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Speaker 1: Let's go letter alright, subject, I want a little extra too.

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Speaker 1: I want a little something extra too, Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: this is uh. This one is short and sweet. I

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Speaker 1: actually want Tommy's opinion too. If that's so, you know

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Speaker 1: it's a crazy letter. No, no, no, but that's see.

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Speaker 1: You see how they did, how they included. This one

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Speaker 1: is shot as sweet. I actually want time his opinion too.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Oh, same sentence I get. I've been married

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Speaker 1: to a wonderful man for the past twelve years, and

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Speaker 1: we have a great marriage. I have done any and

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Speaker 1: everything to make him happy. Most importantly, we have a

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Speaker 1: very exciting sex life. I often let him have threesomes,

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Speaker 1: and I've started to really enjoy them myself. But there's

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Speaker 1: a big problem. Our threesomes are always with females. I

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Speaker 1: want to switch it up and have another man end

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Speaker 1: to join us sometimes instead of a woman. When I

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Speaker 1: bring this up to my husband, he always gets mad

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Speaker 1: and ends the conversation. Why can't I have a little

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Speaker 1: something extra too? So it's okay for him to have

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Speaker 1: all the fun, I don't think. So what do you

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Speaker 1: guys think? I think you're barking up the wrong tree. Uh,

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Speaker 1: this is never gonna happen. This is what happens really

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Speaker 1: when bedroom games go just a little too far. You

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Speaker 1: say you do any and everything to make him happy.

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Speaker 1: You have not said one time in the letter what

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Speaker 1: he does to make you happy? You asked him, and

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Speaker 1: you see it didn't happen. It's called a double double standard.

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Speaker 1: Wifey Um. As crazy as it seems, just no man

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Speaker 1: really wants to lie back and watch his wife get

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Speaker 1: done by another man. I mean, you know, in very

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Speaker 1: rare occasions, it's just you know, very rare occasions, maybe, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but generally no, Um, it's just not gonna happen. He

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Speaker 1: wants to have all the fun, like you said, and

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Speaker 1: satisfy his fantasies by watching you and another woman and

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Speaker 1: be able to do another woman while you don't get

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Speaker 1: mad but actually cheer him on and don't mind it

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Speaker 1: a bit. A lot of men will sign up for

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Speaker 1: that if that's what they're into. But you're tired of

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Speaker 1: his selfishness and the one sidedness and all of this, right, Well,

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Speaker 1: please realize it's not going to change, and he will

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Speaker 1: probably never allow another man in the bedroom in the threesome.

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Speaker 1: So I say, shut all of this manager stuff down,

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Speaker 1: shut it down all together. Try to get back to

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Speaker 1: the intimacy of the two of you. Uh, and if

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Speaker 1: if you can, Because this kind of relationship, this kind

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Speaker 1: of intrusion in your marriage and in your bed. Uh,

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Speaker 1: it's bound to cause some major problems. And it already

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Speaker 1: is doing that, Steve Well, she wants Tommy's opinion. This

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Speaker 1: is right up Tommy's that. I'm gonna let Tommy join in,

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Speaker 1: But let me explain something to you first. Yeah, there

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Speaker 1: can only be one dangling participle. That can only be

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Speaker 1: one dangling part of sipan glad in this situation. Men

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be in no room. And it's more than

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Speaker 1: one of these dangling part of ciplicals in this room

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Speaker 1: because he now's not a threesome anymore. It's an orgy. Now,

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Speaker 1: we like threesoms. We don't care for orgies. Hello, see

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Speaker 1: a pile of but is in the flow and it's

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Speaker 1: some men somewhere and my my leg touched his legs. See,

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Speaker 1: we gotta be a problem in him. Now. I can't

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Speaker 1: look over there, and all of a sudden he rubbing

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Speaker 1: on my wash your hand over you have a an

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Speaker 1: orgy and it's not This is not a threesome any

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Speaker 1: more threesomes. It's clearly defined as to what they are.

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Speaker 1: I ain't with none of this, but Tommy, go ahead,

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Speaker 1: I am with all of this. Keep giving the threesomes.

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Speaker 1: Don't stop this. Don't be selfish. It's not about you.

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Speaker 1: If I want to stop, that's not the issue. She

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to stop. This is not about her. We're

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Speaker 1: not bringing in no extra men. You can't that that

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Speaker 1: other man can't graze up against me. That can't happen.

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Speaker 1: But the threesomes have to continue. Whoever y'all bringing in there,

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Speaker 1: I tell you whoever it is sure, not to say sure,

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Speaker 1: but but whoever you bringing in there, I have I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying I have participated, but I have heard about

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Speaker 1: these engagements and they're wonderful. You want this, and if

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Speaker 1: you start now, I'm just saying, surely, if you started

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Speaker 1: out doing this for your man, this has to continue now.

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Speaker 1: She says, she enjoys it too, but now she wants

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Speaker 1: to add a man too. She wants then see what

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Speaker 1: he's scared over is you're gonna bring in King Swain.

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Speaker 1: I don't get calm on the boat rampage everywhere. Well,

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Speaker 1: man gonna be standing in the corner sucking pause that

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Speaker 1: and tow the yard of so bad that y'all don't

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Speaker 1: look like it can be no more good free Please,

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Speaker 1: you ain't here Holland, but Holland harder and a lot

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Speaker 1: of than when he and that she likes things in threes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she wanted a three part answer from all of us. Well,

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Speaker 1: there you have it. Surely said it right. No man

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Speaker 1: wants to watch another man do his wife. No man

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Speaker 1: wants to watch that. And now you seem to enjoy

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Speaker 1: him doing another woman and you another woman in Now

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Speaker 1: you know that's y'all. But you know I'm I see

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Speaker 1: once Shirley is right. Once you bring this in, let

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Speaker 1: the games begin. So what you ought to do is

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Speaker 1: just surprise him and had a dude over there. All right, Look,

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Speaker 1: coming up, we're going to interview Evy Eviest, season one's

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Speaker 1: winner from the singing competition show The four Battle for Stardom.

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Speaker 1: Every will bring us the world premiere, That's right, I said,

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Speaker 1: the world premiere of her brand new song how does

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Speaker 1: It Feel? Well? That? Part two? Steve's response Part two

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Speaker 1: of your response to today's Strawberry letter. So are going

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Speaker 1: to do a reactment of what can happen with this

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Speaker 1: woman who's been doing this threesome with a man because

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Speaker 1: she's enjoyed it. Now she thinks he's having all the fun.

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Speaker 1: She wants you to do another man into it. And

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Speaker 1: here's what can happen if that happens. I come in

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Speaker 1: and work. Honey. Oh hey, baby, how are you doing? Honey?

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Speaker 1: I'm good girl to hey? You ready for that? You

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Speaker 1: know we talked about doing this, yes, yes, yes, and boy,

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Speaker 1: do I have a surprise for you. I like your surprised,

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Speaker 1: I know you do. You're gonna like that last one

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Speaker 1: you had it here good that last one I got to. Oh,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you? Honey. Well, well, it is my

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Speaker 1: hope that you'll be high fighting baby. But baby, but

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Speaker 1: notice what, honey, Now, I'm fine as you though. I

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Speaker 1: thank you, honey. That makes me feel good. That makes

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Speaker 1: hope you still feel that way. Let's always and forever. Well,

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Speaker 1: take my hand, let me lead you on into the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Open the door. I know you're I don't keep your eye.

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Speaker 1: Are you so excited? Right? Oh? This is gonna be fun.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love this, honey. Just a couple more stairs

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Speaker 1: to go. Careful, careful, careful, I know, careful. Here we go. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: open the door, honey, you can open your eyes. Now

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Speaker 1: open honey. What's going on? Next? Is my name? Next? Loan? Well, honey, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Well surprised you, honey. You know what I told you.

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Speaker 1: I've been telling you. I wanted to switch it up

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Speaker 1: a bit and maybe hey, pardon who are you? Hey?

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Speaker 1: Like I said before? Man? Next? Next a loon, honey,

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Speaker 1: this is Dexter. Yet, well, I just call him Deck.

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Speaker 1: You called him Deck? Yeah, you call me Decks to

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Speaker 1: hold on, hold on? Why why is he in here?

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Speaker 1: But well, because, honey, you know, I've been telling you

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Speaker 1: have some fun too, so I brought in Decks. You know,

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Speaker 1: we always have a woman, and now I thought, you know,

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Speaker 1: we'd bring a guy in and switch it up a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on?

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Speaker 1: What you work? What? Yes? Yes? What? What? What? What

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Speaker 1: you meet? Just do that? Baby? Well? Um, at the

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Speaker 1: grocery store. He was in the Yeah, in the produce section.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold a partner? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what are you when you're laughing for? And why are

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Speaker 1: is dexter dexter long, and you know we're gonna add

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Speaker 1: go in? Hey, hey, hey, hey, already know what the

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Speaker 1: Why I got a drug? And what is all this

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Speaker 1: toys to have some fun. Brother, swing set? What does

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Speaker 1: in there? What do the market? Do you gotta swing set?

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Speaker 1: On market? You got a cam? Quarter were filming this?

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Speaker 1: We other ones? Honey? What do you mean? I thought

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Speaker 1: it'd be fun? Hold on hold on three of the

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Speaker 1: grocery store? You meet? Just do that? How you get

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Speaker 1: Down at the Gilson's. We don't go to Gillson baby,

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Speaker 1: we're shopping whole foods and round. What the hell are

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Speaker 1: something different. Yeah, she met me right by the cucumber.

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Speaker 1: Hold up, don't his name is Dex, Honey? Did you

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Speaker 1: stuff see the pecks on dead? Y'all looking at the

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Speaker 1: and I'm scared. And then you and I don't know

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Speaker 1: put your crothes on and get out of my house though,

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Speaker 1: Oh I can't. I came in my under Bama man. Hey,

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Speaker 1: well hold, I'm don't how did you get over here? No?

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Speaker 1: I drove? Okay, did you drive you and your drawings

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Speaker 1: helly dog dog dog? Do if you get your ass

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Speaker 1: they How about this, brother? How about this? How about

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Speaker 1: you run to the store real quick. Let me go

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Speaker 1: I'm going to the store. I'll be right back. Come on,

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Speaker 1: come on, yeah yeah yeah yeah. And guess when I'm

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Speaker 1: pointing that deck, Yeah yeah, I know that picks. Come home? Brother, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: gonna need medical. You don't get your car, get up

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Speaker 1: out of here, all right, honey, we gotta go. Yeahs

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Speaker 1: on your way out. You send your sister in here,

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Speaker 1: and she got to be all right. Listen, go to

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Speaker 1: strawberry letters. Go at my girl Shirley with your thoughts

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Speaker 1: on today's strawberry letters. You're listening to The Stave Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show.