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Speaker 1: welcome to How Men Think. I'm here with the man
Speaker 1: of the hour, the Tower of Power. Mr Jerry O'Connell. You,
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Speaker 1: All right, Um, we're so happy to be guest hosting
Speaker 1: How Men Think. We're gonna answer all your questions and
Speaker 1: solve the fascinating question of how man thinks. So first,
Speaker 1: this is eleven Questions with Akbar and Jerry. Let's get
Speaker 1: right into it. Jerry, you ready, let's go. You know,
Speaker 1: so you know, we've been having a lot of fun
Speaker 1: on the Talk as as hosts. UM So tell tell,
Speaker 1: tell the listeners out there. What are you known for?
Speaker 1: Tell us about yourself? UM I a strange question. I
Speaker 1: can answer it. I'm Garry O'Connell. Um I. Uh I
Speaker 1: was a young actor. I was in a movie stand
Speaker 1: by Me, UM when I was younger, and it was
Speaker 1: kind of a cult classic. You know, it did h
Speaker 1: big hit, Yeah, kind of, you know, I think it
Speaker 1: was a cult class. It is a cult classic. I
Speaker 1: mean it's not like it's not like Titanic. I don't
Speaker 1: think it like like it's not et you know, it's
Speaker 1: not like you know, Independence Day. I don't think it
Speaker 1: was like a huge financial hit, but it was like
Speaker 1: it's it was made the thirty over three, two years
Speaker 1: ago when people are still talking about it. But um,
Speaker 1: I didn't really act that much as a kid actor.
Speaker 1: I went to college and um I really got busy
Speaker 1: again as an actor. UM out of college in my
Speaker 1: twenties and uh I acted in a few TV shows,
Speaker 1: a sci fi show called Sliders, a cop show called
Speaker 1: Crossing Jordan's UM and UH did a bunch of movies
Speaker 1: kangaro Jack with UM did you know after the first movie?
Speaker 1: After your first movie you knew, like this is the
Speaker 1: path that larta for the rest of my life. You know, Um,
Speaker 1: I knew I felt most comfortable on a set like
Speaker 1: I felt. Um, when I was a kid, everyone was
Speaker 1: like at school, I was always getting in trouble for
Speaker 1: speaking out of turn or you know, just being a
Speaker 1: crazy kid. And when I was on a set on
Speaker 1: stand by Me, you know, the director was like, no,
Speaker 1: we want you to be crazy in the scene, like
Speaker 1: keep talking, do it. And I remember thinking, I mean
Speaker 1: it was like a light went off my head, like wow,
Speaker 1: I haven't been crazy. I just needed to find my crowd.
Speaker 1: And uh, I um, I've been acting for years and
Speaker 1: uh about ten years ago, right first, when I met you,
Speaker 1: I started to get a little more into the talk
Speaker 1: show stuff. Um, with Kelly Rippa, I co hosted with
Speaker 1: with her a lot, and then with Wendy Williams. I
Speaker 1: co hosted with Wendy Williams a lot, and then um,
Speaker 1: this opportunity came up on the talk earlier this year.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've only you know, it's it's funny. I
Speaker 1: I came on and March. I mean bar was here
Speaker 1: in August, you know, I mean like it's just you
Speaker 1: know and this is it's a great thing because as
Speaker 1: we were guest co hosting, it was so comforting to
Speaker 1: know that, oh, they bring I was like somebody that
Speaker 1: I know, you know, and I thought, you know, I
Speaker 1: should be paying you ten percent. No, but I thought
Speaker 1: it was very helpful to have somebody that you know,
Speaker 1: that you're familiar with, you know. I mean, especially when
Speaker 1: you're in a new format. It's different from doing you know,
Speaker 1: the other shows that I've done before, So it was
Speaker 1: very helpful to kind of like, oh, yeah, I know jury,
Speaker 1: Oh this is great. So yeah, I mean it is
Speaker 1: and it is funny doing a talk show. It's totally different.
Speaker 1: It's and and it's so funny too, because I've done
Speaker 1: a couple of talk shows. Now, um, this uh, this
Speaker 1: talk show is completely different because there's like five voices,
Speaker 1: so you it's not so much even when you're saying something,
Speaker 1: it's knowing when to not say something. You know. It's um,
Speaker 1: it's really interesting. It's um. It's been a fun run.
Speaker 1: And I gotta tell you, I love I love being
Speaker 1: up there with you. You're you're so um your background,
Speaker 1: your story, I mean, I'm I'm a I'm a fan
Speaker 1: of sports. So I'm so happy to have a former
Speaker 1: NFL player up there. I mean, it's just that's mine
Speaker 1: played before. I played one in a movie. I certainly
Speaker 1: didn't come close to playing one in real life. I
Speaker 1: just played one on TV. But it's so fun. And
Speaker 1: your stories, um, you know, the your history that you
Speaker 1: pull from. Um. You know obviously when you talk about
Speaker 1: you know, your time in the NFL and getting to
Speaker 1: the NFL and playing in a deep one school and
Speaker 1: all that stuff is um is very exciting for me.
Speaker 1: But um, really, what I find maybe the most interesting
Speaker 1: is your childhood and where you're from and your family
Speaker 1: and um, where you're from, tell us about that. You know,
Speaker 1: so many people, you know, they hear the last name,
Speaker 1: and they hear the first name, they go, well, where
Speaker 1: are you from? And it's a it's a really rich
Speaker 1: story because my parents came to America from Nigeria. My
Speaker 1: father came in seventy four, my mom came in like
Speaker 1: sixty nine, and they came like the movie Coming to America.
Speaker 1: They came to America to have a better life, better dream. Well, actually,
Speaker 1: in comeing to America, they were rich, so it wasn't
Speaker 1: Maybe that's not a good comparison, but they came over
Speaker 1: here for a better life. And I grew up in
Speaker 1: a household that was rich with Nigerian culture. But I
Speaker 1: also had like essentially like a split personality, not the
Speaker 1: medical term split personality, and that when I went to school,
Speaker 1: I had to be the American kid because back then,
Speaker 1: you know you're being made fun of. You know, you
Speaker 1: know you're different, right, And so I lived and balance
Speaker 1: in that world. But it gave me so much perspective,
Speaker 1: Like that duality, not only the duality of you know,
Speaker 1: growing up in an African American neighborhood, of growing up
Speaker 1: in a Nigerian household. My parents had a different religion.
Speaker 1: My father was Muslim, my mom Christian. So I grew
Speaker 1: up going to the mosque saying a lawak bar and
Speaker 1: then saying praise God and Jesus, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So that having that type of perspective, I think it's
Speaker 1: made me. It's such a well rounded person, uh, an
Speaker 1: empathic person. You know, you know I do send maybe
Speaker 1: more than um other people, but I tend to be
Speaker 1: very empathetic towards people. UM. And it's just really because
Speaker 1: of that that duality and growing up grow been a
Speaker 1: mixed family, although we were never able to say, you know,
Speaker 1: step brothers or anything like that like that was that
Speaker 1: that term still sounds unfamiliar to me, but that's um.
Speaker 1: So it's given me a different perspective in life. And
Speaker 1: you know, then sports and being in a big community
Speaker 1: so big family seven uh seven uh um six sevengs
Speaker 1: seven of us total, and then being in a big
Speaker 1: spot like basketball and then football. Um, the team perspective
Speaker 1: has always been. I've always been about you know that
Speaker 1: that team environment. I love a team like. That's why
Speaker 1: the talk environment works for me because it's not a
Speaker 1: one man show, two men. I mean, it's a it's
Speaker 1: a team. It's legit what I call it our starting five.
Speaker 1: I was referred to as their starting five. But it's
Speaker 1: impacted me now as as a father and and just
Speaker 1: making sure that you know, my kids are well rounded.
Speaker 1: Um it's you know a lot of people don't know
Speaker 1: this about me, but you know that well roundedness carried
Speaker 1: on into my you know, my love or Try album.
Speaker 1: I've done forty countries. I have a goal, by the
Speaker 1: grace of God, one day to see you know, two
Speaker 1: hundred plus countries. I want to go I've been to
Speaker 1: five continents. Um, I should have done Australia. About my
Speaker 1: wife said I can't go without her, So I haven't
Speaker 1: done that trip. But I want to go to Antarctica
Speaker 1: in Australia, so I would complete seven continents. But I
Speaker 1: still need to do the other countries as well. But crazy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: did your you you say you're one of seven and
Speaker 1: you're on the younger side. Yeah, I'm number six or seven. Um,
Speaker 1: did your older siblings did they guide? Did they help you?
Speaker 1: Did they? Yeah? My oldest brother who's always really like
Speaker 1: you know, a third parent. Um, as my parents were hustling,
Speaker 1: we didn't grow up with a lot of means, and
Speaker 1: so my oldest brother fully was always um, you know,
Speaker 1: in charge of us and helped raise us and you know,
Speaker 1: get us to where we need to get get to.
Speaker 1: And you know, when he started working, he would always
Speaker 1: hook us up with is you know, hand me down.
Speaker 1: But his hand medals were fresh because he had his
Speaker 1: own money, you know, right, so we you know, we
Speaker 1: could always resteal some of his stuff because he had
Speaker 1: the cool Raiders jacket that you know, I got Jack
Speaker 1: four one day and that was Yeah, there's a remember
Speaker 1: there was an era in a time period where if
Speaker 1: you wore a Raiders jacket, first off, you were cool,
Speaker 1: but you would also get jack fo you lose your
Speaker 1: life wearing a Raiders jacket back in the in the
Speaker 1: nineties or late eighties, early nineties. And I remember I
Speaker 1: got jacked. I was so mad. How old were you
Speaker 1: when you got jacks for your Raiders jack? Oh? Boy?
Speaker 1: It was in middle school, so it was like seventh pagers.
Speaker 1: I must have been thirteen four tix. Crazy because I
Speaker 1: know you as someone who is six six two fifty. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you're the last person I would jack anything off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but when you have a weapon, your size doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Doesn't matter. Yeah, but that so, so a weapon was
Speaker 1: drawn on you for your Raider from a Raiders jacket.
Speaker 1: That's a traumatic experience. Yeah, yeah, it is. It is
Speaker 1: a traumatic experience. But you know, you do learn from
Speaker 1: those experience and makes you more vigilant, more hyper aware
Speaker 1: where you are in space. I mean, I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying I'm just starting to ask what could you
Speaker 1: have done differently? And in that situation, we know where
Speaker 1: to be, you know. And it's like it's funny that
Speaker 1: you say that because my wife is always getting on
Speaker 1: me now until today, Like when we go to a restaurant,
Speaker 1: I sit with my back, um, you know, on my
Speaker 1: face facing towards the exit or the front door. I
Speaker 1: always want to see what's coming around um. And it's
Speaker 1: just really just I think until then, until it's something
Speaker 1: like that happens, you don't know that you need to
Speaker 1: be more aware, you know. So I'm always looking at people.
Speaker 1: So why do you always look at everyone's a threat?
Speaker 1: Because potentially they could be a threat, you know, so
Speaker 1: I want to see it happening before. So I really
Speaker 1: pick up on those types of body cues. Like that's
Speaker 1: a skill. It really is a skill. And here's another
Speaker 1: thing that helps me out too, is it as a
Speaker 1: nosy kid, you know, everybody can relate to Your parents
Speaker 1: are arguing and you want to know what they're saying,
Speaker 1: right you just my parents spoke a different language at home,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, we weren't fluent in Yoduba, and so
Speaker 1: I'd be listening, I couldn't understand what they were saying,
Speaker 1: so I could only rely on body language. So I
Speaker 1: became instilled, to this day, very proficient in reading. By
Speaker 1: the look, you could be talking to me, and I
Speaker 1: hear nothing you're saying, and I'm looking at your body,
Speaker 1: and your body is telling me everything. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 1: So I look at that, and so I see somebody
Speaker 1: who's I think this person is about to jack this dude. Right,
Speaker 1: I can see things happening before when, which is crazy.
Speaker 1: When you played for the Raiders. Yeah, did you replace
Speaker 1: that jacket? You've got jack for it? Yeah, I got
Speaker 1: a lot I got, I got, I got a lot
Speaker 1: of Raiders get her, that's for sure, Raider shorts, Raiders
Speaker 1: shirts because it's still the coldest color in all of all.
Speaker 1: And I listen, I don't want to have set you
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm not even a Raider saying, but
Speaker 1: if a Raiders shirt? Guys, where how men think? My
Speaker 1: My wife is from Oakland? So I will wear Raiding
Speaker 1: born raised, her mom live in Oakland. Oh, we gotta
Speaker 1: hang out. I um, i've met yet, and you've not
Speaker 1: met my wife yet to this day. Yeah, we have
Speaker 1: to have a day. Um to this day, though, I
Speaker 1: will wear I will wear Raiders gear. I'm not sure
Speaker 1: i'll wear a Raiders jersey. That's taking it like too far.
Speaker 1: I might wear your jersey I'm gonna bring you my jersey,
Speaker 1: you know. Um, because you're an actor, I've always wondered this,
Speaker 1: do you watch and appreciate other shows? What do you
Speaker 1: binge watch? For example? I I've beene watched for that's
Speaker 1: because I'm not an actor. Do you binge watch? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Any three shows you're binge watching? And it's not shows
Speaker 1: that I'm beinge watching. I'm very particular about shows that
Speaker 1: binge watched. The best show ever made on TV, I
Speaker 1: believe was Squid Game and I watched every episode. Really yeah, man,
Speaker 1: that's squid Game is really good. And it was really
Speaker 1: good because it was completely different from anything I've ever
Speaker 1: seen TV. Okay, so tell me because I'm not My
Speaker 1: kids have been asking and I've heard all that. All
Speaker 1: its gory, it's you know, it's not for kids. So
Speaker 1: I've not seen it because my kids can't see it. Um?
Speaker 1: Is it is it that bad? Is it? I mean,
Speaker 1: it's it's about as bad as it kids. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's worse thing like Freddy Krueger. It's hyper violent. You know,
Speaker 1: typically Korean cinema um uses I believe uses violence to
Speaker 1: get a reaction, you know. I mean, if you ever
Speaker 1: saw that film Parasite that when all those else and
Speaker 1: that film, it starts off as like sort of like
Speaker 1: a quiet family drama and then it turns into this
Speaker 1: you know, spoiler alert, hyper violent film, you know, And
Speaker 1: I think Squid Game does the same thing. Um, I
Speaker 1: can't do it. I'm not a hyper violent guy. And
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Um maybe as my childhood. I
Speaker 1: don't know what I mean. I mean, I can handle
Speaker 1: a certain level of violence, but when it gets like
Speaker 1: like sawt, I could do it after one, I can't
Speaker 1: do it. I don't do this saws. I I do
Speaker 1: the squad game. But I also I've beinge Um, I've
Speaker 1: benched all a Breaking Bad. Oh sorry, that's man breaking Back.
Speaker 1: I came to Breaking Bad late. Breaking Bad is one
Speaker 1: of my all time It is the best ever, like
Speaker 1: ever his character. Yeah, um and uh, but I I'm
Speaker 1: very particular about what I've benched watched. Have you watched
Speaker 1: the Morning Show? I love the Worship Morning Try. I'm binging.
Speaker 1: I gotta wait um for this next episode I come out.
Speaker 1: But I'm loving the Morning Show right now. Really yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm really loving I'm kind of like I like, you know,
Speaker 1: like that type of drama stuff. I grew up watching
Speaker 1: soap propers. So Bunny, we had a soap star on
Speaker 1: our show. Uh, and pardon my ignorance, I had no
Speaker 1: idea who it was. But you were like, oh, Dr Jones,
Speaker 1: you're on our show. And you were like that one
Speaker 1: time when your wife, that's your girlfriend, and you knew
Speaker 1: the whole storyline. Really, people don't know this is this
Speaker 1: kind of something, and I keep private, I guess until now,
Speaker 1: until now, But I grew up watching soap opera. In fact,
Speaker 1: I blame my oldest brother, my oldest brother, so I
Speaker 1: can't even tell you the whope. We were in ABC
Speaker 1: soap family. So we would watch, um, this is before
Speaker 1: your time. We would watch Loving, we would watch All
Speaker 1: My Children. We would watch One Life to Live. We
Speaker 1: would watch General Hospital, and back in the day, there
Speaker 1: used to be this older one. This is when I
Speaker 1: was a young kid. For your time. Um, there's one
Speaker 1: called Ryan's Hope. Um, we would watch Ryan's. I mean,
Speaker 1: you can google all these these are icon of Not
Speaker 1: a lot of them are off the air now, but
Speaker 1: it was. There was some good time and we take
Speaker 1: them on BCRs and so by time we got home,
Speaker 1: school got out three or five, we walked in the house.
Speaker 1: Oprah was just starting at three o'clock. Watched every day.
Speaker 1: I watched Oprah every day, and then we would go
Speaker 1: back and then start the BCR and we would go
Speaker 1: through and watch our soap prop and why our parents
Speaker 1: were like, why don't you watch? Why don't you starting
Speaker 1: your homework? Oh, we want to see Erica came. Something's
Speaker 1: about to happen to a Errica cage. That's Susan Lucci,
Speaker 1: she played Erica. Of course. Of course, Actually I didn't
Speaker 1: know that. Oh it's been so blown away when Susan.
Speaker 1: Oh no, Susan Luchi didn't come to her. No, no,
Speaker 1: if I ever met Susan Lucci. I remember when she
Speaker 1: finally got her award shot and it would just took forever.
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is I mean, even when she had
Speaker 1: to split personality like she had two different um, it
Speaker 1: was like the good Susan or good Erica came, Bad
Speaker 1: Erica came and I stopped, Man, what else does she
Speaker 1: need to do to be able to get that Awarden?
Speaker 1: So when she finally won, it was if I remember correct,
Speaker 1: and then maybe I'm wrong, I could be remembering this wrong.
Speaker 1: We have to look it up, but I can still
Speaker 1: see her wearing like a red dress and she was
Speaker 1: just so emotional and just like I just remember being
Speaker 1: so happy for her as if I knew her. I
Speaker 1: don't know her. I've never met her before. If I did,
Speaker 1: I would, I would I probably cry how far I
Speaker 1: think I think that's about to change her on the talk. Look,
Speaker 1: let me ask you, um, American Ninja Warrior. Everybody knows
Speaker 1: what it is. Everybody loves it. Um. It's a life
Speaker 1: changing project that you're a part of. Um. That's not
Speaker 1: an exaggeration, No, it's not. It changed my life, um
Speaker 1: like seriously changed the trajectory of my career. You know.
Speaker 1: One of the hardest things to do is transition from football.
Speaker 1: You're at the highest level. There is no other level
Speaker 1: after the NFL, and once you reach that peak and
Speaker 1: then you're done, it's like what do you do next? Right?
Speaker 1: So there is this what feels like this precipitous fall,
Speaker 1: right like some call it humility, some called it the
Speaker 1: real world, real life. UM. I tend to think that
Speaker 1: the NFL is real life. Right. You just worked so
Speaker 1: hard towards something and then you make that transition and
Speaker 1: it was so hard trying to think what was I
Speaker 1: going to do next? And in a million years, I
Speaker 1: never thought, because I didn't have this illustrious Hall of Fame,
Speaker 1: super Bowl playoff winning type career, that I would ever
Speaker 1: be able to get into this And so being able
Speaker 1: to give that audition for American in Ge Warrior take
Speaker 1: us to the audition process. Well, so prior to I
Speaker 1: was trying to get my feet in the game, right,
Speaker 1: you know, I was doing college football like no Indivision two, um,
Speaker 1: you know, Conference USA type of type of games. I
Speaker 1: have a friend who with smyeah I did, I did,
Speaker 1: I did SMU, I did all of them two lade,
Speaker 1: the whole nine and uh. And I'm going on other
Speaker 1: auditions and I was doing commercials that you know at
Speaker 1: SAG grade or whenever it get a couple hundred bucks
Speaker 1: or whatever, just trying to make it in and trying
Speaker 1: to find find my in. No. No, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1: After a while, you just like get numb to it.
Speaker 1: I get the call for American and Warrior, and to
Speaker 1: be honest, I lied, And sometimes you have to do.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you've you ever heard of it? Oh? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I heard it. Oh yeah, I love it, love it,
Speaker 1: love it. Never watched the day in my life, so
Speaker 1: before my audition, I'm just kind of looking at it
Speaker 1: just didn't sound or feel like anything I was I
Speaker 1: would even listen to. And I didn't even know American
Speaker 1: Engine Warrior was on before you were on it. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I came in season five and they didn't have announcers
Speaker 1: and they did Matt Eisbell was still there. But then
Speaker 1: the position that I was auditioning for someone else, yeah
Speaker 1: it was someone else, and um so I just you know,
Speaker 1: they're probably not gonna hire me, right because I every God,
Speaker 1: this shot going to I don't get it. But there
Speaker 1: was a key that opened up for me because I relaxed.
Speaker 1: But I just went there because I was a w
Speaker 1: w E fan, right, I grew up and I just
Speaker 1: brought my my my version of a w w E
Speaker 1: annalyncer over the top. You know, I love muscle parts
Speaker 1: like I can name all the different muscles in the body,
Speaker 1: and um so I just started being very descriptive using
Speaker 1: my football analysis background but with a w w E flavor,
Speaker 1: and I walked out lets shook everybody's hand, didn't think
Speaker 1: twice about it. Two weeks later, I get a phone call.
Speaker 1: Here know, I said, hold on what I got it,
Speaker 1: And that's how it started. And then since then, I mean,
Speaker 1: my first year was rough, but after that I just
Speaker 1: kind of grew with a show. And it's been it's
Speaker 1: been amazing ten years now. It's so funny. The biggest
Speaker 1: job of your life happened because you had prepared up
Speaker 1: until that moment. But when you got there, you use
Speaker 1: the key analogy the other day, tell us about the
Speaker 1: key and now, I mean, this is this is exactly
Speaker 1: what happened with you in American You know what the
Speaker 1: key analogy is? Like, you know how when you're trying
Speaker 1: so hard to find your chees and like, I gotta
Speaker 1: find my keys. I gotta find my keys, and you
Speaker 1: can't look in your tearing up the whole place. But
Speaker 1: the minute you relax and you just like, forget it.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let it come to me. Um, and
Speaker 1: then it comes it just it comes right to you,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And that's what happened when
Speaker 1: in the word man, incredible, incredible story. Yeah. Thanks, um, okay,
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna ask you what's your favorite food? My
Speaker 1: favorite food? Yeah, part of This is gonna upset you
Speaker 1: because I know you're you're you are health conscious, yes,
Speaker 1: and you're mostly about what you put in your body.
Speaker 1: I mean you're mostly like I've seen bar on the
Speaker 1: gym and you let wait, yeah, you throw some weight up,
Speaker 1: but you're all about what you put in. What is
Speaker 1: your favorite food? What is this? I like a chain
Speaker 1: of Mexican restaurants where you drive through, Oh oh that
Speaker 1: is that has taco in the title and thing. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I'm cool. Um, you don't. You don't ever do it.
Speaker 1: You don't ever go to that track. What is your
Speaker 1: keep meal? Um? In and out? Yeah, in and out,
Speaker 1: because I mean, at least the burgers are fresh. But
Speaker 1: my favorite food is goat meat. I love goat meat.
Speaker 1: I can never say mutton or is it to go
Speaker 1: to meat? Is how you soak meat? Go to meat?
Speaker 1: What's the differtween mutton and goat meat? I have never
Speaker 1: held a mutton? Um? All right, So then you gotta
Speaker 1: ask me. Um, yeah, you go ahead, Um, oh yeah, Saturday?
Speaker 1: What is doing Saturday morning? What am I doing Saturday morning?
Speaker 1: I'm getting I'm sneaking up out of the bed at
Speaker 1: what time? At about seven am? Because the kids get
Speaker 1: up at ten am, I'm making myself coffee, I'm walking
Speaker 1: the dogs. I get back, I check my fantasy football team,
Speaker 1: and I just try to watch any show before. I
Speaker 1: try to do all this in a three hour period
Speaker 1: before my kids get up. So I had time to myself.
Speaker 1: So you're someone who likes to get up before anybody
Speaker 1: else gets up. And yeah, so I had the time
Speaker 1: to myself. I will say that since I've been working
Speaker 1: with you, you are first one in, last one out.
Speaker 1: I mean you get here at five am? Yeah? I do. Yeah? Um,
Speaker 1: is that the beat traffic? Is that because you like
Speaker 1: to just like I have to get my work out in.
Speaker 1: Workout is like if I don't have my workout in,
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't have the best attitude. Really yeah, Um,
Speaker 1: you don't ever skip workouts? You don't ever sleep Sometimes
Speaker 1: if I'm tired, Yeah, I will skip, but not always. Um.
Speaker 1: Do you send them to learn to wake up? No?
Speaker 1: Yes and no? But I always wake up? I got
Speaker 1: so I've always help. Uh So tell me this, Um,
Speaker 1: what what makes you the most happy? Like girl talk?
Speaker 1: What makes you the most happy? Um? Something with my kids,
Speaker 1: some people, with my wife. When my wife and kids
Speaker 1: are happy. I'm I'm at my happiest, you know, when
Speaker 1: they're really happy. And I was about to say winning
Speaker 1: in fantasy football, but you know what's so messed up
Speaker 1: about fantasy football when and this is why I should
Speaker 1: probably never play anymore. When you lose, it annoys you
Speaker 1: to no end. And when you win, when you win,
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, I deserve to win, and you like,
Speaker 1: don't even think about it. So there's really no upside
Speaker 1: of playing fantasy It's just it's just it's like a
Speaker 1: life of misery. So you told me what makes you
Speaker 1: the most happy? I need to go a little negget here?
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what my pet peeves? Flies? I
Speaker 1: hate flies, Like seriously, if you want to see the
Speaker 1: worst version of me, have just one fly around. I
Speaker 1: can't even only get grossed out when I see a
Speaker 1: fly on if I see a fly land on my food,
Speaker 1: I can't, I can't. I'm done. I'm done because you
Speaker 1: know what, you know, even if it's if I see
Speaker 1: a fly on my food, it's you might as sold
Speaker 1: to throw it away. All right, last question here, and
Speaker 1: then well I think we should take some phone calls. Um,
Speaker 1: what keeps you motivated. I wish I had a really
Speaker 1: good answer for that, like, uh, I'll tell your kids
Speaker 1: you motivated, but drive. Um. But I tend to have
Speaker 1: a little bit of an easier attitude. I mean almost
Speaker 1: like you going to an audition for Ninja Warrior. By
Speaker 1: the way, earlier, when you said, oh, I lied about like,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, did I say he
Speaker 1: was a ninja. That's because that's a crazy lie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm a ninja. Um. But I I don't know if
Speaker 1: I have like a motivational thing about me. Um. You know,
Speaker 1: I will say this something that's kept me motivated about health.
Speaker 1: And I actually showed you this meme. Um, somebody I
Speaker 1: worked with, a train or who I used to work with,
Speaker 1: who I haven't been going in to see him lately,
Speaker 1: and he just wanted to make sure I was still
Speaker 1: um uh like getting in the gym was it was
Speaker 1: a picture of Muhammad Ali and I showed it to
Speaker 1: you and he said, um, life changing results lies in
Speaker 1: your daily routine. Yeah, And that got me into the
Speaker 1: gym a couple of mornings. I think I showed it
Speaker 1: to you when I showed up earlier in the gym.
Speaker 1: But then I stopped going. You know, for me like
Speaker 1: mine is really is crazy. What motivates me is um
Speaker 1: the fear, the fear of failure, the fear of not
Speaker 1: being good enough. So yeah, it's just he's a good
Speaker 1: motivating Yeah, it is, so I think. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: sure there are a lot of people who can relate
Speaker 1: to that. Jerry, We've said a lot here. Let's go
Speaker 1: to break, Let's take a let's let's take let's let's
Speaker 1: get a drink of water. Right, take a break, and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back and we'll take some calls. Wait,
Speaker 1: that's cool. Hey is that Brandy brand? Where where are
Speaker 1: you calling from? I'm from the bay Area bay Area?
Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm confused. What do you mean the bay
Speaker 1: Area like San Frantisco bay Area. Oh yeah, okay, I
Speaker 1: used to live I used to live in the Bay Area.
Speaker 1: So question, if you get with one of your best friends,
Speaker 1: can you still remain close with them and not have
Speaker 1: awkward tension? Well, what do you mean? Elaborate what you
Speaker 1: mean to get with? You hook up with your best friends?
Speaker 1: Like physically, yes, we're both married, so I mean I
Speaker 1: don't know. Hold on, No, that's the good question. So
Speaker 1: you you you got your best friend, you hooked up,
Speaker 1: and then what happened? What's your question after that? And
Speaker 1: then how do you just get over the awkward feelings
Speaker 1: and remain like can you remain as close? For know
Speaker 1: that that one's that one's difficult. I think it takes
Speaker 1: both used to be very disciplined, because I do. I
Speaker 1: do believe once you exchange that type of energy between
Speaker 1: each other, you you never you can't forget it. You
Speaker 1: can't like let it in, you know, empty out your mind.
Speaker 1: I think the best way is that both parties were
Speaker 1: in a different relationship. That then tends to soften it up. Um,
Speaker 1: And it may keep you distance because you have your
Speaker 1: life with your other partner, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You're doing other things and it keeps the focus off
Speaker 1: of it. But if you guys are both single and
Speaker 1: you're just and you're used to talking with each other
Speaker 1: all the time, Yeah, but that's uncomfortable. I had a
Speaker 1: situation very close like that in in college, but I
Speaker 1: never crossed the line, and I'm glad I didn't because
Speaker 1: it had been very difficult to maintain. Yeah. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you almost you almost give it up, You almost give
Speaker 1: it a friendship it becomes different, it changes, it's not
Speaker 1: going to be what it was before. You can be
Speaker 1: like best friends again. Really will never like have relationship again.
Speaker 1: It's not that you won't you won't have that relationship.
Speaker 1: It's like remodeling your house. Once you've gone through and
Speaker 1: recontract like that, the other version of the house is gone.
Speaker 1: So you have to appreciate what the new relationship is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: does that make sense? Yeah, so you can't. You can't.
Speaker 1: You can't reminisce about what it was like before and
Speaker 1: expect for it to return to normal. Yeah that makes sense.
Speaker 1: And yeah, all right, yeah, I hope that helped. No,
Speaker 1: it does help. That's actually really nice to hear. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, Brad, right, thank you? Hey, can't get can you?
Speaker 1: Can you give this to me one time? Because this
Speaker 1: is what I remember. I don't know if they still
Speaker 1: say this in the Bay Area, say that was heca cool?
Speaker 1: That was hella? Hella? Hello? Do you guys do say
Speaker 1: that out there? Um? Hella? I feel like people do
Speaker 1: say hello. I think I came to well because like
Speaker 1: it's Ohio, and I came to song. I think I
Speaker 1: said hella a few times and everyone was like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, yeah, we don't like talk like
Speaker 1: that here, all right, thank you guys. Hey Sophie, Sophie,
Speaker 1: who are you and where are you calling from? I'm Sophie.
Speaker 1: I'm calling from Boulder, Colorado. What's your question for us? Okay?
Speaker 1: So my question was, if you've been dating the same
Speaker 1: boy or just person in general for a while, what
Speaker 1: is good advice in terms of keeping things interesting. I
Speaker 1: know that a lot of people fell into routines during
Speaker 1: covid um, so just kind of advice for making sure
Speaker 1: every day isn't exactly the same and just keeping things interesting.
Speaker 1: How do you keep my relationship fresh? I mean, you
Speaker 1: gotta get out of the house first of all. I
Speaker 1: always found like it's funny. I hated being in relationships
Speaker 1: where people I just wanted to um Netflix and chill.
Speaker 1: Like I had to go out and go do something,
Speaker 1: you know, even if you don't want to go, even
Speaker 1: if it's boring, at least it's like even the most
Speaker 1: mundane things like start like are stimulating, like start a conversation.
Speaker 1: I was very much into activities, going somewhere and doing something.
Speaker 1: And by the way, I was always very good about dating,
Speaker 1: Like I always like I said, like, hey, I'll pick
Speaker 1: you up and we'll go and do this, you know, um,
Speaker 1: whether it was like you know, a play, a movie,
Speaker 1: a haunted house, UM, an amusement park. I just I
Speaker 1: always tried to go do something, so just get stimulated
Speaker 1: to alongside. Yeah, I love that and I think it's
Speaker 1: piggybag off of that. Um. You know, Sophie, you know
Speaker 1: something that could be how are you? If you don't
Speaker 1: mind me asking twenty? I think you're very familiar with
Speaker 1: TikTok and Instagram, social media, and there are always these
Speaker 1: challenges that pop up every so often, right, um, And
Speaker 1: I think a great way to spice up a relationship
Speaker 1: is just going out there and challenging yourself. So doing
Speaker 1: different challenges like let's say, for example, you've never been fishing.
Speaker 1: You know, like you offer up like maybe every Friday
Speaker 1: or every other friday realistically, depending on your schedule. You know,
Speaker 1: you say, uh, we're gonna do something we've never done before,
Speaker 1: and you get to learn a lot about each other.
Speaker 1: You might find out like, oh, shoot, I'm a better
Speaker 1: I'm a better fisher than you know that my boyfriend
Speaker 1: you know, um, or you know I'm a better swimmer.
Speaker 1: It's just something find the things that you guys don't
Speaker 1: do and you don't do well, um and or you
Speaker 1: don't do well and try to engage yourself in. Man.
Speaker 1: I think they make for such an interesting day because
Speaker 1: where do we usually fall like the zone we usually
Speaker 1: fall in, and like I want to go see a movie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's go see a movie. You want to go out
Speaker 1: and get something to eat, Let's go get out some me,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Then you know, oh god, dude,
Speaker 1: it didn't it didn't it been it right? Like and
Speaker 1: after that even like yo, like what else is there
Speaker 1: to do? You know what I mean? A great way
Speaker 1: because you guys both know you're going in there like, oh, man,
Speaker 1: I don't want to go skydive. I don't want to
Speaker 1: go fishing. I don't want to go you know, you know,
Speaker 1: to the back of a butcher house and you know,
Speaker 1: cut up neither. I don't know, like just come up
Speaker 1: with the random stuff, you know, and make it your
Speaker 1: own date challenge. That should be a hashtag by the way, Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I like that. I think that's cool. That's a great idea.
Speaker 1: It's like taking TikTok and making it real life. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope that was helpful. Yeah for sure. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, go Boulder, Colorado. Thanks so yeah, thank you. Hey,
Speaker 1: what's going on? Kristen on Mark Barks Jerry used to
Speaker 1: meet you guys. What you got for us? Um? I
Speaker 1: was just kind of wondering what your opinions were on
Speaker 1: like taking breaks in a relationship over like just like
Speaker 1: breaking up. I guess it's a good one. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I've never taken a break in a relationship. I don't think. Um,
Speaker 1: if somebody told me they wanted to take a break,
Speaker 1: I probably never talked to them again. I know that's
Speaker 1: not like the nicest thing to say, and he's not
Speaker 1: very patient to me. But if someone said to me
Speaker 1: they want to take a break, I mean just to
Speaker 1: save base, I'd be like, oh, well, I wanted to
Speaker 1: take a break, but I wanted to be permanent. Never
Speaker 1: talked to me again, and then I show them I'm
Speaker 1: erasing their phone number in my phone. I uh, I've
Speaker 1: never heard of that. I mean, I've heard of breaking up.
Speaker 1: I've never heard of taking a break. Yeah. It's like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: taking a break is like the cousin of breaking up, right,
Speaker 1: It's just it's just just like, how do you have
Speaker 1: you ever said to someone I think we need to
Speaker 1: take a break? No, no, no, I've never said that.
Speaker 1: I've always been a committed dude, so I've never had that,
Speaker 1: you know, let's take a break. But I do know
Speaker 1: a lot of guys and a lot of women who've
Speaker 1: who've said they've taken a break, and I think it's
Speaker 1: a past of aggressive way of saying like, I think
Speaker 1: we need to break this up. So, um, your question
Speaker 1: is what's the difference, or is your question is can
Speaker 1: you ever get back together? Well, I guess kind of
Speaker 1: like back together at the same level that you were,
Speaker 1: just because I feel like it's kind of just an excuse.
Speaker 1: I guess on like trying to say together because I
Speaker 1: feel like when you take a break or break up,
Speaker 1: you're trying to work on like yourself in a relationship
Speaker 1: and there's still like an attachment. So I guess like,
Speaker 1: would that even be worth it or do you should
Speaker 1: you just like break up? I guess yeah, I think
Speaker 1: first off, taking a break and break up, let's just
Speaker 1: let's go ahead and just merge the two together. It's
Speaker 1: you're breaking up, right if you're taking a break your
Speaker 1: breaking up, let's let's not, let's not you know, differentiate
Speaker 1: the two. Um. I think what's interesting though, is when
Speaker 1: people do break up or what it is to understand why.
Speaker 1: And I think once you understand why and you give
Speaker 1: that person the space to figure the it out, I
Speaker 1: think you just have to be or the other person
Speaker 1: has to be hopeful that the person you know will grow.
Speaker 1: And if that growth will allow you guys to come
Speaker 1: back together to make a better relationship, then so be it. Um,
Speaker 1: And they might be an opportunity to for the other
Speaker 1: party as well to grow. Like whoever decides to call
Speaker 1: the break right there for whatever reason that they may
Speaker 1: not be able to figure out. Because here's the truth,
Speaker 1: and here's what I know to be true, is that
Speaker 1: the hardest person to get to know is yourself and why.
Speaker 1: Because God gave us this thing called denial. We can
Speaker 1: deny anything about ourselves that we are not ready to face,
Speaker 1: and so that makes it very challenging. So when you're
Speaker 1: in a relationship and you're bringing two people together, um,
Speaker 1: it's like uh, two bodies of water. I've been to
Speaker 1: South Africa, and you can in South Africa, you can
Speaker 1: see the Atlantic ocean and the mediterrane Sea kind of
Speaker 1: come together. I think those are the two seeds that
Speaker 1: that but together. And you kind to see him. You
Speaker 1: see them kind of coming together, two bodies of water
Speaker 1: just coming together, and there's a lot of friction and splashing,
Speaker 1: it goes on, uh and for it to really settle
Speaker 1: down takes time. So I say that to say it
Speaker 1: takes time. Everybody gets their time um to shine though.
Speaker 1: All right, So hopefully that is helpful for you that
Speaker 1: you guys a chance to shine, even if it isn't
Speaker 1: you guys together. So um, I hope that was helpful. Yes,
Speaker 1: it was, thank you. I just feel like like taking
Speaker 1: a break has been way more prominent, like in like
Speaker 1: throughout my age and even like a few of my
Speaker 1: friends are taking a break where they're they don't consider
Speaker 1: each other like boyfriend and girlfriend, but they still like talk.
Speaker 1: They just don't like see each other as off. It's
Speaker 1: it's passive aggressive to be honest with you, um, and
Speaker 1: this is not taking a shot at your generation, and
Speaker 1: I apologize to putting you off. I do believe there
Speaker 1: are some social cues and social development things that have
Speaker 1: been um delayed a little bit because you guys have
Speaker 1: something that has been like no other generation, Like you
Speaker 1: guys are inundated with all this other stuff from social
Speaker 1: media and when you talk about one on one communication,
Speaker 1: because that's something you really can't avoid. I think there's
Speaker 1: a little bit of a step, like being able to
Speaker 1: hold somebody accountable, like hey, look, just just tell me
Speaker 1: how you really feel. You don't if you want to
Speaker 1: break up right, like you said, next time somebody says
Speaker 1: that to you, like let's take a break, Well why
Speaker 1: not just break up and see what? Say? Like, what
Speaker 1: is the difference? Like somebody needs to tell me. That's
Speaker 1: just we should put a question out there, like there
Speaker 1: is no difference. I agree. I feel like it's kind
Speaker 1: of just a way to pretend. Yeah, yeah, it's irritating.
Speaker 1: I think that's why you're probably feeling the way you're
Speaker 1: like what does that even mean? Like like what does
Speaker 1: that mean? Like are we still together? Yeah? So all right,
Speaker 1: well thank you so much? Yeah, thank you. Hey who
Speaker 1: are you? Where are you from? Hi'm Olivia from Chicago. Olivia. Hey,
Speaker 1: So what's your question? Olivia? What you got for us? Um?
Speaker 1: My question is how has the stigma in the US
Speaker 1: surrounding therapy from men impacted your mental health. I got
Speaker 1: a lot to say this. I let Jerry go. Um.
Speaker 1: I uh, I had never really been to a shrink um.
Speaker 1: And it was so funny. I worked with a guy
Speaker 1: I was going through something. Um, it's going through a
Speaker 1: family issue and I was telling a coworker about it.
Speaker 1: And my coworker said, go talk to my shrink. And
Speaker 1: I was like why and he was like, just go
Speaker 1: talk to my shrink. And it was really helpful. It
Speaker 1: was really so it was just um, so funny. I mean,
Speaker 1: I didn't ever I guess I had to think about it.
Speaker 1: I just I didn't even think of it as an option,
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't think I I I wasn't. I
Speaker 1: didn't know at the time that just because you were
Speaker 1: feeling squirrelly inside about a family issue, that that is
Speaker 1: like my mental health had to be addressed, you know,
Speaker 1: and it was because of something outside that was happening
Speaker 1: to me. It was you know, I thought you saw
Speaker 1: a shrink for I didn't even put that together that
Speaker 1: that's why you see a shrink. So um. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm all for seeking seeking help if you're
Speaker 1: going through something. Yeah, I am too. Olivia. I'm I'm
Speaker 1: all for getting help, and I think what's challenging is
Speaker 1: that I still believe that we live in a society where,
Speaker 1: you know that men still don't get the um, the
Speaker 1: attention they need for when it comes to mental health. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you, guys, thank you. But Jocelyn, who are you
Speaker 1: and where are you from? My name is Jocelyn and
Speaker 1: I'm from New York. Okay, all right, what's up? Jocelyn
Speaker 1: from New York East Coast in the house. What's your question?
Speaker 1: So my question for you is what are the go
Speaker 1: to signs to expect when a guy likes you? So funny?
Speaker 1: I have I have. I have two twelve year old
Speaker 1: daughters and they're just like getting into the rituals of humans.
Speaker 1: And there's a there's a boy in my daughter's class,
Speaker 1: and I mean, this is pretty on the nose, but
Speaker 1: she said she catches him like staring, staring at her
Speaker 1: and everything. I mean, that's something, you know, throwing a
Speaker 1: look back and you know, making sure you're being paid
Speaker 1: attention to you know. Um, it's so funny. I'm really
Speaker 1: I need a little more time because my daughters are twelves,
Speaker 1: so they're just entering it. But it's really fascinating to
Speaker 1: sort of give like advice to my daughter's Like, you know,
Speaker 1: there was a guy that one of my daughters liked,
Speaker 1: and he was seen holding hands with another girl, and
Speaker 1: I told my daughter, like, um, you've got to move
Speaker 1: on from it, you know what I'm saying, Like, you
Speaker 1: can't obsess on that one. That one's gone. And then
Speaker 1: that person actually came around and was the one who
Speaker 1: was looking at my daughter, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So it's it's so funny just and this is just
Speaker 1: in the beginning of of my kids entering the I
Speaker 1: can't believe I was saying this dating world but like
Speaker 1: not putting all your eggs in one basket, not taking
Speaker 1: anything too seriously and being able to adapt and like
Speaker 1: move on. I had to tell you, Um, one of
Speaker 1: my best relationships was, um, I need to go out
Speaker 1: with a particular marriage prior to marriage, one of one
Speaker 1: of my best one of my most successful dating relationships
Speaker 1: not married. Obviously, my most successful is the one I
Speaker 1: got married Levy Hunting. Um, But um was I wanted
Speaker 1: to go out with a person and that person was
Speaker 1: not interested in me at all. It's just not interested
Speaker 1: me at all, and it was obvious. We all went
Speaker 1: to a party, a group of us, UM and her
Speaker 1: best friend. UM I started talking to because this person
Speaker 1: I was interested in was just not interested in me.
Speaker 1: She was interested in someone else, and oh man, it
Speaker 1: was We had such a I ended up dating her
Speaker 1: friend and we had such a fun relationship. I am
Speaker 1: really nice, really fun, and it would have never happened
Speaker 1: if I had not been like open to the universe.
Speaker 1: You're trying to figure out that sign. Is there somebody
Speaker 1: out there that you think likes you, and you're trying
Speaker 1: to figure out if they like You're not like a
Speaker 1: lot NonStop texting, liking of random photos years ago, you
Speaker 1: know phasics. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess something like that. Okay,
Speaker 1: how old are you? Okay, twenty one? So Jerry just
Speaker 1: actually hinted on something. If this person that you know
Speaker 1: and you think this person might a great way to
Speaker 1: do is go to some of your oldest photos. UM,
Speaker 1: I have a twenty one year old or twenty year
Speaker 1: old one. UM and uh, he will you know, when
Speaker 1: we're talking about the girls that he likes and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. But he wants to be incognito because the
Speaker 1: old school was, you know, like doing how gosh am
Speaker 1: I that guy? Now I'm that guy old school? Um,
Speaker 1: but you try to pretend like you know she she
Speaker 1: ain't that I'm not. I'm not even gonna you know,
Speaker 1: they used to say this word jockey. I'm not going jocker,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm just I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: be cool and just be but always visible so you
Speaker 1: see me and you know I'm right there. Well. The
Speaker 1: the Internet or the social media version of that is
Speaker 1: liking some of the older photos just to kind of
Speaker 1: pin you, like, why is this photo from three years ago?
Speaker 1: Being like who goes down that far right? So then
Speaker 1: you know you've gotta sign like, yo, you just started
Speaker 1: following me last week and you're all the way down
Speaker 1: four years like you're really letting me know that you
Speaker 1: like me. The more aggressive version is I'm going to
Speaker 1: like a thousand of your photos and you'd be like, yo,
Speaker 1: you just you all up in my lights, right, But
Speaker 1: it ain't set me one comment or d M right. Um.
Speaker 1: But yeah, you know what I look for the you know,
Speaker 1: the licking of lips, you know, I look for the
Speaker 1: unnecessary cool swaying like like you know there's that you
Speaker 1: know that just like what what what are you doing? Why?
Speaker 1: Why are you cool? Swaying? This is like that cool swam,
Speaker 1: I'm just cool. That's when you know you might want
Speaker 1: to say hello, but it's a good thing. It's like, hey,
Speaker 1: what you doing? If you really want to know, just like, hey,
Speaker 1: what you doing? Like you gotta like softly tough because
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to seem too aggressive because there are
Speaker 1: a lot of guys and trust me, I talked to
Speaker 1: a lot of my son's friends. A lot of young
Speaker 1: boys are afraid now because of all the stuff that's
Speaker 1: been happening in the news and stuff, so they don't
Speaker 1: want to be seen as creepy. So you have a
Speaker 1: lot more of them being less of forward and just
Speaker 1: trying to say hey. So a great way to tap in,
Speaker 1: especially if you like that person, just give like a
Speaker 1: soft invite, like a soft like I see you, I
Speaker 1: recognize you. And that way you don't put yourself out
Speaker 1: there too, right, so you're kind of protected, like hey,
Speaker 1: what you doing? Which way are you going? Like oh wow?
Speaker 1: And then see if something you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: it's like, um, I'm about to go to Starbuns. You
Speaker 1: want you want anything, you know what I mean, something
Speaker 1: like that, and then that's how you know you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Then you're like, all right if you
Speaker 1: see them fidgeting and you know, nervous and all right
Speaker 1: when they pick up their phone for no reason. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you like me, You like me, all right. So hopefully
Speaker 1: that's helpful. I try to give you a little bit
Speaker 1: of the new school and the old school and hopefully
Speaker 1: you've got a good mixed there. And Jerry could you know,
Speaker 1: through his experience, kind of helped you out with that. Totally.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. Well, that was fun. That
Speaker 1: was really cool. That was really I think we give
Speaker 1: some good advice, sage advice. We're like the elders helping
Speaker 1: up kids. I'm not ready to be the elder statesman
Speaker 1: in this, I'm not. I'm not. I don't think I'm ready.
Speaker 1: We are, We're like the elder is helping them out. Well,
Speaker 1: this is cool. I hope that is insightful. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: hope it was insightful. This is really cool for us
Speaker 1: to be in this space and to be able to
Speaker 1: have this conversation. Uh, this was how men think. With
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