1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Boyfriend abandons his girlfriend and then demands a room in 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: her house, and it gets so much creepier. Man, you 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: got the audacity, the audacity, the entitled mint. Yeah, I 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: want to break up, but can I still nab that 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: room that we were in? Actually, you know what, like 6 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: we shouldn't keep going. But why don't you just give 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: me your house? I mean it's like dirty, you got 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: to clean it all the time. I'll clean it for you. 9 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: What a kind generous king? Wow, stand up, guy. This 10 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: isn't my ex, but my best friend's ex. She the 11 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:30,159 Speaker 1: best friend and I have been friends for years and 12 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: live together now, and now we live with my parents, 13 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 1: who adore her like her own daughter. And I got 14 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: her permission to post about this, so I guess we 15 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: have permission to read it to you, your my friend. 16 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,639 Speaker 1: Thirty female came to the US from Latin America at 17 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: nineteen as a student. She also started dating her ex 18 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 1: twenty nine mail. After many years of hanging with each 19 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: other both during vacations and online. I knew them bulls 20 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: since high school and they seem good together, she tried 21 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: to convince him to move together. A few years before 22 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: their breakup, he was living with his parents who wanted 23 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: him to leave nice and what they would have been 24 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: like thirty or I guess maybe late twenties. Yeah. At 25 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: this point, she had already finished college and had a 26 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: job in the US that granted her a visa. He 27 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: had to quit college and work part time. From what 28 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: I can gather, he didn't want to leave because his parents' 29 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: place had free food and no rent. Never move out, 30 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 1: Brome sensing a pattern, so instead she asked me if 31 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to move with her so we could afford 32 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: a bigger place. I said yes, and we moved together, 33 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: adopted a cat and a dog, and pretty much became 34 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: Grace and Frankie. Around the start of the pandemic, things 35 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 1: got bad for them. This is what I was told 36 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: and what I saw. They never talked or hung out 37 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: or anything. I was in a breakup at the time myself, 38 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: so I wasn't really on top of it since I 39 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: had my own issues. But my friend cried so much 40 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: she didn't even get a happy birthday, dang from your boyfriend, 41 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: yike spang. After a year of no contact, she assumed 42 00:01:55,680 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: the relationship was over. After a year. There was no clue. Sorry, babies, 43 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: I was so busy trying to lock down this free written, 44 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: free food, so busy living with my parents, having everything 45 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 1: taken care for me. I was hanging with my mom, Babe, 46 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: do you want me to disrespect my mom by answering 47 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: your text? Mother? 48 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 2: Wow? 49 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: She changed all her social media to single, which I 50 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: mean like after a year, but also like, who does 51 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: that anymore? Do people still do that? Oh? Yeah? True? What? 52 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: Facebook's the only place with a relationship that Yeah, dude, 53 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: I I haven't updated my relationship status and agents. Maybe 54 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: that's why my last relationship fell apart. I made it 55 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: a Facebook official dude, lock it in baby, yeah, all right, 56 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: which he could see. So he saw that she was single, 57 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 1: took him off her emergency contacts at work and at 58 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: her doctors, and just moved on with her life. This year, 59 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: my stepdad's health has gone downhill and my mom needs 60 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: help caring for him. She works full time as a therapist, 61 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: kind of like us, and I work from home and 62 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: my job is very flexible. So I put the idea 63 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: of us all living together and all care for my 64 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: dad eventually all care for my mom too. My mom 65 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: loved the idea and asked my bestie if she wanted 66 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: to move with us two so we could all be together, 67 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: and also because at this point I can't see myself 68 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 1: not being in the same house as her. That's cute, 69 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: Like me and Christian, my roommate, great guy. We've come 70 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: to terms in being single ladies. Heck, we've joked that 71 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: one of us should adopt, and we've just become a 72 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: parent dynamic. And now the joke is more serious since 73 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm considering it and she's incredibly supportive. No, we're not dating, 74 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: she's straight. I'm by. We're just incredibly close after all 75 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: the bs we've lived through together. Wait, they're going to 76 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: adopt the kid? I mean there's platonic life partners. CNBC 77 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: Make It did a great video on it and they profiled, like, 78 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: you know, the finances of life partners. WHOA, yeah, life 79 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: partners not romantic partners. You're not romantic, but they're essentially married, 80 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: Like they split finances and like live together, go on 81 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: trips like all of that. No romantic interests, platonic WHOA, yeah, dude, 82 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: we found a perfect has four bedrooms, two and a 83 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: half bathrooms, even enough space for a yard, everything we need, 84 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: and we got it after a bunch of difficulties and arrangements. 85 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: Since I don't have immediate plans for adopting yet, I 86 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: have a ton of paperwork and years of planning ahead. 87 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: We made the extra room into our office slash gaming hub. 88 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: We both work at the same place, totally not in purpose. 89 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: They were hiring and we both needed visas and as 90 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: proud first time homeowners, we posted pictures. Her ex, by 91 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: this point has been mia for three years, messaged her 92 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 1: saying he was so excited to move into the new house. Sir, 93 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: that is bandanas. The bananas that doesn't deserve a response 94 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: for real. She told him this is her house with 95 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 1: me and my parents. He said, since they were a couple, 96 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 1: she should kick me and my parents so he could 97 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: move in. Three years after they just like split effectively. 98 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: I guess her three years. I guess they never talked 99 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 1: about winning. But he's like, babe, we didn't communicate about babe. 100 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: If we didn't officially broke up, we're together. I want 101 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: to point out that my parents bought the house. We 102 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: friend and I will pay them our parts over the years, 103 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: and if she decides to move out, I'll finish paying 104 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: and I'll buy her part out. This is all in 105 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: paper and signs, so she obviously told him he was 106 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: not moving with us and that he ghosted her so 107 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: there was no relationship, which freakin' true. He went on 108 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: a tirade that he never broke up with her, that 109 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: she was abandoning him, that she never cared about him, 110 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: et cetera. I got pissed off, took the phone from 111 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: her and told him he could live in a bear 112 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: cave for all I care, but to leave my friend 113 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 1: in our house alone. He went ballistic and began calling 114 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 1: us some names, referring to the LGBTQ plus community. Oh 115 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 1: my god, that would probably get this post flagged, so 116 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: I'll leave it to your imagination. Wrong move, buddy, not 117 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: with the alphabet mafia. My friend started crying and I 118 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 1: was absolutely done with him. I never thought he was abusive, 119 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: but my friend confessed to me that this was not new. 120 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: He always had issues with the two of us living 121 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: together and accused her often of cheating on him with me. 122 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: We ended the call and I told her he needed 123 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: to block him for our own sanity and her sanity too. 124 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: She deserves so much better than this man child. She 125 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: got me to leave my abusive X when I was 126 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: in high school. She took me to the hospital when 127 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: he beat me up and called my parents. My friend 128 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: is family and I'll be unlive before I let some 129 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: mustard with commitment issues make her suffer. Since then, he's 130 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: gone on a major campaign in our friend group to 131 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: say my friend abandon him and left him homeless, since 132 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: apparently he canceled his lease after he saw we bought 133 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: a house. What the fuck hurw. He also claims were 134 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: Lesbo's Satanists that probably abuse our pets and are mooching 135 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,679 Speaker 1: off my parents. Most of my friends know the story 136 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: and know my friend and I moved together at first 137 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: out of necessity. Then we just don't see ourselves not 138 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: living together. So yeah, my friend's ex is a nutcase 139 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 1: and if he ever gets close to her again, I 140 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: will personally give him a free vasectomy. And there is 141 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: an updates, some two juicy updates. Actually, I love how 142 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: he said that they were mooching off their parents when 143 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: he is mooching off them. Literally he's like, oh, I 144 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: don't want to leave because it's free written, free food, 145 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: And it's like, yeah, he's mooching off his parents so intensely. 146 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: Make it makes sense. The hypocrisy is so deep with 147 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: this guy, the maf Is. I just don't understand how 148 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: he could come out of the woodwork after three years 149 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: and be like, you imagine, so I got that house. 150 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: I mean, we're about to get a house right now, 151 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: that's right. I wonder who's going to come out of 152 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: the woodwork when we make our Instagram post. We just have. 153 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: We just have like one hundred mistexts like, oh, hey, 154 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: what's where's my role of our mistresses? We split in 155 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: the bathroom roomy question mark? Yeah, dude, geez, I'm just 156 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: trying to think, like, what if they all hit me up? 157 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: We do Love Island with all of our exes? Oh 158 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: my god, we're the bachelor. Dude. I would I would 159 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: be a highly paid Patreon member to see Sam do 160 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: Love Island with his past lovers. Yikes, there is an update, 161 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: so let's get into it. So hello everyone. Some people 162 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: ask if our friends knew where the ex was hiding 163 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: for three years, and I was actually curious. Since I 164 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: was down for the account at work today, I had 165 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: some time to check in with my friends and find 166 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: out more. Apparently my bestie did ask them, but they 167 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: didn't know from what they tell me he kind of 168 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: got back into everyone's life in the last year or so, 169 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: but he was part of the friend group because they 170 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: were Bestie's friends, not really his. I don't personally know 171 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 1: many of his own friends, to be fair, so he's 172 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 1: kind of like weaseled his way back in. Over the 173 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: last year. He's been doing some recon Wow. I did 174 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: track down the ex's sister thanks to social media and 175 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: poked her for info. She's very nice and always treated 176 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: my bestie right. I told her what her brother did 177 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: and her response was very interesting. Apparently the X was 178 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: dating all the girls until his parents decided to move 179 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: outside of the United States of America. He's now living 180 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: in a friend's couch. Last she heard was a couple 181 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: of days past when they went out for coffee. He 182 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: was saying he got a brand new house and was 183 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: going to be moving in this week. What the fuck? 184 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: As far as he knew my best he begged him 185 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: to take her back and let her live in his house. 186 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: I did correct her and said that no, Bestie's lived 187 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: with me and my parents in our new house. Her 188 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: reaction was, of course, he lied, and just thanked me 189 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: for letting her know he was bullshitting. Aside from that, 190 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: I do want to report we are safe. He doesn't 191 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: know where we live and most people don't because we're 192 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: not really ready to open Pandora's box and having friends 193 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,959 Speaker 1: come over. Hopefully that picture on Instagram isn't given to 194 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: Geo Guesser the crew, No, Sully, it's four to seven 195 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: seven Clint Street. We also need time to figure out 196 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: who we want in the know. We won't be going 197 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: to the police unless something serious happens, just because this 198 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: is technically not a crime. But we are going to 199 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: keep recordings and print text conversations if he ever tries anything. 200 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: We have all our papers in order, and just in case, 201 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: I plan to contact our company's HR so they know 202 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: the situation. The company we work for can provide us 203 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: a free legal counsel if things get bad, which is awesome. 204 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: That's a really nice company. Yeah, for real, and John, 205 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 1: there is a. 206 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 2: Third Jude, stay updates. Let's squeeze that juice. Squeeze it, 207 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 2: squeeze it well, squeeze that juice. It tastes as good 208 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 2: as hell. Proud of a flaws a beautiful tune. Let's 209 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: get to this update. So for a bit it was 210 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 2: actually pretty calm. She did cut contact and block him, 211 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 2: as many suggested, and between the two of us, my 212 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: best friend and I did some howling in our friend 213 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 2: group of people we knew were passing information to her 214 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: ex dastardly cutting out all the double agents. We've settled 215 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 2: in the new house together, and she actually gets along 216 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 2: better with my parents somehow than I do. 217 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: Guess she's the golden child now. Sadly, evally, we had 218 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: to adult and get much needed food. We went to 219 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: Walmart in town together and buy some bad luck. We 220 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:13,079 Speaker 1: crossed paths with her X no you know, and he's like, oh, thanks, babe, 221 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: getting some groceries for me. I'll take the chocolate milky, 222 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 1: read those grocery bills with you. I mean, sorry, just 223 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: split the groceries with you By eating them, you can 224 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: pay the whole bills. Yeah. I wish all of it 225 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: was just awkward glances and each other in the way, 226 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: But no. At first he tried to talk to her, 227 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 1: my friend said she didn't want to speak to him 228 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: and didn't want him near her. I mostly reminded him 229 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,719 Speaker 1: I wanted to rip his spine and beat him to 230 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: death with it. Sadly that didn't deter him from following 231 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: us around like the most obnoxious toilet paper stuck to 232 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: the shoe. We did our shopping and headed to the 233 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: car with him still after us. I told my friend 234 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: for her to get into the car and start the 235 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,959 Speaker 1: gear and lock it while I loaded the groceries. Her 236 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: exitent decided to appeal to me to talk to my 237 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: friend about taking it back. I don't know what power 238 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: held me from committing a felony, but pretty sure I've 239 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 1: earned a PhD and self control by this point. I 240 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: told him, in no uncertain terms, were he to keep 241 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: following us, I will make sure his legs were out 242 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: of the equation by legs. I got into the car 243 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: and my friend began driving back when we noticed a 244 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: car following us. And we knew it was following us 245 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: because the direction we were going was not usual to 246 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: rule out a possible neighbor. We actually did a full 247 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 1: U turn almost back to the store to stop and 248 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: get some fast food, ate in the parking lot, and 249 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: headed again back home, and the same car was after us. Now, 250 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: as much as I talk about violence, I have to 251 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: admit I was terrified. So it was my friend, neither 252 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 1: of us has a bun permit. Best we carry as 253 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: a can of pepper spray, and we know her ex 254 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: does have buns, so yeah, we were not comfortable at 255 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 1: that point. Instead, we headed past our neighborhood and following 256 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: the usual advice from TV, drove to a police station 257 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: and I got scolded about the confrontation in Walmart's parking lot. 258 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: The reason we know it's her was because when we 259 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 1: got home, she got a call from him in a 260 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: new phone number saying I know where you live now. 261 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: We immediately called the police. So there's where we stand. 262 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: Cops just left a few minutes ago, and my brother 263 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: is going to be staying over for a few weeks 264 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: until we get the ro and some sturdier locks. Also, 265 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: I want to clarify a few things. A lot of 266 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 1: people ask why. Originally my friend toic a whole year 267 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 1: being ghosted to accept the relationship was over, which we 268 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: were asking to why. While I get it, trust me, 269 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: please understand that when my friend came to the US, 270 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: she had no one. She's cut contact with her toxic family. 271 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: She literally only had her ex. I moved into the 272 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: US a year later and also came alone at first, 273 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: but my parents were able to become citizens, and I 274 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 1: had them. When her relationship died out, she lost not 275 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: just her boyfriend but his family, who pretty much were 276 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: as close to her own family as she could get. 277 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 1: It's not easy, and I personally can't imagine how lonely 278 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 1: she felt. I could spend Christmas with my parents. She 279 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: had no one that first year. So please don't judge 280 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: her on it, because she doesn't deserve it. It's not 281 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: easy to be an grants. We have no place to 282 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 1: return to, and that, my friends, is a rap. There 283 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: you have it. Wow, what a susie psycho psycho psycho dude, 284 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: psycho dude. And the thing is like that is somewhat common. 285 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: Like I was living with one of my friends who 286 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: was a roommate in college, and he was dating this 287 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: artist girl. She was like one of those like grungy 288 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: artist girls that's like, you know, has like the crazy 289 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 1: hairstyle dresses and all black is like, you know, wearing 290 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: the crazy fingernails and stuff. And she would make the 291 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: craziest art too. I had only heard about her a 292 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: little bit. My friend was like, oh, like she's like 293 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: a brilliant artist, like really really talented. She was his 294 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: ta in the art program, so I hear all about her, 295 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: and then we were looking for this a place to 296 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: live and she's like, oh, she live in an apartment building. 297 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: Oh sick, that's great, Like we can get a deal, 298 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: and so we go into the apartment building. She kind 299 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: of welcomes us in and it shows us around her 300 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: apartment and we go in and every wall is covered 301 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: in some of the most horrific painting that I have 302 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: ever seen. And it's horrific because of one very specific thing. 303 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: So on every I kid you, not every single like painting. 304 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: There was even statues. There were pictures of men with 305 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: their pieces completely cut off. There was a whole cut 306 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: off dick painting where they were scattered throughout this field. 307 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: There was like cut off dick statues, cut off everything. 308 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: And I remember after we had in an apartment, I'm like, 309 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: will like, you better not cross this girl ever, cut 310 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: off your penis and turn into an art podcast put 311 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 1: it in a gallery. So a few weeks later, things 312 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: are not going to all in the relationship and he's like, hey, 313 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: I got to end it. Everything seems like completely fine 314 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: for a couple of days and we're all hanging out 315 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 1: in our apartment and we hear this banging on the door, big, big, 316 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: big bang bang, and she's like let me in, let 317 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: me In're like, what the heck is going on? And 318 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: so we put my friend in his room and we're like, hey, 319 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: we'll take hit us for you, because like, probably not 320 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 1: good for you to be there. Yeah, And she's at 321 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: the door and she's carrying this cake and we're like, hey, like, 322 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: is there something you want. She's like, I need to 323 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: give this cake to him. I need to give this 324 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: cake to him. And I'm like, hey, I don't think 325 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: it's a good idea for you to come, but maybe 326 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: we can set a time for you guys to talk later. 327 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: I just don't think it's a good idea. She's like, no, 328 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: like I need to give him this cake. You're like, hey, 329 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good idea. She throws the 330 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: cake on the ground and tries to line back her 331 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: way threw us into her apartment. She's successful because she's 332 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: sprung on us. She successfully gets past both of us 333 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: and is running towards Will's room and we like grab 334 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: her and we're like, please get out of our house, 335 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: like this is not okay. And then as soon as 336 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: we grab her, she goes limp and there's like drops 337 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: on the floor and and we'll just like not move, 338 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: and so we literally have to drag her screaming out 339 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 1: of our apartment and lock the door behind us, and 340 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: she did not leave. We drag her out and like, girlfriend, 341 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: you cannot come in, and so we go back lock 342 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: the door, and she was literally banging on our door 343 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 1: for probably probably until two am. And then we would 344 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: go out to this Japanese grocery store across the street 345 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 1: and she would follow us into the grocery store and 346 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 1: just like a white walker of zombie, be like ten 347 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 1: feet back and just look at us and follow us around. 348 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: It was crazy. It was the most insane ex girlfriend 349 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 1: thing I'd ever seen in my life. Makes you ask 350 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 1: one question, what how crazy it was? The box? Yeah, yeah, 351 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:34,919 Speaker 1: probably crazy, probably super crazy. Oh, she did say it 352 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: was like pretty nuts. The what is it? The carpet matches, 353 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 1: the drapes, Yeah, crazy downstairs, crazy upstairs. Maybe not worth it, 354 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,719 Speaker 1: worth it? Maybe maybe I don't know. Maybe I maybe 355 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: I am I am just blind to the wonders of 356 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: what can happen. But I was in college at that point. 357 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 1: I had never seen someone act like that in my life. 358 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: I've never seen anything. It was terrifying because she would 359 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: she would like leave notes everywhere, and like we thought 360 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 1: she had poisoned the cake or some I don't think 361 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: that's true, but like we were just like, you don't know, 362 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, because it's like I think she just 363 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 1: became like unhinged a little bit. Yeah, you just like 364 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: like you can just you know, sometimes you just like 365 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,199 Speaker 1: lose it a little bit. Dude, breakups are crazy. You 366 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 1: just took me through a thriller of a story. This 367 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: is some I got some stories. You do. I got 368 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,400 Speaker 1: some story. You have some story. Some stories. By the way, 369 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 1: I think our audience also has some stories. And if 370 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 1: you want to share your story, you should call us 371 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 1: at four four zero five zero eight six five six seven. 372 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: Leave a juicy story below. We actually will call you back. 373 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: We're doing Collins, that's right. This is an episode from 374 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: Deep within the Archives. Time for okop Rewlam. I started 375 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: dating my childhood bully's mother. He has no idea. Now 376 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: she wants me to come to dinner with her son. 377 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: That's an awkward high school reunion. You know. It's like, hey, 378 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 1: we haven't seen each other ten years. What have you 379 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 1: been doing? I've been doing your mom remember that math class, 380 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: you know, like, hey, I remember addition and subtraction. Well, 381 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 1: how about your mom subtracts this dick? You know what 382 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 1: the answer was, d D extra credit, that's right, And 383 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: that was turn those ds into a's with a little 384 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 1: more ds d's nuts. I thought you were spelling out dad. 385 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: Oh that too, my d and her A makes me 386 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 1: your dad. There you go. All right. So I'm twenty 387 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 1: four mail and as a young teen, my bully used 388 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: to gang up with his friends and bully me for 389 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: literally no reason. What did they say, you know, give 390 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 1: me your lunch money? Punk classic, stop stop having six 391 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 1: with my mom. Yeah, if this is during high school, 392 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 1: a whole different story. That was whole different story, the 393 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:55,160 Speaker 1: story of jail time mom, you know, and the guy 394 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: being a hero and he like like everyone's being bullied. 395 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 1: He's like finally someone like shut him down. Like, yeah, 396 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: that's like the best way to get back at a bully. Yeah, 397 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 1: facts become his dad and then be like, become his dad. 398 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 1: You can't be bullying kids at school anymore. Become his dad. 399 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: In high school, it's like a fifteen year old. Have 400 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: you seen how your mother and I have been talking 401 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: about your behavior recently. It's like he gets into the bullies, 402 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 1: bullying too many people and they call a parent teacher conference. 403 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: That's the kid who's big bullied in his mom. Well, 404 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: we eventually grew up, school ended, but honestly, this bully 405 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: still f's with me. About two months ago, I recognized 406 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: his mom at a bar. Yo, so like so like 407 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 1: opis like like I recognized this mom target freaking what 408 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 1: he was doing? Yeah, revenge to the finest. Yes, she's 409 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 1: one of those young and hot moms. And I'm not 410 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 1: the shy loser I used to be. I hope, tell 411 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 1: you wow, tell you I hope he has a glow up. 412 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: He's just been he's just been pumping that iron, ready 413 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 1: to dump more iron, that iron dong. She doesn't know 414 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 1: who I am, but she's about to. But she's about 415 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,239 Speaker 1: to get real familiar. And she doesn't know what her 416 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 1: son did to me. She was single and we hit 417 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: it off, and she came over to my place that 418 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 1: night and I fed her like it was our wedding night. 419 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: It will be soon, I guess. Thank I hear some 420 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 1: wedding bells I hear wedding bells even years later. Efing 421 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 1: hate her son so much and efing his mom has 422 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: been incredible. And even though I did it initially purely 423 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: for revenge, she's actually a wonderful person and I want 424 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: to see where this goes and hopefully feelings probably catching 425 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 1: feelings for mom over here yikes, and hopefully at least 426 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: be able to be civil with him. He's this is 427 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: beyond revenge at this point. He's like, I want to 428 00:21:55,840 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: legitimately potentially build a life with this woman. Yo. I 429 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 1: wonder if, like the revenge makes it that much sweeter 430 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 1: to build a life with it. Like, like I think 431 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: it's the ultimate freaking like the ultimate payback is just 432 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 1: like building a very great life with this bully's moth 433 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: and and like I feel like that's part of what 434 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 1: the sex is about, because it's like it's hard to 435 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: not make that. Yeah. She told me that she has 436 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 1: a son around my age early on, which I obviously knew, 437 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: And this week she asked, since we've been together for 438 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: a couple of months and we're serious, if I wanted 439 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 1: to meet him this weekend? Yo. Like, Opie's been waiting 440 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:45,400 Speaker 1: for this body. He's like, I can't wait to rub 441 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: it in the bully's space that I'm boning in his 442 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 1: mom just the sweetest. You could not plan a better revenge. 443 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: You cannot plan it, I said, sure, Yeah, of course 444 00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: Op did. 'or having dinner Saturday night, and I'm equally 445 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: excited and nervous. I mean, what's gonna happen? Dude, I'm 446 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: so excited. I'm so excited. I understand why he's excited, 447 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:12,120 Speaker 1: to understand why he's nervous, Like this is like anything 448 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: could happen. Yeah, what's gonna happen? When he walked like 449 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: our hand's gonna be thrown this second he opens the door. Yeah, 450 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 1: he's like, son, that's what he has to do. The 451 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 1: prodigal son, the product. The prodigal dad has a daddy. 452 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 1: I feel bad that this started off as petty revenge 453 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: because she deserves much better than that. But the fact 454 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: in her son is the effing prick and a loser. 455 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: I don't think Op is salty at all. I think 456 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: he's healed from these. Oh yeah, he's clearly he's over total. 457 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: I grew up, I got in better shape, and I 458 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: have a decent job and make good money while he 459 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: still lives with his mommy. It doesn't work it all. 460 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 1: Did ops trying to dunk on this kid in every way, 461 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: like like it's not enough for Op that that this 462 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,359 Speaker 1: high school is just like shit in life. Yeah, he's like, 463 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to stick it to your mom too. I'm 464 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: going to become your dad. Yeah. Well he's going to 465 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 1: be in for a big surprise this weekend. She mentioned 466 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 1: he was already uncomfortable with with her new boyfriend's age, 467 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: but which like that's kind of weird. I mean like 468 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 1: like imagine like a scenario where like your mom is 469 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: dating someone your age. That's fucking weird. That's that's the 470 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: weird pill to swallow. That's that's too tough. That's too 471 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: tough to swallow. Be like Mom, I mean my parents 472 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: are happily married. Yeah yeah, but in that case, hypothetically, 473 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 1: I'd be like Mom, like date someone your own age, 474 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 1: Date someone who who came out of a vagina after 475 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 1: I came out of the ars. Like that that is 476 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: the the bear the menu mitum requirements here. Okay, that's 477 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 1: not asking for money, not not asking for too much. 478 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: Get someone that like got your movie references in your 479 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: at least thirties or your twenties. Yeah, yeah, And oh, man, 480 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: is my guy in for a world of art, especially 481 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 1: when I eventually become his stepdad move into that house 482 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 1: and tell him he either needs to get a job 483 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: or get out. Oh, he's really taking over, he is. 484 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: He is stepping up to the plate and becoming a 485 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: step stepping up as a step dad. As his stepdad, 486 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 1: I will not let him be a burden to his 487 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: mother any longer. And when he hears how vocal his 488 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 1: mom is during sex, he's going to want me to 489 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: move out anyway, unless he enjoys hearing me breed with 490 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: his mother every night. Yike breed with his mother? Yea god, 491 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:46,959 Speaker 1: the classic Reddit speech this weekend is going to be great. 492 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 1: I cannot wait to look him in the face. My god, 493 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: Oh p you are cruel. He is cruel. He is 494 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 1: one cruel man. He like I feel like, for the 495 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: mom's sake, he should kind of like let it go. 496 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 1: I mean, like, if he's actually trying to make it 497 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: doesn't seem like he's trying to make. I think. I 498 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,440 Speaker 1: think like getting revenge on the bully is priority one, 499 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 1: and then the mother relation gotta flip the priorities. I 500 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 1: don't know, but maybe maybe he just wants to watch 501 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: this guy suffer. Maybe he believes his priorities are exactly 502 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 1: where they want to be. Well, there is an update. 503 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 1: Oh shit, So we had the lunch to meet her 504 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 1: son yesterday. Oh boy. Well I went to her place 505 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: while he wasn't there for the first time. He knew 506 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,360 Speaker 1: she was seeing someone younger and didn't like it. And 507 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 1: my girlfriend told me, does he know how much younger? Though? 508 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 1: I think he said like around my age, like the 509 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,440 Speaker 1: mom's at around age. And my girlfriend his mama told 510 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 1: me it might be awkward, but she didn't know the 511 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: half of it, as she also doesn't know how he 512 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 1: used to bully me in high school. Yikes. So right 513 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: as I walked in, I saw him. He looks like 514 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: Doggie Do, fat, balding, and pasty. Wow, dude, this guy's 515 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 1: like twenty four op. He hates this guy. He's relishing 516 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 1: in every single little detail of how much he hates 517 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: this Also, this guy was a bully because he knew 518 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 1: he was gonna grow up and be like a bald 519 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:25,159 Speaker 1: fat man by age twenty five. When you when you 520 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 1: know you're gonna peak in high school you gotta take 521 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 1: advantage of it, you know, go all in. Yeah, he 522 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: looked like he spent the last twelve years smoking pot 523 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 1: and jerking off in his mom's basement, which he has 524 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: God dude, ruthless. Yeah, just like ruthless, no holds barred 525 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 1: over here. Well, the moment he saw me, I could 526 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:47,639 Speaker 1: tell he recognized me. I reached out for a handshake 527 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: and said, hey, Bully, nice to meet you. Oh bro 528 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 1: OPI bro opia is like is an ecstasy? Right now? 529 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 1: Opie is so happy with himself, which again, like the 530 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 1: mom wants them to get along. So he's like he's 531 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,919 Speaker 1: not doing the mom justice ye right, as as like 532 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: without the hidden intentions, like OPI has been been perfectly 533 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 1: fine to the mom. Move on to this Bully. Yeah, 534 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 1: you know, it's just it's just yeah, the intentions behind 535 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:27,120 Speaker 1: it not pure, not pure. Well, he didn't react well, 536 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 1: and he started referring to me by my nickname, which 537 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: he gave me in high school. And I told him, 538 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 1: what is the nickname? Like but thunder? Yeah yeah yeah, 539 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: yeah thunder like or like he like farted in math? 540 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 1: Hey math? Fart? What's that farting? And math? Again? Pull 541 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 1: out your calculator written one for me. I do I 542 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: feel I feel like that insult would just like like 543 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: completely destroy op. Yeah. I told him, oh, it is you, 544 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: small World, and I'm sorry. I honestly didn't recognize him. 545 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 1: Dude back, dude, he's we're duking it out. I gave 546 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,719 Speaker 1: his mom a big kiss as a greeting, and he 547 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: yelled what. His mom got upset and told him to 548 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 1: get it together and stop being rude. Stop it precious. 549 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: And he's giving like a big kiss to uh the 550 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 1: Bully's mom. He's just like looking dead in the he's 551 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 1: at the bully. She was surprised, and she said, you 552 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 1: two went to school together. I said, yeah, small World. 553 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: She asked if we were friends, and I said not really. 554 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: I honestly didn't really know Bully that well. He was 555 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: sitting there fuming and actually got up to leave in 556 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: the middle of the lunch. So Bully's not having it. 557 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: I don't know how you would have it, like even if, 558 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: even if, like if my mom was dating some when 559 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: I went to high school, I would be like what 560 00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: I would I would be mad at that person. I 561 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: would high school like, d what are you doing? Like 562 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: like I need a minute, stop stop talking to my mom. 563 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: I did small things like put an arm around his 564 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: mom or have my hand on her thigh, just to 565 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: f fim, which it clearly did. Okay, now he's being spiteful, 566 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: ya I did. We set up the story where he 567 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 1: was being spiteful from the very beginning, but I don't 568 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 1: know why I expected anything different. We made love that 569 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: night in her bed, and I made sure to shake 570 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: her headboards so he could hear it. Jesus Christ. I 571 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: didn't see him the next day, but my girlfriend apologized 572 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: to me for how rude he was, and I said, 573 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: it's okay. I know he's clearly had a hard time 574 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 1: since high school, and seeing someone from that time of 575 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: his life doing so well would be hard for anyone. 576 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll take him out for a beer or something 577 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 1: and we can try to get him out of the 578 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 1: house and bond with him a bit. And she liked 579 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 1: the sound of that. This is going to be fun. Guys. 580 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: He is playing for d revenge chess. Oh he is. 581 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: He is just puppeteering everything right now. None of this 582 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 1: is Is this ethical? I don't know if this is ethical. 583 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: Here's where it would have been fine. Once he like 584 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: really caught feelings for the mom. He would come clean 585 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 1: to her and be like, listen, I you know, I 586 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: was bullied by your son in high school, and I 587 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 1: would be lying if I didn't meet. Like part I 588 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 1: was attracted to you, but part of it was like, 589 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like I get to get this revenge, 590 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: but like I really care for you now and like 591 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 1: I'm over that and I want to like mend the bridges. 592 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: I don't think he's actually in this relationship for anything 593 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: other than revenge. Yeah, it doesn't seem like it, Like 594 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: based on the story, it seems like it's just like, 595 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: you know, I'm just trying to get revenge and I'm 596 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 1: going to just do this until my bully's misery. Like 597 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: I wonder if the bully went left and had nothing 598 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 1: to do with the mom and they like they didn't 599 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: see each other anymore, Like if he would still get 600 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 1: that much value out of the out of the relationship, 601 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 1: and maybe he would stay with her. But like I 602 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 1: think it's like if he really cared about her, he 603 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: would be trying to mend things with the son. Yeah, 604 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 1: and he does not care. He's he's he's shaking doing it.