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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air Juan Air with Ryan secret Christin good morning,

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Speaker 1: How are you good morning, I'm Jane. Well how are

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Speaker 1: you guys? Well, we're doing well. We know who this

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Speaker 1: calls not for? Yeah, yeah, well okay, So the other

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Speaker 1: morning I was listening to your Guys is um your

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Speaker 1: I just got married in October and we decided, hey, okay,

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Speaker 1: She's twelve weeks old, and I'm having meltdowns and I've

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Speaker 1: been having moltdowns for about like a week and a half.

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Speaker 1: just going because you guys both are hysterical about your puppies. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: going to tell Tanya, girlfriend. You got to do it

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Speaker 1: with our puppy this weekend. We went to a pet tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Something super quick. We got to tag it has her

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Speaker 1: were supposed to do it this weekend. It's on the list.

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Speaker 1: You said you were going to do it on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: You need to prioritize your family before us. Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Well leave the show right now and go to They're

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Speaker 1: not even whatever it takes. I know where she is. Um, well,

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Speaker 1: I think it's like deep breaths. You know you've got

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Speaker 1: you picking up poop makes me really happy. Ryan. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you're welcome. Yeah. You know what's interesting though, I

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Speaker 1: But the meltdowns are exactly becoming a lot less and

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Speaker 1: I'm starting to do, like I'm starting to separate more.

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Speaker 1: And it's good you too, should share your locations, Kristin. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Her name's Lola. That's my no, no, no, no, she

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Speaker 1: was a show girl. All right, thanks for calling by Nicole.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, How you doing. Hi? Hi'm good. How are

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Speaker 1: you doing doing super well? Thank unicol So you're a

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Speaker 1: nanny and you have nanny trouble. Yes. I Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: take Marcy here in Anaheim. Good morning, Marcy. How are you? Hi?

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Speaker 1: do an invention inventions? Thank thank you very much for

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Speaker 1: calling you. Take a care. Okay, what's your dog's name? Roomy? Oh?

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Speaker 1: tell you so science is getting involved now with a wedding. Well,

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Speaker 1: what do you think the average right size is? I

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Speaker 1: would say a hundred people, couples, you spend more than

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Speaker 1: within three years. Come on, so a small wedding. Couples

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Speaker 1: good morning. How are you, Hey, Ryan? I'm good? How

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Speaker 1: what's happening? Yeah? I have an issue with my family.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Hello. Hi is this Cooper? Yes, Hi Cooper.

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Speaker 1: My name is Riley. I'm calling from the Rare Rose.

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Speaker 1: Am I not? Am I not allowed to do that?

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Speaker 1: there's nothing to own up to. There's no credibility here, Cooper, Yeah, none,

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Speaker 1: that exactly you know what I'm saying, Yeah, you'd be

420
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 1: very clear. Hey this is a friendly bouquet. But I

421
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Speaker 1: laughed when I saw these something like that from your pal.

422
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 1: From your pal. Yeah, you just would be clear, You

423
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: just would be clear. I just think that no matter

424
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: what Cooper spins to us, there's just no credibility. Right.

425
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: He sends the roses to the woman that's deeming him

426
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 1: about astrology and numerology. Lauren, good morning, you heard it.

427
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 1: What do you think? I think it's the end of

428
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: the line for the relationship, I mean for her, He said,

429
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: I know we have our issues, so clear there's already

430
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: some breaking points and cracks. This may have shattered well,

431
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: and anybody that gets into a hobby that used to hate,

432
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: that's a total red flag. That's totally yeah. I just

433
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: I think you're right. That may be a dead end

434
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: and maybe we're just ripping the band aid off right, Okay,

435
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: thanks for calling. Hey, thank you on air with Ryan

436
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: seas well. Well, well, so this is something you were

437
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 1: saying that if we do this on a dating app

438
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: in Land, sure a lot more traffic and activity it

439
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 1: did for this one woman, so I'm assuming it could

440
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: work for everybody. Okay, what is it? So think about it.

441
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 1: You get out of a messy breakup, you have to

442
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: enter the dating world again. You probably go to the

443
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: apps and then you start messaging with a bunch of

444
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: guys or girls and it just kind of leads to

445
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 1: nowhere you go on dates, there's no chemistry. And that's

446
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: what this woman was experiencing, the back and forth of

447
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: like text messaging or messaging each other and then they

448
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: meet and it's just like not there. So what she

449
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: decided to do was to start asking a guy on

450
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 1: a last minute date. And what that means is as

451
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: soon as she matched with the guy and they swiped

452
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: and there was a match instead of messaging back and

453
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: forth and getting to know each other on the app.

454
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: You just said. This was exactly what she said, Hey there,

455
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 1: you seem cute. I want to grab a drink tonight

456
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 1: and see if there's any point in us messaging for

457
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: weeks on end L O L. And so she does.

458
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: She'd get twice as many dates, and they would meet

459
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Speaker 1: on the first date and actually have more stuff to

460
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: talk about because they didn't waste it all in the app,

461
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: and it there, The chemistry was there, and it just

462
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: feels like that might be the move as as opposed

463
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: to kind of like sitting behind these apps and I

464
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 1: would hate Oh no, I love it. What part would

465
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: I need time? I can't go out with you tonight?

466
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: Like what if I already had plans that night? You

467
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: know what if I was like plucking my hairs that night.

468
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 1: I need time, I need I don't know it, just

469
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 1: I'd be freaked out of somebody said you want me tonight.

470
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: H Well, it is nice to actually have some things

471
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: to talk about when you go meet someone in person,

472
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: right Otherwise, like you said, you're communicating through the app

473
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: and so too, and I'm a no bis type of personality,

474
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: so like we're either going to click instantly or we're

475
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: not going to click at all. And so I just

476
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 1: I just say, put jump right in, jump in the

477
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: deep end. So tell me, by the way, if you're busy,

478
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: you to just say no, you don't need to tell them.

479
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: That pretty easy. I wouldn't do that. I would just

480
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 1: tell you, guys, is that powerful little word? How are you? Alyssa? Hi,

481
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you so super good? So you're

482
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: calling with a gift idea? I need a gift idea.

483
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 1: If you guys have any suggestions. Okay, you need a

484
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: gift idea? Okay, got it? What what is the situation?

485
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: So I want to be better about supporting the women

486
00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:00,439
Speaker 1: in my life during their exciting moments. Um, not just

487
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: when they have a baby or get married, which I

488
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: feel like is when we primarily do those celebrations that

489
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 1: buy a house. We need to support more women, um,

490
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: but when they buy a house or get a new

491
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: job or a promotion. And a friend of mine who

492
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 1: lives out of state, so that's the hard part. She

493
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: just got a new job, and I'm trying to figure

494
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: out something to two gifts her, whether it's a gift,

495
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: idea or something I can do for her to really

496
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: celebrate her. Well, yeah, that's a good idea. Wait, I

497
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 1: think you should get her a bouge o because those

498
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: help you stay organized, they help you plan. The bullet journal. Oh,

499
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: I think you're getting talking about a cart, talking about

500
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: those bouncy balls. No, no, no, the bug because it'll

501
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: help you, it'll help her stay Really, so what is

502
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: the bouge the bullet journal? It helps you stay organized,

503
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: it helps you plan, stay motivated day to day. I

504
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: feel like it'd be really good for somebody starting. And

505
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: the bottle of champagne. Oh, I've but I love that idea, BuJo.

506
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: This is perfect. I love both of those ideas. So

507
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that. All right to listen? Thank you,

508
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: good luck and what a good friend you are. Thank

509
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: you so much. Have a good day. You know what

510
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm not good at writing thank you notes and handwritten

511
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: thank you notes. I love texts, but I feel guilty

512
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: when I'm thanking somebody from if I don't write them.

513
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: As a kid, my mom would make me right thank

514
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: you notes, But as an adult, I don't make myself

515
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: do that. But I feel it's a lost art. It

516
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: is right. Remem when I texted you mind when you

517
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: texted me your yes, thank you? Yeah it wasn't. I

518
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: mean that was fine. I mean I wasn't with you,

519
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: but I wanted to thank you. So I hand I

520
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 1: hand wrote it and I took a picture of that's

521
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: that's right. Okay, that's right. There was a photo of

522
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: a handwritten that was very act. That was thoughtful. On

523
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: air with Ryan Seacrest, time for tell me something good, Tony.

524
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: Tony like Forest, We're ready for good news. Tell us

525
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 1: something good. Hi, Ryan. I started a blog recently and

526
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: it's doing really good. It's brunch dot com. Stop slowdown,

527
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: o brun Oh see, okay, what's the idea? So my

528
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: idea is to focus on brunches around Orange County. It's

529
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: spots and um events around Orange County. I see, it's

530
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: so cute and we're fine with the name of it.

531
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 1: I love your logo. Everybody loves the name. A lot

532
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: of people are a little haters, but I'm like, oh well,

533
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: and this was a big career move for you. Um. Yes, Actually,

534
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: last night I got invited to a pretty little thing

535
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: party in u l A. So Osi went to l

536
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: A with Christine from Selling Sunset. Okay, that's major. It's

537
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: a opening door and I really want to open a

538
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: cafe in Newport Beach. Ryan, you one in beth Tony.

539
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: Tony definitely has a hustle. Bro Hey, we're good luck

540
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: with all your enterprises. Thanks for listening to kiss Man.

541
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: Why am I confusing? I'm not sure I'm okay with

542
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: all that air with Ryan's secrets. Pam, do you guys

543
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: remember Pam Pamas on the phone from riverside. We're checking

544
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: in about the younger guy. Remember she was hanging out

545
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: with this younger guy, but she didn't didn't feel so

546
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: good about it, Pam, good morning, Good morning, guys, welcome back.

547
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: It's a third day, second date update. Uh, so, remind

548
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: us exactly the situation with the younger guy. The younger guy,

549
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: he's um, he's just been to me and he's that.

550
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: Did do you go out yet? No? Sorry, guys, we

551
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: haven't gone out yet. But and you were hesitating just

552
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: because he's too young in your mind? Hea, how young

553
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: he is? I know he's younger than me, Guys, I know,

554
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: so you know, but wait, but it's fine. You know

555
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: what the update is? Well, I asked him finally, why

556
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: is he so focused on me? What is going on?

557
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: And he just said that he likes the way I

558
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: I smile, he likes the way I laugh, he likes

559
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: the way I walk. I mean, he just had a

560
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: little list of romantic It really wasn't. When he was

561
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: saying and he was looking at me in my eyes

562
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 1: like it was into my soul. I was like, oh

563
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: my gosh, you're describing what everyone wants. What's going on?

564
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: What is the issue? But wait, is that the full update? No? No, no,

565
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: this man kiss me? Where? Sorry? How? We were at

566
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: work and I was walking by and he opened a

567
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: door and he did that little finger thing like come here,

568
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what's up? And he pulled me in

569
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: and he kissed me. I love it. I thought you

570
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: up around? How what's the age difference? Oh? Ryan? Seriously? Yeah, seriously,

571
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna not because I because I'm gonna tell

572
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: you what's wrong with this. This is like all the

573
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: great things that people look for. Right, listen to how

574
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: excited you are. Second, it sounds like he's really genuinely

575
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: in love with you. Yeah, this is the kind of

576
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: an episode from like a movie or a TV show.

577
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: Like this is like he took you into the closet. Okay, alright, alright,

578
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: praise ourselves. Let's praise ourselves for the numbers. He's probably

579
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: in the thirties and I'm gifty. That's okay, Dan, dang, dang,

580
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 1: get it girl. Oh but okay, okay, the date is

581
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: there is a date. I have a second job. He

582
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: will bring me lunch at my second job and we

583
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: will have lunch there and talk and hold on one second,

584
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 1: hold on. This office is like the room on Grays

585
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: and that. It's just gonna say, this is very grazy.

586
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 1: What okay, So what did you say after he kissed you?

587
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: I I don't reason to anything to say. I mean

588
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: it was I just had to get out of the room.

589
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: What's the problem you find a problem here? Well, okay,

590
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: here's the only question. Are you his superior at work? No?

591
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: Not at all? Okay, because my mind kind of went

592
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 1: to could he be a little diabolical and morning to No, Actually,

593
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: the kiss that was last day at my I mean it, geez,

594
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: I don't look. I really stand by my first reaction

595
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: to this one. He sounds like he wants to really

596
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 1: get to know you and treat you well, forget about

597
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:22,320
Speaker 1: these numbers. Yeah, that not matter at all and doesn't

598
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 1: know numbers. I need weekly updates, Pam. I will do

599
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 1: my best with Alright. So what I'm hearing here to

600
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: conclude is you are now going on a date with

601
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 1: this guy. Yes, definitely, that's just talking to us. I'm

602
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: so excited. A good luck on the date. Enjoy and

603
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,800
Speaker 1: definitely keep us posted. Okay, I will thank you guys. Alright,

604
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: bye bye, my heart good. I know my heart's pounding

605
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: for her. I think it's so beautiful. Let's see, I

606
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 1: can this guy is looking into my soul. He wants

607
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: to bring me something at my the other job. Uh,

608
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: he really is, you know, pursuing me, and he's being

609
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 1: sweet to me and passion and passionate. I should definitely

610
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: not go out with him. I don't understand that. That's great.

611
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 1: She's definitely happier than she was on the first call

612
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: we had with her. I think so too. It's been

613
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: a good kiss on air with Ryan Seacrest. Well, there

614
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: you go, is it for us? You come in, you think, oh,

615
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: we got all oneing together, and then all of a sudden,

616
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: when time flies, it flies by, right, My mom, she's listening.

617
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: She's here, she's visiting Mom. I'm saying it for you.

618
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 1: What was I saying? Time flies by when you having fun,

619
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Speaker 1: that's all. I have a good one. This is kiss.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, so on air with Ryan's Sea Christ

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Speaker 1: Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again

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Speaker 1: tomorrow