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Speaker 1: What up it is lift service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm

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Speaker 1: Giji Maguire, I'm Lauramara.

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Speaker 2: I'm your girl, just pam oh, I'm Lonelle.

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Speaker 3: Listen.

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Speaker 4: First of all, I am so excited that Lunell is here.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, am I listen? Gijitn flew in today, Yes,

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Speaker 4: from Atlanta. Everybody was like, Lunella.

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Speaker 5: Is coming, oh honey.

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Speaker 3: And we went live right before this and people were like, Luell,

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. So thank you.

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Speaker 6: Anticipated that's fucking fantastic.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you, thank you ladies.

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Speaker 4: And you've been I mean, I know you've had a

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Speaker 4: whirlwind of a week.

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Speaker 1: So congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Yes, thank you to being on Broadway.

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Speaker 5: Yes in Chicago.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I love that.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you. I'm drinking water.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we can't do that, and that's a bad look

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Speaker 3: for us, right.

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Speaker 5: That I may change.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe you may.

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Speaker 3: So what was the experience like?

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Speaker 5: Well, I described it this way for those listeners and

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Speaker 5: viewers who were not familiar as I started out in

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Speaker 5: theater before I ever did comedy. So I have a

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Speaker 5: love for the theater. I grew up watching theater. That's

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Speaker 5: what really gave me the bug to want to be

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Speaker 5: in entertainment at all, being able to get back on

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Speaker 5: a theater stage, not doing comedy, to be on a

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Speaker 5: theatrical stage on Broadway after so many years of just

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Speaker 5: talking shit and doing stand up and from television. The

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Speaker 5: way it felt, it felt like I was I was nervous,

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Speaker 5: like I was about to see an old boyfriend that

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Speaker 5: I really loved and to see if he still loved me.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's a great experience. And tam and Hall knew

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Speaker 4: about your background in theater and that's why she surprised you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she was gonna give me tickets. I was happy

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Speaker 5: with tickets. And then she said, you know, the would

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Speaker 5: offer me the role of the you know, the first

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Speaker 5: introduced to the show, welcomes the audience, and I got

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Speaker 5: to do the curtain call and everything like that. My

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Speaker 5: daughter was there and she's a professional dancer. Flew my

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Speaker 5: nephew and he's a theatrical actor as well. But back

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Speaker 5: in Texas and a lot of family came in and more.

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Speaker 5: I thought it would just be like maybe me and

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Speaker 5: my manager and this assistant, just maybe three people, but

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Speaker 5: it turned out to be like twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Wow, people love you.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's a that's a blessing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is a blessing. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And moments like that you really do get to see,

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Speaker 1: you know, the love, the fact that you think, ain't nobody,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's just a few of us, and then

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Speaker 1: twenty five people, right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's the people I knew there was fans

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Speaker 5: that bought tickets that came to right.

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Speaker 3: No, but I'm saying, just your circle, like just to

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, my tribe is tight. I seventeen meets the

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Speaker 5: nephews and seven brothers and sisters. Wow, Chris, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's a lot of us. You know, we're very fuck

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Speaker 1: Do I do grab bags at Christmas or now?

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Speaker 5: We don't do none of that shit. It's too many

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Speaker 3: That's my family does a grab bag.

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Speaker 5: So we don't even exchange presidents, none of that. Won't

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Speaker 5: even do it because we do so much. I do

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Speaker 5: so much for my family during the year. Like, don't

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Speaker 5: fucking bother me about Christmas. Just gave your ass twenty

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Speaker 5: five hundred dollars last week. You want a Christmas present? Mary,

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Speaker 5: Christmas yourself? That's it.

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Speaker 3: I saw your trip too. You went on vacation for

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Speaker 3: the holidays.

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Speaker 5: I'm supposed to still be on vacation. Now what I'm

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Speaker 5: the tiredest bitch on vacation. I have just seen my

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Speaker 5: life doing too much. Yeah, I went. I started my

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Speaker 1: Next thing. You know, y'all look like you had of time.

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Speaker 1: Though it sounds like a literuation every time, it actually

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well that's the goal, you know, that's the blessing

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Speaker 5: got miles, you know, she fly, you fly, we fly,

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Speaker 5: and so you's not you. You accumulate miles, and miles

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Speaker 5: then't used to be transferable. You couldn't use them for

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Speaker 4: Fact that all those miles you get from that people

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Speaker 5: So that's what we did. The whole the whole trip

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Speaker 5: was financed by mouth. It's her from my oldest sister.

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Speaker 5: I put her in first class with me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, And have you ever thought about doing something like

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Speaker 4: being on that stage, like maybe a lunel like show

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Speaker 5: Sure, I mean yeah, like a one woman showed to me. Yeah, sure,

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Speaker 5: I was talking to about that today, showed you because

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Speaker 5: we was studying comedy, you know, and before comic relief

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Speaker 5: or anything like that. We'll be I think she might

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Speaker 5: have got a Tony for her one woman show. That's

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Speaker 5: that's what helped him become an egoch. Yes, definitely, you

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Speaker 5: know I thought about that. And we're doing the Doctor.

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Speaker 5: There's being a documentary produced about me right now, with

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Speaker 5: a book to follow. So I'm you know, I'm like

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Speaker 5: Warren g I want it all.

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Speaker 1: The past couple of years have been amazing for very

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Speaker 3: We see no time soon and I'm.

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Speaker 6: Here for that Yeah, well we'll see.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting because like Pan's been doing comedy, and my

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Speaker 1: question is, like when, because as a comedian, your people expected,

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Speaker 1: no matter what, you're always funny, even if like things

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Speaker 1: People expect you to like not be serious and just

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Speaker 5: Know, and yeah, and you know for your mental health,

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Speaker 5: that's not even good, Like people will call us as

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Speaker 5: But and also like I don't like people who laugh

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Speaker 5: when you don't take a vacation. When you don't take

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Speaker 5: because if you're popping, nobody in your team, nobody is

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Speaker 5: gonna say, hey, you know what you look a little tired.

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Speaker 5: Why don't you take three weeks off? And nobody gonna

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Speaker 5: say that because they you know, they getting they presented.

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Speaker 5: They want you to work, but you're not a machine.

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Speaker 5: And when you when you get to a point where

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Speaker 1: I was on.

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Speaker 5: Vacation in Hawaii and got offered a movie. They wanted

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Speaker 5: I said no, They offered me the movie anyway.

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Speaker 5: That was kind of like, don't make me do that.

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Speaker 5: And I'm just not a good auditioner. I don't give

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Speaker 5: a fuck about movies. I'm gonna eat anyway. I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: they can't tell me from eating because my people are

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Speaker 5: I'm oh, I'm tired. It's my wig. You know, I'm

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Speaker 5: for me in my vernacular. Then it sounds fake coming

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Speaker 1: And do you know, like what what lines you're saying

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Speaker 5: I always wanted to be in the entertainment period, I

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Speaker 5: I tried working. I worked, you know, I worked in

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, we know. I cannot wait to

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, you got to re enact that part.

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Speaker 5: I said it all before the teeth.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But so you ended up how long did you

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Speaker 5: Like I did four months and mondays on a one

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Speaker 5: prior as we else, they would have gave me a year.

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Speaker 1: Well, the system is different now, they find all. I

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Speaker 5: Well twenty eight years ago.

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Speaker 3: So what was that time like for you? But like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it was terrible.

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Speaker 5: I was already on comic views. The niggas knew who

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Speaker 5: I was in jail, and it's like, what up Commic View?

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Speaker 5: What's up? Comic View? And then I had a new baby,

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Speaker 5: then when you're in jail, the window county, the windows

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Speaker 5: catching a bus pushing a baby sweller down the street.

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Speaker 5: I couldn't take it. And I actually didn't talk for

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Speaker 5: imagine that, they'd be like, what's up.

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Speaker 3: He was like, that's a long time to not be

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, if you go through what I went through,

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Speaker 6: I wasn't scared. I was mad, right, Okay, I wasn't scared.

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Speaker 4: You know they call it scared straight Where you.

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Speaker 5: Was? That was it? That was?

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Speaker 1: That's crazy because J had a good time when she

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Speaker 1: I did. I didn't hate jail. I hated things about it.

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Speaker 5: First, what was your charge?

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Speaker 1: I violated probation from a drug possession in charge.

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Speaker 3: I was a drug mule when I was nineteen.

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Speaker 6: But okay, but I didn't like the showers.

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Speaker 5: It didn't have no pressure. Was like somebody spitting on you.

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Speaker 5: It was terrible. Then there's a shower shots bits what

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know during clothing exchange on their period. You

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Speaker 1: Was like you, I had a little jail girlfriend, okay,

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Speaker 5: Sea Walk.

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Speaker 1: Is I think, Gigi, what here was?

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Speaker 3: We're going to find a silver lines.

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Speaker 5: I knew that it was. It was time for me

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Speaker 5: and I was like, you're.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know.

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Speaker 3: Would you say? Are there any of your exes who

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Speaker 5: Fuck?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Pam, I'm talking that none of them? No, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: Plus, you know you got a situation, so even if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't miss it.

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Speaker 3: You do? Do you ever speak to them? Or you

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm petty, so like I'll unblock them and say

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Speaker 4: So you can't reply, right, so you never spend the

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Speaker 3: That's no.

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Speaker 5: I have pulled up to an exits front door with

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Speaker 4: That's a different spind the block what you were talking about,

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Speaker 4: Like I did spend you know, to let him know

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're anyway this brick? Right?

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Speaker 4: Do you feel like you could get back together with

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Speaker 4: they always say that women, if we decide we want

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Speaker 1: Hit it again.

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Speaker 5: Ye.

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Speaker 1: No, I would never do that, but you could if

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Speaker 3: Up to you, they would do it.

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Speaker 5: Maybe one, maybe just one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I feel like every single one a last one,

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Speaker 4: all of except for the ones that's married. But I'm

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Speaker 4: not saying you would. I'm saying all of them a

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Speaker 1: Pro what you think him?

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Speaker 3: All of them? Yeah? I pretty much.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you something, like, I'd be so glad

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Speaker 4: when my exes hit me up that I know are

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Speaker 4: in other situations. I'd be like, I am so glad

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Speaker 4: that's not my man, because that's the type of ship

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Speaker 5: Be on when you have breakups, Like, who is it

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Speaker 5: most of the time them?

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Speaker 3: Are you always me?

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Speaker 1: It is?

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Speaker 4: It is always me. My last breakup was kind of

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Speaker 4: like it was kind of mute to it because it

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Speaker 4: just has to be said. I was like loading around.

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Speaker 4: He was doing his own thing. I was doing my

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Speaker 4: feel like I want to still be friends, but it's

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Speaker 4: guys break up.

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Speaker 1: I have no hard feelings.

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Speaker 4: But I think he he has a new girlfriend and

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Speaker 4: so he had to change his phone number and like

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Speaker 4: all kinds of stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, that's dramatic.

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Speaker 4: Yeah no, I think his girlfriend hates me, Like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: yeah I would, but I didn't do anything.

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Speaker 3: But who had to say it? Like did he come out?

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Speaker 1: Because if it was already like something that's kind of

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Speaker 4: Or I did say it first because I was like,

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Speaker 4: let's stop, you know, beating around the bush, right, it.

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Speaker 3: Is what it is, you know what it is because.

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Speaker 4: And you know how you know you don't like somebody

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Speaker 4: anymore when you're not attracted to them pratically, like you

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Speaker 4: can be like he cool, but I'm not like my

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Speaker 4: pleasure not getting wet for you.

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Speaker 3: No moisture. Yeah, I've had, I've had. I don't even

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Speaker 1: I've definitely had situations where I just had to be like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't do this anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's really it's like a birth of fresh air to

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Speaker 1: be able to just speak your truth and move on.

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Speaker 3: But get into that.

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Speaker 5: And will fuck you.

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Speaker 3: It ends like that inside at first.

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Speaker 5: No verbally on the phone text emoji fu you you broke.

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Speaker 3: Up with someone over text before?

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Speaker 5: I mean I broke up with people in all different

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Speaker 5: ways over text at your mama'side something Thanksgiving because I

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Speaker 5: don't have parents, so I don't have that. No more

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Speaker 5: so when you don't have parents and you don't give

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Speaker 5: a about nobody else, give a about finiture. You shouldn't

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Speaker 5: have did what you did?

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Speaker 2: What was the worst breakup?

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Speaker 5: They're all bad.

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Speaker 1: She take her glasses, got your mah, yeah that was

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Speaker 1: that was that was ugly.

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Speaker 5: No, just dip but then I'll call you. It ain't

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Speaker 5: no throwing glasses and no ship like that. I just

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Speaker 5: dip because I'm busy any fucking.

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Speaker 3: Right, right? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And I think as when women are busy. The worst

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Speaker 4: is when you're going through something and you're not busy,

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Speaker 4: but were you busy and you're.

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Speaker 5: Going because then you get obsessed.

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Speaker 6: That's what I don't even miss that.

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Speaker 1: Do you like younger men they like me? Do you

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Speaker 1: like them?

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Speaker 3: I didn't ask you that.

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Speaker 1: Do you like them?

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Speaker 5: Yes? And I like that they like me ship. I

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Speaker 5: got a big house. I need young mother factors so

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Speaker 5: I can say, go upstairs and give me that and

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Speaker 5: bring me that on going to the like that. Help

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Speaker 5: help me bitch out. I need help.

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Speaker 2: You got an age limit for how young?

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Speaker 5: I got an age they gotta be.

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Speaker 3: What about younger than your daughter?

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Speaker 6: Uh uh a lot.

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Speaker 5: These guys are really mature these days. You know. It's

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Speaker 5: you know, it depends on the maturity of the young gentleman.

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Speaker 3: I feel that.

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Speaker 1: Listen, Gigi, tell us what you did because she came

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Speaker 1: in here, what you did glowing?

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Speaker 4: Here came in she came in here glowing. Tell us

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Speaker 4: why I'm glowing?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 5: I was, Yeah, that's after glow.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, So I just had some really good sex

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Speaker 1: nice today. Not well for the past few days. But

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Speaker 1: there was one day that we had sex five times.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've done that. I did it nine times nine

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Speaker 5: abust nine times in one day one day. That was

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Speaker 1: One day was he shooting out air?

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I was inside me, so I don't

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Speaker 5: know what the fun.

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Speaker 4: Was coming out what I'm saying, because after that, they

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Speaker 3: And came in. Yeh know.

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Speaker 1: It was a good time.

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Speaker 4: I think them before it was the best. We both

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Speaker 4: this is what she does every night? Yeah, because doing

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Speaker 4: that every.

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Speaker 5: Night because she's locking.

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Speaker 1: I believe after my experience, I believe that in fact,

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Speaker 1: she is lying every night.

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Speaker 5: He don't have We might could do it. He ain't

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Speaker 5: got it. But after the third day, I'm be like,

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Speaker 5: you're gonna have to get.

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Speaker 1: The fun to get a job made, You're gonna have

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Speaker 1: to go to work. You can't have nothing to do

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Speaker 1: the next day, and then the night like she didn't

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Speaker 3: Five times it was from like U.

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Speaker 1: I got there around like we got to the house

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Speaker 3: I'm counting that that first one in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the morning, that's the best.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wake up in the middle of the night one

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Speaker 3: was the best.

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Speaker 5: I like that, went back to sleep and never opened

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Speaker 3: I'm still yeah, you know and everything. It's like me

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Speaker 3: waking up looking for my water drinking, yeah, because you

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Speaker 3: know you like that.

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Speaker 4: I have at times there it was maybe one or

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Speaker 4: two times I fallen asleep during.

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Speaker 3: Sex, ill asleep with.

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Speaker 1: I'm not having like one of them was so bad.

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Speaker 4: But you all gotta think I used to do morning

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Speaker 4: radio for a long time, waking up at four am.

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Speaker 3: But one in spirits a couple of.

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Speaker 5: Times sleep during stuff while he was clearly no.

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Speaker 4: It was like why why you was fucking because I

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Speaker 4: was just sometimes it's like I want to do it,

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Speaker 4: but I'm exhausted.

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Speaker 5: You left y'o bro whoever you was.

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Literally, am I the only person that sleep with the

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Speaker 3: I have actually done to die that I've done it

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Speaker 3: twice to the same person. I'm tired, you know, just

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Speaker 3: find it very hard to fall asleep.

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Speaker 1: I cannot imagine.

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Speaker 3: I definitely felt asleep with Did he wake you up?

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Speaker 3: Like you know? Yes he did, Like he probably was

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Speaker 3: like you're not.

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00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 2: No, because when he when he's done and then you

451
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 2: keep going, it's soft and then it's like it's soft.

452
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: But if you don't take it out and you just

453
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 2: kind of layd in, you.

454
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 3: Just it was like it was still there. I was like,

455
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 3: mid suck it.

456
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all was definitely snoring because your mouth was open.

457
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 3: I couldn't breathe.

458
00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 5: Okay, so I snore. My god, guys, are you watching

459
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:12,879
Speaker 5: this show too? Just girls, you're watching something that's it.

460
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,679
Speaker 4: I can't believe you'all try to act like I was

461
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 4: crazy for jump sep of the dick in your mouth?

462
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 4: That not everybody that's it's not like that.

463
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 1: Long Like you said, where do you shine?

464
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 5: I got good? I mean that's just that I drink.

465
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 3: How does one know that they have good persons.

466
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 5: And they tell you you got some good if you

467
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 5: come over and he just don't leave and you hear

468
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 5: more than one guy from what the one guy.

469
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 3: Months after you crazy ship that pussy.

470
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah you're crazy, but that person but the crazy got good.

471
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 5: Everybody know that.

472
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,360
Speaker 3: That's why that's me too.

473
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 5: That's why men with crazy bitches.

474
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:18,160
Speaker 4: Malcolm says that trauma is seasoning on the trauma is seasoning.

475
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 3: That.

476
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 1: I don't know my.

477
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 3: Mother what Malcolm amazed?

478
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: Can speech you the picture of Malcolm expertise trauma.

479
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 5: Not traumatized, trauma.

480
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 1: Vagina, trauma put a little taste on the vagina.

481
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 5: Women say it again.

482
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 3: Trauma pussy.

483
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 1: He said it was very controversial, and I was and

484
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 1: next to him and I had to can you say

485
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 1: that one with time?

486
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 3: It's trauma season it on a dick?

487
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: Like? Do you think that guys who.

488
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 5: Are no, No, I need a trauma free motherfucking man

489
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 5: because I ain't got time to fucking Oh never mind,

490
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 5: it's gonna sound so cool.

491
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 3: No, I'm not.

492
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 5: I'm not a nurturing type of bitch. Only for my

493
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 5: daughter period. Okay, I'm not a cuddler. I get hot.

494
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 5: I don't like all that. You know, you can fuck

495
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 5: me and get them go watch the game. I don't

496
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,199
Speaker 5: give a fuck. I'm a scroll on my phone. Do

497
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 5: other ship I gotta let me. I don't miss five

498
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 5: phone call with your ass anyway. I got business.

499
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 3: I got money to make, right.

500
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 5: I don't dance now I make money moves.

501
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 3: Do you like to kiss though?

502
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 5: At least I love.

503
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 3: To kiss, Okay, alright, no.

504
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 5: I love to kiss.

505
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 3: Do you like to be spending your mouth?

506
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 5: No? I don't like you to spend all my don't

507
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:01,360
Speaker 5: spit on me at all?

508
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 3: Are you ever was into that?

509
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 5: But let him. You can make moisture without spitting.

510
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 3: We're not down there in your mouth.

511
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 5: No, I don't like that.

512
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 3: She don't want to spend nowhere nowhere?

513
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 5: No, I don't mind. It's alive, yes, a life, but

514
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 5: don't just spin like LOOI in my all.

515
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 4: I agree with you, though, I do not want nobody

516
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 4: to spit in my mouth, and I want to don't

517
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 4: want to spit in any one's mouth.

518
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 5: You remember when COVID and we had to spit sometime? Yeah,

519
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 5: you're going to go up my nose because I can't.

520
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 5: I'm making myself sick.

521
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 4: Do you remember the first time you had to get

522
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 4: a COVID test? Because I remember my favorite earl.

523
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 5: Your brain ship was over by the time.

524
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 3: The brain me telling yeah, brain.

525
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:02,879
Speaker 1: No, no, thank god I got the videos. Cringey video

526
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: too is awful. I was scared. It was diallastic.

527
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 4: It was like who's going first? And then I'm the

528
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 4: type of person I want to go first and get

529
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 4: it over with. I don't want to go last, like

530
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 4: I don't want to let everybody go, and then I

531
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,719
Speaker 4: still got to I'd rather just be the first person

532
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 4: go in there, do my ship.

533
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 5: I didn't have to go.

534
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 3: I was by myself.

535
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: They came to my house to do it because I

536
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: was about to do a TV show.

537
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 3: All right, now, Low, since do you think that you're

538
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 3: an expert on sex? Would you say?

539
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 5: I certainly have an extensive resume.

540
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 4: Okay, so we're gonna ask you expert a couple of questions,

541
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:39,640
Speaker 4: and I want to see who knows some of these terms?

542
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 5: All right, I don't know about that, okay.

543
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 4: Unicorn in the Urban Dictionary insects, What is a unicorn?

544
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 5: I don't know what is it?

545
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 3: A man that's straight?

546
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 1: And then you're making this true even though he I

547
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 1: mean a man that's not straight.

548
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 3: A unicorn, somebody that's pants actual.

549
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's to me. Gotta be a hard for.

550
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 1: Any Okay, wrong, the unicorn is actually a woman who

551
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: joined a straight couple for a threesome?

552
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 3: Is that big unicorn? You a whole lot of three sons?

553
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: In my my you just straight like like she does.

554
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 3: She does.

555
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 4: She used to want to have like when she was

556
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 4: in a relationship like another woman was part of the relationship.

557
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 5: Friend, it can work, but right, bro.

558
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 4: But yeah, but then no, yeah, no, that relationship is over,

559
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 4: so it's not happening. Becauld you see yourself having that

560
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 4: being with a woman and a man.

561
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 5: Maybe you know it was like Queen latif something. I

562
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 5: like them.

563
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 3: Okay, what about you with two man?

564
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 5: Absolutely not, it's too much work. I tried to do that.

565
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 5: I can't suck your dick and funk at the same time,

566
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 5: somebody not go to rhythm, gonna be off somewhere.

567
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 4: That's the fact you might chomp down by accident while

568
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 4: you while you're like, somebody get hurt, get hurt.

569
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 3: Somebody's gonna be a rhythm and somebody gonna get bit.

570
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: Okay, that's pretty much about a child.

571
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 3: Does anybody know what a child?

572
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 5: You know, sounds nasty to.

573
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 2: Be choked the held at the same time, anybody chold

574
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 2: what's a child?

575
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 3: No, it sounds like this urban dictionary. It sounds like

576
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 3: something that involves antal something.

577
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 5: I'm tapping out.

578
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 3: A toad is a short fat dick? Oh, A little yeah,

579
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 3: a little umm number, a little bit, a little mini put.

580
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 4: Have you ever been disappointed after you've been dating somebody

581
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 4: and then it was about to go down and you were.

582
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, plenty of times, like I liked you, but

583
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 5: you're back in the seventies, you know, light skin blue,

584
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 5: I have read as niggas was all the rage, you know,

585
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 5: and so then you give these pretty biggis and if

586
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 5: they did me small because the white party that they

587
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 5: did me small, Like you got a car, you got

588
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 5: a jog, you got a hout with that dick?

589
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: Could you be with somebody that wasn't that was a child?

590
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 3: Now?

591
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, now you could if I was sucking somebody else,

592
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 6: you're gonna I'm gonna.

593
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 5: Do that for the rest of my life.

594
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: I'm living. I got money.

595
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 3: I ain't gotta do this.

596
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: How big I make money?

597
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 5: Oh no, I'm in the comfortable dick area.

598
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 3: Now what is comfortable.

599
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 5: This medium? Because all these biggest having something so maybe

600
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 5: that's fun, okay, but all that nine no, I don't. Hey,

601
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 5: I'm not taking no more penicillin. Folk. We child you

602
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 5: to it.

603
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 3: No, have you ever had to say no, that's too big,

604
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 3: I can't do it.

605
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 5: Yes, it was in Miami. That motherfucker was so big

606
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 5: I thought I had my aunt on his knee. So, hey,

607
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 5: turn lights on, turn the lights on. This ain't happening.

608
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 5: Let me say that.

609
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 4: Hot, not the third leg, but the third knee. And

610
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 4: that's somebody you cannot give a blow job to either.

611
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 5: I'm not splitting my mouth.

612
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what else, it's sorry. If somebody has

613
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: a really curve.

614
00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 5: I don't know.

615
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 3: I need you like a curve.

616
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 5: You saw that they got curved dicks because then they

617
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 5: were circumcised. The doctor didn't cut their meat straight. It's

618
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 5: like maybe like this, and the meat on this side

619
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 5: is shorter than the meat on this side, and that

620
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 5: wouldn't occurved.

621
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 3: So I don't know the medical.

622
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: Anthony's that your anthony.

623
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 3: He's like, he said, that's problem. He's like, he has

624
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 3: a chuld.

625
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: Let me.

626
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 3: That's so hard because I don't like I don't like curve.

627
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 2: And every time somebody send me a curved dick, pick,

628
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 2: I always think of a gas pump because it looked

629
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 2: like like a.

630
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 3: Gas manas pump.

631
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: But I saw a circumcised, a circumcised dick for the

632
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: first time that it doesn't circumcised like because him himself

633
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: it was had no even when it's not hard, the

634
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: meat is there because I but it's not over the head.

635
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 3: So but he's very like like he I guess on

636
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 3: their own. I thought he was nine. I was like,

637
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 3: ain't no way, you're not circumstanced to.

638
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 5: Say I don't like uncircumcisement because I'm trying to cut

639
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 5: down on my cholesterol.

640
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I did too much skin. Okay, no problem,

641
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: all right.

642
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 4: Now another thing I want to ask you guys, and

643
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 4: we touchd about this before you got here. Let's just

644
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 4: say you were dating somebody, everything was great, and then

645
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 4: you found out that previously he snitched on somebody. What

646
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 4: that mattered to you or not? Because you know, there's

647
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 4: this whole thing on snitching that's I feel like that's

648
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 4: never going to go away being bad in the community,

649
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 4: Like he's a snitch.

650
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 5: Well, you had to be fucking a gangster to even

651
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 5: be involved with somebody who's snitching and not snitching. Okay,

652
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 5: sound fuck with gangsters? No more?

653
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 3: Oh, no more more?

654
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 5: Why not? Because I'm too old for that little shit

655
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 5: on a nice world dressed motherfucking grown ass man, I

656
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 5: don't fuck thugs no more.

657
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 3: I don't fuck.

658
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: What else would you say?

659
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 3: You want? Like you said, a nice, well dressed gentleman, gotta.

660
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 5: Smell good, be a gentleman. Have a good relationship with

661
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 5: your mom's a good relationship with your sisters. Use dudes

662
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 5: that don't have good relationships they mom says, sisters, They're

663
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 5: not gonna end up having a good relationship with you.

664
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 5: They don't really relate to women. They don't like certain shit.

665
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 5: You know, if you in your mom's school, not a

666
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 5: mama's boy, not a pussy he not a you know,

667
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 5: with a nice, healthy relationship with your moms, with your sisters,

668
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 5: they dig you your good you know how you know

669
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 5: to open the door, you know to do this, you

670
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 5: know to change life. But because it's out now, because

671
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 5: your bits told you to change life. But you know,

672
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 5: grown ass man shit.

673
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: But some people do have fucked up families, I will say.

674
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 5: And they can have that broken ass nigga too. I

675
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 5: ain't got time to fix somebody.

676
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 3: Have you ever cheated in a relationship, a serial cheat.

677
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 5: Okay, I was ever faithful to one guy and I

678
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 5: married him. I'm faithful.

679
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, Ever, why do you think that is?

680
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 5: I think it used to be defense mechanism. I'm gonna

681
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 5: cheat on him because I know he's gonna cheat on me,

682
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 5: and if I cheated on him, I won't be as hurt.

683
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 5: I think I did it for that.

684
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:22,760
Speaker 3: Do you think man cheat for that same reason?

685
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 5: No?

686
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:32,919
Speaker 3: Absolutely not. The man cheat because they tuesday no reason,

687
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:33,720
Speaker 3: it's raining.

688
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,399
Speaker 5: What I'm loving is the male engineers is back there,

689
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 5: not saying a motherfucking as they can. They got to

690
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 5: listen to us.

691
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,399
Speaker 4: Has anybody in here ever not cheated? Besides well Luna

692
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 4: one time didn't.

693
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 3: Cheat that I have cheated? I leave. If are we

694
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 3: talking relationships? Have you ever cheated in your life?

695
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: Not in a relationship, but like, if I'm dating somebody

696
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: out lie and act like I'm only dating them and

697
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,240
Speaker 1: I'm dating someone else.

698
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 3: That's not that's not committed. I said, already relationship.

699
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 5: If they are you claiming me? Are we together? Is

700
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 5: it publicly known? If not, then we just fucking and

701
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 5: I can do it. I want clearly. If you're not

702
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 5: going to claim.

703
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,800
Speaker 1: Have we had the conversation that we are Probably I

704
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: did shet one time, and I think Angela helped me.

705
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 3: She said, oh yeah, you did she this one time,

706
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 3: this one time in band camp. But it wasn't a

707
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 3: real cheap emotionally, I wasn't in the relationship no more.

708
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 3: We wasn't even having.

709
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:53,439
Speaker 1: Yeah reas on me like crazy, like's not even gonna

710
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 1: keep going because.

711
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 3: He's gonna know who I'm talking about.

712
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, correct, yeah, Like we hadn't had

713
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: sex for like a year and half, but we were

714
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: still in it like I hadn't. That's when you haven't

715
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 1: had sex in the year and a half, that ain't

716
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: no relationship exactly.

717
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 5: You're done.

718
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 3: So you didn't cheat.

719
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 5: I'm not cheating.

720
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 3: You have the conversations I.

721
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 5: Handla act like you're with me a year and a half.

722
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 3: Yea, yes, we were still in like same little arrangements.

723
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 2: If you're in a relationship, what's the longest like amount

724
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 2: of time that you will go without having sex with

725
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 2: your partner before you be like yo, I.

726
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 3: Did, But it was situations after.

727
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 4: We mentioned because you know it the only time a

728
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 4: man maybe doesn't feel that way and even then. I

729
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 4: don't know this, but if they're like really stressed out

730
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 4: about things like sometimes guys also you know, get.

731
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 3: The stressed out better, get reason, the nut, stress, belief,

732
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 3: wake and bake.

733
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 4: They have health issues sometimes, you know, to the you

734
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 4: trying to justify, but we don't feel like it.

735
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 3: Yes, I always yeah, I want to. I want to

736
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 3: do it, but most women don't not feel like it.

737
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 3: I want to, like.

738
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 5: I think disintegration of your relationship, but we don't feel

739
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 5: like exactly.

740
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 3: That's because if I don't feel like I don't feel

741
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 3: like it, and.

742
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 5: I'm probably not gonna feel like it. If I don't

743
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 5: feel like it, I don't feel like it no more.

744
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 5: M M.

745
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 3: But I do agree, like if if he like men

746
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 3: don't like to be rejected.

747
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

748
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 2: So if he come to you vulnerable and he wants

749
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 2: to love on you for whatever reason, and he could

750
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 2: have been at the club with ten butt naked bitches

751
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 2: and all of them wanted to come home with him,

752
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: but for whatever reason he wants to come home to you.

753
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: Now he come home to you, and now you not

754
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 2: in the mood and you I get off me. He like,

755
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 2: I could have sucked these ten bitches in the club,

756
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 2: but I wanted to come home to you. Now you

757
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 2: rejected me. Now I feel some type of way.

758
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 5: Why you were at the strip club? Did we have

759
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 5: a fight earlier that?

760
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 3: So when he come home, it's like, I don't know

761
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 3: if I'm not.

762
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 5: Ask the question if you ever just fuck the man,

763
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 5: just capacify. I'm just okay, Yeah, that we all do that.

764
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 3: I feel like at some point, and I'm sure they

765
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 3: do that to us till you deserve this.

766
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 5: You can't make a dick can't get hard, even if

767
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 5: he don't really want and he wanted just you can't

768
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 5: make a bit fussy wet who don't want to.

769
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: But story.

770
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 4: You can, because you'll be like, I don't feel like

771
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 4: it and then he says and you're all right fine.

772
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 3: You know you know my man dad, he acts like sad.

773
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:02,240
Speaker 3: If I don't want to do something, he'll be like sad.

774
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: About it, and I'd be like, I find he pounced.

775
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: He'll be like, go to back and me beat off.

776
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, what why would you?

777
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 5: Baby?

778
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 3: Baby?

779
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: I I gotta think against that.

780
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,439
Speaker 3: I won't just put I don't. I won't deny him sex.

781
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 3: You won't I won't deny himself.

782
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 1: You won't, I.

783
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 5: Would say, I.

784
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 3: Always want to.

785
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I always write, I'm always some saying, but that's

786
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: if we're in like me a year and a half.

787
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: It's like you don't did a whole bunch of ship

788
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: that emotionally already, Like I can't even if I can't,

789
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: but if that's my man, I my love with you,

790
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: and I'm just because I'm tired.

791
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 3: Like I might fall asleep, hurts because you have no

792
00:39:56,000 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 3: steak and you have pain and froy you know what,

793
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 3: sweet potato. Because I was like, oh my god, you

794
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 3: be like, just go. We'll continue tomorrow.

795
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 5: To get this. I will figure it out. The situation.

796
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 4: The outlets, Yeah, you know what they if you know,

797
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 4: like if you know that earlier, Like let's say he

798
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 4: wants to get spontaneous, but you know I took a

799
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 4: ship at work earlier.

800
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 3: Oh and I haven't had a chance. I'm gonna go.

801
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, the questions, this little baby disclaim.

802
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 3: Now you gotta step away.

803
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, you gotta be like hold on, hold on, hold

804
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 6: on straight disrespectful if you don't, and you know the

805
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 6: sign that when they're trying to do something and the

806
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 6: girl like hold hold.

807
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: On to be honest and be like, like I need to,

808
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be.

809
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 5: Occasion might be locasion.

810
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 3: That I'm like, yeah, right, I gotta pee real bad,

811
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 3: give me a minute, But no, I'm not about to

812
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 3: let you ruin my day.

813
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 5: All down in a man's house to the other like

814
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 5: if you're a new relationship, you know you're about to

815
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 5: rap one. I was about, I'm gonna get some ice water,

816
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 5: go way down.

817
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 3: What if they walk in right after you came that.

818
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 4: You ever been in somebody's house and they left and

819
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 4: then they came back and you didn't know they forgot

820
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,800
Speaker 4: something and you're like, oh, ship, I blew.

821
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 5: A you gonna have.

822
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: I was just guy his house and I spent the

823
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 2: night for the first time, and I had to use

824
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: the bathroom and I wanted to go home.

825
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:06,240
Speaker 3: He was like, nah, I stayed.

826
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: So I went in the bathroom, and after I went,

827
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 2: I ended up cleaning his whole bathroom.

828
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 5: So I was bleach.

829
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 3: I cleaned his tall in his bathtub. He was like, yo,

830
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 3: you clean my whole bathroom? Like yeah, because.

831
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 5: I'm taking in my house.

832
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 3: You never do it though I didn't know what I

833
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,879
Speaker 3: never know. He ain't had no air fresh and ugly.

834
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 3: What then am I gonna do? He has cleaning problem?

835
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,320
Speaker 3: Clean clean bathroom?

836
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 1: Are you coming up there.

837
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 3: One minute? You know, guys don't care either, like they

838
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 3: will take a ship and suck you.

839
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 5: Right, they do not care.

840
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: That's disrespectful, and they'll tell you that I just do

841
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 1: the bathroom good though.

842
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 3: No.

843
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 6: I know that.

844
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 5: One time I was over a dude's house and I

845
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 5: had ate something that was not achoy with me. Then

846
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 5: I went to the bathroom and then I looked down

847
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 5: and noticed my fucker in toilet. Baby, and then I

848
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 5: one of the guests, and then I went to flush

849
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 5: the toilet and that motherfucker didn't work either. That's not

850
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 5: going to fucking welfare niggas in the open, you do right?

851
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,919
Speaker 5: I left. I just went home. I left. I left

852
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 5: the house.

853
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 3: They might have had you want to pain. No, that's

854
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 3: all you gotta kind of like what do I do?

855
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 3: I do?

856
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,240
Speaker 1: I scoop it found.

857
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 5: Out and I had this lip service podcast. She was

858
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 5: talking on nasty you know, because she got such little

859
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 5: baby face, so sweet like little cock and ball, and

860
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 5: she was talking about shouldn't been scooping and all this,

861
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 5: so swallen spitting.

862
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, I like you.

863
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 4: He was a nasty little cotton bowl. You know what

864
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 4: I want to ask, because nobody in here right is married? Okay,

865
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,280
Speaker 4: does anybody want to get married? Or do you feel

866
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 4: like it's something that is not necessary? You could just

867
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 4: be with somebody.

868
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 5: I will never get married again, never? Never? Why is that?

869
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 5: Because I like, uh, you know, because at this point

870
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 5: in my life I would have to have a do

871
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 5: a prenup for myself. You got to I got too

872
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 5: much ship, and I I I can have a wonderful

873
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 5: meaning from a relationship with somebody without getting married. I

874
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 5: just I also don't feel like nobody is going to

875
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 5: want to marry me at this stage. I don't think

876
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 5: nobody's gonna fall so heading up had over heels in

877
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 5: love with me at this stage that they want to

878
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 5: marry me, then you got to be skeptical because you know,

879
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 5: people know me and know me and all the time

880
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 5: of ship which you want to marry before. We're doing fine,

881
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 5: We're good, you know what I'm saying. So I just

882
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 5: don't want to risk it. You know, I want to

883
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,399
Speaker 5: be able to if we break up, I just want

884
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 5: to cuts you. I'll block you and do what I've

885
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 5: been doing. Fuck you and unblocking. Fuck you, you bitch,

886
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 5: and block you back.

887
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, but at least you had the experience.

888
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, I had a great marriage, my my I

889
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 5: got married in ninety days. Didn't know him that well.

890
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 5: And then after you know, if you leave a man

891
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 5: at home too much on the road or whatever, it's

892
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 5: like leaving the iron arm or leaving the water runner.

893
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 5: It's a disaster. It's not a matter of if. It's

894
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 5: when and he not knowing him. But this was, you know,

895
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 5: twenty something years ago. He had a it was a

896
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 5: crack up and doing he had a crack problem, and

897
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 5: then left and then I didn't see him again for

898
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 5: eleven years. Wow, we just got really physically divorced eight

899
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 5: years ago.

900
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 3: So were you trying to get divorced during that time

901
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 3: but couldn't find him?

902
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 5: No? Well yeah, I couldn't find him.

903
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

904
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 5: And then so finally, you know, we just did it,

905
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 5: you know, with abandonment, like.

906
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, because you couldn't get sign the paper right.

907
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 5: Right, right, right right.

908
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 3: I have a question. I saw that used to refer

909
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 3: to him as mister rarely.

910
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 5: No, that's that's not true. Why do people say that.

911
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I'm trying to figure that out.

912
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 5: I'm like, why that's not true. I don't know where

913
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 5: that came from. I never said that.

914
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 3: No, you're talking saying you can't find to get a

915
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 3: divorce on it was maybe because.

916
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 5: He's no, I don't know that. Somebody else asked me.

917
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 5: I don't know where that came from, some internet bullshit.

918
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 3: He was the right, right, Yeah, sat, do y'all want

919
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 3: to get married? I honestly, that's not it. I think

920
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 3: you should, Oh, thank you. I would just want the

921
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 3: reception with my you know part.

922
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: I don't want to do like signing papers where if

923
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 1: I'm not happy, I have to go through all this

924
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: like yeah, like I don't want to do that honestly,

925
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: Like I never grew up. I first of I didn't

926
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: see it to want it, Like you know, sometimes you

927
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 1: have to see things. I never seeing it to really

928
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: want it. I never see in one that I felt like,

929
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: oh my god, I want no, like I didn't. I've

930
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: never aspired to be married. I've had kids young, so

931
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 1: I already like skipped so many steps, but especially now, nah,

932
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna.

933
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 3: Well, you know I did it and it was tray

934
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 3: so I got in and I got the funk out quick.

935
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 2: And I always said I would never I would never

936
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 2: do it again, but I would do like a a

937
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 2: love ceremony like we can have.

938
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 3: We like each other. Look out, we're gonna every year,

939
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 3: right and and I'll tell people my husband is. But

940
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 3: I'm with you. I'm not gonna.

941
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 2: I really don't feel the need to sign papers. We

942
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 2: could do a document that say if I.

943
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 5: Die, Okay, Well, I just I think that y'all should

944
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:20,919
Speaker 5: not give up on getting married because you all look

945
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 5: good and you're vital and sexual and all that you get.

946
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 5: Be a old bitch my age, and let you know,

947
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:35,919
Speaker 5: the older black woman in America is the most underappreciated

948
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 5: segment of America. And nobody wants us. The older men

949
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 5: want younger bitches. The younger bitches want money. The men

950
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 5: don't care. They'll pay, which makes them a trick or America.

951
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 5: They don't care. The younger guys is trying to come up.

952
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 5: They know we thirsty. They want to fuck us in

953
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 5: the submission and stuff like that. So I'm good. I

954
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 5: just want to smash and have some fun and go

955
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 5: about my business.

956
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 4: Do you like men to take control in the bedroom

957
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 4: over you. What about do you like, like, do you

958
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 4: like for people to talk crazy to you?

959
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 5: Yes?

960
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 3: Show do you talk crazy to them like a mother?

961
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 3: What's the craziest ship you ever said?

962
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 5: I don't know, you know, I can't make it?

963
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 3: What about like, do you does it bother you if

964
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 3: somebody calls you bitch? No? Okay? Before like, I never like,

965
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 3: no guy has ever called me a bitch.

966
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 5: This guy was like, you don't know what you made

967
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 5: over here? Yes, let me go to the ship.

968
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 3: Don't call me fat? Like what you don't call me

969
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 3: your nat dirty buse?

970
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 5: You get carried away, mother, get carried away?

971
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 3: No, don't go there.

972
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 5: That would be weird.

973
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 3: So you're okay with bitch but not whore. That's weird. Bitch.

974
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 5: I feel like but not whore.

975
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 3: No, I feel like like like you nasty, come here, slap.

976
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:26,879
Speaker 5: What we're supposed to call them?

977
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna stop your bitch. I'm I'm, I'm yeah. I

978
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 3: don't know. You can't call him. You can call him

979
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 3: except yeah, but can you call him nigga?

980
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 5: I know you say nigga?

981
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 3: And what no?

982
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 5: Because I mean, like I just the angelic look I

983
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 5: look like a dirty bitch.

984
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 3: So I look like now that like a sweetheart, and

985
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 3: you are a sweetheart.

986
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 5: Sometimes it's a front.

987
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 4: Now she is honestly, like when you know Luna and

988
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 4: then you see her post and everything and you see

989
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,879
Speaker 4: her like she's very sweet and nice.

990
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 5: I'm about my daughter, I'm about my paper and about

991
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:20,280
Speaker 5: making people happy.

992
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think that comes through yea. You know

993
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 4: that said we don't got no pictures in here for

994
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 4: you to draw on. But right last time I seen Lotu,

995
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 4: now she did my way up.

996
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 6: New York.

997
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:40,840
Speaker 5: That was.

998
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:42,959
Speaker 3: The time.

999
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 5: It was. Yeah, that was the opportunity. All I did

1000
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 5: was draw some horns. I didn't even black out the

1001
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 5: toothf I'm meant.

1002
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 1: To do that.

1003
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 3: My producer Dan was out there like, oh my god,

1004
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 3: we have to get this all.

1005
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 5: I wondered what happened?

1006
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 4: You had some good celebrity stories too, like Charlie Murphy

1007
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 4: used to have print stories with James stories like you

1008
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:05,240
Speaker 4: have some good ones.

1009
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 5: I do, but I refuse to answer the questions and

1010
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 5: the basis of Mike criminate me.

1011
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: I do, ye.

1012
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,800
Speaker 3: And that means people got good stories on YouTube.

1013
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 5: They do, but I try to talk about them first. Okay,

1014
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 5: so they can't bust me.

1015
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:24,359
Speaker 3: Out put it out there.

1016
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 4: When it comes to your documentary, how do you decide

1017
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:28,439
Speaker 4: what you're gonna tell and not tell?

1018
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 5: Well, there is some shit I'm not telling, but it's

1019
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 5: only family related. Okay, that's the only ship.

1020
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 4: Because you also are friends with so many other comedians

1021
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 4: as well, and I'm sure you're gonna have stories about them.

1022
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 4: But sometimes people get offended when you don't know that

1023
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,399
Speaker 4: they're gonna get offended to, Like it might be certain.

1024
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 5: Look shop, you're not gonna give me copy. Fuck up,

1025
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna say about nobody nothing.

1026
00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 3: Shannon Sharp talk about blip service.

1027
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 5: In my documentary just My Life and well see, yeah,

1028
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 5: my life and how you know, how I got started

1029
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 5: and what makes me the way I am? You know,

1030
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:20,280
Speaker 5: like I talk a lot about sex. Nobody ever asked why. Okay,

1031
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 5: well I talk about sex because I talk about what

1032
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 5: I know about. You know, I haven't just had pleasurable sex.

1033
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 5: I've had rape sex, I've had insect sex. I've had

1034
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 5: all that type of shit, And people need to know

1035
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 5: that even though you have had that, you don't have

1036
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 5: to get stuck there.

1037
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 1: So it's kind of a take in the power.

1038
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, and if people know who they are and

1039
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,399
Speaker 5: if they see this, they will shut there. Oh my god,

1040
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 5: this bitch. I hope she'll say nothing about me. Well

1041
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 5: I won't, but you know who I'm talking. Sobody they

1042
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:54,959
Speaker 5: know true?

1043
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 3: Have you ever shared it with with anybody?

1044
00:53:58,440 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 5: Yes?

1045
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: My sisters know, okay?

1046
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 3: And what do they say? Are they like you need

1047
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 3: or because.

1048
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: Sometimes people feel like, you know, it's important to well

1049
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 1: the rapes.

1050
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:14,240
Speaker 5: I told everybody, right, I didn't hang on for twenty

1051
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 5: five fucking years. When I was seventeen, I got to

1052
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:22,800
Speaker 5: use the bathroom. When I was seventeen, somebody touched me.

1053
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 5: If something happened to me, I told right now. But

1054
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 5: just nobody ever protected me, Okay, I told her.

1055
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 4: Why does that make you feel when you tell something

1056
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 4: and no one protects you? Because that's why I think

1057
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 4: it makes.

1058
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 5: You very shitty, very hateful, you know, because I grew

1059
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 5: into this partially mellow bitch. But I'm very very very

1060
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 5: very angry for a very very very long time about it.

1061
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 5: And that's why I got the original batgirl of comedy Monica.

1062
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 5: Because you know how bitches on reality shows me throwing

1063
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 5: glasses at the other bitches. I invented that shit. I'm

1064
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 5: like a major league picture when it comes to that.

1065
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 5: So they throw a glass and bitches and miss, if

1066
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 5: I throw a glass of chess, your teeth is on

1067
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 5: the floor. So I had to stop doing stuff like

1068
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 5: that and grow out of that because you know, I

1069
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 5: lived in Oakland, and Oakland is not like a punk

1070
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 5: based city at even for the women. You know, we

1071
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 5: very hardcore and don't like to take a lot of shit.

1072
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 5: And after things happened to you, you know, you just

1073
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 5: get a short fuse, you know, like we don't be

1074
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 5: like what did you mean when you said that? Somebody says, so,

1075
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 5: look the fuck you talking about bitie motherfuckers? And it's

1076
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 5: like that all the time. So I, you know, I

1077
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:49,359
Speaker 5: found a way to curb that. But you know it's

1078
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 5: gonna it's gonna be pretty. It depends on how long,

1079
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 5: because you can only fit so much shit in so

1080
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 5: many hours of content. So every thing ain't gonna get told,

1081
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 5: but a lot of stuff will.

1082
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 1: How far along are you?

1083
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 5: Well, I don't know. We have to have a you

1084
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 5: got another meeting, you know we were I don't know

1085
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 5: because I haven't you know, I don't know how far

1086
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 5: we are because it's sometimes a documentary can take years.

1087
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 3: To me, I absolutely can, and I think you should

1088
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 3: like take your time with it.

1089
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 5: We are it's my life. It's just going to be

1090
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:27,720
Speaker 5: a legacy for my child.

1091
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 3: So I'm not just And are these things you shared

1092
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 3: with your daughter too? Yes?

1093
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:36,800
Speaker 4: You know, not everything, not everything, okay, but some the

1094
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 4: stuff that she doesn't know that won't be in it

1095
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 4: or no, I won't okay, you think you'll feel like

1096
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 4: you ever had that sit down to kind of like

1097
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 4: let her know because sometimes, and I think a lot

1098
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 4: of times we can judge people without knowing the backstory

1099
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 4: of certain things that happen. I feel like a lot

1100
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 4: of reasons why we activate that we are that we do.

1101
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 4: People don't know why. Yeah, you know, And so that

1102
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 4: I said that it should make us less judgmental of

1103
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 4: other people too.

1104
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 5: See, when you do stand up, people hear you, but

1105
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 5: they don't really listen. Like if you say, oh my god,

1106
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 5: my dad used to dress up in Santa Claus every year,

1107
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 5: but I had to stop sitting on his lap because

1108
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 5: this dick would get hard. Everybody gonna laugh. Did you

1109
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 5: hear what they said? That's probably not a lie. It's

1110
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 5: probably not a joke. So people listen, but they don't listen.

1111
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 5: And we tell everything a lot of the time. We

1112
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 5: tell it to see if you catch it, and they

1113
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 5: never do. Right.

1114
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 2: People always ask me that way, is it any truth

1115
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 2: to you know, your jokes and your stand up.

1116
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 3: To what I say.

1117
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 2: I might say it in a different way or reference

1118
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 2: it in a third party or whatever.

1119
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 5: But but if you're not the type of person who

1120
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 5: write a joke and you're just telling your truth, then yeah,

1121
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 5: it's probably true.

1122
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 4: And Pam like, honestly, there was a period of time

1123
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 4: with Pam she went through a lot like and so

1124
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 4: I always commend you for being able to like be

1125
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 4: able to still keep pushing, because there's certain things that

1126
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 4: can happen in life that can make you feel like.

1127
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 3: You want to write, you know, just say I don't

1128
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 3: want to do this no more.

1129
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 5: Be in a female comic makes you lose a lot

1130
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 5: of your femininity because we have to fight so much. No,

1131
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 5: I'm not going to be in this dressing room. There's

1132
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 5: an ice machine in here. It is leaking, it stinks,

1133
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 5: and it's making noise. I'm not I'm not. This is

1134
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 5: not my dress room. No, I don't want half my

1135
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 5: money now and half of a wife. I said, I

1136
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 5: want to only castle and get there. Where the fuck

1137
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 5: is my paper? No, I don't want to. I don't

1138
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 5: fly on that airline. I told you I only fly.

1139
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 3: We have to fight all the advocate for yourself all

1140
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 3: the time.

1141
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 5: All the time.

1142
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 2: At what point in your career did were you able

1143
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 2: to I guess like take a stand as like a

1144
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 2: female comic and.

1145
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 5: Not just I feel like the word no when you

1146
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 5: can find say no, that's very powerful, Like I said

1147
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 5: no to the Thing and the white and got it. Anyway,

1148
00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 5: you have to be financially pretty sad, so if you

1149
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 5: say no and you miss an opportunity, you're okay with it.

1150
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 5: You have to have been so consistent in being a

1151
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 5: beast that they have to respect you even if they

1152
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 5: don't like you, and you have to be able to

1153
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 5: go toe to toe with any of these motherfucking men period. Yeah,

1154
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 5: that's when I think things started to change for me.

1155
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 5: When I wasn't letting up, and I kept my foot

1156
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 5: on their neck and I kept showing up and kept

1157
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 5: killing it and kept having fan and kept having people

1158
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 5: who ride with me and who love me and stuff

1159
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 5: like that. I think that's when things change because I

1160
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,479
Speaker 5: have spent my career being the business they whish would

1161
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 5: sit down and shut the fuck up and go away,

1162
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 5: but I never did.

1163
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 4: That's right, And now you put you got to put

1164
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,920
Speaker 4: other people on right, you know, like Pam And you

1165
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:04,439
Speaker 4: were saying you had a tough time.

1166
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 3: Yeah I did.

1167
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 2: I mean just because I life was really lifing. You know,

1168
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 2: in a probably in a five year span, I probably

1169
01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 2: experienced shit that nobody have experienced.

1170
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,560
Speaker 3: Like whoever had a kid that got kidnapped?

1171
01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 5: Like me?

1172
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 2: You know, I had My son was kidnapped putting the

1173
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 2: trunk of a kakahar and left for dead. And then

1174
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:26,439
Speaker 2: both of my parents died. Then my aunt, my uncle,

1175
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 2: my grandmother died. Then my daughter was in a terrible

1176
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 2: accident and broke her neck and broke up back like

1177
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 2: who Like it was just and this was like when

1178
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 2: I say, in a short amount of time, and through

1179
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 2: all of that, I was still like I was still

1180
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 2: hitting stages. I still wouldn't cancel a show.

1181
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 5: Do you feel like that was like your life right out?

1182
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 5: Let me go do this just for a moment. I

1183
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 5: don't to.

1184
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 3: This day, I think that that's still my thing.

1185
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 2: You know, I keep busy. I when the holidays come up,

1186
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 2: you know, I gotta I gotta be at a show.

1187
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 2: I gotta be on somebody's stage. I you know, the

1188
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 2: more time that I'm alone is when I think about it.

1189
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 5: Where you from Jersey?

1190
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 3: From Jersey, you know.

1191
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 2: So I realized that when I'm faced with being alone,

1192
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 2: like when my daughter and everybody leave the house and

1193
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 2: I'm in the house by myself, I'm in there like

1194
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 2: oh ship, because now I'm forced to think about it.

1195
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 5: If I don't like silence music, yes.

1196
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 3: If I'm driving home, I got to call somebody on

1197
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 3: my way home.

1198
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 5: Trying to radio play for music that I don't like silence,

1199
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 5: that's when the ship comes.

1200
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 2: So comedy is literally, you know, my outlet, you know.

1201
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 2: And I'm like you, I've been on stage since I

1202
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 2: was three, doing theater and stuff like that with my mom,

1203
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So everything that I do

1204
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 2: is really a reflection of her, and that's what keeps

1205
01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 2: me pushing. But I'm afraid to stop. I really am

1206
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 2: afraid to stop.

1207
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 5: So what would you stop for? Stop? Why? Right?

1208
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 2: Because there's there's no plan.

1209
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 5: Bloody and blood out like you.

1210
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 4: And it isn't it nice to see where lou neell

1211
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 4: is in her life to know that, like, yes, these

1212
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 4: are the process that you had to go through to

1213
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 4: get here, to know that, like.

1214
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 1: Keep pushing, keep pushing, keep going, keep going.

1215
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 5: Since I don't say that, you know, it's just a hamster,

1216
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 5: will you got to do like that? But every now

1217
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 5: and then you do got to jump off. Yeah, that's

1218
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 5: where the vacation come in because even the hamster get tired.

1219
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 5: You know, we're not machines with real people. With women,

1220
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 5: we need relationships, we need even if it's just more

1221
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 5: material you know what I'm saying. We need to do

1222
01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 5: the girls thing or else you get merged in the guys.

1223
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, because this comedy world is very male centrica I

1224
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 4: will say, like, just even when I go places and

1225
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 4: I like I go to you know, I go to

1226
01:02:57,840 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 4: comedy shows at the time.

1227
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 3: A lot of times I'd be like, where all the

1228
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:00,919
Speaker 3: women at.

1229
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 5: They have comedy shows that have six men on them?

1230
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 5: But no, no, no six men.

1231
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 3: Oh not even the ones.

1232
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 5: They have comedy shows that have six men. But your

1233
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 5: audience is male and female, right, So why don't you

1234
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 5: have a representative for a female But the females are

1235
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 5: so used to see them. Man, they don't even buck

1236
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 5: buck about that. They don't even fight for that. You

1237
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. It doesn't make no sense to me,

1238
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 5: but I guess that they've been getting away with us

1239
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 5: so long. Like even if you walk down the street

1240
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:43,360
Speaker 5: right now in your city, you anywhere, you say name

1241
01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 5: my top your top ten favorite college, they're gonna name

1242
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 5: ten men. You'd be like, well, what about what about

1243
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 5: one to side about Jones Rivers? Oh yeah, because with

1244
01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 5: the afterthought, it's no shad like.

1245
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: Top ten female comedians.

1246
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 4: They committee is top committee is automatically means men they

1247
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 4: can't name.

1248
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:07,440
Speaker 2: But see, that's the thing about you know Lunel, is

1249
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 2: that she's considered a top comedian. Yeah, you know they

1250
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 2: don't well from in my little circle, what I hear,

1251
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:20,880
Speaker 2: they don't really differentiate you and be like top female.

1252
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 2: It's just like you have gotten to that point where

1253
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 2: they be like Lunel.

1254
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 5: Because with me having this residency in Vegas, which I'm

1255
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 5: the only female with a comedy residency in Love Vegas,

1256
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 5: not just only black female, the only period. So my

1257
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:43,840
Speaker 5: audience is male and female, and their tourists and They're

1258
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 5: not just from around the block, so you have to

1259
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 5: make everybody happy. And I feel like there's a thing

1260
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:55,000
Speaker 5: called being guy funny. Guy funny is when even God,

1261
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 5: most of the time, when guys come to comedy shows,

1262
01:04:57,160 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 5: they're drug there by a girl, especially if it's her female.

1263
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,040
Speaker 5: But if you can get to a point where guys

1264
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 5: would come see you even without a bitch, that's guy funny.

1265
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 5: That's you know, they want to hear you too, and

1266
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 5: that makes me very happy.

1267
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 4: Right But I love this and I want to I'm

1268
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 4: glad that you came today, Pam, because I knew this

1269
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 4: is you know, I got.

1270
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 3: A job tomorrow and I don't care. I had to

1271
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 3: fall down the flight of stairs tomorrow. I gotta go

1272
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 3: to work in the neck brace.

1273
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

1274
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 3: They was like Lunelle. I was like, oh, yes, I

1275
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 3: gotta be here because I had to meet you.

1276
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 2: I met you some years ago at the Comic Comedy

1277
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 2: Convention or the Comics Rock Convention, and I was probably

1278
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 2: my first year in comedy.

1279
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 5: Whole flood does that, Hope Flood. She's in New York

1280
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 5: right now at the Book of Morning right now.

1281
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 3: So I'm not going to say I met you.

1282
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 5: I saw you in my mind.

1283
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, I've seen I met Lunell.

1284
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:52,920
Speaker 2: But we were there and you were up on the

1285
01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 2: stage and you had like, you know, did a set

1286
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 2: and I was sitting here like.

1287
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 3: Oh ship. Back then, I was in my mom like

1288
01:05:58,080 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 3: I made it because I am in.

1289
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 5: A room with the same way when I was in

1290
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 5: the room with Wanda Sikes, the same way when I

1291
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 5: was in the room with Laura Hayes who was my peer,

1292
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 5: and she was there too. Yeah.

1293
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 2: Yo, so I'm trust me. I'm in all right now,

1294
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 2: like keeping my cool because I'm trying to.

1295
01:06:16,040 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 5: I received that, but I am like, as soon as

1296
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 5: these cameras go off.

1297
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about your injuries, right right, So she couldn't

1298
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 1: go to work. Yeah understand, God Kaylunell dot com because

1299
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: she is not You're actually gonna be in Jersey, so

1300
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 1: that might be something.

1301
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 5: Yeah. I love that, you know, because I did a

1302
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 5: commercial for it. I don't even know what the day

1303
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 5: today is?

1304
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 3: What's today? The twenty four? Twenty four?

1305
01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, but yeah, so I just am so

1306
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 4: happy that Lunell, you finally made it. She was good

1307
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 4: on her word because I was like when are we

1308
01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:00,320
Speaker 4: going to get Lunell on the service? And you said,

1309
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 4: I want to come to your nasty podcast.

1310
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 3: You're nasty, but I love that. Shout out to the

1311
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 3: team from making it happen too and really.

1312
01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 5: Staying a little later because I know it's tardy. You

1313
01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 5: were trying to pride myself on not being that.

1314
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 1: But it's a lot.

1315
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I want to go nowhere, that right here

1316
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 4: and wait Golderg, I'm not mad at it.

1317
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 3: We feel important. So thank you so much for coming.

1318
01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 5: Of them.

1319
01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1320
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 5: I keep my word.

1321
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 3: I appreciate you.

1322
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 1: We love you lou now so much.

1323
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 5: Yes, thank you, ladies. And I want to hear more

1324
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 5: about this by sexuality anyway, I feel like she's about

1325
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 5: to talk about I want to hear some things.

1326
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 3: She's about to hear unicorn.

1327
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 2: All right, look, I got a show in Jersey. I'm

1328
01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 2: actually headline in one woman show in Jersey on March sixteenth.

1329
01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 2: So I'm giving away tickets. So yes, it's in South Orange,

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01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 2: New Jersey.

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Speaker 5: That's my parents show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, if y'all want, we don't want to come to

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01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 2: the show, shoot me, d m me and say lip service.

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01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:22,759
Speaker 2: I got about five sets of tickets. That's ten tickets

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01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 2: I'm giving away, So check my Instagram. I am underscored,

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01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:30,600
Speaker 2: just pam, follow me, d m me, lip service, and

1337
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:31,040
Speaker 2: I'm gon.

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01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:32,880
Speaker 1: Shoot, no, we're buying tickets to.

1339
01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 3: Comb High School. Were outside the j U S T

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Speaker 3: j U S t okay, I am, I'm all right.

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01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1342
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:46,679
Speaker 3: Here, you can memorize your lines.

1343
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 1: You just got.

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Speaker 3: Right there.

1345
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Speaker 1: That line

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Speaker 5: It