WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Experiment Gone Wrong

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<v Speaker 1>Second, d any dating app that you log into. There's

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<v Speaker 1>all these acronyms that you have to know for what

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for. Oh yeah, you know, like LTR long

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<v Speaker 1>term relationship. There's DTR to find the relationship. Uh f

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<v Speaker 1>WB friends with Baked Goods. But that's why Brook has

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<v Speaker 1>so many FWBs. Yeah, I did notice, you know how.

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<v Speaker 1>But what happens when somebody reaches out to us and

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<v Speaker 1>they're not really sure what they want exactly, They just

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<v Speaker 1>want to see them again. Oh that's that's what Thomas says.

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<v Speaker 1>He's hoping for a JWS. Just want to see I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that. I don't like it. Well that's what

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas wants, So you guys have to get over it.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show, Thomas. Hey guys, Hey, so I

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<v Speaker 1>take it you don't use JWS on your dating profile

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<v Speaker 1>right already. I had never heard that one until you

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<v Speaker 1>just stated it. So, okay, I think we're making dating

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<v Speaker 1>history right now. So tell us about the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>you JWS. So I went out to a bar with

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of friends, and you know, at a bar,

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<v Speaker 1>there's like your crew, and then another crew and another

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<v Speaker 1>crew and another crew. We we sort of all knew

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<v Speaker 1>each other, but like not close friends. That makes sense,

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<v Speaker 1>but I like that. Sometimes you're like, oh, dude, this

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<v Speaker 1>is so and so I used to work with him

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<v Speaker 1>and friend now and now you're I hate it when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, and I don't remember your names. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't meet on a dating app? You met I

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<v Speaker 1>r L. Yeah, okay, will you not do? You don't

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<v Speaker 1>sound cool? That's what you think that means in real life?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I just don't use that. I know some

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<v Speaker 1>people all the way. Anyway, tell us about the girl

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<v Speaker 1>you met. I ra so this in real life girl

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<v Speaker 1>that I met. He was kind of cool. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a friend from another group come over and she was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a girl over there. She's really interested in you.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, you should you should really go over

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<v Speaker 1>and talk to her. Okay, woman moved there, Yeah, well done,

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<v Speaker 1>wing woman. Right. So she points me over to Chelsea

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<v Speaker 1>and I go over to Chelsea and I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 1>her and conversation is it's clunky at best, it's that

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<v Speaker 1>really great conversation, you know. Why do you say though?

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<v Speaker 1>What made it not a great conversation? Just the questions

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<v Speaker 1>from both sides were very dumb because we were kind

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<v Speaker 1>of nervous. Yeah, like, oh, do you like music? And

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, yeah, oh like music? Yeah. And then she's

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<v Speaker 1>like do you like food? And I'm like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>food's good. And I've written a whole joke about this

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<v Speaker 1>and so true. And it's probably that this girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean usually in my experience with girl groups, right, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're going to send somebody over to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>a dude, it's because you're shy. Yeah, she's just shy

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<v Speaker 1>and just trying to find generic middle ground, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of food. Okay, let's pivot to this. She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't get there though, Yeah, I don't know. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>we live so so she was like, let's grab a drink.

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<v Speaker 1>So we did. Okay, good idea and that smooth things out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was, it was pretty good. And then we finished

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<v Speaker 1>the one and she's like, can we go back to

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<v Speaker 1>your place? Bro? No, it's always a shy girls. It's

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<v Speaker 1>always got to watch out for a girl. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I think you're did you like food? Comment? Really,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get out of you footh operator? What could I say?

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<v Speaker 1>Well done? Okay, So okay, so you guys leave the bar. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we grabbed an uber. We went back to my place.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you take it in your head? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>like stoked? Are you nervous? Where are you at? I

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<v Speaker 1>was sort of like, okay, well I guess this is

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<v Speaker 1>this is happening. So we get back to my place.

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<v Speaker 1>I opened the door and my god, this lady she's

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<v Speaker 1>going at me like a movie movie level makeout. We're

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<v Speaker 1>knocking stuff off the wall, off that table. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was insane. Oh my god. And then all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden she just like, sorry, I can't do this,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, okay, well we don't have to. If

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<v Speaker 1>you want to hang out by alis, let's just chill.

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<v Speaker 1>And she apologize, apologize, grabbed the coat and left. Left.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's so weird that she would turn it on

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<v Speaker 1>like so hot and then yeah, completely off. So I

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<v Speaker 1>texted her like the next stage, I'm like, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you like, like, I mean, the conversation went

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<v Speaker 1>back to cluk cluk yeah, because I'm sure like when

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<v Speaker 1>she left, originally you're probably thinking, Okay, she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>r b oh okay, yeah, really, I know you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are getting into this. I know you say you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like it. What you kind of like it. Maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>like was. Actually you know how girls say, women will say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not one of those type of girls, Like, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she really wasn't you know what I mean? Maybe? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we could speculate forever on the maybes, let's get a

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<v Speaker 1>definitive answer. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call it Chelsea, and we'll try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>your second day up date. Okay, sounds great. All right. Second,

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners had a hook up that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like it lasted about thirty seconds. Been there, It's ten

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<v Speaker 1>seconds longer than my average. But the difference here is afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>my partners usually hang around for an average of two minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas's date, though, she was out the door instantly. Oh man.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she stopped the hook up right as it started,

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<v Speaker 1>basically and said, look, I'm sorry, I just can't do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go, which is weird because she's the one

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<v Speaker 1>who insisted that they go back to his place, original

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<v Speaker 1>all of it. Yeah, kiss him to go back. So

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<v Speaker 1>now Thomas is just really confused, and we're committed to

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<v Speaker 1>helping him out. Yea, we are. In fact, Brooke is

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<v Speaker 1>even willing to finish the hook up with Thomas. Look

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<v Speaker 1>at that Brook way to step up for our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Good job. Is it going to be another minute or

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<v Speaker 1>how long? Yeah? I'm up for whatever you want. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's the problem. I need to play a little

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get in this game. I don't like reflecting

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<v Speaker 1>on this. What do you think? Why do you think

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<v Speaker 1>she left? Honestly, I don't know. She seemed really a

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<v Speaker 1>gung ho and everything was going great? Then is gung

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<v Speaker 1>ho the word? I mean? It wasn't like he had

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<v Speaker 1>bad breath or something, right, Like, I'm just thinking like

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<v Speaker 1>something may have turned her off. Yeah. I would almost

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<v Speaker 1>hope it's something simple like that, so he could be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>next time. All that's true, you know, Yeah, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>fix it unless you know I guess, do you have

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<v Speaker 1>bad breath? Brow? Do you know? No? I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go to the dentist every six months. Wow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's more than all right. Well, let's just give her

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<v Speaker 1>a call. We'll see what she has to say if

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<v Speaker 1>she answers. So I'm a dala Chelsea's number right now?

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<v Speaker 1>You ready? Yep? All right? Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Chelsea. This is Chelsea. Hey Chelsea, my

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<v Speaker 1>name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Hi, Hi, Hi, Chelsea. Help you. We're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on a show called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where we help our listeners reconnect with someone after

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<v Speaker 1>what they thought was a really good date. And so

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<v Speaker 1>you you met a guy out the other night. His

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<v Speaker 1>name was Thomas. Oh, okay, okay. Would you say about Thomas?

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, oh jeez, oh, I thought it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh boy, oh gee, okay, oh boy. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 1>what to take from that yet. But Thomas told us

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<v Speaker 1>about the night that you guys spent together, and it

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<v Speaker 1>sounded pretty good, exciting. You're very exciting, a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a short night, and so he's a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>confused about how things ended and why exactly, because it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you took off from his apartment pretty quick. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so awkward. What the heck? Yeah, but also

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<v Speaker 1>got to think it's pretty awkward to leave a makeout

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<v Speaker 1>like halfway through. Yeah, but now you know, days later,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still not responding to him, And so he just

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<v Speaker 1>has a bunch of questions and doesn't know where to

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<v Speaker 1>get the answers. Okay, okay, yeah, well I really liked

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<v Speaker 1>him and stuff, but he said, um, like while we

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<v Speaker 1>were kissing and stuff, he said, oh, I so want

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<v Speaker 1>to date you and I want to date you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to date you and just like sort of

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<v Speaker 1>slapped me back to reality. Oh no, sorry, are you

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<v Speaker 1>not looking to date right now that I look up? Yeah, someone,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not trying to be like, hell, I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>for us to get married. It is kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>weird thing to say mid makeout, first hang out. Now

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a commitment. If they follow through, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a bar thing. Were you just like looking for the

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<v Speaker 1>one night stand? Which is fine, totally. Maybe the word

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<v Speaker 1>it came out weird. I think he just meant he

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<v Speaker 1>was having a good time and he couldn't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you, like very officially yet anything that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she doesn't want future plans. Yeah, well I just

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<v Speaker 1>felt bad because I got the impression that he kind

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<v Speaker 1>of liked me, and like the truth of the matter

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<v Speaker 1>is I totally have a boyfriend. Oh oh oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>so wait, wait you were cheating on your boyfriend. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to look at it that way, but

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<v Speaker 1>how would your boyfriend look at it that way. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure. You're not sure? Is this like an open relationship. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. I feel like he might understand, because

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<v Speaker 1>really it was for his benefit. We've been together for

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<v Speaker 1>several years now, and like I felt like I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to the situation a little bit. I don't understand. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I do, but keep going. Yeah, so I was

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna, like, you know, go and hook up and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's good, what's fresh, what's new, bring it

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<v Speaker 1>back home, you know, and then bring it back home

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<v Speaker 1>into boring stuff right now. And you needed new ideas?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that where you Yeah? Pretty much. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting the idea. So, Chelsea, you were interested in Thomas

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<v Speaker 1>just from a purely physical standpoint to see what you

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<v Speaker 1>could learn from him, But when he started mentioning dating,

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<v Speaker 1>then it crossed the line. Right. Yeah. It's interesting because

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<v Speaker 1>like talking to Thomas on the phone, he wouldn't probably

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<v Speaker 1>be my go to tutor. That is extremely rude. It's

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<v Speaker 1>extremely rude, especially because he's listening to this right now

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<v Speaker 1>and literally heard that, and he heard everything that Chelsea said.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Chelsea, Thomas has been there. That's okay. I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like It's good that I he hears this because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know how to say it at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I didn't know how to respond. It's all right, Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead say hello, Chelsea, you're a total atole? Or

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<v Speaker 1>was that a suggestion for a love money into that stuff? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna no, I'm not gonna help you cheat

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<v Speaker 1>on some dude, because then I'm the actole. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care what your side is. You need to tell

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<v Speaker 1>people that you need to figure that on your own.

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't use me for ruin. No, but but

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't technically go all the way through with it.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter. Well, so you'd be totally fine if

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend made out with some dude and then came

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<v Speaker 1>home it was like I didn't well, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if she came home with a cool new skill because

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<v Speaker 1>of it. I'm not thank you, sir, to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>bring it over. I don't know what else I could learn. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>look it, I'm you know, be careful here. We're a

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<v Speaker 1>family friendly show. Rain it in if you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>find out what happened here it is. We don't even

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<v Speaker 1>be calling me names. Yeah, you need to apologize for

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<v Speaker 1>that one, I think, but you're out of here. You

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<v Speaker 1>said he wouldn't be a good tutor the first time

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<v Speaker 1>she's telling somebody that, Like, whatever, keep going. Here's the thing, Chelsea,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you just open with that with any dude

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<v Speaker 1>at the bar. If you walked up to a hot

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<v Speaker 1>guy at a bar and you said, hey, listen, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want anything tonight except for this, because this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I want to learn. I think you could teach

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<v Speaker 1>me some new things you're telling me. A dude wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>turn that, Like you could find eight other guys though,

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<v Speaker 1>that would say yes, eight other guys that would say yes, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why not lead with the truth. I don't hate that idea.

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<v Speaker 1>You might be right, Yeah, is right. Every guy has

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<v Speaker 1>morals or standards. Some dudes are like, cool, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the best scenario. Yeah. I mean, it sounds like jose

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<v Speaker 1>is trying to volunteer to help you out. I never

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<v Speaker 1>will you have morals and standards? What? Oh? I never

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<v Speaker 1>never will have? Relationships are so complicated these days. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that complicated not to cheat on your boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>or friend hard. It feels like you two have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things to say to each other. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have anything to Maybe that would be a good thing

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<v Speaker 1>to say when you guys are looking at each other

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<v Speaker 1>face to face over a dinner. Perhaps, No, not a dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>because we can't make it a date lunch. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done with this person because he just called me

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<v Speaker 1>a horn. He can't really step back from that. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on. I just said the truth, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>it is turning me on when he uses that language.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not gonna work for this phone call. You you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>stop it. It can be flustered brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We just got done talking about it in studio, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just want all the listeners to know we have

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<v Speaker 1>banned Thomas from ever appearing on this show again. Yeah, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand he was upset, but you just can't go

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<v Speaker 1>that low, man, It's too low. It's the first number

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<v Speaker 1>that we've ever actually added to the show blacklist. But yeah, look,

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<v Speaker 1>he crossed the line. So sorry to any listeners that

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<v Speaker 1>heard that, And an even bigger apology to our editor,

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<v Speaker 1>who has to use way more beliefs than we've ever

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<v Speaker 1>probably had to use before. Yeah, get to clicking. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but look, that type of language is absolutely not tolerated

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<v Speaker 1>here unless we know for sure the microphones are off. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all the time. Excuse me, all the time, No

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<v Speaker 1>language like that. I just want to make that very clear. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, but not even sad that we get him

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<v Speaker 1>a second didn't deserve it. Yeah, I mean the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing was kind of screwed up from the beginning. They

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<v Speaker 1>really Yeah. Yeah, I mean she's not greatly innocent either,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, he took the he really did. So Look,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's anybody out there with a clean mouth, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or semi clean. Yeah, I mean we go a little

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<v Speaker 1>dirty does not mean yes, Please email our show and

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