Speaker 1: Second data dat When you google somebody you're dating, ninety
Speaker 1: nine percent of the time you're looking for big red
Speaker 1: flags like a long criminal record, embarrassing ig photos with
Speaker 1: the wrong filter. Oh, I was thinking like a marriage license.
Speaker 1: But okays the young people. No. Oh, he's a six
Speaker 1: time champion of the annual four Loco chugging contest. That's
Speaker 1: a good thing, better than not at all. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: rarely do you find stuff online that makes you like
Speaker 1: them even more, right, But I guess that was the
Speaker 1: case for one of our listeners, Nicole, who says she's
Speaker 1: more attracted to the guy after she googled him and
Speaker 1: before we get to what she discovered. Apparently she has
Speaker 1: a nice, little meat cute story. So Nicole tell us
Speaker 1: about him. Who, what, where? When? Why? Well that's a lot.
Speaker 1: Well it's a little different. We met at an open house,
Speaker 1: what like for like a real estate open house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just a really beautiful house. And you're both
Speaker 1: very rich. I would not say that I'm very rich,
Speaker 1: but I was looking at the mortgage, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sometimes you could just go to an open house without
Speaker 1: the intention of buying. You're just here for fun. Oh,
Speaker 1: I do it in my neighborhood because I like to
Speaker 1: spy and see what people really live. Like, Yeah, no
Speaker 1: one else. It's not even an open house. He just
Speaker 1: breaks in it. But Nicole, you were looking at an
Speaker 1: open house? And how did you meet? Still still know
Speaker 1: his name yet? What's his name? Nathan? Nathan? How did
Speaker 1: you meet Nathan? Well? I'm assuming maybe I was dressed
Speaker 1: too nicely because he thought I was a realtor and
Speaker 1: started asking me questions about the house. Mistake. Yeah, probably
Speaker 1: very put together. And it's funny. Did you know immediately
Speaker 1: that you liked him? I mean, did you have a spark? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He was very cute. Yeah, there you go. So I said, okay,
Speaker 1: would you like to see a tour of the house? Wait? Wait,
Speaker 1: so you actually like we're acting like the real estate
Speaker 1: agent even though you weren't. Yeah, why not? Okay? I mean,
Speaker 1: how hard is it? It's like, here's a room that's
Speaker 1: a bathroom. Well, no, it's in the thousand as range.
Speaker 1: At what point did he find out your lie? Well,
Speaker 1: we were going on for a little while and then
Speaker 1: I was trying to sound fancy, so I said something
Speaker 1: like ship lap and he was like, that's not ship lap.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, okay, well you're cute and
Speaker 1: you know, is that what you said? Yeah, I just,
Speaker 1: you know, eventually gave myself up and I think he
Speaker 1: appreciated my joke about it. Okay. Yeah, And so did
Speaker 1: this lead to an official date or is the house
Speaker 1: tour considered your date? Oh? Yeah, you know. I think
Speaker 1: I made some joke about like can we sign the deal,
Speaker 1: you know or something, and I gave him my business
Speaker 1: card and he said I'll call you when he did.
Speaker 1: Oh he did. Okay, So we did like a joke
Speaker 1: would you guys end up doing? We ended up going
Speaker 1: to this nice Mexican place, And I did go ahead
Speaker 1: and google him before the date, which as a single
Speaker 1: woman sometimes you just want to be sure that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody does it. Yeah, I'm curious. What
Speaker 1: did you find when you looked him up? Wow? I mean,
Speaker 1: please don't tell him this because I don't want him
Speaker 1: to find out. He's really nice and really sweet and
Speaker 1: smart and cute. Um, but yeah he's kind of rich.
Speaker 1: Oh the hot God's rich. Yeah, what did you find? Well,
Speaker 1: apparently his family owns like a franchise of car dealerships. Interesting, So, yeah,
Speaker 1: do you think did that change the way you behaved
Speaker 1: on the date. I don't think it's changed my behavior.
Speaker 1: I mean it was definitely more motivated. I mean a
Speaker 1: lot of bad things, but right. But I don't know
Speaker 1: how that just throwing out terms like oh, carburetor, let's
Speaker 1: have some appetizers. I mean, how did dinner go? It
Speaker 1: was great. We were having really lovely conversation and connecting
Speaker 1: on a lot of levels, especially with like troubles and
Speaker 1: Athens came up. Athens Greece, Oh, yeah, which I've been
Speaker 1: wanting to go to for many years. And he said, oh, well,
Speaker 1: I've been several times. You know, it's a fantastic places.
Speaker 1: So did you I mean, did you take that as
Speaker 1: like he wanted to go with you, like making future plans?
Speaker 1: He kind of implied like, oh, well, I don't have
Speaker 1: the kind of job where I'm changed to a death.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, that's such a thing. Say that means
Speaker 1: I have a rich daddy. That means there's all these
Speaker 1: reasons that he's given you why this is something worth pursuing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we had great conversation and I really like him.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't care about the money. I mean, yes,
Speaker 1: that's a nice bonus. But yeah, you know, I mean
Speaker 1: he's a good guy. I mean the other thing that
Speaker 1: I learned he got a humanitarian award City four. People
Speaker 1: do good things and they never get awards that. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: well that must be kind of intimidating. Did you ever
Speaker 1: bring that up to him? Oh no, of course not. No, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no no, because you would have been outed for
Speaker 1: googling him at that point. Yeah, you could say you
Speaker 1: just give off like humanitarian. I feel like he must
Speaker 1: have worn something very familiar. I've been following the awards
Speaker 1: circuit for a while. Now you could get away with it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. But how long has it been since
Speaker 1: you last spoke with Nathan. It's been like two weeks.
Speaker 1: And I mean we had a really nice pug and
Speaker 1: kids goodbye. I'm oh kiss, you know, not like crazy,
Speaker 1: but really lovely. And yeah, I'm just afraid that he
Speaker 1: either found out that I googled him or he thinks
Speaker 1: I want to date him for his money. And yeah,
Speaker 1: but people got to be used to googling each other
Speaker 1: by now. I mean, it's just what you do. Weird,
Speaker 1: And I have heard the cell phone reception in Greece
Speaker 1: on top of the acropolyps. That great think it's not
Speaker 1: coming engay, Yeah, maybe that's the reason it's the acropolis. No, nothing,
Speaker 1: not for the fantasy. But we're gonna play a song.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do a long distance call possibly and try
Speaker 1: and figure out what's going on with n for your
Speaker 1: second date update next second date. He is a jet
Speaker 1: setting World Traveling award winning humanitarian with a giant trust
Speaker 1: fund from his family's car dealership empire. But he got
Speaker 1: something giant too. Our listener says she doesn't care about
Speaker 1: any of that boring stuff. She just likes that he's
Speaker 1: nice and laughed at her real estate joke about crown
Speaker 1: molding once well. She told us about how she met
Speaker 1: Nathan and afterwards secretly googled him to find out what
Speaker 1: a great guy he really is. During the date, they
Speaker 1: talked about travel and Athens and the history of Greek culture.
Speaker 1: She was trying to hint at some of the things
Speaker 1: that she discovered without outright saying I looked you up online.
Speaker 1: But now affluent Nate is not calling her back. My theory,
Speaker 1: his yacht hit a wave and he dropped his phone
Speaker 1: in the waters off the coast of Spain. Oh, well
Speaker 1: you would know best. Now he's sailing back to see
Speaker 1: you in person. Nicole, that's what Brook, what's your theory?
Speaker 1: I think he just has a lot of probably other options.
Speaker 1: I mean, not that you're not a great option. Nicole.
Speaker 1: Thank Yeah. Do you believed when she said that he
Speaker 1: kissed you? He kissed you the other night? It sounds lovely.
Speaker 1: Rich bachelor's never kiss beautiful women. That's never happened. Everyone,
Speaker 1: they saved themselves for marriage absolutely every time that he's not.
Speaker 1: Let's just call Nate and see what he has to say.
Speaker 1: We'll see which one of our theories is right. You
Speaker 1: ready to do this, Nicole? Yes, finally, yes, please, Okay,
Speaker 1: won't waste any more time. Let's get to it. Hello. Hey,
Speaker 1: is this Nathan? Yeah, who's calling? But what he asked?
Speaker 1: Who's calling? I'm sorry you were talking about I just said, Oh, Nathan,
Speaker 1: we're calling from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sure you've heard of it before.
Speaker 1: It's very high class. We're international. Yeah, yeah, I guess
Speaker 1: so that was believable. This is a segment that we
Speaker 1: do call a second Date Update, and we're trying to
Speaker 1: help one of our listeners reconnect with you after you
Speaker 1: went out on a date with her? Now, are you
Speaker 1: a virgin? Who? Okay, one fear knocked down for why
Speaker 1: you're not calling her back? Are you curious that we're
Speaker 1: talking about Nathan? I mean, are you talking about a Nicole?
Speaker 1: I'm guessing, Oh, don't have too many options. Interesting. We're
Speaker 1: calling because Nicole reached out to us, told us a
Speaker 1: little bit about how you guys met and the date
Speaker 1: you went on, had a really nice time with you,
Speaker 1: and now she's confused why you haven't reconnected. I mean, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought about calling her, of course. I mean she's
Speaker 1: super nice and beautiful and whatever. But like you, I
Speaker 1: don't know what to do exactly. What do you mean
Speaker 1: did you connect? I mean like she seems to like
Speaker 1: she really connected with you? I mean, what do you
Speaker 1: mean you don't know what to do? Well? I mean
Speaker 1: I think we did really connect. It was it was
Speaker 1: an awesome time, like good, I think she thinks I'm
Speaker 1: someone else? What what do you want? What do you mean?
Speaker 1: So like we're just talking about traveling? Yeah, and she
Speaker 1: mentioned that she had always wanted to go to Athens. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's a pretty popular place to travel. Yeah,
Speaker 1: awesome place. Yeah. The thing is, she started going off
Speaker 1: on like the history of the place, and I was like,
Speaker 1: uh yeah, and like, you know, I don't know anything
Speaker 1: about Athens. Really have you been there? Yeah? Um? The
Speaker 1: thing is, and this is the part that's like kind
Speaker 1: of weird. Um, I mean the Athens, Georgia, not Athens
Speaker 1: Greece's Oh it's pretty much the same place though, right,
Speaker 1: not at all? Jeff, are you kidding? Were you just
Speaker 1: saying you've been to Athens to like make her think
Speaker 1: you're a world traveler or did you? I mean, you
Speaker 1: couldn't have honestly thought she was talking about how she
Speaker 1: wanted to travel to Athens, Georgia. Hey wow, Georgia's beautiful. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was just going with a conversation,
Speaker 1: you know, like I didn't I didn't want it because
Speaker 1: I figured if I busted that on her, like the
Speaker 1: date would end or something, because, like you said, who
Speaker 1: wants to go to Athens Georgia? Okay, Well, I mean
Speaker 1: that's one misunderstanding. I'm sure she would be willing to
Speaker 1: look past that if you just admitted, oh sorry, I
Speaker 1: didn't know what you meant, but she must have googled
Speaker 1: me or something, and there must I think there's someone
Speaker 1: out there with my exact name who I don't know,
Speaker 1: probably has been to Athens, Greece and and has a
Speaker 1: lot of cars, because like started mentioning car dealerships and stuff.
Speaker 1: Oh real slick, Okay, So what do you for a living? Bro?
Speaker 1: What do I do for a living? I'm like the
Speaker 1: you know, jack of all trades. Just right now, just
Speaker 1: right now. That's okay. No, No, that's fine. That's just
Speaker 1: what I always means. Your family doesn't own a string
Speaker 1: of car dealerships. No, but like I was selling a
Speaker 1: previous ones on Facebook. Yeah, that's different. Different. Are you
Speaker 1: not calling her back because you don't want to disappoint
Speaker 1: her that you're not that person? Yeah? And it's like
Speaker 1: I think she thinks I'm rich and I didn't know.
Speaker 1: If it was like a huge deal for her, then
Speaker 1: I'm not rich, and then I don't you know, I
Speaker 1: wasn't trying to lie to her. But it's like it
Speaker 1: was either I come clean and the date would probably end,
Speaker 1: or I wait and I figure it out. That's okay,
Speaker 1: Yeah it is, And luckily that decision has now been
Speaker 1: taken completely out of your hands because you already just
Speaker 1: came clean about the truth to her. Because you don't
Speaker 1: know this, Nathan. But Nicole has been on the other
Speaker 1: line listening this whole time. Why yeah, that's her. She
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. What a rich man would say, Nicole,
Speaker 1: say hi to Prince Charming. Ah yeah, wow. Um, I
Speaker 1: don't know what to say. I am just I just
Speaker 1: I was just like super embarrassed on the date and
Speaker 1: didn't know what to say. And I thought we were
Speaker 1: having a good time, so I didn't like want to
Speaker 1: ruin it. Oh okay, Nicole, everything, Okay, that's I mean,
Speaker 1: he didn't lie to you. You just made assumptions about
Speaker 1: who he was. Okay, No, that's that's that's fair. Um,
Speaker 1: didn't you win a humanitarian award? I'm confused? Oh? Um, Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, like no, not exactly, but I was there.
Speaker 1: I was at the awards that I think you're talking about.
Speaker 1: I was part of the catering team. Oh oh, so
Speaker 1: he was a humanitarian to the humanitarians. Yeah yeah, that
Speaker 1: sounds so hesitant right now, Nicole. Well, I don't mean
Speaker 1: to be rude, but I feel like he sounds less confident.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm a handy man. You know, I
Speaker 1: can cater, I can plumb, I can I can do
Speaker 1: like electric work of sort, and I'll build your stuff. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know how to do that. Yeah that's good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm like a regular I'm a regular dude. I'm just
Speaker 1: the you know, middle class guy. Sounds like just the
Speaker 1: type of thing Alexis is looking for. Right, I openly
Speaker 1: say I only go for rich guys, not like her.
Speaker 1: I mean, were you just at the open house for
Speaker 1: the free wine? Oh yeah, I mean I wasn't not
Speaker 1: there for free wine. This guy he's resourceful, and you
Speaker 1: lie to the open house too. You said, yes, you
Speaker 1: were actually the one that was lying, and wine gives
Speaker 1: you a little bit of liquid confidence for your date.
Speaker 1: There you go. I mean like it takes confidence to
Speaker 1: pretend you're going to buy a house and just take
Speaker 1: the wine. And it makes sense why he actually believed
Speaker 1: you were the agent. Yes, I mean, Nicole, I honestly
Speaker 1: don't think you should miss out on this guy. He's
Speaker 1: a sweet dude, he's resourceful, could give you a great
Speaker 1: deal on a used Prius. So that's why I want
Speaker 1: to ask you right now, if you'd like to go
Speaker 1: on one more date with Nathan and we'll pay for it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: no one to worry. Well, I don't know if I
Speaker 1: want to go out with him on a romantic dab,
Speaker 1: but we could definitely be friends. Oh man, Well, Nathan,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry this didn't work out for you, but thank
Speaker 1: you for your time. Yeah. Yeah, the least I know now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: good attitude, man. And if we ever need some recommendations
Speaker 1: for some diners in Athens, Georgia, yea, yeah, absolutely, or
Speaker 1: if you need your toilet on clods. Oh even better?
Speaker 1: Is there nothing you can't do? Brookie Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know, it's pretty convenient to find out a rich
Speaker 1: guy isn't actually rich and then you say, yeah, he
Speaker 1: just doesn't sound confident now, and especially now that all
Speaker 1: the commas are gone from this bank again. Maybe that's
Speaker 1: what she meant comment. Yeah prominent, isn't that interesting? That's
Speaker 1: disappointing to me. Yeah. I wanted to win for him.
Speaker 1: I did, and it shouldn't matter Alex Alexus whatever. If
Speaker 1: she hired me to google him, I would have found
Speaker 1: better info. She obviously didn't click the images. Yeah, come on,
Speaker 1: get better. I guess the saving grace for Alexis is
Speaker 1: that she lets them know that she's shallow up front exactly.
Speaker 1: But the girl on the line, she claimed that she
Speaker 1: didn't care about it. He wasn't rich. No money doesn't
Speaker 1: matter to me. And then it's like, oh, I don't
Speaker 1: like his voice. Now, yeah, he sounds lame. Yeah. The
Speaker 1: one thing I can say is good on her willing
Speaker 1: to love him as a friend. That's not good. Maybe
Speaker 1: even donate to his housing costs some day, benevolent of her. Okay, now,
Speaker 1: you guys aren't sounding confident to me. I don't like
Speaker 1: your voice. But if you ever want to get a
Speaker 1: second at update, you can email the show. We'll call
Speaker 1: the person who wasn't calling you back, as long as
Speaker 1: you sound confident about