WEBVTT - Who's the Boss with Keltie Knight

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I got nothing, y'all? Okay, good. I was wondering, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>because sometimes I get nervous when I come right in

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<v Speaker 2>and we don't talk first, that you're waiting for like

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<v Speaker 2>a reaction. I know, you know, I got nothing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>great topics welcome, Oh great? Okay, So I host my

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<v Speaker 2>in laws? Oh yeah, you want to talk about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure do?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So I learned a really valuable lesson when I

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<v Speaker 2>was postpartum with love that there's a difference between company

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<v Speaker 2>and help, and in the postpartum period for me specifically,

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<v Speaker 2>I do not need company, I need help, got it.

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<v Speaker 2>I do not have castrole toading in laws. Okay. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not here to bust anybody or to be rude.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it is I'm an adventure to say they

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<v Speaker 2>don't listen to this podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm hoping.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just hoping that nobody that they listen. That it's

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<v Speaker 2>not that just got me a topic something about that happened.

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<v Speaker 2>But go ahead continue, Okay, yeah, yeah, I mean pinned, pinned.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't forget it, though I want the pregnancy amnesia is

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<v Speaker 2>so real, so it's tricky for me because I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I am often not the best version of myself

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<v Speaker 2>when they are visiting because they don't offer help. Is

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<v Speaker 2>that where the version comes in or is it just

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<v Speaker 2>I think there are other things underneath it too, like well,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe that your husband's a certain way because of how Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so that is part of it. Because you do it

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<v Speaker 2>feels to me like you feels to me like you

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<v Speaker 2>might know me, Janna Kramer. Although there is some of

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<v Speaker 2>that because it's like, you know, when you watch a

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<v Speaker 2>man sit too long, you can drive a girl crazy, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And so when I watch pop pops it, I sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>get a little like what's it like to sit? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>and just a little triggered because maybe that's what your

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<v Speaker 2>hobby does. Yeah, but I also am like my husband

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<v Speaker 2>never gets to be home. He should probably sit on

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<v Speaker 2>the couchy base for you know, like once in a

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<v Speaker 2>while he needs to take a load off. But then again,

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<v Speaker 2>his job sometimes doesn't feel like super hard to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be like, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>like it is, but it's not you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>It's really not Okay. Well, you're an artist, so I

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<v Speaker 2>can say that I mean that the hard part is

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<v Speaker 2>like the traveling, but during the day it's like you're

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of waiting and then you sing and people

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<v Speaker 2>are singing your songs back, and it's like, I know, well,

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<v Speaker 2>and he is a hustler. I'll give him that, like

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<v Speaker 2>he's got a million things going on at once. Of course,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, yikes, I'm really feisty. I like it.

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<v Speaker 4>Keep going.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really getting back on my hormonal pattern here. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>So he works really hard and he's a hustler, so

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<v Speaker 2>he does work a lot when he's out there. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to make sure that I'm being clear about that

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<v Speaker 2>before I get a million messages. Anyways, his parents. I

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<v Speaker 2>offered his parents a hotel this time, right, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>we would love to host shoot a hotel. Realizing that

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<v Speaker 2>our last our guest room has now been taken by

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<v Speaker 2>our newest roommate. Would love to get you guys a

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<v Speaker 2>hotel that's close, because I know that sleeping on air

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<v Speaker 2>mattresses and couches is not super great. When you're seventy five,

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<v Speaker 2>they decline it. If you're going to decline a hotel,

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<v Speaker 2>let's not treat my home like a hotel. So my

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<v Speaker 2>question for you is well. I might have saw a

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<v Speaker 2>photo same with Catherine where they left their water bottles

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<v Speaker 2>in a beautiful little basket that had sheets in it,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know you guys, I feel like the stomach ache,

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<v Speaker 2>like this is like I feel the stomach ache, like

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<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't have come in here so spicy. I want

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<v Speaker 2>an instant right, but like when someone comes and treats

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<v Speaker 2>it like a hotel room and it's not like your

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<v Speaker 2>momm you just had a baby, like that's yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>already hosting breakfast, lunch, dinner like you know, so that

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<v Speaker 2>just feels a little so my this is not I

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<v Speaker 2>do believe. I think it's a generational thing like on

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<v Speaker 2>the phones. I think the Facebook is a generational thing

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<v Speaker 2>for older Yeah, like it's you're just like scrolling, you're napping,

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<v Speaker 2>you're leaving some things behind, like the leaving behind though

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have mine, mine, mine, or I should say

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have my like I'm thinking x in laws,

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<v Speaker 2>like I haven't hosted mine soon to be new in laws,

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<v Speaker 2>but the X in laws never left anything I think

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<v Speaker 2>with my family, just like pushing the chairs, that's like

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<v Speaker 2>there I always find one thing that bothers me that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, why are we why do we

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<v Speaker 2>leave the chairs the same human? I literally last night

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<v Speaker 2>till Preston, I was like, Legend needs to learn to

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<v Speaker 2>push in his chair when he gets up from the

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<v Speaker 2>dinner table. Yeah, I'm like, I guess I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just pushing in the chairs my passage.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel so deeply just Janice saying that just makes

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<v Speaker 4>me want to push and right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. It feels so validating because I'm here's

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<v Speaker 2>my thing, my thing is not them, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>trying to be passive aggressive and like that it gets

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<v Speaker 2>back I I just I guess I feel two things. One,

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to be a better version of myself

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<v Speaker 2>as I gear up for my own mother visiting on Saturday,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hosting the old grandparent meet and greet. That's what's

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<v Speaker 2>happening here. And I have really successfully boundaried until six

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<v Speaker 2>weeks and eight weeks, so that feels good. So a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit of a pattern, but a I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>how where can we anchor when we have guests in

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<v Speaker 2>the house that don't operate like us pushing in chairs

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<v Speaker 2>and whatnot. And the second thing is when you leave

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<v Speaker 2>someone's house. What's your standard demo? Like, if you're staying

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<v Speaker 2>with someone, I have a really good story, go no,

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<v Speaker 2>you go no. There's a question on this yes, so

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<v Speaker 2>go no.

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<v Speaker 4>You answer it, and then I have to say something

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<v Speaker 4>after you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I just think it's like I'm just trying to

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<v Speaker 2>think like in in in like my past, like with

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<v Speaker 2>X in laws or stuff, like, my thing always kind

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<v Speaker 2>of goes with how they maybe raised and then that's

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<v Speaker 2>where my internal frustrations with them come up. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think as I've gotten older, I've just become more annoyed

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<v Speaker 2>with family and parents in general, because it's like as

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<v Speaker 2>we do our work and as we uncover more things,

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<v Speaker 2>it's harder to sometimes maybe be around certain things. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it feels more toxic. Yes, yes, a couple of things

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<v Speaker 2>one O cats out of the Bag.

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<v Speaker 4>Started anyway with a lot of followers. Anyway. A. I

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<v Speaker 4>never house my in law's parents anything, well, because they

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<v Speaker 4>live like, because they live here, and I wouldn't. I

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<v Speaker 4>just absolutely would.

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<v Speaker 2>Not if I lived here.

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<v Speaker 4>If they did, they would be somewhere else in a hotel.

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<v Speaker 4>My family knows that, they probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Trust it's not happening at your mom she.

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<v Speaker 4>Lived there, and she paid her rent. For sure, she did.

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<v Speaker 4>She paid rent. I'm not and that sounds terrible, but

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<v Speaker 4>that's just not However, that stuff would not bother me.

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<v Speaker 4>But what made me no, this is WHATSS made me

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<v Speaker 4>think of. I'm sure plenty of things would bother me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you would be bothered, because I think sometimes I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>Bothered by that kind of stuff. But that's because I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't raised the way you were. But that makes me

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<v Speaker 4>think of our different personalities real fast. Because New York,

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<v Speaker 4>we're still asleep. You've cleaned the whole apartment before we

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<v Speaker 4>leave for the was not that it was like a

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<v Speaker 4>mess at all, but it's like we're still asleep getting

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<v Speaker 4>ready to go to the airport. And Christon's like, great,

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<v Speaker 4>I cleaned the whole place, And I was like, did

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<v Speaker 4>we make a mess? But like that's your personality if

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<v Speaker 4>you leave things when you you know, you do like

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<v Speaker 4>you're just like, okay, I gotta make sure everything is

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<v Speaker 4>like in the perfect place before we leave.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish my house looked like people didn't live in

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<v Speaker 2>it sometimes, right, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, whereas my house is a mess, you would think

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<v Speaker 4>it's a mess, you know, that's just how I am.

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<v Speaker 4>But it also made me think of the time we

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<v Speaker 4>left David's house. Oh god, and I you know, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty bad. I can be pretty bad at it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm like, Carrery, what do we need to do?

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<v Speaker 4>What do we need to clean up? Just throw the

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<v Speaker 4>towels in the bathtub. Remember that?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I'm so close with him that I think sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>I take that relationship for granted. But it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, y'all, he's gonna have his maid come over anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>And we cleaned and I was like, yeah, towels in

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<v Speaker 4>the bathtub. So we've thrown the towels in the bathtub.

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<v Speaker 4>The next day he's like, guys, what do you say,

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<v Speaker 4>towels in the bathtub?

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<v Speaker 3>It was just it just made me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, or maybe he.

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<v Speaker 4>Did, but he was still kind kind of like, why

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<v Speaker 4>are the towels in the bathtub? And we both I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, in, so, I'm not criticizing you, it's just

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<v Speaker 4>everyone's very different with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think you were grown up how you were raised.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I feel like I'm not like Christ's centered enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I feel like every time it's a test until

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<v Speaker 2>I pass it and I'm never passing it.

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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like, maybe you shouldn't put yourself in

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<v Speaker 4>that position.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried so hard not.

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<v Speaker 4>To, but did you say no.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this is what's tricky is Preston was afraid that

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<v Speaker 2>they would maybe be offended.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, they'll be offended. My in laws would be offended too.

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<v Speaker 2>If we put them in a hotel. He's like, they

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to do that. And I will say, like

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<v Speaker 2>the majority of like the fun, like not the majority

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<v Speaker 2>of the fun, like family talking is happening post bedtime typically,

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<v Speaker 2>So if they were at a hotel, then there's two

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<v Speaker 2>sweet older people driving back to a hotel at night,

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<v Speaker 2>which I don't love personally either.

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<v Speaker 4>So then I think maybe if that's the case.

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<v Speaker 2>This time, however, bedtime is eight pm because I have

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<v Speaker 2>to get that first round a sleep or else I'm exhausted.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's like that's the whole difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I'm like, it's a newborn, what are we doing? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that piece is hard because it's like hard.

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<v Speaker 2>As much as I love like having my dad and

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<v Speaker 2>his wife come, you know, my dad is very like talkative,

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<v Speaker 2>wanting to make up for like lost time, so by

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<v Speaker 2>like the end of the night, I'm tired. I'd like

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<v Speaker 2>to go into my room and like not talk, not talk,

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, so you know, I'm like, can we

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<v Speaker 2>just not speak? You know what I mean? Like, can

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<v Speaker 2>you just be now?

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<v Speaker 4>It's my issue. This is why the stuff it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why we do so well on the road

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<v Speaker 2>together though, because when we when we all know it's

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<v Speaker 2>not time to talk, we're done talking, which is harder

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<v Speaker 2>for one of us than the other. So that's fine, well, no,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's just like you you have to be like

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<v Speaker 2>on and like during the day, it's just like exhausting

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like like I'll never forget. Oh, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I remember my ex just wanted to Like it

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<v Speaker 2>was so nor with my dad because again my dad

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<v Speaker 2>is like trying so hard and like we're great now

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<v Speaker 2>and like but like at that time, like he actually

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<v Speaker 2>like a screaming baby, I don't know which baby. It

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<v Speaker 2>was like in his arms, and my dad's like trying

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<v Speaker 2>to have a conversation, you know, And that's where I'm at. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>instead of like being like what can I help you with?

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<v Speaker 2>And instead of even asking, just like doing something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and like Present's parents are so sweet, like they want

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<v Speaker 2>to ask a million questions I want to know, like

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<v Speaker 2>his mom specifically, she just wants to know what I'm

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<v Speaker 2>up to and all the things. But by nine, I'm like, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta I gotta end this. I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's that's I think. My point is like either

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<v Speaker 4>say no to them coming, or if you are okay

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<v Speaker 4>with them being there, then you have to say I'm

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<v Speaker 4>done talking, or hey, the baby's screaming, do you mind

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<v Speaker 4>taking the baby right now? I did do well at that,

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<v Speaker 4>which I know is hard. I'm not saying it's not no,

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<v Speaker 4>but I did do that.

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<v Speaker 2>This time. I was like, okay, guys, so I need

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<v Speaker 2>y'all to go upstairs, and y'all like Preston can go

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<v Speaker 2>up too, and y'all can talk, But like this, I

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<v Speaker 2>need the lower level to just be shut down for

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<v Speaker 2>the night.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't you just have to?

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<v Speaker 2>I almost feel like two last thing, you know, because

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<v Speaker 2>we've got our amazing guest in the waiting room. But

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<v Speaker 2>when I think about, like when I have the baby

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff, I'd rather have my friends come than like

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<v Speaker 2>a family, because it's just you guys, know, the like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the drill. I'd rather have you guys stay at the

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<v Speaker 2>versus like because again it's just the parents. It just

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<v Speaker 2>feels like I have I have to entertain do everything.

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<v Speaker 2>But do we feel that way or is that the expectation?

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<v Speaker 2>I think and I think it's I think it's past

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<v Speaker 2>stuff too. Like I think I'm just at a point

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<v Speaker 2>where I'm just like, I don't know, I've just gotten

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<v Speaker 2>more annoyed as the year's gone on. I'm just glad

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<v Speaker 2>to hear that you're more annoyed. I feel validated. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's as you get older.

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<v Speaker 4>And here's the thing. If it is expected doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 4>you have to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, that's right. Well I enjoy my life. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to take a break and then when we

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<v Speaker 2>get back, we're going to get kelteen knight on. So

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<v Speaker 2>she have you guys listened to Lady Gang? No? I

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<v Speaker 2>love them. Becca is a good friend, but she the

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<v Speaker 2>Lady Gang. They have like over like one hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>ninety million downloads. They were on e for a hot minute.

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<v Speaker 2>They've been doing it since twenty fifteen. All about women's support, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I think is that the same year? No? Yeah, when

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<v Speaker 2>No Six when was Jacebourn. I don't know, it just happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I looked at my arm my tattoo. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's going away, my dates, I've lazered that off. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but she is on also a new show right now

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<v Speaker 2>called super Fans. So let's take a break and then

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<v Speaker 2>get Kelty night on.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello Cassie like a whole trio.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Honey, Hello, and good hard look at your Emmy's

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<v Speaker 2>and I know back row, I'm such a douchebag. Listen, Emmy,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm making a necklace like flavor flav So no, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, shoot, I would be if.

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<v Speaker 1>Like as a woman in Hollywood right now, especially launching

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<v Speaker 1>this show, I have so many meetings with like corporate people,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like people are like, who is this girl?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I just need you to know this.

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<v Speaker 1>Take me seriously on this zoom. But like normally they

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<v Speaker 1>live upstairs in my.

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<v Speaker 2>Way, it's like a very like humble like way of

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<v Speaker 2>doing it. Though it's not like it's not don't mess

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<v Speaker 2>with me. They don't have their own light on them yet.

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<v Speaker 2>That might be what we gift you. Maybe we send

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<v Speaker 2>you like a box thing like a glass box with the.

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<v Speaker 1>Feels very say, half a half filled out whiteboard, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like some self help books.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very like it's all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so the new show not super Fan because that's

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<v Speaker 2>been on before. Are you doing a brand new There

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<v Speaker 2>was another one? Then I thought I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>Did I did? We did Lady Gang on E and

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<v Speaker 3>then I don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>So super Fan? So it's this is a like a

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<v Speaker 2>brand new see like brand new new series.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we premiere next Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh how exciting. Okay, where did the idea for super Well? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just too much go for it. How did you

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<v Speaker 2>we should first talk about super Fan? I mean we

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<v Speaker 2>can all kind of guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, first of all, thanks so much for having me

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<v Speaker 1>on y'all, and I'm so excited to see you, and

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations on everything too, Danna.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so happy for you and so super fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a new show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a music series, and so I created it, I'm executive.

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<v Speaker 3>Producing it, and I'm healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And the reason I'm so excited about it is

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<v Speaker 1>because literally, I know it looks like I always have

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<v Speaker 1>the jobs, but nobody offers me jobs, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>really needed to go and make my own job. So

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<v Speaker 1>I really have always wanted to host a music show,

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<v Speaker 1>and my husband's music manager.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had sex with many musicians.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're all really great in bed, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I like music. I was a backup dancer for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of musicians back in my dance career, So this

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<v Speaker 1>is like a very fitting moment. But it's a show

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<v Speaker 1>where basically, like we take the biggest artist of the world,

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<v Speaker 1>Ella Cool Jay's our first episode on Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 3>Then we have Shania Twain and Pitbull.

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<v Speaker 1>Kelsey Ballerini, tons and tons of artists, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>did a nationwide search for their biggest super fans, and

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<v Speaker 1>so five of them compete through all these levels of

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<v Speaker 1>like trivia and knowing the songs, they have to do

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<v Speaker 1>lip sync, like all these different things, and then one

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<v Speaker 1>of them is going to be named the number one

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<v Speaker 1>super fan. But the artist is right there the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that's really important. It's not just like

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<v Speaker 1>me and some super fans, like you're doing all of

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<v Speaker 1>this in front of Shania, Like you're telling Shanaia about

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<v Speaker 1>Shania in front of Shania, and so she does a

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<v Speaker 1>big performance and then America votes actually on Twitter, which

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<v Speaker 1>has been awesome. My last two weeks have been amazing

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<v Speaker 1>with this whole Twitter rebrand, so good, not stressful at all.

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<v Speaker 1>We're still calling it Twitter for the next six weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>I called X Yeah, it's CAI so stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>Why I don't know. I miss the bird.

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<v Speaker 3>I miss the bird too, and you tweet?

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<v Speaker 2>Then is it?

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<v Speaker 3>I have no idea, It still says tweet. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a messy, messy, messy.

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<v Speaker 1>So America is going to vote on Twitter using hashtags,

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<v Speaker 1>and then one of the fans wins, and the prime

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<v Speaker 1>are like insane Glorias Stefan, who's like the love of

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<v Speaker 1>my life. Her prize is she's going to fly you

0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:09.080
<v Speaker 1>and she's crazy fans by the way. She's gonna fly

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<v Speaker 1>to Miami, put you up at one of the hotels

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<v Speaker 1>she owns for like a few days, and then on

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<v Speaker 1>Saturday night you're gonna come to her house on Star

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<v Speaker 1>Island and she's going to cook you dinner with Amelia

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<v Speaker 1>and the fam and like a dream.

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<v Speaker 4>That is a yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's not like, oh, it's like a meet and greet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's Kelsey Ballerini, who I love so much,

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<v Speaker 1>is her prize is I mean, there's a bunch of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But then you get to come to her show vi

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<v Speaker 1>P and then you get to pick a song from

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<v Speaker 1>any of her albums and come on stage and sing

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<v Speaker 1>it with her for the audience.

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<v Speaker 2>Good for that's really fun. If she loved it by

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<v Speaker 2>having you kiss Chase Stokes, I feel like you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>might that might be even a better you know you

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<v Speaker 2>know what?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I feel like then like some of Chase's

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<v Speaker 1>little a little baggy of Chase's hair is like.

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<v Speaker 2>Also a DNA sample.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't get weird at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Selene is ever on can can me and Kat be

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<v Speaker 2>the like at least like audition for the show, because

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I would give can you imagine like being

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<v Speaker 2>in like if Selene like offered like a dinner with her,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't even she.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the tippity top top top on short list and

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<v Speaker 1>she's say, you know, she's not doing it right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she's not doing anything. But like I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think with her her illness, she's not able to sing,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like very heartbreaking. Something about like when she

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<v Speaker 1>sings and uses those muscles, that's like the problem. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like for season two, Selene, you don't even have

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<v Speaker 1>to perform, Like you don't have to perform, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even have to stand. I'll put a throne on the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of the stage and we'll do the show around you,

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like she deserves it, and so many

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<v Speaker 1>people are super fans, and you know what, We'll just

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<v Speaker 1>have you be one of the contestants and then we'll

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<v Speaker 1>turn it into a singing competition and you can just sing.

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<v Speaker 2>That probably wouldn't end well with Selene songs, because you

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<v Speaker 2>should like do it. We'll send you sample from a

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<v Speaker 2>car ride.

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<v Speaker 4>We've got plenty of videos.

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<v Speaker 2>If you'd like to see the second tier Jessica Simpsons

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<v Speaker 2>every one. I would like you to just send me

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<v Speaker 2>a little damn Okay, thanks, Okay, this girl is the biggest.

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<v Speaker 2>The funniest thing is when I was making like a

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<v Speaker 2>you know, bestie birthday thing, I was like, you know, trying.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, she loves Jessica Simpson, so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>let me try and get a Jessica Simpson song. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's like with you with none is like I can't

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<v Speaker 2>do because it's all like she's so I could have

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<v Speaker 2>my T shirt on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I can make a knitting zy just before you

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<v Speaker 3>hit the love Jessica too.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not the problem is that I would probably black

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<v Speaker 2>out and there would be like some sort of medical

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<v Speaker 2>emergency that would happen. Yeah, I'm like kind of shaking,

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<v Speaker 2>sweating thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have everything about Jessica Simpson like I love her.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's great, Like are you into the shoes

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<v Speaker 1>and the fashion and everything about her just the music.

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<v Speaker 2>I say supportive because I just feel like that is

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<v Speaker 2>nicer than like, you know, like a felony or something.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's just supportive. I did meet her finally and

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<v Speaker 2>it was I don't remember what I said, but I

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<v Speaker 2>have a video and I keep saying I love you

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<v Speaker 2>over and over again. She finally said it back, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think just because she was like what.

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<v Speaker 3>Will end this?

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<v Speaker 2>But it's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm like that with a Backstreet Boys. We had back.

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<v Speaker 1>Boys on on on the my podcast and and then

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<v Speaker 1>like our show, and I've interviewed the mazillion times and

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<v Speaker 1>every time I'm such.

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<v Speaker 3>A fucking loser, like god, like I you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, is that your person you're super fan people? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that your ultimate?

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<v Speaker 1>A backstor Boys episode would be the dream for me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would have to compete, And like, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you something. I'm you know, I Jack Vannick

0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:47.120
<v Speaker 1>and I who's my co host on Lady Gang.

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<v Speaker 3>I like this trio versus like another trio.

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<v Speaker 1>She She and I got in a deep six month

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<v Speaker 1>era where all we did was send each other back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth YouTube links of AJ mcclear doing hip.

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<v Speaker 3>Thrusts, like that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all we did was like watch him on shit

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<v Speaker 1>because on stage he was not the same on Dancing

0:21:06.320 --> 0:21:08.199
<v Speaker 1>with the Stars, but he'll like on stage, he'll just

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<v Speaker 1>walk to the edge and then just go.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, damn.

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<v Speaker 2>So, speaking of that name is I was in Queen

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<v Speaker 2>trying to figure out like what to name the baby, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like first I was like on like A

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<v Speaker 2>names and then J and then like ours and kind

0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:25.879
<v Speaker 2>of like staying with those ones, and then so we

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<v Speaker 2>really liked AJ. But then this one goes, isn't there

0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:33.000
<v Speaker 2>a Backstreet boy named AJ? Like, and I was like, well,

0:21:33.119 --> 0:21:34.920
<v Speaker 2>damn it, now that we know he's a hip thruster,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it takes it off the way.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, we're back again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So that that kind of nixed it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's anyway so hard because there's like one shdy

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<v Speaker 1>like person with the name that you want in every scenario,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're just like, god, there's no good names left

0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:53.760
<v Speaker 1>because there's like bad people out there.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and I like, you guys don't know this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but like I've kind of gone back to my other

0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:00.840
<v Speaker 2>name that I really liked. But again, I just think

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<v Speaker 2>it's too close with his because my fiance's last name

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<v Speaker 2>is Russell. So I really want Jacks like JACKX was

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<v Speaker 2>like my like, but it's not so okay. So Jack

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<v Speaker 2>Russell's a dog but Jack's Russell? Is it too close? Still?

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<v Speaker 3>Can't do it.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I told her she'd have to measure him in like

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<v Speaker 2>dog ears, like she wouldn't be able to be like

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<v Speaker 2>he's eighteen months, he'd be like a dog gear or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I call him Jackson, but for his like, no, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>My god, I just saw the best idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Go for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Put my I put my Emmy Award.

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<v Speaker 1>Winning brain on and I put that on for a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Fore you Okay, what if you do aj like if

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<v Speaker 1>they're like Alexander Jacks is the name and so they're AJ.

0:22:44.000 --> 0:22:46.119
<v Speaker 1>You can't have AJ, but then you can call them Jacks.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, so still Jax Russell. It's still still. Can't not

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<v Speaker 2>laugh And I don't want to have an opinion. I

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<v Speaker 2>named my kids.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Your daughter Lion, Yeah I did. My daughter's name is Lyon.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I love it. I don't get me wrong

0:22:59.640 --> 0:23:02.119
<v Speaker 2>that butt you know, love and legend. I mean we

0:23:02.200 --> 0:23:04.199
<v Speaker 2>just I'm a Kristen Nicole. Somebody had to break the

0:23:04.240 --> 0:23:07.560
<v Speaker 2>creativity cycle, you know what I mean, Like my family

0:23:07.680 --> 0:23:10.080
<v Speaker 2>needed to change trajectory. I feel like we need to

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<v Speaker 2>pull it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like just Jackson, but you want to call him

0:23:13.640 --> 0:23:17.000
<v Speaker 4>jack Jacks, which is I know where you're going with this.

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<v Speaker 2>And my superfan non music thing. But but don't worry.

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<v Speaker 1>About it because didn't Amy Schumer name her baby like

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<v Speaker 1>scrotum or something?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Really, Smer, Yes it is.

0:23:29.680 --> 0:23:33.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Stop she didn't baby? Can you just google

0:23:33.720 --> 0:23:34.200
<v Speaker 2>that for us?

0:23:34.520 --> 0:23:39.320
<v Speaker 1>It's Jean and his last name is Atlia.

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<v Speaker 3>No, sorry, it's not scrotum. It's there.

0:23:44.200 --> 0:23:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Jeane Italia and I yeah her.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if she said she didn't.

0:23:53.280 --> 0:23:56.120
<v Speaker 1>She said in interviews she didn't think about it if it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was a girl. We were going to name her Alana,

0:23:58.480 --> 0:24:00.119
<v Speaker 2>so it was going to be like Alana Russell. But

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<v Speaker 2>then I was like, oh, that sounds like I want

0:24:01.600 --> 0:24:06.000
<v Speaker 2>to rustle. I don't believe she.

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:06.880
<v Speaker 4>Didn't think about that.

0:24:07.040 --> 0:24:09.520
<v Speaker 2>There's no way it's.

0:24:09.320 --> 0:24:11.040
<v Speaker 3>A family name. It's a family name.

0:24:11.800 --> 0:24:15.040
<v Speaker 2>So here's the thing. I don't like opinionated about names

0:24:15.040 --> 0:24:16.919
<v Speaker 2>either before they're here. But like, I just have to

0:24:16.960 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 2>be honest.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't tell people.

0:24:18.480 --> 0:24:21.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't tell people exactly. My daughter's name is Lyon.

0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:24.840
<v Speaker 2>A girl named Ian. Everyone be like, I mean, here's

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<v Speaker 2>the thing. I do.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it with Jolie and Jayce, Jolie Jason Jack's it's cute.

0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:29.679
<v Speaker 1>I love.

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<v Speaker 4>Can we just do Cramer?

0:24:33.320 --> 0:24:49.240
<v Speaker 2>I've asked, what about you baby? Are we baby training anytime?

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<v Speaker 2>They're soon? Kelty, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a I'm a childless wonder okay. Uh, you know

0:24:54.640 --> 0:24:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I kind of made the decision. You know, listen, there's

0:24:57.400 --> 0:24:59.480
<v Speaker 1>there's people that are good at making children, like you,

0:24:59.800 --> 0:25:03.280
<v Speaker 1>and and then there's me and I don't really enjoy

0:25:03.320 --> 0:25:05.919
<v Speaker 1>a baby, and so like I really start to like

0:25:06.000 --> 0:25:09.159
<v Speaker 1>children around six or seven, and then like it's just

0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>it's you can't birth a seven year old.

0:25:10.960 --> 0:25:13.240
<v Speaker 3>So for me, it's just not the right move.

0:25:14.400 --> 0:25:18.280
<v Speaker 1>My husband is travels a ton for work, so I'm like,

0:25:18.320 --> 0:25:21.479
<v Speaker 1>I have no tribe here in La, Like I just

0:25:21.640 --> 0:25:22.919
<v Speaker 1>I think it would be really bad. And then I

0:25:22.920 --> 0:25:26.000
<v Speaker 1>also have a brother who has mental illness, and so

0:25:26.119 --> 0:25:28.040
<v Speaker 1>like I consider to him my like forty five year

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:30.760
<v Speaker 1>old baby, like he's my he's my person that's gonna

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:33.040
<v Speaker 1>be with me forever, and it's just like my buddy,

0:25:33.200 --> 0:25:34.480
<v Speaker 1>and so I didn't.

0:25:34.560 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 3>I just wasn't the right thing for me.

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:38.119
<v Speaker 2>I know, I'm like the only one that's what I

0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:41.760
<v Speaker 2>aspect that though, because you know it, rather than being

0:25:41.840 --> 0:25:43.639
<v Speaker 2>like I'm gonna have a baby, because I have to, Like,

0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:45.639
<v Speaker 2>we know someone that is not a I don't even

0:25:45.680 --> 0:25:47.320
<v Speaker 2>think she wanted a kid, but she had a kid,

0:25:47.720 --> 0:25:50.640
<v Speaker 2>she's and she's never there for the kid. So it's

0:25:50.720 --> 0:25:53.000
<v Speaker 2>it's hard to even see because I'm like, she just

0:25:53.040 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 2>has a nanny twenty four to seven. And then it's

0:25:55.880 --> 0:25:57.800
<v Speaker 2>like I think she had one because she thought she

0:25:57.880 --> 0:25:59.919
<v Speaker 2>had to have one. Yeah, and I don't think she

0:26:00.160 --> 0:26:02.640
<v Speaker 2>ever really a kid person for sure.

0:26:02.720 --> 0:26:04.199
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think you got to want it.

0:26:04.280 --> 0:26:07.280
<v Speaker 1>And I'm gonna antie to a lot of my friend's

0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:09.440
<v Speaker 1>kids and it looks exhausting.

0:26:09.880 --> 0:26:12.520
<v Speaker 2>But by the way, like you're the crucial piece for

0:26:12.600 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 2>all of us. That's why it takes like that's why

0:26:15.880 --> 0:26:19.199
<v Speaker 2>your souls and hearts are so wildly important. Because I

0:26:19.280 --> 0:26:21.480
<v Speaker 2>need the people that are fun and mature enough to

0:26:21.520 --> 0:26:24.240
<v Speaker 2>come in and say, like, I'm gonna love you so

0:26:24.400 --> 0:26:27.359
<v Speaker 2>hard and then I'm going to go back home because

0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:29.280
<v Speaker 2>we need you. Yeah, we need I need it.

0:26:29.320 --> 0:26:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I roll over and I like, will ruin you and

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:35.320
<v Speaker 1>take you for an ice cream and we'll go wash

0:26:35.400 --> 0:26:38.120
<v Speaker 1>the car, and like I will give I have been.

0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I am that person for my friends. And I'm sure

0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:43.560
<v Speaker 1>you guys can appreciate this. Like they I'm like, hey,

0:26:43.560 --> 0:26:45.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm coming over and they're like, no, no, I don't need anything.

0:26:45.440 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, you need me to hold your

0:26:46.840 --> 0:26:48.480
<v Speaker 1>baby for two hours so that you can have a

0:26:48.520 --> 0:26:50.600
<v Speaker 1>shower because you're disgusting, do you know.

0:26:50.600 --> 0:26:52.240
<v Speaker 2>What I mean? I feel like, yeah, says it directly

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 2>to me in this moment, because I can't tell the

0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:55.120
<v Speaker 2>last time I shampooed. But it's fine.

0:26:56.040 --> 0:26:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Not everyone can afford like nanny's and help and stuff,

0:26:58.440 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 1>and not everyone has their parents around, So like I

0:27:00.440 --> 0:27:02.919
<v Speaker 1>just I hold a baby, you shower and put on

0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:04.840
<v Speaker 1>a fresh set of clothing, and then like come back

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:06.159
<v Speaker 1>to the real world and then I leave you.

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 2>I think it's such a good balance to like with

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 2>your lady gang. You know. It's because it's like you

0:27:10.440 --> 0:27:13.680
<v Speaker 2>got like you are the one that's like I feel

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:16.160
<v Speaker 2>kind of like runs the ship, you know, and like

0:27:16.440 --> 0:27:19.119
<v Speaker 2>you are the like all you know, all the other

0:27:19.160 --> 0:27:21.480
<v Speaker 2>two girls are amazing obviously as well, like and Becca

0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:23.719
<v Speaker 2>she's she's a friend, and you know, so I'm like,

0:27:24.400 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 2>but you run the ship, I feel like, you know,

0:27:26.440 --> 0:27:28.480
<v Speaker 2>and you kind of are like you're you're the boss

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:30.680
<v Speaker 2>CEO of of it forgive.

0:27:30.480 --> 0:27:32.920
<v Speaker 3>Me right or you know one hundred percent.

0:27:33.000 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And it's like, you know, Beca, like I can

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:37.159
<v Speaker 2>you know that she's you know, she's mom in it,

0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:40.080
<v Speaker 2>and it's like, yeah, I'm sure they really rely on

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:43.919
<v Speaker 2>having you in that position too, you know, one hundred percent.

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:46.359
<v Speaker 1>And it's like it's been so nice even when Becca

0:27:46.720 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 1>had her baby. It's like she was able to to

0:27:50.359 --> 0:27:52.719
<v Speaker 1>just be like I'm I'm not here for like like

0:27:52.720 --> 0:27:55.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm here, but i'm not here, you know, And and.

0:27:55.200 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 3>I think that's it's really nice and not everyone gets

0:27:57.280 --> 0:27:58.080
<v Speaker 3>that so and.

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:00.199
<v Speaker 2>To know the ship is still running, like you know,

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:02.240
<v Speaker 2>like when I know I'm out, like I know Catherine,

0:28:02.320 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 2>like you know, she's holding it down. The ship is

0:28:04.840 --> 0:28:08.679
<v Speaker 2>gonna still run exactly, and it's so hard.

0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>And and also like I gotta be honest with you,

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:15.760
<v Speaker 1>the way that like the Earth treats moms, especially here

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:17.639
<v Speaker 1>in the United States, is kind of messed up. Like

0:28:17.680 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you guys have such a bad Like everyone's so excited

0:28:21.000 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 1>for you, and you have showers and you announce the

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:26.439
<v Speaker 1>baby's born and everyone's healthy and we're so excited, and

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:28.240
<v Speaker 1>then all we do is shame you for like twenty

0:28:28.359 --> 0:28:30.480
<v Speaker 1>years about every single thing you do with that baby.

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 3>It kind of seems terrible.

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:36.800
<v Speaker 2>Like no, true, yeah, I mean truth, I'm gonna be

0:28:37.160 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 2>but I feel like the third this go around though,

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 2>like I was like shy bringing in the you know,

0:28:42.320 --> 0:28:44.840
<v Speaker 2>the formula with Jay's like I'm gonna be running in

0:28:44.880 --> 0:28:47.160
<v Speaker 2>with the formula in my back. I got shamed with

0:28:47.280 --> 0:28:50.320
<v Speaker 2>you know, not breastfeeding Jolly, and then I tried with

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Jason it was miserable. So this one I'm like, no,

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 2>like you're gonna shame me regardless of what I do.

0:28:57.160 --> 0:28:59.160
<v Speaker 2>I straight up, brought the formula to the hospital, was

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.440
<v Speaker 2>like just in case, yeah, leave my boobs alone.

0:29:02.680 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 4>I was like, here's my sports brawls. Bind him up.

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 3>Let's go right, bind him up, bind him up.

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, I just yeah, it's you're right though,

0:29:12.480 --> 0:29:15.360
<v Speaker 2>it's it's it's a sad thing. But speaking of Lady Gang,

0:29:15.440 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 2>is there is there a question that you still think

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:20.400
<v Speaker 2>back on and go, oh, my god, I should not

0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:21.920
<v Speaker 2>have asked that. And I know you guys have done

0:29:21.920 --> 0:29:24.440
<v Speaker 2>thousands and thousands and thousands of interviews, but is there

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:26.640
<v Speaker 2>one that just kind of like sticks out to you

0:29:26.720 --> 0:29:30.440
<v Speaker 2>that is like I should have just not said that.

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:33.280
<v Speaker 3>There's so many.

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:38.720
<v Speaker 1>Actually, I have one from E News that I just

0:29:38.800 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 1>did that is like so terrible. So one of my

0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:48.200
<v Speaker 1>other jobs is being a chief yea correspondent on news.

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:50.840
<v Speaker 1>And I was in Rome for the Tom Cruise premiere,

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:51.720
<v Speaker 1>which was amazing.

0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:54.960
<v Speaker 2>I saw on the Tom Cruise is like really.

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:57.200
<v Speaker 1>Intense about who he lets interview him, and it's like

0:29:57.240 --> 0:29:58.720
<v Speaker 1>a whole thing to get approved.

0:29:58.760 --> 0:29:59.760
<v Speaker 3>And anyway, so.

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:02.840
<v Speaker 1>We're on the red carpet and like you know, they're

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:05.520
<v Speaker 1>doing all these premieres all around the world, and so

0:30:05.560 --> 0:30:07.960
<v Speaker 1>they're getting asked, like he's getting asked about the stunt

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:09.680
<v Speaker 1>jumping off the mountain a hundred times, and I'm like,

0:30:09.680 --> 0:30:10.400
<v Speaker 1>what am I going to do?

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 3>That's like really different and really special?

0:30:13.080 --> 0:30:15.640
<v Speaker 1>And I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, and I kind

0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:17.840
<v Speaker 1>of have my plan of what's going to happen. I've

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:20.080
<v Speaker 1>bought my note cards, like I'm ready to go, and

0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 1>he walks up to me, and there's just something about

0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:24.520
<v Speaker 1>him that is like so overwhelming, and the whole thing.

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:26.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, he's Tom Cruise, you know, He's Maverick.

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's Maverick, you know. And I kind of lost

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:33.480
<v Speaker 1>my mind. And the question that came out of my

0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:34.400
<v Speaker 1>mouth was.

0:30:36.000 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 3>Would you rather die.

0:30:39.160 --> 0:30:44.560
<v Speaker 1>Doing a stunt on a Mission Impossible movie or just

0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:45.720
<v Speaker 1>like in your sleep?

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 3>Why did I ask that?

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>I kind of so that's so morbid because he's like

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:53.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna die doing one of these stunts. And I was like,

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I just kind of want to know. And then he

0:30:54.560 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 1>would like kind of look at me like wow, the

0:30:56.680 --> 0:30:58.960
<v Speaker 1>balls on this girl will be inviting her again, and

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:00.800
<v Speaker 1>he was like wow, I don't really think about it,

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 1>but and I was like, oh my god.

0:31:02.440 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 3>And then I.

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Followed up with okay, well, you're still so sexy, So like,

0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:07.080
<v Speaker 1>how do you say this?

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:10.240
<v Speaker 3>Like what am I doing? It was the work.

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:12.280
<v Speaker 2>He's like, I don't think about how I'm gonna die,

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:17.600
<v Speaker 2>but I'm glad you do. Reporter, Like, but you're hot

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:19.520
<v Speaker 2>when you die.

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:21.360
<v Speaker 3>I was like, and then you're hot. I have a

0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 3>crush on you. And I was like what is like

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 3>it's just so embarrassing.

0:31:24.240 --> 0:31:27.160
<v Speaker 1>And then I had a really bad interview with Jake Jillenhall,

0:31:27.320 --> 0:31:30.440
<v Speaker 1>like almost almost a decade ago, where I did the

0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:32.719
<v Speaker 1>same thing he came and it was for a movie,

0:31:32.800 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know, while they're getting the Jenny,

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you'll know like when they kind of like need a

0:31:37.600 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 1>second to like get the when you're doing a red carpet,

0:31:39.920 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 1>like to get the camera in focus and like the

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 1>shot set up, so it's like you're kind of spilt

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 1>your before that you're actually start doing the interview. And

0:31:48.280 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I was like, well, you know, if

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 1>you don't win an Oscar for your performance, you should

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:53.880
<v Speaker 1>win an Oscar for being dead sexy.

0:31:53.960 --> 0:31:54.800
<v Speaker 3>And he walked away.

0:31:56.080 --> 0:31:58.600
<v Speaker 2>No, you didn't do the interview.

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:02.320
<v Speaker 1>He walked He just walked away from me, and I

0:32:02.360 --> 0:32:05.280
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, and I was like, I know it's inappropriate,

0:32:05.280 --> 0:32:08.080
<v Speaker 1>but like I love if people were like, Kelty, how

0:32:08.080 --> 0:32:08.880
<v Speaker 1>do you feel this morning?

0:32:08.880 --> 0:32:11.040
<v Speaker 3>You're looking dead sexy? I would be like, bring more

0:32:11.040 --> 0:32:11.680
<v Speaker 3>of this to me.

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I here for this, you know.

0:32:15.080 --> 0:32:16.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I can't believe he walked away.

0:32:16.920 --> 0:32:17.600
<v Speaker 4>He neither.

0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Or did he walk No, he walked to the next person,

0:32:23.720 --> 0:32:27.720
<v Speaker 1>and oh, I'm sure and like and then then the

0:32:27.760 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>movie companies like, we need coverage for this movie, you know,

0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 1>But I think that my Race Show is pretty high

0:32:34.040 --> 0:32:38.240
<v Speaker 1>on good, good interview moments. The thing that was the craziest,

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 1>like for for super Fan that's coming out this week,

0:32:40.880 --> 0:32:43.640
<v Speaker 1>we had Shanaia and I'm like, I grew up in Canada,

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 1>like I am Shania.

0:32:45.040 --> 0:32:49.760
<v Speaker 3>I could have competed on Shania and.

0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:52.120
<v Speaker 1>And like we saw her before the show and I

0:32:52.240 --> 0:32:54.560
<v Speaker 1>just like squealed at her. And I think she looked

0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 1>at me so funny because I was like, I'm hosting

0:32:57.120 --> 0:32:59.280
<v Speaker 1>the show and thanks for coming and I created the

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:00.600
<v Speaker 1>show and like her Papa is just.

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.080
<v Speaker 3>Like it's Kelty, you know. We we zumed with her.

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:05.360
<v Speaker 1>She's British, like she assumed with him about the shed

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:07.320
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I've been interviewing for so long,

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 1>and there's just.

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I'm such a loser.

0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:22.280
<v Speaker 2>Hey everything normal situations like put me in a room

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:23.800
<v Speaker 2>with Tom Cruise and what's gonna happen? You know what

0:33:23.840 --> 0:33:25.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean? Regardless if you jumped on the couch or not,

0:33:25.920 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 2>he's still Tom Cruise. He's always time. So I mean,

0:33:29.240 --> 0:33:33.320
<v Speaker 2>but yeah, I mean I've definitely said things that I'm like,

0:33:33.520 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 2>oh god, and then you just feel like bad. But

0:33:36.840 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, we're all human. We all say things. You

0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 2>guys know Nicholas Sparks, the author the Notebook. Okay, so

0:33:43.160 --> 0:33:45.760
<v Speaker 2>we were we all forty and well, I just want

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:48.160
<v Speaker 2>to be like, you know, I just never know how

0:33:48.160 --> 0:33:50.040
<v Speaker 2>diehard I was, And was I alone in that? I

0:33:50.040 --> 0:33:51.800
<v Speaker 2>don't know? Oh my god, speaking of I had. I

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:54.440
<v Speaker 2>made Alan watch The Notebook because he's he's seen every

0:33:54.480 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 2>single movie, like we're always like watching on Netflix, and

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, well, let's watch it. I've seen it, seen

0:33:58.560 --> 0:34:01.920
<v Speaker 2>it's seen it and some I don't know why we saw.

0:34:02.160 --> 0:34:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh we're on Prime then, and I was like, no, book,

0:34:05.000 --> 0:34:06.720
<v Speaker 2>it's so good. He goes never saw and I'm like,

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:12.400
<v Speaker 2>buddy Allen. So we played it and he even got

0:34:12.400 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 2>a little tyut at the end too, like with the couple.

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:16.440
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, anyways, die at the same time. We just

0:34:16.440 --> 0:34:18.720
<v Speaker 2>watched it about a week ago and I was like, can.

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:19.439
<v Speaker 4>We die like that?

0:34:19.800 --> 0:34:22.200
<v Speaker 2>This is my this is my embarrassing story. So we go.

0:34:22.280 --> 0:34:23.680
<v Speaker 2>I go to a book signing and I got up

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:26.680
<v Speaker 2>there and I got so flustered and I literally sent

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:28.800
<v Speaker 2>gave my book to him, and I go, We've spent

0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:33.279
<v Speaker 2>so many nights in bed together. And then I just

0:34:33.400 --> 0:34:37.279
<v Speaker 2>turned bright red and I go, I not like I

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:39.319
<v Speaker 2>and he was like he got a little like red

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:41.000
<v Speaker 2>and he was like, oh, no, I know what you meant.

0:34:41.040 --> 0:34:42.680
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, but do you know what I meant?

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe Nicholas Sparks that is Nextla.

0:34:49.880 --> 0:34:54.719
<v Speaker 2>This was like two thousand Snowking cute. It's cute. I'm here.

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:57.279
<v Speaker 2>Dave Ramsey is the other. So I just round it out.

0:34:57.640 --> 0:35:01.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh Dave Ramsey, Jessica Simpson, Yeah, I like it. I

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 2>don't want to make out with him, just for some

0:35:02.680 --> 0:35:03.840
<v Speaker 2>on record and was Selene.

0:35:03.880 --> 0:35:05.839
<v Speaker 4>But I don't think I said anything stupid. I don't

0:35:05.880 --> 0:35:08.799
<v Speaker 4>think I talked. I think I just stood there and

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 4>stared at her.

0:35:09.920 --> 0:35:12.319
<v Speaker 2>That's all she's used to since since you can't get

0:35:12.360 --> 0:35:15.359
<v Speaker 2>Selene though for Superfan, what is there someone that you're like,

0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:18.000
<v Speaker 2>you're still aiming, like, I really want to get this

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:20.880
<v Speaker 2>person on Superfan for maybe the next season besides just

0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:22.439
<v Speaker 2>season two.

0:35:22.520 --> 0:35:24.520
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I need Taylor or Rihanna.

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:28.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and I want the Jonas brothers who were

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:30.520
<v Speaker 1>down to do season one. It just didn't work out

0:35:30.520 --> 0:35:35.880
<v Speaker 1>with the timing. I obviously need Backstreet Boys, and I.

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:39.239
<v Speaker 2>Really Blake Shelton would be fun, like because he's like entertaining.

0:35:39.600 --> 0:35:42.439
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know, it's so funny. I always like hmm.

0:35:43.080 --> 0:35:45.720
<v Speaker 3>I also feel like I need a Garth Brooks.

0:35:45.800 --> 0:35:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Like I think what makes I mean, Jonah's Brothers is

0:35:49.400 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 1>probably not but like I think what makes a great

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>episode is when they have a really big catalog of

0:35:54.640 --> 0:35:58.279
<v Speaker 1>songs and history, like a lot of perform because you know,

0:35:58.400 --> 0:36:00.920
<v Speaker 1>all the games are like some of them we're you know,

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:03.920
<v Speaker 1>like pictures that are blurry and you have to like

0:36:03.960 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 1>identify what that what is that from? Oh that's from

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:08.640
<v Speaker 1>when super Bowl and blah blah blah that's from the

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Gramm music Gagaga like all that kind of stuff, And

0:36:10.520 --> 0:36:12.359
<v Speaker 1>then the music is such a big part of it.

0:36:12.400 --> 0:36:13.239
<v Speaker 3>So I feel like.

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 1>Those like big catalogs of music will be amazing. But

0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Blake would be great too, although he's oh yeah, and now.

0:36:19.320 --> 0:36:20.640
<v Speaker 3>He's not on the voice so he could do it.

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:22.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, him or Adam too would be good.

0:36:24.200 --> 0:36:25.920
<v Speaker 1>And then like for me, like I tried to get

0:36:25.960 --> 0:36:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Fallout Boy, like I'm still like a little bit of

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:30.200
<v Speaker 1>an emo kid, so I'm like, we need Fallout Boy,

0:36:30.200 --> 0:36:33.880
<v Speaker 1>and the network was like, whoo, I love Fallout Boys.

0:36:33.920 --> 0:36:35.480
<v Speaker 2>See, I don't even go far from Matt. I'm like

0:36:35.520 --> 0:36:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Beastie Boys because my brother used to like rock Beastie Boys.

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:39.800
<v Speaker 2>That's like way back.

0:36:39.880 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 3>Yep, oh yeah, I love it. So we'll see.

0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:44.920
<v Speaker 1>We'll see how hopefully season one does amazing and then

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:47.239
<v Speaker 1>we'll be able to start working on season.

0:36:46.920 --> 0:36:49.879
<v Speaker 2>Two and then Lady Gang wise, I mean, you guys

0:36:49.920 --> 0:36:52.320
<v Speaker 2>are still obviously rocking because you're doing how many episodes

0:36:52.360 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 2>now for Lady Gang are you doing Tuna?

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:58.279
<v Speaker 1>We do two episodes a week, and our third co host,

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:01.919
<v Speaker 1>Jack Fani's about to get married and and so we're

0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:05.560
<v Speaker 1>all heading over this woman is getting married on a

0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:06.359
<v Speaker 1>I want to know what you.

0:37:06.280 --> 0:37:07.000
<v Speaker 3>Guys think about this?

0:37:07.239 --> 0:37:07.479
<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:37:07.480 --> 0:37:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I love Jack I was just at her dress fitting

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>with her and so like listen, like she's my person

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 1>and I love her so much. She's never had a

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:18.120
<v Speaker 1>real job in her life because she's an entrepreneur, and

0:37:18.160 --> 0:37:20.000
<v Speaker 1>she's been an entrepreneur since she went to college. She

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:22.000
<v Speaker 1>worked at Old Navy for like a week and then

0:37:22.080 --> 0:37:24.160
<v Speaker 1>just like went on summer vacation and they were like, no,

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:25.719
<v Speaker 1>you have to book time off, and she was like, what,

0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I hate jobs. And so then it's like started her

0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:30.919
<v Speaker 1>clothing line. So she's never had a real job. This

0:37:31.120 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 1>bee is getting married on.

0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:34.880
<v Speaker 3>A Tuesday in France.

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:37.760
<v Speaker 1>Do you know how hard it is for the everyday

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:43.080
<v Speaker 1>working woman to get to France on a Tuesday. I'm

0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:45.880
<v Speaker 1>like Jack, and she's like, well, that's when the chateau

0:37:46.080 --> 0:37:48.680
<v Speaker 1>was available. And I was like, I got a take

0:37:48.719 --> 0:37:51.560
<v Speaker 1>off as Saturday to fly to Sunday, and then I

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 1>gotta be with you on Monday.

0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:55.680
<v Speaker 3>The wedding's on a Tuesday day.

0:37:55.480 --> 0:37:59.040
<v Speaker 1>After fly but I got to take five PTOs paid

0:37:59.040 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 1>time off. I got to take off five of my

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:04.920
<v Speaker 1>fifteen vacation days for the year will be spent traveling

0:38:05.520 --> 0:38:07.080
<v Speaker 1>to in France on a.

0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:09.400
<v Speaker 2>Tuesday, chat toe on a Tuesday.

0:38:09.480 --> 0:38:11.040
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm doing you have to take off that

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 4>much time anyway, wouldn't you even if it was on

0:38:13.200 --> 0:38:13.799
<v Speaker 4>a different day.

0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:16.719
<v Speaker 1>If she got married on like a Saturday, I could

0:38:16.760 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 1>have like hustled a Friday and Thursday, Friday, Monday, Thursday.

0:38:20.280 --> 0:38:22.360
<v Speaker 4>That's a fast trip to France.

0:38:22.520 --> 0:38:25.160
<v Speaker 2>I think you should just I mean, I hear, I

0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.480
<v Speaker 2>hear what you're saying, and I get it. Remember that,

0:38:28.160 --> 0:38:31.239
<v Speaker 2>Remember this I'm doing all on a Saturday. Well, so

0:38:31.600 --> 0:38:32.640
<v Speaker 2>that's in the summer too.

0:38:33.280 --> 0:38:36.200
<v Speaker 4>Maybe I laughed if she was getting married on Tuesday,

0:38:36.280 --> 0:38:37.520
<v Speaker 4>but it's cheaper too.

0:38:37.560 --> 0:38:38.640
<v Speaker 2>I got married on Monday.

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:40.600
<v Speaker 3>I know I'm doing it.

0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:41.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I hear you.

0:38:42.080 --> 0:38:44.880
<v Speaker 3>There's a reason because nobody wants to come it's a Tuesday.

0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:48.360
<v Speaker 2>Well maybe that'll that'll, you know what I mean, like

0:38:48.920 --> 0:39:05.799
<v Speaker 2>narrow it down. So I had someone the other day go, oh,

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:07.319
<v Speaker 2>when are you guys getting married? And I was like, oh,

0:39:07.360 --> 0:39:10.440
<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah of blah blah blah, and they're like,

0:39:10.719 --> 0:39:12.799
<v Speaker 2>we can't wait. We'll definitely be there, but they're not

0:39:12.960 --> 0:39:13.560
<v Speaker 2>on the list.

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:19.759
<v Speaker 4>So like, yeah, yeah, well let's talk about this later.

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, what do I what do I do?

0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:25.440
<v Speaker 2>Because I'm like, they're like, it's a I mean, it

0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:29.000
<v Speaker 2>is a small group that we're inviting, but it's like

0:39:29.040 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 2>they're they're friends and they're part of a but it's

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:34.879
<v Speaker 2>not like and I was like, yeah, no totally. They're

0:39:34.880 --> 0:39:36.200
<v Speaker 2>like they're like, I mean if we're on the list.

0:39:36.239 --> 0:39:38.120
<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, no, like, well they are now.

0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:40.239
<v Speaker 2>But what was I supposed to.

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:41.919
<v Speaker 4>Say, I know what you have to now?

0:39:42.120 --> 0:39:42.920
<v Speaker 2>As I didn't, you.

0:39:44.400 --> 0:39:47.240
<v Speaker 1>Know, you absolutely do not. So when I married my husband.

0:39:47.680 --> 0:39:49.480
<v Speaker 1>When I married my husband, it was my second wedding.

0:39:49.600 --> 0:39:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I had been married prior once and we got married

0:39:52.280 --> 0:39:54.759
<v Speaker 1>in the backyard and I had forty people because I

0:39:54.840 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 1>was like no, no, no, I want this to be

0:39:56.680 --> 0:39:59.239
<v Speaker 1>so small, so tiny, and just like my people. I

0:39:59.239 --> 0:40:01.880
<v Speaker 1>didn't invite anyone from work. I didn't work like I

0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:05.360
<v Speaker 1>was just family and like a couple friends and people

0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:06.759
<v Speaker 1>were but hurt and here's what you do.

0:40:07.160 --> 0:40:10.239
<v Speaker 3>You have your tiny thing and then a few weeks.

0:40:10.040 --> 0:40:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Later you throw like I'll barbecue or I did like

0:40:13.120 --> 0:40:15.319
<v Speaker 1>a Gatsby party at a bar, and it was like

0:40:15.400 --> 0:40:19.400
<v Speaker 1>then I invited all the other Hanger honors, so not

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:20.640
<v Speaker 1>hanger honors, but like.

0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Well I didn't even get that invite Kelsey, So I guess,

0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:28.759
<v Speaker 2>so we're having a bow renewal for you in Jana's backyard.

0:40:29.280 --> 0:40:31.800
<v Speaker 4>Having said that, it's just saying you have to because

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:34.800
<v Speaker 4>you said, she said, am I on the list?

0:40:34.840 --> 0:40:38.480
<v Speaker 3>And you said no, oh no you couldn't.

0:40:38.520 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 4>That's why I said you have to.

0:40:40.760 --> 0:40:44.040
<v Speaker 2>Now, well that's also like, what are you going to say?

0:40:44.360 --> 0:40:46.080
<v Speaker 4>That's what I'm saying, because you really shouldn't say. I

0:40:46.120 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 4>don't even know what we're talking about.

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:49.960
<v Speaker 2>So I feel bad, but close enough that it would

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:51.320
<v Speaker 2>be like on the line.

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:53.560
<v Speaker 4>That's that's tough. I think you just have to let

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:56.280
<v Speaker 4>everybody know. Look, it's literally just these people.

0:40:56.440 --> 0:40:59.200
<v Speaker 1>Hey, we just hey, we decided to cut back even more.

0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:01.600
<v Speaker 1>It's just such a crazy time with everything going on.

0:41:01.880 --> 0:41:05.719
<v Speaker 4>I mean, if that person listens, now they know sorry,

0:41:05.800 --> 0:41:06.520
<v Speaker 4>yeah that's true.

0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:09.240
<v Speaker 3>If she's close enough to be like really supporting this podcast,

0:41:09.280 --> 0:41:10.160
<v Speaker 3>you might not matter.

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:12.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't really think anyone else listens, like even the

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:15.799
<v Speaker 2>queendom I don't know, and which doesn't bother me. No,

0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:18.640
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't really listen to. Then we can talk about, yeah,

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:21.560
<v Speaker 2>but what works with this marriage that didn't with the

0:41:21.640 --> 0:41:24.120
<v Speaker 2>last that was gonna be a question because he works

0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:24.600
<v Speaker 2>a lot.

0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:30.240
<v Speaker 3>My first husband was a mother. Were married for eleven months.

0:41:30.560 --> 0:41:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, it was pretty brutal. I laughed, because I've

0:41:34.040 --> 0:41:34.880
<v Speaker 2>been there shorter.

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:37.200
<v Speaker 1>No, And you know, the thing is, and that that's

0:41:37.200 --> 0:41:39.520
<v Speaker 1>why I think people really relate to you, is you know,

0:41:39.760 --> 0:41:42.359
<v Speaker 1>like I think the thing is is that you you

0:41:42.400 --> 0:41:44.799
<v Speaker 1>get really caught up because you see that you meet

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:47.240
<v Speaker 1>this person and you get engaged and you're really excited

0:41:47.280 --> 0:41:47.759
<v Speaker 1>about them.

0:41:48.280 --> 0:41:50.080
<v Speaker 3>And like I I.

0:41:50.080 --> 0:41:53.440
<v Speaker 1>Knew it wasn't perfect before we got married, but I

0:41:54.000 --> 0:41:56.640
<v Speaker 1>was so naive to think that like the marriage would

0:41:56.680 --> 0:41:57.000
<v Speaker 1>help it.

0:41:57.640 --> 0:41:58.879
<v Speaker 3>Like I thought, oh, like.

0:41:59.120 --> 0:42:01.839
<v Speaker 1>Well, once we're mary, I worried these things in these

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 1>concerns and these personality traits that are like we're not

0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:07.440
<v Speaker 1>getting the best of each other, Like they're gonna go

0:42:07.480 --> 0:42:09.920
<v Speaker 1>away because we'll be married, you know, And and that

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:13.600
<v Speaker 1>just didn't happen. He was very unsupportive of my my

0:42:13.760 --> 0:42:16.400
<v Speaker 1>dreams for myself and and really just wanted like a

0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:19.520
<v Speaker 1>stay at home wife, and like didn't really express that

0:42:19.760 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 1>until like we were already married, and I was like no, no, no, bab,

0:42:22.280 --> 0:42:25.200
<v Speaker 1>like I'm going on tour, like I'm doing this, I'm

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:27.319
<v Speaker 1>going to Hollywood, like we're you know, and so it

0:42:27.400 --> 0:42:28.200
<v Speaker 1>just it didn't work out.

0:42:28.239 --> 0:42:31.320
<v Speaker 3>I was pretty young this that my husband.

0:42:31.320 --> 0:42:33.480
<v Speaker 1>Now we were actually about to celebrate our ten year

0:42:33.480 --> 0:42:37.080
<v Speaker 1>wedding anniversary, which is lovely next month. And I think

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:39.680
<v Speaker 1>that I just like really enjoy him as a human being.

0:42:39.719 --> 0:42:44.480
<v Speaker 1>I think he's a good person, and his red flags

0:42:44.480 --> 0:42:47.440
<v Speaker 1>are things like he doesn't like clean up his plate

0:42:47.560 --> 0:42:49.960
<v Speaker 1>immediately after he eats dinner, Like he likes to like

0:42:50.040 --> 0:42:51.799
<v Speaker 1>leave it out and then go watch TV and then

0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:52.880
<v Speaker 1>clean it up later in the night.

0:42:52.920 --> 0:42:54.040
<v Speaker 3>And that's really annoying to me.

0:42:54.160 --> 0:42:56.800
<v Speaker 1>So it's like the red flags are manageable red flags

0:42:56.800 --> 0:42:58.680
<v Speaker 1>instead of the red flags I know we've all had

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 1>in our relationships where you're like a.

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:03.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Like okay, but we'll

0:43:03.000 --> 0:43:03.520
<v Speaker 3>work on that.

0:43:03.640 --> 0:43:05.760
<v Speaker 1>Like I just I didn't want to have to fix anyone,

0:43:05.880 --> 0:43:07.799
<v Speaker 1>and so I just picked someone that was like very

0:43:07.840 --> 0:43:10.600
<v Speaker 1>lovely and very respectful and he's like my biggest fan.

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:14.279
<v Speaker 1>We're having a huge premiere party in Times Square on

0:43:14.280 --> 0:43:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Wednesday night for super Fan and he works with the

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:20.439
<v Speaker 1>company that is providing the billboard, so he's literally put

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:22.200
<v Speaker 1>all of his clients and all of his work on

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:24.080
<v Speaker 1>the back burner to like plan this party for me,

0:43:24.320 --> 0:43:27.200
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, no, no, you got to have your moment, babe.

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:29.719
<v Speaker 1>You work too hard, like just so supportive and so

0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:31.160
<v Speaker 1>that's really meaningful.

0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:32.240
<v Speaker 3>And he's dead sexy.

0:43:32.239 --> 0:43:34.839
<v Speaker 1>He's like six ' six really tall, looks like a

0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 1>little British pop star, but he's not.

0:43:36.680 --> 0:43:40.720
<v Speaker 2>And I love that, I really, I really do, because

0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:43.200
<v Speaker 2>you're such like a again, like you're just you're a boss,

0:43:43.239 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 2>and like you make things happen, like again, like how

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 2>you said, like you don't get the offers, like you

0:43:47.160 --> 0:43:49.759
<v Speaker 2>make it happen, and I just like, I love that

0:43:49.880 --> 0:43:51.560
<v Speaker 2>so much about you, and to the fact that you

0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:53.759
<v Speaker 2>have a man, because for a man that can be

0:43:53.880 --> 0:43:57.080
<v Speaker 2>very intimidating, and the fact that he's there to lift

0:43:57.120 --> 0:44:00.880
<v Speaker 2>you up and and be your supporter, like that's that's beautiful.

0:44:00.880 --> 0:44:02.719
<v Speaker 2>So I'm so happy for you that, you know, you know,

0:44:03.560 --> 0:44:04.400
<v Speaker 2>I always.

0:44:04.120 --> 0:44:05.640
<v Speaker 3>Think of like the j Lo of it all.

0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:07.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, people are like, oh j Lo, like oh,

0:44:08.080 --> 0:44:10.520
<v Speaker 1>she's getting married again or whatever, and I'm just like,

0:44:10.960 --> 0:44:13.359
<v Speaker 1>because it's I think it for a man, it's very

0:44:13.360 --> 0:44:15.440
<v Speaker 1>difficult to be married to j Lo because.

0:44:15.160 --> 0:44:17.640
<v Speaker 3>She's doing it all. She's so she doesn't need you.

0:44:18.239 --> 0:44:20.960
<v Speaker 1>She does not need you, you know, and so like

0:44:21.200 --> 0:44:23.520
<v Speaker 1>that's really hard on men. I think, just like not

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:26.560
<v Speaker 1>to black and white, but I do believe, you know,

0:44:26.640 --> 0:44:29.600
<v Speaker 1>finding someone who's really supportive and really understanding of what

0:44:29.640 --> 0:44:31.960
<v Speaker 1>it takes to be a woman in show business and

0:44:32.000 --> 0:44:35.000
<v Speaker 1>be chasing their dreams, whether that be in music, in television,

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:38.360
<v Speaker 1>in podcasting and whatever like that, it's really hard to

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:42.160
<v Speaker 1>find that person. So and and those kinds of people

0:44:42.200 --> 0:44:43.440
<v Speaker 1>don't always show their colors.

0:44:43.640 --> 0:44:44.600
<v Speaker 3>They fool you.

0:44:44.680 --> 0:44:46.759
<v Speaker 1>They like I've dated people too where they were like,

0:44:46.800 --> 0:44:48.319
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I'm so proud of you. It's so

0:44:48.400 --> 0:44:50.880
<v Speaker 1>cool that you're so busy and you have your own life,

0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:53.239
<v Speaker 1>you're so independent, you don't get jealous, like these are

0:44:53.280 --> 0:44:55.560
<v Speaker 1>all such great things. And then later in the relationship,

0:44:55.600 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 1>those are the things that came out, the monsters that

0:44:58.680 --> 0:45:00.920
<v Speaker 1>came out, And it was the reason that we split,

0:45:01.280 --> 0:45:05.440
<v Speaker 1>because yes, they fool They fool you into acting like

0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:09.799
<v Speaker 1>they want that independent, strong, powerful woman who's in charge

0:45:09.840 --> 0:45:11.879
<v Speaker 1>of her own life, but they don't.

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:13.960
<v Speaker 2>They do in the end, and then they're like I'm like,

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:16.279
<v Speaker 2>oh cool, and then you feel bad for being successful.

0:45:16.640 --> 0:45:18.239
<v Speaker 2>Like I remember one time max Is a cup fun

0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:20.120
<v Speaker 2>making money, and I'm like, remember that, I was like,

0:45:20.520 --> 0:45:24.640
<v Speaker 2>what I do I'm to do? I will here making funny.

0:45:24.680 --> 0:45:27.839
<v Speaker 2>One of us needs to try, I mean fun. Yeah,

0:45:27.880 --> 0:45:30.960
<v Speaker 2>but all right, Kelsey, promote it all girl, give us everything.

0:45:31.239 --> 0:45:33.399
<v Speaker 3>Well listen, First of all, thanks so much for having

0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:33.680
<v Speaker 3>me on.

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:36.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited for you, and I know how huge

0:45:36.400 --> 0:45:39.359
<v Speaker 1>your podcast is, all of you, so congratulations on that.

0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I see you on the charts all the time. People

0:45:41.800 --> 0:45:43.880
<v Speaker 1>love you, which I love, and now hopefully they'll love

0:45:43.920 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 1>super Fan. Superfan airs Wednesday, August ninth. We premiere right

0:45:48.680 --> 0:45:50.440
<v Speaker 1>after Big Brothers, so I know so many people will

0:45:50.440 --> 0:45:52.319
<v Speaker 1>be watching Big Brothers. So if you just stay up

0:45:52.400 --> 0:45:55.600
<v Speaker 1>till ten Ella cool Ja's the first episode. We have Shanaya,

0:45:55.680 --> 0:45:58.839
<v Speaker 1>we have Pitbull, Gloria's stuff on Little Big Town, Kelsey Ballerini,

0:45:59.200 --> 0:46:01.839
<v Speaker 1>and and I just need everyone to get out there

0:46:01.840 --> 0:46:06.080
<v Speaker 1>and vote. And uh and last thing, as a female podcast,

0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:08.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, being a female creator and made me realize

0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:12.439
<v Speaker 1>that there are so few females creating television and out

0:46:12.440 --> 0:46:14.680
<v Speaker 1>in the world, and so like, if everyone could just

0:46:14.680 --> 0:46:17.879
<v Speaker 1>support this show, because if one female creator can create

0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:20.600
<v Speaker 1>a hit show, then more females creators can create shows,

0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 1>but right now, it's like they don't even want to

0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:24.279
<v Speaker 1>take the meeting with you because you're a woman, and

0:46:24.360 --> 0:46:26.040
<v Speaker 1>so let's good and go.

0:46:26.600 --> 0:46:29.799
<v Speaker 2>I love it. Yes, it's fun. Well wait to watch

0:46:29.800 --> 0:46:31.239
<v Speaker 2>all right, we'll see you soon, honey.

0:46:31.560 --> 0:46:32.320
<v Speaker 3>Thank you guys.

0:46:32.960 --> 0:46:35.319
<v Speaker 2>God. I love Kelty, Love love her.

0:46:35.560 --> 0:46:36.880
<v Speaker 4>She's so so fun.

0:46:37.000 --> 0:46:37.719
<v Speaker 2>She's really fun.

0:46:37.840 --> 0:46:39.480
<v Speaker 4>It's just like a fun like I don't feel like

0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:40.759
<v Speaker 4>we just did an interview. I feel like we just

0:46:40.800 --> 0:46:42.560
<v Speaker 4>like chatted and yeah, I was like, oh wait no.

0:46:42.640 --> 0:46:44.239
<v Speaker 2>I kept trying to like go back and be like, oh,

0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:46.399
<v Speaker 2>I want to ask more questions. And she's always been

0:46:46.440 --> 0:46:46.640
<v Speaker 2>like that.

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:47.200
<v Speaker 3>I love that.

0:46:47.280 --> 0:46:52.800
<v Speaker 2>She's yeah, so cool, and she's also like she helps

0:46:52.840 --> 0:46:55.440
<v Speaker 2>other people too, Like she'd be like, hey, are you happy?

0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:58.440
<v Speaker 2>Like you know, I'm not saying this to like, but

0:46:58.520 --> 0:46:59.759
<v Speaker 2>she reminds me of you in that way.

0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:00.399
<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

0:47:00.480 --> 0:47:03.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're very like, no, you're good at this, and

0:47:03.520 --> 0:47:06.160
<v Speaker 2>so you're coming with me. I like it.

0:47:06.440 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 4>So I have a question. No, I didn't mean to

0:47:08.120 --> 0:47:11.160
<v Speaker 4>cut you off. No, the pinnate from earlier.

0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:13.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, so that's probably not going to be as

0:47:13.239 --> 0:47:17.920
<v Speaker 2>big now. But so I was at a gathering for

0:47:18.160 --> 0:47:23.800
<v Speaker 2>Jolie's for her second grade looping party because she's looping

0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:25.279
<v Speaker 2>with her teacher that she had in first grade, so

0:47:25.280 --> 0:47:26.920
<v Speaker 2>all the kids that won from that class to the

0:47:26.960 --> 0:47:27.400
<v Speaker 2>other class.

0:47:27.400 --> 0:47:29.319
<v Speaker 4>I've never heard of that until I have not heard

0:47:29.320 --> 0:47:31.920
<v Speaker 4>of that until, not until it came up with your teacher.

0:47:32.040 --> 0:47:34.640
<v Speaker 2>So she's because she can teach both first and second

0:47:34.719 --> 0:47:36.400
<v Speaker 2>and so she just loved the class so much and

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:38.880
<v Speaker 2>she asked to loop with the class. So does that

0:47:38.960 --> 0:47:41.880
<v Speaker 2>just mean repeat, yeah, with the same class, not repeat grade,

0:47:42.000 --> 0:47:44.439
<v Speaker 2>but goes So she's going to second with the same

0:47:44.440 --> 0:47:48.960
<v Speaker 2>teacher class. I never I know, Okay, which I like

0:47:49.120 --> 0:47:50.759
<v Speaker 2>the I like it well, first of all, I mean

0:47:50.800 --> 0:47:54.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm obsessed with mister Clund. But like the fact that

0:47:54.719 --> 0:47:56.799
<v Speaker 2>they don't have to go through the whole getting to

0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:59.200
<v Speaker 2>know you phase, Like she knows where each child level

0:47:59.320 --> 0:48:01.919
<v Speaker 2>is at, so that I think will be helpful where

0:48:01.960 --> 0:48:05.680
<v Speaker 2>because I think jol is a little delayed in reading possibly,

0:48:05.840 --> 0:48:09.600
<v Speaker 2>so I think now that you know, the teacher knows

0:48:09.680 --> 0:48:11.120
<v Speaker 2>like where the kids are at, and so I think

0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:15.000
<v Speaker 2>that's going to be helpful. But remember I hadn't mentioned

0:48:15.160 --> 0:48:19.240
<v Speaker 2>like how Jolie said something about her like quote unquote

0:48:19.239 --> 0:48:21.560
<v Speaker 2>boyfriend and how like, you know, he said something to

0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:25.440
<v Speaker 2>her mom and you know, you know she broke up

0:48:25.440 --> 0:48:27.640
<v Speaker 2>with them because we don't talk. You know, I don't

0:48:27.640 --> 0:48:30.360
<v Speaker 2>know about this. Yeah, you might have been on parenting

0:48:30.600 --> 0:48:33.359
<v Speaker 2>or maternity leave. I don't even know this was. This

0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:36.120
<v Speaker 2>was like a couple of months ago, but it was,

0:48:36.400 --> 0:48:38.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, he had the kid had said something to

0:48:38.960 --> 0:48:40.680
<v Speaker 2>his mom, and Jeli is like, I'm not going to

0:48:40.719 --> 0:48:43.400
<v Speaker 2>be with him anymore because he talked bad to his

0:48:43.440 --> 0:48:44.799
<v Speaker 2>mom because I always told her. I was like, don't

0:48:44.800 --> 0:48:47.360
<v Speaker 2>ever be with a boy that speaks bad words to

0:48:47.520 --> 0:48:50.560
<v Speaker 2>their mom or to any woman or to you. You know,

0:48:50.680 --> 0:48:52.719
<v Speaker 2>like you deserve more than that, you know. So I'm

0:48:52.760 --> 0:48:56.919
<v Speaker 2>like trying to like teacher young and she's like we're

0:48:56.960 --> 0:49:00.640
<v Speaker 2>all hanging up. And the mom who's so weed as ever,

0:49:01.280 --> 0:49:04.160
<v Speaker 2>it was just like so I something came up like

0:49:04.239 --> 0:49:06.840
<v Speaker 2>well I heard you know this her son and Jolie.

0:49:06.840 --> 0:49:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Aren't you know boyfriend girlfriend anymore? I was like, yeah,

0:49:10.040 --> 0:49:12.120
<v Speaker 2>did you hear why? And she was, oh, heard about

0:49:12.120 --> 0:49:15.640
<v Speaker 2>it from the podcast and I was like, oh.

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:17.480
<v Speaker 3>See, you never know how.

0:49:17.640 --> 0:49:20.160
<v Speaker 2>I was like, really do we just think no one listens?

0:49:21.040 --> 0:49:22.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't think anyone knew who I am like, knows

0:49:22.960 --> 0:49:25.200
<v Speaker 2>who I am, but I walk around not like thinking

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:27.920
<v Speaker 2>people know who I am. That's true, you and they

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:29.759
<v Speaker 2>do know you, you know what I mean, because I'm like,

0:49:31.680 --> 0:49:32.360
<v Speaker 2>why would they know?

0:49:32.440 --> 0:49:32.920
<v Speaker 4>You know what I mean?

0:49:32.960 --> 0:49:35.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I just don't think. I'm like whatever

0:49:35.360 --> 0:49:38.239
<v Speaker 2>and so and then I was like, oh crap, and

0:49:38.280 --> 0:49:40.080
<v Speaker 2>she's like, well, what's funny is one of my friends

0:49:40.160 --> 0:49:43.160
<v Speaker 2>was listening and was like, is that you usually? And

0:49:43.200 --> 0:49:45.120
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god. I was like, I've

0:49:45.120 --> 0:49:47.200
<v Speaker 2>gotten you know, I got in trouble with the other thing.

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:50.720
<v Speaker 4>I don't think you said anything bad this time that time.

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:52.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because the other time I did, I shouldn't. That

0:49:52.520 --> 0:49:54.960
<v Speaker 2>was that was you know, I misspoke there, but like

0:49:55.239 --> 0:49:57.480
<v Speaker 2>this time, I'm just like I don't. Yeah.

0:49:57.560 --> 0:49:59.600
<v Speaker 4>Literally, it was like you were just teaching her to

0:49:59.640 --> 0:50:00.439
<v Speaker 4>be right.

0:50:00.520 --> 0:50:02.360
<v Speaker 2>But like I just want to say, like the boys

0:50:02.360 --> 0:50:05.200
<v Speaker 2>of Sweetheart, so I just want to say that I

0:50:05.280 --> 0:50:07.319
<v Speaker 2>really love laws and you were sticking up.

0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:09.760
<v Speaker 4>You were sticking up for the mom because she wasn't speaking,

0:50:09.800 --> 0:50:11.600
<v Speaker 4>he wasn't speaking nicely to the mom, right.

0:50:11.480 --> 0:50:14.239
<v Speaker 2>Sure, yes, but I just want to make sure sure

0:50:14.360 --> 0:50:17.279
<v Speaker 2>trying to help me. Yes, yes, yes, yes, I'm just

0:50:17.320 --> 0:50:19.399
<v Speaker 2>also trying to be like, but he's also a sweet kid,

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 2>like he's in first grade, you know what I mean,

0:50:21.120 --> 0:50:23.120
<v Speaker 2>like like the heaven, give the guy a break.

0:50:23.560 --> 0:50:27.160
<v Speaker 4>They also, I know, right, he hasn't learned yet how

0:50:27.200 --> 0:50:28.400
<v Speaker 4>to be a complete gentleman.

0:50:30.560 --> 0:50:32.759
<v Speaker 2>But I was just like, I am so sorry if

0:50:32.800 --> 0:50:35.919
<v Speaker 2>I said I just don't remember, like, oh man, that's

0:50:36.080 --> 0:50:38.279
<v Speaker 2>you know, I've learned my lesson from the last time.

0:50:38.400 --> 0:50:39.319
<v Speaker 4>Pretty nice about it.

0:50:39.360 --> 0:50:42.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh so, I mean, she's so sweet, like I feel

0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:45.120
<v Speaker 2>really nervous about today. But then the other mom was

0:50:45.160 --> 0:50:46.600
<v Speaker 2>just like, well, I had no idea who you were,

0:50:46.600 --> 0:50:48.560
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, well, that's how I operate. So well.

0:50:48.960 --> 0:50:50.680
<v Speaker 4>There was a group of them because I went to

0:50:50.719 --> 0:50:53.480
<v Speaker 4>school with one of them.

0:50:52.520 --> 0:50:54.560
<v Speaker 2>That was in that photo.

0:50:54.760 --> 0:50:58.360
<v Speaker 4>Uh huh. That was at dinner one night when me, you, Mario,

0:50:58.680 --> 0:51:00.360
<v Speaker 4>all of us went to dinner and there was a

0:51:00.360 --> 0:51:01.960
<v Speaker 4>group of them that came over to the table.

0:51:03.040 --> 0:51:06.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember any of this and took pictures. Okay,

0:51:06.280 --> 0:51:06.960
<v Speaker 2>so very low.

0:51:07.719 --> 0:51:09.319
<v Speaker 4>A good bit of them at school have known who

0:51:09.360 --> 0:51:12.160
<v Speaker 4>you are. Oh, because again I went to school with

0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:13.120
<v Speaker 4>one of them.

0:51:13.000 --> 0:51:15.120
<v Speaker 2>In the photo that I took. The moms, I wonder

0:51:15.160 --> 0:51:17.520
<v Speaker 2>which one I'll let you know. Okay, she's a sweetheart.

0:51:17.600 --> 0:51:19.960
<v Speaker 4>But anyway, she came up that night when y'all were

0:51:20.000 --> 0:51:21.960
<v Speaker 4>with Mario, when we were with Mario at dinner, and

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<v Speaker 4>they like took pictures and stuff. So sweet. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't think I see it doesn't like even

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<v Speaker 4>you're like, oh hey, it doesn't even register with you

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<v Speaker 4>that no people might know who you are.

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<v Speaker 2>A funny thing too, is when I don't save numbers,

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<v Speaker 2>like someone's like, oh, I think our daughters are on

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<v Speaker 2>the same soccer team, and I'm like great, but I

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<v Speaker 2>like Bernie try to.

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<v Speaker 4>Like scroll up like.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone has like a paragraph in the company line, and

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<v Speaker 2>it is embarrassing when they try to call you and

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, they're like, oh, you need to find your

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<v Speaker 2>phone and they call. It's like Janna Kramer, Jolie's mom,

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<v Speaker 2>met her at the soccer game wearing a pink dress

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like, my bad. Oh fun for the love

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<v Speaker 2>Well came in hot today and we ended ended saucy,

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<v Speaker 2>so saucy.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone living say, I can't wait to watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, y'all see you next week.

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