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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the colo. This is from

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Speaker 1: Quinn and Minneapolis. Quinn writes, my husband takes my cell

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Speaker 1: phone at times if he's out, running out to get

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Speaker 1: coffee or anywhere quick. I have nothing to hide, but

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Speaker 1: it's annoying that he grabs my phone. That's over sharing

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Speaker 1: and he needs to take his own phone. Am I

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Speaker 1: overreacting on it?

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Speaker 2: I don't think you are. I don't think you are.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand why.

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Speaker 3: While I'm taking your phone, you ain't got none of

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Speaker 3: my contacts in there.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to talk.

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Speaker 3: None of your friends.

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Speaker 2: That about I. I just don't. I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what that is.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You know it called itself taking the phone.

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Speaker 3: You ain't talking nobody while I'm gone. It could be

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Speaker 3: that insecurity he could be checking your phones whatever. But no,

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Speaker 3: you're not overreacting. It's your phone. To take your phone.

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Speaker 3: Even if you're married, you don't belong to somebody just well,

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Speaker 3: I can't say that.

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Speaker 2: Let me put it to you this way.

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Speaker 3: Just because you're married, you still have to have some

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Speaker 3: things that are yours. You can't give up your individuality completely, right,

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Speaker 3: You know, a woman and a man You deserve your

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Speaker 3: own phone, your own bank account. Every married person should

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Speaker 3: have their own bank account. You got to have something

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Speaker 3: of yours that you can control. You can't just give

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Speaker 3: yourself over to somebody else and let them do what

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Speaker 3: they want to do. Who do that?

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Speaker 4: That ain't fun at all?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Sent me into sum right that left the house with.

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Speaker 5: The phone with it.

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Speaker 4: What that couldn't happen to you.

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Speaker 2: If you had got to run that car off the road?

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Speaker 4: All right? Moving on to Brittany and Northcross.

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Speaker 1: Brittany writes, my dad was not in my life until

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Speaker 1: I got married and had a child. Now he's the

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Speaker 1: best grandfather ever. He was even there for my son's birth,

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Speaker 1: and I got jealous and resentful.

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Speaker 4: Because of that. I'm almost thirty.

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Speaker 1: So should I tell my dad or let go of

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Speaker 1: the past.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but let me

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Speaker 3: just say this. You can ruin your future dwelling on

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Speaker 3: your past. You can do that. I know a lot

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Speaker 3: of people who have done it.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: I know you might have some daddy issues because you

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Speaker 3: didn't have a father. That's very very reasonable, that's very

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Speaker 3: doable in you, and you might have to discuss that

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Speaker 3: with him. But he's grown into a new person. People

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Speaker 3: have a right to change. You're in his life now,

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Speaker 3: he's a great grandfather, you know what I mean? He said, Man,

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Speaker 3: I messed up on trying to get it right. I

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Speaker 3: don't think you're looking at that part. You're only looking

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Speaker 3: at the part of what he didn't do for you. You're

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Speaker 3: not looking at what he's doing for you now and

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Speaker 3: what he's providing for the grandchild. So you can go.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you might as well have a talk with

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Speaker 3: him and just say, hey, look, I felt resentful. Forgive me.

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Speaker 3: I've been thinking these ways. I'm sorry I was upset

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Speaker 3: with you because you weren't there for me. Now you're

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Speaker 3: there all the time, and now I don't know why

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Speaker 3: you mad because he there now though, But people have

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Speaker 3: to deal with issues they way. You might have to

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Speaker 3: bring it up and say something to him about it,

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Speaker 3: or get counseling, which I don't you know, I'm not

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Speaker 3: a counsel type person, but a lot of people are.

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Speaker 3: So you might have to get therapy to talk through

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Speaker 3: the issues about it because him not being there has

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Speaker 3: created something for sure.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Yeah, okay, all right, Celo, thank you for that

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Speaker 1: one Asia in Baltimore says, my boyfriend will take my

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Speaker 1: car to the car wash, but he will not get

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Speaker 1: the inside cleaned and vacuumed.

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Speaker 4: I get tired.

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Speaker 1: I got tired of it, so I hired the young

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Speaker 1: to get back at him.

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Speaker 4: It worked. Am I petty for doing it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? You said, to get back at him and it worked? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: am I petty? Yeah? Yeah, you petty?

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Speaker 2: The next question, all right, the last one, and you

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Speaker 2: know you petty?

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Speaker 1: You said, yeah, yeah yeah. Eric and Dothan writes that

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Speaker 1: my wife talks in her sleep.

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Speaker 3: Dothan, Alabama, thirty one baby, Holiday in Express, Go ahead, shah.

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Speaker 4: My wife? What lounge?

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Speaker 2: Parrot parrot lounge?

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Speaker 3: I'm sticking outside Holiday in Express on two thirty one

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Speaker 3: at Dothan.

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Speaker 1: Okay uh anyway, Eric writes that my wife talks in

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Speaker 1: her sleep, and last night she said, hey, Steve. I

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Speaker 1: assumed it was Steve Harvey because we watched Family Feud

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Speaker 1: before bed. Survey says, my wife is dreaming about you, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Is it normal to dream or fantasize about a.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely not, absolutely not, absolutely not. And she didn't say,

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Speaker 3: Steve Harvey. So you know, it could be Steve Wilco. Uh,

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Speaker 3: he got a show. Used to be Jerry Springer's bodyguard.

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Speaker 1: You yeah, before bed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it could be him. Yeah, it's you. It could be.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of Steve's. I know, you could just

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Speaker 2: be one of them.

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Speaker 3: You could be dreaming about Steve Stout and then that'll

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Speaker 3: be a problem because he ain't that family.

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Speaker 5: But he lived in New York. And then you know, yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's either you of steven A Smith. It's one of

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Speaker 5: the two. But there you go, oh stephen A right here.

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Speaker 2: She would say, no, she wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: There's Steve. They don't they cool? You know?

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Speaker 4: So I don't.

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Speaker 3: I'm not in her dreams. Dog, No I ain't. I

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Speaker 3: ain't finna be that, No, no, sir.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: All the people shout out to Monica Barnes, who was

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Speaker 3: at the golf tournament and who has been on some

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Speaker 3: type of program and looked absolutely amazing yesterday. Shout out

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Speaker 3: to Monica Bard straight out of Mississippi on some type

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Speaker 3: of program and they was on hall at the golf

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Speaker 3: tournament yesterday. They were on hall. Yeah, she was out there,

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Speaker 3: she was out there winning Shirley in college.

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Speaker 4: Get your dub girl a win.

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Speaker 1: She looks great and that's all her own hair, thank you, yes,

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Speaker 1: beauty po And.

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Speaker 3: I told him that too. I said, she's single and

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Speaker 3: that's her hair.

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Speaker 2: That's all.

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Speaker 3: That's her hair.

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Speaker 4: If she bought it is her hair.

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Speaker 3: Now, no, she ain't bought that though. That ain't come

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Speaker 3: out the bag, that comes right out the roots.

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 1: So, uh so you're you're convinced that it wasn't you

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Speaker 1: she was dreaming about.

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Speaker 4: We're all in disagreement.

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Speaker 3: That's way too many, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but they watched Family Feud right before bed. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so it stands to reason that I.

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Speaker 2: Don't they don't stand what you stand to reason me.

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Speaker 4: Because they watched the show.

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Speaker 2: I don't never understood that. He's stand to reason.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't say, you could have been the show.

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Speaker 3: She was on her far, she was on her phone.

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Speaker 3: She was on her phone. She could have been talking

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Speaker 3: about Steve jobs.

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Speaker 4: Everybody in Family Feuds have tast Steve.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're listening, Steve Harvey Morning Show