WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Relationship Recipe Fail (#2)

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<v Speaker 1>We're at number two in our countdown of the most

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<v Speaker 1>listened to second date updates, and today we're highlighting Actually

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks Specialty Ugly homemade meal creation guy.

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<v Speaker 2>You always rag I am a good cook. I am

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<v Speaker 2>inviting all over for dinner this year. That's my twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five resolution.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, to punish everybody with a saucage morette blea cheese vondue. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and just the visual appeal eat somewhork. But listen to it.

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<v Speaker 1>In our number two second date update, it's called relationship

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<v Speaker 1>recipe fail Enjoy Second dat up Date. Nowadays, most people

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<v Speaker 1>who are on Facebook use it to either stalk their

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<v Speaker 1>exes to find out who they're dating now okay, purchase

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<v Speaker 1>discount Chinese made products off the marketplace, or angrily scream

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<v Speaker 1>their political beliefs in all caps while vowing to unfriend

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<v Speaker 1>anyone who disagrees with them.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything that's happening in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>This all checks out, right, But this all checks out, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently there are some people who still use Facebook to

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<v Speaker 1>find love.

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<v Speaker 3>Are they Are they in that category?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they're not in a senior center?

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<v Speaker 1>It could be because that's what happened to one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Eric, Eric, which extremist chat group did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet your lady?

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<v Speaker 4>We met on the comment sections of a Facebook group

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<v Speaker 4>called gross food.

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<v Speaker 2>Gross food. I think that is the only thing left

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<v Speaker 2>that's fun on Facebook are the funny groups. You can

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<v Speaker 2>be part of.

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<v Speaker 1>That and the Brook and Jeffrey facebook page. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you should go follow if you haven't already. But tell

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<v Speaker 1>us Eric about the girl that you met. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Samantha?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 2>What's funny is that? I wanted to ask first about

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<v Speaker 2>the gross food that you both commented on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, actually I was thinking that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what was it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>It was this chili berger and it just looks awful.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, someone's chilly is like a weird brownish.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a real photograph friendly food. That is definitely for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, Eric sent us a picture of the talking, so

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<v Speaker 1>here it is. I printed it out.

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<v Speaker 4>It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks like somebody took two buns and then reached

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<v Speaker 1>into a port at.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, I will it lives up to the gross food

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<v Speaker 2>filter that you needed to post. Pretty disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys start talking about it?

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<v Speaker 4>She was like, is it bad that I want to

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<v Speaker 4>put that in my faith, and I was like, Bucks,

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<v Speaker 4>can I watch.

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<v Speaker 1>You?

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<v Speaker 2>Guys were meant for each other? Because after I saw that, Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a visual.

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<v Speaker 3>It just looks gross.

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<v Speaker 2>So did you actually, like you actually parlayed that into

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<v Speaker 2>a date?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, sort of. I mean we started DMN for

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<v Speaker 4>a while and I really did want to hang out,

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<v Speaker 4>but she told me that she doubted I could actually

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<v Speaker 4>watched her eat it because they've like three hundred miles apart.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh right, I was gonna say, like, what are the

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<v Speaker 2>chances you're in the same city.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what video chat dates are for.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is that what you guys did? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>So we stayed friends on Facebook for a few weeks

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<v Speaker 4>and mostly just talk about food and getting to know

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<v Speaker 4>each other and stuff. And I was finally like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>what if I fly you out over my way and

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<v Speaker 4>we try to cut the chili burger together? Nice?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, we're going to cook that thing together.

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<v Speaker 2>Fly that's what you're thinking. I think she's going to

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<v Speaker 2>spend a whole weekend with a stranger that she met

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<v Speaker 2>on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 3>Will get a hotel or he can get her a hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>They also talked for a few weeks, he said before

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<v Speaker 1>he made that offer, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Still like a lot of time with but so she

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<v Speaker 4>was kind of surprised, but she eventually said okay, and

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<v Speaker 4>we showed the weekend to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, so you guys spend a whole weekend together?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>What was it like when you picked her up at

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<v Speaker 2>the airport?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I offer heard, but she didn't want me to.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you know, she tried to get or she just

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<v Speaker 2>tried to get three weekend vacation.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm ubering into the hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of times we don't look our best as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as we get off of an airplane. So maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she needed some time to collect herself before the actual

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<v Speaker 1>dates start.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, when did you guys finally meet up?

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<v Speaker 4>She came over to my place and we have the

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<v Speaker 4>same chemistry that we had online.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice, that's really important, dude.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but then the disappointment started.

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<v Speaker 2>Why he was disappointed both of you or both of us.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. The recipe was just awful. So the one that

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<v Speaker 4>we found said that you should bake the burger, like

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<v Speaker 4>the raw meat and the chili and the cheese and

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<v Speaker 4>everything together, all wrapped inside a tinfoil.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so discussion.

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<v Speaker 1>Wonder looks so awful in the picture.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you're following recipes based on gross food pictures? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you expect to get to.

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<v Speaker 3>The hilarious point right, like recreate?

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you be disappointed?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I get? I mean, how did that turn out?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean after an hour it was a total mess,

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<v Speaker 4>horrible and it just wasn't So I put it back

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<v Speaker 4>in the oven and we tried cooking it some more

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<v Speaker 4>and thought we eat again later, but she said it

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<v Speaker 4>was getting late and she should go back to her hotel. Okay, wow,

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<v Speaker 4>But I was like, you know, you can stay over,

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<v Speaker 4>It's all right if you want.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds romantic. I mean, was there any chemistry between

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<v Speaker 2>you two, like you're watching a show? Nothing happened, There

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<v Speaker 2>was no.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was a good kind of stry at the

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<v Speaker 4>beginning of it. But like, as the anticipation for this

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<v Speaker 4>nightmare burger that we've been waiting for and talking about

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<v Speaker 4>for weeks, just rose, I just got nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, so the horrible food that you planned to make

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<v Speaker 1>was so horrible that it actually ruined the day?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that grows emotionally as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how did that night?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? I got real nervous, and I was like, you

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<v Speaker 4>want to play a board game? So I started pulling

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<v Speaker 4>some that and stuff, but she wasn't into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't want to fly to a new city

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<v Speaker 2>to play board games inside. I don't have taken her

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<v Speaker 2>out at that point, shown her around.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to a real restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, get some good food.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, playing candy Land with a stranger in

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<v Speaker 1>his apartment could be kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds like Facebook, honestly, circle. So did you guys

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<v Speaker 2>meet up the next day?

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<v Speaker 4>No, she took it early flight home and that was

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<v Speaker 4>that ow wow.

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<v Speaker 2>She even paid the change fee to make it happen.

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<v Speaker 2>You're desperate to get out when that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a looking kind of bleak at the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>but we've started off with worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like her still?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Of course. I mean that's why I reached out.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I want another chance that something that isn't

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<v Speaker 4>going to go terrible.

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<v Speaker 3>And you had chemistry beginning before you cook. You said

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<v Speaker 3>you felt the same chemistry. So there's something there, but

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<v Speaker 3>you gotta find it.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna help you find it. We're gonna play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come back, call Samantha for you and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, awesome, thanks? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, how do two people hundreds of miles apart

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<v Speaker 1>have a common bond? I'll tell you how.

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<v Speaker 2>Sound deep, Jeffrey, It's.

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<v Speaker 1>Through gross looking food. Yeah, because that's where they met.

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<v Speaker 1>On a Facebook group dedicated to ugly meals talking about

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<v Speaker 1>Eric and Samantha. They both commented on the same chili burger,

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<v Speaker 1>and sparks flew from there. It isn't like amazing that

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<v Speaker 1>people can connect that way.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, yeah, I actually do love that any type of food.

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<v Speaker 1>I will continue to stay off Facebook.

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<v Speaker 2>This didn't do it for you.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't belong there.

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<v Speaker 1>Flash forward to their wedding and it's like, I married

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<v Speaker 1>this woman because we both commented on a burger that

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<v Speaker 1>looks like it was found in an outhouse at Coachell.

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<v Speaker 1>I love this woman.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you guys are getting way ahead of yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>We couldn't even get through one successful night after he

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<v Speaker 2>paid for a plane ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>You can focus on all the negative stuff, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think life is pretty great. That's good Jo.

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<v Speaker 3>Chili cakes.

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<v Speaker 1>It might not be that great because they did try

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<v Speaker 1>to recreate the recipe that they saw online, which took

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<v Speaker 1>so long that Samantha left and went back to her

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<v Speaker 1>hotel and then rebooked her flight home for the next morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your take on this type of mess? You love?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she just wasn't as dedicated to gross food as

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<v Speaker 2>you thought. Yeah, I mean, I'm just.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, can you hear that you're too good for her?

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<v Speaker 2>She actually likes attractive food.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we have a great conversation for like multiple

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<v Speaker 4>weeks of that, so I think we're on the same page.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true, you guys, just a.

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<v Speaker 2>Long way for that still to be a thing though,

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<v Speaker 2>Like the jo should have ended. Yeah, did you connect

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<v Speaker 2>over other things?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we talked about a bunch of stuff over

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<v Speaker 4>the phone and buy a text of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, broke a bunch of stuff. Okay, connect Yeah, stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, now we're going to ask her a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff when we call Samantha and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update for you. All right, Eric, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, definitely please, And like I know, you guys normally

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<v Speaker 4>do like gift cards or something, but if you could

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<v Speaker 4>get her just a flight out, that would be great.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's down, Eric, have you looked at a radio station's

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<v Speaker 2>budget lately.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, here's three hundred Delta gift cards. Yeah, we'll work

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Let's just dial her number and see what

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<v Speaker 1>she has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey is

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<v Speaker 1>a Samantha. Yeah, hey, Samantha. What's up? This is Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I may not listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if we're on in your city. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're on in a lot of cities. Samantha show. Hi

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<v Speaker 2>a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, And we do a segment here called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners get in touch with you. After you went.

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<v Speaker 1>You went out really far from him. You flew three

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<v Speaker 1>hundred miles to hang out with him.

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<v Speaker 5>Eric called you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, he thanks, You're fantastic.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so weird, really, I don't know, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like he went long ways to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>that you could come visit him.

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<v Speaker 1>He played for a technically she went a long way

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<v Speaker 1>used him.

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<v Speaker 2>But you guys had a big connection, Like why would

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<v Speaker 2>you say yes to an entire weekend with somebody if

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, this is like really awkward to talk

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<v Speaker 5>about this generally, but like, I don't even know if

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<v Speaker 5>you guys are real people like you got.

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<v Speaker 1>Us we are robots. It's so sorry. I loved it

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<v Speaker 1>so bad. Only a human could have possibly come up

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<v Speaker 1>with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're real.

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<v Speaker 1>We're real, and we're seriously trying to help out one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners because he's really confused after your hangout.

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<v Speaker 1>He does not know why you ran back to your

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<v Speaker 1>hotel and then booked a flight home the next morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know, but like, did Eric tell you the story?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we heard about your guys are going to

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<v Speaker 1>make a chili berger at his apartment and it was

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<v Speaker 1>taking way longer than expected, started to get late. He

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<v Speaker 1>tried pulling out some board games, and you had to go.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all we really know.

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<v Speaker 2>He feels.

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<v Speaker 5>I had to go because he kept asking me to

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<v Speaker 5>stay the night. And that was the first time we.

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<v Speaker 2>Met, right, he said, he mentioned that he told you

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<v Speaker 2>he could stay, but.

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<v Speaker 5>He kept asking me, and I was like, Eric, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know you, like this has been a nice date,

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<v Speaker 5>and he was like pouting. He was like doing the

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<v Speaker 5>guy thing of like, oh, but like you came out here,

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<v Speaker 5>like I really like hanging out with you. All of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was making you feel guilty about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I'm like, I don't even know you, like

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<v Speaker 5>you almost like you invited me here and your false pretenses.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>We did not know that he made you feel that way.

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, I don't know if Eric realizes he made

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<v Speaker 1>you feel that way either, but we can ask him

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<v Speaker 1>right now because he's on the other line listening and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, I didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable. I

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<v Speaker 4>was just trying to be hospitable. And it's well the fact.

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<v Speaker 5>That I wasn't like answering your track staffer should say something, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, cool, all right, everybody, it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not a man of many words. Maybe you should

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<v Speaker 2>have like talked to her more. Maybe that's why she

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<v Speaker 2>felt uncomfortable, because the only thing that was coming out

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<v Speaker 2>of your mouth was that question, over and over again.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you drinking that night? Maybe you forgot that you

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<v Speaker 1>asked that question.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess. I mean, I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think it's that rude to offer someone to not have

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<v Speaker 4>to go drive their car rental car around a city

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<v Speaker 4>they don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I said that I didn't want to stay.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm actually really glad I got a hotel because

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<v Speaker 5>what kind of possession? What did that put me in?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Oh, you paid for your own hotel?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, but I mean I had to stare better

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<v Speaker 4>room for you. I guess I didn't really go into

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<v Speaker 4>the details about everything, but probably should have.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, whoa, I mean, I wouldn't even have done that.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know you. I'm like single going into a

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<v Speaker 5>new city that I don't know, and then like it

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<v Speaker 5>would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 5>like officially dating, but we weren't, and this was just

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<v Speaker 5>like a first time thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, well do you want to be my girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that was what she meant.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta say, although it is a.

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<v Speaker 1>Good question, would you have an answer for him? Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>Stop it not like that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going to do that over the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, the radio move wasn't good. Maybe you should text

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<v Speaker 1>her the question.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that he was purposely trying to make

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<v Speaker 2>you feel uncomfortable. But Eric, I do think if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to invite a woman into your city, you have

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<v Speaker 2>to go the extra mile to make sure she feels

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<v Speaker 2>safe and that she feels comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Coming from someone who has offered and flown girls out

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<v Speaker 3>to cities, Okay, you always make sure they know they

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<v Speaker 3>have a hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>No, absolutely not. You do your thing. It's all about communications.

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<v Speaker 1>Show them that gesture. Take the front door off of

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<v Speaker 1>the hinge, just so that you can get out whenever

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<v Speaker 1>you want. It is wide open.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Sam, maybe it just didn't cross his mind,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like guys don't have to think about that

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<v Speaker 2>when they go into new cities to meet people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well, I mean I feel like I've just totally

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<v Speaker 4>screwed the poocha on this one and there's no real recovery.

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<v Speaker 4>But I mean, I'd still like to have a second chance.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that a sorry I heard in there?

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<v Speaker 1>I heard tell me about poop screwing. But let's call it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's call it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry. No, this is just too weird. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like it doesn't make sense to like have strangers I've

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<v Speaker 5>never met speaking for him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, it is one of those things you

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<v Speaker 2>got to go with your gut on this, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's what your gut's telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I just don't want this potential relationship to go

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<v Speaker 1>down in flames because so few people in this world

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<v Speaker 1>actually bond over gross food.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a whole page for it, Johnny. It seems like

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<v Speaker 2>there's like hundreds of thousands.

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<v Speaker 1>How many of them actually fall in love?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's none, apparently.

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<v Speaker 1>They We wanted it to be one, okay, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I really wanted to try all shake that

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<v Speaker 4>I saw with her.

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<v Speaker 5>No, Eric, I think we're done here.

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<v Speaker 1>Samantha, because we would offer to pay for that meatball

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<v Speaker 1>shape on your second day.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I can afford a make a meet all

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<v Speaker 5>shake on my own.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we were talking to money bags.

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<v Speaker 2>Samantha makes her own meatballs. Jeffrey excuse me, broken Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that may have been the most cringe worthy moment

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<v Speaker 1>of the entire year.

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<v Speaker 5>It would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 5>like officially dating, but we weren't, and this is just

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<v Speaker 5>like a first time thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Will do you want to be my girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>What if he's listening right now? I had to live

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<v Speaker 2>through at once.

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<v Speaker 1>She's the one who said it. Honestly, thank god she

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<v Speaker 1>said no to that, because if that worked, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have thrown my headphones down and been like, I'm done

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<v Speaker 1>with this job? Is it really that easy?

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<v Speaker 2>What happened to you? All? Rooting for love again?

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't even sound like he was into there for

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<v Speaker 1>most of the call.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it doesn't sound like he's a guy who's like

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<v Speaker 2>super passionate maybe about anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, to be a romance.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I mean I feel like he learned a

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<v Speaker 2>lot from this, so for example, not pressuring people to

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<v Speaker 2>stay at his house when they don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Make people feel comfortable. Yeah, I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 1>actually learned that lesson.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, his lessons like, next time ask her to be

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<v Speaker 3>my girlfriend, yeah, before I fly her out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but we can help you learn some important life

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<v Speaker 1>lessons in your dating life.

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<v Speaker 2>You just make fun of you afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, we'll do it all. Just email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who isn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning,