1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: You are now Angelo what I call her Ye? 2 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 2: What's up? Its way up with Angela Yee. Yeah, And 3 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 2: it is a Wednesday, so you know what that means 4 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 2: up here. It is a Wealth Wednesday. And we got 5 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 2: a fun throwback for you guys today Cheryl Lee Ralph. 6 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: So congratulations to her. This was actually one of my 7 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: favorite interviews. But just recently they announced that she's getting 8 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, which, by 9 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 2: the way, I cannot believe that she does not already 10 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: have that star, but she does have a book out. 11 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: She gets all these accolades. Abbot Elementary is one of 12 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 2: the best shows on television right now. Dispute it all right, 13 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 2: So she's going to be joining us today, and of 14 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 2: course there's plenty of music. It is a Wealth Wednesday. 15 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: But we also know that y'all are having a good time. 16 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: Some people are on vacation this week and some people 17 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 2: are not. But regardless, we know music is what makes 18 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: us have a good time and have fun. And to 19 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 2: be honest with y'all, like, since we started doing this 20 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 2: way up at Angela Ye's show, I haven't taken any 21 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: breaks and I've been going on stot BT Awards Essence Festival. 22 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:16,919 Speaker 2: You know, a lot more things are on the way, 23 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 2: but I'm loving it. And just like when I interviewed 24 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 2: Chessia last week, she says she loves her job, so 25 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 2: it doesn't feel like works so much. I totally agree 26 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: with that. So I care about you guys. I want 27 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 2: to make sure we keep it entertained. And let's also 28 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: stay in contact. And now what that means is you 29 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: can always call me up eight hundred and two ninety two 30 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: fifty one fifty. You can leave a message even if 31 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: I'm not here, if you can't get through during the show, 32 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: after the show, on the weekend, whatever it is that 33 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 2: you want to do. You can also if you're on 34 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app, click that mic right and you can 35 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:51,559 Speaker 2: talk back. So that means you go to the show, 36 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: you click talk back. There's a little microphone up there 37 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 2: and you can leave a message that way. Either way, 38 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: we're gonna hear it. So we appreciate you, guys, We 39 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 2: love you. Let's get into it. Let's shine a light 40 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: on them. Of course, we gotta spread some positivity, as 41 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 2: we do every single day, every single morning. Eight hundred 42 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: two nine fifty one fifty no better way to start 43 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 2: your day than's spreading some love. It's way up with 44 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 2: Angela ye. Shine the light next, you're gonna light the 45 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: fuck up. I'm shine a ma shine. 46 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 3: Turn your lights on, y'all, find your light. So spreading 47 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 3: love to those who are doing greatness. 48 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 4: Shine the light on them, shine a light on. 49 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 3: It's time to shine a light on them. 50 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 2: What up, guys, It's way up with Angela yee. And 51 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 2: this is one of my favorite things to do is 52 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 2: show some love. Spread some love to people doing positive things. 53 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 2: It's shine a light on them. Eight hundred and two 54 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: ninety two fifty one fifty Who do you want to 55 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 2: shine a light on? 56 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 5: Hey? 57 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 2: How are you? Who do you want to shine a 58 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 2: light on? 59 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 6: I would light on my debt? Actually, okay, I am a 60 00:02:56,800 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 6: recent widow taking care of my daughter and a business 61 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 6: iman and PW of myself. I've been doing have an 62 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 6: emotional day. 63 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 2: Sorry, Oh it's okay, big How old is your daughter? 64 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 2: She's seven? Where you guys located? 65 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 7: Like? 66 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 2: What city? 67 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 8: Enna? 68 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:23,119 Speaker 2: All right? And well, I'm so sorry to hear about that. 69 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 2: But you know, like you said, you're taking care of 70 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: your seven year old daughter, Mayna, we should send her 71 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 2: a gift for her daughter. 72 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 9: Definitely, because you know, you're not only living for yourself 73 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 9: what you're living for her. And yeah, you know that's 74 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 9: something that you know, we all deal with and it's 75 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 9: never easy, you know, But I will just tell you that, 76 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 9: you know, keep you know, the memories and the good things, 77 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 9: keep that at the forefront, forefront of your mind. 78 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 4: You know, keep all of it good, you know. 79 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, at least you have, you know, some amazing things 80 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: to remember a memory. 81 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 6: We weren't married yet, but he was not Beyonce. We're 82 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 6: both chef okay very not favorite, but very predominantly known 83 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 6: chefs wherever we worked at And I'm also at home baker, 84 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 6: have my own business, and I'm just trying to do 85 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 6: what I can. I promote my grief and share my 86 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 6: journey on my Instagram page because you know, it's hard. 87 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 6: Black people don't really grieve and holding their emotions and 88 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 6: mental issues. Want to break that curve. Chef Tja the 89 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 6: h e F TJ duvs. 90 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 2: Okay have TJ doves. 91 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, I try to share my journey because you know, 92 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 6: Black people have a hearted time grieving and dealing with 93 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 6: a lot of grief and mental issues and I just 94 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 6: want to make sure that I'm a good advocate for 95 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 6: that change. 96 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 2: Well, it sounds like you and your journeyed to spy day. 97 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 2: We should do a spy day for you at the 98 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 2: One Hotel. Remember we stayed at the One Hotel before, 99 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: so I think that'd be nice. You're in Nashville, right, Yeah, 100 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 2: all right, We're gonna set something up. We're gonna hit 101 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 2: you up. 102 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 4: And take and take as much time as you need 103 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 4: grieving though. 104 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 6: I do one day, one minute. 105 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 9: At the time, all right, take yeah, one step at 106 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 9: a time, and one day at a time, take as 107 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 9: much time as you need. 108 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 6: I appreciate that. Okay, we love you, chef, Thank you. 109 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: Love you to our fans out, good morning, good. 110 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 10: Morning, good morning. 111 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 2: Who do you want to shine a light on? 112 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 11: Listen. 113 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 10: I want to shout a light shot a light on 114 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:32,239 Speaker 10: the abundance of black men that are right now coming 115 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 10: to me for therapy. So I'm a licensed mental health 116 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 10: therapist and I got I just got an abundance of 117 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 10: them for the past two weeks. So I just want 118 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 10: to shout alight out to all these individuals that's investing 119 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 10: in the mental wealth. So shout out to all y'all 120 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 10: and shout out to you Andrew. 121 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 2: Where can people find you? 122 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 10: Absolutely, you can find me. You can find me on 123 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 10: the ground at Kansa Therapist, right Time Medical Associates, Brightside Counseling, Google, Afaronzo, 124 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 10: Nathan and I will definitely help you be able to 125 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 10: find you know, some help for mental health needs. 126 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna pass this on to Mano. 127 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 10: Absolutely let him know I thought what I thought. A 128 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 10: lot of artists love, so you know what I mean. 129 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 10: That's no problem, all right, But I appreciate you. I 130 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 10: appreciate everything I do and make sure everyone is investing 131 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 10: in a mental wealth protecting adage. 132 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 2: Well, we appreciate you. Thank you for calling. 133 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 10: Absolutely have a going all right? 134 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 2: Well, that would shine a light on them. And if 135 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: you couldn't get through, that number is eight hundred two 136 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 2: nine two fifty one fifty. It's all day long. Anytime 137 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 2: you want to shine a light, we are here for it. Okay, 138 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: bad And we got a lot of fun things for 139 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 2: you on the show, a lot of great music to 140 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 2: make sure you keep it locked as way up with 141 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 2: Angela yee. 142 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 12: This is a judgment freeze on. 143 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: Tell us a secret, what's up? Its way up at Angela, yee. 144 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 2: And part of this show is not just showing love 145 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: but also not judging you. Okay, So well I can 146 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 2: do that. I don't know if everyone does it. Some 147 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 2: people love here be showing judgment when they co host. 148 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: But I will say it is nice to be able 149 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: to get those secrets out there into the world. Sometimes 150 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 2: it's a burden lifted off of you. Sometimes y'all just entertaining. 151 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,119 Speaker 2: Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty is the number. 152 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 2: And remember you are anonymous, and remember there is no judgment. Okay, 153 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 2: it's way up at Angela. Ye tell us a secret. 154 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 2: Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty Hello, Anonymous, 155 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 2: color what up? 156 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 7: So? 157 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 13: I don't want no judgment on it. You know it's 158 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 13: nothing really a judge. 159 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 2: Though, may no no here? This is okay, no judgment, may. 160 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 11: No exactly maya. 161 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 13: So I got two other kids that don't nobody know 162 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 13: about that. 163 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 11: Ain't funny? 164 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: Are you laughing? 165 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 11: No? 166 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 13: You know, ain't nothing crazy. 167 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 14: You know. 168 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 13: I send them stuff here and there when I can 169 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 13: get this though they don't even live here. Me and 170 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 13: my friends don't. I'll say, probably once every six months 171 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 13: down to Dr. 172 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: Oh they live in Dr. 173 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 13: Yep, down in dr. 174 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 4: You paid for that. 175 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 13: So the chief. 176 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 11: Picks me up. 177 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 13: The next time I'm there, he was like, hey, pregnant. 178 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 13: I said no. 179 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 2: She's like, yes, did you get a test? 180 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 13: No, didn't get no test. She just said she's like, 181 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 13: I need your passport. I was like, no, you're not 182 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 13: getting my passport. 183 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 4: So you had twins. You had twins, so look have 184 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 4: one with her? 185 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 13: Another ship told me down there, now this is probably 186 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 13: they're probably scamming for real. I don't know how true 187 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 13: it is. 188 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 9: They from Dall, they're from d So you went and 189 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 9: purchased you a situation and then and then went and 190 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 9: had kids something like that. 191 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 2: But you don't know. But sure these are your kids. 192 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 13: I won't lie. The one looked like the other one, 193 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 13: don't The one looks very similar. 194 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 4: One of them is definitely for. 195 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 2: One of them. Definitely are you going to get a test? 196 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 13: I was gonna send them if they want me to 197 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 13: send them. 198 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 10: I don't even have a problem. You know, do you 199 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 10: have anything? 200 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 13: Eighty dollars go a long way. 201 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 2: Do you have any kids here in the states where 202 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 2: you live? Do you have any children? 203 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? 204 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 11: I got I got two kids you. 205 00:08:58,160 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 9: Make they got and they got they got to have 206 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 9: Dominican brothers and sisters. 207 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 13: I wouldn't care. You know, they can ask me for it. 208 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 10: I would give it to them. 209 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 4: I'll take care of But it's the going for me. 210 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 2: That's that's no judgment, no judgment. Know, it's no judgment. 211 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 13: Okay, right, judge somebody on here. 212 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 2: That's the fact. He said, you stayed judging somebody really 213 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: know you've been. 214 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 9: Of course I did, of course I did. 215 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: Keep it on thought. Let me ask you this, when 216 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 2: all this having been you know, said and done, are 217 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 2: you gonna from now on use condoms? Are you still doing? You? 218 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 4: You know what? 219 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: No? 220 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 13: No, that hey, I might as well not even do it. 221 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 13: I'm wanna put one on. 222 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 2: Oh thanks for sharing, Thanks for sharing. I don't want 223 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 2: to judge. 224 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 15: All right. 225 00:09:55,200 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 2: Wow, the phone line was burning. Does what what's an 226 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 2: anonymous college? Tell us a secret. 227 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 14: Anthema, okay, girl, I'm getting a radio station every morning. 228 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 14: But one of my secret kids that I sep want 229 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 14: to marry man and I feel like his wife should know. 230 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 14: He comes to me every day every morning. 231 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 5: I'm trying to figure out where is. 232 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 2: His wife at every morning? Does he ever spend the night. 233 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 14: Every morning he's waking up brushing his teeth colors from me. 234 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 12: When does he go to work after? 235 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 5: I'm trying to figure that out. 236 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 14: But I know that he has the wife and he 237 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 14: has kids, and me being young and probably younger. 238 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 2: Free, he loves it, and so you want his wife 239 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 2: to know. 240 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 14: I want her to know because I want to be 241 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 14: with him. 242 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 2: Oh, you want to be with you and you know 243 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 2: he's gonna do the same thing to you. Does everybody 244 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 2: tell you that? 245 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 13: No? 246 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 14: But right now he's been all for me. So I 247 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 14: feel like, why not? 248 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,199 Speaker 2: No judgment, Angela, Okay, I'm just I'm just trying to 249 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 2: help her. 250 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 13: Hi. 251 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 2: Hi, how long have you been having your situation? 252 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 14: It's like a half mone So I feel like you 253 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 14: should just go ahead and killer. 254 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 2: So let me ask yes, let me ask you. Yeah, 255 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,719 Speaker 2: how are you gonna feel though when he's with his 256 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 2: wife and kids if he left them for you? But 257 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 2: he is going to have to see his kids? 258 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 14: I mean the kids is okay? I love kids. Okay, 259 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 14: it was to do it right now for me to 260 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,559 Speaker 14: meet the kids. But long did people with her? I'm okay? 261 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 2: How long were they married or were sorry? How long 262 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 2: have they been married. 263 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 14: About ten years, so I think it's time for him 264 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 14: to change it up and slice too with a young 265 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 14: cat like me. 266 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 2: Okay, what does he say when you have you told 267 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: them that you want him to tell his wife and 268 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: leave her. 269 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 14: Yeah, he just say it's not the right time and 270 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 14: he not ready. 271 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 2: But I mean, are you seeing anyone else? 272 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 8: Are you? 273 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 2: Are you faithful to this married man? 274 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 14: I have a love fun but that's the one I 275 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 14: really actually liked the most. 276 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 2: Okay, he's at the top of the list. All right, well, 277 00:11:58,520 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 2: no judgment, Thank you for sharing. 278 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 4: Luck. 279 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 14: Thank you by y'all. Bye. 280 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 2: I really feel like you were co signing that you 281 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 2: said no judgment. I'm saying good luck. I did I say, 282 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: well you that's a yes sign. No, what's eponymous? Color? 283 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 2: Tell us a secret? 284 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 8: Hey, what's going on? 285 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,079 Speaker 2: What's good? No judgment? 286 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 8: Like twenty years ago, I had an affair with the 287 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 8: older woman. Uh, fast forward, I'm dating her daughter in 288 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 8: the house engaged. 289 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 2: Wow, so the mom never told her? You never told? 290 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 8: And her mom like been playing professional the whole time, 291 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 8: like polk her face like it's kind of crazy. 292 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 2: So and the thing in my mind is like, is 293 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 2: her daughter the same way, like you know, like, I 294 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 2: don't know how don you haven't said anything either? Are 295 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: you the same way? As you know what I'm saying? 296 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 8: I mean, I mean, I'm definitely a dog or I 297 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 8: was a dog at the point, And I don't how 298 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:03,319 Speaker 8: do you even bring that up? Like I don't even know, 299 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,599 Speaker 8: you know, honestly, how to you know? 300 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,839 Speaker 2: So you had sex with twenty years ago? 301 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 13: Yes? 302 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, twenty years ago. Who's Who's who has better sex? 303 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 2: The fiance or the mom? I feel so bad asking, 304 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 2: but I would like to know. 305 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 8: I mean, honestly, uh, me and her mom. 306 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 10: It was it was, it was a thing. 307 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 8: It was so it was maybe like five or six times. 308 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 8: It was crazy because I was I think I was 309 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 8: young and the pression he put the moves on me 310 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 8: as a as a kid, you know what I'm saying. 311 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 4: It was the jagger, Yeah, it was. 312 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 2: It was kind of memorable, Okay, because he was young. 313 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 2: It was probably exciting back then. She's the older woman, 314 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 2: he wasn't so experienced. Well, she probably does not want 315 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 2: her daughter to know, though, I'm sure that she was doing. 316 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 8: That, And honestly, I feel that way, and I feel 317 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 8: like she's totally embarrassed and she's still with she's still 318 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 8: with her husband. I think they were estranged at the time. 319 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 10: But together. 320 00:13:58,640 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: I think you got it. 321 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 4: Just my business on this one, that's yeah. 322 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 2: But then if it ever comes to light, then then 323 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 2: just say no, that never happened. That wasn't me. 324 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 8: It was Ai it Ai. 325 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty years ago, Ai, it was you helped launch it. 326 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 11: Yeah, total recall. 327 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 10: I don't know. 328 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 2: Look, we're not here to judge me. Thank you for sharing, 329 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: good luck. 330 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 8: I appreciate it. 331 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: Fine, all right, Well that was tell us a secret, 332 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 2: and remember the phone lines are always open for you 333 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 2: to call in and leave that anonymous secret with us. 334 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: Eight hundred two nine fifty one fifty is a number. 335 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 2: It's way up with Angela. Ye, tell us a secret? 336 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 3: Kai everybody since with its relationship for career advice, Angela's 337 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 3: dropping facts. 338 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 2: Should you should know? This is ask what's up? Its 339 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 2: way up for Angela yee, and it is time for 340 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 2: ask ye. Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty 341 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 2: is a number in case you ever want to call 342 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 2: us for any questions. We are always here to help 343 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 2: with no judgment. Hey, what's that? How are you? 344 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 11: I'm all right, I'm all right pushing through. How about yourself, I'm. 345 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: Good, Thank you with your name? Okay, Tay, what's your 346 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: question for asking you? 347 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 11: When exactly do you know when is the right time 348 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 11: frame to get married? 349 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good question. That's a loaded question. How 350 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 2: long have you been with your significant other? 351 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 11: Seven years? 352 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 4: You don't know yet. 353 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 11: Look, it's some you know, it's a complications, just like 354 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 11: everybody else. 355 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 2: You know, what are the complications? 356 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 16: When we met, I was already with a female, and 357 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 16: so I had to wing off that female and let 358 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 16: that female know, hey, no, you're not it. 359 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: Okay. How long did that take? 360 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 15: Like a year? 361 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 2: That's a long weeding off period. Okay. So in the meantime, 362 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 2: this was your The woman that you're with now was 363 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 2: kind of your side piece. 364 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 11: She was at first. 365 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 2: She didn't Did she know that she was your side piece? 366 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 11: She didn't at first. But he's married with four children. 367 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 4: She's married with four children. Now he's married, and you 368 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 4: want to marry her. You want to marry her? 369 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: No? 370 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 2: Wait now or at that time? At that time, at 371 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 2: that time, she was married. Oh oh okay, So how 372 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: long has she been divorced? 373 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 11: For about a year now? We just got the papers done. 374 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 2: Okay, it takes a while to get a divorce, right, 375 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: So you were both each other side pieces, Yeah, exactly, 376 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: there you go. Okay, secret lovers. Have you guys been 377 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 2: discussing marriage with each other? 378 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: Yes? 379 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 10: And no? 380 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 16: And the reason why I say yes or no is 381 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 16: because our families are not even on the best terms. 382 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 11: So we can't I can't even be like, you know, 383 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 11: bring so and so how are we going to be 384 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 11: the wedding ceremony or anything like that. I can't. I 385 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 11: can't even go that far. 386 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 2: Well, she's only been divorced for a year. Why do 387 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 2: you feel like you need to be thinking about marriage? 388 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 11: I don't think that I want marriage because I know 389 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 11: for a fact how I am it are uh, you know, 390 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 11: like having an emotional tie to a person, how are you? 391 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:06,880 Speaker 15: Hey? 392 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 11: I can't be played with, basically, That's what I mean. Like, 393 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 11: I can't be played with? 394 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 2: What do you mean by that? 395 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,360 Speaker 11: So basically, if I'm if I'm sitting in the same 396 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 11: room with this person but ten years straight and the 397 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 11: same person knows every. 398 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 16: Single button to press, that's that's dangerous. It could either 399 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 16: be dangerous or you know, really good for you. That's 400 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 16: what I mean by all right, if this person basically 401 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 16: knows your fuse. 402 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 2: Okay, I would hope that nobody would weaponize the things 403 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 2: that are triggers against you if that's somebody that you love. 404 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 2: So what it sounds like to me is you're not 405 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 2: ready to get married. That's what I'm hearing, right, And I. 406 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 11: Just don't want to jump the gun right, and I 407 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 11: just don't want to jump onto it too fast. Well 408 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 11: do I know from in fact? I know for a 409 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 11: fact that you know everybody has someone for them. 410 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 10: It's just take the right time. 411 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 4: I think y'all should stay each other pieces for a while. 412 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 2: He's single, Well they're together, yeah, but just. 413 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 4: Still act like side pieces. 414 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 2: Does she want to get married? 415 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 15: Uh? 416 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 11: She does. It's like a pressure at this point. 417 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 2: Where I'm well, yeah, you can't anybody pressure you into 418 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 2: doing something you don't want to do. It sounds like 419 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 2: you're not there, And I think you don't want to 420 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 2: have some type of bitterness toward her because she pressures 421 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 2: you into something that you're not ready for and you 422 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 2: have every night, every right not to be ready to 423 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,640 Speaker 2: do that. I mean, she's only been divorced for a year, 424 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: like you said, there's a line in it you said 425 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 2: she has four kids kids? 426 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 4: How many kids you got on your own? 427 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 11: I'm now I have a dog. 428 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 4: That's a lot. You're going to be living with them kids, 429 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 4: them kids, did you daddy? 430 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 11: I'm telling you, I've been doing that this whole time, 431 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 11: and it's like, I don't I don't want to be. 432 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 4: Able to say, like what they really do to me 433 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 4: over the era. 434 00:18:53,600 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 11: But the twenty three full beard, Oh yeah, they don't 435 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 11: have full time jobs. They like right next door tores. 436 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 11: So you know, how can you You can't even you 437 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 11: can't even you know. 438 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 8: Married. 439 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 4: What you really need to do is run. I got 440 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 4: to say, look, look talking about age. 441 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 11: I'm telling you, I'm telling you it's either it's either 442 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 11: it's either the biggest heartbreak of the world or I 443 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 11: found the one. 444 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: Bro. 445 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 4: I would get out of it. 446 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 2: But take your time, okay, because I don't think you 447 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 2: should get married until you feel excited and want to 448 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 2: do it. 449 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 11: That's right, that's right, that's right. So my question, my 450 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 11: question before I go, is this all right? So let's 451 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 11: say you do. 452 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 16: You find the one, and then y'all both say I 453 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 16: got fifty dollars in my bank account. This other person 454 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 16: got five hundred dollars in their bank account. How do 455 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 16: you physically know that this person is not going to 456 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 16: marry you for money? Because I want to be able to. 457 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 16: I want to be able to say, hey, I'm both 458 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 16: And you can go down to this court office and 459 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 16: final papers. 460 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 10: And you showed me, you proved me. 461 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 11: You prove each other that we work each other time, 462 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,919 Speaker 11: we work each other money, to work each other every day. 463 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 2: But you can't have approve that. But I can say 464 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 2: you can't protect yourself. Definitely, make sure you get a 465 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 2: pre enough, all right. Make sure that you know each 466 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 2: other's credit. It is really important to know each other's 467 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 2: finances before you get married. Make sure you know what 468 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 2: her credit score is because that will affect your credit 469 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 2: score if you're gonna get married. Make sure you know 470 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 2: her financial situation. Marriage is a business. You're signing a 471 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 2: contract that's gonna affect your credit and your finances. So 472 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: make sure you guys have a really open conversation about that. 473 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 4: It's right, and let nobody take your five hundred bro or. 474 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 2: Your fifty All right, Well, listen, lot, good luck, But 475 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 2: it sounds like you're not sure and from what I'm 476 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 2: getting this, ain't it right now? Not to say that 477 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 2: it can't be later, but right now you're not ready. 478 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 11: You're right, You're right, And I greatly appreciate everything. 479 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 4: I'll watch it. 480 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 11: I hear y'all every morning. Man, y'all get me up. 481 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 11: Not the reason why we go in the morning. I 482 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 11: appreciate y'all. 483 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 2: Thank you, We appreciate you. 484 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 4: Good luck, get out of here, Thank you so much. 485 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well that was ask yee. And eight 486 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 2: hundred two nine fifty one fifty is a number. Call 487 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 2: us up because even if you don't get through, you 488 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 2: can leave a message and we will play it and 489 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 2: answer your question on the air. Okay, we got a 490 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 2: lot more really great things happening. It's way up with 491 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:25,160 Speaker 2: Angela Yee. 492 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 3: Wealthy and I don't mind sharing my wealth dog getting 493 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 3: you straight financially, mentally and physically. This is wealth Wednesday 494 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 3: on way up with Angela Yee. 495 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 2: All right, it is way up with Angela Yee. I'm here, 496 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 2: Jasmine brand is here with me. Yes, and I'm a 497 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,400 Speaker 2: little nervous. Can I say that? You can't? 498 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 7: You? Right? 499 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:42,640 Speaker 2: Viewed everybody? 500 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 8: So you're nervous? 501 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 2: All right? Well, sir, Lee Ralph is here and we 502 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 2: are going to be talking about a lot of things. 503 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 2: But it's an honor, you know, to be sitting with 504 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 2: a true diva as you are. 505 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 12: A divinely inspired, victoriously a live woman. 506 00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 2: Yes, we have to make sure we put that out there. 507 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 2: Don't worry. We were going to ask you about that, because, 508 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 2: like you said, for some reason, diva gets this bad 509 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,679 Speaker 2: connotation sometimes, you know, they always. 510 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 17: Think of somebody that's got bad attitude, negativity all around her, 511 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 17: and it's just so about her asks in life and 512 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 17: takes no shame in the fact that, of course I 513 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 17: hit her. 514 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 12: I hit her with my open hand. You know, Will 515 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 12: Smith's got nothing on me. 516 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 13: You know. 517 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 12: It's they always think of Diva like that. That's it's 518 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 12: not supposed to be there. 519 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: We love the timely example you just gave me. She's 520 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 2: right on point right, but Diva two point oh, this 521 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 2: book is out and it's amazing. First of all, thank you, 522 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 2: and we didn't even introduce you properly. We didn't forgot 523 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,680 Speaker 2: to say Emmy Award winning thank you. Sheryl Lee Ralph 524 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 2: from Abbot Elementary also which, by the way, that show 525 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 2: is one of the best shows on television right now. 526 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 6: No no, no, no, no no no. 527 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 17: Abbot Elementary is the best show on television right now. 528 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 2: And you're my role is amazing on there. It's so 529 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 2: funny because you're like the best teacher, but also it's 530 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 2: so hard for you to like own up to certain 531 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 2: things that like when you set the fire in the school. 532 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 12: I owned up to that. I did okay at. 533 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 2: That end, thank you a little bit. It took a 534 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 2: moment school too. 535 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: Thank you. 536 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: But I love that because we all had a teacher 537 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:23,119 Speaker 2: like that. 538 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 17: Everybody says that, And I think that's what makes Barbara 539 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 17: Howard so loved by people, is they all think of 540 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,120 Speaker 17: that teacher that they had that really poured into them, 541 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 17: that teacher that really believed in them. 542 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 2: You know, she might not remember you, but you'll never 543 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 2: forget her. Yeah, did you have teachers like that? 544 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 1: Oh? 545 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,399 Speaker 17: My god, my dad was a lifelong learner and a teacher. 546 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 17: My auntie Carolyn, a reluctant teacher turned principal Blue Ribbon 547 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 17: school in Washington. 548 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 16: D C. 549 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 2: Didn't someone come visit her? 550 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 17: Oh my god, the queen and not Latifa, It came 551 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 17: to sit her. The actual Queen came to visit her. Okay, 552 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 17: the queen, the other queen. There you go that part 553 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 17: You know I met the other day, did you? 554 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:12,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? 555 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 12: I saw her at the Vanity Fair party. Baby, let 556 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 12: me tell you. I went to some parties, Yes you have, 557 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 12: and I saw some people. 558 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 2: Everyone wants to beat take pictures with you now, But 559 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 2: it's on a. 560 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 12: Whole nother thing. Now, it's way up. 561 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 2: That way up. 562 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 12: And Sunday night, this Sunday night. 563 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 17: At the Vanity Fair party, everybody who was anybody was 564 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 17: in the room. 565 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,679 Speaker 12: But it was the gold party. 566 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 17: Oh honey, that's set the gold standard. Let me tell you, 567 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 17: first of all, when you walk into this room, if 568 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 17: you're there, you already are a VI P Kardashians and 569 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 17: all of that stuff all over the place. 570 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 12: But when the Golden Child, Miss Beyonce entered the room, 571 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 12: I'm not. 572 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 17: Really you know, taken back by too many people, right, 573 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 17: I'm sure, But Beyonce walked right up to me with 574 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 17: her beautiful open arms and was so lovely in her 575 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 17: welcoming of me. 576 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 12: But it doesn't stop there. Okay. 577 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 17: I don't know if anybody has seen Beyonce lately, Okay, but. 578 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 12: The face on this woman, oh my god, the woman 579 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 12: has a glow. 580 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 2: I had to tell her. 581 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 12: I said, darling, you're just getting better with time. 582 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 2: And I really meant it. 583 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 4: Right, because she really is. 584 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 2: What did she say when he said that, She just. 585 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 17: Took it in and she said thank you, and it 586 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 17: was in a genuine thank you. Then she happened to 587 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 17: tell my son how handsome he was. He almost died 588 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,119 Speaker 17: and went to have I was like, please, honey, stay alive, 589 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 17: stay alive. It was but it was amazing. And then 590 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:13,200 Speaker 17: you know, jay Z chose me for the NFL lift 591 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 17: every voice and sing. So I said to jay Z 592 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 17: when I met him, and first of all, I have 593 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 17: to tell you, he's much better looking in person. And 594 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 17: I said, jay Z, why me? Why did you choose 595 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 17: me for that moment? And he looked at me with 596 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 17: this incredulous look, and he was like as if he 597 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 17: were saying why you. He was like me, of course 598 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 17: it was you, and you were great. He said that 599 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 17: song will never be the same, and I was like, 600 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 17: oh my god. You know when your children just look 601 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 17: at you and I loving on you and giving you 602 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 17: your flowers because I'm everybody's mother in my head and 603 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,360 Speaker 17: all of my children do well. 604 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 2: I was just like, look at this wonderful look and 605 00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 2: look at you're scared. Oh thank you, yeah, thank yours. 606 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,719 Speaker 12: You make you I like to take care of myself. 607 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 2: I can see thank you. And I know early on 608 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 2: when you talk about Dreamgirls, because that was the big success, 609 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 2: but also you didn't foresee what that could have meant 610 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 2: for you financially at the time. So discuss that, because 611 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 2: that's something in the book that you talk about. I 612 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 2: always felt that dream Girls was going to be a 613 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 2: big hit. I always felt that. 614 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 12: But we were young. 615 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 17: I mean, we were like twenty when we started, twenty 616 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 17: three and then I turned twenty four a week after 617 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 17: opening night. And when you're young and you don't know 618 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 17: a whole lot, you do crazy things like sell away 619 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 17: your rights for a dollar a dollar. To this day, 620 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 17: I haven't gotten a check from the magnificence that is 621 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 17: dream Girls, and it hurts me to my heart. 622 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 7: Now. 623 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 17: The cast of chorus Line, they went through the same 624 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 17: development process that we did, They signed the same contract, 625 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 17: they filed a class action suit they won. But for 626 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 17: whatever reason, the cast of Dreamgirls. 627 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 12: Chose not to do that. Is it ever too late 628 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 12: to do that? I don't know if it's ever too late. 629 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 17: But sometimes I tell you, I look back at it 630 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 17: and I said, I have regained and captured everything the 631 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 17: devil took from me. 632 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 2: Definitely, yes, thank you, But I also don't see why 633 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 2: people don't go for what wanted to do them. And 634 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 2: also why on the other side they don't want to 635 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 2: do the right thing. They made so much money, why 636 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 2: not even if it was just a small, tiny percentage, 637 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 2: just that as a gesture to say, we see you, 638 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 2: we appreciate what you contributed. We know you signed a 639 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 2: bad deal that you shouldn't have signed. Let's make this right. 640 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 12: Thank you. 641 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 17: I wish and I say to this day, because only 642 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 17: one of them is alive out of that original creative company, 643 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 17: I say, maybe someone will do that. 644 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 12: He was probably about the principles. 645 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is love it. Well. Fortunately, like you said, 646 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 2: you have recaptured everything that you should have. But I 647 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 2: just feel like I'm a big, like the right thing 648 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 2: to do type of person. 649 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 17: Thank you. 650 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 2: You know that's why you're going way up here we 651 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 2: go exactly. It's way up with Angela Yee and Cheryl Lee. 652 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 2: Ralph is here and we have a lot more with her. 653 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 2: She has her book out right now. Diva two point oh, 654 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 2: and we'll be back with some more On Way Up. 655 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 2: I had a dream of wealthy and I don't mind 656 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 2: sharing my wealth dog. 657 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 3: Getting you straight financially, mentally, and physically. This is wealth 658 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 3: Wednesday on Way Up with Angela Yee. 659 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 2: What's up? It's way up with Angela Yee. And we 660 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 2: are serious today, Cheryl Lee. Ralph is in the building. 661 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 2: And I think about some of the experiences that you 662 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 2: went through from moving Diva two point oh, going to 663 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 2: a school that was an all white school for a 664 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 2: period of time and feeling not beautiful. What was that 665 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 2: experience like? Because I remember going from public school to 666 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 2: private school too and how hard that was for me. 667 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 17: But I can't even imagine and what you went through. 668 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 17: When I think about it now, it still hurts. Oh 669 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 17: my god, the way they treated you at times. And 670 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 17: this was not just kids, this was adults as well, 671 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 17: and worse than that, in my mind, these were women 672 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 17: of gods. These were God's handmaidens, the nuns, and the 673 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 17: way they treated me at times, I will never forget 674 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 17: one time, whoo Mother Superior. Okay, I went downstairs, I 675 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 17: had piano less and I won't tell you at all 676 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 17: because you can read it in Diva two point zero 677 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 17: available wherever it is you get your books. I went 678 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 17: down for my piano lesson. My dad was a very 679 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 17: accomplished pianist, and I didn't practice. That woman looked at 680 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 17: me and she said, I don't have to take students 681 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 17: like you, and it was the you, and she took 682 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 17: her hand and she slammed the lid of the piano down. 683 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 17: And I don't know what made me pull my hands back, 684 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 17: but that lady was going to break my fingers. And 685 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 17: I went upstairs to my class, which was literally just upstairs. 686 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 12: My class was gone. 687 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 17: I walk over to Mother Superior's office. I said, Mother Superior, 688 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 17: my class is gone. Mother Superior looks at me and 689 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 17: tells me that liars will not be tolerated here and. 690 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 12: There will be consequences for my lying. 691 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 17: I walked behind Mother Superior to my classroom and she 692 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 17: looked at me and then opened the door. 693 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 4: There was nobody there. 694 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 12: Mother Superior told me, then go home. This is the 695 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 12: middle of the day. 696 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 17: Then I have to walk home and it's three miles 697 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 17: and it's the sixties. Everybody has lost their mind. They 698 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 17: think I've been kidnapped. The school cannot tell them where 699 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,760 Speaker 17: I am. They know nothing. And of course back then 700 00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 17: your parents were confused. You're lost, and then you get meat, right, 701 00:31:59,480 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 17: So I was. 702 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 12: I after all of his I got beaten again. Okay, 703 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 12: my spirit was beaten. Then I got beaten. 704 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 2: Oh were you? 705 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 17: I think this was fourth grade. So I'm like eight 706 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 17: years old. I'm young, and I'll never ever forget that. 707 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 4: Now. 708 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 12: Icing on the Cake was years later. 709 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 17: Okay, years later, I'm gonna say maybe two three years later. 710 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 17: And we'd moved and we came back and there was 711 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 17: mother Saint Peter Mora walking down the street, the young 712 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 17: woman who had slammed the lad of the piano, and 713 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 17: she looked at me and she apologized to me. Wow, 714 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,719 Speaker 17: she apologized. She said, you know, I am so sorry. 715 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 17: I did not know then what I know now, and 716 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,560 Speaker 17: I apologize and she came down to my eye level 717 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 17: to apologize to me. So I've had that happen several 718 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 17: times in my life where people have made certain mistakes, 719 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,720 Speaker 17: but they have come back to say I'm sorry, which 720 00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,040 Speaker 17: which in some ways it helps heal the hurt. 721 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 12: But not all the way because it happened. 722 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 2: And that is one of your lessons, right to not 723 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 2: hold on to those. That's your way to go. That's right. 724 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 12: Do not let other people's negativity become yours. 725 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 2: It's way up with Angela Yee and Sharyl Lee Ralph 726 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 2: is here with us now. Normally ask ye is next? 727 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 2: But I feel like this is an icon living shery 728 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 2: Lee Ralph, so let's get more schery Lee Ralph instead 729 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 2: of asking. On Way Up with Angela Yee had a 730 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 2: dream of wealthy and I don't mind sharing my wealth dog. 731 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 3: Getting you straight financially, mentally and physically. This is wealth Wednesday, 732 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 3: on Way Up with Angela Yee. 733 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 2: What's up? It's way up with Angela Yee and Cheryl 734 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 2: Lee Ralph is here. And one thing I wanted to 735 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 2: ask you about in the book and you kind of 736 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 2: you didn't get into detail about it. You talk about 737 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 2: the Me Too movement and you even said an experience 738 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 2: where a promoter like put his hand on your leg 739 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 2: and that would happen at times, right, And I noticed 740 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 2: that you didn't get into detail about it. But do 741 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 2: you feel like that's something that a has had any 742 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 2: effect on your career in any way at all? And 743 00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 2: be that you would at some point get more into 744 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 2: detailout because it is, like you said, with the Me 745 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 2: Too movement and that happening all the time, that's a 746 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 2: hard thing for women to even speak up about. 747 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,320 Speaker 12: Hence I didn't say a whole lot about it. 748 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and not like detailing names are who it is, 749 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 2: but just even the effect that that has on you, 750 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 2: because it's horrible. 751 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 17: Yeah, because it's like, I can think about these things 752 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 17: and I tell you, there was one incidence where it 753 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 17: was like the third time something like this had happened 754 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 17: to me, and I thought to myself, what did I 755 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 17: do to deserve that? 756 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 12: My skirt is at my knees, I have on a 757 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 12: sweater blouse. What made this man think that he could 758 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:47,320 Speaker 12: just come over and put his hands on my body 759 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 12: in front of it? He didn't know me. 760 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 17: Years later, I was in a situation that man walked 761 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 17: through the door. He sat down at the table across 762 00:34:58,200 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 17: from me. 763 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 2: He didn't remember any of this, but I had to 764 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 2: let him know what he did that nighted him. 765 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 12: Oh, I absolutely confronted. 766 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 2: He was right there. 767 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,439 Speaker 12: Do you want to know what was the shocking part? 768 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 17: Everybody around the table was appalled that I would stand 769 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 17: up for myself. What they told me that I should 770 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:24,399 Speaker 17: be ashamed of myself and why would I even bring 771 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 17: that up? 772 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 2: That's crazy, And that's why women find it difficult to speak. 773 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,479 Speaker 2: That's why, because you don't get the support of people 774 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 2: don't believe you. They don't understand why you're bringing it up. 775 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 2: They're like, well, why didn't you say something at the time. 776 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 2: You because it's a feeling of powerlessness that you have 777 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 2: at the time, and you're also shot and. 778 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 17: People don't support you. Yeah, I could tell you of 779 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,760 Speaker 17: another time. This was a famous TV judge, not Judge Matthis. 780 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 17: I love him, He's a great man. At a very 781 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:54,800 Speaker 17: public place. I had my suit on. I was handling 782 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,960 Speaker 17: my business for the television show I was on at 783 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 17: that time. He and I were on this SI network. 784 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,960 Speaker 17: This man walked in, grabbed me by the back of 785 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:09,720 Speaker 17: my neck, turned me around and rammed his nasty tongue 786 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 17: down my throne, and everybody at the network saw it. 787 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 2: Ugh, the mayor of New Orleans at the time was 788 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 2: why my blanket on? His name Mark Murriol. 789 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 17: Mark Morriol. I called Mark Morriol, Mark Morrel. He said, 790 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,879 Speaker 17: you want me to send the police there right now? 791 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,399 Speaker 17: Somebody at the network tapped me on the shoulder. They said, 792 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:37,239 Speaker 17: please don't do you know that they did not want 793 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 17: any bad press. 794 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can believe. 795 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 12: Around their show and did not care what had just 796 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 12: happened to me. It wasn't so bad after, was it. 797 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 12: That's what makes it hard for women to speak up 798 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 12: about these things. 799 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,400 Speaker 2: And I'm glad you said that because I hear that 800 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 2: all the time. When women come forward, people are like, well, 801 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 2: why is she telling this story now? 802 00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 4: Thank you? 803 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 2: Well, why didn't she say something when it happen? And 804 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 2: that's why the support thank you? And if they see it, 805 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 2: they saw what happened, they don't think, well, this is 806 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,040 Speaker 2: gonna hit the fan because he's going to do this 807 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 2: to somebody else, because we're protecting this. Yeah, and even 808 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 2: you questioning what you were wearing, like what did I 809 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 2: do to make this happen? Because people think that too, 810 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 2: you shouldn't have been in that position or you shouldn't 811 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 2: have been wearing this. So I just when I was 812 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 2: reading that, I was like, I can't even imagine the 813 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 2: things that you've been through being in this business as 814 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 2: long as you have. And we might not have heard 815 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 2: it publicly, but I just think it's important because there's 816 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,320 Speaker 2: so many women that might feel like they got some 817 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,960 Speaker 2: power from hearing you talk about it too. 818 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 4: Well, I'm going to tell you something. 819 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 17: You know, if a man invites you up to his 820 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 17: room and it's the middle of the night, don't go 821 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,720 Speaker 17: to have him meet you down in the lobby. Although 822 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 17: I will tell you that one time Michael George invited 823 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,919 Speaker 17: me up to his room, it was in the middle 824 00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 17: of the nine I did go, and you know what 825 00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 17: we did. We ended up playing backgammon. We talked about 826 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 17: our parents, we talked about our families, and we ended 827 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 17: up being good friends for a long time. We had 828 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:12,279 Speaker 17: no sex whatsoever. In fact, he referred to me as 829 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,640 Speaker 17: the big Sister and I said, I'm always the big 830 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 17: sis style, you know. And we just had the best 831 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 17: time ever. 832 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's good people and bad people as yes they're are. 833 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 2: What kind of advice do you have for someone who 834 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 2: who worked in Hollywood is a woman and went through 835 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 2: an experience like you went through, Like, what advice would 836 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 2: you give them? 837 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 12: It's hard? 838 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 2: I would say nowadays, speak up, tell your truth. Do 839 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 2: not carry the burden of that. 840 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 17: Pain, and especially if it's something you feel that you 841 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 17: cannot work through because you know situations. 842 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 2: Like this experience is like this drives some people crazy. Yeah, 843 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 2: try to protect yourself. There's a thing called discernment. 844 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:53,359 Speaker 17: Feel the experience, feel the person's vibe because people can't 845 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 17: help but show you who they are. 846 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 2: Well, Lissa and Charyl, Lee, Ralph, we thank you so 847 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 2: much for coming through. I feel like we could talk 848 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 2: to you for maybe like four or five. I know, 849 00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna lie just about everything because there's 850 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 2: so many gems in this book, Diva two point zero 851 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 2: twelve Life Lessons from Me for you, and I have 852 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 2: to say it did touch me. I learned a lot 853 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,239 Speaker 2: more about you than I ever knew before. It's just 854 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 2: your whole career path. We've always seen how talented and 855 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,879 Speaker 2: amazing you are, so this just took it to another 856 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 2: level for me. Thank you so much, Chery, Lee, Ralph, 857 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,719 Speaker 2: and coming up next, we have a Last Word. That's 858 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:25,279 Speaker 2: where you guys call in and you get to have 859 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 2: the last word on the show today fifty one fifty 860 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 2: Way Up with Angela Yee. 861 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,319 Speaker 3: Take up the phone, tappying to get your voice heard. 862 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 3: What the word is? 863 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 2: He is the last word on Way Up with Angela Yee? 864 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 4: What's up? 865 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 2: As way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and 866 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 2: really having a good time you guys. To be honest, 867 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 2: like this show has been just really a blessing to 868 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,600 Speaker 2: be able to wake up at seven in the morning 869 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,440 Speaker 2: instead of four, to be able to come in here 870 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 2: with you guys, to make sure that y'all really run 871 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,800 Speaker 2: this show all right. Whatever it is that's interesting to you, 872 00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 2: you let me know and we get that on the air. 873 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 2: I want to make sure we're constantly checking in when 874 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 2: we're constantly shining a light, we're constantly hearing your secret. 875 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 2: And of course every day you guys get to have 876 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,800 Speaker 2: the last word here it is one. 877 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 10: Time at bank camp. 878 00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 2: This is like a fleet you know. 879 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 10: Well, okay, so I'm. 880 00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:20,879 Speaker 7: Listening to your radio station right now and you said 881 00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,800 Speaker 7: calling me the secret. I just wanted to say every 882 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:30,319 Speaker 7: single morning part of my general routine. I think it's 883 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 7: not complete until I actually in the shower. I know 884 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 7: it's a little crazy, but uh, you gotta clean your 885 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,239 Speaker 7: so found a little bit, a little bit, a lot, 886 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:45,440 Speaker 7: a lot actually, but yeah, there is like the coop 887 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 7: in the tower. 888 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:51,239 Speaker 5: Hey, ajama, this is anonymous Quola from New York. My 889 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,960 Speaker 5: specret is that I will saying the zoo for a 890 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 5: year and a half, and I cheated. 891 00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 10: On her with like why do you wop up? 892 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 5: Meaning his brother's busting out. He quote my phone one 893 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 5: time and meeting his brother's actually hooked up and he 894 00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 5: was doing it and he still doesn't know because it 895 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 5: say and it's sting on plaschool, on saicret anlaw. 896 00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,480 Speaker 15: I just want to shine a light on black men. 897 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:24,319 Speaker 15: They don't get the attention and love and acknowledgement. 898 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 3: That they deserve sometimes. 899 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 15: So I just want to say, black man, I love you, 900 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 15: I see you. You are more than enough. 901 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:33,880 Speaker 2: You riving way up with Angela ye