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Speaker 1: All right, you guys, we are here and this is

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Speaker 1: gonna be a really fun one because we are talking

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Speaker 1: about good men and the slip service. I'm Anti La Yee,

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Speaker 1: I'm Stephan in Santiago. I'm g g McGuire, I'm Loa

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Speaker 1: And we got two special guests. Jasmine Brand is sitting

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Speaker 1: in as a host. Hey, and we got Nal here. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We've been talking about a lot of things before the

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Speaker 1: mix came on. He's scared of cute tips. We found

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Speaker 1: out another way to do that. Now you can't do

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Speaker 1: the cute tip thing. What can you do? Then? Uh? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know they said that you're not supposed to actually here,

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Speaker 1: and they said it questions that wax deeper some blush,

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Speaker 1: right that you did? Yeah, pour some stuff, ladyship for

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Speaker 1: a minute. When I was younger, that's what I did too.

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Speaker 1: But my father used to put peroxide in my here

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Speaker 1: and yeah I never did. But it stays there, it

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Speaker 1: doesn't go all the way in, and then you lean

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Speaker 1: back over when this house bubbling up. Can I tell

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Speaker 1: you a nasty air story? So one time my grandfather

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Speaker 1: was like, thought something was wrong and he was going death.

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Speaker 1: So I had to take him to the hospital. But

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Speaker 1: it was like a ball of wax stuck in the

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Speaker 1: hair in his air. It was like dried up. That's nice,

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Speaker 1: and I got to west and pull it out. Any

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Speaker 1: of you guys, that's candles for you, It's really no.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never tried to drop candle works

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Speaker 1: burn your ear dramas. I didn't have felt no difference

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Speaker 1: I did it. I feel all that weird ship. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we know you like candle wax. Huh, we know you

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Speaker 1: liked you're talking about this, yeah, but yeah, I tried

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Speaker 1: some ship like all right, well put a dick in

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Speaker 1: your air and what you hear? You're so y? I

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Speaker 1: don't really liked that. Well, nel, it is good Man season,

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Speaker 1: so that's that's the ladies in the room. Do y'all

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Speaker 1: like good Man? We love good Man? So many of

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Speaker 1: them out there. I didn't want when I was younger,

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Speaker 1: I didn't I liked like bad boys and guys that

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Speaker 1: weren't available and cheaters. But as I got older, I

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Speaker 1: started appreciating good man. He started appreciating not crying every night. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that felt good. So is it maturity that does that

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Speaker 1: the normal consensus is with the younger female that they

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Speaker 1: as well, because the bad boys but it's like exciting

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Speaker 1: when it's happening, Yeah, but it ain't exciting after the

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Speaker 1: fai or there in their whole phase. So why would

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Speaker 1: and they look at amoy that doing the same thing

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Speaker 1: I did say, I was asking yourself and you and

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Speaker 1: your experience with good men versus because you're like bad guys. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what it is like. I just don't like

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Speaker 1: for me personally, don't like like clingy. I like you

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Speaker 1: You think corny, clingy, that's bad. You think good man,

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Speaker 1: then now that's the same thing that you said. Like,

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Speaker 1: as you get older, you start knowing what you want

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Speaker 1: and you've haven't been through some things Like with me,

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Speaker 1: I know that I don't have time to play around.

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Speaker 1: you know, and it didn't work out. Obviously work out.

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Speaker 1: It didn't work out, but you know again like um,

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Speaker 1: But I just feel like when, um, when a guy

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Speaker 1: gonna take advantage of this which is which is bad. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's so far has been my experience in my life.

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Speaker 1: And then you know, I get with the guy and honestly,

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Speaker 1: a lot of sexual experience. You know, I got there

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Speaker 1: because season is really let's you weren't always that. You

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Speaker 1: weren't always a good man, No, not at all. That's

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Speaker 1: what I'm trying to you know, one that mature, you know,

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Speaker 1: opposed to the guy that the woman is like going behind.

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Speaker 1: He's the one that's like the jockey kind of guy.

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Speaker 1: That's the cool kind of guy. Now, you pretty women, right,

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Speaker 1: On purpose? Wife proces and not like a street walker

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Speaker 1: well now we don't have that was that was? That

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Speaker 1: It definitely does happen. I know some prostitutes that have

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Speaker 1: but prostitution nowadays it's true, So I don't know what

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Speaker 1: You like that? Guys, you haven't been through some ship

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Speaker 1: I have. I've been through not at all, but I've

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Speaker 1: you know, I have appreciate all the experiences that I've had,

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Speaker 1: But I have to say I've had the funnest with

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Speaker 1: My job has to change, y'all. Guys, I'm not gonna lie,

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Speaker 1: you know, Like I appreciate Guy paid a good man.

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Speaker 1: and then they can do. It's not an easy thing,

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Speaker 1: and I can acknowledge that. I know it's not easy.

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Speaker 1: don't okay, I have I have a curve, which makes

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00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: it sometimes difficult for a woman to be on top

424
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: and not hurt me. Yeah, when she comes down, she's

425
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: going a little crazy, and she has been the other ways. Yeah,

426
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: it curves back or to the left, to the right,

427
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:34,360
Speaker 1: to the left. That isn't interesting, were not. I cannot

428
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: listen everything. I've literally never noticed. That's just that is true.

429
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: I never did wrote it because it could have been

430
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: to the right right. Tell us more about the album

431
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: and while you felt inspired to it, to be a

432
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 1: good man, because there has to be a point in

433
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 1: every man's life when they're like, okay, I'm done with

434
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: all this bullshit. Yeah, you know what it was. You

435
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: know what it was for me. Um. So when I

436
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: first when I first met Crystal, Crystal Renee Smith, my

437
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 1: wife two years um I saw something in her that

438
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 1: that I hadn't that I hadn't seen before. In mind you,

439
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: when I met her, I was single, happily single, run

440
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: around being being an entire home when I met her

441
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: like a year and a half. Remember we had this conversation. Yeah,

442
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 1: it's like a year and a half single, doing what

443
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 1: I was doing. Wasn't looking to be in a relationship.

444
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 1: Met her and ship changed. So when I actually asked

445
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: her on an on an official date, I decided to

446
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: go in and not go in with my representative. I

447
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: went in no security, uh no, no entourage, no neo,

448
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 1: just just Schaefer. I ain'ty word for Dora that day,

449
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 1: just playing old Schaefer because I wanted to. I wanted

450
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: to go into it a different way. I felt like

451
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 1: every relationship before this one I kind of went into

452
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: all of them same way, and they all kind of

453
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 1: ended the same way. That just I mean, you put

454
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 1: your representative first, you know, you put your best foot forward.

455
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: A month or so later, you get comfortable, and then

456
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: the real you comes down. It's like, wait a minute,

457
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:36,360
Speaker 1: I heard you. Okay, So as I take another that's

458
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: probably a bad idea. No, so win in, no representative,

459
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: just straight me And I asked her right there. I

460
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 1: was like, so listen, here's what I need you to do.

461
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: If you're cool with this, I need you to lay

462
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: out all your dirty laundry right now, all of it.

463
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: I need you to anything a man has ever left

464
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 1: you for, anything you feel like a man will leave

465
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 1: you for. I need to know what celebrities you've been

466
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 1: with all. I need to know all the right here,

467
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,959
Speaker 1: right now. On the first day, and I told her,

468
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,479
Speaker 1: But I told her I'm gonna do the same thing.

469
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: I ain't actually for the podcast day to even make

470
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:17,479
Speaker 1: like question her. Y'all didn't have sex before we had

471
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: sex yet ours. That's our first official day. Like we

472
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: had met, we hung out a few times. It's our

473
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 1: first official date. Not business, because initially when I met

474
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 1: her was business. I was trying to cast her for

475
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: for a little short film that I was doing. But

476
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 1: this is our first just hanging out official date. And

477
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: again just in her conversation, it was something different in

478
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: her conversation, you know what I mean That that made

479
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 1: it to where I ain't want to I don't want

480
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 1: to talk to all other chicks I was messing with,

481
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: like I would find myself calling her, texting her. You know,

482
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 1: so said, had this conversation. I laid out all my

483
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: dirty laundry, expecting her to get up and leave. She didn't,

484
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 1: thank you, so then she laid out all of hers

485
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: It was was a little less than than I expected.

486
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: But it's all good. Not that I thought she was

487
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 1: a whole and like that, but I just expect, Actually,

488
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: she's an attractive woman in this business. I expect. Yeah, yeah,

489
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: because because I wasn't feeling falter for it because I'm

490
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: not I'm not. I'm not that cat like Okay, you

491
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: could say anything, like one name might have came up

492
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: and he was not fun this ship. I'm not surprised

493
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: that it wasn't that bad because when you're mad Crystal,

494
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: she was brand new in this industry, like she had

495
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: been around for just a year or so. Yeah. Yeah,

496
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: So I don't I don't think that she was doing

497
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: People think that when you're a video girl or when

498
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 1: you're working and you know, when you get popular, when

499
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,919
Speaker 1: you're sexy girl and get popular, you's just all fucking

500
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 1: everybody And it's really not. I won't lie. That was

501
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 1: that was where my mom took me. Yeah, but you

502
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: were okay with it. I'm okay with it because it's like,

503
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: how can I fault you for whole? And I'm out

504
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: here and you were expecting it to be worse and

505
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: it wasn't even that bad. It was like, damn, the

506
00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 1: purpose it was for the purpose of it was for

507
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: be uncomfortable and for her to be uncomfortable to ultimately

508
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: make us more comfortable. Because after the conversation was over,

509
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 1: it was like, we have to work. It's hard to

510
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: impress each other, you know what I mean. Like after that,

511
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: it was just sitting talking to a friend like we like.

512
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: It wasn't no old I mean, I say that because

513
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: I don't want this person to think I'm It was

514
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 1: just regular conversation after that first time you ever did

515
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: that with somebody. What made you think to do this though? Um,

516
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: just the concept that every relationship I had been in

517
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: before this one had all ended the same way, because

518
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: they all began to something he was at the fourth

519
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: different results. Can you imagine a guy asked you on

520
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: the first date to name everybody you've ever been with.

521
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: I would laugh right in his face. I probably would

522
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: not probably wouldn't be honest if he like what you

523
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: were talking about. I don't even know anybody. I wasna

524
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: interesting where I told that person about people that I

525
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: have been with that he may have known any backfire.

526
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: That's why I would be scared of everything. There's another thing.

527
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 1: You also got to know who are you talking to

528
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: in regards to this conversation. Like I knew, I knew

529
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: that I can handle it. I ain't. You also came

530
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: to the table and asked for and you it was

531
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: amazing first. It's just something where I felt this though

532
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,959
Speaker 1: before you hear it in the streets. Let me tell

533
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: you first. And it's still backfire. And me didn't even

534
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: know the person. I agree, like if if somebody asked,

535
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: I might be more honest, you know, if they just

536
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: came out the first date instead of just like what

537
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: you did. You just let me put this on the

538
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: line just in case of I mean, it wasn't it

539
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: was once. It was once that we were in that

540
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: place of okay. Then we're exclusive and we're out together,

541
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: and I know people in this industry that you're in,

542
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: So let me just put this, lay this out on

543
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: the table so that respect. Like, it's better for it

544
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: to come from me than to come from a third party. Now,

545
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: imagine walking into a place with your new dude and

546
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: the old dude is standing right there and like you

547
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: just gonna walk past him and I say nothing, Yeah,

548
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: actually turns out. I'm saying, you'll know this happy to me.

549
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, Like this person ended up

550
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: seeing me and kissing me in my mouth in front

551
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:20,959
Speaker 1: of my life. Yeah, yeah, that wasn't a good night. Well,

552
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 1: he didn't know that I was with this person, and um,

553
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: we were in a public place and this person was

554
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: doing something public and he saw me and he came over,

555
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: and the relationship that we had in the past, it

556
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: would have been appropriate for him to see me and

557
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: be excited and kiss me in my mom right. Like

558
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: we hadn't spoken in like two years, so I hadn't

559
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 1: been able to tell him to have a boyfriend now,

560
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: and I'm saying two years later, he ran up and

561
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: just kissed you. He was that happy to see me,

562
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: Like look, it's my bad or he was like, oh yeah,

563
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: that's all. Who was just you know what, let me

564
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: let me go in front this right quick. No, he didn't,

565
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: he had no idea. He didn't see him. Well, it

566
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: was we were all in the group. There was a

567
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: group of people, and he didn't know who she was

568
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: with basically, so I was like, man, I'm not seeing him.

569
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: He just he felt like it was all good to

570
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: run up in public and kissing your mind. I was there.

571
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: I was just you know, just to sit there like,

572
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe I just happened. Yeah,

573
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: that was like a fight for two months after that.

574
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: That fight lasted till we woke up two months ago.

575
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: I just feel like every time, um, a guy he

576
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,959
Speaker 1: even has a hint of anybody else ike with they

577
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: throw it in my face, like a song comes on

578
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: the radio or somebody's on the team and they're looking

579
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: at you with the fire eyes. He was gonna like

580
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: this ship so you're like a gun something like that.

581
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: But I don't like this song. Did it ever come

582
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: up again after that? Like anybody she told you or

583
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 1: you told her, did y'all ever? Like, the only time

584
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 1: it ever came up is if we was out and

585
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: we saw somebody and and it was and it was

586
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: me like if we ever saw somebody. But see, the

587
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: cool thing about it was if we saw a person,

588
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: I'd be like, you memberceptionist, I told you about that's

589
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: her right there. Damn Okay, that we'll see. Now. I'm saying, like,

590
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: do you think timing played a part in you becoming

591
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: a good man? Because what if the girl right before

592
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: Christal was like, listen, I want to sit down and

593
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: want I want this to be different. I want to

594
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: let everything out on the table. You tell me everybody

595
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: you had sex with. I'm gonna tell you everybody y'all

596
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: has sex with. You think you would have been like,

597
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: bet you get the funk out of my trap, my

598
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: curb and get T shirts made tomorrow, kiss my curb

599
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: right across the shot. No, I don't feel like. I

600
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: don't feel like I would have been ready. I genuinely

601
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: don't feel like I would have been ready. So tim

602
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: and definitely timing and maturity definitely plays a part, because

603
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm wonna go. I won't go there.

604
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: I don't even want to know my partner's access. I

605
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: don't want to know who you're worked with it. I

606
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: don't want to know because it's one of my business

607
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna Now. We're gonna be around and and

608
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: she might like, you know, you guys might be cool.

609
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: She might like one of your pictures. And now I'm

610
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: mad at youde like because she like talking to each other,

611
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: because she liked you'll each other. Okay, you know what

612
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: I mean? You are Okay, I don't need because you

613
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 1: don't want, You don't need to know why I was

614
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: with I don't need. It's not that bad. So what

615
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: if right, So hypothetical situation, so you would just dude

616
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: right and like things are going well. So a year passes,

617
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: two years past, three years past, you don't even want

618
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: to know? Then y'all been rocking for three years in

619
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: three years. It's inevitable you're gonna find out about people.

620
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: It's just it's inevitable. Okay, So how do you want

621
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: to find that if you don't want him to tell

622
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: you if you know this is okay? No, I just

623
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: feel like and I just want to find out organically

624
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: naturally like the mouth, and that's what you want. No,

625
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: I don't want to know because lessen to me, this

626
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 1: is a fair warrant. And if I'm with my my

627
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 1: dude and you come out saying that kiss him in

628
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: the mouth, I'm gonna drag you out the club, even

629
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 1: if you don't know about me, because I just have

630
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: a bad temper like that, I'm Spanish you in the mouth, somebody.

631
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: I feel like every guy that I've ever dated knows

632
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 1: better that to even do me like that in public,

633
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: like don't ever, don't even come. You better be careful

634
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: saying hi to me. Yeah that guys, you know what,

635
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 1: even the guys who guys to who date me especially

636
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: know me intimately. You know, guys who know me intimately

637
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: know that I'm a straight shooter, you know what I mean.

638
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: So if if you see me on this no, I'm

639
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: just she's never gonna let it every time. I'm very

640
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm very forward, and you know, and if they have

641
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: dating me, they've experienced being the guy that I'm dating,

642
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So if a lot of times,

643
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: unless you know it's somebody that we had, like maybe

644
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: we dated it, but it's like a public friendship. You know,

645
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: it's fine, we're all in a group, say hi to me,

646
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: But if a guy to see one of my exta

647
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: sees me on the date, he's not gonna come and interrupt.

648
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: You know. No, no, you're not wearing a group. But

649
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 1: you know, like even in a group like I didn't

650
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: like two years later, that's still yeah. It wasn't like

651
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: they sell each other all the time. And this person,

652
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: particularly crazy, this person that she's talking about is a

653
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 1: little you gotta that though, Yeah, he's a little nuts.

654
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 1: So it's a special situation, a special ran up to

655
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: him and kiss him. He had been like, hey, you

656
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: know what. You know what's funny is we had this

657
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: thing where I was because he's an entertainer, right, so

658
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: we had this thing where I was like the president

659
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: of his fan club. Right, that was our little thing, Like,

660
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 1: oh my god, all right, So when I would see him,

661
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: I would like run up with him and jump on

662
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,959
Speaker 1: him and hug him and stuff. So like he would

663
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: probably expect me to do that, Like there are be

664
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: times when he would see me coming and he would

665
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: brace itself because you know I was about to be

666
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 1: come running jump on the men at crazy um. So

667
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: he would probably expect me to do that. But not

668
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: kissing his mouth. No, I would just walk up to

669
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: him like, hey baby, I'm sing off two years later

670
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: like it was and can happen in happen to you.

671
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: But we had, let me see at that time, we

672
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: all in contact at all in that two years, no contact,

673
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: no phone calling, no text, no no nothing. So because

674
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: I had been in a relationship with this guy for

675
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: two years, yes, and the next time you saw him

676
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 1: was third and exactly he was happy to see her

677
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: at one time at one time, one of my exes,

678
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 1: there's something crazy to me in front of New Bay.

679
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: Worse than that, worse than kissed me on the mouth.

680
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: He drabbed me by my neck like you know, like

681
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 1: a sexual like oh hey baby. He was standing in

682
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: front of me, so he didn't see it. He was.

683
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: We were walking in and he was, and he was

684
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: there and I didn't even see it was my ex

685
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: and I mean this guy like we go like we

686
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: had a you know, like we go back, like we

687
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: got a long history, the ex, you know, And I'm

688
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: with this new guy and we walked right past him

689
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: and I see his crew, but I didn't know if

690
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: he was there and out to know where I'm walking

691
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: and it was you know, as a matter of fact,

692
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: New Bay was inside. Security came to get me. So

693
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: the security guard was walking in front of me and

694
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: I'm just walking, old, calmly, just walking in and a

695
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: neck just comes to my to my throat and I'm

696
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: thinking him the guy that I'm dating, and I look

697
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: and it was this, Oh my god, I almost faith

698
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:17,959
Speaker 1: that I spoused on him right there, like like text

699
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: you away. Can you keep it? Test with your axes though,

700
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: like if you're still cool and it was no beef.

701
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: It depends which I need to talk about. Yeah, that's

702
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: the thing me is, even even in my doggish, doggish,

703
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: doggish days, I was never just an asshole like I like,

704
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: I've never kicked the chick out of my hotel like that,

705
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: So did na. I'm not that I can't believe you've

706
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:52,760
Speaker 1: never done that. My security has done it. But I'm person.

707
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: That's the same thing that is representative. That's where the

708
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 1: security gotta what you do when I was living that life, Yeah,

709
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: the representative. That's how that's how you superstar famous dudes

710
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 1: get away with kicking people down to you. You have

711
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: security come get me, listen, and you lay it right

712
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 1: there by the time by the time we've done doing

713
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: what we're doing. Even if I was to tell you

714
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: I need you to go, you're gonna go because you're

715
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: gonna because you're gonna appreciate what just happened. So it's

716
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: you order room service, Yeah, go for it, get yourself

717
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: to food. But as soon as you get down at

718
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: that in the hotel, knock knock, knock, knock, Oh, who's

719
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: at the door? Security show. If you wouldn't mind exactly. Roy,

720
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get off. I'm gonna give you a hug

721
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: and make sure I got your number. I'm gonna hit

722
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: you up. But she's like, no, I'm not leaving. That's

723
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: why security comes to because he can didn't grab her

724
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: like in that situation kind of knows that you know,

725
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: I'm not going to stay the night though, right, You

726
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: think they kind of know in most cases that it

727
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: was only one or two cases where it was like,

728
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: so I gotta leave? What is I gotta leave? Yeah,

729
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: you gotta leave. I do the money when you ask

730
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: for another? Did you ever really keep in contact with

731
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: you girls? But you have security removed them? Like I

732
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 1: didn't have security them. I had security show up to

733
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: let it be known that I have an early morning.

734
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: I am a busy man, and I need to get

735
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: my rest. First of all, I would probably kill myself. Wait,

736
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: so you would rather be like that was good. I

737
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 1: thank you just giving him the best pussy of his life.

738
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: But he's like the best of it. I think that

739
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: what you think she was like, what we're doing that?

740
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: Because I'm not trying to make you feel like you're

741
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: more than it is. I can't. I'm not gonna do

742
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: you like that, but I'm not. You let her sleep over,

743
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden you can't get rid

744
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: of her. Well, maybe that's some girls. Maybe that's some

745
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: girl she sleeps over, and maybe that's a girl. Then

746
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: she feels like it's more because you're right. In that case,

747
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: most times, the girl knows that she's supposed stay over.

748
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 1: She know what it is. It's it's three, four or

749
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: five o'clock in the morning, Just meet up, go to

750
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,360
Speaker 1: the hotel, do what y'all do. She knows she's not

751
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: supposed to stay she's aware. But if you say to

752
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 1: her that's about this good, that's gonna make her feel like, oh, okay,

753
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: you like kind of wear your T shirt. I'm saying

754
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,800
Speaker 1: I might not like him. That's drunk. I'm saying because

755
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: I'm tired, I'm gonna call you Uber. I'm gonna call

756
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 1: you Uber. I'm gonna make sure that you've been a

757
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 1: nice right we always do before Uber they get a car.

758
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: I'm just speechless because I just couldn't see that. I'm like,

759
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: when you're deaf having sex and it's just like it's

760
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 1: not like right after, it's like when I'm ready to

761
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 1: leave like I'm not gonna drag the fact that I'm

762
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 1: not trying to be here. I call you, you're the

763
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 1: one that the security gotta argue with. A never would

764
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: have a security. I never want to see you argue

765
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: with security. I did never eat. She just said, I'm

766
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: not leaving. How are you gonna tell me? Listen, I'm

767
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: not sucking no nigga, and I'm not having sex with

768
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: nobody that is going to turn around and kick right

769
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: between pay you and these girls that's coming. Imagine. I

770
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: couldn't imagine. I count imagine being them. We'll take yourself

771
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 1: out of your shoes and put yourself to travel. The

772
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: girl travel two hours to come to the concert, right,

773
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: and then travel with another hour to get to the

774
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: club that was in a separate city, right, and then

775
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: did everything in the power to get this close to

776
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: me is humanly possible to get just just to get

777
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 1: the curb and then get the currusually has the type

778
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: of energy to take long travels over like she's younger

779
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:10,439
Speaker 1: and right in my day. In my day I've dealt

780
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,280
Speaker 1: with I've dealt with with teenagers, I've dealt with moms.

781
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 1: I don't know about grandmother, not like a young grandmody,

782
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sleep with you, know what I mean,

783
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: it's not even a thought in mind. Like when you're

784
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. You know there are certain ways that

785
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: you know when you're with your you know with your

786
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: with Crystal, you know how you can come and you

787
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,759
Speaker 1: know how she comes every single time. So does that

788
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: mean that you always do that or do you try

789
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,240
Speaker 1: to still switch it up because some people are creatures

790
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: of habit. I know in a certain position, I can

791
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: always come, and I know how long it's gonna take,

792
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: So sometimes I know I'll just go that route. But

793
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 1: that's a trump card. If you already know that there's

794
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: a certain way that she's gonna come every time, then

795
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: that gives you the freedom to try shit. It's like,

796
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 1: all right, I know that this don't work. I got this,

797
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: so let's just the balking right quick, Let's try it out. No,

798
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 1: this ain't it, let's get let's go ahead and let's

799
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,800
Speaker 1: go ahead and do it works then, but yeah, you

800
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: got you gotta try ship. If the ship gets boring,

801
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 1: then that opens the door for other ship. That opens

802
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 1: the door for cheating, it opens the door for insecurity

803
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,320
Speaker 1: and all of that. If the ship if you allow

804
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: the ship to get bored if you come every time, No,

805
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: it's boring if it's routine. Okay, if you know that

806
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: all it takes for him to each of pussy, for

807
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 1: you to come and every time that y'all get into it,

808
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: the first thing he jumped to do is go ahead

809
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: and each of puss and get that out the way.

810
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: Then yeah, that might get bored you after a while,

811
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 1: it's like here we go. It's only boring if he

812
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: don't know how to do it. Now, if he's got

813
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: a weak like tongue game, then that's boring. So as

814
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: long as you're coming every time, they don't matter if

815
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: you say every time, I don't got to come every time,

816
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: because then I'm he could like grocery, grocery because like

817
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: sometimes you just like just like sometimes I suck dick,

818
00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,879
Speaker 1: not to make the dick come, but like right before

819
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: it is about to take it in my pussy like that.

820
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 1: That's different. But that's that's different that we do a

821
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: lot of different things. No, but I get what you're saying,

822
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 1: Like when it becomes a routine, like okay, he's gonna

823
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: eat my pussy, Okay, then we're gonna I'm gonna come.

824
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find here comes about your over all? Right? Yeah? Okays,

825
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: and even even if even if it's pussy every time,

826
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 1: I don't mind either. I'm not gonna think it's not

827
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: your routine because you're not said every time every single

828
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: fucking so what's borrying about that? Yeah? But you gotta

829
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: to not make it different. You know what I mean?

830
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: Liken't like different back, I'm trying to get close to that.

831
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Cut it out. No, we're not

832
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: doing that. But but but if you feel an adventurous

833
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: for one day, meet in the bathroom at I don't know,

834
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: flip whatever, like you know, let's let's spice bathroom. That's

835
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: what I can like. It's the bathroom work. You know.

836
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,439
Speaker 1: It's okay to have that um your routine at home

837
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 1: or whatever, but you gotta spice it up like the car,

838
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 1: you know, have sex in the pool that trash you

839
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: to realize example, did anybody else think that it's awful?

840
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: I never enjoyed it. Yeah, it's nice, like try like

841
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: is not a good loube? But no, it's exactly And

842
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: I feel like the water even in the bathtub it

843
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 1: takes away the natural moise and it's so amazing bathroom

844
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: and the water it's like, yeah, exactly, that's better, Like

845
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: that's getting and the like you know, Beyonce was talking

846
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: about surfboard. You feel the tough like it's not even halfway.

847
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: You fill the tubber with just a little bit of

848
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: water to every time I still have the texts in

849
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: the bathtub, I end up being like, Okay, let's just

850
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: move it to the bed. When when when you're when

851
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: the when the generals are not under water the whole time,

852
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: like when it's just splashing you still the woman is

853
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 1: still able to you know, get moist. So it's still nice. Yeah,

854
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,320
Speaker 1: but the water doesn't doesn't need to be in the

855
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 1: doesn't need to be covered. It could be and it

856
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 1: should be there for you know, for slashing in the

857
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 1: shower for hours. Is Lyn just bet sextually ever had

858
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:44,399
Speaker 1: in the shower. It might be that's where it ain't

859
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: steaming and you're getting lightheaded because it's hot. Don't go

860
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: in the tub before because that was the I passed

861
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: out in the Yeah, and I was behind it and

862
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:08,919
Speaker 1: it was and I fell insane. Yeah, yeah, you passed

863
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: on the shop past I hit the ground. Oh my god,

864
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: are you okay? I hit the ground? You can still

865
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:22,760
Speaker 1: take And then it was hot and the dome before

866
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: I passed out because you know, when you're bout to

867
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 1: pass out, you gotta lay down first, because you're like,

868
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: I could day that we've got male pride was like,

869
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: no good, we're not pro Woke up dead, walk up

870
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: dead and T shirts made woke up dead? What was

871
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: the one next? My curse? My cur left left on

872
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: the back. Do men like to chase women? Because you

873
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: talk about your first day and that's how you kind

874
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: of already had laid it out. But do men like

875
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: that whole? Like, you know, we always talk about the

876
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: rules and like let a man chase you and let

877
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: him pursue you because they prefer that it's not can't

878
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: be too easy. What do you think about in a

879
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,959
Speaker 1: younger mind space? Yeah, yeah, you do like the chase

880
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 1: because it's the thrill of the thrill of new It's

881
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: the it's the knowing we're not knowing, but the thrill

882
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: of something possibly new and better. So the chase is

883
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: cool initially in a younger state of mind. I want

884
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: you mature. It's like chase for what I don't have

885
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 1: the energy. You don't want to chase at the beginning,

886
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: you don't want Rather, I would rather if I'm like,

887
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: if I'm in a more mature headspace, I'm gonna go somewhere.

888
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go somewhere where there's women that are in

889
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 1: a similar headspace to me. So it's like Chain will

890
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: make me chase too much because she ain't trying to

891
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 1: run that fast. So a little chase. So you like

892
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 1: a little chase, You like a little chase. You don't

893
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:57,919
Speaker 1: want to now I don't. I don't need no chase.

894
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,040
Speaker 1: I'm cool. Don't run from me. You gotta ring in

895
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 1: your fingers, get your use over here. How do you

896
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 1: know the difference Chase and somebody that just really likes you,

897
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 1: Like maybe she's reaching out or whatever because she really

898
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: likes you. Is that still like her being easy or

899
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: that you get what I'm trying to say, Like, I

900
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 1: don't they try the whole easy ship. I feel like

901
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: you can have sex on the first day and then

902
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: don't make you a home. That's that's just my personal place.

903
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: So when it becomes what becomes too much is when

904
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: it's inconvenient, Like you know, me. You know my life,

905
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm doing, you know, yeah, so you

906
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: know that I'm busy, and yet you take it upon

907
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: yourself to text me seventeen times. People do that like

908
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: new On, Like yeah, yeah, I would never listen. I've

909
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 1: experienced some things. I've experienced people camped outside my hotel room. Well,

910
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: that's my girlfriend, And like you, I don't know it.

911
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: It goes deep, it goes the celebrity. What do you

912
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: guys argue about now the most? What you said? You

913
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: and Cristal like, if you'll get into it, what is

914
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 1: the main thing that you're like, we gotta get this

915
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: right now. Mind you, we were two years in to marriage,

916
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 1: so I know that there are some epic arguments on

917
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: the horizon, but as of right now, we don't really

918
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 1: argue about much of anything. Right, Like I am, and

919
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: if I may pat myself on the back, I'm a

920
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 1: great fucking husband. I really really am. Anything that she needs,

921
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: she got, anything that she won't as long as it's

922
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,879
Speaker 1: within the budget, because come on, I'm rich, but let's

923
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 1: not let's not break. Let's not break. Yeah, let's stay rich.

924
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: Thank you. Anything she wants, she got, anything she needs.

925
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: When anything she needs. She got anything she wanted with

926
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: the reason she got. How do you decide that that

927
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: was who you wanted to marry? Funny and ship we're

928
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: not funny, but but interesting. Interesting. So you know when

929
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: you're with somebody and it's that that awkward silence that

930
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: happens where it's like, Okay, you don't really know what

931
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:51,279
Speaker 1: else to talk about it, and he don't really know

932
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: what else to talk about. So it's that somebody say something. Ship,

933
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 1: this is getting weird now to say something, and you

934
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: just that we don't do that. Like what made me

935
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 1: realize that she was the one is when we could

936
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: sit perfectly silent and just look at each other and

937
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 1: feel it without having without fighting for a conversation like

938
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: oh my god, let me think of something to talk

939
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,839
Speaker 1: about before this gets awkward. Like we can just sit

940
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: in a completely silent wound, just the two of us

941
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 1: and just be chilling and it's all and it's like,

942
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 1: it's not awkward, it's not weird, Like that's that's all.

943
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 1: That's a different that's a different connection that Yeah, that's

944
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: a different vibe. That's friends and yeah, that's yeah. And

945
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: you know what, I didn't know that there was a

946
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 1: difference between being being a friend with somebody that you're

947
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: involved with versus just being involved with somebody. No, it's

948
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: such a like there's a huge difference. Is like you know,

949
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: we're hugg and we kiss and we we do all that,

950
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: but we can't sit up and hold a regular conversation

951
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:47,879
Speaker 1: because we don't like none of the same ship. When

952
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: you're friends with the person you love, you could, like

953
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: you said you could, you could sit and have a

954
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 1: you could converse about anything to starting them with the

955
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 1: umb ship, and then you could just be quiet, chilling

956
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: doing your thing and her doing her thing in the

957
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: same room. And it's not a it's not an argument,

958
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 1: it's not And that's the first person you call for everything,

959
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: like anytime I had the first person you call, like

960
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: you would believe what happened today, you know, and then

961
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: you like, she's my homie, like she's I mean, she's

962
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: my wife and she's my lover and all of that,

963
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:26,359
Speaker 1: but we're actually friends, Like she goes down to my life.

964
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: I'll talk to her about it before anybody else. Did

965
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: you ever check yourself, like hold on them being a

966
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 1: little bit too comfortable now, Like I kind of I

967
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: kind of let it. I kind of just let it

968
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 1: flow because if if there ever was a situation where

969
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: I got too comfortable too soon, or something like, Like,

970
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: anybody that knows even a little bit about Crystal knows

971
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 1: that she got a mouth pH one and she ain't

972
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,399
Speaker 1: afraid to speak her painion. She ain't afraid to say

973
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 1: what's on her mind. So if it was ever that

974
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: she would definitely let it be know and knowing that

975
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 1: about her and that it's never happened, I know that

976
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: it's never gone there because she would very quickly and

977
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 1: she would volunteer, listen, here's what's going on. She would

978
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: happily do that, and and I appreciate that about her.

979
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: But like even if it's something little like something I

980
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 1: used to hate that my ex used to do. He said,

981
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: like I gotta fight or I gotta take a show.

982
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: He said, like, why do you feel some get it

983
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: like breath for a minute and we're cool, but don't

984
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 1: breathe not wanting to hear about your ship in the

985
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: far then that's too cool. We're two years in this.

986
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 1: We passed all that night. I don't like that I'm

987
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: in the bathroom brushing my teeth. She's taking this ship

988
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 1: right there, we're talking about the bag. Baby, another one

989
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: in the bathroom with me. When I'm shipping, this happen.

990
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 1: This happens. There are no fucking boundaries. It ain't no

991
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: closed the door. I'm shoting what you're talking about? Whatever? Baby, Now,

992
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:54,400
Speaker 1: if you ask me for some privacy, I ain't go ahead.

993
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: But but for the most cases like this, listen, this

994
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 1: is us forever. We ain't getting divorced. I ain't going

995
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 1: to where. Ain't going to where? You better ship happily

996
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: and just in the run whatever. Whatever. My boyfriend knows.

997
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: If I go in the bathroom and closes, he's not

998
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: even gonna come in in. You know, why are you

999
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 1: coming in? He aren't even bothering me. But that's that's attention.

1000
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:22,879
Speaker 1: That's that's he's attentive. Because if it ain't a thing open,

1001
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: but if the ship is closed and locked, it's like,

1002
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: let me live on. You don't even wanted her moment.

1003
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,319
Speaker 1: He won't saying nothing. I just go in there close

1004
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: to do it. He don't say nothing. He knows the

1005
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: deal because you understand a little bit open. He'll just

1006
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 1: walk in and be like all right, and just started talking. Yeah,

1007
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: that's that's an attentive one. That's one of the things

1008
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 1: that's that's awkward about being in a long term relationship.

1009
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 1: You're like peeing and he's like, like you, I just

1010
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: had a crazy dream. Man. He's peeing in the in

1011
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 1: the day and you're like, what the hell are your doing? Like,

1012
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't find the that's on the

1013
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: door number two. I was not like there, like I

1014
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 1: just want to share is and the I watched the

1015
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: doctor pull a baby out of this and watched the

1016
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: doctor cut this woman off, saying that pull her guts out,

1017
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: and then grabbed the baby and put the guts back in.

1018
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: And it's nothing about her. I never had a baby,

1019
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:21,760
Speaker 1: So maybe I'll feel that way when they have a baby.

1020
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: Will know I had a baby with a man I

1021
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 1: was waiting for eight years. He used to come in

1022
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 1: the bathroom. I'll be like, yo, can you get out?

1023
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 1: But I will just tell you about my day. Can

1024
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 1: you tell me later? Can you see what I haven't

1025
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,840
Speaker 1: even wiped myself? Can okay? But you know, let me

1026
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: ask you this when you eat it out of her

1027
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: on a period? Now, why I watched the guts come out?

1028
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to lick them ships y'all had y'all

1029
00:56:52,360 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 1: when y'all was looking period like yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, okay,

1030
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, I've been there not bleeding, yeah yeah yeah.

1031
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 1: With that area, it's like so even you could cut

1032
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: the stater and to hell with you for asking me.

1033
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 1: Shen't want she didn't want you to do that to

1034
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: do know, you only do it with a tampon. I

1035
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: tuck the strap and make sure you take a shower before.

1036
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 1: So I have I have hopped in the shower and

1037
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: hopped out because there's like that grace pier, you know

1038
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: about a good twenty minutes, a good couple of minutes, minutes,

1039
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 1: but then afterwards it's gonna it Also what kind of

1040
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: a day. It's a heavy day at the beginning. I

1041
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: can't play around. I just want to say, there's a

1042
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 1: jew in the bathroom for a reason. You're supposed to

1043
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: be closed, and you're supposed to do what you're doing

1044
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: on side, and the other side you do whatever you

1045
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 1: do in the bedroom common area. You know what's really interesting.

1046
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: I can't wait. You get in a relationship. You know

1047
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: what's crazy, because I've been a relationship. She won't talk

1048
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 1: to me and do what kind of ship while or

1049
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 1: when I'm in the bout? Yeah, so why can't you?

1050
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 1: So I'm asking, have you never been with a guy

1051
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: that you was as close to as you are with her? Listen?

1052
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: So yes, But I'm gonna tell you something when it

1053
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: comes to like stuff like pooping and at her is

1054
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: in a relationship of I lived with the guy everything

1055
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: almost five for almost five years, like we were very

1056
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 1: very close. But I see something wrong with like like

1057
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 1: I don't talk in the detail to him about sucking

1058
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 1: another man did Oh my god, that's what I'm saying,

1059
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: and certain things you can do around your girlfriends. I

1060
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: don't talk to him in detail about my period. I'll

1061
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 1: do that with her. You get what you do? Gross?

1062
00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: I would, though I'm saying, I feel like crap when

1063
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking to him. I wouldn't be like ship. I'm not.

1064
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: That's that's a warning for him. It's not a warning.

1065
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I just like sexiness. I like to

1066
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 1: keep a certain what's the word that I'm looking for.

1067
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: It's basically like dick, I don't want a certain mistake

1068
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: like this is something that he's gonna be eating and

1069
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 1: STI when you get. When you get past the desire

1070
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 1: for that mistique, you will experience real love. Yeah, that

1071
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 1: when you get because real condition meaning no condition meaning

1072
00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 1: I don't care if you shouldn't, I don't care what's

1073
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: going on. I love you. That's that's that's the way. Yes,

1074
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: stinky shit smell smell yours and my daughters. I feel

1075
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: like I know I'm in love when I could go

1076
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: a couple of days without shaving, you know, like good

1077
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: a little nobody, So I shave my legs, but my

1078
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: way through the jungle and get to them. No, no, everyone,

1079
01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: What are the good man things can we expect on

1080
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: the album besides just the apology, or so besides just

1081
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: the apology, the whole album. It's kind of a storyline

1082
01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:32,479
Speaker 1: that plays through the album, and it's literally it's based

1083
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: off of the concept of the caterpillar to the butterfly.

1084
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: So the caterpillar stage is basically where you know, you're

1085
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: a man doing what you do. You're running around different

1086
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 1: women's you know, saying whatever it is you need to

1087
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: say to get what you want, whatever the case may be.

1088
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 1: The cocoon is when you find somebody that you actually

1089
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: give a funk about and you get into a relationship

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01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 1: with this person. Now here's the thing that a lot

1091
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: of people don't realize about a caterpillar in the cocoon.

1092
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 1: If you ever somewhere and you see a caterpillar or

1093
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: you see a butterfly trying to get out of the cocoon,

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01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: it's a struggle. It doesn't happen overnight. It's that he

1095
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 1: has to literally struggle to get out of it. Serious fight. Now,

1096
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 1: if you ever took it upon yourself to help that

1097
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 1: butterfly get out of there, you just killed the butterfly

1098
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: because his wings ain't strong enough to hold them. So

1099
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 1: basically saying, without the struggle, you can't fly. So the

1100
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 1: struggle of the cocoon is when you're in that relationship

1101
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: and you mess up and have to have to do

1102
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 1: that self realization, that that self reflection and and fix yourself.

1103
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 1: And then the butterfly stage, of course, is when you

1104
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 1: get to that place where you make the decision you

1105
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna actually give a damn about somebody

1106
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 1: other than me. I'm gonna actually do right by this person,

1107
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: not just not be an angel in front of her

1108
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: and then do all my dirt behind our back, But

1109
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: like really do it right the right way, whether she's

1110
01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 1: there or not, whether she's in front of me or not,

1111
01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: do it the right way. That's that's the butterfly stage.

1112
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: So it's kind of a story that that that that

1113
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: follows that. So you're a butterfly now, I'm I'm very

1114
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 1: fly butterfly right now? Yes, you think you could be

1115
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 1: with one woman the rest of your life? Can you

1116
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 1: be with one woman the rest of your life? You

1117
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: think monogamy is definitely? I think could natural? I think

1118
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 1: I could. Yeah, because again, it's about get me drunk,

1119
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: because it's it's about it's about it's about what you

1120
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 1: turn it into. Like, the only time relationships don't work

1121
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 1: is when you turn it into something that's not supposed

1122
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 1: to be. You're not supposed to be You're not supposed

1123
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 1: to hit each other in the relationship. You're not supposed

1124
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 1: to argue all the time in the relationship. You're not

1125
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: supposed to cheat on your significant other, exactly, exactly. The

1126
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 1: only time it gets bad is when you introduce things

1127
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 1: that ain't supposed to be there in the first place.

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01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: You're not supposed to get kissed in them out by

1129
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 1: two year old boys. I'm joking that man to kiss me. Listen,

1130
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: let me tell you, before he even kiss me, he

1131
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: saw me and through the one of these like my

1132
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: sister was with me, and my sister was like, did

1133
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 1: you see that? And I was like, yeah, seen it,

1134
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 1: but I see it, and then the kiss came. You know,

1135
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 1: you could you could have prevented it, only you expecting

1136
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 1: you to run up and jump on like you normally do.

1137
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: And if you ladies, ready to get married in this room? Yeah,

1138
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 1: I'm ready to get married in this room. Yeah, anyway,

1139
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: right now, I ready get married. And it's not I

1140
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: feel like I got to see somebody ship all the time,

1141
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 1: and I shipped like a weirdo with my knees to

1142
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 1: my chest like this, yeah, like party I have and

1143
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 1: he will come in my knees up and automatically know

1144
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: that that's what I was doing, and we would still

1145
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 1: just have it. That's the natural way that if you

1146
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 1: ship like this, like you regularly ship, your muscles cut

1147
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: off your your what's the name, and everything doesn't get out.

1148
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 1: You're supposed to put your knees out. That you're supposed

1149
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 1: to put your knees up. And I think it's all

1150
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 1: the way they had like a stool and you put

1151
01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:00,560
Speaker 1: your Yeah, that's a squatty potty. Yeah. My mother has

1152
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 1: the commercial for you know. I see it in that

1153
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 1: bathroom beyond because I love that bathroom beyond and look

1154
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 1: up squatty potty and look at the commercial for you. No,

1155
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 1: I'll just take the little garbage can and put it

1156
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: right there. You haven't, ye, that would be a great

1157
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:21,840
Speaker 1: present for We gonna get the perfect T shirt and

1158
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 1: the T shirt perfect. We're gonna make them squatt potties

1159
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: is promo for the album Butterfly Squat Butterfly Squad. I'm

1160
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 1: done well. We appreciate you Nia for coming through. The

1161
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: album's coming out when and June eighth. The album is

1162
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: in stores. Singles that are out right and I'm dropping

1163
01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 1: a single every month up until June. So we got

1164
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 1: too out right now. We got good Man, that's out

1165
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: right now. We got pushed Back this out right now.

1166
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 1: We just dropped the video for Pushback. Uh stefinitely donn

1167
01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:02,080
Speaker 1: and gonna be gonna check that out. Go everywhere music

1168
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 1: and stream, checkout the records. Tell me what you think.

1169
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: That's the most important part to me. I need my

1170
01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: fans to hit me on my I gen on my

1171
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: Twitter and tell me what you think of these records,

1172
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 1: because again, this is only halfway from me. The other

1173
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 1: half is for y'all. If y'all don't like what I'm doing,

1174
01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: you need to tell me so that I can get

1175
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: my ship. Like, everybody, what's your favorite Neil song? Because

1176
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 1: Neil got a lot of smaships them. Again, when I

1177
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: tell you to this day, at least three times a

1178
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 1: week when I'm getting dressed in the morning, I listened

1179
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: said the whole year of the Gentleman album. Okay, first

1180
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 1: in my word suit come only right, but yeah, that yeah,

1181
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 1: the Gentleman part of the listen everything on there, nobody son,

1182
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:52,840
Speaker 1: that's that's a real fan. And then you gave I

1183
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:55,480
Speaker 1: was kind of mad, hold on because you gave the

1184
01:05:55,600 --> 01:06:00,680
Speaker 1: song to the new new kids on the Block. Your

1185
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 1: fingers up please, I'm a big new because I'm a

1186
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 1: block fan. I you know what I was too on

1187
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 1: the low, I wasn't I That's why I gave that record.

1188
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 1: Mind you. My sister had the posters and all of

1189
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: that man trying to shock. I was like, they were

1190
01:06:22,240 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 1: like kind of tough, remember hanging. So that was it

1191
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 1: was before me and you are pretty what We're close

1192
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:34,280
Speaker 1: to the same age. And it was my older sister,

1193
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: like my sisters like six years older than me. So

1194
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: she had like newkids on the block posters and cards,

1195
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 1: and I was like a little baby. I love newcas

1196
01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 1: on the what's your favorite near? So that okay? Yeah,

1197
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: I'm really sitting here to pick one. I have to

1198
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: look real quick. You got a lot, you know what

1199
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 1: I love. I love his hip hop collaborations. Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1200
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:03,760
Speaker 1: yeah that guy shout out to the boy brand new bands. Listen.

1201
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna friend. I'm like, not just because you're

1202
01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 1: standing on this couch. You're not trying nothing. He always been.

1203
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:11,640
Speaker 1: You've always been one of my favorite artists. Like you're dope,

1204
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: bad guys and that takes a lot. Yeah, baby, Ramy,

1205
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 1: I'll let your boy. We need to do another one.

1206
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 1: Do need to do it? And make me better with father.

1207
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 1: He never likes I'm twelve years in, y'all, Like we've

1208
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: been some people twelve years and we want them to

1209
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: be thirteen years out. Sorry, people wrap somebody's sexy to ye.

1210
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:46,320
Speaker 1: I'm not going friend. I like the pop pop size,

1211
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 1: so sick and stay Okay, She took back. That's like

1212
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 1: the first that's my favorite you at the beginning I

1213
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 1: was at the beginning of your career, I was, I mean,

1214
01:07:57,000 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 1: not that I'm not a fan anymore, but I was like, really,

1215
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 1: I like bad Boys. I was, actually I was impressed

1216
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 1: by your talent, especially when I found out that you

1217
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: did so much of your own work, because there's so

1218
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 1: many people out here who have writers and have producers

1219
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: and they're they're only the the entertainment part of it.

1220
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 1: But when you put your brain, in your heart and

1221
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 1: your soul into it, and you do it for so

1222
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,519
Speaker 1: many other people. When I found that out about you,

1223
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:24,960
Speaker 1: then that's what really made me interested in getting to

1224
01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:27,320
Speaker 1: know your work. So your earliest work, and I'm the

1225
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:29,799
Speaker 1: same way with jay Z, his earliest I'm the hugest

1226
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:31,840
Speaker 1: jay Z fan in my mind that ever existed, but

1227
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,560
Speaker 1: his earliest work is always my favorite work because I

1228
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 1: was get down like that that yeah oh yeah, yeah,

1229
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. And I'm from Philly and you know the

1230
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 1: whole pee crack thing and in the video shout out

1231
01:08:57,400 --> 01:09:02,280
Speaker 1: Scott No. And we worked together on Forever. Now that's

1232
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 1: one of my favorite songs. Yeah, I was in that video.

1233
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:07,200
Speaker 1: We made out a lot in that video. We didn't

1234
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 1: good man, acting, we should started heading next to each other.

1235
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 1: I just went right there on two y'all saved that

1236
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:27,800
Speaker 1: for the last actually started with watch the video. You

1237
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:38,639
Speaker 1: can see the video now he kissing. Yeah, not cut, Neil.

1238
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:40,479
Speaker 1: You just keep your tongue in your mouth when you're

1239
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:43,200
Speaker 1: doing these kind of scenes. Is that what happens? And ended?

1240
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 1: It happened with your with your Remember now she's being

1241
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 1: heads up? Okay, jest, take the blog out of you know.

1242
01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 1: I wasn't married at the time. We was acting and

1243
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,479
Speaker 1: we was in character. So yeah, we went in and

1244
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:05,760
Speaker 1: yeah and no, and I have to say this when

1245
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 1: we when we got to set, my manager at the

1246
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 1: time got me this part and it was an acting part.

1247
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 1: It was an acting part, and they didn't think I

1248
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 1: could do it. Like they were like they had somebody

1249
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:25,080
Speaker 1: on standby, and yeah, they had excuse me, man, this

1250
01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 1: is just not wheah. You know, through the industry circles,

1251
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:32,920
Speaker 1: we were friends, we knew each other. So we got

1252
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: on set and it was like easy, Like I was

1253
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 1: supposed to be the crazy girlfriend arguing eye and earlier

1254
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,240
Speaker 1: you asked him like what kind of lover he is

1255
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: if he's a savage or a nice guy. But on

1256
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:52,720
Speaker 1: set of the video, like we were. We had this

1257
01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 1: like passionate relationship on set and he was like really

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Speaker 1: strong and intense, you know what I mean. It was

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Speaker 1: it was good, Like I think we did a good job.

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Speaker 1: I think. Listen, y'all take it upon yourself any free

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Speaker 1: time to go to the video? Yeah, yeah, run back

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Speaker 1: the name forever now right now? Alright, so good man,

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Speaker 1: good kissing good singer. Alright, Ladies and Jenn