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Speaker 1: Subject she's nice to him and naughty to me. Just

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I've been married for thirty eight years, and

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Speaker 1: my husband and I live together as roommates now because

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Speaker 1: he told me years ago that he didn't feel the

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Speaker 1: same about me. It happened after our oldest daughter got

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Speaker 1: into a fight with her aunt, my sister. My sister

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Speaker 1: worked at an upscale restaurant and my daughter got drunk

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Speaker 1: in the restaurant and walked out without paying her tickets.

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Speaker 1: My sister got terminated over the way. My daughter clown.

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Speaker 1: My husband defended our daughter her and he's always been

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Speaker 1: a fool for our daughter, so she has no idea

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Speaker 1: of how the real world works. I have a rental

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Speaker 1: property that was my first home before I met and

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Speaker 1: married my husband. The house was in bad shape, and

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Speaker 1: I learned recently that he's having the house fixed up

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Speaker 1: so my daughter and her teenage son can live there

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Speaker 1: for free. He feels like she's had a hard time

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Speaker 1: adjusting to being a single mother. Yes, she's had a

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Speaker 1: hard time because he doesn't force her to keep a job.

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Speaker 1: If she has a disagreement with anyone at the job,

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Speaker 1: she calls her daddy to tell him about it. He

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Speaker 1: will make a way to get her another job one

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Speaker 1: of our friends in town. It's embarrassing because now everyone

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Speaker 1: knows she's trifling. If I intervene, my daughter tells me

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Speaker 1: that it's between her and her daddy and they will

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Speaker 1: handle it. I'm shocked that my husband is chosing this

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Speaker 1: trifle in net for over me and our wedding vows.

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Speaker 1: I tried to have a talk with our daughter and

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Speaker 1: set some rules for living in my house, which in

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Speaker 1: my name. She had the audacity to tell me that

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Speaker 1: I was out of line. How much more do I

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Speaker 1: have to take before my husband checks her. She's thirty

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Speaker 1: five and will continue to be trifling if he keeps

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Speaker 1: enabling her. What can I do well? I mean, you're

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Speaker 1: right about a lot of things that you say in

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Speaker 1: this letter. She will continue to be trifling if he

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Speaker 1: keeps enabling her. And guess what, he keeps enabling her.

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Speaker 1: And this is a problem. Your daughter is overly grown. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she's thirty five years old. She's disrespectful, she's a brat

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Speaker 1: because your husband has coddled her. And guess what, You've

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Speaker 1: lost her and you've lost your husband. He's awful the

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Speaker 1: way he's treating you. And you said it. Your husband

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Speaker 1: has chosen her over you over the years. Your husband

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Speaker 1: has encouraged her horrible behavior. He'll get on the phone

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Speaker 1: if she quits a job and gets one of his

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Speaker 1: friends to hire her. And you know what, This just

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Speaker 1: didn't start after she was so ugly to yourself, sister

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Speaker 1: at the restaurant. This has been happening her entire life.

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Speaker 1: I think you left out a lot of stuff in

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Speaker 1: this leather. This has been happening her entire life. Like

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Speaker 1: I said, otherwise, she wouldn't have acted like she did

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Speaker 1: in the restaurant in the first place. She's been coddle,

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Speaker 1: she's been spoiled, allowed to get away with her actions

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Speaker 1: since she was a kid by you and your husband.

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Speaker 1: Why are you just speaking about this now? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, this woman's thirty five with the child of

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Speaker 1: her own. She treats you her mother, like her competition

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Speaker 1: for her dad's affections and attention. You can't allow her

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Speaker 1: to do you any kind of way. You're the authority

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Speaker 1: figure here. You're her mother, not her friend. Your husband

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Speaker 1: is dead wrong for this. He's the one that's dividing

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Speaker 1: and separating. I mean, you're the queen and the family,

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Speaker 1: not her. But she gets treated like the queen.

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Speaker 2: Not you. Why.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why you let them band together against you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you the enemy now? It looks like

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Speaker 1: I think the excuse your husband gave you for not

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Speaker 1: didn't act a fool in the restaurant, your daughter did.

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Speaker 1: What did that have to do with you.

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Speaker 2: I think he's.

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Speaker 1: Turned his back on you now, But her going off

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Speaker 1: on her aunt had nothing to do with it. That's

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Speaker 1: just an excuse he gave you so stop blaming yourself

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Speaker 1: for your daughter's ignorant behavior and your husband's neglect. You

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Speaker 1: get to decide how you want to live your life.

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Speaker 1: You're not happy with this arrangement. You got to do

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Speaker 1: something about it. Start with putting your foot down with

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Speaker 1: your daughter and your rental property. Step in, make her

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Speaker 1: pay rent. Let your husband know you mean business too.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you should tolerate anymore them against you, Steve.

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Speaker 2: Let's get to this. The subject on this letter is

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Speaker 2: she's nice to him and naughty to me. The name

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Speaker 2: of this letter should be way many. Ain't she your

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Speaker 2: daughter too? The name of this letter should be way many?

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Speaker 2: Ain't she your daughter too? Listen to this? Just Steven Sheryl.

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Speaker 2: I've been married for thirty eight years. My husband and

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Speaker 2: I lived together's roommates now because he told me years

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Speaker 2: ago he didn't feel the same way about me. It

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Speaker 2: happened after our oldest daughter got into a fight with

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Speaker 2: her aunt. Who is my sister. Hold on, wait a minute,

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Speaker 2: Ain't ain't she your daughter too? My sister worked at

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Speaker 2: an upscale restaurant and my daughter got drunk in the

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Speaker 2: restaurant and walked out without paying her ticket. Ain't this

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Speaker 2: your daughter? Then we talking about too. My sister got

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Speaker 2: terminated over the way my daughter clown. Oh, okay, so

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Speaker 2: it is your daughter. My husband defended our daughter, and

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Speaker 2: he's always been a fool for our daughter, so she

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Speaker 2: has no idea how the real world works. Ain't she

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Speaker 2: your daughter? I had a rental property that was my

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Speaker 2: first home before I met and married my husband. The

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Speaker 2: house has been in bad shape, and I recently learned

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Speaker 2: that he's having the house fixed up so my daughter

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Speaker 2: and her your teenage son can live there free. Wait

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Speaker 2: wait a minute, excuse me him. I'm sorry, Ain't she

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Speaker 2: your daughter? He feels that she's had a hard time

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Speaker 2: adjusting to being a single mother. Yes, she's had a

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Speaker 2: hard time because he doesn't force her to keep a job.

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Speaker 2: Wait wait, I'm sorry, excuse me my Riama's letter w

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Speaker 2: on Ain't she your daughter? Too? So I think you

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Speaker 2: all get where I'm going with this? Yeah, because she's

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Speaker 2: talking in this letter like she didn't actually birth this girl. Yep.

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Speaker 2: So this is why I'm confused. So when we come back,

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Speaker 2: more confusion.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of your

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Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subject She's nice to him but naughty

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Speaker 1: to me. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter and get to your response.

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Speaker 2: What you got. She's nice to him and naughty to me.

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Speaker 2: Like I said the name of this letter, she'd simply

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Speaker 2: be excuse me, Wait a minute, ain't she your daughter too?

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Speaker 2: So all the way I've been doing the first half

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Speaker 2: of this letter was I was reading this letter and

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Speaker 2: plugging in where I thought she should be saying, but

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Speaker 2: this is your daughter too. I'm trying to realize how

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Speaker 2: she wrote the letter. But here's a part about this

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Speaker 2: other She said she'd been married for thirty eight years.

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Speaker 2: Her husband and I live together as roommates now because

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Speaker 2: he told me years ago he didn't feel the same

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Speaker 2: way about me. And then she said the reason he

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Speaker 2: said that was it happened after our oldest daughter got

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Speaker 2: into a fight with her aunt my sister. What wait

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Speaker 2: a minute. A man tells you that he don't feel

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Speaker 2: the same way about you no more, and you think

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Speaker 2: that it happened after your oldest daughter got into a

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Speaker 2: fight with her aunt, your sister. I don't want sleep

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Speaker 2: with you no more. I don't love you no more.

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Speaker 2: I ain't in love with you no more because our

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Speaker 2: daughter got in a fight with my sister. With your sister,

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Speaker 2: what dog?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: That don't make no damn sense? And lady, after that,

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Speaker 2: your whole letter don't make no sense. Your sister worked

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Speaker 2: out an upscale restaurant, Your daughter got drunk in the restaurant,

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Speaker 2: walked out without paying a ticket. Your sister got fired

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Speaker 2: over the way your daughter clown? What that got to

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Speaker 2: do with how your husband feel about you? My husband

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Speaker 2: defended the daughter. He's always been a fool for our daughter.

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Speaker 2: What they got to do with how he feel about you?

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Speaker 2: So she has no idea how the real world work.

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Speaker 2: What that got to do with how he feel about you?

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Speaker 2: And this is your daughter were talking about her. Then

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Speaker 2: you had a rental house that you had before you

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Speaker 2: met your husband in the house in bad shape. You

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Speaker 2: learned recently that he having a house fixed up so

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Speaker 2: his daughter, so your daughter and her teenage son can

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Speaker 2: live that for free. Ain't she your daughter too? He

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Speaker 2: feels she's had a hard time of justin being a

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Speaker 2: single mother. Yes, she's had a hard time because he

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Speaker 2: don't force her to keep a job. He don't force

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Speaker 2: her to keep a job. You her mother too. She

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Speaker 2: has had a dreat groom agreement with everybody at the job.

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Speaker 2: She calls her daddy to tell him about it. He'll

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Speaker 2: make a way to get another job with one of

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Speaker 2: his friends in town. So this is your daughter, don't

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Speaker 2: we talking about It's embarrassing now everybody knows she's trifling. No,

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Speaker 2: it's embarrassing because everybody knows she trifling, and she your daughter.

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Speaker 2: If I intervene, my daughter tells me that it's between

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Speaker 2: her and her daddy. Woman, excuse me, and they will

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Speaker 2: handle it. Didn't you make her? Ain't you the reason?

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Speaker 2: She on earth? I'm shocked, and my husband watched this though.

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Speaker 2: I'm shocked. This is what she said. I'm shocked that

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Speaker 2: my husband has chosen this trifling helfer over me and

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Speaker 2: our wedding vibue. Wait a minute, this trifling helfer ain't

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Speaker 2: just your daughter? Then you give birth to her. I'm confused,

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Speaker 2: and now you think it's your husband has chosen this

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Speaker 2: try to have a talk with our daughter and set

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Speaker 2: some ruds for living in my house, which is in

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Speaker 2: my name. She had the audacity to tell me that

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Speaker 2: I was out of line? How much more did I

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Speaker 2: have to take before my husband checks her? Why you

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Speaker 2: ain't on your husband to check her? Didn't you make her?

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Speaker 2: Ain't she your daughter? Ain't the house in your name?

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Speaker 2: You don't have to let her live there. I'm so confused.

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Speaker 2: She's thirty five and will continue to be trifling if

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Speaker 2: he keeps enabling her. What can I do? Stop the enabling?

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Speaker 2: First things? First, my house my name had it for

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Speaker 2: I met your father and had it before you were born. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so now that's your house. You're not moving into it

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Speaker 2: with your son. What else you got? Let's start there.

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Speaker 2: You can't disrespect me no more because I'm no longer

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Speaker 2: accepting disrespectful behavior. Why because I'm your mother and I

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Speaker 2: won't accept it. So and the way you stop accepting

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Speaker 2: it is you stop the communication. You already calling her

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Speaker 2: trifle and helpholic. You don't even know it, So why

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Speaker 2: don't you quit talking with her? See what you're not

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Speaker 2: finna do? And none of my kids. Finna do this

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Speaker 2: to me is play me and then come to me

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Speaker 2: and need something. Okay, come on, come on, I want

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Speaker 2: You disrespect me, then come to me and need something.

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Speaker 2: Oh we finn to go right back to what this

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Speaker 2: disrespect is about. Now, you need to go to somebody

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Speaker 2: That's how I know how to handle it. I know

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Speaker 2: I didn't have you for years. Anyway, you'll trust and

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Speaker 2: I promise you that because every every hardship I've ever had,

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