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Speaker 1: This is Kelly Henderson and this is Chip Dors and

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Speaker 1: you are listening to Act Casual on Velvet's Edge. This week,

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Speaker 1: we were talking about, let's call it, I don't know

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Speaker 1: language pet peeves. For example, words people don't like to say,

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Speaker 1: or common mispronunciations. I would honestly even cause some of

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Speaker 1: these verbal ticks. You know what I'm saying. Literally. We

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Speaker 1: also talk about how you should handle it or cope

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Speaker 1: when someone in your life is guilty of these offenses.

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Speaker 1: Here's Act Casual. Okay, So I got into annoying cart

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Speaker 1: and annoying conversation that's hard to say, wow, annoying conversation

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Speaker 1: with a friend the other day because I said something like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, it was literally the worst, and he said, okay,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't literally the worst, because the worst things have

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Speaker 1: obviously happened in my life. And one of his pet

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Speaker 1: peeves is when people misuse the word literally. Have you

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Speaker 1: heard of this long? Yeah? Well yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's that's definitely the word. It's it's seeped

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Speaker 1: its way into like just popular use incorrectly, yes, which

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Speaker 1: I mean like for me, I do probably overuse it.

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Speaker 1: And I have a friend who says literally, which I

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Speaker 1: actually love, but that annoys people even more. But it

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Speaker 1: got me thinking about all of the things that either

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Speaker 1: people misuse or people say incorrectly, and how you handle

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Speaker 1: it when you're in those situations. Like another one, this

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Speaker 1: other friend of mine really hates when people say oh

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Speaker 1: a or like a thousand percent because too guilty. I

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Speaker 1: do too, but you really can't be more than a

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Speaker 1: Like that's a maximum, But isn't that The point is?

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Speaker 1: You're like, I'm will give this more. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: above and beyond. Want to do that. That's how I

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Speaker 1: feel about it, but it annoys him so bad. So

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Speaker 1: I wanted to get this conversation started because this obviously

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Speaker 1: happens a lot in our day to day and talk

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Speaker 1: about how you handle it. Which I found very funny though,

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Speaker 1: because when I reached out to you about this, you

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Speaker 1: were like, oh, yeah, I have a running list, so

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Speaker 1: let's hear it. What do you got? Well, Um, I

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Speaker 1: have a friend that she and I sort of crack up,

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Speaker 1: especially when it's when we have other friends that are

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Speaker 1: seemingly educated people that say things wrong. So I keep

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Speaker 1: a running list. Um, I've heard instead of ultimatum I've

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Speaker 1: heard ultimatum. I've seen this one written out instead of

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Speaker 1: a work in progress, a working progress, working like yeah,

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Speaker 1: I energy like a working progress. And you're like, you're

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Speaker 1: saying these are intellectual people. Well some of them I

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Speaker 1: I'm writing it down. Um, New Year's Revolution. Have you

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Speaker 1: never heard that? But how embarrassing if you're so amped up,

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Speaker 1: Like what's your New Year's Revolution? I mean, it is like,

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Speaker 1: let's take over the world. It's the new year. So

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Speaker 1: maybe they're actually speaking of something a new thing, like

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Speaker 1: we're just not yet. So here's one that's actually pretty common.

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Speaker 1: Irregardless what irregardless people will be like irregardless I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to do it anyway instead of just regard. Regardless

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Speaker 1: is the word like they're trying to make the negative

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Speaker 1: of it, like, well anyway, But no, regardless is the

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Speaker 1: word people like. Irregardless is not a word irregardless, irregardless

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Speaker 1: I hear all the time. Here's one. You've probably heard

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard that one. You've never heard it. I'm

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Speaker 1: not hanging out with very smart people. Um, I've heard

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Speaker 1: viral instead of viril oh, like he was a viral man.

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Speaker 1: I think you mean a virile man. I there was

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Speaker 1: one night I was hanging out with somebody and they said, Um,

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Speaker 1: instead of the word euthanasia, they said ethan asia. And

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Speaker 1: commit ethan asia by throwing a curling iron or a

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Speaker 1: not ethan asia. Um. So he needs to learn the

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Speaker 1: word and the definition. Just um, like this music so

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Speaker 1: a lot. I'm going to go death like death. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you've never heard anybody say death instead of death. Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh. Um. And I saw this on Facebook. It

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Speaker 1: or things like that, but then they did ye ethan Asia.

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Speaker 1: So whenever I first said to you that you had

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Speaker 1: a list. And then I really sat down and thought

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Speaker 1: about it, and like, my pet peeves are not when

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Speaker 1: people misuse things. It's when people say, for instance, when

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Speaker 1: I'm watching this mostly happens when I'm watching like rappers

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Speaker 1: be interviewed and they're like, so it's Tuesday, you know

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying

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Speaker 1: I've heard her. I've counted it sometimes four times in

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Speaker 1: Do you think they I think it becomes such a

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Okay, my other one actually supposedly did

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Speaker 1: so like with double bees, yeah, suppose it's supposedly people

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Speaker 1: my sister says, supposedly, sorry Jenny for calling you. I

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Speaker 1: don't think she listens to podcasts. I'm good. So the

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Speaker 1: other one is one I think you do to me

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Speaker 1: Those don't bother me. I mean those are actual words.

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Speaker 1: But these so when we're really just talking about pet Peeves.

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Speaker 1: I was doing some research earlier, and um, what came

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Speaker 1: Like do you have any of those? Well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's the most popular one in the world, but I

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Speaker 1: think there's a worse one than that one, which one

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Speaker 1: are used. Well, everyone hates moist, but I don't really

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Speaker 1: well now I hate it. It's just say it real

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, okay, well you are correct. The number

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Speaker 1: one word on this list, but I thought catalog is moist.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know what the second one is? Drip? No,

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Speaker 1: that's not even on a list. That's that's not a

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Speaker 1: weird word. It's kind of drip drip drop. Um No.

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Speaker 1: The second most hated word for people to say is blog.

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Speaker 1: I's like rude, that is. I mean, the irony in

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Speaker 1: what a blog is, and it's I think vlog is

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Speaker 1: I'm blogging, I'm a blogger, Like it's so everywhere, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's so oversaturated. Yeah, it's probably that, but I mean

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Speaker 1: but if you need to visit a good blog, good

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Speaker 1: about Okay. Number three is I don't even know how

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Speaker 1: You know? There's a json Moras song that uses that word.

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Speaker 1: Why would you put that in a song that seems

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Speaker 1: like us with you? Is what he says. I don't

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Speaker 1: google at him? Well, what does lugubrious mean? Lugubrious means

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Speaker 1: looking or sounding sad, angelmal, looking or sounding sad and dismal.

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Speaker 1: like go throw a curling iron in your bathtub? Asia

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Speaker 1: compt Athanasia. Number four is yolk. I mean, I see

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Speaker 1: I get that one. Yeah, you know, I think I

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Speaker 1: the l yolk, I would say, I do say folk music.

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Speaker 1: folk music. Oh wow, learn something new about yourself. Maybe

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Speaker 1: get a linguist class or something. Linguistics. Number five, I

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Speaker 1: think you're dealing with a little bit of this today.

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Speaker 1: But it's flam. Yeah, so much flum today. Number six

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Speaker 1: is fetus. That is kind of a tough word. Well

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Speaker 1: that's sad though, Yeah, I mean because I'm newborn. Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean technically it's a fetus while you're caring. But

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Speaker 1: no one says like, oh I can't wait to meet

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Speaker 1: my fetus, Like that's true. It's only ever really used

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Speaker 1: like postpartum or in a negative connotation. Yeah, fetus seven

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Speaker 1: is curred. Yeah, I can see that. Eight is smear. Smears.

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Speaker 1: why I said trip. I think anything that sounds somewhat

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Speaker 1: wet is anything that sounds somewhat moist. Yeah, pink tip.

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Speaker 1: What I used to say that was really gross sounding

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Speaker 1: pink tip those two two words together. How did you

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Speaker 1: to figure out the grossest sounding word, and I want

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Speaker 1: to do some drippy just a little look inside your child? Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: can't even say that right, Yeah, it's a whole right, yes, correct,

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