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Speaker 1: Dating older women. It's like adult braces, because you're gonna

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Speaker 1: get to a point in your life where it's like, gosh,

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Speaker 1: I probably need it. I know it's good for me,

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Speaker 1: but it's also gonna be weird because everyone around me

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and keep it a secret, you know,

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Speaker 1: keep my mouth shut. Literally. That is a younger man's

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Speaker 1: perspective on dating up above his age. But one day,

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Speaker 1: one day, I might get to the point where I

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Speaker 1: need adult braces and I need an older woman. But

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners says he's brave enough to admit

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Speaker 1: it right here on our show, and even braver to

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Speaker 1: admit that she's not calling him back after their date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's talk to him. Nate, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: You're very brave.

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Speaker 4: Why is this brave?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: Why is like that is such a weird for her

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Speaker 4: to take on it? To deal with them, It's such

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Speaker 4: a weird thing to say, Like how much older is

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Speaker 4: this woman? I mean, I guess if she's thirty years older,

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Speaker 4: then that's a yeah, that's a thing to tax which.

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Speaker 1: Your retirement home? Did you meet this?

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Speaker 3: I didn't meet her at a retirement home. I met

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Speaker 4: App okay, okay? And what's your guys' age gap? Do

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Speaker 4: you know?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm thirty two and she's forty nine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's not.

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Speaker 4: Like you're a twenty two year old. That would be weird. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: only because like, what do you want to do with

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Speaker 4: a twenty two year olds?

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Speaker 1: Are kind of which did the matter? It's seventeen years

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Speaker 4: That's a big gap, but you know it's not undoable.

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Speaker 1: Notice what's her name? By the way, her name is

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Speaker 1: Laurie okay? And how did you find Lauri online?

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Speaker 3: Well? I decided, after a long time of just using

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Speaker 3: dating apps like with people around my own age, that

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Speaker 3: I needed to branch out, okay, because I was getting

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Speaker 4: So what do you think like an older woman has

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Speaker 3: Well, obviously experienced wisdom, but frankly, I just wanted something new.

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Speaker 4: And there's probably not much pressure for like babies and

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Speaker 4: marriage because I could be her daughter. That's done.

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Speaker 1: Actually might be going out with your mom.

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Speaker 4: I mean no, my mom is not Laurie. Thank god.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe online she is. Okay, so you went out

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Speaker 3: We know we want to have to eat. We had

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Speaker 3: a nice time? Good?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Really?

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Speaker 4: Like what'd you guys connect over?

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Speaker 3: We just sort of talked. She actually invited me out

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Speaker 3: She was like, I'm going to treat you.

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Speaker 1: You didn't feel emasculated at all?

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Speaker 3: No, I mean I'm a pretty progressive guy, you know

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Speaker 1: Can you say that she was successful? What do you

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Speaker 3: She's a businesswoman, she's like, is one of like a

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Speaker 4: Dude, that's awesome.

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Speaker 3: I am a valet.

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Speaker 4: Okay, she's a boss. You're an employee. Did you notice

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Speaker 3: You know. I initially I was worried about that, but

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Speaker 4: Was there anything like sexy about that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she plays video games, Brooke. That is sexy to

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Speaker 4: You know, but I mean to her, it probably feels

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Speaker 4: She just knew what it was.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we were just talking about what we were into,

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Speaker 3: and I lately I've been playing a lot of Rocket

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Speaker 4: it's actually a card game, or like I buy it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Nate tell Us, was there any like weird

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Speaker 3: I mean, like the waiter thought it was weird. The

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's kind of rude.

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Speaker 1: Imagine Nate, She's like drawing with crayons? What you do?

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Speaker 1: So how did the night end?

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Speaker 3: Well? I invited her back to my place, which she declined,

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Speaker 4: Oh oh, I told you if she thinks of him

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Speaker 1: It's like I mean, back in the day, I used

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Speaker 4: Was I born in the nineteen fifties or forties or

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Speaker 1: Let's you left the date? She went home. What's happened

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Speaker 3: Well, I've been trying to get a second date, but

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Speaker 3: she's like really busy. I mean, she's got this crazy

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Speaker 4: Did you say yes or no to Tuesday at.

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Speaker 3: Two I said no because I'm at work. I mean,

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Speaker 4: And then she's just been elusive when you've asked her out.

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Speaker 4: You don't think it's just that she's not interested because

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Speaker 1: I don't see a single wrong thing that what she

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Speaker 3: She wouldn't need me at all, though. The thing I

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Speaker 1: Me, yeah, she pursued him on the app, like she

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Speaker 1: I don't okay, I don't appreciate that attitude. Coming into

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Speaker 1: the second part. We're going to call this lovely, mature

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Speaker 1: Whatever the right thing to call her is. We're going

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Speaker 1: all right, Hold on second date update. We have a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a big gap in size.

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Speaker 1: They're not connecting afterwards, and I know the girls in

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Speaker 1: video games and Rocket League and that was a turnoff

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Speaker 1: for the record, I am the most single person I know.

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Speaker 1: That's my choice. Maybe that's how cool. No woman holds

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Speaker 4: No one's ever free, Yeah, well Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Just the point that she's reaching out, still engaging him,

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Speaker 1: asking to see him again. I mean that must mean something, right.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, like me to some degree. But she hasn't

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Speaker 4: Tex she's busy. Okay, she's busy. She's a career woman.

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Speaker 1: Let's just give it a shot. We're speculating forever. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we need to call and find out. I've never called

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Speaker 4: When we're on the phone with her, she is going

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Speaker 1: Okay, I won't say it.

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Speaker 4: Do we need Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: I'm not crossing any body parts. I won't say it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, is this slurry.

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Speaker 2: Speaking calling?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Sorry, you're on the radio right now. Your voice

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Speaker 2: Why.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Uh, I know why you have some

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Speaker 1: weird No, I'm sorry. We're show called broken Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why are you calling?

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Speaker 4: It's a great question, Laurie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We do a segment called the Second Date Update,

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Speaker 1: and that's where we help our listeners who have gone

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Speaker 1: out with somebody hook up with them one more time,

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Speaker 1: go out with them one more time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you have. I think you might

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Speaker 2: have the wrong number. I'm so sorry the.

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Speaker 1: Number are you? Are you the LORI that went up

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Speaker 1: with a guy recently named Nate to dinner? Oh god,

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Speaker 1: a little younger than you.

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Speaker 2: What, I'm sorry?

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Speaker 4: How do you know this? You are having a reaction

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Speaker 4: right now to that name.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, We're not trying to like make this awkward for you,

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Speaker 1: but Nate reached out to our show and told us

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Speaker 1: see you again.

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Speaker 4: But oh god, he really liked you. Oh no, okay, okay, why.

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Speaker 5: I'm well, I just I don't I think something got

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Speaker 5: like some liars have been crossed here?

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I'm just I feel bad because I had

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Speaker 4: You met him on the dating app, right, Like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: Oh, so you're just looking for a fling.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: I'm married.

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Speaker 4: Wait wait what?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow?

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Speaker 4: What do you mean you're married? Why do you want

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Speaker 2: I don't mean to be on a dating the dating part.

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Speaker 2: I play on this app and you can, you can

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Speaker 2: look for friendship. I was, you know, I put on

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so you were on the wrong section or he.

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Speaker 4: Was on the wrong section.

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Speaker 1: Did you did that come up during your date that

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 2: I I guess I didn't. I wasn't like explicitly saying,

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Speaker 6: I just what's happening is I have a step son

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Speaker 7: You know, some friends of mine use it, and they said,

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Speaker 4: I don't get it.

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Speaker 7: They came across Nate's profile and I saw he's a

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Speaker 4: Like, why wouldn't you just be out front and ask him,

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Speaker 4: like hey, and tell him what's going on as soon

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean he we were talking about, you know,

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Speaker 2: And so Nate brought up that he likes to play

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Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, I know Rocket League because

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Speaker 4: Oh that's you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well this is clearing up a lot of things.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what to say other than we

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Speaker 3: Oh great, okay, God.

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Speaker 4: Wouldn't that be good because now it's clear Nate, I mean.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, I think this is I mean, I I

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Speaker 2: don't I can't believe he wouldn't just talk to me,

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Speaker 1: Now's your chance to do it, Nate.

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Speaker 3: You there, Yeah, I'm here. I'm in shocked.

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Speaker 4: Nate, did you have any idea she was looking to

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Speaker 3: No, And I'm regretting calling the radio about it.

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Speaker 4: That's a little dress.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think I bought you dinner?

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Speaker 3: I bought you dinner.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't a date. I didn't want you to think

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Speaker 4: You know, you don't want a dinner for interviews. Like

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Speaker 4: I've never taken a babysitter out to dinner because I

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Speaker 4: I've never been like, hey, is there a young thirty

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Speaker 1: That just seems you should give it a try. It

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Speaker 4: Well, that's weird it doesn't because she's here.

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Speaker 2: Well, on the app, we were chatting before the date

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Speaker 2: and he was saying how he was interested in, you know,

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Speaker 2: in other business and e commerce and so I have

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Speaker 2: experience in that, and I thought, you know, I'll scratch

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Speaker 4: I think he meant literally and.

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Speaker 1: Some actual skin to skin contact.

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Speaker 4: Huh.

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Speaker 1: I can't see that, Like, I can see why there's

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Speaker 1: a miscimmunity and Nate, are we clearing things up for

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Speaker 3: So just to be clear, the two PM thing, that's

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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, you have to hang out with him on

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Speaker 2: No, my son's bought from school at that time, so

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Speaker 2: you know, I just thought it would be the perfect

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Speaker 4: A perfect time before your husband gets home. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I still but okay, No, you can go to my

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Speaker 5: profile right now, I says, looking for friendship.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hot tip. Men don't read the profiles.

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Speaker 3: That just usually means you're not looking for something serious.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right, I mean, maybe include a picture of you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I'll do that.

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Speaker 3: I will do that.

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Speaker 1: Well, hold on, we still have Nate on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us here. Maybe there's some sort of deal that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, are you still looking for like helping

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Speaker 1: He's interested.

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Speaker 3: I'll pick money over the forehead kiss any.

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Speaker 1: Day, don't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so sorry about the forehead kiss. I honestly

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Speaker 4: I do that to all my babysitters and people that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't every day when we leave it's super awkward.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm I'm absolutely willing, you know, if the

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Speaker 2: Know, different tips and everything. If you can help me

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Speaker 4: Son, that's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: What do you saying, Nate, there's once of a lifetime opportunity.

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Speaker 3: You know, I've got your number. Let's work something out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So now I actually paying for a real business

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Speaker 1: Yeah I guess so yeah, Well look at that. And Nate,

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Speaker 3: We go you know what, I'll take it.

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Speaker 4: Hey, make sure to put us on your LinkedIn. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we'll do it.

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Speaker 1: Will be a reference for.

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Speaker 4: You, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: We get a lot of text in seventy five nine

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Speaker 1: two from people saying they meet friends on these dating

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Speaker 4: Time, dating apps, but you go on the friend part,

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Speaker 1: Meet friends on the dating part two. According to our listeners,

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Speaker 1: it's more common than you'd think. Should we set up

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Speaker 1: a friend part Maybe we should set up a friend

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Speaker 1: seeking profile for Brooke on Tinder. Sketchy dude, to have

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Speaker 4: Yeah, or just claim I was just hiring him for

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Speaker 1: Now you get it. Then you'll end up on some

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so sketchy. All that is so sketchy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well it's not for everybody, but if you ever

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Speaker 1: do go out on a date, please just let's save

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Speaker 1: it for the dates. Yeah, we're not doing the friend

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Speaker 1: match online for this second. Yeah, your friend's not calling

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry that hurts more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, painful. No, if you want help, can up your

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Speaker 1: romantic live email the show. We'll call that person wasn't

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning