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Speaker 1: We're at number two in our countdown of the most

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Speaker 1: listened to second date updates, and today we're highlighting Actually

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Speaker 1: Brooks Specialty Ugly homemade meal creation guy.

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Speaker 2: You always rag I am a good cook. I am

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Speaker 2: inviting all over for dinner this year. That's my twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty five resolution.

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Speaker 1: Yes, to punish everybody with a saucage morette blea cheese vondue. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and just the visual appeal eat somewhork. But listen to it.

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Speaker 1: In our number two second date update, it's called relationship

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Speaker 1: recipe fail Enjoy Second dat up Date. Nowadays, most people

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Speaker 1: who are on Facebook use it to either stalk their

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Speaker 1: exes to find out who they're dating now okay, purchase

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Speaker 1: discount Chinese made products off the marketplace, or angrily scream

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Speaker 1: their political beliefs in all caps while vowing to unfriend

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Speaker 1: anyone who disagrees with them.

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Speaker 3: Everything that's happening in the world.

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Speaker 2: This all checks out, right, But this all checks out, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Apparently there are some people who still use Facebook to

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Speaker 1: find love.

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Speaker 3: Are they Are they in that category?

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Speaker 2: Are they're not in a senior center?

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Speaker 1: It could be because that's what happened to one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Eric, Eric, which extremist chat group did you

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Speaker 1: meet your lady?

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Speaker 4: We met on the comment sections of a Facebook group

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Speaker 4: called gross food.

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Speaker 2: Gross food. I think that is the only thing left

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Speaker 2: that's fun on Facebook are the funny groups. You can

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Speaker 2: be part of.

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Speaker 1: That and the Brook and Jeffrey facebook page. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: you should go follow if you haven't already. But tell

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Speaker 1: us Eric about the girl that you met. What's her name?

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Speaker 4: Samantha?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Samantha.

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Speaker 2: What's funny is that? I wanted to ask first about

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Speaker 2: the gross food that you both commented on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, actually I was thinking that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what was it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It was this chili berger and it just looks awful.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, someone's chilly is like a weird brownish.

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Speaker 2: Not a real photograph friendly food. That is definitely for sure.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Eric sent us a picture of the talking, so

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Speaker 1: here it is. I printed it out.

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 1: It looks like somebody took two buns and then reached

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Speaker 2: Basically, I will it lives up to the gross food

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Speaker 2: filter that you needed to post. Pretty disgusting.

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Speaker 1: How did you guys start talking about it?

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Speaker 4: She was like, is it bad that I want to

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Speaker 4: can I watch.

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 2: Guys were meant for each other? Because after I saw that, Wow,

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Speaker 3: It just looks gross.

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Speaker 2: So did you actually, like you actually parlayed that into

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, sort of. I mean we started DMN for

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Speaker 4: but she told me that she doubted I could actually

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Speaker 2: Oh right, I was gonna say, like, what are the

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Speaker 1: That's what video chat dates are for.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is that what you guys did? Uh?

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Speaker 4: what if I fly you out over my way and

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Speaker 4: we try to cut the chili burger together? Nice?

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're going to cook that thing together.

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Speaker 2: Fly that's what you're thinking. I think she's going to

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Speaker 3: Will get a hotel or he can get her a hotel.

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Speaker 1: They also talked for a few weeks, he said before

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Speaker 1: he made that offer, right.

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Speaker 4: Still like a lot of time with but so she

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Speaker 2: Wow, so you guys spend a whole weekend together?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, kind of.

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Speaker 4: Well, I offer heard, but she didn't want me to.

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Speaker 2: Oh you know, she tried to get or she just

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Speaker 3: But I'm ubering into the hotel.

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Speaker 1: I'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times we don't look our best as

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Speaker 3: That's a good point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, when did you guys finally meet up?

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Speaker 4: She came over to my place and we have the

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Speaker 4: same chemistry that we had online.

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Speaker 1: Nice, that's really important, dude.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but then the disappointment started.

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Speaker 2: Why he was disappointed both of you or both of us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. The recipe was just awful. So the one that

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Speaker 4: we found said that you should bake the burger, like

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Speaker 4: the raw meat and the chili and the cheese and

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Speaker 1: Wonder looks so awful in the picture.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're following recipes based on gross food pictures? Like,

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Speaker 2: what do you expect to get to.

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Speaker 3: The hilarious point right, like recreate?

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Speaker 2: Why would you be disappointed?

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Speaker 1: Like I get? I mean, how did that turn out?

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Speaker 4: I mean after an hour it was a total mess,

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Speaker 4: horrible and it just wasn't So I put it back

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Speaker 4: was getting late and she should go back to her hotel. Okay, wow,

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Speaker 4: But I was like, you know, you can stay over,

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Speaker 4: It's all right if you want.

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Speaker 2: That sounds romantic. I mean, was there any chemistry between

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Speaker 2: you two, like you're watching a show? Nothing happened, There

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a good kind of stry at the

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Speaker 1: Wow, so the horrible food that you planned to make

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how did that night?

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Speaker 4: Well? I got real nervous, and I was like, you

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Speaker 4: want to play a board game? So I started pulling

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to fly to a new city

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Speaker 1: Let's go to a real restaurant.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, get some good food.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, playing candy Land with a stranger in

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Speaker 2: That sounds like Facebook, honestly, circle. So did you guys

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Speaker 4: No, she took it early flight home and that was

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Speaker 2: She even paid the change fee to make it happen.

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Speaker 2: You're desperate to get out when that happened.

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Speaker 1: There is a looking kind of bleak at the moment,

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Speaker 1: but we've started off with worse.

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Speaker 2: Do you like her still?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Of course. I mean that's why I reached out.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I want another chance that something that isn't

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Speaker 3: And you had chemistry beginning before you cook. You said

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Speaker 3: you felt the same chemistry. So there's something there, but

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna help you find it. We're gonna play a song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back, call Samantha for you and get your

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Speaker 1: second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: All right, awesome, thanks? All right?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, how do two people hundreds of miles apart

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Speaker 2: Sound deep, Jeffrey, It's.

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Speaker 1: Through gross looking food. Yeah, because that's where they met.

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Speaker 1: On a Facebook group dedicated to ugly meals talking about

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Speaker 1: Eric and Samantha. They both commented on the same chili burger,

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Speaker 1: and sparks flew from there. It isn't like amazing that

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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, I actually do love that any type of food.

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Speaker 1: I will continue to stay off Facebook.

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Speaker 2: This didn't do it for you.

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Speaker 3: You don't belong there.

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Speaker 1: Flash forward to their wedding and it's like, I married

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Speaker 1: I love this woman.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys are getting way ahead of yourself.

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Speaker 2: We couldn't even get through one successful night after he

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Speaker 1: You can focus on all the negative stuff, but I

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Speaker 3: Chili cakes.

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Speaker 1: It might not be that great because they did try

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Speaker 1: What's your take on this type of mess? You love?

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Speaker 2: Maybe she just wasn't as dedicated to gross food as

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Speaker 1: Saying, can you hear that you're too good for her?

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Speaker 2: She actually likes attractive food.

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Speaker 4: I mean we have a great conversation for like multiple

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Speaker 2: Long way for that still to be a thing though,

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Speaker 2: Like the jo should have ended. Yeah, did you connect

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Speaker 2: over other things?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean we talked about a bunch of stuff over

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Speaker 1: Yeah, broke a bunch of stuff. Okay, connect Yeah, stuff.

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Speaker 1: All right, now we're going to ask her a bunch

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Speaker 1: of stuff when we call Samantha and try and get

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Speaker 1: the second date update for you. All right, Eric, here

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely please, And like I know, you guys normally

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Speaker 4: do like gift cards or something, but if you could

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Speaker 4: get her just a flight out, that would be great.

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Speaker 2: Let's down, Eric, have you looked at a radio station's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's three hundred Delta gift cards. Yeah, we'll work

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Speaker 1: on it. Let's just dial her number and see what

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Speaker 1: she has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey is

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Speaker 1: a Samantha. Yeah, hey, Samantha. What's up? This is Brook

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I may not listen.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we're on in your city. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're on in a lot of cities. Samantha show. Hi

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Speaker 2: a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And we do a segment here called a

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Speaker 1: second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners get in touch with you. After you went.

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Speaker 1: You went out really far from him. You flew three

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Speaker 5: Eric called you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, he thanks, You're fantastic.

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Speaker 4: That's so weird, really, I don't know, Like.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he went long ways to make sure

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Speaker 1: He played for a technically she went a long way

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Speaker 2: But you guys had a big connection, Like why would

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, this is like really awkward to talk

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Speaker 1: Us we are robots. It's so sorry. I loved it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're real.

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Speaker 1: We're real, and we're seriously trying to help out one

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Speaker 1: He does not know why you ran back to your

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, but like, did Eric tell you the story?

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Speaker 1: I mean, we heard about your guys are going to

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Speaker 1: taking way longer than expected, started to get late. He

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Speaker 1: That's all we really know.

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Speaker 2: He feels.

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Speaker 5: I had to go because he kept asking me to

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Speaker 2: Met, right, he said, he mentioned that he told you

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Speaker 5: He kept asking me, and I was like, Eric, I

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Speaker 5: and he was like pouting. He was like doing the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was making you feel guilty about it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm like, I don't even know you, like

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Speaker 5: you almost like you invited me here and your false pretenses.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's understandable.

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Speaker 1: We did not know that he made you feel that way.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, I don't know if Eric realizes he made

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Hey, I didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable. I

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Speaker 5: That I wasn't like answering your track staffer should say something, Oh.

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Speaker 1: All right, cool, all right, everybody, it's hard.

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Speaker 2: You're not a man of many words. Maybe you should

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Speaker 1: Were you drinking that night? Maybe you forgot that you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess. I mean, I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 4: think it's that rude to offer someone to not have

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Speaker 4: they don't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I said that I didn't want to stay.

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Speaker 5: So I'm actually really glad I got a hotel because

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Speaker 5: what kind of possession? What did that put me in?

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Speaker 2: You know, Oh, you paid for your own hotel?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, but I mean I had to stare better

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Speaker 4: room for you. I guess I didn't really go into

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Speaker 5: Yeah, whoa, I mean, I wouldn't even have done that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know you. I'm like single going into a

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Speaker 5: would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, well do you want to be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: I don't think that was what she meant.

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Speaker 2: I gotta say, although it is a.

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Speaker 1: Good question, would you have an answer for him? Samantha,

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Speaker 1: Stop it not like that.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to do that over the radio.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, the radio move wasn't good. Maybe you should text

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Speaker 2: I don't think that he was purposely trying to make

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Speaker 3: Coming from someone who has offered and flown girls out

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Speaker 1: No, absolutely not. You do your thing. It's all about communications.

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Speaker 1: Show them that gesture. Take the front door off of

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Speaker 2: I mean, Sam, maybe it just didn't cross his mind,

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Speaker 2: you know, like guys don't have to think about that

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, I mean I feel like I've just totally

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Speaker 4: But I mean, I'd still like to have a second chance.

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Speaker 2: Was that a sorry I heard in there?

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Speaker 1: I heard tell me about poop screwing. But let's call it.

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Speaker 1: Let's call it.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. No, this is just too weird. I feel

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Speaker 5: like it doesn't make sense to like have strangers I've

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it is one of those things you

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Speaker 1: Well, I just don't want this potential relationship to go

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Speaker 2: There's a whole page for it, Johnny. It seems like

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Speaker 1: How many of them actually fall in love?

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Speaker 1: They We wanted it to be one, okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean I really wanted to try all shake that

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Speaker 5: No, Eric, I think we're done here.

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Speaker 1: Samantha, because we would offer to pay for that meatball

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Speaker 5: I think I can afford a make a meet all

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Speaker 5: shake on my own.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we were talking to money bags.

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Speaker 2: Samantha makes her own meatballs. Jeffrey excuse me, broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: Well, that may have been the most cringe worthy moment

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Speaker 5: It would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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Speaker 4: Will do you want to be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: What if he's listening right now? I had to live

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Speaker 1: She's the one who said it. Honestly, thank god she

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Speaker 2: What happened to you? All? Rooting for love again?

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Speaker 1: He didn't even sound like he was into there for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't sound like he's a guy who's like

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Speaker 3: I don't know, to be a romance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I feel like he learned a

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Speaker 1: Make people feel comfortable. Yeah, I don't know if he

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Speaker 3: Yeah, his lessons like, next time ask her to be

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but we can help you learn some important life

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Speaker 1: lessons in your dating life.

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Speaker 2: You just make fun of you afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Sure, we'll do it all. Just email the show. We'll

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Speaker 1: call the person who isn't calling you back.

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Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning,