1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephane 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: never told you protection of iHeart Radio. Um, So, this 3 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: episode I think doesn't need a trigger warning, but unless 4 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: you're like, I really can't handle something making me very 5 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: angry right now. But also there's a lot of humor 6 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: to be because we're gonna be making fun of some 7 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: narratives that have happened recently around women in marriage, specifically 8 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: as the title suggests. So just just to put that 9 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 1: out there, I think I think it's equal parts infuriating 10 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: and funny. I don't know if you agree, Samantha, but 11 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 1: oh yeah, well you know the moment you're like, did 12 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: you get this email? Because it was sent to our 13 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: email address the actual show, and then it was sent 14 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: to you directly, and it literally to me is tell 15 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 1: me you have not listened to our podcast without telling us. 16 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 1: You've not listened to our podcast, like and even looked 17 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: over the titles of our podcast in general, point blank 18 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 1: and this email is it? Yes? Okay, So before before 19 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: we get into that, I'll explain it. But one of 20 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: the reasons I was thinking about this is because, um, 21 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: and you can check out our kind of post election 22 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: reflection Monday. Many we did for more information. But one 23 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: of the narratives that came out, and a lot of 24 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: you have probably seen this clip circulating is um this 25 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: Fox News story newsdesk where they're trying to figure out 26 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: why there wasn't this red wave they had predicted, and 27 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: one of the hosts, a man, was like, its single 28 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: women went for Democrats by thirties seven points. They're brainwashed 29 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: by Democrats. They need to get married. Men go out 30 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: there and put a ring on it because otherwise keep losing. 31 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,799 Speaker 1: And these Democrats, they're putting policies in place that are 32 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 1: keeping women's single. So we've got to stop this right now, 33 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: keeping women single. I love that. That's what's the mindset. 34 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: It's like, interesting, you really think that Democrats hold a 35 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: whole of fighting when it must be single. Let's do this, Yes, 36 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: he said, did they make it hard for women to 37 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: get married? There's a lot to unpack and and all 38 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: of that, but he literally said men go out and 39 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,519 Speaker 1: put a ring on it at the end, so he 40 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: referenced a Beyonce song yes to get his point across 41 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: to other didn't even know he just heard it, which 42 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: is what happens in times not realizing, oh, you're literally 43 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: taking from black people once again. Yes, yes, but it 44 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: was one of those things where I'm like, I can't believe. 45 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: I mean I can, but wow, for a modern day 46 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: newscast to basically be like, women need to get married 47 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: to make sure that politics play out how I think 48 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: they should play out, which, by the way, he's also saying, 49 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: and the numbers do show this, but there's more nuance 50 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: to it than that. But he's also saying like, once 51 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: women get married, they go super conservative, which is I 52 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: will say, and we've talked about this before. I did 53 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: have a friend who flipped flopped her abortion stance after 54 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: having children, and her excuse to me was, you don't 55 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: know what it's like to have a kid. And my responses, 56 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: did you ever work with a kid in a system? 57 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: And have you actually helped any kids that are in 58 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: the system? And her face just was dropped a little 59 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: bit and didn't say anything else, and that was the 60 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: end of the conversation. We're not close. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 61 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, So it does I mean, it does happen. 62 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: But he was basically I think the I think there's 63 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: a lot more we could talk about that. He was 64 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: just glossing over other than they have brainwashed one way 65 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: or the other. Um. Basically, I mean it's implying like 66 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 1: women are so easily manipulated. Uh anyway, No, it's definitely 67 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: an implication that if there was more control over women, 68 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 1: and women don't have the mind set to think for 69 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: themselves correctly. So therefore, I mean, there's definitely a lot 70 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: of no ones like, wow, you really hate women, Like 71 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: do you not understand how little do you think of women? 72 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: And that's a problem, Like what incredibly offensive it was. 73 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: I couldn't I wish I had recorded my face when 74 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: I was watching that news clip, but like, oh my gosh, Wow, 75 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: you're saying this on TV. Okay, Um, And to that end, yes, 76 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,799 Speaker 1: Samantha referenced this email. So as part of this show, 77 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: we get a lot of what I call cold call emails, 78 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: which is clear like they're emailing a bunch of people, 79 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: you know, hey, have this guest on your show. Sometimes 80 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: they're personalized, and I can tell we've actually listened to 81 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: the show most of the time they're not, which I understand, 82 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 1: like that it's so much to listen to out there. 83 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: But as we've discussed, because we have Mom and the 84 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: name of this show, right. We get a lot of 85 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: emails that are very specifically focused on issues around motherhood, 86 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 1: which we do talk about, but most of them are 87 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: not what we actually do talk about when it comes 88 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: to motherhood. We're not giving mommy advice and we would 89 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 1: never right, we're not. Essentially every host that's been on here, 90 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: I think one out of all of us have actually 91 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 1: had children at least planned a pregnancy. But I mean, 92 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 1: like even still, like only half of us are married. 93 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: I think if that of all the hosts, yeah, yeah, 94 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: so it's one of those things where I get it, 95 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 1: but most of them I ignore um and most of 96 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: them even if you know, this isn't it, this isn't 97 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: a good fit. I could kind of see why you 98 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: thought it would be m or you know, maybe eventon. 99 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: But this email, this email we got and I was 100 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: reading it and my I just my jaw dropped to 101 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: the floor, almost like I could have not believe somebody 102 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: sent this to us. And again that they double down. 103 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: We rarely get double emails. Essentially, we get one or 104 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 1: the other and they don't associate their addressed to us 105 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: in the email to our actual show stuff. I've never 106 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: told you you know that often happens, but to get 107 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: it to your like personal email work email is a 108 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: whole different level. Like this dude doubled down. Yes, and 109 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: though you really you want them on this show? Yes, yeah, um, 110 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: and we're not gonna We're gonna avoid saying his name 111 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: because we really don't want to give him any His 112 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: name and his little slogan are so ridiculous that I'm like, 113 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: but we're not going to no, and I mean it's 114 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: easily found out, but yeah, I just have no interest, 115 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: um in giving him anymore traffic. It was kind of 116 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: hilarious where I was like, you clearly have no idea 117 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: what we're about, or either you do, and you're so 118 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: deluded that you think that we would read your email 119 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: and be like, Wow, he's got some good boys. I've 120 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: been changed. Let me get married yea. So we're gonna 121 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: read some sections of the email and react to them. 122 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: All right, So it starts with we would love to 123 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: have you interview this person on this explosive topic about 124 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: how feminism's mission to empower women has actually ended up 125 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: making women less happy, America less populated, and men wondering 126 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: what in the world is going on The world is 127 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: going on. I mean, at least for what it was 128 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: as an introductory you are intrigued. You're like wait what, Yeah, 129 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, what's where's this going? Explosive topic? 130 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: They also bold, there's a lot of like red fonts 131 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: and like big letters. You know what I'm talking about, 132 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: Like this is how you get attention for your person, 133 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: and that it starts with feminism's mission to empower women. 134 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:54,959 Speaker 1: So at least they understand, yeah, a little bit of 135 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: the bottom line of yes, we would love to empower women. 136 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: That's what is. So you've got that party right. That 137 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: is interesting where it's sort of like maybe if we, 138 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: you know, feed them a little compliment in the beginning, 139 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: they won't realize. But you know, that's the thing is 140 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: that I don't think they think of that as a compliment. 141 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:16,559 Speaker 1: You know how oftentimes when it comes to the antie 142 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: of one event, so anti feminist movements idea is that 143 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: they're going to take whatever rhetoric is used and then 144 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: flip it to weaponizes. So I don't know they actually 145 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: think this is a compliment as much as like, oh, yeah, 146 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: you're empowered. Oh yeah, yeah, I think you're right. I 147 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: think they were just like this word is what is 148 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: used in this conversation a lot, so we'll get them 149 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: this way. It continues. Feminism in its current form is 150 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: a blatant attack on the very structure that makes America work, 151 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 1: marriage and family. This guest can discuss the rise and 152 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,959 Speaker 1: fall of feminism from a historical perspective that dies directly 153 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: to communism, marks and b LM, and discuss in depth 154 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: what this radical movement has done. Two men, two men? Okay, 155 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: so so far what we know from this dude. He 156 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: knows every word to use to rile up conservative followers. 157 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: So Marxism, communism, black lives matter, uh, radical movements. Obviously 158 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: he knows this level of like all right, and then 159 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: also what makes people feel comfortable? Marriage and family which 160 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 1: was a whole damn subject in high school? Did you 161 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: have that lags in high school? Marmily? What it was 162 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 1: part of our home x stuff. Oh my gosh, see 163 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: I had to take home back. But it was like 164 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: how to crack an egg? Yeah, So they did a 165 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: lot of like marriage and family. Also like marriage and 166 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 1: family uh in college too. In college, and that's the 167 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 1: mrs degree type of level they're just trying to get 168 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 1: it moving on. Like, maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm remembering 169 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: something as like a social work so Jack, but I'm 170 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 1: pretty sure that was there. So again, I'm from well 171 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 1: you're from a small town too, but l J. Georgia 172 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: absolutely fed into this level of like preserve the family 173 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 1: and women should be taught these things. Um, it's very funny, 174 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:18,079 Speaker 1: but yeah, I find that they did well in finding 175 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 1: the right words to rile up certain people groups. Um. 176 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: I also want to go back to the fact that 177 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: they're they're very concerned about America's population. Yeah, and we 178 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: know that's a that's a white supremacist term and tactic 179 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 1: just as a Yeah, it sure is. And I mean 180 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: I think it's clear. But this is a man we're 181 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: talking about who's just like, let me come on and 182 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: tell you about feminism from a historical perspective, which I 183 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: think is pretty telling. Yeah. Um, all right, so clearly 184 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: we get a lot of thoughts about this. We've been 185 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 1: getting riled up. I got all the rants. Yes, this 186 00:11:56,679 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: this one is chock full of rance, which I think 187 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: gets appropriate. But that means that we are it's a 188 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: surprise part two that happens sometimes a surprise part two. 189 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 1: Uh So be on the lookout for for the next 190 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: one and for even more infuriating funny things and our 191 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: responses to them. Um. In the meantime, if you would 192 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 1: like to contact us, you can our emails Stephanie mom 193 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: stuff at I heart media dot com. You can find 194 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: us on Twitter at most of Podcast, our Instagram at 195 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: stuff I Never Told You. 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