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Speaker 1: This is John, this is them Okay Storytime podcast hosts,

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Speaker 1: and we have some good story's coming up for you.

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Speaker 1: That's right. But before that, we have a little more

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Speaker 1: keeping the show delicious. Hmmm, I found my wife spicy

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Speaker 1: photo with a male model.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like it's time to move on.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness. Well, this is such a complicated issue, so

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Speaker 1: I will do my best to make it complete. But short,

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Speaker 1: my wife is great friends with one of our city's

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Speaker 1: high end wedding photographers named Gina sixties or so. She

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Speaker 1: is supremely talented and also a nice person. We've got

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Speaker 1: huge discounts on everything from wedding to baby family pictures.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Mike twelve and if

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Speaker 1: the r slash Okay Storytime cebreddits. So, my wife recently

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Speaker 1: lost all her baby weight and became really fit by

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Speaker 1: following a low carb diet and doing a natural movement

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Speaker 1: workout plan.

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Speaker 2: How natural is this?

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Speaker 1: It is hunting and for a we find, we hunt,

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Speaker 1: we pick, we eat.

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's your dream diet right there. It really went wrong.

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Speaker 2: Anything you can find outside and you can actually eat it.

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Speaker 2: Do you know how many squirrels I'd be eating? So

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Speaker 2: many squirrels are around here. No, Riley, you can't touch them.

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Speaker 1: That's correct, go back home for that. Gina asked her

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Speaker 1: to come to do a boudoir shoot for her so

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Speaker 1: she could put my wife's pictures on her website as

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Speaker 1: an example of a fit and sexy mom. And by

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Speaker 1: the way, a boudoir shoot is kind of like a.

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Speaker 3: It's like a saloon photo shoot.

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Speaker 2: You know, something you would do with your mom. I've

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Speaker 2: seen so many people do with their moms. They're like,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, me my mom, just do this.

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Speaker 3: Look.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, that's fun.

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Speaker 1: We had many, many discussions, and I was all for

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Speaker 1: it right from the beginning because it's hot. My wife

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Speaker 1: was worried about employers, friends and family seeing them, but

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Speaker 1: eventually she figured she'd worked hard, there would be no

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Speaker 1: nudity and what back, why not. It's very important to

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Speaker 1: know that. We talked about this nightly for at least

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Speaker 1: a week and went over everything eventually, and I thought

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Speaker 1: everything was on the table.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's saying, no, you don't do it with your mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying I think it's a more

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Speaker 1: I don't think this is like a fun little cowboy shoe.

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Speaker 1: I think this is a more risque.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is that then, because I see they're like

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Speaker 2: the cowboy shoots and then the mom has like.

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Speaker 3: That's so different, my guy, what is it gold? That's

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Speaker 3: a totally different thing. Well, that's what's maybe a saloon

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Speaker 3: I don't know if the official name of it, but yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think this is a little more, a little more risque.

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Speaker 1: Don't do this with your mom. Don't watch the move.

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Speaker 1: Not the move, ladies and gentlemen. So the pictures are stunning.

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Speaker 1: Gina hired a spectacular makeup artist, and my wife looks

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Speaker 1: like a supermodel. I mean, they are spectacular pictures. Minimal

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Speaker 1: photoshop too. When the picks went up on the site,

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Speaker 1: Gina sent me a very classy hardbound book of the

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Speaker 1: pictures with a note, thank you for being so cool

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Speaker 1: with this. It's one of my favorite things have ever done.

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Speaker 1: That's a very sweet, thoughtful.

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Speaker 2: Touch, and I wish it would end here.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, Riley, the story is not even ten percent over. Literally,

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Speaker 1: so much left to go. He's gonna like open the

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Speaker 1: next page. It's gonna be like man doing whatever here.

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Speaker 3: I'll find you, guys an example to give you.

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Speaker 2: Guys, can you show everyone or just us? Okay, we're

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Speaker 2: about to get pictures of what this is. Everyone like,

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Speaker 2: we all don't have never seen anything like this before.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of boudoir shoot in my life.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, that's as safe as you can get.

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Speaker 2: I'm a little bothered looking at it exactly. This is

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Speaker 2: not a yeah, not to do it with your mom.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Auntie PSA, please, No, he put it on there.

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Speaker 2: Everyone telling he put it on there.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So getting back to the story here. Important to

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Speaker 1: note on the timeline here. Picks were taken in May.

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Speaker 1: Picks went on the website in late June. I got

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Speaker 1: the book this week. My wife is out of town

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Speaker 1: I got an email from Gina which basically said, happy

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Speaker 1: fourth of July. I wanted you to go through these

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Speaker 1: digital proofs to if there's any others you'd like. It

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Speaker 1: why didn't these make it into my book? And when

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Speaker 1: So basically it seems like I think they're both naked

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Speaker 2: I got you and is good enough to be in

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Speaker 1: That's what the fabio like. We're dealing with a straight

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Speaker 2: And she did not tell Hubby about this.

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Speaker 1: It was not a explicit it was like, hey, there's

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Speaker 1: risque or whatever. Yeah, he got photos. He did not

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Speaker 1: get this photo hot take, cheating, cheating, cheating, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think this is just listen, I'll explain it more.

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Speaker 1: There's some there's some people that be doing some dances

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the perception of this if I saw this, if

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Speaker 2: that's not her boyfriend. That's crazy. That looks different because

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Speaker 2: Also in the context like why did she not tell

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Speaker 1: That's I think the issue that were That's the big

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And B why didn't I know about it after

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Speaker 1: So with these I was like, okay, but with all

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Speaker 1: His hands are definitely on her front airbags. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: he's holding her from behind with his hand just out

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Speaker 2: Okay, I would like stuff. I would like a pull

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Speaker 2: after hearing more, John, where are you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is definitely like you needed explicit, explicit,

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's a form of cheating, not break

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Speaker 1: Oh I see what you're saying. You're saying I thought

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Speaker 1: at first I thought you were saying, like, oh, she's

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Speaker 1: you're saying that this kind of thing is cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a mistrust, like I am gonna have

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Speaker 2: a hard time trusting you now. Cheating is like here,

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Speaker 2: and then this is like here level of trust. What

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Speaker 2: if your girlfriend did this?

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Speaker 1: It's I mean, I know, I like, like personally, when

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Speaker 1: I want my my girlfriend doing this, absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: When she did do this and not tell you about it.

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Speaker 2: When you feel like it's cheating, I wouldn't call it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if cheating is the right word of

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Speaker 3: The best example of that was Fifty Shades, Like the

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent. We also have a pull up cheating

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Speaker 3: or naw that Kean just put up. Yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: What do you think? What's your vote? I know if Carly.

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Speaker 3: Asked me and told me like all like, hey, this,

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Speaker 3: what's his notion? If it's just professional work? Still if

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Speaker 3: my back, I'm I'm upset.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm upset. And I think I would be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with this. You know what do you think?

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Speaker 2: I got some people on my side. All right, we're

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Speaker 2: we're gonna get back into the store.

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Speaker 1: We might get more details too, So okay, that might

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Speaker 1: that might grow your cheating your cheating up. But guys,

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Speaker 1: if your vote is cheat, comment below, why yes, let

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Speaker 1: us know Riley is trying to rally his troop. Okay, so,

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Speaker 1: by far the worst is the very last picture, where

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Speaker 1: it's just a picture of her butt with his face

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Speaker 1: and the top of her thong in his teeth, sort

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Speaker 1: the pictures absolutely stunned for thirty minutes. That's lot, dude.

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Speaker 1: I emailed Gina the photographer, saying, basically, Gina, what is this?

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Speaker 1: This is way more than I thought it was going

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Speaker 1: to be. She has not replied, and I tried to

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Speaker 1: log back in and my password has been changed. Okay,

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Speaker 1: now it seems like a cover up. Gina won't send

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Speaker 1: me another one. So I tried to call my wife,

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Speaker 1: So what's the poll right now? Riley really wants to

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Speaker 1: Sheeting sixty nine percent. Noah for Riley. We will do

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Speaker 1: another pole. We will do another pole. I will say Denise, Denise,

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Speaker 2: It's just messed up. It's like hiding it and then

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Speaker 1: If you would like give the thumbs up to do it.

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Speaker 1: But if like, if you're in Opie's position now, like

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Speaker 3: I'm still like I gotta I feel like it's not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there are horn stars, yeah that are married that

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Speaker 2: MJ. Grove not cheating, but keeping secrets like that is

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Speaker 2: definitely not okay, A little bit down, Sorry, I'm going down,

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Speaker 2: okay right here. Red bull Rana says, why the deliberate

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Speaker 2: and someone else said snorty and Catnip says, remember they

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Speaker 3: Again, it could be the potential that maybe the photographer

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Speaker 1: here and is like trying to cover it up. It's

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Speaker 1: a breach of trust. All of that jazz. This is

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Speaker 2: I'm interested to hear her justification.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear what she says first, until I

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Speaker 1: Well, we've got enough go So I've been getting tons

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Speaker 1: which is crazy. Part of this was she was busy.

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Speaker 2: Wait, who's they good question?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. She was busy at a lake with

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Speaker 1: We're getting the other side of the coin here playing

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Speaker 1: back the episode with the other character. So Gina again,

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Speaker 1: the photographer had mentioned that if my wife was interested

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Speaker 1: My wife, Nicki is the one who suggested that she

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Speaker 1: So they did that. It went really well, and the

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Speaker 1: Nicki says it was a huge mistake not to call me,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there was an alcohol involve.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think to like, I mean, for short,

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Speaker 2: Bro on call too. She was like, I'm not interested

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Speaker 2: Who's there within the hour?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with in the hour. That's hm hmm, yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: like this this is fishy. So the dude shows up,

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Speaker 1: Size but my Wife nicki says he was an absolute,

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Speaker 1: to the. Proofs at this, POINT i demanded to see

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Speaker 1: and there they, were ten or so more past the original. Fifty,

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Speaker 2: Physician, yay that's what you wanted to. See why are

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Speaker 1: Yeah this is, oh this is so because like we've

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Speaker 1: right we've had all these cheating, stories right is it

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Speaker 1: better the cheating stories where they just hear about it

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Speaker 2: Like, hey can we, like CAN i? Pause i'm good,

431
00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,880
Speaker 2: Here i'm not. Comfortable if this was, filmed this would

432
00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:47,320
Speaker 2: be the intro of a. Corno, yeah, yeah. DUDE i

433
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,919
Speaker 2: asked her to promise me there weren't more and it

434
00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:53,119
Speaker 2: didn't go any further than, That so she said it

435
00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,159
Speaker 2: didn't that the GUY i never even took off his.

436
00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,720
Speaker 2: UNDERWEAR i asked if it turned her. On she, said

437
00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,600
Speaker 2: in a physical sense of feeling skin on sinks it

438
00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 2: did turn her, On but on an emotional, level she

439
00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 2: was terrified of WHAT i would think and it was

440
00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,600
Speaker 2: so business, like there was nothing organic happening at.

441
00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 1: ALL i told her this was all so. Fishy because

442
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,560
Speaker 1: the shoot happened In, May she's had almost six weeks

443
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,720
Speaker 1: to tell me maybe. More she says that she just

444
00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,920
Speaker 1: couldn't find the, words but was really working on. It, oh.

445
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 2: That's a hard one to.

446
00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:24,679
Speaker 1: Trust, yeah THAT'S i think she might have taken this.

447
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:28,199
Speaker 1: One do the. Grave Her ingina were locked in on

448
00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:31,840
Speaker 1: the secret to the too six feet? Deep oh, man

449
00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:36,200
Speaker 1: almost as deep as the model. Went, Okay so now

450
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,880
Speaker 1: the thing that's sort of gross is that our spicy

451
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,719
Speaker 1: sleep life has been, amazing AND i think that the

452
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,879
Speaker 1: correlation is about when the photo shoot.

453
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 2: Happened, oh she saw something she. Likes.

454
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 1: Uh, oh she's gonna use that in her. Mind oh,

455
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:58,400
Speaker 1: God oh that's not. Good, wow thanks. KEONK i sees

456
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 1: it LIKE i had attributed it more towards our son

457
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 1: finally sleeping more than three hours at a. Time but

458
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:06,919
Speaker 1: Now i'm not. Sure part of me thinks that she

459
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 1: was seriously turned on by the whole thing and took

460
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,879
Speaker 1: that out quote unquote on. ME i told HER i

461
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 1: wanted her to swear to me that she doesn't know

462
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,199
Speaker 1: this guy from anything, prior hasn't kept in touch with him,

463
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: since and has no plans to in the. Future and

464
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 1: so she said the guy actually brought up his girlfriend

465
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,360
Speaker 1: with him to the, shoot and she was a gorgeous

466
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 1: volleyball player for the local. University and she's pretty sure

467
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 1: that he's not trading a six to one voluptuous volleyball

468
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 1: player for a thirty year old mother with a thirteenth

469
00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,400
Speaker 1: month old. Baby, okay what are looking for trades? Here

470
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: this is that's not the?

471
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,439
Speaker 2: Focus, like, yeah it was.

472
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 1: Not now back to the. STORY i asked if the

473
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 1: girlfriend actually watched the. Shoot my Wife nikki said the

474
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 1: girl was in the, room but sat and scrolled on

475
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: her phone and seemed bored by the whole. THING i

476
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:51,879
Speaker 1: asked who else was in the. Room she said it

477
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 1: was Just gina and her assistant who held the lights and.

478
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 1: Such after some surfing Around gina's main sight and finding

479
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 1: other things the guy had done for, her we were

480
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,120
Speaker 1: able to find his In facebook. Page to this, Guy,

481
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,479
Speaker 1: dude this guy is torturing. Himself he's a college student

482
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: and certainly does appear to be dating a very attractive

483
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: college volleyball. PLAYER i asked What gina was going to

484
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 1: do with those, pictures because to, me it was crazy

485
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 1: That nikki was initially hesitant to even do the boudoir

486
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 1: shoots because of people seeing her to taking what essentially

487
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 1: appears to be softcore in less than a, week that

488
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: WHICH i would also totally agree with, That like she

489
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,360
Speaker 1: was even iffy about doing the spicy photo shoot to begin.

490
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 1: With then you bring in, this you, know almost nude

491
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 1: ripped six' three male model and his underwear is in.

492
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: His, Teeth gina, come on what are we? Doing here?

493
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 1: Come on trying to?

494
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 2: Get, more also what is This benefiting? Gina for what

495
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 2: is she doing with?

496
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: This concert or SHE can i don't know. SELL it

497
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 1: i don't. KNOW photographers i do not feel Good about.

498
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 2: GINA whatsoever i would know her intention, of it because

499
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 2: wouldn't you just want to get those photos and then.

500
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 1: Be done, she's, Like well i'm sure she's doing it

501
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: for some some sort of purpose other than just sending It. To,

502
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 1: ope YEAH because i thought that was what she was,

503
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: gonna do and she sent over. The book but that

504
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 1: was just like a like, a trinket you KNOW what.

505
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't like. THE purpose i don't think

506
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,120
Speaker 1: it was the purpose. Of it because the other guy

507
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: is a. PROFESSIONAL model i think these are gonna be

508
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:12,479
Speaker 1: sold their.

509
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: Use somewhere does everyone know about that, part TOO because,

510
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 2: I mean i don't want pictures of my wife being.

511
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:22,239
Speaker 1: Sold everywhere, that's yeah one, hundred percent that's that is

512
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 1: not many people would agree, with that, so well we're

513
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: gonna get a genus out of the. Story here so

514
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,439
Speaker 1: she Said that gena the photographer had no plans for

515
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: the pictures, at all that they weren't going to be. Posted,

516
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 1: anywhere okay so actually these spicy photos are not going to.

517
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 1: Be posted they were done justice test Shoots since gina

518
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: is getting backed into badoir and couples photo shoots and

519
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: the male model oder, a favor so it was a

520
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 1: great time. TO practice, i asked why not ask me to?

521
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:50,959
Speaker 1: Do it she said she didn't have a good answer.

522
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: For that that kind of, makes, IT like i don't

523
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 1: know if that's better or makes it even worse because

524
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: it was. So unnecessary it's like you're, just practicing just

525
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: practice when you do, the shoot like you don't you

526
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: don't get to like do that. To, people yeah.

527
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,959
Speaker 2: Exactly implic if you're, doing couples you probably not all

528
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 2: the guys are gonna look like a six y three.

529
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 2: Muscular guys just.

530
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: Just do the couples do give someone, a discount and

531
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 1: it's the, first one and then do the n new

532
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,120
Speaker 1: more cosy And then jamie.

533
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: The photographer a, Professional, here yes offer doing boudoirs for

534
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 2: both males, and FEMALES but i couldn't include the opposite

535
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 2: sex and shot unless it was with the person's.

536
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,919
Speaker 1: Significant other we Have from jamie the, photography chick that

537
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: is like verified photographer advice who has done boudoir shoots. As,

538
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: well boom you heard it, here, First FOLKS so, I,

539
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 1: Asked obviously ginatt already made one huge mistake sending them

540
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: to me or uploading them in my private. Proof page

541
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: how do we know she's not going to make another

542
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 1: huge mistake and send it to the wrong person and

543
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 1: or forget that these were just practice and sell them to.

544
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: Someone else get. Good questions My wife nikki said that

545
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: we are just going to have to. Trust her, oh

546
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 1: uh there's not too much. TRUST there i don't know about.

547
00:24:58,920 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 3: That.

548
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: ONE yeah i TOLD her i was having a really

549
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: hard time trusting anyone at, that MOMENT and i would

550
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 1: need more. Than that nicki said that we could Talk

551
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: to gina at the first Opportunity. ON monday, i said

552
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 1: would she be willing to pay a lawyer to drop

553
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: a contract To keep gina to? Her word she said.

554
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: She would then we got into why? The secrecy she

555
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: said that she felt so guilty after the whole thing

556
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: that she had no idea how to, tell me and

557
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 1: she knew she was going to see her family, this

558
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,959
Speaker 1: week so she had hoped to put off. The SUBJECT

559
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: that's i think where she was at the lake house

560
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 1: with the they they was mom. And, dad, Okay. GOOD

561
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: yeah i asked her how she found OUT that. I

562
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: knew she Said that gina had called Her late wednesday

563
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: confessing that she had really screwed up MY wife nicki

564
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: claims at this point she went into full panic mode

565
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,679
Speaker 1: and pretty much was either crying or claiming up around

566
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: everyone because she felt. SO ashamed i told her how

567
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 1: much the silence almost, destroyed me and she started crying

568
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: and said she was so sorry for the, whole thing

569
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 1: and she knew she screwed up and basically begged me

570
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 1: not to, leave her and that she still had more

571
00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: love for me than she had, for anyone which leads

572
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:05,719
Speaker 1: me to the, next poll divorce? Or not divorce?

573
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 2: Or not she said she.

574
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: WAS sorry i don't think this is a divorce. TERRITORY

575
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: yet i definitely think, it's, like hey we need to

576
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: rebuild the, trust here because not only was the, trust broken,

577
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: but like, for instance, she's, like oh we'll have To.

578
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: Trust gina it's, like, no, no, no, No no like we

579
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: need to like figure. This out we need to do

580
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: some work here to actually get a solution. In PLACE

581
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: and i, was, like well we, tried nothing so that's

582
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: all we. Can.

583
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 2: Do now i've been pulling Up to. Gina's, house, HEY

584
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 2: uh i want to see those pictures and then get. M.

585
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:41,439
Speaker 1: Deleted, right, Yeah so. OPIE says i TOLD her i

586
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: believe that she, loved me believed that she was acknowledging,

587
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: her mistake BUT that i felt like uber disrespected and

588
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: emasculated by the. Whole thing she said she could appreciate

589
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: that and would do whatever she could to make it up.

590
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: TO me i, TOLD her i just wasn't sure what that.

591
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: Meant yet she started crying and again begged me not

592
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: to make any rash decisions about. LEAVING her, i said

593
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: if she promised she would telling, the truth and it

594
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 1: seems like she. Is that i'm not, leaving Her but

595
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: i'm not sure what normal will look like for. Us

596
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: now she said she'd be willing to do whatever it

597
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: takes or wait however long for me to figure. It

598
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: out so here's where. We're at our son woke up

599
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: since sleep schedule was messed out from, the drive so

600
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: she's tending, to Him and i'm. WRITING this i guess

601
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: aside from the lie of a mission about the, whole

602
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 1: thing she's never been dishonest, With ME so i believe

603
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: her about all of. THE details, i mean they seem

604
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: so crazy as to, be true and that a lie

605
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: would be more, like normal if that makes. ANY sense

606
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 1: i THINK basically opi saying like she Admitted, TO hey

607
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 1: I felt i was turned on on skin, on skin

608
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: but like, not emotionally and like like.

609
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 2: Makes sense all.

610
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: Of it It's it's he's like it's almost like she's

611
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: incriminating herself now to a point where like it feels

612
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: like the truth versus like what a lie.

613
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 2: Would, Be yeah i'd want to look at those other

614
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 2: photos to make sure she is, looking ashamed because.

615
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: She did he did look at all the other photos.

616
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 2: And she did.

617
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: LOOK terrified, I mean opie didn't, confirm that but that

618
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: was that was when the missionary position came Up, at yeah.

619
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 2: Because if she's she's, stayed silent she hasn't necessarily kind.

620
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 2: Of lied she lying more to get herself out of the,

621
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 2: Hole too that's.

622
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: The THING and i Mean like op's, basically, like hey

623
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: with all of the context of, OUR relationship i think

624
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: she's telling, the TRUTH but i think But, all op

625
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 1: he's also SAYING like i don't know what normal, looks like,

626
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: and like how we're going to rebuild this trust because

627
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: RIGHT now i don't think the trust.

628
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 3: Is.

629
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 2: There, yeah no definitely couple's therapy, For.

630
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 1: Yes and, even honestly the Comment about gina too is

631
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: like a red flag where, it's like are you not

632
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: like that's part of this, Whole thing like we want to.

633
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: MAKE sure i want to make Sure, That gina like

634
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: we can't just sit here and. Do nothing we Can't

635
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: let gina. Do whatever, BUT anyway. I digress i still

636
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: feel gross about the. Whole thing another guy's touched my

637
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: wife's front, air bags my wife has let another man's

638
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: breath on, her neck and another guy's laid on top

639
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: of her and several. Different positions if you catch. My

640
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 1: drift we can never be a married couple that can

641
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: say we haven't been intimate with. OTHER people, I mean

642
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 1: i get the professionalism, of it but it all. STILL

643
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: happened i have to learn to live. WITH that i.

644
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 1: Don't know that's. THE update i don't know if there's

645
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: more to say. Or not maybe there will. BE more i.

646
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: Don't know i'm trying very hard to sort through my

647
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: feelings and not having much luck. At it it's about,

648
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: six am totally, sleepless night so based, on comments as

649
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: soon as my wife, IS up i am going to

650
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: one asked to see her phone to Tell her i'm

651
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: contacting the girlfriend as she seems to be the most

652
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,959
Speaker 1: neutral party who can verify. Some details three Independently contact

653
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: gina and ask to see every photo that was taking. That,

654
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: day okay so maybe there are still some photos that.

655
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: Hasn't seen. Got it those are by far the most.

656
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: COMMON responses i will update when they, are done and

657
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: we have a thinking update.

658
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 4: Coming, UP yeah i think this is. An update, Another, Update,

659
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 4: sam here we're gonna get back to. The stories but

660
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 4: here's three of it's bads from.

661
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: Our, sponsor yeah We've got we've got another edit with

662
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: a lot more, potentially juicy. Spicy, details keon are you

663
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: staying together?

664
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 3: Or? Not yeah I'M like, i said she, Didn't cheat

665
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 3: like there wasn't like this. Wasn't cheating but this was,

666
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 3: a dea, a BIG huge i, would say just breaking

667
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 3: up the trust in, our relation.

668
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: Total, breaking yeah breaking of, THE trust i feel like

669
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: is a good way to, phrase it because, it's, like.

670
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 3: YEAH and i get it that she, was distraught but

671
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 3: you still. Did it you could have said no any

672
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 3: time or during the. Photo shoot you could have BEEN

673
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 3: like i don't feel comfortable with this something. Like THAT

674
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 3: and i know you said some photos you WERE am

675
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 3: i divorcing OR am i breaking up with?

676
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: My partner at? This, point no it's just how do

677
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: we go? From, HERE yeah i definitely think like couple,

678
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: couples counseling because again too, FOR me i think the

679
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: Response about gina, is, like oh she's not like getting

680
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 1: it too like she. MIGHT do i think she is truly,

681
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: feels REGRETFUL honestly i do from everything. She Said but

682
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: i'm also like part of, it too like obviously like

683
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: truly feeling regret that's obviously a very. Important part but

684
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: another important part is like like in building back the

685
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: trust and all this stuff is, like Hey like, opie's,

686
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: like hey it's important to me To contact gina to

687
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: make sure she doesn't do anything else with the Photos and, she's,

688
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: like well there's nothing we. Can do, YOU know i.

689
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: Don't know smells like. A fish oh what it's. FISHY

690
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: ah i thought this is gonna be like. Your shirt

691
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: oh the lesson. That, shirt yeah.

692
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 2: Great shirt oh but ladies.

693
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: And gentlemen we've got this edit. Number two let's get.

694
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: Into IT so i heard my wife crying in the

695
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,479
Speaker 1: next room on. THE phone i sort, of eavesdropped and

696
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: obviously It. Was, Gina. OOH nicole I. Think nikki the

697
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: wife was telling her that she needed to come over

698
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: and send all the pictures from the, whole shoot and

699
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: divorce was on the line and she had to. Do

700
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: this gina is on her way out of town to

701
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 1: shoot a, wedding today but we are rushing over so

702
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: she can open the studio before, she leaves so we

703
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: can go through all. THE pictures i told my WIFE

704
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: that i wanted to look at her phone on the.

705
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: Way over she said that. Was fine she's packing up.

706
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 1: Our son we are taking our one year old son

707
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: to a studio where my wife was felt up in

708
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: order to prove she didn't cheat. On me this has

709
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: been the most f week in.

710
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 2: My life, come, on buddy we're gonna go to a

711
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 2: special studio to make sure your mom didn't do anything

712
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 2: special with. Another person and that's.

713
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: Where the model also squeezed her front. Air bag see

714
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: that's one thing you guys have. In common you're. Both

715
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: fans gotta. Love it, wow graphic.

716
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: Pretty.

717
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: GRAPHIC there i can update, later Afterwards but. I'm worried

718
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: this is exhausting everyone else as it is. To me

719
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: so here's where we're. AT now i looked at my

720
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: wife so on all the way Over to. GINA'S studio

721
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: i Love how opie's like like a reporter like you

722
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: in real. Time, updates Basically, on wednesday at six point,

723
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 1: thirty pm there were seven miss Calls from gina from my.

724
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: Wife's phone gina also started a text conversation with her

725
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: about that time, that said please, call me we really need.

726
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: TO talk i crossed that with my Email, to gina

727
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: which said this was way MORE than i thought it

728
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: was going, to be which was sent around six fifteen that.

729
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: Same day if, you remember in those, FIFTEEN minutes i

730
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: had tried to call My. Wife nicki she told me

731
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: that she was too busy. TO talk i texted HER

732
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: that i wanted to know what happened in the. Photo

733
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: shoot apparently in those Fifteen minutes open needs to start

734
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: a true crime podcast. Or something this. Is crazy in those,

735
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes nicky STILL thought i, didn't know because she

736
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 1: texted back sexiness, you like are you liking a?

737
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: Sexy you you WANT me i do?

738
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: For, you hey these front airbags are still. Fully inflated

739
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: so Clearly when gina's text started, rolling in she KNEW that.

740
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: I knew so their text conversation basically, WENT like i really.

741
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: Screwed up not you, loell no this. Is serious please

742
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: call can't now? WHAT'S wrong i accidentally put those Picks

743
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: with craig Up on thomas's. Preview site what. PLEASE listen

744
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: i need to know what you want me. TO do i.

745
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 1: Don't understand tommy just emailed me about the photo shoot

746
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: not being what he thought. It was how would he?

747
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: Know that the, wife says you haven't told. Him, yet

748
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: no not planning on it for. A, while okay so

749
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: six weeks out and we're still not planning on it for.

750
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 2: A while we did another six weeks, the bank probably at. The,

751
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: Anniversary hey i'm gonna, you, something yeah. Real quick i've

752
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 2: been a little bit. More, Spicier, RIGHT well i found

753
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: some inspiration.

754
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: Birth of baby. Number two this is where this baby.

755
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: Came from, got, Him so, opie said not planning out for,

756
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: A while, gina, said crap THAT'S what. I thought, Nicky

757
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: Says i'm i'm still lost than in, All caps, gina

758
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:07,959
Speaker 1: replies he's seen the picks of You. And craig please, follow,

759
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: me dude this might, be HARSH but nicki doesn't sound

760
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: like the brightest bulb in. The back, she's like let

761
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: me spell it out. For you? What how i'm. SO

762
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: sorry i was rushing to get proofs OUT and i

763
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: accidentally uploaded most of them to his. Preview site? WHAT'S

764
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 1: most i mean almost all? Of them oh, My, God

765
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: gina oh. My god what do you want me to?

766
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: Do now i'm out. OF town i can't Leave. Until? Saturday,

767
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 1: saturday no WHAT do? I do i. Don't know he's

768
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: going to effing. FLIP out i can change the passwords

769
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: so we can't get. Back in what if he? Copies

770
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: them can't their? Copy protected, opie says please? Do THAT

771
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: while I think i'm, So, sorry nicole this is a.

772
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 1: Huge accident do you want me to talk? To him, nicky,

773
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: says no this better come, for Me but i'm going to.

774
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: THROW up i don't know what. To do i'm, So sorry,

775
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: gina says and that was pretty much the only communication,

776
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: between them no other calls. Or anything gena texteditor the very,

777
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: next day saying are you okay to? Type Stuff but nicki.

778
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 1: NEVER responded nicki did text her that she Was leaving,

779
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: saturday morning but. Nothing else so then we get to,

780
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: the studio but the ground zero where it. All happened

781
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: gina was rushing around like crazy because she was driving

782
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: two hours away to do. A wedding i asked her

783
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: to please talk to me about what she. Was thinking

784
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: so she took like five minutes and said that she

785
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 1: was so sorry and that the thoughts just got away,

786
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: from Her and nicky was doing such an. Amazing job

787
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 1: it seemed like a. Great idea at, THE time i

788
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: was at a loss, for WORDS so i just didn't

789
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 1: ask any. More questions gina set us up on her

790
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,320
Speaker 1: main computer and opened the file folder of every single

791
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: One of nicky's pictures from, that day including the ones

792
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 1: not included in. THE proofs i think it was exactly,

793
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: one thousand two hundred and thirteen.

794
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 2: Pictures from the. Whole shoot from the.

795
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: Whole, shoot, okay wow.

796
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 2: That's usually HOW much.

797
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: I mean but just that's, one thousand two hundred and

798
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: thirteen moments of pain.

799
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 3: Of.

800
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,320
Speaker 2: Them, yeah yeah it's probably like around three thousand or

801
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 2: three hundred.

802
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: Three, hundred yeah but still you're skimming.

803
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 2: Through, THEM yeah i know.

804
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:08,280
Speaker 3: The first nine hundred those. Are fabulous and then comes

805
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 3: with her.

806
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: Male. Models. YEAH oh i scrolled through every image and

807
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: got to the. COUPLE shots i could very clearly tell

808
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: that the mood had changed in the throwaway pictures from

809
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,240
Speaker 1: the solo to the couple and all the, Solo shoots

810
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 1: nikki was smiling and laughing and having a good time

811
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: even if the pick didn't. Turn out but in the,

812
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,439
Speaker 1: COUPLE shoots i could clearly see she. Was nervous she wasn't.

813
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: Having fun she had that, same timid almost Annoyed face

814
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: i've seen on her a. Million times. I'd say in the,

815
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 1: couple section it took ten pictures to come up with

816
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,919
Speaker 1: the one that looked, halfway decent where her face didn't

817
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 1: look like it was, being interrogated and it got worse

818
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: as she was more and. More undressed you can clearly

819
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: see that she had a look of genuine disgust when

820
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 1: the guy touches her, front airbags and it takes a

821
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: long time for her to make these.

822
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: Shots, work Dude If i'm gina in, THIS scenario a

823
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,479
Speaker 2: doesn't look like it's, gonna, Fit right we're gonna.

824
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: Call it, i'm SORRY but i feel like as part

825
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: of you being the photographer, Is, like okay we need

826
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: to make sure that like everyone's, comfortable here, because like

827
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: at the end of, the day this is. Your shoot you're,

828
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: doing this, and, like yeah it's just the requirement of

829
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: doing what, you do, exactly know and look if she

830
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: had some you know again single, you know two, single people,

831
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 1: their models they're. Having fun, they're like, oh great do that.

832
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: With them don't do that in. This scenario don't push this. On,

833
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 1: someone yeah this is not need. To happen there was

834
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: also a little INTERLUDE where I guess nicki went into

835
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: the dressing room to, compose Herself so gina took some

836
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: similar shots but with her. Clothes on he was still

837
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: in his underwear with the guy and, his girlfriend and

838
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: it's very obvious that they both have experience doing this sort.

839
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 1: Of thing you can See that nicky is coming out

840
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: of the. Dressing room gina took the pictures of, her

841
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: alone trying to get that spark back from the, solo

842
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: stuff and in those pics you can see the girlfriend

843
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: in the background looking boredous crap on. Her phone after,

844
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: The break nicki seemed to be a little, more relaxed

845
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 1: and that's where they got into him lying down on,

846
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 1: her back which goes into the teeth thing and into

847
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: the very suggestive stuff where it appears he's initiating. Spicy

848
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: sleep it takes an abrupt end and there's a dozen

849
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 1: shots of everyone who is presenting doing things like flipping the,

850
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: camera off sticking their, tongues out and that sort. Of

851
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: thing the weirdest one Is of nikki in a bathrobe

852
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: and the girlfriend both hugging on the model with smiles on.

853
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 1: Their faces she says she asks for that one because

854
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: it seemed like a cute shoot for everyone to say

855
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: we're all cool with. EACH other i was very careful

856
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: to check the sequencing of. The pictures gina has them

857
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: all nunerically titled with date and a code for customer

858
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: and location than a, series number, so basically if they're all,

859
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: in order he can see, it like.

860
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 2: Got it it's like, zuzer one zeros ARE two zerso

861
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 2: Four or. Zeruser.

862
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: Three, Yeah yeah and there wasn't a sickle. Picture missing

863
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 1: and it would have been an epic Undertaking for gina

864
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: to rename a thousand pictures to eliminate ones that were

865
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: worse than THE ones i. Already SAW so i am

866
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:56,240
Speaker 1: ninety nine percent Convinced that i've. Seen everything you'd.

867
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 2: Be surprised with what people can DO with.

868
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: Ai, now Oh, oh god spread, them apart add three inches. Of,

869
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: space uh what?

870
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 2: Is it computer increased jiggliness by forty? Five Percent, oh.

871
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 1: God not the. Jigle physics turn down the. Jego physics,

872
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: so now more, Than ever i'm convinced that my wife

873
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: is telling me the truth about all. That happened we

874
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: took the full road to get the, full picture and

875
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: seems like. WE'RE there i don't think she was cheating

876
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 1: or having. Spicy sleep lots of people will consider what's.

877
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 1: Happened cheating some of them are in this. Very studio,

878
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: me me this is a form. OF cheating i think it.

879
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,479
Speaker 1: Was professional it was a spur of the moment Thing

880
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: when nikki said she would like to try to do the.

881
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: Couple stuff the girlfriend was, definitely THERE so i see

882
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: no reason to drag her. Into this by, THE way

883
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 1: i want to drag you into the greatest binge of,

884
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: your life and that is Going To spotify apple, iHeart,

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00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,719
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886
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: Listen to, right now do, your dishes walk, your, dog

887
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 1: go do it. Right. Now guys it's we got more stuff.

888
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: Like this, but guys we are almost at the finale of.

889
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: THE saga, i mean what a what a journey that

890
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: we've taken my Brothers in christ.

891
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 2: Is it cheating or not divorce Or na, Gina's fault

892
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: nikki's fall all over.

893
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: THE place i would love to get you're both of your,

894
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: closing thoughts maybe starting, With, you riley what's your what's your? Closing?

895
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 2: Thoughts here i'm trying to think the husband overreacted or

896
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: not in any, SCENARIO here i don't think that. HE

897
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 2: did i just hope going forward they can put this

898
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: behind him and he doesn't like weaponize this or keep

899
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 2: bringing up because some of. THE thoughts i know he's

900
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 2: speaking from, his heart but it's sort of like there

901
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 2: is a bit. Of insecurity but your wife was basically

902
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 2: nudy nude with another nudy. Nude, man yeah so that's

903
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 2: my only concern. Going, forward yeah doesn't cost future, problems

904
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 2: again then just, dig it dig a grave and leave it.

905
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: There.

906
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 2: Together yeah so.

907
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 1: That's a good, call out like you don't want to

908
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: and maybe. It does maybe he can never get out

909
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: of his head and it's just kind of one of

910
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: those things where they can't. Move, forward keon what are

911
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: your what are your closing?

912
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 3: Thoughts HERE like i Said what i've kind of just

913
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: kind of standing on the Same thing i've. Said earlier

914
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 3: the trust here. Is broken you need to see how

915
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 3: we can fix this. Moving forward the husband in, this

916
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 3: case op did go to extremes of like let's figure

917
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 3: this out step, by step second, by second and like

918
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 3: see if your story, you know is, you know one hundred.

919
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 1: Percent, correct yeah and we have. The proof we have it.

920
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,760
Speaker 3: All there, we saw we saw the Proof that OPI's wife.

921
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 3: Was uncomfortable this Is, On gina like if she did

922
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 3: clearly didn't see that in.

923
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: The, photos yes you're.

924
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,839
Speaker 3: A photographer if your model is, not comfortable why are

925
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 3: you continuing this?

926
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: Photo shoot it's your job this is.

927
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 3: Your job to make sure your models are one comfortable

928
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 3: and okay with what's being shot.

929
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: On, camera yeah and.

930
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,879
Speaker 2: Maybe so more education on you can say no and

931
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 2: walk away feel comfortable doing.

932
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: That, either, YEAH yeah i think having. That discussion, and

933
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: two like, you know if this was a, different scenario

934
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,399
Speaker 1: it seems like everything was didn't get into like too

935
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: redline territory with like, you know essay or anything. Like that,

936
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: but yeah. Great points we're gonna get into the finale

937
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: of the. Story here, Oh boy so The things i'm

938
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: still so. Uncomfortable with would she have ever really told

939
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: Me had gina not accidentally shown me? Those picks why six?

940
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: FREAKING weeks i think my wife was uncomfortable in, the

941
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: MOMENT but i think reflection allowed her to realize that

942
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: she actually enjoyed. The experience i'm more convinced of this

943
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: than ever with that shot of her with a huge

944
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: smile where she and the girlfriend almost looked like they're

945
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: members of a burgeoning harem dedicated To hot. ABS mccools

946
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: i wish we had that nickname throughout this, Whole story gosh.

947
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: Dang it but having, SAID that i do think that

948
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: she was embarrassed by initiating, the shoot and she was

949
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: very scared of what my reaction was going. To be

950
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: but it says a lot that she didn't trust me to.

951
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 1: Tell me so that's where we're. AT now I guess

952
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: I'M glad i got to see, the PICTURES but i

953
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 1: don't know if this really cleared. ANYTHING up i think

954
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: she's telling me a version of the truth that's mostly.

955
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: Factually true but HOW the F can i? Ever know

956
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: i'm not leaving her or divorcing her based ON what i.

957
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: Know now part of me is very happy for her

958
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: that she had a. Good time i'm not Like The

959
00:42:58,719 --> 00:42:59,240
Speaker 1: fun police.

960
00:42:59,480 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 3: Or.

961
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 1: Anything again he was very excited for her to do the, solo, shoot,

962
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 1: like hey go go out there and get. Have Fun

963
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 1: but i'm still feel overall terrible about the.

964
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 2: Whole, thing yeah definitely Go To gina's google review link

965
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: a post to this.

966
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: Negative, three stars negative. Five, Stars dude gina fumbled. The

967
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 1: Bag samuel donner has just joined. The studio Ladies, AND,

968
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 1: gentlemen o? What's good? What's? Good baby ladies. And gents,

969
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: oh well ladies, and gentlemen boys, and girls people around.

970
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 1: The world we are about to Start the, oh Okay story, time,

971
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 1: Podcast right sam came back to FINISH THE. Epi, us

972
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 1: oh this is a. Finisher, finisher oh, so welcome, welcome back. You've,

973
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: Magic hello.

974
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 2: I'm, back?

975
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: Yeah crazy who is? Right? Here riley but who's? Right here?

976
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 4: Right now sam did a little. Switcher, room ooh maybe.

977
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:02,359
Speaker 4: We're twins sam's gonna finish.

978
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: Us, off guys you guys ready for.

979
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: This one?

980
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: We're ready let me. Get it you just go, for it?

981
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: All right my ex introduced me to his. New girlfriend

982
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: but something doesn't. Add up what's going?

983
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 4: On, here elementary my dear. Watching cheating that's all HAPPENED

984
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 4: when i was in high SCHOOL and i haven't seen.

985
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 4: Him SINCE so i started dating this guy my sophomore

986
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 4: year of high school and it only lasted about. A month,

987
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 4: TO me i wasn't anything, too CRAZY and i moved

988
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 4: on with, my life believing he did. As well by,

989
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 4: the way this COMES From I love horror. Twenty sixteen

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00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 4: Slash okay storytime, subbured it so he gave me an.

992
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 4: OFF feeling i realized he just wasn't, for me and

993
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 4: two years after, our relationship we shared a few classes,

994
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 4: senior year and we were kind of forced to talk

995
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 4: since we were in a, math GROUP and i was

996
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 4: hesitant to start any sort of friendship with HIM since

997
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 4: i was his first kiss in his. First, relationship oh.

998
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 4: First smooch you always remember your?

999
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 2: FIRST moach.

1000
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 1: I do who? Was it i'm not going to say,

1001
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: their name but it was in ninth grade at a.

1002
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: Movie theater. Good smooch it was, like awkward and then

1003
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: she broke up with me the. Next. Week, dan oh

1004
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 1: probably not for the, smooch though that was your. First

1005
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: smooch two? Week, relationship oh it sounds like high. SCHOOL

1006
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: anyway a.

1007
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 4: Mutual friend told me he was a little HURT that

1008
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 4: i broke up with HIM since i was his. First

1009
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 4: love but one day he told me he had, a

1010
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 4: girlfriend which honestly calmed me down and gave me more

1011
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 4: comfort in talking, to him believing he was over whatever.

1012
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 4: We had, over time we, became friends and he even

1013
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 4: offered to help me train for RUNNING because i joined. The,

1014
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 4: military honestly RUNNING and i were never, really friends so

1015
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 4: every day after school we would go to a trail

1016
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 4: near our school. To train and keep in MIND that

1017
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,919
Speaker 4: i never twisted his INTENTION and i genuinely had no

1018
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 4: other intentions than to appreciate. His help hey it's sam.

1019
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:52,240
Speaker 4: Og host we're go get back to these. Delectable stories

1020
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,319
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1022
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,480
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1023
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: go okay not on roofs.

1024
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 4: On trails ONE day i got a message from. His

1025
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 4: girlfriend the odd thing was it was from his. Phone number,

1026
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 4: oh no It's a.

1027
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: Canadian, Girlfriend dude i'm getting met her. A camp i'm

1028
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: Getting another, canadian. GIRLFRIEND vibe i had a conversation, with

1029
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 1: her not thinking much.

1030
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 4: Of, it honestly if my boyfriend was out every day with,

1031
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 4: A girl i would also text them to see. WHAT'S

1032
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 4: up i assured HER that i didn't want him nor

1033
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 4: wanted to take, him away and she said she liked

1034
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 4: me and was perfectly.

1035
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: Fine with us. Training. Together, nice yeah there.

1036
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 4: We go it's so great when your fake girlfriend and

1037
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 4: future fake girlfriend. Get along the, next day he apologized

1038
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 4: on her behalf and told me that she really liked

1039
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 4: me and would like to continue talking to me and

1040
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 4: maybe even. Become friends since she didn't really have ANY

1041
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 4: just i Message, only, yeah yeah it's a. VIRTUAL relationship,

1042
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 4: i agreed and he said that it had to be

1043
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 4: from his phone since she wasn't allowed to have new

1044
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 4: contacts or friends that her father did not. Approve of that,

1045
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 4: was odd BUT honestly i didn't think much. Of, IT,

1046
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 4: OH p i think you need to start thinking much.

1047
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 4: OF something, i mean this is, high school. Right, you

1048
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 4: yeah but it's the end of. High, school yeah, it's,

1049
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 4: like yeah, come on, Start thinking. Start thinking so me

1050
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:17,240
Speaker 4: and her started talking and texting every.

1051
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 1: Breed.

1052
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 4: Day now the weird thing was that she started sharing

1053
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 4: very personal information about her RELATIONSHIP that i honestly didn't need,

1054
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 4: to know especially about their spicy sleep lives and spicy sleep.

1055
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 4: Related activities he also would brag about his really good

1056
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,280
Speaker 4: performance when we would, hang OUT and i would always

1057
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 4: try to avoid. That topic, OVER time i started to

1058
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:41,240
Speaker 4: suspect that she might not have been a, real PERSON

1059
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 4: since i didn't know anything about her other than what

1060
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 4: he would. Tell me he didn't have a photo, OF

1061
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 4: her i didn't know what she. SOUNDED like i didn't

1062
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 4: know her last name or who her. PARENTS were, i mean, come.

1063
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: On she's from.

1064
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 4: Camp bro they Met, In, canady yeah they meant. A

1065
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 4: camp they met, a camp. Strict parents she has like

1066
00:47:59,120 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 4: social media.

1067
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 1: Culture does not have. Last, names yeah.

1068
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 4: And she's like, four, faces yeah or like it's, it's

1069
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 4: cultural a. Cultural thing you. Would, understand honestly you're kind of.

1070
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 4: A bigot you're trying to get name bodies and pictures of.

1071
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 4: My girlfriend i'm trying to do.

1072
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: Trying to steal. Her away you hear about all this

1073
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: great spicy sleep and, you're like let me.

1074
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 4: See, WHAT yeah i told you out of the kindness

1075
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 4: of my heart about that SPICIES that i didn't. HAVE to,

1076
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 4: i DID and i will continue to do even if

1077
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 4: you don't want.

1078
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 1: Me TO but i didn't. Have to i'm not. Gonna

1079
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: lie this is the craziest and most Hilarious catfish i've ever.

1080
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: Heard of i've never heard.

1081
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 4: This before it's the most transparently weird and like OBVIOUS cat, i, mean.

1082
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,959
Speaker 1: Look you're gonna. Get caught you're gonna. Get caught you're gonna.

1083
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 4: Get CAUGHT but i would also like to add that

1084
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,840
Speaker 4: she was also crazy rich and from a.

1085
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: Different, school yeah this is like my actress. Model girlfriend Her. Name,

1086
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: sindea yeah she.

1087
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: Doesn't have a.

1088
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: Last, name yeah, Thank. You SOPHIEL.

1089
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 2: So i didn't know where the, camera WAS so i.

1090
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:15,399
Speaker 1: Didn't there she is looking good. LOOKING cute i like that.

1091
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 4: All RIGHT so i HONESTLY thought i was calm for thinking,

1092
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 4: like that AND that i read too many picture books to,

1093
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 4: even consider especially since they had an ARGUMENT that i

1094
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 4: helped them. Work, through yeah we had an argument, about

1095
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 4: like you know HOW good i am And yead SHE

1096
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 4: said i, was GOOD but I said i, was.

1097
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: Really babe let's stop the semantics and start.

1098
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 4: The, love yeah, you know there's only one way. Dead experimentation,

1099
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 4: over time me and him became, close WHY and i

1100
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 4: made the mistake of letting him drive me to our

1101
00:49:47,840 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 4: step classes, Step class, IT'S dance i read that steph

1102
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 4: bro oh oh god classes that were in a.

1103
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 1: Different school if you didn't have your, own car you

1104
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: had to take.

1105
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 4: The bus he even offered giving me rides, of school

1106
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 4: TO which i said no since my parents didn't fully.

1107
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 4: Trust HIM but i did make the mistake of giving

1108
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 4: him my address just IN case i ever needed an.

1109
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: Emergency, ride well ONE.

1110
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 4: Day i decided to confess to HIM that i had

1111
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 4: my first heartbreak from a past situationship that happened. AFTER

1112
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 4: him i told him that the other guy was the

1113
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 4: first guy fell for and that it broke me when

1114
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 4: things didn't work. OUT again i did this thinking that

1115
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 4: he was in a. Happy relationship he went silent and

1116
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 4: later that night texted me SAYING that i, hurt him

1117
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 4: that he, felt used AND that i led him on

1118
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 4: making him BELIEVE that i loved him when we. Dated

1119
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,360
Speaker 4: again this was two.

1120
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:49,759
Speaker 1: Years ago for, a, month dude a month in high,

1121
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 1: school relationships, that's like that's like. Ten years that's like.

1122
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,919
Speaker 1: Ten years i'd give it a good like almost, six

1123
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 1: months maybe like a four six times multiplier, Five, months

1124
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: yeah something, like that four, to six four To six.

1125
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying i'm saying, ten years one, hundred hundred. ONE hundred,

1126
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: i mean you're spending every, Day together you're seeing each

1127
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 1: other at school. Every day it's definitely a. BIG multiple

1128
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 1: i guess mooching in between my first kids was a two,

1129
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 1: week relationship, You know and how long does? That feel

1130
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: how important is that? To? You dude, that well now,

1131
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 1: doesn't matter you know at, the time it was at

1132
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: the time. WAS important i so brit with my HIGH.

1133
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: EMOTIONAL iq i asked. Her out the same afternoon she

1134
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: broke up with her. Other, boyfriend hey because she told

1135
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: me during, the relationship if she wasn't, with him she

1136
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: would be dating. Me Perfect and, john's like if one

1137
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:44,399
Speaker 1: plus one, Equals two i'm a wrecking. That petition, oh

1138
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: god it was. SO bad i.

1139
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 4: Don't know it sounds like you saw a little little

1140
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 4: opening in the in the goalie, right there and the goalie.

1141
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: Wasn't there there's.

1142
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 4: WELL there, i mean it's like, it's soccer, you know

1143
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 4: the goalie steps out while the.

1144
00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: Game's running days are you gonna? Shoot? It apparently apparently

1145
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: thirteen Year old john was. Just raised thirteen Year old

1146
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: john's a, straight shooter, my friend thirteen year old job

1147
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: goes fin cringing so hard on, my lie you're not

1148
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,240
Speaker 1: cringe for seizing the moment and carpaying.

1149
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 4: Those dams, oh baby never never. Do, THAT well i

1150
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 4: told him that was never my intention to, hurt him

1151
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 4: but it didn't matter now since he had a girlfriend

1152
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 4: and it. Was happy And, then john here we go

1153
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 4: the thing we never give it, to coming give it.

1154
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 4: To one no one, saw This, And john i'm gonna

1155
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 4: give it. To, you hey that confessed that she the

1156
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 4: love of, his life the girl of, his dreams and

1157
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 4: probably only in his dreams.

1158
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: And imagination she.

1159
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 4: Wasn't, real, yeah yes. THAT'S right i mean we. Saw

1160
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 4: it we saw it coming from a. MILE away a

1161
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 4: chat saw it coming from a. Mile away, too obvious,

1162
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 4: too obvious but, still fun, still fun. Still fun that

1163
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,959
Speaker 4: he made her up and it was all a baby.

1164
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 1: Old ah he said that he made her up to

1165
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: cope with everything going on in. HIS life i. WAS

1166
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: shocked i didn't know how.

1167
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 4: To respond he told me that he had always been

1168
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 4: in love with me and that it hurt HIM that

1169
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 4: i didn't feel the. Same way he said that he

1170
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 4: expected me to leave him like everyone else in his

1171
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 4: life and go laugh about it with. My friends there, we,

1172
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 4: go smart playing the. Pity card maybe she'll be sad

1173
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 4: you and your fake ex girlfriend.

1174
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: Broke up they could be. With, you oh this is.

1175
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 4: So bad he said he was sick and passing away

1176
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 4: and that he didn't have much time. Left anyways let's

1177
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 4: go straight from fake girlfriend to. Fake, Illness, wow hey.

1178
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,320
Speaker 1: Man's got the. Infinity. Stone bro.

1179
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 4: All, The, stops yeah all the stops except being like

1180
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 4: a good. Normal guy, yeah, no, no that's the path.

1181
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 4: He's doing all.

1182
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 2: The stops you, KNOW what, i mean next he's gonna

1183
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 2: pull like a princess diaries and he's gonna, BE like

1184
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 2: i just found Out that i'm actually a prince of a.

1185
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 1: FOREIGN country i have. TO leave i HAVE to i

1186
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: have to go with. My millions but HE said i was.

1187
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 4: The only thing bringing, him joy but he had messed

1188
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 4: it up AND now i was going to, leave him

1189
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 4: calling him a. CRAZY freak i felt like crap and

1190
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 4: told him that wasn't. Gonna, happen oh, let's go. It's working,

1191
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 4: say what, he's. Sick illness he doesn't want to talk.

1192
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,760
Speaker 4: About it she goes to. Another school it's too hard.

1193
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: To Talk, OH god I wish i had, the strength but,

1194
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: you know. The medication the medications just sap in. My

1195
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 1: strength it has one weird side, effect though big Super

1196
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:46,799
Speaker 1: COMB like i told you, my girlfriend, my girlfriend that

1197
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 1: was the only thing that. WASN'T that, i, like yeah

1198
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: it's like, really yea. YEAH yeah.

1199
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 4: I TOLD him i wasn't going, to leave AND that

1200
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 4: i understood EVEN if. I didn't i TOLD him i

1201
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 4: wasn't going to leave the friendship and that he should.

1202
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 4: Get help he said that he would help his f'd

1203
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 4: up mind AND that i was.

1204
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: His. Cure baby the, doctor said there's totally one cure

1205
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 1: for this illness he's. Afflicting. Me baby, it's you, it's you,

1206
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: he gets, he gets.

1207
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 3: What are?

1208
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,319
Speaker 1: You saying your, chest friend honeybe eighty five says he's

1209
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: a Walking. For dora that's. So true oh, OH yes

1210
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: i love him, All RIGHT so i stayed. It, worked

1211
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: hey don't hate, the player hate. The game, OH no

1212
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: I thought i was.

1213
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 4: Helping him he stopped training after SCHOOL since i told

1214
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 4: my mom and she didn't feel safe with me being alone.

1215
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 4: WITH him i can. UNDERSTAND that i don't REMEMBER what i,

1216
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 4: told HIM but i remember he was a little. Bummed

1217
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 4: out he still gave me rides to our, step class

1218
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 4: which my parents.

1219
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: Didn't, know god tell. Your parents this guy is a. Crazy,

1220
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: person yeah a.

1221
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 4: Little mudge he swore that he RESPECTED that i wasn't,

1222
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 4: in damn and that he wasn't going to lose it on.

1223
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,280
Speaker 4: Me again why do you trust?

1224
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:19,760
Speaker 1: This? Guy, no no he invented a whole fake PERSON

1225
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: to i don't.

1226
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 4: Even know to get, YOUR sympathy i need to tell

1227
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 4: you how good he. Has Invented crazy crazy logic has

1228
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 4: continued for another few weeks before he lost it again

1229
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,879
Speaker 4: because he was sick and tired THAT all i did

1230
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 4: was talk about. Other guys, he said he had given

1231
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 4: me everything. AND more i gave you a, fake girlfriend a.

1232
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 4: FAKE illness i drove you to, step classes but you

1233
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 4: won't step. To me he won't be my step to a.

1234
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 4: Better life, he said he give me everything and more

1235
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 4: and had done the impossible for me to be successful

1236
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 4: in my future. Military life he made it his mission

1237
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 4: to make me happy and to get me to step class.

1238
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 4: On time he told ME that i should look for

1239
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 4: my own rides and that he wasn't going to do

1240
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 4: anything for me ANYMORE since i didn't give him anything.

1241
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,919
Speaker 1: IN return, i answered, all right we're getting. The retort here,

1242
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: WE go, I answered i put my.

1243
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 4: FOOT down, I Said I, shane SHANE and i didn't

1244
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 4: KNOW that i had to pay him back, for EVERYTHING

1245
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 4: since i thought it was never from the well being of.

1246
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 4: HIS heart i told HIM that i never begged him

1247
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 4: to do anything that he offered to, help me not

1248
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 4: the other. WAY around i told HIM that i hated

1249
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 4: having people offer to help me expecting something. In return

1250
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 4: he told me that he wished me, the best and

1251
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 4: we ended our, friendship There, but john there's a friendship

1252
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 4: that should never.

1253
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: Be ended oh?

1254
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 4: What's that and it's a friendship that can be created

1255
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 4: by listening to full episodes of this Podcast, In iHeartRadio, Apple,

1256
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 4: podcast spotify or wherever you get. Your podcast just go

1257
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 4: to a podcast site, Likes, S bottify apple, Podcast, search okay,

1258
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 4: story time do a little click, ay clock and then

1259
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 4: listen to two thousand plus episodes.

1260
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 1: Of stories just.

1261
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: Like this oh.

1262
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 4: That's good That. Is john it is now back. To

1263
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 4: me there's another relevant update here. We go but let's

1264
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 4: discuss what do we think about. FAKE boyfriend, i.

1265
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 1: Mean this is if you looked up in a textbook

1266
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: cringe af high school. Boyfriend energy this is exactly what.

1267
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: That is i'm always looking that up. In, textbooks dude

1268
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: He's he's he's given us The full schmorgis board of

1269
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: of all the things, you know the nice guy could

1270
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: possibly possibly.

1271
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 4: Pull, out yeah the nice guy bingo card is completely, marked, out.

1272
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: Completely bro we needed just another piece of a napkin

1273
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 1: just to, write, yeah, yeah yeah like. The, EXPANSION yeah,

1274
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: i mean hopefully this is A a, i know this is,

1275
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 1: high school, you know hopefully it's a learning lesson, To,

1276
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: op like, all right these are like things to look,

1277
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: out for like a good. Learning experience, maybe, Yeah.

1278
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 4: Yeah hey every red flag is an opportunity to not.

1279
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,439
Speaker 4: Chase him there we, Get again Dame of honor twenty,

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Speaker 4: twenty five, twenty five and you can, quote, that well

1281
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Speaker 4: we got a little bit more of. This story so

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Speaker 4: the weird thing is that we were still in class

1283
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Speaker 4: together and he would try and make conversation with me like.

1284
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Speaker 4: Nothing happened he still lived the lie that he was

1285
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 4: in a happy relationship. With someone for the rest of the.

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Speaker 4: School year he would always have this look on, his

1287
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 4: FACE and i always had this weird feeling. About Him if,

1288
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Speaker 4: I'M honest i didn't feel safe with him after his,

1289
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 4: initial CONFESSION but i was scared that he was going

1290
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 4: to hurt ME if. I left i know it's been

1291
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 4: sometimes since, this happened but honestly still feels, So UNSETTLING

1292
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Speaker 4: and i don't KNOW what i would DO if i

1293
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 4: ever ran into. HIM again i Guess what i'm, asking

1294
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 4: is was there any way of? Avoiding this was it actually?

1295
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 4: My fault and WHAT do i DO if i ever

1296
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Speaker 4: run into?

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Speaker 2: Him?

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Speaker 1: Again john what do? You? THINK uh opi literally not

1299
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Speaker 1: at all. Your fault this was fully a. PSYCHOMAN behavior,

1300
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 1: i thinks, just like distance yourself as much. As possible

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00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 1: summer's almost, hear hags so, You, know an it's your,

1302
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: senior YEAR so, i think just like ride it out

1303
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: and try to get as much space as humanly possible.

1304
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 1: From him you probably won't ever have to see him

1305
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Speaker 1: again after.

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Speaker 4: YOU graduate, I mean i think if there was something

1307
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 4: to learn from this is trust. YOUR gut i, mean

1308
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 4: you you was a little, weird initially and then you

1309
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 4: became friends, with him and like all this, whole girlfriend fake,

1310
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 4: girlfriend stuff beyond the illness stuff. LIKE that i feel

1311
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 4: like that should be setting up red flags for you in.

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Speaker 1: The, future yeah you don't know him anything anything for,

1313
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: that matter but that is where that, Story, Ends JUN

1314
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: and i think that is where this. Episode ends it is.

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Speaker 1: It's over.

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Speaker 4: It's over so if you, love us make sure To

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Speaker 4: subscribe we love you and see