WEBVTT - Miss Signs, Chaos & Lamb Chops 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:16.040 Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Oh my gosh, 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:20.239 you guys, it's a whole new week, whole new beginning 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:23.960 till the next holiday. They just come at rapid fire 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:28.520 till the new year, don't they. So the last couple 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:31.520 of weeks it's been I feel like I keep talking 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:33.400 about this, but tis the season, and here it's going 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:38.360 around everywhere. My kids have been sick, but it's like 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:42.360 they got sick again. I'm only bringing this up because 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:46.240 it's an interesting pattern of events that lead the way 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:50.120 in this story. Now, this happened last week, so the 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:54.600 timeline might be off slightly from my memory, but. 0:00:56.120 --> 0:00:57.440 Hang on, keep up. Here we go. 0:00:58.400 --> 0:01:05.559 Okay, so Bo gets sick and are pediatrician who I love, 0:01:06.680 --> 0:01:07.400 Doctor Julia. 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:09.720 We call her doctor Julia. Last name is Breckner. 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:14.679 I want to bring Bowen because he is sick and 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:18.000 I want her to swab him for you know, it's 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:20.840 not just COVID anymore. They test for Oh my gosh, 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:23.560 what do they do. It's like the flu, the I 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:26.720 don't know something virus. There's a million different viruses and 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:29.320 bacterias going around at the schools. 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:30.319 You can't keep up. 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.960 So I want to bring him in to see what 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:37.720 he has and if he needs antibiotics, which I hate 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:40.399 giving that, but if he needs it. He was getting worse. 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:43.679 So I go to make it a sick day, same 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:49.280 sick day appointment. And when I reach out, they say, oh, 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:52.520 this is the one day that doctor Julia is not here, 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:56.800 but her brother is here, doctor Dany, who the kids 0:01:56.800 --> 0:02:00.760 have gone to before. They're comfortable with him. I was like, great, 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:02.559 years ago they. 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:02.840 Went to him. 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:08.800 So I take Bo and we go to doctor Danny's office. 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:12.720 And when we get in there, I said, Bo, this 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:15.240 is doctor Danny. You went to him a long time ago. 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:20.480 He's doctor Julia's brother. You'll be really comfortable with him. 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:27.400 And he says to me, your friends with Jess And 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:32.720 I said, Jess ammer my best friend. Yes, and he 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:38.560 said so my daughter is best friends with her daughter, Isabella. 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:40.160 And then it was like. 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:44.880 You know when things come back that you are so 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:48.360 busy in life that you don't take notice of, but 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:52.239 then when it comes back up, they're like, oh, yeah, 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:57.399 now I remember all that. So then I'm like, oh, 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:02.440 that's right. And he said, yes, our daughters had their 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:05.080 birthday party together this year. And I said, I know, 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.960 I was so looking forward to coming and both coming 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:14.200 and I got sick so I couldn't go, And he said, yeah, 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:17.360 I wish you had been able to come because my 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:21.480 mother in law. And then I remember Jess had told 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:26.320 me this like a year ago, missus Christopher. She was 0:03:26.320 --> 0:03:32.160 your teacher in school in fourth grade. And I'm like, oh, 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:36.600 my god, that's right. Jess did tell me. And he's like, yeah, 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:39.560 do you remember her? And I'm like, do I remember her? 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:44.480 She changed my life. I will forever remember her because 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:47.720 she's one of those teachers that we've all had that 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:52.520 stands out to you and for me, at least in 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:59.680 my experience, school was really challenging. My takeaway from school 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:08.360 as an adult was I loved the social experiences. I 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:14.360 loved some of the teachers. I loved that that was 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:19.039 my educational journey, But I hate that that was my 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:24.200 educational journey at the same time, back when I went 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:27.440 to school, I feel like it's so different now, but 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:32.120 kind of not. Now they are letting kids kind of 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:37.919 lead with their creative passions. Well the more school like, 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:40.919 that's more a private school thing. So my kids are 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.880 in the public school system, so it's still I feel like, 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:48.279 not quite there yet, but heading in that direction. But definitely, 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:50.479 when I was young, whether it was public school or 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:55.279 private school, it was like academic everyone got put into 0:04:55.320 --> 0:05:01.839 a box basically. And so I out of high school 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:05.760 thinking I'm just gonna say it. I was really done, 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:08.640 and I was like wow, and that stuck with me, 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:12.000 like the fact that I had to take math three times, 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:15.960 the fact that I was shamed in like an eleventh 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:21.240 grader sitting in a freshman class, like oh like it 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:25.560 just and then the more I got nervous about it, 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.320 the worse I would do and the less I would 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:32.880 absorb of the information. And I think I'm just making excuses. 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:36.120 I'm just not good at math, Like I my second 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:42.880 grader bo like his math. I look at and I freeze. 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.559 But oh no, it's not that I'm not good at math. 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.760 I think I freeze because of my trauma, Like my 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:52.240 school experienced trauma. My brain just sees math and I'm like, 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:55.080 they're all gonna laugh at you. 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:59.760 That was a reference from Carrie. 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:04.400 Anyway, So yeah, so what was I saying? Oh but 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:10.400 missus Christopher was one of those teachers that really made 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.919 me feel good about myself. And gave me confidence in myself, 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:22.240 whereas a lot of my elementary and high school experience 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:27.000 didn't provide that safe, nurturing place for me, if that 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:32.880 makes sense. In high school, in both schools, like in elementary, 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:37.680 in high school, like drama was my thing. I was 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:41.080 very into theater and doing all that. That was kind 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:44.760 of my outlet. And then I would take my love 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:48.200 of that and entertain my friend groups. Like this is 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:50.880 going to be no shocker to anyone, but I was 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:54.720 friends with everybody. 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:55.679 Of course, there's. 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:58.440 Always clicks, but I could kind of be in my 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:03.440 friend group but easily and maneuver in and out to 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:06.960 get along with everybody, and that was that's a skill. 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:13.880 But I just like people for the most part. So yeah, 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:16.640 I would take like what I learned in theater class, 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.640 and I loved Ms Nichols in high school. She was 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:25.000 Wanda Nichols, my drama teacher. I would take the love 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:28.200 of that and like during lunch and Resa's like I 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:30.720 would do characters for people and make them laugh and 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:33.000 like when we had a lot of fun, and so 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:37.720 that was the part I really loved. But again, like 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:40.880 I definitely came out of high school thinking I'm not 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:46.080 a smart girl. I'm a funny girl. I'm a kind girl, 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:53.280 but I don't have educational smarts. That's not a word 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:58.920 or phrase, but that's what just came out. But so 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:02.720 it's taken me along time to really realize that I 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:03.680 am quite bright. 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:05.280 Oh my god, I said it out about. 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:08.960 Oh with a lump in my throat, swallowing hard as 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:14.040 I said that. Let me just cough it out. I'm 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:18.640 smart their world. Oh that felt better. But anyway, I'm 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:21.200 gonna go back to the story. But missus Christopher was 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:24.720 that kind teacher that always believed in me. Perhaps she 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:28.800 I don't really remember, but took extra time to make 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:32.920 me feel safe, nurtured, encourage me, build my confidence when 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:36.280 it was low. And that's a really special thing that 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:39.839 stayed with me my entire life. Okay, so going back 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:42.200 to the story, Doctor Danny, we're at the pediatrician. 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:46.280 Oh, sorry, it's a wild ride. You guys with me 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:46.640 so far? 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.719 So I say, yes, Oh my gosh, please give her 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:53.079 my love, and he. 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:53.840 Said I will. 0:08:54.559 --> 0:09:00.400 So I take bow and we are driving home and 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:03.880 I say to my kids, oh my gosh, it's late. 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:07.240 I don't think I can cook dinner tonight, want me 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:10.800 to pick up food? And they're like, yeah, sushi. And 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.160 for the first time, Bo loves sushi. He could eat 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:16.640 sushi every day at night. He's truly my child. He's like, 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:20.080 I don't really feel like sushi. I'm like, oh my god, 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:20.920 you really are sick. 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:21.920 Wow, Okay. 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:26.080 So I say to him, what would you feel like, 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:31.520 I'll pick up food and he says, oh, mom, I 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:36.319 feel like lamb chops. What like what eight year old 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:41.160 says that? And honestly, like, well, I grew up eating 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:43.200 lamb chops. Oh my gosh, I love them so much. 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:45.679 Like in our house we always had lamb chops, but 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:49.760 it's not a common thing like in our world now, 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:54.000 like like I'm cooking lamb chops weekly, even though this reminds. 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:57.959 Me I want to cook lamb chops. But I say okay. 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:01.720 And then do you guys know when you eat lamb 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.240 chops and they have those little panties, those little paper 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:05.719 ruffle panties. 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:08.680 They put on the end of it where the end 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:09.960 doesn't eat lambs. So she's gonna be. 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:12.000 Like, nope, nope, nope, nope. 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:18.040 Ah man, Eastern I'll know this Easton, You know the panties. 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:23.560 What what. 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:27.640 You know, the little ruffle panties that the paper they 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.000 put on the end of lamb chops so that you 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.400 don't like, quote unquote grease your hands up when you 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:35.080 hold them, even though it's not it's meant to be 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:36.800 held to eat at a restaurant. 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:41.680 I know those, okay too well, So. 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:46.439 Anyway, mint jelly. Nothing beats old school mint jelly with 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:56.480 lamb chops. Anyway, Bo says this, so I'm like, okay, 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:57.200 let's deal with it. 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:57.920 When we get home. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:02.440 As we're driving home, we drive past one of my 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:08.760 favorite restaurants, Monty's Monty's Steakhouse. My dog Monty is actually 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:12.560 named after Monty's. I've been going to monty since I 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:16.400 was a kid. They had three locations. We go to 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:19.719 the one in the Valley now, but growing up, there 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.240 was one in Westwood, so I always went there, went 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:26.959 with my family, then went with my friends and I think, oh, wait, Easton. 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.040 There's one in Pasadena, Yes, or was. 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:32.000 Checking? I think there is. 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:33.240 I think the. 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.240 Original one was there, and I feel like they closed 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:35.880 it down. 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:42.640 Anyway, it closed after sixty six years in two thousand 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:43.160 and seven. 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:47.319 Wow, yes, but it was I know, and they took 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.199 the original boost and they actually brought it to the 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:54.520 Woodland Hills one one. So that's Monty's in a nutshell, 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:58.480 Like who names their dog after a steakhouse? 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:01.640 Me? It's that good. 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:05.600 And it just holds so many family memories, friend memories 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:09.280 and my kids. I have been bringing my kids there 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:14.320 since they were little, and yeah, it's. 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:17.679 Just like it's tradition. So we pass. 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.080 It and I'm like Monty's, Oh my gosh, we haven't 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:22.960 eaten there in a long time. Like my kid's birthdays, 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:26.080 we go there. Like it's Liam's favorite. So every year 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:29.520 for his birthday we go to Monty's. Like his eighteenth birthday, 0:12:29.559 --> 0:12:32.480 we went to dinner with our family and his best 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:38.319 friends for his birthday. So we haven't been there since 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:42.360 March thirteenth. Okay, So I was like, oh, okay Monty's. 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:45.800 Oh I miss Monty's. Oh okay, I can pick up 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:49.720 lamb chops. This sounds excessive, but it can be done. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:53.640 And then I get home and I'm like, guys, who 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:54.760 feels like lamb chops? 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:57.720 Anyone want Monty's. They're like oh yeah, yeah yeah. 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:01.319 So I'm like, oh, you know what I was like bo, 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:02.800 do you want me to pick it up or do 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.559 you want to go? And he wanted to go, so 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:06.480 you're sure you feel okay? So we bundled him up 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:13.720 and we go to Monty's. My kids get their lamb chops. 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:17.280 We all split it like a couple of steaks like 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:21.480 that was happening, and I was just like, oh, miss 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:27.360 Monty's lamb chops. Then it was like such on a 0:13:27.400 --> 0:13:30.600 whim that we decided to do this right Then as 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:36.960 we're leaving, literally we start to leave, I go back 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:41.720 to the table because I forgot my phone, so I'm 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:44.240 looking around and it had fallen under the table. 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:46.840 Safe got it. 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:50.200 But this is such do you guys know the movie 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:54.920 Sliding Doors Gwyneth Paltrow one of my favorite movies. So anyway, 0:13:55.520 --> 0:14:00.800 it shows how like in life, like being can happen, 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.600 and if you were like five seconds later, five seconds earlier, 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:09.840 it alters the future. That sound a cuckoo, but you 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:12.640 know what I mean. So anyway, because I dropped my 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:16.600 phone because I went back, I now walk out and 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:21.520 walk right into someone I have not seen since my twenties, 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:23.120 Linda Murray. 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.800 She we were super good friends. 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:28.840 She was my next door neighbor at my very first 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:32.000 apartment I moved into when I was eighteen and a half. 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:35.440 The door Chester, not the will Shure that I talk about, 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:38.440 a lot that was like a few doors down. This 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:42.960 was my first one. Literally have not seen her since, 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:48.000 oh my gosh, like my twenty first birthday. So I'm like, whoa, 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.240 oh my gosh. I said, what are the chances? I 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:54.320 can't believe we're walking into each other right now, and 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:56.240 she's like, I know, this is crazy. 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.800 So I say. 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:01.920 We exchange numbers and have been texting ever since. But 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:05.200 I'm like, wow, that was such a bizarre what are 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:09.120 the chances? But there are no chances right, Like it 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.720 was meant to happen, so very cool. And we used 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:15.320 to go to Monty's and Westwood together. That's that reference 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:19.840 with her. Anyway, we get in the car, we go home, 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:22.400 and I'm just like, wow, this has been like a 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:26.440 wildly crazy day of like things are happening and signs 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:33.120 like you're talking about signs. So cut forward the next day, 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:36.840 I go down to get medicine caps random I know, 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:42.600 to give bo medicine and I open up a drawer. 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:45.280 Now in my house, well, you guys know me, well, 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:48.680 I'm not organized like random where things are like nothing 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:51.800 makes sense in my world, but everything makes sense, if 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:56.800 that makes sense. I open up a drawer in the 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:59.960 kitchen where the medicine caps are, and in the back 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:04.280 the drawer there's a pack of lamb chop panties, the 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:05.840 ruffle panties I was describing. 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.040 Now, that's insane short of gut. 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:14.680 So literally, I know, I like bought them at some 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:17.640 point from Amazon or something, never used, and like when 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.560 I make lamb chops one day. Growing up, we always 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:24.240 like my family put these ruffle panties on. But the 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:26.520 timing of it. I just opened the drawer. 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:27.520 I see it there. 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:30.120 I haven't seen it since. I guess I put it 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:33.320 there at some point in the past, and I'm. 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:34.960 Like, oh my god. 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.680 But typically I'm moving so fast I wouldn't have seen, 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:41.720 and I like slowed down to be like look and 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:45.960 saw that. I was like, Wow, that's a funny coincidence. 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:47.280 Take note of that. 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:54.280 Then I went I went forward with my day. Five 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:58.360 o'clock that day, my brother Randy sends me a video. 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:02.440 We have not talked about any of this, and he 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:05.720 and his daughters my nieces, are making lamb chops. 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:09.040 No way. 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:13.560 Yeah, I think it's crazy, like the two siblings have 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:16.600 the lamb chop thing almost more than any of the 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:19.200 other coincidences that the two of your brains. 0:17:19.960 --> 0:17:25.840 You know, Yeah, interesting, that's. 0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:27.439 Just because you always go back to what you like 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:35.480 eat growing up, because it's like a comfort level, right, Yeah, yeah. 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:35.080 Here's wal lamb chops. 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:39.680 Sorry, but I make other things that are like comfort food. 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:44.159 It's more relatable, like my chicken fried steak. 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.800 Anyway, he's making lamb chops and I'm like, oh my gosh, 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:51.000 and I'm just laughing. First of all, it looked so good, 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:54.480 but I was like, my mouth's watering right now thinking 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:55.879 about them. 0:17:56.320 --> 0:17:58.680 But I was like, wow, that's so funny. 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.800 And lately, my brother and I have been talking a 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:08.359 lot about taking time to really like I think I 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:13.640 talked about Halloween, Like my Halloween costume was made from 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:14.560 I was a pizza. 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:16.120 But it came for me. 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:19.600 Like rushing through Target to grab something else, seeing a 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:22.680 dog toy and being like why does my brain want 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:25.800 me to stop and pay attention to that, And then 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:29.520 I'm like, oh, okay, that's my costume. So like, I've 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:32.119 really been trying to take in like random things like 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:36.720 is a deja vu? Is it just like add or ADHD? 0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:39.600 Like why am I not focused? Like or am I 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:41.680 supposed to be focus on certain things and take note 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:41.960 of them. 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:42.960 That's all. 0:18:44.240 --> 0:18:49.560 Anyway, So he makes lam chops. They look amazing and anyway, 0:18:49.760 --> 0:18:56.919 Then the next take Bo has to go back because 0:18:57.520 --> 0:19:02.240 hit doctor Danny says he has something. We need to 0:19:02.240 --> 0:19:05.200 put him on antibiotics. But I want to put him 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:13.080 on an antibiotic that that does not resistant to this stream, okay, 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:15.320 And he said, so I need him to come back in. 0:19:15.400 --> 0:19:17.320 Is there any way you could get him back in? 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:20.199 And I was like, oh my gosh, of course, Like 0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:22.879 I'm driving a million kids, doing a million things working 0:19:22.920 --> 0:19:25.960 and I'm like and I'm like, yep, I'll get him in. 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:29.800 So ruth Anna remembers this because I feel like I 0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:32.239 had to like change meetings and stuff around that day. 0:19:32.280 --> 0:19:37.840 I remember, yep, yep, oh boy, but my kid's health, 0:19:37.920 --> 0:19:42.320 like they come first. So I go home and I say, 0:19:42.720 --> 0:19:45.879 because all the kids are home because it's you know, 0:19:46.200 --> 0:19:51.719 the holiday break, And I say, guys, I my gut 0:19:51.760 --> 0:19:55.359 is telling me that we should all go in and 0:19:55.520 --> 0:19:58.800 it'll take five seconds I'm like pitching to them why 0:19:58.800 --> 0:20:00.919 this is a good idea to maintain their health? Like 0:20:01.000 --> 0:20:03.200 what why not just say, guys, get the car go. 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:07.359 So I'm like, but I me being me, I'm over talking, 0:20:07.440 --> 0:20:13.240 I'm overthinking, not over mommy. If I was over mommy, 0:20:13.320 --> 0:20:15.479 I again would have said let's just get in my car. 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:18.800 So I said, something is telling me that we you 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:21.639 guys should all get a swab. Doctor Danny said, everyone 0:20:21.680 --> 0:20:24.960 come in and since I'm going with bo anyway, we 0:20:25.000 --> 0:20:31.720 should go. So they all you know him in haw 0:20:31.880 --> 0:20:35.840 but they they do it. The one that was really 0:20:35.920 --> 0:20:41.679 resistant was your ring bear, ruth An Finn. Finn was 0:20:41.760 --> 0:20:44.640 ruth Anne's ring bear. What year did you and Tom 0:20:44.680 --> 0:20:45.200 get married? 0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:49.480 Twenty seventeen and Finn, I'm. 0:20:49.400 --> 0:20:51.120 Gonna count on my fingers because I don't do math. 0:20:51.600 --> 0:20:53.400 He was four wait, no, no, no. 0:20:53.200 --> 0:20:56.240 Oh five. 0:20:57.480 --> 0:20:59.920 So Finn was five and he was the ring bear 0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:01.760 in their wedding and it was amazing. 0:21:02.080 --> 0:21:05.040 He was so cute, Oh my god, it's cute. 0:21:05.080 --> 0:21:07.960 And he was so nervous, Oh my gosh. 0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:09.919 And he did such a perfect job. 0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:12.760 He did a great job. 0:21:14.000 --> 0:21:16.399 But so I like to think that Ruthanne has a 0:21:16.400 --> 0:21:19.439 special place in her heart for Finn. I do I know, 0:21:21.680 --> 0:21:23.080 Oh my god, you can't pick favorites. 0:21:23.480 --> 0:21:26.200 Is that my favorite? There is no favorite. I love 0:21:26.240 --> 0:21:28.160 them all, but he has a special place in my life. 0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:30.240 I mean, he's my favorite. 0:21:30.480 --> 0:21:30.679 I know. 0:21:30.720 --> 0:21:37.600 I'm kidding him, railing you up. So Finn is like, 0:21:38.560 --> 0:21:42.200 I'm not sick. I said, I've heard you cough. He's like, 0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:44.600 I have allergies, mom, And I was like, I don't know. 0:21:44.680 --> 0:21:48.639 Something just told me Finn is the one. Finn is 0:21:48.680 --> 0:21:51.040 the truth and one no. Finn needs to go. So 0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:52.400 I'm like, okay, well. 0:21:52.320 --> 0:21:54.120 It doesn't matter. Let's just all go. 0:21:54.280 --> 0:21:58.800 So he agrees to go. Got him off his gaming 0:21:58.800 --> 0:22:04.200 console for an hour, so anyway, we all go. All 0:22:04.280 --> 0:22:08.320 five of them get swabbed, and doctor Danny says, I'll 0:22:08.359 --> 0:22:18.359 have the results in a day. So the next day, 0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:21.879 doctor Danny texts me and he says, I'm with my 0:22:22.000 --> 0:22:26.840 mother in law. She sends her love as well. She 0:22:27.119 --> 0:22:32.280 said she will never forget when she was pregnant with 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:33.880 my wife. 0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:36.080 The gift that you gave her. 0:22:36.600 --> 0:22:38.520 I don't remember any of this, but I'm like, oh 0:22:38.560 --> 0:22:43.080 my gosh, what was it? And he said it's a blanket, 0:22:43.400 --> 0:22:46.600 and she still has it, and he sends me a 0:22:46.640 --> 0:22:49.760 picture of the blanket from Neiman Marcus and he's like, 0:22:49.840 --> 0:22:54.480 it's in my wife's like memory collection, and you, guys, 0:22:55.160 --> 0:22:57.280 I want to pull this up to give the exact 0:22:57.320 --> 0:23:01.520 wording because it's wild now, just to refresh the story 0:23:01.520 --> 0:23:04.080 in case you can't keep up, because this is kind 0:23:04.080 --> 0:23:08.000 of all over the place in wild. Doctor Danny's wife, 0:23:08.880 --> 0:23:11.639 her mother was the teacher that changed my life in 0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:18.359 fourth grade. Missus Christopher, doctor Danny is my pediatrician's brother, 0:23:19.240 --> 0:23:24.480 and he and my best friend Jess have kids that 0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:29.200 are best friends. Okay, I'm moving on. Okay, So he says, 0:23:29.320 --> 0:23:33.400 this is from missus Christopher. Here is the infamous Tory 0:23:33.520 --> 0:23:36.600 spelling blanket that I loved so much. It came in 0:23:36.640 --> 0:23:39.800 a beautiful gift basket from Neiman Marcus with another blanket 0:23:39.800 --> 0:23:43.639 that was yellow and white, an adorable musical lamb and 0:23:43.680 --> 0:23:51.480 a onesie woamb whoa lamb? What are the chances this 0:23:51.640 --> 0:23:53.960 is like a game of charades, you guys? Or what's 0:23:54.000 --> 0:23:56.399 that game when you like whisper the word and like 0:23:56.840 --> 0:23:58.960 the word is the poem. 0:23:59.200 --> 0:24:00.600 The past word it is? 0:24:01.000 --> 0:24:06.320 Do you remember that I'm a cable guy that's crazy. 0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:10.240 Okay. 0:24:10.800 --> 0:24:13.879 So he also says I have the results. Can you 0:24:13.880 --> 0:24:16.680 get on the phone, And I'm like yes, So I 0:24:16.720 --> 0:24:18.440 get in the phone. This guy's very funny by the way, 0:24:18.440 --> 0:24:19.879 I can tell he's like one of mine, you know. 0:24:20.320 --> 0:24:21.720 So I'm like, okay, so. 0:24:22.200 --> 0:24:24.720 I can always read people. So I get on the phone. 0:24:25.040 --> 0:24:27.880 And I could hear like kids in the background, and 0:24:27.920 --> 0:24:31.639 he's like, you know, multitasking and he's like, oh, sorry, 0:24:31.640 --> 0:24:34.639 I'm you know, I'm sorry. I'm with the kids, like, 0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:36.920 and he's telling one like he has like young kids 0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:37.600