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Speaker 1: Do you think opposites attract? It's a double show.

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Speaker 2: Well, relationship relationship experts just did a new study to

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Speaker 2: see if they do attract, and we'll go over it next.

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Speaker 1: It's the Jewel Show.

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Speaker 3: Do you think.

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Speaker 1: Do you think opposites tracked? What's going on there? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Can you hear me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I can hear you. Oh I can't hear myself from

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Speaker 1: my headphones. Oh there we go.

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Speaker 2: Okay, never mind. Do you think opposites attract? It's the

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Speaker 2: Jewel Show. It's a good question because relationship experts actually

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Speaker 2: did a survey to see if relationship if opposites really

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Speaker 2: do attract, And we'll go over it right now to

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Speaker 2: see if they do or don't actually attract.

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Speaker 3: They've been saying this stuff for years and making songs

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Speaker 3: about it. Did they find anything new? We'll go over

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Speaker 3: right now and you can see if opposites really do attract.

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Speaker 3: The idea that opposites attract, let's see new research suggests

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Speaker 3: that a lot of Americans think that it does, and

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Speaker 3: some of their relationships are living proof.

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Speaker 2: Some of the stats from it. According to a survey

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Speaker 2: two thousand coupled up US adults, nearly three quarters or

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Speaker 2: seventy three percent truly believe that opposite's attract But.

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Speaker 4: That I mean, like opposite does like you just do

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Speaker 4: different jobs or opposite that's in I.

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Speaker 1: Think it's personalities.

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Speaker 3: I think when you say it's like opposite, it's like

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Speaker 3: one person's outgoing, the other person's an introvert, or some

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Speaker 3: person likes to go out all the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a homebody.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's nice when there's balance because if you're

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Speaker 3: both the person that's funny, then you're fighting over who's gonna, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, be the funny one and tell the best joke.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Yeah, I think it's I think you

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Speaker 2: need to be opposite in certain things. I think if

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Speaker 2: you have every single thing in common, it probably it

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Speaker 2: is boring, kind of boring.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're just talking about the same thing over

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Speaker 4: and over, and you're going in circles.

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Speaker 2: Not like learning anything new about them either maybe or

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Speaker 2: the world or anything else.

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Speaker 3: But there was also another study in a different time

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Speaker 3: that it says that most people do want to date themselves.

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Speaker 3: Why But I don't know if they realize that that's

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Speaker 3: what they're looking for, but certain characteristics about themselves, probably

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Speaker 3: because it's comfortable. It's probably because it's what they I know.

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Speaker 1: I would hate to date myself.

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Speaker 4: I'm all over the place, I'm always late. I'm just

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Speaker 4: like I would hate that. I want someone has their

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Speaker 4: step together.

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Speaker 1: Well, I look at that deep reflection.

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Speaker 2: It says women are more likely to believe this than

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Speaker 2: men seventy four percent versus sixty nine percent. So most

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Speaker 2: women think that opposites do actually attract. Almost two thirds

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Speaker 2: sixty five percent believe that the opposites attract theory applies

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Speaker 2: to them and their partner.

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Speaker 3: Do men actually think about this though, Like, I don't

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Speaker 3: know that I've ever actually had this conversation with the guy.

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Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of them just know what

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Speaker 3: they feel in a moment. Well, the guys are like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: we're opposites. I don't have boobs and she does. Yeah, well, no,

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Speaker 3: that's deep most guys think. I don't know if most

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Speaker 3: guys think about it.

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Speaker 4: Do you think about it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think so, not Like I mean, I think I've

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Speaker 1: thought about it before, like in.

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Speaker 4: Your relationship to your past relationships, Yeah, would you say

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Speaker 4: you're more likely to date someone who's opposite from you.

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Speaker 1: Or who's more like you? Don't consider myself evil.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, a lot of us were opposite for you.

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Speaker 1: But uh no, I think I didn't think I thought

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Speaker 1: about it enough.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I think I, uh yeah, I don't think I

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Speaker 2: thought about it enough, because yeah, you do need people

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Speaker 2: who have, you know, kind of different interests and things

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 4: I feel like if you have someone who has different hobbies,

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Speaker 4: then you could also learn those hobbies, and it's like

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Speaker 4: you can learn more things Like if I hate playing

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Speaker 4: sports and going outside, but the guy I'm dating likes

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Speaker 4: going outside and playing sports, then I'm gonna either go

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Speaker 4: watch him on purpose or gonna start like to do

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Speaker 4: it matter.

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Speaker 1: I love sushi now thanks to a guy that I

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Speaker 1: dated once.

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Speaker 4: Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I refused to eat it.

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Speaker 3: I was really scared about eating anything raw, not just

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Speaker 3: because of the textures, because it was raw.

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Speaker 1: But that was years ago.

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Speaker 3: But now it's one of my favorite foods, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: you know what, you jerk, Thank you so much for

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Speaker 3: that time.

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Speaker 1: At least now I eat sushi.

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Speaker 2: A quarter of people take it one step further, saying

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Speaker 2: that their partner is the polar opposite of them. I

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Speaker 2: wonder if it's too opposite, If it'd be hard.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like that get on my nerves.

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Speaker 4: If you were too opposite, like the complete opposite for me,

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Speaker 4: that would get on my nerves.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you just would both have to be really good communicators,

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Speaker 1: because then you wouldn't want to do anything I want

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Speaker 1: to do.

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Speaker 4: If I want to go to a concert and also

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Speaker 4: want to go with me, you're not gonna go with

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Speaker 4: me if you don't let the music.

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Speaker 1: No, they might go with you, but they're not going

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Speaker 1: to enjoy it. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Sometimes people cannot like be into something and still

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Speaker 2: enjoy going, you know what I mean. Like I can

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Speaker 2: go to a concert with my girlfriend if she didn't

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Speaker 2: if I didn't like the person, I would be able

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Speaker 2: to watch them and still have a good time, ye

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Speaker 2: know what I mean. But some people can't do that,

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Speaker 2: Like some people would be sitting there and then be

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Speaker 2: like mad about it, you know.

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Speaker 1: Like I watched Sabrina Carboner. I'm not Sabrina Carpenter fan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, at allah, I watched Sabrina Carpenter at ACL you know,

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Speaker 2: to check it out. My girlfriend likes her. Victorio's all

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Speaker 2: lumped up to see her, so I was like, I'll

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Speaker 2: check it out. And I enjoyed watching it, you know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like, so you can still, but some people won't.

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Speaker 2: Some people will ruin the other person's time because they

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Speaker 2: don't want to be there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I did turn around and Jubil was smiling. Yeah, a

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Speaker 1: decent show.

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Speaker 3: You know, putting in a good mood inspired you to

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Speaker 3: save people in the crowd. I mean that was impressive.

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Speaker 2: It turns out introverts tend to prefer extroverts. I could

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Speaker 2: see that, yeah, because you know, if you're an introvert,

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Speaker 2: like sometimes I don't want to talk, you know, I

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Speaker 2: tend to be I like talking to people. But if

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Speaker 2: I'm out and I don't feel like talking and I'm

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Speaker 2: with someone who is very talkative, It's like cool, they

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Speaker 2: can take the bullet.

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Speaker 1: And go talk to me right now. I can just

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Speaker 1: be quiet. Yeah, you can sit and smile.

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Speaker 4: But with that, what do you do if all you want,

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Speaker 4: like you want to stay home and relax, but then

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Speaker 4: this person all they want to do is go out

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Speaker 4: all the time.

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Speaker 1: Then you have a little better of you time.

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Speaker 3: But like, is that not going to bother you? Because

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Speaker 3: then you're gonna have to go out with them. You

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Speaker 3: don't have to be with the person you're dating twenty

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Speaker 3: four to seven.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I can't imagine.

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Speaker 3: Probably better if they live their own life also, so

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Speaker 3: then when you're together it's quality, you know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, only twenty two percent of people think it's important

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Speaker 2: to have similar desires in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: I think you do have to be compatible. I think

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Speaker 1: that's an important place to like the same things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but only twenty percent of people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I know a lot of women who actually just kind

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Speaker 3: of go with it because everything else is okay, what

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Speaker 3: all the other boxes, And they're like, whatever, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: let this go. This part isn't that great or whatever,

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Speaker 3: but I'm just deal with it. Yes, and the problem

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Speaker 3: gets bad, it gets bigger. I mean, it's not everything

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Speaker 3: by any means, but it is just it's a way

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Speaker 3: to connect.

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Speaker 1: Do they still stay Are they still with the people?

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Speaker 1: They're still with the people? They sleep in different rooms?

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Speaker 3: Wait what because they decided to put an emphasis on

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Speaker 3: their sleep more so than their physical connection.

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Speaker 1: In other words, she's like during the day, yes, at night,

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Speaker 1: Hick