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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: I got nothing, y'all? Okay, good. I was wondering, okay,

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Speaker 2: because sometimes I get nervous when I come right in

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Speaker 2: and we don't talk first, that you're waiting for like

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Speaker 2: a reaction. I know, you know, I got nothing. Okay,

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Speaker 2: great topics welcome, Oh great? Okay, So I host my

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Speaker 2: in laws? Oh yeah, you want to talk about it?

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Speaker 3: Sure do?

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Speaker 2: Okay. So I learned a really valuable lesson when I

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Speaker 2: was postpartum with love that there's a difference between company

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Speaker 2: and help, and in the postpartum period for me specifically,

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Speaker 2: I do not need company, I need help, got it.

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Speaker 2: I do not have castrole toading in laws. Okay. And

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Speaker 2: I'm not here to bust anybody or to be rude.

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Speaker 2: I think it is I'm an adventure to say they

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Speaker 2: don't listen to this podcast.

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Speaker 4: I'm hoping.

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Speaker 2: I'm just hoping that nobody that they listen. That it's

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Speaker 2: not that just got me a topic something about that happened.

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Speaker 2: But go ahead continue, Okay, yeah, yeah, I mean pinned, pinned.

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Speaker 2: Don't forget it, though I want the pregnancy amnesia is

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Speaker 2: so real, so it's tricky for me because I feel

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Speaker 2: like I am often not the best version of myself

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Speaker 2: when they are visiting because they don't offer help. Is

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Speaker 2: that where the version comes in or is it just

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Speaker 2: I think there are other things underneath it too, like well,

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Speaker 2: maybe that your husband's a certain way because of how Okay,

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Speaker 2: so that is part of it. Because you do it

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Speaker 2: feels to me like you feels to me like you

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Speaker 2: might know me, Janna Kramer. Although there is some of

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Speaker 2: that because it's like, you know, when you watch a

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Speaker 2: man sit too long, you can drive a girl crazy, right,

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Speaker 2: And so when I watch pop pops it, I sometimes

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Speaker 2: get a little like what's it like to sit? You know,

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Speaker 2: and just a little triggered because maybe that's what your

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Speaker 2: hobby does. Yeah, but I also am like my husband

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Speaker 2: never gets to be home. He should probably sit on

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Speaker 2: the couchy base for you know, like once in a

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Speaker 2: while he needs to take a load off. But then again,

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Speaker 2: his job sometimes doesn't feel like super hard to me.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be like, you know, I mean,

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Speaker 2: like it is, but it's not you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: It's really not Okay. Well, you're an artist, so I

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Speaker 2: can say that I mean that the hard part is

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Speaker 2: like the traveling, but during the day it's like you're

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Speaker 2: just kind of waiting and then you sing and people

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Speaker 2: are singing your songs back, and it's like, I know, well,

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Speaker 2: and he is a hustler. I'll give him that, like

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Speaker 2: he's got a million things going on at once. Of course,

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Speaker 2: I know, yikes, I'm really feisty. I like it.

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Speaker 4: Keep going.

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Speaker 2: I'm really getting back on my hormonal pattern here. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: So he works really hard and he's a hustler, so

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Speaker 2: he does work a lot when he's out there. I

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Speaker 2: want to make sure that I'm being clear about that

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Speaker 2: before I get a million messages. Anyways, his parents. I

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Speaker 2: offered his parents a hotel this time, right, I said,

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Speaker 2: we would love to host shoot a hotel. Realizing that

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Speaker 2: our last our guest room has now been taken by

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Speaker 2: our newest roommate. Would love to get you guys a

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Speaker 2: hotel that's close, because I know that sleeping on air

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Speaker 2: mattresses and couches is not super great. When you're seventy five,

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Speaker 2: they decline it. If you're going to decline a hotel,

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Speaker 2: let's not treat my home like a hotel. So my

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Speaker 2: question for you is well. I might have saw a

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Speaker 2: photo same with Catherine where they left their water bottles

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Speaker 2: in a beautiful little basket that had sheets in it,

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Speaker 2: and you know you guys, I feel like the stomach ache,

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Speaker 2: like this is like I feel the stomach ache, like

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have come in here so spicy. I want

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Speaker 2: an instant right, but like when someone comes and treats

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Speaker 2: it like a hotel room and it's not like your

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Speaker 2: momm you just had a baby, like that's yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: already hosting breakfast, lunch, dinner like you know, so that

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Speaker 2: just feels a little so my this is not I

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Speaker 2: do believe. I think it's a generational thing like on

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Speaker 2: you're leaving some things behind, like the leaving behind though

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Speaker 2: I don't have mine, mine, mine, or I should say

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Speaker 2: I don't have my like I'm thinking x in laws,

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Speaker 2: like I haven't hosted mine soon to be new in laws,

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Speaker 2: but the X in laws never left anything I think

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Speaker 2: with my family, just like pushing the chairs, that's like

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Speaker 2: there I always find one thing that bothers me that.

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Speaker 2: I was just like, why are we why do we

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Speaker 2: till Preston, I was like, Legend needs to learn to

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Speaker 2: I'm just pushing in the chairs my passage.

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Speaker 4: I feel so deeply just Janice saying that just makes

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Speaker 4: me want to push and right now.

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Speaker 2: I love it. It feels so validating because I'm here's

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Speaker 2: my thing, my thing is not them, and I'm not

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Speaker 2: trying to be passive aggressive and like that it gets

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Speaker 2: back I I just I guess I feel two things. One,

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Speaker 2: I would like to be a better version of myself

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Speaker 2: as I gear up for my own mother visiting on Saturday,

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Speaker 2: I'm hosting the old grandparent meet and greet. That's what's

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Speaker 2: happening here. And I have really successfully boundaried until six

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Speaker 2: weeks and eight weeks, so that feels good. So a

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Speaker 2: little bit of a pattern, but a I feel like,

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Speaker 2: how where can we anchor when we have guests in

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Speaker 2: the house that don't operate like us pushing in chairs

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Speaker 2: and whatnot. And the second thing is when you leave

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Speaker 2: someone's house. What's your standard demo? Like, if you're staying

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Speaker 2: with someone, I have a really good story, go no,

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Speaker 2: you go no. There's a question on this yes, so

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Speaker 2: go no.

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Speaker 4: You answer it, and then I have to say something

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Speaker 4: after you.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just think it's like I'm just trying to

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Speaker 2: think like in in in like my past, like with

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Speaker 2: of goes with how they maybe raised and then that's

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Speaker 2: where my internal frustrations with them come up. But I

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Speaker 2: think as I've gotten older, I've just become more annoyed

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Speaker 2: it's harder to sometimes maybe be around certain things. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it feels more toxic. Yes, yes, a couple of things

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Speaker 4: Started anyway with a lot of followers. Anyway. A. I

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Speaker 4: never house my in law's parents anything, well, because they

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Speaker 2: Not if I lived here.

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Speaker 4: If they did, they would be somewhere else in a hotel.

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Speaker 4: My family knows that, they probably.

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Speaker 2: Trust it's not happening at your mom she.

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Speaker 4: Lived there, and she paid her rent. For sure, she did.

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Speaker 4: She paid rent. I'm not and that sounds terrible, but

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Speaker 4: that's just not However, that stuff would not bother me.

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Speaker 4: But what made me no, this is WHATSS made me

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Speaker 4: think of. I'm sure plenty of things would bother me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you would be bothered, because I think sometimes I'm

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Speaker 4: Bothered by that kind of stuff. But that's because I

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Speaker 4: wasn't raised the way you were. But that makes me

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Speaker 4: think of our different personalities real fast. Because New York,

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Speaker 4: we're still asleep. You've cleaned the whole apartment before we

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Speaker 4: ready to go to the airport. And Christon's like, great,

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Speaker 4: I cleaned the whole place, And I was like, did

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Speaker 4: we make a mess? But like that's your personality if

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Speaker 2: I wish my house looked like people didn't live in

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Speaker 2: it sometimes, right, okay.

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Speaker 4: Right, whereas my house is a mess, you would think

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Speaker 4: it's a mess, you know, that's just how I am.

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Speaker 4: But it also made me think of the time we

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Speaker 4: left David's house. Oh god, and I you know, and

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Speaker 4: I'm pretty bad. I can be pretty bad at it.

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Speaker 4: But I'm like, Carrery, what do we need to do?

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Speaker 4: What do we need to clean up? Just throw the

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Speaker 2: Because I'm so close with him that I think sometimes

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Speaker 2: I'm like, y'all, he's gonna have his maid come over anyway.

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Speaker 4: And we cleaned and I was like, yeah, towels in

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Speaker 4: the bathtub. So we've thrown the towels in the bathtub.

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Speaker 4: The next day he's like, guys, what do you say,

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Speaker 3: It was just it just made me.

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Speaker 2: No, or maybe he.

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Speaker 4: Did, but he was still kind kind of like, why

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Speaker 2: I just think you were grown up how you were raised.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I feel like I'm not like Christ's centered enough.

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like every time it's a test until

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Speaker 4: I just feel like, maybe you shouldn't put yourself in

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Speaker 2: I tried so hard not.

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Speaker 4: To, but did you say no.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is what's tricky is Preston was afraid that

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Speaker 4: Well, they'll be offended. My in laws would be offended too.

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Speaker 2: If we put them in a hotel. He's like, they

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Speaker 2: don't want to do that. And I will say, like

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Speaker 2: So if they were at a hotel, then there's two

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Speaker 2: which I don't love personally either.

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Speaker 4: So then I think maybe if that's the case.

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Speaker 2: This time, however, bedtime is eight pm because I have

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Speaker 2: to get that first round a sleep or else I'm exhausted.

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Speaker 4: And that's like that's the whole difference.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm like, it's a newborn, what are we doing? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think that piece is hard because it's like hard.

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Speaker 2: As much as I love like having my dad and

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Speaker 2: wanting to make up for like lost time, so by

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Speaker 2: like the end of the night, I'm tired. I'd like

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Speaker 2: to go into my room and like not talk, not talk,

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Speaker 2: And he's like, so you know, I'm like, can we

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Speaker 4: It's my issue. This is why the stuff it's like,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to talk.

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Speaker 2: This is why we do so well on the road

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Speaker 2: together though, because when we when we all know it's

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Speaker 2: not time to talk, we're done talking, which is harder

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Speaker 2: for one of us than the other. So that's fine, well, no,

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Speaker 2: and it's like like I'll never forget. Oh, I feel

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Speaker 2: like I remember my ex just wanted to Like it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have everything about Jessica Simpson like I love her.

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Speaker 2: Know, is that your person you're super fan people? Like?

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Speaker 1: and I who's my co host on Lady Gang.

435
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,119
Speaker 3: I like this trio versus like another trio.

436
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 1: She She and I got in a deep six month

437
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 1: era where all we did was send each other back

438
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 1: and forth YouTube links of AJ mcclear doing hip.

439
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 3: Thrusts, like that's it.

440
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: That's all we did was like watch him on shit

441
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 1: because on stage he was not the same on Dancing

442
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,199
Speaker 1: with the Stars, but he'll like on stage, he'll just

443
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:09,200
Speaker 1: walk to the edge and then just go.

444
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,200
Speaker 3: And I was like, damn.

445
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 2: So, speaking of that name is I was in Queen

446
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: trying to figure out like what to name the baby, right,

447
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 2: So it's like first I was like on like A

448
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 2: names and then J and then like ours and kind

449
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:25,879
Speaker 2: of like staying with those ones, and then so we

450
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 2: really liked AJ. But then this one goes, isn't there

451
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 2: a Backstreet boy named AJ? Like, and I was like, well,

452
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 2: damn it, now that we know he's a hip thruster,

453
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:36,160
Speaker 2: I think it takes it off the way.

454
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we're back again.

455
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, So that that kind of nixed it.

456
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 1: But it's anyway so hard because there's like one shdy

457
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: like person with the name that you want in every scenario,

458
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 1: and you're just like, god, there's no good names left

459
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 1: because there's like bad people out there.

460
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 2: I know, and I like, you guys don't know this. Yeah,

461
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,400
Speaker 2: but like I've kind of gone back to my other

462
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: name that I really liked. But again, I just think

463
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 2: it's too close with his because my fiance's last name

464
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 2: is Russell. So I really want Jacks like JACKX was

465
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 2: like my like, but it's not so okay. So Jack

466
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 2: Russell's a dog but Jack's Russell? Is it too close? Still?

467
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 3: Can't do it.

468
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 4: I can't do it.

469
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 1: No.

470
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 2: I told her she'd have to measure him in like

471
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 2: dog ears, like she wouldn't be able to be like

472
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 2: he's eighteen months, he'd be like a dog gear or whatever.

473
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 2: I call him Jackson, but for his like, no, oh.

474
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 3: My god, I just saw the best idea.

475
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: Go for it.

476
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:33,640
Speaker 3: Put my I put my Emmy Award.

477
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 1: Winning brain on and I put that on for a minute.

478
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Speaker 1: Fore you Okay, what if you do aj like if

479
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 1: they're like Alexander Jacks is the name and so they're AJ.

480
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 1: You can't have AJ, but then you can call them Jacks.

481
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 2: Well, so still Jax Russell. It's still still. Can't not

482
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 2: laugh And I don't want to have an opinion. I

483
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 2: named my kids.

484
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 3: I don't.

485
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 2: Your daughter Lion, Yeah I did. My daughter's name is Lyon.

486
00:22:58,440 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 2: I mean I love it. I don't get me wrong

487
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 2: that butt you know, love and legend. I mean we

488
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,199
Speaker 2: just I'm a Kristen Nicole. Somebody had to break the

489
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: creativity cycle, you know what I mean, Like my family

490
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 2: needed to change trajectory. I feel like we need to

491
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 2: pull it.

492
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, like just Jackson, but you want to call him

493
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 4: jack Jacks, which is I know where you're going with this.

494
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 2: And my superfan non music thing. But but don't worry.

495
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: About it because didn't Amy Schumer name her baby like

496
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 1: scrotum or something?

497
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 2: No?

498
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 4: Really, Smer, Yes it is.

499
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Stop she didn't baby? Can you just google

500
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 2: that for us?

501
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 1: It's Jean and his last name is Atlia.

502
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 3: No, sorry, it's not scrotum. It's there.

503
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 1: Jeane Italia and I yeah her.

504
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 2: I wonder if she said she didn't.

505
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,120
Speaker 1: She said in interviews she didn't think about it if it.

506
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: Was a girl. We were going to name her Alana,

507
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 2: so it was going to be like Alana Russell. But

508
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: then I was like, oh, that sounds like I want

509
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 2: to rustle. I don't believe she.

510
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 4: Didn't think about that.

511
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 2: There's no way it's.

512
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 3: A family name. It's a family name.

513
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: So here's the thing. I don't like opinionated about names

514
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 2: either before they're here. But like, I just have to

515
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: be honest.

516
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 4: You don't tell people.

517
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 2: I don't tell people exactly. My daughter's name is Lyon.

518
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 2: A girl named Ian. Everyone be like, I mean, here's

519
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 2: the thing. I do.

520
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 4: Like it with Jolie and Jayce, Jolie Jason Jack's it's cute.

521
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:29,679
Speaker 1: I love.

522
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:31,399
Speaker 4: Can we just do Cramer?

523
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 2: I've asked, what about you baby? Are we baby training anytime?

524
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 2: They're soon? Kelty, what's going on?

525
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a childless wonder okay. Uh, you know

526
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 1: I kind of made the decision. You know, listen, there's

527
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: there's people that are good at making children, like you,

528
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: and and then there's me and I don't really enjoy

529
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,919
Speaker 1: a baby, and so like I really start to like

530
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 1: children around six or seven, and then like it's just

531
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: it's you can't birth a seven year old.

532
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 3: So for me, it's just not the right move.

533
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: My husband is travels a ton for work, so I'm like,

534
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,479
Speaker 1: I have no tribe here in La, Like I just

535
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 1: I think it would be really bad. And then I

536
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: also have a brother who has mental illness, and so

537
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 1: like I consider to him my like forty five year

538
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: old baby, like he's my he's my person that's gonna

539
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: be with me forever, and it's just like my buddy,

540
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: and so I didn't.

541
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 3: I just wasn't the right thing for me.

542
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 2: I know, I'm like the only one that's what I

543
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 2: aspect that though, because you know it, rather than being

544
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna have a baby, because I have to, Like,

545
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 2: we know someone that is not a I don't even

546
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 2: think she wanted a kid, but she had a kid,

547
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 2: she's and she's never there for the kid. So it's

548
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: it's hard to even see because I'm like, she just

549
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 2: has a nanny twenty four to seven. And then it's

550
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 2: like I think she had one because she thought she

551
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 2: had to have one. Yeah, and I don't think she

552
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 2: ever really a kid person for sure.

553
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you got to want it.

554
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna antie to a lot of my friend's

555
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 1: kids and it looks exhausting.

556
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: But by the way, like you're the crucial piece for

557
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 2: all of us. That's why it takes like that's why

558
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:19,199
Speaker 2: your souls and hearts are so wildly important. Because I

559
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 2: need the people that are fun and mature enough to

560
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: come in and say, like, I'm gonna love you so

561
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 2: hard and then I'm going to go back home because

562
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 2: we need you. Yeah, we need I need it.

563
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: I roll over and I like, will ruin you and

564
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: take you for an ice cream and we'll go wash

565
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 1: the car, and like I will give I have been.

566
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 1: I am that person for my friends. And I'm sure

567
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: you guys can appreciate this. Like they I'm like, hey,

568
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 1: I'm coming over and they're like, no, no, I don't need anything.

569
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: I was like, no, you need me to hold your

570
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: baby for two hours so that you can have a

571
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: shower because you're disgusting, do you know.

572
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 2: What I mean? I feel like, yeah, says it directly

573
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 2: to me in this moment, because I can't tell the

574
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,120
Speaker 2: last time I shampooed. But it's fine.

575
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 1: Not everyone can afford like nanny's and help and stuff,

576
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 1: and not everyone has their parents around, So like I

577
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 1: just I hold a baby, you shower and put on

578
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: a fresh set of clothing, and then like come back

579
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 1: to the real world and then I leave you.

580
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 2: I think it's such a good balance to like with

581
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: your lady gang. You know. It's because it's like you

582
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 2: got like you are the one that's like I feel

583
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 2: kind of like runs the ship, you know, and like

584
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 2: you are the like all you know, all the other

585
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 2: two girls are amazing obviously as well, like and Becca

586
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,719
Speaker 2: she's she's a friend, and you know, so I'm like,

587
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 2: but you run the ship, I feel like, you know,

588
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: and you kind of are like you're you're the boss

589
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 2: CEO of of it forgive.

590
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 3: Me right or you know one hundred percent.

591
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like, you know, Beca, like I can

592
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 2: you know that she's you know, she's mom in it,

593
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: and it's like, yeah, I'm sure they really rely on

594
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 2: having you in that position too, you know, one hundred percent.

595
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 1: And it's like it's been so nice even when Becca

596
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: had her baby. It's like she was able to to

597
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,719
Speaker 1: just be like I'm I'm not here for like like

598
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm here, but i'm not here, you know, And and.

599
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 3: I think that's it's really nice and not everyone gets

600
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 3: that so and.

601
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 2: To know the ship is still running, like you know,

602
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 2: like when I know I'm out, like I know Catherine,

603
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: like you know, she's holding it down. The ship is

604
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 2: gonna still run exactly, and it's so hard.

605
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: And and also like I gotta be honest with you,

606
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: the way that like the Earth treats moms, especially here

607
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: in the United States, is kind of messed up. Like

608
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: you guys have such a bad Like everyone's so excited

609
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: for you, and you have showers and you announce the

610
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 1: baby's born and everyone's healthy and we're so excited, and

611
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 1: then all we do is shame you for like twenty

612
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: years about every single thing you do with that baby.

613
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 3: It kind of seems terrible.

614
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: Like no, true, yeah, I mean truth, I'm gonna be

615
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 2: but I feel like the third this go around though,

616
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 2: like I was like shy bringing in the you know,

617
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: the formula with Jay's like I'm gonna be running in

618
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 2: with the formula in my back. I got shamed with

619
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 2: you know, not breastfeeding Jolly, and then I tried with

620
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: Jason it was miserable. So this one I'm like, no,

621
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 2: like you're gonna shame me regardless of what I do.

622
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: I straight up, brought the formula to the hospital, was

623
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 2: like just in case, yeah, leave my boobs alone.

624
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 4: I was like, here's my sports brawls. Bind him up.

625
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 3: Let's go right, bind him up, bind him up.

626
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I just yeah, it's you're right though,

627
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: it's it's it's a sad thing. But speaking of Lady Gang,

628
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: is there is there a question that you still think

629
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: back on and go, oh, my god, I should not

630
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: have asked that. And I know you guys have done

631
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: thousands and thousands and thousands of interviews, but is there

632
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 2: one that just kind of like sticks out to you

633
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 2: that is like I should have just not said that.

634
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 3: There's so many.

635
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: Actually, I have one from E News that I just

636
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: did that is like so terrible. So one of my

637
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: other jobs is being a chief yea correspondent on news.

638
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: And I was in Rome for the Tom Cruise premiere,

639
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: which was amazing.

640
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: I saw on the Tom Cruise is like really.

641
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: Intense about who he lets interview him, and it's like

642
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: a whole thing to get approved.

643
00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 3: And anyway, so.

644
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: We're on the red carpet and like you know, they're

645
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: doing all these premieres all around the world, and so

646
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 1: they're getting asked, like he's getting asked about the stunt

647
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: jumping off the mountain a hundred times, and I'm like,

648
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: what am I going to do?

649
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 3: That's like really different and really special?

650
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, and I kind

651
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: of have my plan of what's going to happen. I've

652
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: bought my note cards, like I'm ready to go, and

653
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: he walks up to me, and there's just something about

654
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: him that is like so overwhelming, and the whole thing.

655
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 2: Well, he's Tom Cruise, you know, He's Maverick.

656
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's Maverick, you know. And I kind of lost

657
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: my mind. And the question that came out of my

658
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: mouth was.

659
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 3: Would you rather die.

660
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: Doing a stunt on a Mission Impossible movie or just

661
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: like in your sleep?

662
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 3: Why did I ask that?

663
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: I kind of so that's so morbid because he's like

664
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: gonna die doing one of these stunts. And I was like,

665
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: I just kind of want to know. And then he

666
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: would like kind of look at me like wow, the

667
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: balls on this girl will be inviting her again, and

668
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: he was like wow, I don't really think about it,

669
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: but and I was like, oh my god.

670
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 3: And then I.

671
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: Followed up with okay, well, you're still so sexy, So like,

672
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: how do you say this?

673
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 3: Like what am I doing? It was the work.

674
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 2: He's like, I don't think about how I'm gonna die,

675
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 2: but I'm glad you do. Reporter, Like, but you're hot

676
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: when you die.

677
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 3: I was like, and then you're hot. I have a

678
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 3: crush on you. And I was like what is like

679
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 3: it's just so embarrassing.

680
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: And then I had a really bad interview with Jake Jillenhall,

681
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: like almost almost a decade ago, where I did the

682
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,719
Speaker 1: same thing he came and it was for a movie,

683
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, while they're getting the Jenny,

684
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: you'll know like when they kind of like need a

685
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: second to like get the when you're doing a red carpet,

686
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: like to get the camera in focus and like the

687
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: shot set up, so it's like you're kind of spilt

688
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: your before that you're actually start doing the interview. And

689
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, well, you know, if

690
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: you don't win an Oscar for your performance, you should

691
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: win an Oscar for being dead sexy.

692
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 3: And he walked away.

693
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 2: No, you didn't do the interview.

694
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: He walked He just walked away from me, and I

695
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: was like, well, and I was like, I know it's inappropriate,

696
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: but like I love if people were like, Kelty, how

697
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: do you feel this morning?

698
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: You're looking dead sexy? I would be like, bring more

699
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 3: of this to me.

700
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: I here for this, you know.

701
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't believe he walked away.

702
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 4: He neither.

703
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: Or did he walk No, he walked to the next person,

704
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: and oh, I'm sure and like and then then the

705
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: movie companies like, we need coverage for this movie, you know,

706
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: But I think that my Race Show is pretty high

707
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: on good, good interview moments. The thing that was the craziest,

708
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 1: like for for super Fan that's coming out this week,

709
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: we had Shanaia and I'm like, I grew up in Canada,

710
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: like I am Shania.

711
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 3: I could have competed on Shania and.

712
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: And like we saw her before the show and I

713
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: just like squealed at her. And I think she looked

714
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: at me so funny because I was like, I'm hosting

715
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: the show and thanks for coming and I created the

716
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: show and like her Papa is just.

717
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 3: Like it's Kelty, you know. We we zumed with her.

718
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: She's British, like she assumed with him about the shed

719
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: and I was like, I've been interviewing for so long,

720
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: and there's just.

721
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm such a loser.

722
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 2: Hey everything normal situations like put me in a room

723
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 2: with Tom Cruise and what's gonna happen? You know what

724
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: I mean? Regardless if you jumped on the couch or not,

725
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 2: he's still Tom Cruise. He's always time. So I mean,

726
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 2: but yeah, I mean I've definitely said things that I'm like,

727
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: oh god, and then you just feel like bad. But

728
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 2: you know, we're all human. We all say things. You

729
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 2: guys know Nicholas Sparks, the author the Notebook. Okay, so

730
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: we were we all forty and well, I just want

731
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 2: to be like, you know, I just never know how

732
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 2: diehard I was, And was I alone in that? I

733
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 2: don't know? Oh my god, speaking of I had. I

734
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 2: made Alan watch The Notebook because he's he's seen every

735
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 2: single movie, like we're always like watching on Netflix, and

736
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, let's watch it. I've seen it, seen

737
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 2: it's seen it and some I don't know why we saw.

738
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 2: Oh we're on Prime then, and I was like, no, book,

739
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 2: it's so good. He goes never saw and I'm like,

740
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 2: buddy Allen. So we played it and he even got

741
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 2: a little tyut at the end too, like with the couple.

742
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 2: But yeah, anyways, die at the same time. We just

743
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,720
Speaker 2: watched it about a week ago and I was like, can.

744
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,439
Speaker 4: We die like that?

745
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 2: This is my this is my embarrassing story. So we go.

746
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 2: I go to a book signing and I got up

747
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 2: there and I got so flustered and I literally sent

748
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 2: gave my book to him, and I go, We've spent

749
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 2: so many nights in bed together. And then I just

750
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 2: turned bright red and I go, I not like I

751
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 2: and he was like he got a little like red

752
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 2: and he was like, oh, no, I know what you meant.

753
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 2: And I was like, but do you know what I meant?

754
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: I can't believe Nicholas Sparks that is Nextla.

755
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 2: This was like two thousand Snowking cute. It's cute. I'm here.

756
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 2: Dave Ramsey is the other. So I just round it out.

757
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 2: Oh Dave Ramsey, Jessica Simpson, Yeah, I like it. I

758
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 2: don't want to make out with him, just for some

759
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: on record and was Selene.

760
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,839
Speaker 4: But I don't think I said anything stupid. I don't

761
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 4: think I talked. I think I just stood there and

762
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 4: stared at her.

763
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 2: That's all she's used to since since you can't get

764
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 2: Selene though for Superfan, what is there someone that you're like,

765
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 2: you're still aiming, like, I really want to get this

766
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 2: person on Superfan for maybe the next season besides just

767
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 2: season two.

768
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I need Taylor or Rihanna.

769
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I want the Jonas brothers who were

770
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: down to do season one. It just didn't work out

771
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: with the timing. I obviously need Backstreet Boys, and I.

772
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 2: Really Blake Shelton would be fun, like because he's like entertaining.

773
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, it's so funny. I always like hmm.

774
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,720
Speaker 3: I also feel like I need a Garth Brooks.

775
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 1: Like I think what makes I mean, Jonah's Brothers is

776
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: probably not but like I think what makes a great

777
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: episode is when they have a really big catalog of

778
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: songs and history, like a lot of perform because you know,

779
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: all the games are like some of them we're you know,

780
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: like pictures that are blurry and you have to like

781
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: identify what that what is that from? Oh that's from

782
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: when super Bowl and blah blah blah that's from the

783
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: Gramm music Gagaga like all that kind of stuff, And

784
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: then the music is such a big part of it.

785
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 3: So I feel like.

786
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: Those like big catalogs of music will be amazing. But

787
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: Blake would be great too, although he's oh yeah, and now.

788
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 3: He's not on the voice so he could do it.

789
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, him or Adam too would be good.

790
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 1: And then like for me, like I tried to get

791
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: Fallout Boy, like I'm still like a little bit of

792
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: an emo kid, so I'm like, we need Fallout Boy,

793
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: and the network was like, whoo, I love Fallout Boys.

794
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 2: See, I don't even go far from Matt. I'm like

795
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 2: Beastie Boys because my brother used to like rock Beastie Boys.

796
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 2: That's like way back.

797
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 3: Yep, oh yeah, I love it. So we'll see.

798
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: We'll see how hopefully season one does amazing and then

799
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: we'll be able to start working on season.

800
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 2: Two and then Lady Gang wise, I mean, you guys

801
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 2: are still obviously rocking because you're doing how many episodes

802
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: now for Lady Gang are you doing Tuna?

803
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: We do two episodes a week, and our third co host,

804
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 1: Jack Fani's about to get married and and so we're

805
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 1: all heading over this woman is getting married on a

806
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:06,359
Speaker 1: I want to know what you.

807
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 3: Guys think about this?

808
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:07,479
Speaker 2: Okay?

809
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 1: I love Jack I was just at her dress fitting

810
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: with her and so like listen, like she's my person

811
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: and I love her so much. She's never had a

812
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: real job in her life because she's an entrepreneur, and

813
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: she's been an entrepreneur since she went to college. She

814
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: worked at Old Navy for like a week and then

815
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: just like went on summer vacation and they were like, no,

816
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: you have to book time off, and she was like, what,

817
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: I hate jobs. And so then it's like started her

818
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,919
Speaker 1: clothing line. So she's never had a real job. This

819
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: bee is getting married on.

820
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 3: A Tuesday in France.

821
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,760
Speaker 1: Do you know how hard it is for the everyday

822
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: working woman to get to France on a Tuesday. I'm

823
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: like Jack, and she's like, well, that's when the chateau

824
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: was available. And I was like, I got a take

825
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: off as Saturday to fly to Sunday, and then I

826
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: gotta be with you on Monday.

827
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 3: The wedding's on a Tuesday day.

828
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: After fly but I got to take five PTOs paid

829
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: time off. I got to take off five of my

830
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 1: fifteen vacation days for the year will be spent traveling

831
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: to in France on a.

832
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 2: Tuesday, chat toe on a Tuesday.

833
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm doing you have to take off that

834
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 4: much time anyway, wouldn't you even if it was on

835
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 4: a different day.

836
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: If she got married on like a Saturday, I could

837
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: have like hustled a Friday and Thursday, Friday, Monday, Thursday.

838
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 4: That's a fast trip to France.

839
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 2: I think you should just I mean, I hear, I

840
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 2: hear what you're saying, and I get it. Remember that,

841
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 2: Remember this I'm doing all on a Saturday. Well, so

842
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 2: that's in the summer too.

843
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 4: Maybe I laughed if she was getting married on Tuesday,

844
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 4: but it's cheaper too.

845
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 2: I got married on Monday.

846
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 3: I know I'm doing it.

847
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hear you.

848
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 3: There's a reason because nobody wants to come it's a Tuesday.

849
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 2: Well maybe that'll that'll, you know what I mean, like

850
00:38:48,920 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 2: narrow it down. So I had someone the other day go, oh,

851
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 2: when are you guys getting married? And I was like, oh,

852
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 2: blah blah blah of blah blah blah, and they're like,

853
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 2: we can't wait. We'll definitely be there, but they're not

854
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: on the list.

855
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 4: So like, yeah, yeah, well let's talk about this later.

856
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 2: So I'm like, what do I what do I do?

857
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 2: Because I'm like, they're like, it's a I mean, it

858
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 2: is a small group that we're inviting, but it's like

859
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 2: they're they're friends and they're part of a but it's

860
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 2: not like and I was like, yeah, no totally. They're

861
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 2: like they're like, I mean if we're on the list.

862
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, no, like, well they are now.

863
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 2: But what was I supposed to.

864
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 4: Say, I know what you have to now?

865
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 2: As I didn't, you.

866
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,240
Speaker 1: Know, you absolutely do not. So when I married my husband.

867
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: When I married my husband, it was my second wedding.

868
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 1: I had been married prior once and we got married

869
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: in the backyard and I had forty people because I

870
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: was like no, no, no, I want this to be

871
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: so small, so tiny, and just like my people. I

872
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: didn't invite anyone from work. I didn't work like I

873
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: was just family and like a couple friends and people

874
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: were but hurt and here's what you do.

875
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 3: You have your tiny thing and then a few weeks.

876
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: Later you throw like I'll barbecue or I did like

877
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: a Gatsby party at a bar, and it was like

878
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 1: then I invited all the other Hanger honors, so not

879
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: hanger honors, but like.

880
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 2: Well I didn't even get that invite Kelsey, So I guess,

881
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 2: so we're having a bow renewal for you in Jana's backyard.

882
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 4: Having said that, it's just saying you have to because

883
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 4: you said, she said, am I on the list?

884
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 3: And you said no, oh no you couldn't.

885
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 4: That's why I said you have to.

886
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 2: Now, well that's also like, what are you going to say?

887
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying, because you really shouldn't say. I

888
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 4: don't even know what we're talking about.

889
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 2: So I feel bad, but close enough that it would

890
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 2: be like on the line.

891
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 4: That's that's tough. I think you just have to let

892
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,280
Speaker 4: everybody know. Look, it's literally just these people.

893
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: Hey, we just hey, we decided to cut back even more.

894
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 1: It's just such a crazy time with everything going on.

895
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 4: I mean, if that person listens, now they know sorry,

896
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 4: yeah that's true.

897
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,240
Speaker 3: If she's close enough to be like really supporting this podcast,

898
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 3: you might not matter.

899
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: I don't really think anyone else listens, like even the

900
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: queendom I don't know, and which doesn't bother me. No,

901
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 2: Like I don't really listen to. Then we can talk about, yeah,

902
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: but what works with this marriage that didn't with the

903
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 2: last that was gonna be a question because he works

904
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: a lot.

905
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:30,240
Speaker 3: My first husband was a mother. Were married for eleven months.

906
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it was pretty brutal. I laughed, because I've

907
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 2: been there shorter.

908
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: No, And you know, the thing is, and that that's

909
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: why I think people really relate to you, is you know,

910
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: like I think the thing is is that you you

911
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: get really caught up because you see that you meet

912
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 1: this person and you get engaged and you're really excited

913
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: about them.

914
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 3: And like I I.

915
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 1: Knew it wasn't perfect before we got married, but I

916
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: was so naive to think that like the marriage would

917
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: help it.

918
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 3: Like I thought, oh, like.

919
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: Well, once we're mary, I worried these things in these

920
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: concerns and these personality traits that are like we're not

921
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: getting the best of each other, Like they're gonna go

922
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: away because we'll be married, you know, And and that

923
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: just didn't happen. He was very unsupportive of my my

924
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: dreams for myself and and really just wanted like a

925
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: stay at home wife, and like didn't really express that

926
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: until like we were already married, and I was like no, no, no, bab,

927
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: like I'm going on tour, like I'm doing this, I'm

928
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: going to Hollywood, like we're you know, and so it

929
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 1: just it didn't work out.

930
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 3: I was pretty young this that my husband.

931
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: Now we were actually about to celebrate our ten year

932
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: wedding anniversary, which is lovely next month. And I think

933
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: that I just like really enjoy him as a human being.

934
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: I think he's a good person, and his red flags

935
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 1: are things like he doesn't like clean up his plate

936
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: immediately after he eats dinner, Like he likes to like

937
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: leave it out and then go watch TV and then

938
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 1: clean it up later in the night.

939
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 3: And that's really annoying to me.

940
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 1: So it's like the red flags are manageable red flags

941
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: instead of the red flags I know we've all had

942
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: in our relationships where you're like a.

943
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Like okay, but we'll

944
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 3: work on that.

945
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,760
Speaker 1: Like I just I didn't want to have to fix anyone,

946
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: and so I just picked someone that was like very

947
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: lovely and very respectful and he's like my biggest fan.

948
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 1: We're having a huge premiere party in Times Square on

949
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: Wednesday night for super Fan and he works with the

950
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,439
Speaker 1: company that is providing the billboard, so he's literally put

951
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: all of his clients and all of his work on

952
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: the back burner to like plan this party for me,

953
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: and he's like, no, no, you got to have your moment, babe.

954
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 1: You work too hard, like just so supportive and so

955
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: that's really meaningful.

956
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,240
Speaker 3: And he's dead sexy.

957
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: He's like six ' six really tall, looks like a

958
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: little British pop star, but he's not.

959
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:40,720
Speaker 2: And I love that, I really, I really do, because

960
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: you're such like a again, like you're just you're a boss,

961
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 2: and like you make things happen, like again, like how

962
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 2: you said, like you don't get the offers, like you

963
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 2: make it happen, and I just like, I love that

964
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 2: so much about you, and to the fact that you

965
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 2: have a man, because for a man that can be

966
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: very intimidating, and the fact that he's there to lift

967
00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 2: you up and and be your supporter, like that's that's beautiful.

968
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 2: So I'm so happy for you that, you know, you know,

969
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 2: I always.

970
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 3: Think of like the j Lo of it all.

971
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: You know, people are like, oh j Lo, like oh,

972
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: she's getting married again or whatever, and I'm just like,

973
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,359
Speaker 1: because it's I think it for a man, it's very

974
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: difficult to be married to j Lo because.

975
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 3: She's doing it all. She's so she doesn't need you.

976
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: She does not need you, you know, and so like

977
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: that's really hard on men. I think, just like not

978
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: to black and white, but I do believe, you know,

979
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: finding someone who's really supportive and really understanding of what

980
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: it takes to be a woman in show business and

981
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: be chasing their dreams, whether that be in music, in television,

982
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 1: in podcasting and whatever like that, it's really hard to

983
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: find that person. So and and those kinds of people

984
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: don't always show their colors.

985
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 3: They fool you.

986
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: They like I've dated people too where they were like,

987
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so proud of you. It's so

988
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 1: cool that you're so busy and you have your own life,

989
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: you're so independent, you don't get jealous, like these are

990
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: all such great things. And then later in the relationship,

991
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: those are the things that came out, the monsters that

992
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: came out, And it was the reason that we split,

993
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: because yes, they fool They fool you into acting like

994
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: they want that independent, strong, powerful woman who's in charge

995
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:11,879
Speaker 1: of her own life, but they don't.

996
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 2: They do in the end, and then they're like I'm like,

997
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 2: oh cool, and then you feel bad for being successful.

998
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 2: Like I remember one time max Is a cup fun

999
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: making money, and I'm like, remember that, I was like,

1000
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 2: what I do I'm to do? I will here making funny.

1001
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 2: One of us needs to try, I mean fun. Yeah,

1002
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 2: but all right, Kelsey, promote it all girl, give us everything.

1003
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 3: Well listen, First of all, thanks so much for having

1004
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 3: me on.

1005
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 1: I'm so excited for you, and I know how huge

1006
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 1: your podcast is, all of you, so congratulations on that.

1007
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: I see you on the charts all the time. People

1008
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: love you, which I love, and now hopefully they'll love

1009
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: super Fan. Superfan airs Wednesday, August ninth. We premiere right

1010
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 1: after Big Brothers, so I know so many people will

1011
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 1: be watching Big Brothers. So if you just stay up

1012
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: till ten Ella cool Ja's the first episode. We have Shanaya,

1013
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 1: we have Pitbull, Gloria's stuff on Little Big Town, Kelsey Ballerini,

1014
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: and and I just need everyone to get out there

1015
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: and vote. And uh and last thing, as a female podcast,

1016
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 1: you know, being a female creator and made me realize

1017
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,439
Speaker 1: that there are so few females creating television and out

1018
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 1: in the world, and so like, if everyone could just

1019
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 1: support this show, because if one female creator can create

1020
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: a hit show, then more females creators can create shows,

1021
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: but right now, it's like they don't even want to

1022
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: take the meeting with you because you're a woman, and

1023
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: so let's good and go.

1024
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 2: I love it. Yes, it's fun. Well wait to watch

1025
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 2: all right, we'll see you soon, honey.

1026
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 3: Thank you guys.

1027
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 2: God. I love Kelty, Love love her.

1028
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 4: She's so so fun.

1029
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 2: She's really fun.

1030
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 4: It's just like a fun like I don't feel like

1031
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 4: we just did an interview. I feel like we just

1032
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 4: like chatted and yeah, I was like, oh wait no.

1033
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 2: I kept trying to like go back and be like, oh,

1034
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 2: I want to ask more questions. And she's always been

1035
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 2: like that.

1036
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 3: I love that.

1037
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 2: She's yeah, so cool, and she's also like she helps

1038
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 2: other people too, Like she'd be like, hey, are you happy?

1039
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 2: Like you know, I'm not saying this to like, but

1040
00:46:58,520 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 2: she reminds me of you in that way.

1041
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:00,399
Speaker 1: Uh huh.

1042
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're very like, no, you're good at this, and

1043
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 2: so you're coming with me. I like it.

1044
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 4: So I have a question. No, I didn't mean to

1045
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 4: cut you off. No, the pinnate from earlier.

1046
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so that's probably not going to be as

1047
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 2: big now. But so I was at a gathering for

1048
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:23,800
Speaker 2: Jolie's for her second grade looping party because she's looping

1049
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 2: with her teacher that she had in first grade, so

1050
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 2: all the kids that won from that class to the

1051
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 2: other class.

1052
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 4: I've never heard of that until I have not heard

1053
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 4: of that until, not until it came up with your teacher.

1054
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 2: So she's because she can teach both first and second

1055
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 2: and so she just loved the class so much and

1056
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 2: she asked to loop with the class. So does that

1057
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 2: just mean repeat, yeah, with the same class, not repeat grade,

1058
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 2: but goes So she's going to second with the same

1059
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 2: teacher class. I never I know, Okay, which I like

1060
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 2: the I like it well, first of all, I mean

1061
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with mister Clund. But like the fact that

1062
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 2: they don't have to go through the whole getting to

1063
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 2: know you phase, Like she knows where each child level

1064
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,919
Speaker 2: is at, so that I think will be helpful where

1065
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 2: because I think jol is a little delayed in reading possibly,

1066
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 2: so I think now that you know, the teacher knows

1067
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 2: like where the kids are at, and so I think

1068
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 2: that's going to be helpful. But remember I hadn't mentioned

1069
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 2: like how Jolie said something about her like quote unquote

1070
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 2: boyfriend and how like, you know, he said something to

1071
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 2: her mom and you know, you know she broke up

1072
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 2: with them because we don't talk. You know, I don't

1073
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 2: know about this. Yeah, you might have been on parenting

1074
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 2: or maternity leave. I don't even know this was. This

1075
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 2: was like a couple of months ago, but it was,

1076
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: you know, he had the kid had said something to

1077
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 2: his mom, and Jeli is like, I'm not going to

1078
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 2: be with him anymore because he talked bad to his

1079
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 2: mom because I always told her. I was like, don't

1080
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 2: ever be with a boy that speaks bad words to

1081
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: their mom or to any woman or to you. You know,

1082
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 2: like you deserve more than that, you know. So I'm

1083
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:56,919
Speaker 2: like trying to like teacher young and she's like we're

1084
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 2: all hanging up. And the mom who's so weed as ever,

1085
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: it was just like so I something came up like

1086
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 2: well I heard you know this her son and Jolie.

1087
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 2: Aren't you know boyfriend girlfriend anymore? I was like, yeah,

1088
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 2: did you hear why? And she was, oh, heard about

1089
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 2: it from the podcast and I was like, oh.

1090
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 3: See, you never know how.

1091
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: I was like, really do we just think no one listens?

1092
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 2: I don't think anyone knew who I am like, knows

1093
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 2: who I am, but I walk around not like thinking

1094
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 2: people know who I am. That's true, you and they

1095
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 2: do know you, you know what I mean, because I'm like,

1096
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 2: why would they know?

1097
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

1098
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just don't think. I'm like whatever

1099
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 2: and so and then I was like, oh crap, and

1100
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: she's like, well, what's funny is one of my friends

1101
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 2: was listening and was like, is that you usually? And

1102
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god. I was like, I've

1103
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 2: gotten you know, I got in trouble with the other thing.

1104
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,720
Speaker 4: I don't think you said anything bad this time that time.

1105
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the other time I did, I shouldn't. That

1106
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 2: was that was you know, I misspoke there, but like

1107
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 2: this time, I'm just like I don't. Yeah.

1108
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 4: Literally, it was like you were just teaching her to

1109
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:00,439
Speaker 4: be right.

1110
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 2: But like I just want to say, like the boys

1111
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 2: of Sweetheart, so I just want to say that I

1112
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 2: really love laws and you were sticking up.

1113
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 4: You were sticking up for the mom because she wasn't speaking,

1114
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 4: he wasn't speaking nicely to the mom, right.

1115
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 2: Sure, yes, but I just want to make sure sure

1116
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 2: trying to help me. Yes, yes, yes, yes, I'm just

1117
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 2: also trying to be like, but he's also a sweet kid,

1118
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 2: like he's in first grade, you know what I mean,

1119
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 2: like like the heaven, give the guy a break.

1120
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 4: They also, I know, right, he hasn't learned yet how

1121
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 4: to be a complete gentleman.

1122
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 2: But I was just like, I am so sorry if

1123
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,919
Speaker 2: I said I just don't remember, like, oh man, that's

1124
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 2: you know, I've learned my lesson from the last time.

1125
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 4: Pretty nice about it.

1126
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 2: Oh so, I mean, she's so sweet, like I feel

1127
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 2: really nervous about today. But then the other mom was

1128
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 2: just like, well, I had no idea who you were,

1129
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, that's how I operate. So well.

1130
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 4: There was a group of them because I went to

1131
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 4: school with one of them.

1132
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 2: That was in that photo.

1133
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 4: Uh huh. That was at dinner one night when me, you, Mario,

1134
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 4: all of us went to dinner and there was a

1135
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 4: group of them that came over to the table.

1136
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 2: I don't remember any of this and took pictures. Okay,

1137
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 2: so very low.

1138
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 4: A good bit of them at school have known who

1139
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 4: you are. Oh, because again I went to school with

1140
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 4: one of them.

1141
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 2: In the photo that I took. The moms, I wonder

1142
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 2: which one I'll let you know. Okay, she's a sweetheart.

1143
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 4: But anyway, she came up that night when y'all were

1144
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 4: with Mario, when we were with Mario at dinner, and

1145
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 4: they like took pictures and stuff. So sweet. But I mean,

1146
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 4: I just don't think I see it doesn't like even

1147
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 4: you're like, oh hey, it doesn't even register with you

1148
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 4: that no people might know who you are.

1149
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 2: A funny thing too, is when I don't save numbers,

1150
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 2: like someone's like, oh, I think our daughters are on

1151
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 2: the same soccer team, and I'm like great, but I

1152
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 2: like Bernie try to.

1153
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 4: Like scroll up like.

1154
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 2: Everyone has like a paragraph in the company line, and

1155
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 2: it is embarrassing when they try to call you and

1156
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 2: they're like, they're like, oh, you need to find your

1157
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 2: phone and they call. It's like Janna Kramer, Jolie's mom,

1158
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 2: met her at the soccer game wearing a pink dress

1159
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 2: and you're like, my bad. Oh fun for the love

1160
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 2: Well came in hot today and we ended ended saucy,

1161
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:10,280
Speaker 2: so saucy.

1162
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 4: Everyone living say, I can't wait to watch it.

1163
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 2: All right, y'all see you next week.

1164
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 3: I