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Speaker 1: Real people, real celebrity joined the Breakfast morning. Everybody is

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Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the

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Speaker 1: breakfast club. We have a young lady who came here

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Speaker 1: this morning. No security, no press. She's not young, no,

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Speaker 1: no man has been, no nothing. She was out there.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know who she was, what her mama, hem

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Speaker 1: wasn't even she beat her mom in here. No, my

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Speaker 1: mama was here and she's standing right behind you. I

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Speaker 1: know that's the best security. Yeah, she's not young, no more.

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Speaker 1: By the way, she's twenty one. Miss Kiki Parma. Would

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Speaker 1: you like some remy remy? Oh you're not in front

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Speaker 1: of mom. Okay, she's got work to do today. It's

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Speaker 1: early in the morning. My bad. What's going on, Kiki?

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Speaker 1: Nothing much, just working out here promoting brotherly love. I

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Speaker 1: saw it, by the way. I love that movie. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was great. So I'm so glad. I'm

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Speaker 1: so glad you did that fantastic job in that movie.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I feel like I know you've been doing

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Speaker 1: a lot though you've been super busy. You got your

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Speaker 1: on talk show just kicking money out, and you got

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Speaker 1: a TV show coming yet Fox giving black people shows

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Speaker 1: like It's the Night. No, I retweeted you when you

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Speaker 1: said that because they had me cracking. Did they do

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Speaker 1: that after Empire or you had that already? No, it

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Speaker 1: was after Empire, but it's Ryan Murphy. But the show

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Speaker 1: is not like Empire at all. It's very different. It's

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Speaker 1: Ryan Murphy, so they do a lot of business with him.

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Speaker 1: So it just was, you know, ironic. It's like a

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Speaker 1: horror movie horror TV shows. Yes, it's like American horror

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Speaker 1: stories I would say, mixed with mean girls. So you

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Speaker 1: get like a little bit of the girl Caddy is

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Speaker 1: comedy from that type of film, and then also you

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Speaker 1: get the gore from like American horns. So you're killing people. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if I'm the killer. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what's going I don't know what what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: Don't tell They don't tell us. They don't tell us either.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy and I'm always trying to figure it out.

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Speaker 1: But Ryan, don't tell me. It is using you for promo.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna kill you first episode. You're black, you dieing

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Speaker 1: hard movies and TV show that's not that's not what

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Speaker 1: happens now. With black individuals and movies and Black Boy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: with the successive Empire, successive Empire, you last, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: talk about brotherly love. We didn't see it, but we're

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Speaker 1: hearing this pretty good. Yes, we did well. One of

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Speaker 1: us did. One of us did. Yeah. Yeah. No, I

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Speaker 1: was very, very simple. I was like, I didn't be surprised. Huh. No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what the movie was gonna be about.

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Speaker 1: Number one. I was surprised because it's the first time

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Speaker 1: Team Quincy act in the movie. So I didn't know

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Speaker 1: how that Ny killer. He did a great job because

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Speaker 1: I didn't know we could act either. When he called

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Speaker 1: me and told me, I said, all this movie about it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie because you're like, Okay. I never

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Speaker 1: knew him to act in my entire I've known him

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Speaker 1: for very I know the sweet was kids. So I'm like,

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Speaker 1: he camed to him something, I want to introduce myself

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Speaker 1: as Chris. I'm like, what the hell. Then I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: he about to be in the movie. And I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna see what's gonna be up with this? And

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Speaker 1: then when we got there, I was for real blown away,

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Speaker 1: really gonna it was He's really good in the film.

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Speaker 1: And then Eric Hill was really good. I never yeah

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Speaker 1: found all the right characters. The casting was done properly.

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Speaker 1: Shout outs to Kim Hard. I mean, everything went so

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Speaker 1: so fluently, and it was in Failing. You guys filmed

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Speaker 1: like twenty six days. That's crazy. Yeah, it was. It

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Speaker 1: was a quick shoe. It was a quick shoe. But

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Speaker 1: But you you was just in the right place you

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Speaker 1: go torough the hood. You that got shot, he was

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Speaker 1: more innocent people than keeping but you know it's great.

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Speaker 1: You know? That's it weird like making out with Quincy

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Speaker 1: and steps since y'all with friends since you were little.

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Speaker 1: It was very weird. It was very weird to us.

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Speaker 1: cool in it. Yes it. No, I'm kidding, I'm excited

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Speaker 1: definitely like shout out, queens, you got me, you know

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Speaker 1: like like do guys get like hard? Sorry, Mom, No,

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Speaker 1: She's like, you get mois um. You know, Mom's like,

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Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, he's married. Now you know you

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Speaker 1: because it's too awkward. It's not. You got people looking

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Speaker 1: just it's weird. You're still line the mama telling you

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Speaker 1: about it. When she was here, I talked about it

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Speaker 1: in my essence all this. I drink heavy. I don't

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Speaker 1: remembering this stuff. But now you're a single, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm single? Now? Okay she's single? Oh man, I got

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Speaker 1: a good m F Mary Kill for you too. What's this? Okay? Okay,

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Speaker 1: who's okay? Then this is how I'm gonna really tell,

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Speaker 1: because you know everybody's I was like, oh, she's didating

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Speaker 1: this person. No she's not. She's diding this person, No

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Speaker 1: Let's all right, F Mary Kill, little little Dirk yg

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Speaker 1: and august I sena okay, little Dirk Mary. Oh so

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Speaker 1: because that's just seeing him. The other day, Mary killed that.

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Speaker 1: I ain't got that Mary, little Dirk. Okay, um, who's

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Speaker 1: the next person? He said, August, I's seen it, And YG,

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Speaker 1: who are you killing? Oh? You know, we need another option.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to kill them. You have to kill

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Speaker 1: one of them, not killing the literal sense, just you know,

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Speaker 1: you're dead to me. Okay, okay, okay, okay, you're dead

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Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, but this person is not dead to me.

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Speaker 1: But this is the only choice that I have, Oh,

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Speaker 1: would have to be YG. I don't mean this, but

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Speaker 1: be Maybe that will be killed. But he's about any

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Speaker 1: day now. We don't want nobody coming for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're really cool. No, we're really cool friends now, but

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Speaker 1: it's not like that. You know, man, Hollywood. You know

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Speaker 1: how Hollywood always try to make whoever you hanging with,

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Speaker 1: that's got to be the person you're dating. You're with them,

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Speaker 1: y'all ride to die. Y'all got a fool dang gonna

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Speaker 1: let me date my you know, successful counterpart or because

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Speaker 1: you can't go anywhere without being harassing and pictures and

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Speaker 1: people commenting. It just seems like business with all guests

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Speaker 1: and like, oh he makes some great chicken. People went

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Speaker 1: He from New Orleans. You know how guys in New Orleans,

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Speaker 1: but they'd be cooking, they'd be ready to show off. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you scream married a little Dirk immediately that nobody tell you. No,

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Speaker 1: I would tell you that means he's telling you love

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Speaker 1: other guy's on the real dude. But you know, Dirk

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Speaker 1: the time, like god bless. Like he's just really very chill.

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Speaker 1: He's very chilly and nice person. We're both from Chicago,

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Speaker 1: so I think maybe we both see, you know, maybe

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Speaker 1: but he's a real good guy, so some potential there.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not, you know, I always say never say never.

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Speaker 1: Got Brandy answer man, she wants your faith, you know.

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Speaker 1: I don't really don't know what happened with that, to

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Speaker 1: with social media again, people will see one little sound

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Speaker 1: just like, I don't be I'm not the type of

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, you can't prove yourself to people. So

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Speaker 1: not trying to steal nobody's husband, right, that looks crazy

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Speaker 1: be real, I grew up watching sister's sister, so to

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Speaker 1: what what's up with that? I never hear radio personalities

420
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:32,080
Speaker 1: talk about their lives? What's up with y'all club? Then

421
00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:34,960
Speaker 1: you must not married with a six year old and

422
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 1: the child on the way, And then it's called the

423
00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 1: players curts. I got two girls, not the players cards

424
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,919
Speaker 1: playing these women. I mean I used to I'm not

425
00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:44,680
Speaker 1: an If I was a guy, I honestly do think

426
00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,520
Speaker 1: I might would be a player. And let me say,

427
00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:51,399
Speaker 1: y August out a little dirt and if Charlottie was

428
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:55,359
Speaker 1: a female, he would be a thought. Okay, you a

429
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:58,160
Speaker 1: ball because I'd be married a soccer player or baseball player.

430
00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 1: Ye trapped somebody. His advice is always get pregnant by him, girl,

431
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 1: and let's get this money. What but what if they

432
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:10,920
Speaker 1: happened to you? You ain't never thought about that honestly now,

433
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 1: I mean, even though you've been popping for a while,

434
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,719
Speaker 1: you ain't never was with somebody and he was like, yo,

435
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 1: he got it. You had an aunt Obama by this

436
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,000
Speaker 1: is you know what that is. First of all, that

437
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,120
Speaker 1: is one hundred percent truth. When you are in an

438
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 1: entertaining when you're a young entertained or something like that,

439
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 1: and you're around a lot of successful men, you do

440
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,520
Speaker 1: have a lot of women, older women in your life,

441
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 1: like girl, change your life. It's like you'll be like

442
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,760
Speaker 1: little girl, I can change my whole life. But I

443
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,359
Speaker 1: will say there is when people say, oh, so soals

444
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 1: a gold jigger, so so only about the money. I

445
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,880
Speaker 1: don't think that's always a situation or the case at times,

446
00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 1: because sometimes it just comes down to you wanting to

447
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,080
Speaker 1: feel like somebody also can sometimes take the bill, or

448
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,840
Speaker 1: somebody can direct something, and somebody can be you know,

449
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 1: they can lead you as opposed to you leading them.

450
00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 1: Because right so I do understand that, how do you

451
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 1: feel about dating guys that you have a lot more

452
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 1: than Like what if this is a guy who's an

453
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 1: struggling actor, he hasn't never had a big bro but

454
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:12,399
Speaker 1: he's really cute you Like, I'm just I'm like you,

455
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,479
Speaker 1: how you down with that? Um? Well, that's all I

456
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 1: have really dated, you know, I never really dated everybody

457
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 1: that you know, maybe let's say, made the same amount

458
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 1: of money as me. Mama, come on, I talk to

459
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 1: your daughter now. Situation never allowed it to happen. Mom.

460
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 1: This is this is that's that's. I've never dated anybody

461
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 1: that you know, like I said, like maybe had the

462
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,239
Speaker 1: same amount of money as me, because for me, it's

463
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 1: always been important on how I vie with somebody. What

464
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 1: a head, it's a heart and the right place and

465
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 1: all that type of stuff, But it is important. It's

466
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,399
Speaker 1: the difference between somebody that has a good heart and

467
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,879
Speaker 1: somebody's working towards something. And that's definitely a lesson that

468
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 1: I've had to learn. People love somebody for being who

469
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 1: they are, but it don't mean that you need to

470
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 1: be with them and all this that and the third

471
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 1: if they don't know how to uh, if they don't

472
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 1: know how to man just said, I ain't dating no

473
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: broke people on my level. I say it. I'm sorry,

474
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,360
Speaker 1: because the dynamics shifts in a bad way. Right. If

475
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 1: somebody don't have their own thing going on, they feel

476
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: bad about themselves. It's gonna feel bad about themselves. It

477
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 1: creates resentment in the relationship, it creates cold dependency. It's

478
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,400
Speaker 1: nothing but bad that could come eventually. They're gonna beat

479
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 1: you because they're gonna be all time. Are you making

480
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,439
Speaker 1: more money to me? But it's different for women, you

481
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 1: feel like, because women, guys can date a woman that

482
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 1: doesn't have as much as they have, because that's the

483
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: thing that you know. Once again, that's a double standing

484
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:31,879
Speaker 1: in the row reversal. You could be a boss and

485
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 1: be sexy at the same time. That's why I love

486
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: about Beyonce. You could be feminine and be a businesswoman.

487
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times when a woman is

488
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,959
Speaker 1: a businesswoman, she feels as if she's lost a bit

489
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: of her femininity or that she can't be sexy and

490
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 1: she can't be that sweet, sensitive thing. It's like you

491
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: got to pick one or the other and it's not true.

492
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 1: And I've run against that myself as well, being a young,

493
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: you know, woman out here doing her thing. It's like, okay,

494
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 1: wait a minute, am I gay? Or you know, I

495
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: feel like it makes you feel what do you mean?

496
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 1: Are you like you have a moment of feeling as

497
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: if like, no, it has a feeling of feeling as

498
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,679
Speaker 1: if why do it? Why does it feel as if

499
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: guys aren't attracted to that or they don't Why does

500
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: it feel like it's a role reversal. It literally feels

501
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 1: like it's a role reversal. It's like, Okay, the guy

502
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: completely changes and I don't know how to explain it.

503
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 1: And then you they turned into the it's really weird,

504
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: that's your question. Act like your mama not in the room.

505
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: Do these guys start acting like this after y'all have sex?

506
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: Because if they start acting like that after y'all have effect,

507
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: I mean he already got what he wanted to begin with. No,

508
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 1: it's not a situation where they stop talking to you

509
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 1: as a situation where everything becomes a problem. It's an

510
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 1: insecurity issue. It's not an issue of I don't want

511
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: to call you no more. It's an issue of what

512
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 1: you're doing, where you're going, who you with verse they're

513
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: okay with it, and then and then it's like and

514
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 1: then it's it becomes a whole thing of you know,

515
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: it's just weird and it's so crazy because you feel,

516
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 1: all right, I don't feel bad that I'm making more money.

517
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 1: You don't know, I don't feel I'm not gonna slow down, right,

518
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna slow down, But you I can't help it.

519
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 1: If that's what you what if you need your help.

520
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: But if it's like can you you know, I want

521
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: to listen for this role and I know you know

522
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: this person, would you make that call? You know, I'm

523
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 1: very big on sharing, you know what I mean. I

524
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 1: want to be able to share whatever knowledge I got

525
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 1: with anybody. You're giving abundance, You're getting abundance. It's you know,

526
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: it's a revolving door. You know, nobody's blessing is gonna

527
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 1: take away your blessing. So it's important to me to

528
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, I want to be around people

529
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: that I want to share it with. But it's also

530
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 1: a sticky place because I don't want to be around

531
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 1: somebody that only want me to just help them with stuff.

532
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 1: And so that's when your intuition has to come in.

533
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 1: You have to allow yourself to be sensitive to people's

534
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 1: energies and vibes, like does this person really trying to

535
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: be in my life because they want to get to

536
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: know me, care about me? Or this person just trying

537
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: to be in my life because they want to come up.

538
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: And sometimes you may get screwed over. You might've gotten

539
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,360
Speaker 1: you I've gotten screwed over. I'm just saying I've got

540
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: screwed over before, but you live and you learn. Do

541
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: you get sick of guys? Like do you be with guys?

542
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 1: And all of a sudden you realize, like, oh, I

543
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: want to be with you. You're calling me all the time,

544
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,880
Speaker 1: You're stressing me like that. I think the truth is

545
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times at my age, people

546
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: feel like they want to be in a relationship. But

547
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: the truth because you really don't. Like I used to

548
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: think that I should want to be in a relationship

549
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: because I'm Kicky. You know, I'm the good. Because I'm Kicky,

550
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 1: I should be the good. You know, I have a boyfriend,

551
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: that's what you know, All these things are gonna help

552
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: me identify who I am. And then I realized, I

553
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 1: really don't care about that. I really only care about

554
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: getting out there recording my music, being in the studio,

555
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: doing my doing, just Kicky doing this film idea I

556
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: just had writing this book, coming up with this that

557
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: that's really what I care about and I shouldn't have

558
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 1: to feel like I need to be defined by social

559
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: necessities in order to feel like I'm being who I am.

560
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: And that's really what it boils down to it, Really,

561
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: I really, you know, I really don't. Guys, aren't my

562
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: first idea thought in my mind? Good? You know, it's

563
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: like my first one in my mind is where I'm

564
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: going after right now? And it must be fun to

565
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 1: be singing. I mean, you were a lot down for

566
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: quite Sometimes it's very fun to be single because you

567
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: know what happens. You find yourself. You understand what it

568
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: means to love yourself instead of putting all this energy

569
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: into give and tug in a relationship, because that's what

570
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: happens when you first fall in love. Everything's all gravy,

571
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 1: it's all good, it's all clean, and then you start

572
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,640
Speaker 1: depending on the other person for your happiness, and then

573
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: it becomes a pull and tug between your egos. You

574
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: want them to go your way and they want you

575
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 1: to go they way. And if you have that love

576
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: within yourself, you won't be looking for somebody else. So

577
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: you'll be able to give and give and give without

578
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 1: feeling like you need to receive, because you receive it

579
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: from yourself. Listen, I got questions for you, and I'm

580
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: gonna tell you why, because I got a six year

581
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: old daughter, another girl on the way, and I like

582
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: how well rounded you are. I like the fact that

583
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: you got your head on your shoulders, right, Did your

584
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: parents put that in you young? Because I got my

585
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: daughter reading Don Miguel Ruise right now at six. You know,

586
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: I got her doing a whole bunch of activities my

587
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: parents did. My parents really did? I you know, the

588
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 1: mom been married all my life and you know, and

589
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: I say that to say, like, I'll always be you know,

590
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 1: I talk to God, I'd be like, what I do

591
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: deserve of just a mom and dad that loved me.

592
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 1: Besides the fact that they changed their life to help

593
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: support my dreams, they just simply love me, period. And

594
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: that's something that only only way. I think That's probably

595
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: another reason why I stay so focused, because I'm like,

596
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: I want them to be proud. I want them to

597
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: do and I'm doing something with that gift. With the

598
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: fact that they were a part of my life. My

599
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: mom would always been a part of my life. Even

600
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: before I was in in acting, she was there. She

601
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: was there, you know, when I was at school. If

602
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: somebody says something, she go down there and she makes

603
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: me feel like I was important. I was the all mom,

604
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: you don't have to cry. You know, I was the

605
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 1: only black kid in my class, and my mom would

606
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: come in and I would feel bad and stuff like that,

607
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: and she would go to you know, you made my

608
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 1: daughter feel bad? Tell them how how they made you feel?

609
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: You know, That's why I think why I have the

610
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: extra added of you know, keeping my head on straight

611
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: or where you want to call it, because I know

612
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: what they did for me, and I showed that gratitude

613
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 1: and everything I do. Tell me what Daddy did. Did

614
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: he tell you stay away from those boys? Like how

615
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 1: did Daddy raise you? Because I gotta raise my daughter

616
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,959
Speaker 1: the right way. No, my dad, it's very different than

617
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 1: my mom. My mom is very neurotic. She's always she

618
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 1: really is. She's always worried, you know, worry, worry, worry,

619
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: wor worried. My dad is the epitome of love. He

620
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: trusted us and even when things got weird or or

621
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 1: you know, I maybe was drifting away from the family

622
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 1: or whatever, did things happen, because you know, things change,

623
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: my dad always trusted that I would find my way

624
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 1: back and my mom will be nervous. Mom would be scared.

625
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: And my mom has told me conversation that they've had

626
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: even to this day where my dad would be like

627
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,239
Speaker 1: kekey is intelligent. You have to trust her and let

628
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 1: her do her thing, because that's how real love is.

629
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: You gotta let go. And that's know when you did

630
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: he did a good that's knowing that they did a

631
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: good job, so they trust you even still did the

632
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: right things in you Like I know you don't even

633
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: how to keep your lips on the mic because I

634
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: know they did a good job. You did your mom

635
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: and daddy help come to your rescue now. So when

636
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 1: it's problems or this stuff in the press that they

637
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 1: come like I got I hand list myself like in

638
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: the press or anything. My parents, my mom. There used

639
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: to be a job in the acting community, like in

640
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: the kid actor's community, and I feel bad that I

641
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: can't impersonate the curse words that need to be said

642
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: in order to really see this. Okay, look, so there

643
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: will be like there would be like literally this is

644
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: me going into the times people would tell me when

645
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 1: I was a little kid that people would talk to

646
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: be like yo, Kicky Palmer's mom. If you mess with Kicky,

647
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: she whip your ass. I ain't playing with you. Don't

648
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: say no, she gonna hurt you. Because my mom always

649
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: she don't she do not when somebody says something bad

650
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 1: about me, I can bring up. Let's say this dude

651
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: Tony yelled at me when I was not. The next

652
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: time my mom see Tony, even if it's at the

653
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: age of twenty one, she gonna give him the meanest shade.

654
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: Honey you I mean, it's crazy. My mom can't help

655
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: but always be at my rest. Chic can't help mom

656
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: on the micro use come in, come in, she said.

657
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: I just want to know what was the biggest hurdle

658
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: you had to face as a mom and you could

659
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: be real mom the biggest hurdle, Yeah, I think it's friends.

660
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: I think they the friends come in and and the

661
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: child actor. Since they spend so much time working, Like

662
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: she said, then the friends come and go because like

663
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 1: if you go off and do a movie and you

664
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: know you left your friends back, you go back. Their

665
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: life is evolving in another direction, so you know that

666
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: connection is gone, and then they want friends, and so

667
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: sometimes the friends come into their life and they're not

668
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: the best friends. I think Kiki has done a really

669
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: good job and you know, discerning who her friends are.

670
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: But as a mother I have set back and watch

671
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: people come into her life that I wanted to say no,

672
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: he ain't no good or she ain't no good, and

673
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: I told her and then the reaction is, you know,

674
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: you're just being an over protective mom. And then like

675
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: eight months later, she'll come back and go, I'm not

676
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: kicking it with that person anymore. So, and I'm very

677
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: careful not to say I told you so, because that's

678
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: not good either. I didn't like it when my mother

679
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: told me so. I don't tell her. But I think

680
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: that's the biggest obstacle that a parent has with a

681
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: child in this industry is the friends and the relationships.

682
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: Because she didn't go to high school, and the best

683
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,959
Speaker 1: thing about going to high school is a socialization. You

684
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: learn who do you kick it with, who not to

685
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: kick it with? Who you was hanging with freshman year,

686
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: you're not hanging with senior year. You start evolving. And

687
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: she didn't have that. So her socialization is happening right now.

688
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: Her college is happening right now, and so there's going

689
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: to be trial and error and a lot of people

690
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: have motives. I'm sure, absolutely absolutely, And how did you

691
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: get over your parental paranoia? Because I suffer from that now,

692
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: like I'm the same way I'm not worried about what

693
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: my daughter every day. I worry about what other people

694
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: are gonna do to my daughter. You know what I'm saying,

695
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: I follow my daughter. I don't think you ever get

696
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: rid of that. I mean, you know, my mother didn't

697
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 1: get rid of it. I was, you know, thirty years

698
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: old and moved out to California, and my mother got it.

699
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: I think it comes down to what she's. My husband

700
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: and I are such I'm very high strung and energetic,

701
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: and he's very laid back. And I think it's what

702
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: kikiS said that he talks to me. He tells me, look, sweetie,

703
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: we didn't raise these kids. We put them in church.

704
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: We told them about the love of God. Now we

705
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: gotta let them fall off, fly and at the end

706
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: of the day, because it's not gonna help Kickie for

707
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: me to keep having the safety net under her, so,

708
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: you know, whatever happens, when stuff happened in the press

709
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: or whatever like that. I think she's very classy and

710
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: I think she handles herself very well. And no, my

711
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: husband not. We don't behind the scenes. We don't control her.

712
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: We let people say what they're gonna say. If people

713
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: are gonna judge her off of what they want to

714
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: judge her offer off. That's home. Now she can't live

715
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: her life for other people. Now, Mom, wall made you

716
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: stare at the same penis all these years. Well, it

717
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: was very good. Right, what's the most embarrassing thing. Let's

718
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: talking about this earlier this week. What's the most embarrassing

719
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: thing your mom did to you. I'm so excited to

720
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: tell you this. So yesterday, right, it's so funny. I

721
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: was reading like my mom's no morology number was saying

722
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: all this stuff about how, you know, you need to

723
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: make sure that you get some good exercise and you know,

724
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: burn off some of this energy that you have because

725
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: you have such you know, ambitious nature blah blah blah

726
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 1: blah and all this stuff. Right, so I'm at the

727
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 1: end of it. Then my mom says, yeah, well I

728
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: just like porography, Like you know, my mama, Yo, When

729
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: I tell you, I was like, it's so funny, Mama

730
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: that you said that, because literally I have a little

731
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: brother and sister they're twins. Right, I'm like, it's so

732
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: funny that you said this, and I love you so

733
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: deep I have feel damn, it's it's funny though, Mom,

734
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: why are you there? Is? Now? Look I gotta deal

735
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: with though with my bad mom. It's funny. So look

736
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: the little my little brother, it's funny. I don't know

737
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: what's wrong here. So look, my little brother says here.

738
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: Literally it was so funny that she was so honest

739
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: about it in that moment for no reason at all,

740
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: because literally two weeks before, my little brothers said, we

741
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: saw the parents compete uter and they forgot to take

742
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: away their Google log. Wasn't mom or Dad? They were

743
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: like mom, he said, Big Black Brothers. And now and

744
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: now and now we joke. My my public is my

745
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: hair and makeup cue nickname her BBB. So now I

746
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: have this play. Okay, I've been married to their years.

747
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm on the road. You know, I'm to explaining Mom,

748
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: everybody watches for Big Black Brothers to go that when

749
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 1: I get home today, it's normal, Mom, billion dollars industry class.

750
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: You're not paying though you're getting the free I'm getting

751
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 1: free clips. Okay, I just make it sure. I know,

752
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: but I love. What do you think about what's going

753
00:34:55,000 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: on in Baltimore? You know, it's such a loaded thing

754
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 1: because there's not a a I feel a lot of things.

755
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like we're in such a time

756
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 1: where the negativity is being so plaster everywhere that it

757
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: instills more fear that it then begots more negativity and

758
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: more negativity from whether it be you know, the communities

759
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: or the people that are supposed to be helping the communities.

760
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: It comes from everywhere because everybody feels like that's the

761
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: reality that they're living in, So it just keeps in

762
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: continuously perpetuates itself. I just feel like I want us

763
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: to come together, not just as black people, but as

764
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 1: people in general. You know what I'm saying. There's so

765
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: many other issues that are going on that that that

766
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: bring us together, then that separate us, you know, not

767
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 1: just I think we sometimes get so stuck on the

768
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 1: differences that we don't see in the ways that we

769
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 1: need each other, you know what I'm saying, with things

770
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: we got in common, you know, I mean instead of me, oh,

771
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm from this culture, here from that culture. Like how

772
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: about we both need our rent page, how about we

773
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: both need a job, we both need to not continuously

774
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 1: be held down financially. You know what I'm saying, There's

775
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: so many other issues that connect us then that separate us,

776
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: you know what I I mean people in general, we have

777
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: more more things that are alike than we do different.

778
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: And I think that a lot of these when these

779
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 1: when these things happen, it gets so focused on the negative.

780
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: That's that's all that your mind can be filled in

781
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: to the point that you can't think clearly or see

782
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: how to better approach the situation. The only thing you

783
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 1: can think of is to fight darkness with darkness. But

784
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: that's not how we go. You can only drive out

785
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: darkness with light. I mean MLK said that we can

786
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: only go somewhere if we're together. And and it's the

787
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: unity that scares whoever you think that don't want you

788
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: to win. It's the unity that scares them the most.

789
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: It's not the fighting. As long as you're fighting, I'm

790
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: winning because you're not talking, you're not seeing that actually

791
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: we're on the same page. Instead, you're casting this person

792
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: out and casting that person out. But if you actually

793
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: take time and say, look, let's stop fighting each other

794
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: and actually think about who we really need, what we

795
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: need to be talking about, and what we really need

796
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 1: to be trying to set up and put in order

797
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: in order to change what it is we want to change,

798
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: But when there's so much negativity going on, you can't

799
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: think that way. You can't see clearly. You're seeing that

800
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: in Baltimore. Now you're seeing like boods and crips coming together.

801
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: But it's interesting how the media trying to put it

802
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: out like, oh, the bloods and crips are fighting each

803
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 1: other and now they want to kill other cops. And

804
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: they came out and said, no, we're not trying to

805
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: kill cops. We're actually all coming together, actually are on

806
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: the same team. You know what I'm saying. Not every

807
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: cop is a bad cop, right, There's some good cops too.

808
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,280
Speaker 1: I mean I grew up with some of them. And also,

809
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: just like with anybody, you know, some good people and

810
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: some people some bad people. So you can't just cast

811
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: everything one way and then expect things to change. You

812
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: have to seek what it is you're looking for. You

813
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: have to be the change that you want to see,

814
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: and that's what'll start coming to you. But if you're

815
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: just being honed in and allowing anger to completely consume you,

816
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: I've been there, you know, we've all been a place

817
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: of self pity. Man. It's hard. I'm a black woman,

818
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: you know, I'm a woman and I'm a black woman.

819
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 1: I could sit there and think about that all day,

820
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: and some people say all things are never going to change,

821
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: and that's a terrible defeat his attitude. When I think

822
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 1: about slavery, I get so inspired and say, whoa, look

823
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: what I came from. Damn, I could do anything. And

824
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: people say they will never be a black president, and

825
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: we got a black president. You know what I'm saying.

826
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: Because it's all about where your mind is at. It's

827
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: all about shifting your paradigm. It's all about allowing positivity

828
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: to feel your life and not letting this other stuff

829
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: change your perspective. It will really mess you up if

830
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: you allow the outer things to change. You think about it.

831
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: When I wake up in the morning, I don't The

832
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: first thing I say is I'm love. I'm love. I'm

833
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: like and that's why I carry throughout my whole day.

834
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: And that's what I ended up end up seeing. That's

835
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: what the eyes on which I see the world. And

836
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: so you have to wake up every day and allow

837
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 1: yourself to be that glory, be the glory of God.

838
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: Don't chake that take that away from yourself by allowing

839
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 1: everything you see to tear you down. Instead, see how

840
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: you can fix it by looking through the eyes of him.

841
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying right now? In the position

842
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: you're in, do you have people that say to you

843
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 1: you can't speak out about that now, lead that alone.

844
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,359
Speaker 1: You got sponsorships, you got a TV show coming? No,

845
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: you know, I'm so glad I don't have that. You

846
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 1: know me. I would used to watch as a kid,

847
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: you know, you see on the TV shows and they

848
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: would be celebrities or somebody like that, and they want

849
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: to say stuff or be a part of things, and

850
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,919
Speaker 1: people would be like, no, no, that's not true, that's

851
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 1: not me at all. I'm there, I'm I'm the one

852
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: that runs my career thankfully. So I'm in a position

853
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: where I can do stuff like just Kiki and I

854
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: can talk about the stuff that I want to talk

855
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 1: about in the issues that I feel like are important

856
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: to my generation, not even just racial issues, but even

857
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 1: talking about technology and understanding what that's doing to us.

858
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: You feel like crap because you're comparing your life to

859
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: every person that you swipe pass on Instagram. They do

860
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: say that because of social media as hard people to

861
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: get married nowadays, because we're sitting up in bed with

862
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 1: on our Instagrams and on our twitter we're not paying

863
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: attention makes you. We're about the wrong things, because that's

864
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: not the reality that's in front of you. If all

865
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: day I look up at everything that's going horrible in

866
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: the world, I won't even be able to realize what

867
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: I can do with what's in front of me, because

868
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: all I keep seeing my eyes through is the world

869
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: of being negative and terrible and all that type of stuff.

870
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: Or if I look online, I'm looking at everybody in Cali,

871
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 1: you know they live in a perfect life. I look around,

872
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm in Philly, Well, yeah, I might feel bad, you

873
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because I'm trying to compare my

874
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: circumstances to someone else's. But everybody's journey is different, everybody's

875
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 1: life is different, and it's not necessarily the best thing

876
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 1: to see somebody else's life evolved in action. That's not

877
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: the way it should That's not the way it should be.

878
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 1: You're seeing every single step that's not normal. It's never

879
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: been done before, and we'll find out in years to

880
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 1: come what maybe those effects were. You know what I'm saying,

881
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: Because we're the generation that's we're the guinea pigs to it. Well,

882
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: since we're talking about technology, you got caught up in

883
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 1: that hacking scandal. Yeah, yeah, I ain't. And this was

884
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: the such a thing about it is that the main

885
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:49,399
Speaker 1: thing I wanted, the main thing that upset me about

886
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: it was like, why do you want me to explain

887
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: something that you that that has nothing to do with you?

888
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 1: And that's the biggest issue that I have, not even

889
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: just as a celebrity, but in general people be on

890
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: Internet trying I found out something about you. Why are

891
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: you happy about that? Why are you happy that you've

892
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: got into something? It's like cracking into somebody's mind. Yeah,

893
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: Gabrielle Union actually went off about that because it just

894
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: don't make no sense. I mean just honestly, if you

895
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 1: went and took a picture of somebody in the window

896
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: at a house, that's you a peep in time, you

897
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: should go to jail. But because we're on the internet,

898
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: this makes sense and there's something to be laughing and

899
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: funny fun about. You just have to take in a

900
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: stride because you have you have. There's no way to

901
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: to to move forward from that other than to say,

902
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: you know what, they don't know any better that they

903
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: didn't mean any harm. They don't know any better from that.

904
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: That has to be a devastating feeling to wake up

905
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: and see all that on your people come and he

906
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 1: is a devastating feeling because there's nothing you can say right,

907
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 1: there's nothing you can there's nothing you can. You have

908
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: to just let let it go. Let it. You gotta

909
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:49,359
Speaker 1: take the ail, because what are you gonna do. Write

910
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: a whole long host on your about that it's got

911
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 1: a loss, you learn from it. You're a winner, you learn.

912
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: That's what I like to say. I love that because

913
00:41:58,520 --> 00:41:59,879
Speaker 1: usually when I think about the ale, I think about

914
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:04,240
Speaker 1: the law you learn and that's real. Though that's true.

915
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: That's either it's either how you choose to see it

916
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: and I choose to see it like I'm learning. I

917
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: choose to see it like you know what. I'm greater

918
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 1: because it is right, but it is. It does suck.

919
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: I mean it sucks anytime somebody UH find out something

920
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: that you didn't tell them. We appreciate you joining us

921
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: man me too. My final credit, I'm reading your name, Laurene.

922
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 1: How you get My sister had imaginary friend when she

923
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: was younger. Sorry, I'm embarrassing her to um. She had

924
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: imagined her friend named Kekey when I was born. She

925
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: wanted my name to be Kecky, but my mom was like,

926
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: she can't go through her whole life with a name

927
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: like Key, and look at that. I go through my

928
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: whole life with Lauren. Hilarious. Well, we wish you the best.

929
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: We know what to send mom for Christmas. Yeah, yeah,

930
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 1: the black is deal though, you can find all right,

931
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: you're know, I'm gonna google that and to see what

932
00:42:56,520 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 1: comes up. Right, My goodness, we're a big black penis

933
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: out there somewhere. If you just want to look at

934
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: him out there, but check, you could just look at

935
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: all right, it's the Breakfast Buckers. Keep pum. Thanks y'all