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Speaker 1: It's with Jenny Garth and Tori Spelling. Hi you guys.

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Speaker 1: We are back with another episode of O two one

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Speaker 1: OMG with my favorite people, Jenny Garth and Sissony. Hi

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Speaker 1: you guys, ladies. So happy to say is pretty ladies happy,

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Speaker 1: whatever day of the week it is tal y'all, Hm,

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Speaker 1: who knows when you're listening to this? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: nobody knows, but we're happy that you're with us, that's

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Speaker 1: for sure. Gosh so much you guys. The outpouring of

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Speaker 1: love for our podcast has been amazing, and I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna say it, thanks for all of our stars. You

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Speaker 1: like us, You really like us. Oh, the stars are

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Speaker 1: so shiny. It's really nice. We're trying, we're trying really

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Speaker 1: hard to do a good podcast through guys, and you know,

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Speaker 1: we show up every week, we do our homework and

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Speaker 1: sisanse always so happy to see us, and we're happy

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Speaker 1: to see you guys. So that's a baby on board.

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Speaker 1: She has fifty million jobs and look at her. She

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Speaker 1: has youth on her side. And you know what I

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Speaker 1: realized today is that my weeks of pregnancy are matching

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Speaker 1: up with the week that we're on that episode. So

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Speaker 1: stop it. So today we're talking about episode eighteen, and

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Speaker 1: I am eighteen weeks pregnant. Crazy stuff happens all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's just weird like that, like little little signs that

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Speaker 1: you're exactly where you're supposed to be. Thank you, Thank

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Speaker 1: your husband for shooting it that day. Oh my god. Okay,

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Speaker 1: eighteen weeks ago. Well this was episode, like you said, eighteen,

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Speaker 1: it's only a test a date March nine. The synopsis

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Speaker 1: is Brenda is filled with horror when she discovers a

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Speaker 1: lump in her breast, which calls for a biopsy. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: the upcoming S A T S put extra pressure on everyone,

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Speaker 1: especially Andrea and Steam. Things heat up during a study

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Speaker 1: night together when an intimate moment happens between the two.

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Speaker 1: Don't done. Yeah, this episode started out with you know,

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Speaker 1: S A T frenzy, it's a test, the S A

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Speaker 1: T S. Everybody was stressing out about it, and quickly

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Speaker 1: kind of shifted gears into a different kind of test,

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Speaker 1: which was Brenda's um for rest examination test and she

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Speaker 1: had to go get a test at the hospital. So

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Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting the way they will have

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Speaker 1: these two storylines together. It was very clever that I'm

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Speaker 1: not going to allow you. Guys, this is the episode

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Speaker 1: I was kind of dreading coming up, um for obvious reasons.

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Speaker 1: With Shannon. It's you know, I know everyone thought about

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Speaker 1: it when when she had cancer. This was really hard

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Speaker 1: for me to watch, Like I had to actually use it.

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Speaker 1: Cry was a couple of times because it was just

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Speaker 1: too too close, man, too weirdly sinked in a not

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Speaker 1: good way. You know what is that called? That's like foreshadowing.

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Speaker 1: It was foreshadowing synchronicity. But yeah, but with outcome, obviously,

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Speaker 1: Chand's a warrior, she's a fighter, and she did you know,

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Speaker 1: she's resilient, she she bounces back. She's a fighter. And

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Speaker 1: I think Brenda is a fighter too, So those things

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Speaker 1: lined up in a positive way. But um, we've never

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Speaker 1: talked to Shannon about it, but I can't help but

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Speaker 1: know that must have thought about like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: only all these years ago, thirty years ago, gosh, who

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Speaker 1: would have thought that you know, this would come true

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Speaker 1: thirty years later. Yeah. Yeah, we've never really said can

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Speaker 1: you believe that episode where Brenda thought she had a

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Speaker 1: lump and now you know that, Yeah, we've never really

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Speaker 1: addressed that. We should and of all the characters, you

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Speaker 1: know that. I mean obviously, I mean it lines up

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Speaker 1: that they would have done it with Brenda, you know,

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Speaker 1: one of the twins. But just the way it worked out, Um,

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Speaker 1: without this sort of like weird synchronicity, the episode was

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Speaker 1: very dramatic and very like serious undertones. Yeah, thank goodness,

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Speaker 1: we had a little bit of comedic relief with um

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Speaker 1: Steve and Andrea. Thank you Ian Srin for always flying

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Speaker 1: us with that A little bed flipped that. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he was very very excited to plant his lips on Andrea.

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Speaker 1: You know what I love the most I got to

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Speaker 1: say is I mean, I'm gonna be honest. When we

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that was uncomfortable but very very embarrassing. But also,

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Speaker 1: that the way they wrote it in was really creative

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Speaker 1: to They had Kelly reading it out of a magazine,

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Speaker 1: guys have through magazines and take the quizzes. And it

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Speaker 1: talking about. Just a really home like this is how

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Speaker 1: you do it, you know. But to Jen's point, like,

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Speaker 1: And I felt like the characters really, even though we

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Speaker 1: season one, you know, it wasn't a hit yet, and

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Speaker 1: the pink and the artwork of herself. Who's that is that? Kelly? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That's that? Or those are pictures of Kelly on Kelly's

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Speaker 1: a love scene in a bed, really I I don't

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I hadn't done a love scene before.

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Speaker 1: neither of us. I don't we hadn't any of us.

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Speaker 1: Even Brenda hadn't done like love scenes on the show,

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Speaker 1: Andrea and Steve hook up again. I don't think one

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Speaker 1: time special events one and one and done. We like

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Speaker 1: special events, limited special events, special little special relationship. But

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Speaker 1: that entire thing. His voice is just so soothing, and

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Speaker 1: he was just so excited for his life. Was like watching,

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Speaker 1: Like if if he had had that avocado and egg

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Speaker 1: machine that makes that poaches the egg for him. He

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Speaker 1: It was no, it was a poached egg, but he

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Speaker 1: which it never happens on Instagram. He didn't go back.

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Speaker 1: decided to keep all of you as juniors one more year.

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00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: It didn't really bring light to it, So I'm curious

426
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: to see, like if we'll see the s a t

427
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: s happen again? Or are you sure we weren't sophomores

428
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: when we started and David was a freshman. I fact

429
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: checked it because I was so thrown off what it

430
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,679
Speaker 1: would have been that we were soph and David and

431
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: Scott were a freshman? Yeah, or was it just not

432
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 1: mentioned that the first season or it was it just

433
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: really wasn't mentioned per se. But you know, sophomores don't

434
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 1: take the s a t s. In fact, if you

435
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: read on like some articles, that says basically you were

436
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: all juniors. But they basically wanted to milk the high

437
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: school years as much as possible, so they just repeated

438
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:52,479
Speaker 1: the junior for season three. So season three. Okay, so

439
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 1: we were juniors again and then David was suddenly a

440
00:26:55,320 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 1: junior with us. He moves up somehow. That's like soap

441
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 1: operas when suddenly, like I mean soap opera's fact, you

442
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: can like tune in thirty years later and be like, oh,

443
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: the same characters are here. It's just things are a

444
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: little different. You can go right back into it. But

445
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 1: I love when they have babies, like one one time

446
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 1: in the soap opera and then the next thing you know,

447
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,479
Speaker 1: they're sixteen years old and have their own storyline and

448
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: it's like there were a year in between. Mm hmm. Sorry,

449
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: I tell girls, okay, are back to talking about s

450
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: A T. S Oh. Yeah, we're getting some facts that

451
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: you can practice for the practice s A T exams

452
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: as a sophomore, but official tests or junior year. So

453
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 1: why did Dylan, I was confused on this, say that

454
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: he's going to be surfing when he talked to Brenda

455
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: and he said, and I'll take mind senior year when

456
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: you guys are all taking them now, and I'll be surfing.

457
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 1: Why would he do that because he was just cool guy?

458
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 1: How could you take it senior year and like be okay,

459
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: you can still tell ye beginning of your senior year

460
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: he must have been a smarty pants then I think

461
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 1: he must have been. Yes, here's the thing that drives

462
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,199
Speaker 1: me nuts about the S A T. S is I

463
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 1: and and test like this. I know I was in

464
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: this group like test panicked me. I would gets so overwhelmed.

465
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean and I feel like kids go

466
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: by scores and they're like, I'm not smart. I'm not smart.

467
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: Some people are just not good in fact at test taking.

468
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,959
Speaker 1: So true and everything. I mean, it's better now, like

469
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 1: you said, Jen, that you don't have to but before,

470
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: oh my god, everything relied on that score, filling on

471
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: in those little bubbles. It was madness, really scary, stressed

472
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: me out when you think about it like that. Yeah,

473
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: my I always really tried to keep my girls calm

474
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: around any kind of test preparation, around any kind of homework,

475
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: any kind of school work. Honestly, I've always like, just relax,

476
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 1: it's not the end of the world. Old life is

477
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: about so much more than what you're learning or what

478
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: you're testing on right now, And just really try to

479
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: get them to calm down just so they could do

480
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: their best because yeah, some of their friends were I've

481
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: seen just freak out when they're have to have a

482
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,959
Speaker 1: test and they just get so much anxiety and then

483
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: they flub it. M h, Yep, it's only a test.

484
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: It's only a test, people. I used to literally test

485
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: like obviously, not things like this because they were the

486
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: bubbles you have to fill in. But when there was

487
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: like a written test, I used to go in, you guys,

488
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: and I would be covered head to toe in like

489
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: facts of what I had studied arm written on my latest. Second,

490
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: that's cheating, well only if you get caught. So, oh

491
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: my god, you're oh my god. It was. But here's

492
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: the thing. I couldn't have known the test. I was

493
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: just writing like things I had studied and memorized. I

494
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: didn't do it all the time, you know, I'm dramatic.

495
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: So she did it one story. She wrote something on

496
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: her hand one time. I've never cheated on a test, Jenny.

497
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I don't remember cheating on

498
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: a test. Now. I remember taking a test once with

499
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: a hangover. I hope my kids don't listen to this one,

500
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: but yeah, I remember going to school and I had

501
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: gotten had done some drinking the night before and the

502
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: next day I still felt drunk and I took a test.

503
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: I did really well on it. Though. Let's talk about

504
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: Brenda's dream. Oh that dream. First of all, she looked

505
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 1: beautiful and it's so beautiful. The dream looked like a

506
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: like a like a movie like I don't know, like

507
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: a who's that guy that did Beetle juice Tom tim Burton? Know,

508
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: it just reminded me of timber maybe the lady and

509
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: the smoke and the way she was dressed. It was

510
00:30:55,040 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 1: really cool. It was beautiful. Um, I wonder I mean,

511
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: I personally love that they chose to put her in

512
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: white not black in her dream, which was expected, right,

513
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: Such a beautiful casket. It us like a beautiful casket.

514
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: The casket thing is weird though, very fluffy. Yeah, I

515
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: looked very comfortable. I wouldn't mind taking a little nap

516
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: in there, But I don't know about being in that

517
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: for the forever. And have you ever had to do

518
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: a TV movie where you're laying in a casket? How

519
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 1: you m? It's freaky creepy. It is creepy, like no thanks,

520
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: And I liked the little bit of foreshadowing when she's

521
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: going around to everyone and they're filling in the you know,

522
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: a B or C. What would you choose? And uh,

523
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: Kelly had to choose. Uh sorry, I'm not going to

524
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: get it dead on, but uh, basically take Brunda's boyfriend

525
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: and she goes Kelly because that's the one you obviously chose,

526
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: and not that you took him. You can't take a

527
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend our husband, like or a girlfriend or a wife

528
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: or a partner. Uh. They do with their own thing.

529
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: But later on you and I liked the little job

530
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: that you did with that. That's what they do when

531
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: they march off and leave the other one. I don't know, um,

532
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: but you know that was foreshadowing and I'm sure they

533
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: didn't even did they know the storyline that they were

534
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: going to put you know, Kelly and Jyllan together when

535
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: Brenda wanted. I'm sure that there was a lot of story.

536
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: I know people don't like us to spoil, but like,

537
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: I feel like they definitely knew that at some point

538
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: all the characters were going to be intertwined with each other.

539
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: There's only so many characters too. Yeah, I mean, heck,

540
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: nobody saw Andrea and Steve kids. That's true. That's true.

541
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: But I did think that the dream was beautiful and

542
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: so well done and I enjoyed watching that. And I

543
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: also really like the scene with the twins that when

544
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: they were sitting on the b together and they were

545
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: talking and Brenda was crying about her aunt that had died,

546
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: and oh, it just was so sweet. I like that scene. Yeah,

547
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: it was an emotional episode. It really creep That creeped

548
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,959
Speaker 1: me out, though, like, what are the chances that they

549
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 1: would give the aunt that had breast cancer? She had

550
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: breast cancer right? Or was a different cancer? Is breast cancer? Right? Um?

551
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: That at thirty five? You know, she Sheila was her name,

552
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: and then I'm sorry, I just can't think. I was

553
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: like Sheila Shannon, like, I don't know. It was just

554
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: like weird coincidences that no one could predicted. But what

555
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: she was saying to really got me. It was she

556
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: was saying that her aunt just became so so lonely

557
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: m h. And she's sort of like distanced herself from

558
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 1: the people in her life that loved her because she

559
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: had to, she wanted to. That's but it really got

560
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: me just thinking about that, you know, and in the

561
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: connection and made me want to reach out, but I do.

562
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: I do want to say though, regarding that we talked

563
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: about before, was now it's one in eight women, and

564
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: I and how that sort of seems like we're going backwards.

565
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: But I do think that the because of early detection

566
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 1: and all the improved treatments, the deaths from breast cancer

567
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: have dropped significantly, actually seventeen, so great strides are being

568
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: made and we definitely acknowledge that it's so important. And

569
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: but it's all about the early detection with anything. You

570
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: guys like not to be too serious, but you guys

571
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: have to be your own health advocate. You have to

572
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: be the CEO of you in every respect, and you

573
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 1: need to take stock in your health and pay attention

574
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: because you're the only one that's going to there's no

575
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 1: doctor out there that's going to, you know, keep track

576
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: of you and make sure you go all your appointments

577
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: and make sure you're completely healthy over the years. There's

578
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 1: no spouse, no partner that's going to do it for you.

579
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: You have to do it for yourself, and it's best

580
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: to do it now, Like start today, do something that

581
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: you're like, I know you know this is in my

582
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: genetic makeup heart disease or breast cancer, any kind of cancer,

583
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 1: Like if you know you have genetic pre existing risk factors,

584
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: start there and go look into um getting you know,

585
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: start with an annual checkup of that specific thing um

586
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 1: and target your attention so that you guys are taking

587
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: care of care of yourselves because I want you to.

588
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: It's all sorry, stop preaching, be proactive. No, it's everything

589
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: you're saying is so right on and so important. And

590
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times we forget, you know,

591
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: even as as we forget and you fall back and

592
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: you're like, oh what am I doing? Of course, but

593
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: here you know, people be like sixteen, isn't that too young?

594
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: But like it's not to look at Brenda. She had

595
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: you know, she did have a tumor and it worked out,

596
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: but you just never know. So m She had a

597
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 1: lot of support though, from her parents, all of her friends,

598
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: even though Kelly and Donna couldn't really figure out the

599
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: right words trying to make her feel better. That hug

600
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: at the hand though, it was so sweet and the

601
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: gift been like when they showed him the gift thing,

602
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: guss gift basket ever made it? You have the floral

603
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: arrangement from like the Four Seasons or something, where did

604
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: you get that it's so big and obnoxious? We are

605
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: like we were overcompensating, I think for our inability in

606
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 1: the previous I felt real bad about it, but I

607
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: felt that scene at the school where they're finding out

608
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: about it was really genuine because you wouldn't kids don't.

609
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have known at that age what to say

610
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: or how to be there for someone. So I felt

611
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,839
Speaker 1: like it was a pretty accurate scene was really authentic.

612
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: And I loved Brandon in this episode. Yeah, he was

613
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: so thoughtful and it was about somebody else. I felt

614
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: like it's that last scene with her mm hmm, like

615
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,720
Speaker 1: sitting on the bed, just like I would have missed

616
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 1: you so much, Like I don't know. I was just like, ah,

617
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: did you missed your brother? Um? Well, he's that sounded

618
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: that sounds important. It's not because he's not dead, but

619
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,359
Speaker 1: it made you like it reminds you of that like

620
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 1: sibling connection. And it didn't make you because you have

621
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: a brother that's close to your age. So yes, my

622
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 1: brother is five years younger and I do miss him.

623
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: He lives importantly. I missed him all the time. Um,

624
00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: but just I think the yeah, you're right. The note

625
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 1: there is don't wait till it's something that could be

626
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: life or death to tell someone I love you. That

627
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: was the thing with Brandon, like you know, he was

628
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: we don't see them often enough kind of we see

629
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: the sibling rivalry and they kind of support each other.

630
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: But this was just like whoa. It was presented to

631
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 1: him that this could be major. She could die, someone

632
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: in their family did die from this, and he was like,

633
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: he poured his heart out and it was so cute. Yeah,

634
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 1: I love a gooey Brandon moment. Me too, and was Dylan.

635
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: So Dylan told Brenda I love you right outside her

636
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: front door. Was big, that's the first time. That's the

637
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: first time I believe. So yeah, and then she that's

638
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: why she calls him, and all she says is I

639
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 1: love you, and then she hangs up with answering machine.

640
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: Note you said answering machine. I was going to say voicemail,

641
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 1: but nope, it was an answering machine. Answering machines back

642
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 1: and have a message at the beep. And remember when

643
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: people would try to be funny. You probably did that

644
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: to any message after the beep, and then you go

645
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: beep before it would actually be maybe I don't know

646
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: you do the bake hellos hello, and then they think

647
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: you answered hello Hello, Okay, hey, that was fun. Thanks

648
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: us for acting that up for me. Have you changed

649
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: your voice more recently? I have not lever listened to

650
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: my voice, Smail? How would I know? What is it?

651
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: Her voice? Smail makes like she'll let it go to

652
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: the answer room. She didn't want to hear what it says.

653
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: I swear I have no idea, So I can't tell

654
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 1: you how many times I have called and it's and

655
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm like hey. So it's like I gotta tell her

656
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 1: something about work, and I'm like hey, and I start

657
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 1: talking and then I hear her like she's messing with people,

658
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: and say I want to hear it, say hello like

659
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 1: like you're answering, and so then you start talking and

660
00:39:55,480 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: then you realize I don't know what you're talking about.

661
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 1: All right, well don't pick up Okay, okay, yeah, okay, okay,

662
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 1: what's up? I bet you changed it? Oh we almost

663
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: answered it. Okay, she's calling me and no, that's different.

664
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: At the No that did that didn't sound like hey,

665
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: it's me like almost like your answers their phone. Hey

666
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: it's me. No, I'm telling you. You guys before it

667
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 1: was like hey, like you you Literally every time I'd

668
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I got fooled again because I'd be like, oh, hey,

669
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: how are you and then she'd be like it would

670
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: be beat beat, and then she'd be like, leave a

671
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 1: message and I can't. I can't remember the last time

672
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 1: you actually left me a voice message on any device

673
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: like that. This doesn't happen anymore. Doesn't know you don't okay.

674
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: So also, you and I both are known hate talking

675
00:40:56,600 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: on the phone. Hate. I do not like to talk

676
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 1: on the phone ever, like phone phobia. We have phone phobia.

677
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: It's not weird. We've had that forever, Like we have

678
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: that in common to like, it's just even though I'm

679
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: like family members, I don't want it takes a lot

680
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 1: for me to be like, let's get on a phone

681
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: call and chat it up to me too. Um, So

682
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: I am going to announce them that my best friend

683
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what I did last night. Yes, so

684
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: she's been uh sliding into my d M s. You're

685
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: so um, you're so like young and relevant like so

686
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 1: that's the new thing, Like no one no one like

687
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: texts people anymore. That's them. I'm lazy, is what it is.

688
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm too bringing lazy to switch to the messages because

689
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:43,919
Speaker 1: I happened to be on my Instagram and I see

690
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 1: a message, so I just respond there because you're already there.

691
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: That's true. And so the thing is you can tell

692
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 1: when someone's active. So you're like, hey, if you like

693
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: reply and they don't reply back, well, I guess that's

694
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 1: not true either, because if you have it on your background,

695
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: it's if you leave your app on, you're always yeah, okay,

696
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: so my apps always on? I don't know. Yes. So

697
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 1: she was like texting me, but d m ng me

698
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 1: and I didn't check it. And then when I checked

699
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: it last night, I was like, oh my god, and like,

700
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: are you bringing this up? I'm only bringing it up

701
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: because I feel like dm NG is very relevant right now.

702
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: And if I hear one more person say hey, oh yeah,

703
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: let's get in touch, I'll just, you know, slip into

704
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: my d M. And I'm like, sounds so dirty, slip

705
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: into my d M. I'd rather text me. It's more.

706
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's something more personable about it, right,

707
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: But that's how like social Yeah, slip, but why do

708
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: they say slip? It sounds really nasty to my d M.

709
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: And then someone yesterday told me they were like, hey,

710
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: just drop into my DM. I'm like, oh in my

711
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: outstated now I had just gotten like cool with like

712
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: slip into my d M, and now I'm like, oh,

713
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: I think it's dropped now to your d M. Is

714
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: when you know you have all the d m s

715
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: and you don't notice it and then and then you

716
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: see it later. I think I drop into your d

717
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: M must be like bam, I just sent it like

718
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 1: we dropped right? Interesting? Interesting, Okay, yeah, these are very

719
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: important conversations everybody, Ye JOHNA. Martin. So it's like there

720
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: you go. Well we need to talk about fashion and

721
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 1: our our favorite lines and then also get to a

722
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: few emails. Um, so let's take a break and we'll

723
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 1: come back. Hey. This is Becca Tilly and Tanya Rada

724
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: Rad that's me. Yeah, and we have a podcast called

725
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: scrubbing In. Yeah, we do. We are two best friends

726
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: and we love Grey's Anatomy, hence the name scrubbing In exactly.

727
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 1: And this week we have one of Grey's Anatomy's very

728
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: own Anthony Hill, who plays Winston on the podcast to

729
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: chat about what's been going on. If you follow as aonomy,

730
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: you know that. I mean, there's just a lot to

731
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: talk about. There are sudden deaths, people are coming back

732
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: this season. There's a whole lot going on. It is

733
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: a huge season for Grey's Anatomy. So I highly suggest

734
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 1: you tune in. And you're not just gonna get Gray's Anatomy.

735
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: I mean, we have girl talk. It's just girl talk.

736
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 1: It's like you're talking with your best friends on the couch. Yeah,

737
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 1: except not with your best friends. You're talking with us,

738
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: your virtual best friends, virtual bfs. That's right. So listen

739
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: to Scrubbing In on the I Heart Radio app on

740
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. So in

741
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: this episode, the rem Brands song played during Steve and

742
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: Andreas very surprising. Kiss Um, why don't we talk to

743
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: the rem Brands? Now we have Phil solom on the

744
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: line from the rem Brands, your half of the rem Brands.

745
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 1: This is what I find interesting about you had have

746
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 1: had over four decades of friendship and beautiful artistic collaboration

747
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: with one person, with Danny Wild, And I find that

748
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: sort of symbolic because Tory and I kind of have

749
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 1: that seem very long history together, still working together, still

750
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: loving it, and I was just thinking, like, what do

751
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: you think is the secret to that kind of a

752
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: successful relationship with a partner. Um Probably that we just

753
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: don't know what else to do and we just keep

754
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 1: on doing whatever comes up. You know, if there's a secret,

755
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 1: somebody please tell me. Well, I think it's pretty obvious

756
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: that you guys have a great love for each other

757
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: and that you have, um built a level of trust

758
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: that you don't maybe have with other people. So you

759
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: guys are comfortable well to each other. Yeah, we have

760
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: a I don't know if it's like an intrinsic thing.

761
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 1: From the minute we met, we kind of knew that

762
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: there would be some you know, we were in separate

763
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: bands out in Hollywood at the time and just kind

764
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: of ended up like, wow, okay, we created a new

765
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 1: band and got in it, and then eventually this remembrance

766
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: thing happened. So yeah, on again, off again, right. I

767
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: love that. I love that about you guys. Relationship and

768
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:19,839
Speaker 1: remembrance for me, just there's just so melodic and there's

769
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: so many beautiful harmonies, and that's just think Yeah, that's

770
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: what you guys your I think, wasn't your breakout kind

771
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 1: of song for the Remembrance? Wasn't it just the way

772
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 1: it is? Baby, that's just the way that's just exactly.

773
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, that's the first song that

774
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: we recorded as the Rembrands, and we weren't in called

775
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: The Remembrance the time. We just got together to write

776
00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 1: some tunes and maybe get a publishing deal, and that

777
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:04,360
Speaker 1: was the first song we wrote, and h it was

778
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: the first thing record and it just kind of all

779
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: fell into place from that. How did we get so

780
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: lucky to have no show? I mean, we had your

781
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: music on the show, but do you remember, I mean,

782
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: you have so much to remember. How did we get

783
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 1: so lucky to be on the show? Thank you? But

784
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 1: we felt lucky to have you grateful? Yeah, that was

785
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 1: big for us. That was major. Oh really it was

786
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: more major thing to show well we both benefited in

787
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: a good way. Then yeah, okay, can we get to

788
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: the Friends theme song? Now? I'm time to know what

789
00:47:42,280 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: would you like to know? That was your second song? Right,

790
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 1: hit song? Well, we had a couple other songs that

791
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 1: weren't quite that didn't you know, really become smashes or anything.

792
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: But then pretty early on Yeah, we stumbled into the

793
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 1: Friends camp and when that came out, we were just

794
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: we really thought it was just going to be like

795
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 1: we will be the mystery sound of this show and

796
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: that that will be that. But then our excuse me,

797
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: a record company decided because there were so many requests

798
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 1: everywhere on radio stations for it and it was only

799
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: a forty two second long song. Oh my god, you

800
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: guys are going to write more to this and finish it.

801
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna put it on your record. And that's how

802
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: it happened. Wait, I have a question. Sorry, I probably

803
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 1: everyone knows the answer to this, but what came first?

804
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: The chicken or egg? Like? You had the song? It

805
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 1: was a hit, and then friends, how does that work?

806
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: They license it to be the theme song or you

807
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:08,720
Speaker 1: wrote it for them. We wrote it with the music

808
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 1: director of the show, and he had the idea of

809
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,959
Speaker 1: mainly how it would scan out. Has to be this long,

810
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: it has to be here's some parts. He had some

811
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 1: he jammed out some piano stuff, and then we uh,

812
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 1: you know, experimented and they have Allie Willis sending lyrics

813
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: from her place via facts I Love her, I have

814
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 1: facts machine. Well, I have a crazy question. Do you

815
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: get paid every time that song comes on? Jenny Garth,

816
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you get a little slice. You know. The

817
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: show is just I think they're saving it. They're going

818
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: to surprise this one name a big present, a big

819
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 1: Christmas bonus. My twelve year old and my nine year

820
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 1: old or obsessed with friends now and they've discovered it

821
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 1: and they think it's like their show. They have no

822
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 1: idea that I was like, oh my god in the nineties,

823
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 1: like this was our show. They think it's something new

824
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: for them, and they're like friends, and they have all

825
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 1: like the merchandise that's out now and Target like friends,

826
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 1: and they they walk around singing the song and it

827
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: blows my mind because I'm like, oh my god, that

828
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 1: was me in the nineties and now my kids are

829
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: singing it, so yeah, you span generations. Wait, so Courtney

830
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: Cox playing, she learned to play the song on the piano.

831
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 1: She actually played. Yeah, I saw that couple three four

832
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: weeks ago she uh put a video out on Instagram

833
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: and I was, yeah, it was her playing. I didn't

834
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 1: know she could play piano, but you know, we did

835
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: a video together with those guys and Courtney played drunes

836
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: and video. That's right. So I've always wanted to ask

837
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: a famous musician this, but um, I don't know any

838
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: You're You're the only famous musician I know. So what

839
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: what happens when you're in a rust or in a

840
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: bar and you hear them play one of your songs? Like?

841
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: What happens? Does everyone look at you? And are you like? Like?

842
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: What do you do? My My internal calculator starts adding

843
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 1: up how we get? I love you? Man? So wait,

844
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: so what are you? What's coming up next for you?

845
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: What do you got on the back burner or the

846
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: front burner? I don't know. Well, it's funny because we

847
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: just released a new album last year, well actually the

848
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: end of and Uh, and then we were fixing to

849
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 1: get out on the road and promote it, and we

850
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: had a whole tour booked and then this COVID thing

851
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 1: kicked in and everything got canceled. So maybe we'll pick

852
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 1: up where we left off when when it's safe, if

853
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: you ever go back out, we could be your groupies

854
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: when when it's safe to go back out. I'm kind

855
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: of us about going back out. Spent a whole year

856
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: in my house. Well, I think I'm hope that you

857
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: guys are comfortable and everyone is able to come and

858
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 1: see your your concerts coming up. We just want to

859
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: say thank you so much. Thank you, it was great

860
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 1: talking to you. Were such fans. Yeah, everybody has linked

861
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: love language, you know, how you show your love to

862
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: someone or how it is that you show up in

863
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: a relationship. For me and my husband, communication is not

864
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 1: our strong suit. We don't communicate easily efficiently together or

865
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 1: to anyone. But we're just not good communicators. So my

866
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: husband made me. Um, when I had to go to Canada,

867
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 1: he made me or how would I have to go anywhere?

868
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: He makes me want a playlist and when you listen

869
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: to the music, you get the message of whatever he's

870
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: really truly feeling, like, because all of the songs say

871
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 1: something amazing and make you feel so loved and like

872
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,240
Speaker 1: just talk about he's the luckiest man in the world,

873
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: and you know, like he communicates through his music. I

874
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,839
Speaker 1: think that's Oh my god, I'm rushing on Dave right now.

875
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god. He'll make you one too. He loves

876
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: to do it. I swear maybe it'll be it'll have

877
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 1: a different theme obviously, but he'll make Oh my god,

878
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna slip into Dave's d M s. No,

879
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm in. I'm I follow him, so he

880
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: follows me, so drop it. I'll drop a d M

881
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 1: to him and say, Dave, like for my birthday, when

882
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: you make me a playlist? He will be so happy

883
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: to do that. I was looking on Instagram yesterday and

884
00:53:56,760 --> 00:54:00,839
Speaker 1: Dave was on and um he by the way, he's

885
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 1: the most supportive like friend ever. Like all my stories,

886
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:09,400
Speaker 1: Dave's always there. It makes me feel really good. No,

887
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm always like, oh good. Is it that? Or is

888
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: he just spending a way too much time on his

889
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,800
Speaker 1: I think he's efficient. I don't know. I feel special

890
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: too much. But he was eating what looked like a

891
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 1: can of peanut butter. Oh my god, did he even?

892
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: I almost like he wasending first made me think I

893
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: was like, oh he's missing her. Look at this looking

894
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: poor guy. It's come to that, and you know what

895
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: it's come to that made bad deep in the pantry.

896
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,879
Speaker 1: You guys, it's not just a jar of peanut butter

897
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:45,880
Speaker 1: your can. It's a giant can from like restaurant depot.

898
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:52,440
Speaker 1: Because I bake the pies for his restaurants sometimes. Oh,

899
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,359
Speaker 1: and I have a lot of supplies. That is one

900
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 1: of my pie baking supplies. And he would ate it

901
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: like that's for the pies. But like like you're talking

902
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: about it about communication in your own love language, like

903
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 1: that picture set a thousand words. I was like, Oh,

904
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: he's ready for her to come home. The canopy in

905
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: butt industrial size, it was night. Oh that's good. Should

906
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:29,280
Speaker 1: we talk fashion? We didn't. Oh we didn't. Oh, man didn't.

907
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: I didn't. There was no like like standout fashion moments

908
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,240
Speaker 1: for me in this episode. I mean, all the boys

909
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: kind of looked the same as each other. Pleaded pants,

910
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: blousy man, blousy shirts. Dylan it's the first time I've

911
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 1: seen Dylan and as Steve Blouse. My writer, am I right?

912
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: I was like, go to the blouse barn are right,

913
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: let's see. Yeah, And it was like I'm looking at

914
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: a picture it right now, black collar, black sleeves, and

915
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 1: it was like puke green and like lavender straight, Like

916
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 1: what's happening. It's crazy. Then they had a really cool

917
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 1: pink suit at the hospital. Cindy looked great. Yeah, she

918
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: had another the other time when she went to the

919
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:19,240
Speaker 1: doctor's office, with Brenda. She showed up at the school.

920
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,720
Speaker 1: She looked like a Beverly Hills mom all of a sudden.

921
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: See funny enough, I didn't love her outfits in this episode.

922
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: I felt like they were trying her when her hairs

923
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 1: like loose and she had her mom jeans and a

924
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,799
Speaker 1: blouse tucked in and just kind of looks so like

925
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 1: they definitely felt like the costumer was trying to her

926
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 1: aunt to change her Yeah, fitting into Beverly Hills. Her

927
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: hair looked different. It was like all around different. I mean,

928
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to be honest. She looked older like she

929
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 1: usually looks so care free and fun and young and

930
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,399
Speaker 1: like cool mom and I love her looks. And here

931
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is like an example when

932
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 1: people are like, oh my god, do I look like you?

933
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: Kind of I look like I'm wearing my mom's clothes,

934
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 1: like she looked like she was wearing mom mom clothes.

935
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: There wasn't a lot of other great fashion modes. Did

936
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 1: you guys have a favorite line from the episode? Perto

937
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: lay it on me? Um? So my line I loved

938
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 1: and I'm sure you guys loved this one too. Was

939
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: Brenda's hope for the best expect the worst. I didn't

940
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: like that line. You don't like it, No, philosophically I

941
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: disagree with it hope for the best because it's like

942
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 1: kind of like, Okay, here's the worst case scenario. If

943
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: I expect the worst, then I can only be like

944
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: happy with anything better. I guess you're right, it's a

945
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: little glass half empty. But yeah, I just I don't know.

946
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't think you should expect the worst in any situation.

947
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 1: I think you should always expect the best. Fine, you're right,

948
00:57:56,520 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: and it's like manifestation. Yeah, like, don't even think about

949
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: the worst, think about the best cards anyway? Okay, sorry,

950
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: going um mine. We talked about kind of already and

951
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't my favorite per se, but it stood out

952
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: to me, and it was Kelly and Donna telling Brenda,

953
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: and I think Kelly is the one that said it

954
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: that she really doesn't hope that that that ever happens

955
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: to her breasts, and then it was just it just

956
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: came out so wrong and we both made it about us.

957
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: I hope it doesn't exactly and then like me to um,

958
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: what else? Oh, did I have a favorite line? Did

959
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: you let me think? I want to think Oh, yeah,

960
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: I would have to be. I guess my hormones are

961
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 1: raging at the end, when Brenda says that when she

962
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: doesn't have the thing, I thought, I thought it was

963
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: really cute, and I thought that it well, that was cute.

964
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: I think they even like showed a glimpse of Dylan

965
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: when she says that, tell me about it, Yeah, right,

966
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: tell me about it? All right. We have some questions

967
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: from listeners. Ashley is saying, I have a question for

968
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 1: Jenny and torr. Out of all the different seasons of

969
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: NOO to know, have you ever been jealous or envious

970
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: of someone else's character or storyline at the time? Was

971
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: there ever a story arc you wish your character would

972
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 1: have gotten to experience. Well, Ashley, as you asked that question,

973
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: I was thinking, what would it be? What would it be? Um?

974
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: The only thing that came to my mind instantly, which

975
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: I'm sure there were other instances definitely where I was like, oh,

976
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: that would have been so cool to have that storyline, um,

977
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: was when we were all at the This is a

978
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: spoiler alert, but I have to um, we were all

979
00:59:56,760 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 1: at Dylan, and I think her mind name was Tony's

980
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: wedding on a Cliff overlooking the Pacific Ocean in Malibu.

981
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 1: I just remember, wish it was you, I did well.

982
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 1: I wish that was me getting married to Dylan. Oh really,

983
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: I can't remember that vividly because we were just the

984
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: guests for more of the sake of Kelly marrying Dylan,

985
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 1: or just for the fact that, like you wanted to

986
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 1: act out a wedding, like being a wedding dress. Both.

987
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to marry Dylan, Okay, I wanted Kelly to

988
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: be marrying Dylan and having that special, beautiful wedding because

989
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 1: it was beautiful. I don't know. I'm biting my tongue,

990
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 1: my lips, everything, I'm biting everything because it's so multi layered. Whatever.

991
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 1: What was, what's yours? What's yours? This question? Damn it.

992
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: She's like, don't go there, you need to answer. I

993
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: think for me, it was probably the first couple of

994
01:00:55,920 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: seasons just um, not jealous so much, but watching all

995
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 1: the girls have storylines and dialogue and and kind of

996
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: you know, my my character grew slowly, so it was

997
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 1: just a lot of one liners, which, honestly, sometimes one

998
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: liners are harder, especially if they're not going if you

999
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 1: have a zinger of a funny one liner, that's easier.

1000
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 1: But if you're sitting in a scene and you have

1001
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: one line and there's a whole scene you're depending on,

1002
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 1: Like you're looking and you're happy, you're listening, and you're listening,

1003
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: and your eyes and you know, it's just it's difficult.

1004
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: I just looked really crazy. I don't that seems going

1005
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 1: to be weird, but that there were times where I

1006
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, I can't I can't wait. I hope

1007
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 1: one day I have like a big storyline, I can

1008
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: have a scene where it's two of us and I'm

1009
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 1: just we're talking back and forth. And it happened. Obviously,

1010
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 1: your dreams came true. They hated it. I didn't expect

1011
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: the worst. That's exactly my point. People, You're right, Okay,

1012
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 1: Sean is asking a very serious and long question. Um,

1013
01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 1: so here we go. How does this make you, guys feel?

1014
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,920
Speaker 1: Now watching the show and seeing Brenda with a scare

1015
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: and knowing Shannon is currently battling her second round of

1016
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: stage four. Also, after Shannon left the show, there was

1017
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 1: an estrangement as far as I know from the media,

1018
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: between Jenny and Shannon. But when Shannon had cancered the

1019
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 1: first time. Jenny posted this wonderful tribute and created the

1020
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: best hashtag hashtag fight like Brenda. It was so moving

1021
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: and wonderful to see the sisterhood and bond of the

1022
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 1: friendship reignited after all those years. How did that all

1023
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 1: come about? Well, Sean, that is a long question. Um. First,

1024
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 1: I'll dressed the beginning. I think that. Yeah, we already

1025
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 1: kind of talked about that in the beginning of the episode.

1026
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 1: How was out of It was hard for us to

1027
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: watch this, yeah, and who knew? And and now watching

1028
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 1: it back, it's it's eerie and it's not it's not good.

1029
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:15,240
Speaker 1: It's not a good feeling. Now it was you know,

1030
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: we I remember like when she had fought in and

1031
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 1: overcame and was in remission. We we looked back and

1032
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 1: we're like, oh, that was a coincidence. But she came

1033
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: back from it, and obviously you're correct, she's you know,

1034
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 1: battling it again. But um, we believe in her and

1035
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 1: she's such a strong, strong woman. UM, and she does

1036
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 1: so much. She's such an inspiration for women everywhere, UM

1037
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: going through this. So it's still hard to watch them.

1038
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 1: M hmm. I'll be glad to get to the next episode.

1039
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: And I mean to address the other part of your

1040
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 1: question because I don't want to be rude. Um. Yeah,

1041
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 1: there was, uh you know, there was the word out

1042
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: there that Shannon and I didn't get along or we

1043
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: were estranged as you called it. Um. I don't think

1044
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 1: that's the case though. I mean, Shannon and I are

1045
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: two aries women. I don't need to say any more

1046
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: than that. Um. We lock horns sometimes as rams, do,

1047
01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 1: you know. And I actually like that about her and

1048
01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 1: she likes that about me. So UM, we've never had

1049
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: a problem with our differences. I don't think. Uh, there's

1050
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 1: been times when there's been feelings hurt and things said,

1051
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: but that you your sisters. At the end of the day,

1052
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: there's a bond that we all have with one another,

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Speaker 1: all the cast members have with one another that it

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Speaker 1: it is like it's like super glue. You can never

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Speaker 1: break that bond. And so we're all going to be

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Speaker 1: there to support each other at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: no matter what any of us are going through. Whenever

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Speaker 1: one of us truly needs the other one, I know

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Speaker 1: that they will be there for me, and just like

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Speaker 1: we are for Shannon. But I didn't know that you

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Speaker 1: did that hashtag fight like a Brenda. I love that

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Speaker 1: because it's so true. I mean yeah, I mean that's

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Speaker 1: a good one. I made up a good hashtag that day.

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Speaker 1: I might have a career in hashtags. You guys, Hey,

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Speaker 1: if this podcast thing doesn't work out, which it will

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Speaker 1: because we have five stars, but little it could be

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Speaker 1: your side hustle creating hashtags for people. I'm want to

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Speaker 1: work on it. Good stuff. Well, I think that does

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Speaker 1: it for today's podcast, Ladies Homework Assignment is Episode nineteen.

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Speaker 1: April is the cruelest month. Be there we We will

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Speaker 1: see you all next week. Bye, guys, I lippened to

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Speaker 1: my d N. I'm just kidding that, like the funny

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Speaker 1: one liner at the end.