real strong pack win and sales. So 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:48.719 I know as far as what it sound like, you 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:53.160 used to work in a call center. Let's practice. I 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:56.200 don't know what's going on, but it says no sim 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:59.360 my phone is fucked. I'm sorry, man, So listen. What 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:00.800 we need to do is we need to direct you 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:04.280 to our technical department. Do you have any other question now? 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:06.920 But that youth have answered everything. Also, we're gonna get 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:11.400 some dick Tonite at Missourikabala's party, which is going on 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:18.640 on March. Go ahead, so you guys start a tribe chat. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:23.880 What's your podcast about sex, sex and and exploration of sex? 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:25.720 Do you bring people from the club in there and 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:28.960 they'll come sometimes like it, they'll call in um. But 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:33.600 we we actually want to dispel all of the myths 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:38.280 and the negativities around this lifestyle. So that's why we 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:42.120 have the podcast so we can be able to say 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:44.480 you can have Q and A with people. Because people 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:47.800 come in with if you're not a swinger already, for 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:49.840 the most part, they come in with a preconceived notion, 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:54.000 you know, like like like somebody has has ordained them, 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.240 you know, I know everything. So we we have a 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:59.520 conversation to kind of answer the question is the popular 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:02.080 question is and they're not so popular question. If I 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:04.560 could describe it, yo, trap chat is a lot like 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.320 horrible decisions, will make you laugh, will make you think, 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:09.520 and we'll make you come. You see. What we do 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:14.160 is yeah, not for real. So what it is is 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:17.800 it comes down to commentary on sex and relationships from 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:25.760 a very black, like black andy black perspective. Because there's 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:28.200 also a lot of podcasts, a lot of lifestyle podcasts. 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:30.680 When people are in because you know how podcasting is 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.680 developed and ship, there's a lot of other people who 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.280 do what we do and we're friends with them and such, 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:37.040 you know, and even in the context of what we 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:40.080 do like, even in the context of the fact that 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:42.880 we're talking about sex and an alternative lifestyle, we're still 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:45.720 even edgy in comparison to them. And like, because I'll 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:47.520 be doing ship like you know, I'll be talking and 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:51.800 I'd be like, yeah, his podcast and ship like fun. 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:53.920 But I do want to talk some right now. Yeah, See, 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:57.560 you guys are friends yet sex we have plenty of, 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:01.080 like I mean, because is the Swingers group. I mean, 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.040 that's that's not something we do want to rag. But 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:05.000 does it feel weird now to funk now that you 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.880 guys are involved in this podcast? I mean, we don't 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:11.080 do it anymore, but you know, do you feel like 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:15.520 you could still funk while running a business together? Yeah? Really, Harry, 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:18.600 I'm just gonna say this, this is my release. I 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:25.080 am not emotionally detached, but that love element, that jealousy, 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:27.800 I don't deal with that. I don't deal with that 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.240 in this because I understand what it's for is for release. 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:35.640 I'm here to bring joy and and and fun. And 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:37.680 should I just say that I love that you bring 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:42.200 that up because a lot of I guess thoughts around 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:44.240 how women engage in sex and wee thin and I 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.200 have had this kind of back and forth for quite 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.920 some time, as far as a lot of people just 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:52.720 believe that women tie emotions to section that there can't 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:55.400 be a disconnect. So I guess I want to ask 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:58.280 you at what age was there early on? Was it 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:00.560 as you got older, did you really lies you were 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:04.280 able to disconnect emotions and sex and use it as 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:09.800 a release. Well, I've always known, but Um, growing up, 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:13.160 I was a people pleasing. My mom was the one 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:17.520 person that I'm wanting to please, UM saying understanding that 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:20.879 this was not something that we talked about. My sexual 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:24.880 proclivities and desires was not something that I brought to her, 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:27.960 So it was always pushed to the backside. And and 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:30.840 and being a girl the way we're raised, you know, 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:34.240 um pious and keep it until you get married. She 0:17:34.359 --> 0:17:37.680 never taught me that, but that was what the world did, 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:40.400 so I tried to conform to it. I think I've 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:44.040 always known, Um, even in the space where I got 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.639 cheated on, I was never really angry because I understood 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:49.840 that ship. I get how you could do that because 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:51.760 I remember when I had did it to you. And Okay, 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:55.840 I understand I'm just telling you that, but I understand 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:58.040 how you got that way, so can we move forward? 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:03.000 Usually it doesn't work that way. Um, but I've always 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:10.119 been able to comp I like men, yeah, because stuff 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:13.840 doesn't get not with me, it doesn't get cross. You know, 0:18:13.920 --> 0:18:16.199 you understand what you do. Let me just explain this 0:18:16.240 --> 0:18:20.639 to you. I I go to a lot of parties, 0:18:20.880 --> 0:18:27.480 and my name usually precedes me, especially around or your area. Wow, 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:32.600 they see me coming up the steps. But no woman 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:35.679 in a couple usually has a problem with interacting with 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:37.000 me because you know, I'm not trying to take your 0:18:37.040 --> 0:18:39.880 man out your house. I'm not trying to see him 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:42.200 after that. I'm not even trying to see you after 0:18:42.200 --> 0:18:45.880 that unless we're at another event. It is very specific, 0:18:46.160 --> 0:18:49.160 very swinger is very specific. Like one of the things 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:50.800 like I wanted to weigh in on, like you know, 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:54.400 sexual life and stuff like this. One thing is that 0:18:54.520 --> 0:18:56.399 even like when I listen to the horrible decisions, it's 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:58.240 like we always have to listen to the area. It's 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:00.720 like when we say vanilla, Like when we're talking about 0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:04.840 vanilla's just like everybody isn't like having We have different 0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:06.560 levels of how we have sex. Of course I'm having 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:09.280 sex and my wife this Enemcy did, and then it's 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:12.080 like somebody that I'm friends with and such, like we 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:14.600 even having like we're having sex with like our business 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:18.320 rivals and ship you know what I'm saying. Like there's 0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:21.120 a lot of sex. Yes, Like there's other people who 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:23.199 do what we do like this, there's you know what 0:19:23.200 --> 0:19:24.800 I mean, they come to your parties to do what 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:27.720 scout well whatever they're doing, but they come in the 0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:32.040 fucking suck and take that. Now we're we're friends with 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:34.600 the quote unquote rival pot. I'm trying to think, who 0:19:34.640 --> 0:19:37.440 do I want to have sex with? The lip Service Stephanie. 0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:40.360 It's so weird because I don't feel like that. I mean, 0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:43.240 people compare pod the word rivals just trivial. I'm just 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:45.480 talking to it, but like people will always compare you 0:19:45.480 --> 0:19:47.320 to something, and I think people compare us to lip 0:19:47.359 --> 0:19:52.399 Service because cocktails too, but like lip Service when we 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:54.080 first came out, I feel like it's what people talked 0:19:54.080 --> 0:19:57.480 about a lot. And um, honestly, I love all the 0:19:57.520 --> 0:19:59.639 black sex pods that we have all right now, and 0:19:59.680 --> 0:20:01.800 they're all very different, and I'm so grateful that we've 0:20:01.840 --> 0:20:04.000 been able to work with all of them because there's 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:05.600 just no point not to you know what I'm saying, 0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:08.120 like if there's another black swinger group, like, how can 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:10.800 we not fucking connect? This is what this is and 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:13.440 that is the whole thing with us. So, like you said, 0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:16.040 rival is a trivial word because we're not all doing 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:19.879 the same thing. Every group is like geared towards something different. 0:20:19.880 --> 0:20:23.159 So there's really no rivalry. It's really not. It's just 0:20:23.280 --> 0:20:27.600 that they don't belong, you know, us, and we go 0:20:27.640 --> 0:20:30.000 over there. But you know what the white people do 0:20:30.040 --> 0:20:32.359 that ship. There's a bunch of white sex club, white 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:34.879 sex groups, lifestyle ship and they always be connected. They 0:20:35.000 --> 0:20:39.159 put niggas against each other. Anyway, let me get to 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:43.320 some really important ship are Black Sexcellence, which our We 0:20:43.359 --> 0:20:46.360 have two segments that got named by people that listen 0:20:46.400 --> 0:20:47.879 to the show. Horre Dirt for one was by I 0:20:47.920 --> 0:20:51.920 think La Tasha right okay or that episode and Black 0:20:51.960 --> 0:20:57.000 Sexcellence by Omari so Lori. Lightfoot is who we're covering today, 0:20:57.000 --> 0:21:00.159 a former prosecutor with no experience and elected off is. 0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:04.800 She has swept all fifty of Chicago's wards award in 0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:08.520 the two thousand nineteen mayor runoff election after promising to 0:21:08.600 --> 0:21:11.480 end the city's um back room dealing. She is the 0:21:11.520 --> 0:21:15.480 first ever black female mayor and the first ever lgbt 0:21:15.560 --> 0:21:20.920 Q plus mayor. Um. Yeah, I think that's dope people 0:21:20.920 --> 0:21:22.959 talk about Lorie. I ain't gonna lie. I barely know 0:21:23.000 --> 0:21:24.639 our mayor, so I'll just be trying to keep tracking 0:21:24.640 --> 0:21:27.000 where the funk I'm at. But I've definitely heard about 0:21:27.040 --> 0:21:30.320 Lorial politics. Huh. Apparently I'm bad with everything. Well, I 0:21:30.359 --> 0:21:31.920 know I've heard of Loria just because she's a black 0:21:31.920 --> 0:21:36.000 woman mayor. But thank you. I try to keep up, 0:21:36.040 --> 0:21:38.360 you know what I mean. Like I was talking on 0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:42.880 our show last week about Cuomo, and you heard about Cuomo, right, Yeah, 0:21:42.960 --> 0:21:45.680 with the sexual harassment with the nursing home ship. I 0:21:45.680 --> 0:21:47.960 think it was six thousand, three hundred people they said 0:21:47.960 --> 0:21:50.720 that died, and it was really fifteen thousand people in 0:21:50.840 --> 0:21:53.440 nursing homes had died. Um. They were like covering that up. 0:21:53.480 --> 0:21:56.320 But they're saying it was his aids and not him, 0:21:56.480 --> 0:21:59.560 and he had the kids that was not consented to 0:22:00.320 --> 0:22:03.720 that ship. Yeah. You know what happens is how we 0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:08.040 get involved. How I get involved in politics. Yeah, Like 0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:09.840 how I get involved in this is because like there's 0:22:09.840 --> 0:22:13.240 the intersectionality of how things relate to stuff like, for example, 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:15.960 I'm also a biopocket as member have a background in 0:22:15.960 --> 0:22:18.120 the adult film industry, you know what I mean? And 0:22:18.200 --> 0:22:23.399 like how certain things factor into things like legislation Sesster Forster, 0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:26.879 how that affects everybody. You know, that affects if you 0:22:27.000 --> 0:22:29.600 just think about um, if you just think about your 0:22:29.600 --> 0:22:33.080 social media. What we're trying to get across is whether 0:22:33.080 --> 0:22:35.760