WEBVTT - Episode 438: ALLUHM (Feat. Luenell) 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.400 What up it is lift service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:07.080 Giji Maguire, I'm Lauramara. 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:09.960 I'm your girl, just pam oh, I'm Lonelle. 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:11.880 Listen. 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:15.080 First of all, I am so excited that Lunell is here. 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:19.639 Oh my god, am I listen? Gijitn flew in today, Yes, 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:22.840 from Atlanta. Everybody was like, Lunella. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:24.240 Is coming, oh honey. 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:26.680 And we went live right before this and people were like, Luell, 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:28.480 Oh my god. So thank you. 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:31.640 Anticipated that's fucking fantastic. 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:34.159 Yeah, thank you, thank you ladies. 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:36.599 And you've been I mean, I know you've had a 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.040 whirlwind of a week. 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:39.840 So congratulations. 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:42.520 Yes, thank you to being on Broadway. 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:43.919 Yes in Chicago. 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:45.120 Yes, I love that. 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:49.000 Thank you, thank you. I'm drinking water. 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.040 Okay, we can't do that, and that's a bad look 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:51.720 for us, right. 0:00:52.159 --> 0:00:54.120 That I may change. 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:57.880 Yeah, I believe you may. 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:00.080 So what was the experience like? 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:06.120 Well, I described it this way for those listeners and 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:08.760 viewers who were not familiar as I started out in 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:12.800 theater before I ever did comedy. So I have a 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.440 love for the theater. I grew up watching theater. That's 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:17.640 what really gave me the bug to want to be 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:23.160 in entertainment at all, being able to get back on 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:26.880 a theater stage, not doing comedy, to be on a 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:31.160 theatrical stage on Broadway after so many years of just 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:35.959 talking shit and doing stand up and from television. The 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:38.840 way it felt, it felt like I was I was nervous, 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:40.760 like I was about to see an old boyfriend that 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:45.440 I really loved and to see if he still loved me. 0:01:44.319 --> 0:01:48.520 Oh, that's a great experience. And tam and Hall knew 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:51.640 about your background in theater and that's why she surprised you. 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:54.440 Yeah, she was gonna give me tickets. I was happy 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:57.080 with tickets. And then she said, you know, the would 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.000 offer me the role of the you know, the first 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:03.360 introduced to the show, welcomes the audience, and I got 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.560 to do the curtain call and everything like that. My 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:10.440 daughter was there and she's a professional dancer. Flew my 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:14.560 nephew and he's a theatrical actor as well. But back 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:19.919 in Texas and a lot of family came in and more. 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:22.240 I thought it would just be like maybe me and 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:26.160 my manager and this assistant, just maybe three people, but 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:27.960 it turned out to be like twenty five. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:29.760 Wow, people love you. 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:32.840 Well, that's a that's a blessing. 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:34.440 Yeah, it is a blessing. Yeah. 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:36.560 And moments like that you really do get to see, 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:39.440 you know, the love, the fact that you think, ain't nobody, 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:40.720 you know, it's just a few of us, and then 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:42.079 twenty five people, right. 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:46.280 Yeah, and that's the people I knew there was fans 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:48.440 that bought tickets that came to right. 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.640 No, but I'm saying, just your circle, like just to 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:51.680 know that your circle. 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.959 Oh yeah, my tribe is tight. I seventeen meets the 0:02:55.040 --> 0:03:01.160 nephews and seven brothers and sisters. Wow, Chris, right, Yeah, 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.200 it's a lot of us. You know, we're very fuck 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.120 around and find out type family period. 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.520 Do I do grab bags at Christmas or now? 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:09.240 We don't do none of that shit. It's too many 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:09.880 of us. 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:11.440 That's my family does a grab bag. 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:16.160 So we don't even exchange presidents, none of that. Won't 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:18.360 even do it because we do so much. I do 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:22.519 so much for my family during the year. Like, don't 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:26.280 fucking bother me about Christmas. Just gave your ass twenty 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:29.440 five hundred dollars last week. You want a Christmas present? Mary, 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:32.600 Christmas yourself? That's it. 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:35.440 I saw your trip too. You went on vacation for 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:36.080 the holidays. 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:39.080 I'm supposed to still be on vacation. Now what I'm 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:41.560 the tiredest bitch on vacation. I have just seen my 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:44.760 life doing too much. Yeah, I went. I started my 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:48.080 vacation working because I had two shows I had to 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:51.880 do in Waikiki, So I went there, and I decided 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:55.320 to make that the first part of my vacation. So 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:57.280 I stayed there for a week. My sister came in 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:00.480 and my daughter, her friend, another friend that friend. 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:03.119 Next thing. You know, y'all look like you had of time. 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:07.280 Though it sounds like a literuation every time, it actually 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:09.440 with people that you love and that you know. 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.680 Yeah, well that's the goal, you know, that's the blessing 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.600 to you know, we know, not the minute, no the hours, 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.240 what you're gonna hold your money for. And plus I 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:21.080 got miles, you know, she fly, you fly, we fly, 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:26.560 and so you's not you. You accumulate miles, and miles 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:29.520 then't used to be transferable. You couldn't use them for 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:32.479 somebody else, but now they are so like I got fired, 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:34.880 and the miles of it let me get you know, 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:36.680 that's the. 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:38.880 Fact that all those miles you get from that people 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.400 are paying for your flights for you to work. 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.000 Might as well use those and get you, you know. 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.120 So that's what we did. The whole the whole trip 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:48.960 was financed by mouth. It's her from my oldest sister. 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:50.320 I put her in first class with me. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:54.680 Okay, And have you ever thought about doing something like 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:58.440 being on that stage, like maybe a lunel like show 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:01.200 kind of how like Tyson did win, but just even 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.480 like being on stage and telling your story? 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:07.920 Sure, I mean yeah, like a one woman showed to me. Yeah, sure, 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:12.680 I was talking to about that today, showed you because 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:14.640 we we had one back back in the day when 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:19.159 we was studying comedy, you know, and before comic relief 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:22.080 or anything like that. We'll be I think she might 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:25.679 have got a Tony for her one woman show. That's 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:29.279 that's what helped him become an egoch. Yes, definitely, you 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.240 know I thought about that. And we're doing the Doctor. 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:36.360 There's being a documentary produced about me right now, with 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:38.839 a book to follow. So I'm you know, I'm like 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:40.200 Warren g I want it all. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:45.000 The past couple of years have been amazing for very 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:47.040 busy woman and stopping. 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:48.599 We see no time soon and I'm. 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:52.279 Here for that Yeah, well we'll see. 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:56.279 That's interesting because like Pan's been doing comedy, and my 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.800 question is, like when, because as a comedian, your people expected, 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.479 no matter what, you're always funny, even if like things 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:06.360 are happening in your life that are not so amazing. 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:10.280 People expect you to like not be serious and just 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:13.040 be funny all the time and always be on you. 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:16.679 Know, and yeah, and you know for your mental health, 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:19.440 that's not even good, Like people will call us as 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:23.360 a community. I had a friend whose son committed suicide 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:26.520 and they called me over because they wanted the light 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:29.600 in the mood. It was too moros like nigga, I'm 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:32.640 mourning two, I'm right what you want me to do. 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:36.720 But and also like I don't like people who laugh 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:39.840 for no reason, Like you know, they'll be like, how 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:45.720 you doing today? I'm good, she's so funny. You know. 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:49.839 It's just a little irritating. But if that is the 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:54.280 price we pay right as the gift to make other 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:58.039 people feel good, then so be it. The problem comes 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.800 when you don't take a vacation. When you don't take 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:05.040 because if you're popping, nobody in your team, nobody is 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.640 gonna say, hey, you know what you look a little tired. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.320 Why don't you take three weeks off? And nobody gonna 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:13.040 say that because they you know, they getting they presented. 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:15.400 They want you to work, but you're not a machine. 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:17.720 And when you when you get to a point where 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:21.480 you can say no, that's very powerful. When you when 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:24.160 you got light building ship to pay, you can't say no. 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:25.600 But when you get to a point when you can 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:26.680 say no, I'm not gonna do it. 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:27.440 I was on. 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:32.679 Vacation in Hawaii and got offered a movie. They wanted 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:34.560 me to do a self tape and send it in. 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:38.080 I said no, They offered me the movie anyway. 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.280 That's right because they knew they wanted you. 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:42.320 That was kind of like, don't make me do that. 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:45.680 And I'm just not a good auditioner. I don't give 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:48.560 a fuck about movies. I'm gonna eat anyway. I'm gonna 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:52.120 eat doing stand up movies. That's over here, TV, that's 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:54.080 over here. If I never do none of that, ship, 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:56.720 they can't tell me from eating because my people are 0:07:56.760 --> 0:08:02.240 gonna keep me doing that. But I told my manager, 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:04.760 I said, I think it's gonna be my last movie 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:08.320 because I'm just not the greatest memorizer in the world. 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:12.560 I'm oh, I'm tired. It's my wig. You know, I'm 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.520 used to saying what I want to say as a 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:17.920 comic rather than saying what other effort's not written like 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:22.679 for me in my vernacular. Then it sounds fake coming 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:26.160 out of my mouth. Anyway. TV, especially if you do 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:28.880 TV that has a live on it, you get a 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:31.680 table read, you get to rehearse. You can rehearse for 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.200 maybe three days before you have to, you know, with 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.400 the blocking and everything before you have to do the live, 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:40.080 before it's the taping. I like that. Movies, You're supposed 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:42.000 to show up and know your ship and I'm like, 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:43.199 what can we. 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:51.280 And do you know, like what what lines you're saying 0:08:51.360 --> 0:08:54.079 that they like? Or do they switch it up on you? 0:08:54.080 --> 0:09:01.360 No, you never know what's going to happen, you. 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:04.120 Know, And they switched it up, and then you got 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:04.600 to know that. 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:07.160 Did you always want to be a comic? 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.800 I always wanted to be in the entertainment period, I 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:11.480 didn't have a plan. 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:11.719 Bid. 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:15.600 I tried working. I worked, you know, I worked in 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:16.600 banks and ship. 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:23.680 Oh yeah, oh yeah, we know. I cannot wait to 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:26.640 see this this documentary. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.960 Yes, yeah, you got to re enact that part. 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:32.680 I said it all before the teeth. 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:35.720 Okay, But so you ended up how long did you 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:36.280 have to serve? 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:38.520 Like I did four months and mondays on a one 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:42.640 year bid, But that's only because they didn't find any 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:45.800 priors and I had them, but they didn't find any 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:48.640 prior as we else, they would have gave me a year. 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:50.959 Well, the system is different now, they find all. I 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:51.920 feel like everything is. 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:53.600 Well twenty eight years ago. 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:57.360 So what was that time like for you? But like, oh, 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:58.120 it was terrible. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:00.840 I was already on comic views. The niggas knew who 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.520 I was in jail, and it's like, what up Commic View? 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:07.440 What's up? Comic View? And then I had a new baby, 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:11.040 so I missed her first Halloween, her first Thanksgiving. And 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:14.319 then when you're in jail, the window county, the windows 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:18.680 only just big. So I actually had to stop looking 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:23.280 out the window because I couldn't take seeing people drinking coffee, 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:27.360 catching a bus pushing a baby sweller down the street. 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.840 I couldn't take it. And I actually didn't talk for 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:31.760 two months unless she was a guard. If you can 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:34.000 imagine that, they'd be like, what's up. 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:37.280 He was like, that's a long time to not be 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:38.079 saying anything. 0:10:38.440 --> 0:10:39.920 Yeah, well, if you go through what I went through, 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:41.120 you wouldn't have nothing to say. 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:43.480 Do you feel like that was a scared street type 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:45.400 of experience, Like I ain't never doing nothing. 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:50.520 I wasn't scared. I was mad, right, Okay, I wasn't scared. 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:51.880 Well, I don't mean scared. 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:57.760 You know they call it scared straight Where you. 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.160 Was? That was it? That was? 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:00.400 Yes? 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.080 Yes, GJ. 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:04.000 That's crazy because J had a good time when she 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:09.120 was locked up. GZ had a good time, which is crazy. 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:12.520 I did. I didn't hate jail. I hated things about it. 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:16.040 I was there for ninety days. I didn't really hate it, 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:17.320 and I came out of change. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:18.600 First, what was your charge? 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:26.160 I violated probation from a drug possession in charge. 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:28.520 I was a drug mule when I was nineteen. 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:34.679 But okay, but I didn't like the showers. 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:38.000 It didn't have no pressure. Was like somebody spitting on you. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.720 It was terrible. Then there's a shower shots bits what 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:45.559 you're looking at? Tripe? Shit. Food was horrible. 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:46.480 Food was terrible. 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:50.839 Yeah, you know during clothing exchange on their period. You 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:54.880 don't know where the blood coming from. Oh oh, oh 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:56.559 my god. You said, oh my god, you're sitting on 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:59.959 the comfortable cop. I lived this ship. She probably did too, 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:00.959 but she. 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:05.520 Was like you, I had a little jail girlfriend, okay, 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:07.199 like half like midway through. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:09.560 Sea Walk. 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.280 She used to speaking do things at night time when 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:15.760 everybody was sleeping using the dorm, so we had to 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:16.240 really sleep. 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:17.800 She made the most of it. 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:21.560 Is I think, Gigi, what here was? 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:23.640 We're going to find a silver lines. 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:25.560 I knew that it was. It was time for me 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:28.440 to go. When a bitiness coming there looking like snoop, 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:32.000 and I was like, you're. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:33.240 Looking at. 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:40.280 Yes, you know. 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:42.680 Let me ask you guys this, Since you're talking about that, 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:43.960 does anybody in here? 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:46.320 Would you say? Are there any of your exes who 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:47.079 you miss? 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:47.959 Fuck? 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:48.079 No? 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:54.560 Okay, all right, Pam, I'm talking that none of them? No, okay, okay. 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:57.880 Plus, you know you got a situation, so even if 0:12:57.880 --> 0:12:58.760 you did, you couldn't. 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:00.000 Yeah, I don't miss it. 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:03.080 Yeah I missed about three of them. 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.440 You do? Do you ever speak to them? Or you 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.400 just when it's over? It's over? 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:11.280 Well, I'm petty, so like I'll unblock them and say 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:12.960 some fucked up ship and block them back. 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:18.640 So you can't reply, right, so you never spend the 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:20.640 block like you never thought about like you know. 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:21.560 That's no. 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:25.560 I have pulled up to an exits front door with 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:28.839 a brick in my hand and took his selfie and left. 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:32.720 That's a different spind the block what you were talking about, 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:37.600 Like I did spend you know, to let him know 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:38.760 I will bust your ship. 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:42.680 Yeah, you're anyway this brick? Right? 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:44.600 Do you feel like you could get back together with 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:46.680 any of your exes if you wanted to? You know, 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:49.240 they always say that women, if we decide we want 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:51.040 to or at least. 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:51.600 Hit it again. 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:51.880 Ye. 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:54.560 No, I would never do that, but you could if 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:55.839 you wanted to, Like, if it was. 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.000 Up to you, they would do it. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:13:59.920 Maybe one, maybe just one. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:02.680 Okay, I feel like every single one a last one, 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:10.720 all of except for the ones that's married. But I'm 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:14.560 not saying you would. I'm saying all of them a 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:16.400 l l u h. 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:22.600 Pro what you think him? 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:28.400 All of them? Yeah? I pretty much. 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.440 Let me tell you something, like, I'd be so glad 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:33.400 when my exes hit me up that I know are 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:36.520 in other situations. I'd be like, I am so glad 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:39.920 that's not my man, because that's the type of ship 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:40.760 that you'all. 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:43.560 Be on when you have breakups, Like, who is it 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:44.520 most of the time them? 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.240 Are you always me? 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:48.520 It is? 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.920 It is always me. My last breakup was kind of 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:52.840 like it was kind of mute to it because it 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.440 was over. We both knew it was over, and it 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:58.040 just has to be said. I was like loading around. 0:14:58.040 --> 0:15:00.600 He was doing his own thing. I was doing my 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:04.840 own thing. And then, you know, I think, ideally, you 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:06.840 feel like I want to still be friends, but it's 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:10.640 not realistic, you know, to still be friends after you 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:11.480 guys break up. 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:13.200 I have no hard feelings. 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:16.360 But I think he he has a new girlfriend and 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.560 so he had to change his phone number and like 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:20.600 all kinds of stuff. 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:26.480 Yeah, yes, that's dramatic. 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:30.000 Yeah no, I think his girlfriend hates me, Like, oh yeah, 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.200 yeah I would, but I didn't do anything. 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:34.760 But who had to say it? Like did he come out? 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:37.120 Because if it was already like something that's kind of 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:40.680 like understood, did you have to say it first? 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.400 Or I did say it first because I was like, 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.760 let's stop, you know, beating around the bush, right, it. 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:47.479 Is what it is, you know what it is because. 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:50.360 And you know how you know you don't like somebody 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:52.960 anymore when you're not attracted to them pratically, like you 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:56.560 can be like he cool, but I'm not like my 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:59.960 pleasure not getting wet for you. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:02.880 No moisture. Yeah, I've had, I've had. I don't even 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.320 want to know I've had. 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.560 I've definitely had situations where I just had to be like, 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:09.880 you know what, I can't. 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:10.760 I can't do this anymore. 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:13.880 It's really it's like a birth of fresh air to 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:15.520 be able to just speak your truth and move on. 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:16.520 But get into that. 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:21.040 And will fuck you. 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:24.280 It ends like that inside at first. 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:30.680 No verbally on the phone text emoji fu you you broke. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:34.040 Up with someone over text before? 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:36.200 I mean I broke up with people in all different 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:43.080 ways over text at your mama'side something Thanksgiving because I 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.680 don't have parents, so I don't have that. No more 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.240 so when you don't have parents and you don't give 0:16:48.240 --> 0:16:52.120 a about nobody else, give a about finiture. You shouldn't 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:52.880 have did what you did? 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:57.160 What was the worst breakup? 0:16:57.760 --> 0:16:58.880 They're all bad. 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:03.480 She take her glasses, got your mah, yeah that was 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:04.800 that was that was ugly. 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:10.600 No, just dip but then I'll call you. It ain't 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:14.639 no throwing glasses and no ship like that. I just 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:16.840 dip because I'm busy any fucking. 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:17.880 Right, right? Yeah? 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:21.040 And I think as when women are busy. The worst 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:23.200 is when you're going through something and you're not busy, 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:24.280 but were you busy and you're. 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:27.360 Going because then you get obsessed. 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:30.560 That's what I don't even miss that. 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:34.879 Do you like younger men they like me? Do you 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:35.280 like them? 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:36.040 I didn't ask you that. 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:36.840 Do you like them? 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:43.119 Yes? And I like that they like me ship. I 0:17:43.119 --> 0:17:45.040 got a big house. I need young mother factors so 0:17:45.080 --> 0:17:48.800 I can say, go upstairs and give me that and 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:52.200 bring me that on going to the like that. Help 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:53.560 help me bitch out. I need help. 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:55.560 You got an age limit for how young? 0:17:56.200 --> 0:17:58.040 I got an age they gotta be. 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:01.800 What about younger than your daughter? 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:10.720 Uh uh a lot. 0:18:11.680 --> 0:18:19.320 These guys are really mature these days. You know. It's 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:23.440 you know, it depends on the maturity of the young gentleman. 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:24.280 I feel that. 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:27.120 Listen, Gigi, tell us what you did because she came 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:28.640 in here, what you did glowing? 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:32.199 Here came in she came in here glowing. Tell us 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:33.360 why I'm glowing? 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:33.800 Really? 0:18:34.200 --> 0:18:36.760 I was, Yeah, that's after glow. 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:39.959 So yeah, So I just had some really good sex 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:43.360 nice today. Not well for the past few days. But 0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:47.120 there was one day that we had sex five times. 0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:50.160 Yeah, I've done that. I did it nine times nine 0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:53.280 times day. Yeah. My husband ex husband, he was like 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:56.119 abust nine times in one day one day. That was 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:57.520 the record. It didn't happen a lot. 0:18:58.359 --> 0:18:59.920 One day was he shooting out air? 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:03.320 I don't know. I was inside me, so I don't 0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:03.880 know what the fun. 0:19:03.960 --> 0:19:06.119 Was coming out what I'm saying, because after that, they 0:19:06.119 --> 0:19:13.199 ain't no come left to come out. 0:19:12.720 --> 0:19:14.679 And came in. Yeh know. 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:15.480 It was a good time. 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:18.160 I think them before it was the best. We both 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:20.600