WEBVTT - The Puppy Meltdowns

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Air Juan Air with Ryan secret Christin good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>How are you good morning, I'm Jane. Well how are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys? Well, we're doing well. We know who this

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<v Speaker 1>calls not for? Yeah, yeah, well okay, So the other

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<v Speaker 1>morning I was listening to your Guys is um your

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<v Speaker 1>Guys show, and and I heard Tanya was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>having meltdowns with her puppy Funny. And my husband and

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<v Speaker 1>I just got married in October and we decided, hey, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's time to get a puppy. Well we have her.

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<v Speaker 1>She's twelve weeks old, and I'm having meltdowns and I've

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<v Speaker 1>been having moltdowns for about like a week and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I wanted to see how Tanya was doing

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<v Speaker 1>with her meltdowns. And I can't ask for puppy advice.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't. That is so nice that she's just calling

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<v Speaker 1>to like check in. That's so sweet. Yes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just going because you guys both are hysterical about your puppies. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to First of all, do you have a

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<v Speaker 1>caller on your puppy, Kristen? Okay, yes, And I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to tell Tanya, girlfriend. You got to do it

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<v Speaker 1>because I was listening to the show the other morning

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<v Speaker 1>and I heard somebody call in and tell you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because you got locked out of your car with here

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<v Speaker 1>with your phone. So my husband and I did it

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<v Speaker 1>with our puppy this weekend. We went to a pet tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Something super quick. We got to tag it has her

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<v Speaker 1>name on the front, our last name on the back,

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<v Speaker 1>with our phone numbers on the back. To do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna don't you worry. Alright on the last you

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<v Speaker 1>were supposed to do it this weekend. It's on the list.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you were going to do it on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to prioritize your family before us. Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well leave the show right now and go to They're

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<v Speaker 1>not even whatever it takes. I know where she is. Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like deep breaths. You know you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a toddler there, We've seen. I've been through it. You

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<v Speaker 1>got a toddler gotta deal with Listen. Trust me, I

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<v Speaker 1>did not understand how to pick up anything until I

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<v Speaker 1>had my puppy. And then I and I used to like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, hold my breath. And when I have

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<v Speaker 1>to pick up the poop, taking a walk because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the bag to warmth all that, and then tying it

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<v Speaker 1>and carry I would carry it out like from my

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<v Speaker 1>body and my hands, dam and her poop. Something about

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<v Speaker 1>you picking up poop makes me really happy. Ryan. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well you're welcome. Yeah. You know what's interesting though, I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, I think that it's I'm a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>worried about parenting for myself because i feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so attached to my dog and I'm like, get really

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<v Speaker 1>sad to leave her, and I just want to, like

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<v Speaker 1>I take photos of her all the time and videos,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't imagine what it's like with a human baby.

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<v Speaker 1>But the meltdowns are exactly becoming a lot less and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm starting to do, like I'm starting to separate more.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's good you too, should share your locations, Kristin. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you very much for what's name? Thank you so much, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Lola. That's my no, no, no, no, she

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<v Speaker 1>was a show girl. All right, thanks for calling by Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, How you doing. Hi? Hi'm good. How are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing doing super well? Thank unicol So you're a

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<v Speaker 1>nanny and you have nanny trouble. Yes. I Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a nanny for a family with a ten year

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<v Speaker 1>old girl, and the family is like super strict with

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<v Speaker 1>technology and doesn't allow her to play like any video games,

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing, and they sometimes allow her to watch movies

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<v Speaker 1>on the weekend, but others not, like straight up no technology.

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<v Speaker 1>Um yeah, thank you. So literally yesterday she showed me

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<v Speaker 1>that she has this little video game console hidden in

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<v Speaker 1>a drawer and it's like a super basic one but

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<v Speaker 1>like only plays like Catchers and pact Man and stuff. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so I'm just caught in this dilemma of

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<v Speaker 1>like do I tell the appearance, because like, on one hand,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to like follow the roads and stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>do my job, but then on the other I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to betray her trust and she's a sweetheart and

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<v Speaker 1>she's probably just gonna find another way to speak in

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<v Speaker 1>games anyway. Um, yeah, what what do you recommend they do?

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<v Speaker 1>I have to defer to prisissity on this one. You

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely have to tell the parents. But so I should

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<v Speaker 1>give it to Tanya that would listen, there's a there's

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<v Speaker 1>a way to spin this so that everybody involved. I

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<v Speaker 1>can spin it. Everybody wins you tell the parents because

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<v Speaker 1>they're the ones that hired you. You are working for them, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because you never know if she if they find it,

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<v Speaker 1>and they find the video game, she's going to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the parents and be like, well, I told you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I told Nicole, she knew, and then she throws you

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<v Speaker 1>under the bus. She's a kid and kids do stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. So you tell the parents and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>on them to go about it without throwing you under

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<v Speaker 1>the bus, which I'm assuming if they like, say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>don't like I like, have such your own Yeah, don't

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<v Speaker 1>throw me, Yeah, I like it. M then the parents

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<v Speaker 1>will go in and they'll start talking to her in

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<v Speaker 1>they'll fish and then eventually it'll come out. Because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this happened to me once. Nicole, a friend of mine's

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<v Speaker 1>teenager was confiding to me they wanted to get a

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<v Speaker 1>tattoo and I know the mom well, and I told

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<v Speaker 1>the mom, even though the teenagers like, kind of don't tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Mom was like, I gotta tell you, but don't say

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. And so she the mom never threw

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<v Speaker 1>me under the bus. She just asked a lot of questions.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, the parents will ask a lot of questions

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<v Speaker 1>to get to where they need to go, and you'll

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<v Speaker 1>be in the clear solutions one on one. Nicole, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for calling. Wonderful. Thank you appreciate it. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>take Marcy here in Anaheim. Good morning, Marcy. How are you? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>You good morning? I'm good? How are you super good?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you very much for listening to us. How can

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<v Speaker 1>we help you? Yes, So, I was just calling in

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<v Speaker 1>to let I was on the same boat with Tanya.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have a collar on my dog, and I

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<v Speaker 1>heard the conversations for last week about everybody saying that

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<v Speaker 1>the dogs should have a collar on. So I actually

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<v Speaker 1>went out this weekend to get one for my dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if Tongue ended up getting one

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<v Speaker 1>for hers, but it just made me think maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>should put one on mine as well. What Tony, did

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<v Speaker 1>you get it? I did get a color or name

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<v Speaker 1>tag for did you say do you say we love Sonny?

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<v Speaker 1>Your phone number on their mate? She has a home? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>please return to Yeah I didn't. I mean I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have one on mine for the longest time, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you know, let let her be free.

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<v Speaker 1>But after hearing all everybody's saying that they should have one.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, I need to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>store and get one. So well, I think it is

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea. I think it's your responsible parent by

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<v Speaker 1>doing that. Yeah, yeah, for sure, you're right. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>even if they're microchips, you don't you don't know who's

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<v Speaker 1>going to take the time to actually go and scan

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<v Speaker 1>them or whatever. So you know what I realized though

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<v Speaker 1>when I was making mine, we need more inventions of

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<v Speaker 1>making name tags because I wanted to put a little

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<v Speaker 1>son on it because her name is Sonny, and I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't do a new of those things. You can get

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<v Speaker 1>a charm, I think you can do. Yeah, you can

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<v Speaker 1>get charms. There's very limited ones. Well, we'll work on that.

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<v Speaker 1>We should do an invention. Is that you said, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do an invention inventions? Thank thank you very much for

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<v Speaker 1>calling you. Take a care. Okay, what's your dog's name? Roomy? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I like it all right. By so many mornings we

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<v Speaker 1>have debated the perfect size for a wedding. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell you so science is getting involved now with a wedding. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think the average right size is? I

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<v Speaker 1>would say a hundred people, couples, you spend more than

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on their wedding are twice as likely to divorce

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<v Speaker 1>within three years. Come on, so a small wedding. Couples

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<v Speaker 1>who marry in front of ten or fewer guests are

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<v Speaker 1>twice as likely to divorce within ten years. Ten or

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<v Speaker 1>fewer people, ten or fewer, twice as likely to divorce

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<v Speaker 1>within a decade. Crazy talk. Well, I'm not making it

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<v Speaker 1>up science. Where did it come from? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that part, but I'll tell you I didn't the solution.

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<v Speaker 1>The experts say fifty people spend less than ten dollars

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<v Speaker 1>and only fifty people. Fifty people, that's like how many

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<v Speaker 1>people we have over Thanksgiving. It's impossible. I think fifties

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<v Speaker 1>too many. You know, Bryan's right, because you either have

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<v Speaker 1>to go super small and just do the nuclear family,

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<v Speaker 1>or you gotta go big and just do it up.

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<v Speaker 1>We did two hundred and I wouldn't change a thing

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<v Speaker 1>for me. So much fun. Not for me? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>Today's quote count your age by friends, not years, Count

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<v Speaker 1>Some of the biggest chains, including Target, Walmart, The Gap,

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<v Speaker 1>back and letting them hang on to the stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>they don't want. On air with Ryan Seacrest, Hey Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. How are you, Hey, Ryan? I'm good? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Super good? Ben? Thank you very much. So

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening? Yeah? I have an issue with my family.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm graduating, getting my grad school from n y U,

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<v Speaker 1>and my sister is pregnant with their first baby, so

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<v Speaker 1>a very same time for my family. However, my graduation

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<v Speaker 1>date is scheduled the same as my sisters do they

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<v Speaker 1>And because of this, my sister doesn't want any of

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<v Speaker 1>my family members coming to my graduation, not because of COVID,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, she wants everyone to be there when

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<v Speaker 1>the baby is born. And I just think it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of unfair to me, and I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>broach the situation with my family. Huh, this is true.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me call her and tell her that she does

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<v Speaker 1>not need all the family in the room or around

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<v Speaker 1>when that baby is born. Trust me, she can wait

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<v Speaker 1>a few days and it's not going to be that

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<v Speaker 1>big of a deal, right, That's what I thought. She

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<v Speaker 1>won't even let my dad and brother come my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>It's ridiculous. I mean, it's just the hormones. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to sit down and talk to her, and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>you guys can figure it out. Yeah, I mean, just Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>in a situation like this, when it's your close, close family,

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<v Speaker 1>just have an honest, transparent conversation with everything you're telling us.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Yeah, I know she's just very sensitive about

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<v Speaker 1>this and it's kind of an issue before. So I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'll just do it delicately. I would yes, proceed

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<v Speaker 1>with caution, but you you should definitely be honest. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>happy to talk to her. I'll give your phone number,

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<v Speaker 1>happy to I'll talk her off the ledge. You'll be fine, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck, Ben, thank you for calling. Thank you all right, bye,

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<v Speaker 1>good bye. I think that's the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So sad that nobody's gonna be his graduation. No, so lonely.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me grab Laura in here. Good morning, Lauren. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you good? Thank you? How are you super good?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? So you have been a wedding official. Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question about it. I have an issue

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<v Speaker 1>with it. Per per some friends, um and I heard

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<v Speaker 1>you guys talking about it the other day, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, maybe help me with my question. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm ordained now, Yeah, but I heard it's really

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<v Speaker 1>easy to do My gosh, you could do it now,

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<v Speaker 1>you could literally do it during a song. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I have told may. But yes, I got asked

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<v Speaker 1>to officiate my best friend's wedding. So um so honored

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<v Speaker 1>and excited and all all the things. That's so amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's my question and my kind of my issue

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<v Speaker 1>with my friend group. So I have like two best

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<v Speaker 1>friends from middle school, like we're inseparable, love them to death,

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<v Speaker 1>and my friend is getting married and I just found

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<v Speaker 1>out that she asked her other friend to aspreciate her wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm a little irritated that it's not me. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I did something wrong, like how do

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<v Speaker 1>you choose that? I like lived with her and her fiance,

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<v Speaker 1>And now I don't know if I'm just I'm overreacting

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<v Speaker 1>or do I feel kind of slighted? You know, Am

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<v Speaker 1>I justified in feeling that way? I think you're justified

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that way, sure, But I also don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>need to cause a scene and bring it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you just let it go. Let it go. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you can always see the glass two ways.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be half empty or half full, and you

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<v Speaker 1>got to look at the bright side. Now you can

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<v Speaker 1>get drunk at the wedding. You don't have to worry

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<v Speaker 1>about things. You're getting drunk at the ceremony. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>not because I'm not do that? Is that frowned upon?

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<v Speaker 1>Not in the church. Generally they don't explained a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about you in my wedding now, So yeah, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>like Sisney said, water under the bridge, I know, just

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<v Speaker 1>just forget about it. So you feel super honored. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you had another friend that was like, well, why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't I get asked? Do you think that like would

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<v Speaker 1>cause issues with you and your friend or you're just like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm a better public speaker. I work on the radio,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe that's why. I don't know. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's funny. When I was asked, we were we were

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<v Speaker 1>playing poker with like a bunch of friends, and they

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<v Speaker 1>brought up like, you know, our weddings coming up and

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking for an officiant. And then all of our

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<v Speaker 1>other friends were like, Michael, they all pointed to my

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<v Speaker 1>husband Michael, and then they were like, actually we wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see to officiate. So there was a moment of awkwardness, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>because Michael lived with Morgan and he was like they

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<v Speaker 1>were best friends and on they were roommates and there

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<v Speaker 1>is a connection there. But I guess I've known him longer. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so no, your husband stopped mad hanging there. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not good at public speaking. Well, yes, you are,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, only not. I'm really not. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel like you are, but to us you are.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not good. I'm not good at toasts. We

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<v Speaker 1>you're gray at toast. You are not good at toast.

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<v Speaker 1>Where have you ever seen me give a good toast?

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<v Speaker 1>With Ryan Seacrest? You wing it, it's great, you may

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<v Speaker 1>crack a joke, it's always good. I panic. I really

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<v Speaker 1>get nervous when I have to do a toast or

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<v Speaker 1>a speech. I know what you mean, though, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>prefer public speaking either, like especially if I have to

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<v Speaker 1>just go like from the heart and like out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I if I have something like a guide,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's like a script or bullet point, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you can do it. One a two point seven Kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 1>It is time for Ryan's ruses Sydney and Proclaima is

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out Sydney. Good morning. I see your email here

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<v Speaker 1>and it says you noticed your husband keeps getting d

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<v Speaker 1>m s about astrology and Numera horology and that's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff fun, says Tanya. But that's not really his vibe. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. That's never been anything he's remotely interested in.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you think you're connecting the dots in

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<v Speaker 1>your head, what do you think's going on? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just so weird, Like I'll see these pop ups

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<v Speaker 1>on his phone, you know, like he has Instagram notifications,

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<v Speaker 1>and like it's it's just so weird because it's never

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<v Speaker 1>been a thing, and it happens to all be from

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<v Speaker 1>the same woman. It's not like he's following multiple sites.

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<v Speaker 1>Are people involved in this stuff? It's one woman. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I looked into her profile just to see, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>who is this chick. And she's not like got thousands

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<v Speaker 1>and thousands of followers. It's not like a site or

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<v Speaker 1>business that she runs. Um, it's just like this normal

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<v Speaker 1>gal and sure she's attractive, and like I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>but they have mutual friends. And then I how the

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<v Speaker 1>they have a couple of high school friends in common.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's making me think something more is going on.

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<v Speaker 1>What's this? What's her name? Alicia? Alicia? Okay, I hold

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<v Speaker 1>on one second. The high school friends thing was a

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<v Speaker 1>curveball to me. Maybe it's an old friend, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>think so? But sending astrology is flirty? Isn't it totally flirty? Tony?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you agree? Uh? No, because I send it to

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people, but I don't send it to men. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be right, that's what Brad. Sometimes that's different.

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<v Speaker 1>Why because it's your friend? Right? So Sydney says that

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<v Speaker 1>her husband is getting d M s from a woman

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<v Speaker 1>named Alicia. It's all about astrology and numerology. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's flirty content in my mind. Now, maybe you disagree,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't. I think if you're sending someone astrology

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<v Speaker 1>d M is so personal married, right? Yes? Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>here's what we're gonna do, Sydney. I need you to say, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you my permission to call, and then your husband's name

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<v Speaker 1>on kissing him? Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission

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<v Speaker 1>to call. All right, We're gonna call him now it

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be very Quietlet's see what we can find

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<v Speaker 1>out and we'll go from there. Here we go, good luck,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Hello. Hi is this Cooper? Yes, Hi Cooper.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Riley. I'm calling from the Rare Rose.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing this morning? Hi? I'm good. Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? Thank you for asking. So we're a flower

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<v Speaker 1>shop and we service the Pacoima area and local cities.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, we're actually have a promotion for local residents.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a promotion of a free dozen red roses. So

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<v Speaker 1>what that means is that we can send them to

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<v Speaker 1>anybody that you'd like. They are free, and we just

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<v Speaker 1>hope that you refer to friends and family if you

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<v Speaker 1>like our arrangements. Yeah, sure, I would like that. Okay, great.

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<v Speaker 1>We just need the person, the name of the person

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to send to Alicia. Alicia, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>what would you like to what? We have different types

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<v Speaker 1>of cards. For example, we have UM cards that say

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, I love you, I'm sorry, UM, or just

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<v Speaker 1>blank ones, or we have something that we have hearts

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<v Speaker 1>on them, they don't say anything. Is there a specific

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<v Speaker 1>cards part of me? Do you guys do like custom cards?

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<v Speaker 1>Like one you can write whatever you want. Put down

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<v Speaker 1>the great can you put down? These made me think

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<v Speaker 1>of you? These made me think of you? Okay? Yes, Cooper?

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<v Speaker 1>Huh Cooper? Is this you? Yeah speaking Cooper? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>married to a woe named Sydney? Yes? Okay, your voice

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<v Speaker 1>is being broadcast on the radio. I need you to

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<v Speaker 1>know that Sydney is on the phone. Sydney, what would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to ask your husband? You just heard that

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<v Speaker 1>all go down. I'm I'm furious, Like I asked you

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<v Speaker 1>about this and you said it was nothing, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was absolutely nothing. Who is this woman? It is nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>It's that girl that from our group chat. The whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I was saying with the astrology and all

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<v Speaker 1>that bs like, yeah, look it's actually really interesting. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>her that that that woman. Oh it's really interesting. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how interesting is it? Tell me about it? Tell me so.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe this. Look, nothing nothing happening between us? Okay, nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing happening between you. Why do flowers make you

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<v Speaker 1>think about? Cooper? Where you're getting the d m s.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about astrology. It's about stars lining up in the

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<v Speaker 1>universe speaking to you, and then you send these roses

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<v Speaker 1>not to your wife. First woe when you think of

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<v Speaker 1>is Alicia and you say these words, we all just

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<v Speaker 1>heard them. These made me think of you. So what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Cooper? Just tell your wife Sydney, nothing's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Her Instagram handle has rosen. It's so yeah, Cooper? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I not? Am I not allowed to do that?

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<v Speaker 1>She's seen all the day? Am I not allowed? Yester? Friends,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't look about every single thing I do? All right? Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I know we've been having issues, but like this is

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<v Speaker 1>it's not an affair. Nothing's happening between us. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand how you don't see how this is

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<v Speaker 1>not an affair. Like when I would bring anything up

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<v Speaker 1>with astrology for fun, you would make fun of me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>now look at you, Okay, you're you're the one who

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<v Speaker 1>looks like a fool. Are you getting me? You're overreacting.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you're doing right now. Over reacting for you too,

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<v Speaker 1>another woman that you chap, don't it's nothing serious. We're friends.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a joke. A joke. That's a joke. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>You're a joke. What's okay? Like you're over you? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you really upset? Seriously for this? A small thing. Am

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<v Speaker 1>I really this upset? I don't even know what I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say with you anymore. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I can't. I can't believe that that you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to defend yourself and you can't just own

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<v Speaker 1>up to it, own up to what. There's not the fire,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing to own up to. There's no credibility here, Cooper, Yeah, none,

0:23:05.040 --> 0:23:08.359
<v Speaker 1>none at all. You just you sound. I wish you

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<v Speaker 1>could hear yourself talk right now, because you're you're not

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<v Speaker 1>even the same. Okay, all right, guys, we're going in circles. Sydney,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you know where they're smoked. There is fire here.

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<v Speaker 1>You found out quite a bit. Your hunch is right.

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<v Speaker 1>He's thinking of Alicia. They've got this d M thing

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<v Speaker 1>going on, and he sent her roses. So it's on

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<v Speaker 1>new guys now to take it from here. But Sydney,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that was valuable information and good luck. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, Sydney and Cooper. So Sydney saw d MS

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<v Speaker 1>coming from a woman named Alicia to her husband about astrology.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we get Cooper on the line and sure enough,

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<v Speaker 1>he sends the roses to that woman, Alicia, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even hesitate. So what else? I mean, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you believe anything? He says from that point, You just

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<v Speaker 1>I can't know. And he was trying to make her

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<v Speaker 1>sound like she's crazy. He's like, you're crazy. No roses

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<v Speaker 1>on her instagram? Is that what? Son? Right? Come on, like, so,

0:24:03.359 --> 0:24:06.280
<v Speaker 1>but you thought of her first, and you said these

0:24:06.320 --> 0:24:09.479
<v Speaker 1>made me think of you, Like, even if you are

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<v Speaker 1>being friendly, you'd be very careful to make sure they

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<v Speaker 1>knew you are being friendly when you said something like

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<v Speaker 1>that exactly you know what I'm saying, Yeah, you'd be

0:24:21.400 --> 0:24:25.159
<v Speaker 1>very clear. Hey this is a friendly bouquet. But I

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<v Speaker 1>laughed when I saw these something like that from your pal.

0:24:31.640 --> 0:24:36.040
<v Speaker 1>From your pal. Yeah, you just would be clear, You

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<v Speaker 1>just would be clear. I just think that no matter

0:24:38.320 --> 0:24:41.680
<v Speaker 1>what Cooper spins to us, there's just no credibility. Right.

0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:44.359
<v Speaker 1>He sends the roses to the woman that's deeming him

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<v Speaker 1>about astrology and numerology. Lauren, good morning, you heard it.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? I think it's the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the line for the relationship, I mean for her, He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I know we have our issues, so clear there's already

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<v Speaker 1>some breaking points and cracks. This may have shattered well,

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<v Speaker 1>and anybody that gets into a hobby that used to hate,

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:15.800
<v Speaker 1>that's a total red flag. That's totally yeah. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're right. That may be a dead end

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe we're just ripping the band aid off right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for calling. Hey, thank you on air with Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>seas well. Well, well, so this is something you were

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<v Speaker 1>saying that if we do this on a dating app

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<v Speaker 1>in Land, sure a lot more traffic and activity it

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<v Speaker 1>did for this one woman, so I'm assuming it could

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<v Speaker 1>work for everybody. Okay, what is it? So think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You get out of a messy breakup, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>enter the dating world again. You probably go to the

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<v Speaker 1>apps and then you start messaging with a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>guys or girls and it just kind of leads to

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<v Speaker 1>nowhere you go on dates, there's no chemistry. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what this woman was experiencing, the back and forth of

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<v Speaker 1>like text messaging or messaging each other and then they

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<v Speaker 1>meet and it's just like not there. So what she

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<v Speaker 1>decided to do was to start asking a guy on

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<v Speaker 1>a last minute date. And what that means is as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as she matched with the guy and they swiped

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<v Speaker 1>and there was a match instead of messaging back and

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<v Speaker 1>forth and getting to know each other on the app.

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<v Speaker 1>You just said. This was exactly what she said, Hey there,

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<v Speaker 1>you seem cute. I want to grab a drink tonight

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<v Speaker 1>and see if there's any point in us messaging for

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<v Speaker 1>weeks on end L O L. And so she does.

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<v Speaker 1>She'd get twice as many dates, and they would meet

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<v Speaker 1>on the first date and actually have more stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about because they didn't waste it all in the app,

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<v Speaker 1>and it there, The chemistry was there, and it just

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<v Speaker 1>feels like that might be the move as as opposed

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of like sitting behind these apps and I

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<v Speaker 1>would hate Oh no, I love it. What part would

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<v Speaker 1>I need time? I can't go out with you tonight?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what if I already had plans that night? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what if I was like plucking my hairs that night.

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<v Speaker 1>I need time, I need I don't know it, just

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be freaked out of somebody said you want me tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>H Well, it is nice to actually have some things

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about when you go meet someone in person,

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<v Speaker 1>right Otherwise, like you said, you're communicating through the app

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<v Speaker 1>and so too, and I'm a no bis type of personality,

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<v Speaker 1>so like we're either going to click instantly or we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to click at all. And so I just

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<v Speaker 1>I just say, put jump right in, jump in the

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<v Speaker 1>deep end. So tell me, by the way, if you're busy,

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>you to just say no, you don't need to tell them.

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:31.800
<v Speaker 1>That pretty easy. I wouldn't do that. I would just

0:27:31.840 --> 0:27:36.360
<v Speaker 1>tell you, guys, is that powerful little word? How are you? Alyssa? Hi,

0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you so super good? So you're

0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:44.879
<v Speaker 1>calling with a gift idea? I need a gift idea.

0:27:45.160 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 1>If you guys have any suggestions. Okay, you need a

0:27:48.080 --> 0:27:51.080
<v Speaker 1>gift idea? Okay, got it? What what is the situation?

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 1>So I want to be better about supporting the women

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<v Speaker 1>in my life during their exciting moments. Um, not just

0:28:00.520 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 1>when they have a baby or get married, which I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like is when we primarily do those celebrations that

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<v Speaker 1>buy a house. We need to support more women, um,

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 1>but when they buy a house or get a new

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<v Speaker 1>job or a promotion. And a friend of mine who

0:28:15.560 --> 0:28:18.200
<v Speaker 1>lives out of state, so that's the hard part. She

0:28:18.400 --> 0:28:20.800
<v Speaker 1>just got a new job, and I'm trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out something to two gifts her, whether it's a gift,

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<v Speaker 1>idea or something I can do for her to really

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate her. Well, yeah, that's a good idea. Wait, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you should get her a bouge o because those

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 1>help you stay organized, they help you plan. The bullet journal. Oh,

0:28:43.640 --> 0:28:46.560
<v Speaker 1>I think you're getting talking about a cart, talking about

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 1>those bouncy balls. No, no, no, the bug because it'll

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:54.400
<v Speaker 1>help you, it'll help her stay Really, so what is

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<v Speaker 1>the bouge the bullet journal? It helps you stay organized,

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<v Speaker 1>it helps you plan, stay motivated day to day. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it'd be really good for somebody starting. And

0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 1>the bottle of champagne. Oh, I've but I love that idea, BuJo.

0:29:12.160 --> 0:29:14.680
<v Speaker 1>This is perfect. I love both of those ideas. So

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for sharing that. All right to listen? Thank you,

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:21.480
<v Speaker 1>good luck and what a good friend you are. Thank

0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:23.920
<v Speaker 1>you so much. Have a good day. You know what

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not good at writing thank you notes and handwritten

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:32.880
<v Speaker 1>thank you notes. I love texts, but I feel guilty

0:29:33.120 --> 0:29:36.360
<v Speaker 1>when I'm thanking somebody from if I don't write them.

0:29:36.520 --> 0:29:38.480
<v Speaker 1>As a kid, my mom would make me right thank

0:29:38.520 --> 0:29:41.840
<v Speaker 1>you notes, But as an adult, I don't make myself

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:45.080
<v Speaker 1>do that. But I feel it's a lost art. It

0:29:45.120 --> 0:29:48.520
<v Speaker 1>is right. Remem when I texted you mind when you

0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:51.560
<v Speaker 1>texted me your yes, thank you? Yeah it wasn't. I

0:29:51.560 --> 0:29:53.520
<v Speaker 1>mean that was fine. I mean I wasn't with you,

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 1>but I wanted to thank you. So I hand I

0:29:55.000 --> 0:29:56.960
<v Speaker 1>hand wrote it and I took a picture of that's

0:29:57.240 --> 0:29:59.000
<v Speaker 1>that's right. Okay, that's right. There was a photo of

0:29:59.000 --> 0:30:03.000
<v Speaker 1>a handwritten that was very act. That was thoughtful. On

0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:08.240
<v Speaker 1>air with Ryan Seacrest, time for tell me something good, Tony.

0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Tony like Forest, We're ready for good news. Tell us

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:14.960
<v Speaker 1>something good. Hi, Ryan. I started a blog recently and

0:30:15.000 --> 0:30:20.200
<v Speaker 1>it's doing really good. It's brunch dot com. Stop slowdown,

0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 1>o brun Oh see, okay, what's the idea? So my

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:32.720
<v Speaker 1>idea is to focus on brunches around Orange County. It's

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 1>spots and um events around Orange County. I see, it's

0:30:37.080 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 1>so cute and we're fine with the name of it.

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I love your logo. Everybody loves the name. A lot

0:30:43.040 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 1>of people are a little haters, but I'm like, oh well,

0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 1>and this was a big career move for you. Um. Yes, Actually,

0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:51.880
<v Speaker 1>last night I got invited to a pretty little thing

0:30:52.000 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>party in u l A. So Osi went to l

0:30:54.200 --> 0:30:59.840
<v Speaker 1>A with Christine from Selling Sunset. Okay, that's major. It's

0:30:59.880 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 1>a opening door and I really want to open a

0:31:01.720 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 1>cafe in Newport Beach. Ryan, you one in beth Tony.

0:31:09.360 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Tony definitely has a hustle. Bro Hey, we're good luck

0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 1>with all your enterprises. Thanks for listening to kiss Man.

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:18.600
<v Speaker 1>Why am I confusing? I'm not sure I'm okay with

0:31:18.640 --> 0:31:26.520
<v Speaker 1>all that air with Ryan's secrets. Pam, do you guys

0:31:26.560 --> 0:31:29.920
<v Speaker 1>remember Pam Pamas on the phone from riverside. We're checking

0:31:29.920 --> 0:31:33.920
<v Speaker 1>in about the younger guy. Remember she was hanging out

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:37.520
<v Speaker 1>with this younger guy, but she didn't didn't feel so

0:31:37.560 --> 0:31:42.360
<v Speaker 1>good about it, Pam, good morning, Good morning, guys, welcome back.

0:31:43.240 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 1>It's a third day, second date update. Uh, so, remind

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 1>us exactly the situation with the younger guy. The younger guy,

0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:57.200
<v Speaker 1>he's um, he's just been to me and he's that.

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:03.160
<v Speaker 1>Did do you go out yet? No? Sorry, guys, we

0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 1>haven't gone out yet. But and you were hesitating just

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>because he's too young in your mind? Hea, how young

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:13.640
<v Speaker 1>he is? I know he's younger than me, Guys, I know,

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 1>so you know, but wait, but it's fine. You know

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:24.520
<v Speaker 1>what the update is? Well, I asked him finally, why

0:32:24.600 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 1>is he so focused on me? What is going on?

0:32:27.600 --> 0:32:31.440
<v Speaker 1>And he just said that he likes the way I

0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I smile, he likes the way I laugh, he likes

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:35.840
<v Speaker 1>the way I walk. I mean, he just had a

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:42.320
<v Speaker 1>little list of romantic It really wasn't. When he was

0:32:42.360 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 1>saying and he was looking at me in my eyes

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.960
<v Speaker 1>like it was into my soul. I was like, oh

0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:50.520
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, you're describing what everyone wants. What's going on?

0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:58.400
<v Speaker 1>What is the issue? But wait, is that the full update? No? No, no,

0:32:58.800 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 1>this man kiss me? Where? Sorry? How? We were at

0:33:04.160 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 1>work and I was walking by and he opened a

0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:09.760
<v Speaker 1>door and he did that little finger thing like come here,

0:33:09.800 --> 0:33:11.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what's up? And he pulled me in

0:33:11.880 --> 0:33:20.080
<v Speaker 1>and he kissed me. I love it. I thought you

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 1>up around? How what's the age difference? Oh? Ryan? Seriously? Yeah, seriously,

0:33:27.880 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 1>because I'm gonna not because I because I'm gonna tell

0:33:31.120 --> 0:33:33.960
<v Speaker 1>you what's wrong with this. This is like all the

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:37.400
<v Speaker 1>great things that people look for. Right, listen to how

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 1>excited you are. Second, it sounds like he's really genuinely

0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:44.600
<v Speaker 1>in love with you. Yeah, this is the kind of

0:33:44.600 --> 0:33:47.160
<v Speaker 1>an episode from like a movie or a TV show.

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 1>Like this is like he took you into the closet. Okay, alright, alright,

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:56.680
<v Speaker 1>praise ourselves. Let's praise ourselves for the numbers. He's probably

0:33:56.720 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 1>in the thirties and I'm gifty. That's okay, Dan, dang, dang,

0:34:07.040 --> 0:34:13.879
<v Speaker 1>get it girl. Oh but okay, okay, the date is

0:34:14.160 --> 0:34:16.920
<v Speaker 1>there is a date. I have a second job. He

0:34:16.960 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 1>will bring me lunch at my second job and we

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 1>will have lunch there and talk and hold on one second,

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:27.840
<v Speaker 1>hold on. This office is like the room on Grays

0:34:27.880 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and that. It's just gonna say, this is very grazy.

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:36.800
<v Speaker 1>What okay, So what did you say after he kissed you?

0:34:38.360 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 1>I I don't reason to anything to say. I mean

0:34:42.280 --> 0:34:44.160
<v Speaker 1>it was I just had to get out of the room.

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 1>What's the problem you find a problem here? Well, okay,

0:34:47.560 --> 0:34:52.200
<v Speaker 1>here's the only question. Are you his superior at work? No?

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:54.799
<v Speaker 1>Not at all? Okay, because my mind kind of went

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:58.759
<v Speaker 1>to could he be a little diabolical and morning to No, Actually,

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 1>the kiss that was last day at my I mean it, geez,

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't look. I really stand by my first reaction

0:35:12.640 --> 0:35:15.080
<v Speaker 1>to this one. He sounds like he wants to really

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:17.800
<v Speaker 1>get to know you and treat you well, forget about

0:35:17.840 --> 0:35:22.320
<v Speaker 1>these numbers. Yeah, that not matter at all and doesn't

0:35:22.360 --> 0:35:29.680
<v Speaker 1>know numbers. I need weekly updates, Pam. I will do

0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:32.880
<v Speaker 1>my best with Alright. So what I'm hearing here to

0:35:32.960 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 1>conclude is you are now going on a date with

0:35:36.239 --> 0:35:43.799
<v Speaker 1>this guy. Yes, definitely, that's just talking to us. I'm

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:52.120
<v Speaker 1>so excited. A good luck on the date. Enjoy and

0:35:52.239 --> 0:35:56.800
<v Speaker 1>definitely keep us posted. Okay, I will thank you guys. Alright,

0:35:56.880 --> 0:36:04.000
<v Speaker 1>bye bye, my heart good. I know my heart's pounding

0:36:04.040 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 1>for her. I think it's so beautiful. Let's see, I

0:36:06.360 --> 0:36:09.320
<v Speaker 1>can this guy is looking into my soul. He wants

0:36:09.360 --> 0:36:12.600
<v Speaker 1>to bring me something at my the other job. Uh,

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:16.319
<v Speaker 1>he really is, you know, pursuing me, and he's being

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:19.800
<v Speaker 1>sweet to me and passion and passionate. I should definitely

0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:25.080
<v Speaker 1>not go out with him. I don't understand that. That's great.

0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:27.839
<v Speaker 1>She's definitely happier than she was on the first call

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:30.520
<v Speaker 1>we had with her. I think so too. It's been

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:38.279
<v Speaker 1>a good kiss on air with Ryan Seacrest. Well, there

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>you go, is it for us? You come in, you think, oh,

0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:43.840
<v Speaker 1>we got all oneing together, and then all of a sudden,

0:36:43.880 --> 0:36:47.640
<v Speaker 1>when time flies, it flies by, right, My mom, she's listening.

0:36:47.640 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 1>She's here, she's visiting Mom. I'm saying it for you.

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:54.399
<v Speaker 1>What was I saying? Time flies by when you having fun,

0:36:54.440 --> 0:36:57.040
<v Speaker 1>that's all. I have a good one. This is kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for listening, so on air with Ryan's Sea Christ

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