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All thanks to 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: Live Nation. Never been left waiting by the phone. It's 13 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 2: the Fread Show. Hey Natalie, good morning, Welcome to the Progrum. 14 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: How are you? 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 3: I'm good, Thank you? 16 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: How are you doing all right? 17 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 2: I want to hear what happened with this guy Evan, 18 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: because we're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted 19 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: here it looks like maybe you have, but I need 20 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: to know the backstory. How did you meet? Tell us 21 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 2: about any dates you've been on, and then where things 22 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: are now? 23 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I have to agree, I do think I'm being ghosted. 24 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: We met at. 25 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 3: One of those like obsessive holiday pop up bars, you know, right, 26 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 3: which I go to every year, so I'm obsessed with them. 27 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 3: But we've changed numbers. And the next day he texted me, 28 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 3: he asked me out, and I honestly thought we got 29 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 3: along great and we had great chemistry from the first 30 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 3: two times you know, we hung out. Aside from making 31 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 3: sure that I got home safe after our date, I 32 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 3: have not heard from him at all. 33 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So I mean you felt like the conversation flowed you. 34 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 2: I mean because the topics were good. You guys seem 35 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: to have similar interests. I mean you walked away from 36 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: this date thinking that you would hear from him again, 37 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: Like nothing, a fancy of nothing weird, nothing crazy you did. 38 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. 39 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: There's so many different ways that we've heard over the 40 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 2: years that you could talk about something that would turn 41 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: somebody off or do something, but like he didn't see 42 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: that you know, you're Barbie collection at your house, or 43 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: you didn't bring up any streams like political stance or 44 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: conspiracy theory. 45 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 1: I mean, like it was all this very normal. 46 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 3: Very very normal, just like a good old fashioned fun time. 47 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 3: We didn't talk about politics, you know, that never came up. 48 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 3: That rarely comes up. On a first date for me anyway, 49 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. 50 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: We've heard so many things over the years, ways that 51 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: people have messed themselves up. But nonetheless, you felt like 52 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: everything went great. You were looking forward to seeing him again. 53 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: It's frustrating when you feel like you have a connection 54 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 2: with someone and then you don't hear from them again. 55 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 2: So that's where we come in. We're gonna play one song, 56 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: come back, call this guy, Evan. Natalie, you'll be on 57 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 2: the phone at the same time, and the hope here 58 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 2: is that we can figure out what's going on. Maybe 59 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 2: he's been busy, maybe he's been distracted with the holidays, 60 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 2: family stuff, who knows, and hopefully we can straighten everything 61 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: out and set you guys up on a second date. 62 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: And pay for it. 63 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I love that. 64 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: Hey, Natalie, Hi, welcome back. Let's call it Evan. 65 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 2: You guys met at a holiday pop up bar and 66 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: you exchange numbers, You went on a date. 67 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: You felt like the date went great. 68 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 2: You were attracted to him, the chemistry was there, the 69 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: conversation was there, and you expected that he would follow 70 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 2: up and ask you on another date. But he hasn't 71 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 2: done that, and you haven't heard from him in days, 72 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 2: and you want to know why, I. 73 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: Really really want to know why. I honestly, well so 74 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: do I. 75 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:24,959 Speaker 2: So do we Let's call this guy Evan. Now, good luck, Natalie, 76 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 2: thank you? Hello, Hi is a seven, I haven't good morning. 77 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, 78 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and 79 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 2: I have to tell you that we are on the 80 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: radio right now and I would need your permission to 81 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 2: continue with the call, which haf for just a little 82 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:47,119 Speaker 2: bit on the show. 83 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: Would you mind. 84 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 4: By sure? 85 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 2: I guess so, thank you very much. I'll get right 86 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: to it. We're calling on behalf of a woman named Natalie. 87 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: I guess you guys met at a bar and recently 88 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: went on a date. Do you remember Natalie? 89 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 4: I hope, yes, yes I do remember Natalie. 90 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 2: Okay, So she reached out to us and kind of 91 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: told us how you met and said that you guys 92 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:08,839 Speaker 2: had gone on a date that she thought went really 93 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: well and she was excited to sort of connect with 94 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 2: you and was looking forward to a second date. But 95 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 2: says you haven't reached out to her in days since 96 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 2: the date, and I guess haven't responded to her. Either, 97 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 2: So she feels like she's being ghosted. You know, did 98 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: you ghost her? Are you ghosting her? What's going on? 99 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 4: I don't, I guess I don't. 100 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, why like what happened? Because her impression of 101 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 2: this was that everything was great? So then I mean, 102 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 2: what's your hesitation. 103 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, in. 104 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 4: The beginning, everything was fine. But I took her to 105 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 4: my company's holiday party, and in the beginning things were fine, 106 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 4: and then she proceeded to getty pretty inebriated. 107 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 2: This is it's why you don't take a stranger chance 108 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: company holiday. 109 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 1: But okay, I don't take any date, right, it needs 110 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 1: to be. 111 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 2: Someone you know how they're gonna act. But okay, so 112 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 2: mistake number one evan kind of on you. But you 113 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 2: took Natalie to the party, she had too much to drink, 114 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 2: So so what does that mean? 115 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: Well, okay, so at. 116 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 4: One point, I go to the bathroom and I come 117 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 4: back out and there's this circle that's kind of formed 118 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 4: on the dance floor, and I go, I go to 119 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 4: this circle because I can't find her anywhere, and there 120 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 4: she is doing the worm in front of everybody. I mean, 121 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 4: like my top manager is there, laughing his face off. 122 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: Okay, wait a minute, were entertained, Like it wasn't like, 123 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 2: you know, she didn't do anything offensive. It sounds like 124 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 2: it went overwhelm laughing at her. Okay, all right, so 125 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 2: you're embarrassed because here she is a little overserved and 126 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 2: she's doing the worm and you're you're watching. 127 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 1: So that's it. That's enough. 128 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: Like, I mean, okay, people have a little too much 129 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: to drink. You left her own supervise. It's your fault. 130 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 4: No, No, it got worse. I wish that was I 131 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 4: wish that was it. Unfortunately, we went on the rest 132 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 4: of the night and she was going on, carrying on 133 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 4: and whatnot, and to the to a point where I 134 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 4: was kind of ignoring her to a certain extent. And 135 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 4: then she kind of disappeared again on me, and I 136 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 4: went looking for her, and she was outside with all 137 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:36,559 Speaker 4: the it guys and smoking a joint. 138 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: Oh it looks like she made herself right home. Guy, 139 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 2: I got to say, at least you didn't have to 140 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 2: babysit her. I mean, everyone seemed to love her. 141 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 4: She was alive with the party, yeah, I mean sort 142 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 4: of until her rendition of metallicas enter Sandman. 143 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 1: Oh wait, when did that happen. 144 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. We had a karaoke section at the party. 145 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 4: As a nice little carryo. 146 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 2: Sort of character, I would have to smoke say something 147 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 2: you certainly made Evan. I'm sorry, I forgot that Natalie 148 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 2: is yours. You've been listening. I'm very forgetful, Like I 149 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: so cut up in the story, enter Sandman. 150 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 5: Huh yeah, but hold on. 151 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 3: This has nothing to do with the song. It has 152 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 3: nothing to do with karaoke. It has everything to do 153 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 3: with that. Like I guess, I just I'm sorry that 154 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 3: like your coworkers like me more than you, that's it. 155 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 3: But like I'm fun, like everyone there loved me, Like, I. 156 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: Just get it. 157 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: It does sound fun, honestly, like it. I love that 158 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 2: you know you made yourself right at home, And I don't. 159 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: Know, I smell jealousy. Jealous? Is that diseasing? You think 160 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: they like? They like Natalie more than haven't. 161 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 3: Already hung out with I've already hung out with two 162 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 3: of his coworkers, like after the. 163 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 2: Party, your friends now, so we don't even need Evan anymore. 164 00:07:59,080 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: Forget about Evan. 165 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 3: We've gotten together. 166 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: Did you know that, Evan? Did you know that you 167 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: made friends? 168 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 6: Now? 169 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: This is news to me and they actually, Natalie, what 170 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: were you saying? 171 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 3: They actually they want me to apply for a job there. 172 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 6: They like, this is exactly why will never come because 173 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 6: you know what, you know what happened. 174 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 3: Maybe that just means that they didn't hate me, or 175 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 3: I didn't embarrass you as much as you just felt 176 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 3: embarrassed on your own. 177 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 2: Nothing to do with me, Big tim you know, I've 178 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: known you for years. I don't even know this man. 179 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 2: But he comes to the holiday party or the potluck 180 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 2: or whatever. I'm gonna get his number. He are gonna 181 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: be boys. We're gonna go out and have dinner, talk 182 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 2: about you. It's gonna be great. That's what happened here. 183 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: So Evan, you're you'll be doing their up in here. 184 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 2: It sounds like it sounds like this wasn't really as 185 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 2: bad for you as you think. 186 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: It was. 187 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 5: Great for him and me. 188 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 4: They're still talking about it. I'll never live this down never. 189 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: They're talking about it because they had a good time. 190 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: You're the only one. 191 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 3: That I guess didn't enjoy themselves, and that's unfortunate because 192 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 3: everyone else did. 193 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: Wow. 194 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 3: I would want to they And the thing is they 195 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 3: reached out to me. I didn't. They asked me for 196 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 3: my number, they followed me on Instagram, they reached out 197 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 3: to me, They asked if I wanted to go get coffee, 198 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 3: Like it was not my instigation. 199 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: To watch out right. 200 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 3: Perhaps it wasn't as embarrassing as you are leading them 201 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 3: to believe. 202 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 4: Okay, look over there, we're just embarrassed by yourself. 203 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 1: Can you get over this? 204 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: Like apparently people had a good time with her and 205 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 2: she's fun. 206 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: Is is she too much for you? Is that what 207 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: this is? 208 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 6: Like? 209 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 2: You want some you want someone who subdued, someone's gonna 210 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 2: follow you around on say anything? 211 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: Is that? Is that what this is about? 212 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 2: Because I mean, I don't think it would were as 213 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 2: poorly as you think it did, or at least according 214 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 2: to her, it didn't. 215 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 7: No, but you know what, it didn't go over poorly, 216 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 7: but this did. 217 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 2: And I'm out, oh wow, And you're about to get 218 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 2: to motive when she gets that job as a supervisor 219 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:14,719 Speaker 2: at your office cubicle. 220 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I see. 221 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 3: I'm professional enough to not allow my emotional feelings to 222 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 3: interfere with my work. 223 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 2: She's a professional who can do the worm and apparently 224 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 2: relate to all sorts of people. Those it guys are 225 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 2: hard to crack. 226 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: Man. 227 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, welcomed you in the circle exactly. That's so that 228 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:35,839 Speaker 2: didn't happen around here. I've known these people for years 229 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 2: and not invite me to hang out smoke weed. But 230 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you that Slavy ain't hanging out with me. 231 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 2: You kidding me, Engineer Karen not inviting me out? I know, 232 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 2: I know, all right. Look, so she's not interested in 233 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 2: you anymore? Which is this? This happens sometimes but not 234 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 2: very often where the person who asked to figure this 235 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 2: out now is out. So Evan, I'm sorry I wasted 236 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 2: your time, but I guess it doesn't matter. She doesn't 237 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 2: want to go out with you anyway. 238 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: That's totally fine. The ceilings mutual. 239 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: But when you see her in the break room, Natalie, 240 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 2: good luck to you. Thank you for your time as well. 241 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: Thank you time much. This is the Fread Show. 242 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 2: Kelly Clark City is returning to Las Vegas in twenty 243 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: twenty six for her studio Sessions Las Vegas Residency. 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It's Kiki's quite rizy. 253 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 2: Honorable Judge, Kiki is here now if you would, all right, let's. 254 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: Get into the court room. 255 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 6: Shout out to my girl Ali, who sent me this 256 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 6: one on TikTok. You can send your cases to me 257 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 6: on Social two at on air. 258 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 1: Kiki k e k E. 259 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 6: It says Kiki, Am I wrong for not changing my 260 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 6: wedding date because my sister is deciding to have a 261 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 6: baby Over the holiday break, my sister decided to surprise 262 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 6: our family with a pregnancy announcement, and while I'm happy 263 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 6: for her, she revealed that her due date falls on 264 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 6: the exact day of my wedding. However, my destination wedding 265 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 6: has been planned for months. I already booked the venue, 266 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 6: made deposits in scheduled travel arrangements. What's really bothering me 267 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 6: is that when I called it out, my mom, with 268 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 6: no hesitation, said, oh, you'll just have to change your 269 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 6: date or push the wedding back because your father and 270 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 6: I will be at the hospital with your sister. 271 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: I was crushed. 272 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 6: After talking it over with my fiance, we've decided that 273 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 6: we are not changing our wedding date and causing all 274 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 6: of our guests and inconvenience simply because my sister decided 275 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 6: to steal my moment once again? 276 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? 277 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 2: M I mean, wow, you got to the jury eight 278 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 2: five five five three five Judge Kiki? 279 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: What say you? 280 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 3: Look? 281 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: I know you know I never made a baby before. 282 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 6: Ye never did that, But I feel like you decided 283 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 6: to make this baby when you knew your sister was 284 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 6: getting married. 285 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: Like, come on, bro, well, I mean, what are you saying? 286 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 1: Did a get masked? 287 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 8: Yeah? 288 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 2: Sometimes no ovulation schedule occasional nine months. You're suggesting that 289 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 2: she had the baby, or made the baby, or tried 290 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 2: to make the baby to upstage the wedding. 291 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: I do on purpose. That's what she said in her life. 292 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: I believe she played that. Well. Yes, you you you 293 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 1: scared out of the day to. 294 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 6: Come out and then the pair your mother. Oh, I'm 295 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 6: so triggered by the mother because you don't even take 296 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 6: into consideration. I've already both traveled and destination and makeup 297 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 6: artists and all this stuff, and you just tell me 298 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 6: I needed to change my date and you won't be 299 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 6: at my wedding. You you have all your life to 300 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 6: not this baby. Okay, I have one wedding day, mar 301 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 6: let me have something. I don't know, am I missing something? 302 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 9: Because like it's not so easy sometimes to make a baby, 303 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 9: So if she's trying every time she's opulating, I don't 304 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:16,439 Speaker 9: think there's a way to do it on purpose you 305 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 9: get one. 306 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. 307 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 9: Man, Like, if you're trying, you just start trying. 308 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: Well, fertile myrtle. The odds of nailing the day are 309 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: not very good. Yeah, then you're gonna go. 310 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 6: Like the mom didn't even consist, Like it's just change 311 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 6: your date. 312 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: Like I'm not even arguing. 313 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: And I hate to say this, but short of of 314 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 2: the of the daughter wanting the mom in the room, 315 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 2: I mean, there's nothing stopping them from going to the 316 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 2: wedding and then flying to meet their grandchild the same 317 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 2: day or next day. 318 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: Like it's possible to just do all of this, That's 319 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: what I think. But no, you don't, we. 320 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 2: Don't just move weddings around because someone else is having 321 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 2: a baby. 322 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: No, exactly, No, that's what I say. 323 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 6: I think the parent I mean, no, one's taking the 324 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 6: bride into consideration here. 325 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: And I feel bad about this. 326 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 6: And I love that she's hear and her fiance are 327 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 6: standing on business and they're like, listen, if you want 328 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 6: to miss our wedding, hey, go for it, you know. 329 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: But I don't think it's right. 330 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 10: Yeah, she will miss the wedding because she'll be about 331 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 10: to pop, like the day of the wedding. 332 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: Right, whether, first of. 333 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 10: All, she's probably not gonna have the baby on the 334 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 10: wedding day. The little chances are also very slim and low. 335 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 10: I mean it could happen, of course, but very slim. 336 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 10: But she is not gonna fly when she's you know, 337 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 10: forty weeks pregnant or whatever, so she won't be there. 338 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think the grand personships forty weeks. 339 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: How many weeks is? Isn't it forty weeks? It is? 340 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: I mean I should know this. Yeah, I've been forty weeks. 341 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 1: I don't do fast math. 342 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 10: No, I was induce at thirty nine weeks because my baby, 343 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 10: yeah it was a week early, right. 344 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: So yeah, well she's not going to the wedding. That's no, Yeah, 345 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: she won't be there. Don't save her a plate. 346 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 6: That's terrible though, your only sister not able to be 347 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 6: beside you at your wedding. On top of that, your 348 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 6: parents completely just say for at you, Holleina is not 349 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 6: at her sister's wedding. I was not because mom was. 350 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 1: You were the system. 351 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 10: I was a sister. 352 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: Well, I didn't plan it this way, and you know 353 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: it hadn't yet. 354 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 10: I was pregnant my own wedding too, But I where 355 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 10: did you get a schedule? I didn't follow my schedule 356 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 10: for sure, but I didn't want my sisters because I. 357 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 1: Couldn't go for that. Yeah, yet I didn't download it 358 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: in time, and now here we are. 359 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 10: I didn't go to my own sister's wedding, and she 360 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 10: she came to mind. 361 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: But like she could and all. But I feel bad. 362 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: I still do feel bad about it. 363 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 10: But I, for medical reasons, couldn't travel after I think 364 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 10: it's like thirty five weeks or something. 365 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 2: I don't expect people to be planning because to Caitlin's point, 366 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 2: like it usually doesn't work, like you know, the first 367 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 2: time we try it happens. 368 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: For some people. 369 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 2: It does, but usually it's a bit of a process, 370 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 2: and so you don't really know, and you know, you're 371 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 2: probably not thinking that way, like, well, you know, if 372 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 2: we do it now, it's possible if I'm pregnant, it 373 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 2: done right, right. 374 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think it's that like that, but 375 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: I don't. You're right. 376 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: I hate to say this, but the wedding will happen once. 377 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 2: Hopefully the baby will be around for a long time. 378 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 2: You could meet the baby later in the day. I mean, 379 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 2: you're not unless you're delivering the baby physically, the obgyn 380 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 2: delivering the baby. You don't have to be there right then. 381 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: Everybody can have everything here. 382 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:14,639 Speaker 4: That's what I say. 383 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 6: We don't need to do one or the other. The 384 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,360 Speaker 6: baby can't even see you, like you're blur. They don't 385 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:21,239 Speaker 6: know who you are. You know, like you don't need 386 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 6: to do skin this game with the baby. 387 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: And the grand reaper. You're supporting your daughter giving birth. 388 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,360 Speaker 6: Put me on a FaceTime call mom. We got one 389 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 6: day in Cabo for the wedding. Come on now, it's tough. 390 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going through these texts eight five five five 391 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 2: nine three five. You can call on text. Keep the 392 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 2: wedding day. I mean, come on, you can't make everybody happy. 393 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 2: Nina says, I'm with Kiki danit an uninvited end of story. 394 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: Okay. 395 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 2: Uh, Lana says, I don't buy that the sister did 396 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 2: it on purpose, but I feel like the parents are 397 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 2: in the wrong. 398 00:17:55,760 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was just me wild key well the goalie 399 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: leading up to the way. All right, guys, let me 400 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: take care so to the math forty weeks backwards the 401 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 1: camp and then all right. 402 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 6: Nobody needs to be getting busy around my wedding day, 403 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 6: like you know, I get it together. 404 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so I'll be sure, okay, roughly when you're getting. 405 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 6: Married September of twenty twenty seven. 406 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:21,880 Speaker 1: All right, so let me think about this. Was that nice? 407 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 2: So I will not be having I will not copulate 408 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 2: in January of twenty twenty seven, just in case. Shot 409 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 2: close up shot right, and everyone around me has to 410 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 2: be sterile. Yes, no one here is having any kind 411 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 2: of intimate relations in December or January. Way this time 412 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 2: next year, we're we're doing dry January. But it's a 413 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:43,360 Speaker 2: different kind of drive. 414 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 1: I already stopped. We ain't have no babies, yeah, right, 415 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: you hear. 416 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 2: Me, k J J. No one's getting pregnant that out. 417 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 2: You know what, I'm just gonna get a preemptive vasectomate. 418 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 2: Yes you need to, just so there's no way I 419 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 2: have any kind of baby and miss your wedding. 420 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 1: I'm not playing with y'all. 421 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 2: Lana, So you're it was on purpose, Lina, You're in 422 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 2: the no on purpose camp. 423 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: Okay, my bad, Lana. 424 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 7: That was me. 425 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 11: It's really hard to get pregnant on purpose, Like to 426 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 11: plan that out so far in advance, I'd be like diabolical. Honestly, 427 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 11: I feel like the only. 428 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 2: People who get pregnant that the moment, like that, the 429 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 2: very second they possibly can. Of the people who the 430 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 2: doctor said that they couldn't, like my sister, we were 431 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 2: talking about this over the break. My sister got married 432 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 2: and got pregnant almost like boom boom, and so the 433 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 2: doctor was saying that she may never be able to 434 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 2: get pregnant, like this is gonna oh man, this is 435 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 2: gonna take years if it happens at all. 436 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 1: Boom. 437 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 2: First try so this whole thing where people are looking 438 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 2: at the calendar, and I think you got to be 439 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 2: like ultra fertile for that to happen. No one's doing 440 00:19:56,440 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 2: it on purpose. Yeah, so wait, but what do you 441 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 2: do though, Like do you how do you do? You 442 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 2: try and do it both both things? You go to 443 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 2: the wedding and then jump on a plane and fly 444 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 2: and you know, I mean, how do you You can't 445 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 2: pick one. 446 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 1: Or the other. 447 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean it's unfortunate that they're both happening on 448 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 11: the same day. But like, presumably the sister who's pregnant 449 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,399 Speaker 11: had a wedding and her parents were there, so I 450 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 11: think it's fair. It's only fair for the parents to 451 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 11: be at their daughter's wedding and then they can go 452 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,719 Speaker 11: see the baby after the fact. To immediately say, just 453 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 11: immediately say yeah, that's not we're not coming to your 454 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 11: wedding anymore. That's really like a heart for these things 455 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 11: to hear. 456 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Lana, have a good day you too. 457 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:43,679 Speaker 2: I can't believe the number of people who are in 458 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:45,360 Speaker 2: the she did it on purpose? 459 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: Can't? That's right? 460 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 2: We stand strong, Ashley. You're saying the same thing. How 461 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 2: do you do it on purpose? I mean, look, I 462 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 2: am not a woman. I act like you know, I'm 463 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 2: very moody. 464 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 8: Yes, because being is what. 465 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 2: I'm saying about you and I can be equally booty, 466 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 2: which is why I can say it. 467 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: You know she planned it, yeah, asked, but you don't. 468 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 9: It's so difficult for some women though you don't know 469 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 9: that it's going to be that. 470 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 2: My not misunderstanding about how this all works is that 471 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 2: it's a very small window of opportunity. 472 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 3: Correct. 473 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 12: If she knew that her sister was having a wedding 474 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 12: soon within a year at least, I wouldn't even have 475 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 12: tried to have a baby. I would have been like, no, 476 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 12: there's no way I'm going to try to have a 477 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 12: baby right now, just in case I get pregnant. 478 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: I'm upstaining. 479 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I mean, I suppose it's like I don't want 480 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: to be pregnant in the photos. Maybe I guess, but 481 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 2: I don't know that people are thinking like that. 482 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 6: Well, I mean, you are my maid of honor, you 483 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 6: are my girl, you're my right hand bro. 484 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 2: But nine months out, so I'm supposed to know the date, 485 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 2: and then I'm supposed to do what we're joking about, 486 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: and I'm supposed to say, Okay, Keik is getting married 487 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 2: in September of next year, which means December and January. 488 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 2: Nobody be doing anything around here that would potentially affect 489 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 2: my availability in September of twenty twenty seven. 490 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 11: That is the rule for us and all. 491 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 13: There's a lot of factors that mean it's not always. 492 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 1: You can't always do this. 493 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 6: I mean, but also as a sister, right and also 494 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,679 Speaker 6: as a sister, you should say, Mom, I appreciate you 495 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 6: wanting to be there to support us, but please go 496 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 6: to my sister's wedding. You came to my wedding. 497 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand. 498 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,439 Speaker 6: Like the sister's not even standing up for her and 499 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 6: saying like, no, Mom, the right thing to do is 500 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:34,199 Speaker 6: be there for my sister. 501 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 1: The baby will be here when you get back. 502 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 2: You don't have to be there right at that moment. 503 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 2: I agree, you can be there within twenty four hours. 504 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 2: And I don't know that people wouldn't appreciate that. Again, 505 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 2: it's sad if the plan was that they would be 506 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 2: in the room, the mom would be there with it. 507 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 2: But I don't maybe that, maybe that's not a necessary 508 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 2: part of this, and everybody can get what they want 509 00:22:54,840 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 2: all within in you know, in expedient manner, I'll go 510 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 2: to your wedding. I'll jump on a plane, I'll fly home, 511 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:03,919 Speaker 2: I'll meet my grandkid and it will all happen, and 512 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 2: everybody went right. 513 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 12: That was exactly what the figure should have said. 514 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, Ashley, have a good day. 515 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: You can Wh'm sorry. Try for years and then you're 516 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: saying she planted too, You're. 517 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 5: Sorry, sorry, my god, sorry, not sorry. I need a 518 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 5: doctor though, so I know when the sister actually found 519 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 5: out she got pregnant. Because how you're telling me that, 520 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 5: all of a sudden, your d day's exact same day 521 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 5: as my as my wedding, I don't believe. 522 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 2: Well, what difference does it make the days you found out? 523 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,360 Speaker 2: How like she can go to the days you found out 524 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,679 Speaker 2: she can go. I'd like to schedule this for you. 525 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 2: Can They wouldn't the thing is growing in you only 526 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 2: within a certain period of time, like. 527 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 13: A baby, because I feel like you wouldn't be saying 528 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 13: this stuff if you. 529 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 5: Have Okay, totally no, I don't do kids. 530 00:23:52,720 --> 00:24:00,119 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you need to call my g. 531 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:02,640 Speaker 1: On the phone. 532 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw him recently. By the way, get doctor mat. 533 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 2: It's so weird to me that I'm friends with your gynecologists. 534 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 2: It's very strange. And he comes up to me at events, 535 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,399 Speaker 2: and I'm like, you know some stuff, but any and 536 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 2: he delivered your baby. But it's not that simple. And 537 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 2: I understand that you can schedule a C section or 538 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 2: you can schedule an inducement, but the act is that 539 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 2: the clock is already ticking, the bomb is already going 540 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 2: to go off. 541 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 1: It's not like I can move that around scheduling. 542 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 5: It's not the scheduling, but it just sounds interesting, because 543 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 5: then why would I plan my wedding when I already 544 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 5: know my sister is pregnant and do around that day? 545 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: And how vindictive? 546 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 2: Ay for a different day, Tierra, How how vindictive are 547 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 2: you that you say, oh, my sister's getting married? 548 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: Watch this? 549 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 12: Well? 550 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 5: I love my biblings, but my momble name is Petty Webell, 551 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:48,120 Speaker 5: so I. 552 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,959 Speaker 13: Will at least you're honest. 553 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 2: But this is shocking information. Tierra, Thank you so much. 554 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: Have a great day. I did love you too. 555 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 1: This is wild. Christina, good morning. 556 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 7: How are you you know? 557 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: Help? I don't know. I don't know. 558 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 2: I can understand a guy calling up here like like 559 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 2: a dummy, like one of us going on, But ladies, 560 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 2: I guess I think you guys understand how difficult this 561 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 2: would be to accomplish if it's on purpose. 562 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 7: Oh, I guess like it can't be on purpose because 563 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 7: you can't you know, you can't time pregnancy. 564 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 6: But like. 565 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 7: Having having had a traumatic birth, do you want your 566 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 7: mom there? 567 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 14: Like I understand you're getting married and that's beautiful and 568 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 14: and everything, but like if you if your parents travel 569 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 14: to your destination wedding and you and your other daughter 570 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 14: who's pregnant dies or is this the baby or both 571 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 14: are very very sick. 572 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 7: Like your mind is not going to be on the wedding. 573 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 7: Your mind is only going to be on the daughter 574 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 7: who's in the hospital way or whatever, because you cannot 575 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 7: guarantee to help. My son was born, was born lifeless. 576 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,360 Speaker 7: I almost led to death, Like you don't, you don't 577 00:25:58,400 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 7: know what's going to happen. 578 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 2: I got to think if that's sorry, Yeah, of course, 579 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 2: of course I got to think so that. 580 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 7: If that's. 581 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 2: But if we're high risk, or if there's any sort 582 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 2: of like indication that we're there's an emergency, I gotta 583 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 2: think the wedding gets canceled at that point. And you 584 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 2: can be mad about that if you want, but like 585 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 2: that isn't necessarily within her control. Now you know that 586 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 2: there could be a catastrophe, but like the fact that 587 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 2: they're just happening around the same time, Like especially consideringly, 588 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 2: look at you. You have a wedding date almost two 589 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,199 Speaker 2: years ahead. So if I then come to you and 590 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,879 Speaker 2: say in you know, I don't know a few months, 591 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,399 Speaker 2: not even that it's nine eight months from your wedding, 592 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 2: and go, yeah, sorry, I know you've had it for 593 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 2: two years, but I'm planning something at the same time, 594 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 2: and I'm not going to be able to go. 595 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: That's on me. That makes me the jerky. Yes, yes, absolutely, 596 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. 597 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 7: And I just want to add though, like so she 598 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 7: can have a perfect pregnancy, because my pregnancy was perfect, 599 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,120 Speaker 7: So you can have a perfect press but no indication, 600 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 7: go to your thirty eight week appointment and your doctors 601 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,360 Speaker 7: like go to the hospital, like you just you don't know, 602 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 7: And like I feel sympathy because this is definitely a 603 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 7: very tough situation for both of ladies. Like you can't 604 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 7: plan pregnancies. You do plan weddings, but it's like it's 605 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 7: just this unfortunate unfolding and I think that the parents 606 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:20,880 Speaker 7: need to be with a daughter that. 607 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 2: Got that could be at rech All right, fair enough, 608 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,119 Speaker 2: Thank you, Christina. I have a good one, have a 609 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 2: good day, all right. Now, we got some expertise here, Ashley. 610 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,919 Speaker 2: You are a labor and delivery nurse. Hey, yeah, and 611 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 2: we love nurses around here. Apparently some doctors listen to this, 612 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 2: but they don't want to admit it. 613 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 1: Remember that one lady came up to. 614 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 2: Us at the children's hospital for the fundraiser we did, 615 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 2: and this lady comes up and she's like, basically, she 616 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 2: said to us in the nicest way, I'm way too 617 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 2: smart to be listening to you, But you know your 618 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: you dummies make me make my day easier because then 619 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,159 Speaker 2: I go have to go do smart like life saving stuff. 620 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 2: But on the way to do that, you dummies make 621 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 2: me feel you know, normal, is what she based you 622 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 2: said to us. But actually you you are not a dummy, 623 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 2: and you understand how this all works. Please give us 624 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 2: some perspective. 625 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 7: Okay, So to get that specific date, I'll admit it's 626 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 7: hard to do. 627 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 3: It's I'm purpose, but like the. 628 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 7: General area, you kind of knew when you were trying 629 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 7: to get pregnant that it was going to happen around 630 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 7: that time. But I will say she should not change 631 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 7: her date. She should keep her wedding as it is, 632 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 7: because the likelihood of her sister having that baby on 633 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 7: that exact date is low. 634 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 2: You know, you don't always have. 635 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 7: Your baby exactly at your du date. 636 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 10: So the mom has the. 637 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 7: Grandma has the chance to have like maybe see the baby. 638 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 7: Who knows, like even a month before, like some babies 639 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 7: come early. So she should keep her date. And then 640 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 7: who knows that she might be able to get both 641 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 7: see her baby at the hospital and go to the 642 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 7: other sister's wedding. 643 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I like it to actually thank you, have 644 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 2: a good day. Yeah, we're not moving anything. We're leaving 645 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 2: it all right there, and we're hoping. 646 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 1: For the best. Hey, Data, that's hard to Hello. 647 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 2: I'll turn your radio down please. And you also are 648 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 2: a labor and delivery nurse. Shouldn't you be delivered a baby? 649 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 2: Is anyone delivering a baby right now? Is anyone attending 650 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 2: to anyone? 651 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 5: No? 652 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 11: No, no. 653 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 8: I used to be a labor and delivery nurse for 654 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 8: a long time, and I hear what everyone is saying, 655 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,959 Speaker 8: but I kind of think that parents are in the 656 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 8: wrong here. They need to attend the sister. I always 657 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 8: said in the delivery room. If you were there for conception, 658 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 8: then you should be there for delivery. If you weren't 659 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 8: there for concession, there is no reason for you to 660 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 8: be in that room when the baby is born. You 661 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 8: can see the baby after after the wedding. That's a 662 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 8: big like, that's a big thing. That's just my thought 663 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 8: on it. 664 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 2: Well, and I hear, I hear the emergency situation, But 665 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 2: if it's really dire, I got to think there's not 666 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,720 Speaker 2: going to be a wedding anyway, which is unfortunate as 667 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 2: that is, I'm not going to have my wedding if 668 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 2: my sister's under you know, in an emergency situation that 669 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 2: we're not celebrating. In that case, we're probably rethinking the 670 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 2: whole thing. But we're hoping and assuming that everything's going 671 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 2: to go well and normally right, So that's not really 672 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 2: in consideration because again, if I'm not yeah, wow, that 673 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 2: timing is unfortunate. 674 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: But like if if we're days out and. 675 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 2: It's like this isn't going well, my sister's in the hospital, 676 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 2: you know, we have serious life threatening complications or we're 677 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 2: thinking about that, that's different. It sucks. 678 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 13: So because both girls deserve to have their mom with 679 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 13: them at those moments if they want that, I understand, 680 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,239 Speaker 13: like she feels differently, but you both deserve to have 681 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 13: your mommy if you want her. You know, I agree 682 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 13: your mommy, Yeah, Mom, sometimes you need your mommy. 683 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 6: Yes. 684 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 8: But I also think if the mom doesn't go to 685 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 8: this girl's wedding, like down the road, there is going 686 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 8: to be this little bit of resentment towards the mom 687 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 8: and dad for not attending this big life event, and 688 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 8: it's going to affect when they have kids. And it's 689 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 8: like it's like the first sister is the number one 690 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 8: sister is what I'm like getting this. 691 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: Unfortunately they are big. 692 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 8: Both like they are both big life events. But I 693 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 8: still think the mom and the dad can go see 694 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 8: the grandchild after the baby's born. They need to attend 695 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 8: the wedding the baby is because here's the thing, mom 696 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 8: and dad, when that baby comes out, you never ever 697 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 8: get those moments back alone as a family for the 698 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 8: very first time ever again in your life. And if 699 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 8: you immediately pull out your phone and start taking pictures 700 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 8: and facetiming and hear Grandma like here Grandpa, it just 701 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 8: takes away that stuck give yourself that time. This is 702 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 8: to anyone having a baby. This is just my thought, Like, 703 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 8: I just think you should take that time to be 704 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:56,640 Speaker 8: a family of three. Grandma doesn't live with you, Grandma 705 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 8: is not the caregiver. Like Grandma can come later in 706 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 8: the after the wedding is over and hop on a 707 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 8: plane and do the things. Because she was a you know, 708 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 8: she had little kids at one point. 709 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 5: She can manage. 710 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 8: Like I just I just don't think she should miss 711 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 8: the wedding. 712 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 2: I think it's possible, it's very possible that they can 713 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 2: have the wedding, and even if that's the day that 714 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 2: labor takes hours and hours and hours, and then you're 715 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,239 Speaker 2: right jump on the plane after the wedding and then 716 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 2: you're there and everybody, everybody wins. And I know that 717 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 2: there's a timeline, like a ticking timeline on this, like 718 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 2: once you're pregnant, it's happening in a certain period of time. 719 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 2: But I also think like whoever announced the big event 720 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 2: first takes precedence because it's like no meaning that Mom's 721 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 2: going to the wedding, and because I imagine if and 722 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 2: I guess the reason I bring this up is because 723 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 2: you could say, well, you could move yours but like 724 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 2: if you say you're pregnant and then I say, oh good, 725 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,959 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have my wedding in nine months, then like 726 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 2: that makes me a jerk. So I just think, like we, 727 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe be considerate of the fact that 728 00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 2: these major life events are happening as much as we 729 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 2: oak about maybe not having a baby on purpose around. 730 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: This time, right because it's so easy. Maybe we do. 731 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, this is complicated. 732 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 8: Just like Kiki, that wedding was planned way longer tine 733 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 8: months ago. 734 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: Okay, book the DJ girl. I'm trying to picture someone. 735 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 9: Tell Paulina that Gigi's having a baby and she wants 736 00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 9: her mommy in that room, and Paulina, Oh. 737 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 10: I'm going I'm going listen, like get the passport ready, 738 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 10: like mom's got to hop plain hop because that's what 739 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 10: we're doing, Like your mom are going to both if 740 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 10: I if I'm the daughter, I'm having a baby and 741 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 10: I want my mom there, and I did. My My 742 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 10: mom was holding my leg okay, like I wanted her there, 743 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 10: like she was gonna hop on. 744 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 1: I want to how it make it? 745 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,840 Speaker 10: Sometimes isn't the most helpful, No, my mom, she had 746 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 10: to be there. 747 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 2: I was weird part as I was holding the other 748 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 2: one than having a day. The first responder was in 749 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 2: the lobby with the cigar. 750 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 13: His voice was there in his boots and docksboard. 751 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 1: Oh it's the fun fact is more bread show next