WEBVTT - Ep41: New Year's Hoe-solutions 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:03.360 This is a really really that's not really that far 0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:05.040 of a throwback. But I bought some shard in Nate 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:06.480 last night and made me think of this song I'm 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:10.799 so good. Do you remember the song? Do you know 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:18.360 what it is? You want Elie and Ellie in the moment? 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:28.280 It was a good song. I'll you, guys, just the 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:33.600 best way. So every other verse Hello, hello, hello, hello, hello, Hello, 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:37.520 top to the top of the mother fucking hand. Wait, 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:40.279 that wasn't it. You are so all I was doing 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:45.559 part what are you singing? I love coming? Hey guys. Um, 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:50.400 welcome to the last episode of Horrible Decisions for the Year. 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:56.880 For the year, guys, you got through another motherfucker year 0:00:56.960 --> 0:01:00.000 via host Now I'm just playing. I mean no, let's 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:01.760 gonna say we got through a year not beating each 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:05.680 other as I don't even know how we're here in 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:13.600 real life. Okay, Okay, I'm so dead. Um. It has 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:18.080 been quite um a roller coaster, I would say, um 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:22.160 for Horrible Decisions as a brand, me and Wheezy literally 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:28.720 going over this concept over dinner. I know, um, And 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:31.680 so it's just it's just really strange. I'm so glad 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.400 that so many of you guys have grown to become 0:01:34.440 --> 0:01:36.560 a part of the brand. I think we like to 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:41.040 call it the hore Colt or hive hore Gang. I 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.880 don't know. You guys help us decide because you like 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:49.000 hor Gang Gang Gang Gang UM, and so it's it's 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:53.000 just really excited to finally be here. UM. For this episode, 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:56.400 we are going to talk about our hopes for the 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.520 New Years, and that's spelled h o E as y'all 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:03.040 know e s Hopes for the New Year, hopes for 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:04.920 the new Year. We wanted to take this episode to 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.720 discuss some of our favorite moments and some of our 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.680 not so favorite moments. Maybe we could even talk about 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.880 things off the air, like times that we thought we 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:20.919 weren't going to do another episode. Yes, I'm gonna try 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:24.680 to start with my favorites. I don't I actually ask 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:27.160 some of you guys your favorites at the live show. Um. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:28.920 I think there's a go name has the name Adriana 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:32.359 from Cleveland. She said her favorite episode was XD and Jade, 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:34.800 which is funny because I remember Mandy was like, we 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:36.880 didn't we didn't do an outline, like it didn't feel 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:38.600 like an outline. I was like, I love that one, 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:40.960 and I think it's because all of my favorite podcasts 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:43.640 have no outlines, but people love us be so crazy 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:47.520 because I'm the complete opposite. I am, um. I mean, 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:49.200 for most of my friends that know me, like when 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:52.280 I go on trips, I have Excel spreadsheets of our itinerary, 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:56.120 and so even so even when when me and Wheezy 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.880 come on here, I know you don't heard it. I mean, like, bitch, 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.680 that's not what was in my out line. I sent 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:05.520 you the outline before the goddamn show. Why that, I'm like, 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.799 why the fund can't you follow my outline? I can't 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:13.080 so a lot of our show, and I'm just like, 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.200 so a lot of our shows, I really like for 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.079 us to to stick to the script. And wee see 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:18.560 if y'all don't know, it's just all over the mother. 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.120 This one I don't remember. I'm like, literally, so I'm 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:23.200 in our iTunes right now and I'm looking through our 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:27.239 podcast names. I don't know what this one was, NYC Sex, Dougeons, Bruise, Buttholes, 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:30.840 and condom pain. Yes, so that episode you talked about, 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:34.320 you were just prepping for um, you were just prep 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:37.240 for anal and you put the toy up your ass 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:40.440 and um, you were bleeding from it, bleeding from anal 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:43.040 And then we talked about the sex clubs. That's so crazy, 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:45.120 like I don't do it right or maybe his dick's 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:48.720 too wide. Well it needs to be moved up, but 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:51.920 not only that, Like I think an your ass is 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:53.560 meant for things to come out of so when you're 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:56.160 shoving things in it, like which I had anal sex 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:58.040 I think at nineteen And if I haven't now, I'm 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:02.480 probably still gonna bleed. And that's eight years later. Yeah, 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:06.160 like I had my first experience with anything first, first 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:13.320 said last time. My last time was probably actually in 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:17.400 like May or something like that. And here's an interesting 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:19.680 episode and it's funny because Preach was here for this one. 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:23.000 As much as I love Eight Guards to Death episode three? 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:25.719 So can can I can I let y'all in on something? 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:28.359 After we did episode three with a guard and Trade 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:30.680 busy getting in a man's head, we said, oh, we 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:33.040 ain't doing no more. Um, we're not doing no more guests, 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.320 we said, We said, what was that? Yeah? We said, 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:38.839 maybe guests isn't for us because this didn't really go 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.120 how we thought it. I want to tell you what 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:42.720 I what I what I know now they are a 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:45.480 podcasts no Chaser with a guard on. It is not 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:49.279 bad right there, It's fun, it's interesting. They laugh a lot. 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.279 So I was like, why the fund is this so bad? 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:58.440 Them two New York niggas was competed no homo And 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:01.440 then not only that, I us feel like they kind 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:05.360 of wanted to be as nigger as possible. So when 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:10.640 we introduced any idea of a motherfucker athlete and it 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.599 was just too much. It was just too much, and 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:15.400 me and weasy, We're looking at each other like, well, 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:18.440 I was so convin And then that was the first 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:20.159 time we heard the word bagging on the show. That 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:23.360 pissed me off. Yeah that is because we we definitely 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.839 want to believe it right now. And I think you did. 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:27.720 You wanted to and I was like, well, listen, like 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:30.760 there's people. I was like, it's cultural. There are people 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:32.680 that think this way, and although we may not agree 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:34.680 with it, we need to be able to have a 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:37.240 mix of people on here and talk about, um the 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:42.839 different things. Yeah, it was yeah, um, well it's funny 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:45.800 because now you that night were like, no, I don't 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:47.240 you have a bunch of gay friends, dude. I wouldn't 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:48.400 use the word. I'm just saying we're not about to 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:51.160 leep it out. And now we've had episodes where you 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.040 say we don't use that word. I've heard you, well 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.279 not to someone who said it on the show, Like, 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:57.320 that's not a word we use and it's not you 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.919 and I don't use the word. I'm curious. Um, Preach, 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.080 you've been in the studio a whole lot with us, 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:05.720 What has been one of your most favorite interviews preachers, 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:09.400 our engineer, our producer, everything, the most favorite? Man, I 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:13.240 don't know, Um, I know it's one. I think I 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.160 saw you after most, But okay, which one was it? 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:23.360 My mom was here? Yeah, your mom face that one? Like, yeah, 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:24.960 I just think it's both. Both of you guys have 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:26.919 a great relationship with your mother's which is kind of 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.640 really cool. So the fact that you guys can have 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:35.520 the same conversation on the podcast with your mom's the ambulance, 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.080 why do they both have these detrimentals And I think 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:42.760 it's something that has rang through not only our listeners 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:45.760 but us. I think the Lethal Lips was one of 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:49.279 the best episodes, Like she came on and she was 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.279 as funny as that's bitch. I was like, wait, hold on, 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:55.200 that's what life is your Christie she when reading with her, 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.640 she said that was her favorite. Yeah, Lethal Lips was 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:00.360 was awesome. Lethal Lips I think was and the only 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:03.920 episodes where me and you felt like nothing, like we 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:06.240 have never done what's all Like I never sucked a dick? 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:09.960 And when she came on here was like, a Okay, 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:11.640 that's what you do. You get you a little tick niggas, 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:14.440 and I thank him every day for getting me ready. 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:16.880 That's all you gotta do. Let him you want to ask, 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:21.040 get in a shower. And then not only that, she 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:23.440 dropped gems and was like, don't funk with no nigga 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:28.880 who wear black socks because that nigga dirty dirty. If 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:31.040 you were James was a dope episode. He was one 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.400 of my favorites. So on the episode with James, we 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:36.400 kind of got to really dig into kind of how 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:39.560 we how we how we come across and um, kind 0:07:39.560 --> 0:07:41.400 of how we contradict some of the things that we 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:45.200 do say or stand by. J phobia liberal the day 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:48.720 He's like, I'm not, but even just the hor phobia, 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:52.360 because I don't think that we really align ourselves with 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:55.280 the slut walk or the Amber Rose movement, but more 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:58.120 so on just being comfortable with who you are in 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:01.200 your sexuality, and I think that's a big thing. The 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:04.360 interesting thing about his episode, people wrote in a lot 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.920 saying it was their favorite, and then at people said 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:10.640 they hated it. My favorite was remember that I told 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:15.880 the couple guys, if you guys have not listened to 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:18.840 this episode ten, bitch. I know, because I'd be telling 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:22.240 everybody if you guys have not yet listened. And I 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.720 think that that was actually one of the one of 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.560 the tipping points to us being like we can people, 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:29.760 we gotta get some good interviewers in here. Um And 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:32.400 if you guys have not listened to episode ten yet, 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:37.080 it's uh. It's a couple in which both parties are bisexual, 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.680 the man and the woman, and just the stories and 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:46.840 fucking bombs that were driving before it was with a man. 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:50.840 Um And I guess another people like Tahoe's episode a 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:54.600 lot because Tahowai ship. Shout out to Tahoe if you 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:57.439 guys are looking for another podcast. So Shameless is now 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:01.240 just Tahoe and he's doing a May interviewing. He interviewed 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.920 his goddamn baby mama. He and he's really getting down 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:08.360 to some real now. Shout out if you haven't yet. Also, 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:10.719 we had Passport Cutty on the show. She came through 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.719 and dropped some gems on her. I thought we were 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:16.480 grouping out over Cutty. Kenny. I followed you in two 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:20.400 O nine, Okay, I remember all of you. My two 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:23.439 favorites were episode four, Episode four, it's called Tender Golden 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.920 Showering Tears. That's when I told my peace story. Mandy 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:27.559 talked about how Nigga wanted to mix her pee with 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:30.600 rock and I could here because that was when Loverboy 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:33.800 made me. We named him. Loverboys was the one that 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.240 was the other one when she played herself being one 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:40.360 the g O the episode eight that was with my 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:43.960 friend and I remember. It's funny because at first I 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:48.080 didn't like her. I'm gonna just be very honest. She 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:53.280 was shading her car. I was I thought she was. 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:55.959 I think it's when people have stories that are so crazy, 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.559 sometimes I think they're lying. And I realized some people 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:00.720 think we lie. So she got in the car and 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:02.480 was like saying, girl, you have a nigga dude this 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:05.000 and it isn't like to but you have to realize. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:07.280 And I think it's something that we've talked about more 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:11.120 on the show, so we get so many Um, it's 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:13.880 so funny you guys call us your bfs now, And 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:15.640 I think that you have to realize there are so 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:19.200 many people uncomfortable talking about these things, that people can't 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.000 share the stories with their friends all the time. So 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.000 when she was doing that, it made me think she 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:25.200 was trying to like, but she just she only found 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:30.720 a hole and she talked to I liked, I mean 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.960 a car with a hole. Like Girl by the way, 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:37.199 was a like. She owns her own pr agents and money. 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:43.880 She now works for Atlantic and I saw he documentary 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:48.640 and now she's an a in Atlantic, and I think that, Yeah, 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:51.000 I think it's amazing that we just are able to 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:53.360 have people that come in here and who can openly 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:57.240 talk about their sex lives and know that they're out 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.800 here doing the goddamn thing and they're regular career I 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.559 do want to talk about one thing a lot of people. 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:04.480 Sometimes I don't know how to describe the show. And 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:06.360 initially when we first started, I was like, we're going 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:08.600 to get on and tell our sex stories, right, We're 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:10.680 gonna interview people sometimes, but we're gonna tell our stories. 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:14.920 Then I realized how often can I get fun? And 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:16.880 we went to hold four months around me hitting no date. 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.880 So now the way I describe our show as I say, 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:23.360 we have a show about the horrible decisions we make, 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:26.880 and we bring on everyday people to tell their kinks 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.800 and they're crazy shit. Like I met a dentist. I 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:31.080 don't know if I told you. I'm trying to get 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:34.920 him on Midtown dentist New York, huge office has an 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:38.319 oral fixation that did not come until he became a dentist, 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:40.480 he said. Now he makes sure that he leans the 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:43.280 chairback sometimes because he gets so hard touching people's mouth, 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:46.040 he said, even sometimes men. He said, he's straight. He's 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:49.600 something about the saliva sometimes something they used the tool 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:51.520 to hold your mouth op and he's like all of it, 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:55.120 this action where you got. I'm like, dudn't where you 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.160 come on? He said. He's scared that one person is 0:11:57.160 --> 0:12:00.440 gonna notice and it's gonna affect his practice. Ben his voice, 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:04.079 we couldn't change his voice. You can't we done here 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:09.920 is anonymous to do so, But like that's what I want. 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:12.280 I want people, I want this show to be people 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:16.120 that I want, like the teachers that we met that 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:19.040 we met a shot the live show and just even 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:23.079 talking about them in a very intimate setting. Intimate, but 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.040 there was two hundred people that you can still enjoy 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:27.439 this show and not be a crazy, motherfucking free Yeah, 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:29.480 and so I really like that. And so I actually 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:32.640 um coming to here on the train. I got a 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:34.280 message on Twitter, and I want to read it because 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.960 this relates to I believe episode twenty four, the top 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:43.560 ten blowjob tips, which right, but I mean they still people. 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:46.040 People are not prose like us as sucking dick. Okay, 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.400 we have to realize this. And to the dick sucking 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:51.319 contest that I lost, that you lost, you're not as much. 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.480 I was nervous. Um. So this lady said, Hey, Mandy 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:58.840 loved the podcast. I just wanted y'all to know that 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:01.320 the dick sucking tips the improved my head game. I 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:04.520 usually only give my hubby head on special occasions, but 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.480 she said, but since using the tips you all gave, 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:10.240 I gave him head two nights in a row and 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:13.840 he loved it. Keeps doing the dance. Let's go, hey girl, 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:18.680 not bitch. And I guess he said, and she said 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:21.520 that he loved it. And it's something that we talked 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:25.160 about in the previous episode just women. Maybe you guys 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:28.280 initiating more of the sex and so as two women, 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:31.120 UM and I know we've talked about females feeling oppressed, 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:34.880 especially black women, UM and and not really owning your sexuality. 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:37.640 I think that it's super exciting that we're literally changing 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:46.400 people's lot sex lives, like the Obama of sex. I 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:49.160 think one thing you your podcast is really done is made. 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:52.679 I think you made people who felt judging about what 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:56.400 they're doing in their bedrooms or outside their bedrooms. You've 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:58.520 made it. Okay, you haven't made. You can embrace it 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:01.480 and not feel like before Mandy walked in the studio, 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:03.640 Preach you was saying to me, so just let you 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:06.000 guys know even talking about being managed finally and so 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:07.760 those of you are hitting us up about ads and 0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:10.480 stuff like that, we'll finally have a place to for 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:12.680 you to go to and inquire about us and doing 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:15.120 more live shows. And so Preach and I were sitting 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:16.760 here before Mandy got and he goes. People ask me 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:18.160 all the time how you guys got popular, and I 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:20.880 wanted to ask you preach. Have you heard anybody come 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:22.400 in here and tell you why they like us? Or 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:25.560 do you or even how do you answer that question? 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.600 They just tell me that, you know, are really fuss 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:31.040 with the podcast, like they always say, like it's it's 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.440 just dope. And I think that goes because I don't 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:35.040 know if they want to say oh because I'm a 0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:38.760 freak and I don't have to, but so they'll just 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:42.880 keep it like it's so crazy, so people for people 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:44.920 don't know how the studio works, Like I'll run through 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.080 logos to to put out the monitor so they'll see 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:51.040 your logo and immediately he's like, yo, what's that about. Yeah, 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.400 it's always like me and Mandy can't get on one 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:57.600 of one of the platforms. So it's funny and I 0:14:57.640 --> 0:15:00.200 want to share with you guys, Tom, even as much 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:03.440 as we embrace our house ship, and although this podcast 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:06.360 has become more educational and really teaching you guys some stuff. 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:09.440 Um for the live show, we got denied three times 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:11.760 for our Snapchat filter, which is why there was no 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:15.240 Snapchat filter a lot allowed. And so I responded finally 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:17.600 and was like, well what is wrong with the Snapchat filter? 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:20.560 And he's like, well, for one, there's the whore needs 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.640 to be removed, and I was like, well, that's kind 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:24.720 of the title, and then he's like, yeah, the picture 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:27.960 of the people with the bananas in their mouths, that's 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:38.520 just kind of not appropriate snatch, and so we couldn't. Um. 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:41.560 We we actually weren't able to have a Snapchat filter 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:43.880 with our logo, with our brand. And then there was 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:47.200 actually another platform that I contacted. They like to feature 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:51.280 podcasts in different shows, and so I contacted them about 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:53.880 possibly featuring the King Noir episode because I knew it 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:58.240 would be very informal um and they responded and was like, well, 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:00.280 after looking at the cover art and seeing what your 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.760 show is about, I'm sorry we can't put you guys 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:07.440 on there any Is there any talk of rebranding or 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:10.280 changing I don't think you should. I did ask Mandy 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:13.440 at one point with work to remember that when I 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:14.920 was like, I have to change this cover art, and 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:20.280 I said no, besides this podcast, I just don't like 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:23.520 that people where they work outside of their podcasts are 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:26.520 influencing what they're doing creatively. I hate that ship for sure, 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:28.840 because I'm not doing it during your time, I'm doing 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.040 it after hours. I'm doing it on the weekends. I'm 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:33.360 not doing it in your building. I'm not wearing your 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:35.720 logo or the company logo. I'm not mentioning the company 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:41.040 that I was Yeah, buy the software. And but it's 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:44.320 crazy because I think, um, even even when we first 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.200 started the podcast, a lot of my friends knowing that 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:50.480 I'm entering you know, finance and accounting, and it's a 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:52.880 very conservative And that guy you were talking to was like, 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:54.760 I don't know what you're doing with yourself. Yeah, and 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:56.480 so yeah, I had a guy actually tell me and 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:59.080 he claimed to be a friend. Um, but there's a 0:16:59.120 --> 0:17:01.600 lot of judging that he does, not only with my Instagram, 0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:04.760 but now with this podcast especially. I don't know if 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:07.480 you noticed, but we took a video I have a 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:09.960 dildo to my face of the headphone and she has 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:12.439 a leash on. It has probably twenty four thousand views, 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:16.600 and they're just like, what are you doing with dildos 0:17:16.680 --> 0:17:20.640 on Instagram? Like, and I was gonna Jake, Yeah, one 0:17:20.680 --> 0:17:23.440 of my pictures wasn't pink. It's a pink dildo, so 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:26.560 it's not even resembling a penis. It got removed and 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:30.000 so it's just weird. Because now that we are like 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:34.280 heading literally on this goddamn podcast, it's just like heading 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:38.320 head and just you know, I told my therapist something 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:41.160 or something that I never admitted or said out loud, 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:43.000 but I was like, you know, I've been with lover 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:46.320 BOYD since the start of this show, and I'm scared 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:48.720 to leave that nigga, because how do I That's the 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:51.600 next question. Has this podcast changed your guys last person 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:53.680 as far as personal relationship? Absolutely? But how am I 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:55.040 going to meet someone new? And then they can go 0:17:55.080 --> 0:18:00.000 back fifty episodes in here and it's very intimidating, very 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:01.959 air to meet someone who I swear I think that 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:05.399 as someone who's single like myself, And I've shared on 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:08.720 the podcast a couple of episodes that I've dated guys, 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:11.600 and they'll be like, well, you can't keep doing this podcast? 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:14.840 I care. How come I can let all these tens 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:17.600 of thousands of people know every month, but I can't 0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:20.119 tell someone I'm intimate with someone. Why am I afraid 0:18:20.119 --> 0:18:22.240 of that? It's not that it's not that you're afraid. 0:18:22.400 --> 0:18:25.120 It's honestly, they're gonna they're gonna be afraid of how 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:29.400 people are gonna judge him for quote unquote wifing ah, 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:31.280 and I think that that's I've never thought of you 0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:34.760 guys as holes, although that's the moniker and that's what 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:38.200 the ongoing theme. I guess that's what listeners. And that's 0:18:38.200 --> 0:18:40.440 when I knew at that live show, like people really don't. 0:18:40.720 --> 0:18:42.639 When people are using the word classy, I have to 0:18:42.680 --> 0:18:47.280 say that again, classy such a classy way. We're up 0:18:47.280 --> 0:18:51.080 there with banana stuck down our I agree with them 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:54.720 because there's a certain you're not ratchet with it. You 0:18:54.760 --> 0:19:00.320 see what I'm saying. You know what I mean when 0:19:00.359 --> 0:19:02.520 I say ratchet like it's it could it could just 0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:04.439 be like I'm gonna try this and stick up this. 0:19:04.520 --> 0:19:06.879 Then I think that it could be tastefully done. I 0:19:06.920 --> 0:19:10.120 think that also. The confidence is something that maybe it's 0:19:10.200 --> 0:19:12.080 like not taking as ratchet or bla blah blah. It's 0:19:12.160 --> 0:19:15.200 it's when you own it, which makes it for some reason, 0:19:15.240 --> 0:19:17.480 other people see it in this different way. It's even 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.520 me and you can laugh and talk to it about hose, 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:21.320 but behind the scenes there this bitch be doing this, 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:23.560 this and that. But there's something about owning it, much 0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:26.639 like Lisa splifs in that makes you suddenly respect somebody 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:28.919 for it's like when and just like you get mad 0:19:28.920 --> 0:19:32.720 at me, like these hews on Instagram, well because there's 0:19:32.800 --> 0:19:35.400 no but I do that, but it's not even owning it. 0:19:35.440 --> 0:19:37.840 But I feel like we've done such a good job 0:19:37.920 --> 0:19:41.440 with literally not judging that. When you sit here and 0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:44.280 talk about the Instagram models. Mind you Instagram models, of 0:19:44.280 --> 0:19:47.320 which a lot of my friends are, I do kind 0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:49.240 of take it personal because it's just like, we do 0:19:49.320 --> 0:19:52.960 what we do, and bitch, I know, our first five episodes, 0:19:53.000 --> 0:19:55.160 you came on and talked about sex with five different people, 0:19:55.400 --> 0:19:58.359 and I'm like, the way you judge sometimes the Instagram models, 0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:00.439 I'm like, but you don't have to x more than 0:20:00.480 --> 0:20:02.399 they have I judge. Maybe let me try to articulate 0:20:02.400 --> 0:20:06.679 you better. I judged Instagram models because sex workers is 0:20:06.760 --> 0:20:11.080 what sex work. Sex being like acceptable is what we're 0:20:11.119 --> 0:20:13.000 trying to do with this podcast, right, And a lot 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:15.760 of these Instagram models are in sex work and pretend 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:18.320 to be doing something else, and it sheds this light 0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:21.880 like it's an embarrassing thing to do, which I don't appreciate. 0:20:21.960 --> 0:20:24.160 But see what you just said is how they pretend 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:28.600 to do something else. Lisa's are actually, every sex worker 0:20:28.640 --> 0:20:30.800 that we've had come on, aside from Candy Deep Throat, 0:20:30.800 --> 0:20:33.960 I believe all of them have jobs outside of sex work. 0:20:34.240 --> 0:20:38.000 And so just because they openly expressed their sex work 0:20:38.160 --> 0:20:41.800 doesn't mean that if I'm if I'm a quote unquote stylists, 0:20:42.080 --> 0:20:44.520 I can't be a stilist and sell pussy on the side, 0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:47.520 which is which is why I think that us we 0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:49.840 sit here and talk about how we're in corporate America 0:20:50.119 --> 0:20:52.480