Speaker 1: It's with Jenny Garth and Tori Spelling. Hi you guys.
Speaker 1: We are back with another episode of O two one
Speaker 1: OMG with my favorite people, Jenny Garth and Sissony. Hi
Speaker 1: you guys, ladies. So happy to say is pretty ladies happy,
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Speaker 1: nobody knows, but we're happy that you're with us, that's
Speaker 1: for sure. Gosh so much you guys. The outpouring of
Speaker 1: love for our podcast has been amazing, and I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna say it, thanks for all of our stars. You
Speaker 1: like us, You really like us. Oh, the stars are
Speaker 1: so shiny. It's really nice. We're trying, we're trying really
Speaker 1: hard to do a good podcast through guys, and you know,
Speaker 1: we show up every week, we do our homework and
Speaker 1: sisanse always so happy to see us, and we're happy
Speaker 1: to see you guys. So that's a baby on board.
Speaker 1: She has fifty million jobs and look at her. She
Speaker 1: has youth on her side. And you know what I
Speaker 1: realized today is that my weeks of pregnancy are matching
Speaker 1: up with the week that we're on that episode. So
Speaker 1: stop it. So today we're talking about episode eighteen, and
Speaker 1: I am eighteen weeks pregnant. Crazy stuff happens all the time.
Speaker 1: That's just weird like that, like little little signs that
Speaker 1: you're exactly where you're supposed to be. Thank you, Thank
Speaker 1: your husband for shooting it that day. Oh my god. Okay,
Speaker 1: eighteen weeks ago. Well this was episode, like you said, eighteen,
Speaker 1: it's only a test a date March nine. The synopsis
Speaker 1: is Brenda is filled with horror when she discovers a
Speaker 1: lump in her breast, which calls for a biopsy. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: the upcoming S A T S put extra pressure on everyone,
Speaker 1: especially Andrea and Steam. Things heat up during a study
Speaker 1: night together when an intimate moment happens between the two.
Speaker 1: Don't done. Yeah, this episode started out with you know,
Speaker 1: S A T frenzy, it's a test, the S A
Speaker 1: T S. Everybody was stressing out about it, and quickly
Speaker 1: kind of shifted gears into a different kind of test,
Speaker 1: which was Brenda's um for rest examination test and she
Speaker 1: had to go get a test at the hospital. So
Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting the way they will have
Speaker 1: these two storylines together. It was very clever that I'm
Speaker 1: not going to allow you. Guys, this is the episode
Speaker 1: I was kind of dreading coming up, um for obvious reasons.
Speaker 1: With Shannon. It's you know, I know everyone thought about
Speaker 1: it when when she had cancer. This was really hard
Speaker 1: for me to watch, Like I had to actually use it.
Speaker 1: Cry was a couple of times because it was just
Speaker 1: too too close, man, too weirdly sinked in a not
Speaker 1: good way. You know what is that called? That's like foreshadowing.
Speaker 1: It was foreshadowing synchronicity. But yeah, but with outcome, obviously,
Speaker 1: Chand's a warrior, she's a fighter, and she did you know,
Speaker 1: she's resilient, she she bounces back. She's a fighter. And
Speaker 1: I think Brenda is a fighter too, So those things
Speaker 1: lined up in a positive way. But um, we've never
Speaker 1: talked to Shannon about it, but I can't help but
Speaker 1: know that must have thought about like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: only all these years ago, thirty years ago, gosh, who
Speaker 1: would have thought that you know, this would come true
Speaker 1: thirty years later. Yeah. Yeah, we've never really said can
Speaker 1: you believe that episode where Brenda thought she had a
Speaker 1: lump and now you know that, Yeah, we've never really
Speaker 1: addressed that. We should and of all the characters, you
Speaker 1: know that. I mean obviously, I mean it lines up
Speaker 1: that they would have done it with Brenda, you know,
Speaker 1: one of the twins. But just the way it worked out, Um,
Speaker 1: it's just kind of it's shocking. Yeah, I mean, even
Speaker 1: without this sort of like weird synchronicity, the episode was
Speaker 1: very dramatic and very like serious undertones. Yeah, thank goodness,
Speaker 1: we had a little bit of comedic relief with um
Speaker 1: Steve and Andrea. Thank you Ian Srin for always flying
Speaker 1: us with that A little bed flipped that. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was very very excited to plant his lips on Andrea.
Speaker 1: You know what I love the most I got to
Speaker 1: say is I mean, I'm gonna be honest. When we
Speaker 1: filmed this episode, I thought to myself, Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I mean I think I was like seventeen, like we
Speaker 1: were teenagers, you and I. And I was like, I've
Speaker 1: never checked my breaths, Like I would never even think
Speaker 1: of it, you know, I didn't. I didn't know like
Speaker 1: this can happen to a sixteen year old. And I
Speaker 1: remember because we filmed that, like we had to do
Speaker 1: it on the bed and they taught us. Um, I
Speaker 1: definitely like that. After that, I always checked from that
Speaker 1: day forward, and I think it's important, like teenagers watching
Speaker 1: this today that are finding nine out two one oh now,
Speaker 1: um too, it's relevant, like it's never too early to
Speaker 1: start and it's such a great message and um, I
Speaker 1: just think it's so important as women agree. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean we were young, and I'm sure doing that on
Speaker 1: the bed Kelly and Donna and Brenda was really awkward,
Speaker 1: like you know, the crew guys all standing around, and
Speaker 1: I'm sure that was uncomfortable but very very embarrassing. But also,
Speaker 1: like you're saying, like super informative, very very helpful to
Speaker 1: so many young women out there. And I mean I
Speaker 1: mean hopefully, and I'm sure it did, but hopefully the
Speaker 1: show just really helped a lot of people with this
Speaker 1: that the way they wrote it in was really creative
Speaker 1: to They had Kelly reading it out of a magazine,
Speaker 1: which is what you did when you were in high
Speaker 1: school and your friends were over at your house. You
Speaker 1: guys have through magazines and take the quizzes. And it
Speaker 1: was because they then had the shot of the visual,
Speaker 1: you know, like people could actually see what we were
Speaker 1: talking about. Just a really home like this is how
Speaker 1: you do it, you know. But to Jen's point, like,
Speaker 1: keep in mind, you guys, we were three teenage girls,
Speaker 1: all three of us were in our team still, and
Speaker 1: imagine doing this in front of, predominantly at the time,
Speaker 1: a male crew like you were saying, like, do you
Speaker 1: remember what we felt like? Not like the actual physical
Speaker 1: part felt like, but like mentally, you know. I was
Speaker 1: just I was watching it and I was thinking, oh
Speaker 1: my god, Kelly is unbuttoning her What is happening. She's
Speaker 1: unbuttoning her shirt. I see there's all of her. And
Speaker 1: I was getting really nervous. And then I thought, Okay,
Speaker 1: grow up, she's she's just gonna do a breast exam.
Speaker 1: And I felt like the characters really, even though we
Speaker 1: were probably super uncomfortable, uh, we all did a really
Speaker 1: good job of like not laughing. Like you know, there
Speaker 1: was a little levity in it with your line tour
Speaker 1: about aren't you glad you were a deoda in or something,
Speaker 1: But I felt I felt like we delivered the message
Speaker 1: as well as we could in that moment. There are
Speaker 1: probably some giggles off camera because we were teen teen
Speaker 1: girls having to touch our boobs on camera. Um, so
Speaker 1: it's uncomfortable. I mean definitely, you know, I think it's
Speaker 1: important that people do that behind the scenes and something
Speaker 1: you would do with your friends if you're curious, but
Speaker 1: in front of, you know, a whole crew, Like how
Speaker 1: many crew members do you think would be on set
Speaker 1: during something like that, just like right around us, like
Speaker 1: the core, the grips, the electricians, the proper people, but
Speaker 1: many people at least at least at least So we're
Speaker 1: just trying to set the stage and you know, three
Speaker 1: teenage girls, this is all new to us. It's our
Speaker 1: season one, you know, it wasn't a hit yet, and
Speaker 1: we're like, oh my god, what is happening under the
Speaker 1: spotlights of those huge, huge lights they had us under
Speaker 1: in a really bright room Kelly's bedroom, which was so
Speaker 1: that was a lot like it's all the red and
Speaker 1: the pink and the artwork of herself. Who's that is that? Kelly? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That's that? Or those are pictures of Kelly on Kelly's
Speaker 1: walls doing it in front of a crew at forty
Speaker 1: seven years old, and like, you know, I can't imagine
Speaker 1: seventeen doing it, Like, oh wow, that's more awkward than
Speaker 1: a love scene in a bed, really I I don't
Speaker 1: think so. I hadn't done a love scene yet at
Speaker 1: this point, so this was the closest for me at least. Okay,
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I hadn't done a love scene before.
Speaker 1: That's a kiss that wasn't like a kiss in the
Speaker 1: garage come on different. It was different. I don't know
Speaker 1: neither of us. I don't we hadn't any of us.
Speaker 1: Even Brenda hadn't done like love scenes on the show,
Speaker 1: but Andrea Steve did. I keep coming back to it
Speaker 1: because I'm sorry. It was interesting. My jaw dropped when
Speaker 1: we did b h n oh two one out. I
Speaker 1: don't know who brought it up, but the writers I think,
Speaker 1: brought it up that Andrea and Steve had had this
Speaker 1: love scene. And I don't think we remember this, and
Speaker 1: we were like that never happened, that they never got
Speaker 1: together that, but hello, they did. That's it? Is this
Speaker 1: it or does it go further? I'm very curious to
Speaker 1: Andrea and Steve hook up again. I don't think one
Speaker 1: time special events one and one and done. We like
Speaker 1: special events, limited special events, special little special relationship. But
Speaker 1: she did look super cute. She did look super cute
Speaker 1: there on the bed with her took off her glasses
Speaker 1: hot for teacher, look like without your glasses. And he's all,
Speaker 1: I mean manly in in his white tight T shirt
Speaker 1: is tight acid washed jeans. He's just so confident and like,
Speaker 1: oh no, I think I I as the fire of
Speaker 1: that age. I'd be like, hi, so burly. I always
Speaker 1: thought his room. Didn't he have like money behind him
Speaker 1: on the giant dollar bills or something dollar bills. He
Speaker 1: loved the money. But he was hot in that scene.
Speaker 1: And then when she left he was sexy, so she
Speaker 1: she was super sexy. Yeah right, and yes, of course
Speaker 1: he like flipped over his bed and like laid down
Speaker 1: on the couch. And then when he's laying on the couch,
Speaker 1: right before that they cut to the next scene, you
Speaker 1: can see him going like like doing the funniest like
Speaker 1: like it was so cute and so iron like it
Speaker 1: just you know, that's like one of those so many
Speaker 1: times with um with I in it was Steve. Their
Speaker 1: characters are so blended to me, like because he brought
Speaker 1: so much of his humor and his like just love
Speaker 1: ability to that character. I really want to meet him.
Speaker 1: I really want him to come on the point we
Speaker 1: want you to to. I saw this he posted. He
Speaker 1: says he wants to do it, and he's active on
Speaker 1: social media. He posted this video the other day of
Speaker 1: his lunch, and I watched the whole thing and he
Speaker 1: was making avocado toast with a poached egg. I watched
Speaker 1: that entire thing. His voice is just so soothing, and
Speaker 1: he was just so excited for his life. Was like watching,
Speaker 1: you know, one of those like late night infomercial. Stop watching.
Speaker 1: Like if if he had had that avocado and egg
Speaker 1: toast for sale, you know what I actually was like,
Speaker 1: is he going to put a link to the egg,
Speaker 1: the egg, the hard boiled egg. Yeah, he had a
Speaker 1: machine that makes that poaches the egg for him. He
Speaker 1: doesn't have to put so, you know, irons a total entrepreneur.
Speaker 1: If he was thinking straight, he should have put a
Speaker 1: link to that because he would have sold them. Because
Speaker 1: I was in I was like this with hard boiled eggs.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm I would buy hard boiled eggs.
Speaker 1: It was no, it was a poached egg, but he
Speaker 1: overcooked it. He did. He did so slow and then
Speaker 1: what one broke a little bit, and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, good for him. This is real, this is real,
Speaker 1: which it never happens on Instagram. He didn't go back.
Speaker 1: He kiss feed you know dad life, but I for
Speaker 1: sure definitely long dam video. Now I know how I'm
Speaker 1: going to spend the rest of my afternoon. Thanks guys.
Speaker 1: Going back to a lot of olive oil though he
Speaker 1: poured on it. Yeah, I think it went a little
Speaker 1: overboard the end, but it's fine. The funny thing is
Speaker 1: I was watching, I was like, God, are they our
Speaker 1: pennant and and me, I'm gonna eat this? And I
Speaker 1: was like nervous because I was like for young kids,
Speaker 1: it was very adults. He had some salt and some
Speaker 1: it was a lot not by the video stopped talking
Speaker 1: about the sucking avocado tost video. I'm done. Sorry, Sorry,
Speaker 1: Remember we were talking about all those like the five
Speaker 1: stars we had and all, yeah, all the people lost
Speaker 1: them just like that to the show. Sorry, I'm hungry.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about the opening of the show,
Speaker 1: just because there was just win particular one moment that
Speaker 1: was like whoa, um, it's the nineties. There there's a
Speaker 1: kid sitting outside the school before we But if Ford
Speaker 1: ever really starts and he has the biggest, weirdest contraption
Speaker 1: on his lap. I don't know what it looks like
Speaker 1: a typewriter, but ginormous. And I'm not guessing that was
Speaker 1: like the first ever laptop made ever by man. It's
Speaker 1: like it was like like a caveman laptop. It was.
Speaker 1: It was so huge. It definitely caught my eye. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I had to like stop, stop the thing and rewind
Speaker 1: and watch it rewind. Don't know, go back? What do
Speaker 1: you say these days? Um? And then also another moment
Speaker 1: in the show that brought me right back was that
Speaker 1: when when Carol is in the kitchen and she has
Speaker 1: a giant phone book. Do you guys see that? Like
Speaker 1: we missed the giant phone by enormous yellow page and
Speaker 1: they don't have that anymore. They don't have phone books anymore.
Speaker 1: Where did all the phone books go? Isn't that sad?
Speaker 1: I remember as a little kid, as a toddler, you
Speaker 1: didn't take around booster seats and stuff, and you would
Speaker 1: go into restaurants and they would bring out their phone
Speaker 1: book and they would put it on the kid. You
Speaker 1: would sit on its table or a booth. Not crazy.
Speaker 1: And also there was that joke too, We're not the joke,
Speaker 1: It's not a joke something about like I could listen
Speaker 1: to him read the phone book. Oh yeah, Like that
Speaker 1: means like somebody's just so good. You just want to
Speaker 1: You don't care what they're saying, You just want to
Speaker 1: listen to them. What would be the two thousand twenty
Speaker 1: one version and that nobody talks to was gonna Dictionary?
Speaker 1: But even that's like everything is digital. I could listen
Speaker 1: to him read read it all day long. Yeah, there
Speaker 1: you go. But yeah, Brandon says right out right out
Speaker 1: of the gate, you can't study for the s a
Speaker 1: t S. He's very advent about that, right, He's like says,
Speaker 1: you can't study. You can but off for the s
Speaker 1: A t S. Did you take that SAT S? No,
Speaker 1: to him, I did horrible. Like I did so bad
Speaker 1: that I had to take it again in hopes that
Speaker 1: you get like a higher score, and it was like
Speaker 1: forty points higher. And I was like, Okay, that's a
Speaker 1: lot this acting thing works out. Now, that's a lot
Speaker 1: of forty points, my girls. I mean, because that's the thing.
Speaker 1: You can take it three times now and you like
Speaker 1: pick your best score. But now colleges aren't even using
Speaker 1: SAT scores for acceptably Yeah. Thing in the past. That's
Speaker 1: going to be a thing of the past, unless you're
Speaker 1: going for like, you know, a doctor, like some a doctor,
Speaker 1: you know, if you're studying that. I think they don't
Speaker 1: even look at test scores anymore. They didn't for my
Speaker 1: daughter that applied this year. She did. She she was
Speaker 1: given the option. You can either you know, send in
Speaker 1: your chest results or you don't have to just send
Speaker 1: in a do all the other things that you have
Speaker 1: to do to apply and write a really good letter.
Speaker 1: So like, yeah, I know, sis notes, we have to
Speaker 1: take notes. That's going to happen to us one day
Speaker 1: and me sooner than year. Oh my god, No, my
Speaker 1: kid just turned guys, and I'm having a real hard
Speaker 1: time with her. You know, I felt that on your Instagram.
Speaker 1: I really feel like if you took a trip down
Speaker 1: memory lane with all those pictures, oh my god, the
Speaker 1: cutest pictures ever finding all day you guys. I don't
Speaker 1: know what was wrong with me. It was really weird.
Speaker 1: But I'm not sure what it is. You guys. I turned,
Speaker 1: you know, forty, and like it was okay, now forty
Speaker 1: seven and I'm like, it's fine. He turned thirteen, didn't
Speaker 1: have a big deal he turned fourteen, and it was
Speaker 1: as if my world ended. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: I keep looking at old pictures of him. I keep crying.
Speaker 1: He walks into the room and I get emotional and
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't believe this because he's so big now,
Speaker 1: he's just like a yeng man all of a sudden.
Speaker 1: But it it really um oh god, I'm gonna start crying.
Speaker 1: It was the first time that this has ever hit me,
Speaker 1: that that chapter is over, like it's it's finality. It
Speaker 1: really is like the baby making the baby, little babies
Speaker 1: them as toddlers, you know, and Bow two weeks so
Speaker 1: my first and my last are ten years apart. In
Speaker 1: eleven days, so March second to March fourteen, and Bow
Speaker 1: turned four and then Liam turned fourteen, and it's just
Speaker 1: like I know, I mean, I know you know it
Speaker 1: to Jen, and it's just like you look at little babies.
Speaker 1: We look at you like you're embarking on this journey again,
Speaker 1: and it's so amazing, and it's something that's you know,
Speaker 1: it's a closed chapter in our lives and we can't
Speaker 1: go back. And my kids keep saying, but Mom, you'll
Speaker 1: be a grandma one day. And you can hold all
Speaker 1: the babies. And I'm like, yeah, and I'm grateful, but
Speaker 1: wait till your way, till your baby turns fourteen, you're
Speaker 1: going to be a hot mess. Are you trying to
Speaker 1: break her? Right now? You're getting me, I know, because
Speaker 1: I think you know I'm a crier. Don't do it.
Speaker 1: It's so awful, And you're right like that, But I
Speaker 1: missed the babies, and I miss all the fun of
Speaker 1: being a mom to little people and chasing them. And
Speaker 1: it's really a hard transition, and as you get older
Speaker 1: to think, oh, I'm never okay. That's something that I've
Speaker 1: really loved and valued and cherished and I'm never going
Speaker 1: to get to have that again. But then you have
Speaker 1: many things you could say that about rights you have
Speaker 1: to do. You have to sort of like reset and
Speaker 1: look ahead at being a grandparent and how exciting that's
Speaker 1: gonna be. Granny Tori? Can they call like that? You're youngest,
Speaker 1: it's still so young. You have grand names? Do you
Speaker 1: know your grandma name is yet? I think her should
Speaker 1: be Tata. That means boobies. Why are you like it?
Speaker 1: For you? I'm gonna be tatas was actually my grandpa's name,
Speaker 1: that's what we called our grandpa. Was sorry, the Hispanic
Speaker 1: name grandfather probably not the right episode. Sorry, But okay,
Speaker 1: why don't you know what, Let's let's regroup. Let's regroup,
Speaker 1: got some tissue um, and let's come back. We still
Speaker 1: need to cover more of the s A T storyline.
Speaker 1: And and then I have questions about how when Brenda
Speaker 1: went to the doctor and how the doctor was just
Speaker 1: like pooh pooed the mom and was like, you need
Speaker 1: to leave, and I need to talk to your underage
Speaker 1: daughter alone. So a lot of questions about let's talk
Speaker 1: about that when we come come back. Yeah. So in
Speaker 1: this show, Kelly's reading out of the article in the
Speaker 1: magazine when they're doing the breast exam and she says
Speaker 1: one out of nine women will get breast cancer. That
Speaker 1: was in so I was curious, what, you know, what
Speaker 1: has happened over all these years? Have we gone better?
Speaker 1: Have we gotten worse? So in two thousand one, it's
Speaker 1: now one out of eight women we'll get breast cancer.
Speaker 1: That is so, there's that. So it's worse. That's worse, right,
Speaker 1: that's worse. That's so interesting. You would have thought that
Speaker 1: thirty years later like it would have we would have progressed,
Speaker 1: we would have like learned or but I guess maybe
Speaker 1: there's more people in the world of course now, Um,
Speaker 1: but we're so much more informed now women. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1: That's true. And Brenda went in to get checked out
Speaker 1: and she's with her mom. I thought it was I
Speaker 1: thought it was so weird that the doctor told the
Speaker 1: mom to get out of the room and she would
Speaker 1: speak to Brenda. I'm like, does that happen? I don't
Speaker 1: have kids that are teenagers, but does that happen? It's
Speaker 1: if there's a weird fine line when you're your kid
Speaker 1: becomes uh uh, you know, an independent person and they
Speaker 1: can function on their own and they should speak for themselves.
Speaker 1: And have you had to leave the room? Yes? I
Speaker 1: have had to leave the room? You wow, wow? Um,
Speaker 1: Because you know, of course it's like are you I asked,
Speaker 1: are you okay with me leaving room and whatever the
Speaker 1: circumstances were, um, And they always said yes. And and
Speaker 1: of course I knew who they were going to be
Speaker 1: sitting with and talking with and um. And I also
Speaker 1: after they finished the meeting, I would kind of get
Speaker 1: a general fill in from the doctor or the person
Speaker 1: that they had met with. So it wasn't like I
Speaker 1: was completely out of the loop, but they just want
Speaker 1: to establish that kind of um with Yeah. And and
Speaker 1: because you need that moving forward in your life, you
Speaker 1: have to be able to have full disclosure with whoever
Speaker 1: it is that you're speaking to a therapist or a
Speaker 1: doctor of any kind, you know. And so I think
Speaker 1: I think that's an important step in um, just becoming
Speaker 1: an adult and becoming your own voice. And I think
Speaker 1: I thought it was a good thing. But it was
Speaker 1: definitely you could tell Cindy wasn't comfortable with it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be either, but I guess I have to be. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the first time it happens, you'll see it sort of
Speaker 1: plays out in front of your eyes, and you'll make
Speaker 1: the right decisions. You'll you'll do the right thing, but
Speaker 1: it will feel a little weird mm hmm. And the
Speaker 1: doctor I thought was so great, she reminded me of
Speaker 1: my kind of colleges that I had. This is so weird, right,
Speaker 1: she remembers to me of doctor Goldman Um who was
Speaker 1: my first guy ecologist. And I had moved to l A.
Speaker 1: I didn't have any doctors or anything and I must
Speaker 1: have been sixteen or seventeen, and at some point I
Speaker 1: needed a guy know, and I didn't know who to ask,
Speaker 1: so I asked my manager and Brandy James. He's a man.
Speaker 1: Why I asked him for a reference from my guy, No,
Speaker 1: I don't know, but he gave me one. I guess
Speaker 1: he probably calls himone and asked them he is the
Speaker 1: keeper of all knowledge that he really is the go to.
Speaker 1: So he's had good on that because Dr Goldy was
Speaker 1: my my gun incolegist until she retired last no. Two
Speaker 1: years ago now before the pandemic. Yes, and she delivered
Speaker 1: my first baby and then she was supposed to deliver
Speaker 1: my other kids, but she retired from baby delivering. So yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah, anyway, I love the guy in colleges. I
Speaker 1: love the guy, loved her. I loved her in the episode.
Speaker 1: And did you notice Jen at the hospital when Brenda
Speaker 1: goes in and she's getting Um, she's getting the biopsy
Speaker 1: they say in the background, um, paging Dr Rosen. I
Speaker 1: like our executive producer was Chuck Rosen? Rosen, Dr Rosen,
Speaker 1: please come to admitting that is a fun fact that
Speaker 1: Another crazy takeaway is that everyone is you guys are
Speaker 1: all taking the s a t s because you're juniors,
Speaker 1: and it's common to take the SA t s when
Speaker 1: you're a in the springtime, when you're a junior. But
Speaker 1: then no, well the show started out as juniors, but
Speaker 1: then when the second season picked up over the summer,
Speaker 1: got really popular, so then producers and and create has
Speaker 1: decided to keep all of you as juniors one more year.
Speaker 1: It didn't really bring light to it, So I'm curious
Speaker 1: to see, like if we'll see the s a t
Speaker 1: s happen again? Or are you sure we weren't sophomores
Speaker 1: when we started and David was a freshman. I fact
Speaker 1: checked it because I was so thrown off what it
Speaker 1: would have been that we were soph and David and
Speaker 1: Scott were a freshman? Yeah, or was it just not
Speaker 1: mentioned that the first season or it was it just
Speaker 1: really wasn't mentioned per se. But you know, sophomores don't
Speaker 1: take the s a t s. In fact, if you
Speaker 1: read on like some articles, that says basically you were
Speaker 1: all juniors. But they basically wanted to milk the high
Speaker 1: school years as much as possible, so they just repeated
Speaker 1: the junior for season three. So season three. Okay, so
Speaker 1: we were juniors again and then David was suddenly a
Speaker 1: junior with us. He moves up somehow. That's like soap
Speaker 1: operas when suddenly, like I mean soap opera's fact, you
Speaker 1: can like tune in thirty years later and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: the same characters are here. It's just things are a
Speaker 1: little different. You can go right back into it. But
Speaker 1: I love when they have babies, like one one time
Speaker 1: in the soap opera and then the next thing you know,
Speaker 1: they're sixteen years old and have their own storyline and
Speaker 1: it's like there were a year in between. Mm hmm. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I tell girls, okay, are back to talking about s
Speaker 1: A T. S Oh. Yeah, we're getting some facts that
Speaker 1: you can practice for the practice s A T exams
Speaker 1: as a sophomore, but official tests or junior year. So
Speaker 1: why did Dylan, I was confused on this, say that
Speaker 1: he's going to be surfing when he talked to Brenda
Speaker 1: and he said, and I'll take mind senior year when
Speaker 1: you guys are all taking them now, and I'll be surfing.
Speaker 1: Why would he do that because he was just cool guy?
Speaker 1: How could you take it senior year and like be okay,
Speaker 1: you can still tell ye beginning of your senior year
Speaker 1: he must have been a smarty pants then I think
Speaker 1: he must have been. Yes, here's the thing that drives
Speaker 1: me nuts about the S A T. S is I
Speaker 1: and and test like this. I know I was in
Speaker 1: this group like test panicked me. I would gets so overwhelmed.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean and I feel like kids go
Speaker 1: by scores and they're like, I'm not smart. I'm not smart.
Speaker 1: Some people are just not good in fact at test taking.
Speaker 1: So true and everything. I mean, it's better now, like
Speaker 1: you said, Jen, that you don't have to but before,
Speaker 1: oh my god, everything relied on that score, filling on
Speaker 1: in those little bubbles. It was madness, really scary, stressed
Speaker 1: me out when you think about it like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my I always really tried to keep my girls calm
Speaker 1: around any kind of test preparation, around any kind of homework,
Speaker 1: any kind of school work. Honestly, I've always like, just relax,
Speaker 1: it's not the end of the world. Old life is
Speaker 1: about so much more than what you're learning or what
Speaker 1: you're testing on right now, And just really try to
Speaker 1: get them to calm down just so they could do
Speaker 1: their best because yeah, some of their friends were I've
Speaker 1: seen just freak out when they're have to have a
Speaker 1: test and they just get so much anxiety and then
Speaker 1: they flub it. M h, Yep, it's only a test.
Speaker 1: It's only a test, people. I used to literally test
Speaker 1: like obviously, not things like this because they were the
Speaker 1: bubbles you have to fill in. But when there was
Speaker 1: like a written test, I used to go in, you guys,
Speaker 1: and I would be covered head to toe in like
Speaker 1: facts of what I had studied arm written on my latest. Second,
Speaker 1: that's cheating, well only if you get caught. So, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you're oh my god. It was. But here's
Speaker 1: the thing. I couldn't have known the test. I was
Speaker 1: just writing like things I had studied and memorized. I
Speaker 1: didn't do it all the time, you know, I'm dramatic.
Speaker 1: So she did it one story. She wrote something on
Speaker 1: her hand one time. I've never cheated on a test, Jenny.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I don't remember cheating on
Speaker 1: a test. Now. I remember taking a test once with
Speaker 1: a hangover. I hope my kids don't listen to this one,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I remember going to school and I had
Speaker 1: gotten had done some drinking the night before and the
Speaker 1: next day I still felt drunk and I took a test.
Speaker 1: I did really well on it. Though. Let's talk about
Speaker 1: Brenda's dream. Oh that dream. First of all, she looked
Speaker 1: beautiful and it's so beautiful. The dream looked like a
Speaker 1: like a like a movie like I don't know, like
Speaker 1: a who's that guy that did Beetle juice Tom tim Burton? Know,
Speaker 1: it just reminded me of timber maybe the lady and
Speaker 1: the smoke and the way she was dressed. It was
Speaker 1: really cool. It was beautiful. Um, I wonder I mean,
Speaker 1: I personally love that they chose to put her in
Speaker 1: white not black in her dream, which was expected, right,
Speaker 1: Such a beautiful casket. It us like a beautiful casket.
Speaker 1: The casket thing is weird though, very fluffy. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: looked very comfortable. I wouldn't mind taking a little nap
Speaker 1: in there, But I don't know about being in that
Speaker 1: for the forever. And have you ever had to do
Speaker 1: a TV movie where you're laying in a casket? How
Speaker 1: you m? It's freaky creepy. It is creepy, like no thanks,
Speaker 1: And I liked the little bit of foreshadowing when she's
Speaker 1: going around to everyone and they're filling in the you know,
Speaker 1: a B or C. What would you choose? And uh,
Speaker 1: Kelly had to choose. Uh sorry, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: get it dead on, but uh, basically take Brunda's boyfriend
Speaker 1: and she goes Kelly because that's the one you obviously chose,
Speaker 1: and not that you took him. You can't take a
Speaker 1: boyfriend our husband, like or a girlfriend or a wife
Speaker 1: or a partner. Uh. They do with their own thing.
Speaker 1: But later on you and I liked the little job
Speaker 1: that you did with that. That's what they do when
Speaker 1: they march off and leave the other one. I don't know, um,
Speaker 1: but you know that was foreshadowing and I'm sure they
Speaker 1: didn't even did they know the storyline that they were
Speaker 1: going to put you know, Kelly and Jyllan together when
Speaker 1: Brenda wanted. I'm sure that there was a lot of story.
Speaker 1: I know people don't like us to spoil, but like,
Speaker 1: I feel like they definitely knew that at some point
Speaker 1: all the characters were going to be intertwined with each other.
Speaker 1: There's only so many characters too. Yeah, I mean, heck,
Speaker 1: nobody saw Andrea and Steve kids. That's true. That's true.
Speaker 1: But I did think that the dream was beautiful and
Speaker 1: so well done and I enjoyed watching that. And I
Speaker 1: also really like the scene with the twins that when
Speaker 1: they were sitting on the b together and they were
Speaker 1: talking and Brenda was crying about her aunt that had died,
Speaker 1: and oh, it just was so sweet. I like that scene. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was an emotional episode. It really creep That creeped
Speaker 1: me out, though, like, what are the chances that they
Speaker 1: would give the aunt that had breast cancer? She had
Speaker 1: breast cancer right? Or was a different cancer? Is breast cancer? Right? Um?
Speaker 1: That at thirty five? You know, she Sheila was her name,
Speaker 1: and then I'm sorry, I just can't think. I was
Speaker 1: like Sheila Shannon, like, I don't know. It was just
Speaker 1: like weird coincidences that no one could predicted. But what
Speaker 1: she was saying to really got me. It was she
Speaker 1: was saying that her aunt just became so so lonely
Speaker 1: m h. And she's sort of like distanced herself from
Speaker 1: the people in her life that loved her because she
Speaker 1: had to, she wanted to. That's but it really got
Speaker 1: me just thinking about that, you know, and in the
Speaker 1: connection and made me want to reach out, but I do.
Speaker 1: I do want to say though, regarding that we talked
Speaker 1: about before, was now it's one in eight women, and
Speaker 1: I and how that sort of seems like we're going backwards.
Speaker 1: But I do think that the because of early detection
Speaker 1: and all the improved treatments, the deaths from breast cancer
Speaker 1: have dropped significantly, actually seventeen, so great strides are being
Speaker 1: made and we definitely acknowledge that it's so important. And
Speaker 1: but it's all about the early detection with anything. You
Speaker 1: guys like not to be too serious, but you guys
Speaker 1: have to be your own health advocate. You have to
Speaker 1: be the CEO of you in every respect, and you
Speaker 1: need to take stock in your health and pay attention
Speaker 1: because you're the only one that's going to there's no
Speaker 1: doctor out there that's going to, you know, keep track
Speaker 1: of you and make sure you go all your appointments
Speaker 1: and make sure you're completely healthy over the years. There's
Speaker 1: no spouse, no partner that's going to do it for you.
Speaker 1: You have to do it for yourself, and it's best
Speaker 1: to do it now, Like start today, do something that
Speaker 1: you're like, I know you know this is in my
Speaker 1: genetic makeup heart disease or breast cancer, any kind of cancer,
Speaker 1: Like if you know you have genetic pre existing risk factors,
Speaker 1: start there and go look into um getting you know,
Speaker 1: start with an annual checkup of that specific thing um
Speaker 1: and target your attention so that you guys are taking
Speaker 1: care of care of yourselves because I want you to.
Speaker 1: It's all sorry, stop preaching, be proactive. No, it's everything
Speaker 1: you're saying is so right on and so important. And
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times we forget, you know,
Speaker 1: even as as we forget and you fall back and
Speaker 1: you're like, oh what am I doing? Of course, but
Speaker 1: here you know, people be like sixteen, isn't that too young?
Speaker 1: But like it's not to look at Brenda. She had
Speaker 1: you know, she did have a tumor and it worked out,
Speaker 1: but you just never know. So m She had a
Speaker 1: lot of support though, from her parents, all of her friends,
Speaker 1: even though Kelly and Donna couldn't really figure out the
Speaker 1: right words trying to make her feel better. That hug
Speaker 1: at the hand though, it was so sweet and the
Speaker 1: gift been like when they showed him the gift thing,
Speaker 1: guss gift basket ever made it? You have the floral
Speaker 1: arrangement from like the Four Seasons or something, where did
Speaker 1: you get that it's so big and obnoxious? We are
Speaker 1: like we were overcompensating, I think for our inability in
Speaker 1: the previous I felt real bad about it, but I
Speaker 1: felt that scene at the school where they're finding out
Speaker 1: about it was really genuine because you wouldn't kids don't.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have known at that age what to say
Speaker 1: or how to be there for someone. So I felt
Speaker 1: like it was a pretty accurate scene was really authentic.
Speaker 1: And I loved Brandon in this episode. Yeah, he was
Speaker 1: so thoughtful and it was about somebody else. I felt
Speaker 1: like it's that last scene with her mm hmm, like
Speaker 1: sitting on the bed, just like I would have missed
Speaker 1: you so much, Like I don't know. I was just like, ah,
Speaker 1: did you missed your brother? Um? Well, he's that sounded
Speaker 1: that sounds important. It's not because he's not dead, but
Speaker 1: it made you like it reminds you of that like
Speaker 1: sibling connection. And it didn't make you because you have
Speaker 1: a brother that's close to your age. So yes, my
Speaker 1: brother is five years younger and I do miss him.
Speaker 1: He lives importantly. I missed him all the time. Um,
Speaker 1: but just I think the yeah, you're right. The note
Speaker 1: there is don't wait till it's something that could be
Speaker 1: life or death to tell someone I love you. That
Speaker 1: was the thing with Brandon, like you know, he was
Speaker 1: we don't see them often enough kind of we see
Speaker 1: the sibling rivalry and they kind of support each other.
Speaker 1: But this was just like whoa. It was presented to
Speaker 1: him that this could be major. She could die, someone
Speaker 1: in their family did die from this, and he was like,
Speaker 1: he poured his heart out and it was so cute. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love a gooey Brandon moment. Me too, and was Dylan.
Speaker 1: So Dylan told Brenda I love you right outside her
Speaker 1: front door. Was big, that's the first time. That's the
Speaker 1: first time I believe. So yeah, and then she that's
Speaker 1: why she calls him, and all she says is I
Speaker 1: love you, and then she hangs up with answering machine.
Speaker 1: Note you said answering machine. I was going to say voicemail,
Speaker 1: but nope, it was an answering machine. Answering machines back
Speaker 1: and have a message at the beep. And remember when
Speaker 1: people would try to be funny. You probably did that
Speaker 1: to any message after the beep, and then you go
Speaker 1: beep before it would actually be maybe I don't know
Speaker 1: you do the bake hellos hello, and then they think
Speaker 1: you answered hello Hello, Okay, hey, that was fun. Thanks
Speaker 1: us for acting that up for me. Have you changed
Speaker 1: your voice more recently? I have not lever listened to
Speaker 1: my voice, Smail? How would I know? What is it?
Speaker 1: Her voice? Smail makes like she'll let it go to
Speaker 1: the answer room. She didn't want to hear what it says.
Speaker 1: I swear I have no idea, So I can't tell
Speaker 1: you how many times I have called and it's and
Speaker 1: I'm like hey. So it's like I gotta tell her
Speaker 1: something about work, and I'm like hey, and I start
Speaker 1: talking and then I hear her like she's messing with people,
Speaker 1: and say I want to hear it, say hello like
Speaker 1: like you're answering, and so then you start talking and
Speaker 1: then you realize I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: All right, well don't pick up Okay, okay, yeah, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: what's up? I bet you changed it? Oh we almost
Speaker 1: answered it. Okay, she's calling me and no, that's different.
Speaker 1: At the No that did that didn't sound like hey,
Speaker 1: it's me like almost like your answers their phone. Hey
Speaker 1: it's me. No, I'm telling you. You guys before it
Speaker 1: was like hey, like you you Literally every time I'd
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I got fooled again because I'd be like, oh, hey,
Speaker 1: how are you and then she'd be like it would
Speaker 1: be beat beat, and then she'd be like, leave a
Speaker 1: message and I can't. I can't remember the last time
Speaker 1: you actually left me a voice message on any device
Speaker 1: like that. This doesn't happen anymore. Doesn't know you don't okay.
Speaker 1: So also, you and I both are known hate talking
Speaker 1: on the phone. Hate. I do not like to talk
Speaker 1: on the phone ever, like phone phobia. We have phone phobia.
Speaker 1: It's not weird. We've had that forever, Like we have
Speaker 1: that in common to like, it's just even though I'm
Speaker 1: like family members, I don't want it takes a lot
Speaker 1: for me to be like, let's get on a phone
Speaker 1: call and chat it up to me too. Um, So
Speaker 1: I am going to announce them that my best friend
Speaker 1: I don't know what I did last night. Yes, so
Speaker 1: she's been uh sliding into my d M s. You're
Speaker 1: so um, you're so like young and relevant like so
Speaker 1: that's the new thing, Like no one no one like
Speaker 1: texts people anymore. That's them. I'm lazy, is what it is.
Speaker 1: I'm too bringing lazy to switch to the messages because
Speaker 1: I happened to be on my Instagram and I see
Speaker 1: a message, so I just respond there because you're already there.
Speaker 1: That's true. And so the thing is you can tell
Speaker 1: when someone's active. So you're like, hey, if you like
Speaker 1: reply and they don't reply back, well, I guess that's
Speaker 1: not true either, because if you have it on your background,
Speaker 1: it's if you leave your app on, you're always yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so my apps always on? I don't know. Yes. So
Speaker 1: she was like texting me, but d m ng me
Speaker 1: and I didn't check it. And then when I checked
Speaker 1: it last night, I was like, oh my god, and like,
Speaker 1: are you bringing this up? I'm only bringing it up
Speaker 1: because I feel like dm NG is very relevant right now.
Speaker 1: And if I hear one more person say hey, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: let's get in touch, I'll just, you know, slip into
Speaker 1: my d M. And I'm like, sounds so dirty, slip
Speaker 1: into my d M. I'd rather text me. It's more.
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's something more personable about it, right,
Speaker 1: But that's how like social Yeah, slip, but why do
Speaker 1: they say slip? It sounds really nasty to my d M.
Speaker 1: And then someone yesterday told me they were like, hey,
Speaker 1: just drop into my DM. I'm like, oh in my
Speaker 1: outstated now I had just gotten like cool with like
Speaker 1: slip into my d M, and now I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I think it's dropped now to your d M. Is
Speaker 1: when you know you have all the d m s
Speaker 1: and you don't notice it and then and then you
Speaker 1: see it later. I think I drop into your d
Speaker 1: M must be like bam, I just sent it like
Speaker 1: we dropped right? Interesting? Interesting, Okay, yeah, these are very
Speaker 1: important conversations everybody, Ye JOHNA. Martin. So it's like there
Speaker 1: you go. Well we need to talk about fashion and
Speaker 1: our our favorite lines and then also get to a
Speaker 1: few emails. Um, so let's take a break and we'll
Speaker 1: come back. Hey. This is Becca Tilly and Tanya Rada
Speaker 1: Rad that's me. Yeah, and we have a podcast called
Speaker 1: scrubbing In. Yeah, we do. We are two best friends
Speaker 1: and we love Grey's Anatomy, hence the name scrubbing In exactly.
Speaker 1: And this week we have one of Grey's Anatomy's very
Speaker 1: own Anthony Hill, who plays Winston on the podcast to
Speaker 1: chat about what's been going on. If you follow as aonomy,
Speaker 1: you know that. I mean, there's just a lot to
Speaker 1: talk about. There are sudden deaths, people are coming back
Speaker 1: this season. There's a whole lot going on. It is
Speaker 1: a huge season for Grey's Anatomy. So I highly suggest
Speaker 1: you tune in. And you're not just gonna get Gray's Anatomy.
Speaker 1: I mean, we have girl talk. It's just girl talk.
Speaker 1: It's like you're talking with your best friends on the couch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: except not with your best friends. You're talking with us,
Speaker 1: your virtual best friends, virtual bfs. That's right. So listen
Speaker 1: to Scrubbing In on the I Heart Radio app on
Speaker 1: Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. So in
Speaker 1: this episode, the rem Brands song played during Steve and
Speaker 1: Andreas very surprising. Kiss Um, why don't we talk to
Speaker 1: the rem Brands? Now we have Phil solom on the
Speaker 1: line from the rem Brands, your half of the rem Brands.
Speaker 1: This is what I find interesting about you had have
Speaker 1: had over four decades of friendship and beautiful artistic collaboration
Speaker 1: with one person, with Danny Wild, And I find that
Speaker 1: sort of symbolic because Tory and I kind of have
Speaker 1: that seem very long history together, still working together, still
Speaker 1: loving it, and I was just thinking, like, what do
Speaker 1: you think is the secret to that kind of a
Speaker 1: successful relationship with a partner. Um Probably that we just
Speaker 1: don't know what else to do and we just keep
Speaker 1: on doing whatever comes up. You know, if there's a secret,
Speaker 1: somebody please tell me. Well, I think it's pretty obvious
Speaker 1: that you guys have a great love for each other
Speaker 1: and that you have, um built a level of trust
Speaker 1: that you don't maybe have with other people. So you
Speaker 1: guys are comfortable well to each other. Yeah, we have
Speaker 1: a I don't know if it's like an intrinsic thing.
Speaker 1: From the minute we met, we kind of knew that
Speaker 1: there would be some you know, we were in separate
Speaker 1: bands out in Hollywood at the time and just kind
Speaker 1: of ended up like, wow, okay, we created a new
Speaker 1: band and got in it, and then eventually this remembrance
Speaker 1: thing happened. So yeah, on again, off again, right. I
Speaker 1: love that. I love that about you guys. Relationship and
Speaker 1: remembrance for me, just there's just so melodic and there's
Speaker 1: so many beautiful harmonies, and that's just think Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what you guys your I think, wasn't your breakout kind
Speaker 1: of song for the Remembrance? Wasn't it just the way
Speaker 1: it is? Baby, that's just the way that's just exactly.
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, that's the first song that
Speaker 1: we recorded as the Rembrands, and we weren't in called
Speaker 1: The Remembrance the time. We just got together to write
Speaker 1: some tunes and maybe get a publishing deal, and that
Speaker 1: was the first song we wrote, and h it was
Speaker 1: the first thing record and it just kind of all
Speaker 1: fell into place from that. How did we get so
Speaker 1: lucky to have no show? I mean, we had your
Speaker 1: music on the show, but do you remember, I mean,
Speaker 1: you have so much to remember. How did we get
Speaker 1: so lucky to be on the show? Thank you? But
Speaker 1: we felt lucky to have you grateful? Yeah, that was
Speaker 1: big for us. That was major. Oh really it was
Speaker 1: more major thing to show well we both benefited in
Speaker 1: a good way. Then yeah, okay, can we get to
Speaker 1: the Friends theme song? Now? I'm time to know what
Speaker 1: would you like to know? That was your second song? Right,
Speaker 1: hit song? Well, we had a couple other songs that
Speaker 1: weren't quite that didn't you know, really become smashes or anything.
Speaker 1: But then pretty early on Yeah, we stumbled into the
Speaker 1: Friends camp and when that came out, we were just
Speaker 1: we really thought it was just going to be like
Speaker 1: we will be the mystery sound of this show and
Speaker 1: that that will be that. But then our excuse me,
Speaker 1: a record company decided because there were so many requests
Speaker 1: everywhere on radio stations for it and it was only
Speaker 1: a forty two second long song. Oh my god, you
Speaker 1: guys are going to write more to this and finish it.
Speaker 1: We're gonna put it on your record. And that's how
Speaker 1: it happened. Wait, I have a question. Sorry, I probably
Speaker 1: everyone knows the answer to this, but what came first?
Speaker 1: The chicken or egg? Like? You had the song? It
Speaker 1: was a hit, and then friends, how does that work?
Speaker 1: They license it to be the theme song or you
Speaker 1: wrote it for them. We wrote it with the music
Speaker 1: director of the show, and he had the idea of
Speaker 1: mainly how it would scan out. Has to be this long,
Speaker 1: it has to be here's some parts. He had some
Speaker 1: he jammed out some piano stuff, and then we uh,
Speaker 1: you know, experimented and they have Allie Willis sending lyrics
Speaker 1: from her place via facts I Love her, I have
Speaker 1: facts machine. Well, I have a crazy question. Do you
Speaker 1: get paid every time that song comes on? Jenny Garth,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you get a little slice. You know. The
Speaker 1: show is just I think they're saving it. They're going
Speaker 1: to surprise this one name a big present, a big
Speaker 1: Christmas bonus. My twelve year old and my nine year
Speaker 1: old or obsessed with friends now and they've discovered it
Speaker 1: and they think it's like their show. They have no
Speaker 1: idea that I was like, oh my god in the nineties,
Speaker 1: like this was our show. They think it's something new
Speaker 1: for them, and they're like friends, and they have all
Speaker 1: like the merchandise that's out now and Target like friends,
Speaker 1: and they they walk around singing the song and it
Speaker 1: blows my mind because I'm like, oh my god, that
Speaker 1: was me in the nineties and now my kids are
Speaker 1: singing it, so yeah, you span generations. Wait, so Courtney
Speaker 1: Cox playing, she learned to play the song on the piano.
Speaker 1: She actually played. Yeah, I saw that couple three four
Speaker 1: weeks ago she uh put a video out on Instagram
Speaker 1: and I was, yeah, it was her playing. I didn't
Speaker 1: know she could play piano, but you know, we did
Speaker 1: a video together with those guys and Courtney played drunes
Speaker 1: and video. That's right. So I've always wanted to ask
Speaker 1: a famous musician this, but um, I don't know any
Speaker 1: You're You're the only famous musician I know. So what
Speaker 1: what happens when you're in a rust or in a
Speaker 1: bar and you hear them play one of your songs? Like?
Speaker 1: What happens? Does everyone look at you? And are you like? Like?
Speaker 1: What do you do? My My internal calculator starts adding
Speaker 1: up how we get? I love you? Man? So wait,
Speaker 1: so what are you? What's coming up next for you?
Speaker 1: What do you got on the back burner or the
Speaker 1: front burner? I don't know. Well, it's funny because we
Speaker 1: just released a new album last year, well actually the
Speaker 1: end of and Uh, and then we were fixing to
Speaker 1: get out on the road and promote it, and we
Speaker 1: had a whole tour booked and then this COVID thing
Speaker 1: kicked in and everything got canceled. So maybe we'll pick
Speaker 1: up where we left off when when it's safe, if
Speaker 1: you ever go back out, we could be your groupies
Speaker 1: when when it's safe to go back out. I'm kind
Speaker 1: of us about going back out. Spent a whole year
Speaker 1: in my house. Well, I think I'm hope that you
Speaker 1: guys are comfortable and everyone is able to come and
Speaker 1: see your your concerts coming up. We just want to
Speaker 1: say thank you so much. Thank you, it was great
Speaker 1: talking to you. Were such fans. Yeah, everybody has linked
Speaker 1: love language, you know, how you show your love to
Speaker 1: someone or how it is that you show up in
Speaker 1: a relationship. For me and my husband, communication is not
Speaker 1: our strong suit. We don't communicate easily efficiently together or
Speaker 1: to anyone. But we're just not good communicators. So my
Speaker 1: husband made me. Um, when I had to go to Canada,
Speaker 1: he made me or how would I have to go anywhere?
Speaker 1: He makes me want a playlist and when you listen
Speaker 1: to the music, you get the message of whatever he's
Speaker 1: really truly feeling, like, because all of the songs say
Speaker 1: something amazing and make you feel so loved and like
Speaker 1: just talk about he's the luckiest man in the world,
Speaker 1: and you know, like he communicates through his music. I
Speaker 1: think that's Oh my god, I'm rushing on Dave right now.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. He'll make you one too. He loves
Speaker 1: to do it. I swear maybe it'll be it'll have
Speaker 1: a different theme obviously, but he'll make Oh my god,
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna slip into Dave's d M s. No,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm in. I'm I follow him, so he
Speaker 1: follows me, so drop it. I'll drop a d M
Speaker 1: to him and say, Dave, like for my birthday, when
Speaker 1: you make me a playlist? He will be so happy
Speaker 1: to do that. I was looking on Instagram yesterday and
Speaker 1: Dave was on and um he by the way, he's
Speaker 1: the most supportive like friend ever. Like all my stories,
Speaker 1: Dave's always there. It makes me feel really good. No,
Speaker 1: I'm always like, oh good. Is it that? Or is
Speaker 1: he just spending a way too much time on his
Speaker 1: I think he's efficient. I don't know. I feel special
Speaker 1: too much. But he was eating what looked like a
Speaker 1: can of peanut butter. Oh my god, did he even?
Speaker 1: I almost like he wasending first made me think I
Speaker 1: was like, oh he's missing her. Look at this looking
Speaker 1: poor guy. It's come to that, and you know what
Speaker 1: it's come to that made bad deep in the pantry.
Speaker 1: You guys, it's not just a jar of peanut butter
Speaker 1: your can. It's a giant can from like restaurant depot.
Speaker 1: Because I bake the pies for his restaurants sometimes. Oh,
Speaker 1: and I have a lot of supplies. That is one
Speaker 1: of my pie baking supplies. And he would ate it
Speaker 1: like that's for the pies. But like like you're talking
Speaker 1: about it about communication in your own love language, like
Speaker 1: that picture set a thousand words. I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: he's ready for her to come home. The canopy in
Speaker 1: butt industrial size, it was night. Oh that's good. Should
Speaker 1: we talk fashion? We didn't. Oh we didn't. Oh, man didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't. There was no like like standout fashion moments
Speaker 1: for me in this episode. I mean, all the boys
Speaker 1: kind of looked the same as each other. Pleaded pants,
Speaker 1: blousy man, blousy shirts. Dylan it's the first time I've
Speaker 1: seen Dylan and as Steve Blouse. My writer, am I right?
Speaker 1: I was like, go to the blouse barn are right,
Speaker 1: let's see. Yeah, And it was like I'm looking at
Speaker 1: a picture it right now, black collar, black sleeves, and
Speaker 1: it was like puke green and like lavender straight, Like
Speaker 1: what's happening. It's crazy. Then they had a really cool
Speaker 1: pink suit at the hospital. Cindy looked great. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: had another the other time when she went to the
Speaker 1: doctor's office, with Brenda. She showed up at the school.
Speaker 1: She looked like a Beverly Hills mom all of a sudden.
Speaker 1: See funny enough, I didn't love her outfits in this episode.
Speaker 1: I felt like they were trying her when her hairs
Speaker 1: like loose and she had her mom jeans and a
Speaker 1: blouse tucked in and just kind of looks so like
Speaker 1: they definitely felt like the costumer was trying to her
Speaker 1: aunt to change her Yeah, fitting into Beverly Hills. Her
Speaker 1: hair looked different. It was like all around different. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be honest. She looked older like she
Speaker 1: usually looks so care free and fun and young and
Speaker 1: like cool mom and I love her looks. And here
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is like an example when
Speaker 1: people are like, oh my god, do I look like you?
Speaker 1: Kind of I look like I'm wearing my mom's clothes,
Speaker 1: like she looked like she was wearing mom mom clothes.
Speaker 1: There wasn't a lot of other great fashion modes. Did
Speaker 1: you guys have a favorite line from the episode? Perto
Speaker 1: lay it on me? Um? So my line I loved
Speaker 1: and I'm sure you guys loved this one too. Was
Speaker 1: Brenda's hope for the best expect the worst. I didn't
Speaker 1: like that line. You don't like it, No, philosophically I
Speaker 1: disagree with it hope for the best because it's like
Speaker 1: kind of like, Okay, here's the worst case scenario. If
Speaker 1: I expect the worst, then I can only be like
Speaker 1: happy with anything better. I guess you're right, it's a
Speaker 1: little glass half empty. But yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't think you should expect the worst in any situation.
Speaker 1: I think you should always expect the best. Fine, you're right,
Speaker 1: and it's like manifestation. Yeah, like, don't even think about
Speaker 1: the worst, think about the best cards anyway? Okay, sorry,
Speaker 1: going um mine. We talked about kind of already and
Speaker 1: it wasn't my favorite per se, but it stood out
Speaker 1: to me, and it was Kelly and Donna telling Brenda,
Speaker 1: and I think Kelly is the one that said it
Speaker 1: that she really doesn't hope that that that ever happens
Speaker 1: to her breasts, and then it was just it just
Speaker 1: came out so wrong and we both made it about us.
Speaker 1: I hope it doesn't exactly and then like me to um,
Speaker 1: what else? Oh, did I have a favorite line? Did
Speaker 1: you let me think? I want to think Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would have to be. I guess my hormones are
Speaker 1: raging at the end, when Brenda says that when she
Speaker 1: doesn't have the thing, I thought, I thought it was
Speaker 1: really cute, and I thought that it well, that was cute.
Speaker 1: I think they even like showed a glimpse of Dylan
Speaker 1: when she says that, tell me about it, Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: tell me about it? All right. We have some questions
Speaker 1: from listeners. Ashley is saying, I have a question for
Speaker 1: Jenny and torr. Out of all the different seasons of
Speaker 1: NOO to know, have you ever been jealous or envious
Speaker 1: of someone else's character or storyline at the time? Was
Speaker 1: there ever a story arc you wish your character would
Speaker 1: have gotten to experience. Well, Ashley, as you asked that question,
Speaker 1: I was thinking, what would it be? What would it be? Um?
Speaker 1: The only thing that came to my mind instantly, which
Speaker 1: I'm sure there were other instances definitely where I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: that would have been so cool to have that storyline, um,
Speaker 1: was when we were all at the This is a
Speaker 1: spoiler alert, but I have to um, we were all
Speaker 1: at Dylan, and I think her mind name was Tony's
Speaker 1: wedding on a Cliff overlooking the Pacific Ocean in Malibu.
Speaker 1: I just remember, wish it was you, I did well.
Speaker 1: I wish that was me getting married to Dylan. Oh really,
Speaker 1: I can't remember that vividly because we were just the
Speaker 1: guests for more of the sake of Kelly marrying Dylan,
Speaker 1: or just for the fact that, like you wanted to
Speaker 1: act out a wedding, like being a wedding dress. Both.
Speaker 1: I wanted to marry Dylan, Okay, I wanted Kelly to
Speaker 1: be marrying Dylan and having that special, beautiful wedding because
Speaker 1: it was beautiful. I don't know. I'm biting my tongue,
Speaker 1: my lips, everything, I'm biting everything because it's so multi layered. Whatever.
Speaker 1: What was, what's yours? What's yours? This question? Damn it.
Speaker 1: She's like, don't go there, you need to answer. I
Speaker 1: think for me, it was probably the first couple of
Speaker 1: seasons just um, not jealous so much, but watching all
Speaker 1: the girls have storylines and dialogue and and kind of
Speaker 1: you know, my my character grew slowly, so it was
Speaker 1: just a lot of one liners, which, honestly, sometimes one
Speaker 1: liners are harder, especially if they're not going if you
Speaker 1: have a zinger of a funny one liner, that's easier.
Speaker 1: But if you're sitting in a scene and you have
Speaker 1: one line and there's a whole scene you're depending on,
Speaker 1: Like you're looking and you're happy, you're listening, and you're listening,
Speaker 1: and your eyes and you know, it's just it's difficult.
Speaker 1: I just looked really crazy. I don't that seems going
Speaker 1: to be weird, but that there were times where I
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, I can't I can't wait. I hope
Speaker 1: one day I have like a big storyline, I can
Speaker 1: have a scene where it's two of us and I'm
Speaker 1: just we're talking back and forth. And it happened. Obviously,
Speaker 1: your dreams came true. They hated it. I didn't expect
Speaker 1: the worst. That's exactly my point. People, You're right, Okay,
Speaker 1: Sean is asking a very serious and long question. Um,
Speaker 1: so here we go. How does this make you, guys feel?
Speaker 1: Now watching the show and seeing Brenda with a scare
Speaker 1: and knowing Shannon is currently battling her second round of
Speaker 1: stage four. Also, after Shannon left the show, there was
Speaker 1: an estrangement as far as I know from the media,
Speaker 1: between Jenny and Shannon. But when Shannon had cancered the
Speaker 1: first time. Jenny posted this wonderful tribute and created the
Speaker 1: best hashtag hashtag fight like Brenda. It was so moving
Speaker 1: and wonderful to see the sisterhood and bond of the
Speaker 1: friendship reignited after all those years. How did that all
Speaker 1: come about? Well, Sean, that is a long question. Um. First,
Speaker 1: I'll dressed the beginning. I think that. Yeah, we already
Speaker 1: kind of talked about that in the beginning of the episode.
Speaker 1: How was out of It was hard for us to
Speaker 1: watch this, yeah, and who knew? And and now watching
Speaker 1: it back, it's it's eerie and it's not it's not good.
Speaker 1: It's not a good feeling. Now it was you know,
Speaker 1: we I remember like when she had fought in and
Speaker 1: overcame and was in remission. We we looked back and
Speaker 1: we're like, oh, that was a coincidence. But she came
Speaker 1: back from it, and obviously you're correct, she's you know,
Speaker 1: battling it again. But um, we believe in her and
Speaker 1: she's such a strong, strong woman. UM, and she does
Speaker 1: so much. She's such an inspiration for women everywhere, UM
Speaker 1: going through this. So it's still hard to watch them.
Speaker 1: M hmm. I'll be glad to get to the next episode.
Speaker 1: And I mean to address the other part of your
Speaker 1: question because I don't want to be rude. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there was, uh you know, there was the word out
Speaker 1: there that Shannon and I didn't get along or we
Speaker 1: were estranged as you called it. Um. I don't think
Speaker 1: that's the case though. I mean, Shannon and I are
Speaker 1: two aries women. I don't need to say any more
Speaker 1: than that. Um. We lock horns sometimes as rams, do,
Speaker 1: you know. And I actually like that about her and
Speaker 1: she likes that about me. So UM, we've never had
Speaker 1: a problem with our differences. I don't think. Uh, there's
Speaker 1: been times when there's been feelings hurt and things said,
Speaker 1: but that you your sisters. At the end of the day,
Speaker 1: there's a bond that we all have with one another,
Speaker 1: all the cast members have with one another that it
Speaker 1: it is like it's like super glue. You can never
Speaker 1: break that bond. And so we're all going to be
Speaker 1: there to support each other at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: no matter what any of us are going through. Whenever
Speaker 1: one of us truly needs the other one, I know
Speaker 1: that they will be there for me, and just like
Speaker 1: we are for Shannon. But I didn't know that you
Speaker 1: did that hashtag fight like a Brenda. I love that
Speaker 1: because it's so true. I mean yeah, I mean that's
Speaker 1: a good one. I made up a good hashtag that day.
Speaker 1: I might have a career in hashtags. You guys, Hey,
Speaker 1: if this podcast thing doesn't work out, which it will
Speaker 1: because we have five stars, but little it could be
Speaker 1: your side hustle creating hashtags for people. I'm want to
Speaker 1: work on it. Good stuff. Well, I think that does
Speaker 1: it for today's podcast, Ladies Homework Assignment is Episode nineteen.
Speaker 1: April is the cruelest month. Be there we We will
Speaker 1: see you all next week. Bye, guys, I lippened to
Speaker 1: my d N. I'm just kidding that, like the funny
Speaker 1: one liner at the end.