Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.
Speaker 2: I got nothing, y'all? Okay, good. I was wondering, okay,
Speaker 2: because sometimes I get nervous when I come right in
Speaker 2: and we don't talk first, that you're waiting for like
Speaker 2: a reaction. I know, you know, I got nothing. Okay,
Speaker 2: great topics welcome, Oh great? Okay, So I host my
Speaker 2: in laws? Oh yeah, you want to talk about it?
Speaker 3: Sure do?
Speaker 2: Okay. So I learned a really valuable lesson when I
Speaker 2: was postpartum with love that there's a difference between company
Speaker 2: and help, and in the postpartum period for me specifically,
Speaker 2: I do not need company, I need help, got it.
Speaker 2: I do not have castrole toading in laws. Okay. And
Speaker 2: I'm not here to bust anybody or to be rude.
Speaker 2: I think it is I'm an adventure to say they
Speaker 2: don't listen to this podcast.
Speaker 4: I'm hoping.
Speaker 2: I'm just hoping that nobody that they listen. That it's
Speaker 2: not that just got me a topic something about that happened.
Speaker 2: But go ahead continue, Okay, yeah, yeah, I mean pinned, pinned.
Speaker 2: Don't forget it, though I want the pregnancy amnesia is
Speaker 2: so real, so it's tricky for me because I feel
Speaker 2: like I am often not the best version of myself
Speaker 2: when they are visiting because they don't offer help. Is
Speaker 2: that where the version comes in or is it just
Speaker 2: I think there are other things underneath it too, like well,
Speaker 2: maybe that your husband's a certain way because of how Okay,
Speaker 2: so that is part of it. Because you do it
Speaker 2: feels to me like you feels to me like you
Speaker 2: might know me, Janna Kramer. Although there is some of
Speaker 2: that because it's like, you know, when you watch a
Speaker 2: man sit too long, you can drive a girl crazy, right,
Speaker 2: And so when I watch pop pops it, I sometimes
Speaker 2: get a little like what's it like to sit? You know,
Speaker 2: and just a little triggered because maybe that's what your
Speaker 2: hobby does. Yeah, but I also am like my husband
Speaker 2: never gets to be home. He should probably sit on
Speaker 2: the couchy base for you know, like once in a
Speaker 2: while he needs to take a load off. But then again,
Speaker 2: his job sometimes doesn't feel like super hard to me.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be like, you know, I mean,
Speaker 2: like it is, but it's not you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: It's really not Okay. Well, you're an artist, so I
Speaker 2: can say that I mean that the hard part is
Speaker 2: like the traveling, but during the day it's like you're
Speaker 2: just kind of waiting and then you sing and people
Speaker 2: are singing your songs back, and it's like, I know, well,
Speaker 2: and he is a hustler. I'll give him that, like
Speaker 2: he's got a million things going on at once. Of course,
Speaker 2: I know, yikes, I'm really feisty. I like it.
Speaker 4: Keep going.
Speaker 2: I'm really getting back on my hormonal pattern here. Anyway,
Speaker 2: So he works really hard and he's a hustler, so
Speaker 2: he does work a lot when he's out there. I
Speaker 2: want to make sure that I'm being clear about that
Speaker 2: before I get a million messages. Anyways, his parents. I
Speaker 2: offered his parents a hotel this time, right, I said,
Speaker 2: we would love to host shoot a hotel. Realizing that
Speaker 2: our last our guest room has now been taken by
Speaker 2: our newest roommate. Would love to get you guys a
Speaker 2: hotel that's close, because I know that sleeping on air
Speaker 2: mattresses and couches is not super great. When you're seventy five,
Speaker 2: they decline it. If you're going to decline a hotel,
Speaker 2: let's not treat my home like a hotel. So my
Speaker 2: question for you is well. I might have saw a
Speaker 2: photo same with Catherine where they left their water bottles
Speaker 2: in a beautiful little basket that had sheets in it,
Speaker 2: and you know you guys, I feel like the stomach ache,
Speaker 2: like this is like I feel the stomach ache, like
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have come in here so spicy. I want
Speaker 2: an instant right, but like when someone comes and treats
Speaker 2: it like a hotel room and it's not like your
Speaker 2: momm you just had a baby, like that's yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: already hosting breakfast, lunch, dinner like you know, so that
Speaker 2: just feels a little so my this is not I
Speaker 2: do believe. I think it's a generational thing like on
Speaker 2: the phones. I think the Facebook is a generational thing
Speaker 2: for older Yeah, like it's you're just like scrolling, you're napping,
Speaker 2: you're leaving some things behind, like the leaving behind though
Speaker 2: I don't have mine, mine, mine, or I should say
Speaker 2: I don't have my like I'm thinking x in laws,
Speaker 2: like I haven't hosted mine soon to be new in laws,
Speaker 2: but the X in laws never left anything I think
Speaker 2: with my family, just like pushing the chairs, that's like
Speaker 2: there I always find one thing that bothers me that.
Speaker 2: I was just like, why are we why do we
Speaker 2: leave the chairs the same human? I literally last night
Speaker 2: till Preston, I was like, Legend needs to learn to
Speaker 2: push in his chair when he gets up from the
Speaker 2: dinner table. Yeah, I'm like, I guess I'm just gonna
Speaker 2: I'm just pushing in the chairs my passage.
Speaker 4: I feel so deeply just Janice saying that just makes
Speaker 4: me want to push and right now.
Speaker 2: I love it. It feels so validating because I'm here's
Speaker 2: my thing, my thing is not them, and I'm not
Speaker 2: trying to be passive aggressive and like that it gets
Speaker 2: back I I just I guess I feel two things. One,
Speaker 2: I would like to be a better version of myself
Speaker 2: as I gear up for my own mother visiting on Saturday,
Speaker 2: I'm hosting the old grandparent meet and greet. That's what's
Speaker 2: happening here. And I have really successfully boundaried until six
Speaker 2: weeks and eight weeks, so that feels good. So a
Speaker 2: little bit of a pattern, but a I feel like,
Speaker 2: how where can we anchor when we have guests in
Speaker 2: the house that don't operate like us pushing in chairs
Speaker 2: and whatnot. And the second thing is when you leave
Speaker 2: someone's house. What's your standard demo? Like, if you're staying
Speaker 2: with someone, I have a really good story, go no,
Speaker 2: you go no. There's a question on this yes, so
Speaker 2: go no.
Speaker 4: You answer it, and then I have to say something
Speaker 4: after you.
Speaker 2: Well, I just think it's like I'm just trying to
Speaker 2: think like in in in like my past, like with
Speaker 2: X in laws or stuff, like, my thing always kind
Speaker 2: of goes with how they maybe raised and then that's
Speaker 2: where my internal frustrations with them come up. But I
Speaker 2: think as I've gotten older, I've just become more annoyed
Speaker 2: with family and parents in general, because it's like as
Speaker 2: we do our work and as we uncover more things,
Speaker 2: it's harder to sometimes maybe be around certain things. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it feels more toxic. Yes, yes, a couple of things
Speaker 2: one O cats out of the Bag.
Speaker 4: Started anyway with a lot of followers. Anyway. A. I
Speaker 4: never house my in law's parents anything, well, because they
Speaker 4: live like, because they live here, and I wouldn't. I
Speaker 4: just absolutely would.
Speaker 2: Not if I lived here.
Speaker 4: If they did, they would be somewhere else in a hotel.
Speaker 4: My family knows that, they probably.
Speaker 2: Trust it's not happening at your mom she.
Speaker 4: Lived there, and she paid her rent. For sure, she did.
Speaker 4: She paid rent. I'm not and that sounds terrible, but
Speaker 4: that's just not However, that stuff would not bother me.
Speaker 4: But what made me no, this is WHATSS made me
Speaker 4: think of. I'm sure plenty of things would bother me.
Speaker 2: Okay, you would be bothered, because I think sometimes I'm
Speaker 2: just I'm not.
Speaker 4: Bothered by that kind of stuff. But that's because I
Speaker 4: wasn't raised the way you were. But that makes me
Speaker 4: think of our different personalities real fast. Because New York,
Speaker 4: we're still asleep. You've cleaned the whole apartment before we
Speaker 4: leave for the was not that it was like a
Speaker 4: mess at all, but it's like we're still asleep getting
Speaker 4: ready to go to the airport. And Christon's like, great,
Speaker 4: I cleaned the whole place, And I was like, did
Speaker 4: we make a mess? But like that's your personality if
Speaker 4: you leave things when you you know, you do like
Speaker 4: you're just like, okay, I gotta make sure everything is
Speaker 4: like in the perfect place before we leave.
Speaker 2: I wish my house looked like people didn't live in
Speaker 2: it sometimes, right, okay.
Speaker 4: Right, whereas my house is a mess, you would think
Speaker 4: it's a mess, you know, that's just how I am.
Speaker 4: But it also made me think of the time we
Speaker 4: left David's house. Oh god, and I you know, and
Speaker 4: I'm pretty bad. I can be pretty bad at it.
Speaker 4: But I'm like, Carrery, what do we need to do?
Speaker 4: What do we need to clean up? Just throw the
Speaker 4: towels in the bathtub. Remember that?
Speaker 2: Because I'm so close with him that I think sometimes
Speaker 2: I take that relationship for granted. But it's like, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm like, y'all, he's gonna have his maid come over anyway.
Speaker 4: And we cleaned and I was like, yeah, towels in
Speaker 4: the bathtub. So we've thrown the towels in the bathtub.
Speaker 4: The next day he's like, guys, what do you say,
Speaker 4: towels in the bathtub?
Speaker 3: It was just it just made me.
Speaker 2: No, or maybe he.
Speaker 4: Did, but he was still kind kind of like, why
Speaker 4: are the towels in the bathtub? And we both I
Speaker 4: was like, in, so, I'm not criticizing you, it's just
Speaker 4: everyone's very different with that.
Speaker 2: I just think you were grown up how you were raised.
Speaker 2: And yeah, I feel like I'm not like Christ's centered enough.
Speaker 2: Like I feel like every time it's a test until
Speaker 2: I pass it and I'm never passing it.
Speaker 4: I just feel like, maybe you shouldn't put yourself in
Speaker 4: that position.
Speaker 2: I tried so hard not.
Speaker 4: To, but did you say no.
Speaker 2: Well, this is what's tricky is Preston was afraid that
Speaker 2: they would maybe be offended.
Speaker 4: Well, they'll be offended. My in laws would be offended too.
Speaker 2: If we put them in a hotel. He's like, they
Speaker 2: don't want to do that. And I will say, like
Speaker 2: the majority of like the fun, like not the majority
Speaker 2: of the fun, like family talking is happening post bedtime typically,
Speaker 2: So if they were at a hotel, then there's two
Speaker 2: sweet older people driving back to a hotel at night,
Speaker 2: which I don't love personally either.
Speaker 4: So then I think maybe if that's the case.
Speaker 2: This time, however, bedtime is eight pm because I have
Speaker 2: to get that first round a sleep or else I'm exhausted.
Speaker 4: And that's like that's the whole difference.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm like, it's a newborn, what are we doing? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think that piece is hard because it's like hard.
Speaker 2: As much as I love like having my dad and
Speaker 2: his wife come, you know, my dad is very like talkative,
Speaker 2: wanting to make up for like lost time, so by
Speaker 2: like the end of the night, I'm tired. I'd like
Speaker 2: to go into my room and like not talk, not talk,
Speaker 2: And he's like, so you know, I'm like, can we
Speaker 2: just not speak? You know what I mean? Like, can
Speaker 2: you just be now?
Speaker 4: It's my issue. This is why the stuff it's like,
Speaker 4: I don't want to talk.
Speaker 2: This is why we do so well on the road
Speaker 2: together though, because when we when we all know it's
Speaker 2: not time to talk, we're done talking, which is harder
Speaker 2: for one of us than the other. So that's fine, well, no,
Speaker 2: because it's just like you you have to be like
Speaker 2: on and like during the day, it's just like exhausting
Speaker 2: and it's like like I'll never forget. Oh, I feel
Speaker 2: like I remember my ex just wanted to Like it
Speaker 2: was so nor with my dad because again my dad
Speaker 2: is like trying so hard and like we're great now
Speaker 2: and like but like at that time, like he actually
Speaker 2: like a screaming baby, I don't know which baby. It
Speaker 2: was like in his arms, and my dad's like trying
Speaker 2: to have a conversation, you know, And that's where I'm at. Yeah,
Speaker 2: instead of like being like what can I help you with?
Speaker 2: And instead of even asking, just like doing something. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and like Present's parents are so sweet, like they want
Speaker 2: to ask a million questions I want to know, like
Speaker 2: his mom specifically, she just wants to know what I'm
Speaker 2: up to and all the things. But by nine, I'm like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I gotta I gotta end this. I can't.
Speaker 4: But that's that's I think. My point is like either
Speaker 4: say no to them coming, or if you are okay
Speaker 4: with them being there, then you have to say I'm
Speaker 4: done talking, or hey, the baby's screaming, do you mind
Speaker 4: taking the baby right now? I did do well at that,
Speaker 4: which I know is hard. I'm not saying it's not no,
Speaker 4: but I did do that.
Speaker 2: This time. I was like, okay, guys, so I need
Speaker 2: y'all to go upstairs, and y'all like Preston can go
Speaker 2: up too, and y'all can talk, But like this, I
Speaker 2: need the lower level to just be shut down for
Speaker 2: the night.
Speaker 4: Don't you just have to?
Speaker 2: I almost feel like two last thing, you know, because
Speaker 2: we've got our amazing guest in the waiting room. But
Speaker 2: when I think about, like when I have the baby
Speaker 2: and stuff, I'd rather have my friends come than like
Speaker 2: a family, because it's just you guys, know, the like, yeah,
Speaker 2: the drill. I'd rather have you guys stay at the
Speaker 2: versus like because again it's just the parents. It just
Speaker 2: feels like I have I have to entertain do everything.
Speaker 2: But do we feel that way or is that the expectation?
Speaker 2: I think and I think it's I think it's past
Speaker 2: stuff too. Like I think I'm just at a point
Speaker 2: where I'm just like, I don't know, I've just gotten
Speaker 2: more annoyed as the year's gone on. I'm just glad
Speaker 2: to hear that you're more annoyed. I feel validated. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think that's as you get older.
Speaker 4: And here's the thing. If it is expected doesn't mean
Speaker 4: you have to do it.
Speaker 2: That's right, that's right. Well I enjoy my life. Well,
Speaker 2: we're going to take a break and then when we
Speaker 2: get back, we're going to get kelteen knight on. So
Speaker 2: she have you guys listened to Lady Gang? No? I
Speaker 2: love them. Becca is a good friend, but she the
Speaker 2: Lady Gang. They have like over like one hundred and
Speaker 2: ninety million downloads. They were on e for a hot minute.
Speaker 2: They've been doing it since twenty fifteen. All about women's support, right,
Speaker 2: I think is that the same year? No? Yeah, when
Speaker 2: No Six when was Jacebourn. I don't know, it just happened.
Speaker 2: I looked at my arm my tattoo. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: it's going away, my dates, I've lazered that off. Okay,
Speaker 2: but she is on also a new show right now
Speaker 2: called super Fans. So let's take a break and then
Speaker 2: get Kelty night on.
Speaker 3: Hello Cassie like a whole trio.
Speaker 2: Hi, Honey, Hello, and good hard look at your Emmy's
Speaker 2: and I know back row, I'm such a douchebag. Listen, Emmy,
Speaker 2: I'm making a necklace like flavor flav So no, that's amazing.
Speaker 2: I mean, shoot, I would be if.
Speaker 1: Like as a woman in Hollywood right now, especially launching
Speaker 1: this show, I have so many meetings with like corporate people,
Speaker 1: and I feel like people are like, who is this girl?
Speaker 1: And I was like, I just need you to know this.
Speaker 1: Take me seriously on this zoom. But like normally they
Speaker 1: live upstairs in my.
Speaker 2: Way, it's like a very like humble like way of
Speaker 2: doing it. Though it's not like it's not don't mess
Speaker 2: with me. They don't have their own light on them yet.
Speaker 2: That might be what we gift you. Maybe we send
Speaker 2: you like a box thing like a glass box with the.
Speaker 1: Feels very say, half a half filled out whiteboard, you know,
Speaker 1: like some self help books.
Speaker 3: It's very like it's all the things.
Speaker 2: Wait, so the new show not super Fan because that's
Speaker 2: been on before. Are you doing a brand new There
Speaker 2: was another one? Then I thought I can't.
Speaker 3: Did I did? We did Lady Gang on E and
Speaker 3: then I don't know?
Speaker 2: So super Fan? So it's this is a like a
Speaker 2: brand new see like brand new new series.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we premiere next Wednesday.
Speaker 2: Oh how exciting. Okay, where did the idea for super Well? Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm just too much go for it. How did you
Speaker 2: we should first talk about super Fan? I mean we
Speaker 2: can all kind of guess.
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, thanks so much for having me
Speaker 1: on y'all, and I'm so excited to see you, and
Speaker 1: congratulations on everything too, Danna.
Speaker 3: I'm so happy for you and so super fun. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's a new show.
Speaker 1: It's a music series, and so I created it, I'm executive.
Speaker 3: Producing it, and I'm healthy.
Speaker 1: Yes, And the reason I'm so excited about it is
Speaker 1: because literally, I know it looks like I always have
Speaker 1: the jobs, but nobody offers me jobs, and so I
Speaker 1: really needed to go and make my own job. So
Speaker 1: I really have always wanted to host a music show,
Speaker 1: and my husband's music manager.
Speaker 3: I've had sex with many musicians.
Speaker 1: I think they're all really great in bed, and so
Speaker 1: I like music. I was a backup dancer for a
Speaker 1: couple of musicians back in my dance career, So this
Speaker 1: is like a very fitting moment. But it's a show
Speaker 1: where basically, like we take the biggest artist of the world,
Speaker 1: Ella Cool Jay's our first episode on Wednesday.
Speaker 3: Then we have Shania Twain and Pitbull.
Speaker 1: Kelsey Ballerini, tons and tons of artists, and then we
Speaker 1: did a nationwide search for their biggest super fans, and
Speaker 1: so five of them compete through all these levels of
Speaker 1: like trivia and knowing the songs, they have to do
Speaker 1: lip sync, like all these different things, and then one
Speaker 1: of them is going to be named the number one
Speaker 1: super fan. But the artist is right there the whole time,
Speaker 1: and I think that's really important. It's not just like
Speaker 1: me and some super fans, like you're doing all of
Speaker 1: this in front of Shania, Like you're telling Shanaia about
Speaker 1: Shania in front of Shania, and so she does a
Speaker 1: big performance and then America votes actually on Twitter, which
Speaker 1: has been awesome. My last two weeks have been amazing
Speaker 1: with this whole Twitter rebrand, so good, not stressful at all.
Speaker 1: We're still calling it Twitter for the next six weeks.
Speaker 3: I called X Yeah, it's CAI so stupid.
Speaker 2: Why I don't know. I miss the bird.
Speaker 3: I miss the bird too, and you tweet?
Speaker 2: Then is it?
Speaker 3: I have no idea, It still says tweet. I don't know.
Speaker 3: It's a messy, messy, messy.
Speaker 1: So America is going to vote on Twitter using hashtags,
Speaker 1: and then one of the fans wins, and the prime
Speaker 1: are like insane Glorias Stefan, who's like the love of
Speaker 1: my life. Her prize is she's going to fly you
Speaker 1: and she's crazy fans by the way. She's gonna fly
Speaker 1: to Miami, put you up at one of the hotels
Speaker 1: she owns for like a few days, and then on
Speaker 1: Saturday night you're gonna come to her house on Star
Speaker 1: Island and she's going to cook you dinner with Amelia
Speaker 1: and the fam and like a dream.
Speaker 4: That is a yeah.
Speaker 3: So it's not like, oh, it's like a meet and greet.
Speaker 1: It's like it's Kelsey Ballerini, who I love so much,
Speaker 1: is her prize is I mean, there's a bunch of stuff.
Speaker 1: But then you get to come to her show vi
Speaker 1: P and then you get to pick a song from
Speaker 1: any of her albums and come on stage and sing
Speaker 1: it with her for the audience.
Speaker 2: Good for that's really fun. If she loved it by
Speaker 2: having you kiss Chase Stokes, I feel like you guys,
Speaker 2: might that might be even a better you know you
Speaker 2: know what?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I feel like then like some of Chase's
Speaker 1: little a little baggy of Chase's hair is like.
Speaker 2: Also a DNA sample.
Speaker 4: I didn't get weird at all.
Speaker 2: Selene is ever on can can me and Kat be
Speaker 2: the like at least like audition for the show, because
Speaker 2: I mean I would give can you imagine like being
Speaker 2: in like if Selene like offered like a dinner with her,
Speaker 2: Like I don't even she.
Speaker 1: Was the tippity top top top on short list and
Speaker 1: she's say, you know, she's not doing it right now,
Speaker 1: and so she's not doing anything. But like I you know,
Speaker 1: I think with her her illness, she's not able to sing,
Speaker 1: which is like very heartbreaking. Something about like when she
Speaker 1: sings and uses those muscles, that's like the problem. So
Speaker 1: I'm like for season two, Selene, you don't even have
Speaker 1: to perform, Like you don't have to perform, you don't
Speaker 1: even have to stand. I'll put a throne on the
Speaker 1: middle of the stage and we'll do the show around you,
Speaker 1: like I feel like she deserves it, and so many
Speaker 1: people are super fans, and you know what, We'll just
Speaker 1: have you be one of the contestants and then we'll
Speaker 1: turn it into a singing competition and you can just sing.
Speaker 2: That probably wouldn't end well with Selene songs, because you
Speaker 2: should like do it. We'll send you sample from a
Speaker 2: car ride.
Speaker 4: We've got plenty of videos.
Speaker 2: If you'd like to see the second tier Jessica Simpsons
Speaker 2: every one. I would like you to just send me
Speaker 2: a little damn Okay, thanks, Okay, this girl is the biggest.
Speaker 2: The funniest thing is when I was making like a
Speaker 2: you know, bestie birthday thing, I was like, you know, trying.
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, she loves Jessica Simpson, so I'm like,
Speaker 2: let me try and get a Jessica Simpson song. And
Speaker 2: it's like with you with none is like I can't
Speaker 2: do because it's all like she's so I could have
Speaker 2: my T shirt on it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can make a knitting zy just before you
Speaker 3: hit the love Jessica too.
Speaker 2: I'm not the problem is that I would probably black
Speaker 2: out and there would be like some sort of medical
Speaker 2: emergency that would happen. Yeah, I'm like kind of shaking,
Speaker 2: sweating thinking about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have everything about Jessica Simpson like I love her.
Speaker 1: I think she's great, Like are you into the shoes
Speaker 1: and the fashion and everything about her just the music.
Speaker 2: I say supportive because I just feel like that is
Speaker 2: nicer than like, you know, like a felony or something.
Speaker 2: So it's just supportive. I did meet her finally and
Speaker 2: it was I don't remember what I said, but I
Speaker 2: have a video and I keep saying I love you
Speaker 2: over and over again. She finally said it back, but
Speaker 2: I think just because she was like what.
Speaker 3: Will end this?
Speaker 2: But it's fine.
Speaker 3: So I'm like that with a Backstreet Boys. We had back.
Speaker 1: Boys on on on the my podcast and and then
Speaker 1: like our show, and I've interviewed the mazillion times and
Speaker 1: every time I'm such.
Speaker 3: A fucking loser, like god, like I you.
Speaker 2: Know, is that your person you're super fan people? Like?
Speaker 2: Is that your ultimate?
Speaker 1: A backstor Boys episode would be the dream for me,
Speaker 1: but I would have to compete, And like, I want
Speaker 1: to tell you something. I'm you know, I Jack Vannick
Speaker 1: and I who's my co host on Lady Gang.
Speaker 3: I like this trio versus like another trio.
Speaker 1: She She and I got in a deep six month
Speaker 1: era where all we did was send each other back
Speaker 1: and forth YouTube links of AJ mcclear doing hip.
Speaker 3: Thrusts, like that's it.
Speaker 1: That's all we did was like watch him on shit
Speaker 1: because on stage he was not the same on Dancing
Speaker 1: with the Stars, but he'll like on stage, he'll just
Speaker 1: walk to the edge and then just go.
Speaker 3: And I was like, damn.
Speaker 2: So, speaking of that name is I was in Queen
Speaker 2: trying to figure out like what to name the baby, right,
Speaker 2: So it's like first I was like on like A
Speaker 2: names and then J and then like ours and kind
Speaker 2: of like staying with those ones, and then so we
Speaker 2: really liked AJ. But then this one goes, isn't there
Speaker 2: a Backstreet boy named AJ? Like, and I was like, well,
Speaker 2: damn it, now that we know he's a hip thruster,
Speaker 2: I think it takes it off the way.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we're back again.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So that that kind of nixed it.
Speaker 1: But it's anyway so hard because there's like one shdy
Speaker 1: like person with the name that you want in every scenario,
Speaker 1: and you're just like, god, there's no good names left
Speaker 1: because there's like bad people out there.
Speaker 2: I know, and I like, you guys don't know this. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but like I've kind of gone back to my other
Speaker 2: name that I really liked. But again, I just think
Speaker 2: it's too close with his because my fiance's last name
Speaker 2: is Russell. So I really want Jacks like JACKX was
Speaker 2: like my like, but it's not so okay. So Jack
Speaker 2: Russell's a dog but Jack's Russell? Is it too close? Still?
Speaker 3: Can't do it.
Speaker 4: I can't do it.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: I told her she'd have to measure him in like
Speaker 2: dog ears, like she wouldn't be able to be like
Speaker 2: he's eighteen months, he'd be like a dog gear or whatever.
Speaker 2: I call him Jackson, but for his like, no, oh.
Speaker 3: My god, I just saw the best idea.
Speaker 1: Go for it.
Speaker 3: Put my I put my Emmy Award.
Speaker 1: Winning brain on and I put that on for a minute.
Speaker 1: Fore you Okay, what if you do aj like if
Speaker 1: they're like Alexander Jacks is the name and so they're AJ.
Speaker 1: You can't have AJ, but then you can call them Jacks.
Speaker 2: Well, so still Jax Russell. It's still still. Can't not
Speaker 2: laugh And I don't want to have an opinion. I
Speaker 2: named my kids.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 2: Your daughter Lion, Yeah I did. My daughter's name is Lyon.
Speaker 2: I mean I love it. I don't get me wrong
Speaker 2: that butt you know, love and legend. I mean we
Speaker 2: just I'm a Kristen Nicole. Somebody had to break the
Speaker 2: creativity cycle, you know what I mean, Like my family
Speaker 2: needed to change trajectory. I feel like we need to
Speaker 2: pull it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like just Jackson, but you want to call him
Speaker 4: jack Jacks, which is I know where you're going with this.
Speaker 2: And my superfan non music thing. But but don't worry.
Speaker 1: About it because didn't Amy Schumer name her baby like
Speaker 1: scrotum or something?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: Really, Smer, Yes it is.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Stop she didn't baby? Can you just google
Speaker 2: that for us?
Speaker 1: It's Jean and his last name is Atlia.
Speaker 3: No, sorry, it's not scrotum. It's there.
Speaker 1: Jeane Italia and I yeah her.
Speaker 2: I wonder if she said she didn't.
Speaker 1: She said in interviews she didn't think about it if it.
Speaker 2: Was a girl. We were going to name her Alana,
Speaker 2: so it was going to be like Alana Russell. But
Speaker 2: then I was like, oh, that sounds like I want
Speaker 2: to rustle. I don't believe she.
Speaker 4: Didn't think about that.
Speaker 2: There's no way it's.
Speaker 3: A family name. It's a family name.
Speaker 2: So here's the thing. I don't like opinionated about names
Speaker 2: either before they're here. But like, I just have to
Speaker 2: be honest.
Speaker 4: You don't tell people.
Speaker 2: I don't tell people exactly. My daughter's name is Lyon.
Speaker 2: A girl named Ian. Everyone be like, I mean, here's
Speaker 2: the thing. I do.
Speaker 4: Like it with Jolie and Jayce, Jolie Jason Jack's it's cute.
Speaker 1: I love.
Speaker 4: Can we just do Cramer?
Speaker 2: I've asked, what about you baby? Are we baby training anytime?
Speaker 2: They're soon? Kelty, what's going on?
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a childless wonder okay. Uh, you know
Speaker 1: I kind of made the decision. You know, listen, there's
Speaker 1: there's people that are good at making children, like you,
Speaker 1: and and then there's me and I don't really enjoy
Speaker 1: a baby, and so like I really start to like
Speaker 1: children around six or seven, and then like it's just
Speaker 1: it's you can't birth a seven year old.
Speaker 3: So for me, it's just not the right move.
Speaker 1: My husband is travels a ton for work, so I'm like,
Speaker 1: I have no tribe here in La, Like I just
Speaker 1: I think it would be really bad. And then I
Speaker 1: also have a brother who has mental illness, and so
Speaker 1: like I consider to him my like forty five year
Speaker 1: old baby, like he's my he's my person that's gonna
Speaker 1: be with me forever, and it's just like my buddy,
Speaker 1: and so I didn't.
Speaker 3: I just wasn't the right thing for me.
Speaker 2: I know, I'm like the only one that's what I
Speaker 2: aspect that though, because you know it, rather than being
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna have a baby, because I have to, Like,
Speaker 2: we know someone that is not a I don't even
Speaker 2: think she wanted a kid, but she had a kid,
Speaker 2: she's and she's never there for the kid. So it's
Speaker 2: it's hard to even see because I'm like, she just
Speaker 2: has a nanny twenty four to seven. And then it's
Speaker 2: like I think she had one because she thought she
Speaker 2: had to have one. Yeah, and I don't think she
Speaker 2: ever really a kid person for sure.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you got to want it.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna antie to a lot of my friend's
Speaker 1: kids and it looks exhausting.
Speaker 2: But by the way, like you're the crucial piece for
Speaker 2: all of us. That's why it takes like that's why
Speaker 2: your souls and hearts are so wildly important. Because I
Speaker 2: need the people that are fun and mature enough to
Speaker 2: come in and say, like, I'm gonna love you so
Speaker 2: hard and then I'm going to go back home because
Speaker 2: we need you. Yeah, we need I need it.
Speaker 1: I roll over and I like, will ruin you and
Speaker 1: take you for an ice cream and we'll go wash
Speaker 1: the car, and like I will give I have been.
Speaker 1: I am that person for my friends. And I'm sure
Speaker 1: you guys can appreciate this. Like they I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm coming over and they're like, no, no, I don't need anything.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, you need me to hold your
Speaker 1: baby for two hours so that you can have a
Speaker 1: shower because you're disgusting, do you know.
Speaker 2: What I mean? I feel like, yeah, says it directly
Speaker 2: to me in this moment, because I can't tell the
Speaker 2: last time I shampooed. But it's fine.
Speaker 1: Not everyone can afford like nanny's and help and stuff,
Speaker 1: and not everyone has their parents around, So like I
Speaker 1: just I hold a baby, you shower and put on
Speaker 1: a fresh set of clothing, and then like come back
Speaker 1: to the real world and then I leave you.
Speaker 2: I think it's such a good balance to like with
Speaker 2: your lady gang. You know. It's because it's like you
Speaker 2: got like you are the one that's like I feel
Speaker 2: kind of like runs the ship, you know, and like
Speaker 2: you are the like all you know, all the other
Speaker 2: two girls are amazing obviously as well, like and Becca
Speaker 2: she's she's a friend, and you know, so I'm like,
Speaker 2: but you run the ship, I feel like, you know,
Speaker 2: and you kind of are like you're you're the boss
Speaker 2: CEO of of it forgive.
Speaker 3: Me right or you know one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like, you know, Beca, like I can
Speaker 2: you know that she's you know, she's mom in it,
Speaker 2: and it's like, yeah, I'm sure they really rely on
Speaker 2: having you in that position too, you know, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: And it's like it's been so nice even when Becca
Speaker 1: had her baby. It's like she was able to to
Speaker 1: just be like I'm I'm not here for like like
Speaker 1: I'm here, but i'm not here, you know, And and.
Speaker 3: I think that's it's really nice and not everyone gets
Speaker 3: that so and.
Speaker 2: To know the ship is still running, like you know,
Speaker 2: like when I know I'm out, like I know Catherine,
Speaker 2: like you know, she's holding it down. The ship is
Speaker 2: gonna still run exactly, and it's so hard.
Speaker 1: And and also like I gotta be honest with you,
Speaker 1: the way that like the Earth treats moms, especially here
Speaker 1: in the United States, is kind of messed up. Like
Speaker 1: you guys have such a bad Like everyone's so excited
Speaker 1: for you, and you have showers and you announce the
Speaker 1: baby's born and everyone's healthy and we're so excited, and
Speaker 1: then all we do is shame you for like twenty
Speaker 1: years about every single thing you do with that baby.
Speaker 3: It kind of seems terrible.
Speaker 2: Like no, true, yeah, I mean truth, I'm gonna be
Speaker 2: but I feel like the third this go around though,
Speaker 2: like I was like shy bringing in the you know,
Speaker 2: the formula with Jay's like I'm gonna be running in
Speaker 2: with the formula in my back. I got shamed with
Speaker 2: you know, not breastfeeding Jolly, and then I tried with
Speaker 2: Jason it was miserable. So this one I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: like you're gonna shame me regardless of what I do.
Speaker 2: I straight up, brought the formula to the hospital, was
Speaker 2: like just in case, yeah, leave my boobs alone.
Speaker 4: I was like, here's my sports brawls. Bind him up.
Speaker 3: Let's go right, bind him up, bind him up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I just yeah, it's you're right though,
Speaker 2: it's it's it's a sad thing. But speaking of Lady Gang,
Speaker 2: is there is there a question that you still think
Speaker 2: back on and go, oh, my god, I should not
Speaker 2: have asked that. And I know you guys have done
Speaker 2: thousands and thousands and thousands of interviews, but is there
Speaker 2: one that just kind of like sticks out to you
Speaker 2: that is like I should have just not said that.
Speaker 3: There's so many.
Speaker 1: Actually, I have one from E News that I just
Speaker 1: did that is like so terrible. So one of my
Speaker 1: other jobs is being a chief yea correspondent on news.
Speaker 1: And I was in Rome for the Tom Cruise premiere,
Speaker 1: which was amazing.
Speaker 2: I saw on the Tom Cruise is like really.
Speaker 1: Intense about who he lets interview him, and it's like
Speaker 1: a whole thing to get approved.
Speaker 3: And anyway, so.
Speaker 1: We're on the red carpet and like you know, they're
Speaker 1: doing all these premieres all around the world, and so
Speaker 1: they're getting asked, like he's getting asked about the stunt
Speaker 1: jumping off the mountain a hundred times, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: what am I going to do?
Speaker 3: That's like really different and really special?
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, and I kind
Speaker 1: of have my plan of what's going to happen. I've
Speaker 1: bought my note cards, like I'm ready to go, and
Speaker 1: he walks up to me, and there's just something about
Speaker 1: him that is like so overwhelming, and the whole thing.
Speaker 2: Well, he's Tom Cruise, you know, He's Maverick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's Maverick, you know. And I kind of lost
Speaker 1: my mind. And the question that came out of my
Speaker 1: mouth was.
Speaker 3: Would you rather die.
Speaker 1: Doing a stunt on a Mission Impossible movie or just
Speaker 1: like in your sleep?
Speaker 3: Why did I ask that?
Speaker 1: I kind of so that's so morbid because he's like
Speaker 1: gonna die doing one of these stunts. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I just kind of want to know. And then he
Speaker 1: would like kind of look at me like wow, the
Speaker 1: balls on this girl will be inviting her again, and
Speaker 1: he was like wow, I don't really think about it,
Speaker 1: but and I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: And then I.
Speaker 1: Followed up with okay, well, you're still so sexy, So like,
Speaker 1: how do you say this?
Speaker 3: Like what am I doing? It was the work.
Speaker 2: He's like, I don't think about how I'm gonna die,
Speaker 2: but I'm glad you do. Reporter, Like, but you're hot
Speaker 2: when you die.
Speaker 3: I was like, and then you're hot. I have a
Speaker 3: crush on you. And I was like what is like
Speaker 3: it's just so embarrassing.
Speaker 1: And then I had a really bad interview with Jake Jillenhall,
Speaker 1: like almost almost a decade ago, where I did the
Speaker 1: same thing he came and it was for a movie,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, while they're getting the Jenny,
Speaker 1: you'll know like when they kind of like need a
Speaker 1: second to like get the when you're doing a red carpet,
Speaker 1: like to get the camera in focus and like the
Speaker 1: shot set up, so it's like you're kind of spilt
Speaker 1: your before that you're actually start doing the interview. And
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, well, you know, if
Speaker 1: you don't win an Oscar for your performance, you should
Speaker 1: win an Oscar for being dead sexy.
Speaker 3: And he walked away.
Speaker 2: No, you didn't do the interview.
Speaker 1: He walked He just walked away from me, and I
Speaker 1: was like, well, and I was like, I know it's inappropriate,
Speaker 1: but like I love if people were like, Kelty, how
Speaker 1: do you feel this morning?
Speaker 3: You're looking dead sexy? I would be like, bring more
Speaker 3: of this to me.
Speaker 1: I here for this, you know.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't believe he walked away.
Speaker 4: He neither.
Speaker 1: Or did he walk No, he walked to the next person,
Speaker 1: and oh, I'm sure and like and then then the
Speaker 1: movie companies like, we need coverage for this movie, you know,
Speaker 1: But I think that my Race Show is pretty high
Speaker 1: on good, good interview moments. The thing that was the craziest,
Speaker 1: like for for super Fan that's coming out this week,
Speaker 1: we had Shanaia and I'm like, I grew up in Canada,
Speaker 1: like I am Shania.
Speaker 3: I could have competed on Shania and.
Speaker 1: And like we saw her before the show and I
Speaker 1: just like squealed at her. And I think she looked
Speaker 1: at me so funny because I was like, I'm hosting
Speaker 1: the show and thanks for coming and I created the
Speaker 1: show and like her Papa is just.
Speaker 3: Like it's Kelty, you know. We we zumed with her.
Speaker 1: She's British, like she assumed with him about the shed
Speaker 1: and I was like, I've been interviewing for so long,
Speaker 1: and there's just.
Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm such a loser.
Speaker 2: Hey everything normal situations like put me in a room
Speaker 2: with Tom Cruise and what's gonna happen? You know what
Speaker 2: I mean? Regardless if you jumped on the couch or not,
Speaker 2: he's still Tom Cruise. He's always time. So I mean,
Speaker 2: but yeah, I mean I've definitely said things that I'm like,
Speaker 2: oh god, and then you just feel like bad. But
Speaker 2: you know, we're all human. We all say things. You
Speaker 2: guys know Nicholas Sparks, the author the Notebook. Okay, so
Speaker 2: we were we all forty and well, I just want
Speaker 2: to be like, you know, I just never know how
Speaker 2: diehard I was, And was I alone in that? I
Speaker 2: don't know? Oh my god, speaking of I had. I
Speaker 2: made Alan watch The Notebook because he's he's seen every
Speaker 2: single movie, like we're always like watching on Netflix, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, let's watch it. I've seen it, seen
Speaker 2: it's seen it and some I don't know why we saw.
Speaker 2: Oh we're on Prime then, and I was like, no, book,
Speaker 2: it's so good. He goes never saw and I'm like,
Speaker 2: buddy Allen. So we played it and he even got
Speaker 2: a little tyut at the end too, like with the couple.
Speaker 2: But yeah, anyways, die at the same time. We just
Speaker 2: watched it about a week ago and I was like, can.
Speaker 4: We die like that?
Speaker 2: This is my this is my embarrassing story. So we go.
Speaker 2: I go to a book signing and I got up
Speaker 2: there and I got so flustered and I literally sent
Speaker 2: gave my book to him, and I go, We've spent
Speaker 2: so many nights in bed together. And then I just
Speaker 2: turned bright red and I go, I not like I
Speaker 2: and he was like he got a little like red
Speaker 2: and he was like, oh, no, I know what you meant.
Speaker 2: And I was like, but do you know what I meant?
Speaker 1: I can't believe Nicholas Sparks that is Nextla.
Speaker 2: This was like two thousand Snowking cute. It's cute. I'm here.
Speaker 2: Dave Ramsey is the other. So I just round it out.
Speaker 2: Oh Dave Ramsey, Jessica Simpson, Yeah, I like it. I
Speaker 2: don't want to make out with him, just for some
Speaker 2: on record and was Selene.
Speaker 4: But I don't think I said anything stupid. I don't
Speaker 4: think I talked. I think I just stood there and
Speaker 4: stared at her.
Speaker 2: That's all she's used to since since you can't get
Speaker 2: Selene though for Superfan, what is there someone that you're like,
Speaker 2: you're still aiming, like, I really want to get this
Speaker 2: person on Superfan for maybe the next season besides just
Speaker 2: season two.
Speaker 3: I feel like I need Taylor or Rihanna.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I want the Jonas brothers who were
Speaker 1: down to do season one. It just didn't work out
Speaker 1: with the timing. I obviously need Backstreet Boys, and I.
Speaker 2: Really Blake Shelton would be fun, like because he's like entertaining.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, it's so funny. I always like hmm.
Speaker 3: I also feel like I need a Garth Brooks.
Speaker 1: Like I think what makes I mean, Jonah's Brothers is
Speaker 1: probably not but like I think what makes a great
Speaker 1: episode is when they have a really big catalog of
Speaker 1: songs and history, like a lot of perform because you know,
Speaker 1: all the games are like some of them we're you know,
Speaker 1: like pictures that are blurry and you have to like
Speaker 1: identify what that what is that from? Oh that's from
Speaker 1: when super Bowl and blah blah blah that's from the
Speaker 1: Gramm music Gagaga like all that kind of stuff, And
Speaker 1: then the music is such a big part of it.
Speaker 3: So I feel like.
Speaker 1: Those like big catalogs of music will be amazing. But
Speaker 1: Blake would be great too, although he's oh yeah, and now.
Speaker 3: He's not on the voice so he could do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, him or Adam too would be good.
Speaker 1: And then like for me, like I tried to get
Speaker 1: Fallout Boy, like I'm still like a little bit of
Speaker 1: an emo kid, so I'm like, we need Fallout Boy,
Speaker 1: and the network was like, whoo, I love Fallout Boys.
Speaker 2: See, I don't even go far from Matt. I'm like
Speaker 2: Beastie Boys because my brother used to like rock Beastie Boys.
Speaker 2: That's like way back.
Speaker 3: Yep, oh yeah, I love it. So we'll see.
Speaker 1: We'll see how hopefully season one does amazing and then
Speaker 1: we'll be able to start working on season.
Speaker 2: Two and then Lady Gang wise, I mean, you guys
Speaker 2: are still obviously rocking because you're doing how many episodes
Speaker 2: now for Lady Gang are you doing Tuna?
Speaker 1: We do two episodes a week, and our third co host,
Speaker 1: Jack Fani's about to get married and and so we're
Speaker 1: all heading over this woman is getting married on a
Speaker 1: I want to know what you.
Speaker 3: Guys think about this?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: I love Jack I was just at her dress fitting
Speaker 1: with her and so like listen, like she's my person
Speaker 1: and I love her so much. She's never had a
Speaker 1: real job in her life because she's an entrepreneur, and
Speaker 1: she's been an entrepreneur since she went to college. She
Speaker 1: worked at Old Navy for like a week and then
Speaker 1: just like went on summer vacation and they were like, no,
Speaker 1: you have to book time off, and she was like, what,
Speaker 1: I hate jobs. And so then it's like started her
Speaker 1: clothing line. So she's never had a real job. This
Speaker 1: bee is getting married on.
Speaker 3: A Tuesday in France.
Speaker 1: Do you know how hard it is for the everyday
Speaker 1: working woman to get to France on a Tuesday. I'm
Speaker 1: like Jack, and she's like, well, that's when the chateau
Speaker 1: was available. And I was like, I got a take
Speaker 1: off as Saturday to fly to Sunday, and then I
Speaker 1: gotta be with you on Monday.
Speaker 3: The wedding's on a Tuesday day.
Speaker 1: After fly but I got to take five PTOs paid
Speaker 1: time off. I got to take off five of my
Speaker 1: fifteen vacation days for the year will be spent traveling
Speaker 1: to in France on a.
Speaker 2: Tuesday, chat toe on a Tuesday.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm doing you have to take off that
Speaker 4: much time anyway, wouldn't you even if it was on
Speaker 4: a different day.
Speaker 1: If she got married on like a Saturday, I could
Speaker 1: have like hustled a Friday and Thursday, Friday, Monday, Thursday.
Speaker 4: That's a fast trip to France.
Speaker 2: I think you should just I mean, I hear, I
Speaker 2: hear what you're saying, and I get it. Remember that,
Speaker 2: Remember this I'm doing all on a Saturday. Well, so
Speaker 2: that's in the summer too.
Speaker 4: Maybe I laughed if she was getting married on Tuesday,
Speaker 4: but it's cheaper too.
Speaker 2: I got married on Monday.
Speaker 3: I know I'm doing it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 3: There's a reason because nobody wants to come it's a Tuesday.
Speaker 2: Well maybe that'll that'll, you know what I mean, like
Speaker 2: narrow it down. So I had someone the other day go, oh,
Speaker 2: when are you guys getting married? And I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: blah blah blah of blah blah blah, and they're like,
Speaker 2: we can't wait. We'll definitely be there, but they're not
Speaker 2: on the list.
Speaker 4: So like, yeah, yeah, well let's talk about this later.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, what do I what do I do?
Speaker 2: Because I'm like, they're like, it's a I mean, it
Speaker 2: is a small group that we're inviting, but it's like
Speaker 2: they're they're friends and they're part of a but it's
Speaker 2: not like and I was like, yeah, no totally. They're
Speaker 2: like they're like, I mean if we're on the list.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, no, like, well they are now.
Speaker 2: But what was I supposed to.
Speaker 4: Say, I know what you have to now?
Speaker 2: As I didn't, you.
Speaker 1: Know, you absolutely do not. So when I married my husband.
Speaker 1: When I married my husband, it was my second wedding.
Speaker 1: I had been married prior once and we got married
Speaker 1: in the backyard and I had forty people because I
Speaker 1: was like no, no, no, I want this to be
Speaker 1: so small, so tiny, and just like my people. I
Speaker 1: didn't invite anyone from work. I didn't work like I
Speaker 1: was just family and like a couple friends and people
Speaker 1: were but hurt and here's what you do.
Speaker 3: You have your tiny thing and then a few weeks.
Speaker 1: Later you throw like I'll barbecue or I did like
Speaker 1: a Gatsby party at a bar, and it was like
Speaker 1: then I invited all the other Hanger honors, so not
Speaker 1: hanger honors, but like.
Speaker 2: Well I didn't even get that invite Kelsey, So I guess,
Speaker 2: so we're having a bow renewal for you in Jana's backyard.
Speaker 4: Having said that, it's just saying you have to because
Speaker 4: you said, she said, am I on the list?
Speaker 3: And you said no, oh no you couldn't.
Speaker 4: That's why I said you have to.
Speaker 2: Now, well that's also like, what are you going to say?
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying, because you really shouldn't say. I
Speaker 4: don't even know what we're talking about.
Speaker 2: So I feel bad, but close enough that it would
Speaker 2: be like on the line.
Speaker 4: That's that's tough. I think you just have to let
Speaker 4: everybody know. Look, it's literally just these people.
Speaker 1: Hey, we just hey, we decided to cut back even more.
Speaker 1: It's just such a crazy time with everything going on.
Speaker 4: I mean, if that person listens, now they know sorry,
Speaker 4: yeah that's true.
Speaker 3: If she's close enough to be like really supporting this podcast,
Speaker 3: you might not matter.
Speaker 2: I don't really think anyone else listens, like even the
Speaker 2: queendom I don't know, and which doesn't bother me. No,
Speaker 2: Like I don't really listen to. Then we can talk about, yeah,
Speaker 2: but what works with this marriage that didn't with the
Speaker 2: last that was gonna be a question because he works
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 3: My first husband was a mother. Were married for eleven months.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it was pretty brutal. I laughed, because I've
Speaker 2: been there shorter.
Speaker 1: No, And you know, the thing is, and that that's
Speaker 1: why I think people really relate to you, is you know,
Speaker 1: like I think the thing is is that you you
Speaker 1: get really caught up because you see that you meet
Speaker 1: this person and you get engaged and you're really excited
Speaker 1: about them.
Speaker 3: And like I I.
Speaker 1: Knew it wasn't perfect before we got married, but I
Speaker 1: was so naive to think that like the marriage would
Speaker 1: help it.
Speaker 3: Like I thought, oh, like.
Speaker 1: Well, once we're mary, I worried these things in these
Speaker 1: concerns and these personality traits that are like we're not
Speaker 1: getting the best of each other, Like they're gonna go
Speaker 1: away because we'll be married, you know, And and that
Speaker 1: just didn't happen. He was very unsupportive of my my
Speaker 1: dreams for myself and and really just wanted like a
Speaker 1: stay at home wife, and like didn't really express that
Speaker 1: until like we were already married, and I was like no, no, no, bab,
Speaker 1: like I'm going on tour, like I'm doing this, I'm
Speaker 1: going to Hollywood, like we're you know, and so it
Speaker 1: just it didn't work out.
Speaker 3: I was pretty young this that my husband.
Speaker 1: Now we were actually about to celebrate our ten year
Speaker 1: wedding anniversary, which is lovely next month. And I think
Speaker 1: that I just like really enjoy him as a human being.
Speaker 1: I think he's a good person, and his red flags
Speaker 1: are things like he doesn't like clean up his plate
Speaker 1: immediately after he eats dinner, Like he likes to like
Speaker 1: leave it out and then go watch TV and then
Speaker 1: clean it up later in the night.
Speaker 3: And that's really annoying to me.
Speaker 1: So it's like the red flags are manageable red flags
Speaker 1: instead of the red flags I know we've all had
Speaker 1: in our relationships where you're like a.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Like okay, but we'll
Speaker 3: work on that.
Speaker 1: Like I just I didn't want to have to fix anyone,
Speaker 1: and so I just picked someone that was like very
Speaker 1: lovely and very respectful and he's like my biggest fan.
Speaker 1: We're having a huge premiere party in Times Square on
Speaker 1: Wednesday night for super Fan and he works with the
Speaker 1: company that is providing the billboard, so he's literally put
Speaker 1: all of his clients and all of his work on
Speaker 1: the back burner to like plan this party for me,
Speaker 1: and he's like, no, no, you got to have your moment, babe.
Speaker 1: You work too hard, like just so supportive and so
Speaker 1: that's really meaningful.
Speaker 3: And he's dead sexy.
Speaker 1: He's like six ' six really tall, looks like a
Speaker 1: little British pop star, but he's not.
Speaker 2: And I love that, I really, I really do, because
Speaker 2: you're such like a again, like you're just you're a boss,
Speaker 2: and like you make things happen, like again, like how
Speaker 2: you said, like you don't get the offers, like you
Speaker 2: make it happen, and I just like, I love that
Speaker 2: so much about you, and to the fact that you
Speaker 2: have a man, because for a man that can be
Speaker 2: very intimidating, and the fact that he's there to lift
Speaker 2: you up and and be your supporter, like that's that's beautiful.
Speaker 2: So I'm so happy for you that, you know, you know,
Speaker 2: I always.
Speaker 3: Think of like the j Lo of it all.
Speaker 1: You know, people are like, oh j Lo, like oh,
Speaker 1: she's getting married again or whatever, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: because it's I think it for a man, it's very
Speaker 1: difficult to be married to j Lo because.
Speaker 3: She's doing it all. She's so she doesn't need you.
Speaker 1: She does not need you, you know, and so like
Speaker 1: that's really hard on men. I think, just like not
Speaker 1: to black and white, but I do believe, you know,
Speaker 1: finding someone who's really supportive and really understanding of what
Speaker 1: it takes to be a woman in show business and
Speaker 1: be chasing their dreams, whether that be in music, in television,
Speaker 1: in podcasting and whatever like that, it's really hard to
Speaker 1: find that person. So and and those kinds of people
Speaker 1: don't always show their colors.
Speaker 3: They fool you.
Speaker 1: They like I've dated people too where they were like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so proud of you. It's so
Speaker 1: cool that you're so busy and you have your own life,
Speaker 1: you're so independent, you don't get jealous, like these are
Speaker 1: all such great things. And then later in the relationship,
Speaker 1: those are the things that came out, the monsters that
Speaker 1: came out, And it was the reason that we split,
Speaker 1: because yes, they fool They fool you into acting like
Speaker 1: they want that independent, strong, powerful woman who's in charge
Speaker 1: of her own life, but they don't.
Speaker 2: They do in the end, and then they're like I'm like,
Speaker 2: oh cool, and then you feel bad for being successful.
Speaker 2: Like I remember one time max Is a cup fun
Speaker 2: making money, and I'm like, remember that, I was like,
Speaker 2: what I do I'm to do? I will here making funny.
Speaker 2: One of us needs to try, I mean fun. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but all right, Kelsey, promote it all girl, give us everything.
Speaker 3: Well listen, First of all, thanks so much for having
Speaker 3: me on.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited for you, and I know how huge
Speaker 1: your podcast is, all of you, so congratulations on that.
Speaker 1: I see you on the charts all the time. People
Speaker 1: love you, which I love, and now hopefully they'll love
Speaker 1: super Fan. Superfan airs Wednesday, August ninth. We premiere right
Speaker 1: after Big Brothers, so I know so many people will
Speaker 1: be watching Big Brothers. So if you just stay up
Speaker 1: till ten Ella cool Ja's the first episode. We have Shanaya,
Speaker 1: we have Pitbull, Gloria's stuff on Little Big Town, Kelsey Ballerini,
Speaker 1: and and I just need everyone to get out there
Speaker 1: and vote. And uh and last thing, as a female podcast,
Speaker 1: you know, being a female creator and made me realize
Speaker 1: that there are so few females creating television and out
Speaker 1: in the world, and so like, if everyone could just
Speaker 1: support this show, because if one female creator can create
Speaker 1: a hit show, then more females creators can create shows,
Speaker 1: but right now, it's like they don't even want to
Speaker 1: take the meeting with you because you're a woman, and
Speaker 1: so let's good and go.
Speaker 2: I love it. Yes, it's fun. Well wait to watch
Speaker 2: all right, we'll see you soon, honey.
Speaker 3: Thank you guys.
Speaker 2: God. I love Kelty, Love love her.
Speaker 4: She's so so fun.
Speaker 2: She's really fun.
Speaker 4: It's just like a fun like I don't feel like
Speaker 4: we just did an interview. I feel like we just
Speaker 4: like chatted and yeah, I was like, oh wait no.
Speaker 2: I kept trying to like go back and be like, oh,
Speaker 2: I want to ask more questions. And she's always been
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 2: She's yeah, so cool, and she's also like she helps
Speaker 2: other people too, Like she'd be like, hey, are you happy?
Speaker 2: Like you know, I'm not saying this to like, but
Speaker 2: she reminds me of you in that way.
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're very like, no, you're good at this, and
Speaker 2: so you're coming with me. I like it.
Speaker 4: So I have a question. No, I didn't mean to
Speaker 4: cut you off. No, the pinnate from earlier.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so that's probably not going to be as
Speaker 2: big now. But so I was at a gathering for
Speaker 2: Jolie's for her second grade looping party because she's looping
Speaker 2: with her teacher that she had in first grade, so
Speaker 2: all the kids that won from that class to the
Speaker 2: other class.
Speaker 4: I've never heard of that until I have not heard
Speaker 4: of that until, not until it came up with your teacher.
Speaker 2: So she's because she can teach both first and second
Speaker 2: and so she just loved the class so much and
Speaker 2: she asked to loop with the class. So does that
Speaker 2: just mean repeat, yeah, with the same class, not repeat grade,
Speaker 2: but goes So she's going to second with the same
Speaker 2: teacher class. I never I know, Okay, which I like
Speaker 2: the I like it well, first of all, I mean
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with mister Clund. But like the fact that
Speaker 2: they don't have to go through the whole getting to
Speaker 2: know you phase, Like she knows where each child level
Speaker 2: is at, so that I think will be helpful where
Speaker 2: because I think jol is a little delayed in reading possibly,
Speaker 2: so I think now that you know, the teacher knows
Speaker 2: like where the kids are at, and so I think
Speaker 2: that's going to be helpful. But remember I hadn't mentioned
Speaker 2: like how Jolie said something about her like quote unquote
Speaker 2: boyfriend and how like, you know, he said something to
Speaker 2: her mom and you know, you know she broke up
Speaker 2: with them because we don't talk. You know, I don't
Speaker 2: know about this. Yeah, you might have been on parenting
Speaker 2: or maternity leave. I don't even know this was. This
Speaker 2: was like a couple of months ago, but it was,
Speaker 2: you know, he had the kid had said something to
Speaker 2: his mom, and Jeli is like, I'm not going to
Speaker 2: be with him anymore because he talked bad to his
Speaker 2: mom because I always told her. I was like, don't
Speaker 2: ever be with a boy that speaks bad words to
Speaker 2: their mom or to any woman or to you. You know,
Speaker 2: like you deserve more than that, you know. So I'm
Speaker 2: like trying to like teacher young and she's like we're
Speaker 2: all hanging up. And the mom who's so weed as ever,
Speaker 2: it was just like so I something came up like
Speaker 2: well I heard you know this her son and Jolie.
Speaker 2: Aren't you know boyfriend girlfriend anymore? I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: did you hear why? And she was, oh, heard about
Speaker 2: it from the podcast and I was like, oh.
Speaker 3: See, you never know how.
Speaker 2: I was like, really do we just think no one listens?
Speaker 2: I don't think anyone knew who I am like, knows
Speaker 2: who I am, but I walk around not like thinking
Speaker 2: people know who I am. That's true, you and they
Speaker 2: do know you, you know what I mean, because I'm like,
Speaker 2: why would they know?
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just don't think. I'm like whatever
Speaker 2: and so and then I was like, oh crap, and
Speaker 2: she's like, well, what's funny is one of my friends
Speaker 2: was listening and was like, is that you usually? And
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god. I was like, I've
Speaker 2: gotten you know, I got in trouble with the other thing.
Speaker 4: I don't think you said anything bad this time that time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the other time I did, I shouldn't. That
Speaker 2: was that was you know, I misspoke there, but like
Speaker 2: this time, I'm just like I don't. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Literally, it was like you were just teaching her to
Speaker 4: be right.
Speaker 2: But like I just want to say, like the boys
Speaker 2: of Sweetheart, so I just want to say that I
Speaker 2: really love laws and you were sticking up.
Speaker 4: You were sticking up for the mom because she wasn't speaking,
Speaker 4: he wasn't speaking nicely to the mom, right.
Speaker 2: Sure, yes, but I just want to make sure sure
Speaker 2: trying to help me. Yes, yes, yes, yes, I'm just
Speaker 2: also trying to be like, but he's also a sweet kid,
Speaker 2: like he's in first grade, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: like like the heaven, give the guy a break.
Speaker 4: They also, I know, right, he hasn't learned yet how
Speaker 4: to be a complete gentleman.
Speaker 2: But I was just like, I am so sorry if
Speaker 2: I said I just don't remember, like, oh man, that's
Speaker 2: you know, I've learned my lesson from the last time.
Speaker 4: Pretty nice about it.
Speaker 2: Oh so, I mean, she's so sweet, like I feel
Speaker 2: really nervous about today. But then the other mom was
Speaker 2: just like, well, I had no idea who you were,
Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, that's how I operate. So well.
Speaker 4: There was a group of them because I went to
Speaker 4: school with one of them.
Speaker 2: That was in that photo.
Speaker 4: Uh huh. That was at dinner one night when me, you, Mario,
Speaker 4: all of us went to dinner and there was a
Speaker 4: group of them that came over to the table.
Speaker 2: I don't remember any of this and took pictures. Okay,
Speaker 2: so very low.
Speaker 4: A good bit of them at school have known who
Speaker 4: you are. Oh, because again I went to school with
Speaker 4: one of them.
Speaker 2: In the photo that I took. The moms, I wonder
Speaker 2: which one I'll let you know. Okay, she's a sweetheart.
Speaker 4: But anyway, she came up that night when y'all were
Speaker 4: with Mario, when we were with Mario at dinner, and
Speaker 4: they like took pictures and stuff. So sweet. But I mean,
Speaker 4: I just don't think I see it doesn't like even
Speaker 4: you're like, oh hey, it doesn't even register with you
Speaker 4: that no people might know who you are.
Speaker 2: A funny thing too, is when I don't save numbers,
Speaker 2: like someone's like, oh, I think our daughters are on
Speaker 2: the same soccer team, and I'm like great, but I
Speaker 2: like Bernie try to.
Speaker 4: Like scroll up like.
Speaker 2: Everyone has like a paragraph in the company line, and
Speaker 2: it is embarrassing when they try to call you and
Speaker 2: they're like, they're like, oh, you need to find your
Speaker 2: phone and they call. It's like Janna Kramer, Jolie's mom,
Speaker 2: met her at the soccer game wearing a pink dress
Speaker 2: and you're like, my bad. Oh fun for the love
Speaker 2: Well came in hot today and we ended ended saucy,
Speaker 2: so saucy.
Speaker 4: Everyone living say, I can't wait to watch it.
Speaker 2: All right, y'all see you next week.
Speaker 3: I