Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous La La Kent with my Ride and Die
Speaker 1: Jessica Walter, Hello everyone, Love a good sing song and
Speaker 1: true Hello, true and true.
Speaker 2: Love a good sing song and true as well.
Speaker 1: I can't I am over the moon today. Why we
Speaker 1: have Sophia Franklin on the podcast, Oh my God, so
Speaker 1: Fia with an.
Speaker 2: F Oh my god.
Speaker 1: And I think people are going to be so excited
Speaker 1: because for a long time I have had people reach
Speaker 1: out being like, please get her on the podcast. We
Speaker 1: want to see your guys's dynamic. And she's coming to
Speaker 1: La and we're making it happen.
Speaker 2: Really exciting, and she's been I've heard she doesn't hold back.
Speaker 3: I love that, just like you kind of.
Speaker 1: You want to know something what I feel like. I
Speaker 1: hold back a little more than I used to. Oh
Speaker 1: yeah and yeah, And I don't know why, but there's
Speaker 1: something about me now where there are times where you
Speaker 1: know someone will be talking to me and saying something
Speaker 1: I don't like, and I take a beat. Jess she
Speaker 1: takes a beat, never taking a damn beat ever in
Speaker 1: my life. Yeah, And suddenly this year is all about
Speaker 1: the beats, all about the beats.
Speaker 2: Why do you think you take that beat? Now versus
Speaker 2: back then.
Speaker 1: I think because of Ocean. Yeah, yeah, I think she's
Speaker 1: softened me up quite a bit. Even this season. I've
Speaker 1: been you know, when people would come for me, you know,
Speaker 1: because they love to hold me to my past. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I res of the right to evolve. Yes, we
Speaker 1: all should.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So when you're when I'm sitting there with a group
Speaker 1: of my friends and they want to talk to me
Speaker 1: about what I did five years ago, you lost me yawning,
Speaker 1: I'm yawning, sleeping, like, let's why are we going there?
Speaker 1: And then I think is my rebuttal going to change
Speaker 1: their mind? Probably not. So why waste my breath and
Speaker 1: your energy and my energy? Yeah, I have so many
Speaker 1: other things that are less boring, yeah, to be doing.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we had we had the reunion.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Okay, you had the reunion.
Speaker 1: We had the reunion.
Speaker 2: How are you feeling about that? The vander Pump Rules
Speaker 2: reunion season nine?
Speaker 1: You know, it was a strange feeling for me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna spill some tea, let's hear it. I I
Speaker 1: finished the reunion. We're all wrapped up and good. And
Speaker 1: I didn't hear from one person on my cast, except
Speaker 1: for Raquel to say, hope you're doing okay? Right, That
Speaker 1: was very telling for me. For me, that was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, maybe things that you thought about. And
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that this group of my friends are
Speaker 1: bad people in any way. Just because I'm going through
Speaker 1: something doesn't mean the world stops. However, example, Tom Sandoval
Speaker 1: will post something about his Men's makeup line, and if
Speaker 1: I think the photo is fantastic that he posts, I
Speaker 1: sent him a text. I think it's important for people
Speaker 1: to know when you think something's cool or good. I
Speaker 1: think it's important for you to share, like, hey, I
Speaker 1: really liked that. I think you looked great. I think
Speaker 1: you did a great job. Yeah, the fact that you
Speaker 1: know my life has been turned upside down and maybe
Speaker 1: they don't know the ins and outs of it, but
Speaker 1: I was visibly upset on the reunion, okay, And for
Speaker 1: not one of them except for my little Bambi, to
Speaker 1: reach out and be like, just want to say I'm
Speaker 1: sorry for what you're going through, right, was like I said,
Speaker 1: eye opening.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So, without giving too much away about what you talked
Speaker 2: about on the reunion things, is it safe to say
Speaker 2: things got emotional? And your cast members. It's not like
Speaker 2: they saw you and maybe everything seemed fine. Maybe things
Speaker 2: got emotional and you were hoping or even expecting some
Speaker 2: of your friends right to reach out to you, and
Speaker 2: that didn't happen.
Speaker 1: It didn't happen. And I want to sit here and
Speaker 1: say I'm okay with that. I'm obviously not okay with that.
Speaker 1: If the roles were reversed, I probably would have reached
Speaker 1: out and said, hey, how you doing. Yeah, just like
Speaker 1: I did too James. After the reunion, I checked in,
Speaker 1: you know, and for Raquel and James to be going
Speaker 1: through something pretty life altering as well, for Raquel to
Speaker 1: reach out and send like the sweetest text message in
Speaker 1: the world was like, meant everything to me. And you know,
Speaker 1: I've been on this show for six years. I've changed
Speaker 1: a lot as a person. No one can tell me otherwise.
Speaker 1: You can sit here and talk about what I do
Speaker 1: wrong all day long. I look in the mirror. I'm
Speaker 1: very self aware. There's not anyone on the planet who
Speaker 1: can tell me that I'm not. So when I think
Speaker 1: back on my time, I love it. It was the ultimate.
Speaker 1: It's been the ultimate mirror for me. But after that
Speaker 1: reunion you know, I sat back and thought, is this
Speaker 1: the space for me anymore? Or do we need to
Speaker 1: do some soul searching? And who knows, may not even
Speaker 1: be another season that comes out of this. Let's just
Speaker 1: say tomorrow they call and they say we've been picked up.
Speaker 1: I would take a big pause because I don't know
Speaker 1: if that's the space for me anymore.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Okay, Yeah, that's which is pretty huge for
Speaker 2: you to say. That's been so much of your life.
Speaker 1: It has been, Yeah, but during the one of the
Speaker 1: darkest times I've been in the darkest time I've been
Speaker 1: in since my dad passed away, for my friends to
Speaker 1: not check in on me was like taking a fucking bullet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, painful, I'm sure you know, yeah, And I'm sure
Speaker 2: that's hard not to put words into your mouth, But
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking of my own experiences and I haven't
Speaker 2: even gone through anything as close to what you're going through.
Speaker 2: But you're vulnerable, and that's hard in itself.
Speaker 1: You're vulnerable.
Speaker 2: You're speaking what you went through and you're showing look
Speaker 2: at this, my heart is like I'm literally holding it
Speaker 2: in front of you. And then to not maybe get
Speaker 2: the support or words that you were hoping it's I'm
Speaker 2: sure it can be.
Speaker 1: It'd be painful for anyone. Yeah, when you're looking at
Speaker 1: a group of people who you think are your friends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you're sitting here completely humbled by a situation, you know,
Speaker 1: just another life experience for me to grow from, to
Speaker 1: gain strength from. But really, I'm in a space where
Speaker 1: I feel I can be my most vulnerable and that's
Speaker 1: the reaction. And some of them wonder why I come
Speaker 1: in guns blazing. Well, there you go, because look at
Speaker 1: your reaction in my darkest time. It's not safe. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not babied.
Speaker 2: Mm hm.
Speaker 1: So it was weird. I left. I left that reunion
Speaker 1: feeling not much resolve. I left feeling a bit alone
Speaker 1: and isolated, and just extremely thankful for you, for my mom,
Speaker 1: for Ocean, you know, like it really brought me back
Speaker 1: to what I feel is important, what I want out
Speaker 1: of life. Yeah, and I'll be forever grateful for vander
Speaker 1: Pump Rules, and I'll be forever grateful that we got
Speaker 1: to come back after a really crazy year of not
Speaker 1: knowing what was going to happen. I'm excited for people
Speaker 1: to see the reunion. I don't know how it really
Speaker 1: turned out. I mean I kind of felt like I
Speaker 1: was in a fog the whole time, right, But who knows. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess we'll see the universe back to the universe.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let it do its thing. Let it
Speaker 1: do its thing. It has never let me down.
Speaker 2: That's and that's huge. That's huge, especially now in moments
Speaker 2: where you're like, you be like, why did this happen?
Speaker 2: Why did that happen? I truly believe that it might
Speaker 2: be a month from now, it might be a year
Speaker 2: from now, it might be ten years from now. You'll
Speaker 2: look back at certain things that happened right now and
Speaker 2: you'll be like, oh my god, a wild that is
Speaker 2: why this happened. This led me to this, which led
Speaker 2: me to that. And I think that's great. It's great
Speaker 2: to have faith in the universe, whatever you believe, if
Speaker 2: you have a higher power, if not, it's just great
Speaker 2: to have that feeling of some sort of guidance.
Speaker 1: I love that word guidance, your guidance. Yeah, and not
Speaker 1: like not. People can only do so much for you
Speaker 1: as far as being an emotional support. You know, at
Speaker 1: some point you have to like draw the line and
Speaker 1: be like this needs to go into the hands of
Speaker 1: something much greater than all of us, right, and something
Speaker 1: that's not going to talk back, that's just going to
Speaker 1: do its thing, you know, right right, That's where I'm at.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think that, you know, I'm sorry you
Speaker 2: did feel that way during the reunion, but I'm interested
Speaker 2: to see it. You know, I don't. I didn't get
Speaker 2: to see it, so I'm interested to see it and
Speaker 2: sort of see what you're referring to and.
Speaker 1: See not quite some time before it airs. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I didn't. I don't even know what episode of
Speaker 1: vander Pump aired last night, because we got all of
Speaker 1: the episodes right so that we could be prepared for
Speaker 1: the reunion. So I to me, it's like season's done right.
Speaker 2: Well. On a positive note, you've said great things about
Speaker 2: all the episodes you've seen, I know. The only negative
Speaker 2: note is you're like, some things I said didn't age
Speaker 2: so well. But it sounds like the rest of the
Speaker 2: episodes are pretty pretty great.
Speaker 1: You know, taking out all the things that didn't age well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought the season was great, great. Yeah, I'm excited
Speaker 1: to see the rest. I think people will enjoy it good.
Speaker 1: You know, it did look different, but we did the
Speaker 1: damn thing. M m yeah, and for that, I think
Speaker 1: we should all be very proud good you know.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I felt soft this season and really you're not soft.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, motherfucker, I am soft. You watched me
Speaker 1: from this season? Yeah, compared to other seasons, it's like
Speaker 1: night and day. That's why it's like, don't tell me
Speaker 1: that there's no change. I'm watching it in front of me, right.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: One not to bring up a past episode, but one
Speaker 2: thing I noticed where I'm gonna agree with you there
Speaker 2: is because I've seen past seasons of you when you
Speaker 2: were you guns blazon, oh way falls to the wall.
Speaker 2: I the one moment where I'm like, oh, damn, she's
Speaker 2: really changed is when you were at I forget whose
Speaker 2: party it was, but it was one of the first
Speaker 2: episodes and you said it was at night. I think
Speaker 2: you had just gotten into a little thing with Arianna
Speaker 2: and you said.
Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 2: I've got a baby at home, I'm out, and you're
Speaker 2: just like, bye.
Speaker 1: Let me spill some tea on that real quick, hear it? Okay,
Speaker 1: So well, cameras didn't catch this. When I said that,
Speaker 1: Sandoval goes and there it is, wait meaning what like that?
Speaker 1: They probably knew, like Lala's gonna bring up the baby
Speaker 1: car that she's now a mom. And you know what,
Speaker 1: anyone who says baby doesn't change you, A baby changes you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the second dive little babe comes out of your body,
Speaker 1: you are a different person. I wear that with pride.
Speaker 1: No one's going to take that away from me. Cut too.
Speaker 1: We go to Palm Springs. Sandoval comes over to me.
Speaker 1: I kid, you not looked him dead in his eyes?
Speaker 1: I said, Sandoval, if you ever give that reaction to
Speaker 1: me when I talk about my kid, I am a
Speaker 1: mama bear and I will put my paws on you.
Speaker 1: And he said, well, let's make a deal. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: there will be no deal made on my child. You
Speaker 1: give a reaction like that again referencing to my child,
Speaker 1: I will put my paws on you. I'm a mama bear.
Speaker 1: Let's not do that again.
Speaker 3: I know, Oh my god, you.
Speaker 1: Are right now. It's just making my blood boil.
Speaker 4: See.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: That's such a protecting. I love that. I love when
Speaker 2: I see parents and partners that are protective. I love
Speaker 2: mama bears because women don't mess with.
Speaker 1: That is my cub. I am a lion ass. I
Speaker 1: will fuck your shit up when it comes to my
Speaker 1: little ocean. I don't play it when it comes to her.
Speaker 1: I have fallen back a lot. I have made a
Speaker 1: lot of changes. Yeah, you come for my cub. It's
Speaker 1: feeding time, feeding time.
Speaker 3: I love that. I love that.
Speaker 1: Well, on that not on that note.
Speaker 2: On that note, we have had some amazing people call in,
Speaker 2: okay and leave some voicemails. Are you interested and responding
Speaker 2: to some?
Speaker 1: I'm always interested, and we are going to start doing
Speaker 1: the voicemails the first segment every single episode because I
Speaker 1: love the voicemails. That's the whole reason why we do
Speaker 1: the podcast.
Speaker 5: Again.
Speaker 1: You guys can call in at one eight sixty six,
Speaker 1: La La pod. Let's get the voicemails a rolling. Here
Speaker 1: we go, Hey.
Speaker 4: La La, my name is Haley Mellow and Jacksonville, Florida.
Speaker 4: I was just calling to ask you, if on your podcast,
Speaker 4: if you would like to give the listeners maybe some
Speaker 4: tips on self care, how to show yourself love, how
Speaker 4: you have made it through such a hard time in
Speaker 4: the public eye, what you do to take care of yourself.
Speaker 4: Do you meditate, do you do yoga? Do you, what
Speaker 4: do you do to make yourself happy? And how do
Speaker 4: you take care of your mental health? Let us know
Speaker 4: I'm a big fan. I've always watched vanderpupp Roles at
Speaker 4: the very beginning. So I will talk to youesday.
Speaker 1: I love this voicemail. Okay, so I think the first
Speaker 1: thing I don't want to say I used to be
Speaker 1: big on working out. I'm still big on working out.
Speaker 1: I've had a lot on my mind. Again, when Ocean
Speaker 1: was in the belly, I was advised to stay in
Speaker 1: the bed, don't work out. She was struggling, So I
Speaker 1: didn't get to work out during my pregnancy, but working
Speaker 1: out did does wonders for my mind. The body that
Speaker 1: comes along with it. I'm gonna be honest, like, yes,
Speaker 1: when I work out, I like my body better, but
Speaker 1: my diet doesn't really balance it out as well, you know,
Speaker 1: like yeah, as much as I was working out with
Speaker 1: my trainer, like I should have had a six pack,
Speaker 1: but Mama loves her like Dorito's. So the body was
Speaker 1: the bonus, but the mind was like, That's why I
Speaker 1: work out right now. I will say I cannot live
Speaker 1: without my baths. Oh the bath time where I leave
Speaker 1: my phone. I put in my little CBD bath salts
Speaker 1: from Tamra Judge's Life. This is the best shit ever
Speaker 1: Venna and Venna Yes so good. Yeah, by the way,
Speaker 1: I swear by it. Yeah, I posted about it. Yeah
Speaker 1: you did. And then right now I'm really into mindless television,
Speaker 1: which I shouldn't call it mindless, friends, It's mindless for
Speaker 1: me because I've seen it so many times that I
Speaker 1: could literally like close my eyes and know exactly the
Speaker 1: scene that's happening, or I could plug my ears and
Speaker 1: I would know what they were saying, like I just know,
Speaker 1: you know, ye, I put on my Venna cream that
Speaker 1: makes you feel all tingly and yummy. Oh and I
Speaker 1: just veg out and watch that show and my mind
Speaker 1: is very very clear. I do want to get on
Speaker 1: that yoga game though.
Speaker 2: Ooh yoga, So would you do?
Speaker 1: On that note? Would you do?
Speaker 2: And I don't know if the listener who called in
Speaker 2: Hayley does hot yoga? Have you ever done hot yoga?
Speaker 1: I did hot yoga once, you guys, and I literally
Speaker 1: passed out. Really, it's too hot in there, so hot,
Speaker 1: you get too hot. I can't do that, Jess. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when my body overheats like that. It's like timber, we're
Speaker 1: going down, you know, like, no, I cannot do that.
Speaker 1: Regular old yoga is good for me.
Speaker 2: I love that. Okay, Well that also I think.
Speaker 1: That people need to be like either having sex or masturbating.
Speaker 1: Oh there, you know everyone is the care. Yes. I
Speaker 1: love that you say that because it's like ooh masturbating
Speaker 1: and it's like no, No, self care is important. Yes,
Speaker 1: let's talk about the cookie, what it needs and what
Speaker 1: it does for us. Yeah, it's rub a dub dub
Speaker 1: two fingers in the tub.
Speaker 3: It's so important.
Speaker 2: It's so funny when I still see like magazines are
Speaker 2: online things referring to it as like you can be naughty.
Speaker 3: Why is that naughty? You're taking care of your body.
Speaker 1: It's not naughty and you're mine. I agree, I fully agree.
Speaker 1: Self care we're changing it, We're changing the game.
Speaker 2: Yes, take care of the vaginas and the penises, all
Speaker 2: of it, all of it.
Speaker 4: Love that.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: So next voicemail, Hi, La La.
Speaker 5: It's Brittney from Canada.
Speaker 1: I just got your book.
Speaker 5: And finished it and I was loving being able to
Speaker 5: get a in touch look of your life before vander
Speaker 5: Pump rules I'm just wondering if you can answer my
Speaker 5: question about how being a mom has changed you for
Speaker 5: the better and things that you didn't expect from having oceans.
Speaker 5: I look forward to you answering my question on the podcast.
Speaker 5: I listen every Wednesday. Thanks so much, Bye.
Speaker 1: I love her. Thank you for listening every Wednesday. And
Speaker 1: I'm so excited that I get to answer this question
Speaker 1: becoming a mom without sobbing my eyes out. The way
Speaker 1: that it changed me. It's like the hardest thing to
Speaker 1: explain how that little human changed me. I just in
Speaker 1: that moment, I feel like I became I became a woman.
Speaker 1: In that moment, I realized everything that was important. She
Speaker 1: just made me a better human being. It was more sensitive,
Speaker 1: My approach to life in different situations was completely different.
Speaker 1: Even though like I'm in this mess of whatever you
Speaker 1: want to call it. She brought back a hope into
Speaker 1: my life, an innocence. You know. I used to walk
Speaker 1: around and I was into like, oh, showing the body
Speaker 1: off and just acting this certain way and talking about
Speaker 1: the cookie and how we're to the pussy. And I
Speaker 1: still believe all of those things. But she made me
Speaker 1: realize that, like I have to create an environment for
Speaker 1: her that is safe and productive and all of these
Speaker 1: things that I used to do in my past. It
Speaker 1: was like, okay, like great, you were young. You didn't
Speaker 1: get it. When I see her face, I have to
Speaker 1: protect her at all costs. I see the beauty in
Speaker 1: the world, but I see the ugliness and I'll do
Speaker 1: anything I possibly can't protect her from that. That's what changed,
Speaker 1: you know. I see, like maybe, for example, like music
Speaker 1: videos that I may have looked at back in the
Speaker 1: day and been like, yes, bitch, that's amazing. I'm now like,
Speaker 1: why is this on the television? I have a little girl,
Speaker 1: and I don't want her seeing things like this.
Speaker 2: Yeah you know, Yeah, I don't know yet, but I'm
Speaker 2: sure I will. I see you, No, I see you
Speaker 2: be Mama bear in just the moments I'm around you,
Speaker 2: and it's beautiful. And she's not even a year. Can
Speaker 2: you imagine when she's like walking and talking. I can't
Speaker 2: even it's.
Speaker 1: Gonna be the most beautiful thing. It's amazing just to
Speaker 1: watch her change and like what she's noticing. And now
Speaker 1: you know, I see her watching me when I talk.
Speaker 1: I told my mom the cussing has to end. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like, I'll be damned if my little girl
Speaker 1: here's those words. Yeah, and you know, I just I'm
Speaker 1: very protective of her environment now. I don't want any
Speaker 1: ugliness up in here. I don't want anything that is
Speaker 1: gross or nasty. Yeah, keep it outside. So that's beautiful,
Speaker 1: Thank you. I love that. On that sad but sweet
Speaker 1: and loving little note, We're gonna bring out the most
Speaker 1: unfiltered bitch in the world when we get When we
Speaker 1: come back, we have Sophia Franklin. Sophia's an f and
Speaker 1: she's about to give us Sofia. I can't wait. We'll
Speaker 1: be right back. What's up, my loves. We are back,
Speaker 1: and I have a guess that I've been like dying
Speaker 1: to have on Sofia with a motherfucking f.
Speaker 3: Hi guys, I'm here.
Speaker 1: I wanted to get you on the podcast. You live
Speaker 1: in New York.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm what Let me rephrase that. I'm living in
Speaker 3: Utah right now, moving back to New York in the
Speaker 3: next few months.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're back in Utah.
Speaker 3: M hmm.
Speaker 1: How is it?
Speaker 3: Well, you know, you know how fucking Utah is. It's
Speaker 3: I'm living in my mom's basement. Okay, not that fun
Speaker 3: sounds safe though it's safe. It's safe for sure, but
Speaker 3: it's fucking.
Speaker 1: Utah, right, And once you've had like La or New York,
Speaker 1: it's hard to go back to that like small city.
Speaker 1: Where did you grow up in Utah?
Speaker 3: I grew up in Salt Lake City, Draper?
Speaker 1: Okay do you know?
Speaker 3: Draper?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Totally.
Speaker 3: Can I tell you something just right off the bat
Speaker 3: and die laughing?
Speaker 1: Tell me so.
Speaker 3: I was texting one of my really good guy friends,
Speaker 3: like a sexual question, like, oh, like, do you like
Speaker 3: is your favorite sex position doggie or like blah blah blaha.
Speaker 3: For my show, I talk about those things and I
Speaker 3: like to ask straight mail, you know, to get their
Speaker 3: perspective right. And he's like on a trip with these
Speaker 3: other dudes and he's texting me back all these answers
Speaker 3: and he's like, well, my friends say their favorite position
Speaker 3: is when a girl's on her back, and like the
Speaker 3: dude is standing on the edge of the bed.
Speaker 1: Fucking her hat.
Speaker 3: Your little brother was one of the friends answering the questions.
Speaker 1: Wait, who was the dude you were texting.
Speaker 3: His name's Landon, Landon.
Speaker 1: He was here where we are right now?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: Yes, they're on a road trip.
Speaker 3: So but like it's too crazy, it's too crazy.
Speaker 1: Oh oh my god, I know.
Speaker 3: So he's like saying, oh, my friends like like, you know,
Speaker 3: fucking a girl like this, blah blah blah. And then Alex,
Speaker 3: my cousin tells me, oh, that's La La Kent's little brother,
Speaker 3: answering those.
Speaker 1: Oh, so your brother likes it.
Speaker 3: He likes to hit it from the back girls, my
Speaker 3: lovely what I love it?
Speaker 1: Uh huh, you're fun. You're an open bug. I am
Speaker 1: tell me everything. Well, I mean, my family's very open,
Speaker 1: so I had I knew kind of what this sounds.
Speaker 1: So Strange's fine, we talk about sex and the family
Speaker 1: like whatever, okay, but not like this, no, like this.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I think he's told me like that's
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, great, okay, perfects good because for some.
Speaker 3: People they'd be like, I don't want to fucking hear that.
Speaker 3: But it's just so funny.
Speaker 1: It's just sex though.
Speaker 3: Sex.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like not a big deal, right, not at all.
Speaker 3: My family is very open too. But I mean us coming.
Speaker 1: From Utah, were you born and raised Mormon?
Speaker 3: So oh a little bit. My mom very heavily raised Mormon,
Speaker 3: but then she threw me in private Catholic school, so.
Speaker 1: So she was like traumatized by Mormons.
Speaker 3: No, I think she just thought it would be a
Speaker 3: better education quotation marks. It's not, by the way, like
Speaker 3: public school would have been.
Speaker 1: Where'd you go to school? San Diego, Wan Diego? I
Speaker 1: remember the good JD.
Speaker 3: They had some wild parties. I know, it was all
Speaker 3: party people.
Speaker 1: It was all party people.
Speaker 3: That's why I have a problem now really, I mean
Speaker 3: not really, but like that's probably like where it started.
Speaker 1: It was all of the private schools that had the
Speaker 1: most partying because you threw a bunch of like people
Speaker 1: that came from money into one school and it was like,
Speaker 1: let's get it poppen.
Speaker 3: And it was the counter culture because public schools it
Speaker 3: was mostly Mormon kids, right, and then you take all
Speaker 3: the non Mormon kids and throw them into high school.
Speaker 3: So it's you know, radiacts like the movie.
Speaker 1: So then when did you decide Utah is not my thing?
Speaker 1: I'm headed to New York.
Speaker 3: I had a really bad breakup with my boyfriend at
Speaker 3: the time. Okay, I'd always wanted to move to New
Speaker 3: York because I have like family there, and I mean
Speaker 3: a lot of people do right, right, and so the
Speaker 3: breakup was really fucking bad. And I just I was
Speaker 3: twenty four, twenty five, and my mom said, if you're
Speaker 3: ever gonna move out of Utah, now's the time, okay,
Speaker 3: because in a few years you're going to be married
Speaker 3: or have kids and then you're not leaving, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean? Right, So within two weeks I packed
Speaker 3: up my shit and moved to New York.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. It was insane and you just like
Speaker 1: packed a bag. Did you have a place to stay?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 3: I stayed with my aunt a little bit. She's a
Speaker 3: very interesting person. So I immediately was finding a new
Speaker 3: fucking place because I was like, I need to get
Speaker 3: the fuck out of this apartment. And I found a
Speaker 3: studio apartment. I lived there by myself. It was horrifying.
Speaker 3: It was a really really hard time in my life.
Speaker 1: I knew no one in New York.
Speaker 3: I'm sleeping on a mattress in the floor, like on
Speaker 3: the floor.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And then and then over time, you know, things got
Speaker 3: really good.
Speaker 1: I love it. So when did you always want to
Speaker 1: be in the entertainment world? Like, what was your plan
Speaker 1: when you got to New York?
Speaker 3: I had no intention of working in entertainment ever.
Speaker 5: Ever.
Speaker 3: Ever.
Speaker 1: I worked in a finance firm.
Speaker 3: I majored in economics, and I fucking hated it. But
Speaker 3: everyone told me, you're not gonna make money doing something
Speaker 3: in entertainment or like English or anything like that, So
Speaker 3: do something like economics. Worked in finance. When I went
Speaker 3: to New York, I worked in finance, and then obviously
Speaker 3: shit changed. Yeah, I met a girl, we moved in together.
Speaker 3: We thought we were really fucking funny together. We started
Speaker 3: a show, it got really big, and.
Speaker 5: That was that.
Speaker 3: No, I'm in the fucking entertainment industry.
Speaker 1: That's got to be so strange. I always look at
Speaker 1: people who I have a friend who she is from Kentucky,
Speaker 1: wanted nothing to do with entertainment, moved to LA for
Speaker 1: a dude. Then she's just on vander Pump Rules, and
Speaker 1: suddenly entertainment is her life. That's it's so insane because
Speaker 1: it's not like you you go from like where you were,
Speaker 1: and then all of the sudden, people know who you are.
Speaker 1: They want to judge every word that you're saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's got to be intense.
Speaker 3: It's very very intense. I mean, it's still intense, you know,
Speaker 3: you know, I do know, so I you know what
Speaker 3: I think for anyone listening who maybe wants to get
Speaker 3: into entertainment or like switch up their careers, you got
Speaker 3: to kind of move to the states that will help that,
Speaker 3: you know, right, Like if you live in Utah or
Speaker 3: Kansas or something like that, you gotta go to La
Speaker 3: New York like.
Speaker 1: Something, right, Well, because I lived in Utah and would
Speaker 1: want it to be an entertainment and I had like
Speaker 1: this little agency, and I think like the biggest job
Speaker 1: that would have been the most lucrative was like a
Speaker 1: Ken Garf commercial that but reading a teleprompter is not
Speaker 1: my thing. And that's where I lost to them, And
Speaker 1: they were like, I think we're going to go a
Speaker 1: different direction.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so okay, so were you planing on working in entertainment.
Speaker 1: My whole life, my entire life, my entire life. I
Speaker 1: was like, I want to be an actress. I was
Speaker 1: in all the plays, I was in choir. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like.
Speaker 3: You were confident as fuck then, like from when you
Speaker 3: were little.
Speaker 1: I don't know that I was confident, but I did
Speaker 1: know what I wanted. And I remember my high school
Speaker 1: counselor would be like, you need to take the SAT.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm moving to Hollywood. I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: fucking famous. And she was like, okay, A very small
Speaker 1: percentage of people have that happen to them, and I
Speaker 1: was like, well, I'm going to be one of them.
Speaker 3: That is one of the funniest fucking things I've ever heard.
Speaker 3: She's probably like, look at you now, shit.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'm sure she thought I was going
Speaker 1: to be winning Oscars and not on the Gossip blog,
Speaker 1: but tomato, tomato, fuck it.
Speaker 3: You know what? Still, I mean, the money you're making
Speaker 3: compared to what she wanted you to be doing, yeah,
Speaker 3: speaks for itself.
Speaker 1: She was concerned about my math score test, and I
Speaker 1: told her the only thing I need to do is
Speaker 1: count my money. If I can count my money, we'll
Speaker 1: be fine.
Speaker 3: That I'm writing that down and I'm using it in
Speaker 3: my own podcast. Don't be mad, because I.
Speaker 1: Won't be mad ever do it.
Speaker 3: I just need to know math to count my fucking money.
Speaker 1: That's it. And then you'll just pay someone to do
Speaker 1: the rest, someone that's well, you went to college, so
Speaker 1: you're a smart, hot bitch.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm still not doing it though, and I
Speaker 3: don't remember it, so it's nice the time.
Speaker 1: You're too busy being a boss bitch and doing your show.
Speaker 1: Thank you. So I have to be honest. I'm not
Speaker 1: well aware of the other show. You did call her daddy.
Speaker 1: The only reason I knew about it was because we
Speaker 1: don't be offended. We talked shit, So I don't even
Speaker 1: know what you said. However, I do know that you
Speaker 1: spoke about out Randall giving a girl in Utah a
Speaker 1: range Rover. He then took that range Rover away from
Speaker 1: her and gave it to me. Yes, and why that
Speaker 1: wasn't a red flag for me, I'll never know. In
Speaker 1: that moment, I demanded that we get rid of the
Speaker 1: range Rover. Is done. I need a new car. I
Speaker 1: got the g Wagon, ditched the g Wagon. But I
Speaker 1: did do that because that's I.
Speaker 3: Mean, the fact that you didn't see that as a
Speaker 3: red flag is you know something, But the fact that
Speaker 3: you fucking upgraded is pre boss.
Speaker 1: And how did you know, Like where would you get
Speaker 1: all of your tea from?
Speaker 3: So there, I mean, it was just kind of a
Speaker 3: rumor in like this circle of people in Utah that
Speaker 3: I don't really hang out with, and that's how I
Speaker 3: heard it, and the fact that I said it on
Speaker 3: the show. I thought it was just kind of funny.
Speaker 3: Right looking back, it was probably hurtful to you.
Speaker 1: I mean, Randall.
Speaker 3: Actually messaged someone like in that group saying I'm a suit.
Speaker 3: Oh no, he messaged me. Oh he messaged me and
Speaker 3: he said he was gonna sue me. So that was fun.
Speaker 1: And did you tell him our attorneys are to get
Speaker 1: us out of everything everything?
Speaker 3: Holy shit, I fucking wish I did. I should have guys,
Speaker 3: By the way, our attorney will get us out of
Speaker 3: everything is like my slogan, my merch, my lifestyle.
Speaker 1: So I spoke about it because your merch is the
Speaker 1: best merch I've ever seen. Thank you. And the fact
Speaker 1: that you posted the police report of them saying that
Speaker 1: Sophia replied our attorneys will get us out of everything.
Speaker 3: I think I need to explain to people. So I
Speaker 3: got arrested multiple times, but this time that I got arrested,
Speaker 3: they handcuffed me. I was obviously belligerent. I did a
Speaker 3: lot of crazy shit, and when the attorneys were taking
Speaker 3: me to jail, I was screaming at the top of
Speaker 3: my lungs, and I was like, our attorney will get
Speaker 3: us out of everything, because I was with my friend, yeah,
Speaker 3: and I was like, just just so you fucking know,
Speaker 3: like that's what's going on.
Speaker 1: So were you who you are now?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: When I got arrested, when you said our attorneys will
Speaker 1: get us out of everything, I was fuck.
Speaker 3: I was like seventeen. I didn't even know what an
Speaker 3: attorney was.
Speaker 1: I saw that shit on Law and Order, like an
Speaker 1: episode makes me even better, right.
Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm going to use it. He
Speaker 3: didn't believe me obviously, but like now now my attorney
Speaker 3: now will get me out of everything.
Speaker 1: I know that, right. Oh, I bet your attorney has
Speaker 1: his hands full.
Speaker 3: He hates me. He hates me, he really does. And
Speaker 3: he has clients that are way bigger than me, right,
Speaker 3: and so he's like, why like why are you my client?
Speaker 3: Like I gotta go talk to like this person. I mean,
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna name drop, but I'm I'm at like
Speaker 3: the bottom feeder out of his client.
Speaker 1: But you and me both okay, But he still take
Speaker 1: my lawyer takes my calls, which is nice.
Speaker 3: That's you know, I sometimes get my calls answered. That's
Speaker 3: not even a joke. Like half like half the time.
Speaker 1: So back to the range rover. Yep, he threatens. Randall
Speaker 1: threatens you via DM Yeah, yeah, something like that. I
Speaker 1: can't okay, And how did you this group of people?
Speaker 1: How did you know? How did you know them? They
Speaker 1: just reached out to you.
Speaker 3: Well, Angie who had the range drover? She is from
Speaker 3: Utah with the blonde hair. Yes, I think I did
Speaker 3: a modeling job with her once, like years ago. Did
Speaker 3: you know that Randall and her had a thing?
Speaker 1: I The reason I knew that was because he was
Speaker 1: messing around on his ex wife with her and she
Speaker 1: DMed his wife about it.
Speaker 3: Red flag number two. I'm just gonna say.
Speaker 1: That, Yeah, I know, Can I know? Can I tell
Speaker 1: you this? In my mind, I was like, no one's
Speaker 1: past is squeaky clean, and maybe he would maybe like
Speaker 1: I was the person that he fell for, and it
Speaker 1: was like things aren't cookie cutter, and that's that's where
Speaker 1: my head was.
Speaker 3: You know what, That is very very true, And I'm
Speaker 3: glad you pointed that out because I have cheated on
Speaker 3: every single boyfriend until this one, and I never.
Speaker 1: Would right like, sometimes something changes and for me it
Speaker 1: was like it was in the past and I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that I wasn't upset about all of these things.
Speaker 1: I definitely was, but I also felt like maybe he's
Speaker 1: turned a corner and he's found someone, meaning me, that
Speaker 1: he enjoys being with, and we'll be together forever, and
Speaker 1: like this is the new Randall, just like I have
Speaker 1: don't have a squeaky clean past even.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's completely fair that you thought that way. Yeah,
Speaker 3: because I have thought that way too. You know, my
Speaker 3: the guy I'm dating now was the biggest fuck boy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: And I said, maybe I'm the girl that changed him, right,
Speaker 3: So I mean, yeah, sometimes that is true.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where my head was.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I get that.
Speaker 1: So Angie mysages you and says, no, gone.
Speaker 3: She didn't, dude, that is so fucking funny. No she
Speaker 3: I don't talk to her. Oh I don't know her.
Speaker 3: She had told someone who told someone who told a
Speaker 3: friend of mine. Okay, thing, that's how it happened.
Speaker 1: What a shit show mm hm.
Speaker 3: And then that friend told me, And I didn't bring
Speaker 3: it up to you because I didn't know you, and
Speaker 3: because I didn't think it was my place necessary necessarily,
Speaker 3: and I didn't know if you wanted to know. Because
Speaker 3: some people don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I'm one of those people who definitely. I mean,
Speaker 1: are you someone who wants to know? Or do you
Speaker 1: like keeping your head in the sand.
Speaker 3: I've thought about this. I think that if it's a
Speaker 3: one off thing and my guy went to Vegas, got drunk,
Speaker 3: fucked a girl, never talks to her again, never does
Speaker 3: it again, something along those lines, or it's a makeout
Speaker 3: or something. Yeah, don't tell me. I don't need to know. Wow,
Speaker 3: if it's an ongoing thing and it's multiple women and
Speaker 3: he's cooking up with the.
Speaker 1: Same girl over and over and over, then I need
Speaker 1: to know.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's how I feel about it.
Speaker 1: I I want to know whether it was a one
Speaker 1: time thing, one night stand relationship, because I need to
Speaker 1: know so I can get the fuck out.
Speaker 3: Really yes, really, So you can't forgive that any kind
Speaker 3: of thing.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Okay, I get that. I get that. Nope,
Speaker 1: you fuck up one time.
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: I just think of myself as a very expensive fine
Speaker 1: wine okay, right, you know. Yeah, and if you're gonna
Speaker 1: pop the cork, let me sit out.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be as good and you might as well.
Speaker 1: Just it's gonna be thrown away. Yeah, so if you
Speaker 1: feel like you want to throw a fine wine away,
Speaker 1: then that's up to you. Like I'm a luxury you are.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 1: And I'm a down bitch yep, I agree with that,
Speaker 1: but I feel the same way about myself too. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you don't right based off of
Speaker 1: what you said. That's just that is just your personal
Speaker 1: how you feel about things, you know, So I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to say that you must not think
Speaker 1: of yourself as a fine wine.
Speaker 3: You're like you are a fucking eleven dollars fucking white claw.
Speaker 3: So I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: No, you're a fine wine too. It's just all about
Speaker 1: what you expect out of a relationship. And what you're
Speaker 1: saying makes total sense. We do live in a day
Speaker 1: and age where everybody is so accessible. You think a
Speaker 1: girl's hot in fucking Canada, you send her a DM,
Speaker 1: You're sexting the next minute, next minute, you're linking up
Speaker 1: like shit happens, got it? Yeah, but I don't do
Speaker 1: that to people. I've actually never cheated ever. Oh, You've
Speaker 1: never cheated on anyone? No, Because I just feel like
Speaker 1: if I want to sleep with someone else that I
Speaker 1: obviously don't want to be in a relationship with someone,
Speaker 1: so I should just like do that without having a person.
Speaker 3: You know, But have you ever dated just like a
Speaker 3: toxic piece of shit where it like wouldn't even matter
Speaker 3: type thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just left him and I still didn't fuck around.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's interesting because the guys that I've cheated on
Speaker 3: were like pieces of shit basically, So I was like,
Speaker 3: fuck you, like I don't care, right, And I had
Speaker 3: suspicions that they were cheating, and you know, for some
Speaker 3: of them, like we would do threeesomes and okay like that,
Speaker 3: So I was like, whatever, what's the big.
Speaker 1: Whatever, what's the big deal? And how old are you?
Speaker 3: Twenty nine?
Speaker 1: Okay, so you were you were like a baby, like
Speaker 1: you're still in your twenties. Twenties are for being a
Speaker 1: shit show.
Speaker 5: M hm.
Speaker 1: You know you got to get it out so that
Speaker 1: you can be a productive human later on in life.
Speaker 3: Absolutely. Yeah, I'm thinking about if I would want to
Speaker 3: know if I got cheated on, just after what you
Speaker 3: were saying, I think that theoretically, I don't think I
Speaker 3: would want to know. I think that if I was
Speaker 3: married with kids, then I really wouldn't want to know,
Speaker 3: just for like my kids, you know, because like it's
Speaker 3: hard for them to have their parents breaking up. Your
Speaker 3: situation is completely different and you absolutely needed to. Yeah,
Speaker 3: But theoretically that's I like to think that I wouldn't
Speaker 3: want to know. But when I you know, if I
Speaker 3: sit and really really think about it, I probably would
Speaker 3: want to fucking know.
Speaker 1: I think your gut speaks to you, and that's how
Speaker 1: you make your decision.
Speaker 3: And I think, yeah, I think I would want to know.
Speaker 3: I guess I would be able to forgive someone for
Speaker 3: doing it if it was one time. And so then
Speaker 3: that's where I'm like, so what I even want to know?
Speaker 1: I totally get where you're coming from. Yeah, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love that.
Speaker 3: I need to think about it a little bit more
Speaker 3: and get back to you guys, think about it a
Speaker 3: little bit more.
Speaker 1: We're going to cut to a sh shor break and
Speaker 1: we will be right back with Sophia Franklin. We are
Speaker 1: back with you could possibly be one of the most
Speaker 1: beautiful people I've ever seen, Lala, but you're from Utah,
Speaker 1: so it makes sense because everyone there is so fucking hot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you have great teeth, which everyone in Utah has
Speaker 1: good teeth, I know, and they're real, right, Yeah, everything.
Speaker 3: Is real, which everyone tells me it's fucking not. And
Speaker 3: that's not me trying to be like I am just
Speaker 3: like a natural fucking beauty because I absolutely am gonna
Speaker 3: be getting shit done.
Speaker 1: You've never had an injection, no, can I tell you?
Speaker 1: I believe you. And here's why. Okay, your lips are
Speaker 1: super soft. They're not like mine where they're like kind
Speaker 1: of from the side, come out a little bit, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: your your face is still soft. It moves, which is great.
Speaker 1: Good for you.
Speaker 3: So I candards are high, they're low, the bar is low.
Speaker 1: Well, once you start doing that shit, you can't you
Speaker 1: can't turn back. You become addicted, you do.
Speaker 3: Yeah, is that a real thing?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like there have been times where I look at
Speaker 1: myself and I'm like, ooh, look in a little cattish
Speaker 1: and a little ducky. You look about fifty six. But
Speaker 1: then it goes away. It does. The fillers go away,
Speaker 1: the botox goes away, and because I'm still breastfeeding, I
Speaker 1: can't get filler or botox, so my face moves now too.
Speaker 1: Can't say I love it, okay, but it's like whatever
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: Are you scared of the filler migrating? Have you heard
Speaker 3: of that being a thing?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've heard of that.
Speaker 3: Do you believe it?
Speaker 1: I do with certain doctors, But I go to doctor Diamond,
Speaker 1: who is like the best, the best of the best,
Speaker 1: and his technique is way different and what he puts
Speaker 1: in your face is his own little concoction of what
Speaker 1: he's done, like what he's created.
Speaker 3: Right, So I've never had an issue. Okay, So I'm
Speaker 3: twenty nine. I haven't had anything done. But I don't
Speaker 3: want to like look old and wrinkly when i'm you,
Speaker 3: but you don't, but I will when you're forty. I'm done, right,
Speaker 3: Yeah about.
Speaker 1: Your twenty nine? So just wait. I think the first
Speaker 1: time I got botox, I think I was like twenty four, okay,
Speaker 1: and it was just too much, right, you know, Like
Speaker 1: I'm looking at you. You don't need any of it.
Speaker 3: I want you to like really examine my face. I'm
Speaker 3: you get off the show and like, actually tell me.
Speaker 3: You're in natural light right now, which is the harshest,
Speaker 3: and there's nothing You.
Speaker 1: Have great skin? Okay, if you ever need someone to
Speaker 1: toot your horn, I'm the best at it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Actually, can you keep talking about how hot I
Speaker 3: am for a second.
Speaker 1: You're definitely hot. I think you like. Good for you guys.
Speaker 3: My name is Sofia Enough Franklin with the why I
Speaker 3: go to all of my social media handles. My show
Speaker 3: is so Fio Enough and yeah, I'm the hottest person
Speaker 3: you'll ever see.
Speaker 1: The damn true. I can go no for real, thank you.
Speaker 1: That's really sweet. So I want to talk. We spilled
Speaker 1: the tea, which I love. That's my most favorite part
Speaker 1: of doing a podcast, to spill the tea. You went
Speaker 1: through a very public I would say, do you feel
Speaker 1: like you were betrayed?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay. My question is because I'm going through that now,
Speaker 1: how do you bounce back from something like betrayal? If
Speaker 1: we're so close to someone and you trust them with
Speaker 1: your life and then suddenly you are betrayed by them, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you go into the world and trust anybody again?
Speaker 3: Yeah? So I've been betrayed by men and I never expected.
Speaker 3: So I've been betrayed by men. My dad's not really
Speaker 3: in the picture. So I was raised by my mom
Speaker 3: and my aunt and like a lot of strong women, Okay,
Speaker 3: and so I kind of I felt safety, you know,
Speaker 3: when it came to women, right, not so much with men. Okay,
Speaker 3: So being betrayed by a dude is really fucking hard
Speaker 3: and hurts. And I've been there when I was betrayed
Speaker 3: by someone I felt was like a sis.
Speaker 1: That was a really like that was a mind fuck
Speaker 1: for me, you know, I can imagine. So how did
Speaker 1: I bounce back?
Speaker 3: It takes time, but you just you have to just
Speaker 3: go through the motions every single day. You have to
Speaker 3: allow yourself to be fucking depressed. You need to talk
Speaker 3: about it NonStop, stress over it. That's what helps you.
Speaker 3: That's what helps me. Yeah, is just like talking to
Speaker 3: everyone about it, right, and therapy obviously, and I think that,
Speaker 3: you know, it just takes time. And what I had
Speaker 3: to realize is that is not going to be the
Speaker 3: first and the last time that I'm going to get
Speaker 3: betrayed by someone, right, you know, And so you can't
Speaker 3: live your life never trusting anyone ever again because that's
Speaker 3: not gonna work.
Speaker 1: So how long ago was that? How long ago was
Speaker 1: it that that had happened.
Speaker 3: Oh, I want to say like a year and a half,
Speaker 3: So that's pretty fresh.
Speaker 1: It is it is it is? And do you feel
Speaker 1: like if this not that this same situation would happen
Speaker 1: to you again? But if you ever are betrayed again, which,
Speaker 1: like you said, we will all be betrayed multiple times
Speaker 1: in our lives, do you feel like you have new
Speaker 1: tools to deal with it?
Speaker 3: Absolutely? That is the silver lining about something like this
Speaker 3: is I think you are able to spot people better
Speaker 3: that you shouldn't trust you. Yeah, and because you've seen
Speaker 3: the signs before, and I feel like I'm way better prepared.
Speaker 3: I'm more prepared and more well prepped basically to deal
Speaker 3: with another betrayal. And it's made me way fucking stronger.
Speaker 3: And I think that that happening was good for me.
Speaker 3: I know it's crazy to say, but I do. I
Speaker 3: just I think there's a bigger plan for me. I
Speaker 3: love that, And you know that was just something that
Speaker 3: needed to happen along the way to prepare me for
Speaker 3: something bigger.
Speaker 1: Do you right now? I'm like very into the universe
Speaker 1: and what its plan is for me, and don't question
Speaker 1: it even if it doesn't make sense. Allow it to
Speaker 1: place you where you're supposed to be. Was it hard
Speaker 1: for you because it sounds like now you've done that. Like,
Speaker 1: looking back, you're like, this was supposed to happen. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: do you do you feel like in that time, when
Speaker 1: you were in it with the betrayal, that it was
Speaker 1: like I have to put this in someone else's hands,
Speaker 1: the universe, my higher power. Fuck.
Speaker 3: No, No. When it first happened, I was I had
Speaker 3: It was so traumatic that I was numb and I
Speaker 3: don't even remember a lot of it because I blacked
Speaker 3: it out. But now that I've taken time for myself,
Speaker 3: now I'm like into the universe and all those things.
Speaker 3: But at the time, no.
Speaker 1: No, you were too in it. You were drowning. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: exactly did she ever reach out to you again after
Speaker 1: that or was it just like, no, here's a pile
Speaker 1: of shit, deal with it. I'm out. Mm hm wow yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: How long after this all happened, did you say fuck it?
Speaker 1: I'm starting my own show, so feel with an F.
Speaker 3: So that's a really interesting thing. So my entire life
Speaker 3: blew up, and I don't know how I did it,
Speaker 3: but I guess I'm just a strong ass bitch because
Speaker 3: I just went through the motions and I got up
Speaker 3: every single day and I said, what's the next move,
Speaker 3: what's the next move? On the phone with my lawyer,
Speaker 3: Let's get out of you know, my current contract, on
Speaker 3: the phone with my agent, Let's get a new show going.
Speaker 3: Let's fucking go. Yeah. I don't. I just I had
Speaker 3: the strength. I knew that there was no other option,
Speaker 3: and I wasn't gonna let it go down like that.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm gonna speak my truth and this
Speaker 3: isn't gonna ruin my life.
Speaker 1: And would you say, would you say that you kept
Speaker 1: the same format for Sofia with an F or did
Speaker 1: you change it? Like? What would you say is like,
Speaker 1: in a nutshell, what is Sofia with an F? About?
Speaker 3: So I at first started with the same format because
Speaker 3: I went from doing the show and fucking one month
Speaker 3: or whatever later to starting my own and not having
Speaker 3: the co host talking by myself, right, I didn't know
Speaker 3: how to do that, you know on the old podcast.
Speaker 1: Uh did you have guests or was it always just
Speaker 1: the two guests? No guests?
Speaker 3: No guess so I spent you know, two three years
Speaker 3: with the same person talking and al sudden overnight, Oh
Speaker 3: you're by yourself now?
Speaker 1: And was it once a week that you were doing
Speaker 1: it or did you have a new episode multiple times
Speaker 1: a week?
Speaker 3: It was once a week, okay, and that's how Sofia
Speaker 3: with an fs so Sofia an f once a week.
Speaker 3: I you know, kept maybe similar format because okay, that's
Speaker 3: fifty percent of my show. I mean, not anymore, but
Speaker 3: that's how. That's how it started. Now I've really come
Speaker 3: into my own and now it is a different format. Okay,
Speaker 3: it's more real to me.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 3: And also I'm older, I'm different, I've changed, of course.
Speaker 3: So yeah, now it's different, and now it's fucking better.
Speaker 1: It's better, and it is when you spend that much time
Speaker 1: with someone, it's almost like you know, someone has cut
Speaker 1: half of your body off. Yes, how do you function
Speaker 1: without it? Yes?
Speaker 3: I just realized that what type of person they are,
Speaker 3: it was better for me to have the arm cut off, right,
Speaker 3: Does that make sense?
Speaker 1: One hundred percent?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I completely get that, and.
Speaker 3: Also realizing that's okay because I still got my other
Speaker 3: arm and myself and I'm I'm good, I'm strong, I
Speaker 3: can do this.
Speaker 1: On my own. Well you are doing it on your own.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: I'm and you're killing it. Yeah, yes, And how long
Speaker 1: have you did you say you had been in Utah
Speaker 1: for this round.
Speaker 3: I mean like when I moved back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you moved back? When did you move back
Speaker 1: or not move? When did you decide to take a breather?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Call it that a breather in Utah.
Speaker 3: Exactly, a sabbatical, a little vage. Yes, that was I
Speaker 3: think January of last year.
Speaker 1: Okay, And that's so funny.
Speaker 3: And then I'll be moving back this upcoming January.
Speaker 1: To New York, don't you think, Because I'm I feel
Speaker 1: the same way about Utah. It's a little slow paced,
Speaker 1: but whenever shit gets real, I want to be back
Speaker 1: there immediately.
Speaker 3: Yes, it is my saving grace, It is my sanctuary.
Speaker 3: Is that how you feel?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 3: Did you go home when your shit happened?
Speaker 1: I haven't been able to, but I try to go
Speaker 1: back home off and I have a baby line called
Speaker 1: give Them Lalla Baby, and it's literally run out of
Speaker 1: my best friend gage. It's a very chic garage, but
Speaker 1: it's like a little family business. So I have to
Speaker 1: go back to see how it's moving and what we need.
Speaker 1: But every time i'm there, I'm like, this is so
Speaker 1: normal and I love it. So I can imagine that
Speaker 1: that it's been amazing for your mental health.
Speaker 3: Yes, I got back to my roots and like, back
Speaker 3: to who I am as a person. I mean, there's
Speaker 3: nothing better than I mean for me.
Speaker 1: My mom, you know, I totally get it.
Speaker 3: It's just she's my best friend. She's who I need
Speaker 3: in those moments.
Speaker 1: Do you have any siblings.
Speaker 3: I have a younger brother, a younger brother, and he.
Speaker 1: Still lives in Utah. Does he live with your mom?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Yes, I love it because I have the same situation.
Speaker 1: Easton lives with my mom. Still. My dad passed away
Speaker 1: almost well, I think it's been four years. Sorry, but
Speaker 1: thank you, babe. So I totally get that dynamic of
Speaker 1: just like the mama, you and your.
Speaker 3: Brother totally so funny.
Speaker 1: I know, what does your brother twenty eight? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: the one that like likes Doggie style apparently.
Speaker 3: Actually no, I think he likes it when the girls
Speaker 3: on her back on the bed and he's standing and
Speaker 3: fects her that way.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. What in the world? And then what
Speaker 1: about your boyfriend? Does he come to Utah? Does he
Speaker 1: stay in New York?
Speaker 3: He is in La. He's in La right now. Okay,
Speaker 3: I haven't seen him because I.
Speaker 1: Well you just got here, right.
Speaker 3: I got here a few days ago, but it's been
Speaker 3: non stop since I got here, so I haven't seen him,
Speaker 3: but he's in New York. Utah la constantly love it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and what have you been doing in La? Tell
Speaker 1: us what? Like your plans are? What you're up to?
Speaker 3: So when I got here, I had an episode that
Speaker 3: came out. It's all about how to get fucked doggie.
Speaker 3: Because you think it's just simple and it's this easy thing,
Speaker 3: and it's like, Okay, assume the position, get you know,
Speaker 3: get get it from the back right. It's not, though,
Speaker 3: like there's so many things to it. You got to
Speaker 3: be archie your back right, you got to be looking
Speaker 3: back at him. Those are like the fundamentals, right right.
Speaker 3: You gotta get down on your forearms. Yes, But then
Speaker 3: it's like there's so much shit you can be saying.
Speaker 1: You need to ask him to slap it.
Speaker 3: You have to obviously tell him to like leave a mark.
Speaker 3: You need to Oh my god, I love this one.
Speaker 3: If he isn't shoving your face into the pillow, something's wrong.
Speaker 3: Something's wrong. I think you can do it yourself, Like
Speaker 3: you can put your head into the pillow and put
Speaker 3: your arms behind your back best so that he like
Speaker 3: grabs your wrists. Yeah, that's so hot, and it's like
Speaker 3: men should be doing it, but if they're not, as women,
Speaker 3: let's take initiative. I can do it and let them
Speaker 3: know what the fuck is up.
Speaker 1: Get out the rule book for doggy style.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I love how you just asked me what I've been
Speaker 3: doing in LA and I just told you how to
Speaker 3: get fucked dogs.
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know how that happened, but I love it. Yeah. Okay,
Speaker 1: so that episode came out while you were here, and
Speaker 1: then everyone wanted you to demonstrate it. Yes, which I will.
Speaker 3: I'll do it here. We should take a video. And
Speaker 3: then the next day I did a photo shoot. Okay,
Speaker 3: I am not a model. I do a podcast. That
Speaker 3: was my first time ever doing something like that, Like
Speaker 3: there were real models and stuff.
Speaker 1: That shit is fucking hard. What was it for?
Speaker 3: It's for a new ath leisure were brands.
Speaker 1: And I don't know how models do it. And it
Speaker 1: was eight hours.
Speaker 3: It was fucking exhausted.
Speaker 1: No, I don't know how they do it either. No,
Speaker 1: it's very hard to not look like a drunk puppet
Speaker 1: because even if you're not drunk after an eight hour day,
Speaker 1: you look like a drunk puppet.
Speaker 3: Right, And I actually pulled an all night or so,
Speaker 3: I had the dead eyes. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: you're a savage. I mean I had to to get
Speaker 3: the show out because it's disaster.
Speaker 1: But I have a tip.
Speaker 3: I had those dead eyes because I was so tired.
Speaker 3: And this model handed me this like a eyedrop thing
Speaker 3: called Lumifi.
Speaker 1: Have you heard of that? I've heard of Lumifhi is
Speaker 1: it amazing?
Speaker 3: I put it in my eyes. I looked awake immediately.
Speaker 3: I don't know how have.
Speaker 1: You used Rohtos before?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: What is that? Rotos is what all the stoners use.
Speaker 1: So I use that, But can you use them today?
Speaker 1: And tell me if it's just as good as lumifi
Speaker 1: or if I need to buy? Will I will? I
Speaker 1: think lumify? Maybe it also it brightens the white of
Speaker 1: your eyes, right, yes? Yes, makes you less glazed over? Yes?
Speaker 1: I love it. You're awake for your at leisure show?
Speaker 3: Yes, exactly?
Speaker 1: And then where can people listen to Sophia with an F?
Speaker 3: Anywhere you listen to podcasts perfect Sophia with an F?
Speaker 1: So that's s O F.
Speaker 3: I A yeah, I can't even tell you how many
Speaker 3: people like text me and they're like Sophia with a pH,
Speaker 3: or like right into the show and they're like Sophia
Speaker 3: with the pH. I'm like, do you know the name
Speaker 3: of the show. I'm just curious. It's Sofia the Enough.
Speaker 1: Well. I literally now refer to you as like I
Speaker 1: was talking to my assistant Jess, and I asked her
Speaker 1: when Sofia with Enough was going to be here. I
Speaker 1: love that you're from Utah. Did you ever know the
Speaker 1: girl Barbie with a y bitch?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 3: See wait is she your friend?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Well we used to be really close and then iked
Speaker 1: o it. Yes. Do you know a girl named sky Storge? Yes, Laala?
Speaker 3: I saw a picture of you on my Space when
Speaker 3: I was fucking nineteen.
Speaker 1: Yesing the infamous sky Storage is what she went by
Speaker 1: on MySpace.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I remember she's posting pictures with a
Speaker 3: girl named Laala.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And here we are.
Speaker 3: Here we are two Utah girls in La having a blast.
Speaker 1: I really have had the best time with you. I'm
Speaker 1: so grateful that you made time in your busy schedule
Speaker 1: while you were in La to do my podcast. I've
Speaker 1: literally been obsessing over it. Mm hmm, so thank you
Speaker 1: for doing it.
Speaker 3: Was amazing.
Speaker 1: You're amazing vibe.
Speaker 3: You know some people, I've had some people that I
Speaker 3: don't really vibe with. This was a breeze, A breeze great.
Speaker 1: I like people to feel like they're literally sitting here
Speaker 1: talking with us. Yes, yes, I love that you did
Speaker 1: the damn thing. Thank you Lala for having me on
Speaker 1: you guys, Thank you so much for listening to another
Speaker 1: episode of the Give Them Lala Podcast. Remember, I want
Speaker 1: to hear from you, so please call me at one
Speaker 1: eight sixty six Lala Pod and we will catch you
Speaker 1: next week.
Speaker 3: Bye, guys,