WEBVTT - Sofia with an F 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:11.320 Hello, gorgeous La La Kent with my Ride and Die 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:17.200 Jessica Walter, Hello everyone, Love a good sing song and 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:20.560 true Hello, true and true. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.360 Love a good sing song and true as well. 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:32.720 I can't I am over the moon today. Why we 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:36.680 have Sophia Franklin on the podcast, Oh my God, so 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:37.760 Fia with an. 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:39.960 F Oh my god. 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:43.640 And I think people are going to be so excited 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:48.639 because for a long time I have had people reach 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:52.720 out being like, please get her on the podcast. We 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:57.800 want to see your guys's dynamic. And she's coming to 0:00:57.920 --> 0:00:59.440 La and we're making it happen. 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:03.520 Really exciting, and she's been I've heard she doesn't hold back. 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:05.919 I love that, just like you kind of. 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:11.600 You want to know something what I feel like. I 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:14.880 hold back a little more than I used to. Oh 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:18.760 yeah and yeah, And I don't know why, but there's 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:24.600 something about me now where there are times where you 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:27.680 know someone will be talking to me and saying something 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:31.440 I don't like, and I take a beat. Jess she 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.679 takes a beat, never taking a damn beat ever in 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:40.000 my life. Yeah, And suddenly this year is all about 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.080 the beats, all about the beats. 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:44.680 Why do you think you take that beat? Now versus 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:45.160 back then. 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:48.800 I think because of Ocean. Yeah, yeah, I think she's 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:53.000 softened me up quite a bit. Even this season. I've 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.480 been you know, when people would come for me, you know, 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.240 because they love to hold me to my past. Yeah, 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:02.840 and I res of the right to evolve. Yes, we 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:03.520 all should. 0:02:03.760 --> 0:02:04.440 Yeah. 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:08.079 So when you're when I'm sitting there with a group 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.200 of my friends and they want to talk to me 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:15.840 about what I did five years ago, you lost me yawning, 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:21.000 I'm yawning, sleeping, like, let's why are we going there? 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:25.959 And then I think is my rebuttal going to change 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:31.320 their mind? Probably not. So why waste my breath and 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:35.360 your energy and my energy? Yeah, I have so many 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:38.920 other things that are less boring, yeah, to be doing. 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:39.960 Yeah. 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.800 Yeah, so we had we had the reunion. 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:46.359 Oh my gosh, Okay, you had the reunion. 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:47.560 We had the reunion. 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.120 How are you feeling about that? The vander Pump Rules 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:52.040 reunion season nine? 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:56.480 You know, it was a strange feeling for me. Okay, 0:02:56.919 --> 0:03:00.560 I'm gonna spill some tea, let's hear it. I I 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:05.480 finished the reunion. We're all wrapped up and good. And 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:10.280 I didn't hear from one person on my cast, except 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:15.840 for Raquel to say, hope you're doing okay? Right, That 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:19.040 was very telling for me. For me, that was like, 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:23.800 you know what, maybe things that you thought about. And 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.760 I'm not saying that this group of my friends are 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:30.239 bad people in any way. Just because I'm going through 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:37.160 something doesn't mean the world stops. However, example, Tom Sandoval 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:41.960 will post something about his Men's makeup line, and if 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:44.480 I think the photo is fantastic that he posts, I 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:46.680 sent him a text. I think it's important for people 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:50.240 to know when you think something's cool or good. I 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:52.320 think it's important for you to share, like, hey, I 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:54.320 really liked that. I think you looked great. I think 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:58.280 you did a great job. Yeah, the fact that you 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:00.440 know my life has been turned upside down and maybe 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:02.000 they don't know the ins and outs of it, but 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:05.920 I was visibly upset on the reunion, okay, And for 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:10.560 not one of them except for my little Bambi, to 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.400 reach out and be like, just want to say I'm 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:17.840 sorry for what you're going through, right, was like I said, 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:18.400 eye opening. 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:19.360 Yeah. 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:20.160 Yeah. 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:23.000 So, without giving too much away about what you talked 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:26.559 about on the reunion things, is it safe to say 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:29.760 things got emotional? And your cast members. It's not like 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:34.080 they saw you and maybe everything seemed fine. Maybe things 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:39.560 got emotional and you were hoping or even expecting some 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.320 of your friends right to reach out to you, and 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:43.240 that didn't happen. 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:47.479 It didn't happen. And I want to sit here and 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:49.880 say I'm okay with that. I'm obviously not okay with that. 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:54.560 If the roles were reversed, I probably would have reached 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:58.000 out and said, hey, how you doing. Yeah, just like 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:03.120 I did too James. After the reunion, I checked in, 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.400 you know, and for Raquel and James to be going 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:09.719 through something pretty life altering as well, for Raquel to 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:12.880 reach out and send like the sweetest text message in 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:18.880 the world was like, meant everything to me. And you know, 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:25.680 I've been on this show for six years. I've changed 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:29.680 a lot as a person. No one can tell me otherwise. 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:32.039 You can sit here and talk about what I do 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:35.560 wrong all day long. I look in the mirror. I'm 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:38.760 very self aware. There's not anyone on the planet who 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:43.880 can tell me that I'm not. So when I think 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:47.000 back on my time, I love it. It was the ultimate. 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:50.359 It's been the ultimate mirror for me. But after that 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:54.080 reunion you know, I sat back and thought, is this 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:57.719 the space for me anymore? Or do we need to 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.560 do some soul searching? And who knows, may not even 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:03.919 be another season that comes out of this. Let's just 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.560 say tomorrow they call and they say we've been picked up. 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:12.880 I would take a big pause because I don't know 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:14.920 if that's the space for me anymore. 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:20.599 Oh wow, Okay, Yeah, that's which is pretty huge for 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:23.120 you to say. That's been so much of your life. 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:29.360 It has been, Yeah, but during the one of the 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.240 darkest times I've been in the darkest time I've been 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:35.599 in since my dad passed away, for my friends to 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:40.799 not check in on me was like taking a fucking bullet. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:46.159 Yeah, painful, I'm sure you know, yeah, And I'm sure 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.520 that's hard not to put words into your mouth, But 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.520 I'm just thinking of my own experiences and I haven't 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:54.679 even gone through anything as close to what you're going through. 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:58.839 But you're vulnerable, and that's hard in itself. 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:00.000 You're vulnerable. 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:05.400 You're speaking what you went through and you're showing look 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:08.400 at this, my heart is like I'm literally holding it 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:11.080 in front of you. And then to not maybe get 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:16.240 the support or words that you were hoping it's I'm 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:16.840 sure it can be. 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:19.920 It'd be painful for anyone. Yeah, when you're looking at 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.960 a group of people who you think are your friends. Yeah, 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:27.920 and you're sitting here completely humbled by a situation, you know, 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:32.120 just another life experience for me to grow from, to 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:35.600 gain strength from. But really, I'm in a space where 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:38.120 I feel I can be my most vulnerable and that's 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:41.560 the reaction. And some of them wonder why I come 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:44.120 in guns blazing. Well, there you go, because look at 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:50.920 your reaction in my darkest time. It's not safe. Yeah, 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:52.000 I'm not babied. 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:53.080 Mm hm. 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:59.520 So it was weird. I left. I left that reunion 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:07.120 feeling not much resolve. I left feeling a bit alone 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:14.400 and isolated, and just extremely thankful for you, for my mom, 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:18.200 for Ocean, you know, like it really brought me back 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:21.240 to what I feel is important, what I want out 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:24.920 of life. Yeah, and I'll be forever grateful for vander 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:26.880 Pump Rules, and I'll be forever grateful that we got 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:31.440 to come back after a really crazy year of not 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:34.760 knowing what was going to happen. I'm excited for people 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:36.959 to see the reunion. I don't know how it really 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.440 turned out. I mean I kind of felt like I 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:45.000 was in a fog the whole time, right, But who knows. Yeah, 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.640 I guess we'll see the universe back to the universe. 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.200 I'm just gonna let it do its thing. Let it 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:53.240 do its thing. It has never let me down. 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:58.400 That's and that's huge. That's huge, especially now in moments 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:02.360 where you're like, you be like, why did this happen? 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:06.520 Why did that happen? I truly believe that it might 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:08.719 be a month from now, it might be a year 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:10.920 from now, it might be ten years from now. You'll 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:12.920 look back at certain things that happened right now and 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:17.000 you'll be like, oh my god, a wild that is 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.200 why this happened. This led me to this, which led 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:22.400 me to that. And I think that's great. It's great 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:25.559 to have faith in the universe, whatever you believe, if 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.280 you have a higher power, if not, it's just great 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:31.199 to have that feeling of some sort of guidance. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:36.040 I love that word guidance, your guidance. Yeah, and not 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:40.840 like not. People can only do so much for you 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:47.360 as far as being an emotional support. You know, at 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:49.600 some point you have to like draw the line and 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:52.440 be like this needs to go into the hands of 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:56.439 something much greater than all of us, right, and something 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:58.679 that's not going to talk back, that's just going to 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.880 do its thing, you know, right right, That's where I'm at. 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:05.480 Yeah, well, I think that, you know, I'm sorry you 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:08.280 did feel that way during the reunion, but I'm interested 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:11.800 to see it. You know, I don't. I didn't get 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:13.800 to see it, so I'm interested to see it and 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:15.920 sort of see what you're referring to and. 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.080 See not quite some time before it airs. Yeah, I 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:21.000 mean I didn't. I don't even know what episode of 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.240 vander Pump aired last night, because we got all of 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:27.000 the episodes right so that we could be prepared for 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:30.360 the reunion. So I to me, it's like season's done right. 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:33.400 Well. On a positive note, you've said great things about 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.040 all the episodes you've seen, I know. The only negative 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.480 note is you're like, some things I said didn't age 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:41.360 so well. But it sounds like the rest of the 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.239 episodes are pretty pretty great. 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:45.920 You know, taking out all the things that didn't age well. Yeah, 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:49.600 I thought the season was great, great. Yeah, I'm excited 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:52.640 to see the rest. I think people will enjoy it good. 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:54.920 You know, it did look different, but we did the 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:58.000 damn thing. M m yeah, and for that, I think 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:01.280 we should all be very proud good you know. 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:01.720 Yeah. 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:05.480 And I felt soft this season and really you're not soft. 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:09.480 And I'm like, motherfucker, I am soft. You watched me 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:15.679 from this season? Yeah, compared to other seasons, it's like 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:18.240 night and day. That's why it's like, don't tell me 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:22.400 that there's no change. I'm watching it in front of me, right. 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:22.920 You know. 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:26.240 One not to bring up a past episode, but one 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:29.120 thing I noticed where I'm gonna agree with you there 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:31.400 is because I've seen past seasons of you when you 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:35.480 were you guns blazon, oh way falls to the wall. 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:39.920 I the one moment where I'm like, oh, damn, she's 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:42.800 really changed is when you were at I forget whose 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:45.520 party it was, but it was one of the first 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.199 episodes and you said it was at night. I think 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:50.559 you had just gotten into a little thing with Arianna 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:51.679 and you said. 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:52.960 I can't do this anymore. 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:54.800 I've got a baby at home, I'm out, and you're 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:56.520 just like, bye. 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:59.520 Let me spill some tea on that real quick, hear it? Okay, 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:03.360 So well, cameras didn't catch this. When I said that, 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:10.800 Sandoval goes and there it is, wait meaning what like that? 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.720 They probably knew, like Lala's gonna bring up the baby 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:15.440 car that she's now a mom. And you know what, 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:19.880 anyone who says baby doesn't change you, A baby changes you. Yeah, 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:23.120 the second dive little babe comes out of your body, 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:26.720 you are a different person. I wear that with pride. 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:30.000 No one's going to take that away from me. Cut too. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:34.720 We go to Palm Springs. Sandoval comes over to me. 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:38.360 I kid, you not looked him dead in his eyes? 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:45.280 I said, Sandoval, if you ever give that reaction to 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:47.480 me when I talk about my kid, I am a 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:49.480 mama bear and I will put my paws on you. 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:53.640 And he said, well, let's make a deal. No, no, no, no, 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:56.560 there will be no deal made on my child. You 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.960 give a reaction like that again referencing to my child, 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:04.640 I will put my paws on you. I'm a mama bear. 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.000 Let's not do that again. 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:10.040 I know, Oh my god, you. 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:13.360 Are right now. It's just making my blood boil. 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:13.720 See. 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:14.400 I love that. 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:18.320 That's such a protecting. I love that. I love when 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:21.920 I see parents and partners that are protective. I love 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:24.679 mama bears because women don't mess with. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:27.000 That is my cub. I am a lion ass. I 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.400 will fuck your shit up when it comes to my 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.640 little ocean. I don't play it when it comes to her. 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:35.080 I have fallen back a lot. I have made a 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.920 lot of changes. Yeah, you come for my cub. It's 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:41.280 feeding time, feeding time. 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:43.600 I love that. I love that. 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:46.200 Well, on that not on that note. 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:50.880 On that note, we have had some amazing people call in, 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:58.080 okay and leave some voicemails. Are you interested and responding 0:13:58.080 --> 0:13:58.320 to some? 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:01.840 I'm always interested, and we are going to start doing 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:06.400 the voicemails the first segment every single episode because I 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:08.640 love the voicemails. That's the whole reason why we do 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:09.359 the podcast. 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:09.760 Again. 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:11.960 You guys can call in at one eight sixty six, 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:16.160 La La pod. Let's get the voicemails a rolling. Here 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:17.439 we go, Hey. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:21.000 La La, my name is Haley Mellow and Jacksonville, Florida. 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:24.880 I was just calling to ask you, if on your podcast, 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:27.600 if you would like to give the listeners maybe some 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:32.400 tips on self care, how to show yourself love, how 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:34.680 you have made it through such a hard time in 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.680 the public eye, what you do to take care of yourself. 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:41.080 Do you meditate, do you do yoga? Do you, what 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:44.160 do you do to make yourself happy? And how do 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:46.960 you take care of your mental health? Let us know 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:51.000 I'm a big fan. I've always watched vanderpupp Roles at 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.240 the very beginning. So I will talk to youesday. 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:59.520 I love this voicemail. Okay, so I think the first 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.600 thing I don't want to say I used to be 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:04.760 big on working out. I'm still big on working out. 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.800 I've had a lot on my mind. Again, when Ocean 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:11.360 was in the belly, I was advised to stay in 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:14.000 the bed, don't work out. She was struggling, So I 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:18.080 didn't get to work out during my pregnancy, but working 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:22.920 out did does wonders for my mind. The body that 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.680 comes along with it. I'm gonna be honest, like, yes, 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:28.040 when I work out, I like my body better, but 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:31.400 my diet doesn't really balance it out as well, you know, 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:33.040 like yeah, as much as I was working out with 0:15:33.080 --> 0:15:34.640 my trainer, like I should have had a six pack, 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:41.400 but Mama loves her like Dorito's. So the body was 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.920 the bonus, but the mind was like, That's why I 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:48.720 work out right now. I will say I cannot live 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:53.360 without my baths. Oh the bath time where I leave 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:58.400 my phone. I put in my little CBD bath salts 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:01.680 from Tamra Judge's Life. This is the best shit ever 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:06.320 Venna and Venna Yes so good. Yeah, by the way, 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:09.720 I swear by it. Yeah, I posted about it. Yeah 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:14.200 you did. And then right now I'm really into mindless television, 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:17.600 which I shouldn't call it mindless, friends, It's mindless for 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:19.320 me because I've seen it so many times that I 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:24.760 could literally like close my eyes and know exactly the 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.640 scene that's happening, or I could plug my ears and 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.520 I would know what they were saying, like I just know, 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:32.400 you know, ye, I put on my Venna cream that 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:35.200 makes you feel all tingly and yummy. Oh and I 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.720 just veg out and watch that show and my mind 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.720 is very very clear. I do want to get on 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:41.960 that yoga game though. 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:44.160 Ooh yoga, So would you do? 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:45.120 On that note? Would you do? 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:48.000 And I don't know if the listener who called in 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:52.080 Hayley does hot yoga? Have you ever done hot yoga? 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:56.400 I did hot yoga once, you guys, and I literally 0:16:56.440 --> 0:16:59.800 passed out. Really, it's too hot in there, so hot, 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.040 you get too hot. I can't do that, Jess. Yeah, 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:06.560 when my body overheats like that. It's like timber, we're 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:11.919 going down, you know, like, no, I cannot do that. 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:15.480 Regular old yoga is good for me. 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:19.359 I love that. Okay, Well that also I think. 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:23.640 That people need to be like either having sex or masturbating. 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:27.840 Oh there, you know everyone is the care. Yes. I 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:32.480 love that you say that because it's like ooh masturbating 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:38.680 and it's like no, No, self care is important. Yes, 0:17:38.920 --> 0:17:42.679 let's talk about the cookie, what it needs and what 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:45.560 it does for us. Yeah, it's rub a dub dub 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:47.080 two fingers in the tub. 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:49.200 It's so important. 0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:52.280 It's so funny when I still see like magazines are 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:56.080 online things referring to it as like you can be naughty. 0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.360 Why is that naughty? You're taking care of your body. 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:02.800 It's not naughty and you're mine. I agree, I fully agree. 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:06.520 Self care we're changing it, We're changing the game. 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:09.720 Yes, take care of the vaginas and the penises, all 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:10.840 of it, all of it. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:11.480 Love that. 0:18:11.960 --> 0:18:12.440 Okay. 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:15.920 So next voicemail, Hi, La La. 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:19.000 It's Brittney from Canada. 0:18:19.200 --> 0:18:20.640 I just got your book. 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:23.320 And finished it and I was loving being able to 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:26.880 get a in touch look of your life before vander 0:18:26.920 --> 0:18:31.040 Pump rules I'm just wondering if you can answer my 0:18:31.280 --> 0:18:37.280 question about how being a mom has changed you for 0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:42.560 the better and things that you didn't expect from having oceans. 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:45.720 I look forward to you answering my question on the podcast. 0:18:45.720 --> 0:18:49.240 I listen every Wednesday. Thanks so much, Bye. 0:18:49.119 --> 0:18:51.720 I love her. Thank you for listening every Wednesday. And 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:54.000 I'm so excited that I get to answer this question 0:18:54.760 --> 0:19:00.560 becoming a mom without sobbing my eyes out. The way 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:07.240 that it changed me. It's like the hardest thing to 0:19:07.400 --> 0:19:14.359 explain how that little human changed me. I just in 0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:18.320 that moment, I feel like I became I became a woman. 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:23.760 In that moment, I realized everything that was important. She 0:19:23.960 --> 0:19:30.080 just made me a better human being. It was more sensitive, 0:19:31.560 --> 0:19:37.320 My approach to life in different situations was completely different. 0:19:39.800 --> 0:19:43.520 Even though like I'm in this mess of whatever you 0:19:43.560 --> 0:19:48.240 want to call it. She brought back a hope into 0:19:48.280 --> 0:19:52.760 my life, an innocence. You know. I used to walk 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:56.200 around and I was into like, oh, showing the body 0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:59.160 off and just acting this certain way and talking about 0:19:59.200 --> 0:20:01.679 the cookie and how we're to the pussy. And I 0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:05.560 still believe all of those things. But she made me 0:20:06.960 --> 0:20:10.359 realize that, like I have to create an environment for 0:20:10.440 --> 0:20:17.120 her that is safe and productive and all of these 0:20:17.160 --> 0:20:19.080 things that I used to do in my past. It 0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:22.879 was like, okay, like great, you were young. You didn't 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:25.840 get it. When I see her face, I have to 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:29.760 protect her at all costs. I see the beauty in 0:20:29.800 --> 0:20:32.840 the world, but I see the ugliness and I'll do 0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:37.320 anything I possibly can't protect her from that. That's what changed, 0:20:38.200 --> 0:20:42.199 you know. I see, like maybe, for example, like music 0:20:42.280 --> 0:20:44.080 videos that I may have looked at back in the 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:48.560 day and been like, yes, bitch, that's amazing. I'm now like, 0:20:48.920 --> 0:20:51.280 why is this on the television? I have a little girl, 0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:54.240 and I don't want her seeing things like this. 0:20:54.840 --> 0:20:59.400 Yeah you know, Yeah, I don't know yet, but I'm 0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:02.360 sure I will. I see you, No, I see you 0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:04.800 be Mama bear in just the moments I'm around you, 0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:09.000 and it's beautiful. And she's not even a year. Can 0:21:09.080 --> 0:21:11.720 you imagine when she's like walking and talking. I can't 0:21:11.720 --> 0:21:12.280 even it's. 0:21:12.119 --> 0:21:14.919 Gonna be the most beautiful thing. It's amazing just to 0:21:14.960 --> 0:21:18.240 watch her change and like what she's noticing. And now 0:21:18.359 --> 0:21:20.440 you know, I see her watching me when I talk. 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:22.959 I told my mom the cussing has to end. Yeah, 0:21:23.480 --> 0:21:26.040 you know, like, I'll be damned if my little girl 0:21:26.480 --> 0:21:30.400 here's those words. Yeah, and you know, I just I'm 0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:33.959 very protective of her environment now. I don't want any 0:21:34.080 --> 0:21:36.760 ugliness up in here. I don't want anything that is 0:21:37.040 --> 0:21:42.280 gross or nasty. Yeah, keep it outside. So that's beautiful, 0:21:42.440 --> 0:21:48.760 Thank you. I love that. On that sad but sweet 0:21:48.920 --> 0:21:52.080 and loving little note, We're gonna bring out the most 0:21:52.240 --> 0:21:56.720 unfiltered bitch in the world when we get When we 0:21:56.760 --> 0:22:00.879 come back, we have Sophia Franklin. Sophia's an f and 0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:04.760 she's about to give us Sofia. I can't wait. We'll 0:22:04.800 --> 0:22:12.359 be right back. What's up, my loves. We are back, 0:22:12.400 --> 0:22:15.520 and I have a guess that I've been like dying 0:22:15.560 --> 0:22:18.520 to have on Sofia with a motherfucking f. 0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:20.840 Hi guys, I'm here. 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:24.119 I wanted to get you on the podcast. You live 0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:24.640 in New York. 0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:28.520 Mm hmmm what Let me rephrase that. I'm living in 0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:31.040 Utah right now, moving back to New York in the 0:22:31.040 --> 0:22:31.840 next few months. 0:22:31.920 --> 0:22:33.240 Okay, so you're back in Utah. 0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:33.800 M hmm. 0:22:34.240 --> 0:22:34.719 How is it? 0:22:35.320 --> 0:22:38.640 Well, you know, you know how fucking Utah is. It's 0:22:38.800 --> 0:22:42.399 I'm living in my mom's basement. Okay, not that fun 0:22:42.800 --> 0:22:45.480 sounds safe though it's safe. It's safe for sure, but 0:22:45.520 --> 0:22:46.240 it's fucking. 0:22:46.080 --> 0:22:49.440 Utah, right, And once you've had like La or New York, 0:22:49.480 --> 0:22:52.439