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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous La La Kent with my Ride and Die

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Speaker 1: Jessica Walter, Hello everyone, Love a good sing song and

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Speaker 1: true Hello, true and true.

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Speaker 2: Love a good sing song and true as well.

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Speaker 1: I can't I am over the moon today. Why we

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Speaker 1: have Sophia Franklin on the podcast, Oh my God, so

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Speaker 1: Fia with an.

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Speaker 2: F Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And I think people are going to be so excited

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Speaker 1: because for a long time I have had people reach

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Speaker 1: out being like, please get her on the podcast. We

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Speaker 1: want to see your guys's dynamic. And she's coming to

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Speaker 1: La and we're making it happen.

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Speaker 2: Really exciting, and she's been I've heard she doesn't hold back.

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Speaker 3: I love that, just like you kind of.

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Speaker 1: You want to know something what I feel like. I

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Speaker 1: hold back a little more than I used to. Oh

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Speaker 1: yeah and yeah, And I don't know why, but there's

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Speaker 1: something about me now where there are times where you

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Speaker 1: know someone will be talking to me and saying something

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Speaker 1: I don't like, and I take a beat. Jess she

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Speaker 1: takes a beat, never taking a damn beat ever in

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Speaker 1: my life. Yeah, And suddenly this year is all about

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Speaker 1: the beats, all about the beats.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think you take that beat? Now versus

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Speaker 2: back then.

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Speaker 1: I think because of Ocean. Yeah, yeah, I think she's

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Speaker 1: softened me up quite a bit. Even this season. I've

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Speaker 1: been you know, when people would come for me, you know,

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Speaker 1: because they love to hold me to my past. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I res of the right to evolve. Yes, we

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So when you're when I'm sitting there with a group

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Speaker 1: about what I did five years ago, you lost me yawning,

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Speaker 1: I'm yawning, sleeping, like, let's why are we going there?

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Speaker 1: And then I think is my rebuttal going to change

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Speaker 1: their mind? Probably not. So why waste my breath and

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Speaker 1: your energy and my energy? Yeah, I have so many

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Speaker 1: other things that are less boring, yeah, to be doing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we had we had the reunion.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Okay, you had the reunion.

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Speaker 1: We had the reunion.

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling about that? The vander Pump Rules

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Speaker 2: reunion season nine?

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Speaker 1: You know, it was a strange feeling for me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna spill some tea, let's hear it. I I

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Speaker 1: finished the reunion. We're all wrapped up and good. And

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Speaker 1: I didn't hear from one person on my cast, except

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Speaker 1: for Raquel to say, hope you're doing okay? Right, That

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Speaker 1: was very telling for me. For me, that was like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, maybe things that you thought about. And

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that this group of my friends are

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Speaker 1: bad people in any way. Just because I'm going through

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Speaker 1: something doesn't mean the world stops. However, example, Tom Sandoval

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Speaker 1: will post something about his Men's makeup line, and if

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Speaker 1: I think the photo is fantastic that he posts, I

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Speaker 1: really liked that. I think you looked great. I think

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Speaker 1: I was visibly upset on the reunion, okay, And for

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Speaker 1: sorry for what you're going through, right, was like I said,

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Speaker 2: So, without giving too much away about what you talked

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Speaker 2: got emotional and you were hoping or even expecting some

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Speaker 1: It didn't happen. And I want to sit here and

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Speaker 1: If the roles were reversed, I probably would have reached

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Speaker 1: I've been on this show for six years. I've changed

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Speaker 1: a lot as a person. No one can tell me otherwise.

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Speaker 1: You can sit here and talk about what I do

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Speaker 1: wrong all day long. I look in the mirror. I'm

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Speaker 1: back on my time, I love it. It was the ultimate.

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Speaker 1: It's been the ultimate mirror for me. But after that

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Speaker 1: reunion you know, I sat back and thought, is this

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Speaker 1: say tomorrow they call and they say we've been picked up.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, Okay, Yeah, that's which is pretty huge for

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Speaker 2: you to say. That's been so much of your life.

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Speaker 1: It has been, Yeah, but during the one of the

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Speaker 1: darkest times I've been in the darkest time I've been

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Speaker 1: not check in on me was like taking a fucking bullet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, painful, I'm sure you know, yeah, And I'm sure

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Speaker 2: that's hard not to put words into your mouth, But

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Speaker 2: I'm just thinking of my own experiences and I haven't

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Speaker 2: even gone through anything as close to what you're going through.

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Speaker 2: But you're vulnerable, and that's hard in itself.

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Speaker 2: You're speaking what you went through and you're showing look

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Speaker 2: at this, my heart is like I'm literally holding it

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Speaker 2: sure it can be.

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Speaker 1: It'd be painful for anyone. Yeah, when you're looking at

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Speaker 1: and you're sitting here completely humbled by a situation, you know,

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Speaker 1: So it was weird. I left. I left that reunion

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Speaker 1: to what I feel is important, what I want out

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Speaker 1: of life. Yeah, and I'll be forever grateful for vander

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Speaker 1: Pump Rules, and I'll be forever grateful that we got

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Speaker 1: to come back after a really crazy year of not

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Speaker 1: I guess we'll see the universe back to the universe.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let it do its thing. Let it

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Speaker 1: do its thing. It has never let me down.

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Speaker 2: That's and that's huge. That's huge, especially now in moments

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Speaker 2: Why did that happen? I truly believe that it might

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Speaker 1: I love that word guidance, your guidance. Yeah, and not

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Speaker 1: like not. People can only do so much for you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think that, you know, I'm sorry you

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Speaker 2: Well. On a positive note, you've said great things about

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Speaker 1: And I felt soft this season and really you're not soft.

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Speaker 1: from this season? Yeah, compared to other seasons, it's like

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Speaker 2: and you said.

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Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore.

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Speaker 2: I've got a baby at home, I'm out, and you're

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Speaker 2: just like, bye.

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Speaker 1: Let me spill some tea on that real quick, hear it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So well, cameras didn't catch this. When I said that,

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Speaker 1: Sandoval goes and there it is, wait meaning what like that?

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Speaker 1: They probably knew, like Lala's gonna bring up the baby

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Speaker 1: car that she's now a mom. And you know what,

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Speaker 1: anyone who says baby doesn't change you, A baby changes you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the second dive little babe comes out of your body,

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Speaker 1: No one's going to take that away from me. Cut too.

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Speaker 5: Again.

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Speaker 1: we go, Hey.

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Speaker 4: La La, my name is Haley Mellow and Jacksonville, Florida.

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Speaker 4: I was just calling to ask you, if on your podcast,

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Speaker 4: I'm a big fan. I've always watched vanderpupp Roles at

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Speaker 1: from Tamra Judge's Life. This is the best shit ever

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Speaker 1: Venna and Venna Yes so good. Yeah, by the way,

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Speaker 1: I swear by it. Yeah, I posted about it. Yeah

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Speaker 2: Hayley does hot yoga? Have you ever done hot yoga?

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Speaker 1: I did hot yoga once, you guys, and I literally

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Speaker 1: Regular old yoga is good for me.

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Speaker 2: I love that. Okay, Well that also I think.

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Speaker 1: That people need to be like either having sex or masturbating.

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Speaker 1: Oh there, you know everyone is the care. Yes. I

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Speaker 1: let's talk about the cookie, what it needs and what

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Speaker 2: It's so funny when I still see like magazines are

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Speaker 3: Why is that naughty? You're taking care of your body.

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Speaker 1: Self care we're changing it, We're changing the game.

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Speaker 2: Yes, take care of the vaginas and the penises, all

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Speaker 2: So next voicemail, Hi, La La.

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Speaker 5: It's Brittney from Canada.

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Speaker 1: I just got your book.

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Speaker 5: I listen every Wednesday. Thanks so much, Bye.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know, Yeah, I don't know yet, but I'm

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I love that. On that sad but sweet

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, you know how fucking Utah is. It's

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Speaker 3: I grew up in Salt Lake City, Draper?

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Speaker 1: Okay do you know?

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Speaker 1: Tell me so.

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Speaker 3: I was texting one of my really good guy friends,

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Speaker 3: His name's Landon, Landon.

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Speaker 1: He was here where we are right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes, they're on a road trip.

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Speaker 3: So but like it's too crazy, it's too crazy.

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Speaker 3: He likes to hit it from the back girls, my

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Speaker 1: tell me everything. Well, I mean, my family's very open,

438
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Speaker 1: so I had I knew kind of what this sounds.

439
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 1: So Strange's fine, we talk about sex and the family

440
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,479
Speaker 1: like whatever, okay, but not like this, no, like this.

441
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I think he's told me like that's

442
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, great, okay, perfects good because for some.

443
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 3: People they'd be like, I don't want to fucking hear that.

444
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 3: But it's just so funny.

445
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: It's just sex though.

446
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 3: Sex.

447
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like not a big deal, right, not at all.

448
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 3: My family is very open too. But I mean us coming.

449
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: From Utah, were you born and raised Mormon?

450
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 3: So oh a little bit. My mom very heavily raised Mormon,

451
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 3: but then she threw me in private Catholic school, so.

452
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 1: So she was like traumatized by Mormons.

453
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 3: No, I think she just thought it would be a

454
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 3: better education quotation marks. It's not, by the way, like

455
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:17,239
Speaker 3: public school would have been.

456
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: Where'd you go to school? San Diego, Wan Diego? I

457
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: remember the good JD.

458
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 3: They had some wild parties. I know, it was all

459
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 3: party people.

460
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 1: It was all party people.

461
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 3: That's why I have a problem now really, I mean

462
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,360
Speaker 3: not really, but like that's probably like where it started.

463
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 1: It was all of the private schools that had the

464
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 1: most partying because you threw a bunch of like people

465
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Speaker 1: that came from money into one school and it was like,

466
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: let's get it poppen.

467
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: And it was the counter culture because public schools it

468
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 3: was mostly Mormon kids, right, and then you take all

469
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 3: the non Mormon kids and throw them into high school.

470
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 3: So it's you know, radiacts like the movie.

471
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Speaker 1: So then when did you decide Utah is not my thing?

472
00:25:58,640 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm headed to New York.

473
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 3: I had a really bad breakup with my boyfriend at

474
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 3: the time. Okay, I'd always wanted to move to New

475
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 3: York because I have like family there, and I mean

476
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 3: a lot of people do right, right, and so the

477
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 3: breakup was really fucking bad. And I just I was

478
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 3: twenty four, twenty five, and my mom said, if you're

479
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 3: ever gonna move out of Utah, now's the time, okay,

480
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 3: because in a few years you're going to be married

481
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 3: or have kids and then you're not leaving, you know

482
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 3: what I mean? Right, So within two weeks I packed

483
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 3: up my shit and moved to New York.

484
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. It was insane and you just like

485
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 1: packed a bag. Did you have a place to stay?

486
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 4: Like?

487
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 3: I stayed with my aunt a little bit. She's a

488
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 3: very interesting person. So I immediately was finding a new

489
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 3: fucking place because I was like, I need to get

490
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 3: the fuck out of this apartment. And I found a

491
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 3: studio apartment. I lived there by myself. It was horrifying.

492
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 3: It was a really really hard time in my life.

493
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: I knew no one in New York.

494
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 3: I'm sleeping on a mattress in the floor, like on

495
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 3: the floor.

496
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

497
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 3: And then and then over time, you know, things got

498
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 3: really good.

499
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: I love it. So when did you always want to

500
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: be in the entertainment world? Like, what was your plan

501
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: when you got to New York?

502
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 3: I had no intention of working in entertainment ever.

503
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 5: Ever.

504
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 3: Ever.

505
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 1: I worked in a finance firm.

506
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 3: I majored in economics, and I fucking hated it. But

507
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 3: everyone told me, you're not gonna make money doing something

508
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 3: in entertainment or like English or anything like that, So

509
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 3: do something like economics. Worked in finance. When I went

510
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 3: to New York, I worked in finance, and then obviously

511
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 3: shit changed. Yeah, I met a girl, we moved in together.

512
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 3: We thought we were really fucking funny together. We started

513
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 3: a show, it got really big, and.

514
00:27:59,240 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 5: That was that.

515
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 3: No, I'm in the fucking entertainment industry.

516
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: That's got to be so strange. I always look at

517
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 1: people who I have a friend who she is from Kentucky,

518
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: wanted nothing to do with entertainment, moved to LA for

519
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: a dude. Then she's just on vander Pump Rules, and

520
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: suddenly entertainment is her life. That's it's so insane because

521
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: it's not like you you go from like where you were,

522
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: and then all of the sudden, people know who you are.

523
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 1: They want to judge every word that you're saying. Yeah,

524
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: that's got to be intense.

525
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 3: It's very very intense. I mean, it's still intense, you know,

526
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 3: you know, I do know, so I you know what

527
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 3: I think for anyone listening who maybe wants to get

528
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 3: into entertainment or like switch up their careers, you got

529
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 3: to kind of move to the states that will help that,

530
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 3: you know, right, Like if you live in Utah or

531
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 3: Kansas or something like that, you gotta go to La

532
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 3: New York like.

533
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: Something, right, Well, because I lived in Utah and would

534
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: want it to be an entertainment and I had like

535
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: this little agency, and I think like the biggest job

536
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: that would have been the most lucrative was like a

537
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: Ken Garf commercial that but reading a teleprompter is not

538
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: my thing. And that's where I lost to them, And

539
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: they were like, I think we're going to go a

540
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: different direction.

541
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, so okay, so were you planing on working in entertainment.

542
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: My whole life, my entire life, my entire life. I

543
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: was like, I want to be an actress. I was

544
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: in all the plays, I was in choir. Oh yeah,

545
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: I was like.

546
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 3: You were confident as fuck then, like from when you

547
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 3: were little.

548
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 1: I don't know that I was confident, but I did

549
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: know what I wanted. And I remember my high school

550
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: counselor would be like, you need to take the SAT.

551
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm moving to Hollywood. I'm gonna be

552
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: fucking famous. And she was like, okay, A very small

553
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: percentage of people have that happen to them, and I

554
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: was like, well, I'm going to be one of them.

555
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 3: That is one of the funniest fucking things I've ever heard.

556
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 3: She's probably like, look at you now, shit.

557
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'm sure she thought I was going

558
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: to be winning Oscars and not on the Gossip blog,

559
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: but tomato, tomato, fuck it.

560
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 3: You know what? Still, I mean, the money you're making

561
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 3: compared to what she wanted you to be doing, yeah,

562
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 3: speaks for itself.

563
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: She was concerned about my math score test, and I

564
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: told her the only thing I need to do is

565
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: count my money. If I can count my money, we'll

566
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: be fine.

567
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 3: That I'm writing that down and I'm using it in

568
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 3: my own podcast. Don't be mad, because I.

569
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 1: Won't be mad ever do it.

570
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: I just need to know math to count my fucking money.

571
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: That's it. And then you'll just pay someone to do

572
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: the rest, someone that's well, you went to college, so

573
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: you're a smart, hot bitch.

574
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm still not doing it though, and I

575
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 3: don't remember it, so it's nice the time.

576
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,719
Speaker 1: You're too busy being a boss bitch and doing your show.

577
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: Thank you. So I have to be honest. I'm not

578
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: well aware of the other show. You did call her daddy.

579
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 1: The only reason I knew about it was because we

580
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: don't be offended. We talked shit, So I don't even

581
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: know what you said. However, I do know that you

582
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: spoke about out Randall giving a girl in Utah a

583
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: range Rover. He then took that range Rover away from

584
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,239
Speaker 1: her and gave it to me. Yes, and why that

585
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: wasn't a red flag for me, I'll never know. In

586
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: that moment, I demanded that we get rid of the

587
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 1: range Rover. Is done. I need a new car. I

588
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: got the g Wagon, ditched the g Wagon. But I

589
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: did do that because that's I.

590
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 3: Mean, the fact that you didn't see that as a

591
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 3: red flag is you know something, But the fact that

592
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 3: you fucking upgraded is pre boss.

593
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: And how did you know, Like where would you get

594
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: all of your tea from?

595
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 3: So there, I mean, it was just kind of a

596
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 3: rumor in like this circle of people in Utah that

597
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 3: I don't really hang out with, and that's how I

598
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:48,479
Speaker 3: heard it, and the fact that I said it on

599
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 3: the show. I thought it was just kind of funny.

600
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 3: Right looking back, it was probably hurtful to you.

601
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: I mean, Randall.

602
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 3: Actually messaged someone like in that group saying I'm a suit.

603
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 3: Oh no, he messaged me. Oh he messaged me and

604
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 3: he said he was gonna sue me. So that was fun.

605
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: And did you tell him our attorneys are to get

606
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: us out of everything everything?

607
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 3: Holy shit, I fucking wish I did. I should have guys,

608
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 3: By the way, our attorney will get us out of

609
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 3: everything is like my slogan, my merch, my lifestyle.

610
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: So I spoke about it because your merch is the

611
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: best merch I've ever seen. Thank you. And the fact

612
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: that you posted the police report of them saying that

613
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: Sophia replied our attorneys will get us out of everything.

614
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 3: I think I need to explain to people. So I

615
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 3: got arrested multiple times, but this time that I got arrested,

616
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 3: they handcuffed me. I was obviously belligerent. I did a

617
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 3: lot of crazy shit, and when the attorneys were taking

618
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 3: me to jail, I was screaming at the top of

619
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 3: my lungs, and I was like, our attorney will get

620
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 3: us out of everything, because I was with my friend, yeah,

621
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 3: and I was like, just just so you fucking know,

622
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 3: like that's what's going on.

623
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 1: So were you who you are now?

624
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 3: Oh?

625
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: When I got arrested, when you said our attorneys will

626
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: get us out of everything, I was fuck.

627
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 3: I was like seventeen. I didn't even know what an

628
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 3: attorney was.

629
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: I saw that shit on Law and Order, like an

630
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: episode makes me even better, right.

631
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm going to use it. He

632
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 3: didn't believe me obviously, but like now now my attorney

633
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 3: now will get me out of everything.

634
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: I know that, right. Oh, I bet your attorney has

635
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: his hands full.

636
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 3: He hates me. He hates me, he really does. And

637
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 3: he has clients that are way bigger than me, right,

638
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 3: and so he's like, why like why are you my client?

639
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 3: Like I gotta go talk to like this person. I mean,

640
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna name drop, but I'm I'm at like

641
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 3: the bottom feeder out of his client.

642
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: But you and me both okay, But he still take

643
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: my lawyer takes my calls, which is nice.

644
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 3: That's you know, I sometimes get my calls answered. That's

645
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 3: not even a joke. Like half like half the time.

646
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: So back to the range rover. Yep, he threatens. Randall

647
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: threatens you via DM Yeah, yeah, something like that. I

648
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: can't okay, And how did you this group of people?

649
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: How did you know? How did you know them? They

650
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: just reached out to you.

651
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 3: Well, Angie who had the range drover? She is from

652
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 3: Utah with the blonde hair. Yes, I think I did

653
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 3: a modeling job with her once, like years ago. Did

654
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 3: you know that Randall and her had a thing?

655
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: I The reason I knew that was because he was

656
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: messing around on his ex wife with her and she

657
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: DMed his wife about it.

658
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 3: Red flag number two. I'm just gonna say.

659
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 1: That, Yeah, I know, Can I know? Can I tell

660
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 1: you this? In my mind, I was like, no one's

661
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: past is squeaky clean, and maybe he would maybe like

662
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: I was the person that he fell for, and it

663
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 1: was like things aren't cookie cutter, and that's that's where

664
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: my head was.

665
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 3: You know what, That is very very true, And I'm

666
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 3: glad you pointed that out because I have cheated on

667
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 3: every single boyfriend until this one, and I never.

668
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: Would right like, sometimes something changes and for me it

669
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 1: was like it was in the past and I'm not

670
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: saying that I wasn't upset about all of these things.

671
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 1: I definitely was, but I also felt like maybe he's

672
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 1: turned a corner and he's found someone, meaning me, that

673
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 1: he enjoys being with, and we'll be together forever, and

674
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: like this is the new Randall, just like I have

675
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: don't have a squeaky clean past even.

676
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's completely fair that you thought that way. Yeah,

677
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 3: because I have thought that way too. You know, my

678
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 3: the guy I'm dating now was the biggest fuck boy. Yeah,

679
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:53,240
Speaker 3: And I said, maybe I'm the girl that changed him, right,

680
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 3: So I mean, yeah, sometimes that is true.

681
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where my head was.

682
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I get that.

683
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: So Angie mysages you and says, no, gone.

684
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 3: She didn't, dude, that is so fucking funny. No she

685
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 3: I don't talk to her. Oh I don't know her.

686
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 3: She had told someone who told someone who told a

687
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 3: friend of mine. Okay, thing, that's how it happened.

688
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: What a shit show mm hm.

689
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 3: And then that friend told me, And I didn't bring

690
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 3: it up to you because I didn't know you, and

691
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 3: because I didn't think it was my place necessary necessarily,

692
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 3: and I didn't know if you wanted to know. Because

693
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 3: some people don't.

694
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I'm one of those people who definitely. I mean,

695
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 1: are you someone who wants to know? Or do you

696
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: like keeping your head in the sand.

697
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 3: I've thought about this. I think that if it's a

698
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 3: one off thing and my guy went to Vegas, got drunk,

699
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,439
Speaker 3: fucked a girl, never talks to her again, never does

700
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 3: it again, something along those lines, or it's a makeout

701
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 3: or something. Yeah, don't tell me. I don't need to know. Wow,

702
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 3: if it's an ongoing thing and it's multiple women and

703
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 3: he's cooking up with the.

704
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: Same girl over and over and over, then I need

705
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: to know.

706
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 3: Okay, that's how I feel about it.

707
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 1: I I want to know whether it was a one

708
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: time thing, one night stand relationship, because I need to

709
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: know so I can get the fuck out.

710
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 3: Really yes, really, So you can't forgive that any kind

711
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 3: of thing.

712
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Okay, I get that. I get that. Nope,

713
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,479
Speaker 1: you fuck up one time.

714
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

715
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: I just think of myself as a very expensive fine

716
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 1: wine okay, right, you know. Yeah, and if you're gonna

717
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: pop the cork, let me sit out.

718
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.

719
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be as good and you might as well.

720
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 1: Just it's gonna be thrown away. Yeah, so if you

721
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: feel like you want to throw a fine wine away,

722
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: then that's up to you. Like I'm a luxury you are.

723
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that.

724
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: And I'm a down bitch yep, I agree with that,

725
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 1: but I feel the same way about myself too. Well,

726
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you don't right based off of

727
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: what you said. That's just that is just your personal

728
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: how you feel about things, you know, So I'm sorry.

729
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to say that you must not think

730
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,479
Speaker 1: of yourself as a fine wine.

731
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 3: You're like you are a fucking eleven dollars fucking white claw.

732
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 3: So I don't know what you're talking about.

733
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,280
Speaker 1: No, you're a fine wine too. It's just all about

734
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: what you expect out of a relationship. And what you're

735
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: saying makes total sense. We do live in a day

736
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 1: and age where everybody is so accessible. You think a

737
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: girl's hot in fucking Canada, you send her a DM,

738
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 1: You're sexting the next minute, next minute, you're linking up

739
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: like shit happens, got it? Yeah, but I don't do

740
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: that to people. I've actually never cheated ever. Oh, You've

741
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: never cheated on anyone? No, Because I just feel like

742
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: if I want to sleep with someone else that I

743
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 1: obviously don't want to be in a relationship with someone,

744
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,280
Speaker 1: so I should just like do that without having a person.

745
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 3: You know, But have you ever dated just like a

746
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 3: toxic piece of shit where it like wouldn't even matter

747
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: type thing.

748
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just left him and I still didn't fuck around.

749
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 3: Okay, that's interesting because the guys that I've cheated on

750
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 3: were like pieces of shit basically, So I was like,

751
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 3: fuck you, like I don't care, right, And I had

752
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 3: suspicions that they were cheating, and you know, for some

753
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 3: of them, like we would do threeesomes and okay like that,

754
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 3: So I was like, whatever, what's the big.

755
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,280
Speaker 1: Whatever, what's the big deal? And how old are you?

756
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 3: Twenty nine?

757
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so you were you were like a baby, like

758
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: you're still in your twenties. Twenties are for being a

759
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: shit show.

760
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 5: M hm.

761
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:50,799
Speaker 1: You know you got to get it out so that

762
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 1: you can be a productive human later on in life.

763
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 3: Absolutely. Yeah, I'm thinking about if I would want to

764
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 3: know if I got cheated on, just after what you

765
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 3: were saying, I think that theoretically, I don't think I

766
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 3: would want to know. I think that if I was

767
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 3: married with kids, then I really wouldn't want to know,

768
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,879
Speaker 3: just for like my kids, you know, because like it's

769
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 3: hard for them to have their parents breaking up. Your

770
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 3: situation is completely different and you absolutely needed to. Yeah,

771
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 3: But theoretically that's I like to think that I wouldn't

772
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 3: want to know. But when I you know, if I

773
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 3: sit and really really think about it, I probably would

774
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 3: want to fucking know.

775
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: I think your gut speaks to you, and that's how

776
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: you make your decision.

777
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 3: And I think, yeah, I think I would want to know.

778
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 3: I guess I would be able to forgive someone for

779
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 3: doing it if it was one time. And so then

780
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 3: that's where I'm like, so what I even want to know?

781
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: I totally get where you're coming from. Yeah, Yeah, I

782
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 1: love that.

783
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 3: I need to think about it a little bit more

784
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 3: and get back to you guys, think about it a

785
00:40:58,480 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 3: little bit more.

786
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: We're going to cut to a sh shor break and

787
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: we will be right back with Sophia Franklin. We are

788
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: back with you could possibly be one of the most

789
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 1: beautiful people I've ever seen, Lala, but you're from Utah,

790
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: so it makes sense because everyone there is so fucking hot. Yeah,

791
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: and you have great teeth, which everyone in Utah has

792
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: good teeth, I know, and they're real, right, Yeah, everything.

793
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 3: Is real, which everyone tells me it's fucking not. And

794
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 3: that's not me trying to be like I am just

795
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 3: like a natural fucking beauty because I absolutely am gonna

796
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 3: be getting shit done.

797
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: You've never had an injection, no, can I tell you?

798
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: I believe you. And here's why. Okay, your lips are

799
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: super soft. They're not like mine where they're like kind

800
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: of from the side, come out a little bit, you know. Yeah,

801
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: your your face is still soft. It moves, which is great.

802
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 1: Good for you.

803
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 3: So I candards are high, they're low, the bar is low.

804
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: Well, once you start doing that shit, you can't you

805
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: can't turn back. You become addicted, you do.

806
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, is that a real thing?

807
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like there have been times where I look at

808
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: myself and I'm like, ooh, look in a little cattish

809
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: and a little ducky. You look about fifty six. But

810
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: then it goes away. It does. The fillers go away,

811
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: the botox goes away, and because I'm still breastfeeding, I

812
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: can't get filler or botox, so my face moves now too.

813
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: Can't say I love it, okay, but it's like whatever

814
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: you know.

815
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 3: Are you scared of the filler migrating? Have you heard

816
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:30,399
Speaker 3: of that being a thing?

817
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've heard of that.

818
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 3: Do you believe it?

819
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: I do with certain doctors, But I go to doctor Diamond,

820
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: who is like the best, the best of the best,

821
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: and his technique is way different and what he puts

822
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: in your face is his own little concoction of what

823
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: he's done, like what he's created.

824
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,399
Speaker 3: Right, So I've never had an issue. Okay, So I'm

825
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 3: twenty nine. I haven't had anything done. But I don't

826
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 3: want to like look old and wrinkly when i'm you,

827
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:03,320
Speaker 3: but you don't, but I will when you're forty. I'm done, right,

828
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:04,720
Speaker 3: Yeah about.

829
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 1: Your twenty nine? So just wait. I think the first

830
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 1: time I got botox, I think I was like twenty four, okay,

831
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: and it was just too much, right, you know, Like

832
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:15,839
Speaker 1: I'm looking at you. You don't need any of it.

833
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 3: I want you to like really examine my face. I'm

834
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 3: you get off the show and like, actually tell me.

835
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 3: You're in natural light right now, which is the harshest,

836
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 3: and there's nothing You.

837
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: Have great skin? Okay, if you ever need someone to

838
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 1: toot your horn, I'm the best at it.

839
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, Actually, can you keep talking about how hot I

840
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 3: am for a second.

841
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,280
Speaker 1: You're definitely hot. I think you like. Good for you guys.

842
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 3: My name is Sofia Enough Franklin with the why I

843
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 3: go to all of my social media handles. My show

844
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 3: is so Fio Enough and yeah, I'm the hottest person

845
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: you'll ever see.

846
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: The damn true. I can go no for real, thank you.

847
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 1: That's really sweet. So I want to talk. We spilled

848
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: the tea, which I love. That's my most favorite part

849
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: of doing a podcast, to spill the tea. You went

850
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: through a very public I would say, do you feel

851
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 1: like you were betrayed?

852
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 3: Yeah?

853
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: Okay. My question is because I'm going through that now,

854
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: how do you bounce back from something like betrayal? If

855
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: we're so close to someone and you trust them with

856
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 1: your life and then suddenly you are betrayed by them, Like,

857
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: how do you go into the world and trust anybody again?

858
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 3: Yeah? So I've been betrayed by men and I never expected.

859
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 3: So I've been betrayed by men. My dad's not really

860
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 3: in the picture. So I was raised by my mom

861
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 3: and my aunt and like a lot of strong women, Okay,

862
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 3: and so I kind of I felt safety, you know,

863
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 3: when it came to women, right, not so much with men. Okay,

864
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 3: So being betrayed by a dude is really fucking hard

865
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 3: and hurts. And I've been there when I was betrayed

866
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 3: by someone I felt was like a sis.

867
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: That was a really like that was a mind fuck

868
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: for me, you know, I can imagine. So how did

869
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: I bounce back?

870
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 3: It takes time, but you just you have to just

871
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 3: go through the motions every single day. You have to

872
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:22,399
Speaker 3: allow yourself to be fucking depressed. You need to talk

873
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 3: about it NonStop, stress over it. That's what helps you.

874
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 3: That's what helps me. Yeah, is just like talking to

875
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 3: everyone about it, right, and therapy obviously, and I think that,

876
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 3: you know, it just takes time. And what I had

877
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 3: to realize is that is not going to be the

878
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 3: first and the last time that I'm going to get

879
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 3: betrayed by someone, right, you know, And so you can't

880
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 3: live your life never trusting anyone ever again because that's

881
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 3: not gonna work.

882
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 1: So how long ago was that? How long ago was

883
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: it that that had happened.

884
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 3: Oh, I want to say like a year and a half,

885
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 3: So that's pretty fresh.

886
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 1: It is it is it is? And do you feel

887
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: like if this not that this same situation would happen

888
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: to you again? But if you ever are betrayed again, which,

889
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: like you said, we will all be betrayed multiple times

890
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 1: in our lives, do you feel like you have new

891
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: tools to deal with it?

892
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 3: Absolutely? That is the silver lining about something like this

893
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 3: is I think you are able to spot people better

894
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 3: that you shouldn't trust you. Yeah, and because you've seen

895
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 3: the signs before, and I feel like I'm way better prepared.

896
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:43,280
Speaker 3: I'm more prepared and more well prepped basically to deal

897
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 3: with another betrayal. And it's made me way fucking stronger.

898
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 3: And I think that that happening was good for me.

899
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 3: I know it's crazy to say, but I do. I

900
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 3: just I think there's a bigger plan for me. I

901
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 3: love that, And you know that was just something that

902
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 3: needed to happen along the way to prepare me for

903
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 3: something bigger.

904
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: Do you right now? I'm like very into the universe

905
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,280
Speaker 1: and what its plan is for me, and don't question

906
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: it even if it doesn't make sense. Allow it to

907
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: place you where you're supposed to be. Was it hard

908
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: for you because it sounds like now you've done that. Like,

909
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 1: looking back, you're like, this was supposed to happen. Yes, yes,

910
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 1: do you do you feel like in that time, when

911
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: you were in it with the betrayal, that it was

912
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: like I have to put this in someone else's hands,

913
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: the universe, my higher power. Fuck.

914
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:40,800
Speaker 3: No, No. When it first happened, I was I had

915
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 3: It was so traumatic that I was numb and I

916
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 3: don't even remember a lot of it because I blacked

917
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 3: it out. But now that I've taken time for myself,

918
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 3: now I'm like into the universe and all those things.

919
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 3: But at the time, no.

920
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: No, you were too in it. You were drowning. Yes, yes,

921
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:02,280
Speaker 1: exactly did she ever reach out to you again after

922
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: that or was it just like, no, here's a pile

923
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: of shit, deal with it. I'm out. Mm hm wow yeah.

924
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 3: Yeah.

925
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 1: How long after this all happened, did you say fuck it?

926
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm starting my own show, so feel with an F.

927
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 3: So that's a really interesting thing. So my entire life

928
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 3: blew up, and I don't know how I did it,

929
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 3: but I guess I'm just a strong ass bitch because

930
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 3: I just went through the motions and I got up

931
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,439
Speaker 3: every single day and I said, what's the next move,

932
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 3: what's the next move? On the phone with my lawyer,

933
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 3: Let's get out of you know, my current contract, on

934
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 3: the phone with my agent, Let's get a new show going.

935
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 3: Let's fucking go. Yeah. I don't. I just I had

936
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 3: the strength. I knew that there was no other option,

937
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 3: and I wasn't gonna let it go down like that.

938
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm gonna speak my truth and this

939
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 3: isn't gonna ruin my life.

940
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: And would you say, would you say that you kept

941
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: the same format for Sofia with an F or did

942
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: you change it? Like? What would you say is like,

943
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 1: in a nutshell, what is Sofia with an F? About?

944
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 3: So I at first started with the same format because

945
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: I went from doing the show and fucking one month

946
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 3: or whatever later to starting my own and not having

947
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 3: the co host talking by myself, right, I didn't know

948
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 3: how to do that, you know on the old podcast.

949
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: Uh did you have guests or was it always just

950
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: the two guests? No guests?

951
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 3: No guess so I spent you know, two three years

952
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 3: with the same person talking and al sudden overnight, Oh

953
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 3: you're by yourself now?

954
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:47,799
Speaker 1: And was it once a week that you were doing

955
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: it or did you have a new episode multiple times

956
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:49,959
Speaker 1: a week?

957
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 3: It was once a week, okay, and that's how Sofia

958
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 3: with an fs so Sofia an f once a week.

959
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 3: I you know, kept maybe similar format because okay, that's

960
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 3: fifty percent of my show. I mean, not anymore, but

961
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 3: that's how. That's how it started. Now I've really come

962
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 3: into my own and now it is a different format. Okay,

963
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 3: it's more real to me.

964
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 5: Okay.

965
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 3: And also I'm older, I'm different, I've changed, of course.

966
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 3: So yeah, now it's different, and now it's fucking better.

967
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 1: It's better, and it is when you spend that much time

968
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: with someone, it's almost like you know, someone has cut

969
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 1: half of your body off. Yes, how do you function

970
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: without it? Yes?

971
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 3: I just realized that what type of person they are,

972
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 3: it was better for me to have the arm cut off, right,

973
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

974
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: One hundred percent?

975
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 3: Yeah?

976
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:47,720
Speaker 1: I completely get that, and.

977
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 3: Also realizing that's okay because I still got my other

978
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 3: arm and myself and I'm I'm good, I'm strong, I

979
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 3: can do this.

980
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,359
Speaker 1: On my own. Well you are doing it on your own.

981
00:50:58,440 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you so much.

982
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 1: I'm and you're killing it. Yeah, yes, And how long

983
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: have you did you say you had been in Utah

984
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 1: for this round.

985
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 3: I mean like when I moved back.

986
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you moved back? When did you move back

987
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: or not move? When did you decide to take a breather?

988
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 3: Yeah?

989
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 1: Call it that a breather in Utah.

990
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 3: Exactly, a sabbatical, a little vage. Yes, that was I

991
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 3: think January of last year.

992
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: Okay, And that's so funny.

993
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:32,280
Speaker 3: And then I'll be moving back this upcoming January.

994
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:34,879
Speaker 1: To New York, don't you think, Because I'm I feel

995
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,320
Speaker 1: the same way about Utah. It's a little slow paced,

996
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: but whenever shit gets real, I want to be back

997
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: there immediately.

998
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 3: Yes, it is my saving grace, It is my sanctuary.

999
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 3: Is that how you feel?

1000
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 5: Yes?

1001
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,720
Speaker 3: Did you go home when your shit happened?

1002
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: I haven't been able to, but I try to go

1003
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 1: back home off and I have a baby line called

1004
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: give Them Lalla Baby, and it's literally run out of

1005
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 1: my best friend gage. It's a very chic garage, but

1006
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: it's like a little family business. So I have to

1007
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 1: go back to see how it's moving and what we need.

1008
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,720
Speaker 1: But every time i'm there, I'm like, this is so

1009
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 1: normal and I love it. So I can imagine that

1010
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: that it's been amazing for your mental health.

1011
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 3: Yes, I got back to my roots and like, back

1012
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 3: to who I am as a person. I mean, there's

1013
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 3: nothing better than I mean for me.

1014
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 1: My mom, you know, I totally get it.

1015
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:33,879
Speaker 3: It's just she's my best friend. She's who I need

1016
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 3: in those moments.

1017
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 1: Do you have any siblings.

1018
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 3: I have a younger brother, a younger brother, and he.

1019
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,280
Speaker 1: Still lives in Utah. Does he live with your mom?

1020
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 3: Yes?

1021
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,799
Speaker 1: Yes, I love it because I have the same situation.

1022
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: Easton lives with my mom. Still. My dad passed away

1023
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: almost well, I think it's been four years. Sorry, but

1024
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: thank you, babe. So I totally get that dynamic of

1025
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 1: just like the mama, you and your.

1026
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 3: Brother totally so funny.

1027
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 1: I know, what does your brother twenty eight? Okay, yeah,

1028
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: the one that like likes Doggie style apparently.

1029
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,240
Speaker 3: Actually no, I think he likes it when the girls

1030
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 3: on her back on the bed and he's standing and

1031
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:10,399
Speaker 3: fects her that way.

1032
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. What in the world? And then what

1033
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: about your boyfriend? Does he come to Utah? Does he

1034
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: stay in New York?

1035
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:21,720
Speaker 3: He is in La. He's in La right now. Okay,

1036
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 3: I haven't seen him because I.

1037
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: Well you just got here, right.

1038
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 3: I got here a few days ago, but it's been

1039
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 3: non stop since I got here, so I haven't seen him,

1040
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 3: but he's in New York. Utah la constantly love it.

1041
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and what have you been doing in La? Tell

1042
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: us what? Like your plans are? What you're up to?

1043
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 3: So when I got here, I had an episode that

1044
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 3: came out. It's all about how to get fucked doggie.

1045
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 3: Because you think it's just simple and it's this easy thing,

1046
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 3: and it's like, Okay, assume the position, get you know,

1047
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 3: get get it from the back right. It's not, though,

1048
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 3: like there's so many things to it. You got to

1049
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 3: be archie your back right, you got to be looking

1050
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 3: back at him. Those are like the fundamentals, right right.

1051
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 3: You gotta get down on your forearms. Yes, But then

1052
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 3: it's like there's so much shit you can be saying.

1053
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 1: You need to ask him to slap it.

1054
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 3: You have to obviously tell him to like leave a mark.

1055
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,799
Speaker 3: You need to Oh my god, I love this one.

1056
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,479
Speaker 3: If he isn't shoving your face into the pillow, something's wrong.

1057
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 3: Something's wrong. I think you can do it yourself, Like

1058
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 3: you can put your head into the pillow and put

1059
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 3: your arms behind your back best so that he like

1060
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 3: grabs your wrists. Yeah, that's so hot, and it's like

1061
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:40,720
Speaker 3: men should be doing it, but if they're not, as women,

1062
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 3: let's take initiative. I can do it and let them

1063
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 3: know what the fuck is up.

1064
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 1: Get out the rule book for doggy style.

1065
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:46,919
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1066
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 3: I love how you just asked me what I've been

1067
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 3: doing in LA and I just told you how to

1068
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 3: get fucked dogs.

1069
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know how that happened, but I love it. Yeah. Okay,

1070
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: so that episode came out while you were here, and

1071
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: then everyone wanted you to demonstrate it. Yes, which I will.

1072
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 3: I'll do it here. We should take a video. And

1073
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 3: then the next day I did a photo shoot. Okay,

1074
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 3: I am not a model. I do a podcast. That

1075
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 3: was my first time ever doing something like that, Like

1076
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 3: there were real models and stuff.

1077
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: That shit is fucking hard. What was it for?

1078
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 3: It's for a new ath leisure were brands.

1079
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: And I don't know how models do it. And it

1080
00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: was eight hours.

1081
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 3: It was fucking exhausted.

1082
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: No, I don't know how they do it either. No,

1083
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 1: it's very hard to not look like a drunk puppet

1084
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,879
Speaker 1: because even if you're not drunk after an eight hour day,

1085
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:40,879
Speaker 1: you look like a drunk puppet.

1086
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 3: Right, And I actually pulled an all night or so,

1087
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 3: I had the dead eyes. You know what I'm saying,

1088
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 3: you're a savage. I mean I had to to get

1089
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 3: the show out because it's disaster.

1090
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 1: But I have a tip.

1091
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 3: I had those dead eyes because I was so tired.

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Speaker 3: And this model handed me this like a eyedrop thing

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Speaker 3: called Lumifi.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard of that? I've heard of Lumifhi is

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Speaker 1: it amazing?

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00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 3: I put it in my eyes. I looked awake immediately.

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00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 3: I don't know how have.

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00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:11,760
Speaker 1: You used Rohtos before?

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00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 2: No?

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00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 1: What is that? Rotos is what all the stoners use.

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00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:18,240
Speaker 1: So I use that, But can you use them today?

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00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: And tell me if it's just as good as lumifi

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00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 1: or if I need to buy? Will I will? I

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00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: think lumify? Maybe it also it brightens the white of

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00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: your eyes, right, yes? Yes, makes you less glazed over? Yes?

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00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: I love it. You're awake for your at leisure show?

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00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 3: Yes, exactly?

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00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: And then where can people listen to Sophia with an F?

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00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 3: Anywhere you listen to podcasts perfect Sophia with an F?

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00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 1: So that's s O F.

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00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 3: I A yeah, I can't even tell you how many

1112
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 3: people like text me and they're like Sophia with a pH,

1113
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 3: or like right into the show and they're like Sophia

1114
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:56,839
Speaker 3: with the pH. I'm like, do you know the name

1115
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 3: of the show. I'm just curious. It's Sofia the Enough.

1116
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: Well. I literally now refer to you as like I

1117
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 1: was talking to my assistant Jess, and I asked her

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00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: when Sofia with Enough was going to be here. I

1119
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: love that you're from Utah. Did you ever know the

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00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:08,959
Speaker 1: girl Barbie with a y bitch?

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00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 4: Yes?

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00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 3: See wait is she your friend?

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00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 5: Yeah?

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00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 1: Well we used to be really close and then iked

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00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: o it. Yes. Do you know a girl named sky Storge? Yes, Laala?

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00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 3: I saw a picture of you on my Space when

1127
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 3: I was fucking nineteen.

1128
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: Yesing the infamous sky Storage is what she went by

1129
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: on MySpace.

1130
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I remember she's posting pictures with a

1131
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 3: girl named Laala.

1132
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. And here we are.

1133
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:37,400
Speaker 3: Here we are two Utah girls in La having a blast.

1134
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 1: I really have had the best time with you. I'm

1135
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: so grateful that you made time in your busy schedule

1136
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: while you were in La to do my podcast. I've

1137
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: literally been obsessing over it. Mm hmm, so thank you

1138
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: for doing it.

1139
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 3: Was amazing.

1140
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 1: You're amazing vibe.

1141
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 3: You know some people, I've had some people that I

1142
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 3: don't really vibe with. This was a breeze, A breeze great.

1143
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: I like people to feel like they're literally sitting here

1144
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: talking with us. Yes, yes, I love that you did

1145
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: the damn thing. Thank you Lala for having me on

1146
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: you guys, Thank you so much for listening to another

1147
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 1: episode of the Give Them Lala Podcast. Remember, I want

1148
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 1: to hear from you, so please call me at one

1149
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: eight sixty six Lala Pod and we will catch you

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00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: next week.

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Speaker 3: Bye, guys,