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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya Red and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. Tanya and I are back together.

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Speaker 3: Back together, man, it feels so.

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Speaker 2: Good, gorgeous.

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Speaker 4: I got home from my trip last week, so I

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Speaker 4: didn't come over out of respect to the pandemic and such,

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Speaker 4: and so I quarantined and only saw the people that

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Speaker 4: I was on the trip with.

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Speaker 2: So it's great. Great to be in your presence again.

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Speaker 3: It is great to be in your presence again too.

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Speaker 3: Although I saw you over the weekend. Becca scared the

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Speaker 3: literal living daylights out of me, because so I've had

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Speaker 3: a little bit I don't want to say stalker, but

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Speaker 3: there's kind of this man that like lingers around my

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Speaker 3: running trail and it's got me a little spooked. And

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Speaker 3: so it's broad daylight and I'm like walking my route

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Speaker 3: and all of a sudden, out of nowhere comes this

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Speaker 3: like scare.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'll tell it from my perspective. I'm so upset.

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Speaker 4: I didn't film it because my sister and I were

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Speaker 4: just running errands on like this mainstream omen.

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Speaker 2: Tur Boulevard and.

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Speaker 4: Just We're coming out of the parking garagey Parke ten

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Speaker 4: and I see Tania on her like daily walk or

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Speaker 4: run or whatever, and so I go up to her

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Speaker 4: and I just want to like tap her to be

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Speaker 4: like hey, because she had.

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Speaker 2: Her headphones in.

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Speaker 4: I wish y'all could have you would have thought that

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Speaker 4: I was dressed as like a scary clown or something like.

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Speaker 2: It was the most dramatic reaction. Her eyes got.

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Speaker 4: Almost boulged out of her head and she like leaned backwards.

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Speaker 3: Like are you okating into traffic?

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Speaker 2: I was like.

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Speaker 4: It was so it was very Tawnya, But it's my sister.

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Speaker 4: Even he goes like, that's just so weird. I mean,

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Speaker 4: I know that she goes on a on her run

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Speaker 4: every day, but the fact that the timing worked out

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Speaker 4: that we were passing at the same time, and I

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Speaker 4: was like, I see her on her run or walk

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Speaker 4: all the time, and I scream at her if I'm

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Speaker 4: across the street or something, and she never hears me.

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Speaker 3: So I know it's actually been becoming kind of a

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Speaker 3: fun thing because I feel I mean, I don't want

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Speaker 3: to say I'm like the mayor of Studio City, but

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Speaker 3: I'm daily out on like a good, you know, hour

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Speaker 3: and I swear I see at least one or two

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Speaker 3: people that I know in their car that like honk

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Speaker 3: and waves. I'm like, this is like my new quarantine catchup.

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Speaker 2: I said.

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Speaker 3: They'll text me and hey, how are you? And I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 3: it's been a while, how are you.

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Speaker 4: It is funny though, because sometimes I'll see Wells running around.

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Speaker 2: And you don't want to be I.

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Speaker 4: Mean, Tanya, obviously I was gonna say something, but when

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Speaker 4: someone's in that zone, you don't want to go up

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Speaker 2: But said, what the heck? Yeah, how weird if I

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Speaker 2: just walked by and not saund anything.

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Speaker 3: It's funny though, because I was so, there's like this day.

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Speaker 3: It's like the two the day and the two days

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Speaker 3: before I get my period. It's almost as if this

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Speaker 3: like gremlin crawls up me and just sucks the living

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Speaker 3: of it was one of those days, and so I

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Speaker 3: couldn't I just couldn't run. So I just was walking

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Speaker 3: and that startle like really jolted me to where like

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Speaker 2: It made you start your period? You start your period, right.

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Speaker 3: I was like really tired after that. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I can't continue. I just got to go home.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I had a weird I had a weirdly and

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Speaker 4: I'm also about to start my period. I think we're maybe

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Speaker 4: almost syncd up.

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Speaker 2: But I love that. Yeah, I know you do.

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Speaker 4: I was so just emotional this week, and I'm kind

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Speaker 4: of going through this thing where I don't know if

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Speaker 4: anyone else ever goes through from you, Yeah, because I.

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Speaker 2: Kind of check I check out. I just check out.

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Speaker 4: But like in like a bunch of different relationships and

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Speaker 4: work stuff, I just have felt this feeling of like

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Speaker 4: need me to be. It's like in my relationship and

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Speaker 4: so emotional this week and cried a lot, and Tanya

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Speaker 4: texted me and was like, because sometimes she'll just text

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Speaker 4: me random things and a lot of times if I'm

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Speaker 4: doing something, I'll look at it and then put my

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Speaker 2: She was like, what's going on? Why aren't you responding

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Speaker 4: And I realized that I had just totally like, when

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Speaker 4: I have so much other stuff going on in my head,

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Speaker 4: I just kind of.

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Speaker 2: I check out. I know, it's so weird.

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Speaker 3: I felt it because I mean, I know, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I feel like I've gotten better about not bombarding you

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Speaker 3: with things, so I will occasionally, you know, check in.

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Speaker 3: And Saturday I was doing like turning, you know, my

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Speaker 3: home into winter Wonderland.

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Speaker 2: I saw that downstairs.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to invite you over on Saturday night for

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Speaker 3: my little pizza party of one. And I've texted you,

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Speaker 3: but you never wrote me back, and I didn't like,

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Speaker 3: I wasn't mad or anything that. But then I texted

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Speaker 3: you the next day and I asked you something and

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Speaker 3: you weren't responding. I was just like, what's up with you?

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Speaker 3: I know, I could feel it. I was like, what's

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Speaker 4: I know it's weird, though, but it's it's good to

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Speaker 4: have someone like you who checks in and like, Because

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Speaker 4: all of a sudden, I realized I looked back at

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Speaker 4: our text I was like, oh, like, I haven't you know,

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Speaker 4: like I read these, but I haven't been responding, So

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Speaker 4: I think I don't know if that's a personality type.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's because you know, it's that

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Speaker 4: time of the month, whatever it is, but it was

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Speaker 4: a rough week.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy for a.

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Speaker 4: Monday, I mean, and I normally love celebrating Mondays.

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Speaker 3: But I'll feel you in a way too, like I haven't.

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Speaker 3: I've been emotional in a different sense, like I I've

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Speaker 3: been really taking a lot of things personal lately. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: there was this whole threat and I've been very absent

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Speaker 3: dark path lately and it's made me like sad. And

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Speaker 3: then somebody told me to go read the reviews on

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Speaker 2: They don't do that.

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Speaker 3: I was just shook to my core. And I normally

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Speaker 3: can like let these things roll off my back, like

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Speaker 3: I have this like what people can call it toxic positivity.

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Speaker 3: I don't care. I like being in this bubble, so

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna keep on keeping on. But it really

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Speaker 3: same way this week, like just very ultra sensitive kind

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Speaker 3: of down huh. And I've just been like I've been

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Speaker 3: trying to be proactive and turning it around. Hence hence

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Speaker 3: the the Christmas spirit in my home. Before Thanksgiving, I.

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Speaker 4: Also read there was a thread and it was talking.

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Speaker 4: It was actually the threads started with like a positive like, hey,

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Speaker 4: let's go leave our girls some positive reviews. I was

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Speaker 4: reading some and there's some nasty, mean ones on there,

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Speaker 4: so like let's go, and they were like, you know,

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Speaker 4: lifting us up. But in the thread, some people posted

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Speaker 4: screenshots of the negative ones and I, you know, of

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Speaker 4: in the group that was saying like it's everyone's kind

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Speaker 4: of down right now, like the whole mood everywhere is

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Speaker 4: kind of down, and the weight of our words are

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And it was.

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Speaker 4: Just kind of this from someone posted something like before

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Speaker 4: saying and how it might affect the person you're saying

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Speaker 4: it too. And then I'm not in the whole post

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Speaker 4: like don't not do it, Like if you need to

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Speaker 4: say something, say it but taken to consideration, like what

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Speaker 4: it could make someone feel right now. And I was

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Speaker 4: just gonna say, like, it's such a reminder and a

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Speaker 4: lot of the negative comments are around politics, and I

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Speaker 4: don't think this is a political podcast at all, but

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Speaker 4: when there's the biggest election in the world happening, for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I.

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Speaker 4: Guess I think when I read stuff, or I listen

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Speaker 4: on Instagram, if I I go into it knowing that

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Speaker 4: some of those comments. Yeah, I just can't grasp it.

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Speaker 4: But I also think that that weighed me down a

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I think especially you have this a little

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Speaker 3: bit of lit a little bit. I don't have that,

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Speaker 3: but then that's dirty.

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Speaker 4: Lay ban On, I don't even know that is I

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Speaker 4: don't either, it's by your falange.

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Speaker 3: Okay, my finger No, that's not a real thing. Do

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Speaker 3: you know, friends, a.

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Speaker 2: Falangy is a real thing.

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Speaker 3: It is, it is, it's your fingers about is a

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Speaker 3: real thing? You swear Tanya, Mark.

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Speaker 6: The falangies are the bones of the fingers and toes.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh so it is, oh so, because she was

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Speaker 3: saying talking about a plane that the plane's falange broke

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Speaker 3: or something. Yeah, but I didn't know it was a

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 4: I think I learned that in like fifth or sixth grade.

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Speaker 4: It was in my youth.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, It definitely struck me down to my fulangee.

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Speaker 3: It struck me down to my falangy too. So you

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Speaker 3: know what, I think. I think that we are going

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Speaker 3: to we actually have a brainstorm today after the podcast.

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Speaker 3: I know Mark's been feeling a little sanzy lately too,

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Speaker 3: And yes, Mark, he said, so we're gonna you know,

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Speaker 3: we do we if you have things to say and

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Speaker 3: you have things to share, you know, we do have

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Speaker 3: to be open to listening to criticism because you know,

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Speaker 3: if it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you.

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Speaker 4: So one felt, I am not opposed. I embrace criticism.

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Speaker 2: Do I like it? Like? Am I comfortable?

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Speaker 1: In it.

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Speaker 2: No, not at all.

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Speaker 4: But I also can take criticism, especially when I feel

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Speaker 4: like it's gonna make me a better person, which I'm

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Speaker 4: going to get to another topic in a little bit.

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Speaker 4: able to hear that you're appreciating that you're doing a

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00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:04,919
Speaker 4: good job.

444
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 2: Is so important right now. Yeah, And I thought that

445
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 2: was such a sweet.

446
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,919
Speaker 4: Moment of all of the people that are working so hard,

447
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:16,360
Speaker 4: are healthcare workers, they are essential workers. Just say thank you,

448
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 4: like say like I appreciate what you're doing. It doesn't

449
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 4: go unnoticed. Because I thought that was such a small

450
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 4: but significant moment of her acknowledging as someone in power,

451
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,879
Speaker 4: how you know who Bailey is acknowledging the hard work

452
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 4: of like the stress and what's going on, you know, And.

453
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 3: That's a good point. I feel like sometimes even when

454
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:42,159
Speaker 3: I'm at the grocery store, like sometimes I'll talk to

455
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 3: be talking to my cashier, and I'm just like, I

456
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 3: maybe said it a handful of times of pandemic, but

457
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,919
Speaker 3: like thank you for coming into work, like thank you

458
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 3: for being an essential worker. And I'm like, why don't

459
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:58,440
Speaker 3: I do that every day? Yeah, it's not that hard.

460
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it was just yeah, for some reason

461
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 4: that struck out to me, and it wasn't really a

462
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 4: significant moment.

463
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,919
Speaker 2: Also, I thought the end.

464
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 4: With Link and Amelia was mildly to massively uncomfortable, because

465
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 4: first of all, I think he's so hot. I really

466
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 4: think he has a really respectfully because we did speak

467
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 4: to him and his wife and I know he's married

468
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 4: and very happy. But respectfully, he's a very good looking.

469
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 4: He has a really nice body. And I love Amelia.

470
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,399
Speaker 4: I like them together, but I don't feel this like

471
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 4: intense chemistry or anything.

472
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 3: Oh I feel zero chemistry. But like even when they

473
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 3: woke up in that bed together after they had like

474
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 3: birthday sex and they were like wrapped in sheets and stuff,

475
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 3: I was just like, who are they kidding? Who are

476
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 3: they trying to fool? Because it amy that's fine.

477
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 2: That was my notes on them.

478
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,919
Speaker 4: And then do you I kind of the bad feeling

479
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:02,920
Speaker 4: about the Korrassic having COVID thing.

480
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a little bit nervous that he's going down

481
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 3: a dark path. And I'm nervous because I like him.

482
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 4: Because I want him with Teddy, which I feel like

483
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 4: Teddy's just a mess right now, Like she's.

484
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 2: Just like going to anyone and seeing who she can.

485
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 4: Apologize and who will Like she's trying to see who

486
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,199
Speaker 4: she can apologize to and who will talk to her,

487
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 4: and everyone's just like, no, you screwed me over.

488
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 3: I don't know why she's trying to get back with

489
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 3: Owen so much.

490
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 2: I don't either. I love him raver though Teddy till

491
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:35,640
Speaker 2: the end of time.

492
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 4: I just am nervous that that's gonna be what ends

493
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 4: the triangle.

494
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 3: It's carrassic being getting COVID.

495
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: Maybe go dark, Yeah, I.

496
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 3: Think he's having a downward spiral, which I'm nervous about.

497
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 4: Okay, And finally, Derek and Meredith on the beach when

498
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 4: that music started, I have chills all over my body

499
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 4: just thinking about it.

500
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: The Derek and Meredith music.

501
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 3: I know that's see, but I feel like there's something

502
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 3: to the sand. Isn't real that we're not getting.

503
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm thinking more about it as like they're

504
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 4: in heaven or like an alternate life.

505
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 3: Why would he just say this isn't real? And does

506
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 3: anybody else didn't or anybody else's pickle? When Meredith said, Derek,

507
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,199
Speaker 3: I miss you, and he said, I know.

508
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 2: Oh, but he said, it isn't like I'm with you

509
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: like I miss you too, But he was I don't

510
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:45,719
Speaker 2: think that's what he called her ever, But like shock.

511
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 3: I miss you too, I love you too, like I

512
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 3: know No, But I took it as like I'm with

513
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 3: you like I can feel it.

514
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 4: I know you miss me. That's how I took it.

515
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 4: Because the way he looks at her, you cannot convince

516
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:03,880
Speaker 4: me that at some point there has been love between

517
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 4: those two.

518
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 3: I don't think there was love between those two.

519
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 4: Okay, well, he is an amazing actor, because I mean,

520
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 4: I think they I think they love each other.

521
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 3: Obviously he's the most amazing actor on planet Earth.

522
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 4: But I'm saying I think there's a lot of love,

523
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 4: like mutual love and respect for each other.

524
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 2: And the way he looks at.

525
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,400
Speaker 3: Her, I agree there's something to that love.

526
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 4: That smile, the eyes watering, and then she runs to

527
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 4: him and she faced plants like hard.

528
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 3: No, I didn't get that. I was just like, did

529
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 3: she not fall?

530
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: I wasn't ready for it, but I did laugh out loud.

531
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 2: And then she.

532
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 4: Says, she goes, I hate you, and he goes, you

533
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 4: love me?

534
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: And God knows I love you? So why are you

535
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:54,679
Speaker 2: not into that?

536
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 3: I don't know? And the fall really threw me. The

537
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 3: moment was was jarred by that fall.

538
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 2: For me.

539
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, but here's my theory and my fear. Okay,

540
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 4: Meredith has COVID. She cannot get to Derek to hug

541
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 4: him because she's still alive.

542
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 2: We can all agree on this, right. The reason why I.

543
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 5: Took it is the rules of limbo.

544
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 6: You know, she's in limbo, she's between Yeah, she cannot

545
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 6: get to him because she's still tethered to.

546
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 4: The world exactly, and so she's not going to be

547
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 4: able to get to him. And we're going to know

548
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 4: she's alive as long as she's not able to get

549
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 4: to him.

550
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 5: And they probably hadn't decided what do we do?

551
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 6: What do we have her hit an invisible barrier as

552
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 6: she runs to him, he keeps getting farther away. What

553
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 6: do we do When they decided that she trips and falls.

554
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like she can't get to him. That's why she tripped.

555
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 6: And really we don't want her to get to him

556
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 6: because if we get to him, it's by by Meredith

557
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 6: and all of her kids are orphans, so my.

558
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 4: Fear they're not gonna be orphaned. She has like four

559
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,239
Speaker 4: hundred family members. I can take care of her.

560
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 6: Would be sad for mom to go, yeah, right after

561
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 6: dad left.

562
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 4: Right, But I'm nervous that it's gonna be a moment

563
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 4: where Meredith go, Like, we see that her and the

564
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 4: O R things aren't going well, and then she goes

565
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 4: into the dream and she's able to get to him.

566
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 4: That's how we find out something not so good has happened.

567
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 3: They can't kill off Meredith.

568
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: They can do whatever they want. They have done whatever

569
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 2: they want.

570
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, And and by the way, I'm fine with it

571
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 6: as long as the show keeps going.

572
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 3: Oh, that's great anatomy.

573
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 5: And you know what, I used to care about that.

574
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 6: In fact, when they brought in Lexi, I thought that's

575
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 6: how they were going to do it. They were going

576
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 6: to transition Ellen Pompeo out and keep Lexi Gray as

577
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 6: the new Gray of Grey's Anatomy and then they killed her.

578
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 5: But I don't care anymore.

579
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 6: I just want to keep going to Seattle Grace every

580
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 6: Thursday night or whatever it's it's actually Grace.

581
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 3: I mean, welcome to twenty twenty.

582
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 2: Nikes.

583
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 4: Okay, well that's my theory on.

584
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 3: What I just watched. Episode where they go down on

585
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 3: the plane crash.

586
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 5: Oh okay, and that is a.

587
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 3: Hard episode to get through, let me tell you. I

588
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 3: was like, I need to watch some happy days after this.

589
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 4: It's weird that you watch like the most devastating episodes.

590
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to, It's just kind of going in

591
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 3: order on my Netflix. And that was the next one

592
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 3: that came. And then I was like watching Meredith tie

593
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 3: up Derek's arm with the safety pin, and I was

594
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 3: just like, ugh, I'm.

595
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 2: Not well, okay, this is the last thing I'll say

596
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 2: about it.

597
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,919
Speaker 4: I don't mind if they if she has these dreams

598
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 4: the whole season, Like, I don't care how they do

599
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 4: it to keep Patrick Dempsey on. I am on board

600
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 4: with any wild, crazy idea they.

601
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 2: Come up with.

602
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 3: I'm on board with that too. But you know what

603
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 3: I really what I really need is some on call

604
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 3: room action with who though anybody no with who Joe

605
00:28:54,080 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 3: and av Okaya, Jo Jackson, give me some more Schmid, Nico.

606
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 6: No, See, that's where I got to stop. You Look,

607
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 6: I love it. I'm all for inclusion. I'm all for

608
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 6: I love that they're the first gay male couple in

609
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 6: Gray's Anatomy history. It's fantastic and I'm all for it.

610
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 6: I am so bored with those two. And I know

611
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 6: he's coming on the show, and I won't say this

612
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 6: when he's here, but I need different things to happen

613
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 6: to those two. It's just been they've been stuck. They're

614
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 6: in limbo. They're more limbo than Meredith is. They've been

615
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 6: in the weird limbo for a year. And I'm over it.

616
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 6: Eight other people go on.

617
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 5: To other things.

618
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 2: Listen, I'm with you, Mark.

619
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 4: And I was actually gonna we have Jake BURRELLI on

620
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 4: the show in a little bit, and I was gonna

621
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 4: say tell him that.

622
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna need his I'm gonna need him to.

623
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 4: Have a you know, a storyline, yes, because if and

624
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 4: I need him to move on from Nico, or I

625
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 4: need them to get together Nico to figure it out.

626
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 4: Because if if if Schmid was my friend and he

627
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 4: was asking what he should do.

628
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: I would say, you deserve better. What are you doing?

629
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 2: Why are you waiting around? Why are you letting him

630
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 2: play you like this?

631
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 5: Tell him all this stuff.

632
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 6: This is good stuff going to because right know what

633
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 6: it feels like the writers don't want to get rid

634
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 6: of them, but they also don't know what to do

635
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 6: with them.

636
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 5: That's what it feels like right now.

637
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 3: Listen, you make a point, you make a point that

638
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 3: I I'm not gonna lie. I was a little blind to.

639
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, anyways, because.

640
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 3: There's not any couples for me to like root board.

641
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 3: It's like, who else am I going to root forard?

642
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 2: I know, but I think they're built.

643
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 4: I mean I think listen, they gave us Derek and

644
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 4: Mereth scenes like I am content right now as long

645
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 4: as those happened.

646
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 2: I would.

647
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 4: I'm down to see Jackson and Joe have have a

648
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 4: blooming romance too.

649
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 3: I am for that. Come on twenty twenty one.

650
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, So, anyways, we actually are going to bring Jake

651
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 4: BURRELLI in and we're gonna take a break and we'll

652
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 4: be right back with him.

653
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 2: We are so exc your back where. I have just

654
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 2: a lot to talk about with you.

655
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 3: I mean, just so excited. We didn't scare you off.

656
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, no, I had such a blast last time.

657
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: And then bumping into you guys at.

658
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I miss event.

659
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm bumping into you at event pandemic. We can't see

660
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: each other and hang out. But this is good. This

661
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: is good.

662
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 2: I know. Yeah that was aggressive.

663
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just turned it off.

664
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're just gonna do a quick intro and

665
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 2: then we'll get into everything. All right. We are so

666
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: excited to welcome back.

667
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 3: It's basically a holiday here.

668
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 2: It is when when there's a Grays cast member on

669
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 2: the podcast, it is essentially it's a scrubbing in holiday.

670
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 2: We have Jake BURRELLI back in the o R.

671
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm excited to be back.

672
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 4: We we're so happy to have you back. We were

673
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 4: saying that it's such a huge you know, it's such

674
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 4: a huge deal for us when we have Grey's Anatomy

675
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 4: cast members on and it's even a it's a it's

676
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 4: a bigger deal that you have already been on. And

677
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 4: then we're willing to come back because we get very

678
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 4: fangirly yes, and so we feel like we scare everyone

679
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 4: a little bit. But we're like, well we got we

680
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 4: got the podcast, might never see him again.

681
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 1: You guys gotta understand. I'm a huge fan of the

682
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: show too, So it's like I don't often get to

683
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: like fangirl with the people that I work with because.

684
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 3: We're like, right, we want to play it cool when

685
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 3: you're on SIE.

686
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: So it's like nice to hang out with you guys

687
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: and fangirl over this thing that I happened to be

688
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: on as well.

689
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's pretty cool.

690
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:44,479
Speaker 4: I mean, I will never forget I saw you at

691
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 4: an event shortly after you did the podcast, and you know,

692
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 4: even though I had just talked to you and met

693
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 4: you and did the podcast with you, I was.

694
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, there's job and you are so

695
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 2: nice and remembered me. And then you introduce me to Tear.

696
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 1: I'm like Jason basic Eliot and who.

697
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: Plays doctor Helm.

698
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 4: And then she ended up being on our first ever

699
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 4: live show, y Yes.

700
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: Up in San Francisco. Yeah. Yeah, she had a blast

701
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:12,479
Speaker 1: about it with that.

702
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 2: It was really fun.

703
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 4: We had a great We did two live shows and

704
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 4: then you know, the pandemic hit, so that got cut

705
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 4: short quickly. But it's just so it's so nice to

706
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 4: know that you're so great in real life.

707
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: You know. Well. Her and I were at that event

708
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: and we saw you from a farm. We were like,

709
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: should we go up? I can introduce you. I guess

710
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. Should we go up? Should we go? So? Like,

711
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: trust me, it's.

712
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 4: That makes me feel so grays just started back. We

713
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 4: talked about this before you got you got here.

714
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 2: I need to know.

715
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 4: What what they're gonna do for your character because I

716
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 4: don't feel like you're getting the storyline that you deserve.

717
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, And I'm.

718
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 4: Very frustrated with Nico because he needs to make up

719
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 4: his mind. And my whole thing I was saying earlier

720
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 4: is that if I was friends with Levi Schmidt and

721
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 4: he was like, hey, I'm dating this guy. He broke

722
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 4: up with me because he doesn't you know, he chose

723
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 4: his career over me whatever, but he keeps coming back

724
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 4: and he's like wanting to hook up, and it'd be fun.

725
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 2: I'd be like, you deserve better than this.

726
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 1: I agree. I love Levi so much, and if he

727
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: was my friend, I would give him that advice too.

728
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 1: But then I'm also like, I've been in a scenario

729
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: like scenarios like this and it's like when you love

730
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: someone or you and we got to remember this is

731
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: his first love and this is his first queer relationship

732
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: and there it means an incredible amount to him. And

733
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: so I've been in situations like this where it's like

734
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: my logic or my judgment comes second to what my

735
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: heart wants. Do you know what I mean?

736
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 3: You know, Selena Gomez said it best when she said,

737
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:08,479
Speaker 3: the heart wants what it wants.

738
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: That's what I gotta say. And right now, you know,

739
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 1: Levi's heart wants a little bit of Nico Kim. But

740
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 1: I will say he stood up for himself at the

741
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: end of last season, which I cheered for when it happened,

742
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 1: and I loved it. And uh, you know, then the

743
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:29,399
Speaker 1: pandemic hit and that changed everything for everybody. So I think,

744
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 1: I think, you know, we got to support Levi and

745
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: root for Levi, but then we also got to understand

746
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 1: he's he's going through some hard stuff and maybe he

747
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: needs listen.

748
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 4: I get it, But I want I want a new

749
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 4: hot guy to come in.

750
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: Don't we all?

751
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 3: I mean, oh yeah, and like swoop you like he

752
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 3: only has eyes for you and the Nico sitting there

753
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 3: being like, but wait.

754
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 2: That's what I mean.

755
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: So jealous a little bit.

756
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all I'm saying.

757
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 1: I would be down.

758
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 4: I agree, it's it's so unfortunate that the truth is

759
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 4: that even when we're not treated how we're supposed to

760
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 4: be treated, we still long for the person who's hurting totally.

761
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 1: Oh and here's another little story that you guys might like,

762
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: because that episode where where Levi finally stands up for

763
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,439
Speaker 1: himself and then the breakup actually ends up happening because

764
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: he keeps saying, I keep asking for your for you

765
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: to talk to me, just talk to me, and and

766
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: and you go. Can't that scene, as I said, I was,

767
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: I was so excited that Levi was finally voicing where

768
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: he was coming from and finally sort of drawing a boundary.

769
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: And so as an actor, I was excited to see that.

770
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: And Kevin McKidd was directing Owen Hunt, you know, and

771
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: and he was sort of talking me through the scene

772
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 1: and then he there was a moment at the end

773
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: of it where I was giving a little bit of

774
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 1: hope that like the relationship would continue, and Owen or

775
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,280
Speaker 1: I mean Kevin McKidd was literally let's do one where

776
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 1: you where you agree with him and you say you

777
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: just sort of agree, like we should be breaking up

778
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: at this point, and so I was like, okay, cool.

779
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: And as we filmed it, I started crying and I

780
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: started like being like overcome with this thing inside me

781
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: and that I was like, what is going on? And

782
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: Kevin mckinn was like, what's going on with you? Like,

783
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: what's happening? I was like, I don't know, I don't know.

784
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: I feel like, for the first time, I'm grieving this

785
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: relationship as Levi. And it was like that just showed

786
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:34,280
Speaker 1: me exactly how intensely I felt about Nego Kim.

787
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 3: Oh that would be I could never do what you do.

788
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 7: It shocked me.

789
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,760
Speaker 3: I would be I can't even deal with these emotional

790
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 3: situations as Tanya myself, Like I couldn't have having to

791
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 3: channel it for somebody else, and oh it would be

792
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 3: I would I would not sleep.

793
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: It was wild. It freaked me out a little bit.

794
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 4: That has to be such a satisfying moment though as

795
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 4: an actor, to have that kind of moment where you

796
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 4: become the character playing like you feel the emotions of

797
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 4: what that character's going through, because I feel like it'd

798
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 4: be very hard to separate real life from you know.

799
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 3: Probably like it probably triggered something from a past relationship

800
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 3: or something, you know what I mean. Like I feel

801
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 3: like that's what I think these characters are. So they're

802
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 3: so universal and love is such a universal thing. I

803
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 3: feel like everybody's probably experienced something like that, you know

804
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 3: what I mean. And so that's why we all can

805
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 3: kind of, you know, be in your situations and all

806
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 3: the great like we all relate to a grased character

807
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 3: because we've all been in those situations.

808
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 1: Before, you know, totally. And usually as an actor, I

809
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: come at things first from like a cerebral level, you

810
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: know what I mean, And I'm just like, Okay, technically,

811
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: what has to happen in the scene. Technically, where does

812
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: the character need to go? How do I you know,

813
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: bring things in my life to support that. And that

814
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: was one of the one of the bigger moments with

815
00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 1: my relationship with Levi where it sort of did me

816
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: and it wasn't cerebral. And then you have this entire season,

817
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: season seventeen where it's all about the pandemic and we're

818
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: in the pandemic ourselves. You're in the pandemic. I'm in

819
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,879
Speaker 1: the pandemic and it's like, so much of this year

820
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 1: has just been expressing how we're feeling through these characters

821
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: because we're all literally going through this.

822
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 3: Also, yeah, just on a side note, Kevin mckins Is

823
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 3: he cool?

824
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's so freaking cool. I love Kevin.

825
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm like a little creepy when it comes to Kevin

826
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,280
Speaker 1: because I want to, like, I want to be his friend.

827
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: He like, ugh, I want to like yeah, yeah, I

828
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:36,959
Speaker 1: want to be his friend.

829
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 3: Okay, that makes me happy.

830
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 2: Struggle with Owen, I want nothing to.

831
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 3: Do with him. The fact that he cheated on Christina

832
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 3: Yang seasons.

833
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 1: Ago, holding that grudge, well he got Yeah, he sort

834
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:51,720
Speaker 1: of got, you know, tip for tat with Teddy.

835
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

836
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 1: Oh, I love Kevin mckid though. He's great and he

837
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,919
Speaker 1: directs so many of our episodes too.

838
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 3: I know I need to be able to separate Owen

839
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 3: and Kevin.

840
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, because we don't want to just like one time,

841
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 4: one day Kevin McKidd might come on the podcast.

842
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 2: We can't be like, oh you.

843
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: Got you gotta get Kevin on here. You'll fall in love.

844
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: It'll be great.

845
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: Okay, since you said you're a fan of the show,

846
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 2: did you know anything about the Derek Meredith reunion.

847
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: I had no idea, no way, now idea. Oh some

848
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 1: people knew, but not a lot. And then I showed

849
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: up about work and I was like, wait, you knew

850
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: and I didn't know what's going on?

851
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 5: How did who knew?

852
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: Who didn't know?

853
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 7: It was like the best kept secret. It was because

854
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 7: like I read the scripts and it wasn't in the script.

855
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 7: It Like I was shocked.

856
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 3: Props to whoever is in charge is that Chris Aphra

857
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 3: who ever kept that tight of a tight knit situation?

858
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 3: I bless them because that was the shock of Like

859
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:06,760
Speaker 3: that was just the most amazing cherry on top of anything.

860
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 3: And the fact that I was kept such a secret,

861
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 3: like I would have been so bummed if TMZ or

862
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 3: a story like mc dreamie might be coming back to Greece,

863
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But nothing like that leaked.

864
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 5: It was.

865
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 1: It was so tight. Christophernoff and Ellen Bompeo literally made

866
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: this thing from scratch and they kept it on lock.

867
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 1: It was It's wild.

868
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 2: Wait who on said knew? Like? How did people keep that?

869
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 7: Literally?

870
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: That is why I tell you, like maybe five people

871
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:36,439
Speaker 1: knew that it's true, Like five people knew. I don't

872
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: really know because I didn't even know what happened, but

873
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 1: it's like.

874
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 3: Not, Yeah, probably they filmed that on a beach so

875
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 3: they didn't have to go to the lot.

876
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I guess. I mean everyone who filmed it

877
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,360
Speaker 1: on the beach knew, but they like they didn't know

878
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: until they showed up to the beach and he was there,

879
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, Okay, I guess we're gonna Mike

880
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey here, like and.

881
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: But here's the thing. I know that those that beach

882
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 2: where they film that it's a Prime. It's Prime? Did you, like,

883
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 2: are you kidding? Took an edition? I would have if

884
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 2: I had known, But maybe I don't know where it is.

885
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 2: I'm just guessing.

886
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 4: This is funny because I literally just assumed Malibu because we're.

887
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 2: In LA, but like, I actually have no idea.

888
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like that, I just realized I had

889
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 4: just in my head convinced myself it was Malibu, because.

890
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 3: I like, like I know that.

891
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 5: I don't.

892
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 4: I was just going to say, I feel like there

893
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 4: were homes and maybe I'm making this up too.

894
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 2: I felt like there were homes on the beach. I'm like,

895
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 2: there are a.

896
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 3: Lot of homes on a lot of beaches in southern.

897
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 4: I'm saying, the people who live in the homes.

898
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: Literally I get a boat. She's going to get a

899
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: boat and just like go the coastline spot would.

900
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 4: Look like look for Patrick and see in a blue

901
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 4: shirt and white pants.

902
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 3: I feel like those scenes have already been filmed.

903
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 2: You're right, they probably did them all in one.

904
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:08,439
Speaker 3: Have you filmed so far?

905
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: Oh, we filmed a handful. We're sort of filming a

906
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 1: little out of order just because of COVID. Everything has

907
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 1: to be come you know, very safe and very so

908
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 1: many different protocols. But we're about midway through.

909
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 4: So are you like what when you because when I

910
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 4: said I need a storyline for you, and you're like, okay,

911
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 4: do you have like I just you know, I certainly something.

912
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 7: No.

913
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: I mean, there's gonna be a lot for Levy this year.

914
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 1: And I think he's, you know, he's had this huge,

915
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 1: like long arc. I guess his long arc is him

916
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: coming into his power and coming into his confidence. And

917
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 1: I think, you know, just like in real life, we

918
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: all got a big hit to our confidence with COVID,

919
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 1: and so I think, you know, we're going to see

920
00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: how that affects him for sure, And then you know

921
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: we have this little you know, another wink towards Niko

922
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: Kim and what happens with their relationship, and you know,

923
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: we've all been navigating relationships with with boys and girls

924
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: in uh in COVID and how it complicates things, and we'll.

925
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 3: See, oh preaches, wait, what can you tell us about

926
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 3: Joe and Jackson?

927
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: Steamy? Isn't It's so likely?

928
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 3: I didn't know I needed it and now it's all.

929
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, truly, I mean, I mean it's so steamy. And

930
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 1: now that I'm her roommate, I feel like we might

931
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: have some fun, cheeky Levi and Joe accent our action

932
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: as well, you know, gossiping about Jesse. We'll see Jesse,

933
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: I call him Jesse.

934
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: It must be so hard to know everyone personally that

935
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:47,439
Speaker 2: you mix up their.

936
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: Name Jesse Kevin.

937
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'll never forget.

938
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 4: I went to this event and uh, Jesse Williams was there, and.

939
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 2: My FRIENDA went up.

940
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 4: She knows him and she goes, Hi, She's like, Jesse, Uh,

941
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 4: this is Becca.

942
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 2: And you know, introduces me. Of course, I'm just like,

943
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 2: oh my god, your everything in my head. And then

944
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 2: she goes, yeah, she has she has a podcast based

945
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 2: on Grace and admy and I was like, oh my cold, Like,

946
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 2: don't do me like that.

947
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 1: Don't do me like that.

948
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 3: I do yeah, yeah, you try like downplay I did this.

949
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 3: Uh So I was at this softball charity softball game

950
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 3: and Patrick Dempsey was there. This was pre COVID obviously,

951
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 3: and Chris Harrison and he are friends, and Chris Harrison

952
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 3: knows obviously about the podcast and everything, and so he

953
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 3: did the same thing kind of al uped me to

954
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 3: be like, hey, Patrick, this is my friend Tanya. She

955
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 3: actually has a podcast called scro And I was just like, like,

956
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 3: I have no problem with words. I could I could

957
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,720
Speaker 3: talk to a wall for five days. And with Patrick Dempsey,

958
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 3: I was just like.

959
00:45:59,000 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

960
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 3: And then I was like, are you gonna catch the ball?

961
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 3: Like I just said something about softball? And I was

962
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 3: just like why did I pimp out the podcast? Like

963
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 3: come on? But but but then I didn't know he

964
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 3: was gonna come back obviously, right God if I knew

965
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 3: then what I knew now.

966
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,280
Speaker 1: That's how I apparently no one knew. So don't worry,

967
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 1: You're not alone.

968
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 3: Wait, this is the even creepier part is that like

969
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 3: I wanted to play cool and didn't want to be

970
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 3: like can I get a picture? And so we were

971
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 3: like walking back to our cars after the game, and uh,

972
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 3: Patrick Dempsy and I were kind of like walking up

973
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 3: the stairs kind of in Tanda. I'm not really talking obviously,

974
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 3: but just you know, on the same pace pace and

975
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 3: Chris Harrison was at the top of the stairs and

976
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 3: was taking pictures of us walking up. I was like,

977
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 3: that is a solid friend right there to just like.

978
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm just I love to

979
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,840
Speaker 4: hear you say their real names and then go, I mean.

980
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: It happens all the time too. I'm like, it's hard

981
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:55,280
Speaker 1: to keep the world separate.

982
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 3: I love it.

983
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I'm I'm just really, I'm I'm rooting for you.

984
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 4: And listen, if if if Schmidt and Nico work out,

985
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 4: if Nico can get it together and be a good

986
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 4: guy for Schmid, I'm not opposed to the relationship.

987
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: Like I love them the other I love.

988
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: A true friend right there.

989
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, see, I I'm here to give him a chance.

990
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 3: But Becca is that friend in real life, like she

991
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 3: she she she gives it to you straight, She'll shoot

992
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,439
Speaker 3: it to you. Straight, and she'll say you deserve better,

993
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 3: but she'll say, also, let's let's let them step up.

994
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 3: Let's let them step it up. And if they do

995
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:30,760
Speaker 3: fully there, well.

996
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 4: It would be different if he like cheated or did

997
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 4: something or I was just like no, but he's I

998
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 4: just feel like he's struggling too with certain Like I

999
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 4: feel like he's struggling to with certain issues in his

1000
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 4: life and with his parents and.

1001
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 2: All this stuff.

1002
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 4: And I feel like that's a very it's tough when

1003
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 4: you're going through things like with your family or with

1004
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 4: other aspects in life outside of your relationship, and then

1005
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 4: you almost feel like you can't give a hundred percent

1006
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 4: to the relationship and so you kind of have one

1007
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 4: it in, one foot out, and I kind of feel

1008
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 4: like that's where Niko is. But I also am like,

1009
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,439
Speaker 4: all right, LEVI, let's go move on to the next

1010
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 4: hot And.

1011
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: That's the problem. I mean, we want to, but it's

1012
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: a pandemic. How are you gonna meet someone? Also, Levi's

1013
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 1: a straight up doctor, Like, he's like, how's he gonna

1014
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 1: meet somebody else?

1015
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:29,399
Speaker 4: True, there's someone from Station nineteen, the guy.

1016
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: I know, get me a strapping firefighter. I would, yeah,

1017
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: that we gotta we gotta petition Krista for that one.

1018
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna send krista little tweet or something.

1019
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 3: Inste she's on Instagram. We should DM her.

1020
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 2: Okay, But Donia, we just we gotta be cool.

1021
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 3: That's a great idea.

1022
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 2: We'll be like, what are the spoilers?

1023
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: Like, not so many dms.

1024
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 3: We'll just keep flooding.

1025
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 2: Is it so scary?

1026
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 4: Is it scary when you get like when you do

1027
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 4: interviews like this or you do podcasts and you're talking

1028
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 4: about the show, and obviously everyone wants to know what's happening,

1029
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 4: but you're I mean, I feel like this would be

1030
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 4: the scariest show to not to maybe accidentally give a

1031
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 4: spoiler or something.

1032
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I definitely like want to spill the

1033
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: tea for sure, But I'm also like all the fans

1034
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: who listen to this podcast, they want to be surprised,

1035
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, imagine if I spilled

1036
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: the tea about about Derek coming back, like people would

1037
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 1: be so mad that they didn't get that wonderful surprise.

1038
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 1: So it's like I also want people to still enjoy

1039
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: the ride, you know what I mean.

1040
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, but like a little teas here and there. It's okay,

1041
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 4: but I feel like that y'all are very tight lipped

1042
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 4: about anything. In fact, we had Kim Raver on U

1043
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 4: two weeks ago and she went to say she went

1044
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 4: to tell a story, but she was so like, oh.

1045
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 2: Wait, I don't know if I can say that. I

1046
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 2: don't know.

1047
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,720
Speaker 1: That's what I'm doing in this whole time. I should

1048
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 1: I say that word or I'll change that word. Okay,

1049
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 1: it's crazy, I know.

1050
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 3: Welcome it, welcome it.

1051
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 2: Well.

1052
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 4: Patrick Dempsey gave a little spoiler before this last episode

1053
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 4: went on Well it was he went on Ellen and

1054
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 4: he said something about Meredith getting or having COVID before

1055
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 4: we found out that she had.

1056
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 2: COVID, and so everyone was like, oh my gosh.

1057
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's hard. And it's also hard to like know,

1058
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: like because because you shoot some stuff and then some

1059
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:42,719
Speaker 1: stuff and you're like, what's going on? Yeah, that can

1060
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 1: be difficult too.

1061
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 2: What's going on outside of Gray's and at me in

1062
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 2: your life? Wait? I want to talk.

1063
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 3: About the your movie, the thing about here.

1064
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,359
Speaker 1: I love that movie, you guys, It's so cute. Did

1065
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: you guys watch it yet? Because it's Oh, it's adorable.

1066
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 3: I love Love.

1067
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: Yes, and it's like a straight up classic roum com,

1068
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 1: Like we're not reinventing the wheel in that way. The

1069
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 1: way that made that it's fresh is that it's queer

1070
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 1: and it's like and it's not about coming out, it's

1071
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: not about shame. It's just like an adorable love story

1072
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: about two guys trying to like find love. You know,

1073
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: we're young professionals in Chicago. I'm my character Sam is

1074
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 1: like super into politics and a little more uptight and

1075
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,800
Speaker 1: very different from Levi too, which is super fun. And

1076
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: uh oh, it's just such a good movie. You can

1077
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 1: watch it on Hulu, you can rent it on iTunes,

1078
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: free Form their their app to if you have like

1079
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: normal cable.

1080
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 3: It's so fun, so many different ways.

1081
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: And Camos in it from Queer, Queer Eye and I

1082
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: know Boiler Alert. He plays my boyfriend in parts of it,

1083
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:00,319
Speaker 1: So that was fun.

1084
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 4: Wow, that's a you're like you saw that casting and

1085
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 4: you're like, thank you, thank you so much.

1086
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,280
Speaker 2: That's so interesting. You say that about queer movies because

1087
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 2: I feel like they're all either.

1088
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 4: Based around like the coming out or shame or whatever,

1089
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 4: or they're just depressing in somewhat. You either they end

1090
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 4: up dying or they end up you know, it's just

1091
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 4: not a happy ending, and there needs to be more

1092
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 4: movies like that where it's just you're watching.

1093
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 2: And you're happy, yeah.

1094
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:36,240
Speaker 1: And you know there's drama in it and ups and downs.

1095
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: But sometimes I feel when people write queer stories, they say, oh, well,

1096
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: what's something that can happen to this queer character that

1097
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 1: we have? And they're like, well, let's you know, coming

1098
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 1: out dramatic. Let's do that. Let's have their like people

1099
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: not accept them or whatever, because that's traumatic, and it's like,

1100
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: we go through so many other dramatic things as well,

1101
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: so it's nice to see that.

1102
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, hopefully there's more more of that.

1103
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 1: You know.

1104
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 2: Wait, I was gonna say something, Are you doing anything

1105
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 2: for Thanksgiving? Are you? What are your plans?

1106
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 1: I am staying in my apartment. I'm not seeing anybody.

1107
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like everyone should be doing that,

1108
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: especially in LA our numbers are skyrocketing. I'm like, do

1109
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: people not? Are people really not understanding more than bull

1110
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: of a pandemic? I can't, So I'm for sure just

1111
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 1: gonna stay in my apartment And I've been watching The

1112
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 1: Great Pottery Throwdown on HBO, So I'll probably probably just

1113
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: keep watching that.

1114
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 2: Have you ever watched The Great British Break Literally.

1115
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: All the time, it's so good. The Great Pottery throw

1116
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: Down is the exact same show by I think the

1117
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 1: same people, but it's all potters and like arts. It's

1118
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: on HBO Max.

1119
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 2: That might be a new venture for me.

1120
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 1: Readible. Yeah, and then I'll probably zoom with my family

1121
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 1: for things get to Yeah.

1122
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're we're doing keep We're keeping our household separate

1123
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 3: and just kind of doing it on Zoom. But it's

1124
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,239
Speaker 3: funny because my my sister and brother in law live

1125
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 3: in San Diego and they're like, you're the one living

1126
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 3: in La your patient zero, Like you stay away from everybody, Like.

1127
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: We should all stay away. I know. It's hard, Like

1128
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 1: I get it.

1129
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 3: I totally do.

1130
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard, but you know, we gotta the numbers

1131
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: have to go back down.

1132
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.

1133
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 3: And we were talking about this. I was just like,

1134
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 3: we do feel like we've gone this far, you know,

1135
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 3: and there's light at the end of the tunnel, you know, like.

1136
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well we love you so much.

1137
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 2: I love you.

1138
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 3: What else is going on? Like personally? Like personally, what

1139
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,240
Speaker 3: I'm like talk to us.

1140
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, not like a huge things personally, just

1141
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: a lot of you know, quarantining at home, zooming with

1142
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: my friends, doing like you know, jackpot games or whatever

1143
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,719
Speaker 1: on you can you can go out each other and

1144
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: stuff like that. I zoom with my niece all the time,

1145
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,399
Speaker 1: Margo her name is her name, and she's two years old.

1146
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: She'll be too, right around Christmas time, and so she'll

1147
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: I'll zoom her and she loves she like knows me

1148
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: as the person in the phone now because they're in Chicago,

1149
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 1: and she'll walk around the house and the camera's like

1150
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 1: going like this, and she'll like take me on little

1151
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: adventures around her house. And I'm like, okay, so I'll

1152
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:26,959
Speaker 1: just sit here on the couch for like an hour

1153
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: with Margo on the phone.

1154
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 7: Pretty good.

1155
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 4: I was gonna ask, what's the the protocol with working

1156
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,439
Speaker 4: right now, especially on a set, because for me, I

1157
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 4: have like a little quarantine pot of people that I see.

1158
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 4: And obviously it's like I'm with Tanya right now, we

1159
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 4: do the podcast together and then my sister lives with me,

1160
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 4: and but what's it like are you are they require

1161
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 4: like do you have very little freedom? Just because you're responsible,

1162
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,919
Speaker 4: and you're going on set, and what's it like right now?

1163
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: I mean they've been really diligent about protocols and about

1164
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: keeping everybody safe, and I think just as a company

1165
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,319
Speaker 1: of actors and people that are working together all the

1166
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 1: time and are really grateful to be working which a

1167
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: lot of it. Yeah, right now, I think we're all

1168
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: just on a personal level taking it very very seriously.

1169
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 1: So you know, I'll go in and work and then

1170
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 1: I'll come home and I'll chow by myself as much

1171
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 1: as humanly possible. And you know, j c Elliott, who's

1172
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: also on the show, is one of my best friends,

1173
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: so I'll see her because she's in that pod a couple.

1174
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: The great thing is, because of all the Station nineteen crossovers,

1175
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: they're technically in our pod too, so I'll hang some

1176
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: of the Station nineteen people, which is great. But yeah,

1177
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just personally holding myself accountable to you know,

1178
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:48,839
Speaker 1: be as safe as possible outside.

1179
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 2: Of work, right, Yeah, I think that's obviously the responsible

1180
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:57,800
Speaker 2: and nice thing to do. We're just when you're working

1181
00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 2: with so many Yeah.

1182
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 1: I'll trying to protect each other, you know what I mean.

1183
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 3: Exactly because I mean, it's true. It's like you I

1184
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 3: didn't because so we're I only I see I do

1185
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 3: the podcast with Becka, and then for the morning show,

1186
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 3: I do it the radio show by myself here in

1187
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 3: my apartment, so I'm really just it's pretty close, close,

1188
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 3: close set. But when I work the People's Choice Awards

1189
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 3: and there was you know, people behind the cameras and

1190
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 3: then there's a producer and there, you know, there was

1191
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,479
Speaker 3: a lot of people around, and you do you feel

1192
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 3: more responsible because there are people that are around you.

1193
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 3: You know, like we can't wear masks when you're hosting,

1194
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 3: so it's like you're you know what I mean, like

1195
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 3: you have to, like really there's this sense of just

1196
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 3: trying to be as diligent to keep everybody as safe

1197
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 3: as possible.

1198
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you never want to be the person who

1199
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 1: shuts down an entire production and has everyone not be

1200
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 1: able to work. And like, I just feel like a

1201
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:54,919
Speaker 1: huge sense of responsibility, and I know everybody else who's

1202
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: working there does too, and I think it's, you know,

1203
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: one of the huge reasons why we've been so safe.

1204
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was gonna say.

1205
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 4: And plus y'all are hearing from actual like people in

1206
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 4: the medical field of what it looks like right now.

1207
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 4: So I think you have even more insight to what's

1208
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 4: going on. That probably makes you.

1209
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 2: Take it a little more serious, a little more aware

1210
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 2: than the rest of us.

1211
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we have, you know, we have real doctors

1212
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: and real nurses on set who are trying to keep

1213
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: us safe but also telling us how it really is

1214
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: out there. And I think people people are tired, and

1215
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: because of that, they are underestimating just how awful this

1216
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 1: disease is. And so you know, if I have any

1217
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: two cents, I would say, like God, please staying home,

1218
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 1: Please wear a mask all the time, like it's wild. Hyeah.

1219
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad.

1220
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 4: I'm just thankful that y'all are back on my screen.

1221
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 4: I am seriously, it was just like the gift of

1222
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 4: knowing that it was good. There was just some normalcy

1223
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 4: that on Thursday night I was gonna be with my

1224
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 4: best friends in the hospital.

1225
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're There's Oh, there's so much more that

1226
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: I want to talk to you guys about. I can't

1227
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: wait for more episodes to air. I mean, I'll be here.

1228
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 3: Happy to have you every Monday.

1229
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: We do know.

1230
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 2: It's so true, really, whenever you want to.

1231
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 4: But I really can't wait to see what happens with

1232
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 4: le Bi Schmidt, and I hope that y'all you personally

1233
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 4: stay safe and obviously thank you for coming back on you.

1234
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 1: I love you guys too. I can't wait for be

1235
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 1: able to be in the same room together again.

1236
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 3: I know one day, one day, soon, soon, it's soon

1237
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 3: to feel it all right. Thanks by guys, have a

1238
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 3: good night bye.

1239
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 2: I love Jake BURRELLI.

1240
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 3: What's not to love?

1241
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 2: Need his I need I need them to give him

1242
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 2: justice on Grace.

1243
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 6: I think it's cool that we have had so many

1244
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 6: Grays cast members on this show. They were just like, yeah,

1245
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 6: Jake Burrelli's on today. We'll get to him right after this.

1246
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 6: You know, we didn't even make a big deal that,

1247
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 6: like a Grays person on used to be like a holiday.

1248
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 6: Now it's like just another week.

1249
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 3: Just another week. That's what happens when you're two time

1250
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 3: winning People's Choice for one time losing People's Choice. The

1251
01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 3: Word podcast.

1252
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 2: Okay, but here's the thing.

1253
01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 4: Jake's been on before, So the fact that he came

1254
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 4: back is even cooler is the fact that he's like.

1255
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 3: Oh, and you know, we're having somebody else come back.

1256
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, we do.

1257
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 3: I don't know if we should say because I don't

1258
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 3: know if she's one hundred percent locked.

1259
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's give it away. That's is she.

1260
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 5: I think you've said enough.

1261
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 6: A previous Gray's female may be coming on against you,

1262
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 6: and we're very excited about it.

1263
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 3: Excited about it. And I just have to say too

1264
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 3: that I'm just so happy that I feel like it's

1265
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 3: like two thousand and five again with Grey's Anatomy, because

1266
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 3: I feel like every time I look at a gossip

1267
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 3: site there's a Gray story, which just makes me happy.

1268
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 5: We do agreed, But why are you complaining so much

1269
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 5: about it? Then?

1270
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 6: What do you mean you in that last segment or

1271
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 6: the segment before Jake, Becca was so excited about all.

1272
01:00:58,280 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 5: These different things.

1273
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 6: You're like, Eh, she fell in the sand, Yeah you were.

1274
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 3: This last episode was was not my.

1275
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 5: Favorite, but I'm not It's only been three.

1276
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 3: The first two were strong as hell.

1277
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 4: Third one of little songs, and this kind of takes

1278
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 4: me back my old feelings about Gray's.

1279
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 2: Was like, if there was a good Derek and Meredith scene,

1280
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 2: I was.

1281
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 4: I was like, that was a good episode, and I

1282
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 4: think them adding the music it was just a gift

1283
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 4: personally for me as a merider. Fanny used to watch

1284
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 4: YouTube videos with like collage scenes of them with like

1285
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 4: a sad with like a sad romantic song in the background.

1286
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 3: You know what I should get? I should get a

1287
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,919
Speaker 3: graze anatomy ornament from my tree. Oh yeah, I don't

1288
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:52,720
Speaker 3: have one of those. Let's do it.

1289
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 5: You know who I miss what? Ap me too?

1290
01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:59,439
Speaker 2: Wait? Did y'all see did y'all see that? She said

1291
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 2: it was a really sad to watch Grace because.

1292
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 4: She feels like it's like watching your family move on

1293
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 4: or something without you.

1294
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 6: But I miss I watched the show and I missed her.

1295
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,480
Speaker 6: I feel like she really added something with her character.

1296
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 2: Me too, she did. I mean I if they would.

1297
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 3: Bring April and Arizona, Christina, Christina and Cali.

1298
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 2: Way Alex, Oh, Alex.

1299
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 3: That's too soon. Wait, I think I'm gonna do that.

1300
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get like a stethoscope.

1301
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 2: Okay, just a little mini.

1302
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 3: Syringe or something. She said it on there. You know

1303
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 3: it's actually really funny, is I was posting videos over

1304
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 3: the weekend about my you know, my Christmas decorating, and

1305
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,720
Speaker 3: I showed my ornaments and a lot of the Scrubs

1306
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 3: sisters wrote me and were like, is that the Are

1307
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 3: those the ornaments that Red Star gave you last year?

1308
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 3: Because I think I mentioned one of us specifically and

1309
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 3: I was like, wow, you guys remembered that made me

1310
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 3: like warm my heart. I was like, yeah, those are

1311
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 3: the exact ones. And this year I have a Manora

1312
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 3: in my apartment. Well, I don't know how to use it,

1313
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 3: but I will figure you.

1314
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, we're going to get to some emails

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01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 4: in case you didn't know before we started all the

1316
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:15,080
Speaker 4: Grey's Anatomy things.

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Speaker 2: Spoiler alert.

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Speaker 5: I don't think it works hard a lot. I don't

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01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:21,480
Speaker 5: think it works that way.

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Speaker 4: I always like to say it just so that people

1321
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 4: feel thought of.

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01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 5: Okay, that's the fact, Thank you.

1323
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:33,440
Speaker 6: Maybe one last angry comment. All right, this is from Brittany.

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01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 6: I've been with my boyfriend for a year. I'm twenty eight,

1325
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 6: he's thirty three. He treats me how I've never been treated,

1326
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 6: and I love him dearly. Recently, I've been thinking about

1327
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 6: how much I feel like he's the one for me,

1328
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 6: although there is one problem. Our sex life is not good.

1329
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 6: Even though we have so much chemistry. I've been feeling

1330
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 6: avoid in the relationship lately sexually, and it feels like

1331
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 6: sometimes it affects other aspects of the relationship without me

1332
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 6: even consciously realizing it. In this wonderful relationship, it's so

1333
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 6: mind boggling and frustrating to me that we haven't been

1334
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 6: able to get there in the bedroom, and I worry

1335
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 6: for the future that we won't and it could be

1336
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 6: our demise. Our communication is very open about all of this,

1337
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 6: and we have said this to one another.

1338
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 5: My question is, what would you do in this situation?

1339
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 6: Any advice helps you know? They say, I'm just just

1340
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 6: an expression I'll throw in here. They say that when

1341
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 6: there's good sex in a relationship, it's twenty percent of

1342
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 6: the relationship, but if it's bad sex, it's eighty percent

1343
01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 6: of the relationship because you're both always thinking about it

1344
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 6: and putting this pressure on yourselfs.

1345
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 5: But go ahead, I don't.

1346
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 2: I mean, this one's hard. I don't really know what

1347
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 2: if it's just that the sex is bad, or if it's.

1348
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 3: Well what struck me in the email, she says, we

1349
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:48,919
Speaker 3: haven't been able to get there.

1350
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna say.

1351
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 3: She feels significant.

1352
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:57,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, because if you're wondering if he's not able to

1353
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 4: get there.

1354
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 2: Don't put this on him, I'm saying it.

1355
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 4: I don't know if she's meaning like things aren't able

1356
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 4: to happen because things aren't happening, you know what I'm saying.

1357
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 3: Right like the fire hydrant.

1358
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 2: We don't know. We don't know.

1359
01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 4: That was just my thought, Okay, we don't know. Whatever

1360
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 4: it is, it's things are not happening.

1361
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:24,600
Speaker 3: Well, either one of them is not That's what I'm saying.

1362
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,920
Speaker 4: Either she's not able to get into it, or he's

1363
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 4: not able to get into it, or maybe they're both.

1364
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember we had Was it like a relationship

1365
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 2: or was she specifically a sex therapist? Do you remember this?

1366
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 3: I feel like a sexologist or something.

1367
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:38,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1368
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 4: And she was saying, it's so common for couples to

1369
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 4: have this problem and then it becomes this thing where

1370
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 4: it's in their head and they have anxiety about it

1371
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:51,439
Speaker 4: because they're thinking about it so much that they're never

1372
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:57,040
Speaker 4: able to fix it. And I think personally, because you're

1373
01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 4: already communicating with each other and you're very open with

1374
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 4: each other, which I think is a big part of

1375
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 4: a solution because a lot of people just don't talk

1376
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 4: about it and they feel angry or hurt or whatever

1377
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 4: it is. I think maybe you talk to someone who's

1378
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 4: a professional in that area and see if there's ways

1379
01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 4: that they're able to help you try things that maybe

1380
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 4: you haven't tried yet to be able to work together

1381
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 4: in the bedroom.

1382
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know what, I also have a suggestion

1383
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:28,640
Speaker 3: as well, because I think I'm going to go there,

1384
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 3: but try doing things yourself to yourself, because I think

1385
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 3: sometimes we don't even know our own bodies. Like, look

1386
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 3: at your vagina in a mirror, see like what it

1387
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 3: looks like. Touch yourself. Sorry is that a grosser?

1388
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 5: Right?

1389
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 3: But like see what feels good to you? Because I

1390
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 3: think sometimes we don't even explore our own bodies, and

1391
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 3: then you just expect somebody else to like know what

1392
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 3: to do.

1393
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: You know.

1394
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 3: Yea, you could maybe guide him, or you can figure

1395
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 3: out for yourself what feels good, then you can maybe

1396
01:06:57,880 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 3: guide him a little bit more, and then maybe like

1397
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 3: take the pressure off, just be like, let's just explore

1398
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:06,080
Speaker 3: ourselves a week or so or whatever, and then like

1399
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 3: just take the pressure off. I think too, there is

1400
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 3: something about like your mind can get the best of you. Yeah,

1401
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 3: if you're just putting too much pressure.

1402
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 1: You know.

1403
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 3: It's like everybody says when you're trying to have a

1404
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 3: baby and you're just trying try and try it and

1405
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:19,760
Speaker 3: in the minute you adopt, you like get pregnant, you know, right.

1406
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times too, I think people

1407
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 4: are hesitant or scared to try different things. Whether it's

1408
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 4: like you getting a vibrator and like not being.

1409
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 2: Scared to take care of.

1410
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 4: Yourself and show him what you like, like Tanya said,

1411
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 4: and figuring out what both makes you feel good, and

1412
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 4: also don't discount like making out and don't like the

1413
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 4: beginning parts of sex and you know the parts that

1414
01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 4: lead up to it are fun and and can be

1415
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 4: so easy going without having all the pressure of just

1416
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:56,920
Speaker 4: like sex.

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01:07:57,080 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also maybe I want you to give up

1418
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 3: because I'm like this, this guy's amaz awright. He sounds amazing,

1419
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 3: he sounds seems so happy. I feel like this is

1420
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:07,439
Speaker 3: something that you can that you can figure out.

1421
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I, like Tawnia said, I feel hopeful for you.

1422
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 4: I think you're happy. I think he's the type of

1423
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 4: guy that you want to be with. And like Mark said,

1424
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 4: once you get this figured out, sex really isn't as

1425
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:23,719
Speaker 4: big of a deal in a relationship as you sometimes

1426
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 4: think it is until it's like a problem you have

1427
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 4: quotes up, you know, like, but it's something to work on.

1428
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 4: And y'all, are you know, in the right direction just

1429
01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 4: by being able to be open and communicative with each other.

1430
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:41,480
Speaker 3: Very sensual massage.

1431
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 5: I think that's great advice.

1432
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:46,759
Speaker 3: You said weird sensual massage.

1433
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:48,599
Speaker 5: Yeah, you said that weird, But I do think that's

1434
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 5: good advice.

1435
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right.

1436
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 5: Next up, this is from anonymous Oh oh boy.

1437
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 6: A guy friend of mine from college reached out to

1438
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 6: me on social media. We haven't seen or spoken each

1439
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:03,839
Speaker 6: other since our college days, which was fourteen years ago. Recently,

1440
01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:06,720
Speaker 6: he told me his wife and he have been separated

1441
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 6: since January. I went through my own divorce four years ago,

1442
01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:12,640
Speaker 6: and he was asking me for advice. Since then, we

1443
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 6: haven't stopped talking to one another. The texts, the phone calls,

1444
01:09:15,680 --> 01:09:17,880
Speaker 6: the facetimes. They're very flirty in nature. And I'm starting

1445
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 6: to have feelings for this guy. I'm very interested in

1446
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 6: pursuing this relationship, but he technically isn't divorced yet.

1447
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 5: What do I do? Do I tell the guy how.

1448
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 6: I'm feeling about him and bring up my concerns or

1449
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 6: do I continue to allow myself to fall for him

1450
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:32,440
Speaker 6: and pursue this relationship.

1451
01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I think we all know where I

1452
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 3: stand on this snap. I was like, Donia, you know

1453
01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:43,639
Speaker 3: what's interesting is when I started dating Red Star, he

1454
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 3: was separated, not divorced, but it was obviously it was

1455
01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 3: I just think divorce takes a long time, you know

1456
01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 3: what I mean. So it's like there was a lot

1457
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 3: of time that led up to all of these things,

1458
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 3: and it was just a matter of paperwork, getting things

1459
01:09:57,479 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 3: you know, finalized, figured out, YadA, YadA YadA. That being said,

1460
01:10:01,280 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 3: if I knew, I mean, it's hard to say if

1461
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 3: I knew then what I knew now, if I would

1462
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:09,799
Speaker 3: have done things differently, probably, But at the same time,

1463
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,920
Speaker 3: like I knew that that was the intention, and I

1464
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:14,920
Speaker 3: knew we were gonna get there, you know what I mean.

1465
01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 3: So and if that, if you're talking to this guy

1466
01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 3: and that is his intention and he's going to get

1467
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 3: there it's just a matter of paperwork and figuring all

1468
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 3: that stuff out, then yeah, you should absolutely tell him,

1469
01:10:25,240 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Because I think for me,

1470
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:29,839
Speaker 3: I was just falling, like I was falling for somebody,

1471
01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 3: and I was just I knew that it was there

1472
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:35,559
Speaker 3: was a means to an end. It's not easy. Would

1473
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:38,879
Speaker 3: it have been better had I met him after papers

1474
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:41,719
Speaker 3: were signed, of course, but it's like sometimes it doesn't

1475
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:42,920
Speaker 3: happen that way and you just kind of have to

1476
01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:43,719
Speaker 3: roll with the punches.

1477
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:45,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1478
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 4: I definitely think though that you, you know, with the

1479
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 4: fact that y'all are texting and calling and face times

1480
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,759
Speaker 4: and you can feel that they're very flirty, I think

1481
01:10:55,120 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 4: you definitely have every right to ask him, like, you know,

1482
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 4: where he's what he's feeling, because if it's too soon

1483
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:05,519
Speaker 4: for him, if he's like maybe not ready to get

1484
01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:07,840
Speaker 4: into something again, that's probably something you'd want to know

1485
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:12,559
Speaker 4: about and you don't want to, you know, continue to

1486
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 4: grow feelings for him when he's not even ready for

1487
01:11:15,280 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 4: the next relationship and he's just kind of having fun

1488
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 4: being single and you know.

1489
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 2: Able to do that with you.

1490
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:25,000
Speaker 4: So I would I definitely think for the sake of

1491
01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:28,799
Speaker 4: your heart and being able to, you know, protect yourself,

1492
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 4: I think you should be able to ask him kind

1493
01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 4: of like do you see this going somewhere?

1494
01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:37,600
Speaker 3: Or super important, being super super vocal about your intentions

1495
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 3: and where you're where you're at, because I was that

1496
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 3: the entire way. Like I was never bashful about wanting

1497
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 3: to be in a serious, committed relationship. What I want

1498
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 3: in the future x y Z, Like I shared that

1499
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 3: on the first date.

1500
01:11:50,320 --> 01:11:52,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, she shared her dear future husband journal.

1501
01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 4: But I really do think it's it's fair for you

1502
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:58,800
Speaker 4: to share what what you're looking for and what you're

1503
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:01,640
Speaker 4: you know, hoping for, and then then he can make

1504
01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 4: the decision knowing where you're at. Racked because if he's

1505
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 4: not ready, that's okay, but it's fair, you know, for

1506
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:09,920
Speaker 4: both of you that way.

1507
01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 6: I guess it depends on what the terms of the

1508
01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:14,719
Speaker 6: separation are. Like, I think when you're separated, you're allowed

1509
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:16,599
Speaker 6: to date. There's nothing wrong with that. I think that's

1510
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 6: pretty much universally acknowledged. But Tanya's situation was separated and

1511
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:24,160
Speaker 6: in the process of the divorce, which does take a

1512
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:26,600
Speaker 6: long time. But there are plenty of separations that have

1513
01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:29,360
Speaker 6: not begun that process, and I'm sure anonymous fear is

1514
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 6: that she doesn't want to play a role in whether

1515
01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:35,360
Speaker 6: or not that marriage ultimately ends. You don't want him

1516
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 6: to file because he's found something in anonymous, you know,

1517
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 6: I think she wants to tread lightly because she does

1518
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 6: want to push him in a direction or anything like that,

1519
01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 6: And I could be reading into it. I don't know,

1520
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 6: but I do think it's okay to be open with

1521
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 6: him about your feelings. And I'm sure he's feeling the

1522
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 6: same way and he's probably conflicted as well. It's just

1523
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 6: important to get a gauge of what's really happening in

1524
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:58,240
Speaker 6: that marriage. Are they still talking, are they in couple's therapy?

1525
01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 6: Are they trying to work things out that sort of thing,

1526
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 6: because if they are, then I might want to tread lightly.

1527
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:04,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a really good point.

1528
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Speaker 4: There's a lot of couples who have gotten separated and

1529
01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:11,240
Speaker 4: maybe they thought it was going in the direction, but

1530
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 4: they were able to work things out. So I agree

1531
01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:15,760
Speaker 4: with you on that mark. I would check in and

1532
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 4: see what's going on, because you don't want to be

1533
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 4: the cause of a marriage failing. If there was intentions

1534
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:23,759
Speaker 4: of it, it's just gonna get messy.

1535
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 3: That's a good point.

1536
01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 6: My parents separated when I was nine or ten, and

1537
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:29,400
Speaker 6: they were separated for eight months and they got back

1538
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:32,320
Speaker 6: together and they've now been together for fifty four years.

1539
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 2: Wow.

1540
01:13:33,640 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 6: So if somebody would have come along in those eight

1541
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 6: months and really swept my dad off his feet.

1542
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:39,719
Speaker 5: That could have been a real problem for our family,

1543
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 5: right right.

1544
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:42,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good point.

1545
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:44,680
Speaker 3: It is a good point. But then it's like you

1546
01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 3: look at I have I know friends that they've been

1547
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 3: separated now for two and a half almost three years,

1548
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:57,719
Speaker 3: but the divorce is just just so gnarly that there's

1549
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:00,200
Speaker 3: just like back and forth and this and that, and

1550
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 3: like it's gonna probably be another at least another year

1551
01:14:04,520 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 3: of fighting it out. So it's like but there that

1552
01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 3: they are moving towards that, you know, I mean, like

1553
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 3: it's done, they are moving that way, but it's like

1554
01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 3: sometimes these processes just take a long time.

1555
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, but but I do think take care

1556
01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 4: of yourself, ask him what what what's going on with him?

1557
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:34,639
Speaker 4: And then express yourself and what you're looking for. Yeah,

1558
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 4: all right, well really, just you know, we're out here

1559
01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 4: doing things given given advice, we sure are.

1560
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:45,040
Speaker 5: Hey, what are you guys doing for Thanksgiving? What's the plan?

1561
01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:49,720
Speaker 2: I am?

1562
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 4: I was gonna go uh to Florida to see my parents,

1563
01:14:53,680 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 4: but with the you know, numbers rising with COVID and stuff,

1564
01:14:57,040 --> 01:15:01,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna stay put in La. Might do something with

1565
01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:05,000
Speaker 4: ninety five P might do something with my sisters the

1566
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 4: next day, you know, little family giving, so we'll see.

1567
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:11,599
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm gonna be here.

1568
01:15:12,360 --> 01:15:14,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that's kind of how I mean, I'm

1569
01:15:14,880 --> 01:15:17,240
Speaker 3: not playing necessarily any Thanksgivings, like in a few days,

1570
01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 3: so we know where to do that for that. But

1571
01:15:18,960 --> 01:15:20,920
Speaker 3: for Christmas, we're kind of playing that by year because

1572
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:22,640
Speaker 3: we don't know day to day, like what's going to

1573
01:15:22,680 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 3: be happening.

1574
01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:26,640
Speaker 4: It just sucks. I'm like, do we drive to Louisiana.

1575
01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 4: It's like a day, a day full twenty four hours,

1576
01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:29,639
Speaker 4: that's what it says.

1577
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 2: One day.

1578
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 4: I don't know, but yeah, I'm gonna attempt to make

1579
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 4: a sweet potato casserole. So it's been successful every year

1580
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:42,519
Speaker 4: i've tried, so here's still hoping for another success. But

1581
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 4: I did hear there was a shortage of marshmallows, which

1582
01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:48,839
Speaker 4: is a big part of my recipe. So if twenty

1583
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 4: twenty couldn't get.

1584
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:54,439
Speaker 3: Worse, there's a shortage of mark and why I don't

1585
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:54,920
Speaker 3: know that.

1586
01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 2: You just you hear news.

1587
01:15:56,400 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 4: You just kind of go all right, it's fine, yea, yeah,

1588
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:03,639
Speaker 4: you gotta roll with it.

1589
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 2: So, yeah, so what are you all doing?

1590
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 5: Mark, We're going to Palm Springs.

1591
01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 6: I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but

1592
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 6: Christmas is gonna look a lot like Thanksgiving. I'm sorry,

1593
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 6: I hate to tell you that, but it's gonna be

1594
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:19,280
Speaker 6: possibly worse than Thanksgiving in terms.

1595
01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:19,799
Speaker 3: Of raw numbers.

1596
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 6: We're driving out to Palm Springs. My parents live in Tucson.

1597
01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 6: We normally go there, but we're gonna meet in Palm Springs.

1598
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:27,880
Speaker 6: We got an airbnb, my parents are staying at a hotel.

1599
01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 6: We're gonna do Thanksgiving dinner in the backyard of our

1600
01:16:31,120 --> 01:16:32,799
Speaker 6: airbnb from Whole Foods.

1601
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:34,600
Speaker 5: So as we're driving out of Tunnel Dop, go to

1602
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:35,120
Speaker 5: Whole Foods.

1603
01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:38,720
Speaker 6: Grab the Thanksgiving dinner was eat it outside masked with

1604
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:42,840
Speaker 6: my parents because you know, God forbid. And then that

1605
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:47,120
Speaker 6: like we've already told my kids, no hugging your grandparents.

1606
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:48,639
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, but you can't.

1607
01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 3: It's That's what I'm doing with my I'm we're kind

1608
01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 3: of all keeping to our households, so everyone's just staying

1609
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 3: in their households. But I'm going to go to my

1610
01:16:57,520 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 3: parents and do it out in the backyard with masks.

1611
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:06,400
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, Well, I'm glad that you're, you know, gonna

1612
01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 4: get to see your family.

1613
01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 5: Mark, I'll see my parents. That'll be nice.

1614
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:11,600
Speaker 6: My sister will not be coming down from Seattle, but

1615
01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 6: you know it's something.

1616
01:17:14,160 --> 01:17:17,439
Speaker 5: You know, next year, next year twenty one is going

1617
01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:18,720
Speaker 5: to be great.

1618
01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 2: Great.

1619
01:17:20,320 --> 01:17:22,599
Speaker 6: All this vaccine news every day, it's been really really

1620
01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:24,040
Speaker 6: good and hopeful in the light at the end of

1621
01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:25,040
Speaker 6: the tunnel that we all need.

1622
01:17:25,680 --> 01:17:28,120
Speaker 3: I agree, And it's like, I feel like it's funny.

1623
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:29,479
Speaker 3: I'm talking to my sister about it the other day

1624
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 3: and we're like, we've made it. I feel like we've

1625
01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:34,840
Speaker 3: made it through so far that there is light at

1626
01:17:34,880 --> 01:17:36,760
Speaker 3: the end of the tunnel now. So it's like, why

1627
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 3: would we loosen up now, you know what I mean, Like,

1628
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:44,559
Speaker 3: let's just hunker down and get through this because I

1629
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 3: feel hopeful. I see a light at the end of

1630
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 3: the tunnel.

1631
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 4: Well, on that hopeful note, I hope you all have

1632
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:53,920
Speaker 4: a wonderful Thanksgiving however you're doing it.

1633
01:17:54,040 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 2: And if you're alone and.

1634
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:00,240
Speaker 4: You're you're not able to see your family or friends

1635
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,320
Speaker 4: or whatever, and you live alone.

1636
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:03,559
Speaker 2: Go on the Facebook group.

1637
01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:06,160
Speaker 4: Maybe we'll start a thread where people can share and

1638
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 4: be a part with each other, just to be there

1639
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 4: for one another, because this is a you know, it's

1640
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 4: gonna be a very lonely time for some people. The

1641
01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:15,680
Speaker 4: holidays in general, I think, are tough for a lot

1642
01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 4: of people, and this year doesn't help at all. So

1643
01:18:19,280 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 4: let's just try to remember that this especially this week,

1644
01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:24,760
Speaker 4: of just being kind to one another and being there

1645
01:18:24,760 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 4: for each other and helping where you can. And yeah,

1646
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:31,920
Speaker 4: I hope you all have a great week. We'll be

1647
01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:35,320
Speaker 4: back next Monday, per usual.

1648
01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 3: Can't wait, and we can't wait. I think I'm gonna

1649
01:18:40,280 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 3: do a like a twenty four hour shutdown of my phone.

1650
01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:49,599
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I've never done that before, So let's see

1651
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:52,680
Speaker 3: about how many hours I can actually do. Yeah, but

1652
01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna do it on Saturday because I

1653
01:18:54,400 --> 01:18:56,880
Speaker 3: come back. I'm coming back here on Friday. I have

1654
01:18:56,960 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 3: an interview for jingle Ball, as you see behind you.

1655
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 3: So I'm doing some stuff on Friday for work, and

1656
01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 3: then I think I'm gonna try and shut off my

1657
01:19:03,400 --> 01:19:05,000
Speaker 3: phone Friday night till Saturday night.

1658
01:19:06,040 --> 01:19:08,559
Speaker 2: That's a thrill. I can't wait to hear how it goes.

1659
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:10,639
Speaker 3: Let's see, let's see how many hours I last.

1660
01:19:11,479 --> 01:19:13,680
Speaker 2: Dude, I think you can do twenty four hours one day.

1661
01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:16,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, Friday night to Saturday night. Yeah, full shutdown, full.

1662
01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 2: Shut down, You'll be okay, no cheating.

1663
01:19:22,200 --> 01:19:24,759
Speaker 4: Well, and so we'll be back with that riveting news

1664
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 4: of how that goes next week. If you ever needed

1665
01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:30,200
Speaker 4: a teaser, there she is here, she is.

1666
01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:31,519
Speaker 2: We love you all.

1667
01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 4: Thank you all for you know, encouraging us, supporting us,

1668
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:37,800
Speaker 4: doing life with us, doing life with us. We love

1669
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:41,120
Speaker 4: you and we'll be back next week.

1670
01:19:41,560 --> 01:20:12,320
Speaker 3: Bye, attatatatatas