1 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: So I went to a wedding this weekend, a bougie 2 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: wedding in California. I was excited about this wedding to 3 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: be perfectly transparent. When I was invited. It motivated my 4 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: dating era because when I got the invitation aligned with 5 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: when I started dating, and I was thinking, oh my god, 6 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: I just would love to have a great date for 7 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: this particular wedding. It's going to be such a beautiful wedding. 8 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: It's going to be so elite. But you don't want 9 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: to bring the wrong date. You'd rather go alone, dare 10 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: I say it? And maybe meet someone then bring the 11 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: wrong date. But going to a wedding alone can be depressing. 12 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: And it's not just going to the actual event alone, 13 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: it's the whole weekend, like who's your partner, your wing person, 14 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: your wingman, get the red to car, what's your hotel room? Like? 15 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: What are you doing during the day? It makes you 16 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: feel connected? Okay, So, but I was never going to 17 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: just bring any date because I wouldn't disrespect the bride 18 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: and groom because not everyone's invited with a date, and 19 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: you know, a date has to have meaning, and honestly, 20 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: I don't know that I would have gone without a date. 21 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sure I would have because I 22 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: love the people, but like I was at a vulnerable 23 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: place in my life. My mother had just passed away, 24 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: gone through a breakup, Like I don't actually know. And 25 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: this is going to be a cop out and sound elitist, 26 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: but you know me, I'm always gonna be honest with you. 27 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: As a public person, I do get approach at these 28 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: types of events and there are hundreds of people and 29 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: I sort of want a wing person, and I do 30 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: believe that that's part of the reason I was invited 31 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: with a date, because they know that everyone's going to 32 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: be coming up to me, which they did anyway, not everyone. 33 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm not Madonna. I'm just saying there will be people 34 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: that will come up to me, and it gives you 35 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: like guardrails if you're talking to someone, it's not going 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: to be like the whole entire time you're you know, 37 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: doing a public appearance. And I don't know if that 38 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: sounds bad, and I'm sorry if it does, but it's 39 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: just my experience. No one wants to hear people complain 40 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: about being known, and I'm certainly not I love my life, 41 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: but it's just one of these things where when you're 42 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: standing alone, people come up to you and ask you 43 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: about things and talk to you about things, and talk 44 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: to you about the show and the media and whatever. 45 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: And so I went to the wedding and I did 46 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: have a date. My personal life has become way more 47 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: personal now I am not on TV. I don't I'm 48 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: not compensated to share my personal life, and ironically, more 49 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: for me than even the people that I am with, 50 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: I'm more militant about it. It is so tempting when you 51 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: really like or love someone to share it. It is 52 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: so tempting you want to share it. You have oxytocin serotonin, 53 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: you just are feeling happy, alive. That's the time you 54 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: probably shouldn't share it, because the minute things get shared, 55 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: whether you're public or even in your neighborhood, your community, 56 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: everybody's business is in your business, and there's such a 57 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: strength and power in keeping things private. So that's what 58 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,839 Speaker 1: I have attempted to do. And I will just say 59 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: that I brought the right date, I had the best time, 60 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: and we can get into the actual wedding. So this 61 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: was a high profile wedding, a daughter of someone very 62 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 1: high profile that I'm friends with, and it was in California. 63 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: It was in Palm Springs, and they gave a bunch 64 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: of different hotels. I stayed at the Lakinta Resort Hotel. 65 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: Evidently there was another hotel that people were staying, and 66 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't get that recommendation. I 67 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: would have stayed at that fancy hotel. It was called Sente, 68 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: I think, and it was like a cousin of the 69 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: Nobu hotel that had a Nobu in it. Incidentally, I 70 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: heard Megan Markle was at the bar and the person 71 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: who said this to me said it was very low key. 72 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: It was her and two girlfriends and no one was 73 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: really you know, coming up to her or saying anything 74 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: to them, and she and her girlfriends bought shots for 75 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: the whole bar. That's the story that was told to me. 76 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: It was told me a little more enhanced, but that's 77 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: just a little incidental gossip. At the wedding I was at, 78 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: Angelica Houston was there, which I was so funny because 79 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: Angelica Houston looks like Angelica Houston, but she doesn't look 80 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: like Angelica Houston, like you don't think it's her. She 81 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: looks like someone who looks like Angelica Houston. So that 82 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: was a funny moment and she was really sweet. Lauren 83 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: Michaels was at the wedding. And this is iconic because 84 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: I my internship story where I got an internship while 85 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: at NYU to be to work at SNL. But and Y, 86 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: you wouldn't give me the credit. So SNL said they 87 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: couldn't give me the internship. It was my biggest regret 88 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: and the me now would have pushed through. And I 89 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: always tell him the same story, and I'm sure it's boring, 90 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: but I know, Lauren. I've been to his house one 91 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 1: time and he gave me I had a good advice 92 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 1: just about being in this industry. And I went to 93 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: dinner with him and some people one time and he 94 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 1: told stories about different people who are on Saturday Night Live. 95 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: I never connected dot, I never read anyone out. But 96 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: he was talking about specif Civic cast members and how 97 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: it's important that you make an exit to be able 98 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 1: to make an entrance. And years later I left reality 99 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: television and assigned that to myself. I left reality television 100 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: and came back at a drastically higher value, like you 101 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: could astronomical stratospheric increase in salary and I literally only 102 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: left for three seasons. But not until you leave, just 103 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: someone see your value that could be in a relationship, 104 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: that could be at a job. So don't be afraid 105 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: to make courageous moves because you just don't know how 106 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: it's going to end up. I've had people leave a 107 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: job and then regretted it. I've left relationships and those 108 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: people have really regretted it. I had one person go 109 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: to therapy for ten years over our breakup and they 110 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: just were flippant about the breakup at the time. So 111 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: you just don't know, and you have to make an 112 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,679 Speaker 1: exit to be able to make an entrance. Lauren Michael's quote. 113 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: I worked for him under a guy named Barnaby Thompson 114 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: that was a producer for Lauren. I did not know 115 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: that he's still he knows Lauren and that they're still friends. 116 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: So much so that this producer, Barnaby Thompson, who lives 117 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: in the UK, he was British, he is British, was 118 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: British and moved I guess back to the UK. He 119 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: was at this wedding. I was talking to his son 120 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: all weekend just because he was like this tall, good 121 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: looking guy that girls were after, and I was asking him, 122 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: you know, did you get with that girl that was 123 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: interested in you. This was like on the Saturday after 124 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: the rehearsal dinner the night before, not knowing that he 125 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: who I was talking to like he was a peer, 126 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: is the son of my former boss. So my recollection 127 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: of my job, which most of my recollections are correct, 128 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: as we've proven in reunions and in housewives experiences, my 129 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: recollection was that this guy Barnaby was like the apsmidy professor, 130 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: and he was a little disorganized and like a little 131 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: little scattered and scrambled, and he was a young man 132 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: that I think he was married, but if he had kids, 133 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: they were babies, well yeah, it was like thirty years ago, 134 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: so they were babies literally because this kid was his 135 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: child was thirty one. But I don't think of myself 136 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: as someone who worked for someone who has now as 137 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: a thirty one year old man that I son that 138 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: I'm talking to as a peer. So anyway, I Barney, 139 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: this man comes up to me at the wedding the Saturday, 140 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: because Friday was the welcome dinner, and he's like Bethanye, 141 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: I look at him and he's like, barnaby, I'm like, 142 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: what the fuck like? And we were dying. He was 143 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: so endearing and I said to him, I feel like 144 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: I used to boss you around because I told that 145 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: to Lauren Michaels and his wife and I always like 146 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 1: for things to track. And he said, well, you were 147 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: quite intimidy, which is so funny because I was always 148 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: me because I was twenty five years old, you know, 149 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: living in la and I was a temp I got 150 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: the job through a temp agency and then I got 151 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: it as a real job, and I was just fucking pushy. 152 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I just was confident. He produced Black Sheep 153 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: and Tommy Boy. I now am friends with David Spade. 154 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: I forgot to tell him that, and I just like 155 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: sort of jammed my way through making myself useful and 156 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: decided to take over the planning of that premiere. And 157 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: the same thing happened when I worked for Chris Blackwell, 158 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: which was not really Chris Blackwell. It was another situation 159 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: where I now say I worked for Lauren Michaels because 160 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: I worked for the guy that worked for Lauren Michaels, 161 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 1: and I now say that I worked for Chris Blackwell. 162 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: The guy who created I founded On Island Records because 163 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 1: I worked for Mark Berg, who worked for Chris Blackwell. 164 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: And mark Berg wasn't who he is today either. Now 165 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: he's the guy who managed Charlie Sheen and was a 166 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: producer on Two and a half Men and the Saw movies, 167 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 1: but then he was just Mark Berg. He'd worked in 168 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 1: a couple of smaller movies. And I now say I 169 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: worked for Jerry Brouckharimer, when I kind of did, but 170 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: I really worked for Linda Bruckharmer, his wife. So it's 171 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: like I technically worked for him, but I was really 172 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: hired to work for the person under them. But I 173 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: finagled my way into working for Chris Blackwell because I 174 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: planned a party at his house up like on King's Road, 175 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 1: and I forget what we were celebrating, but like I was, 176 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 1: like pushed myself through. And later I worked for MERV 177 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 1: Griffin indirectly because I produced events for a company that 178 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: MERV Griffin Productions purchased. So anyway, Barnaby said that I 179 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: was intimidating, and that made me laugh. Let's get back 180 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 1: to the wedding. Friday night is the welcome dinner at 181 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: this house? In an area called Okay, Okay. There's an 182 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: area called the Madison Club. There's this guy who's a baller. 183 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 1: I think his name is Michael Mellman. He's partners with 184 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: Clooney and Randy Gerber in the Cosami Goes. He has 185 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: this thing called the Discovery Club. It's like this investment 186 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: real estate company that has these very elite, bougie as 187 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: fuck developments like Yellowstone could be part of it, but 188 00:09:56,120 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: definitely there's one in Cabo and there's one in Palm 189 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: Springs called the Madison Club where Bieber and the Kardashians 190 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: have homes, not far from like where Kyle etc. Have homes, 191 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: but like, this is the elite one. This is the Rolls, 192 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: Royce Colin and big major bag alert Like you are 193 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: the not fucking around cro If you have a house 194 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: in there, your house is thirty million dollars, fifteen million dollars. 195 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 1: It's not a joke. For me. Palm Springs doesn't have water, 196 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 1: and for me, I feel suffocated when I'm not by water, 197 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: and I prefer I think Arizona because of the mystical aspect. 198 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: But let's not talk about that. The guy on Friday Night, 199 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 1: this is Raeli guy. I think we're allowed to say 200 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: his name, Gala. He's a fucking g He's cool, he's handsome. 201 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: His wife is pretty, she's cool. They have a house 202 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: his design aesthetic, and I've read he's like sold houses 203 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: into Holmby Hills and he's this build or whatever. The 204 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: event Friday no cameras was held at his house, but 205 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 1: you were allowed to have like a little bullshit camera 206 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: and some people took pictures. They just probably didn't want, 207 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: like it to be a free for all. His design 208 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: aesthetic is triumphant, like I don't want it. I don't 209 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: want a giant house. I don't want a thirty five 210 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: thousand foot house. I don't I'm too OCD for that. 211 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,559 Speaker 1: But when I tell you to appreciate a person who 212 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: has curated a real estate experience like this beyond chef's kiss. 213 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: So that was Friday night, and my date and I, 214 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: who have decided to go through a midlife crisis together, 215 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 1: were the last ones to leave the party. He has 216 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: my energy level. We had the best time ever. These 217 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: kids were like the thirty year olds all there and 218 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: we like we started dancing. I am kind of when 219 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: I'm in the mood. The life of the party. I 220 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: definitely am. There's music on, I don't care who's dancing. 221 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:46,319 Speaker 1: I'll start dancing. Other people start dancing. I'll talk to people. 222 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: I'll have sixty cocktails. Let's give some name dropping. Scott's 223 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: Sardiano who owns zero Bond and used to own Butter 224 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: and own Sardiano's was there. Check who else was there? Gogozian, 225 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: Gogosian Galleries, massive guy in the art world there. Some 226 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: guy who ran Sports Illustrated was there. He's eighty years old. 227 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: He was as cool as anyone I've ever met. My 228 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: life long conversation with him. Some amazing, hot, sexy, interesting 229 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: gaze were there. It just was like a good, interesting crowd. 230 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: Alex and Steve Cohen who, by the way, shout out 231 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,559 Speaker 1: to them because my date pointed out to me they 232 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: didn't make this entire weekend about them. It was a 233 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: kid's wedding, meaning I'm calling kids thirty year olds like 234 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: they had twenty five people there. Their friends I live 235 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: for were all really good friends now and that's it. 236 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: We were like a side side dish. Kids ordered what 237 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: they want, ate what they want, designed how they wanted, 238 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: had the party they wanted it's sexual. We were like guests, 239 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: and I fucking shout them out because you know what 240 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: happens with a lot of rich people. They want to 241 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: make it their show, their rodeo. They want to get 242 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: the talent they want, They want to show off. When 243 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: you're Alex and Steve Colon, you don't need to show off. 244 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:02,319 Speaker 1: And they just they acted like anybody in any neighborhood 245 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: whose kids were getting married. And that's a chef's kiss too. 246 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: It happened to be at a sick place. But like 247 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 1: they get the award for like understated they you know 248 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like they they just they were They 249 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: were not like trying to like pull focus. They were 250 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: not trying to get attention. They were parents of the 251 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: bride and the bride in the groom of the stars, 252 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,679 Speaker 1: and the event was the star and that was amazing. 253 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: Like they just had fun and were great, We're gonna 254 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: get into Saturday on the part two because the next 255 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 1: and they didn't do a thousand activities like you have 256 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: to go to everything. It was a choose your own eventure. 257 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 1: Friday's a big party. Buckle up for Saturday. It's gonna 258 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: be big, it's gonna be great. And then Saturday was 259 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: the wedding and that was the main event. But like 260 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: I was not sure what to expect. I didn't know 261 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: if there would be pretense because so many such a 262 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 1: you know, a wealthy families event, and I've been to 263 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: those and it's like performative and show up. The It 264 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: wasn't that at all, And like I didn't know what. 265 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was gonna be stiff stuff stuff, 266 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know what it was going to be. Well, 267 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: it was alive, it was free, it was appropriate, it 268 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: was correct, and I had a great time and it 269 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: felt like a family affair, felt like any other wedding 270 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: in spirit, maybe not in location. But the truth is 271 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: you could be at the Nights of Columbus Hall or 272 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: a barbecue or you know, your backyard and have a 273 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: great wedding. It's about the feeling, the alchemy, the combination 274 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: of people, and this event had that. So Friday had 275 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: a great time. Loved my date, my choice, my life, 276 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: the family, the friends, the bride, the groom. Also, she 277 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: didn't dress like forty two wardrobe changes, all this stupidity, 278 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: like every night of six outfits like so stupid. She 279 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: had a beautiful dress on the theme was mad Men's 280 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: Sixties for the weekend. He looked handsome and that was it. 281 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: Like they looked relaxed, natural, They looked like they're guests, 282 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: but like elevated. But we all you know what I mean. 283 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: It was really I hate all this tentiousness now. So 284 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: Friday night, welcome dinner, sickest house ever check. We'll get 285 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: onto Saturday next and we'll get onto my whole entire 286 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: weekend and laking To resort and we'll do a review 287 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: of that too. You're welcome.