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Speaker 1: It's time to ask the clo Ar Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, Steve, this is from Krista and Mansfield,

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Speaker 1: Krista Wrights. I'm thirty seven and I've been engaged since

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Speaker 1: I was thirty two. I was supposed to move to

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Speaker 1: Arkansas to be with my fiance, but he changed my

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Speaker 1: moving date because of house repairs? How long do I

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Speaker 1: wait for him to get himself together?

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Speaker 2: Is he wasting my time?

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Speaker 3: Well, with men, I say this all the time, the

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Speaker 3: usual delay in the marriage is finance. Always remember this, ladies.

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Speaker 3: Women and men operate on two different clocks. Women have

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Speaker 3: a biological clock. Women always say, or usually say, Hey,

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Speaker 3: I want to be married by this, I want to

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Speaker 3: start a family by this. I want to have a

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Speaker 3: baby by this. Blah blah blah blah blah. I don't

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Speaker 3: want to be this old trying to have no baby.

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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah ah. That's understandable, acceptable, respectable Men have

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Speaker 3: financial clock. We're trying to get it together financially, So

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Speaker 3: he's looking at everything from a cost perspective.

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Speaker 2: House repair, that's all of that.

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Speaker 3: But see, you know, now, Tommy, you gotta remember it's

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Speaker 3: it's all relative. You know you can't house repair is

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Speaker 3: gonna stop you from getting for chr. You don't have

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Speaker 3: to worry about highest repair costs, see because they don't

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Speaker 3: mean what you say.

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Speaker 4: You because he because he got the money for it.

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Speaker 4: Oh but you know that's what you get. But see

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Speaker 4: the woman could what's wrong with the house that the

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Speaker 4: woman can't get in there with Tommy on this one? What?

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey at Ruth twenty thirty thousand, but something's wrong

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Speaker 3: with it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? And how you're gonna punk the grapes on that? Hey?

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Speaker 4: You get you get you if they don't find a

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Speaker 4: crack in that foundation? Hey, but it's you.

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Speaker 2: So she really thinks he might be wasting her time though.

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Speaker 3: But if it's mold up in there, all these is

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Speaker 3: high in repairs and stop acting like y'all don't know.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, okay, okay, see see let me just remind

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Speaker 3: all y'all bushy people on this show.

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Speaker 4: How I well, oh look who got to remind who?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: How soon we forget when we get some money?

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Speaker 3: Remember when you was trying to put a generator on

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Speaker 3: your house?

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Speaker 2: Hello, and Junior is still working for his fence, don't forget?

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Speaker 4: And lord, why is we still discussing this fence? All right?

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Speaker 4: Stop being for getting married.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Donathan in Birmingham. Donathan writes, my wife

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Speaker 1: and I have a small dog that's manageable. I want

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Speaker 1: a big dog for the backyard because we're in an

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Speaker 1: up and coming neighborhood or area. She said no to

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Speaker 1: another dog. I bought her what she wanted, So how

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Speaker 1: can she say no? Why can't I get a dog?

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Speaker 4: See?

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Speaker 3: Now, Junior that wrote this letter in what se Junior

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Speaker 3: then wrote this letter in Junior, wife got a small dog.

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Speaker 3: Junior want a big dog because they're in an up

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Speaker 3: and coming neighborhood. But now we can't get this big

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Speaker 3: dog because we ain't got no fence. And now he

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Speaker 3: wants to know why he can't get a big dog.

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Speaker 3: We can't keep the little dog in this yard. It's

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Speaker 3: all coming together now.

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Speaker 4: I wrote this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, we're.

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Speaker 4: Gonna get you an FFF thing started for you, Junior.

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Speaker 4: F fl that's that's a find me a fence fund.

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Speaker 4: We don't.

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Speaker 2: All right? Moving on? Do we do we help her?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Did we help Yeah? I don't think we helped him though, See.

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Speaker 4: He says that every day.

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Speaker 1: Now I can't help everybody, all right at last in

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Speaker 1: slide l Rights, I got a little freaky with one

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Speaker 1: of my ex husband's friends. We didn't go all the way,

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Speaker 1: but I was topless in the back of his suv.

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Speaker 1: Pictures circulated, and my ex wants to talk to me

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 2: I think he should talk to his friend, not me,

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Speaker 2: Am I right or wrong?

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Speaker 1: Of who of her in the in uh her ex's

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Speaker 1: friends suv. They were back there, you know, getting bitchy, feely,

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Speaker 1: getting freaky, having a freak off or something.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, he said, getting freaky.

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Speaker 3: So a friend of he has showed it to him.

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Speaker 3: He wanted to have a conversation with her about it

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Speaker 3: with she thinks he alady had a conversation with his friend.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, Yes, Well his friend wasn't in the back seat,

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Speaker 2: Yeah he was, he was in there with her. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I got a little freaky with one of my ex

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Speaker 1: husband's friends. We didn't go all the way, but I

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Speaker 1: was topless in the back of his SUV. Pictures circulated

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Speaker 1: and my ex wants to talk to me about it.

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Speaker 1: I think he should talk to his friend. Is right

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Speaker 1: or wrong?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I don't you know? You know what again?

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Speaker 2: It's different.

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Speaker 4: With something crazy happening, and it's just normalist.

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Speaker 3: I'm in the back seat, topless of an SUV with

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Speaker 3: his friend and he gonna call me and tell me

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Speaker 3: we need to talk about you need to talk your friend.

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Speaker 4: Why was she in the back seat with your top off?

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Speaker 2: She's his eggs.

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Speaker 1: She could do whatever she wants, you know what?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to hear this what I let me?

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Speaker 4: Just I don't care. I really don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what to say. This ain't a CLO question,

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Speaker 4: No it ain't. I'm a chief. I'm the chief love officer.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, she in love with too many people, the ex,

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Speaker 3: the boyfriend, the ex ain't in love with her no

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Speaker 3: more because he the exd he have moved on to

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Speaker 3: something else. Where is the friend that that you was

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Speaker 3: in the back seat with. He probably ain't even picture

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Speaker 3: no more. She ain't nobody in love in this So

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Speaker 3: why would you call the CLO. It ain't nobody in

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Speaker 3: this story love?

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Speaker 2: Well, they were former lovers because they were married.

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Speaker 3: Right, But see, I'm not the former CLO. I want

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Speaker 3: to I want to do current issues.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is her issue.

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Speaker 3: You don't have No, I don't know, lady, you ain't

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Speaker 3: got to talk to your ex.

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Speaker 4: If you don't want to.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go.

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Speaker 3: And you don't have the power to pass out instructions

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Speaker 3: though you need to talk to your friends everything.

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Speaker 2: Friend, h stopless, what.

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Speaker 4: Do you mean? Just topless? See Shirley, see right there?

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Speaker 4: See you have.

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Speaker 3: You're starting to let these people affect your thinking because

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Speaker 3: now you're sitting up here and acting like it's normal too.

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Speaker 4: She was just topless.

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Speaker 2: They didn't go all the way. She said that they.

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Speaker 4: Didn't go all the way. That's what she said.

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Speaker 3: Well, halfway down is a lot, and happen halfway down.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, whole lot and have halfway.

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Speaker 3: I have some hell of times, ain't nobody had their

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Speaker 3: clothes off?

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Speaker 2: Well enough, we're done. You're listening hard Morning show