1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:06,479 Speaker 1: Oh right, Good morning one on two point seven Kiss FM, 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: Friday morning, April fourteenth. Let's make the coffee. 3 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: This is from my kitchen. The process grinding of the beans, 4 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 2: grinding more beans. 5 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 1: A little more takes three rounds of the grinder to 6 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: make it strong enough for me to make my drip. Wow. 7 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: And I have to tell. 8 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: You it was so perfect this morning. 9 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 2: I got that. I got the ratio right. 10 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: Sometimes I you know, sometimes I don't clean out the 11 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 1: coffee maker, but I got the ratio right. You getting 12 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: the ratio right. It comes to your coffee. If it's 13 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: a big deal to you and a Friday. 14 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 2: At that. 15 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 3: Clean out the coffee thing. 16 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 2: I clean out the the what do you call the thing? 17 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: Put the filter in. 18 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: I clean out the basket, but it deep. I don't 19 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: deep clean, deep clean the whole machine. Yeah, that's what 20 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: I figured. It's funny starting the day off like that 21 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: Coachlla weekend one phenomenal weather. It's an embarrassment of riches. Yeah, 22 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: maybe embarrass It's an embarrassment of things that we should 23 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: I guess. I guess we need to have a little gratitude, 24 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: don't we. They say start your day with gratitude. Actually, 25 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: I have a project. Who wants the assignment? Well, what's 26 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: the project and the come on, you have to decide 27 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: if I tell you, yeah, that was the that was 28 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: the right question. 29 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 2: Great. 30 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: So I have a very close friend who tells me 31 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: that when she and her husband go to bed, they 32 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: have to every night turn to each other and say 33 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: one good thing or one thing that they appreciate about 34 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: their partner and love. But that's changed. It can't be 35 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: the same thing. It's gotta be something specific, and it's 36 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: got to be different. 37 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 2: I love that night. Do you want that assignment? 38 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, already does. 39 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, like this is Wait, how does it work if 40 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 2: you do it? Now? What do you say? Do you 41 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 2: do that? You don't do it as a practice. 42 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 3: Yet, No, we don't. 43 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 4: But I mean we definitely like kiss each other good night, 44 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 4: say I love you, and you know that stuff, but 45 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 4: you like, uh no, we are pretty intentional about it. 46 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 4: But in the mornings before I leave for work, because 47 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 4: I leave before he wakes up in the morning, I 48 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 4: leave him a note every single morning, and I usually 49 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 4: write in the notes. 50 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 1: Wow, actually you have not enough energy. 51 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no chance. It's not like a lengthy heart 52 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 3: birthday cards anymore. 53 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: How do you turn the lights? See? 54 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I write kind of something specific to his day. 55 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 4: So I kind of do it in the morning what 56 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 4: they do at night. But I'm happy to do it 57 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 4: at night too. 58 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 2: And does he like I. 59 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 1: Would feel obligated now to do something thing and that's 60 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: all right? Thinks like, oh, maybe she's not gonna leave 61 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: a note today and then I don't have to feel 62 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: like or maybe you don't even know one day and 63 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: he's like, oh she's mad. 64 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 4: Yeah, if I don't even know, I've never not left know. 65 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 4: But if I don't even know. 66 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 2: We need to fill your schedule. 67 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 3: What do you mean? 68 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: It's like the Beckham kid who has never left his 69 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: girlfriend's side her. I think it's totally nice. 70 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. 71 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: He likes it. 72 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: That way. 73 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: This is why I can't take a birth control pill, 74 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: because I just can't do it every day. 75 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 3: Sometimes I write like a naughty little limerick. 76 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: Do you wake up? 77 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 3: They're very like there. 78 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: Comes comes she wakes up at three a m. 79 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: You know, literally, where's my Irish music? 80 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 4: Sometimes I'll sketch a little a little uh do you 81 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 4: sketch something? Yeah, like a little naughty, like a little 82 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 4: Audi likes stick figure doing something to the other stick 83 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 4: figure wake up to that. I put it under his bed. 84 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 4: He doesn't. Under no under his bedroom door. 85 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 3: What if the kids walk in, they don't. He wakes 86 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 3: them up in the morning until the morning he doesn't. 87 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 2: I started with gratitude. 88 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: I now I have nothing but confusion oozing out of 89 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: my body. 90 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 3: That's nice. I think you'd like it. He likes it. 91 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 2: I'm sure he does. But it sounds like all I. 92 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 3: Mean a lot of well, don't rain on my parade. 93 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: You just rained on mine. 94 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: I was all happy and getting till I felt inadequate 95 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: about my lack of love, noting and limericking. 96 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 4: It's just because to me, mornings are so precious. I 97 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 4: love the morning time and it's my way waking up 98 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 4: with him when I can't. 99 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 2: It's all beautiful. 100 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great, it's all beautiful. 101 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,239 Speaker 2: All right. I don't know where to go now. It's 102 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: like her morning there's so different from mine. 103 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: I might are like we're like grunting and like there's 104 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: a kid screaming down the hall. 105 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 2: Going daddy, mommy, peepy, peepy. 106 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: It's just like it's so not how what you're warning 107 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: is like so rainbows and butterflies over there, it's a 108 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:24,679 Speaker 1: little different over a Tanya rad and Robbie's place, waking 109 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: up writing the limerick. 110 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: She plays her fiddles sometimes too. 111 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: You're prancing to this. I'm like used, isn't he without 112 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: kids or not? I'm like waiting for the toilet and 113 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: brust my teeth while and peing. I can't I can't 114 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: get fast enough exactly. 115 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 3: My face is not like in a happy mood. 116 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: I don't even want to put on shoes with string shoestrings, 117 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,799 Speaker 1: like I just want to slip into something fast. 118 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 4: That stuff too, like I were sweatpants, like I don't 119 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 4: put making but don't be washed. 120 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 2: Stars are like us. It's fine, all of a sudden. 121 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 2: Stars are like us. 122 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 4: You're waking up, and she like opens the windows and 123 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:11,799 Speaker 4: like the birds flying. 124 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 2: Look at look at the humming bird and the nectar. 125 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 2: Look at the morning humming bird. 126 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 4: For you. 127 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 2: The bees from the pollination. 128 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: Our spirits go swimming like drops in the sea. 129 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, who knew that it could be? You know, like 130 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 3: it's easy. 131 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: All right, we've gone on entirely too long. I was 132 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: gonna tell you about the show. Let's just get a break. 133 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: Coming back with five hundred bucks and Spring Cash