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Speaker 1: Sir, we only need your urine. Those doctor's words haunt

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Speaker 1: me to this day. Sarah, we just need a sweet

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Speaker 2: You just need some sweet, sticky, sweet, oh goodness, just.

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Speaker 1: Directly on my feet. Some of that hot, steamy bikini

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Speaker 1: sweet Sweetenie Martini. You're in Martini. Gross.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's stop that after doing it with the fourth

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Speaker 2: girl of my young life at the time. All right,

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Speaker 2: we get it. You're Jack who I decided to get

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Speaker 2: not for any physical reasons, mostly just emotional reassurance. Anyways,

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Speaker 2: I call my neighbors across the street, who is three

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Speaker 2: told him that I made an appointment to get checked

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Speaker 2: and I asked him what entailed. He said it wasn't

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Speaker 2: too bad, just a little nut juice sample, just a

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Speaker 2: So I felt pretty prepared going into the clinic, and

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Speaker 1: He's going to be real relaxed afterwards, so relaxed, I

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Speaker 2: I heard the nurses there, dude too, Okay, what is this?

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Speaker 1: Why am I getting Why am I not getting tested? Siri?

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Speaker 1: Where's the nearest? Do? All? Right? Uh?

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Speaker 2: But I finally got there, an older lady called my

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Speaker 2: I was picturing more of a comfortable room where I

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Speaker 2: could do my private thing of choking the chicken. But

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Speaker 1: I remember, all right, this place expects us just use

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Speaker 2: Come on, I guess their old fashioned magazines.

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Speaker 1: Though, what's like you know, you know the old timey

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Speaker 2: The peep shows. Yeah. So I began, yes, choking the chicken,

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Speaker 2: beating the meat. I remember doing it pretty fast, almost

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Speaker 2: too fast. So I thought I'd wait there an additional

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it usually doesn't happen. It's like like thirty minutes. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: upset that I took so long, also filled the cup.

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Speaker 1: My man, this ain't no man. My guy is a horse.

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Speaker 1: Man is a freaking fire hose. He's a horse choking

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Speaker 2: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah. The woman sat the

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Speaker 2: I will never forget the feeling that I had at

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Speaker 2: that very moment. My face got red, I felt immediately hot,

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Speaker 2: There have been so many embarrassing moments in my life. Luckily,

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Speaker 2: never trained her for situations like this. Even if she

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Speaker 2: Instead, she remained stoic. I felt awkward and scared. I

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Speaker 1: You to go back, I can't even leave, And a.

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Speaker 2: After much reflection, though, I now think that she deserved

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Speaker 1: She wanted mice? Oh why not juice?

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Speaker 2: Because honestly, yes, I did assume that she wanted a

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Speaker 1: Of sample she wanted. What is assuming do? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Makes an ass out of you and me until you

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Speaker 2: I pooped in a cup before nose I have I'll

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Speaker 1: Wow two Sam's one cup? Oh yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 2: God gross. Therefore, she assumed I knew too, And when

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Speaker 2: nut juice. It's just the way it is. God, I

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know what, hold on, slow clap. This might

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Speaker 2: Hey, that was a great story. Man is eloquent, I

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Speaker 2: choking the chicken to the memory of that old lady.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he is, you know me, Maybe he's into mature

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Speaker 1: You know, I think there's nothing you can do but

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Speaker 1: taking a strong Actually, you know what, I'm returning the energy.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you didn't tell me. Yeah, how is that?

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Speaker 2: I think I think what you should just do is

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Speaker 1: This one's in the house. Oh goodness, hey.

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Speaker 2: Yo, put in the comments, what your most embarrassing story?

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Speaker 2: And uh, well, we'll respond and read it and laugh

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Speaker 1: My wife thinks I look disgusting, but I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a whole? No, you're not the ahole?

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Speaker 1: I have self love. Maybe you're not. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It depends how like gross you're looking. Man. I mean,

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Speaker 2: But if you're just you know, being chilling her lounge

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Speaker 1: Oh. I'm a twenty six male and my wife is

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Speaker 1: And I know we're both young, but we're both from

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Speaker 2: But maybe you're like, I just want to impress hubby.

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Speaker 1: She's always just been that kind of person since I

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Speaker 1: I like to put on a pair of sweatpants, a

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Speaker 2: Look at these babies, and it has the inside pocket you.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing saying. My wife recently told me

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Speaker 2: You know these ladies always trying to make us have

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Lying, Now, my wife wants me to put more

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Speaker 2: Wait she wants you Nah, dude, you don't. You'll wear

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Speaker 1: That's too much.

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Speaker 2: I'm like the Tasmanian devil. I rip off all of

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Speaker 2: two minutes getting under cover of night.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm naked. I'd just be walking around my house naked.

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Speaker 1: I told her that it does not sound comfortable wearing

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Speaker 1: there's no way that's comfortable. And she said that her

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Speaker 2: But don't force my man's to bunch his balls just

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Speaker 2: because you don't. You know, you want him to and

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Speaker 1: For real. I told her that I don't have any

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Speaker 2: doesn't No, Actually, we are making the choice to be

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Speaker 1: So back to the story, she said, it doesn't matter

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Speaker 1: if I personally have that expectation of her, but that

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Speaker 1: as a sign of respect. I don't know about that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe a bit much there.

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Speaker 2: I think she is right that generally women are pressured

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Speaker 2: But I don't think the societal pressure necessarily follows into

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're when you're in your own home, that is

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, bro, you create your own society. And if

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Speaker 2: I think it's I'm to just be comfortable.

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Speaker 1: And that's something she personally wants wants for various personal reasons,

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Speaker 1: but OP doesn't feel the same. Divorce call one night,

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Speaker 1: hundred Okop. I asked my sister twenty nine female about this,

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Speaker 1: his sister. I think it's fine. So the question is

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Speaker 2: I think on two counts of you being the a hole,

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Speaker 2: you are not guilty. Yeah, not guilty, not guilty.

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Speaker 1: See you