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Speaker 1: This is Mandy be Welcome to Selective Ignorance, a production

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Speaker 1: of the BLACKPEC podcast Network and IART Radio. Class is

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Speaker 1: in session. Although this is an assembly, that's right, I

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Speaker 1: have all of the classmates from all over the school

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Speaker 1: on what is happening in this bonus episode. I am

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Speaker 1: joined by my patrons. That's right there, the OG's. We

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Speaker 1: call them the senior class citizens. Although they're not super old,

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Speaker 1: they're seniors, right, I'm trying to keep the theme going here, guys.

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Speaker 1: Everyone's laughing because I call the senior citizens. But basically,

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Speaker 1: these are the ogs. These are my patrons, these are

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Speaker 1: my supporters, and I'm so happy that on these type

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Speaker 1: of episodes they get to join in the conversation. Now,

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Speaker 1: on Fridays, I do bonus episodes where I am gonna

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Speaker 1: be joined by different co hosts because I'm luckily going

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Speaker 1: to be taping those virtually, so you guys may hear

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Speaker 1: some very familiar voices coming up on those. But this

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Speaker 1: week I'm joined by my really dope I don't even

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Speaker 1: want to call y'all followers. I feel like we're friends,

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Speaker 1: although I just found out one of them is white,

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Speaker 1: and y'all know that was really really you know, I

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Speaker 1: even white. It's Trev. Trev is not a white man

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Speaker 1: named I'm confused. Anyways, y'all really excited to talk about

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Speaker 1: all the things on this episode. We are going to

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Speaker 1: get into. Let's run down the docket. We're gonna get

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Speaker 1: into the final inmate from the New Orleans jail break,

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Speaker 1: he got caught in Atlanta, and allegedly, y'all, they're saying

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Speaker 1: blame on. We're gonna get into that. Then I have

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Speaker 1: not got to talk about the Diddy dudes. My good

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Speaker 1: And he was just sentenced to I believe it was

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Speaker 1: then Soup, who is also here, wants us to discuss

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Speaker 1: what Cam Newton recently said about requesting a list. That's right,

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Speaker 1: he wanted the laundry list from his current partner, who

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Speaker 1: single person that she had sex with before they furthered

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Speaker 1: their relationship. Now, yeah, if you hear the sarcasm in

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Speaker 1: my voice, it's because what the god, shit the fucking hell.

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Speaker 1: But those are the three topics we're for sure gonna

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Speaker 1: my thoughts as well as my classmates thoughts. But also

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Speaker 1: I am going to allow any of them to pull

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Speaker 1: take it to debate class any topic that has been

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Speaker 1: brought up in the last thirty two episodes. If there

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Speaker 1: was a problem with anything I said, if they want

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Speaker 1: down or take it back, We're gonna end with that

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Speaker 1: and see, you know, if the classmates are more ignorant

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Speaker 1: jail birds. Now, Earlier in May, there was a story

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Speaker 1: Apparently they ripped the toilet from the wall, pulled some

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Speaker 1: And I don't even know if that's bad because I

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Speaker 1: based on the looks of these men. People were like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: The last prisoner standing recently got caught up in Atlanta, Georgia.

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Speaker 1: That's right. He was caught over off of Campbelton Road.

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Speaker 1: You can't help who you love, Derek? I just love

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Speaker 1: all of the things that I just mentioned. Do not

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Speaker 1: do a crime with me. Do not come to my

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Speaker 1: I had this ordeal with a former boot fell in, babe.

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Speaker 1: This is why it took. Y'all know my trauma with that, right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: y'all know my trauma with that. For those of you

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Speaker 1: He had just got out of jail, y'all. He was

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Speaker 1: harboring a fugitive. Now, we do have some women in here,

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Speaker 1: DJ had a really good, good take. Now we know

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Speaker 1: So Mexico gotta be the smartest place to go. Now,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say, can't coon, cause, bitch, you gonna get you.

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Speaker 1: They gonna show you in all the little can't Coon videos.

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Speaker 1: So you gotta go to like a spot that I

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Speaker 1: You gotta do exactly what Baybaldi told us to do

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Speaker 1: for the Super Bowl. You bitches gotta learn Spanish. You

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Speaker 1: got four months, okay, you got four months to learn Spanish. Uh, Connie,

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Speaker 1: Where would you go?

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Speaker 2: Calling one of my best friends? We are going to

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Speaker 2: drive across the Mexican border, drive through Mexico and some

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Speaker 2: I'll get to South America because I think Mexico still

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Speaker 2: has agreements for extradition. So I gotta go where I

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Speaker 1: Do they? I'm only asking about do that because they

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Speaker 1: remember that. You remember that group of friends that like

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Speaker 2: The ones that said that they were going down there

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Speaker 2: for like plastic surgery.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so, that's different.

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Speaker 2: So there was there was a story where there was

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Speaker 2: But either way, they they they extradited before people have

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Speaker 1: So I just need to go where I get more South. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Too, No, ture, have you missed the joke Barry said.

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Speaker 3: First of all, I got to cover myself by saying

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Speaker 1: With you, and possible trigger warning. It's interesting to me

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Speaker 1: Like as women now, we've changed the scope of even

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Speaker 1: I think what prostitution looks like is picking someone up

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Speaker 1: that I think he should sit his ass in jail

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Speaker 1: of that. What is it? The Mazotov, Molotov, Molotov?

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Speaker 4: What thev is? What the Jews say?

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Speaker 3: Like, we did this.

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Speaker 1: The Yeah, nigga, cork yourself.

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Speaker 1: Which to me is not justice. I'm not gonna lie

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Speaker 3: It's you know, my concern not to make this about

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Speaker 1: What do you what do you mean by that?

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Speaker 1: It's one of those where we there's a privilege in

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Speaker 1: the white women all the time because they're not a

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Speaker 1: part of, you know, making sure we're good. It's a

431
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Speaker 1: woman that they're fine riting in jail, right. I think

432
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: when you look at the up, the higher ups and

433
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: white men, they don't mind using this example being set

434
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Speaker 1: with a black man. I do also think it's interesting

435
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: and it's difficult right now to talk about justice in

436
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 1: the way because the football player that's been proved innocent now,

437
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: who took his life because his name was brought up

438
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: in a case by we know, a crooked cop. It

439
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: was racism that leaned into that. And so when we

440
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,640
Speaker 1: talk about the justicism as a whole, I don't think

441
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: we ever get away from distinguishing right and wrong from

442
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 1: black and white essentially, and where racism is showing up

443
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: because it's infiltrated through and through in our justice system,

444
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 1: it just is. So I just don't think that there's

445
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Speaker 1: a way to separate the two. Connie did say, do

446
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: you think society will punish him by withdrawing their support?

447
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 1: Here is the niggas love toxic niggas. I think that

448
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: men will champion around him like they have Shannon Sharp

449
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: like they have that they people have said that if

450
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 1: Bill Cosby went on tour, they would buy a ticket

451
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: to see his stand up. I mean, we have you know,

452
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 1: podcasters with charges and things like that against them, and

453
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: they're getting a ton of support. Like I think that

454
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 1: we're in a space where when you think of a

455
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: black man going to prison, we could take it all

456
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: the way back to oj right, we could take it

457
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: to someone essentially trying to be burned at the stake.

458
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Speaker 1: And when you talk about race, I think, at the

459
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Speaker 1: end of the day, even if a black man does

460
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Speaker 1: something wrong, boy, is there justice or a reason to

461
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,120
Speaker 1: champion a black man going free? And so I think

462
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: if anything, because he still is a father. We see

463
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 1: he still had women write in fucking character letters like

464
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: he a good man, Savannah, Like, let's be very clear,

465
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: people are still gonna support that man, whether it's his

466
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: fan base, whether it's his family, whether it's the women

467
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 1: that still want to be close to a powerful man.

468
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: So do I think that we as a society punish

469
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: him by withdrawing their support as like this podcast, there's

470
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 1: people that like my opinion, there's people that fucking hate

471
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: my opinion. There's people that listen, there's people that don't.

472
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: That's gonna be the same case for Diddy. We're not

473
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: all gonna be in unison on whether we show up

474
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Speaker 1: in support or not for him. Ever that nigga gonna

475
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 1: have us come in. Uh, Trev says, I wish the

476
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: court would force him to sell all the publishing slash

477
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Speaker 1: royalties entitlement.

478
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Speaker 3: He O.

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Speaker 1: Now, now I do want to say, wait a second, Trev.

480
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Speaker 1: You're saying that. Not sure if he was trying to

481
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 1: get Carmelo to come late on his side, but he did,

482
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: and I wonder if it's because of this case. He

483
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 1: did end up giving a lot of artists on Bad

484
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: Boy back their masters when he changed his name to Love. However,

485
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 1: Audrey O'Day or Aubrey Aubrey Aubrey right, Aubrey came out

486
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: and was like, with getting my masters came an NDA,

487
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 1: and so a lot of the artists actually did get

488
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: their masters back, but the ones that were like, bitch,

489
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: we not signing that NDA, they're still under hold. But

490
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: he did recently actually start giving back masters and royalties

491
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Speaker 1: to artists that were on Bad Boy.

492
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Speaker 4: He did, Yeah, but like I'm sure he still gets

493
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Speaker 4: some piece of revenue from some of that. I don't

494
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Speaker 4: think he gave up all his stakes and everything that

495
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Speaker 4: he's done for those artists.

496
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Speaker 1: Of course not why would he.

497
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Speaker 4: Well that's but like I mean, and when I said that,

498
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 4: I wasn't meaning like I wish they could do that now.

499
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 4: But like if somebody was, like if he was found

500
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Speaker 4: guilty of the abuse and all the stuff that they

501
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 4: originally were trying to pin him with, it would be

502
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 4: nice if they could like do that so that then

503
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 4: we don't have have to feel bad about listening to

504
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 4: one twelve after he's convicted and.

505
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: Oh wait, jail, wait, wait, cauld y'all feel bad? Tripped

506
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: you you feel bad for listening to Peaches and Cream

507
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: Anita one?

508
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just saying, like, I don't know that song.

509
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 3: I don't know what you so you can play that

510
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 3: one all you want.

511
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: We are not going to do that. I do want

512
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Speaker 1: to ask then, because that was the conversation with R.

513
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: Kelly as well, and he wrote a lot.

514
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Speaker 4: Of music, like you know, people try to you know,

515
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 4: people are like, oh, don't support R Kelly, don't stream

516
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 4: his music or whatever, and then some of them are like, oh,

517
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 4: you can't listen to Elijah's first album either, and then

518
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 4: it's like, well shit, I mean, some of these people

519
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 4: like him and like Diddy, They've got their hands and

520
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 4: all kinds of stuff.

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00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 3: So yeah, can I ask you a question? Because me

522
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 3: and me and many have just have had this conversation.

523
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,239
Speaker 3: I know she's a big Breezey fan. I just went

524
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Speaker 3: to this concert. Can I ask what's the why? What

525
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 3: are you trying to punish them more? You feel like

526
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 3: you should never have any money? What does it mean

527
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: to you to listen to an R Kelly song? What

528
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 3: does it mean to you now to listen to Puffy song?

529
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Speaker 3: Does it mean that you pro abuse? You just don't

530
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 3: hate them? You think the music separate. What does it

531
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 3: mean to say you're never gonna watch the cos be

532
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,719
Speaker 3: you again? Are you? Are you trying to punish him?

533
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 3: Are you just trying to be so distant because no

534
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 3: one's watching your album. I've never understood that part of it.

535
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Speaker 3: I mean, there's people I don't support, period, but the

536
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 3: arts I never I don't think you build a big

537
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 3: enough connection or you're even doing too much of a

538
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 3: message to say I don't I can't listen to that

539
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 3: song again?

540
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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess it's it's different now because almost

541
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 4: everything is streaming, right, so when you're when you are

542
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 4: listening to these songs, you are putting money in their pockets.

543
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 3: Right.

544
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 4: So if you have a if you have a connection

545
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 4: to a song that you really love and you know,

546
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 4: like in R. Kelly's situation, but you know now I

547
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 4: can't now you feel like you can't listen to that

548
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 4: song because you're putting money in his pockets? Is that situation?

549
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't.

550
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: I don't have that the black man should be able

551
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: to afford some ramen noodles. Is that what you're saying.

552
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: I don't think you think a black starve let that

553
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: nigga get some commissaries.

554
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 3: Ship and what I've heard about streaming, you're talking about

555
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 3: a quarter since.

556
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: Say YO need song baby, he can't even afford Rahmen

557
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: with your little stream You gotta stream that ship a

558
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: thousand times for that nigga to see a dollar. Okay,

559
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 1: like you could listen to it, Trav, It's okay.

560
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, my shit's all download anyway. I ain't

561
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 4: streaming nothing.

562
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: So Trev, you lucky I don't have your goddamn phone

563
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: number because i'd be petty and just start sending you

564
00:31:53,120 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: songs like, hey, you check this out. Yeah, I don't know,

565
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 1: it's it's it's weird because I in a sense, yes,

566
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: I do agree. Like because I guess, Barry, if you

567
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: think about what we've done as a community in terms

568
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: of not going to Target in the last year because

569
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: of what they've done with DEI I could see how

570
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: there's maybe this push not to listen to these artists

571
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: because they don't align with your moral views and things

572
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: like that in that nature. But by the way, Trev,

573
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: I don't listen to it in private. I listened to it.

574
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 3: I love, but.

575
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: I think that that's where he's coming from. I guess

576
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: there is motion in standing for something. And if y'all

577
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 1: listened to Antonette enough and even Crystal, they get on

578
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: me all the time because they'd be like, bitch, do

579
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: you stand for anything for your fault for nothing? I

580
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: don't know what the goddamn saying is, but you know

581
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: they just say, we gotta stand for shit. I'll be tired.

582
00:32:59,120 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: I need to see.

583
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 3: So I just think the entertainment field is the lowest

584
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 3: hanging fruit possible.

585
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: I agree, because let me see.

586
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 3: You in march. Let me see you clean up your neighborhood.

587
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't. I didn't listen to a playlist. I'm

588
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: a rebel. I'm pushing back. I'm saving the world. I mean,

589
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 3: there's so many things out here that could be done.

590
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 3: And it's like, well, I didn't listen to the Cosmic

591
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 3: Show again, even though I liked that episode. It's like,

592
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 3: and that's all what world problem? And that helped your

593
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 3: community in what way? I mean? I don't, hey, fight

594
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 3: your battles. I'm not trying to keep anybody from fighting

595
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 3: their own battles. I just I could come up with

596
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 3: one in a second. A hundred other things I wish

597
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 3: you would tackle.

598
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, man buried that might be the clip

599
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: that was good? You ate that all up?

600
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I still love answering that doing. Hopefully

601
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 3: it won't be mad at me what you use this.

602
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 3: I still support your sister.

603
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: No, I mean, luckily like and I guess that is

604
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 1: the thing we have to sit with what makes our

605
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: soul and spirit feel you know what I mean, Like

606
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: we're doing something. I mean and when I say that,

607
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for y'all, because sometimes maybe I just want

608
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: to wake up and smile. I just I just the

609
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: light and I say this all the time. There's so

610
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: much going on right now, especially with our current presidency,

611
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: with the landscape of our economy. Baby, and now you

612
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: don't want me to listen to when a woman's fed

613
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: up like it ain't nothing I could do about it,

614
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: You feel me, it's like running out of Sorry, it's

615
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 1: just such a good I'm also yes, making up my

616
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: own words because y'all know I do not know words

617
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: for anything, so when I sing it, that makes it. Okay, Soup,

618
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: your topic is next, sir, So I'm gonna go ahead

619
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: and insert a clip here. Okay. That was Cam Newton

620
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 1: on his recent podcast talking about requiring a list from

621
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: his now current partner who just gave birth to his

622
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: ninth child. That's right, third baby, Mama, ninth child, requiring

623
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Speaker 1: a motherfucking list, the fucking audacity. Now, Soup, you brought

624
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: this look Berry making faces? Okay, So y'all, this is

625
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: where we get a little gender worry, because boy, I

626
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: know I have some real strong, empowered women on with

627
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 1: me to take on Berry and Soup with whatever bullshit

628
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: I think they're about to spew with us, So it

629
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: will be the gray beards versus the feminist coming right up,

630
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: So soup before I share my thought that I think

631
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: you would be very surprised over. I would love to

632
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: hear your thoughts on what Cam had to say. And

633
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: if you are requiring a list of former partners from

634
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:08,959
Speaker 1: your current partner.

635
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 5: Me, well, me and Barry already had this conversation earlier today.

636
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 5: I think the whole conversation in regards to finding out

637
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 5: what the list is, it all comes down from insecurity,

638
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 5: right in my opinion. But at the same time too,

639
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 5: there are people who are they switch up when it

640
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 5: comes to different type of relationship, and I think that

641
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 5: all comes down to how much they give a shit

642
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 5: about their partner, right, Because if they don't give a

643
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 5: shit about their partner, then they won't care about the list.

644
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: So so who I mean if you should jump the list?

645
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 3: If you jump off, do you care about a list? No?

646
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this question so I can

647
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 1: make sure I got this right. So you are saying

648
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: that if a man actually cares about you is when

649
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: he would ask for your list.

650
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 5: I think that if he's trying to make your official right,

651
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:09,359
Speaker 5: he's gonna he's gonna he's gonna want to know a list, right,

652
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 5: and that's just coming from a space.

653
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: He's coming from a space of what I would love

654
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: to know. That space that's coming from insecurity.

655
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 3: Yeah.

656
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, most definities coming from insecurity.

657
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: Okay, So let me ask you too, is there an

658
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: age limit? Because you think it's a pro thirty five

659
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: forty gray bearded man to be asking a bit for

660
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: her list.

661
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 6: Me.

662
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 5: Listen, there are people who care, Like I said, there

663
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 5: are people who care. There are people who don't care, right.

664
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 1: Because to me, I feel like the conversation around body

665
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: count we've said is a very juvenile ass conversation to have.

666
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: So to me, also as a man with nine children

667
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,919
Speaker 1: by three different women, the audacity for you to ask

668
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: of a motherfucking list like you ain't sticking your dick

669
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,399
Speaker 1: and mad bitches is.

670
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 2: Correz especially after I just had your baby. You could

671
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 2: have asked me this before we started.

672
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: No allegedly, no, no, no, the list was asked before he

673
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: decided to So let me add some content.

674
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 2: Jazzy Fearless keeps telling us stuff.

675
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: Wait a second, you ready? Jazzy responded to this very clip.

676
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Her comment was, I actually love the

677
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:36,280
Speaker 1: fact he has my list, such a weight off my chest.

678
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: She gave the list.

679
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, different disappointed. She's like I had her, you

680
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 3: were ready to care for her.

681
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 1: Listen, listen, she gave the list. This is the same

682
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: girl who said that she makes his lunches and anticipates

683
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: all his knees and packs his bags and all the things.

684
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 1: So well as a few things here because for context,

685
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 1: he did go into saying that he would not have

686
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: moved forward in his relationship with her. And when I

687
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 1: say that, at this point, hold on, hold on. But

688
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: also at this point it just means impregnating her because

689
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 1: she ain't got a ring, so ooh, you put two

690
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 1: babies in me. At this point, he did say that

691
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 1: he needed to know the name of anyone that he

692
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: was close with, anyone that has been his teammate, anyone

693
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: who may share the same rooms with him, because he

694
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: don't want these men to have one up on him.

695
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: And he did say that there are certain men that

696
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: if she had been with, they wouldn't have they would

697
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: have never like gotten as far as they've gotten. Now

698
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: here's my take on it. And I have I have

699
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: a few from different lenses, right, and I have story time,

700
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: and I won't tell y'all who. But and y'all just

701
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 1: got to hear this again on decision decisions three months

702
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 1: from now. But but basically, here's my thoughts on it.

703
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: He let me tell you real quick. Let me answer

704
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: all the things. If a man asked me for a

705
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: list of all my bodies, I don't know all my bodies.

706
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: I forgot niggas names. If we did it where we

707
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 1: did it, it's not going to be a true accurate list.

708
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: But fuck you for asking me for one. First off,

709
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: second off, as a woman, as long as you didn't

710
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,760
Speaker 1: fuck my mom and my sister or my best friend,

711
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 1: that's all that really matters. I actually want a slut

712
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: ass nigga come to me, seasoned, come to me with

713
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 1: some fucking experience. And if you got good dick, I

714
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 1: don't mind niggas knowing that good dick is mine. I

715
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: don't care it's mine now. Thirdly, if I made an

716
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: agreement with someone to take our activities to the grave,

717
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell you. Let me tell y'all a

718
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:19,439
Speaker 1: quick story. So there was this nigga that I used

719
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: to fuck with a little little nigga.

720
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 3: Ain't gonna hold you wait a minut. Are you repeating

721
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 3: your story from this?

722
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 2: No?

723
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 3: No, this is because he didn't say my names, but

724
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 3: I knew he was talking about you.

725
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 1: By the way, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. That's not me, Yes,

726
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: it was.

727
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: You told the story.

728
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 1: Whoa.

729
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 3: Oh he had a friend. He had a friend, and

730
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 3: both of them played on the same.

731
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: Then the JBP micks do not add this story to

732
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: me as it happened in my twenties. Yes, but it's different.

733
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,240
Speaker 1: I'm barry. We're not gonna do this first, y'all putting

734
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: me into stories that amy is crazy. Anyways, this story

735
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 1: is different, so hear me out. Now, he was a

736
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: let nigga. I ain't gonna say if he was a

737
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: rapper or athlete, but he was. He was. He was

738
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: you know, fine shit. So anyways, in my twenties, I

739
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: was dealing with this guy for years. We had a

740
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: cute little time. Right. Anyways, he ends up getting married.

741
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: He gets married.

742
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 6: Cool.

743
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: We you know, we see each other around, but we

744
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: completely stop fucking and that's fine, all good whatever. Towards

745
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 1: the end of this relationship, I would say we rekindled,

746
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: we hung out, we behaved, but we hung out he

747
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 1: was still married, and he chose to let me know

748
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: way late that he told his wife everybody he had

749
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 1: been with now while they were dating. We was like,

750
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 1: it don't even need to be that series because I

751
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: see this person out, we're in the same circle, Like,

752
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 1: I'd rather not make it awkward. I love that for you.

753
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:26,240
Speaker 1: He came to me and told me that she knew

754
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: that I was dealing with him. At some point hear

755
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 1: me out. I probably couldn't have been more pissed. You

756
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: know why, because not only had I gone into her

757
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 1: dressing room and been at one of her events, not

758
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 1: only had I seen her at a festival and hung

759
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: out with her and her friends, she knew the whole

760
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 1: time that I fucked her husband. And I was just like,

761
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 1: I don't think because we had the conversation that it

762
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: just wasn't a thing to be discussed. I was mad

763
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: that I felt out the loop. Now, yes, y'all listening,

764
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: and they're like, well, bitch, that was his wife. Of

765
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: course he gonna tell her. Ah. But what I'm saying

766
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:14,439
Speaker 1: is when two people have sex, it's between those two

767
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: people who know and who don't know, especially if there's

768
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: a conversation around it, like if we say we both

769
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: taken this to the grave, it ain't up to you

770
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: to just go out and start telling people we fugged.

771
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: That's like that violates whether you think I'm a wife

772
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 1: or worthy of it or not. Nigga, we was fucking

773
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: for years. So if the conversation is not to let

774
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: people know. And now I'm in these rooms with your

775
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,479
Speaker 1: wife who's now no longer your wife, but it's known

776
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: that we done have sex, it's like, well, I was messy.

777
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 1: You didn't even have to do that exactly. So Connie

778
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 1: said he could have at least talked to you about

779
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: it beforehand. Here's my thing, not even you don't need

780
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 1: my permission or to talk about it beforehand. If you

781
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: went ahead and did it, I would have told you.

782
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: Damn we said we wouldn't do that. But it would

783
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: have been nice for me to know, because bitch, I

784
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't have you know, just hey, like I would have

785
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: known to kept my little distance because now it looks

786
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: weird this bitch. No, I don't had yo dick in

787
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: my mouth and your ass on my lips and I'm

788
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: just now around and cause you never know the energy

789
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: that a woman's gonna give We dealt with each other

790
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: before they got together. But you know how shit be,

791
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: And yes, Jojo said, potentially putting your safety at risk,

792
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 1: that's my thing. You don't know how people are gonna behave,

793
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 1: especially women, to know that you're a woman that's been

794
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 1: with their ex. Bro, don't put me in a situation

795
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: where I'm left not knowing why I'm being kicked out

796
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: or why bitch is a side eye and me, or

797
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: why I'm not like it's weird so for me with

798
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: him saying that, I just think that there are connections

799
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: and conversations that many people have with each other when

800
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: they have sex with someone else, and so anybody coming

801
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: in later down the line, like yeah, I need to

802
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: know who, what, when, where?

803
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 3: Why?

804
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 1: Bitch the audacity you don't have it? And I think

805
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: that that is one of those questions that a I'm

806
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 1: gonna realize, bitch, give fut about a nigga. I'm gonna

807
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: let you know out the gate if I feel like

808
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 1: you need to know about somebody, but a whole list.

809
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: Do you know I'm bisexual? The women too, Like I'm

810
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:36,879
Speaker 1: gonna run out of paper, the ink is gonna draw,

811
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: Like I don't what are we talking about? So for me,

812
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 1: this clip reaked insecurity. It reached also just control and narcissism,

813
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: because the nerve of you, she is like, she's your

814
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: third baby mom.

815
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 3: I don't understand the purpose. What do they want to

816
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 3: do with that information?

817
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: I think there's a few things. Honestly a judge, I

818
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: feel like that there's no.

819
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 3: Way to breaking up.

820
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: No, he said that he would have broken up with

821
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: her if she said a name that crossed his mind

822
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:28,439
Speaker 1: of a boundary, So she did. He did say that

823
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: if she had sex with her, if she had sex

824
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: with anyone that he deemed is a close friend, that

825
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: he wouldn't have moved forward with the relationship. So yes,

826
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,959
Speaker 1: it would have been that. And to be fair too,

827
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 1: it's what I talked about in my in my past

828
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: relationship with my ex. A lot of the things that

829
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: I openly shared with and being honest was thrown back

830
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: in my face at the very end of the relationship.

831
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of men use that as AMMO.

832
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 1: Sorry y'all sorry information you said, Well, now.

833
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 5: Did his wife share that same information on who she

834
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 5: slept with in her pastor or not?

835
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: He didn't say it, So I can't say that. However,

836
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 1: you want to know who? And mind you, he was

837
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 1: never married. Do you want to know who? The ex

838
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: baby Mama is a four A Magic City damncer.

839
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 3: So judge.

840
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm not judging, but it's like, it's just like, bro,

841
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: how dare you sit here and try to sit here

842
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 1: and ask for a whole list when you're literally getting

843
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: women out of the strip club And Jazzy was a

844
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: bottle service girl in Miami, so you're also getting these

845
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: women from certain places and have the nerve to ask

846
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: them these questions, like if you want somebody that's so

847
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 1: wholesomer that you don't judge, go to church? Go okay,

848
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: don't go to church. Maybe but maybe don't go to church.

849
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,720
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is it's one of those where

850
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 1: like you, you get a woman and then I don't

851
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: know you you you like them? And I've also said

852
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: this two men love the hoes but didn't want to

853
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,360
Speaker 1: be mad about the truth that. Okay, they they didn't

854
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 1: have somebodies you like how you how she suck your dick?

855
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:17,760
Speaker 1: Guess how much practice she had to have to second

856
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 1: like that? Quite a bit?

857
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:21,240
Speaker 3: She could have been a natural.

858
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: You feel me? It was funny because it's funny because

859
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 1: I don't remember who I had this conversation with recently,

860
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 1: but he was telling me about and I think one

861
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: of the I want to say, the Muslim religion. There's

862
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: this there's this belief that you go to the afterlife

863
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: and your gift in the afterlife is forty virgins. And

864
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:50,320
Speaker 1: I said, now, who the hell wants that? That sounds terrible,

865
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 1: That actually sounds like a punishment. Do the Muslims go

866
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: to hell? Because who the fuck? Well, forty vergons a

867
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: whole bunch of for forty bitches that just nibble on

868
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: your dick that don't know how to ride. Like my

869
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:11,280
Speaker 1: mind went to, like, where where is forty virgins? Like, huh,

870
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: welcome to the gates of I don't think they call

871
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 1: a heaven, but O welcome to i' llah. Welcome you

872
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: at the door. And he say, here go forty virgins.

873
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:24,240
Speaker 1: That don't sound what are we talking about?

874
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 3: Barks marked the time right there. Box could could be

875
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 3: marked into I'm just saying.

876
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 1: Am I not allowed to say that? That's what they said.

877
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 1: They said they believe it.

878
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: It is just a way to try to control the

879
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 2: women around them and to have a notch in their belt,

880
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 2: like look what I did and to that's that's all

881
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 2: it is. It's just ego and a way to say, well,

882
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 2: a woman is only worthy if you're pure. But it's

883
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: like you could still dog me out and treat me

884
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:58,720
Speaker 2: like shit no matter how pure.

885
00:50:58,800 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 3: I am.

886
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 2: So old familions to have what you want and to

887
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 2: be able to say, I decide when you get to

888
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 2: do X. I decide when you are now worthy of

889
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 2: my dick, Like, get the fuck out of.

890
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: Here, Get the fuck out of here, because that tack

891
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 1: the Venerand what'd you say something?

892
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 3: There's some man who don't give a fuck about that.

893
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 3: I don't care.

894
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:23,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, and listen them the men I want, Oh all right,

895
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: all right, I don't want y'all, but I want the

896
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: ones that think like he can.

897
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 3: I ask, was it a one way conversation?

898
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 1: So he was having the conversation with Parker McKenna.

899
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 3: And no was he saying I'm going to give her

900
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 3: my list as she's given me her list or they

901
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 3: just want one way?

902
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 1: It seemed like he demanded the list. Now here's the

903
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,399
Speaker 1: thing though, to be fair, right, even when we talk

904
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 1: about these conversations in terms of let's bring it to

905
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 1: a non traditional dynamic. Right, there's times where a partner

906
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: may want to know if you're having sex with someone else,

907
00:51:58,200 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: and another person don't want to.

908
00:51:59,480 --> 00:51:59,919
Speaker 3: Know at all.

909
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: Right, And so for me, I don't care if my

910
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 1: nigga was with a thousand as long as he coming

911
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: to me with with no diseases and not too many kids.

912
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 1: What are we talking about? Like, I don't care my

913
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: man could have been with a thousand bitches. He just

914
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: better have laid that pipe down because I don't want

915
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,879
Speaker 1: nobody thinking I'm with some weak ass dick when I'm

916
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 1: bragging about it. But like for me, I think a

917
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 1: lot of women don't have that same nuance, Like we

918
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: actually love community dick. We like we want to know

919
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,840
Speaker 1: that we are with a man that other women want

920
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 1: that might have you know, been around like I think

921
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: for the most part, and if you hold on, there's

922
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: women in here prove me wrong. Ladies, if you did

923
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: not want to be with a nigga or chose like

924
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: or decided like, ooh, he's been out too much, especially

925
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 1: after you got the dick and it was good. Now,

926
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: we don't want bad community dick. So I'm talking about

927
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 1: the good community dick. Have you ever been like, oh

928
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: my god, too many women have had this. It's too good,

929
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: but I gotta let it go.

930
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 5: Yeahbody heard just mentioned dirty dick and niggas just just

931
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 5: the other just no.

932
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:20,760
Speaker 1: So so I will say I have had so twenty

933
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:23,879
Speaker 1: four to seven that nigga was community dick. It was good.

934
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 1: The only reason why I didn't like it is because

935
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: then I started judging the bitches he was fucking. And

936
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 1: then I had another nigga who I was your fucking

937
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 1: people raw. So here's the thing. I'm fine with you

938
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,839
Speaker 1: fucking mad bitches. But if I start seeing you put

939
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: in your dick and just chicken sandwiches like anything with

940
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: a hole, then then now, nigga, where is your honor?

941
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: Like for me, if I give you my list, you

942
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 1: gonna get motherfucking You're gonna get insecure cause nigga, you

943
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: might have his shoes on right now. You feel me

944
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 1: like you gonna feel away, like damn, that's your faith.

945
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: You listen to that nigga every morning you wake up.

946
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: Damn that nigga on your fantasy team. Like you know,

947
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 1: But as a as a woman, I think we do

948
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: judge based on like the caliber of women you're just

949
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 1: fucking because why are you just fucking with anybody? So

950
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:15,720
Speaker 1: I guess we care about caliber.

951
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 3: It's kind of judge you, right, Oh God, here we go.

952
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 2: Ain't it judge for you to judge who I've been

953
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:25,919
Speaker 2: as a.

954
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: Man, not you?

955
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying.

956
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 5: I'm saying because we we a fat girl all of

957
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 5: a sudden, it's it's, you know, we being we're being.

958
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 2: Judged sometimes sometimes that's not at.

959
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: I was about to say, like, you know, and I

960
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 1: was an honorary member of the bbw's so to me,

961
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,399
Speaker 1: it's not even a big bitch because nigga, I knew

962
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,799
Speaker 1: my pussy was given us a big girl, you feel me?

963
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: So I'm not mad if a nigga fucks berry is

964
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,800
Speaker 1: so annoying. I don't care about the big girl. I'm

965
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 1: talking about the quality and as women, we know how

966
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 1: these other women are moving, how they and to me,

967
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: if I do like you, I okay, I'm lying. I

968
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 1: might be mad for a little bit. I'm a still

969
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 1: fucking nigga who fucked a weak bitch. I will but

970
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 1: y'all are y'all are y'all are more advanced than me

971
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: in this in this chat, I.

972
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 3: Guess I have a funny feeling and you're a bad

973
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 3: person here. You found out who you liked. They did

974
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 3: an ugly person for like six months. You'll be like, nah,

975
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 3: you make him clean up his soul, socials and everything

976
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 3: that you would want. You would not want to be

977
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 3: linked to somebody who was dating the butterface at all.

978
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I do understand that beauty is subjective, so

979
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 1: you know what I like. I ain't gonna hold you

980
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: my main nigga right now. He got another bitch on

981
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: his roster. And because we honest with each other, right,

982
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 1: And boy do I think she ugly so much so

983
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 1: to where I'm like, hey, you know I'm down for

984
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 1: the threesomes. Don't you ever ask me to do anything

985
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,720
Speaker 1: with her. She is not attractive, she's not my type.

986
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't find her to be pretty, sexy, nothing yuck.

987
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 1: And I still think he's the best thing since sliced bread.

988
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 1: So you know there's that. Now. Those were three topics,

989
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 1: But I do want to leave room for y'all to

990
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: call me out, for y'all to give me feedback, for

991
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 1: us to discuss any topics that have brought up in

992
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: the first thirty two episodes of Selective Ignorance. We've had

993
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,280
Speaker 1: a lot of guests on, We've had a lot of topics,

994
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: We've done a lot of things. Barry, without raising his hand,

995
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: just went straight to unmute in So Barry, talk to me, sir,

996
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: what happened?

997
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 3: This is a you know me, I always know Scott

998
00:56:55,600 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 3: curious questions. I know, I mean of us, the black families,

999
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 3: or even Latin families, or some of the white families.

1000
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 3: Your grandma, your grandpa, maybe one more generation. You had,

1001
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 3: ten uncles, you had when did it become recounting now?

1002
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 3: And it's so it's such a big deal. I know

1003
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 3: every person on my block that I knew if I

1004
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 3: knew their ancestry, their family reunions was ten cousins, twelve cousins,

1005
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 3: all under the grandma, all under grandpa. When did it

1006
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 3: become a thing that? When did we have a new

1007
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 3: number that is three? You can only have three kids?

1008
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 3: You're going to be married.

1009
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 1: Twise, you're asking me about two things I don't want

1010
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 1: to do. So mind you, you're talking about grandma's I've

1011
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: said this, how many times women weren't able to have

1012
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: their own bank accounts till nineteen seventy four. So when

1013
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: we think about women back in the days, a woman

1014
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 1: couldn't be raped by her husband, a woman couldn't really

1015
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: have a job that she wanted. A woman really didn't

1016
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: have many rights. So when we talk about our grandma's

1017
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: the reason she had ten kids was because anytime her

1018
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 1: drunk ass husband, well goddamn GROWHIBII came in from the

1019
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 1: goddamn underground drinking in all night. Well, when he came home,

1020
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: she had to lay on her back, and then she

1021
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 1: got pregnant. And so that's where all the kids came from.

1022
00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 1: Mind you, back then you could buy a home on

1023
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 1: a regular wage. Houses back then we're thirty thousand dollars.

1024
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: If we talk about what it's like today, specifically millennials,

1025
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 1: we're the most educated and underpaid generation of our time.

1026
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: And then look at the economy. I keep saying, eggs

1027
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 1: is thirty two dollars. Like, so, we're in a space

1028
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 1: where women have the right to live for their passion.

1029
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: They're not living to be mothers and to be reproductive

1030
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 1: vessels for men. We're also living in a place where

1031
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 1: there's a teetering conversation happening in terms of women are

1032
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 1: having sex now for pleasure, not for reproduction. There's more

1033
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 1: birth control options for us. Shit, we ready for you

1034
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 1: niggas to get on your hormonal swings with birth control.

1035
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:11,919
Speaker 1: Goddamn it. So I think when we talk about where

1036
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: we're at in a different place and maybe why we

1037
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 1: were raising these bigger families back then, there you have it,

1038
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 1: nigga rights and women.

1039
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 3: Why but why are we judging people now? Who I

1040
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 3: mean when you said when you said Cam and I

1041
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:31,439
Speaker 3: think you said nine, I'm assuming Cam can afford nine kids? Yes,

1042
00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 3: So why would why? Why would I care? Why is

1043
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,400
Speaker 3: that a oh my god? And he got nine kids?

1044
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 1: So to me it's oh my god, because nigga, you

1045
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: asking for a list from a woman like you. Ain't

1046
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: got nine kids with three different women and none of

1047
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 1: them had a ring. So to me, it's the audacity

1048
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 1: of you're out here impregnating multiple women. You were an athlete,

1049
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: so I know you got Hella bodies and you have

1050
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: the nerve to ask me listen as long as I

1051
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: can show you my test results and there's no disease

1052
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 1: for you to get. I don't think as a as

1053
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 1: a man, you should be asking a woman her sexual past. Berry.

1054
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:11,919
Speaker 2: I think the difference there is back in the day,

1055
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 2: and I say back in the day, like let's just

1056
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 2: say fifty years ago, there were men and women that

1057
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 2: were coming together having kids to build that family. So

1058
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 2: maybe it was more intentional with all of the factors

1059
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 2: that Mandy brought in right versus now what we're seeing.

1060
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 2: And it's not to say that his kids weren't intentional,

1061
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 2: but it's like, to Mandy's point, none of these women

1062
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 2: were your wives for five seven years, and you guys

1063
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 2: had all your kids back to back that didn't work out,

1064
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 2: so you move on to the next relationship you have. However,

1065
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 2: many kids, it seems like people are dating and having

1066
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 2: kids and creating like a pseudo family without necessarily the

1067
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 2: intentionality of like, this is my family that I'm going

1068
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 2: to support and go have seventeen kids.

1069
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: Not only that, Barry, you brought up the finances right,

1070
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 1: he could afford them. Well, we also have Nick Cannon,

1071
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: who has fifty eleven kids, who just came out and

1072
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: was like, damn, I you know, I made all these

1073
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: kids and I can't be the father that I thought

1074
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: I could be for all of them. Fatherhood does not

1075
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 1: just look like being able to give money to kids.

1076
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't like, mind you. And I'm coming from someone

1077
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,760
Speaker 1: who my daddy showed up maybe once a month and

1078
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: then had the nerve to act like I owed him

1079
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 1: as an adult because he paid child support. This idea

1080
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 1: that you're a father because you can quote unquote of

1081
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 1: four children. While at the same time we see these

1082
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 1: same conversations with women who are fighting to get more

1083
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: child support and what does everyone say, A kid don't

1084
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 1: take that much money? So is it that there was

1085
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 1: just saying that the masses, the masses of the comments

1086
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 1: we have, even the conversation right now, right where Brittany

1087
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 1: Renner is getting fifty five hundred dollars a month from PJ. Washington.

1088
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: He just signed a ninety million dollar cos she's going

1089
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 1: for thirty five k. Cool. Now, if you're saying this

1090
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:11,439
Speaker 1: man all Lah cam Newton, Nick Cannon, all these men

1091
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 1: can afford these children. But then when we have women

1092
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: going into the child support system asking and requesting more

1093
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: money for these kids because these men make these mass numbers,

1094
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: there's a hypocrisy there because everyone's like, oh, y'all need

1095
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: that much money to raise kids. But then again when

1096
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 1: we talk about this in this dynamic, the conversation is, Oh, well,

1097
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: he has the money to have all these kids. He

1098
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: could afford these kids. Which one is it? Is it

1099
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:37,959
Speaker 1: Uchi Wally or is in one mic?

1100
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 2: Because if you add that but insert cards having kids

1101
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 2: in it, go ahead. Oh, I was saying, I know,

1102
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 2: it's a little bit different because the majority of the

1103
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:55,960
Speaker 2: conversation with Cardi is her having a kid with somebody

1104
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,439
Speaker 2: she's known for a short amount of time. But one

1105
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 2: could argue, yes, she also has the money to support

1106
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 2: her kids, or has the means and the resources to

1107
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 2: get you know, take care or you know, assistance or

1108
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 2: whatever to help with the kids.

1109
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 1: So still judging her having that baby in six months ghetto.

1110
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 2: She the first, She ain't the last.

1111
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: Take it the last.

1112
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 7: I was gonna say in my guards to like having

1113
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 7: kids and getting married part, Like, I think we really

1114
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 7: underestimate the impact that Christianity and that's values has on

1115
01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:36,440
Speaker 7: our culture. Because even if when you talk about like

1116
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 7: people like going back to the church or saying they're

1117
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 7: involved in a church community or like have traditional values,

1118
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 7: that's automatically like has a positive connotation, even if you

1119
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:51,600
Speaker 7: don't like align with that, like you think, oh, well,

1120
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 7: they're the person goes you know, they have a mom

1121
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 7: and a dad, and you know they the mom stays

1122
01:03:58,040 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 7: home and takes care of the kids, and they go

1123
01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 7: to church and they have you know, like that doesn't

1124
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 7: automatically mean it's good. I mean, look at the Catholic Church.

1125
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 7: They got the priestile and all the boys all the time,

1126
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 7: and like that's supposed to be seen as like a

1127
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 7: positive thing to be involved in when we know there's

1128
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 7: so much bad stuff that happens there too.

1129
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 1: That's why I listen, I be talking about the hypocrisy,

1130
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 1: and y'all already know I'm waiting. We was in the

1131
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 1: discord talking about what a religion episode could look like.

1132
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 1: I might have to tiptoe. I might have to do

1133
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 1: it like Jubilee style and do like a twenty b

1134
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 1: one type style, like get get like five Christians, maybe

1135
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: two Catholics just to it and we don't we don't

1136
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 1: need many many of them, maybe two Muslims, and then

1137
01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 1: have the equal amount of like, what's what's the What

1138
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: am I? What's the I'm not an atheist, but yes,

1139
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: elastic okay, what hold excuse me? Had to mute everyone, boy,

1140
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: did they just come out out the gate with all

1141
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: the whoa. That was a lot of name colleague role

1142
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: there I heard he din agnostic. I don't know it

1143
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 1: was a lot, but yeah, I'm looking to have those conversations.

1144
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: Very good question, Meg. Did you have another think you

1145
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: wanted to to to add to this or switch the

1146
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 1: conversation elsewhere?

1147
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:27,760
Speaker 7: No, I just wanted to chime in about the like

1148
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 7: marriage and kids and you know what, a good family

1149
01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 7: and all that stuff.

1150
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Barry, what's your question? What's your question?

1151
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 3: I mean, this could be a decision decision, was a

1152
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 3: question about asking here. But somebody who supports so much

1153
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 3: non tradition. Yes, why when it comes to marriage, family

1154
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 3: you only look you always judge it from a traditional sense.

1155
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that?

1156
01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:00,280
Speaker 3: I mean when you're talking about the boy, what you

1157
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 3: talking about so and so? This should be this way?

1158
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 3: And this is talking about who marries who, how raised

1159
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 3: the kids? You seem the lean traditional?

1160
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 4: There?

1161
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:12,959
Speaker 1: Explain it? You can't even explain it. I ain't gonna

1162
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:16,920
Speaker 1: hold you. I'm here for Cardi divorcing a marriage that

1163
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 1: wasn't healthy for her. I am here for her, moving on?

1164
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 1: Am I here for her?

1165
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 3: But you also said you're judging her.

1166
01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 1: I'm getting pregnant by a man that you've only known

1167
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 1: six months. I don't care if you're newly divorced. I

1168
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 1: don't care.

1169
01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:32,040
Speaker 7: What is.

1170
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 1: Not a rule, it's not a rule in terms of dating.

1171
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: Let's be very clear. You don't know a nigga six months,

1172
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: and you're a busy woman going through a divorce, hold

1173
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 1: on already with three children. So when you think about

1174
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 1: even the time that they were able to spend, bro,

1175
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: you don't know a man in six months. And I

1176
01:06:55,440 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 1: say that coming from a person hold on two friends

1177
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 1: right now who they ask has got pregnant by a

1178
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 1: nigga that they knew for three months? And boy is

1179
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 1: that rocky the co parenting element of it, what they're

1180
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 1: doing in a relationship, how they're going to show up

1181
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 1: for these children. And so to me, it's just stupid.

1182
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 1: I can call people stupid. It's not coming from a

1183
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 1: traditional lens. It's coming from well, that's stupid. You don't

1184
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 1: know somebody in six months.

1185
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 3: So she has a kid with someone she knows she

1186
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 3: can raise. Its healthy. But because you think was too quick,

1187
01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 3: she's stupid.

1188
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 8: That's what you just said, Eh, what is the problem

1189
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 8: if you have a baby, if you if you pro

1190
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 8: create with a man that you have known for less

1191
01:07:57,640 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 8: than a year, bit you stupid?

1192
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 3: Are you suing that Catholic?

1193
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 1: Okay? Whoaa? First off, the Catholics put it in the butt.

1194
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:13,880
Speaker 1: That's what they That's what I'm hearing. No one's having baby.

1195
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 1: They put it in the butt.

1196
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 3: You're not Catholic.

1197
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:22,560
Speaker 1: Nigga, I ain't. I ain't got no baby with a

1198
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: nigga I ain't known for a year.

1199
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 3: They I know you too well. I'm like pulling back now.

1200
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: Because hold on, I don't need you to have the

1201
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 1: people thinking a bit of pregnant because I wasn't.

1202
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:40,639
Speaker 3: No, no, I never said that. But all right, y'all,

1203
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 3: y'all jumped in. And if he goes too far, yes,

1204
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 3: give me a hand signal. What does it mean for

1205
01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 3: you to date with intention? If you don't really want

1206
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 3: kids and you don't really want marriage? This is what?

1207
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 3: What does it mean?

1208
01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:54,519
Speaker 1: It means to find fucking happiness in partnership and create

1209
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 1: memories like I like to travel the world, I like

1210
01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 1: to go out with my friends. This idea of happiness

1211
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:03,840
Speaker 1: to me with a partner looks like what I have

1212
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 1: with my friendships, mind you, my friendships that have been

1213
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 1: ongoing for ten, thirteen, fifteen, twenty years. Right, I am

1214
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 1: able to live and experience life with my friends. I

1215
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 1: don't understand why in romantic partnerships there has to be

1216
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 1: these milestones which really inevitably deal with legality. No, but

1217
01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 1: I I was with my axcens. We broke up a lot,

1218
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: but we were together for three years. I would love

1219
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 1: to be with a person long term. A partner to

1220
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 1: me looks like someone who gets to celebrate my wins

1221
01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 1: with me, who gets to travel the world with me,

1222
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 1: who gets to create new experiences with me, who we

1223
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 1: get to do that together. To me, it doesn't look

1224
01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:44,680
Speaker 1: like being with a guy until he puts a ring

1225
01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 1: on me, until he puts a baby in me, until

1226
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 1: I become all of these these things that essentially I

1227
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: don't want in my life.

1228
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 3: I don't want to write the word grace, and I

1229
01:09:58,520 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 3: don't like this word grace.

1230
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: Stop that bitch to the cookout. Literally, what I'm saying

1231
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 1: is you do not know someone, and so to me,

1232
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: with bringing a whole human life into the fold and

1233
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: having to now be connected to this person for eighteen

1234
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:18,680
Speaker 1: plus years, I don't think it's smart to decide to

1235
01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 1: have to be I say it all the time. Boy

1236
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 1: am I glad I didn't have a motherfucking kid with

1237
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 1: my ex because if I did, I would have been

1238
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:31,559
Speaker 1: stuck with the goddamn narcissist. I love that I'm able

1239
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 1: to just move on with my life. So yes, I

1240
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 1: think it's stupid for anybody to have kids, whether you're

1241
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:39,599
Speaker 1: a man or a woman, to have kids with someone

1242
01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 1: that you've known for six months because you don't know

1243
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,800
Speaker 1: that person. And now the two of you who don't

1244
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 1: fucking know each other, got a goddamn raise a whole

1245
01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:51,879
Speaker 1: nother human being. That's what I'm saying. And yes, they're stupid,

1246
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 1: Meg and then Alana.

1247
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:57,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, having a kid with someone is very serious. That's

1248
01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:01,720
Speaker 7: just for a praeriod to when you're when you go

1249
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 7: to graduations, for like every family gathering after that, when

1250
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:11,760
Speaker 7: your kids start to have kids, if they're gonna want

1251
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 7: their other parent around for those things, you're gonna have

1252
01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:16,759
Speaker 7: to be around them for the rest of their life.

1253
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:19,560
Speaker 1: And you don't like no more because y'all got it.

1254
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:21,280
Speaker 3: You can be very for ten years of being the

1255
01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 3: same situation.

1256
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: I think you don't have kids.

1257
01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:27,639
Speaker 7: If you don't have kids and you're if.

1258
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 3: You're marrid, you don't have kids.

1259
01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 7: You can separate from that person and cut clean and

1260
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 7: go live your life, and they'll have to see them

1261
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:34,960
Speaker 7: ever again.

1262
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:35,639
Speaker 1: And move on.

1263
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 7: There's always that string connecting you to them through your child.

1264
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1265
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 3: Ever, but I don't know the length of time you

1266
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 3: were in that relationship is. I don't know how that

1267
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 3: automatically translates to the part about divorce and being there.

1268
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 3: If you got married at the one day that you

1269
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 3: hit one night and get happen to not go and

1270
01:11:57,080 --> 01:12:00,360
Speaker 3: you have a kid the next nine months, you think

1271
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:03,120
Speaker 3: for ten years and you wound upooking another thing.

1272
01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:07,639
Speaker 1: I don't to have a baby by someone that you've

1273
01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: known less than the time you're gonna have to be pregnant.

1274
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: It's crazy, bruh. You gotta hold that baby for guarantee. Well,

1275
01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying if the baby goes to full term, nigga, No,

1276
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 1: I mean.

1277
01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 3: The relationship is not guarantee my point.

1278
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 1: So to me, the least you could do is know this.

1279
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 1: Nigga's middle name, last name is Mama names just the name.

1280
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 1: Know some shit about this nigga before you have his baby, Alana,

1281
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 1: go ahead.

1282
01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:39,360
Speaker 3: So I'm so happy to be on here.

1283
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:45,200
Speaker 6: Love you, Mandy. What I wanted to say with regards

1284
01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 6: to that is, I feel like having gone through what

1285
01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:54,920
Speaker 6: she's been with offset and you you have three kids,

1286
01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:57,839
Speaker 6: like the third one is like what a few months?

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Speaker 1: One year?

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Speaker 6: Just maybe, so I would have taken time to focus

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Speaker 6: on me. Yeah, to do the healing, focus on my kids,

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Speaker 6: still make my bread, and just forget how to co parent. Then,

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Speaker 6: not to say that you can't date somebody, but if can't,

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Speaker 6: it shouldn't be that serious and put yourself in this

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Speaker 6: situation again to what is what's the outcome? What's going

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Speaker 6: to be different this time?

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Speaker 3: I agree?

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Speaker 6: So there's is there going to be healing? To be

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Speaker 6: a person, you have to come out of that relationship

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Speaker 6: and do better.

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Speaker 1: I agree. I think I think that's my thing with

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Speaker 1: it too, right, And Alana, you just hit it on

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Speaker 1: the head. She has three kids that she now has

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Speaker 1: to learn how to coparent with with her ex husband.

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Speaker 1: She's now going have to try to figure out how

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Speaker 1: to co parent with two different niggas exactly across four kids.

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Speaker 1: To me, is just okay? Can it happen, Yes, but

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Speaker 1: do I think it was smart? No? No, it was no.

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Speaker 1: Now I will leave the floor open, taking it away

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Speaker 1: from goddamn decisions decisions topics, Shit, Barry, is there anything

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Speaker 1: else Trev, Emmy, Ebb, Jojo, h d D, Connie, Meg,

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Speaker 1: anything else that y'all would want to discuss? Meg? You

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Speaker 1: have your hand up, but I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: for a different topic, Barry, what what.

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Speaker 3: Do you think the lstead to be in two days,

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Speaker 3: two months from now, two months from now, who's on

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Speaker 3: the couch? Two months from today? Who's on the couch

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Speaker 3: on the main episode?

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Speaker 1: Well, based on what it looks like, it's giving rotating casts,

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Speaker 1: so it's giving Mark is there once a week, Mona

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Speaker 1: is there once a week. Imani's stepping in more than

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Speaker 1: just Patreon. Apparently Sasha has come on yet another time,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know if she's gonna be infiltrated into

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Speaker 1: the mix. And I push you two months and move five.

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Speaker 3: You didn't say two names. You didn't say two names.

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Speaker 1: By the way, what were the two names. I don't

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Speaker 1: think anything happens with Ice and Ish. They're there, Iceni,

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Speaker 1: Ish aren't going anywhere. Wouldn't be surprised if Flip isn't

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Speaker 1: like maybe your year end. And that's because I think

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Speaker 1: by February, I think they usher Sue back in Surf.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: He's allegedly set to be out in February, and boy

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Speaker 1: were I think he had he not, had he not

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Speaker 1: been arrested, this whole ensemble would have been completely different.

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Speaker 3: But I don't remember Surf talking about anything except for

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Speaker 3: the rap game, which I don't remember him covering different topics.

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Speaker 1: He gave a few. He he had very ignorant takes,

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Speaker 1: so you probably, you know, kind of didn't want to

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Speaker 1: hear what he had to say, but he leaned into

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Speaker 1: other topics. I do think. I do think Surf somehow

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Speaker 1: gets back into the fold. I think Mona's there for

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Speaker 1: some time. I don't know. I love her, it looks

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Speaker 1: like the audience loves her. But she's already talked about

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Speaker 1: the commute, She's already showed up late a couple of times,

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Speaker 1: and boy do this fucking Joe love to talk about

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Speaker 1: the tardiness of niggas. So I don't know the patient's

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Speaker 1: there with that. And she doesn't live in Jersey, so

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Speaker 1: maybe she relocates. I don't know, and then I'm just

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Speaker 1: happy we'd never have to hear a woman talking circles again.

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Speaker 1: I don't listen to pape, so I don't know what

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Speaker 1: Sasha is giving over there, but I love Mona. That's

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Speaker 1: the voice that I think needs to sit on the

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Speaker 1: couch with those type of men. And you know, may

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Speaker 1: anyone who's ever been on the JBN do well. I

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Speaker 1: wish everyone the best? What do you want me to say?

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Speaker 7: So?

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01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:31,080
Speaker 1: Mad A was music?

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Speaker 3: Because I just told you to shut up?

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Speaker 1: What you told me to shut up? Yeah? Why wishing

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Speaker 1: everyone well?

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Speaker 9: Like?

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Speaker 7: So?

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Speaker 1: See, this is the problem. This is why people be

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01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:47,720
Speaker 1: thinking I'm a villain but can't even say nice things.

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Speaker 1: I want everyone to be successful and flourish.

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Speaker 3: I feel the same for a certain person that I

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Speaker 3: would feel for anybody got out of a beast of relationship.

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Speaker 1: Oh paulase yes, oh lease, when you say here's the thing,

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Speaker 1: we're being real. Are you trying to get me caught

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01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:24,120
Speaker 1: up on my grist? Motherfucking assembly? Nigga?

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Speaker 3: Make them pay, make them pay.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this is just about to be because what the fuck?

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know most school assemblies that you'd be messy.

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Speaker 3: You got so when the bell rings, you know what

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Speaker 3: time it is.

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Speaker 7: Make the Beard Brigade gang up on you.

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Speaker 1: You see the Beard Brigade right now, the greatest.

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Speaker 3: You don't know the truth, and we'll tell her and

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Speaker 3: she's like, oh, they got me again.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy. Anyways, guys, these are the questions you

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Speaker 1: can get to ask me if you too joined here

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Speaker 1: of Patriot. These will the fuckers. Anyways, this was our

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Speaker 1: first assembly. You can catch us every second week of

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Speaker 1: the month. We will be right on our Patreon. So

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Speaker 1: join patreon dot com. Backslash selective ignorance. I'm gonna cuss

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Speaker 1: these niggas out. I'm gonna stay all with them, cuss

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Speaker 1: them out a little bit. And now he didnet gave

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Speaker 1: me goddamn editing work to do. So thank you, guys

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Speaker 1: so very much for tuning in. A lot of this

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Speaker 1: is not going in that we just talked about, but

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Speaker 1: hope you guys, and thank you. Yeah, Cole says, nigga,

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Speaker 1: shut the fuck up. God damn it.

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Speaker 3: You should have got a dog and be scared and

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Speaker 3: not a scared of a cat.

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