1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you I'm 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: doing I'm a little bit confused. Okay, Brad is confused. 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: Let's see if we can help with the confusion. So 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: we're trying to figure out if this woman, Cassie maybe 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: ghosting you. So tell us about Cassie, and then about 6 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on, and did all the 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: backstory here, and then how we can help. 8 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 2: So I met Cassie at this networking event for other 9 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 2: people in real estate. I'm a real estate. 10 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: Agent, she's a lawyer. 11 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,639 Speaker 2: She's like cute. We got her number, and after the 12 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 2: event that I asked her out on the date and 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 2: she said yes. 14 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: We met up at this cool bar and. 15 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 2: I know she left kind of quickly, like after two drinks, 16 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: but I thought we had a pretty good time. I 17 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 2: just figured she had an early meeting. 18 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: Okay, So she kind of took off after the date, 19 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: like kind of quickly and two days excuse me. Two 20 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: drinks I feel like is the standard, whether you like 21 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: it or not, for a first date. I feel like 22 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: that's kind of like comfort level, Like hey, I'll go 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: off for a drink with you that way if I 24 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: have one maybe two, and then I want to get out. 25 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: I have an out, but at least is how I 26 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: look at it, because then if like, let's say you 27 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 1: go for two drinks it goes really well, then you 28 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: can extend the date. Hey, you want to get something 29 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: to eat, or like, we can go do something else. 30 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: But then if it doesn't go well, which I don't 31 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: know what happened here exactly, then you've got your out, 32 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: Like I did my drinks thing, and then we're gonna 33 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: move on. Did you feel like that? Did you feel like, hey, 34 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: we had two drinks and it kind of fizzled and 35 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: she walked away. I mean, you must not feel that 36 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: way if you were expecting her to call. No, I 37 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: don't think it's fizzled. 38 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 2: I honestly don't know, because this doesn't happen often. 39 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: Okay, So my man here, Brad, like he's got a 40 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: you got a great batting record with these women, Like 41 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: you're out here just you're getting all the dates you want, 42 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: is what you're saying, ok. 43 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 2: Brad, Yeah, I mean I'm a good looking guy myself. 44 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I see right. So you're puzzled here because 45 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: it's like, Hey, we talked to the event and then 46 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: we went and had drinks, so that's not really two dates, 47 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: but like it wasn't a total flyer. I mean, she 48 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: knew what she was getting into and knew what you 49 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: looked like and kind of knew the vibe and so 50 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: you know, you have these drinks and then she doesn't 51 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: call you back. You're like, what the heck? 52 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, my normal first date is like most people's third 53 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: or fourth day. 54 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: Oh oh okay, I see, well what does that mean? 55 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm trying to be what does that mean exactly? 56 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: You knew about the so he's closing on? Oh I 57 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: got it? Aye, My goodness. Okay, So for Brad, the 58 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: Brad effect is we don't go to normally, it would 59 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:31,959 Speaker 1: be three dates. Not for Brad, Brad date number one 60 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: Kiki you know what? You know what he's talking about. Yeah, yeah, 61 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: because Kiki for Big Tim several dates made him wait, 62 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: you know, many many dates. But if she going out 63 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: with Brad, yeah, lots of years. Yeah, well that might 64 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: be part of the problem. Then maybe that's where the 65 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: ring is then, but I don't know. All right, well, 66 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: let's let's call this woman Cassie. We're gonna have you 67 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: on the phone at the same time. Of course, we're 68 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: going to ask questions on your behalf, and at some 69 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: point you're welcome to jump in. And the hope is 70 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: that whatever's going on we can straighten out. Maybe she's 71 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: been busy or just acted somehow, and if that's the case, 72 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 1: we'll set you up on another date and pay for it. Okay, 73 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: we're gonna find out what's up. Part two Waiting by 74 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: the phone after Rose and Bruno in two minutes went 75 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: back on the Fred Show. Don't move Rose, It's the 76 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: Fred Show on the radio and on the iHeart app 77 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: live and anytime starts put a Fred Show on demand 78 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: and make us a preset. Please, Hey, Brady, hey man, 79 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 1: let's call Cassie. You guys, you met in person in 80 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: a networking event, you went on a date, had a 81 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: couple drinks, you thought it went well, but you have 82 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: not heard from her since then, and you want to 83 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: know why. Yeah, please, all right, let's call her now. 84 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: Good luck, Brad. 85 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 3: Hullo. 86 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: Hi is this Cassie? Yeah, Hi, Cassie, good morning. My 87 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the 88 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: morning radio show. The whole crew is here and I 89 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: do have to tell you that you are on the 90 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: radio right now, and I would need your permission to 91 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: continue with the call can which hat for just a 92 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: second on the on the show, would you mind? 93 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 3: I guess I don't my I don't know how you 94 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 3: guys got my number though. 95 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: Okay, well I'm gonna get to that, so thank you. 96 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: I think that was a guest. So we're calling on 97 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Brad. I guess you went 98 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: out with Brad. You met him at a networking event 99 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: and you went out and had a couple of drinks. 100 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: Do you remember Brad? 101 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 102 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: I do? Okay, well you remember Brad? So what happened? 103 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: Because he reached out to us and he told us 104 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: that he had a great time with you and felt 105 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: like things went well on the date. But he's reached 106 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: out since then and you haven't responded, So what's going on? Honestly, 107 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: I thought that date was a prank? 108 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 3: Like are you are you guys? 109 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: Vanim? 110 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 2: Did he give you my number? 111 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 3: Because that was a brank? 112 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 1: No, I can honestly tell you that the date was 113 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: not a Why do you think the date was a prank? 114 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: We actually had nothing to do with the date. We 115 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: only got involved when you'd stop calling him. 116 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 3: Oh, well, I felt like it was a prank because 117 00:04:55,640 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 3: like Brad was just very like he's so handsome and 118 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: just like charismatic and stuff, and I was just looking 119 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 3: forward to the date, like me and my friends got 120 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 3: me all dressed up and I had a friend curl 121 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 3: my hair and everything was great. And so then I 122 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 3: got there. We sat down and we made a drink 123 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 3: and instantly Bread started talking about how hot the server 124 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 3: was and he was like, Jesus least eight and I'm 125 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 3: like okay, and then he's like, can you rate her too? 126 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: And I'm like I guess. 127 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 3: And then for like forty five minutes over only like there's. 128 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 1: Like two drinks. We he went person to. 129 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 3: Person in that bar and we were supposed to rate 130 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 3: how hot or not everyone only the only the woman, 131 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 3: know only the woman, and I just I couldn't believe that, Like, 132 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 3: at no point then he asked about me, comment on 133 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 3: me being pretty or anything like. At that point, I 134 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 3: was like, this is a prank and I need to 135 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 3: get out of here. 136 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 1: So we were talking about everybody, but I forgot you 137 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 1: mentioned that Brad is here the chatroom exactly. I'm sorry 138 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: I didn't forget to mention Gussie to Brad was here, 139 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: I'm very forgetful. So, Brad, you're on a date with Cassie, 140 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: who made an effort to go out with you and 141 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: look really pretty, and you don't even bother to compliment her, 142 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: but rather go around the room and talk about every 143 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: other woman and then objectify them and rate them. I 144 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: just want to because that was the date activity. 145 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 2: Obviously she's hot because I asked her that, And. 146 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 1: I guess you would never go out with anybody who 147 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: wasn't what an eight pick eight plus? 148 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I mean go on a date probably 149 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: in a plus if you know, I'm in a pint, 150 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: maybe a seven. 151 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 1: I saw it in a pant. Yeah, So so she 152 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: should have just assumed that she was among the elites 153 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: because you chose her as what is what? I just 154 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: want to be clear, that's what you're saying. Yeah, like okay, 155 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: and she should have just assumed that. So, like, it's 156 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 1: not your job on a date to compliment the person 157 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: who you're on the date with. Instead we should just 158 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 1: focus on everybody else. 159 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 2: I mean, I think that would have been rude. 160 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: But rate it well, Cassie, I have a ques. How 161 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: would you rate Brad? Because apparently no one's asked that question. 162 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 1: What would you give him? 163 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 3: I mean, in terms of the bad I'd say the 164 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 3: Sally seven point five, and then if there's a personality 165 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 3: down I'm hearing about it, I give him a three. 166 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, yeah you're seven point five. Brad thoughts on that. 167 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 2: I think he's just salty at this point. Yeah, yeah, 168 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 2: I've already moved on. I'm already thinking about going to 169 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 2: that same barie one out too on the date because 170 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 2: there's definitely a lot of eyes in there. 171 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: Again, Yeah, that's not work at all. 172 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: You know, there's a good amount of seven. 173 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: I just I don't know why you're on a date 174 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: with someone who you're saying was in your mind attractive, 175 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: but yet we spent time talking about how attractive or 176 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: unattractive everybody else was. Like, there's kind of a lot 177 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: of problems with that. 178 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 2: It was a fun gig, you know. I like to 179 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: find if the girl I'm seeing is also interested in 180 00:07:58,560 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: another girl. 181 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: You know, Oh, so you're hoping that she would rate 182 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: other women highly and oh I wow, this is a 183 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: complicated game. The first date we're going to do that. 184 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: We call that the Brad effect, you know. Yeah, yeah, Well, so, Cassie, 185 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: you were supposed to be rating women so that you 186 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: could maybe include them in the evening. Kick right over there. No, 187 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: I can't get over to sound his voice. 188 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: So I don't know how she ended up on a 189 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 3: date with this man like that alone is just not 190 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 3: doing it for me. 191 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: But he's Brad. Yeah, yeah, I mean Brad be Brad. 192 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: Yeah you're talking to Yeah, that's the one. Okay. 193 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 3: That's why I gave him a seven point five. 194 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: It's the voice. 195 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 3: The voice is so annoying. 196 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 1: Wow. So he would have been maybe like in the 197 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: ages or something. So he must be a good looking 198 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 1: guy then, because if you're giving. 199 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: Any pigs, Brad some pigs ore, yeh, why don't you 200 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 2: send over a little portfolio and it will be the 201 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 2: judge about that. Normally I don't even have to talk. 202 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: Oh, I see, he's so good looking. Maybe would have 203 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: been better if you hadn't exactly maybe you maybe you 204 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,559 Speaker 1: shouldn't have talked, and then things would have gone way 205 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: better for you. But okay, I Brad, Cassie, I'll ask 206 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: the question, but I know the answer. Would you like 207 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 1: to go out with Brad again? Hell? 208 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 3: No, absolutely not. 209 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: What I don't blame you, Brad. I'm sorry, it's not 210 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: gonna work out. I guess go back to the bar 211 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: because you see a lot of a lot of talent 212 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,839 Speaker 1: in there. Apparently, yes, you gotta shoot. 213 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 2: I'll do okay. 214 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: I do love though, when these guys call up here 215 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: and they're like, I want to know why she didn't 216 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: call me because they liked her and stuff, and then 217 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: as soon as they realized that they screwed it up, 218 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: now all of a sudden, it's like, oh, I don't 219 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: care if they go out with me. I don't want her, right, 220 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: but you wanted her ten minutes ago when you asked 221 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: us a caller and do this, So what Okay? Yeah, 222 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 1: it really is all right, Cassie. Thank you for your time. 223 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: Best of luck to you, Brad. Good luck to you 224 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: as well. Than the Entertainer Report, the biggest stories of 225 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: the day and the fun in fact all next Fret 226 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 1: show back in two minutes