WEBVTT - KeKe Palmer Interview

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<v Speaker 1>Real people, real celebrity joined the Breakfast morning. Everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. We have a young lady who came here

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<v Speaker 1>this morning. No security, no press. She's not young, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no man has been, no nothing. She was out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know who she was, what her mama, hem

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't even she beat her mom in here. No, my

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<v Speaker 1>mama was here and she's standing right behind you. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that's the best security. Yeah, she's not young, no more.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, she's twenty one. Miss Kiki Parma. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you like some remy remy? Oh you're not in front

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<v Speaker 1>of mom. Okay, she's got work to do today. It's

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<v Speaker 1>early in the morning. My bad. What's going on, Kiki?

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing much, just working out here promoting brotherly love. I

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<v Speaker 1>saw it, by the way. I love that movie. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was great. So I'm so glad. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so glad you did that fantastic job in that movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I feel like I know you've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot though you've been super busy. You got your

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<v Speaker 1>on talk show just kicking money out, and you got

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<v Speaker 1>a TV show coming yet Fox giving black people shows

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<v Speaker 1>like It's the Night. No, I retweeted you when you

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<v Speaker 1>said that because they had me cracking. Did they do

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<v Speaker 1>that after Empire or you had that already? No, it

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<v Speaker 1>was after Empire, but it's Ryan Murphy. But the show

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<v Speaker 1>is not like Empire at all. It's very different. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Murphy, so they do a lot of business with him.

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<v Speaker 1>So it just was, you know, ironic. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>horror movie horror TV shows. Yes, it's like American horror

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<v Speaker 1>stories I would say, mixed with mean girls. So you

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<v Speaker 1>get like a little bit of the girl Caddy is

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<v Speaker 1>comedy from that type of film, and then also you

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<v Speaker 1>get the gore from like American horns. So you're killing people. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know if I'm the killer. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what's going I don't know what what's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't tell They don't tell us. They don't tell us either.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy and I'm always trying to figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>But Ryan, don't tell me. It is using you for promo.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna kill you first episode. You're black, you dieing

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<v Speaker 1>hard movies and TV show that's not that's not what

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<v Speaker 1>happens now. With black individuals and movies and Black Boy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>with the successive Empire, successive Empire, you last, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>talk about brotherly love. We didn't see it, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>hearing this pretty good. Yes, we did well. One of

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<v Speaker 1>us did. One of us did. Yeah. Yeah. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>was very, very simple. I was like, I didn't be surprised. Huh. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what the movie was gonna be about.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one. I was surprised because it's the first time

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<v Speaker 1>Team Quincy act in the movie. So I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>how that Ny killer. He did a great job because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know we could act either. When he called

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<v Speaker 1>me and told me, I said, all this movie about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie because you're like, Okay. I never

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<v Speaker 1>knew him to act in my entire I've known him

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<v Speaker 1>for very I know the sweet was kids. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>he camed to him something, I want to introduce myself

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<v Speaker 1>as Chris. I'm like, what the hell. Then I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he about to be in the movie. And I was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna see what's gonna be up with this? And

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<v Speaker 1>then when we got there, I was for real blown away,

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<v Speaker 1>like wow, he was telling me how he had started

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<v Speaker 1>acting and really started focusing on I'm like, dude, you

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<v Speaker 1>really gonna it was He's really good in the film.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Eric Hill was really good. I never yeah

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<v Speaker 1>he was. He's kind of new to Eric is one

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<v Speaker 1>of the main characters also, And that's why I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like everything with the movie was just faded to happen

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<v Speaker 1>that way because everything that wasn't supposed to happen happen.

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<v Speaker 1>We were able to get out there to start work

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<v Speaker 1>and we know we're gonna have the funds. Then we

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<v Speaker 1>found all the right characters. The casting was done properly.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout outs to Kim Hard. I mean, everything went so

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<v Speaker 1>so fluently, and it was in Failing. You guys filmed

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<v Speaker 1>in Philly. And how long did it take to do

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<v Speaker 1>the whole movie? Oh, we filmed it very quickly, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty six days. That's crazy. Yeah, it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a quick shoe. It was a quick shoe. But

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<v Speaker 1>we all had such a good time. It felt like

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<v Speaker 1>we were out there having like a little party. And

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<v Speaker 1>I never knew Philly was so cool to like being

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<v Speaker 1>and chilling. I like Philly. I used to do radio there.

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<v Speaker 1>But you you was just in the right place you

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<v Speaker 1>go torough the hood. You that got shot, he was

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<v Speaker 1>not getting shot in the hood. Okay, it's been much

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<v Speaker 1>more innocent people than keeping but you know it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>They did really have some nice to feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>bulls you always. They mentioned that black thought was in

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<v Speaker 1>the movie. Yeah, we were trying to use like little

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<v Speaker 1>working like John Yea, all this stuff like that. We

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<v Speaker 1>tried to make sure we gave it the authentic, authentic

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<v Speaker 1>Philly vibe because the director and the writer is from

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<v Speaker 1>Philly and we were in Philly. So we wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure, even though we weren't from Philly, that we

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<v Speaker 1>made it. You know, did I put our best foot forward?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? That's it weird like making out with Quincy

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<v Speaker 1>and steps since y'all with friends since you were little.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very weird. It was very weird to us.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very weird to us because you want to

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you're cool with somebody, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be looking like you're doing too much on screen. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be like, you know, doing too much.

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<v Speaker 1>So we tried to find a balance between making sure

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<v Speaker 1>we had that passion but still was laid back and

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<v Speaker 1>cool in it. Yes it. No, I'm kidding, I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>about that. I can't say that was excited, but I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely like shout out, queens, you got me, you know

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<v Speaker 1>you got you got me a nice looking dude, because

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<v Speaker 1>Quincy is not bad on the eye scenes though, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like like do guys get like hard? Sorry, Mom, No,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, you get mois um. You know, Mom's like,

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<v Speaker 1>let me because this is the thing about it, when

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<v Speaker 1>you were think in your mind naturally, Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>even when I did TLC with Evan, I used to

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<v Speaker 1>have the biggest crush on every I mean I was,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, hold on, he's married. Now you know you

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<v Speaker 1>got trouble that before? Man, don't tell me, let me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I had a big, the biggest crush on Evan,

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<v Speaker 1>right and when I it was so funny because clearly

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<v Speaker 1>I had gotten over the crush as I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, had my own life and my own relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I did tell see me, I'm like, wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I even called my sister like, girl, you've been all

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<v Speaker 1>them years. I loved Evan and now I'm actually about

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<v Speaker 1>to do all the you know, makeout scenes with him

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<v Speaker 1>because it's too awkward. It's not. You got people looking

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<v Speaker 1>at you, you know, you in each other's face, poles

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make sure you getting the right thing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's weird. You're still line the mama telling you

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<v Speaker 1>a virgin maybe so you you know, she said, my mama,

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<v Speaker 1>noma s my mom talking about everything. And you had

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<v Speaker 1>a living boyfriend before anyway, So really a girl living

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<v Speaker 1>a life and doing her thing, living boyfriend. She talks

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<v Speaker 1>about it. When she was here, I talked about it

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<v Speaker 1>in my essence all this. I drink heavy. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>remembering this stuff. But now you're a single, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm single? Now? Okay she's single? Oh man, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a good m F Mary Kill for you too. What's this? Okay? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>who's okay? Then this is how I'm gonna really tell,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know everybody's I was like, oh, she's didating

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<v Speaker 1>this person. No she's not. She's diding this person, No

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<v Speaker 1>she's not. So now I'm gona really be able to

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<v Speaker 1>tell where your head is at. Okay, Okay, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's all right, F Mary Kill, little little Dirk yg

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<v Speaker 1>and august I sena okay, little Dirk Mary. Oh so

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<v Speaker 1>because that's just seeing him. The other day, Mary killed that.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't got that Mary, little Dirk. Okay, um, who's

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<v Speaker 1>the next person? He said, August, I's seen it, And YG,

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<v Speaker 1>who are you killing? Oh? You know, we need another option.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have to kill them. You have to kill

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<v Speaker 1>one of them, not killing the literal sense, just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're dead to me. Okay, okay, okay, okay, you're dead

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Yeah, but this person is not dead to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is the only choice that I have, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Doc going, Okay, I dead to me. I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>would have to be YG. I don't mean this, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is the game, the game, so maybe that will

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<v Speaker 1>be Maybe that will be killed. But he's about any

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<v Speaker 1>day now. We don't want nobody coming for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're really cool. No, we're really cool friends now, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like that. You know, man, Hollywood. You know

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<v Speaker 1>how Hollywood always try to make whoever you hanging with,

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<v Speaker 1>that's got to be the person you're dating. You're with them,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all ride to die. Y'all got a fool dang gonna

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<v Speaker 1>love story that you never even knew before the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the week. So for me, it's just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>every now and then, I do a little dating here

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<v Speaker 1>and there. But I'm I don't do a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>dating in the industry because it's not as it's not

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<v Speaker 1>as a relaxed as people thinking is. People don't immediately think,

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<v Speaker 1>let me date my you know, successful counterpart or because

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<v Speaker 1>you can't go anywhere without being harassing and pictures and

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<v Speaker 1>people commenting. It just seems like business with all guests

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<v Speaker 1>and like, oh he makes some great chicken. People went

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<v Speaker 1>crazy over that. But I would admit that was a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit funny though. Man just frying, no girl, no chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Okay, no, but he's from New Orleans, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>He from New Orleans. You know how guys in New Orleans,

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<v Speaker 1>but they'd be cooking, they'd be ready to show off. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you scream married a little Dirk immediately that nobody tell you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I would tell you that means he's telling you love

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<v Speaker 1>because he's a real dude. I mean, not that the

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<v Speaker 1>other guy's on the real dude. But you know, Dirk

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<v Speaker 1>is not petty, he's not gossipy, he's not I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>anytime I have a conversation with him, he's just about

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<v Speaker 1>doing right for his kids, staying focused right and all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, like god bless. Like he's just really very chill.

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<v Speaker 1>He's very chilly and nice person. We're both from Chicago,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think maybe we both see, you know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we have the same mentality. I don't know what it be, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's a real good guy, so some potential there.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm not, you know, I always say never say never.

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<v Speaker 1>Got Brandy answer man, she wants your faith, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really don't know what happened with that, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. I think a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>with social media again, people will see one little sound

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<v Speaker 1>by the one little thing and they immediately, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>add something to it. Who knows what somebody could have

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<v Speaker 1>sent her and showed her. She probably didn't see the

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<v Speaker 1>interview personally, and then she went back and looked at

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<v Speaker 1>it and was like, Okay, it wasn't like what people

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<v Speaker 1>made it seem like, yeah, exactly. And for me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I don't be I'm not the type of

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, you can't prove yourself to people. So

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<v Speaker 1>when stuff like that happens, what can you say. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to steal nobody's husband, right, that looks crazy

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<v Speaker 1>ready to go, And that's another thing. And plus, let's

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<v Speaker 1>be real, I grew up watching sister's sister, so to

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<v Speaker 1>you know me, even if I was just crazy, type

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<v Speaker 1>of hussy or whatever you want to call it, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be trying to steal one of my inspirations husband.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, somebody I don't even grow up watching. I

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<v Speaker 1>just put out a statement. She cleared it up. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all didn't have no be Oh good. I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>see that, but I mean we definitely talked. We definitely probably,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, always have talked and always been cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So when that happened, I'm like, yo, you know, at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, I love God, love for

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<v Speaker 1>you and everything like that. So we you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>I see Corey Herd, I wanted to ask him about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but he scared me so much in the movie, I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't want to ask Y. Corey definitely can put on

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<v Speaker 1>this demeaner thing. You'd be like, oh, let me back,

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<v Speaker 1>let me back back. I want to do no problem, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>girl girl. In that movie, he really did. He really

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<v Speaker 1>did the thing in that movie. I feel really cool

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<v Speaker 1>because people get to see a side of him that

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<v Speaker 1>they never seen before. Right, that's what he was saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I usually get to see him in the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>action flicks whatever like that. You never get to see him.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't get you do black movies. Really, what he

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<v Speaker 1>said and brotherly love. To me, I will be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all black class, But to me, it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>just a black movie. It has such a strong message

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<v Speaker 1>to it, you know what I mean? That could relate

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<v Speaker 1>to anybody of any race, of any environment setting, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call it. If you're a fan of sports,

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<v Speaker 1>that's something that you could watch fall and love you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make make sure your family's taken care of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody could relate to those type of issues, right, middle class,

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<v Speaker 1>you know the class absolutely absolutely was you surprised at

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<v Speaker 1>the ending? I definitely was. And we can't say nothing

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<v Speaker 1>about it because they told me to not even say

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<v Speaker 1>it was a twist, but I guess there is. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's you know, it's a little shakespeareance, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>hood love. Now, you haven't slowed down and taking a

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<v Speaker 1>break at all, and you've been doing so much since

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<v Speaker 1>you've been how old years old do you ever say, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>who I makes us that I just need to you know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know sometimes I do say that. Sometimes I do

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<v Speaker 1>say that, but then in my heart it's like, look, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta keep on moving. We gotta keep on moving.

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<v Speaker 1>You got ideas in my mind, I'm always thinking, thinking, thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about different things. And so for me, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to put all that out into the

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<v Speaker 1>world and just use my gifts. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Um give them away as much as I can. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, it's important to take a break every

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<v Speaker 1>now one theay because you gotta recharge and stuff. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I do find it to be hard for

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<v Speaker 1>me because I do have a high you know, drive

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<v Speaker 1>right music at the end and having a daily tuck

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<v Speaker 1>show that had to be really exhausting. Yeah. Just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready to start that May fifteenth, we start shooting

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<v Speaker 1>in La all right. Now, you know what Elside was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about. Huh, you gotta say something. I'm just looking

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<v Speaker 1>at your feet. No, they don't hurt. I just hate shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>Shoes up. I ain't got none, neither with your boyfriends

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<v Speaker 1>and fight them. You know, It's really true. I've always

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<v Speaker 1>been very happy I've always been very heavy. That's so

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<v Speaker 1>brit Save. But you know what people tell me, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a Chicago chick thing. I'm like, is it? I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea, but I'm very like it, like if I

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody like, So what you're doing? She don't just

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<v Speaker 1>got him off. She got her feet, ripping, the dripping,

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom of the girl chilling boom. That wasn't right there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you know your blood what is that thinking

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<v Speaker 1>back then? Oh? Yeah, you're a blood your girlhood mama.

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<v Speaker 1>You know your daughter was a block. That's why she said.

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<v Speaker 1>I know from Robin's mother, you'll stand up. No numb.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you from in Chicago? So it's what street? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I get out of here. I'm from the South suburb,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not from the city from angl No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>from Robbin's. They're like Harvey, it's real country town. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>now let's talk about that talk show because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when you started doing that, that's when people really

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<v Speaker 1>started just responding so much more to you as an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm sure for you, your opinion got held so

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<v Speaker 1>much more weight than it used to, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>had to really defend yourself a lot did you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when you started doing that show. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>in general, you know, first of all, whenever you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>an entertainer of celebrity, whatever it is, whatever you get

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<v Speaker 1>popular for or whatever people start noticing you for, they

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<v Speaker 1>want you to stay. It's just how human mind works.

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<v Speaker 1>We want whatever we know something to be We wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to always stay that way. But especially for me, because

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<v Speaker 1>I started as a kid, I can't stay that way.

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<v Speaker 1>It's impossible for me to keep playing children roles if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a grown woman. And so it came upoint in

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<v Speaker 1>my life where it's like, look, I want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure it's a slow and easy transition. I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, okay, doing the most you know, different

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<v Speaker 1>thing from what they know. But I wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>a slow, gradual climb. That's like with films like Brotherly

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<v Speaker 1>Love or with Joyful Noise or whatever it was. I

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<v Speaker 1>always wanted to try to show myself coming of age

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<v Speaker 1>in the film, so it would be a gradual thing

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<v Speaker 1>when I did, finally, you know, you know, people would

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<v Speaker 1>finally be able to see that, Okay, I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>kid anymore, you know me, I am a grown woman.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's been it's been a different transition for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like you put a picture

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<v Speaker 1>up and you had a piercing and people that she's

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<v Speaker 1>a thought And that was so interesting to me too,

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<v Speaker 1>because for me, it's like I'm not doing anything that

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<v Speaker 1>any other normal eighteen nineteen year old would do. I

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<v Speaker 1>like piercing. So yeah, I'll give my eyebrow Piers. I

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<v Speaker 1>get my nose Piers, I get my tongue Piers. Whatever

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do, I'm gonna do that. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>way I expressed myself. People also don't understand I am

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<v Speaker 1>an actress, so I don't ever get to be myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially when I was doing Broadway at that time, I

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<v Speaker 1>spent the whole entire four months being Cinderella. I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about eight shows a week, two two shows on some days,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Like it was a crazy schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I when I wasn't sleeping, I was on

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<v Speaker 1>stage being somebody that wasn't me, and that can be stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you're done with that, yeah, you're gonna break clues.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have something. I wanted to get my nose, people,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get this done. I want to get

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<v Speaker 1>my hair, you know. So it's like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>live your life for you and I had to. Really

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<v Speaker 1>that was a really big time for me of understanding

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<v Speaker 1>what that meant because it did hurt my fellows when

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<v Speaker 1>people say, it's like, y'all see me too. I'm always professional,

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<v Speaker 1>show up on time, punctual, take care of my career

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<v Speaker 1>and everything, like I spell really well, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's like people still want to want to find a

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<v Speaker 1>way to change it or whatever it is they want

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<v Speaker 1>to do, but that but it has nothing to do

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<v Speaker 1>with you, you know, it has something to do with them.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems like you get a lot of flak oh

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<v Speaker 1>when you speak out about social issues, like issues affecting

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<v Speaker 1>the black community, especially during the Mike Brown situation. Why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that is? I think it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>your family members, right, so you have I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times people see me is that because they've

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<v Speaker 1>seen me grow up since I was you know, they

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<v Speaker 1>see me grow up. So for them, it's a situation

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<v Speaker 1>like if you know little T T, little T T T,

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<v Speaker 1>what you know about makes you an authority, And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's all that it is. It's like people just

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<v Speaker 1>have to get used to me not being a kid anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's not nothing I can force anybody to do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just over the course of time, you see the

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<v Speaker 1>work that I do, you'll be able to see, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever did you choose to see? So for me, like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why it's so important for me to just focus

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<v Speaker 1>on what I'm doing and I worry about that stuff

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<v Speaker 1>because that is what it's like. It's like people see

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<v Speaker 1>their little niece or their little cus or they little

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<v Speaker 1>sizzin like she don't know. And not only that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you know, people say, well, damn, she's been

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<v Speaker 1>a star for a while. That too, she ain't grow

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<v Speaker 1>up in the struggles. She don't know what it feels

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<v Speaker 1>like to be in the hoods or you know, how

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<v Speaker 1>is she speaking for us? And that's really important to

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<v Speaker 1>me too. That's why I'm writing my first book right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And I and it's like everybody has struggle. Everybody struggle

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<v Speaker 1>comes in different forms. Okay, I mean I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>in a home where I was the financial breadwinner. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>imagine what that dynamic was like. That's not something that

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<v Speaker 1>anybody you know, I mean, that's not something anybody. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just the facts of you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I made so much money that there was

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<v Speaker 1>no reason for my parents to work. Well, that shifts

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<v Speaker 1>the family dynamics, or the fact that I was all.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave up my entire childhood to be an actor. Now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got something wonderful in return, But imagine what that

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<v Speaker 1>might have felt like when I'm filming a movie and

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<v Speaker 1>I can't see any of my friends. You know, all

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<v Speaker 1>most of the films I did were with adults. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's so true because that is how it's people, is

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<v Speaker 1>how it sounds. But my my real point is to

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<v Speaker 1>say everybody has struggles in a different form. No, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to cry about mine, but we can relate

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<v Speaker 1>about ours. True, we don't have to be sad about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But understand, I know where you're coming from. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these child actors end up going crazy too, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's and it's in a lot of people go

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<v Speaker 1>crazy in general. But you don't really see anybody else

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<v Speaker 1>go crazy or quote unquote I should say crazy, other

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<v Speaker 1>than a child actor. And what is exactly crazy? Because

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<v Speaker 1>somebody is different from what you knew them to be

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like if all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden stopped dressing like how I do now, and all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden start dressing like lista bonnet, but then

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<v Speaker 1>you know you do he as crazy. It's different from

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<v Speaker 1>what people see you do. Hear a lot of tragic

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<v Speaker 1>stories though, Like about child stars. I mean they do

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<v Speaker 1>specials on it, on VAH one and everything. I think

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<v Speaker 1>because the child actor can be a high stress job.

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<v Speaker 1>You're working like I know. I known how to work

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<v Speaker 1>as an adult since the time I was tea. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you are grown up, like you speak, grown like you

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<v Speaker 1>see like a grown woman. I know. But she seems

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<v Speaker 1>very mature, right, I mean even though you're sitting at

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<v Speaker 1>bad foot on your shoulder. Damn, I hit my face.

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<v Speaker 1>Picture right now, you can look a little crazy. What

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<v Speaker 1>sign are you can cancer? Okay, you don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what at me? You just cancers. I know a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very into astrology, soul. I know I'm a virgal girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Beyonce Michael need to say more? Okay, September third, every

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<v Speaker 1>day all day? So you know what I knew that

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<v Speaker 1>was love? I knew there was some love here people.

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<v Speaker 1>What's onn to you capricorn. Oh you know we're a

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<v Speaker 1>perfect match. Yeah, I can't studying back to y'all should start, Davis,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm married, young lady. You are? Yes, well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what what's up with that? I never hear radio personalities

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<v Speaker 1>talk about their lives? What's up with y'all club? Then

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<v Speaker 1>you must not married with a six year old and

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<v Speaker 1>the child on the way, And then it's called the

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<v Speaker 1>players curts. I got two girls, not the players cards

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<v Speaker 1>playing these women. I mean I used to I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>an If I was a guy, I honestly do think

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<v Speaker 1>I might would be a player. And let me say,

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<v Speaker 1>y August out a little dirt and if Charlottie was

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<v Speaker 1>a female, he would be a thought. Okay, you a

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<v Speaker 1>ball because I'd be married a soccer player or baseball player.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye trapped somebody. His advice is always get pregnant by him, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's get this money. What but what if they

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<v Speaker 1>happened to you? You ain't never thought about that honestly now,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, even though you've been popping for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't never was with somebody and he was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>he got it. You had an aunt Obama by this

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<v Speaker 1>is you know what that is. First of all, that

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<v Speaker 1>is one hundred percent truth. When you are in an

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<v Speaker 1>entertaining when you're a young entertained or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're around a lot of successful men, you do

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of women, older women in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>like girl, change your life. It's like you'll be like

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<v Speaker 1>little girl, I can change my whole life. But I

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<v Speaker 1>will say there is when people say, oh, so soals

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<v Speaker 1>a gold jigger, so so only about the money. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that's always a situation or the case at times,

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<v Speaker 1>because sometimes it just comes down to you wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>feel like somebody also can sometimes take the bill, or

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<v Speaker 1>somebody can direct something, and somebody can be you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they can lead you as opposed to you leading them.

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<v Speaker 1>Because right so I do understand that, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel about dating guys that you have a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>than Like what if this is a guy who's an

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<v Speaker 1>struggling actor, he hasn't never had a big bro but

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<v Speaker 1>he's really cute you Like, I'm just I'm like you,

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<v Speaker 1>how you down with that? Um? Well, that's all I

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<v Speaker 1>have really dated, you know, I never really dated everybody

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, maybe let's say, made the same amount

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<v Speaker 1>of money as me. Mama, come on, I talk to

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<v Speaker 1>your daughter now. Situation never allowed it to happen. Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>This is this is that's that's. I've never dated anybody

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, like I said, like maybe had the

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<v Speaker 1>same amount of money as me, because for me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>always been important on how I vie with somebody. What

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<v Speaker 1>a head, it's a heart and the right place and

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<v Speaker 1>all that type of stuff, But it is important. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the difference between somebody that has a good heart and

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's working towards something. And that's definitely a lesson that

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<v Speaker 1>I've had to learn. People love somebody for being who

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<v Speaker 1>they are, but it don't mean that you need to

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<v Speaker 1>be with them and all this that and the third

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<v Speaker 1>if they don't know how to uh, if they don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to man just said, I ain't dating no

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<v Speaker 1>broke people on my level. I say it. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>because the dynamics shifts in a bad way. Right. If

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<v Speaker 1>somebody don't have their own thing going on, they feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad about themselves. It's gonna feel bad about themselves. It

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<v Speaker 1>creates resentment in the relationship, it creates cold dependency. It's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing but bad that could come eventually. They're gonna beat

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<v Speaker 1>you because they're gonna be all time. Are you making

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<v Speaker 1>more money to me? But it's different for women, you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, because women, guys can date a woman that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have as much as they have, because that's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing that you know. Once again, that's a double standing

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<v Speaker 1>in the row reversal. You could be a boss and

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<v Speaker 1>be sexy at the same time. That's why I love

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<v Speaker 1>about Beyonce. You could be feminine and be a businesswoman.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of times when a woman is

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<v Speaker 1>a businesswoman, she feels as if she's lost a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of her femininity or that she can't be sexy and

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<v Speaker 1>she can't be that sweet, sensitive thing. It's like you

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<v Speaker 1>got to pick one or the other and it's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've run against that myself as well, being a young,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, woman out here doing her thing. It's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, am I gay? Or you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it makes you feel what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you like you have a moment of feeling as

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<v Speaker 1>if like, no, it has a feeling of feeling as

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<v Speaker 1>if why do it? Why does it feel as if

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<v Speaker 1>guys aren't attracted to that or they don't Why does

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<v Speaker 1>it feel like it's a role reversal. It literally feels

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a role reversal. It's like, Okay, the guy

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<v Speaker 1>completely changes and I don't know how to explain it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you they turned into the it's really weird,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your question. Act like your mama not in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Do these guys start acting like this after y'all have sex?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if they start acting like that after y'all have effect,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he already got what he wanted to begin with. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a situation where they stop talking to you

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<v Speaker 1>as a situation where everything becomes a problem. It's an

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<v Speaker 1>insecurity issue. It's not an issue of I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to call you no more. It's an issue of what

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing, where you're going, who you with verse they're

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<v Speaker 1>okay with it, and then and then it's like and

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<v Speaker 1>then it's it becomes a whole thing of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just weird and it's so crazy because you feel,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I don't feel bad that I'm making more money.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know, I don't feel I'm not gonna slow down, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna slow down, But you I can't help it.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's what you what if you need your help.

0:24:07.560 --> 0:24:08.960
<v Speaker 1>But if it's like can you you know, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to listen for this role and I know you know

0:24:10.600 --> 0:24:16.000
<v Speaker 1>this person, would you make that call? You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very big on sharing, you know what I mean. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be able to share whatever knowledge I got

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<v Speaker 1>with anybody. You're giving abundance, You're getting abundance. It's you know,

0:24:23.480 --> 0:24:26.160
<v Speaker 1>it's a revolving door. You know, nobody's blessing is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>take away your blessing. So it's important to me to

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, I want to be around people

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<v Speaker 1>that I want to share it with. But it's also

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<v Speaker 1>a sticky place because I don't want to be around

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that only want me to just help them with stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's when your intuition has to come in.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to allow yourself to be sensitive to people's

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<v Speaker 1>energies and vibes, like does this person really trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be in my life because they want to get to

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<v Speaker 1>know me, care about me? Or this person just trying

0:24:47.119 --> 0:24:48.359
<v Speaker 1>to be in my life because they want to come up.

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<v Speaker 1>And sometimes you may get screwed over. You might've gotten

0:24:52.040 --> 0:24:54.360
<v Speaker 1>you I've gotten screwed over. I'm just saying I've got

0:24:54.359 --> 0:24:56.320
<v Speaker 1>screwed over before, but you live and you learn. Do

0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:58.240
<v Speaker 1>you get sick of guys? Like do you be with guys?

0:24:58.240 --> 0:25:00.040
<v Speaker 1>And all of a sudden you realize, like, oh, I

0:25:00.160 --> 0:25:01.680
<v Speaker 1>want to be with you. You're calling me all the time,

0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:03.880
<v Speaker 1>You're stressing me like that. I think the truth is

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of times at my age, people

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<v Speaker 1>feel like they want to be in a relationship. But

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<v Speaker 1>the truth because you really don't. Like I used to

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<v Speaker 1>think that I should want to be in a relationship

0:25:11.240 --> 0:25:18.720
<v Speaker 1>because I'm Kicky. You know, I'm the good. Because I'm Kicky,

0:25:19.320 --> 0:25:21.720
<v Speaker 1>I should be the good. You know, I have a boyfriend,

0:25:21.800 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 1>that's what you know, All these things are gonna help

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<v Speaker 1>me identify who I am. And then I realized, I

0:25:27.119 --> 0:25:29.639
<v Speaker 1>really don't care about that. I really only care about

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<v Speaker 1>getting out there recording my music, being in the studio,

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<v Speaker 1>doing my doing, just Kicky doing this film idea I

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<v Speaker 1>just had writing this book, coming up with this that

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<v Speaker 1>that's really what I care about and I shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to feel like I need to be defined by social

0:25:44.400 --> 0:25:46.800
<v Speaker 1>necessities in order to feel like I'm being who I am.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's really what it boils down to it, Really,

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I really, you know, I really don't. Guys, aren't my

0:25:51.600 --> 0:25:54.320
<v Speaker 1>first idea thought in my mind? Good? You know, it's

0:25:54.359 --> 0:25:56.080
<v Speaker 1>like my first one in my mind is where I'm

0:25:56.119 --> 0:25:57.879
<v Speaker 1>going after right now? And it must be fun to

0:25:57.920 --> 0:25:59.679
<v Speaker 1>be singing. I mean, you were a lot down for

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:02.000
<v Speaker 1>quite Sometimes it's very fun to be single because you

0:26:02.000 --> 0:26:04.600
<v Speaker 1>know what happens. You find yourself. You understand what it

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<v Speaker 1>means to love yourself instead of putting all this energy

0:26:08.000 --> 0:26:10.240
<v Speaker 1>into give and tug in a relationship, because that's what

0:26:10.320 --> 0:26:13.040
<v Speaker 1>happens when you first fall in love. Everything's all gravy,

0:26:13.040 --> 0:26:15.440
<v Speaker 1>it's all good, it's all clean, and then you start

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<v Speaker 1>depending on the other person for your happiness, and then

0:26:17.640 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 1>it becomes a pull and tug between your egos. You

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:21.800
<v Speaker 1>want them to go your way and they want you

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:24.400
<v Speaker 1>to go they way. And if you have that love

0:26:24.400 --> 0:26:26.720
<v Speaker 1>within yourself, you won't be looking for somebody else. So

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be able to give and give and give without

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like you need to receive, because you receive it

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<v Speaker 1>from yourself. Listen, I got questions for you, and I'm

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you why, because I got a six year

0:26:33.520 --> 0:26:35.760
<v Speaker 1>old daughter, another girl on the way, and I like

0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:38.240
<v Speaker 1>how well rounded you are. I like the fact that

0:26:38.240 --> 0:26:40.040
<v Speaker 1>you got your head on your shoulders, right, Did your

0:26:40.040 --> 0:26:41.600
<v Speaker 1>parents put that in you young? Because I got my

0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:45.000
<v Speaker 1>daughter reading Don Miguel Ruise right now at six. You know,

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:47.359
<v Speaker 1>I got her doing a whole bunch of activities my

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:51.480
<v Speaker 1>parents did. My parents really did? I you know, the

0:26:51.680 --> 0:26:54.199
<v Speaker 1>mom been married all my life and you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I say that to say, like, I'll always be you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I talk to God, I'd be like, what I do

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<v Speaker 1>deserve of just a mom and dad that loved me.

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<v Speaker 1>Besides the fact that they changed their life to help

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:09.960
<v Speaker 1>support my dreams, they just simply love me, period. And

0:27:09.960 --> 0:27:12.240
<v Speaker 1>that's something that only only way. I think That's probably

0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:14.439
<v Speaker 1>another reason why I stay so focused, because I'm like,

0:27:14.800 --> 0:27:16.359
<v Speaker 1>I want them to be proud. I want them to

0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:18.159
<v Speaker 1>do and I'm doing something with that gift. With the

0:27:18.160 --> 0:27:19.800
<v Speaker 1>fact that they were a part of my life. My

0:27:19.840 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 1>mom would always been a part of my life. Even

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:25.000
<v Speaker 1>before I was in in acting, she was there. She

0:27:25.040 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 1>was there, you know, when I was at school. If

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:28.520
<v Speaker 1>somebody says something, she go down there and she makes

0:27:28.560 --> 0:27:31.040
<v Speaker 1>me feel like I was important. I was the all mom,

0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:32.720
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to cry. You know, I was the

0:27:32.720 --> 0:27:34.680
<v Speaker 1>only black kid in my class, and my mom would

0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:36.359
<v Speaker 1>come in and I would feel bad and stuff like that,

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 1>and she would go to you know, you made my

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:44.240
<v Speaker 1>daughter feel bad? Tell them how how they made you feel?

0:27:47.280 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, That's why I think why I have the

0:27:50.440 --> 0:27:53.200
<v Speaker 1>extra added of you know, keeping my head on straight

0:27:53.280 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 1>or where you want to call it, because I know

0:27:55.119 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 1>what they did for me, and I showed that gratitude

0:27:57.920 --> 0:28:00.200
<v Speaker 1>and everything I do. Tell me what Daddy did. Did

0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:02.040
<v Speaker 1>he tell you stay away from those boys? Like how

0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:03.880
<v Speaker 1>did Daddy raise you? Because I gotta raise my daughter

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:06.959
<v Speaker 1>the right way. No, my dad, it's very different than

0:28:07.000 --> 0:28:09.560
<v Speaker 1>my mom. My mom is very neurotic. She's always she

0:28:09.640 --> 0:28:12.160
<v Speaker 1>really is. She's always worried, you know, worry, worry, worry,

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>wor worried. My dad is the epitome of love. He

0:28:15.359 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 1>trusted us and even when things got weird or or

0:28:19.000 --> 0:28:21.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, I maybe was drifting away from the family

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:23.560
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, did things happen, because you know, things change,

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:26.600
<v Speaker 1>my dad always trusted that I would find my way

0:28:26.600 --> 0:28:28.880
<v Speaker 1>back and my mom will be nervous. Mom would be scared.

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:30.560
<v Speaker 1>And my mom has told me conversation that they've had

0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 1>even to this day where my dad would be like

0:28:32.600 --> 0:28:35.239
<v Speaker 1>kekey is intelligent. You have to trust her and let

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:37.199
<v Speaker 1>her do her thing, because that's how real love is.

0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:39.600
<v Speaker 1>You gotta let go. And that's know when you did

0:28:39.720 --> 0:28:41.040
<v Speaker 1>he did a good that's knowing that they did a

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:42.640
<v Speaker 1>good job, so they trust you even still did the

0:28:42.720 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 1>right things in you Like I know you don't even

0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:45.520
<v Speaker 1>how to keep your lips on the mic because I

0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:50.200
<v Speaker 1>know they did a good job. You did your mom

0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 1>and daddy help come to your rescue now. So when

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:53.560
<v Speaker 1>it's problems or this stuff in the press that they

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:55.760
<v Speaker 1>come like I got I hand list myself like in

0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:59.320
<v Speaker 1>the press or anything. My parents, my mom. There used

0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:01.240
<v Speaker 1>to be a job in the acting community, like in

0:29:01.280 --> 0:29:04.360
<v Speaker 1>the kid actor's community, and I feel bad that I

0:29:04.360 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 1>can't impersonate the curse words that need to be said

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:08.960
<v Speaker 1>in order to really see this. Okay, look, so there

0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:11.440
<v Speaker 1>will be like there would be like literally this is

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 1>me going into the times people would tell me when

0:29:14.000 --> 0:29:15.960
<v Speaker 1>I was a little kid that people would talk to

0:29:15.960 --> 0:29:19.200
<v Speaker 1>be like yo, Kicky Palmer's mom. If you mess with Kicky,

0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 1>she whip your ass. I ain't playing with you. Don't

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>say no, she gonna hurt you. Because my mom always

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:28.000
<v Speaker 1>she don't she do not when somebody says something bad

0:29:28.040 --> 0:29:29.800
<v Speaker 1>about me, I can bring up. Let's say this dude

0:29:29.880 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Tony yelled at me when I was not. The next

0:29:32.200 --> 0:29:34.040
<v Speaker 1>time my mom see Tony, even if it's at the

0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:36.760
<v Speaker 1>age of twenty one, she gonna give him the meanest shade.

0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 1>Honey you I mean, it's crazy. My mom can't help

0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:43.360
<v Speaker 1>but always be at my rest. Chic can't help mom

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:47.560
<v Speaker 1>on the micro use come in, come in, she said.

0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I just want to know what was the biggest hurdle

0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:52.280
<v Speaker 1>you had to face as a mom and you could

0:29:52.280 --> 0:29:56.720
<v Speaker 1>be real mom the biggest hurdle, Yeah, I think it's friends.

0:29:57.560 --> 0:30:00.440
<v Speaker 1>I think they the friends come in and and the

0:30:01.200 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 1>child actor. Since they spend so much time working, Like

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 1>she said, then the friends come and go because like

0:30:07.560 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 1>if you go off and do a movie and you

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:12.360
<v Speaker 1>know you left your friends back, you go back. Their

0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 1>life is evolving in another direction, so you know that

0:30:15.680 --> 0:30:18.840
<v Speaker 1>connection is gone, and then they want friends, and so

0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 1>sometimes the friends come into their life and they're not

0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:24.520
<v Speaker 1>the best friends. I think Kiki has done a really

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 1>good job and you know, discerning who her friends are.

0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 1>But as a mother I have set back and watch

0:30:31.400 --> 0:30:35.040
<v Speaker 1>people come into her life that I wanted to say no,

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 1>he ain't no good or she ain't no good, and

0:30:39.040 --> 0:30:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I told her and then the reaction is, you know,

0:30:41.920 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 1>you're just being an over protective mom. And then like

0:30:44.920 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 1>eight months later, she'll come back and go, I'm not

0:30:47.840 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 1>kicking it with that person anymore. So, and I'm very

0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:53.200
<v Speaker 1>careful not to say I told you so, because that's

0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 1>not good either. I didn't like it when my mother

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>told me so. I don't tell her. But I think

0:30:57.360 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 1>that's the biggest obstacle that a parent has with a

0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 1>child in this industry is the friends and the relationships.

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Because she didn't go to high school, and the best

0:31:07.640 --> 0:31:10.959
<v Speaker 1>thing about going to high school is a socialization. You

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 1>learn who do you kick it with, who not to

0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:15.360
<v Speaker 1>kick it with? Who you was hanging with freshman year,

0:31:15.400 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 1>you're not hanging with senior year. You start evolving. And

0:31:18.960 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 1>she didn't have that. So her socialization is happening right now.

0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 1>Her college is happening right now, and so there's going

0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 1>to be trial and error and a lot of people

0:31:29.080 --> 0:31:32.200
<v Speaker 1>have motives. I'm sure, absolutely absolutely, And how did you

0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:34.800
<v Speaker 1>get over your parental paranoia? Because I suffer from that now,

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:36.680
<v Speaker 1>like I'm the same way I'm not worried about what

0:31:36.840 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 1>my daughter every day. I worry about what other people

0:31:39.120 --> 0:31:40.800
<v Speaker 1>are gonna do to my daughter. You know what I'm saying,

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I follow my daughter. I don't think you ever get

0:31:43.000 --> 0:31:45.000
<v Speaker 1>rid of that. I mean, you know, my mother didn't

0:31:45.040 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 1>get rid of it. I was, you know, thirty years

0:31:47.400 --> 0:31:49.560
<v Speaker 1>old and moved out to California, and my mother got it.

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I think it comes down to what she's. My husband

0:31:52.400 --> 0:31:57.240
<v Speaker 1>and I are such I'm very high strung and energetic,

0:31:57.240 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 1>and he's very laid back. And I think it's what

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:03.320
<v Speaker 1>kikiS said that he talks to me. He tells me, look, sweetie,

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:06.000
<v Speaker 1>we didn't raise these kids. We put them in church.

0:32:06.360 --> 0:32:09.320
<v Speaker 1>We told them about the love of God. Now we

0:32:09.480 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 1>gotta let them fall off, fly and at the end

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:16.520
<v Speaker 1>of the day, because it's not gonna help Kickie for

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:19.080
<v Speaker 1>me to keep having the safety net under her, so,

0:32:19.480 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, whatever happens, when stuff happened in the press

0:32:21.720 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 1>or whatever like that. I think she's very classy and

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I think she handles herself very well. And no, my

0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:30.720
<v Speaker 1>husband not. We don't behind the scenes. We don't control her.

0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 1>We let people say what they're gonna say. If people

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 1>are gonna judge her off of what they want to

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:38.160
<v Speaker 1>judge her offer off. That's home. Now she can't live

0:32:38.200 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 1>her life for other people. Now, Mom, wall made you

0:32:39.680 --> 0:32:42.800
<v Speaker 1>stare at the same penis all these years. Well, it

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:51.000
<v Speaker 1>was very good. Right, what's the most embarrassing thing. Let's

0:32:51.000 --> 0:32:53.240
<v Speaker 1>talking about this earlier this week. What's the most embarrassing

0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 1>thing your mom did to you. I'm so excited to

0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 1>tell you this. So yesterday, right, it's so funny. I

0:32:59.800 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>was reading like my mom's no morology number was saying

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:03.200
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff about how, you know, you need to

0:33:03.200 --> 0:33:05.640
<v Speaker 1>make sure that you get some good exercise and you know,

0:33:05.640 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 1>burn off some of this energy that you have because

0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 1>you have such you know, ambitious nature blah blah blah

0:33:09.320 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 1>blah and all this stuff. Right, so I'm at the

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:13.960
<v Speaker 1>end of it. Then my mom says, yeah, well I

0:33:14.080 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 1>just like porography, Like you know, my mama, Yo, When

0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 1>I tell you, I was like, it's so funny, Mama

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 1>that you said that, because literally I have a little

0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:25.040
<v Speaker 1>brother and sister they're twins. Right, I'm like, it's so

0:33:25.080 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 1>funny that you said this, and I love you so

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>deep I have feel damn, it's it's funny though, Mom,

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>why are you there? Is? Now? Look I gotta deal

0:33:41.200 --> 0:33:44.080
<v Speaker 1>with though with my bad mom. It's funny. So look

0:33:44.080 --> 0:33:49.120
<v Speaker 1>the little my little brother, it's funny. I don't know

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:51.160
<v Speaker 1>what's wrong here. So look, my little brother says here.

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:53.240
<v Speaker 1>Literally it was so funny that she was so honest

0:33:53.240 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>about it in that moment for no reason at all,

0:33:55.040 --> 0:33:58.720
<v Speaker 1>because literally two weeks before, my little brothers said, we

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 1>saw the parents compete uter and they forgot to take

0:34:01.640 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 1>away their Google log. Wasn't mom or Dad? They were

0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:14.759
<v Speaker 1>like mom, he said, Big Black Brothers. And now and

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:17.360
<v Speaker 1>now and now we joke. My my public is my

0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:22.120
<v Speaker 1>hair and makeup cue nickname her BBB. So now I

0:34:22.160 --> 0:34:24.640
<v Speaker 1>have this play. Okay, I've been married to their years.

0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm on the road. You know, I'm to explaining Mom,

0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:35.640
<v Speaker 1>everybody watches for Big Black Brothers to go that when

0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I get home today, it's normal, Mom, billion dollars industry class.

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:47.000
<v Speaker 1>You're not paying though you're getting the free I'm getting

0:34:47.040 --> 0:34:51.840
<v Speaker 1>free clips. Okay, I just make it sure. I know,

0:34:51.960 --> 0:34:54.960
<v Speaker 1>but I love. What do you think about what's going

0:34:55.000 --> 0:35:02.080
<v Speaker 1>on in Baltimore? You know, it's such a loaded thing

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 1>because there's not a a I feel a lot of things.

0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:11.319
<v Speaker 1>You know, I feel like we're in such a time

0:35:11.320 --> 0:35:16.440
<v Speaker 1>where the negativity is being so plaster everywhere that it

0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:19.759
<v Speaker 1>instills more fear that it then begots more negativity and

0:35:19.840 --> 0:35:25.360
<v Speaker 1>more negativity from whether it be you know, the communities

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:27.480
<v Speaker 1>or the people that are supposed to be helping the communities.

0:35:27.680 --> 0:35:29.840
<v Speaker 1>It comes from everywhere because everybody feels like that's the

0:35:29.920 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>reality that they're living in, So it just keeps in

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:36.520
<v Speaker 1>continuously perpetuates itself. I just feel like I want us

0:35:36.520 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 1>to come together, not just as black people, but as

0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 1>people in general. You know what I'm saying. There's so

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:43.960
<v Speaker 1>many other issues that are going on that that that

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 1>bring us together, then that separate us, you know, not

0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:49.920
<v Speaker 1>just I think we sometimes get so stuck on the

0:35:49.960 --> 0:35:51.839
<v Speaker 1>differences that we don't see in the ways that we

0:35:51.880 --> 0:35:54.640
<v Speaker 1>need each other, you know what I'm saying, with things

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 1>we got in common, you know, I mean instead of me, oh,

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:58.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm from this culture, here from that culture. Like how

0:35:59.000 --> 0:36:01.279
<v Speaker 1>about we both need our rent page, how about we

0:36:01.320 --> 0:36:05.880
<v Speaker 1>both need a job, we both need to not continuously

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:10.399
<v Speaker 1>be held down financially. You know what I'm saying, There's

0:36:10.400 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 1>so many other issues that connect us then that separate us,

0:36:13.400 --> 0:36:14.680
<v Speaker 1>you know what I I mean people in general, we have

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 1>more more things that are alike than we do different.

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 1>And I think that a lot of these when these

0:36:19.040 --> 0:36:21.800
<v Speaker 1>when these things happen, it gets so focused on the negative.

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 1>That's that's all that your mind can be filled in

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 1>to the point that you can't think clearly or see

0:36:25.480 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 1>how to better approach the situation. The only thing you

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:30.680
<v Speaker 1>can think of is to fight darkness with darkness. But

0:36:30.760 --> 0:36:32.600
<v Speaker 1>that's not how we go. You can only drive out

0:36:32.640 --> 0:36:35.239
<v Speaker 1>darkness with light. I mean MLK said that we can

0:36:35.280 --> 0:36:38.640
<v Speaker 1>only go somewhere if we're together. And and it's the

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:41.960
<v Speaker 1>unity that scares whoever you think that don't want you

0:36:42.000 --> 0:36:44.360
<v Speaker 1>to win. It's the unity that scares them the most.

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:46.799
<v Speaker 1>It's not the fighting. As long as you're fighting, I'm

0:36:46.840 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 1>winning because you're not talking, you're not seeing that actually

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:53.360
<v Speaker 1>we're on the same page. Instead, you're casting this person

0:36:53.360 --> 0:36:54.960
<v Speaker 1>out and casting that person out. But if you actually

0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:56.680
<v Speaker 1>take time and say, look, let's stop fighting each other

0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:59.759
<v Speaker 1>and actually think about who we really need, what we

0:37:00.280 --> 0:37:01.640
<v Speaker 1>need to be talking about, and what we really need

0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:03.480
<v Speaker 1>to be trying to set up and put in order

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:05.960
<v Speaker 1>in order to change what it is we want to change,

0:37:06.040 --> 0:37:08.400
<v Speaker 1>But when there's so much negativity going on, you can't

0:37:08.440 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 1>think that way. You can't see clearly. You're seeing that

0:37:10.520 --> 0:37:12.680
<v Speaker 1>in Baltimore. Now you're seeing like boods and crips coming together.

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:14.600
<v Speaker 1>But it's interesting how the media trying to put it

0:37:14.640 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 1>out like, oh, the bloods and crips are fighting each

0:37:16.680 --> 0:37:18.200
<v Speaker 1>other and now they want to kill other cops. And

0:37:18.239 --> 0:37:19.960
<v Speaker 1>they came out and said, no, we're not trying to

0:37:20.000 --> 0:37:24.480
<v Speaker 1>kill cops. We're actually all coming together, actually are on

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:26.480
<v Speaker 1>the same team. You know what I'm saying. Not every

0:37:26.520 --> 0:37:29.080
<v Speaker 1>cop is a bad cop, right, There's some good cops too.

0:37:29.160 --> 0:37:31.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean I grew up with some of them. And also,

0:37:31.480 --> 0:37:33.440
<v Speaker 1>just like with anybody, you know, some good people and

0:37:33.520 --> 0:37:36.520
<v Speaker 1>some people some bad people. So you can't just cast

0:37:36.560 --> 0:37:39.160
<v Speaker 1>everything one way and then expect things to change. You

0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:41.040
<v Speaker 1>have to seek what it is you're looking for. You

0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 1>have to be the change that you want to see,

0:37:42.719 --> 0:37:44.680
<v Speaker 1>and that's what'll start coming to you. But if you're

0:37:44.719 --> 0:37:47.960
<v Speaker 1>just being honed in and allowing anger to completely consume you,

0:37:48.080 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I've been there, you know, we've all been a place

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:52.840
<v Speaker 1>of self pity. Man. It's hard. I'm a black woman,

0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:55.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm a woman and I'm a black woman.

0:37:55.800 --> 0:37:57.279
<v Speaker 1>I could sit there and think about that all day,

0:37:57.360 --> 0:37:59.200
<v Speaker 1>and some people say all things are never going to change,

0:37:59.239 --> 0:38:01.680
<v Speaker 1>and that's a terrible defeat his attitude. When I think

0:38:01.680 --> 0:38:05.399
<v Speaker 1>about slavery, I get so inspired and say, whoa, look

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 1>what I came from. Damn, I could do anything. And

0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:11.160
<v Speaker 1>people say they will never be a black president, and

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:12.799
<v Speaker 1>we got a black president. You know what I'm saying.

0:38:12.840 --> 0:38:15.279
<v Speaker 1>Because it's all about where your mind is at. It's

0:38:15.280 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 1>all about shifting your paradigm. It's all about allowing positivity

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 1>to feel your life and not letting this other stuff

0:38:20.640 --> 0:38:22.799
<v Speaker 1>change your perspective. It will really mess you up if

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:25.239
<v Speaker 1>you allow the outer things to change. You think about it.

0:38:25.280 --> 0:38:27.560
<v Speaker 1>When I wake up in the morning, I don't The

0:38:27.560 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 1>first thing I say is I'm love. I'm love. I'm

0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:35.520
<v Speaker 1>like and that's why I carry throughout my whole day.

0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I ended up end up seeing. That's

0:38:37.480 --> 0:38:40.080
<v Speaker 1>what the eyes on which I see the world. And

0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:41.640
<v Speaker 1>so you have to wake up every day and allow

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:43.879
<v Speaker 1>yourself to be that glory, be the glory of God.

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Don't chake that take that away from yourself by allowing

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.640
<v Speaker 1>everything you see to tear you down. Instead, see how

0:38:48.680 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 1>you can fix it by looking through the eyes of him.

0:38:50.719 --> 0:38:53.040
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying right now? In the position

0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:55.320
<v Speaker 1>you're in, do you have people that say to you

0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:57.800
<v Speaker 1>you can't speak out about that now, lead that alone.

0:38:57.840 --> 0:39:00.359
<v Speaker 1>You got sponsorships, you got a TV show coming? No,

0:39:00.640 --> 0:39:03.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm so glad I don't have that. You

0:39:03.280 --> 0:39:04.839
<v Speaker 1>know me. I would used to watch as a kid,

0:39:04.840 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, you see on the TV shows and they

0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:08.120
<v Speaker 1>would be celebrities or somebody like that, and they want

0:39:08.120 --> 0:39:09.520
<v Speaker 1>to say stuff or be a part of things, and

0:39:09.520 --> 0:39:11.919
<v Speaker 1>people would be like, no, no, that's not true, that's

0:39:11.960 --> 0:39:15.399
<v Speaker 1>not me at all. I'm there, I'm I'm the one

0:39:15.440 --> 0:39:17.920
<v Speaker 1>that runs my career thankfully. So I'm in a position

0:39:17.960 --> 0:39:19.680
<v Speaker 1>where I can do stuff like just Kiki and I

0:39:19.719 --> 0:39:21.040
<v Speaker 1>can talk about the stuff that I want to talk

0:39:21.080 --> 0:39:22.760
<v Speaker 1>about in the issues that I feel like are important

0:39:22.760 --> 0:39:25.839
<v Speaker 1>to my generation, not even just racial issues, but even

0:39:25.920 --> 0:39:29.319
<v Speaker 1>talking about technology and understanding what that's doing to us.

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:32.200
<v Speaker 1>You feel like crap because you're comparing your life to

0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:34.960
<v Speaker 1>every person that you swipe pass on Instagram. They do

0:39:35.080 --> 0:39:37.440
<v Speaker 1>say that because of social media as hard people to

0:39:37.480 --> 0:39:39.759
<v Speaker 1>get married nowadays, because we're sitting up in bed with

0:39:39.920 --> 0:39:42.520
<v Speaker 1>on our Instagrams and on our twitter we're not paying

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:44.560
<v Speaker 1>attention makes you. We're about the wrong things, because that's

0:39:44.560 --> 0:39:46.520
<v Speaker 1>not the reality that's in front of you. If all

0:39:46.600 --> 0:39:48.520
<v Speaker 1>day I look up at everything that's going horrible in

0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:50.319
<v Speaker 1>the world, I won't even be able to realize what

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 1>I can do with what's in front of me, because

0:39:51.719 --> 0:39:54.400
<v Speaker 1>all I keep seeing my eyes through is the world

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:57.120
<v Speaker 1>of being negative and terrible and all that type of stuff.

0:39:57.200 --> 0:39:59.200
<v Speaker 1>Or if I look online, I'm looking at everybody in Cali,

0:39:59.600 --> 0:40:01.319
<v Speaker 1>you know they live in a perfect life. I look around,

0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm in Philly, Well, yeah, I might feel bad, you

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:06.000
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, because I'm trying to compare my

0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:09.080
<v Speaker 1>circumstances to someone else's. But everybody's journey is different, everybody's

0:40:09.080 --> 0:40:11.359
<v Speaker 1>life is different, and it's not necessarily the best thing

0:40:11.400 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 1>to see somebody else's life evolved in action. That's not

0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:15.640
<v Speaker 1>the way it should That's not the way it should be.

0:40:15.719 --> 0:40:18.399
<v Speaker 1>You're seeing every single step that's not normal. It's never

0:40:18.400 --> 0:40:20.799
<v Speaker 1>been done before, and we'll find out in years to

0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:23.680
<v Speaker 1>come what maybe those effects were. You know what I'm saying,

0:40:23.719 --> 0:40:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Because we're the generation that's we're the guinea pigs to it. Well,

0:40:27.000 --> 0:40:29.520
<v Speaker 1>since we're talking about technology, you got caught up in

0:40:29.520 --> 0:40:38.840
<v Speaker 1>that hacking scandal. Yeah, yeah, I ain't. And this was

0:40:38.840 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 1>the such a thing about it is that the main

0:40:41.640 --> 0:40:49.399
<v Speaker 1>thing I wanted, the main thing that upset me about

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, why do you want me to explain

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<v Speaker 1>something that you that that has nothing to do with you?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the biggest issue that I have, not even

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<v Speaker 1>just as a celebrity, but in general people be on

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<v Speaker 1>Internet trying I found out something about you. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you happy about that? Why are you happy that you've

0:41:03.520 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 1>got into something? It's like cracking into somebody's mind. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Gabrielle Union actually went off about that because it just

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<v Speaker 1>don't make no sense. I mean just honestly, if you

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<v Speaker 1>went and took a picture of somebody in the window

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<v Speaker 1>at a house, that's you a peep in time, you

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<v Speaker 1>should go to jail. But because we're on the internet,

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<v Speaker 1>this makes sense and there's something to be laughing and

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<v Speaker 1>funny fun about. You just have to take in a

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<v Speaker 1>stride because you have you have. There's no way to

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<v Speaker 1>to to move forward from that other than to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, they don't know any better that they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean any harm. They don't know any better from that.

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<v Speaker 1>That has to be a devastating feeling to wake up

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<v Speaker 1>and see all that on your people come and he

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<v Speaker 1>is a devastating feeling because there's nothing you can say right,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing you can there's nothing you can. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to just let let it go. Let it. You gotta

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<v Speaker 1>take the ail, because what are you gonna do. Write

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<v Speaker 1>a whole long host on your about that it's got

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<v Speaker 1>a loss, you learn from it. You're a winner, you learn.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I like to say. I love that because

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<v Speaker 1>usually when I think about the ale, I think about

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<v Speaker 1>the law you learn and that's real. Though that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>That's either it's either how you choose to see it

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<v Speaker 1>and I choose to see it like I'm learning. I

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<v Speaker 1>choose to see it like you know what. I'm greater

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<v Speaker 1>because it is right, but it is. It does suck.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it sucks anytime somebody UH find out something

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't tell them. We appreciate you joining us

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<v Speaker 1>man me too. My final credit, I'm reading your name, Laurene.

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<v Speaker 1>How you get My sister had imaginary friend when she

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<v Speaker 1>was younger. Sorry, I'm embarrassing her to um. She had

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<v Speaker 1>imagined her friend named Kekey when I was born. She

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<v Speaker 1>wanted my name to be Kecky, but my mom was like,

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<v Speaker 1>she can't go through her whole life with a name

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<v Speaker 1>like Key, and look at that. I go through my

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<v Speaker 1>whole life with Lauren. Hilarious. Well, we wish you the best.

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<v Speaker 1>We know what to send mom for Christmas. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the black is deal though, you can find all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're know, I'm gonna google that and to see what

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<v Speaker 1>comes up. Right, My goodness, we're a big black penis

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<v Speaker 1>out there somewhere. If you just want to look at

0:43:02.719 --> 0:43:06.080
<v Speaker 1>him out there, but check, you could just look at

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<v Speaker 1>all right, it's the Breakfast Buckers. Keep pum. Thanks y'all