1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: The next thing I would like to do where I 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: feel a little dangerous to get a second hole in 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: my ear. Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio. What's Happening. 5 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: I gotta tell you, the breaking questions have been great, guys, 6 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: keep them coming because, as you know, for those of 7 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 2: you longtime listeners first time callers, it really induces a 8 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 2: lot of conversation. And this first one again our favorite anonymous. 9 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 2: My sister named her friend Guardian over my nephew in 10 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 2: an emergency. How do I get over this? Well? This 11 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: is similar to when my sister didn't make me her 12 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 2: maid of honor in her first wedding, and then she 13 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 2: made me made of honor in her second wedding because 14 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: the first wedding had to fallout with the maid of honor. 15 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: Let's just say she was made of dishonor. 16 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: He he, And so my sister in her second wedding 17 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: was like, oh, you could be my maid of honor 18 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 2: now I'm like, oh, by default? 19 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: Why because the last one was a disaster. 20 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 2: No thanks. I almost didn't want to go to the wedding. 21 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: I was like, you should have seen me. I was 22 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: she listened to this podcast. Hi, Jen, if you're listening, 23 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 2: she knows I'll tell you what she was listening for. 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: Was my reception speech. If you thought this wedding was good, 25 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 2: you should have seen her first one. At that point, 26 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 2: my mom went like this to me, that's enough. How 27 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: long was the speech in my head? It was thirty seconds. 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 2: Apparently it went on for three minutes. This is after 29 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 2: I fell on my way up to make the speech 30 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 2: and grabbed the microphone and said score from the Russian 31 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 2: judge ten. 32 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: It was there's there's a common theme with you at weddings. 33 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: You also ate shit at my wedding too wide my 34 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: dad said, he was just one of the most unbelievable 35 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: moments ever. On the dance, wedding goes, there's Chrissa coming around, 36 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: white soup. 37 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: You're busy changing into your seventh jumper, which was amazing. 38 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: I was looking for a blanket for Larry and all 39 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,079 Speaker 2: I wanted to do was damps. Okay, I missed the 40 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 2: shot skis and I was upset. So anyways, Anonymous, back 41 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 2: to your original question. Sorry, my sister named her friend 42 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: Guardian over my nephew in an emergency. 43 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: How do I get over this? I don't know. 44 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 2: I mean imagine Tendra, I don't know. I don't know 45 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 2: how you would handle that. You have a child, so 46 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 2: I've heard. 47 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I that's hard because even with the will situation, 48 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,679 Speaker 1: and maybe this is something for the big show, it's 49 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: kind of like we have multiple options, like for right now, 50 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: if we die, who gets him? If we die later 51 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: down the road, like it's like a whole it's a conversation. Yeah, 52 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: you get wasted safe from the show. Okay, I don't know. 53 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 2: Am I falling between the sixth and twenty four months? 54 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: Or am I twenty four months to I don't know. 55 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: And by the way, why would you do in twenty 56 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 2: four months, say two years? What we've got to stop 57 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 2: the month's thing after one year? Don't tell me the 58 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: kids eighteen months now, I'm like twelve. 59 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: I was busy. Oh I can't even do math for 60 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 1: my football games. I can't do that. I don't worry 61 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 1: I won't be able to do that. Wait, they kick 62 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: to field gold. 63 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: That's okay, okay, all right, Ali bo seven Ali bones. 64 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if this is sexual or what it is? Ea. 65 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: Are you getting any other tats or staying with just this? 66 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: For those pehop that don't know. 67 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 2: Aaron has one tattoo and it says this, I still 68 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 2: don't know what it's about. 69 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: I don't either, I in fact don't remember getting it. 70 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 3: You know what. 71 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: I'm not in any hurry, But I would like to 72 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: bring something up that I would like to do. You 73 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: just get one that says that this and that I 74 00:03:54,200 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: want you to get that one with me? Put it right? Tattoos? 75 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: What's that? 76 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 3: This? 77 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: And that? 78 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: I would like to bring something up, something I would 79 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: like to get done. Next. I'm gonna talk about something 80 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: on the Big Show. This is a tease. I did 81 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: something to my face and you're gonna be like, you're 82 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: so stupid. It's not that big of a deal. But anything, 83 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm such a square that anything I do is kind 84 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: of like WHOA for me. I get nervous. So the 85 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: next thing, and we'll talk about that on the Big Show. 86 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: But the next thing I would like to do where 87 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: I feel a little dangerous, to get a second hole 88 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: in my ear. 89 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 2: Where I feel a little dangerous. This girl has had 90 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 2: Let's see, we're gonna be. I'm not even gonna say 91 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 2: our age. We're gonna be and you're not double pierced 92 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: your ears. Never, I mean, do you want to go 93 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 2: to Claire's. I'll drive back, and you didn't go to 94 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 2: Claire's with you? Right now, I want. 95 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: These fun earrings that Jillian has, the hanging down ones. Yeah, Rachel, 96 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: when you're so low, only have one hole. Yeah, you're 97 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: next hole in my head? Oh shit, we're next. Sorry 98 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: I got sidetracked there. 99 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 2: Lisa van Derveer ever laughed during a massage or feel awkward, Yeah, 100 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: I also strike up a conversation with the massuse. I'm like, so, 101 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: how's your day going? And then they're like, oh good, 102 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 2: You're like my third massage, Like don't your hands get tired? 103 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 2: And they're like yeah, And I'm like, well, what was 104 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 2: your last massage? And so now I'm having a full 105 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 2: on conversation with this person. I had one massage therapist. 106 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: I don't really feel like we need to say massage therapists, 107 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 2: but whatever, messus have a coughing fit and you would 108 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 2: have hated this. You would have walked out in two seconds. 109 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: You would have said, whoa, my god are you? I 110 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 2: was like I felt so bad, you know when the 111 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 2: cough is coming on, and it's like there was like 112 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 2: the tickle and the throat. So she's like and then 113 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, oh, here we go. Like and 114 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 2: now she's trying to suppress it. Well, this isn't good. 115 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 2: So now she's almost like choking herself because she's trying 116 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: not to cough. 117 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: I finally go, don't even worry about it. She's like thanks. 118 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: She walks out of the room. Poor woman walks back in. 119 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 2: She's like, I'm so sorry. I'm just getting over bronchitis. Well, 120 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 2: I don't know if we should be back at work. Okay, 121 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 2: I don't know if this is the time you got 122 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: a mask back that you got to like log the hours. 123 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: And the whole thing. 124 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: What I wanted to say was I'm just going to 125 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 2: give you the tip and skidada out of here, But 126 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 2: then I felt bad because I know she felt bad, 127 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: so I just stayed there. So to answer your question, Lisa, 128 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: I haven't ever laughed in a massage, but I get 129 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 2: really invested in the individual that's giving me the massage, 130 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 2: and the therapist has had an episode. 131 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: But I would definitely not ask for the scout massage 132 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: after that part. But I was gonna say, you know how, 133 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: back in the day whoa, the light's better when we 134 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: were all flying during COVID. And when's the best time 135 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: to take a plane ride? When's it not? You know 136 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: you or they just say you know. Sometimes the plane 137 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: is cleaner in the morning versus like mid afternoon a 138 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: plane gets dingier. When do you think the best time 139 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 1: is to book a massage therapist? Because, like you said, 140 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: that could have been her fourth of the day. I 141 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: can speak and her fingers are tired, right, I think 142 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: you want to be second. 143 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: I think you wanted to warm up one and then 144 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 2: you want to get in on the second one. Have 145 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 2: you owned Jared ever had couples massages like the same room? 146 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 2: We've talked about this. I think they're so stupid. Oh yeah, 147 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 2: I can't remember if we talked about it. I think 148 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: I'm not into it either. 149 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: No, because it's like, are the massage therapists thinking you 150 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: want to have a sensuous experience together? Like I don't 151 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: want to be talking to him during it. I want 152 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: time to zn out. You know, you know what I 153 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: don't need. 154 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 2: I don't need the bathtub in the couple's massage area. 155 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 2: Who are the people I need to know? Who are 156 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,239 Speaker 2: the people like hey, let's just hop in there together. Like, no, 157 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 2: we're not taking a bath, And who are the people 158 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 2: that dig baths in hotel rooms? 159 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: I was just going to ask you this. No, I 160 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: know I can't fit in any of them anyways. 161 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 2: I just need to know who are you? And like 162 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: are we cleaning it before? 163 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: Like you get in? 164 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: And like is that the only time you can take 165 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 2: a bath? So you have to take it at the hotel? 166 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: Why you're gonna use all your clorox wipes from the 167 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: plane to clean the bathtub? No? Oh, I don't want 168 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: to see the film on there, all right, Dario Gonzalez, 169 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: What should I do if I give more than I 170 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: receive in a relationship? Tell them be honest, say I'm 171 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: giving too much of myself. What are you doing for me? 172 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: In what way? Do you mean? Yeah? 173 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 2: Well I think, I mean, I don't know. I'm all 174 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 2: about communication. I did this the other day. I told 175 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 2: you about this, Steve. I don't normally do Steve's laundry. 176 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 2: And you're an adult man, like you can do your 177 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 2: own laundry. It's not like we have children, so like 178 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 2: I'm busy doing Like you could just just do your 179 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 2: own laundry, like There's some plenty of things that I'll 180 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 2: do around the house for you, but like laundry isn't 181 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 2: one of them. I also feel like it's like intimate. 182 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 2: I don't want to see your laundry. You need to 183 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: see mine, Like just separation there sure, church and state, 184 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 2: church and state. Yeah, but here at the ranch, like 185 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 2: I don't know, for whatever reason, I feel more domesticated. 186 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 1: So I'm roughing it. I'm roughing it. 187 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll do your laundry when I'm here. I had 188 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 2: done his laundry for I'm not getting like weeks at 189 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 2: a time. This fool never said thank you, not one time. 190 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 2: Every time I like put the clothes away whatever. So 191 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 2: I was like okay, and I had had enough, and 192 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 2: I was like no acknowledgment of doing the laundry just 193 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 2: and kept calling it. 194 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: Oh, look at clean. 195 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: He'd called it clean clothes mountain clean clothes, mountains getting 196 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: bigger and bigger, and I'm like still with no thank 197 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 2: you or no gratitude of like, oh, the clothes are 198 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 2: just stacking up, but like you're not recognizing that, like 199 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: you because I washed a lot of clothes here, Like 200 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 2: there's no like go out and then wear those clothes tomorrow, 201 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: like you're washing them immediately. So I said, okay, I 202 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: took all of his dirty clothes one day. I threw 203 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 2: him all over the bathroom floor upstairs. We were leaving 204 00:09:56,880 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 2: the next day, and so I go back upstairs, all 205 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 2: the clothes still on the floor. I go, you didn't 206 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 2: want to pick those up? He goes, oh, I didn't 207 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: know if you were doing something with those. Oh, you 208 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 2: didn't know if I was doing something with your dirty clothes. No. 209 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: I was trying to make a statement that I've washed 210 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: your clothes for the last three weeks and you have 211 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: not said thank you one time. And he's like, oh, so, Dario, 212 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 2: to answer your question. 213 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 1: If you this seems to be the theme today. 214 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 2: If you are feeling like you're not getting the recognition 215 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 2: for what it is that you're doing, make a statement 216 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: like that and see if they notice. 217 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: Did he ever thank you? 218 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 3: Yeah? 219 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:30,719 Speaker 1: He goes, oh, I'm so sorry, Yeah, thank you. But 220 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what the hell took so long? Exactly? 221 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 2: What did you You're just your shit's all over the 222 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 2: floor and you're just gonna leave it. 223 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: So you know what that you know what that brings 224 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: up for the big show you'll leave it on the 225 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: stairs and do you bring it up? Have we talked 226 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: about that we yet? In my and andrews uh huh 227 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: yea yeah, we're going to talk about it on the 228 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: Big Show. I have a whole thing with that. 229 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: You had to walk over the item to go up 230 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 2: the stairs and you couldn't just pick it up. 231 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: My God, is that it to be nail them all? Oh? No? 232 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 2: Anonymous separate checking account? Okay, after married, I need my 233 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 2: own spending money. Girl, God, whoever the answer is I 234 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 2: believe in separate checking accounts when married, because they're going 235 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 2: to try to take it anyways. No, I'm yes, I see. 236 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 2: I'm a big believer in separate checking accounts for a 237 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: couple different reasons. If I want to buy you a 238 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: birthday present, I don't want it to come out of 239 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 2: the joint checking and then you're like, oh, my god, 240 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 2: why did you spend all that money? Which I agree 241 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 2: going to because I'm a very generous gift giver. 242 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: No, I wanted to come. 243 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: I want it to be my own money that comes in, 244 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 2: and I don't want you to question what I'm spending 245 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: money on. 246 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: I agree, I don't want to see what that bell 247 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: Air membership costs now. I don't want to see what 248 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: it costs to play there on a day with the fellas. 249 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to know. And I don't want you 250 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: to see what my day was like, you know, with 251 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: the goals? Were those gals? I don't know, but I 252 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: don't want you to see it. 253 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 2: You don't want to see the tattoo parlor. No, nothing, 254 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 2: not even letters for it. I don't remember Jackie your post. 255 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 2: Aaron Andrews skips out on tattoo Parlor. 256 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 1: Bill still looking for the tip? Here, here's a tip 257 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 1: short on the patio. Calm Down with Erin and Carissa 258 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: is a production of iHeartRadio. 259 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 2: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 260 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts.