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All thanks to 11 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 2: the Live Nation. Ever been left waiting by the phone? 12 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Tanya, good morning, Welcome to the show. 13 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: How are you, hi, guys, I'm doing good. 14 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 2: How about you doing okay? So what's going on with 15 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 2: this guy Connor? I want to kind of understand here. 16 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 2: How did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates 17 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 2: that you've been on, and then where things are now? 18 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? So I met Connor. 19 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 3: Super cute by the way. 20 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: We met on an app. He asked me out for drinks. 21 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: We went. I think we had a pretty good time. 22 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: I will say we even went back to my place, okay, 23 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,839 Speaker 1: and we did oh gosh, it's the radio. 24 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 3: So I don't know. 25 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,479 Speaker 1: We did some fun things, some adult activities, right, So you. 26 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 2: Played like scrabble and you know maybe like UNO did 27 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 2: you play? 28 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 3: How do you know? 29 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 2: I will tell you something. You really need to get 30 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 2: to the bottom of how someone feels about the UNO 31 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,199 Speaker 2: rules before you date them, because people have different definitions 32 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: true about rules, and I follow the rules. I follow 33 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 2: the actual rules. I'll just have you know that. I'm 34 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: very rarely a rule follower. But don't you come around 35 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 2: and you're trying to stack a bunch of action cards 36 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: on me all at once. You can't do that anyway, 37 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 2: thanks to you. So you thought everything went well, you know, 38 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 2: and I would think so too. If a date kind 39 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 2: of winds up back at somebody's place, that's usual a 40 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: pretty good sign. 41 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I thought all signs would go. We 42 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: played a little UNO. I wanted to see him again. 43 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,919 Speaker 1: But yeah, literally as soon as he left my place, 44 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: the text stopped. Like he hasn't responded a single time, 45 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: so I'm totally in the dark. I thought we had 46 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: a great time and I would just love to know 47 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: what happened. 48 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense. I mean, we hear it several 49 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 2: times a week, and many of us have been through it, 50 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 2: where Calein and Keky have not, but some of us, 51 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: you know, have had that happen where you think everything 52 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 2: went really well and then the person you know doesn't 53 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 2: respond to you when you're like, well, was I on 54 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 2: a different date or what? So we're going to call 55 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 2: this guy Connor. We're going to ask these questions. You'll 56 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: be on the phone at the same time, and the 57 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: hope is that we get straighten this out and set 58 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 2: you up on another day that we pay for. 59 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 1: Okay, sound good? 60 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: Hey Tatia, yep, welcome back. Let's call this guy Connor. 61 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 2: You met out one of the apps. You went on 62 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 2: a date, the date went well, well enough that you 63 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 2: wind up back at your place right, and then some 64 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 2: stuff happens and then you haven't heard from the guy 65 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 2: since then. And it's like, wait a minute, the day 66 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 2: went well enough that it ended that way. I would 67 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: think I'd hear from this guy again. There was chemistry, 68 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: I guess, and yet nothing, no response is to anything 69 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 2: that's correct. 70 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: Feeling pretty feeling pretty lame? 71 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I get it. Let's you're not lame. But 72 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 2: let's see what Connor has to say, we'll call him now, 73 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 2: good luck. Hello, Hi is this Connor conn Connor, good morning. 74 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, 75 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 2: the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you 76 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now and I 77 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue. 78 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 3: With the call. 79 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 2: Said, okay, Wit you averages a second. Uh, yeah, that's fine, 80 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 2: Thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a 81 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: woman who said she recently went out with you. Her 82 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 2: name is Tanya. Do you remember meeting Tanya on the 83 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 2: apps and you guys went on a date? 84 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 3: Oh I remember Tanya? Man? 85 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well, she reached out to us and told 86 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 2: us that she had met you and enjoyed going out 87 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 2: with you and thought the date went really well and 88 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 2: expected to hear from you for another date and says 89 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: that she hasn't, and so she feels like you're ghosting her. 90 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: It sounds like maybe you are. What's your version of 91 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: the story, Well, what happened? 92 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, Look, I got no problem talking to you about 93 00:03:55,120 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 3: this because she's bogus. She's absolutely bogus. How is she always? 94 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 3: I'll tell you right now. We went back to her 95 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 3: place after the date. You know, things went well, and I, uh, 96 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 3: I did stuff to her, you know, good stuff, and 97 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 3: she did not do anything to me. In fact, when 98 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 3: I was done doing all that delightful stuff to her 99 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: that I did, okay, she asked. She told me she 100 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 3: was tired and asked me to leave. 101 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 2: You didn't play, you know, persona only one person getting anything? Wow? Okay, 102 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 2: so you like a good gentleman, would you? You handled 103 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: business first for your never right, And then it was 104 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: like okay, well that was fun, so yeah no, and 105 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 2: then she's like, no, that's good, you can leave now. 106 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 3: That was exactly what happened. And that's why it's bogus. 107 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 3: It's ridiculous. 108 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 2: You're smiling because I know this happens the other way around, 109 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 2: and nobody he's happy about it. So nobody should be 110 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 2: happy about this what. 111 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: You Sometimes sometimes you could, you could be so delightful 112 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: that it's like, let's just let it be this. 113 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 2: So I'm being penalized for being so delightful. You know, 114 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 2: you're too good for your own good? Is that what 115 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: I say? So I should just do a worst job. Well, no, 116 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 2: are you doing it only to get something in return? No? 117 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: Actually no, but it does feel kind of like and 118 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: I get it. It happens to the other the way around, 119 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 2: but it's like, oh yeah, many a time, so you 120 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 2: don't care that position. Yeah, well, I've heard to mention 121 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: Connor that Tanya is here with us on the phone. 122 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 2: Very forgetful, Tanya, you left the part out where you 123 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 2: know it was a one person game, it was not 124 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 2: a two player game well played, I mean. 125 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: Maybe, but first of all, delightful is an interesting word 126 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 1: to use in Connor. Hey, yeah, I would just echo 127 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: what was already said. You only do stuff to women 128 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: if you know you'll get something back in return. That's 129 00:05:59,279 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: pretty gross. 130 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 2: What was wrong with delightful? Are you suggesting that it 131 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 2: was not as good as he thought it was? 132 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: I mean, look, it was good for two people who 133 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: just met, but it wasn't delightfuls like a bit much, 134 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: I think, right, really, so. 135 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: Forget you called us trying to figure out where he is. 136 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 2: So you obviously liked him, so let's just be fair 137 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 2: here and not minimize his efforts. 138 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: I think, Look, I think it's safe to say that 139 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: we just probably aren't a match if this is how 140 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: you're going to play things, Connor, but like happy to 141 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: have him there is I think more so I just 142 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: wanted answers, and so now I've definitely got. 143 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 3: Him ver ridiculous. You know how I'm going to play things. 144 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 3: You did nothing for me and you used me, and 145 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 3: you know what, I'm not interested in seeing you again. 146 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, okay, well whatever. Men do that to 147 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 1: women all the time, So glad to be rid of you. 148 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 2: I mean, that may be true, but everything here apparently 149 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: was good enough. 150 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 3: I tell you. 151 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: I want to remind you you called us, asked us 152 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 2: to find this guys and link you back up. I mean, 153 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 2: he's disappointed that he felt like you didn't care about 154 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 2: how he felt. And again, I think a lot of 155 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 2: guys need to hear this because there are men out 156 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: there that are very uh inconsiderate in this regard. So 157 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 2: I'm not saying this only happens one way, but it's 158 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: for you to be like, oh whatever now. I mean, 159 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: the guy wanted to He wanted some delightful too, and 160 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: that's fair. 161 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: And maybe we would have gotten there if we would 162 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: have hung out a second time. But like, I don't 163 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: think you can expect like perfect like reciprocity every single time. 164 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: So well, any women listening who are interested Connor available. 165 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 2: If it had been the other way around, Tanya and 166 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 2: you guys had done this and then you do something 167 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: to him and then he gets up and leaves, you 168 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: would be irked about it too. You probably wouldn't be 169 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 2: calling us asking us to find him. Yes, maybe, but 170 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 2: like I. 171 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: Seel, kind of like most of I don't know. I 172 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: think a lot of women can relate like that's most 173 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: of dating for women, like doing that and then waiting 174 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: to see. 175 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 2: So, I don't know Connor anything else you want to say, Yeah, goodbye? 176 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 2: Are you stand at home?